1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:10,399 Speaker 2: It's almost famous podcast. We're here today to discuss all 4 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 2: the latest happenings in Bachelor Nation. But before we get 5 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 2: into that, Ashley, last time we spoke, it was just 6 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:23,119 Speaker 2: a few days before the festive holidays. How was your Thanksgiving? 7 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:26,079 Speaker 3: It was wonderful. How is yours? 8 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 2: It was great. We did the Bloody Mary Bar, which 9 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 2: was a blast. A lot of neighbors showed up. I mean, 10 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 2: the house was the house was packed. 11 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:37,160 Speaker 3: You hosted one of the bloody man. 12 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 2: Oh no goodness, okay, no, just down the street here. 13 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:44,159 Speaker 2: That was It's such a good idea in the morning 14 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:47,879 Speaker 2: to have this. It's kind of a good warm up. 15 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 2: It's early, you know, the kids get to play with 16 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 2: their friends before they go play with their cousins. It's 17 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 2: a great way to wear them out. When he was 18 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 2: a star at it, she's been a star for the 19 00:00:57,280 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 2: last few days. We came back here, had a big, 20 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:04,919 Speaker 2: big early dinner, like lunch dinner, like a two thirty, 21 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 2: and then just chilled out the rest of the day. 22 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 2: It was awesome. It was great. That is awesome, relaxing day. 23 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:12,400 Speaker 3: So I have a question for you. 24 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 4: You were talking on the other podcast about how you 25 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 4: always have the. 26 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:18,759 Speaker 3: TV on and you have you know, football on. 27 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 4: But Jess is really particular about when you screen time. 28 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 3: How do you have her? How do you deal with that? 29 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? So, I mean we didn't have any TV on 30 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:35,319 Speaker 2: when we were eating, that was all just separate. But afterwards, well, 31 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 2: typically Winnie is at this point so distracted on the 32 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 2: floor with somebody doing like a book. It's not like 33 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:46,040 Speaker 2: she's sitting there glued into the TV. 34 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 4: Okay, So that's my question, Like on lazy days like Thanksgiving, 35 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 4: is that considered screen time if they're like doing other stuff. 36 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 2: No, because they're not focused, like I mean, at least 37 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 2: in our household. I'm guess it's different for every family, 38 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 2: but for us, I think it's a little bit of 39 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 2: the laxed like mindset of Okay, the TV's on, but 40 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 2: when he's not watching it, she's actually like has her 41 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:13,799 Speaker 2: back turned to it, and so somebody is engaging her 42 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:17,360 Speaker 2: in something other than the TV the whole time. I think, 43 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 2: like the by definition here it would be, is a 44 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 2: screen the source of entertainment for Winny or not? If 45 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 2: the screen's the source of entertainment, and we can tell 46 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 2: it's a source of entertainment. Then it's typically like, let's 47 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 2: pull her out, take her upstairs with the screen's not on. 48 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 2: If it's on and she's doing her own thing, not 49 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:40,559 Speaker 2: even a problem, like totally. 50 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 3: Cool, Okay. So that's always like my debate. 51 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 4: I'm like, if I'm watching a show that's for me 52 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 4: and they're just like playing around the living room, is 53 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 4: that like fine? Is this considered their screen time for 54 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 4: the day? Because that makes me feel guilty, and then 55 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 4: it makes me feel like I can ever watch TV 56 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 4: for myself. 57 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 3: Sure, relaxed during the weekend. 58 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 2: No, I mean like at night when I'm giving Winnie 59 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 2: the bottle, I have the TV on when he's not 60 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:08,360 Speaker 2: watching it, but it's on. 61 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, you mean dedicated screen time. 62 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:14,519 Speaker 2: She's yeah, she's gluing in. She like if you're if 63 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 2: the boys sat next to you and we're like, mom, 64 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 2: I'm gonna watch this, Yeah, I'd say that's it. But 65 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 2: it just a glancing like look, or there's a noise 66 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 2: that goes on and she checks it out like not 67 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:27,959 Speaker 2: a problem. And it's kind of fun because at this 68 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:31,920 Speaker 2: point I can tell she so easily could get addicted, 69 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 2: just like we do as adults. She'd get a dick 70 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 2: to the screen. She loves like pulling my phone if 71 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 2: I have it sitting on a counter or something and 72 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 2: holding it. 73 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 4: It's the phone and the iPad that I've found to 74 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 4: be the issues. 75 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean so I think I think that's by 76 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 2: our definition, how we're doing it. And I kind of 77 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 2: plan on doing it this way for as long as 78 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 2: we possibly can until it gets weird for her. But 79 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 2: I would rather, you know, ask her to play with 80 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 2: something that's not a screen or a toy on the 81 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 2: ground and do that with her. I mean it's a 82 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 2: little harder, yes, for me, because I don't get to 83 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 2: necessarily just chill out. But I don't know as a 84 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 2: parent if you just get to chill out too often 85 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 2: during the days. 86 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 3: Hey, Hayden doesn't let us. 87 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 4: So we really do enjoy like our seven to nine 88 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:27,919 Speaker 4: o'clock like family TV time, especially now you're like a 89 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 4: Christmas movie. 