1 00:00:01,280 --> 00:00:06,360 Speaker 1: Jules dirty little secret. Hello, hey, you have a dirty 2 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:17,440 Speaker 1: little secret? Yeah, sweet, what is it? What on purpose? Well, 3 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 1: how did that happen? 4 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 2: Oh so you didn't actually do that. 5 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 1: Your sister just told you to say that. I don't 6 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: have a cat. What's happened? 7 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 2: Well, thank you for thank you for the dirty little secret. 8 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:34,559 Speaker 2: With some of the ones we get, I believe you 9 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 2: for I didn't too. All right, I have a good day, 10 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 2: bye bye. So you never know where you're gonna get 11 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 2: with the dirty little secret. 12 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 1: Nope. 13 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:46,159 Speaker 2: The weird thing is there was somebody listening out there 14 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 2: who was like, tell me about it, kid, So did 15 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 2: Oh wait he didn't, he didn't. 16 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 1: Never mind, never mind. Finally I'm not alone in this world. 17 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 1: Wait a second, he's still hard are you talking about? 18 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 1: I'm talking about the truck that listens at poops on 19 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 1: his cat? Victoria. Oh hey, what's up? You have a 20 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 1: dirty little secret? I sure do. 21 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 3: I just want to preface this by beginning to say 22 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 3: I am not this person anymore. 23 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: Okay, and well this is going to be good. 24 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 3: I think about this all the time, and I just 25 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 3: I am like riddled with guils. Back in the days 26 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 3: where flip phones were a thing, like me know, before iPhones, 27 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 3: I was dating this guy who was awful. He was abusive, 28 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 3: he was mean to me, wh shouldn't have been together. 29 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 3: So while we were together, I started to cheat on 30 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 3: him with my ex boyfriend, who was my high school 31 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:37,959 Speaker 3: sweetheart at the time. Okay, I did that because my 32 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 3: boyfriend at the time was so mean and so toxic. 33 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 3: She would always look at my phone I was sleeping. 34 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 3: He would read my messages like it was just a 35 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 3: relationship I need to be in. Okay, So one day 36 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 3: my ex boyfriend messaged me and said, hey, do you 37 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 3: want to come over? 38 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 1: And I'm like, yeah, of course I do. I want 39 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 1: to get away from this guy. 40 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 3: So I tell my boyfriend that my best friend needed 41 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 3: to ride because she got drunk and I needed to 42 00:01:57,920 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 3: go pick her up. And so I leave and go 43 00:01:59,880 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 3: to my ex boyfriend's house and go hook up with him. 44 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 3: And while my ex boyfriend is in the shower, I 45 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 3: take his cell phone and I have a fake conversation 46 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 3: with myself from his phone to my phone, and in 47 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:16,519 Speaker 3: his phone, I text me and I say, hey, you 48 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 3: want to come over? And I say no, I can't, 49 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:21,080 Speaker 3: and like, I deleted the message where I said yes, 50 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 3: obviously I do. I said no, I can't, and so 51 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 3: I made myself say why, and I said I can't. 52 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 3: I'm trying to work things out with my boyfriend's name. 53 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 1: Now and I don't want him to be upset with me. 54 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:33,919 Speaker 3: I really love him. And he's like, okay, I understand, 55 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:35,799 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, and I'm like it's okay, I just don't 56 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 3: reach out to me again. Like I had this entire 57 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:41,840 Speaker 3: fake conversation in my phone and then I deleted everything. Okay, 58 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:44,799 Speaker 3: So when I went home, I knew my boyfriend was 59 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 3: going to go through my phone, and so the next 60 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 3: morning I woke up and he told me I love 61 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:51,360 Speaker 3: you so much and he gave me a kiss because 62 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 3: he went through my messages and. 63 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:53,639 Speaker 1: He saw those fake messages. 64 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 3: So anyway, I'm. 65 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:56,239 Speaker 1: Not that person anymore. 66 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 3: We eventually broke up I think three weeks after that, 67 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 3: and I am also not a cheater anymore. Like that 68 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 3: was like a time back when I was young and 69 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 3: just stupid and not doing smart things. So I'd like 70 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 3: to practice also that once a cheater is always a cheater. 71 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 1: Is not the thing with me. I got married. 72 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 3: Once I got married, I would never cheat. I would 73 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 3: you have to pay me to even think about it. 74 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:16,640 Speaker 3: But that's my dirty little seat. I feel terrible for 75 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 3: like having a conversation like a psychopath. 76 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 1: But whoa. Anyways, I don't know. I think you should 77 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 1: be easy on yourself about that. It's like survival at 78 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: that point. 79 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 2: If it was like if he's checking your phone like 80 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 2: that and it was abused with stuff, you know. 81 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 3: Man, I guess, but I still think about it, so 82 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 3: I feel guilty because it's just a terrible way to live, 83 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 3: and it just it sits heavy on my heart, even 84 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 3: though I was really young. 85 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 2: But you don't live that way anymore, and you definitely 86 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 2: learned a lesson, and thank you for sharing it. 87 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 1: You also show people how stressful cheating is. 88 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 3: That's the thing. I don't know how people do that, Like, 89 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 3: how do you like? 90 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 1: It's hard to juggle. I could never do it again. 91 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 3: It was so You're so right, it was so stressful. 92 00:03:54,560 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 1: So it's not that the garbage man. Well, thank you 93 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: for telling us your dirty little secret. 94 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 2: I love you guys, you too, what's your dirty little secret?