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Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us. On air

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Speaker 1: with Ryan Seacrest, Good Morning, Tubbs are engineer. Did you

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Speaker 1: get a fresh fade? Did? Wow? I always like it

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Speaker 1: when someone comes in with a new cut. You can

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Speaker 1: see it well. It also inspires me to do something different.

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Speaker 1: This is not different for you, but it's very tight.

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Speaker 1: They went shorter than normal. Did you ask for it?

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Speaker 1: I said, just go like short on the sides and

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Speaker 1: faded up. But they went really short. But to the

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Speaker 1: question is growing in a week? If I ever have

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Speaker 1: body work done, Like if I ever get a massage

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Speaker 1: or something and it's not good, I lie and say

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Speaker 1: I don't say anything, and I'm like laying there for

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Speaker 1: I want to be done. Yeah, but I don't have to.

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Speaker 1: I just don't have the I can't always. Will you

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Speaker 1: please let me know if you want more freshures fressure.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I want everybody to be happy, so

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Speaker 1: I want them to be happy, even if I'm miserable.

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Speaker 1: To the questions, did you say anything or not? No? Right?

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Speaker 1: Same thing I never do. I don't either. I I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, but I feel tremendous

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Speaker 1: guilt if I tell someone something's not going well. That's

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Speaker 1: interesting that might come from your childhood. Well, I also

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Speaker 1: do it with food if I order the wrong thing,

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Speaker 1: and i'll, you know, talk to myself and say, oh

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Speaker 1: this is kind of not great, and then the server

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Speaker 1: will come and say I was a perfect Thank you,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you so much. It's happy to be here,

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Speaker 1: all right. We've got Dodgers Angels game to tonight Dodger Stadium.

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Speaker 1: They meet again for two games at Anaheim that is

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Speaker 1: next month. Today is the last day of school for

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Speaker 1: Long Beach Unified again with every school district that is

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Speaker 1: out for summer, I too get excited for you. Remember

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Speaker 1: the first day I had so many plans always the

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Speaker 1: first day of summer, it was it was sleeping, watch

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Speaker 1: prices right in order pizza that night. And that was

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Speaker 1: what I want to do every single first day. And

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Speaker 1: it's just and living vicariously through those of you as

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Speaker 1: you play your first day of summer. So let me

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Speaker 1: grab summer here in Coasta Mesa, Coasta Mesa. It's nice,

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Speaker 1: just makes me happy to know you're there summer. Hi,

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Speaker 1: Hi there, so are you doing well? Thanks for asking,

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Speaker 1: I'm doing well. We're all here everybody's happy. Things are

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Speaker 1: so far on track, so it is a good day. Now.

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Speaker 1: What's happening with you in Coasta, Mesa? So okay, So

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Speaker 1: I live with family. I live with my two daughters

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Speaker 1: and my mom and my aunt and my aunts is

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Speaker 1: one of those stuck in her ways, super negative. The

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Speaker 1: energy is just gross, is like a black cloud whenever

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Speaker 1: she's around, and it's just really sad, and she can't

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Speaker 1: afford to live anywhere by herself. So I feel guilty

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Speaker 1: about you know, I can't kick her out. We just

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Speaker 1: have to deal with it. We try to make it

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Speaker 1: more positive, but it just never works. And yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: where I'm at. So how can we help? And do

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Speaker 1: the world, it's just outrageous, and people with fixed incomes

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Speaker 1: there's not much that they can do. I have an idea.

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Speaker 1: So actually, um Jen taught me this a very very

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Speaker 1: long time ago, and I've used it so many times

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Speaker 1: in my life. But whenever you are around a negative person,

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Speaker 1: you zip yourself up in this like imaginary cocoon. So

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Speaker 1: actually like zip it up and you're in this cocoon,

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Speaker 1: so nobody's negative energy can actually infiltrate your skin. And

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Speaker 1: then when you leave, like when you leave your house,

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Speaker 1: you just unzip your cocoon and like you're free. Movie.

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Speaker 1: I like your movie. It works. I'm telling you work.

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Speaker 1: It's it's a barrier and that energy it's so toxic too.

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Speaker 1: It just wears you down and actually sick. That cocoon

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Speaker 1: doesn't allow it to infiltrate. So can you pick what

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Speaker 1: colors your cocoon summer? And can you picture the zipper?

