Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us. On air
Speaker 1: with Ryan Seacrest, Good Morning, Tubbs are engineer. Did you
Speaker 1: get a fresh fade? Did? Wow? I always like it
Speaker 1: when someone comes in with a new cut. You can
Speaker 1: see it well. It also inspires me to do something different.
Speaker 1: This is not different for you, but it's very tight.
Speaker 1: They went shorter than normal. Did you ask for it?
Speaker 1: I said, just go like short on the sides and
Speaker 1: faded up. But they went really short. But to the
Speaker 1: question is growing in a week? If I ever have
Speaker 1: body work done, Like if I ever get a massage
Speaker 1: or something and it's not good, I lie and say
Speaker 1: I don't say anything, and I'm like laying there for
Speaker 1: I want to be done. Yeah, but I don't have to.
Speaker 1: I just don't have the I can't always. Will you
Speaker 1: please let me know if you want more freshures fressure.
Speaker 1: I feel like I want everybody to be happy, so
Speaker 1: I want them to be happy, even if I'm miserable.
Speaker 1: To the questions, did you say anything or not? No? Right?
Speaker 1: Same thing I never do. I don't either. I I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, but I feel tremendous
Speaker 1: guilt if I tell someone something's not going well. That's
Speaker 1: interesting that might come from your childhood. Well, I also
Speaker 1: do it with food if I order the wrong thing,
Speaker 1: and i'll, you know, talk to myself and say, oh
Speaker 1: this is kind of not great, and then the server
Speaker 1: will come and say I was a perfect Thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you so much. It's happy to be here,
Speaker 1: all right. We've got Dodgers Angels game to tonight Dodger Stadium.
Speaker 1: They meet again for two games at Anaheim that is
Speaker 1: next month. Today is the last day of school for
Speaker 1: Long Beach Unified again with every school district that is
Speaker 1: out for summer, I too get excited for you. Remember
Speaker 1: the first day I had so many plans always the
Speaker 1: first day of summer, it was it was sleeping, watch
Speaker 1: prices right in order pizza that night. And that was
Speaker 1: what I want to do every single first day. And
Speaker 1: it's just and living vicariously through those of you as
Speaker 1: you play your first day of summer. So let me
Speaker 1: grab summer here in Coasta Mesa, Coasta Mesa. It's nice,
Speaker 1: just makes me happy to know you're there summer. Hi,
Speaker 1: Hi there, so are you doing well? Thanks for asking,
Speaker 1: I'm doing well. We're all here everybody's happy. Things are
Speaker 1: so far on track, so it is a good day. Now.
Speaker 1: What's happening with you in Coasta, Mesa? So okay, So
Speaker 1: I live with family. I live with my two daughters
Speaker 1: and my mom and my aunt and my aunts is
Speaker 1: one of those stuck in her ways, super negative. The
Speaker 1: energy is just gross, is like a black cloud whenever
Speaker 1: she's around, and it's just really sad, and she can't
Speaker 1: afford to live anywhere by herself. So I feel guilty
Speaker 1: about you know, I can't kick her out. We just
Speaker 1: have to deal with it. We try to make it
Speaker 1: more positive, but it just never works. And yeah, that's
Speaker 1: where I'm at. So how can we help? And do
Speaker 1: you have any advice? Like, with the living cost in
Speaker 1: the world, it's just outrageous, and people with fixed incomes
Speaker 1: there's not much that they can do. I have an idea.
Speaker 1: So actually, um Jen taught me this a very very
Speaker 1: long time ago, and I've used it so many times
Speaker 1: in my life. But whenever you are around a negative person,
Speaker 1: you zip yourself up in this like imaginary cocoon. So
Speaker 1: like you pretend like you're in a cocoon and you
Speaker 1: actually like zip it up and you're in this cocoon,
Speaker 1: so nobody's negative energy can actually infiltrate your skin. And
Speaker 1: then when you leave, like when you leave your house,
Speaker 1: you just unzip your cocoon and like you're free. Movie.
Speaker 1: I like your movie. It works. I'm telling you work.
Speaker 1: It's it's a barrier and that energy it's so toxic too.
Speaker 1: It just wears you down and actually sick. That cocoon
Speaker 1: doesn't allow it to infiltrate. So can you pick what
Speaker 1: colors your cocoon summer? And can you picture the zipper?
Speaker 1: Is it a double zippers? It go both ways one
Speaker 1: way and picture that yourself into the body bag and
Speaker 1: just deflect. Yeah, it's definitely hot pink, and uh, there's
Speaker 1: at least a couple of zippers. I'm going to start doing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a really good idea. Alright, let's see if it works.
Speaker 1: Let us know and thank you summer, good luck, Thanks
Speaker 1: for Cornic Coast to Masa this morning. Any other tricks
Speaker 1: or games you play that's fun, Like you just you
Speaker 1: just have your force field up that no negativity impacts you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like they could. People can be doing all kinds of
Speaker 1: things and it just like it just bounces off my
Speaker 1: cocoon to make sure you take it off. People's negative
Speaker 1: energy is their own issue. It's like stuff that's going
Speaker 1: on with them. Yeah. Are you familiar with pressure points listening? Um? Yeah,
Speaker 1: So this hack has been going around on TikTok and
Speaker 1: promises to put you right to sleep. To rub the
Speaker 1: inner part of your wrist in a circular motion for
Speaker 1: a few minutes. The inner part of your wrist doing
Speaker 1: it in a circular motion for a few minutes. Acupunctures
Speaker 1: say it's one of the four pressure points along your
Speaker 1: inner forearm that will calm the mind and alleviate stress. Honestly,
Speaker 1: is making me really relaxed. I don't feel anything. There
Speaker 1: is that bad. No, I like it, Like my fingers
Speaker 1: are starting to like curling and I'm feeling it right.
