Speaker 1: What's up this lip service? I'm the Antela yee, I'm
Speaker 1: g McGuire, I'm I'm Jasmine brand I'm her feet not
Speaker 1: touching the grandma whatever. Alright, First of all, we found
Speaker 1: out today that you signed a deal. Okay, congratulations on that.
Speaker 1: Shairs to that. We have a bottle of domp for you. Yes,
Speaker 1: we get it. Okay, bottle. Maybe you want to pop
Speaker 1: it or you want to pop it. I feel like
Speaker 1: you want to pop your on bottle. All right, let's see.
Speaker 1: Have you popped a bottle before? Oh yeah, okay, pointed
Speaker 1: at Jasmine. Yeah, just be careful, all right, pointed that
Speaker 1: way or something to that guy in the maroon. The
Speaker 1: only part of I know, I was just looking at
Speaker 1: maybe let gig like Jasmine trust to be sitting right
Speaker 1: next door. But congratulations that we we just found it out.
Speaker 1: So um, while we popped this bottle, how are you feeling?
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like that. Okay, that's how
Speaker 1: you feel. That's good luck. That's good luck. That's good luck.
Speaker 1: Would be a great Can we get some napkins? Okay?
Speaker 1: Hold up, we got some. We got some. There we go.
Speaker 1: So how are you feeling? I feel good? Um, I
Speaker 1: feel blood for the most part. Okay, I just know
Speaker 1: that from today on is still the days before work.
Speaker 1: I just gotta work. So what was that process like
Speaker 1: for you? Walk us through it, like just even figuring out,
Speaker 1: like where you wanted to sign, how many labels were
Speaker 1: coming at you led into that decision. It was a
Speaker 1: It was a couple of labels. I had a couple
Speaker 1: of meetings, but when I got to Aristo, it just
Speaker 1: felt like home. And the main thing that I could
Speaker 1: remember them saying to me was we love everything about you.
Speaker 1: Like they didn't want to change anything about me any time.
Speaker 1: Like if I stepped in the room, it would just
Speaker 1: be at least one thing about me that they'd be like, Oh,
Speaker 1: we have to juice this up. We'll fix it, or
Speaker 1: you know, I think you should be this way. They
Speaker 1: was like, no, girl, you already a star. We love
Speaker 1: everything about you. We just want to be here to help.
Speaker 1: What were some of the things that they were other
Speaker 1: labels was saying they need to fix or change or tweak.
Speaker 1: The main thing they say is I don't see it.
Speaker 1: Oh that's aggressive. Yeah, they'd be like, I don't see it. Um, Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's she's cool. Thank you I know. I don't like
Speaker 1: to say when you come in the room, like just
Speaker 1: like oh my gosh, okay, you're like, hey, what's up?
Speaker 1: She literally packed up. Yeah, but yeah, they would say
Speaker 1: that I'm too aggressive. But I'm from Brooklyn, so like
Speaker 1: even when she said Brooklyn, they get aggressive. And for Brooklyn,
Speaker 1: she said, very strong. But you know people from Brooklyn,
Speaker 1: like everywhere you go, somebody's from Brooklyn. When you go,
Speaker 1: we let you know, we let you know. And then
Speaker 1: it didn't even got to be a New York thing. No,
Speaker 1: I'm from Brooklyn. Period. Yeah, it's not. It's not the city,
Speaker 1: it's not, it's the borough Lyn congratulations, lady. We don't
Speaker 1: do dump for everybody. Know what I'm saying this that
Speaker 1: zone zone. Yes, so I know that before everybody else knows,
Speaker 1: you know what's going on, Like you knew you was
Speaker 1: how long did you know about this deal before the
Speaker 1: public knew? Mm hmmm, spit it out, Lola. I literally
Speaker 1: got the same pigtails. I mean, I knew it was
Speaker 1: it was coming up though, of course, like it's been
Speaker 1: some time. I've been working this working time, but I
Speaker 1: finally sat down and signed the papers with these pig
Speaker 1: tails ship's signing papers. Baby, yeah, um, just my team
Speaker 1: Team eight and Arista my Arista team. That's it. And
Speaker 1: me what about the guy that you'd be talking about
Speaker 1: in your tweets that ain't ship? What I said, let's
Speaker 1: go to the tweets. Yeah, because alright exhibit Yes, we
Speaker 1: got some tweets here. Alright at Little Brooks. Your man
Speaker 1: always want to show a lot of people that don't
Speaker 1: give a funk about him. Then you'll be looking like
Speaker 1: the problem for keeping it a buck. This ain't about
Speaker 1: me right now? Words from a manipulator. I'm two percent
Speaker 1: or whatever the funk that is? Oh man, everything I
Speaker 1: mean that ship look wherever he at, he ain't with me?
Speaker 1: All right? Two At Lola brook I've got trust issues,
Speaker 1: real bad, real bad. I do I do, But I
Speaker 1: mean body, I ain't just talk about Okay, that's everything, right, yeah,
Speaker 1: everything about things? Yeah, I'm paranoid, Like why is that?
Speaker 1: What's happened to Lola? People would say they do something,
Speaker 1: don't do it, or people would just be manipulated and
Speaker 1: just lied to you for no reason. And I'm straightforward,
Speaker 1: see me, you could tell me anything, even if it's
Speaker 1: like real real bad, handle it. It is what it is.
Speaker 1: I'd rather you hurt my feelings at that very moment
Speaker 1: that my feelings get hurt afterwards, because then I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be thinking about that moment back to back flashbacks when
Speaker 1: you could have just told me I don't want to
Speaker 1: have flashbacks the other flashbacksbacks like is this in terms
Speaker 1: of a man or just in general, like friendships, um,
Speaker 1: family issues. Like you would think that family is there
Speaker 1: to protect you, but normally when they feel like you
Speaker 1: got to some certain success, they talk about you or
Speaker 1: this could be happening or she's doing this, and it's like, so,
Speaker 1: why you won't pick up your phone to call me
Speaker 1: and act if I was okay? Yeah. I feel like
Speaker 1: no matter what kind of relationship, whether it's lovers, family, friends, like,
Speaker 1: just tell me the truth, keeping the box so I
Speaker 1: can make my choice on how I want to react, Right,
Speaker 1: And that's it. That's a good point. It is only
Speaker 1: gonna get worse. It's about the value about to be termed.