90 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 3: But Hayden won't do it. Dawson is wow. 91 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 4: He will want to snuggle like hug you for two hours. 92 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 3: While you bond over a movie and that is so odd. 93 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 4: We love it so so much, and at almost four, 94 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 4: I think it's totally appropriate and it's cool. Like Jared 95 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 4: and I like will bond over our favor things. I 96 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 4: still predominantly keep him in like nineties oriented TV full 97 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 4: houses our go to. 98 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 3: I pretty much basically don't consider for house screen time. 99 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:04,840 Speaker 4: Because it is so wholesome and lesson oriented that I'm like, well. 100 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 3: How does this even count? 101 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 4: But he that's really fun. But that Hayden, like we 102 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 4: have like maybe twenty minutes. If he has a snack 103 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 4: in a movie for twenty minutes, then it's like, all right, 104 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 4: I'll take him upstairs or downstairs or whatnot. 105 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 3: But he's just like, hello, family, what's play? 106 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, And that's fun. It is, and it you know, 107 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 2: it's I have to in those moments, you know, Colts 108 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 2: Game's on, I'm glueden and she's up in my business. 109 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 2: I have to remember like this, I'm going to be 110 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 2: a lot happier being on the floor with her in 111 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 2: four years and I am like checked out only watching 112 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 2: the game, like hey, little baby girl, get away from me, 113 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 2: Like that's crazy. So I we just kind of do it, 114 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:52,600 Speaker 2: and it's nice my parents are out here, when Jess's 115 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 2: parents are out here. You know, we do have a 116 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:58,359 Speaker 2: lot of visitors because we live far away. You know, 117 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 2: you can kind of pass her off too to play 118 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 2: with somebody and they're ye, so down. Yeah, Like we 119 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 2: only have one, so it's a little different for us. 120 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 4: Here's here's the two of them. Yeah, close the door, 121 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 4: we have alone time. It is a huge, huge difference, 122 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:16,839 Speaker 4: you know what. We're both kind of at a crappy 123 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 4: stage with like the couch and the baby because Hayden 124 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 4: and you, I'm sure they'll still tumble off the couch 125 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:25,359 Speaker 4: and you still have to worry about that. Yeah, like 126 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 4: if I PLoP him on my bed, oh he get 127 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 4: a concussion? 128 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:31,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, sure, he could break his neck falling off my bed. 129 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 2: I mean, we've had close calls and it's the scariest 130 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 2: I don't know if you even know. 131 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 4: Hayden fell off the bed and then Dawson had fell 132 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:39,240 Speaker 4: off the couch when he was this age. 133 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:42,839 Speaker 2: It's the scariest thing. It rocks your world. Like we 134 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 2: we haven't had a fall yet, but we've had a 135 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 2: close call. Like, oh my gosh, she started crawling all 136 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 2: of a sudden. We never knew she could. And now 137 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:53,480 Speaker 2: she's at the edge and you know, both of us 138 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 2: are diving like ten foot across the floor like you 139 00:06:56,720 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 2: know the athletes we once were. Yeah, it's scary and 140 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 2: it will rock you. Your heart rate will raise and 141 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:05,160 Speaker 2: you won't forget it. And so we have we've been 142 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 2: very cautious of this now. Yeah, and little babies are 143 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 2: just everywhere, like they just tumble around and roll around 144 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 2: and contort themselves. 145 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 3: And exactly contorting. 146 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 2: It's it's it's a lot of fun. But it's been great. 147 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 2: And I haven't traveled in weeks. Now, that's awesome. I'm 148 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 2: so happy for you. Yeah, I'm feeling very very much 149 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 2: like caught up centered, got some good winny is good 150 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 2: winning time and means so yeah, life's life's fun. And 151 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 2: then we'll pick it back up again here for a 152 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 2: little bit before Christmas, and then we'll come back afterwards 153 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 2: and next year will be a lot slower for me, 154 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 2: not professionally, I don't want to say that, but it's 155 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 2: going to be a lot slower with travel. That's my goal. Okay, 156 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 2: how do I make that happen with gold? 157 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 3: I don't know. I was like, how are you not 158 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 3: going to slow up professionally? 159 00:07:57,280 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 5: But you're also going I have no You'll figure it out, Okay, Hey. 160 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 2: Let's dive in the headlines. A weird switch because I'm 161 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 2: just in a good mood from the holidays, relaxed mood 162 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 2: and good mood, cheerful mood. But we do have some 163 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 2: big headlines today that we need to cover. Bachelor Nation's 164 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 2: Carl Waddell. She gets candid about dating after ending engagement. 