1 00:00:02,279 --> 00:00:04,480 Speaker 1: What's up this lip service? I'm the Antela yee, I'm 2 00:00:04,519 --> 00:00:11,720 Speaker 1: g McGuire, I'm I'm Jasmine brand I'm her feet not 3 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:18,599 Speaker 1: touching the grandma whatever. Alright, First of all, we found 4 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:24,080 Speaker 1: out today that you signed a deal. Okay, congratulations on that. 5 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: Shairs to that. We have a bottle of domp for you. Yes, 6 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:33,240 Speaker 1: we get it. Okay, bottle. Maybe you want to pop 7 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 1: it or you want to pop it. I feel like 8 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 1: you want to pop your on bottle. All right, let's see. 9 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:43,520 Speaker 1: Have you popped a bottle before? Oh yeah, okay, pointed 10 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 1: at Jasmine. Yeah, just be careful, all right, pointed that 11 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 1: way or something to that guy in the maroon. The 12 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 1: only part of I know, I was just looking at 13 00:00:56,120 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: maybe let gig like Jasmine trust to be sitting right 14 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: next door. But congratulations that we we just found it out. 15 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 1: So um, while we popped this bottle, how are you feeling? 16 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like that. Okay, that's how 17 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 1: you feel. That's good luck. That's good luck. That's good luck. 18 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:23,959 Speaker 1: Would be a great Can we get some napkins? Okay? 19 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:27,119 Speaker 1: Hold up, we got some. We got some. There we go. 20 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 1: So how are you feeling? I feel good? Um, I 21 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 1: feel blood for the most part. Okay, I just know 22 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 1: that from today on is still the days before work. 23 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:41,480 Speaker 1: I just gotta work. So what was that process like 24 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:44,560 Speaker 1: for you? Walk us through it, like just even figuring out, 25 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:46,479 Speaker 1: like where you wanted to sign, how many labels were 26 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 1: coming at you led into that decision. It was a 27 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: It was a couple of labels. I had a couple 28 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: of meetings, but when I got to Aristo, it just 29 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: felt like home. And the main thing that I could 30 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: remember them saying to me was we love everything about you. 31 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: Like they didn't want to change anything about me any time. 32 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: Like if I stepped in the room, it would just 33 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 1: be at least one thing about me that they'd be like, Oh, 34 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 1: we have to juice this up. We'll fix it, or 35 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:14,639 Speaker 1: you know, I think you should be this way. They 36 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:17,079 Speaker 1: was like, no, girl, you already a star. We love 37 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: everything about you. We just want to be here to help. 38 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 1: What were some of the things that they were other 39 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 1: labels was saying they need to fix or change or tweak. 40 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 1: The main thing they say is I don't see it. 41 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 1: Oh that's aggressive. Yeah, they'd be like, I don't see it. Um, Yeah, 42 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: she's she's cool. Thank you I know. I don't like 43 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 1: to say when you come in the room, like just 44 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 1: like oh my gosh, okay, you're like, hey, what's up? 45 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 1: She literally packed up. Yeah, but yeah, they would say 46 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 1: that I'm too aggressive. But I'm from Brooklyn, so like 47 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 1: even when she said Brooklyn, they get aggressive. And for Brooklyn, 48 00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 1: she said, very strong. But you know people from Brooklyn, 49 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:04,920 Speaker 1: like everywhere you go, somebody's from Brooklyn. When you go, 50 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 1: we let you know, we let you know. And then 51 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:11,359 Speaker 1: it didn't even got to be a New York thing. No, 52 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 1: I'm from Brooklyn. Period. Yeah, it's not. It's not the city, 53 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:29,119 Speaker 1: it's not, it's the borough Lyn congratulations, lady. We don't 54 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:31,919 Speaker 1: do dump for everybody. Know what I'm saying this that 55 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 1: zone zone. Yes, so I know that before everybody else knows, 56 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 1: you know what's going on, Like you knew you was 57 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 1: how long did you know about this deal before the 58 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 1: public knew? Mm hmmm, spit it out, Lola. I literally 59 00:03:54,480 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 1: got the same pigtails. I mean, I knew it was 60 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 1: it was coming up though, of course, like it's been 61 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 1: some time. I've been working this working time, but I 62 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: finally sat down and signed the papers with these pig 63 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 1: tails ship's signing papers. Baby, yeah, um, just my team 64 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:21,040 Speaker 1: Team eight and Arista my Arista team. That's it. And 65 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 1: me what about the guy that you'd be talking about 66 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 1: in your tweets that ain't ship? What I said, let's 67 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 1: go to the tweets. Yeah, because alright exhibit Yes, we 68 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:46,840 Speaker 1: got some tweets here. Alright at Little Brooks. Your man 69 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 1: always want to show a lot of people that don't 70 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 1: give a funk about him. Then you'll be looking like 71 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 1: the problem for keeping it a buck. This ain't about 72 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 1: me right now? Words from a manipulator. I'm two percent 73 00:04:55,880 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 1: or whatever the funk that is? Oh man, everything I 74 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 1: mean that ship look wherever he at, he ain't with me? 75 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 1: All right? Two At Lola brook I've got trust issues, 76 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 1: real bad, real bad. I do I do, But I 77 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 1: mean body, I ain't just talk about Okay, that's everything, right, yeah, 78 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 1: everything about things? Yeah, I'm paranoid, Like why is that? 79 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 1: What's happened to Lola? People would say they do something, 80 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 1: don't do it, or people would just be manipulated and 81 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:44,280 Speaker 1: just lied to you for no reason. And I'm straightforward, 82 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: see me, you could tell me anything, even if it's 83 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 1: like real real bad, handle it. It is what it is. 84 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 1: I'd rather you hurt my feelings at that very moment 85 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: that my feelings get hurt afterwards, because then I'm gonna 86 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 1: be thinking about that moment back to back flashbacks when 87 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:00,719 Speaker 1: you could have just told me I don't want to 88 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:07,599 Speaker 1: have flashbacks the other flashbacksbacks like is this in terms 89 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:12,280 Speaker 1: of a man or just in general, like friendships, um, 90 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 1: family issues. Like you would think that family is there 91 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 1: to protect you, but normally when they feel like you 92 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 1: got to some certain success, they talk about you or 93 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 1: this could be happening or she's doing this, and it's like, so, 94 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:28,359 Speaker 1: why you won't pick up your phone to call me 95 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:30,839 Speaker 1: and act if I was okay? Yeah. I feel like 96 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: no matter what kind of relationship, whether it's lovers, family, friends, like, 97 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 1: just tell me the truth, keeping the box so I 98 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:40,160 Speaker 1: can make my choice on how I want to react, Right, 99 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 1: And that's it. That's a good point. It is only 100 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 1: gonna get worse. It's about the value about to be termed. 101 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 1: Is gonna be hiding. I feel like you owe them something. 102 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 1: There's going to be people around for the wrong reasons. 103 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:57,840 Speaker 1: It's going to be people that you tell them yes 104 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:00,040 Speaker 1: a thousand times you tell them no ones all of 105 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 1: sending you the worst person in the world. I already 106 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:05,680 Speaker 1: told him don't call my phone until I changed my 107 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 1: mother address first. All right, So, like this is exciting 108 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 1: to me because you're from Brooklyn. I'm from Brooklyn. So 109 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 1: let's talk about where you grew up and everything, where 110 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 1: you went to school. I want to know all these details. 