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Speaker 1: Looking jubil in the morning. Second date update. Is it

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Speaker 1: a bad idea to go out on a date in

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Speaker 1: take a bunch of shots right away on your first date? Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to start with to go with, Yes, a

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Speaker 1: bad idea to spend the date talking about your exes? Okay, absolutely, yes,

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Speaker 1: Well that sounds like the exact date that Laney went on,

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Speaker 1: and now she's not getting a call back. Wonder why Laney?

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Speaker 1: How are you hi? Guys? How are you good? You

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Speaker 1: can hear the regret in your voice, Landy. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: a fine calling you guys. See if we can help

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Speaker 1: you out. What's the name of the guy you want

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Speaker 1: to call today? His name is Dylan? Dylan all right,

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Speaker 1: and how did you meet Dylan? Playing that on a

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Speaker 1: dating app? He started the conversation with me, I mean, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, we matched, and then he cried and messaged me,

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Speaker 1: and then we were like, oh, you know, like let's

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Speaker 1: go out for drinks. So we did a happy hour

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Speaker 1: in the middle of the week. We did, you know,

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Speaker 1: Wednesday humped out, which sounded like a good idea. At

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Speaker 1: the time, it wasn't a good idea, you don't think, Well,

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Speaker 1: Did you guys try to plan for a weekend date

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Speaker 1: and you just couldn't find you know, the time. Our

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Speaker 1: weekends we're pretty booked up. So we just figured, you know, hey, like,

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Speaker 1: So Wednesday was like the easiest day for us boat

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Speaker 1: you never know. Okay, so that part was good at least.

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Speaker 1: How about the actual happy hour? Was that fun or weird?

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Speaker 1: What fun? You know? We we really bonded because we

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Speaker 1: So that's I mean, that all sounds positive to me,

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Speaker 1: you know, like misery loves Company might as well be

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Speaker 1: miserable together. It's absolutely because we're talking about like the

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Speaker 1: awful people that we work with. It really felt like

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Speaker 1: a nice group therapy session, all right. And as we

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Speaker 1: kept going, you know, we kept ordering rounds of shots.

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Speaker 1: You know, we realized, let's do another. Okay, so you're

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Speaker 1: getting hammered. Yeah, which it might not be a bad

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Speaker 1: thing on a date you mentioned in your email, though

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Speaker 1: you started talking about your exes. That's usually not a

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Speaker 1: good thing to do. I'll admit it. I don't remember

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Speaker 1: like my boss is terrible, but nothing compared to you know,

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Speaker 1: this person I used to date. So it kind of

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Speaker 1: took a turn. It is an easy transition into people

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Speaker 1: if you're single, you clearly have your share of war

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Speaker 1: him about my most recent acts who was just such

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Speaker 1: Sounds like a fun, fun time. Yeah, And you know

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Speaker 1: Right in the middle of a second date update and

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Speaker 1: if you missed the first part, Laney is on the

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Speaker 1: We didn't learn a whole lot about Dylan or their date,

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Speaker 1: you get a second day. Here we go. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: May I speaks to Dylan. Please, this is him, Dylan.

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Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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Speaker 1: in the Morning in the in the Morning where it's

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Speaker 1: a it's a radio show and that is the name

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Speaker 1: Oh you guys. What are you guys doing? Not much?

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