Speaker 1: I don't feel that. I feel what you feel? Numb? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel nothing. You don't feel a tickle? Weird? We
Speaker 1: might have your cocoon on zip your I mean, try it.
Speaker 1: This is awesome. You know, we in this nation have
Speaker 1: such sleep issues. No, it takes me so long to
Speaker 1: fall asleep. I have to play a game. I have
Speaker 1: to tell myself stop thinking, stop worrying about tomorrow, stop
Speaker 1: rehashing today, and like just turn your brain off into
Speaker 1: this one tunnel eye and don't see your feeling. And
Speaker 1: it's really hard to control to do. I went to
Speaker 1: bed the other night at eight. Now it is a victory,
Speaker 1: and I'm so excited to be in beded eight fifteen.
Speaker 1: I got so excited to be in bed I couldn't
Speaker 1: fall asleep. You actually fall asleep? No, well, I don't
Speaker 1: know if it's sent thirty eight, but it was. And
Speaker 1: this was laying in bed with no TV, not looking
Speaker 1: at your phone's black, no phone, tossing and turning, and
Speaker 1: then it's so frustrating. But I'll tack on my wrist. Now, yeah,
Speaker 1: the circular motion done. Do you realize this is today's quote?
Speaker 1: All right? Once you realize that almost everyone is projecting,
Speaker 1: it becomes easier to stop making things so personally. On
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Speaker 1: You know we're talking about sleep. Earlier, I was just
Speaker 1: reading that some of the best foods to eat if
Speaker 1: you're hungry at night, I don't, I mean for me,
Speaker 1: cheese and they say cheese and crackers. But that would
Speaker 1: excite me. Ok, why do they say this stuff is good?
Speaker 1: It's like it's not gonna it contains protein, fiber, vegetables,
Speaker 1: and hummus. Again, that seems like a lot to do.
Speaker 1: Oh I can't have hummus anymore? Is it really bad?
Speaker 1: In your so garbanzo beans are bad? Yeah? Steamboat Sally comes?
Speaker 1: What about have you we tried like p hummus? No
Speaker 1: where do you find that? You gotta make it? NA
Speaker 1: go to your guard and get your peas. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: bananas and nut butter good as well. Okay, I can
Speaker 1: do that, but I'm trying to get myself not deep
Speaker 1: before I go to sleep. That's the whole point. You're
Speaker 1: not supposed to the little snack. I love snacks. My
Speaker 1: favorite meals snack. All right, Michaela is here one of
Speaker 1: our newest members to the team. Mikhaela. What is your
Speaker 1: official title? I'm a producer, a producer, space producer. So listen,
Speaker 1: this is what's fascinating. So she's single, dating, meets this guy,
Speaker 1: doesn't like short guy. She gave him a shot. He's
Speaker 1: not showing that she's a priority, is not making time
Speaker 1: for her. A lot of red flags throughout the relationship,
Speaker 1: by the way, even the like what he was blowing
Speaker 1: you off for you got a hole in one playing golf,
Speaker 1: She's gotta go out drink with his buddies, like slag exactly.
Speaker 1: So you have been composing the breakup text and I
Speaker 1: actually can't believe I'm gonna say this. I never thought
Speaker 1: I would break up or do um big things via text,
Speaker 1: but I will, and that may not be great. I
Speaker 1: think you have to feel it out for the relationship.
Speaker 1: I just think people break up with text. I mean,
Speaker 1: everybody's gotten that text. That's all. A long text is
Speaker 1: not great. You ever had that text come in that
Speaker 1: you just keep scrolling and scrolling down. I don't, you can't.
Speaker 1: That's just too much. So this needs to be brevity,
Speaker 1: A little brevity, I think, kind and direct. What'd you
Speaker 1: come up with, Michael? So I have? Hey, I hope
Speaker 1: you had a great day. I've just been thinking about
Speaker 1: us and how we haven't seen each other in a
Speaker 1: while because of our schedules. So I'm not sure if
Speaker 1: this is working out between us right now. I also
Speaker 1: hate then I'm saying this over text, and I'm sorry
Speaker 1: about that. I just won't see you I don't know
Speaker 1: what I'm going to see you next. The timing just
Speaker 1: isn't working out. You're a great guy, and I'm sorry great,
Speaker 1: I was very good. Sent that sent it right, okay?
Speaker 1: And did he respond? So he didn't respond until like
Speaker 1: eleven thirty at night last night? Yeah, oh my, okay,
Speaker 1: you want to think about it? Well, when did you
Speaker 1: send it? I sent it like right after I left. Okay.
Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, so he what did he say? So? Remember,
Speaker 1: this is a guy that she thinks is too short
Speaker 1: looking past that thirty at night when he knows that
Speaker 1: she asleep because she works mornings. That is disrespectful. Okay,
Speaker 1: you guys, no, no, no, no, it's mine. But she
Speaker 1: just broke up with the guy. Need to deal with it.
Speaker 1: And this was almost like a spy. He's working all
Speaker 1: day and then he can't really think about it until
Speaker 1: he gets home from work, which could be eight o'clock,
Speaker 1: and by then he has to eat. Do you know him?
Speaker 1: I don't. He talks to watch an episode of Grays Mikayla.
Speaker 1: What did he say back? So he said, Hey, I've
Speaker 1: had some time to think now, and I apologize for
Speaker 1: taking so long. Yeah, I get it. We've barely gotten
Speaker 1: to see each other this whole time, and it sucked.