111 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 1: You want to how far how far back you want 112 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 1: to from the beginning where you Okay, okay, so my 113 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 1: sandboxes in Tomkins Park. Okay, that's right bout me. I 114 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 1: live in Bestid. She knows, she knows a lot about Brooklyn. Yeah, 115 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 1: so Tomkins Park, they used to have mad shows in 116 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: there and everything. I went to the after school program 117 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 1: in Tomkins Park as well. I went to elementary school 118 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 1: to fifty six across the street from Mossy Pool. Um 119 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 1: where you arts in school? Were you into the arts 120 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 1: and stuff? Yeah for sure. Yeah. Where you're like at 121 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 1: first in line when you had to line up, always first. 122 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 1: So I was always first to that's because where you, 123 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 1: I don't know, it's a short thing. Somebody was the 124 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 1: same side. That's me. I would be like, hey, listen, 125 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 1: I'm in front. That's like we don't play with front. 126 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 1: I went to boy I graduated from Boys and Girls. Okay, 127 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 1: that's a talented creative school. What come on now, I 128 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 1: don't know. I heard. I heard that Boys and Girl. 129 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 1: I heard it was a little rough back, really wrong. 130 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 1: She tried to make it sound the world just like 131 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 1: it was rough back in the day. And my mistaken. 132 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 1: It's rough and there still my mom and I told 133 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 1: me it was a girl. My mom even told me 134 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 1: it was rough, like all generations say, it's roughly, my 135 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 1: mama to Erasmus, So where is that? Okay? I don't 136 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:52,960 Speaker 1: know Flatbush that well, that school is huge too, okay, 137 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 1: so go on. So okay, oh I want to um 138 00:08:57,240 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 1: ms one thirteen. That's claims. Okay, that's you in high school. 139 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 1: And yeah, I grew up around tomkas Park went. Did 140 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 1: you and you always knew you wanted to be an artist? Yeah? 141 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:10,640 Speaker 1: I always knew I wanted to be an entertainer for sure, 142 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:13,560 Speaker 1: Like always, I just always felt that inside of me. 143 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 1: When I went to school, I did step for like 144 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 1: I just wanted to be on stage. I literally went 145 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 1: to go do step and try to be a cheerleader 146 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 1: just to be on stage for one time. I went 147 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:28,440 Speaker 1: on stage one time doing step and I was out 148 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:31,840 Speaker 1: Why I just wanted to be on stage at one time? 149 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 1: How did you know you wanted to be a start 150 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 1: when you were little? Did were you always trying to 151 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 1: perform or get into How did you know this is 152 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 1: always in you? When I was like seven eight years old, 153 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 1: I used to always fantasize about me being on the 154 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 1: lunch room tables, jumping at lunchroom table to lunch room table, 155 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:52,479 Speaker 1: and all the kids like cheering me on. Yeah, liked 156 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 1: did you have a pole? Did you have another name 157 00:09:55,679 --> 00:10:00,440 Speaker 1: before it's always been Lola Broke? Yeah? And then who 158 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 1: did you grow up with in the house? Just me 159 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 1: and my mom? Just to tell your only child, only child? Well, damn, 160 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 1: only child, that's probably children a little crazy, only children 161 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 1: a little crazy. But I'm but I'm my mother's only child. 162 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:19,920 Speaker 1: And maybe that's why I'm off and I'm a little off. Yeah, No, 163 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 1: you're definitely off. I am. I'm definitely off. Yeah, so 164 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:25,199 Speaker 1: that may be okay, that explains her being creative and 165 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:34,960 Speaker 1: anybody had imaginary friends and ship. I thought that ship 166 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: was real. I said, come on, you gotta see something. 167 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:41,720 Speaker 1: I ain't never see nothing. Though shap I did play 168 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:44,199 Speaker 1: with myself a lot and looking to mirror a lot, 169 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:47,560 Speaker 1: talk to myself a lot. The family dynamic outside of 170 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:48,839 Speaker 1: just you and your mom. Do you have a lot 171 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 1: of cousins? Was there? Yeah? A lot of family members around. Yeah. 172 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 1: Always like I would hate to go home. I will 173 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:58,960 Speaker 1: always want to go to grandma house because my cousins. 174 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, come on, even on Sundays, I'd be like, Grandpa, 175 00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 1: just take me to school tomorrow, Great Grandpa, stay tonight 176 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 1: to stay to nine. I don't want to go home. 177 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 1: And they used to hurt MoMA feeling a little baby. Yeah, 178 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:17,239 Speaker 1: Jasmine child, don't even really know her like that. Shut up. 179 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:22,719 Speaker 1: That's first of all, and just sold mean to me 180 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:24,360 Speaker 1: about being a mom. I'm a new mom and and 181 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 1: has all the jazz and all the jokes. Yes, I've 182 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:29,839 Speaker 1: been telling her bring the baby with you because she 183 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 1: lived in d C. How old is one? You can't 184 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 1: be carrying Jasmine already? Shut up. She's such an asshole. Anyway, 185 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 1: whatever I kids I'm gonna have, I was gonna bring them. 186 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 1: You'll be thinking about that already. Please don't wait. I'm 187 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 1: the only child, so it's like I'm on my own family. 188 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 1: I feel like you think you want if I get 189 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 1: beyond jay Z money, I'm going with a bank or 190 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:01,320 Speaker 1: get like six what kind of guy you like? Like, 191 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 1: who do you envision as the father? Now? Who do 192 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 1: you envision? She got somebody you definitely No, I really don't. 193 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 1: You're gonna like Okay, So if you could like say, okay, 194 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 1: the father is gonna be somebody like this, give us 195 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:26,959 Speaker 1: a comment like the fake stuff such and such build 196 00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 1: a man. They don't really have to be no fame involved, 197 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:33,560 Speaker 1: as long as the characteristic. Yeah, like, as long as 198 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:36,079 Speaker 1: he knows how to protect me, as long as he 199 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 1: a provada, as long as he affectionate and a family man. 200 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: I'm straight, he ain't pussy. I'm straight. No, I ain't 201 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 1: gotta be from Brooklyn. Okay. At first I used to 202 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 1: be like, he gotta be from New York? But nah, 203 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 1: what's that? What do you think? It is the worst 204 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:59,079 Speaker 1: borough for guys? She's like, I don't want to put 205 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 1: my fan base? Yeah, I know, good answer. Bronx the best, 206 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 1: the worst, the worst, The Bronx, the Bronx, Yes, the 207 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 1: Bronx the best boroughs for dating for in my opinions, 208 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 1: my my opinion. I'm from New York, born and raised 209 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 1: in New York. I was born in ma Sign nine 210 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:26,760 Speaker 1: fifth Avenue and ninety nine Street. And for me, the 211 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 1: best guys are from Queens and like Brooklyn. You can 212 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:38,560 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, um Long Island because they 213 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 1: always got a car because they look so far you 214 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:48,200 Speaker 1: know what. I'm man that doesn't have a car. Yeah, ok, yeah, 215 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:53,560 Speaker 1: but they people don't. Yes, I forgot where I am 216 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:58,440 Speaker 1: and then and then Manhattan, but like not up town Manhattan, 217 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 1: the Harlem and down, Harleman down was down because I 218 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 1: don't know it was from Yeah, I'm from Chelsea. Yeah, yeah, 219 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:18,839 Speaker 1: I'm from the che projects from yeah way brothers. The 220 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 1: many people, so many famous people from Chelsea Projects. It's 221 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 1: something you tweeted. You asked a question about where the 222 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 1: best guys Where the best guys are from the South one, 223 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 1: the South one. Have you dated a guy from the South, No, 224 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:35,840 Speaker 1: we should all date a guy from the South. No, 225 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 1: but you really I'm dated guys from the South, and 226 00:14:38,240 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 1: I have to say they have the best mannerisms. They 227 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 1: treat women really well, even when they're ready to move on. 228 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 1: They do it the right way. The pole, the Pole 229 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 1: was correct. The East a second from Pelfia, born and raised. 