Speaker 1: Looking jubil in the morning. Second date update. Is it
Speaker 1: a bad idea to go out on a date in
Speaker 1: the middle of a work week when you're just trying
Speaker 1: to get through it? Is it a bad idea to
Speaker 1: take a bunch of shots right away on your first date? Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm going to start with to go with, Yes, a
Speaker 1: bad idea to spend the date talking about your exes? Okay, absolutely, yes,
Speaker 1: Well that sounds like the exact date that Laney went on,
Speaker 1: and now she's not getting a call back. Wonder why Laney?
Speaker 1: How are you hi? Guys? How are you good? You
Speaker 1: can hear the regret in your voice, Landy. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: a fine calling you guys. See if we can help
Speaker 1: you out. What's the name of the guy you want
Speaker 1: to call today? His name is Dylan? Dylan all right,
Speaker 1: and how did you meet Dylan? Playing that on a
Speaker 1: dating app? He started the conversation with me, I mean, like,
Speaker 1: you know, we matched, and then he cried and messaged me,
Speaker 1: and then we were like, oh, you know, like let's
Speaker 1: go out for drinks. So we did a happy hour
Speaker 1: in the middle of the week. We did, you know,
Speaker 1: Wednesday humped out, which sounded like a good idea. At
Speaker 1: the time, it wasn't a good idea, you don't think, Well,
Speaker 1: probably not, because I haven't heard back from him, did you.
Speaker 1: Did you guys try to plan for a weekend date
Speaker 1: and you just couldn't find you know, the time. Our
Speaker 1: weekends we're pretty booked up. So we just figured, you know, hey, like,
Speaker 1: I'd rather see you sooner rather than later. You know.
Speaker 1: So Wednesday was like the easiest day for us boat
Speaker 1: to get together. So did it start off good and
Speaker 1: then go bad? Or oh, it started off great. It's
Speaker 1: cute he looked like his profile picture because you know,
Speaker 1: you never know. Okay, so that part was good at least.
Speaker 1: How about the actual happy hour? Was that fun or weird?
Speaker 1: What fun? You know? We we really bonded because we
Speaker 1: both had really awful days at work and we just
Speaker 1: you know, really wanted to let off some see him. Okay,
Speaker 1: So that's I mean, that all sounds positive to me,
Speaker 1: you know, like misery loves Company might as well be
Speaker 1: miserable together. It's absolutely because we're talking about like the
Speaker 1: awful people that we work with. It really felt like
Speaker 1: a nice group therapy session, all right. And as we
Speaker 1: kept going, you know, we kept ordering rounds of shots.
Speaker 1: You know, we realized, let's do another. Okay, so you're
Speaker 1: getting hammered. Yeah, which it might not be a bad
Speaker 1: thing on a date you mentioned in your email, though
Speaker 1: you started talking about your exes. That's usually not a
Speaker 1: good thing to do. I'll admit it. I don't remember
Speaker 1: if it was me or if it was him who
Speaker 1: brought up an ask, like saying like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: like my boss is terrible, but nothing compared to you know,
Speaker 1: this person I used to date. So it kind of
Speaker 1: took a turn. It is an easy transition into people
Speaker 1: who you hate to go into your ex's. I mean
Speaker 1: it is, but it did take a weird turn because like,
Speaker 1: if you're single, you clearly have your share of war
Speaker 1: stories about xs. Was it just you sharing or was
Speaker 1: he sharing too? He was sharing too, Like I told
Speaker 1: him about my most recent acts who was just such
Speaker 1: a pig, and he was like, let me tell you
Speaker 1: about the girl that I was with right just from
Speaker 1: like the get go, Like when he mentioned her name,
Speaker 1: you could just see it in his face that there
Speaker 1: was just so much back story, so much baggage. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: so I guess it just didn't end well. He said
Speaker 1: she was just one of those serial cheaters. He would
Speaker 1: forgive her, then she'd do it again. Oh sounds fun.
