WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Teach Her A Lesson

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<v Speaker 1>Looking jubil in the morning. Second date update. Is it

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<v Speaker 1>a bad idea to go out on a date in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of a work week when you're just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get through it? Is it a bad idea to

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<v Speaker 1>take a bunch of shots right away on your first date? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to start with to go with, Yes, a

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<v Speaker 1>bad idea to spend the date talking about your exes? Okay, absolutely, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Well that sounds like the exact date that Laney went on,

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<v Speaker 1>and now she's not getting a call back. Wonder why Laney?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you hi? Guys? How are you good? You

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<v Speaker 1>can hear the regret in your voice, Landy. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a fine calling you guys. See if we can help

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<v Speaker 1>you out. What's the name of the guy you want

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<v Speaker 1>to call today? His name is Dylan? Dylan all right,

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<v Speaker 1>and how did you meet Dylan? Playing that on a

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<v Speaker 1>dating app? He started the conversation with me, I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we matched, and then he cried and messaged me,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we were like, oh, you know, like let's

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<v Speaker 1>go out for drinks. So we did a happy hour

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of the week. We did, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Wednesday humped out, which sounded like a good idea. At

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<v Speaker 1>the time, it wasn't a good idea, you don't think, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>probably not, because I haven't heard back from him, did you.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you guys try to plan for a weekend date

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<v Speaker 1>and you just couldn't find you know, the time. Our

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<v Speaker 1>weekends we're pretty booked up. So we just figured, you know, hey, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd rather see you sooner rather than later. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>So Wednesday was like the easiest day for us boat

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<v Speaker 1>to get together. So did it start off good and

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<v Speaker 1>then go bad? Or oh, it started off great. It's

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<v Speaker 1>cute he looked like his profile picture because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you never know. Okay, so that part was good at least.

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<v Speaker 1>How about the actual happy hour? Was that fun or weird?

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<v Speaker 1>What fun? You know? We we really bonded because we

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<v Speaker 1>both had really awful days at work and we just

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<v Speaker 1>you know, really wanted to let off some see him. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So that's I mean, that all sounds positive to me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like misery loves Company might as well be

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<v Speaker 1>miserable together. It's absolutely because we're talking about like the

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<v Speaker 1>awful people that we work with. It really felt like

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<v Speaker 1>a nice group therapy session, all right. And as we

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<v Speaker 1>kept going, you know, we kept ordering rounds of shots.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we realized, let's do another. Okay, so you're

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<v Speaker 1>getting hammered. Yeah, which it might not be a bad

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<v Speaker 1>thing on a date you mentioned in your email, though

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<v Speaker 1>you started talking about your exes. That's usually not a

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<v Speaker 1>good thing to do. I'll admit it. I don't remember

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<v Speaker 1>if it was me or if it was him who

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<v Speaker 1>brought up an ask, like saying like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>like my boss is terrible, but nothing compared to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>this person I used to date. So it kind of

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<v Speaker 1>took a turn. It is an easy transition into people

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<v Speaker 1>who you hate to go into your ex's. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it is, but it did take a weird turn because like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're single, you clearly have your share of war

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<v Speaker 1>stories about xs. Was it just you sharing or was

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<v Speaker 1>he sharing too? He was sharing too, Like I told

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<v Speaker 1>him about my most recent acts who was just such

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<v Speaker 1>a pig, and he was like, let me tell you

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<v Speaker 1>about the girl that I was with right just from

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<v Speaker 1>like the get go, Like when he mentioned her name,

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<v Speaker 1>you could just see it in his face that there

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<v Speaker 1>was just so much back story, so much baggage. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so I guess it just didn't end well. He said

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<v Speaker 1>she was just one of those serial cheaters. He would

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<v Speaker 1>forgive her, then she'd do it again. Oh sounds fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like a fun, fun time. Yeah, And you know

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't just the cheating. You know, she was one

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<v Speaker 1>of those girls that she didn't feel good about herself

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<v Speaker 1>unless she was putting him down a lot of detail

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<v Speaker 1>then yeah, I mean that's what happens when you drink

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, like your emotions just come out. And I

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<v Speaker 1>just felt so sad for him, Like I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted to give him like a big hug and

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<v Speaker 1>tell him everything was gonna be okay. He could tell

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<v Speaker 1>he really was damage from this relationship, you know. He

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<v Speaker 1>said it was like a very long term relationship. It

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<v Speaker 1>went on for like three or four year. So I suggested,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we should go back to his place, like

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<v Speaker 1>not like to go sleep together. We don't judge. I