230 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 1: I lived here for a while. You think I currently 231 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 1: live in Atlanta, And I will say that I like SOUTHERNIL. 232 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 1: But I've been saying this, I have too many options. 233 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 1: There's too many women down there. Because there's too many 234 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 1: women women looking for a man in the South. When 235 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 1: looking for a family man, we all look for the 236 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:20,360 Speaker 1: same thing. Girls. So but look how you're You're so young? 237 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 1: How old are you? Jay said, I'm thirty two, but 238 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 1: you're not your twenties. Yeah, I'm got a birthday coming 239 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 1: up to February one, still ain't turning thirty thirty too? 240 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 1: Because Tom to cut it out, she's looking for first 241 00:15:38,360 --> 00:15:40,160 Speaker 1: of all, she's going to be working on her birthday. 242 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 1: She's looking for an outfit to wear. Where did you 243 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:47,480 Speaker 1: hear all that already? Before? We'll be going a chat? 244 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 1: Are you single? Yes? Like that? How long you've been? 245 00:15:53,040 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 1: I'm excited about this single because this is a great 246 00:15:56,280 --> 00:16:07,160 Speaker 1: time for um, like two years? Okay, damn, that's not year? Yeah, 247 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 1: not too long, not too short. But when you're saying 248 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 1: are you but you've been, you've still been dealing with 249 00:16:12,520 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 1: you haven't experience you've been dating, dating, You've been you know, 250 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 1: experience in life. Um, I'm celibate though for how long? 251 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 1: A year and six months? She knows it down to 252 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 1: the day. Something to keep in saying, what are you 253 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:44,560 Speaker 1: gonna end this? What keeps me saying? What inspired you 254 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:46,400 Speaker 1: to become celibate and what is it gonna take for 255 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:51,160 Speaker 1: you to stop being celibate? What inspired me was I 256 00:16:51,280 --> 00:16:54,520 Speaker 1: was in a relationship for a little minute, and after 257 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 1: a while, I was like, man, I could go without it. 258 00:16:58,200 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 1: Like you know, when you clock out, you already clocked out. 259 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:03,600 Speaker 1: I went to the same thing, so I've been clocked out. 260 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 1: So I'm saying I'm around this, well fucking I'm still like, 261 00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:10,440 Speaker 1: keep it to myself. Oh I don't really need it, 262 00:17:10,640 --> 00:17:13,720 Speaker 1: saying I'm just focus on There's nothing worse than being 263 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 1: in a relationship and feeling like you lonelier than if 264 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:19,480 Speaker 1: you wasn't. Oh my god, for having a man and 265 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 1: having to go masterbate you gotta lay next to somebody 266 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:26,040 Speaker 1: and be Like I went through all of this, I 267 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:27,720 Speaker 1: was at the point where I just felt like, why 268 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:30,600 Speaker 1: am I in a relationship? Like I'm not what I need. 269 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 1: If I'm gonna do bad bad because somebody could be 270 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 1: so happy just to say they're in a relationship, don't 271 00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:39,440 Speaker 1: matter that it's sucked up. Don't know, I can't. I 272 00:17:39,520 --> 00:17:44,000 Speaker 1: know he mad now though that no man now so 273 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:45,520 Speaker 1: has to each other to reach out to you. Did 274 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:48,440 Speaker 1: he say congratulations? See, yeah, of course. But see the 275 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 1: thing is with him, the last one, he is, he cool, 276 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:55,800 Speaker 1: like we still we cool, Like it wasn't bad blood. 277 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:57,480 Speaker 1: I just had to let him know, like, look, listen, 278 00:17:57,520 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 1: I gotta focus on my career. You focus on what 279 00:17:59,880 --> 00:18:04,160 Speaker 1: you need to and that's it. If it come back, 280 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 1: it comes back. But if it don't, just know I 281 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:09,400 Speaker 1: still gotta love you. And there's no bad blood. Did 282 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 1: you buy over buying a gift like when you start 283 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 1: making big checks? No, I ain't. I ain't no fun No, 284 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:28,560 Speaker 1: but say what I can't say. I still like make 285 00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 1: sure that they were straight, though, because like what that 286 00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:36,480 Speaker 1: mean the person, the person I still like tapped in 287 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:40,399 Speaker 1: and made sure that my conscious could sleep at night 288 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:44,359 Speaker 1: because we don't have no bad blood. We didn't separate 289 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 1: on a bad note. So it's like, yo, you're still 290 00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 1: my friend at the end of the day. He was 291 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 1: my friend before he was my man. You wonna be 292 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:56,400 Speaker 1: my friend? Yeah? Did you try to get you back? 293 00:18:57,000 --> 00:19:00,200 Speaker 1: Of course? Yeah? Man? What was the problems? Was it 294 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:01,920 Speaker 1: really just wanted to focus on your career or was 295 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 1: he doing other things that I felt like I had 296 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 1: to be the bigger person to understand, like we're both 297 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:11,720 Speaker 1: in the way of our growth. We're not growing together, 298 00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 1: Like we're both in a way of our growth. Like 299 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:16,440 Speaker 1: I gotta spread my wings. You gotta spread your wings. 300 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 1: That's very much in love. And what was his response? 301 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:22,880 Speaker 1: It was in love? But at the end of the day, 302 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:25,960 Speaker 1: who are we're working for. I'm trying to have a family, 303 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:28,119 Speaker 1: Like what I'm gonna tell my kids? What was his 304 00:19:28,200 --> 00:19:30,440 Speaker 1: response that he understand where he was coming from. Yeah, 305 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:35,159 Speaker 1: like a rebuttal or negative like he understood, but it 306 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:38,480 Speaker 1: still went over his head, like you know, he's still 307 00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:41,520 Speaker 1: like double back, Like no, we could still we already 308 00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 1: tried that already when I have a quick question and 309 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:49,800 Speaker 1: then we could get right back to yours. So during 310 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 1: when a person is celibate, right, is getting your pussy 311 00:19:55,640 --> 00:20:01,040 Speaker 1: a breaking the celibacy? Is it? What do you think? Yeah? 312 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 1: You you answer this, I think something my ship? So 313 00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:08,320 Speaker 1: you got a dollar back on the date takes a few. 314 00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 1: We had this conversation yesterday when we were asking each 315 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:14,960 Speaker 1: other about the rules of celibacy and like what the 316 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:18,240 Speaker 1: terms are, because Angela was saying like something about a 317 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:21,879 Speaker 1: time frame, right, yeah, because people like having like a 318 00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:26,119 Speaker 1: week and they'd be like, I'm but you got But 319 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:28,879 Speaker 1: you made the decision consciously, made the decision that you 320 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:31,399 Speaker 1: want to be celibate, and you started, so you're a 321 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 1: weak into celibacy and celibacy you don't have a decision. 322 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:37,760 Speaker 1: It's not a decision that you made. So you're still 323 00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 1: going to masturbate. But oral is having sex. But but, but, 324 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:46,280 Speaker 1: but if it's not penetration, it's not the c you 325 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 1: if you if you still masturbate, you catch your nuts. Okay, 326 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 1: So if so, if you a man and your man 327 00:20:55,359 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 1: eat another girl pussy, he not cheating. Cheating Like I 328 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:09,280 Speaker 1: take thirty days off, the creation is breaking the Yeah, 329 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 1: that's breaking the seal. The same for me, I feel 330 00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:18,200 Speaker 1: like if you haven't been, yeah, I feel like I chose. 