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Speaker 1: Is it a double zippers? It go both ways one

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Speaker 1: way and picture that yourself into the body bag and

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Speaker 1: just deflect. Yeah, it's definitely hot pink, and uh, there's

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Speaker 1: at least a couple of zippers. I'm going to start doing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's a really good idea. Alright, let's see if it works.

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Speaker 1: Let us know and thank you summer, good luck, Thanks

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Speaker 1: for Cornic Coast to Masa this morning. Any other tricks

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Speaker 1: or games you play that's fun, Like you just you

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Speaker 1: just have your force field up that no negativity impacts you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like they could. People can be doing all kinds of

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Speaker 1: So this hack has been going around on TikTok and

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Speaker 1: it in a circular motion for a few minutes. Acupunctures

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Speaker 1: inner forearm that will calm the mind and alleviate stress. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: This is awesome. You know, we in this nation have

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Speaker 1: to tell myself stop thinking, stop worrying about tomorrow, stop

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Speaker 1: and I'm so excited to be in beded eight fifteen.

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Speaker 1: then it's so frustrating. But I'll tack on my wrist. Now, yeah,

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Speaker 1: All right? Once you realize that almost everyone is projecting,

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Speaker 1: it becomes easier to stop making things so personally. On

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Speaker 1: air with Ryan Seacres headlines, so Elon Musk will address

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Speaker 1: Twitter's CEO announced an all hands meeting to employees in

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Speaker 1: an email on Monday, saying that they'd be able to

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Speaker 1: submit questions in advance. So long Internet Explore Explorer. The

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Speaker 1: browser retires today. Yeah, it is the end of an era.

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Speaker 1: As of today, Microsoft will no longer support the once

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Speaker 1: A year ago. Microsoft said that it was put in

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Speaker 1: their future in a video posted yesterday celebrating the nine

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Speaker 1: You know we're talking about sleep. Earlier, I was just

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Speaker 1: reading that some of the best foods to eat if

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Speaker 1: excite me. Ok, why do they say this stuff is good?

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Speaker 1: It's like it's not gonna it contains protein, fiber, vegetables,

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Speaker 1: and hummus. Again, that seems like a lot to do.

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Speaker 1: Oh I can't have hummus anymore? Is it really bad?

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Speaker 1: In your so garbanzo beans are bad? Yeah? Steamboat Sally comes?

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Speaker 1: where do you find that? You gotta make it? NA

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Speaker 1: our newest members to the team. Mikhaela. What is your

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Speaker 1: official title? I'm a producer, a producer, space producer. So listen,

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Speaker 1: this is what's fascinating. So she's single, dating, meets this guy,

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Speaker 1: doesn't like short guy. She gave him a shot. He's

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Speaker 1: not showing that she's a priority, is not making time

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Speaker 1: for her. A lot of red flags throughout the relationship,

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Speaker 1: by the way, even the like what he was blowing

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Speaker 1: She's gotta go out drink with his buddies, like slag exactly.

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Speaker 1: So you have been composing the breakup text and I

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Speaker 1: I would break up or do um big things via text,

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Speaker 1: everybody's gotten that text. That's all. A long text is

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Speaker 1: not great. You ever had that text come in that

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Speaker 1: you just keep scrolling and scrolling down. I don't, you can't.

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Speaker 1: That's just too much. So this needs to be brevity,

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Speaker 1: A little brevity, I think, kind and direct. What'd you

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Speaker 1: come up with, Michael? So I have? Hey, I hope

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Speaker 1: you had a great day. I've just been thinking about

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Speaker 1: hate then I'm saying this over text, and I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: I was very good. Sent that sent it right, okay?

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Speaker 1: And did he respond? So he didn't respond until like

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Speaker 1: eleven thirty at night last night? Yeah, oh my, okay,

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Speaker 1: you want to think about it? Well, when did you

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Speaker 1: send it? I sent it like right after I left. Okay.

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Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, so he what did he say? So? Remember,

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Speaker 1: this is a guy that she thinks is too short

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Speaker 1: looking past that thirty at night when he knows that

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Speaker 1: she asleep because she works mornings. That is disrespectful. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you guys, no, no, no, no, it's mine. But she

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Speaker 1: just broke up with the guy. Need to deal with it.

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Speaker 1: And this was almost like a spy. He's working all

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Speaker 1: and by then he has to eat. Do you know him?

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Speaker 1: I don't. He talks to watch an episode of Grays Mikayla.