Speaker 1: Sounds like a fun, fun time. Yeah, And you know
Speaker 1: it wasn't just the cheating. You know, she was one
Speaker 1: of those girls that she didn't feel good about herself
Speaker 1: unless she was putting him down a lot of detail
Speaker 1: then yeah, I mean that's what happens when you drink
Speaker 1: a lot, like your emotions just come out. And I
Speaker 1: just felt so sad for him, Like I mean, I
Speaker 1: just wanted to give him like a big hug and
Speaker 1: tell him everything was gonna be okay. He could tell
Speaker 1: he really was damage from this relationship, you know. He
Speaker 1: said it was like a very long term relationship. It
Speaker 1: went on for like three or four year. So I suggested,
Speaker 1: you know, we should go back to his place, like
Speaker 1: not like to go sleep together. We don't judge. I
Speaker 1: just said, like, let's go back to your place and
Speaker 1: you know, take some like cute seat photos that we
Speaker 1: could post on social media. And he said, you know
Speaker 1: he's still Facebook friends with his ex. Okay, so you
Speaker 1: wanted to go back to his place post some pictures
Speaker 1: together to make her jealous or show her that he's
Speaker 1: getting over yeah, you know, to see like he's moved
Speaker 1: down on and he's happy. Did you guys do that?
Speaker 1: You know, he was a real gentleman about it. He
Speaker 1: was like, look, I'm so inebriated. He's like, I don't
Speaker 1: trust myself to bring you back to my apartment. He's like,
Speaker 1: you may have good intentions, but I don't feel right
Speaker 1: about bringing you back, and then like if you sleep together,
Speaker 1: and I was like, you know what, he really was
Speaker 1: like such a gentleman. Yeah, I just think it's weird that,
Speaker 1: Like I mean, I would think it would be opposite,
Speaker 1: like you wouldn't want to call him back because he
Speaker 1: was so hung up on his ex, not him not
Speaker 1: called you back. Well, you know, I can understand. You know,
Speaker 1: he was just putting all the cards out on the table,
Speaker 1: and I respect it. You know that this really hurt
Speaker 1: him and he doesn't want it to happen again. Like
Speaker 1: I mean, that's how I kind of interpreted it. So
Speaker 1: he was polite and a gentleman about going back to
Speaker 1: his place and said he couldn't trust himself, and then
Speaker 1: was that it was at the end of your date. Well, uh, afterwards,
Speaker 1: like we had a couple more drinks and then we
Speaker 1: both went our separate ways, and I mean, I thought
Speaker 1: it went well, and you know, afterwards, I texted him
Speaker 1: the next morning and I was like, hey, how are
Speaker 1: you feeling? Because I was really hungover, and he didn't
Speaker 1: respond back, and I said, you know, maybe he's maybe
Speaker 1: he really is hungover. Maybe you know, he's having another
Speaker 1: tough day at works. And now I'm thinking, like, maybe
Speaker 1: he just thought I was weird and I'm crazy, like
Speaker 1: I'm really not like that. I was really just just
Speaker 1: trying to help up. All right, Yeah, okay, Well, well
Speaker 1: we'll play a song and then come back and call
Speaker 1: him and get your second day up day Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, hanging looking jubil In the more second date update.
Speaker 1: Right in the middle of a second date update and
Speaker 1: if you missed the first part, Laney is on the
Speaker 1: phone and she wants to call this dude named Dylan.
Speaker 1: We didn't learn a whole lot about Dylan or their date,
Speaker 1: but we did learn a lot about his ex girlfriend
Speaker 1: when we talked to her, because she had a whole
Speaker 1: lot of information on his past relationship. Apparently they met
Speaker 1: like for a happy hour, they got kind of drunk.