Speaker 1: Is gonna be hiding. I feel like you owe them something.
Speaker 1: There's going to be people around for the wrong reasons.
Speaker 1: It's going to be people that you tell them yes
Speaker 1: a thousand times you tell them no ones all of
Speaker 1: sending you the worst person in the world. I already
Speaker 1: told him don't call my phone until I changed my
Speaker 1: mother address first. All right, So, like this is exciting
Speaker 1: to me because you're from Brooklyn. I'm from Brooklyn. So
Speaker 1: let's talk about where you grew up and everything, where
Speaker 1: you went to school. I want to know all these details.
Speaker 1: You want to how far how far back you want
Speaker 1: to from the beginning where you Okay, okay, so my
Speaker 1: sandboxes in Tomkins Park. Okay, that's right bout me. I
Speaker 1: live in Bestid. She knows, she knows a lot about Brooklyn. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so Tomkins Park, they used to have mad shows in
Speaker 1: there and everything. I went to the after school program
Speaker 1: in Tomkins Park as well. I went to elementary school
Speaker 1: to fifty six across the street from Mossy Pool. Um
Speaker 1: where you arts in school? Were you into the arts
Speaker 1: and stuff? Yeah for sure. Yeah. Where you're like at
Speaker 1: first in line when you had to line up, always first.
Speaker 1: So I was always first to that's because where you,
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's a short thing. Somebody was the
Speaker 1: same side. That's me. I would be like, hey, listen,
Speaker 1: I'm in front. That's like we don't play with front.
Speaker 1: I went to boy I graduated from Boys and Girls. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's a talented creative school. What come on now, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I heard. I heard that Boys and Girl.
Speaker 1: I heard it was a little rough back, really wrong.
Speaker 1: She tried to make it sound the world just like
Speaker 1: it was rough back in the day. And my mistaken.
Speaker 1: It's rough and there still my mom and I told
Speaker 1: me it was a girl. My mom even told me
Speaker 1: it was rough, like all generations say, it's roughly, my
Speaker 1: mama to Erasmus, So where is that? Okay? I don't
Speaker 1: know Flatbush that well, that school is huge too, okay,
Speaker 1: so go on. So okay, oh I want to um
Speaker 1: ms one thirteen. That's claims. Okay, that's you in high school.
Speaker 1: And yeah, I grew up around tomkas Park went. Did
Speaker 1: you and you always knew you wanted to be an artist? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I always knew I wanted to be an entertainer for sure,
Speaker 1: Like always, I just always felt that inside of me.
Speaker 1: When I went to school, I did step for like
Speaker 1: I just wanted to be on stage. I literally went
Speaker 1: to go do step and try to be a cheerleader
Speaker 1: just to be on stage for one time. I went
Speaker 1: on stage one time doing step and I was out
Speaker 1: Why I just wanted to be on stage at one time?
Speaker 1: How did you know you wanted to be a start
Speaker 1: when you were little? Did were you always trying to
Speaker 1: perform or get into How did you know this is
Speaker 1: always in you? When I was like seven eight years old,
Speaker 1: I used to always fantasize about me being on the
Speaker 1: lunch room tables, jumping at lunchroom table to lunch room table,
Speaker 1: and all the kids like cheering me on. Yeah, liked
Speaker 1: did you have a pole? Did you have another name
Speaker 1: before it's always been Lola Broke? Yeah? And then who
Speaker 1: did you grow up with in the house? Just me
Speaker 1: and my mom? Just to tell your only child, only child? Well, damn,
Speaker 1: only child, that's probably children a little crazy, only children
Speaker 1: a little crazy. But I'm but I'm my mother's only child.
Speaker 1: And maybe that's why I'm off and I'm a little off. Yeah, No,
Speaker 1: you're definitely off. I am. I'm definitely off. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: that may be okay, that explains her being creative and
Speaker 1: anybody had imaginary friends and ship. I thought that ship
Speaker 1: was real. I said, come on, you gotta see something.
Speaker 1: I ain't never see nothing. Though shap I did play
Speaker 1: with myself a lot and looking to mirror a lot,
Speaker 1: talk to myself a lot. The family dynamic outside of
Speaker 1: just you and your mom. Do you have a lot
Speaker 1: of cousins? Was there? Yeah? A lot of family members around. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Always like I would hate to go home. I will
Speaker 1: always want to go to grandma house because my cousins.
Speaker 1: I'm like, come on, even on Sundays, I'd be like, Grandpa,
Speaker 1: just take me to school tomorrow, Great Grandpa, stay tonight
Speaker 1: to stay to nine. I don't want to go home.
Speaker 1: And they used to hurt MoMA feeling a little baby. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Jasmine child, don't even really know her like that. Shut up.
Speaker 1: That's first of all, and just sold mean to me
Speaker 1: about being a mom. I'm a new mom and and
Speaker 1: has all the jazz and all the jokes. Yes, I've
Speaker 1: been telling her bring the baby with you because she
Speaker 1: lived in d C. How old is one? You can't
Speaker 1: be carrying Jasmine already? Shut up. She's such an asshole. Anyway,
Speaker 1: whatever I kids I'm gonna have, I was gonna bring them.
Speaker 1: You'll be thinking about that already. Please don't wait. I'm
Speaker 1: the only child, so it's like I'm on my own family.
Speaker 1: I feel like you think you want if I get
Speaker 1: beyond jay Z money, I'm going with a bank or
Speaker 1: get like six what kind of guy you like? Like,
Speaker 1: who do you envision as the father? Now? Who do
Speaker 1: you envision? She got somebody you definitely No, I really don't.
Speaker 1: You're gonna like Okay, So if you could like say, okay,
Speaker 1: the father is gonna be somebody like this, give us
Speaker 1: a comment like the fake stuff such and such build
Speaker 1: a man. They don't really have to be no fame involved,
Speaker 1: as long as the characteristic. Yeah, like, as long as
Speaker 1: he knows how to protect me, as long as he
Speaker 1: a provada, as long as he affectionate and a family man.