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Speaker 1: What did he say back? So he said, Hey, I've

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Speaker 1: taking so long. Yeah, I get it. We've barely gotten

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Speaker 1: I honestly wanted to see you every day since we

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Speaker 1: gonna miss you. Have a great time. I'll be here

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Speaker 1: So Barrett Paul is a salagamist. He is practicing salagami.

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Speaker 1: on Yelp they've ranked the best ice cream shop in

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Speaker 1: each state, and there's a winter in Orange County and

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Speaker 1: Farah from Confetti Ice on Baker and Fairview and Coasta

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Speaker 1: Mesa is on the line here Farah, good morning, how

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Speaker 1: are you? Good morning, Brian, I'm doing great. We're here

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Speaker 1: to congratulate you on your big Yelp win for the

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Speaker 1: best ice cream. Thank you so much. I can't believe

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Speaker 1: I'm on the phone with you. I listened to your

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Speaker 1: show every morning. Oh that's so exciting because we want

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Speaker 1: to get to know you and your cold treats. Oh great,

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Speaker 1: all right, so let's break this down. Confetti Italian ice

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00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 1: and custard and coast to Masa. What is that? We're

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Speaker 1: a small ice cream shop, family owned and operating my

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00:25:55,040 --> 00:26:01,280
Speaker 1: husband and myself. We offer Italian nice and frozen custard.

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00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:05,360
Speaker 1: Italian ice is a water based ice cream. Um, it's

436
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 1: like sir base and we have milk base I speak,

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00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 1: and then frozen custard, which is IgG your face. So

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00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 1: this is a local, as she said, family owned and

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00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,640
Speaker 1: operated ice cream shop, right here in our own backyard

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00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 1: and Coasta Mesa. And what makes everything so great? How

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00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:27,399
Speaker 1: do you think you won this YELP award? We use

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00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 1: high quality ingredients. Um, we have wonderful customer service. We

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00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:36,119
Speaker 1: are here all the seventies a week. We make sure

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Speaker 1: that our customers leave here happy. I like, all right now,

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00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:44,879
Speaker 1: I'm just imagining the great smell of your shop. You

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00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:49,919
Speaker 1: smell cones and you smell Yes, I'm smelling it right now.

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00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 1: That's wonderful. I usually come by and check us out.

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Speaker 1: What's the most popular flavor or combination? Would you say? Fair? Uh?

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00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 1: Our number one labor is Oreo Cookie Battery. That's shake

450
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 1: ice cream with cookie butter testures. Yes, that's the one

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00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 1: I want alright, Just became a weak human being. That

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00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 1: sounds so good. So let me tell you where this is,

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Speaker 1: Baker and Fairview and Coast to Maze. Actually you can

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Speaker 1: see on Instagram. If you go to at Confetti Ice

455
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 1: on Instagram, you can actually see what they're doing and

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Speaker 1: check it all out. Well, thank you for being the

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Speaker 1: best ice cream shop in all of California. Congratulations and

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00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:41,640
Speaker 1: good luck to a good summer. Okay, bye. I used

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Speaker 1: to love when I was a kid, we had Baskin

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00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:46,240
Speaker 1: Robbins nearby, and I used to love to go get

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00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 1: the I think it was peanut butter chocolate ice cream

462
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 1: they would have. And for my birthday cakes we get

463
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:57,080
Speaker 1: the swirl round cakes from Baskin Robbins. Ice cream cakes.

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00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 1: Always forget about ice cream cakes, ice cream hies. You

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00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 1: can't forget about ice cream cakes because after a big meal,

466
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:06,439
Speaker 1: they're soothing to the stomach. Cold cake just fluffs you up,

467
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 1: so true ice cream breaks through all that stuff. This

468
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: is big news and also kind of not surprising that

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00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 1: people are saying that being on your phone on social

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Speaker 1: media Instagram is addictive. They're actually being sued for being

471
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:23,720
Speaker 1: too addictive, and I have to say it's not even Instagram,

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00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 1: it's just messages in general. I find myself sitting and

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00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 1: grabbing my phone not even knowing, and grab my phone

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00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 1: to check and see if something came in every minute.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I think we all do it, and actually I

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Speaker 1: have to like check an email, So I go to

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00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 1: my phone and check an email, but before I even

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00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 1: get to the email, I go to Instagram. Also, what

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00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 1: am I doing? I'm walking through my house holding my phone.