Speaker 1: They ended up talking about their X as a bunch
Speaker 1: and he just got out of a relationship where he
Speaker 1: was with a girl who cheated on him a bunch
Speaker 1: and just sounds like a terrible person. Laney thinks that
Speaker 1: she might have creeped him out because at one point
Speaker 1: she said, let's go back to my place and take
Speaker 1: some cute photos together. You can post it online and
Speaker 1: make her jealous and show her that you're moving on.
Speaker 1: And he declined because he said he was kind of
Speaker 1: drunk and he didn't think he could trust himself to
Speaker 1: be a gentleman. So yeah, they ended their date and
Speaker 1: she hasn't heard from him since. Laney, are you ready
Speaker 1: give him a call? I am? I just really, I
Speaker 1: just really want to know what's going on, because he's
Speaker 1: such a good guy and I just want to take
Speaker 1: care of him. You know that is usually a recipe
Speaker 1: for disaster, whenever where you want to take care of
Speaker 1: someone or fix someone's problems. I'm just going to throw
Speaker 1: it out there. I don't want to change him. I
Speaker 1: just want to help them move past it. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: we'll see if we can figure out why he's not
Speaker 1: calling you back, and then see if we can help
Speaker 1: you get a second day. Here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: May I speaks to Dylan. Please, this is him, Dylan.
Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the Morning in the in the Morning where it's
Speaker 1: a it's a radio show and that is the name
Speaker 1: of the show. It's called Brook and Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Oh you guys. What are you guys doing? Not much?
Speaker 1: Just hanging out? You mean doing? Or why are we
Speaker 1: calling you? Yeah? Why what's going on? I'm calling you
Speaker 1: today because we do a segment on our show. It's
Speaker 1: called the second Date Update. That's where if you go
Speaker 1: out on a date with somebody and then end up
Speaker 1: not calling them back after, they can email us to
Speaker 1: get you on the phone and find out what happened.
Speaker 1: And we got an email from somebody that you went
Speaker 1: on a date with recently. Wait what somebody emailed you
Speaker 1: about me? Yes, Laney, her name's Laney. Oh yeah, Laney
Speaker 1: emailed us because she told us about your date. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, So she told us she went out with you.
Speaker 1: She said she really wanted to see you again. But
Speaker 1: now you're not answering any of her phone calls or
Speaker 1: text messages. So she's confused, and she's wondering why you
Speaker 1: don't want to see her again. She's wondering why we
Speaker 1: should she know why. I mean, I don't know how
Speaker 1: much you know. I'll tell you what we know. She said,
Speaker 1: you guys met up for happy hour, You drank a bunch,
Speaker 1: ended up talking about your co workers, and then getting
Speaker 1: out of the subject of X's, you talked a bunch
Speaker 1: about how terrible your ex was. Then she asked you
Speaker 1: if you wanted to go back to her place to
Speaker 1: take some pictures to make your ex jealous, and you declined.
Speaker 1: She told you almost everything. If that's almost everything, yeah,
Speaker 1: she told us that. I just can't believe she'd put
Speaker 1: that out there. Are you mad about that? I mean,
Speaker 1: it's weird. I never got a phone call like this before.
Speaker 1: I didn't understand that, you said almost everything. Is she
Speaker 1: leaving something out? Totally leaving things out? Really okay? Like what?
Speaker 1: We had a good time in the beginning, and she
Speaker 1: was all right, and she was all right. It was
Speaker 1: the middle of the week too. I mean, we definitely
Speaker 1: had no business hammering shots at a bar on a
Speaker 1: freaking Wednesday. But it sounds like you guys had a
Speaker 1: lot to bond over. You both had crappy days at work,
Speaker 1: she said, really stressed out. Yeah, I had a particularly
Speaker 1: bad day, and I guess she did too. When we
Speaker 1: kind of bonded over having the same work environment, I
Speaker 1: guess you could say, Yeah, then the topic of X
Speaker 1: has come up, and I'm like, I don't know if
Speaker 1: I want to go there. But we're kind of like
Speaker 1: bouncing back and forth between you know, what her XS
Speaker 1: did and what mine did and things like that. So
Speaker 1: in her description, it didn't sound like you guys were bouncing.