Speaker 1: I honestly wanted to see you every day since we
Speaker 1: first met. You're right, the timing just isn't good. I
Speaker 1: guess you make me feel some sort of way. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna miss you. Have a great time. I'll be here
Speaker 1: if you change a good time. Wait now, he seems
Speaker 1: so sweet. No, I have a great time. Like people,
Speaker 1: they have a great life. It's like when he said,
Speaker 1: come on, guys, have a little heart. When he said
Speaker 1: I wanted to see you every day, he's lying. I
Speaker 1: know I did feel bad. I always feel bad, but
Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel that that was a I
Speaker 1: think that was a great reply. That was a clean
Speaker 1: breakup makes me feel some kind of way cut really cute.
Speaker 1: It is really cute. I have a timelines weird. Dating sucks.
Speaker 1: So what's next? MICHAELA back on the apps. Yeah, that's it.
Speaker 1: You're not gonna heard it or like it, or like
Speaker 1: I haven't responded, so yeah, you should have heard it,
Speaker 1: so he knows you got it, like received. Thank you.
Speaker 1: You're really going to be off track if you keep
Speaker 1: listening to all of our advice over the years, you
Speaker 1: have to listen to everybody's advice member. When I was
Speaker 1: talking to Josh Grobin and I listened to all of y'all's, y'all's,
Speaker 1: I can't say I'm not from the South. I can't
Speaker 1: say all I was listening to all of yours. Uh,
Speaker 1: I don't even know what we're talking about. You guys,
Speaker 1: we're feeding me lines to say to him. But Josh
Speaker 1: grob yes, And then the one I didn't never went
Speaker 1: out with him because I got left on my own
Speaker 1: over the weekend. And I responded, and then he never
Speaker 1: responded back. Because do you respond to something that we
Speaker 1: were in the very part of the shot with Josh grows,
Speaker 1: you were like thinking about it. Yeah, well, I just
Speaker 1: don't know if I'm like seeing the match between the
Speaker 1: two of you. But listening to other people in the
Speaker 1: beginning is like the way to go. All right, thank
Speaker 1: you and good luck on the next adventure. All right.
Speaker 1: I liked his tex Oh my gosh, get over him.
Speaker 1: I'm not I would think for short guys, I'm with you,
Speaker 1: not with you because I'm average height. But I'm with you.
Speaker 1: I'm not short. King's average height? What is average height?
Speaker 1: Five ten? I think it's five eight or five nine.
Speaker 1: When we google average height for man, five nine is
Speaker 1: average height according to googlege. Yeah, thank you. I've always
Speaker 1: wanted to be just average. Thank you. What is it?
Speaker 1: If it's not average, then it's just tall and short.
Speaker 1: Now you're below average? You not Davy Michael. I'll tell
Speaker 1: you that. I'm gonna take you on a tangent. Now
Speaker 1: you guys are gonna meet Barrett Paul in San Diego.
Speaker 1: So Barrett Paul is a salagamist. He is practicing salagami.
Speaker 1: Salagamy or what is that? I've never said it before
Speaker 1: my life because I didn't know what it sounds like.
Speaker 1: I wanted spicy, like I want it. Yeah, plate, So
Speaker 1: monogamy we know that, right. Monogamy is commitment to one person,
Speaker 1: but salagamy is a commitment to you yourself. He married himself.
Speaker 1: This is a real word self. Yes, he married himself.
Speaker 1: So I don't know. We're gonna find out now. And
Speaker 1: is that narcissism or is it self love? No? This
Speaker 1: is great. This is what you should You should want
Speaker 1: to marry yourself before you marry somebody else. And I
Speaker 1: don't think he has plans to marry someone else is
Speaker 1: just Barrett marrying Barrett Barrett, good morning, How are you?
Speaker 1: Good morning? I'm doing well, how are you excellent? Thank
Speaker 1: you for coming on with us. Now people are really
Speaker 1: talking about your selogamy and yes, can you define it
Speaker 1: for you? What does it mean to you? Yeah? You know,
Speaker 1: for me, it's all about leaning into self love and
Speaker 1: self compassion and doing the things that I wish we
Speaker 1: had people telling us as kids we should be doing
Speaker 1: for ourselves, not just for someone else. One day. You know,
Speaker 1: we tell we tell kids at a young age that
Speaker 1: you know, they should grow up and sign someone and
Speaker 1: then take these vows that are about you know, taking
Speaker 1: care of someone through sickness and health rich or report
Speaker 1: till death do you part. And it's like, why aren't
Speaker 1: we doing that for ourselves first? You know? So does
Speaker 1: that mean you will ever commit to someone else? Absolutely?
Speaker 1: You know. I am actually in a relationship now, um.
Speaker 1: But it wasn't until I really took those vows to
Speaker 1: heart for myself that I was able, I think, to
Speaker 1: find the healthiest version of a relationship and really lean
Speaker 1: into not looking for someone to kind of complete that
Speaker 1: missing part in me, but find someone that I don't
Speaker 1: need and it doesn't need me and be really grateful
Speaker 1: to have each other. For as long as that goes on,
Speaker 1: it's like a bonus. Did you have a self weight exactly? Um?
Speaker 1: I didn't have a full self wedding, but I did
Speaker 1: have a self ceremony. I found a ring that I loved.