331 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:20,520 Speaker 1: I don't like I made a choice in my life 332 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 1: that I don't want to just give my body because 333 00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:25,720 Speaker 1: I'm horny or you know, just give my body away 334 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:28,760 Speaker 1: because I'm having fun or I'm drunk or something like that. 335 00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:34,399 Speaker 1: So I've decided to not have sex right now. Let 336 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:37,240 Speaker 1: me ask you what I'm getting my pussy eight? What 337 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 1: about You know I'm not celibate? Yeah, I feel like 338 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:48,400 Speaker 1: I'm I decided I decided to be to stop giving 339 00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:51,360 Speaker 1: because I didn't call it celibacy. I feel like I'm 340 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 1: tired of men taken from me. You're tired of me? Yeah? 341 00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:57,920 Speaker 1: I feel like. You know, the guys that I'm with, 342 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:00,560 Speaker 1: we have a great time, and I know that they 343 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:05,960 Speaker 1: care about me, and you know, um, even one is 344 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:08,119 Speaker 1: madly in love with me. You know, when it's not 345 00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:11,360 Speaker 1: an official relationship or friends of benefits type of things, 346 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 1: and when somebody's having sex with you and having sex 347 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:17,400 Speaker 1: with other what other people? I feel like it kind 348 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 1: of messes with your your soul. You're having sex with 349 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:24,040 Speaker 1: other people too. Are just one person? No? Just me? 350 00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:26,879 Speaker 1: You know I'm an idiot. I'll have sex with the 351 00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 1: same person and they'll treat me like I mean, they'll 352 00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:33,399 Speaker 1: buy me nice things and take me on to nice places. 353 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:37,000 Speaker 1: But you know, there's other ways you can treat somebody bad. 354 00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 1: So you know, when I decided to to stop giving 355 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:43,720 Speaker 1: my body away when we wasn't when we were in 356 00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 1: l A. That was years you know, July, right before 357 00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 1: my mother passed. Yes, I decided that I don't want 358 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:02,200 Speaker 1: to give my body do your way for fun, you know, 359 00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:06,080 Speaker 1: I want to feel the about six seven months. Yeah, 360 00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 1: but well but I ask my pussy every now, every 361 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:19,480 Speaker 1: every Tuesday and Wednesday Tuesday. And that's about having sex 362 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:24,200 Speaker 1: just so giving out no need to know? Just for fun? 363 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 1: Are you fund is different? I said, just for fun? Okay, fun, 364 00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:38,000 Speaker 1: but it can't just be for fun in the O 365 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:41,480 Speaker 1: somebody you really care about, that's your friend, you know 366 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And you enjoy each other, so you 367 00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 1: might or yes, or your ex boyfriend or even somebody 368 00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 1: who you who you feel is your man. But he 369 00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:58,080 Speaker 1: the people you know what I'm saying. He won't admit 370 00:23:58,160 --> 00:23:59,879 Speaker 1: it to you, but he's doing it. And you know, 371 00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 1: have you ever cheated? No? What would so you have 372 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:14,200 Speaker 1: never cheated? Not dead, never cheated? I what would it 373 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:17,040 Speaker 1: take for you to end this celibacy um spell that 374 00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:24,840 Speaker 1: you're on? Nick Nickel want it? But you didn't have 375 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:30,040 Speaker 1: some head. Now it wasn't it wasn't the Yeah, but 376 00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:34,359 Speaker 1: he ain't he ain't on Shipka, he ain't he ain't 377 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:39,560 Speaker 1: he ain't make me fall in line? Ship, make you 378 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:42,159 Speaker 1: fall in line? Yes, gotta make me fool. That is 379 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:44,399 Speaker 1: too though. Some guys will let you walk all over them. 380 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:47,000 Speaker 1: They really will. We'll just let you do whatever you 381 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,680 Speaker 1: want to get. They will let you walk all over 382 00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 1: them in some high six inch platform. Christian Lubertin's select 383 00:24:54,760 --> 00:25:01,520 Speaker 1: about some different over there to having somebody like what 384 00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:03,560 Speaker 1: do you like for a guy to tell you like 385 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:05,200 Speaker 1: you like for a guy he gotta check you every 386 00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:07,879 Speaker 1: now and then because you're gonna yeah, like ship with 387 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:12,280 Speaker 1: my phone out there. I feel the same way I 388 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:14,200 Speaker 1: want to man to to have me fall in line, 389 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:17,720 Speaker 1: like sit down, okay, like if it's an example, like 390 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:21,000 Speaker 1: when I'm wrong, let me know I'm wrong, you know, 391 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:24,560 Speaker 1: be affectionate, tell me that, tell me you love me. 392 00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,200 Speaker 1: Tell me I did a good job. I'm outside, I'm 393 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:30,359 Speaker 1: worked it right now after this better throwing me a 394 00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 1: good job, good job at work. So I'm gonna have 395 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:39,959 Speaker 1: you know, like stuff like that. I got bad um 396 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 1: you're bad ready for you, your milk bad ready for you? 397 00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:46,640 Speaker 1: And yeah, like I want I want a romantic guy. 398 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:50,639 Speaker 1: What if you have more than him, what do you mean? Like? 399 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 1: What if you just have more like financially success? Does 400 00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 1: that matter to you? No? Hell no, I don't mean 401 00:25:56,600 --> 00:26:00,080 Speaker 1: anything to me. It depends on how I feel to 402 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,720 Speaker 1: make me feel a certain way. And everybody. It's a 403 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 1: lot of men out here that got money that's rich 404 00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 1: and can't make you feel special and their cornballs because 405 00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:11,960 Speaker 1: they're feel busy passing it around to spreading it. Then 406 00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:17,560 Speaker 1: right they spreading that Brisshow good looks matter? Like what 407 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:19,639 Speaker 1: if you could tell me like the things that are 408 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:25,520 Speaker 1: important to you? Um? I like dark skin men? Do say? 409 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:31,680 Speaker 1: Do say my body? Dark skin men are certain like 410 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:33,720 Speaker 1: he when he woke in the room. He gotta be 411 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:40,400 Speaker 1: like he know he that he gotta does. He gotta 412 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:45,560 Speaker 1: be funny. You gotta make me laugh because you also 413 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:48,960 Speaker 1: have a really bubbly, like you know, fun personality. So 414 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:50,960 Speaker 1: he has to match that. He has to match that 415 00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:53,359 Speaker 1: and be open to a lot of things like you know, 416 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:56,959 Speaker 1: just be what about age limit? What how willing? How 417 00:26:57,040 --> 00:27:02,480 Speaker 1: old are you larious? I've never went that. I never 418 00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:07,680 Speaker 1: went that. What's the oldest you you dated? I ain't 419 00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:11,400 Speaker 1: go past thirty? So is that your cap is thirty 420 00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 1: your cap and I could do thirty five? What's the 421 00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:18,200 Speaker 1: youngest you have? Seven? The youngest? He gotta be a 422 00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:23,440 Speaker 1: club with you. Yeah, that's the thirties five. Yeah, he 423 00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:27,879 Speaker 1: just got What about kids? What if it? Does that 424 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 1: matter if he has kids? See, this is the thing. 