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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocates dot com.

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Speaker 2: Jackson is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Cameron.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she tells us why she's ghosting him. But first, Jackson,

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Speaker 2: how long is evince as you are from Cameron?

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Speaker 3: Like, been a few days. I have no idea what's

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Speaker 3: going on?

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Speaker 4: Okay, how the day go?

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Speaker 3: I honestly think the date went pretty well. We just

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Speaker 3: went to go get coffee at like this local quality place,

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Speaker 3: and we were having a lot of fun. Like she's like, hey,

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Speaker 3: you know, I just don't work coffee that We just

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Speaker 3: had to go somewhere to get breakfast too, and so

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Speaker 3: we got some Bahols and then from a place that

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Speaker 3: actually she had heard of that from her friend. And

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Speaker 3: then we went about walk and then we had a

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Speaker 3: good time. We even ended on a kid.

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Speaker 5: Well, is there anything that happened in that time that

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Speaker 5: you think might be kind of the reason why she's

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Speaker 5: not hitting you back?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I I've been thinking about it, and I

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Speaker 3: feel like because at one point during the day, you know,

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Speaker 3: it was going well, but at one point I I

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Speaker 3: talked about my ex for like a minute. She did

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Speaker 3: ask about, uh, my ex any x I had, like

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Speaker 3: how it ended.

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Speaker 4: So that's no.

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Speaker 3: No, no, nothing like that. I didn't bring it up like

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Speaker 3: voluntarily like that like she asked. But I wasn't sure

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Speaker 3: if like maybe I went in like too deep about it,

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Speaker 3: and I just I basically talked about that how like

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Speaker 3: we were just not a good fit. She broke it off,

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Speaker 3: and uh, you know, just like not really like a

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Speaker 3: great relationship. And maybe that's why I feel like I'm

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Speaker 3: getting ghosted here, Like I'm just I'm afraid of like

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Speaker 3: this might be another one of those relationships, and I'm

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Speaker 3: hoping not, because, like I said, first date, great time.

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Speaker 6: Did you call your ex crazy?

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Speaker 3: You know, I remained the sibyl of possible, you know

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Speaker 3: about it?

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Speaker 2: That can always be a tough one if someone's like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: they're just nuts, They're just so crazy.

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Speaker 4: All of them are crazy, every single one I've had, right.

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Speaker 6: And we're supposed to see that as a big red flag.

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Speaker 6: So I was just wondering.

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, that's basically it.

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Speaker 6: Did you talk about your ex before or after you

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Speaker 6: guys kissed it before.

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Speaker 3: I only mentioned it for like a minute and that

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Speaker 3: was it. It's not like it was like it became

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Speaker 6: Did you kiss her or did she kiss you?

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Speaker 3: We both kind of just like leaned in and it

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Speaker 3: was a moment kissed each other. It was a moment.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, did she eat so many big holes and have

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Speaker 5: to run home? But that wouldn't explain why she's ghosting

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Speaker 5: in a few days.

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Speaker 4: Maybe she's not ghosting, she's just trying to figure it out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I'm just I'm trying to figure out.

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Speaker 3: I don't know a lot, like I said, like things

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Speaker 3: like we're just like going well and I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Maybe it was like the clone I.

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Speaker 3: Was wearing or something like that.

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Speaker 2: But I hope it wasn't that wearing terrible colone.

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Speaker 3: No, no, I say, it's a pretty good brand. It

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Speaker 3: wasn't anything like, you know, like a string like a

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Speaker 5: Honestly, AX smells still Actually yeah, yeah, I'll get up

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Speaker 5: in those You got.

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Speaker 4: Me all right, Well, we'll see if we can figure

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Speaker 4: it out for you.

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Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song, come back, and then call

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Speaker 2: her and see why she's ghosting you and maybe get

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Speaker 2: you another date.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I think so again.

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Speaker 2: All right, well, plas I come back at your first

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Speaker 2: date follow up next if you're just joining us for

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Speaker 2: today's first date follow up. Jackson is on the phone,

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Speaker 2: and Jackson is getting ghosted by Cameron. So we're about

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Speaker 2: to call her and see if she tell us why

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Speaker 2: she's ghosting him, and maybe get him another date if

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Speaker 2: he still wants one. Before we call her, though, Jackson,

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Speaker 2: why don't you catch us up on your situation?

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Speaker 3: Basically, I went on a date with the skirl named Cameron,

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Speaker 3: and it started as coffee, but then they ended up

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Speaker 3: getting breakfast, and then it turned out turned into taking

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Speaker 3: a walk, and then it actually ended with a nice kiss.

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Speaker 3: That this all happened like on the first date and

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Speaker 3: then really really well on mine.

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Speaker 2: And you haven't heard anything from her since and you

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Speaker 2: think it could be because you talked about your ex.

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Speaker 6: Possibly, Yes, all right.

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Speaker 2: You're ready for us to call her? Yes, okay, here

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Speaker 2: we go. Hello, Hi, mis to Cameron. Please came Hey Cameron,

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Speaker 2: how are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from

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Speaker 2: a radio show. It's called The Jubile Show.

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Speaker 6: Hi, Cameron, I'm Nina.

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Speaker 4: Hi, I'm Victoria. Got sounds like you.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I'm not sure yet, it sounds like you at

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Speaker 2: least listen to the show, though, so thank you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it.

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Speaker 6: What's up?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm excited.

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Speaker 2: What's up is that we got an email about you

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Speaker 2: from somebody because you're ghosting them. This is a first

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Speaker 2: eight follow up, you know the segment that we do

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Speaker 2: with it. If you got somebody that can email us

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Speaker 2: and ask why you're ignoring.

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Speaker 1: Them, Yes, I've heard ever before.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, who do you think?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, no way, Jackson.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Oh my god, you really like your date and

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Speaker 2: it's confused.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm so embarrassed right now?

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Speaker 6: Are you ghosting him?

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Speaker 1: No, I wasn't even I wouldn't even call it ghosting him.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I wasn't really ghosting him. But I mean,

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Speaker 1: after this, I'm mighty.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, why aren't you talking to him?

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Speaker 3: Then?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm so like overwhelmed. Okay, I'm not

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Speaker 1: really ghosting him. I mean we went on the day

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Speaker 1: like one day, a couple of days ago, like three

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Speaker 4: Okay, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm just so like I just don't

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Speaker 1: believe it. Okay, honestly, he was really cute.

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Speaker 3: We went for.

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Speaker 1: Coffee and we were hitting it out pretty great. We

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Speaker 1: had breakfast. I just felt like he got very clangy

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Speaker 1: and like like before the after by the afternoon and

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Speaker 1: like he was I already told me he loved me.

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Speaker 1: I'm not farsta. It was a long morning, but still

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Speaker 1: it was just like we were at the park. It

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Speaker 1: was just too much in one day, I think, And

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Speaker 1: that was probably the reason why I haven't called him,

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Speaker 1: because I didn't say I love you back.

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Speaker 5: You, Yeah, was it I love you or like I

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Speaker 5: love this or I love talking to you?

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Speaker 6: Was it really I love you?

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Speaker 1: We listen, it was. It was just supposed to be coffee,

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Speaker 1: you know, and we started like really being a vit

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Speaker 1: charismatic and very charming, and then all of a sudden,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, he was just like very like flattering and

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Speaker 1: oh you're beautiful, and then I love your hair turned

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Speaker 1: don't want to try to concede that, but it really

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Speaker 1: Oh no, oh my god, Jackson I'm so sorry, dude.

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Speaker 4: You did say that.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's right, you know the first day follow us. Yes,

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Speaker 2: Jackson is on the phone listening and wants to talk

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Speaker 2: to you.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Hi, Cameron. I didn't say I love you, yes.

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Speaker 1: He did.

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Speaker 3: No, I was saying like I love your shoes.

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Speaker 3: I was troubled.

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Speaker 1: No, we listen, we were walking and you were literally

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Speaker 1: like looked into my eyes and you were like I

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Speaker 3: That it's nothing that you No, no, no, no, I

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Speaker 3: was complimenting you on your shoes and like your your books.

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Speaker 3: I was just talking about like the things that I

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Speaker 3: I wasn't saying like I love you, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and that right there is just weird, like why

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Speaker 6: The things you love about me?

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Speaker 1: Like how can you love anything about me? You don't

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Speaker 3: Well, the thing is okay, Well, the thing is I

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Speaker 3: I loved all those things about you, like you know,

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Speaker 3: But I didn't specifically say I love you. I didn't

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Speaker 1: Was loving my God, just stop saying just like really

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm sorry, I will say that then I know,

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Speaker 3: I'm I'll say it. I'll meet.

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Speaker 6: But you see what you're doing.

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Speaker 1: You're like making me uncomfortable. Stop saying I love you.

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Speaker 1: This is probably why your ex loved you.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, why are you bringing my accents and the plea,

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Speaker 3: don't do that? Okay, I was not saying I want you, Okay.

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Speaker 5: I think sometimes people react to the word love differently.

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Speaker 5: You know, for some people it's a scary word. For others,

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Speaker 5: where you guys are on different pages, and some people

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Speaker 4: Cameron, would you like to go on another day, WHI

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Speaker 4: Jackson will pay for it?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I would say I'd love you if I

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Speaker 6: That's not fair and vice versa.

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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, and I don't think.

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Speaker 1: I want to go on a day with someone who's

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Speaker 1: going to fall in.

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Speaker 6: Love with me so quickly.

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Speaker 3: I was just saying I love your shoes and I

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Speaker 3: love your personality as well. I wasn't saying I love you.

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Speaker 3: What's that and the way that you're saying I'll tell

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Speaker 3: you what if you agree to a second day, then

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Speaker 3: I promise I won't use that word ever.

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Speaker 1: But you see what I mean? You sounds so clingy,

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Speaker 6: I mean, it's kind of nice. He just really likes me.

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Speaker 1: Maybe what do you guys think?

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Speaker 4: I think you should give it another shot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's kind of nice.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, there you go, Jackson, you got a second date.

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Speaker 6: Jackson scream out, I love it.

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Speaker 4: Good luck you guys, love you both.

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Speaker 6: You Will's first date follow up