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Speaker 1: They call me mom, but they are aware who the

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Speaker 1: We are planning our wedding. My father offered his condo

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Speaker 1: It was a very kind and great generous offer. And also,

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Speaker 2: Oh, is this a new episode?

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Speaker 1: Is this a new episode?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Why don't you pose it to us real quick?

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Speaker 1: A new Oh? I lost the entire thing? Where did

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Speaker 1: we go as should you? This is a little question.

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Speaker 1: To the audience. Should you consider a child yours even

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Speaker 1: where was I ah? When I told Tyler? He was

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Speaker 1: He said yes. I said, that's our honeymoon. I don't

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Speaker 2: Not at all?

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Speaker 3: I'm wondering if this person is not familiar with the

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Speaker 2: All express pass to jump each other's bones all the time.

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Speaker 3: It is, but it is like on your own, it's

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Speaker 3: like you, it's you and your your partner. You go off,

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Speaker 3: you turn off all the phone identifications. Yeah, and get

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Speaker 3: after the wedding to celebrate, not with your sort of vacation,

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Speaker 2: Was the thing, and I'm very embarrassed. Oh damn. Some

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Speaker 1: It's not it's not like I'm bannoning them from all

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just say that literally, it is your honeymoon. I

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Speaker 3: Or you can get a jumpstart on parenting and watch

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Speaker 2: That's true, I could also be honey Bell says, honeymoon

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Speaker 1: Oh, he says, Okay. I said I won't reply because

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Speaker 2: Why you didn't invite your kids to that bath? Wow?

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Speaker 1: So much you were signing up?

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Speaker 1: Relevant, very relevant. He has a higher spicy sleep drive,

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Speaker 1: He cuddles until we go to sleep. I take care

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Speaker 2: Bath or wherever. Okaya, where where did this come from?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know why it's wrong.

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Speaker 2: Go for it. You got it? He never come on?

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Speaker 2: You got this? Why are you getting the sex stories to?

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Speaker 1: Okay, but I changed it. This is not like a

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Speaker 1: I don't know why that, Where is this coming from?

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Speaker 4: He never pulled his I don't.

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Speaker 3: This is we've now completely we went from from honeymoon

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Speaker 1: He never pulled his weapon at me. He's not a

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Speaker 1: This sounds like an awful relationship. Yeah, three, we don't

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Speaker 1: have alone time or date nights. True, but it doesn't

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Speaker 2: Wait he did? They don't have date nights.

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Speaker 1: I don't think he's ready and we need to have

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Speaker 1: Either way, we're not ready to be married.

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Speaker 1: What's going on?

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Speaker 1: I say, I don't think we deleted anything.

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Speaker 2: I asked, so you're like, hey, did you have a voseectim?

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Speaker 2: The lack of communication is giving me a vikraune.

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Speaker 1: No, it's not a bad point, but I would be

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Speaker 1: He should have been like, hey, you don't have to do.

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Speaker 2: That, agreed. I do think it's crazy to not communicate that.

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Speaker 4: Like it just it just comes up kids, Like my girlfriend,

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Speaker 3: And yeah, what do you have to say for yourself?

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Speaker 3: Really you're going to pull out, You're really going to

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Speaker 3: pull that out right now? I got the depot shot

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Speaker 3: I mean imagine it's just like comple deletely changes your

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Speaker 1: Pro Vera or DMPA shot is a contraceptive injection that

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Speaker 2: Most girls that I've dated have not been on birth control.

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Speaker 1: Where's control is? Really?

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Speaker 2: Like it messes up your body. It messes up your

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Speaker 1: The people like the you know, like my friends, like

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Speaker 1: They're not fun, you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, geez, I'm trying to give like contraceptive knowledge

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Speaker 3: This has given me a migraine. Yeah, how did you

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Speaker 1: Yay? Yeah, this guy is not generally.

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Speaker 2: No, specifically terrible terrible niety.

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Speaker 1: But let's get into these comments. Nick four four two

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Speaker 2: True? Because you want my stupid babies?

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Speaker 1: Baby? But seriously sounds like he was stringing you along.

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Speaker 1: He wants you to replace his wife, not start your own.

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Speaker 1: Mm that rhymes first eight one eight, says Ah. The

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Speaker 1: being to them by leaving. He's going to do everything

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Speaker 1: he can, say, whatever he thinks will work to bully

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Speaker 1: you into going back. Leaving was the right thing to do,

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Speaker 1: but staying away is going to be much much harder.

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Speaker 1: Tell your parents and your friends exactly why you've left

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Speaker 1: I hope you get it, and Opie responds, that's exactly

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Speaker 2: You love the good.