Speaker 1: I'm straight, he ain't pussy. I'm straight. No, I ain't
Speaker 1: gotta be from Brooklyn. Okay. At first I used to
Speaker 1: be like, he gotta be from New York? But nah,
Speaker 1: what's that? What do you think? It is the worst
Speaker 1: borough for guys? She's like, I don't want to put
Speaker 1: my fan base? Yeah, I know, good answer. Bronx the best,
Speaker 1: the worst, the worst, The Bronx, the Bronx, Yes, the
Speaker 1: Bronx the best boroughs for dating for in my opinions,
Speaker 1: my my opinion. I'm from New York, born and raised
Speaker 1: in New York. I was born in ma Sign nine
Speaker 1: fifth Avenue and ninety nine Street. And for me, the
Speaker 1: best guys are from Queens and like Brooklyn. You can
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, um Long Island because they
Speaker 1: always got a car because they look so far you
Speaker 1: know what. I'm man that doesn't have a car. Yeah, ok, yeah,
Speaker 1: but they people don't. Yes, I forgot where I am
Speaker 1: and then and then Manhattan, but like not up town Manhattan,
Speaker 1: the Harlem and down, Harleman down was down because I
Speaker 1: don't know it was from Yeah, I'm from Chelsea. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm from the che projects from yeah way brothers. The
Speaker 1: many people, so many famous people from Chelsea Projects. It's
Speaker 1: something you tweeted. You asked a question about where the
Speaker 1: best guys Where the best guys are from the South one,
Speaker 1: the South one. Have you dated a guy from the South, No,
Speaker 1: we should all date a guy from the South. No,
Speaker 1: but you really I'm dated guys from the South, and
Speaker 1: I have to say they have the best mannerisms. They
Speaker 1: treat women really well, even when they're ready to move on.
Speaker 1: They do it the right way. The pole, the Pole
Speaker 1: was correct. The East a second from Pelfia, born and raised.
Speaker 1: I lived here for a while. You think I currently
Speaker 1: live in Atlanta, And I will say that I like SOUTHERNIL.
Speaker 1: But I've been saying this, I have too many options.
Speaker 1: There's too many women down there. Because there's too many
Speaker 1: women women looking for a man in the South. When
Speaker 1: looking for a family man, we all look for the
Speaker 1: same thing. Girls. So but look how you're You're so young?
Speaker 1: How old are you? Jay said, I'm thirty two, but
Speaker 1: you're not your twenties. Yeah, I'm got a birthday coming
Speaker 1: up to February one, still ain't turning thirty thirty too?
Speaker 1: Because Tom to cut it out, she's looking for first
Speaker 1: of all, she's going to be working on her birthday.
Speaker 1: She's looking for an outfit to wear. Where did you
Speaker 1: hear all that already? Before? We'll be going a chat?
Speaker 1: Are you single? Yes? Like that? How long you've been?
Speaker 1: I'm excited about this single because this is a great
Speaker 1: time for um, like two years? Okay, damn, that's not year? Yeah,
Speaker 1: not too long, not too short. But when you're saying
Speaker 1: are you but you've been, you've still been dealing with
Speaker 1: you haven't experience you've been dating, dating, You've been you know,
Speaker 1: experience in life. Um, I'm celibate though for how long?
Speaker 1: A year and six months? She knows it down to
Speaker 1: the day. Something to keep in saying, what are you
Speaker 1: gonna end this? What keeps me saying? What inspired you
Speaker 1: to become celibate and what is it gonna take for
Speaker 1: you to stop being celibate? What inspired me was I
Speaker 1: was in a relationship for a little minute, and after
Speaker 1: a while, I was like, man, I could go without it.
Speaker 1: Like you know, when you clock out, you already clocked out.
Speaker 1: I went to the same thing, so I've been clocked out.
Speaker 1: So I'm saying I'm around this, well fucking I'm still like,
Speaker 1: keep it to myself. Oh I don't really need it,
Speaker 1: saying I'm just focus on There's nothing worse than being
Speaker 1: in a relationship and feeling like you lonelier than if
Speaker 1: you wasn't. Oh my god, for having a man and
Speaker 1: having to go masterbate you gotta lay next to somebody
Speaker 1: and be Like I went through all of this, I
Speaker 1: was at the point where I just felt like, why
Speaker 1: am I in a relationship? Like I'm not what I need.
Speaker 1: If I'm gonna do bad bad because somebody could be
Speaker 1: so happy just to say they're in a relationship, don't
Speaker 1: matter that it's sucked up. Don't know, I can't. I
Speaker 1: know he mad now though that no man now so
Speaker 1: has to each other to reach out to you. Did
Speaker 1: he say congratulations? See, yeah, of course. But see the
Speaker 1: thing is with him, the last one, he is, he cool,
Speaker 1: like we still we cool, Like it wasn't bad blood.
Speaker 1: I just had to let him know, like, look, listen,
Speaker 1: I gotta focus on my career. You focus on what
Speaker 1: you need to and that's it. If it come back,
Speaker 1: it comes back. But if it don't, just know I
Speaker 1: still gotta love you. And there's no bad blood. Did
Speaker 1: you buy over buying a gift like when you start
Speaker 1: making big checks? No, I ain't. I ain't no fun No,
Speaker 1: but say what I can't say. I still like make
Speaker 1: sure that they were straight, though, because like what that
Speaker 1: mean the person, the person I still like tapped in
Speaker 1: and made sure that my conscious could sleep at night
Speaker 1: because we don't have no bad blood. We didn't separate
Speaker 1: on a bad note. So it's like, yo, you're still
Speaker 1: my friend at the end of the day. He was
Speaker 1: my friend before he was my man. You wonna be
Speaker 1: my friend? Yeah? Did you try to get you back?
Speaker 1: Of course? Yeah? Man? What was the problems? Was it
Speaker 1: really just wanted to focus on your career or was
Speaker 1: he doing other things that I felt like I had
Speaker 1: to be the bigger person to understand, like we're both
Speaker 1: in the way of our growth. We're not growing together,
Speaker 1: Like we're both in a way of our growth. Like
Speaker 1: I gotta spread my wings. You gotta spread your wings.
Speaker 1: That's very much in love. And what was his response?
