WEBVTT - Dear Banya: Can't Be Arsed 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:03.920 Scrubbing In with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio 0:00:04.080 --> 0:00:12.760 and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast. Hello everybody, 0:00:12.840 --> 0:00:14.280 we are scrubbing in. 0:00:16.160 --> 0:00:17.800 We have a Dear Bonnie episode today. 0:00:17.960 --> 0:00:21.119 Do you like when we played the guests who game? 0:00:21.239 --> 0:00:22.439 Like, are you having fun doing that? 0:00:22.640 --> 0:00:25.360 Okay? So I'm glad you brought that up. Yeah, because 0:00:25.720 --> 0:00:28.360 I was seeing some scuttle in the Facebook group that 0:00:28.640 --> 0:00:32.680 it's hard for the listeners to follow along like it 0:00:32.720 --> 0:00:34.239 was after the one when we had three of us 0:00:34.280 --> 0:00:36.479 going mm hm. So I don't think we should do 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:39.360 it like that anymore, even when we pingpong. I think 0:00:39.400 --> 0:00:42.120 it's more for video, like it's funny you can watch 0:00:42.159 --> 0:00:44.000 on video and it's like easy to follow along. I 0:00:44.040 --> 0:00:46.680 think as listeners it's like hard, like it's hard for 0:00:46.720 --> 0:00:49.640 them to guess because they it's too hard. Oh do 0:00:49.680 --> 0:00:51.760 you get what I'm saying? So you're saying so like, 0:00:51.800 --> 0:00:54.240 I think you should go and just ask as many 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:56.440 questions as you can and then you figure out your 0:00:56.480 --> 0:00:58.080 person and then we kind of go one by one 0:00:58.160 --> 0:01:00.160 instead of oh around like that. 0:01:00.240 --> 0:01:02.400 And then like you keep track of how how many 0:01:02.480 --> 0:01:03.120 questions get it? 0:01:03.320 --> 0:01:04.240 Yeah? 0:01:04.400 --> 0:01:07.679 Interesting? Yeah, So they like the game, just the way 0:01:07.760 --> 0:01:08.720 the format is. 0:01:08.880 --> 0:01:10.640 I think they want to play along. Oh they do 0:01:10.680 --> 0:01:12.640 want to want to play long, and it's hard for 0:01:12.680 --> 0:01:15.720 them to follow when it's like one question, one question, 0:01:15.760 --> 0:01:16.720 one question, one question. 0:01:18.160 --> 0:01:20.200 That's how some people complain that they had a hard 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:23.840 time remembering what was what. Yeah, and my distrection is 0:01:23.840 --> 0:01:26.640 like take notes. That was taking notes, but just for me, 0:01:26.720 --> 0:01:27.959 and I wasn't thinking about all three of us. 0:01:28.040 --> 0:01:30.800 That's what I'm saying. Yeah, well I should do it 0:01:30.800 --> 0:01:32.399 one by one and just see who can do it 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:33.280 the fat who can get it that. 0:01:33.400 --> 0:01:33.920 Maybe we do. 0:01:34.040 --> 0:01:37.760 Time a timer or the fewest questions, Yeah, like we 0:01:38.480 --> 0:01:40.120 count all the questions. 0:01:39.720 --> 0:01:42.720 Okay, smart? And then also I was thinking maybe we 0:01:43.280 --> 0:01:48.400 do the like a recap midway through of like you 0:01:48.400 --> 0:01:51.279 always do this. So I'm an actor, I'm under thirty, 0:01:51.320 --> 0:01:52.560 like you, you're good about doing that. 0:01:52.600 --> 0:01:54.640 Thank you so much. I like to reset for the audience. 0:01:54.960 --> 0:01:56.720 You're not good at winning the game, but you're great 0:01:56.760 --> 0:01:58.480 at giving the listeners. 0:01:58.240 --> 0:02:04.080 Theodcast professional here, okay, decades of if you're nothing, if nothing, 0:02:04.920 --> 0:02:07.680 you are a broadcast professional. Thank you, Thank you so much. 0:02:08.160 --> 0:02:10.360 Hope you enjoy that production meeting of scrubing. 