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Speaker 1: With the man who didn't want to give me a

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Speaker 1: and who has broken my heart?

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Speaker 2: Really, go off to Queen hid some crowns in the

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Speaker 1: For real, tell me what's nice about any of that?

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Speaker 2: Nothing happened to Yeah? I want a dramatic reading. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Tell me why I should dead? Tell me why you

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Speaker 1: I'm your daughter and you should know me well enough

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Speaker 1: me plenty of You want a cheerlead and support a liar,

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Speaker 2: You were you were continuing that inner theater kid became

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Speaker 1: Say that was a cold read?

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Speaker 1: No, there's one more update one, Josh Dang.

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Speaker 2: I can't imagine that this update is going to be

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Speaker 1: I left my ex because he was lying to me

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Speaker 2: Dude, the man is literally using his kids as an

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Speaker 1: Using them as an emotional like fodder.

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Speaker 2: He is the grand master in chess, mag emotion, the

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Speaker 2: grand master of gas lighting. Oh, the Magnus Carlson of

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Speaker 1: It makes sense. I told the kids that's not true

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Speaker 2: This is terrible. It's terrible. Also like she basically was

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Speaker 1: Yeah, notes you never hear, says I read and responded

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Speaker 1: to your earlier posts. How completely vile. At least he's

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry for your pain. It's such a blessing

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Speaker 1: you didn't marry him. I feel sorry for his kids

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Speaker 1: But I'm glad you're escaping before the wedding, and Beneficial

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Speaker 1: Demand says, Wow, that melted down quickly. Sounds like you

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Speaker 1: dodged a major bullet. You should go out with your

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Speaker 1: friends to celebrate the fact that you have your life back,

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Speaker 1: and next time find a man without kids, well.

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Speaker 2: Or just find a man that's at least Yeah, it's

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Speaker 2: not the kids that were the problem. Yeah, this is

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Speaker 2: the stink on this man.

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Speaker 3: I think it's kind of fair to say, like someone

439
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 3: would be like, I did the thing with kids, and

440
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:47,680
Speaker 3: it's like, again, obviously not people that date with kids

441
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:49,080
Speaker 3: are all like yeah, Court, I.

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Speaker 2: Mean, it is a complicating factor for sure. I mean

443
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Speaker 2: I wouldn't blame Op. Yeah, I wouldn't blame Op for

444
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:58,640
Speaker 2: going childless for a bit. But what do you think

445
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Speaker 2: of you? Yeah? Great point, great point, thank you, thank

446
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:05,920
Speaker 2: you for that. Yeah, I'm I'm glad that Op is

447
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:10,720
Speaker 2: getting out of that terrible, terrible situation. But thanks for

448
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,920
Speaker 2: getting this great situation case. So for the two buck tip, Hey,

449
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 2: can Riley's fans be called the protein shakes? The floor is, y'alls?

450
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:20,960
Speaker 3: I may feel like that would be right if you

451
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Speaker 3: want to w to organize the crew.

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Speaker 2: You know.

453
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:26,679
Speaker 4: Also, this thing has a automatic.

454
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 3: Oh why oh Lissandra, and just in time for me

455
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 3: and Riley have just started going to the where Jim buddies.

456
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 2: Now yep, wow, what an incredible gift. Huge, Well, we're

457
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 2: gonna finish up these dono's and wrap up the stream

458
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,159
Speaker 2: if nothing crazy happens. So choo choo four twenty. Thanks

459
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 2: for the four to twenty tip. Can we start a

460
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 2: turtle army for John? Since turtles live to be one

461
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:57,879
Speaker 2: hundred and fifty long live turtle army?

462
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 1: Like that, you were like, I want to poor John,

463
00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 1: but also gay, you're an old turtle.

464
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:07,919
Speaker 2: Speaking of old turtles, John, you want to read this next.

465
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Speaker 3: One yep Arena ninety three celebrating one month membership. Call

466
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Speaker 3: me a little silly, but I love y'all equally. My

467
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 3: husband jokes that y'all are my only friends. Husband, what

468
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 3: are you talking about? Because I watch often and share

469
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 3: okay story time with all of my friends.

470
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 2: That just makes you awesome splash.

471
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 1: True because you just said you have friends.

472
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:33,439
Speaker 2: Also, if you haven't shared this with your friends, what

473
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:34,399
Speaker 2: are you doing? Guys?

474
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:35,960
Speaker 1: Are we even your friends?

475
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 2: You could make your respective?

476
00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 3: Are you in the worm army? Do you want the

477
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:41,680
Speaker 3: worm army to stronger? Are you in the pigeon army?