Speaker 1: It was in love? But at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: who are we're working for. I'm trying to have a family,
Speaker 1: Like what I'm gonna tell my kids? What was his
Speaker 1: response that he understand where he was coming from. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like a rebuttal or negative like he understood, but it
Speaker 1: still went over his head, like you know, he's still
Speaker 1: like double back, Like no, we could still we already
Speaker 1: tried that already when I have a quick question and
Speaker 1: then we could get right back to yours. So during
Speaker 1: when a person is celibate, right, is getting your pussy
Speaker 1: a breaking the celibacy? Is it? What do you think? Yeah?
Speaker 1: You you answer this, I think something my ship? So
Speaker 1: you got a dollar back on the date takes a few.
Speaker 1: We had this conversation yesterday when we were asking each
Speaker 1: other about the rules of celibacy and like what the
Speaker 1: terms are, because Angela was saying like something about a
Speaker 1: time frame, right, yeah, because people like having like a
Speaker 1: week and they'd be like, I'm but you got But
Speaker 1: you made the decision consciously, made the decision that you
Speaker 1: want to be celibate, and you started, so you're a
Speaker 1: weak into celibacy and celibacy you don't have a decision.
Speaker 1: It's not a decision that you made. So you're still
Speaker 1: going to masturbate. But oral is having sex. But but, but,
Speaker 1: but if it's not penetration, it's not the c you
Speaker 1: if you if you still masturbate, you catch your nuts. Okay,
Speaker 1: So if so, if you a man and your man
Speaker 1: eat another girl pussy, he not cheating. Cheating Like I
Speaker 1: take thirty days off, the creation is breaking the Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's breaking the seal. The same for me, I feel
Speaker 1: like if you haven't been, yeah, I feel like I chose.
Speaker 1: I don't like I made a choice in my life
Speaker 1: that I don't want to just give my body because
Speaker 1: I'm horny or you know, just give my body away
Speaker 1: because I'm having fun or I'm drunk or something like that.
Speaker 1: So I've decided to not have sex right now. Let
Speaker 1: me ask you what I'm getting my pussy eight? What
Speaker 1: about You know I'm not celibate? Yeah, I feel like
Speaker 1: I'm I decided I decided to be to stop giving
Speaker 1: because I didn't call it celibacy. I feel like I'm
Speaker 1: tired of men taken from me. You're tired of me? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I feel like. You know, the guys that I'm with,
Speaker 1: we have a great time, and I know that they
Speaker 1: care about me, and you know, um, even one is
Speaker 1: madly in love with me. You know, when it's not
Speaker 1: an official relationship or friends of benefits type of things,
Speaker 1: and when somebody's having sex with you and having sex
Speaker 1: with other what other people? I feel like it kind
Speaker 1: of messes with your your soul. You're having sex with
Speaker 1: other people too. Are just one person? No? Just me?
Speaker 1: You know I'm an idiot. I'll have sex with the
Speaker 1: same person and they'll treat me like I mean, they'll
Speaker 1: buy me nice things and take me on to nice places.
Speaker 1: But you know, there's other ways you can treat somebody bad.
Speaker 1: So you know, when I decided to to stop giving
Speaker 1: my body away when we wasn't when we were in
Speaker 1: l A. That was years you know, July, right before
Speaker 1: my mother passed. Yes, I decided that I don't want
Speaker 1: to give my body do your way for fun, you know,
Speaker 1: I want to feel the about six seven months. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but well but I ask my pussy every now, every
Speaker 1: every Tuesday and Wednesday Tuesday. And that's about having sex
Speaker 1: just so giving out no need to know? Just for fun?
Speaker 1: Are you fund is different? I said, just for fun? Okay, fun,
Speaker 1: but it can't just be for fun in the O
Speaker 1: somebody you really care about, that's your friend, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And you enjoy each other, so you
Speaker 1: might or yes, or your ex boyfriend or even somebody
Speaker 1: who you who you feel is your man. But he
Speaker 1: the people you know what I'm saying. He won't admit
Speaker 1: it to you, but he's doing it. And you know,
Speaker 1: have you ever cheated? No? What would so you have
Speaker 1: never cheated? Not dead, never cheated? I what would it
Speaker 1: take for you to end this celibacy um spell that
Speaker 1: you're on? Nick Nickel want it? But you didn't have
Speaker 1: some head. Now it wasn't it wasn't the Yeah, but
Speaker 1: he ain't he ain't on Shipka, he ain't he ain't
Speaker 1: he ain't make me fall in line? Ship, make you
Speaker 1: fall in line? Yes, gotta make me fool. That is
Speaker 1: too though. Some guys will let you walk all over them.
Speaker 1: They really will. We'll just let you do whatever you
Speaker 1: want to get. They will let you walk all over
Speaker 1: them in some high six inch platform. Christian Lubertin's select
Speaker 1: about some different over there to having somebody like what
Speaker 1: do you like for a guy to tell you like
Speaker 1: you like for a guy he gotta check you every
Speaker 1: now and then because you're gonna yeah, like ship with
Speaker 1: my phone out there. I feel the same way I
Speaker 1: want to man to to have me fall in line,
Speaker 1: like sit down, okay, like if it's an example, like
Speaker 1: when I'm wrong, let me know I'm wrong, you know,
Speaker 1: be affectionate, tell me that, tell me you love me.
Speaker 1: Tell me I did a good job. I'm outside, I'm
Speaker 1: worked it right now after this better throwing me a
Speaker 1: good job, good job at work. So I'm gonna have
Speaker 1: you know, like stuff like that. I got bad um
Speaker 1: you're bad ready for you, your milk bad ready for you?
Speaker 1: And yeah, like I want I want a romantic guy.
Speaker 1: What if you have more than him, what do you mean? Like?
Speaker 1: What if you just have more like financially success? Does
Speaker 1: that matter to you? No? Hell no, I don't mean
Speaker 1: anything to me. It depends on how I feel to
Speaker 1: make me feel a certain way. And everybody. It's a
Speaker 1: lot of men out here that got money that's rich
Speaker 1: and can't make you feel special and their cornballs because
Speaker 1: they're feel busy passing it around to spreading it. Then
Speaker 1: right they spreading that Brisshow good looks matter? Like what
Speaker 1: if you could tell me like the things that are
Speaker 1: important to you? Um? I like dark skin men? Do say?
Speaker 1: Do say my body? Dark skin men are certain like
Speaker 1: he when he woke in the room. He gotta be
Speaker 1: like he know he that he gotta does. He gotta
Speaker 1: be funny. You gotta make me laugh because you also
Speaker 1: have a really bubbly, like you know, fun personality. So
Speaker 1: he has to match that. He has to match that
Speaker 1: and be open to a lot of things like you know,
Speaker 1: just be what about age limit? What how willing? How
Speaker 1: old are you larious? I've never went that. I never
Speaker 1: went that. What's the oldest you you dated? I ain't
Speaker 1: go past thirty? So is that your cap is thirty
Speaker 1: your cap and I could do thirty five? What's the
Speaker 1: youngest you have? Seven? The youngest? He gotta be a
Speaker 1: club with you. Yeah, that's the thirties five. Yeah, he
Speaker 1: just got What about kids? What if it? Does that
Speaker 1: matter if he has kids? See, this is the thing.
Speaker 1: See with me, I'm really not big on the guys
Speaker 1: having kids kids because kids come with baby mama. But
Speaker 1: drama thing about that is recently, I'm like, it might
Speaker 1: come on you. It's getting a little crazy now you
Speaker 1: might not find that. I feel like the older you get,
Speaker 1: the more like. Yeah, so as long as I know
Speaker 1: that he take kids kids, Like it's times like I've
Speaker 1: dealt with a guy and he had he had is
Speaker 1: And the first thing I think about is you got
Speaker 1: a room for him in your home? Is the room completed? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Like I care about stuff like that because what if
Speaker 1: you know, we really get there to where we need
Speaker 1: to be and I'm we're about to have a baby.
Speaker 1: I need to know that you're gonna be a deaf child. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But if oh no, angel right now, right now? And
Speaker 1: so no, okay, what's the what's the minimum height he has?
Speaker 1: Top off? Okay, that's that's fair. That's yeah, you would
Speaker 1: look good. You know he would still no, no, because
Speaker 1: when she put her heels on then she would be
Speaker 1: what about crazy? What about dick? Can he have medium
Speaker 1: or do you need like extra big dick or medium size?
Speaker 1: I need medium. I don't want to enjoy. I don't
Speaker 1: want to be hurt. What about like a really tall
Speaker 1: man like the six five? Never dated a guy like
Speaker 1: did you see could you see that though? I could
Speaker 1: see that though? I see that that because you can
Speaker 1: set the thick standing up, like you have to put
Speaker 1: her head down. Yeah, like you could just like walk
Speaker 1: up with you up. You just walked straight up. You
Speaker 1: just walk straight up to it. Crazy? What did your
Speaker 1: mom teach you like growing up? You know, living in
Speaker 1: the house with your mom. Did she give you like
Speaker 1: a sex talk when you were younger to teach you
Speaker 1: about the birds and the bees? No? Did she ever
Speaker 1: find out or how did she found out that actually
Speaker 1: lost her virginity? She told you, you told her. But
Speaker 1: what's so crazy is I was I was already out
Speaker 1: with my with my own boyfriend sucking. I was already fucking.
Speaker 1: But I told her when I wanted to sell, I
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, we finally, you know, how does she react?
Speaker 1: She just cringed. She was like, what are you guys
Speaker 1: like friends or what's your relationship? Like she's my best friend.
Speaker 1: I pay for that for Jasmine. Do you know what
Speaker 1: that's a nine and the nine? Yeah, me and my
Speaker 1: mom my best friends growing up. Um. I finally got
Speaker 1: to hear her say something like he was having a
Speaker 1: regular conversation, and she was like, I just wish I
Speaker 1: I took more time to spend with you. And I
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, because growing up, I'm only doing this
Speaker 1: music stuff because I felt lonely, so I needed something.
Speaker 1: I needed a Yeah, you was never home. She was right,
Speaker 1: but I knew she loved me, Like when she came home,
Speaker 1: how she catered to me. I knew she loved me.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm sure she was doing the best she could. Yea,
Speaker 1: the best. You do your thing? You are you out
Speaker 1: here winning? I hated here's what you hated everything in life. Okay,
Speaker 1: we're gonna make sure a little jazz and brand got
Speaker 1: what she needs. Period. Let's talking about when you did
Speaker 1: lose your virginity. Was it a good experience or do
Speaker 1: you remember like everything about it? Yeah? I do. It
Speaker 1: was It was kind of crazy because like for it
Speaker 1: to be the first time, it sucked me like I
Speaker 1: was like I was out here fucking first time, a
Speaker 1: little crazy. But this little motherfucker he geared me up
Speaker 1: like it was days before, like hed gear me up,
Speaker 1: like we wouldn't really do it through it, like he'd
Speaker 1: just do like you're pretty eat me out about me here,
Speaker 1: like days and two he was warming you up and
Speaker 1: then he's lost my virginity. Like we would have like
Speaker 1: heavy make out sessions and then you know he would
Speaker 1: eat he would eat me out and like fingers. So
Speaker 1: by the time that we finally had sex, it wasn't
Speaker 1: pain for bloody. That's why it was like he was
Speaker 1: doing his big one. Okay, did you did you? Did
Speaker 1: you enjoy it or not the first time? I don't
Speaker 1: know anybody's really No, I didn't enjoy it. I don't
Speaker 1: even think we really did it the first time. I
Speaker 1: think it wasn't a passionate thing. It just was curious,
Speaker 1: curious did you believe? You believe? Yeah? And then when
Speaker 1: is the next time he did it again? Oh? I
Speaker 1: left that motherfucker. See, look like I lest my virginity. Two.
Speaker 1: I did it to him one time. It was one time.