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<v Speaker 1>just said, like, let's go back to your place and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, take some like cute seat photos that we

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<v Speaker 1>could post on social media. And he said, you know

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<v Speaker 1>he's still Facebook friends with his ex. Okay, so you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to go back to his place post some pictures

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<v Speaker 1>together to make her jealous or show her that he's

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<v Speaker 1>getting over yeah, you know, to see like he's moved

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<v Speaker 1>down on and he's happy. Did you guys do that?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he was a real gentleman about it. He

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<v Speaker 1>was like, look, I'm so inebriated. He's like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>trust myself to bring you back to my apartment. He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you may have good intentions, but I don't feel right

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<v Speaker 1>about bringing you back, and then like if you sleep together,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, you know what, he really was

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<v Speaker 1>like such a gentleman. Yeah, I just think it's weird that,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I mean, I would think it would be opposite,

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<v Speaker 1>like you wouldn't want to call him back because he

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<v Speaker 1>was so hung up on his ex, not him not

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<v Speaker 1>called you back. Well, you know, I can understand. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>he was just putting all the cards out on the table,

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<v Speaker 1>and I respect it. You know that this really hurt

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<v Speaker 1>him and he doesn't want it to happen again. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's how I kind of interpreted it. So

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<v Speaker 1>he was polite and a gentleman about going back to

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<v Speaker 1>his place and said he couldn't trust himself, and then

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<v Speaker 1>was that it was at the end of your date. Well, uh, afterwards,

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<v Speaker 1>like we had a couple more drinks and then we

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<v Speaker 1>both went our separate ways, and I mean, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it went well, and you know, afterwards, I texted him

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<v Speaker 1>the next morning and I was like, hey, how are

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<v Speaker 1>you feeling? Because I was really hungover, and he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>respond back, and I said, you know, maybe he's maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he really is hungover. Maybe you know, he's having another

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<v Speaker 1>tough day at works. And now I'm thinking, like, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he just thought I was weird and I'm crazy, like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really not like that. I was really just just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to help up. All right, Yeah, okay, Well, well

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song and then come back and call

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<v Speaker 1>him and get your second day up day Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hanging looking jubil In the more second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Right in the middle of a second date update and

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<v Speaker 1>if you missed the first part, Laney is on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and she wants to call this dude named Dylan.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't learn a whole lot about Dylan or their date,

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<v Speaker 1>but we did learn a lot about his ex girlfriend

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<v Speaker 1>when we talked to her, because she had a whole

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<v Speaker 1>lot of information on his past relationship. Apparently they met

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<v Speaker 1>like for a happy hour, they got kind of drunk.

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<v Speaker 1>They ended up talking about their X as a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>and he just got out of a relationship where he

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<v Speaker 1>was with a girl who cheated on him a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>and just sounds like a terrible person. Laney thinks that

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<v Speaker 1>she might have creeped him out because at one point

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<v Speaker 1>she said, let's go back to my place and take

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<v Speaker 1>some cute photos together. You can post it online and

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<v Speaker 1>make her jealous and show her that you're moving on.

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<v Speaker 1>And he declined because he said he was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>drunk and he didn't think he could trust himself to

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<v Speaker 1>be a gentleman. So yeah, they ended their date and

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<v Speaker 1>she hasn't heard from him since. Laney, are you ready

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<v Speaker 1>give him a call? I am? I just really, I

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<v Speaker 1>just really want to know what's going on, because he's

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<v Speaker 1>such a good guy and I just want to take

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<v Speaker 1>care of him. You know that is usually a recipe

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<v Speaker 1>for disaster, whenever where you want to take care of

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<v Speaker 1>someone or fix someone's problems. I'm just going to throw

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<v Speaker 1>it out there. I don't want to change him. I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to help them move past it. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see if we can figure out why he's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back, and then see if we can help

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<v Speaker 1>you get a second day. Here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>May I speaks to Dylan. Please, this is him, Dylan.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning in the in the Morning where it's

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<v Speaker 1>a it's a radio show and that is the name

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<v Speaker 1>of the show. It's called Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you guys. What are you guys doing? Not much?

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<v Speaker 1>Just hanging out? You mean doing? Or why are we

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<v Speaker 1>calling you? Yeah? Why what's going on? I'm calling you

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<v Speaker 1>today because we do a segment on our show. It's

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<v Speaker 1>called the second Date Update. That's where if you go

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date with somebody and then end up

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<v Speaker 1>not calling them back after, they can email us to

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<v Speaker 1>get you on the phone and find out what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>And we got an email from somebody that you went

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with recently. Wait what somebody emailed you

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<v Speaker 1>about me? Yes, Laney, her name's Laney. Oh yeah, Laney

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us because she told us about your date. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So she told us she went out with you.