165 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:35,319 Speaker 4: So she entered her engagement over the summer and now 166 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:38,439 Speaker 4: she is like trying to get back in the dating pool. 167 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 4: She had this funny moment where she makes fun of 168 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:45,720 Speaker 4: herself in this Instagram reel about how she's attempting to 169 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 4: get back out there. She said that there was this 170 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:50,680 Speaker 4: cute guy that she saw at a bar. She thought 171 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 4: they were making eyes at each other. She was with 172 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:56,440 Speaker 4: her sister in law and her brother, and she thought that, 173 00:08:57,240 --> 00:08:59,960 Speaker 4: you know, she would give her number to the guy, 174 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 4: but not write down her name because she didn't want 175 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:05,560 Speaker 4: him to google her without getting to like meet her 176 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 4: in prison. So they left the bar and then she 177 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 4: goes back in with a piece of paper with her 178 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 4: number on it. And then he's not at the table anymore, 179 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:17,319 Speaker 4: but his friends or family they're still there. He must 180 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 4: have gone to the bathroom or something, and instead of saying, like, hey, 181 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 4: I thought that guy that you were with was cute, 182 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 4: she literally like stood in front of the table and 183 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 4: then ran outside, ran back outside and just totally chickened out. 184 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:33,840 Speaker 4: So she's making fun of herself, feeling like she's like 185 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 4: back in elementary school again. At the end of it all, 186 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 4: her sister in law actually went back in gave the 187 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 4: guy her number and he never called. 188 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, he probably didn't know who it was. 189 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 2: No, he's like, I have a random number from this 190 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 2: human that I didn't see meet or whatever. Here's what 191 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 2: I'm taking from this. Celebrities they're just like us. You know, 192 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 2: they get nervous, they run from tables. They're not as 193 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:10,920 Speaker 2: smooth as maybe we like to imagine them to be. Carly. 194 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 2: You're not alone in this funny, awkward behavior. Goodness, it's awkward, 195 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 2: but you're not alone, and it's wonderful that you got 196 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 2: a little nervous. 197 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 3: It's really you know, it's kind of fun. 198 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 4: It's more fun hearing your friends do it than it 199 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:28,560 Speaker 4: is you having to go and take the leap of faith. 200 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:31,719 Speaker 2: But I think in the day and age of Instagram 201 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 2: in social media, Ashley, I watch, I mean, this is 202 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 2: One of the reasons why I've backed off so much 203 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:41,680 Speaker 2: from social media is I watch it, I'm like, goodness, 204 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:45,560 Speaker 2: everybody is more fit than me. Everybody's smoother than me, 205 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:47,960 Speaker 2: they dress better than me. It seems like they're driving 206 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:50,880 Speaker 2: fancier cars because they're obviously making so much more money 207 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 2: than me. That's my mind. 208 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 4: That's not as like, it's not like as appealing as 209 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 4: you think. I think that like your humbleness, your groundedness, 210 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 4: just the that you're like a guy's guy is way 211 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 4: more attractive than trying to be smooth. 212 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it makes me envious. And so when we 213 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:09,080 Speaker 2: hear these kind of stories where we're like, oh, yeah, 214 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 2: Carly stood at a table awkwardly while the parents probably 215 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:14,440 Speaker 2: looked up at her and was like hello, and she's like, 216 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:16,840 Speaker 2: that makes me smile because. 217 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 4: If you see somebody as approachable and beautiful as Carly, 218 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 4: I would have been like, Hi, what's up? 219 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:23,680 Speaker 3: Like, what are you thinking? 220 00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 2: You're trying to talk to my husband? 221 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:30,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, he wasn't responsive. 222 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. We didn't even think of that. It's like, oh, yeah, 223 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 3: maybe he's dating somebody. 224 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, and they were sitting there too. It's funny speaking 225 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:41,319 Speaker 2: of dating we have a really great couple coming out 226 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 2: of Bachelor in Paradise this year that we are catching 227 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 2: up with Bachelor in Paradise's couple Alex and Andrew. They 228 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:51,560 Speaker 2: detailed their biggest fight in Ashley. It's over what I 229 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 2: think is still the most common thing couples fight about today, finances. 230 00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 4: So funny, this is one thing that Jared and I 231 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:01,840 Speaker 4: can't relate to at all. We have always been so 232 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:03,960 Speaker 4: good discussing finances. 233 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:05,559 Speaker 3: What about you? 234 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's we don't ever well justin I 235 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 2: have a very like we set. I'd say this is 236 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 2: actually a good note that was given to us, and 237 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 2: I think it's a very like Christian Church note. Early 238 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:23,439 Speaker 2: on our relationship we went through like couples counts or 239 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 2: premarital counseling, and I think, you know, the idea of 240 00:12:27,920 --> 00:12:31,480 Speaker 2: boundaries and clear communication is helpful in any relationship. But 241 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:33,440 Speaker 2: that was one of the words given to us is hey, 242 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:36,520 Speaker 2: sit down and discuss like these four major things and 243 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 2: figure out how you're going to do it before you 244 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:40,320 Speaker 2: intern into marriage. And then if you have to adjust 245 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:42,400 Speaker 2: along the way, great, but talk about it when you do. 246 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 2: And so before we ever got married, we were like Okay, 247 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 2: here's how we're going to do this. We're gonna have 248 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 2: one shared bank account that we both put money into 249 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 2: every month. We're also going to have our own separate 250 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 2: bank accounts that you operate on and I operate on 251 00:12:57,559 --> 00:13:01,200 Speaker 2: because she runs her own business, I run my own business. 