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00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 1: I don't need to be carrying my phone through the house,

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Speaker 1: like I can put it down the table and come

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Speaker 1: back to it in an hour. But it seems like

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00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 1: so impossible to detach. So what's happening says he so

484
00:28:56,400 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 1: allegedly meta, which is obviously you know, Instagram, face Book.

485
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 1: They have invested billions of dollars to intentionally design their

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Speaker 1: products to be addictive and encourage the use to be problematic,

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Speaker 1: especially for young people who have such addictive personalities as

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00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 1: it is when you're young, you're so impressionable. Um. Now

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00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 1: people are coming out with these lawsuits, there's eight of

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00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 1: them in total, but it's almost like Instagram is not

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Speaker 1: even scared about these lawsuits in a weird way, because

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00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 1: there was this law that just passed here in California

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Speaker 1: that is going to allow parents to sue companies like

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Speaker 1: this if their kids, um, you know, suffered mental health

495
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: or you know, other things because of the addictiveness when

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00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 1: it comes to the social media accounts, and anybody with

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Speaker 1: kids under eighteen can seek dollars for each violation if

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Speaker 1: they can prove that their child has been addicted for

499
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 1: specific social media sites like Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, etcetera. It's

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00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 1: so interesting because something that you know, initially you think

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00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 1: it is so great and so cool and so convenient,

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Speaker 1: it can put you into I mean I know that

503
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Speaker 1: when I don't look at things or look at things

504
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:07,240
Speaker 1: or read things, my heart rate changes, Like your anxiety

505
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:09,960
Speaker 1: goes up and down. Well yeah, and so has a

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00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:14,400
Speaker 1: physical impact. Imagine like how sensitive you are as a teenager.

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00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: And we didn't grow up with Instagram, you know, it

508
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 1: didn't come out until many years and I was like

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00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: in out of college. But for a teenager to read

510
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:26,920
Speaker 1: a negative comment, that's gotta be like, it's just it

511
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 1: hurts us. And we're adults, Like I don't even know

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Speaker 1: what it was to be like. If you're a teenager,

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00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 1: I remember, you know you'd hear somebody said something about

514
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 1: you to another student, and you'd hear back and it

515
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:36,880
Speaker 1: would crush you. Yeah, and then you'd get on like

516
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 1: a three way phone call and try to like trap

517
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:40,360
Speaker 1: the person. That's what it is now, but it's not

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00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 1: they're not calling anymore. Nobody calls. That is on social media.

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00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 1: Do it all in social or there's also when you

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00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 1: do look at it, there is a dopamine release, the

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00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 1: chemical release. They deliberately adjust their algorithms so that it

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00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 1: addicts you. But like TV is addicting, Like sometimes when

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Speaker 1: I'm watching the show, like I can't stop. I think

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00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 1: you're right. Our parents said you can't watch TV past

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00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 1: such time or you can't do too much TV because

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00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: it is addictive to Well, when I was growing up,

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00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 1: we played video games, like I came home and played

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Speaker 1: Segon Genesis every day until I finally beat it. Like

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Speaker 1: that was I was addicted to that. Like could my

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Speaker 1: parents have sued Sega Genesis or Nintendo gosh Atari. I

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00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:22,479
Speaker 1: was all over a tari as a kid. I couldn't

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00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 1: stop Nintendo Super Mario all that stuff. I'm interesting to

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00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 1: see where it goes, but I will tell you I

534
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 1: do advocate putting my phone down, and I find it

535
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 1: hard because I wish you, I really wish maybe is

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00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 1: it any new iOS tubs doing stuff? I wish you

537
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:42,760
Speaker 1: could put, you know, on your email you can put

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00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:46,720
Speaker 1: sorry out of the office automatic reply. I really wish

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00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:48,880
Speaker 1: you could put an auto reflect on your text. Have

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00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 1: that already? No, I don't have a do not disturb

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00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 1: And it says that on your text like if I

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00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 1: were a text you have services. Ryan has has no

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00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 1: silent notifications on right now? Know that? Why me through it?

544
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:02,720
Speaker 1: I just had to do this to Mark talk. Okay,

545
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 1: just go go to your home screen like this and

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00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 1: then click the moon do not disturb is on the

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00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 1: home screen. Sorry, guys, you're rushing through my s right now.