478
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 3: Do you want the pigeon army to be stronger?

479
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 2: Are you a protein shake shaking it up?

480
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 1: I just want to say, what what? What happened to

481
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 1: our kingdom? It used to be we had a system used.

482
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 2: To be unchallenged.

483
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, well it used to be we had a warm queen,

484
00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:59,119
Speaker 1: and we had an army, and we had a fiefdom.

485
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 1: And everyone is happy with the slot that they were

486
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Speaker 1: placed in.

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00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 5: No, you know, Oh, we had an uprising, a little koda,

488
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 5: you will, a little military occupation.

489
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 1: We have a pigeon army coming in trying to take over.

490
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:21,399
Speaker 2: Well, we will take over. You got you got nothing

491
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:22,200
Speaker 2: that we can fly?

492
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 1: I can dig?

493
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 2: Not very fucking hide. Yeah that is here. Yeah Wednesday, Mama,

494
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 2: thanks for the two fifty. I'm twenty seven, but part

495
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,679
Speaker 2: of the old man game polyamory for the win, but

496
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 2: only consentually. Also engaged in a swinging male male female.

497
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 2: But it's about open and informed consent. Great to catch

498
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 2: you guys again. My favorite YouTubers, especially that massive protein

499
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:51,359
Speaker 2: hashtag protein army. Oh. Also I love how.

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Speaker 1: Got right.

501
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:57,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, I also love how much information we got about

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00:26:57,520 --> 00:26:59,200
Speaker 2: Mama thisspitter that right.

503
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:02,160
Speaker 3: And Pickle, thanks for the six thirty four. I fell

504
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:05,359
Speaker 3: asleep and welcome to John shouting it's an orange, let's go, Pickle,

505
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 3: I apologize I was excited for obvious reasons. And Lossandro

506
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 3: Rivera Riley. There's a list in one of the boxes

507
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:19,480
Speaker 3: under the gift message worm crown and firestarter, uh protein,

508
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 3: pea bottle and ptin shaker mask and.

509
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 2: Bird orange and water bottle.

510
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:29,719
Speaker 3: The double tape is so you can try to stick

511
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:33,920
Speaker 3: the orange and bird to the mic. Oh that's sick, Lossandre,

512
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:36,479
Speaker 3: you have just simply outdone yourself.

513
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,639
Speaker 4: You could finish opening all of her gifts.

514
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:41,120
Speaker 2: More back there we can see it for next stream.

515
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 3: And just Kat thanks for the ten bucks. H I

516
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:48,360
Speaker 3: am in confusion about the many things unfolding super quick

517
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Speaker 3: tld are.

518
00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:50,720
Speaker 2: Basically it was all over the place.

519
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 3: We realized there was a missing paragraph, but there was

520
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 3: a stinky man.

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00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 1: It was just confusing. Yeah, it was yeah, yeah, there

522
00:27:57,320 --> 00:28:01,199
Speaker 1: wasn't anything. No I thought there was, but I had that.

523
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Speaker 1: It was just after the comments.

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00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,359
Speaker 2: There you go, and ladies and gentlemen, that is all.

525
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:08,439
Speaker 3: We got a couple more, not all the donuts, ladies, gentlemen,

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Speaker 3: one eleven, Sydney, with our kidneys.

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00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:12,719
Speaker 2: It's obviously our communications sucks.

528
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 3: Just look at how the story is formatted, honestly.

529
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 2: Sidney making a great point.

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Speaker 3: Pigeon General with the five bucks, sending my daily sacrifices

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Speaker 3: for my pigeon Lord.

532
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 2: An army rise up and we will from the sky

533
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:32,119
Speaker 2: let our bombs rain down on the worms. They will

534
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 2: eat our pigeon droppings and like it, Aucie.

535
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 3: And sending my sacrifice with a pigeon Lord, and wish

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Speaker 3: me luck as I fight through the flu during my

537
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Speaker 3: last weeks of college. My goodness, plus thanks for helping

538
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:54,400
Speaker 3: me forget how sick I am. We got you, Pigeon General.

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00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:57,239
Speaker 2: Pigeon General, that we do and that and with that

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Speaker 2: is actually that is the end of the stream. So

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Speaker 2: if you love us, make sure to subscribe. We love you,

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Speaker 2: yes see right now, room nine eighteen.

543
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Speaker 3: Than give you the twenty five bucks on the door,

544
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Speaker 3: like let's freaking go bu us Bernettes two bucks.

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Speaker 2: Open the package. We will open it on the next three,

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Speaker 2: very very next three, we promise. Yes. But if you

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Speaker 2: love us, make sure to subscribe. We love you as

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