252 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 2: Crossing those two things together will get so confusing and 253 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 2: like misconstrued. And so our shared account is will we 254 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 2: pay all of our stuff out through, like all of 255 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 2: our life expenses, dinners, all that stuff, and then our 256 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 2: individual accounts, Like if Jessica wants to go to the 257 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 2: store and go on a shopping spree, she doesn't have 258 00:13:19,679 --> 00:13:22,320 Speaker 2: to check with me because she is responsible for her 259 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 2: own account. And it actually works out great for us personally. 260 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 2: We run that through by having separate credit cards and 261 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 2: then a shared credit card, and so things that are 262 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 2: shared are paid for collectively. Things that aren't. And she 263 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 2: needs to go buy more stuff for her skin studio, 264 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 2: go do it. It's fine, It's it's your business. But 265 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 2: we talk about a lot. We check in once a month, 266 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:52,320 Speaker 2: and but I am in charge of our collective finances 267 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 2: mostly because yeah, yeah, investments, bill, you know, bills, all that, 268 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 2: because mostly I I'm well, one, I'm at my computer 269 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:05,960 Speaker 2: more often, she's you know, obviously working on people. And 270 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 2: then two I just enjoy it, I think, And so 271 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 2: it was kind of a hey, yeah, you do that, 272 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 2: and then we kind of go over it every month 273 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 2: together on where our investments are and all that. 274 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 4: Oh that's good, we just have I don't get into it, 275 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 4: but it's like, thank God for a good accountant and 276 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 4: some good financial advisors because I'm like, I think I 277 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 4: understand the summary of what you guys are talking about, 278 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 4: but just like think goodness that. 279 00:14:34,920 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 3: You're really educated on it, because I don't want to. 280 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 3: Jared's a little bit more interested in it. 281 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:43,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, so it works, But I think the point is, 282 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 2: however you want to do, yes is clear communication. Okay, 283 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 2: so they had a. 284 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:51,400 Speaker 4: Fight over this, Well, they didn't really have a fight 285 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:53,239 Speaker 4: over anything very specifically. 286 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 3: They're just saying this is when they do bigger it. 287 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 4: Often will have to do with this, which is actually 288 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 4: like super interesting to me, being that they've only been 289 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 4: together for about six months. 290 00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:04,200 Speaker 2: I'd say it's a good sign. 291 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 4: It is good sign. It means that they're taking it 292 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 4: very seriously, like they are. If they're talking about each 293 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 4: other's finances at six months, I feel like they're planning 294 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 4: a real future together. 295 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's amazing. The worst thing I mean, 296 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 2: but I feel like Alex during Paradise right didn't she 297 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 2: wasn't in a big was it her that had the 298 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 2: big student debt that was going to get paid off? 299 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 4: So they use all the money that they won, yeah, 300 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:31,920 Speaker 4: for her student loans, which she has nothing anymore. And 301 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 4: she's really, you know, obviously feels very freed by that. 302 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 4: But and she says that because that's paid off, they're 303 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:42,360 Speaker 4: able to invest. And she said that she never even 304 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:44,600 Speaker 4: imagined herself being able to do that because she thought 305 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:46,320 Speaker 4: she was going to be burdened by the student loans 306 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:46,840 Speaker 4: for so long. 307 00:15:47,000 --> 00:15:47,320 Speaker 1: Mm hm. 308 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 4: So now that is something that they kind of talk about. 309 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 4: So he's kind of like, I'm just doing well, I 310 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:56,240 Speaker 4: know what I'm doing, like, and then she is kind 311 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:58,400 Speaker 4: of like, I want to be retired by this point. 312 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:01,880 Speaker 4: And then he's like, that's not really gonna happen anymore. 313 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 4: This is like not happening right now. People aren't retiring 314 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 4: at like your dream age. And then she said, like 315 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 4: none of them hold really grudges over it. At the end, 316 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 4: of the argument, they'll be like laughing and saying I 317 00:16:15,040 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 4: love you. But right now she's very focused on saving 318 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:25,320 Speaker 4: for her future, sitting for their future, and they're not 319 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 4: really they're not really. 320 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:30,480 Speaker 3: Afraid to talk about this stuff. 321 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 4: She said that she was always imagining that somebody was 322 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:39,200 Speaker 4: going to be the one to take over finances, to 323 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 4: be like a little bit more serious. 324 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:43,000 Speaker 3: About it, to be more of the you and the relationship. 325 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 4: And she says that they are both very much on 326 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 4: the same page, like neither of them are super versed 327 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 4: in it. 328 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think that's where you said, then 329 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 2: you need to quickly find people that are talented at it. 330 00:16:57,720 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 2: And it's going to be a big life expense, expensive 331 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 2: to have an accountant. It's expensive of these things. 332 00:17:04,080 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 3: Our accountant is worth everybody. 333 00:17:05,760 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gonna be worth it in the end, because one, 334 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:11,640 Speaker 2: you're not getting a bill in four years. That's like, hey, 335 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 2: in twenty twenty five, you owe this many back taxes 336 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:20,520 Speaker 2: with fines. It's you know, I think it's a fascinating topic. 