Speaker 1: I wear it every day. Um. Yeah, it's like a
Speaker 1: great reason to get yourself another little present. We all
Speaker 1: love that, right. And I sat in Brooklyn looking at
Speaker 1: New York City. I lived New York City at the time,
Speaker 1: and just like looked at the city and was like,
Speaker 1: you know, I think I need to do this, And
Speaker 1: it just happened organically. And it's been one of the
Speaker 1: greatest things to remind myself every day, because we're not
Speaker 1: always the nicest to ourselves either. Self loading. Self loading
Speaker 1: is crazy, the concept of self marriage. It's gained so
Speaker 1: much popularity. There's even self wedding kits on the morning.
Speaker 1: What do they have been that I gotta google with mirrors?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Wedding so fascinating to me, Like all
Speaker 1: this stuff about and I know it's all wrong, but
Speaker 1: all this about you gotta, you know, be good with you,
Speaker 1: be good alone before you can be with someone else.
Speaker 1: I hate being alone. I don't want be alone with me.
Speaker 1: I know you're kind of a monkey brancher. What is
Speaker 1: that when you go from one relationship to the next. Oh,
Speaker 1: you do monkey branch? Do not monkey branch? Yes you
Speaker 1: do monkey branch. Is like is when you go from
Speaker 1: run branch to the like you're hardly ever single? Yeah right,
Speaker 1: maybe I'm gonna get a selogamy plate. All right, well done.
Speaker 1: Thank you for the motivation. It really is great and
Speaker 1: nice to meet you. By the way, you can follow
Speaker 1: him at Barrett Paul p a l L on TikTok
Speaker 1: and Instagram. You take care. Thank you so much. By
Speaker 1: like do you like being I guess it's different views,
Speaker 1: isn't because you are? You have a lot going on
Speaker 1: at home, so it's nice to be alone. Oh when
Speaker 1: I have alone time, it's the best? Are you kidding me?
Speaker 1: Do you like being alone? You know what's interesting? Um? No?
Speaker 1: But I was alone and single for many, many years.
Speaker 1: I started to really appreciate that season of my life
Speaker 1: because I would have married women that just had babies
Speaker 1: message me saying they would give anything to be doing
Speaker 1: what I'm doing. In the afternoon. I get it. I
Speaker 1: find I find like going home after a work day
Speaker 1: and standing up at the counter and eating out of
Speaker 1: a container to be severely depressing alone. Yeah, but now
Speaker 1: if I'm with somebody, I don't have to talk to them.
Speaker 1: But somebody's there is It's a companionship, it's a partnership.
Speaker 1: It's used to have somewhere. It's monkey branching, and it's
Speaker 1: monkey branching. But then maybe this is where it stops.
Speaker 1: Maybe you should marry yourself. Maybe you should be slogamous.
Speaker 1: It sounds so niciss. By the way, it kind of
Speaker 1: is in a weird way. If I'm gonna tell people, ah,
Speaker 1: what a great weekend, I wait, my honeymoon next weekend,
Speaker 1: just gonna be me. And by the way, someone's making
Speaker 1: four hundred and forty dollars for this I married myself
Speaker 1: wedding box that comes with the fourteen care of goold
Speaker 1: ring and affirmation cards. That part maybe a little ridiculous.
Speaker 1: A two seven Here Avery is on the phone, Avery,
Speaker 1: good morning, how are you doing? Good morning? I'm okay,
Speaker 1: how are you doing. We are hanging in there. We
Speaker 1: are definitely hanging in there. So tell me what's happening
Speaker 1: in North Roots. You're dating someone in your friend group? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: So I have this group of friends. It's like seven
Speaker 1: people like for girls, including me and then three other guys,
Speaker 1: and oh my gosh, we were so close, like within
Speaker 1: fronts ever since college. And we you know, we maybe
Speaker 1: don't like hang out every day like we used to,
Speaker 1: but we still get together like at least two or
Speaker 1: three times a month, and I just I love them
Speaker 1: so much. They're like my family. And one of the
Speaker 1: guys in the group, like we kind of realized that
Speaker 1: we had feelings for each other, and so we started
Speaker 1: dating and it was great, like it was perfect for
Speaker 1: you know, at least the first six months, and we
Speaker 1: were so happy. Everybody was so happy for us, you know,
Speaker 1: they kept saying we were the perfect couple. Everyone was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, you're like the Monica and Chandler you know,
Speaker 1: of our group, and they were just like, it's so
Speaker 1: excited for us. And I thought it was. I thought
Speaker 1: it was really, you know, that was it, that it
Speaker 1: was great that we were going to be together. But
Speaker 1: then the last few weeks since have been like a
Speaker 1: little bit rocky. And then a few days ago he
Speaker 1: said that he actually he wants to start seeing other people,
Speaker 1: and I'm just so I was so devastated. I really
Speaker 1: I thought he was the one I was going to
Speaker 1: be with. I was imagining this whole future with him.
Speaker 1: But I mean, I mean that's not even the point.
Speaker 1: Like now I don't know how to even be around
Speaker 1: our friends if he's going to be there, I don't
Speaker 1: I don't know how to act around him, and so
Speaker 1: I feel like it's either lose my whole group of
Speaker 1: friends or just like try and pretend to be normal
Speaker 1: while he talks about his days and his new girlfriend. Avery.
Speaker 1: It's so interesting because at the onset here I was
Speaker 1: really excited because it's great to have that friendship and
Speaker 1: then the electricity of some intimacy afterwards because you already
Speaker 1: know each other right, and then until it goes wrong
Speaker 1: and then it's really really awkward. My guidance would be,
Speaker 1: you don't want to cut out your friends. You want
Speaker 1: to be in a friend group, and it's probably gonna
Speaker 1: be difficult. I mean, maybe the friend group is sensitive
Speaker 1: to your dynamic while it's fresh, and they don't create
Speaker 1: any awkward moments, and certainly hopefully he doesn't broadcast is
Speaker 1: other dates and other people just to give you some time.