Speaker 1: He was my boyfriend for years though years and if so,
Speaker 1: when you when it was time for you, when you
Speaker 1: moved on, and then when you're going to have sex
Speaker 1: with the next guy, like, did you feel like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I know what I'm doing because of my first experience
Speaker 1: or did you still feel like, okay, I'm learning. I
Speaker 1: felt like I was learning. Do you still feel like
Speaker 1: you're learning? No, I mean, I know I'm sullivant, but
Speaker 1: I get busy. She's like, I didn't forget. It was
Speaker 1: with the guy that I lost my virginity. So for
Speaker 1: a while, my first was a guy that I was
Speaker 1: We were like the same age, and you know, we
Speaker 1: like kind of grew up together in the neighborhood and
Speaker 1: was friends that way, and literally throughout adulthood. He would
Speaker 1: always be like that friends would benefit break in case
Speaker 1: of emergencye Like when we would go years without seeing
Speaker 1: each other, but when we seeing each other, we knew
Speaker 1: it was on the popping Like there was even a
Speaker 1: point where I had moved to Atlanta and a few
Speaker 1: years later he moved to Atlanta and one of our
Speaker 1: mutual friends who didn't know that we knew each other
Speaker 1: tried to introduce us and we were like, and that's
Speaker 1: what I'm seeing for a moment with my first you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, trinity to a woman. Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: that but y'all tell me that I doesn't come yea, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: y'all say I don't count. I mean, I definitely had
Speaker 1: my very first whatever experience with female. I was, I
Speaker 1: was playing with vagina at right before I thought about really,
Speaker 1: But that's a different generations, different generations, different generations. But
Speaker 1: I feel like it happens more now. But when we
Speaker 1: talked about it with Angela always says that that wasn't
Speaker 1: that they doesn't count as like losing my Virginia. It
Speaker 1: was like my kids stuff. No, you've never been with you,
Speaker 1: said she said. But no, but I would I wouldn't.
Speaker 1: You're open to it, open to it. I know women
Speaker 1: try to talk to you. Yeah, girl, you like one
Speaker 1: of these girls came up to me. She was like,
Speaker 1: I heard about you. You're strictly thickly, but let me
Speaker 1: tell you something. Were you ready cool? But what kind
Speaker 1: was she was? She like? Uh, she was pretty? Or
Speaker 1: she like she was pretty but pretty aggressive? Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm aggressive, but it's so crazy because line. But I
Speaker 1: want a man to have me in line, not a
Speaker 1: female to have me in line. Like, no, we're on
Speaker 1: the same page, my mon. Like you might you might
Speaker 1: be surprised because you're very alpha. You might need somebody
Speaker 1: that's better. So a woman might really suit you, you know.
Speaker 1: I mean I thought about that, but the men and
Speaker 1: you're not gonna like a better man. You're not gonna
Speaker 1: like him. Yeah, but it's just I think it might
Speaker 1: be more like a mental thing. Like it's like, girl,
Speaker 1: you have what I have like yourself. You didn't. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: well maybe yeah, maybe maybe that's something we should. You
Speaker 1: know what, you guys have a birthday. I'm not saying
Speaker 1: on your birthday now, I'm saying if I have a birthday,
Speaker 1: I can see it. But I'm just saying, might not
Speaker 1: never happened, like being with a better man, with a
Speaker 1: man who's gonna, you know, do anything you say and
Speaker 1: not have you in line. That's what an alpha man does.
Speaker 1: But you know, but a woman, I could see you
Speaker 1: I'm having it in line. I might conceive myself eating
Speaker 1: a zone box or whatever, but I've never in my
Speaker 1: life bumped into at least one female made me feel
Speaker 1: like you wanted to let me tell you something. I'm
Speaker 1: not looking forward to it, but if it happened, it happened.
Speaker 1: But I'm open to it. But I just never what
Speaker 1: about a threesome? That's how you sorry that that's that's
Speaker 1: a nice things choose. I don't know about the three something.
Speaker 1: The only thing I could go as far as threesomes
Speaker 1: is when um masturbating. I could. I could fantasize about it,
Speaker 1: but I don't know about really going like doing it. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: you're conservative. She's not conservative, and she's if she's open
Speaker 1: to eat and pussy, that's not conservative, but she's not.
Speaker 1: But I'm not like dying to do it. It's like
Speaker 1: most a lot of women are. I'm not open. No,
Speaker 1: I only said I'm saying because I know I can't.
Speaker 1: I can't. I think women are attractive, but I don't.
Speaker 1: I'm not open to another vagina. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: That's feel like she's open and it's not judgments. I
Speaker 1: feel like she's open to it. So it's just like, Okay, no,
Speaker 1: this ain't. I feel like you should try three sings away.
Speaker 1: I have three sons do you have? I have three sums.
Speaker 1: You guys know, I guess service only there women like
Speaker 1: I wasn't there, but y yes me, we're like Bessie
Speaker 1: she I'll tell her whatever, like I'll tell her when
Speaker 1: I get my per I don't know about sharing, but
Speaker 1: you know I have three So your man, your what man? Oh?
Speaker 1: Your man? Okay, what about you know? Have you done
Speaker 1: an no? But this girl she won't even like it's
Speaker 1: a heype requirement for that grown as big wow doing
Speaker 1: ain't new? I should where I actually like a lot
Speaker 1: of women like it. I like, it's not something that
Speaker 1: I want to do all the time, but I could
Speaker 1: do with the right with the right penism on the
Speaker 1: right night. It can get on the poppet, but it
Speaker 1: can't be the penis can't be too big, okay me
Speaker 1: and side, Yeah, she may be my average average average
Speaker 1: and below average below. Can we get this is a
Speaker 1: good time? Then maybe I'll be like, yeah, she's getting guys,
Speaker 1: penis be so small you have to do an whatever
Speaker 1: that part? Oh you you know, not mean, not mean,
Speaker 1: not mean. When I'm not somebody but I've been, I
Speaker 1: would have done at them with him because the only
Speaker 1: time I ever had I have an ex who had
Speaker 1: a really small dick, and I think he is the
Speaker 1: reason why I started to enjoy anal, because anal felt
Speaker 1: better than that. It wasn't leaving. Now, wow, experience. Have
Speaker 1: you ever had a smart penis? No penises? I know,
Speaker 1: but you know sometimes, but I've never experienced something that
Speaker 1: was like not even it was just right. It was
Speaker 1: always just right. Have you never had a real big dick? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it wasn't. It was cool, not real big, like
Speaker 1: not like I was like, okay, yeah, you know I
Speaker 1: pique someone, Yeah, I bumped this is someone that it
Speaker 1: was like and kept said, no, that's not that's that's
Speaker 1: not exciting. It's not her ministry. How much has your
Speaker 1: life changed? And like this past year because you know,
Speaker 1: you have a song that's huge, don't play with it,
Speaker 1: but it also had been out for a while before
Speaker 1: I go, it's going on two years and did you
Speaker 1: did you ever? Did you anticipate that or were you like,
Speaker 1: all right, that song it's not really happened, like about
Speaker 1: you forget about it. No. Never. I always promoted it.