Speaker 1: It sounds like you guys were concentrating on you getting
Speaker 1: over your cheating next, and that you talked about her
Speaker 1: a lot. I mean, I guess I probably threw out
Speaker 1: a lot more info about mine than her X. But
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I was drunk too. It's hard
Speaker 1: to remember the hard to remember the details, so I
Speaker 1: don't know it. Like, like I said, she was kind
Speaker 1: of supportive, I guess you could say, And it just
Speaker 1: got to a point where she kind of crossed the
Speaker 1: line in the course of the gate, and I'm like
Speaker 1: kind of got turned off. Was it suggesting to go
Speaker 1: take pictures of you two together at your place? To
Speaker 1: make your ex jealous. Yeah, that was part of it.
Speaker 1: I mean she wanted to do like, you know, half
Speaker 1: naked photos and stuff like that, Like she wanted to
Speaker 1: go that route. And I'm like, I really don't trust
Speaker 1: myself to be doing that, if you know what I mean. Right, Okay,
Speaker 1: She's all us that, which is a cool I mean
Speaker 1: it's a good move to be like be like yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean that's nice. Yeah. And then she's like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, what's your ex's number and give me all
Speaker 1: the inflow. I want her address too? Was joking, I
Speaker 1: mean that had to be a joke, right, like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'll take care of her for you. Yeah, I thought
Speaker 1: she was joking. I'm like I was laughing with her.
Speaker 1: I got what do you you know, you know, like
Speaker 1: burn her house down, Like why do you need her address?
Speaker 1: And she just keeps kind of prodding for it. She goes, yeah,
Speaker 1: give me the information, just you know, I got I
Speaker 1: got a couple of ideas and know Yeah. So at
Speaker 1: that point, I'm getting real weird vibes from this date.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I gotta end this now because she's not joking.
Speaker 1: This is going in places I don't want it to show.
Speaker 1: Soon you're going to be accomplished to murder. That was it, man,
Speaker 1: I was done right there. Okay, Well that's understandable. It's
Speaker 1: good that you were done there, probably, but you're not
Speaker 1: done here because guess what, Laney is actually on the
Speaker 1: other line. I wants to talk to you. Wait what Landy? Sorry, hey, Dylan,
Speaker 1: no known Come on, guys, that's Landy. I'm sorry, but
Speaker 1: your ax needs a wake up call. Like that's all
Speaker 1: I was signing to do a wake up call? What
Speaker 1: kind of wake up? How are you talking about? Landy?
Speaker 1: She needs to know that her behavior is not okay.
Speaker 1: Girls like her ruined good guys like Dylan for girls
Speaker 1: like me. What are you going to do? Though? I
Speaker 1: don't understand. Isn't the wake up call that they broke up?
Speaker 1: Like that's usually the wake up call. It doesn't matter,
Speaker 1: like I'll handle it. I'll handle it. You don't need
Speaker 1: to hand Look, I learned my lesson with her. It
Speaker 1: doesn't matter. Dylan, you're a good guy, like, that's why
Speaker 1: I want to do that. What you don't have to
Speaker 1: do it? I have them. I will tell her it's
Speaker 1: not okay. What I don't understand what you're doing you
Speaker 1: want her address? What are you gonna do? Everyone needs
Speaker 1: to like stop asking me what I'm gonna do. All right,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna tell you guys on the radio, all right,
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna do it. What No, whatever it is
Speaker 1: I'm saying. No, Okay, lady, the best revenge is always
Speaker 1: to just be happy in your next phase of life.
Speaker 1: That is literally the only revenge anyone ever needs. Look,
Speaker 1: I will be happy after I do what I need
Speaker 1: to do to her. What you are Dylan? Are you
Speaker 1: still there? Dude? Do you guys hear what she's saying?
Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? Yeah? Did you give lay of
Speaker 1: the information for your X at all? No? I didn't
Speaker 1: give her the information listener. I mean, Dylan, I don't
Speaker 1: understand why you are so against it, Like, are you
Speaker 1: still in love with her? I mean, you were right
Speaker 1: your eyes out complaining how bad she treated you, and
Speaker 1: here I am, like here to defend you, and you're
Speaker 1: acting like a little baby now, Like are you really
Speaker 1: in love with her? You want to get back together
Speaker 1: with you? Want to put you down and cheat on
Speaker 1: you over and over again. I was on the date
Speaker 1: with you that night and we got onto some topic. Now,
Speaker 1: I feel like I was on the date with a
Speaker 1: with a hit man. I mean, I don't know what
Speaker 1: she's about, but like you gave me that information, Like
Speaker 1: what else am I supposed to do with it? Just
Speaker 1: say that too bad? I'm so sorry that happened to you.
Speaker 1: That's not who I am, not like how I roll.
Speaker 1: All I want to do is have a civilized conversation.
Speaker 1: Woman to lie, No, that's sound like that. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: feel like in one hand you're holding your phone, the
Speaker 1: other hand you're screwing a silence or on a bolt
Speaker 1: action rifle. Sounds like a great woman to go on
Speaker 1: a date with me, Dylan, would you like to go
Speaker 1: on a second date with Landy? We'll pay for it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she will have your back for sure, Dylan, before you answer,
Speaker 1: really being carefully, Oh my god, is that no? I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna end up in the trunk of a car?
Speaker 1: So is that a yes then? Because I think that
Speaker 1: means you should say yes or you might end up
Speaker 1: in a trunk of a car. I'm not going on
Speaker 1: another date with her now. I'm actually scared, all right? Yeah, Landy,
Speaker 1: I don't blame him, Laney, I mean, whatever, you know,
Speaker 1: if that's how he wants to live his life. He
Speaker 1: wants to be a pushover or let people walk all
Speaker 1: over him. He's gonna find another girl who's gonna do
Speaker 1: the same thing to him, cheat on him and put
Speaker 1: him down. You know, I would always have his back,
Speaker 1: But if he doesn't want that, you know, good ridden. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: good luck. Find someone just to have brunch with or whatever.
Speaker 1: Landy would actually kill for you. Broken jewil in the
Speaker 1: morning text in at seven eight five nine two. This says,
Speaker 1: I think you should all move and change your names
Speaker 1: because she might find you. Agree. Yeah, I'm scared now.
Speaker 1: Talking about today's second date update. X'es are normally a
Speaker 1: topic to avoid on a first date, but Laney and
Speaker 1: Dylan dove right into their rocky pasts. And then Dylan
Speaker 1: wasn't calling Laney back, so we got him on the
Speaker 1: phone to figure out why, and he said the problem
Speaker 1: was that when Laney and him were talking about his
Speaker 1: most recent X, she crossed the line of being supportive.
Speaker 1: He said that she wanted to post pictures of them
Speaker 1: to make her jealous, and she even kept prodding for
Speaker 1: his ex's address so she could quote take care of it. Yeah, no, no,
Speaker 1: you don't need to do that. Yeah, she legally didn't
Speaker 1: want to tell us what she wanted to do. She
Speaker 1: said the Dylan's ex needs to be told what she
Speaker 1: did was wrong, and kept suggesting that they will both
Speaker 1: be happy after she does what she needs to do.
Speaker 1: So we don't even know what that is. She wouldn't
Speaker 1: tell us. Dylan's express needs to get a heads up.
Speaker 1: This lady's out there. Yeah. In the end, no second date,
Speaker 1: which is Dylan's loss. I think he gave up a
Speaker 1: date with somebody that would actually kill for him. Maybe
Speaker 1: he has already, who knows. Remember, if you want a
Speaker 1: second date update, just email the show and we will
Speaker 1: call the person who didn't call you back.