Speaker 1: But I think when you look back, eventually you'll be
Speaker 1: happy you stayed with the friends and hopefully you'll still
Speaker 1: be friends with him. Yeah, thank you. I hope so,
Speaker 1: I hope that you and I are able to be friends.
Speaker 1: And eventually it's just gonna take time and then you're
Speaker 1: gonna start dating somebody new, and that's going to be
Speaker 1: It's not always that way. It is broken for long,
Speaker 1: long periods of time, seven years. As soon as you
Speaker 1: find somebody, it's gonna be a lot better. Yea, are
Speaker 1: you good luck and sorry you're going through it, but
Speaker 1: we all felt that way. You take care, stay you
Speaker 1: so much, you too. I was so excited. I was like,
Speaker 1: oh your days when the friend group. That's like the dream,
Speaker 1: I know. And then crash and burn on air with
Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest, last day of school, Long Beach Unified in
Speaker 1: Lynnwood Unified. Today is also National Lobster Day. All right,
Speaker 1: it's a very important day, National Lobster Day. If you
Speaker 1: like lobster. My mother used to get that fake crab
Speaker 1: meat when we were kids, you know that, Yeah, not
Speaker 1: real crab meat. It was like artificial processed fish with
Speaker 1: orange food coloring, and what would you do with it?
Speaker 1: Tell me scrap salad. That's good listening, mother, it's fine,
Speaker 1: forgive you. But I was just thinking. You know, when
Speaker 1: you get a little urge, I mean, Tanya, Sissany, you've
Speaker 1: got significant others, you get a little urge to do
Speaker 1: something together, something cute, something to break the routine. Treat yourself. Yes,
Speaker 1: and this time of year, frozen yogurt is a treat.
Speaker 1: Ice cream is a treat, Tolato is a treat. All
Speaker 1: that stuff. Take your kids too. So I was reading
Speaker 1: on Yelp they've ranked the best ice cream shop in
Speaker 1: each state, and there's a winter in Orange County and
Speaker 1: Farah from Confetti Ice on Baker and Fairview and Coasta
Speaker 1: Mesa is on the line here Farah, good morning, how
Speaker 1: are you? Good morning, Brian, I'm doing great. We're here
Speaker 1: to congratulate you on your big Yelp win for the
Speaker 1: best ice cream. Thank you so much. I can't believe
Speaker 1: I'm on the phone with you. I listened to your
Speaker 1: show every morning. Oh that's so exciting because we want
Speaker 1: to get to know you and your cold treats. Oh great,
Speaker 1: all right, so let's break this down. Confetti Italian ice
Speaker 1: and custard and coast to Masa. What is that? We're
Speaker 1: a small ice cream shop, family owned and operating my
Speaker 1: husband and myself. We offer Italian nice and frozen custard.
Speaker 1: Italian ice is a water based ice cream. Um, it's
Speaker 1: like sir base and we have milk base I speak,
Speaker 1: and then frozen custard, which is IgG your face. So
Speaker 1: this is a local, as she said, family owned and
Speaker 1: operated ice cream shop, right here in our own backyard
Speaker 1: and Coasta Mesa. And what makes everything so great? How
Speaker 1: do you think you won this YELP award? We use
Speaker 1: high quality ingredients. Um, we have wonderful customer service. We
Speaker 1: are here all the seventies a week. We make sure
Speaker 1: that our customers leave here happy. I like, all right now,
Speaker 1: I'm just imagining the great smell of your shop. You
Speaker 1: smell cones and you smell Yes, I'm smelling it right now.
Speaker 1: That's wonderful. I usually come by and check us out.
Speaker 1: What's the most popular flavor or combination? Would you say? Fair? Uh?
Speaker 1: Our number one labor is Oreo Cookie Battery. That's shake
Speaker 1: ice cream with cookie butter testures. Yes, that's the one
Speaker 1: I want alright, Just became a weak human being. That
Speaker 1: sounds so good. So let me tell you where this is,
Speaker 1: Baker and Fairview and Coast to Maze. Actually you can
Speaker 1: see on Instagram. If you go to at Confetti Ice
Speaker 1: on Instagram, you can actually see what they're doing and
Speaker 1: check it all out. Well, thank you for being the
Speaker 1: best ice cream shop in all of California. Congratulations and
Speaker 1: good luck to a good summer. Okay, bye. I used
Speaker 1: to love when I was a kid, we had Baskin
Speaker 1: Robbins nearby, and I used to love to go get
Speaker 1: the I think it was peanut butter chocolate ice cream
Speaker 1: they would have. And for my birthday cakes we get
Speaker 1: the swirl round cakes from Baskin Robbins. Ice cream cakes.
Speaker 1: Always forget about ice cream cakes, ice cream hies. You
Speaker 1: can't forget about ice cream cakes because after a big meal,
Speaker 1: they're soothing to the stomach. Cold cake just fluffs you up,
Speaker 1: so true ice cream breaks through all that stuff. This
Speaker 1: is big news and also kind of not surprising that
Speaker 1: people are saying that being on your phone on social
Speaker 1: media Instagram is addictive. They're actually being sued for being
Speaker 1: too addictive, and I have to say it's not even Instagram,
Speaker 1: it's just messages in general. I find myself sitting and
Speaker 1: grabbing my phone not even knowing, and grab my phone
Speaker 1: to check and see if something came in every minute.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I think we all do it, and actually I
Speaker 1: have to like check an email, So I go to
Speaker 1: my phone and check an email, but before I even
Speaker 1: get to the email, I go to Instagram. Also, what
Speaker 1: am I doing? I'm walking through my house holding my phone.