0:02:09.960 --> 0:02:14.040 In just a little bts. Okay, so we actually have 0:02:14.240 --> 0:02:17.120 a dear bonnya, but it's what's a. 0:02:19.760 --> 0:02:21.200 He's bringing it to the floor. 0:02:21.440 --> 0:02:23.720 Yes, I'm going ahead of the I'm cutting the line here. 0:02:23.840 --> 0:02:25.600 I did not write an email, I didn't leave a 0:02:25.680 --> 0:02:29.320 voice message. I'm gonna do this because I'm having a crisis. 0:02:29.600 --> 0:02:36.280 U baby. Yes, yeah, getting the ind on the on 0:02:36.400 --> 0:02:38.040 the dear bonya using. 0:02:37.880 --> 0:02:40.200 My opportunity, not giving to everybody else. 0:02:40.720 --> 0:02:46.160 So we have these neighbors that are nice, but we've 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:49.760 noticed it's it's this young couple. They have two small kids, 0:02:49.800 --> 0:02:52.880 and then the wife's dad kind of I don't know 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:54.400 if he lives with them or he's just there a lot, 0:02:54.440 --> 0:02:55.320 like working on the house. 0:02:55.919 --> 0:02:57.359 I have noticed, bless you. 0:02:57.880 --> 0:03:00.320 I'm sorry that one was ferocious. 0:03:00.680 --> 0:03:02.840 I've noticed because we have a camera in our alley 0:03:02.840 --> 0:03:05.440 where our garbage cans are, and I've noticed this guy. 0:03:05.919 --> 0:03:08.560 He'll go out with a leaf blower, can't blow the alley, 0:03:08.639 --> 0:03:11.040 very nice swim to do, and then he sweeps up 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:13.680 a bunch of garbage and puts it in our garbage 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:18.040 can and it normally I was like, yeah, it feels 0:03:18.120 --> 0:03:20.480 it feels weird. But also I've done that to people. 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:23.040 Maybe this is just karma coming back. It's gone to 0:03:23.120 --> 0:03:25.040 the point now there's like a lot he's putting all 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:28.000 of his like leaves and like just random debris in 0:03:28.040 --> 0:03:29.520 there and kind of filling it up. 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:33.520 But isn't that shared property like in the alley, Like it's. 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:34.720 The alley is shared property. 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:37.000 But we have garbage cans and they have garbage cans, right, 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:39.280 you know, so he's going to our garbage cans and 0:03:39.280 --> 0:03:43.280 then he like repositions our garbage cans, you know, not 0:03:43.520 --> 0:03:45.800 enough to where it blocks our garage, but like just 0:03:45.880 --> 0:03:48.200 it's just weird. And we're Alison and I are like 0:03:48.240 --> 0:03:50.119 obsessed over this now, We're like why is he doing this? 0:03:50.480 --> 0:03:53.200 So we were going to bring it up to his daughter, 0:03:53.240 --> 0:03:55.520 who is our neighbor, be like, hey, could your dad 0:03:55.520 --> 0:03:58.680 maybe not use our garbage cans. She started doing it too, 0:03:58.880 --> 0:04:01.680 We saw it yesterday. She was like cleaning out the 0:04:01.680 --> 0:04:05.320 garage and putting stuff in our garbage cans. So I 0:04:05.320 --> 0:04:08.240 don't want to be like a petty, weird neighbor, but also. 0:04:08.240 --> 0:04:10.640 Can't you put your garbage can somewhere else? Are they 0:04:10.640 --> 0:04:12.240 doing the same day every week? 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:14.520 Yeah, it's always on Sundays. 0:04:14.040 --> 0:04:17.200 So Sundays move your trash cans, like, and can you 0:04:17.279 --> 0:04:18.080 move them in your garage? 