425 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:36,719 Speaker 1: See with me, I'm really not big on the guys 426 00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:40,359 Speaker 1: having kids kids because kids come with baby mama. But 427 00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:45,600 Speaker 1: drama thing about that is recently, I'm like, it might 428 00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 1: come on you. It's getting a little crazy now you 429 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:51,640 Speaker 1: might not find that. I feel like the older you get, 430 00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:54,600 Speaker 1: the more like. Yeah, so as long as I know 431 00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,440 Speaker 1: that he take kids kids, Like it's times like I've 432 00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:00,159 Speaker 1: dealt with a guy and he had he had is 433 00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:01,800 Speaker 1: And the first thing I think about is you got 434 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:06,200 Speaker 1: a room for him in your home? Is the room completed? Yeah? 435 00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:08,679 Speaker 1: Like I care about stuff like that because what if 436 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:10,600 Speaker 1: you know, we really get there to where we need 437 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,280 Speaker 1: to be and I'm we're about to have a baby. 438 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:14,760 Speaker 1: I need to know that you're gonna be a deaf child. Yeah. 439 00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:30,040 Speaker 1: But if oh no, angel right now, right now? And 440 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:36,440 Speaker 1: so no, okay, what's the what's the minimum height he has? 441 00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 1: Top off? Okay, that's that's fair. That's yeah, you would 442 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 1: look good. You know he would still no, no, because 443 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:52,720 Speaker 1: when she put her heels on then she would be 444 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:56,760 Speaker 1: what about crazy? What about dick? Can he have medium 445 00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:59,520 Speaker 1: or do you need like extra big dick or medium size? 446 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:02,920 Speaker 1: I need medium. I don't want to enjoy. I don't 447 00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 1: want to be hurt. What about like a really tall 448 00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:09,440 Speaker 1: man like the six five? Never dated a guy like 449 00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:12,160 Speaker 1: did you see could you see that though? I could 450 00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:15,880 Speaker 1: see that though? I see that that because you can 451 00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:20,040 Speaker 1: set the thick standing up, like you have to put 452 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:21,600 Speaker 1: her head down. Yeah, like you could just like walk 453 00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 1: up with you up. You just walked straight up. You 454 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,920 Speaker 1: just walk straight up to it. Crazy? What did your 455 00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:36,640 Speaker 1: mom teach you like growing up? You know, living in 456 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 1: the house with your mom. Did she give you like 457 00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:40,360 Speaker 1: a sex talk when you were younger to teach you 458 00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:44,840 Speaker 1: about the birds and the bees? No? Did she ever 459 00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:47,240 Speaker 1: find out or how did she found out that actually 460 00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 1: lost her virginity? She told you, you told her. But 461 00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:53,480 Speaker 1: what's so crazy is I was I was already out 462 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:56,600 Speaker 1: with my with my own boyfriend sucking. I was already fucking. 463 00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:58,080 Speaker 1: But I told her when I wanted to sell, I 464 00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:00,680 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, we finally, you know, how does she react? 465 00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:06,520 Speaker 1: She just cringed. She was like, what are you guys 466 00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:09,600 Speaker 1: like friends or what's your relationship? Like she's my best friend. 467 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:13,880 Speaker 1: I pay for that for Jasmine. Do you know what 468 00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 1: that's a nine and the nine? Yeah, me and my 469 00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:29,440 Speaker 1: mom my best friends growing up. Um. I finally got 470 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:31,680 Speaker 1: to hear her say something like he was having a 471 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:33,920 Speaker 1: regular conversation, and she was like, I just wish I 472 00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:37,480 Speaker 1: I took more time to spend with you. And I 473 00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:40,880 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, because growing up, I'm only doing this 474 00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:44,800 Speaker 1: music stuff because I felt lonely, so I needed something. 475 00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:50,959 Speaker 1: I needed a Yeah, you was never home. She was right, 476 00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:53,720 Speaker 1: but I knew she loved me, Like when she came home, 477 00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 1: how she catered to me. I knew she loved me. 478 00:30:56,720 --> 00:31:00,160 Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm sure she was doing the best she could. Yea, 479 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:09,240 Speaker 1: the best. You do your thing? You are you out 480 00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:17,520 Speaker 1: here winning? I hated here's what you hated everything in life. Okay, 481 00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:19,239 Speaker 1: we're gonna make sure a little jazz and brand got 482 00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:23,280 Speaker 1: what she needs. Period. Let's talking about when you did 483 00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:26,040 Speaker 1: lose your virginity. Was it a good experience or do 484 00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 1: you remember like everything about it? Yeah? I do. It 485 00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:33,600 Speaker 1: was It was kind of crazy because like for it 486 00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:37,360 Speaker 1: to be the first time, it sucked me like I 487 00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:44,560 Speaker 1: was like I was out here fucking first time, a 488 00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:49,320 Speaker 1: little crazy. But this little motherfucker he geared me up 489 00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:52,920 Speaker 1: like it was days before, like hed gear me up, 490 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:54,640 Speaker 1: like we wouldn't really do it through it, like he'd 491 00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:59,400 Speaker 1: just do like you're pretty eat me out about me here, 492 00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 1: like days and two he was warming you up and 493 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,760 Speaker 1: then he's lost my virginity. Like we would have like 494 00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:09,120 Speaker 1: heavy make out sessions and then you know he would 495 00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:12,680 Speaker 1: eat he would eat me out and like fingers. So 496 00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:15,600 Speaker 1: by the time that we finally had sex, it wasn't 497 00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:18,320 Speaker 1: pain for bloody. That's why it was like he was 498 00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:23,239 Speaker 1: doing his big one. Okay, did you did you? Did 499 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 1: you enjoy it or not the first time? I don't 500 00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:28,960 Speaker 1: know anybody's really No, I didn't enjoy it. I don't 501 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:31,120 Speaker 1: even think we really did it the first time. I 502 00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:34,160 Speaker 1: think it wasn't a passionate thing. It just was curious, 503 00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:38,320 Speaker 1: curious did you believe? You believe? Yeah? And then when 504 00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:40,480 Speaker 1: is the next time he did it again? Oh? I 505 00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 1: left that motherfucker. See, look like I lest my virginity. Two. 506 00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:46,160 Speaker 1: I did it to him one time. It was one time. 507 00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:51,680 Speaker 1: He was my boyfriend for years though years and if so, 508 00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:53,880 Speaker 1: when you when it was time for you, when you 509 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:55,640 Speaker 1: moved on, and then when you're going to have sex 510 00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,200 Speaker 1: with the next guy, like, did you feel like, Okay, 511 00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:00,400 Speaker 1: I know what I'm doing because of my first experience 512 00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:02,880 Speaker 1: or did you still feel like, okay, I'm learning. I 513 00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:05,560 Speaker 1: felt like I was learning. Do you still feel like 514 00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:08,560 Speaker 1: you're learning? No, I mean, I know I'm sullivant, but 515 00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:12,440 Speaker 1: I get busy. She's like, I didn't forget. It was 516 00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:15,120 Speaker 1: with the guy that I lost my virginity. So for 517 00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:18,640 Speaker 1: a while, my first was a guy that I was 518 00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:21,320 Speaker 1: We were like the same age, and you know, we 519 00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 1: like kind of grew up together in the neighborhood and 520 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:27,160 Speaker 1: was friends that way, and literally throughout adulthood. He would 521 00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:29,840 Speaker 1: always be like that friends would benefit break in case 522 00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:32,600 Speaker 1: of emergencye Like when we would go years without seeing 523 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:34,000 Speaker 1: each other, but when we seeing each other, we knew 524 00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:35,560 Speaker 1: it was on the popping Like there was even a 525 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:37,520 Speaker 1: point where I had moved to Atlanta and a few 526 00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 1: years later he moved to Atlanta and one of our 527 00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:41,680 Speaker 1: mutual friends who didn't know that we knew each other 528 00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:47,840 Speaker 1: tried to introduce us and we were like, and that's 529 00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:51,240 Speaker 1: what I'm seeing for a moment with my first you 530 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:55,480 Speaker 1: know what I mean, trinity to a woman. Well, yeah, 531 00:33:55,560 --> 00:34:00,600 Speaker 1: that but y'all tell me that I doesn't come yea, Yeah, yeah, 532 00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:02,840 Speaker 1: y'all say I don't count. I