Speaker 1: I don't need to be carrying my phone through the house,
Speaker 1: like I can put it down the table and come
Speaker 1: back to it in an hour. But it seems like
Speaker 1: so impossible to detach. So what's happening says he so
Speaker 1: allegedly meta, which is obviously you know, Instagram, face Book.
Speaker 1: They have invested billions of dollars to intentionally design their
Speaker 1: products to be addictive and encourage the use to be problematic,
Speaker 1: especially for young people who have such addictive personalities as
Speaker 1: it is when you're young, you're so impressionable. Um. Now
Speaker 1: people are coming out with these lawsuits, there's eight of
Speaker 1: them in total, but it's almost like Instagram is not
Speaker 1: even scared about these lawsuits in a weird way, because
Speaker 1: there was this law that just passed here in California
Speaker 1: that is going to allow parents to sue companies like
Speaker 1: this if their kids, um, you know, suffered mental health
Speaker 1: or you know, other things because of the addictiveness when
Speaker 1: it comes to the social media accounts, and anybody with
Speaker 1: kids under eighteen can seek dollars for each violation if
Speaker 1: they can prove that their child has been addicted for
Speaker 1: specific social media sites like Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, etcetera. It's
Speaker 1: so interesting because something that you know, initially you think
Speaker 1: it is so great and so cool and so convenient,
Speaker 1: it can put you into I mean I know that
Speaker 1: when I don't look at things or look at things
Speaker 1: or read things, my heart rate changes, Like your anxiety
Speaker 1: goes up and down. Well yeah, and so has a
Speaker 1: physical impact. Imagine like how sensitive you are as a teenager.
Speaker 1: And we didn't grow up with Instagram, you know, it
Speaker 1: didn't come out until many years and I was like
Speaker 1: in out of college. But for a teenager to read
Speaker 1: a negative comment, that's gotta be like, it's just it
Speaker 1: hurts us. And we're adults, Like I don't even know
Speaker 1: what it was to be like. If you're a teenager,
Speaker 1: I remember, you know you'd hear somebody said something about
Speaker 1: you to another student, and you'd hear back and it
Speaker 1: would crush you. Yeah, and then you'd get on like
Speaker 1: a three way phone call and try to like trap
Speaker 1: the person. That's what it is now, but it's not
Speaker 1: they're not calling anymore. Nobody calls. That is on social media.
Speaker 1: Do it all in social or there's also when you
Speaker 1: do look at it, there is a dopamine release, the
Speaker 1: chemical release. They deliberately adjust their algorithms so that it
Speaker 1: addicts you. But like TV is addicting, Like sometimes when
Speaker 1: I'm watching the show, like I can't stop. I think
Speaker 1: you're right. Our parents said you can't watch TV past
Speaker 1: such time or you can't do too much TV because
Speaker 1: it is addictive to Well, when I was growing up,
Speaker 1: we played video games, like I came home and played
Speaker 1: Segon Genesis every day until I finally beat it. Like
Speaker 1: that was I was addicted to that. Like could my
Speaker 1: parents have sued Sega Genesis or Nintendo gosh Atari. I
Speaker 1: was all over a tari as a kid. I couldn't
Speaker 1: stop Nintendo Super Mario all that stuff. I'm interesting to
Speaker 1: see where it goes, but I will tell you I
Speaker 1: do advocate putting my phone down, and I find it
Speaker 1: hard because I wish you, I really wish maybe is
Speaker 1: it any new iOS tubs doing stuff? I wish you
Speaker 1: could put, you know, on your email you can put
Speaker 1: sorry out of the office automatic reply. I really wish
Speaker 1: you could put an auto reflect on your text. Have
Speaker 1: that already? No, I don't have a do not disturb
Speaker 1: And it says that on your text like if I
Speaker 1: were a text you have services. Ryan has has no
Speaker 1: silent notifications on right now? Know that? Why me through it?
Speaker 1: I just had to do this to Mark talk. Okay,
Speaker 1: just go go to your home screen like this and
Speaker 1: then click the moon do not disturb is on the
Speaker 1: home screen. Sorry, guys, you're rushing through my s right now.
Speaker 1: So go to where swipe from the right the right
Speaker 1: corner diagonally, down right corner diagonally. Look at what and
Speaker 1: then do you see the moon? He's never the airplane
Speaker 1: is a signal? See the moon. There's a little blue
Speaker 1: de leo. Okay, the moon on the moonlight. Yeah. Crescent great, okay,
Speaker 1: crescent tap it, tap it? Okay. Now it says do
Speaker 1: not disturb until tomorrow. Well, then whenever you set the
Speaker 1: time and you say you can have it on now,
Speaker 1: have it on any time, all the time, all the
Speaker 1: time if you want. That means you're not going to
Speaker 1: get phone calls, so be careful. Well I don't want
Speaker 1: but just put it in an airplane mode and call
Speaker 1: it a day. Hold on, why so will you get
Speaker 1: a message It says I'm not looking if you Yeah,
Speaker 1: so if I were to text you, it'll it'll show
Speaker 1: me that you have your do not disturb once and
Speaker 1: I'll be like, oh my god. So then I don't
Speaker 1: know what I would do. It'll say on the bottom
Speaker 1: it Ryan has his do not disturb like a little moon,
Speaker 1: like a little half moon. Okay, this is going to
Speaker 1: be a candy land of fun from me. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: how do we get off track? While we just did,
Speaker 1: we are taking this call from Rebecca. Today's sunny and
Speaker 1: warmer highs in the mid eighties, about a hundred inland.