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<v Speaker 1>She said she really wanted to see you again. But

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<v Speaker 1>now you're not answering any of her phone calls or

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<v Speaker 1>text messages. So she's confused, and she's wondering why you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to see her again. She's wondering why we

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<v Speaker 1>should she know why. I mean, I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>much you know. I'll tell you what we know. She said,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys met up for happy hour, You drank a bunch,

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<v Speaker 1>ended up talking about your co workers, and then getting

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<v Speaker 1>out of the subject of X's, you talked a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>about how terrible your ex was. Then she asked you

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<v Speaker 1>if you wanted to go back to her place to

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<v Speaker 1>take some pictures to make your ex jealous, and you declined.

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<v Speaker 1>She told you almost everything. If that's almost everything, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she told us that. I just can't believe she'd put

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<v Speaker 1>that out there. Are you mad about that? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's weird. I never got a phone call like this before.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't understand that, you said almost everything. Is she

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<v Speaker 1>leaving something out? Totally leaving things out? Really okay? Like what?

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<v Speaker 1>We had a good time in the beginning, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was all right, and she was all right. It was

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of the week too. I mean, we definitely

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<v Speaker 1>had no business hammering shots at a bar on a

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<v Speaker 1>freaking Wednesday. But it sounds like you guys had a

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<v Speaker 1>lot to bond over. You both had crappy days at work,

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<v Speaker 1>she said, really stressed out. Yeah, I had a particularly

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<v Speaker 1>bad day, and I guess she did too. When we

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<v Speaker 1>kind of bonded over having the same work environment, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess you could say, Yeah, then the topic of X

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<v Speaker 1>has come up, and I'm like, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>I want to go there. But we're kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>bouncing back and forth between you know, what her XS

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<v Speaker 1>did and what mine did and things like that. So

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<v Speaker 1>in her description, it didn't sound like you guys were bouncing.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you guys were concentrating on you getting

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<v Speaker 1>over your cheating next, and that you talked about her

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. I mean, I guess I probably threw out

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<v Speaker 1>a lot more info about mine than her X. But

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, I was drunk too. It's hard

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<v Speaker 1>to remember the hard to remember the details, so I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know it. Like, like I said, she was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of supportive, I guess you could say, And it just

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<v Speaker 1>got to a point where she kind of crossed the

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<v Speaker 1>line in the course of the gate, and I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>kind of got turned off. Was it suggesting to go

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<v Speaker 1>take pictures of you two together at your place? To

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<v Speaker 1>make your ex jealous. Yeah, that was part of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she wanted to do like, you know, half

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<v Speaker 1>naked photos and stuff like that, Like she wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>go that route. And I'm like, I really don't trust

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<v Speaker 1>myself to be doing that, if you know what I mean. Right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>She's all us that, which is a cool I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it's a good move to be like be like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's nice. Yeah. And then she's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, what's your ex's number and give me all

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<v Speaker 1>the inflow. I want her address too? Was joking, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that had to be a joke, right, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll take care of her for you. Yeah, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>she was joking. I'm like I was laughing with her.

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<v Speaker 1>I got what do you you know, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>burn her house down, Like why do you need her address?

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<v Speaker 1>And she just keeps kind of prodding for it. She goes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>give me the information, just you know, I got I

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<v Speaker 1>got a couple of ideas and know Yeah. So at

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<v Speaker 1>that point, I'm getting real weird vibes from this date.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I gotta end this now because she's not joking.

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<v Speaker 1>This is going in places I don't want it to show.

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<v Speaker 1>Soon you're going to be accomplished to murder. That was it, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I was done right there. Okay, Well that's understandable. It's

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<v Speaker 1>good that you were done there, probably, but you're not

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<v Speaker 1>done here because guess what, Laney is actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line. I wants to talk to you. Wait what Landy? Sorry, hey, Dylan,

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<v Speaker 1>no known Come on, guys, that's Landy. I'm sorry, but

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<v Speaker 1>your ax needs a wake up call. Like that's all

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<v Speaker 1>I was signing to do a wake up call? What

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<v Speaker 1>kind of wake up? How are you talking about? Landy?

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<v Speaker 1>She needs to know that her behavior is not okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Girls like her ruined good guys like Dylan for girls

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<v Speaker 1>like me. What are you going to do? Though? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand. Isn't the wake up call that they broke up?