mean, I definitely had 533 00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:07,840 Speaker 1: my very first whatever experience with female. I was, I 534 00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:12,000 Speaker 1: was playing with vagina at right before I thought about really, 535 00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:16,600 Speaker 1: But that's a different generations, different generations, different generations. But 536 00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:19,719 Speaker 1: I feel like it happens more now. But when we 537 00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:22,840 Speaker 1: talked about it with Angela always says that that wasn't 538 00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:27,640 Speaker 1: that they doesn't count as like losing my Virginia. It 539 00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 1: was like my kids stuff. No, you've never been with you, 540 00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:36,360 Speaker 1: said she said. But no, but I would I wouldn't. 541 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:39,839 Speaker 1: You're open to it, open to it. I know women 542 00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:45,279 Speaker 1: try to talk to you. Yeah, girl, you like one 543 00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:47,000 Speaker 1: of these girls came up to me. She was like, 544 00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:51,040 Speaker 1: I heard about you. You're strictly thickly, but let me 545 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:54,960 Speaker 1: tell you something. Were you ready cool? But what kind 546 00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:59,800 Speaker 1: was she was? She like? Uh, she was pretty? Or 547 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:07,840 Speaker 1: she like she was pretty but pretty aggressive? Yeah, you know, 548 00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:14,279 Speaker 1: I'm aggressive, but it's so crazy because line. But I 549 00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:15,960 Speaker 1: want a man to have me in line, not a 550 00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:18,719 Speaker 1: female to have me in line. Like, no, we're on 551 00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:25,120 Speaker 1: the same page, my mon. Like you might you might 552 00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:28,760 Speaker 1: be surprised because you're very alpha. You might need somebody 553 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:34,040 Speaker 1: that's better. So a woman might really suit you, you know. 554 00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:37,480 Speaker 1: I mean I thought about that, but the men and 555 00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:39,839 Speaker 1: you're not gonna like a better man. You're not gonna 556 00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:43,359 Speaker 1: like him. Yeah, but it's just I think it might 557 00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:45,640 Speaker 1: be more like a mental thing. Like it's like, girl, 558 00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:52,240 Speaker 1: you have what I have like yourself. You didn't. Yeah, okay, 559 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:55,239 Speaker 1: well maybe yeah, maybe maybe that's something we should. You 560 00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:57,040 Speaker 1: know what, you guys have a birthday. I'm not saying 561 00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:59,320 Speaker 1: on your birthday now, I'm saying if I have a birthday, 562 00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:02,000 Speaker 1: I can see it. But I'm just saying, might not 563 00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:05,880 Speaker 1: never happened, like being with a better man, with a 564 00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:08,719 Speaker 1: man who's gonna, you know, do anything you say and 565 00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:12,080 Speaker 1: not have you in line. That's what an alpha man does. 566 00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:15,480 Speaker 1: But you know, but a woman, I could see you 567 00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:21,280 Speaker 1: I'm having it in line. I might conceive myself eating 568 00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:24,680 Speaker 1: a zone box or whatever, but I've never in my 569 00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:29,400 Speaker 1: life bumped into at least one female made me feel 570 00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:32,719 Speaker 1: like you wanted to let me tell you something. I'm 571 00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:35,560 Speaker 1: not looking forward to it, but if it happened, it happened. 572 00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:37,239 Speaker 1: But I'm open to it. But I just never what 573 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:41,319 Speaker 1: about a threesome? That's how you sorry that that's that's 574 00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:49,680 Speaker 1: a nice things choose. I don't know about the three something. 575 00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:51,759 Speaker 1: The only thing I could go as far as threesomes 576 00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:55,840 Speaker 1: is when um masturbating. I could. I could fantasize about it, 577 00:36:56,640 --> 00:37:00,320 Speaker 1: but I don't know about really going like doing it. Yeah, okay, 578 00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:04,680 Speaker 1: you're conservative. She's not conservative, and she's if she's open 579 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:06,640 Speaker 1: to eat and pussy, that's not conservative, but she's not. 580 00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:09,960 Speaker 1: But I'm not like dying to do it. It's like 581 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:13,759 Speaker 1: most a lot of women are. I'm not open. No, 582 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:18,319 Speaker 1: I only said I'm saying because I know I can't. 583 00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:21,200 Speaker 1: I can't. I think women are attractive, but I don't. 584 00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:25,719 Speaker 1: I'm not open to another vagina. That's what I'm saying. 585 00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:28,200 Speaker 1: That's feel like she's open and it's not judgments. I 586 00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:30,600 Speaker 1: feel like she's open to it. So it's just like, Okay, no, 587 00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:33,160 Speaker 1: this ain't. I feel like you should try three sings away. 588 00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:35,800 Speaker 1: I have three sons do you have? I have three sums. 589 00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:44,920 Speaker 1: You guys know, I guess service only there women like 590 00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:52,360 Speaker 1: I wasn't there, but y yes me, we're like Bessie 591 00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,359 Speaker 1: she I'll tell her whatever, like I'll tell her when 592 00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:59,520 Speaker 1: I get my per I don't know about sharing, but 593 00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:04,719 Speaker 1: you know I have three So your man, your what man? Oh? 594 00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:06,879 Speaker 1: Your man? Okay, what about you know? Have you done 595 00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:14,960 Speaker 1: an no? But this girl she won't even like it's 596 00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:22,120 Speaker 1: a heype requirement for that grown as big wow doing 597 00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:28,880 Speaker 1: ain't new? I should where I actually like a lot 598 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:31,640 Speaker 1: of women like it. I like, it's not something that 599 00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:33,319 Speaker 1: I want to do all the time, but I could 600 00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:36,279 Speaker 1: do with the right with the right penism on the 601 00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:38,360 Speaker 1: right night. It can get on the poppet, but it 602 00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:41,320 Speaker 1: can't be the penis can't be too big, okay me 603 00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:45,240 Speaker 1: and side, Yeah, she may be my average average average 604 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:52,600 Speaker 1: and below average below. Can we get this is a 605 00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:59,440 Speaker 1: good time? Then maybe I'll be like, yeah, she's getting guys, 606 00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:02,279 Speaker 1: penis be so small you have to do an whatever 607 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:05,120 Speaker 1: that part? Oh you you know, not mean, not mean, 608 00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:10,719 Speaker 1: not mean. When I'm not somebody but I've been, I 609 00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:14,440 Speaker 1: would have done at them with him because the only 610 00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:16,439 Speaker 1: time I ever had I have an ex who had 611 00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:18,320 Speaker 1: a really small dick, and I think he is the 612 00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:21,120 Speaker 1: reason why I started to enjoy anal, because anal felt 613 00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:33,080 Speaker 1: better than that. It wasn't leaving. Now, wow, experience. Have 614 00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:38,120 Speaker 1: you ever had a smart penis? No penises? I know, 615 00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:42,160 Speaker 1: but you know sometimes, but I've never experienced something that 616 00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:45,880 Speaker 1: was like not even it was just right. It was 617 00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:49,080 Speaker 1: always just right. Have you never had a real big dick? Yeah, 618 00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:52,719 Speaker 1: but it wasn't. It was cool, not real big, like 619 00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:56,120 Speaker 1: not like I was like, okay, yeah, you know I 620 00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:59,759 Speaker 1: pique someone, Yeah, I bumped this is someone that it 621 00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:06,480 Speaker 1: was like and kept said, no, that's not that's that's 622 00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:08,839 Speaker 1: not exciting. It's not her ministry. How much has your 623 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:12,759 Speaker 1: life changed? And like this past year because you know, 624 00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:15,480 Speaker 1: you have a song that's huge, don't play with it, 625 00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:18,160 Speaker 1: but it also had been out for a while before 626 00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:21,640 Speaker 1: I go, it's going on two years and did you 627 00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:24,320 Speaker 1: did you ever? Did you anticipate that or were you like, 628 00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:27,959 Speaker 1: all right, that song it's not really happened, like about 629 00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:30,680 Speaker 1: you forget about it. No. Never. I always promoted it. 630 00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:33,040 Speaker 1: I probably didn't promote it as much as I did 631 00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:36,000 