Speaker 1: It's one of those drives or in the middle of
Speaker 1: the day. The underneath part of your the belly of
Speaker 1: your thigh, sweats perspires on the seat, and in your
Speaker 1: pants sticky, and in your rear there's nothing grows soggy
Speaker 1: rear Button's true. I get it though, Like sometimes I think, God,
Speaker 1: I got to shower, it's been so hot today. Yeah,
Speaker 1: long drive for sure. Okay, we don't get the it
Speaker 1: he must get. Yeah, you know, I'm talking about guys
Speaker 1: and he's I'm talking about people who sweat a lot.
Speaker 1: You know, when you sweat a lot, you sweat easier. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm a sweater. I'm a sweaty right, And Rebecca just
Speaker 1: wants to chime in on this. Rebecca, good morning, How
Speaker 1: are you goods? How are you? We're sweaty? Uh? All right, listen,
Speaker 1: So you need some help with a breakup? What's going on? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So I've been with this guy for almost nine years, um,
Speaker 1: and there's like a bit of an age difference, like
Speaker 1: I'm thirty one and he's almost forty, um. And he
Speaker 1: and I weren't sure if, like we wanted to get
Speaker 1: married someday, but recently he's been like bringing it up
Speaker 1: over the past year and he's just bringing up randomly
Speaker 1: and then even mentioned wanting kids, um, And so I
Speaker 1: sort of brushed him off and told him, like I'd
Speaker 1: consider it next year. But then you know, it's like
Speaker 1: halfway through two and next year is just getting closer
Speaker 1: and closer and then freaking out about it. And yeah,
Speaker 1: but I've been thinking about breaking up for a while,
Speaker 1: but um just because like he's just the only person
Speaker 1: I've had experience with, but I just want more than that.
Speaker 1: Um So yeah, just how do you break up with
Speaker 1: someone that you've been with for a while, that, like
Speaker 1: you know, is going to be upset about it? Ye? Well,
Speaker 1: everyone's going to be upset if they don't know it's coming,
Speaker 1: And everyone's going to be upset, maybe even more so
Speaker 1: if you drag it out. Yeah, because he's getting older
Speaker 1: and he wants marriage and kids eventually. Right, Yes, that's
Speaker 1: totally it. Yeah, so you really have to get through
Speaker 1: everything that's on your mind deliberately and directly with some heart.
Speaker 1: Because it's been nine years together. That's scary. I'm scared
Speaker 1: for all of us. You gave him your twenties and
Speaker 1: he gave you his thirties, and now you're just gonna
Speaker 1: rip the band aid off? Did we say? Why? Why
Speaker 1: do you want to break up? Rebecca? The only guy
Speaker 1: she's been with. She wants to explore. Grass is always
Speaker 1: greener though, Rebecca. Yeah, let me tell you, Once you
Speaker 1: explore these seas, there's a lot of flopping fish, and
Speaker 1: a lot of conk, not a lot of not a
Speaker 1: lot of and the seeds of prime rip. I really
Speaker 1: want to get inside your head, get inside that water
Speaker 1: that's producing prime rip. Very interesting to me. I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: I don't know, Rebecca, listen. Only advice is make sure listen.
Speaker 1: If the universe is dragging you towards this, then it's
Speaker 1: the right thing to do. But you gotta go sit down.
Speaker 1: Look I too, I be totally honest. One can't fault
Speaker 1: your honesty. They can't. It's the way you feel, it's
Speaker 1: the way you are, it is your honest opinion. It
Speaker 1: is transparent. It's gonna hurt, it's gonna be tough, it's
Speaker 1: gonna be sore, it's gonna be all those things. But
Speaker 1: at some point, if you don't do it this, you're
Speaker 1: gonna fester inside of you, right right. Yeah, it's literally
Speaker 1: gotten worse lately, so you're so right. God think it
Speaker 1: will continue to build like that, which becomes toxic. So,
Speaker 1: Rebecca's going to be a tough conversation, but one it
Speaker 1: sounds like you're ready to have good luck. Thank you
Speaker 1: so much, appreciate it, good bye bye, good luck Prime
Speaker 1: rib in the sea? Yeah, take me there. Well, I
Speaker 1: was just kind of trying to like make a parallel
Speaker 1: between conk like floppy fish and what's like the best
Speaker 1: thing you could eat, like prime rip. Since we're in
Speaker 1: the ocean, we should make a toro tuna, right, It's
Speaker 1: like there's a lot of conk, but it's hard to
Speaker 1: find toro tuna fat belly tuna. So I can't get
Speaker 1: there and I can't get there as fast as But
Speaker 1: lobster is nice. Why would you go prime rib like
Speaker 1: I would go lobster of the sea And it's lobster Day.
Speaker 1: I just told you, Actually, lobster Day should be. My
Speaker 1: brain doesn't work that fast. Just let me call all
Speaker 1: start with some of that. And I think about prime
Speaker 1: rib because I always think about my boyfriend cutting like
Speaker 1: it does he does? Your boyfriend, Robbie, Is he like
Speaker 1: prime Yeah? Yeah, yeah, he's a really like red love
Speaker 1: cut it with his hot hand. Okay, these hands are
Speaker 1: not that hot. Yes they are. They're average. I mean
Speaker 1: they're just normal hands. First of all, they're not they're
Speaker 1: above average. I shook it. It's normal. No, yes, no,
Speaker 1: I've seen them. They're normal. They're totally average. You know
Speaker 1: who has hot feet is Ryan? Thank you? You do
Speaker 1: like when you hear compared feet you have you have
Speaker 1: above average feet for sure. But this is a very
Speaker 1: good conversation because we have something feature above average. I
Speaker 1: just had my U done. Oh I went to one
Speaker 1: of those pedare places where you gotta sit in the
Speaker 1: chair forever that's all over them are. It's not a special.