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00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 1: So go to where swipe from the right the right

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00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:19,760
Speaker 1: corner diagonally, down right corner diagonally. Look at what and

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00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 1: then do you see the moon? He's never the airplane

551
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 1: is a signal? See the moon. There's a little blue

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00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 1: de leo. Okay, the moon on the moonlight. Yeah. Crescent great, okay,

553
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 1: crescent tap it, tap it? Okay. Now it says do

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00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:39,120
Speaker 1: not disturb until tomorrow. Well, then whenever you set the

555
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 1: time and you say you can have it on now,

556
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 1: have it on any time, all the time, all the

557
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 1: time if you want. That means you're not going to

558
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 1: get phone calls, so be careful. Well I don't want

559
00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: but just put it in an airplane mode and call

560
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 1: it a day. Hold on, why so will you get

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00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 1: a message It says I'm not looking if you Yeah,

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00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 1: so if I were to text you, it'll it'll show

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00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:00,040
Speaker 1: me that you have your do not disturb once and

564
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:01,840
Speaker 1: I'll be like, oh my god. So then I don't

565
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 1: know what I would do. It'll say on the bottom

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Speaker 1: it Ryan has his do not disturb like a little moon,

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00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:11,120
Speaker 1: like a little half moon. Okay, this is going to

568
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 1: be a candy land of fun from me. All right, Well,

569
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 1: how do we get off track? While we just did,

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00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:21,520
Speaker 1: we are taking this call from Rebecca. Today's sunny and

571
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 1: warmer highs in the mid eighties, about a hundred inland.

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00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 1: It's one of those drives or in the middle of

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00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 1: the day. The underneath part of your the belly of

574
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 1: your thigh, sweats perspires on the seat, and in your

575
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 1: pants sticky, and in your rear there's nothing grows soggy

576
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 1: rear Button's true. I get it though, Like sometimes I think, God,

577
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 1: I got to shower, it's been so hot today. Yeah,

578
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 1: long drive for sure. Okay, we don't get the it

579
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 1: he must get. Yeah, you know, I'm talking about guys

580
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 1: and he's I'm talking about people who sweat a lot.

581
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 1: You know, when you sweat a lot, you sweat easier. Yeah,

582
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 1: I'm a sweater. I'm a sweaty right, And Rebecca just

583
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:14,880
Speaker 1: wants to chime in on this. Rebecca, good morning, How

584
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 1: are you goods? How are you? We're sweaty? Uh? All right, listen,

585
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:25,279
Speaker 1: So you need some help with a breakup? What's going on? Yeah?

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00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:29,440
Speaker 1: So I've been with this guy for almost nine years, um,

587
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 1: and there's like a bit of an age difference, like

588
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 1: I'm thirty one and he's almost forty, um. And he

589
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 1: and I weren't sure if, like we wanted to get

590
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 1: married someday, but recently he's been like bringing it up

591
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:45,240
Speaker 1: over the past year and he's just bringing up randomly

592
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:48,320
Speaker 1: and then even mentioned wanting kids, um, And so I

593
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 1: sort of brushed him off and told him, like I'd

594
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 1: consider it next year. But then you know, it's like

595
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:56,720
Speaker 1: halfway through two and next year is just getting closer

596
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:59,879
Speaker 1: and closer and then freaking out about it. And yeah,

597
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 1: but I've been thinking about breaking up for a while,

598
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 1: but um just because like he's just the only person

599
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 1: I've had experience with, but I just want more than that.

600
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 1: Um So yeah, just how do you break up with

601
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 1: someone that you've been with for a while, that, like

602
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 1: you know, is going to be upset about it? Ye? Well,

603
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 1: everyone's going to be upset if they don't know it's coming,

604
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 1: And everyone's going to be upset, maybe even more so

605
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 1: if you drag it out. Yeah, because he's getting older

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00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:31,879
Speaker 1: and he wants marriage and kids eventually. Right, Yes, that's

607
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:37,839
Speaker 1: totally it. Yeah, so you really have to get through

608
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 1: everything that's on your mind deliberately and directly with some heart.