0:04:18.200 --> 0:04:20.440 That's what I suggest that to Alison. 0:04:20.520 --> 0:04:22.400 She said, maybe we get one of those locks, and 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:25.720 I was like, that's equally that's equal effort, you know, 0:04:26.000 --> 0:04:27.360 like it feels weird to put a lock on our 0:04:27.400 --> 0:04:28.240 garbage can too. 0:04:29.560 --> 0:04:31.560 I think you just need to say, hey, say something. 0:04:31.760 --> 0:04:36.080 Yeah wait, I'm so confused. Why what are you going 0:04:36.120 --> 0:04:39.000 to say? Stop putting the leaves in our garage in 0:04:39.040 --> 0:04:39.680 our trash can. 0:04:39.960 --> 0:04:43.520 I'd say, hey, we just to make sure that we 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:46.200 have enough space, Like would you mind asking if you 0:04:46.240 --> 0:04:47.599 need to put your leaves in here? 0:04:47.640 --> 0:04:49.599 Just because this is our property. I think it's it's 0:04:49.640 --> 0:04:51.360 just not their leaves. It'd be weird to me if 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:54.240 they were throwing like the kitchen trash like out in 0:04:54.279 --> 0:04:54.840 your trash can. 0:04:55.560 --> 0:04:59.640 Yesterday it was a construction trash was going our trash can. 0:04:59.760 --> 0:05:01.440 That was the That was the thing that pushed me 0:05:01.480 --> 0:05:05.599 over the edge because leaves and stuff, I guess, you know, uh, 0:05:05.640 --> 0:05:08.360 they're also really weird about property lines and stuff like that. 0:05:08.600 --> 0:05:10.920 And he the dad comes up onto our porch every 0:05:10.960 --> 0:05:13.320 week and leaf blows our porch, which is nice, but 0:05:13.360 --> 0:05:15.000 also I'm like, if I do that to you, you'd 0:05:15.040 --> 0:05:17.159 be like, you'd have a gun in my face. Honestly, 0:05:17.880 --> 0:05:21.159 Like he's on your porch, on my porch, like leaf blowing, 0:05:21.320 --> 0:05:24.560 but like this is weird. It's weird, right, Okay, I 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:26.800 feel like it's weird. But I also is like he's 0:05:26.880 --> 0:05:29.000 kind of doing something nice. But I also didn't ask 0:05:29.040 --> 0:05:30.000 him to do That's the thing. 0:05:30.480 --> 0:05:31.040 That's the thing. 0:05:31.320 --> 0:05:33.839 You didn't say, Hey, y'all, didn't have a conversation where 0:05:33.839 --> 0:05:35.320 he was like, hey, would you want me to leaf 0:05:35.320 --> 0:05:37.599 blow your porch while I'm doing this? And you said, 0:05:37.640 --> 0:05:40.240 oh my gosh, i'd be amazing. He's just doing on 0:05:40.279 --> 0:05:40.919 your property. 0:05:41.240 --> 0:05:41.760 Yeah. 0:05:41.800 --> 0:05:44.680 So I would say, either have a conversation with them, 0:05:44.720 --> 0:05:46.720 and if you don't want to be confrontational, just move 0:05:46.760 --> 0:05:48.640 your cans into the garage. 0:05:49.000 --> 0:05:49.960 Yeah, And I think. 0:05:49.839 --> 0:05:51.719 That hands into the garage. I could not have that 0:05:51.760 --> 0:05:56.719 conversation with the neighbor personally, Yeah, because I throw my 0:05:56.760 --> 0:06:00.360 stuff in other people's trash cans. I don't like your 0:06:00.400 --> 0:06:01.359 dog poop if you're walking. 0:06:01.520 --> 0:06:04.760 I hate when Hayley does that, especially dog poop. 0:06:04.800 --> 0:06:09.039 I'm like, poop, it's in a trash can. You wrap 0:06:09.080 --> 0:06:10.560 it up in a bag and you tie it. It's 0:06:10.560 --> 0:06:12.120 not like you're just like throwing the poop in there. 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:13.800 I don't know. I'm really weird about this. 0:06:13.880 --> 0:06:15.880 I only throw the poop away, either in our trash 0:06:15.920 --> 0:06:18.720 can or in like if we because we walk by 0:06:18.720 --> 0:06:20.080 a park, I'll put it in like a pubby. 