Speaker 1: One is like a lounge chair and a lazy boy.
Speaker 1: I'm sitting back. Would you like for me to rub
Speaker 1: your shoulders while you're getting a manicure? I'm like absolutely,
Speaker 1: And then he tells me how am I doing, and
Speaker 1: like you're great? And then he's like a dollar per minute, right,
Speaker 1: And then I can read everybody's phone because those armchairs
Speaker 1: are long. You can see everybody's what they're looking at
Speaker 1: while they're getting the medicure in patticker. Well that you
Speaker 1: probably shouldn't do, but okay, all right with Ryan Secrets.
Speaker 1: So the other night I actually went to go see
Speaker 1: the premiere of Jennifer Lopez. I saw you on the
Speaker 1: right side on the carpet too, and that's fine. Do
Speaker 1: you really like this dreading report was on the carpet
Speaker 1: in a picture. Someone from Sister Station New York interviewed
Speaker 1: you you or you made her real? Yeah, I saw
Speaker 1: photos of you on the carpet on Just Jared Great.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I went to see the movie and I
Speaker 1: sat on the row with Jennifer's mom sister, and then
Speaker 1: Jen Jen came and afterwards we had dinner and it
Speaker 1: was a really great night. And it was vulnerable, it
Speaker 1: was candid, it was strong. It was amazing to see
Speaker 1: some of the things, specially about the halftime show at
Speaker 1: the super Bowl, that we didn't know about. You're gonna
Speaker 1: love the documentary, Okay, So I'm curious to hear your
Speaker 1: thoughts on this because people are fans are a little
Speaker 1: bit divided over what j Lo opened up about um
Speaker 1: in regard to the super Bowl halftime show and sharing
Speaker 1: it specifically with Shakira, and she said it was the
Speaker 1: worst idea in the world. So she admitted that in
Speaker 1: her in the Netflix documentary Halftime, she wasn't too pleased
Speaker 1: with the NFL's decision to have her and Shakira take
Speaker 1: the stage together. She was saying how the twelve minutes
Speaker 1: wasn't enough time and that they should have had twenty,
Speaker 1: like a twenty minute time slot so that they both
Speaker 1: could truly headline, because when you divide the twelve minutes,
Speaker 1: it's like six minutes a piece and you can't really
Speaker 1: do all. Yeah. And honestly, I'm with Jen on this
Speaker 1: one because I feel like, why can't one woman be
Speaker 1: enough to hold a show? And was, hey, why if
Speaker 1: you're going to have a woman women headline, why can't
Speaker 1: it be a singular one of us or give us
Speaker 1: enough time to create what we want to create as
Speaker 1: singular performers and then of course come together as one.
Speaker 1: So I think it was a challenge for both of
Speaker 1: them in their mind and in hindsight, she probably wanted
Speaker 1: to do it, but it's happened before they had Lady Gaga. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm not it's not it's not that,
Speaker 1: it's just the NFL doesn't do whatever. They've had Lady Gaga,
Speaker 1: they've had Katie Perry be soul female headliners, but still
Speaker 1: these are two that they don't do it with men.
Speaker 1: There's not two men headliners. And it's like this was
Speaker 1: season with The Bachelorette. There's two bachelrettes this season. They've
Speaker 1: never had two bachelors like, why one woman can't command
Speaker 1: the show. It has to there has to be two
Speaker 1: female leads, like one can't do it on her own.
Speaker 1: I just think there's this double standard and I'm with
Speaker 1: j Lo. I'm over it and I'm off my soapbox.
Speaker 1: But so when you see the movie, when you see
Speaker 1: the documentary, you will see her very candid and direct
Speaker 1: conversation with some of the people at the NFL about
Speaker 1: how challenging it was and the time. I guess the
Speaker 1: time that they were there was the time was chipping away.
Speaker 1: It wasn't enough time to create. Although I mean it
Speaker 1: came out well, we loved it, yeah, of course, But
Speaker 1: it is interesting that they decided for Shakira and j
Speaker 1: Loo to share the stage when in reality they had
Speaker 1: done in the past before with Gaga and Katy Perry
Speaker 1: having their own Like, so, why couldn't they decide that
Speaker 1: they each one of them? Was it because it was
Speaker 1: in Miami and they wanted a Latin act and they
Speaker 1: couldn't decide between the two or I don't know, you know.
Speaker 1: The other thing you'll see in this documentary is obviously
Speaker 1: she works hard. She's very focused on her career. It's
Speaker 1: pretty I I told her after that, go, I am like,
Speaker 1: am I feel inadequate in terms of work and focus?
Speaker 1: And you inspired me a little bit to get fired
Speaker 1: up to push harder to do more. But you also
Speaker 1: see this side of her that's a great mom. I mean,
Speaker 1: she's really magical with her kids. Yeah, she's a twin
Speaker 1: mom and those kids are sort of her everything and
Speaker 1: she you see how you know, those most special moments
Speaker 1: are with her and her kids. So when is it out?
Speaker 1: It's out now. It came out Tuesday on Netflix with
Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest. Yeah, tomorrow, we're back with some Ryan's roses.
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