Speaker 1: when it first came out, but I always still promoted 632 00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:39,520 Speaker 1: it in some some type of form. How does it 633 00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:44,239 Speaker 1: feel to have like huge celebrities like doing TikTok's and 634 00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:47,279 Speaker 1: because that's a song, like after two years, you're not 635 00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:50,880 Speaker 1: really thinking like after it's about to blow up? Right right, Um, 636 00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:53,680 Speaker 1: I'll tell you, I'll give you the bugle job. I 637 00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:58,239 Speaker 1: sit back, I look up. I'll be like, nah, New York, 638 00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:06,000 Speaker 1: no way that it's real. Like I always sit back 639 00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:09,120 Speaker 1: and be like it's this real and my dreaming. You're 640 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:14,560 Speaker 1: here it just a year later the should the right 641 00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:18,680 Speaker 1: record is gonna go when it's gonna go. When you 642 00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:21,360 Speaker 1: made that record, I was tired of being played with 643 00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:24,120 Speaker 1: for real, for real, Like that's really how that energy 644 00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:26,120 Speaker 1: came out. So when I was like, don't believe with it, 645 00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,520 Speaker 1: don't belie with this, don't belie with it, I was. 646 00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:31,880 Speaker 1: I really felt that way at that moment, like stopped 647 00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:33,920 Speaker 1: playing with me. You know what, we got to talk 648 00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:37,000 Speaker 1: about this vibral video of you that's really old, but 649 00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:39,240 Speaker 1: with you hanging off the car, girl, what was happening? 650 00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:46,520 Speaker 1: That's not you. I don't know that girl. That was 651 00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:50,120 Speaker 1: not her. Now, that wasn't me our our name CHEECHI. 652 00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:55,600 Speaker 1: That really wasn't your name Chech, her name Lola for 653 00:41:55,760 --> 00:42:04,759 Speaker 1: real hanging out. But if I was home, Yeah, she 654 00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:07,359 Speaker 1: would be hanging up that hanging out that cop than 655 00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:10,120 Speaker 1: hanging out that thing. Now you also have yeah girl 656 00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:12,640 Speaker 1: Billy be on the song. So what's going on with 657 00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:15,719 Speaker 1: that now? Because I know you on? So what's the plan? 658 00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:19,719 Speaker 1: Plan A keep promoting and too. I told her, I 659 00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,160 Speaker 1: said yo, he, I said yo, if you need to 660 00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:26,319 Speaker 1: smart this ship out, smart out, do it. I don't. 661 00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:32,640 Speaker 1: I'm in the room next. Ye get your coins from this, 662 00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:36,359 Speaker 1: because sooner or later they're gonna be talking about us. 663 00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:39,000 Speaker 1: So just do what you need to do, Do what 664 00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:41,279 Speaker 1: you need to do to make whatever you gotta do. Sure, 665 00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:43,040 Speaker 1: when was the moment that you would like this is it? 666 00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:46,200 Speaker 1: Because you've had a lot of you know, great really 667 00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:49,239 Speaker 1: viral moments as of late. So when were you like, 668 00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:55,560 Speaker 1: this is it? The biggest dead ass, the biggest dead ass? 669 00:42:56,640 --> 00:43:02,719 Speaker 1: Oh I still don't feel it now, Yeah, Oh it's coming. Yeah, 670 00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:04,440 Speaker 1: And when it happened, you're gonna be like, oh they 671 00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:09,680 Speaker 1: were talking about Yeah, I know, it's just I know 672 00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:12,279 Speaker 1: it's more work too, It's more work to put in, 673 00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:14,759 Speaker 1: Like I just, I mean, I've been working for a 674 00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:17,080 Speaker 1: long time now, but I'm new to the people, so 675 00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:19,920 Speaker 1: what they what they see, it's not what they know. 676 00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:24,399 Speaker 1: So I gotta keep going going, moving forward. And I've 677 00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:27,400 Speaker 1: been trying to feel it, but I just can't because 678 00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:30,880 Speaker 1: I already like fantasize about it. I envisioned it. I 679 00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:34,040 Speaker 1: kind of like got the feeling of it, but it 680 00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:37,239 Speaker 1: just never happened yet. But you also do have to 681 00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:40,560 Speaker 1: make sure that you enjoying the moments, right, Yeah, I'm 682 00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:43,560 Speaker 1: having talked about that a lot um. I'm trying to. 683 00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:48,720 Speaker 1: But you're gonna vacation. How does your mom feel about 684 00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:57,040 Speaker 1: your career? Everybody? She made it. She did she period, 685 00:43:57,160 --> 00:44:00,440 Speaker 1: She did make it word. She definitely did. She's excited, 686 00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:03,200 Speaker 1: I know because at the end of the day she 687 00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:06,479 Speaker 1: said to herself, like it was just I'm the only child. 688 00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:10,040 Speaker 1: You know, how many people have five to fourteen twenty 689 00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:13,040 Speaker 1: kids and not one of them they feel is they 690 00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:17,000 Speaker 1: token out? She like, I just had one baby child. 691 00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:21,400 Speaker 1: She is my golden child. Like that's really a blessing. 692 00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:24,520 Speaker 1: What's been your biggest check? Self? Fire and what do 693 00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:28,560 Speaker 1: you do with it? My biggest check? I saved it? 694 00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:32,400 Speaker 1: Good for you, for sure, I'm sure I really save it. 695 00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:34,840 Speaker 1: And the most I might have done with it is 696 00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:39,080 Speaker 1: um moving to a new apartment and I paid my 697 00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,239 Speaker 1: mom's bills off for a few months, and stuff like 698 00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:48,799 Speaker 1: there money and the show money and you know so crazy. Um. 699 00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:50,640 Speaker 1: People be coming up to me like, yeah, you got 700 00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:54,600 Speaker 1: them shows, you got them hosting. I ain't spend that money. Yeah, 701 00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:58,719 Speaker 1: who taught you money? My mom's every time we want 702 00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:04,320 Speaker 1: the supermarket, she had that circlet she like destroying, grabbed 703 00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:12,200 Speaker 1: that coupon this c okay, how you going? And you 704 00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:15,920 Speaker 1: see what she said coming. We normally eat this, but 705 00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:19,880 Speaker 1: this okay, so we're gonna prop with with the on 706 00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:26,399 Speaker 1: the bcause dirty wit was cereal. Cereal can be dirty 707 00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:28,920 Speaker 1: with Cereal, but the brand, the bread was old branded. 708 00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:36,600 Speaker 1: The sugar might be old brand sugar and sugar. I 709 00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:40,640 Speaker 1: need cereals in the bag was banging back in the days. 710 00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:42,920 Speaker 1: I used to love those cereals. Now you know what 711 00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:49,759 Speaker 1: my grandma, grandma, it was old brand Cereal, like a 712 00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:52,399 Speaker 1: brand cereal, get socket a little quicker if you eat 713 00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:55,520 Speaker 1: a quick yes you eat that's what? Yeah, especially like 714 00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:58,480 Speaker 1: the crispy Yeah yeah, my baby Cereal used to be 715 00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:03,200 Speaker 1: fruit loops, Oh good, and then little what's the one 716 00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:07,719 Speaker 1: with the cookies? Cookie c serial? What's frosted flakes? I 717 00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:11,920 Speaker 1: like that too? I love you? But actually got so fast, 718 00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:15,960 Speaker 1: I got like apple jacks and um, what's this the 719 00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:26,800 Speaker 1: grand crunch, golden girl, golden golden grandches. Know that's that? 720 00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:35,759 Speaker 1: Oh oh honeycomb. You know I used to be mad 721 00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:42,040 Speaker 1: with chimes. You got the bottom really now, I wasn't serial. 722 00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:44,839 Speaker 1: I don't mean, I don't even a lot of serial. Else. 723 00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:47,759 Speaker 1: I got Franken Berry in my house right now, frank Wow? 724 00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:55,640 Speaker 1: What about fruity pebbles? I love and I love so 725 00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:59,919 Speaker 1: when when I want to feel grown and sexy about? 726 00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:05,840 Speaker 1: Is serial? Have you ever experimented with food in the bedroom? 