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00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:48,840
Speaker 1: Because it's been nine years together. That's scary. I'm scared

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00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:52,239
Speaker 1: for all of us. You gave him your twenties and

611
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:55,640
Speaker 1: he gave you his thirties, and now you're just gonna

612
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:59,719
Speaker 1: rip the band aid off? Did we say? Why? Why

613
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:01,399
Speaker 1: do you want to break up? Rebecca? The only guy

614
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:04,840
Speaker 1: she's been with. She wants to explore. Grass is always

615
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:06,880
Speaker 1: greener though, Rebecca. Yeah, let me tell you, Once you

616
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 1: explore these seas, there's a lot of flopping fish, and

617
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 1: a lot of conk, not a lot of not a

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00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 1: lot of and the seeds of prime rip. I really

619
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:20,479
Speaker 1: want to get inside your head, get inside that water

620
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 1: that's producing prime rip. Very interesting to me. I'm just saying,

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00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:31,439
Speaker 1: I don't know, Rebecca, listen. Only advice is make sure listen.

622
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:33,680
Speaker 1: If the universe is dragging you towards this, then it's

623
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 1: the right thing to do. But you gotta go sit down.

624
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:39,280
Speaker 1: Look I too, I be totally honest. One can't fault

625
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:42,839
Speaker 1: your honesty. They can't. It's the way you feel, it's

626
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 1: the way you are, it is your honest opinion. It

627
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:48,560
Speaker 1: is transparent. It's gonna hurt, it's gonna be tough, it's

628
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 1: gonna be sore, it's gonna be all those things. But

629
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:53,640
Speaker 1: at some point, if you don't do it this, you're

630
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 1: gonna fester inside of you, right right. Yeah, it's literally

631
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 1: gotten worse lately, so you're so right. God think it

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Speaker 1: will continue to build like that, which becomes toxic. So,

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Speaker 1: Rebecca's going to be a tough conversation, but one it

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Speaker 1: sounds like you're ready to have good luck. Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much, appreciate it, good bye bye, good luck Prime

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Speaker 1: rib in the sea? Yeah, take me there. Well, I

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Speaker 1: was just kind of trying to like make a parallel

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Speaker 1: between conk like floppy fish and what's like the best

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Speaker 1: thing you could eat, like prime rip. Since we're in

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Speaker 1: the ocean, we should make a toro tuna, right, It's

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Speaker 1: like there's a lot of conk, but it's hard to

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Speaker 1: find toro tuna fat belly tuna. So I can't get

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Speaker 1: there and I can't get there as fast as But

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Speaker 1: lobster is nice. Why would you go prime rib like

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Speaker 1: I would go lobster of the sea And it's lobster Day.

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Speaker 1: I just told you, Actually, lobster Day should be. My

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Speaker 1: brain doesn't work that fast. Just let me call all

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Speaker 1: start with some of that. And I think about prime

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Speaker 1: rib because I always think about my boyfriend cutting like

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Speaker 1: it does he does? Your boyfriend, Robbie, Is he like

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Speaker 1: prime Yeah? Yeah, yeah, he's a really like red love

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Speaker 1: cut it with his hot hand. Okay, these hands are

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Speaker 1: not that hot. Yes they are. They're average. I mean

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Speaker 1: they're just normal hands. First of all, they're not they're

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Speaker 1: above average. I shook it. It's normal. No, yes, no,

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Speaker 1: I've seen them. They're normal. They're totally average. You know

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Speaker 1: who has hot feet is Ryan? Thank you? You do

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Speaker 1: like when you hear compared feet you have you have

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Speaker 1: above average feet for sure. But this is a very

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Speaker 1: good conversation because we have something feature above average. I

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Speaker 1: just had my U done. Oh I went to one

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Speaker 1: of those pedare places where you gotta sit in the

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Speaker 1: chair forever that's all over them are. It's not a special.

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Speaker 1: One is like a lounge chair and a lazy boy.

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Speaker 1: I'm sitting back. Would you like for me to rub

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Speaker 1: your shoulders while you're getting a manicure? I'm like absolutely,

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Speaker 1: And then he tells me how am I doing, and

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Speaker 1: like you're great? And then he's like a dollar per minute, right,

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Speaker 1: And then I can read everybody's phone because those armchairs

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Speaker 1: are long. You can see everybody's what they're looking at

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Speaker 1: while they're getting the medicure in patticker. Well that you

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Speaker 1: probably shouldn't do, but okay, all right with Ryan Secrets.