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's usually the wake up call. It doesn't matter,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'll handle it. I'll handle it. You don't need

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<v Speaker 1>to hand Look, I learned my lesson with her. It

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter. Dylan, you're a good guy, like, that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I want to do that. What you don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>do it? I have them. I will tell her it's

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<v Speaker 1>not okay. What I don't understand what you're doing you

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<v Speaker 1>want her address? What are you gonna do? Everyone needs

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<v Speaker 1>to like stop asking me what I'm gonna do. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna tell you guys on the radio, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna do it. What No, whatever it is

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. No, Okay, lady, the best revenge is always

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<v Speaker 1>to just be happy in your next phase of life.

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<v Speaker 1>That is literally the only revenge anyone ever needs. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I will be happy after I do what I need

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<v Speaker 1>to do to her. What you are Dylan? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>still there? Dude? Do you guys hear what she's saying?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you kidding me? Yeah? Did you give lay of

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<v Speaker 1>the information for your X at all? No? I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>give her the information listener. I mean, Dylan, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>understand why you are so against it, Like, are you

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<v Speaker 1>still in love with her? I mean, you were right

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<v Speaker 1>your eyes out complaining how bad she treated you, and

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<v Speaker 1>here I am, like here to defend you, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>acting like a little baby now, Like are you really

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<v Speaker 1>in love with her? You want to get back together

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<v Speaker 1>with you? Want to put you down and cheat on

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<v Speaker 1>you over and over again. I was on the date

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<v Speaker 1>with you that night and we got onto some topic. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I was on the date with a

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<v Speaker 1>with a hit man. I mean, I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>she's about, but like you gave me that information, Like

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<v Speaker 1>what else am I supposed to do with it? Just

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<v Speaker 1>say that too bad? I'm so sorry that happened to you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not who I am, not like how I roll.

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<v Speaker 1>All I want to do is have a civilized conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Woman to lie, No, that's sound like that. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like in one hand you're holding your phone, the

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<v Speaker 1>other hand you're screwing a silence or on a bolt

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<v Speaker 1>action rifle. Sounds like a great woman to go on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with me, Dylan, would you like to go

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<v Speaker 1>on a second date with Landy? We'll pay for it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she will have your back for sure, Dylan, before you answer,

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<v Speaker 1>really being carefully, Oh my god, is that no? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna end up in the trunk of a car?

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<v Speaker 1>So is that a yes then? Because I think that

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<v Speaker 1>means you should say yes or you might end up

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<v Speaker 1>in a trunk of a car. I'm not going on

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<v Speaker 1>another date with her now. I'm actually scared, all right? Yeah, Landy,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't blame him, Laney, I mean, whatever, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if that's how he wants to live his life. He

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<v Speaker 1>wants to be a pushover or let people walk all

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<v Speaker 1>over him. He's gonna find another girl who's gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing to him, cheat on him and put

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<v Speaker 1>him down. You know, I would always have his back,

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<v Speaker 1>But if he doesn't want that, you know, good ridden. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>good luck. Find someone just to have brunch with or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Landy would actually kill for you. Broken jewil in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning text in at seven eight five nine two. This says,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you should all move and change your names

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<v Speaker 1>because she might find you. Agree. Yeah, I'm scared now.

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<v Speaker 1>Talking about today's second date update. X'es are normally a

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<v Speaker 1>topic to avoid on a first date, but Laney and

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<v Speaker 1>Dylan dove right into their rocky pasts. And then Dylan

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't calling Laney back, so we got him on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone to figure out why, and he said the problem

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<v Speaker 1>was that when Laney and him were talking about his

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<v Speaker 1>most recent X, she crossed the line of being supportive.

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<v Speaker 1>He said that she wanted to post pictures of them

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<v Speaker 1>to make her jealous, and she even kept prodding for

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<v Speaker 1>his ex's address so she could quote take care of it. Yeah, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't need to do that. Yeah, she legally didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to tell us what she wanted to do. She

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<v Speaker 1>said the Dylan's ex needs to be told what she

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<v Speaker 1>did was wrong, and kept suggesting that they will both

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<v Speaker 1>be happy after she does what she needs to do.

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<v Speaker 1>So we don't even know what that is. She wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>tell us. Dylan's express needs to get a heads up.

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<v Speaker 1>This lady's out there. Yeah. In the end, no second date,

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<v Speaker 1>which is Dylan's loss. I think he gave up a

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<v Speaker 1>date with somebody that would actually kill for him. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he has already, who knows. Remember, if you want a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, just email the show and we will

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<v Speaker 1>call the person who didn't call you back.