727 00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:11,080 Speaker 1: Is I seas and stuff like that? Yeah? Okay, so 728 00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:15,480 Speaker 1: that's what happened with these ice fat Oh gosh, I 729 00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:18,120 Speaker 1: never throw it out see the day. But yeah, you 730 00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:23,359 Speaker 1: know you get you just aw and um fruit roll upes. 731 00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:27,120 Speaker 1: So what did you do? I was that you put 732 00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:35,440 Speaker 1: the round? Dicky definitely had references. Yes, And if you 733 00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:37,480 Speaker 1: ain't got ice seas, just go get ice putting the 734 00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:48,200 Speaker 1: little bit get straight to it like I got a 735 00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:50,480 Speaker 1: few trinks of my I want to say the first 736 00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:52,640 Speaker 1: time I ever sectic. I was so terrible at it. 737 00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:55,520 Speaker 1: I don't know what I was doing. You did are 738 00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:58,960 Speaker 1: like I think I definitely used my teeth a lot. Yeah, 739 00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:03,360 Speaker 1: I didn't know, and it was dry. I didn't know 740 00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:05,879 Speaker 1: that was a bad You don't learn like you don't. 741 00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:08,040 Speaker 1: I feel like you don't know what to you don't 742 00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:11,680 Speaker 1: you don't know what you don't know. And then also 743 00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:13,960 Speaker 1: I feel like men say like a lot of like 744 00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:15,520 Speaker 1: a lot of space, but she don't know that they 745 00:48:15,600 --> 00:48:18,200 Speaker 1: mean that much spit like I did my big one. 746 00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:21,520 Speaker 1: The first time I did my big one, I went 747 00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:23,880 Speaker 1: out with a bang. I call my best friend to 748 00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:27,680 Speaker 1: let her know, like, and she was like, I was 749 00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:29,360 Speaker 1: about to call you too. It's so crazy. Was I 750 00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:31,200 Speaker 1: was about to call you too and say you should 751 00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:34,759 Speaker 1: I do it? Should? And you said you how did 752 00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:38,560 Speaker 1: you know what you were doing? Videos? See we didn't 753 00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:41,239 Speaker 1: have that. No, we didn't. But I like, it's pretty 754 00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:46,520 Speaker 1: self explanatory that it was. No. Yeah, I had to 755 00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:49,879 Speaker 1: take well. I was there when I had oral sex 756 00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:51,640 Speaker 1: for the first time. I was with somebody that was 757 00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:53,320 Speaker 1: way older than meet it I should not have been with. 758 00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:57,239 Speaker 1: And I was literally put on point and be like that, 759 00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:02,120 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, my first time going down on a guy. 760 00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:06,000 Speaker 1: He was, um, he gave instructions really wild. Yeah the 761 00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,480 Speaker 1: guy I wasn't. He just did it. But you know, 762 00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:10,719 Speaker 1: I think I definitely like, I feel like later on 763 00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:16,600 Speaker 1: it was like scabs. Oh god, no, I think I 764 00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:20,360 Speaker 1: didn't know. I don't know what to do, but it 765 00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:22,480 Speaker 1: was I feel like it's pretty self explained to what 766 00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:26,839 Speaker 1: because you got to communicate because sometimes, like I hate 767 00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:29,239 Speaker 1: when people use their teeth, and sometimes when somebody's given 768 00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:31,200 Speaker 1: you or you might move but they think you're moving 769 00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:38,560 Speaker 1: because you like it, but you really it's not good communication. 770 00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:43,759 Speaker 1: You'll be surprised some guys like are you good at 771 00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:45,560 Speaker 1: telling people what you don't like? Are you good at 772 00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:49,120 Speaker 1: communicating in the bedroom? Oh? Of course, I'd be like, 773 00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:55,360 Speaker 1: do it there? No, no, no, no, no, stops you 774 00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:59,600 Speaker 1: do straight you straight? Straight right there? Right? Keep that 775 00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:06,160 Speaker 1: that right there, God's true. Straight straight, don't play. I'm like, 776 00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:10,919 Speaker 1: that's okay, Maybe you're good. That's cool. You gotta tell them, see, 777 00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:12,680 Speaker 1: but you gotta tell them when you like it, because 778 00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:15,399 Speaker 1: they would start switching up. That's got to tell them 779 00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:18,719 Speaker 1: that when you're about to come, and then they do 780 00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:21,279 Speaker 1: some other ship and they sunk up the rhythms what 781 00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:25,080 Speaker 1: are you like good right now? Right? How they could 782 00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:28,440 Speaker 1: keep continuing motivation. But I think the mistake that guys 783 00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:30,400 Speaker 1: make is you say it's good right there, and they do, 784 00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:40,000 Speaker 1: they move, they do a harder no, stay where you 785 00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:43,480 Speaker 1: at that perfect? I feel like this when I'm when 786 00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:47,360 Speaker 1: I tell the guy I want to do and I'm like, yes, perfect, 787 00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:51,040 Speaker 1: and he sucks it up. My facial expressions just changes. 788 00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:59,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, you'd be having the attitude around Get, that's 789 00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:05,480 Speaker 1: the I swear, But like I told you, you don't 790 00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:08,160 Speaker 1: have an attitude after sex because he came and you didn't, 791 00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:21,040 Speaker 1: but you couldn't like girls like that. It's okay, yeah exactly, 792 00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:24,280 Speaker 1: I swear it looks like okay Forget. It's okay because 793 00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:28,920 Speaker 1: guys would always come. They don't they think, And I 794 00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:32,880 Speaker 1: hate when they always think that you none up multiple 795 00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:36,759 Speaker 1: times as fucking you exactly. Have even been with a 796 00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:41,719 Speaker 1: guy he came so many times he couldn't come anymore. Listen, Yes, 797 00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:44,640 Speaker 1: I have. You know I've talked about this on the 798 00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:47,560 Speaker 1: show before, Like I've had sex triafter launch where you 799 00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:49,719 Speaker 1: have mad sex and you fall asleep and then start 800 00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:53,320 Speaker 1: having sex again and eat or something and that sex again. 801 00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:57,160 Speaker 1: Like after a while, the guy is literally coming air 802 00:51:57,760 --> 00:52:02,359 Speaker 1: like this, I just can't like done well. I feel 803 00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:08,560 Speaker 1: like you're honestly, I'm cup to bubble you. They said 804 00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:11,120 Speaker 1: to me, they said you got lip service, and they 805 00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:20,200 Speaker 1: was like, she's going to enjoy this period. I am, well, listen, 806 00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:22,719 Speaker 1: you gotta come back, you know. Congratulations. I'm glad we 807 00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:25,120 Speaker 1: got to celebrate the day that you signed you a 808 00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:30,360 Speaker 1: new deal because that is amazing. So congratulations. You know, 809 00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:33,839 Speaker 1: I'm happy for a fellow Brooklyn woman to be doing 810 00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:35,520 Speaker 1: it as big as you are. And I live in 811 00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:38,319 Speaker 1: best I. You know, I got my businesses and best guy, 812 00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:41,120 Speaker 1: so I think that's amazing. So I am like, this 813 00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:43,400 Speaker 1: is exciting for me just to have you here. So 814 00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:46,320 Speaker 1: I appreciate you for that. Appreciating Her name is Lola 815 00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:53,080 Speaker 1: brook Brook for Brooklyn Brooks for Brooklyn, and that I love. 816 00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:59,480 Speaker 1: It's like, I gotta do the things we like. Lola 817 00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:06,919 Speaker 1: brook a little brook we sign it on. Yeah, that's 818 00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:10,919 Speaker 1: the favorite thing. But listen, what's the plan for you now? Though, 819 00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:14,120 Speaker 1: Like I know you plan it everything out because I 820 00:53:14,280 --> 00:53:18,000 Speaker 1: just know you are. The plan is to stay consistent. 821 00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:21,040 Speaker 1: The plan is to not fix anything that's not broke. 822 00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:24,800 Speaker 1: The plan is to be myself and cater to my 823 00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:27,719 Speaker 1: fans because my fans has played the biggest part of 824 00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:36,400 Speaker 1: my career. Okay to the script, Yes, alright, but Lolo again, congratulations, 825 00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:39,480 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for coming to join us today, 826 00:53:40,080 --> 00:53:42,439 Speaker 1: and we're gonna see you again. Yeah, I'll be back. 827 00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:52,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna se you up with Angela ye too. Everything yes, everything, alright, 828 00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:56,240 Speaker 1: Lolo break, thank you so much as lift service. Cheers, cheers,