Speaker 1: I probably didn't promote it as much as I did
Speaker 1: when it first came out, but I always still promoted
Speaker 1: it in some some type of form. How does it
Speaker 1: feel to have like huge celebrities like doing TikTok's and
Speaker 1: because that's a song, like after two years, you're not
Speaker 1: really thinking like after it's about to blow up? Right right, Um,
Speaker 1: I'll tell you, I'll give you the bugle job. I
Speaker 1: sit back, I look up. I'll be like, nah, New York,
Speaker 1: no way that it's real. Like I always sit back
Speaker 1: and be like it's this real and my dreaming. You're
Speaker 1: here it just a year later the should the right
Speaker 1: record is gonna go when it's gonna go. When you
Speaker 1: made that record, I was tired of being played with
Speaker 1: for real, for real, Like that's really how that energy
Speaker 1: came out. So when I was like, don't believe with it,
Speaker 1: don't belie with this, don't belie with it, I was.
Speaker 1: I really felt that way at that moment, like stopped
Speaker 1: playing with me. You know what, we got to talk
Speaker 1: about this vibral video of you that's really old, but
Speaker 1: with you hanging off the car, girl, what was happening?
Speaker 1: That's not you. I don't know that girl. That was
Speaker 1: not her. Now, that wasn't me our our name CHEECHI.
Speaker 1: That really wasn't your name Chech, her name Lola for
Speaker 1: real hanging out. But if I was home, Yeah, she
Speaker 1: would be hanging up that hanging out that cop than
Speaker 1: hanging out that thing. Now you also have yeah girl
Speaker 1: Billy be on the song. So what's going on with
Speaker 1: that now? Because I know you on? So what's the plan?
Speaker 1: Plan A keep promoting and too. I told her, I
Speaker 1: said yo, he, I said yo, if you need to
Speaker 1: smart this ship out, smart out, do it. I don't.
Speaker 1: I'm in the room next. Ye get your coins from this,
Speaker 1: because sooner or later they're gonna be talking about us.
Speaker 1: So just do what you need to do, Do what
Speaker 1: you need to do to make whatever you gotta do. Sure,
Speaker 1: when was the moment that you would like this is it?
Speaker 1: Because you've had a lot of you know, great really
Speaker 1: viral moments as of late. So when were you like,
Speaker 1: this is it? The biggest dead ass, the biggest dead ass?
Speaker 1: Oh I still don't feel it now, Yeah, Oh it's coming. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And when it happened, you're gonna be like, oh they
Speaker 1: were talking about Yeah, I know, it's just I know
Speaker 1: it's more work too, It's more work to put in,
Speaker 1: Like I just, I mean, I've been working for a
Speaker 1: long time now, but I'm new to the people, so
Speaker 1: what they what they see, it's not what they know.
Speaker 1: So I gotta keep going going, moving forward. And I've
Speaker 1: been trying to feel it, but I just can't because
Speaker 1: I already like fantasize about it. I envisioned it. I
Speaker 1: kind of like got the feeling of it, but it
Speaker 1: just never happened yet. But you also do have to
Speaker 1: make sure that you enjoying the moments, right, Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: having talked about that a lot um. I'm trying to.
Speaker 1: But you're gonna vacation. How does your mom feel about
Speaker 1: your career? Everybody? She made it. She did she period,
Speaker 1: She did make it word. She definitely did. She's excited,
Speaker 1: I know because at the end of the day she
Speaker 1: said to herself, like it was just I'm the only child.
Speaker 1: You know, how many people have five to fourteen twenty
Speaker 1: kids and not one of them they feel is they
Speaker 1: token out? She like, I just had one baby child.
Speaker 1: She is my golden child. Like that's really a blessing.
Speaker 1: What's been your biggest check? Self? Fire and what do
Speaker 1: you do with it? My biggest check? I saved it?
Speaker 1: Good for you, for sure, I'm sure I really save it.
Speaker 1: And the most I might have done with it is
Speaker 1: um moving to a new apartment and I paid my
Speaker 1: mom's bills off for a few months, and stuff like
Speaker 1: there money and the show money and you know so crazy. Um.
Speaker 1: People be coming up to me like, yeah, you got
Speaker 1: them shows, you got them hosting. I ain't spend that money. Yeah,
Speaker 1: who taught you money? My mom's every time we want
Speaker 1: the supermarket, she had that circlet she like destroying, grabbed
Speaker 1: that coupon this c okay, how you going? And you
Speaker 1: see what she said coming. We normally eat this, but
Speaker 1: this okay, so we're gonna prop with with the on
Speaker 1: the bcause dirty wit was cereal. Cereal can be dirty
Speaker 1: with Cereal, but the brand, the bread was old branded.
Speaker 1: The sugar might be old brand sugar and sugar. I
Speaker 1: need cereals in the bag was banging back in the days.
Speaker 1: I used to love those cereals. Now you know what
Speaker 1: my grandma, grandma, it was old brand Cereal, like a
Speaker 1: brand cereal, get socket a little quicker if you eat
Speaker 1: a quick yes you eat that's what? Yeah, especially like
Speaker 1: the crispy Yeah yeah, my baby Cereal used to be
Speaker 1: fruit loops, Oh good, and then little what's the one
Speaker 1: with the cookies? Cookie c serial? What's frosted flakes? I
Speaker 1: like that too? I love you? But actually got so fast,
Speaker 1: I got like apple jacks and um, what's this the
Speaker 1: grand crunch, golden girl, golden golden grandches. Know that's that?
Speaker 1: Oh oh honeycomb. You know I used to be mad
Speaker 1: with chimes. You got the bottom really now, I wasn't serial.
Speaker 1: I don't mean, I don't even a lot of serial. Else.
Speaker 1: I got Franken Berry in my house right now, frank Wow?
Speaker 1: What about fruity pebbles? I love and I love so
Speaker 1: when when I want to feel grown and sexy about?