0:06:20.160 --> 0:06:22.520 What if you're in like a neighborhood, so I take someny. 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:24.400 If I'm on my street and I'm just like walking 0:06:24.400 --> 0:06:26.680 her down, I'll hold the poop and I'll throw it 0:06:26.680 --> 0:06:28.400 in our trash can. But if I'm like down in 0:06:28.440 --> 0:06:31.400 a different part of town around home. 0:06:31.279 --> 0:06:34.920 I don't think I would imagine people don't care. I 0:06:35.080 --> 0:06:35.520 just care. 0:06:35.640 --> 0:06:37.359 So this would bug me. 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:40.440 And even when we have like during Christmas and stuff, 0:06:40.440 --> 0:06:43.160 we'd have so many boxes and recyclable things. I would 0:06:43.160 --> 0:06:45.240 text my neighbor and say like, hey, if y'all have 0:06:45.320 --> 0:06:46.880 space in your because they would be out of town, 0:06:46.880 --> 0:06:49.479 I'd say, would you mind if we use your recycle 0:06:49.520 --> 0:06:51.839 bind to put some stuff like? I would always text them. 0:06:52.080 --> 0:06:53.720 I would never just assume. 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:55.719 Right, that feels crazy to me. 0:06:55.960 --> 0:06:57.640 Well, no, I would never put my boxes in my 0:06:57.640 --> 0:06:59.320 neighbor's trash can that's crazy or. 0:06:59.360 --> 0:07:03.680 Trash, Like when if we had to excess amount of trash, 0:07:03.760 --> 0:07:05.719 I would text him and say, hey, if you have 0:07:05.800 --> 0:07:08.200 room in your trash, can can I put our trash 0:07:08.240 --> 0:07:08.640 in there? 0:07:09.560 --> 0:07:13.000 I think it's so weird that they're not asking it. 0:07:13.440 --> 0:07:14.120 It leaves. 0:07:14.200 --> 0:07:16.800 It's like community property. I get it, but then put 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:19.480 it in putting it in their own Maybe it's a 0:07:19.520 --> 0:07:21.880 walk away, too far of a walk. Maybe they're ending 0:07:21.920 --> 0:07:23.680 on your side of the street. So it's just like. 0:07:23.600 --> 0:07:28.040 There theirs are behind of gate, but like I don't 0:07:28.080 --> 0:07:31.360 know a yard from ours, Like their trash cans are 0:07:31.360 --> 0:07:34.480 out there too, and I don't I feel super petty 0:07:34.520 --> 0:07:35.120 going out there and like. 0:07:35.080 --> 0:07:36.720 Look it in there, just be like, oh, you got 0:07:36.720 --> 0:07:38.520 some room in here? You know I didn't. I don't 0:07:38.520 --> 0:07:39.080 want to do that. 0:07:39.960 --> 0:07:42.559 But it also feels weird, like every time because again 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:44.160 we have got we have a camera back there because 0:07:44.560 --> 0:07:46.760 I had some issues with some It's an alleyway, you know, 0:07:47.360 --> 0:07:49.480 people are doing stuff, so we have a camera back there, 0:07:49.480 --> 0:07:50.720 and then it goes off and I just see this 0:07:50.760 --> 0:07:52.520 guy just you know, dumping stuff in there. 0:07:52.920 --> 0:07:54.640 I guess my thing would be if you had a 0:07:54.720 --> 0:07:57.240 relationship with them and y'all talked a lot, and it 0:07:57.400 --> 0:08:01.440 was like that vibe. It would be like, oh, you know, 0:08:01.480 --> 0:08:03.720 because I do feel like there are neighbors sometimes where 0:08:03.760 --> 0:08:06.360 you have that relationship and rapport with them where it's 0:08:06.400 --> 0:08:08.400 like understood, like we're. 0:08:08.080 --> 0:08:09.960 Cleaning up the leaves, So do you mind we're. 0:08:10.040 --> 0:08:12.240 Throwing We're all in this. 0:08:14.000 --> 0:08:16.320 Wednesday, so you have a few days where you could 0:08:16.360 --> 0:08:19.000 be filling it up and there's space taken in there. 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:23.520 Yeah, we did it. We were we didn't have a 0:08:23.520 --> 0:08:26.440 lot going on yesterday. So we saw them put They 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:29.240 put a big spool of like it was like you 0:08:29.280 --> 0:08:31.200 know that paper you put down when you're like painting 0:08:31.240 --> 0:08:33.760 your house, like the or like doing construction. They had 0:08:33.760 --> 0:08:34.960 a big role of that and they put it in 0:08:35.000 --> 0:08:37.360 our garbage can. So we waited for them to go 0:08:37.400 --> 0:08:39.040 back inside. I go out there. I just took it 0:08:39.080 --> 0:08:41.120 out and just put it next to the garbage can 0:08:41.120 --> 0:08:42.880 which is in front of their garage. And I'm like, 0:08:42.960 --> 0:08:45.240 if they put it back in, I'm gonna lose it. 0:08:45.280 --> 0:08:47.240 They did not. They just left it in front of 0:08:47.240 --> 0:08:47.760 the garage. 0:08:47.800 --> 0:08:49.480 So I think they'll get the hint if you just 0:08:49.600 --> 0:08:51.280 move the trash cans into the garage. 0:08:51.320 --> 0:08:56.080 It is aggressive. It is not neighborly. No, I would 0:08:56.080 --> 0:08:57.920 just put the trash cans in your garage, call it 0:08:57.920 --> 0:08:58.240 a day. 0:08:58.360 --> 0:09:00.520 Yeah, that's probably when I have to do. 0:09:01.360 --> 0:09:04.240 And if he continues, If he continues, well yeah, it's 0:09:04.240 --> 0:09:07.400 annoying having a movement. But if he continues to just 0:09:07.400 --> 0:09:09.600 be on the porch and that becomes a problem, I 0:09:09.600 --> 0:09:14.880 think maybe you're going to have to have some confrontational conversation. Yeah, 0:09:14.920 --> 0:09:17.760 because like I said, I think if you have that 0:09:17.880 --> 0:09:20.080 kind of agreement with your neighbor, it's one thing. 0:09:20.200 --> 0:09:23.199 But if he's just blowing off, so let me just 0:09:23.240 --> 0:09:26.280 tell you, there's nothing more frustrating than your trash bins 0:09:26.320 --> 0:09:28.440 being full when you're like a day or two away 0:09:28.440 --> 0:09:29.240 from trash day. 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:34.120 So annoying, worse, it sucks. 0:09:34.320 --> 0:09:37.199 I'm like stepping in there. I'm like using my hands 0:09:37.240 --> 0:09:38.720 as smush, like, oh. 0:09:39.880 --> 0:09:42.680 You have to get crafty, you do really crafty. 0:09:42.920 --> 0:09:46.560 You know, it's crazy we we use as company athens. 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:48.760 I don't know, I think there will across southern California. 0:09:48.800 --> 0:09:51.400 But we were filling up our garbage can and then 0:09:51.400 --> 0:09:53.440 our like Green Waiste was like mostly empty. 0:09:53.679 --> 0:09:55.319 Yeah, and so it's like leaves and stuff. 0:09:55.559 --> 0:09:55.760 Yeah. 0:09:55.800 --> 0:09:57.000 Yeah, So I called. 0:09:57.120 --> 0:09:59.400 I was like, can I get a bigger can or 0:09:59.440 --> 0:10:02.079 maybe a other one? Like I'll pay whatever, and then 0:10:02.240 --> 0:10:04.200 they ignored me. And then the garbage guy came by 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:06.000 and I'm like, hey, I'm sorry, man, it's just full. 0:10:06.000 --> 0:10:06.560 I don't know what to do. 0:10:06.600 --> 0:10:08.719 And he's like, let me tell you something. All three 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:11.080 of these they go in the same bin. Put whatever 0:10:11.120 --> 0:10:12.720 you want, and all three of them does not matter, 0:10:12.840 --> 0:10:16.120 like recycling too. He's like, yeah, all goes the same thing. 0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:19.280 You're lying And I'm like uh, and he's like, we 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:22.480 soared it later and it was kind of like giving 0:10:22.520 --> 0:10:25.920 me a look, and I'm like, this sucks. 0:10:27.280 --> 0:10:29.360 I'm being a good amount of time. 0:10:29.440 --> 0:10:33.880 I spent googling which can go in the green? Like 0:10:34.080 --> 0:10:35.719 you can put a pizza box in the green? Did 0:10:35.720 --> 0:10:36.160 you know that? 0:10:36.360 --> 0:10:36.760 No? 0:10:37.559 --> 0:10:39.839 I did not. And now I'm like, so I can 0:10:39.880 --> 0:10:40.880 just put everything in. 0:10:40.920 --> 0:10:42.960 Then he's like, yeah, hey, is he putting the leaves 0:10:43.000 --> 0:10:43.760 into your green bin? 0:10:44.960 --> 0:10:47.560 Yes, he's not putting them in like the garbage can. 0:10:50.160 --> 0:10:51.040 Respectfully. 0:10:52.200 --> 0:10:54.600 So you say move the cans or just live with it. 0:10:54.800 --> 0:10:57.559 Yeah, I think that, but I would if they're moving them, 0:10:57.600 --> 0:10:59.520 I say, can you just not move them. I think 0:10:59.520 --> 0:11:01.120 that's a fair ask, Like, hey, I don't mind you 0:11:01.160 --> 0:11:03.000 putting this stuff in here because you're doing us a favor, 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:04.400 but can you just not move them? 0:11:04.800 --> 0:11:06.320 Okay, that feels fair. 0:11:07.080 --> 0:11:11.720 And that bin is like always empty, yeah, well ours 0:11:11.800 --> 0:11:12.480 is never full. 0:11:12.600 --> 0:11:14.839 We we have a lot of leaves in the back here, 0:11:14.880 --> 0:11:16.719 you know, our guy comes and fills it up. 0:11:17.800 --> 0:11:21.120 I think if the green bin is like not an 0:11:21.200 --> 0:11:23.080 issue for you, I think you more so just have 0:11:23.120 --> 0:11:25.200 a conversation about not moving things around. 0:11:25.320 --> 0:11:27.160 Yeah all right, well thank you. 0:11:27.480 --> 0:11:31.800 I'm very I really respect the property lines too, so 0:11:32.840 --> 0:11:36.400 I feel your frustration and concerns. 0:11:37.800 --> 0:11:39.640 We we wanted to put a fence in, and we 0:11:39.679 --> 0:11:41.920 asked them about doing that and they're like, oh, yeah, 0:11:41.920 --> 0:11:43.120 we'll get back to you. And then the next day 0:11:43.160 --> 0:11:46.480 they had someone come out and do the survey and 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:49.160 like put the markers in for y'all. Yeah, like like 0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:52.200 for our property lines. Like it was just we just 0:11:52.280 --> 0:11:55.280 kind of like had an idea and we're like, hey, 0:11:55.280 --> 0:11:56.640 we won't put a fence in, you know, is that 0:11:56.920 --> 0:11:58.000 like yeah, yeah, we'll ge back to you. And then 0:11:58.040 --> 0:11:59.560 the next day some guys out there like the whole 0:11:59.559 --> 0:12:01.480 thing and putting the spike in the ground, and I 0:12:01.520 --> 0:12:03.760 was like, oh God, just could turn into the half 0:12:03.760 --> 0:12:04.560 fields of McCoy's. 0:12:04.679 --> 0:12:07.640 You should them some other things you want you take 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:12.360 are on it. Actually, let's let's take advantage of the pool. 0:12:12.160 --> 0:12:15.319 In Hey, thanks for the advice you guys. That's the 0:12:15.400 --> 0:12:16.640 kind of quality advice you get here. 0:12:19.800 --> 0:12:20.840 Now I could use my own. 0:12:21.160 --> 0:12:24.360 Okay, well, let's take it break, let's do this. 0:12:43.000 --> 0:12:49.720 We're back. Dear Bonya. I walk my dog to poop 0:12:49.880 --> 0:12:53.800 every day and it's five houses down from our house. 0:12:53.800 --> 0:12:56.720 They have a sign in their yard that says, please 0:12:56.720 --> 0:12:58.439 don't have your dog pee on my lawn. Like it's 0:12:58.480 --> 0:13:00.600 you know, like it's one of those like oh yeah, 0:13:00.640 --> 0:13:02.439 it has like a dog like peeing and it says 0:13:02.480 --> 0:13:05.880 like a dog pee kills grass or something. But they 0:13:05.880 --> 0:13:09.120 have turf, which is I don't understand. But the couple 0:13:09.160 --> 0:13:11.040 that lives in this house, and we've met them several 0:13:11.040 --> 0:13:15.880 times there are cute at can be older, older couple 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:18.560 with a little dog of their own. And so I'm 0:13:18.559 --> 0:13:21.040 like really thrown by the sign in their front yard 0:13:21.080 --> 0:13:23.800 because I'm just like, it just doesn't feel like them. 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:26.600 But anyway, Sunny loves pooping. That's like her poop place. 0:13:26.920 --> 0:13:29.280 Okay, she wants what she can't have exactly. 0:13:30.320 --> 0:13:33.120 But Robbie and I, obviously we don't like we always 0:13:33.120 --> 0:13:34.800 pick up our poop. We always pick it up, we 0:13:34.880 --> 0:13:37.800 take it home whatever, We'll throw it in their trash, 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:39.959 can we take it to our house. But the other 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:42.720 day I was taking some to poop and there's a 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:47.160 huge poop on their lawn. It wasn't from Sunny. Obviously 0:13:48.120 --> 0:13:50.320 she didn't end up pooping there that day, And I 0:13:50.360 --> 0:13:52.199 was like, should I pick up the poop even though 0:13:52.200 --> 0:13:54.960 it's not my dog's, just because I'm always pooping on 0:13:55.160 --> 0:13:56.520 this lawn, I don't want them to think it's me. 0:13:57.679 --> 0:14:01.880 I didn't. I couldn't muster up the I couldn't. I know. 0:14:01.920 --> 0:14:03.680 I should have picked it up though, and thrown it away, 0:14:03.720 --> 0:14:07.040 because like, I don't want them thinking it was Sunny. 0:14:07.080 --> 0:14:09.200 It's much larger than Sonny's. But they don't know that. 0:14:09.520 --> 0:14:13.280 They don't know how Petita. They probably camera how would 0:14:13.280 --> 0:14:13.520 I know? 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:17.360 They're probably watching you. They probably watch you examine should 0:14:17.400 --> 0:14:18.280 I pick it up or not? 0:14:21.160 --> 0:14:24.720 Shake your head, probably like walks all over it, because 0:14:24.720 --> 0:14:26.960 like Sunny will like walk around and they're little, because 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:29.160 it's hard to explain, but they have like this grassy 0:14:29.240 --> 0:14:32.000 patch they live on like a it's like a curve, 0:14:32.240 --> 0:14:35.080 like it's the street just curves, and so it's kind 0:14:35.080 --> 0:14:36.960 of dangerous with like the traffic as people are just 0:14:37.000 --> 0:14:39.560 going fast around there. So anytime we've seen them, they're like, oh, 0:14:39.680 --> 0:14:42.760 like walk through our driveway. It's safer for the dogs. 0:14:43.360 --> 0:14:45.760 And Robbie just like walks all over the grass, like 0:14:45.920 --> 0:14:47.600 I at least try and stand on like the curb 0:14:47.760 --> 0:14:51.960 or like the driveway, so I'm not like on the grass. Yeah, 0:14:52.080 --> 0:14:55.280 but it's her place of poop, like that's where she's chosen. Yeah, 0:14:55.280 --> 0:14:58.320 I should have picked it up, right, I don't know. 0:14:59.240 --> 0:14:59.840 I don't know. 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:00.840 I don't think I would have. 0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:03.800 Really. As I was like walking away, I was like, 0:15:03.800 --> 0:15:04.240 I should have. 0:15:04.480 --> 0:15:07.640 It would have been a really nice gesture. Why would 0:15:07.640 --> 0:15:10.880 I do your gesture? I don't think you're a bad 0:15:11.000 --> 0:15:12.720 person for not doing it. 0:15:12.640 --> 0:15:15.040 But why didn't I choose the nice neighborly thing to do. 0:15:15.960 --> 0:15:21.680 It's poop and another dog. It's not your own blood DNA. 0:15:21.880 --> 0:15:24.800 I know, like Sonny's poop is like petite and cute. 0:15:24.600 --> 0:15:29.040 And one little thing, and yeah, and then someone will 0:15:29.120 --> 0:15:31.880 leave like a whole big thing in the middle of 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:34.840 the sidewalk, And I'm like, this is so inconsidered because 0:15:34.960 --> 0:15:36.680 even if I run out of bags, I will get 0:15:36.680 --> 0:15:38.480 a leaf and like try to just like yeah. 0:15:38.320 --> 0:15:47.040 I've gone bare hands before. Whoa you guys to be 0:15:47.120 --> 0:15:50.800 like yeah, me too. No, no, but I definitely use 0:15:50.840 --> 0:15:54.040 a leaf same yeah, ye been there too. 0:15:56.360 --> 0:15:56.680 Yeah. 0:15:56.760 --> 0:16:01.240 So I don't think she thinks it's sunny, And I 0:16:01.280 --> 0:16:03.600 don't think you're a bad person for not picking it up. 0:16:03.720 --> 0:16:06.880 You know what, thank you for writing it. 0:16:06.920 --> 0:16:09.360 Maybe I'm gonna be the nice person from now on. 0:16:10.000 --> 0:16:12.920 I'm gonna choose the nice path. Wow. 0:16:12.960 --> 0:16:16.280 I don't think it's nice versus not nice. I think 0:16:16.320 --> 0:16:21.440 it's just a very thoughtful gesture that you didn't have 0:16:21.520 --> 0:16:21.800 to do. 0:16:21.960 --> 0:16:25.080 But why not be the thoughtful neighbor? 0:16:25.320 --> 0:16:29.200 You know, we're faced with these choices in life of 0:16:29.240 --> 0:16:33.040 like doing things that you'll never be like thanked for 0:16:33.240 --> 0:16:36.360 or acknowledged for, like putting the grocery cart back. Is 0:16:36.400 --> 0:16:38.240 a is a big one where it's like you don't 0:16:38.240 --> 0:16:40.560 get punished if you don't do it, and then you 0:16:40.560 --> 0:16:41.800 you don't get thanked if you do. It's just a 0:16:41.880 --> 0:16:42.440 nice thing to do. 0:16:42.560 --> 0:16:45.520 But that's a that's a test of morality and character. 0:16:45.760 --> 0:16:47.000 Yeah, And the. 0:16:46.880 --> 0:16:49.280 Only excuse you have is if you're a mom with 0:16:49.440 --> 0:16:51.520 kids trying to get them in the car and you've 0:16:51.560 --> 0:16:53.800 you're parked far away from where the return is and 0:16:53.840 --> 0:16:56.640 I have I have grace for those people and only 0:16:56.680 --> 0:16:58.120 them or or you, like. 0:16:58.960 --> 0:17:01.920 I have to go to the bathroom really no, no, okay, yeah, 0:17:02.240 --> 0:17:02.840 any time. 0:17:03.040 --> 0:17:07.160 Yeah, But cleaning up another dog's poof, that's the same. 0:17:08.040 --> 0:17:10.520 It's it's like you're tipping the scales in the right 0:17:10.560 --> 0:17:12.360 way by doing it, Like. 0:17:12.520 --> 0:17:14.560 Yeah, obviously's still sitting with me. 0:17:15.440 --> 0:17:17.120 Well, I got home last night and there was a 0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:20.720 dead mouse in our front yard and I had to 0:17:20.960 --> 0:17:23.440 figure out how to pick up because Haley was freaking out, 0:17:23.440 --> 0:17:25.399 and I was like, because I'm gonna be the the moon. 0:17:27.960 --> 0:17:32.520 So I triple bag Phoebees poop bags. 0:17:32.960 --> 0:17:34.120 Those were so thin. 0:17:34.640 --> 0:17:37.119 I tripled and I picked it up and it was 0:17:37.200 --> 0:17:39.960 so sad, and I said, I'm so sorry whatever happened 0:17:39.960 --> 0:17:42.080