337 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 2: And obviously there's people a lot more well versed than 338 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:25,880 Speaker 2: I am on it. But I do love that they're 339 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 2: having these conversations and that they're trying to navigate it 340 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:31,400 Speaker 2: and that they're talking about retirement. 341 00:17:32,040 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 4: I know, like they're so promising, Like this is amazing, 342 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 4: They're gonna get married. 343 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:40,960 Speaker 2: Let's go. Speaking of Bachelor in Paradise married couples, A 344 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:46,640 Speaker 2: Bachelor in Paradise alum Mari Peppin reveals every single cosmetic 345 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:49,440 Speaker 2: procedure she's had. 346 00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:51,000 Speaker 3: I love this. 347 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 4: I went through and did an Instagram reel with my 348 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:56,680 Speaker 4: sister nine months ago about this. 349 00:17:57,400 --> 00:18:01,640 Speaker 3: Lauren is hilarious. Like Lauren has everything time. 350 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:04,160 Speaker 4: The only thing that she's actually like gone to sleep 351 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:07,719 Speaker 4: for is her nose job, but lots of stuff at 352 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:12,200 Speaker 4: the medspot. And Mari is admitting to basically similar things 353 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:14,719 Speaker 4: so that she wanted to get a brass augmentation when 354 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 4: she was twenty one. 355 00:18:16,359 --> 00:18:17,040 Speaker 3: It was too. 356 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 4: Expensive so she didn't do that, but she did end 357 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:25,640 Speaker 4: up getting them at twenty seven. She also has had 358 00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 4: filler in her lips and in her underreyes, but now 359 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 4: she's just doing them and her lips. She's doing p 360 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:37,399 Speaker 4: RF in her underreyes now, which is it's kind of 361 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:40,880 Speaker 4: like a collegen booster can also help with dark circles 362 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 4: and brightening. I am going through this and Ben Stobba 363 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:47,960 Speaker 4: was like, what are you doing? I love the transparency stuff. 364 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:50,400 Speaker 4: It's such a thing on Instagram to be transparent about 365 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:52,919 Speaker 4: what you've gotten done. Thanks to Kylie Jenner. She really 366 00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:56,960 Speaker 4: we love Kylie for that anything else that she's done. 367 00:18:57,080 --> 00:19:03,440 Speaker 4: She's done botox and the massaters. Those are your jaw 368 00:19:03,520 --> 00:19:07,160 Speaker 4: muscles and you could put them there for aesthetics and 369 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:09,280 Speaker 4: TMJ relief. 370 00:19:09,680 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 3: I need to do it creates it you. No, you don't. 371 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 3: You're a guy. 372 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:16,719 Speaker 4: You want your jaw muscles to be big and wide, 373 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:17,720 Speaker 4: just like Jared. 374 00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:19,120 Speaker 3: You do have TMJ. 375 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:21,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. I need to figure that out because it's starting 376 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:21,840 Speaker 2: to hurt. 377 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 3: Really. 378 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:27,200 Speaker 2: Jess does a buckle massage at her studio. It really helps. Yeah, 379 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:29,160 Speaker 2: and I do. I wear a night guard every night. 380 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:30,920 Speaker 3: Oh you do wear a night gard. 381 00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, but she has this buckle massage. It's like an 382 00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 2: inner mouth massage. It always helps. 383 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:37,960 Speaker 3: You can get a little bit, Ben a little bit. 384 00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 4: But like, as a guy, and like I'm you know, 385 00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:44,399 Speaker 4: speaking as like I am an aesthetics nurse practitioner or whatever, 386 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:47,840 Speaker 4: but I am not. I would not do that as 387 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:50,159 Speaker 4: a guy because you want your job to be wide 388 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:51,040 Speaker 4: and strong. 389 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 3: I do it. 390 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:57,399 Speaker 4: I love my massador botox so much. It really creates 391 00:19:57,440 --> 00:20:00,359 Speaker 4: a totally different face for me. I look like so 392 00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:03,680 Speaker 4: much more feminine and like narrow because that's what it does. 393 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:07,159 Speaker 4: It'll narrow your draw because without it, of course I 394 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:10,480 Speaker 4: like my face without it too, but it's a lot boxier. 395 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:15,560 Speaker 4: It goes from like square to a little bit more hearty. Okay, 396 00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:17,119 Speaker 4: what about what about you? 397 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:17,400 Speaker 5: Ben? 398 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:21,520 Speaker 3: I mean, I know, like we got done. 399 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:25,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, we have some bachelor people, some men that definitely 400 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:30,080 Speaker 2: have done their stuff. It's not at all on my radar. 401 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:34,240 Speaker 2: It's just not something one if there was a health 402 00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:36,919 Speaker 2: benefit to it, if like I could get rid of 403 00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:39,280 Speaker 2: the grinding of my teeth or whatever that is, I'd 404 00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:44,120 Speaker 2: be like, oh, I'm interested. It's not that I look 405 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 2: at these dudes. I'm like, what in the world it 406 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 2: won My buddies would never let me live it down. 407 00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:50,359 Speaker 4: I don't even know who you're talking about, Like you 408 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:52,680 Speaker 4: think that somebody has a little brotox like I don't. 409 00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 2: I don't. 410 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 4: It depends on the lines. I don't as long as 411 00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:57,720 Speaker 4: you're not freezing yourself. 412 00:20:57,840 --> 00:21:00,040 Speaker 3: Who we're talking. 413 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:02,840 Speaker 4: No name, no names, Like are we talking from like 414 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:04,640 Speaker 4: decade ago or. 415 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 2: I think it's been a I think it's been an 416 00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:10,520 Speaker 2: ongoing theme for a decade. 417 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:13,159 Speaker 3: No way, yeah, we can just that's so funny. 418 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:18,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm again like, it's not here's my judgmental response 419 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 2: when I see it. It's nothing more than how are 420 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:22,760 Speaker 2: your buddies letting you do this? It's not that I 421 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:24,720 Speaker 2: like am like, oh no, I think you look good. 422 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 2: I do, But who are your friends? Because there is 423 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:32,280 Speaker 2: zero chance I could do it and walk into a 424 00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:35,399 Speaker 2: football game with them and them not say something or 425 00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 2: make me feel so silly. 426 00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 4: Like you think that they're like that frozen and it's 427 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:43,919 Speaker 4: just not well done for a guy. Really, I'm not 428 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:46,240 Speaker 4: a fan. I don't need like I would never want 429 00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:48,440 Speaker 4: Jerry to get botox either. That would be like so weird. 430 00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:51,760 Speaker 4: But I'm just thinking like there's somebody or there are 431 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:54,680 Speaker 4: people that have done it, so obviously that's super interesting. 432 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:55,240 Speaker 2: Hmm. 433 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,119 Speaker 3: Okay, what do you know a Jess gets done? 434 00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 2: She doesn't get any bowtie? 435 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:03,119 Speaker 3: Well, she does, she did any botox, she used to. 436 00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:05,800 Speaker 2: And because she has an eyebrow that was like lower 437 00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:08,400 Speaker 2: than the other or something, is that a thing? 438 00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:12,200 Speaker 4: Wait, she has one by nature that's lower than the other. 439 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, so she get it, but she doesn't one. She's 440 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 2: breastfeeding still, so she doesn't do anything she does. I 441 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,160 Speaker 2: mean I don't. The only thing I know she does 442 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 2: at least, and she would obviously tell me right now, 443 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:28,879 Speaker 2: is she blathers up with about eight different things every 444 00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:32,399 Speaker 2: night before bed, and then she tapes her face. This 445 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:33,360 Speaker 2: has been a new Yeah. 446 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 4: And she told me she gave me the face tape, 447 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:39,639 Speaker 4: which I loved the face tape for a minute, thinking 448 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 4: that it was helping with this sleep wrinkle that I 449 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:44,679 Speaker 4: get overnight, because like if you put your face on 450 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 4: your pillow like this, then like you get this a 451 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:50,760 Speaker 4: wrinkle by your nose because your cheek is like slamming 452 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:53,880 Speaker 4: into your nose. Yeah, But then the tape didn't really work. 453 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 4: What actually really works is this amazing pillow that also 454 00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:00,360 Speaker 4: helps with like a neck and backpin of it. 455 00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:03,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I mean every night before bed she has 456 00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 2: like four pieces of tape. And that's just the marriage. 457 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,160 Speaker 2: It's a marriage. It's beautiful, it's wonderful. 458 00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:11,240 Speaker 3: Should I go through what I have? 459 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:14,000 Speaker 2: I think, are you want to move on? 460 00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 3: Do you think so? 461 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,720 Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know what this all means. 462 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:19,480 Speaker 2: I think you did tell us what you've had, I 463 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:19,800 Speaker 2: would like. 464 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 4: Okay, So obviously I do botox in my forehead, only 465 00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:25,760 Speaker 4: need to do it like twice a year. I don't 466 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:29,120 Speaker 4: know before has really trained to not move so much, 467 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:32,919 Speaker 4: I guess because before botox, Holy crap, I have the 468 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:33,840 Speaker 4: massive our talks. 469 00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:37,800 Speaker 3: And then I have my lips filled. 470 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:41,520 Speaker 4: Do it like once every other year, like maybe like 471 00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:45,040 Speaker 4: once every year and a half. I also so then 472 00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:47,119 Speaker 4: the last time the last time I had then done 473 00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:51,359 Speaker 4: was was it was it two years ago? No, it 474 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:53,520 Speaker 4: has to be a year ago. And then I have 475 00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:56,959 Speaker 4: my underreyes filled a little bit, just for like a 476 00:23:57,000 --> 00:24:00,199 Speaker 4: little di of it. I don't really ever have like 477 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:05,040 Speaker 4: bad dark circles, but I haven't done that for two years. 478 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,920 Speaker 4: And then I do have filler in my temples, which 479 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 4: I need to actually get evened out. They're a little 480 00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 4: awkward right now, they're a little off. And then I 481 00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:21,000 Speaker 4: have the tiniest bit of filler right now and like 482 00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:21,480 Speaker 4: my like on my. 483 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:26,240 Speaker 3: Cheekbone, like just a couple of little drops. And I 484 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 3: kind of go back and forth. 485 00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:29,200 Speaker 4: On what I do again and what I don't do again, 486 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,000 Speaker 4: But I'm pretty happy with what I got right now. 487 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 2: Is there anything in the future you're planning on. 488 00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:37,000 Speaker 3: No, I wouldn't go beyond that. Okay, I also wouldn't 489 00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:38,720 Speaker 3: want like the cheek filler. 490 00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:41,720 Speaker 4: I am really really not a fan typically of cheek 491 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:45,480 Speaker 4: filler my, but I trust anything that my s dision, 492 00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 4: my girly she's not an s dision, she's a nurse, 493 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:51,840 Speaker 4: will suggest to me. And I was like, you know, honestly, 494 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 4: you could just do whatever you want, Just just say, oh, 495 00:24:57,359 --> 00:24:59,720 Speaker 4: chin filler, that's my big filling if I had But 496 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,400 Speaker 4: so let's just go to the top of the conversation 497 00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:07,400 Speaker 4: really quickly. Then if I really could only do two things, 498 00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:12,040 Speaker 4: it would always be the forehead talks and the chin filler, 499 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:16,920 Speaker 4: and then number three would probably be the jaw talks. 500 00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:18,320 Speaker 3: And that's it. 501 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:23,080 Speaker 4: That's my go to lip filler craps. Now we're adding on, 502 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:26,000 Speaker 4: but that is important every few years. 503 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 3: But I really don't. 504 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:30,440 Speaker 4: It's over time the lips keep the collagen in them 505 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:34,040 Speaker 4: from the filler. It's like a permanent scar kind of 506 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:37,320 Speaker 4: in the best way. So even if I were to 507 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 4: stop doing it all together, my lips would naturally be 508 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,040 Speaker 4: bigger than they were before I ever started. 509 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,719 Speaker 3: And those are my four things. Okay, moving on, He's like, 510 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:47,920 Speaker 3: can we get off of this cut? 511 00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 2: No? I mean I'm listening. I don't know if I've 512 00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,000 Speaker 2: understood anything you just said, but I'm listening. 513 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 3: Your wife is in aesthetics. 514 00:25:55,680 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 2: She's an aesthetics, yes, but it's not I don't think 515 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:03,320 Speaker 2: it's like that kind of thing. I don't know. 516 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:04,960 Speaker 3: Well, she's gonna talks girl. 517 00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:08,679 Speaker 2: There, she's gonna she does the whole Jess runs a 518 00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:11,440 Speaker 2: whole system. She's great. Her little business is great. 519 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:14,280 Speaker 4: She probably, I don't think, just looks no different than 520 00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:15,800 Speaker 4: once she started. But that's the whole thing. 521 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 2: Shout out to Higgy Skin. 522 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:19,480 Speaker 3: Yes, Higgy skin. 523 00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:20,280 Speaker 2: Higgy Skin. 524 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:23,680 Speaker 3: When did she change it from a year and a 525 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:26,600 Speaker 3: half ago? Higgy Skin? Why did she switch? 526 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,399 Speaker 2: Because this is a little bit of a catch your 527 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:34,280 Speaker 2: name right, Higgins, Higgy higgy skins. Cute, it's cute and 528 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:37,760 Speaker 2: you can you can use it for branding purposes for 529 00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:41,200 Speaker 2: future advancements in her business. 530 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:43,080 Speaker 3: Okay, great, I love this. 531 00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 2: She's a smart chick. She gets it. Chelsea Vaughn gets 532 00:26:56,520 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 2: Canada about an ongoing health issue she's been having. I 533 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:02,880 Speaker 2: don't know if I knew this. 534 00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 4: I saw this Instagram pop up on my feet, and 535 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,480 Speaker 4: I'm not sure if I even follow her, but it 536 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,920 Speaker 4: was definitely something that was getting a lot of traction. 537 00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:10,560 Speaker 3: On social media. 538 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:14,240 Speaker 4: So she is officially moving out of New York City 539 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 4: for good. She kind of was debating this for a while. 540 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,359 Speaker 4: She moved out and lived in Mexico City for a while. 541 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 4: She got in a new relationship, but now the relationship 542 00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,119 Speaker 4: is no longer, so she's moving out. 543 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:25,440 Speaker 3: Of New York. 544 00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 4: But she just said that there's like something going on 545 00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:30,880 Speaker 4: and she can't really figure out what it is. She said, 546 00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:34,399 Speaker 4: she's got blood drawn. She's doing a full blood panel 547 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:38,240 Speaker 4: to see what's going on. She's been wearing a scarf 548 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,919 Speaker 4: lately because all of her hair keeps falling out at 549 00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:46,240 Speaker 4: a very alarming rate. She did see a dermatologist in 550 00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:49,960 Speaker 4: New York and she's getting some answers, but she wants 551 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:53,119 Speaker 4: to make sure that there's nothing going on that's deeper. 552 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,160 Speaker 3: She's still waiting for the results. 553 00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:56,920 Speaker 4: She may have had them, but she hasn't reported it 554 00:27:57,000 --> 00:28:00,880 Speaker 4: on them yet. But yeah, her hair is like falling 555 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:05,359 Speaker 4: out in different but like she's seeing like holes in 556 00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:08,200 Speaker 4: her you know, in her hairline or in her hair, 557 00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 4: her head, and that's awful. She just said that she's 558 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:15,280 Speaker 4: getting really self conscious and she's to the point where 559 00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:19,679 Speaker 4: she's she's just like embarrassed to go out without her scarf. 560 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:24,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's tough, I mean, and we've talked about it 561 00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:26,840 Speaker 2: here when it comes to things like lime disease and 562 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:30,919 Speaker 2: parasites and all those things. You know, it's weird in 563 00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:35,159 Speaker 2: today's medical world, how many mysteries there still are when 564 00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:36,960 Speaker 2: somebody's like, I don't feel good and my hair is 565 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:41,400 Speaker 2: falling out, something's wrong, and how hard it is to 566 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:45,200 Speaker 2: identify what it is it's going wrong. So I hope 567 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:48,560 Speaker 2: for her sake she can figure that out. But it's 568 00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:52,520 Speaker 2: scary and it's frustrating, and you probably don't feel good. 569 00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:55,480 Speaker 2: But that's the update. We'll try to fall back up 570 00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:55,840 Speaker 2: on that. 571 00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:58,480 Speaker 4: Do you remember that girl that we had on who 572 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:02,400 Speaker 4: went overseas to get like a month long treatment for 573 00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:05,960 Speaker 4: lime disease and has been ever since I was Daisy. 574 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:10,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, and Daisy went on and did a thing in 575 00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:13,560 Speaker 2: Germany that's becoming more and more popular for people with 576 00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:15,959 Speaker 2: lime disease. It's like it heats up the shells, the 577 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,480 Speaker 2: lime shells breaks them up, and then you put in antibiotics 578 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:19,120 Speaker 2: and it kills them. 579 00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:23,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, her body temperature went down to like seventy or so. 580 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:26,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, So it's a really wild treatment, but it's working. 581 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:32,240 Speaker 2: It's expensive, obviously it takes travel to go to it, 582 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,360 Speaker 2: but it's also you need to know that that's what 583 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 2: you have going on before you can really go. And 584 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:41,480 Speaker 2: lime disease is kind of hard to be you know, 585 00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:45,120 Speaker 2: it's not identified yet. There's so much there. Actually, it's 586 00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:48,959 Speaker 2: frustrating when it comes to lime disease. Hannah Ann shares 587 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:53,160 Speaker 2: the gender and special meeting behind her baby's name. Just 588 00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:55,640 Speaker 2: kind of mentioned it, But congratulations to Hannah Ann and 589 00:29:55,680 --> 00:30:01,640 Speaker 2: her husband, football player Jake Funk, on the the birth 590 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:06,360 Speaker 2: of their first child. They got married just an Italian 591 00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:09,640 Speaker 2: countryside last year if you missed that, but Ashley, they 592 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:12,600 Speaker 2: did have their first baby. Gender and name. 593 00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:14,200 Speaker 3: He's a boy. 594 00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:16,800 Speaker 4: They never talked about on social media, whither's or a 595 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:20,200 Speaker 4: girl or a boy. His name is Lucas James Funk. 596 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 4: He was born on November twentieth, and there's a special name. 597 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:29,520 Speaker 4: There's a special meeting behind the name. He is Lucas because 598 00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:34,920 Speaker 4: they got engaged in Cobbos St. Lucas and James is 599 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:38,320 Speaker 4: after Jake's dad who passed away a year or so ago, 600 00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:41,920 Speaker 4: and that was so sad to hear about. And she said, 601 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,760 Speaker 4: Lucas James, you are dream come true. Will cheer you 602 00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:46,960 Speaker 4: on for the rest of our lives. We loved you, 603 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:53,320 Speaker 4: big boy. He is so cute. And I loved seeing 604 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:57,680 Speaker 4: Jake's face in the content that she posted when the baby. 605 00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:59,800 Speaker 3: Was coming out. It was hilarious. 606 00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:03,160 Speaker 2: We're very excited for the two of them. Obviously. This 607 00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:07,600 Speaker 2: is a couple that so many of us know and love, 608 00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:12,440 Speaker 2: and he's a former cult so we gotta love that guy. 609 00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:17,320 Speaker 2: I just gotta love him all right. Final headline of 610 00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:22,520 Speaker 2: today Crystal Nielsen. She shares an update after an incredibly 611 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:25,280 Speaker 2: tough week in the nick You Ashlely, you and I 612 00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:28,719 Speaker 2: mentioned this during our last headlines, but we didn't have 613 00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:32,600 Speaker 2: much context yet. It kind of been kept quiet for 614 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:35,200 Speaker 2: her own personal reasons. But we're gonna get a little 615 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,840 Speaker 2: more information and we promised the listeners we'd follow up 616 00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:38,120 Speaker 2: with it. 617 00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:39,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. 618 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 4: So she posted a really cute picture of the family, 619 00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:48,480 Speaker 4: thanksgiving them being, saying that after an incredibly tough week, 620 00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 4: Rowan was discharged to the Nicky last night and we're 621 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,880 Speaker 4: all home together at last. Emotions are hard to put 622 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:59,240 Speaker 4: into words, trauma, grief, overwhelming, gratitude, all tangled together. Then 623 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,600 Speaker 4: give him the bottom our hearts for every prayer message 624 00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:03,520 Speaker 4: and every little bit of love that you send our way. 625 00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:07,200 Speaker 4: We're being held by our family and close friends in 626 00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:09,800 Speaker 4: this amazing online community, and it is meant more than 627 00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:11,840 Speaker 4: you'll ever know during one of the hardest weeks we've 628 00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:14,920 Speaker 4: ever faced. But everyone now is healthy, stable, and home 629 00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:18,080 Speaker 4: and we're so so grateful, and now the gentle work 630 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,200 Speaker 4: of healing begins. 631 00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:23,640 Speaker 3: I'm sure she'll kind of detail. I mean, maybe she won't, 632 00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:24,600 Speaker 3: but maybe she will. 633 00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:28,480 Speaker 4: But obviously something happened in the birth that was incredibly scary, 634 00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:31,200 Speaker 4: and we're just so glad everything has worked out and 635 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:32,160 Speaker 4: everybody's doing well. 636 00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:37,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean she doesn't obviously have to yes', but 637 00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:40,840 Speaker 2: at all. I'd be lying if I said I'm not 638 00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:45,800 Speaker 2: interested or I know, curious, but I'm glad. I mean 639 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 2: that final note is is so valuable that everybody's home, 640 00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:55,760 Speaker 2: happy and healthy. That is a gift that we just 641 00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:58,920 Speaker 2: cannot ignore. Well, that's all the headlines we have for 642 00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:02,040 Speaker 2: you this week. We'll be back more this week with 643 00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:05,960 Speaker 2: some breakdowns of stories that are happening in the headline, 644 00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 2: so stay tuned to listen to those. In addition to that, 645 00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:14,320 Speaker 2: we'll have some interviews. We'll also get more Frankie Fridays 646 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,120 Speaker 2: going for you as we break down and get excited 647 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 2: for this upcoming season of the Bachelorette. Until next time, 648 00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:23,280 Speaker 2: I've Been Ben. 649 00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:24,440 Speaker 3: I've Been Ashley THEIA. 650 00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:29,040 Speaker 1: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcasts on 651 00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:32,320 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.