Speaker 1: Is serial? Have you ever experimented with food in the bedroom?
Speaker 1: Is I seas and stuff like that? Yeah? Okay, so
Speaker 1: that's what happened with these ice fat Oh gosh, I
Speaker 1: never throw it out see the day. But yeah, you
Speaker 1: know you get you just aw and um fruit roll upes.
Speaker 1: So what did you do? I was that you put
Speaker 1: the round? Dicky definitely had references. Yes, And if you
Speaker 1: ain't got ice seas, just go get ice putting the
Speaker 1: little bit get straight to it like I got a
Speaker 1: few trinks of my I want to say the first
Speaker 1: time I ever sectic. I was so terrible at it.
Speaker 1: I don't know what I was doing. You did are
Speaker 1: like I think I definitely used my teeth a lot. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't know, and it was dry. I didn't know
Speaker 1: that was a bad You don't learn like you don't.
Speaker 1: I feel like you don't know what to you don't
Speaker 1: you don't know what you don't know. And then also
Speaker 1: I feel like men say like a lot of like
Speaker 1: a lot of space, but she don't know that they
Speaker 1: mean that much spit like I did my big one.
Speaker 1: The first time I did my big one, I went
Speaker 1: out with a bang. I call my best friend to
Speaker 1: let her know, like, and she was like, I was
Speaker 1: about to call you too. It's so crazy. Was I
Speaker 1: was about to call you too and say you should
Speaker 1: I do it? Should? And you said you how did
Speaker 1: you know what you were doing? Videos? See we didn't
Speaker 1: have that. No, we didn't. But I like, it's pretty
Speaker 1: self explanatory that it was. No. Yeah, I had to
Speaker 1: take well. I was there when I had oral sex
Speaker 1: for the first time. I was with somebody that was
Speaker 1: way older than meet it I should not have been with.
Speaker 1: And I was literally put on point and be like that,
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, my first time going down on a guy.
Speaker 1: He was, um, he gave instructions really wild. Yeah the
Speaker 1: guy I wasn't. He just did it. But you know,
Speaker 1: I think I definitely like, I feel like later on
Speaker 1: it was like scabs. Oh god, no, I think I
Speaker 1: didn't know. I don't know what to do, but it
Speaker 1: was I feel like it's pretty self explained to what
Speaker 1: because you got to communicate because sometimes, like I hate
Speaker 1: when people use their teeth, and sometimes when somebody's given
Speaker 1: you or you might move but they think you're moving
Speaker 1: because you like it, but you really it's not good communication.
Speaker 1: You'll be surprised some guys like are you good at
Speaker 1: telling people what you don't like? Are you good at
Speaker 1: communicating in the bedroom? Oh? Of course, I'd be like,
Speaker 1: do it there? No, no, no, no, no, stops you
Speaker 1: do straight you straight? Straight right there? Right? Keep that
Speaker 1: that right there, God's true. Straight straight, don't play. I'm like,
Speaker 1: that's okay, Maybe you're good. That's cool. You gotta tell them, see,
Speaker 1: but you gotta tell them when you like it, because
Speaker 1: they would start switching up. That's got to tell them
Speaker 1: that when you're about to come, and then they do
Speaker 1: some other ship and they sunk up the rhythms what
Speaker 1: are you like good right now? Right? How they could
Speaker 1: keep continuing motivation. But I think the mistake that guys
Speaker 1: make is you say it's good right there, and they do,
Speaker 1: they move, they do a harder no, stay where you
Speaker 1: at that perfect? I feel like this when I'm when
Speaker 1: I tell the guy I want to do and I'm like, yes, perfect,
Speaker 1: and he sucks it up. My facial expressions just changes.
Speaker 1: I'm like, you'd be having the attitude around Get, that's
Speaker 1: the I swear, But like I told you, you don't
Speaker 1: have an attitude after sex because he came and you didn't,
Speaker 1: but you couldn't like girls like that. It's okay, yeah exactly,
Speaker 1: I swear it looks like okay Forget. It's okay because
Speaker 1: guys would always come. They don't they think, And I
Speaker 1: hate when they always think that you none up multiple
Speaker 1: times as fucking you exactly. Have even been with a
Speaker 1: guy he came so many times he couldn't come anymore. Listen, Yes,
Speaker 1: I have. You know I've talked about this on the
Speaker 1: show before, Like I've had sex triafter launch where you
Speaker 1: have mad sex and you fall asleep and then start
Speaker 1: having sex again and eat or something and that sex again.
Speaker 1: Like after a while, the guy is literally coming air
Speaker 1: like this, I just can't like done well. I feel
Speaker 1: like you're honestly, I'm cup to bubble you. They said
Speaker 1: to me, they said you got lip service, and they
Speaker 1: was like, she's going to enjoy this period. I am, well, listen,
Speaker 1: you gotta come back, you know. Congratulations. I'm glad we
Speaker 1: got to celebrate the day that you signed you a
Speaker 1: new deal because that is amazing. So congratulations. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm happy for a fellow Brooklyn woman to be doing
Speaker 1: it as big as you are. And I live in
Speaker 1: best I. You know, I got my businesses and best guy,
Speaker 1: so I think that's amazing. So I am like, this
Speaker 1: is exciting for me just to have you here. So
Speaker 1: I appreciate you for that. Appreciating Her name is Lola
Speaker 1: brook Brook for Brooklyn Brooks for Brooklyn, and that I love.
Speaker 1: It's like, I gotta do the things we like. Lola
Speaker 1: brook a little brook we sign it on. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: the favorite thing. But listen, what's the plan for you now? Though,
Speaker 1: Like I know you plan it everything out because I
Speaker 1: just know you are. The plan is to stay consistent.
Speaker 1: The plan is to not fix anything that's not broke.
Speaker 1: The plan is to be myself and cater to my
Speaker 1: fans because my fans has played the biggest part of
Speaker 1: my career. Okay to the script, Yes, alright, but Lolo again, congratulations,
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for coming to join us today,
Speaker 1: and we're gonna see you again. Yeah, I'll be back.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna se you up with Angela ye too. Everything yes, everything, alright,
Speaker 1: Lolo break, thank you so much as lift service. Cheers, cheers,