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Speaker 1: So the other night I actually went to go see

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Speaker 1: the premiere of Jennifer Lopez. I saw you on the

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Speaker 1: right side on the carpet too, and that's fine. Do

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Speaker 1: you really like this dreading report was on the carpet

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Speaker 1: in a picture. Someone from Sister Station New York interviewed

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Speaker 1: you you or you made her real? Yeah, I saw

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Speaker 1: photos of you on the carpet on Just Jared Great.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I went to see the movie and I

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Speaker 1: sat on the row with Jennifer's mom sister, and then

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Speaker 1: Jen Jen came and afterwards we had dinner and it

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Speaker 1: was a really great night. And it was vulnerable, it

684
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Speaker 1: was candid, it was strong. It was amazing to see

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Speaker 1: some of the things, specially about the halftime show at

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Speaker 1: the super Bowl, that we didn't know about. You're gonna

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Speaker 1: love the documentary, Okay, So I'm curious to hear your

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Speaker 1: thoughts on this because people are fans are a little

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Speaker 1: bit divided over what j Lo opened up about um

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Speaker 1: in regard to the super Bowl halftime show and sharing

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Speaker 1: it specifically with Shakira, and she said it was the

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Speaker 1: worst idea in the world. So she admitted that in

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Speaker 1: her in the Netflix documentary Halftime, she wasn't too pleased

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Speaker 1: with the NFL's decision to have her and Shakira take

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Speaker 1: the stage together. She was saying how the twelve minutes

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Speaker 1: wasn't enough time and that they should have had twenty,

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Speaker 1: like a twenty minute time slot so that they both

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Speaker 1: could truly headline, because when you divide the twelve minutes,

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Speaker 1: it's like six minutes a piece and you can't really

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Speaker 1: do all. Yeah. And honestly, I'm with Jen on this

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Speaker 1: one because I feel like, why can't one woman be

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Speaker 1: enough to hold a show? And was, hey, why if

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Speaker 1: you're going to have a woman women headline, why can't

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Speaker 1: it be a singular one of us or give us

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Speaker 1: enough time to create what we want to create as

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Speaker 1: singular performers and then of course come together as one.

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Speaker 1: So I think it was a challenge for both of

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Speaker 1: them in their mind and in hindsight, she probably wanted

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Speaker 1: to do it, but it's happened before they had Lady Gaga. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm not it's not it's not that,

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Speaker 1: it's just the NFL doesn't do whatever. They've had Lady Gaga,

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Speaker 1: they've had Katie Perry be soul female headliners, but still

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Speaker 1: these are two that they don't do it with men.

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Speaker 1: There's not two men headliners. And it's like this was

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Speaker 1: season with The Bachelorette. There's two bachelrettes this season. They've

716
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Speaker 1: never had two bachelors like, why one woman can't command

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Speaker 1: the show. It has to there has to be two

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Speaker 1: female leads, like one can't do it on her own.

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Speaker 1: I just think there's this double standard and I'm with

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Speaker 1: j Lo. I'm over it and I'm off my soapbox.

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Speaker 1: But so when you see the movie, when you see

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Speaker 1: the documentary, you will see her very candid and direct

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Speaker 1: conversation with some of the people at the NFL about

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Speaker 1: how challenging it was and the time. I guess the

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Speaker 1: time that they were there was the time was chipping away.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't enough time to create. Although I mean it

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Speaker 1: came out well, we loved it, yeah, of course, But

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Speaker 1: it is interesting that they decided for Shakira and j

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Speaker 1: Loo to share the stage when in reality they had

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Speaker 1: done in the past before with Gaga and Katy Perry

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Speaker 1: having their own Like, so, why couldn't they decide that

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Speaker 1: they each one of them? Was it because it was

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Speaker 1: in Miami and they wanted a Latin act and they

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Speaker 1: couldn't decide between the two or I don't know, you know.

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Speaker 1: The other thing you'll see in this documentary is obviously

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Speaker 1: she works hard. She's very focused on her career. It's

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Speaker 1: pretty I I told her after that, go, I am like,

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Speaker 1: am I feel inadequate in terms of work and focus?

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Speaker 1: And you inspired me a little bit to get fired

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Speaker 1: up to push harder to do more. But you also

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Speaker 1: see this side of her that's a great mom. I mean,

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Speaker 1: she's really magical with her kids. Yeah, she's a twin

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Speaker 1: mom and those kids are sort of her everything and

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Speaker 1: she you see how you know, those most special moments

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Speaker 1: are with her and her kids. So when is it out?

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Speaker 1: It's out now. It came out Tuesday on Netflix with

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Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest. Yeah, tomorrow, we're back with some Ryan's roses.

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Speaker 1: Make sure you're here for that. Sysney's got you, Till Levin,

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Speaker 1: thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make

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Speaker 1: sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow