1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Look mad oh, I see you my oh, look over there. 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 1: How is that culture? Yes? Goodness, dads calling And here's 3 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: what I have to say to you. To me, yeah, 4 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:19,079 Speaker 1: thank you. I think I know what you're thinking me for? 5 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 1: Was it because earlier today I taught you something you 6 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 1: did and I want to thank my teacher. And can 7 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 1: we just say thank you to all the teachers? First 8 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 1: of all, it's rural culture number forty eight. Thank you. 9 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 1: And my teacher today was Bowen Yang because let me 10 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 1: tell you what I didn't know about in the culture 11 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:42,200 Speaker 1: before this very afternoon was Miss Teresa Tang. Miss Teresa. 12 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: Now Bowen, could you tell the readers all about Miss 13 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 1: Teresa Tang. I, first of all, I just want to 14 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:52,559 Speaker 1: say I'm so happy and overjoyed that you have met 15 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 1: this this new sort of more sol of culture with 16 00:00:55,360 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 1: such enthusiasm. I think it really is cool. It makes 17 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: you happy. It makes me so happy that you like 18 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 1: to make say happy, because I the first thing I 19 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 1: did when I walked into your apartment. First of all, 20 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 1: I'm in Matt's apartment. We're doing this thing again where 21 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:09,560 Speaker 1: I'm on his coast and whatever, but I'm in his 22 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 1: I've come to Matt. But the first thing I did 23 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 1: when I walked into your apartment was I go, I 24 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,759 Speaker 1: have to tell you about Teresa. He goes, I have 25 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:20,400 Speaker 1: to tell you about Teresa. And these was the Apple 26 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: TV remote, and with the flick of his wrist, the 27 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: Apple TV is on, and I'm like, whoa, this is 28 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: my thing? Is that? Like in all these like and 29 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 1: like and all the anecdotal things that that I've engaged 30 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: in or whatever, I'll go, oh, yeah, you know, I 31 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 1: knew when I was gay when I danced to Selene 32 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: Dion and Montreal suburbs. And that's when I knew. And 33 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 1: that was my Selene was my first object of devia worship. 34 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 1: Blah blah blah blah blap. But it's act and we're 35 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: deviating from that a bit today. Well it predates Selene 36 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 1: because Teresa. Okay, so her name is don't let June 37 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 1: in Mandarin. She is this Taiwanese singer big in the eighties, 38 00:01:53,520 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 1: sang huge polyglott sing all her songs in Mandarin, Cantonese, Taiwanese, hockeyen, Japanese. Culturally, 39 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: brought together a lot of East Asia and Southeast Asia. 40 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:10,359 Speaker 1: She is this huge, huge, huge hooe, huge deal. And 41 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: then I showed you like footage of her funeral, like 42 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 1: when she died. Okay, yeah, that's another thing, like let's 43 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: just pause for a second and let everyone know that 44 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 1: she died tragically of it would just say an asthma attack. 45 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 1: Of an asthma attack. And the way that my mom 46 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 1: explained it to me, I was, I remember this so vividly. 47 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 1: I don't have many long term memories, and this is 48 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 1: a long time ago. I was five years old, so 49 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: this happened, so she died. I was worshiping Ms. Teresa 50 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 1: for all my adolescence, my my, my childhood, early child, 51 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 1: from zero out of five, from zero to five. No, 52 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm telling you, like was singing the tunes. 53 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 1: And then know when she was alive. I remember, I 54 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 1: remember a time when she was alive. And then one 55 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:50,800 Speaker 1: day I was getting out of the shower hot and 56 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:55,360 Speaker 1: my hot five years old, five years old. Okay, sorry, 57 00:02:55,360 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 1: I take it back. My mom my mom go was cute. 58 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm cute. Cute, always cute, always 59 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: cute when you're five. And then my mom my mom, 60 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 1: I don't know if my mom like withheld the news 61 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 1: from me until like, no, she must it was nighttime 62 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 1: and she was like Theresa Tang died. She and like 63 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:19,920 Speaker 1: she couldn't really explain to me, like what asthma was? 64 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 1: I think, so she was like she had trouble breathing 65 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:25,959 Speaker 1: and anyway, it was just this like huge, huge, huge 66 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 1: tragedy and like she was like Princess die like it was. 67 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: It was. It was a crazy, crazy moment. She's like 68 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 1: forty three when she passed away, And that is the 69 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 1: truly sick separation of Eastern and Western culture because I 70 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: had not even known of this person and you're saying 71 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: she was like an complete icon and she dated Jackie Chan. 72 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: Jackie Chan, Yeah, you know, like she was like the 73 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: one full on like star, the one ship and anyway, um, 74 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 1: but so I was talking about something with with um 75 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 1: a friend and she brought her up and I was like, 76 00:03:57,800 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 1: oh my god. And I just went back and listened 77 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 1: to her songs last night and like drifted off to 78 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 1: sleep in this like eighties jazz rock, like we love 79 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 1: it soundscape. It was beautiful. It's very sort of I 80 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 1: would in the very limited time I've been exposed to her, 81 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 1: I would describe her voice as Linda ntat esque, and 82 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 1: I would describe very Karen Carpenter to pure tone, yes, 83 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:25,160 Speaker 1: slay and go off. And I would also go on 84 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 1: to say that the voice is a rich alto voice, 85 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: and I would recommend that everyone go out there and 86 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:35,279 Speaker 1: listen to Miss Teresa Tang And this singer reminds me 87 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 1: of another singer. Do you have anything to to to 88 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 1: kind of cap it off, I was gonna sort of 89 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: um assist you with this this segue into well, I 90 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 1: don't mean any thing, okay, sweetheart, all right, so you 91 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 1: can just relax because I have this. I have this 92 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:54,479 Speaker 1: transition covered. So, speaking of singers, did you read I 93 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 1: know the answer to this because you told me you didn't, 94 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:58,479 Speaker 1: But did you read the New York magazine piece this 95 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: week on Miss Mariah? Well, it just came out today. 96 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 1: Well for the listeners, it will have been out two days, 97 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 1: which is why I was sort of, you know, doing 98 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 1: podcast theater because yes, it did come out today Monday. 99 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 1: But you know, this episode famously, Last schoolte Racist famously 100 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:15,599 Speaker 1: comes out on Wednesdays and has been from the beginning. 101 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 1: Really um, but this piece su Mariah came out and 102 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:22,279 Speaker 1: there were some tidbits revealed, and I have to say something. 103 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:27,040 Speaker 1: It does relate to our guest because our guest, I'm 104 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:31,359 Speaker 1: happy to say, is in the Emily and our guest 105 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 1: as a lamb. And I knew our guest was a 106 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 1: lamb because I bought a record player, which some of 107 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 1: my followers read me for being across. They said it 108 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:47,040 Speaker 1: was cheap, and I'm really I'm still sort of healing 109 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:49,359 Speaker 1: from that abuse that I took from my followers. And 110 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 1: I understand that you want the best for me, but 111 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 1: understand that's the best I can do right now at 112 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 1: this moment is the Crossly and that's okay. And I 113 00:05:56,200 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 1: had the album Mariah Carry number It was like, uh 114 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 1: to an infinity, like it's like number one. Yes, sir, 115 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 1: his most you're not an actual lamb. I shut up. 116 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 1: You need to shut up. So also, by the way, 117 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 1: this reminds me, oh no, it is there. I ordered 118 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:17,919 Speaker 1: Butterfly the album because that's my favorite Maria and I 119 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 1: thought it didn't come, but it is there. Um. But 120 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 1: I was listening to the song my all and our 121 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:26,720 Speaker 1: guest chimed in on the d M and said, this 122 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:28,719 Speaker 1: is the best Maria song and I have to agree. 123 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: And there were some tidbits revealed in the New York 124 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 1: magazine Peace that My all is about New York Yankees 125 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:46,720 Speaker 1: shortstop number two Derek Jeter. Wow, can you fucking believe 126 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:49,840 Speaker 1: she could have had? I mean, the parallels between her 127 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:55,040 Speaker 1: and j Lo are many. I think that kind of explained. 128 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 1: There has to be like some like feud or wicked 129 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: type of frame work around there. I love that we're 130 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: moving away from the word word feud and we're just 131 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 1: calling it a wicked type of framework, like a like 132 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 1: a Broadway musical wicked. I said feud in the in 133 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 1: the in the in the Ryan Murphy sense. No, it's actually, 134 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 1: it's actually important that we say that as queer people, 135 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 1: they're not feuds, they're wicked type situations. And that's actually 136 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:22,720 Speaker 1: a role of culture. It's it's real culture number sixties six. 137 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 1: They're not feuds, they're wicked type situations. Now I'll tell 138 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 1: you what's not wicked. I'll tell you what's good. Our guest, Now, Bowen, 139 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 1: can you say a little bit about our guests before 140 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 1: we bring them in and we can hear a little 141 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 1: bit more about how they know Mariah and how they 142 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: love Mariah and how they feel about Mariah and how 143 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: they feel about Mariah. Just to take things off of course, 144 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 1: our guest um is basically sort of doling out advice 145 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 1: right now in a very digestible, sensible way. And I 146 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 1: am like, fun follow, Well, you and I have talked 147 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:00,280 Speaker 1: about this. We're like, oh, like he is like he 148 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 1: has like the asked Polly thing down, Like he is 149 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: like giving out like stay noble advice, sage Lee Wisdom. Um, 150 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: let's let's just say it. He nominated miss Alexandria Kaso 151 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 1: Cortes to run for brand new Congress, who then backed 152 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 1: her her run against Joe Crowley. Um, and she went 153 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:25,559 Speaker 1: on to win that seat. I mean you may know her, 154 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 1: You may know her, readers, may know her. Readers may 155 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 1: know her. Um. So you know, in a way, and 156 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 1: whether or not he accepts this credit is not relevant 157 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:37,680 Speaker 1: to our sort of discourse right now. But like you know, 158 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 1: we have him to think so um the fairy Godmother, 159 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 1: not to call any queer person a fairy, but you 160 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 1: know famously that we're taking it back. We're taking it back. 161 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 1: We're actually taking back to fairy Bula bibbity Bobby Bookay, 162 00:08:54,559 --> 00:08:59,679 Speaker 1: hot okay, hot okay. Five years old hot. Wow, I 163 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 1: think it's time. It's time to bring in our guest. Everyone, 164 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 1: please welcome into your ears. Gabriel. Hey everyone, Well, we're 165 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: so excited to have you. And I have to say 166 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:16,079 Speaker 1: I was lit up on the inside when you responded 167 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 1: to my story about Mariah's track My All. So I 168 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: would very much like to start off by embarrassing myself. 169 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:27,679 Speaker 1: So here's the thing about my All is that you know, 170 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 1: I was born in ninety two. I was born in 171 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:32,440 Speaker 1: late ninety two, so I'm basically ninety three, but ninety 172 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 1: two sounds a little bit more g you know, right. 173 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 1: So so I guess growing up as a kid, like 174 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:43,319 Speaker 1: there was so much prime music coming out in like 175 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 1: ninety two is such a good era, wrenched ship right, yes, 176 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 1: excess culture and like every sense. But I guess I 177 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 1: remember my dad buying um going to f y e right, 178 00:09:57,720 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 1: like rest in peace, f y you going out and 179 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 1: buying seed East and he got I think it was 180 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:07,080 Speaker 1: um Whitney Houston's like it's not right, but it's okay, 181 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 1: like with the right, and he like yes that hand 182 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:17,319 Speaker 1: and she's like crouched down and she's like smiling. But 183 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 1: you know, the title is like it's not right, it's 184 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:20,599 Speaker 1: about it's okay, and it doesn't really match. But you're like, 185 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 1: Whitney me for a gift exactly. It's like she sold it, 186 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 1: like argued that somebody like Vibes would just like made 187 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 1: it like Rihanna, like the Bridge, the Bridge. But I 188 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:35,360 Speaker 1: guess I just remember hearing my all around the same 189 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 1: time as that, and for some reason it got penned 190 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 1: in my head as a Whitney Houston song And it 191 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:47,079 Speaker 1: wasn't like a few months ago that I guess, like 192 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 1: it was on a YouTube mix or like a title 193 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 1: mix that I put on, and I'm like, I was like, 194 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 1: there's no way, that's just Whitney Houston. I'm like, how 195 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 1: did I not give her like the credit for this? 196 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:02,199 Speaker 1: But it's I'd say, I think it's her. I think 197 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 1: it's her best song. I would have to agree it 198 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 1: is a vocal triumph and also enough for nothing. But 199 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:10,560 Speaker 1: you can't judge yourself for getting all those things confused 200 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:13,599 Speaker 1: because the girls were really piling it on in the 201 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:16,559 Speaker 1: late nineties. There was a lot of stuff. There was 202 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 1: a lot of good stuff happening, especially especially I believe 203 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:25,839 Speaker 1: in the pop R and B segment. Yeah, to talk 204 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 1: about Mariah, I do want to say that shake it Off. 205 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:30,959 Speaker 1: I'm surprised that that was never a number one, So 206 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:33,320 Speaker 1: she blocked herself from becoming number one because of Touched 207 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:38,440 Speaker 1: My Body. Oh damn, you know it is true. Shake 208 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:42,079 Speaker 1: it Off is. I wouldn't go as far as to say, 209 00:11:42,120 --> 00:11:45,200 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna throw Taylor Swift under the damn proverbial bus. 210 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 1: It is the superior shaken Off. And if we were 211 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 1: to have a battle of the shake it Offs, Mariah 212 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 1: shaken Off would come out on top. But this is 213 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:55,240 Speaker 1: my theory is that if you had put shake it 214 00:11:55,280 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 1: Off on a different album than Emancipation of Mimi, it 215 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: would have stood out. But the fact that chacaof was 216 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:03,559 Speaker 1: on Emancipation of Mimi, it was just there was just 217 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:07,559 Speaker 1: so much good. There was a wealth of of of 218 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 1: stuff in that album. So it's like it kind of 219 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 1: got lost in the shuffle. I would say, would you 220 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 1: would you? Would you support that? Both of you that 221 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:19,680 Speaker 1: that that claim. I think that I think she knew 222 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 1: that one of the bangers on there was just gonna 223 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:24,199 Speaker 1: have to suffer. I just didn't think she thought it 224 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 1: was going to be that one, right, you know to 225 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:31,480 Speaker 1: track on that is stay of the Night. You keep 226 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:37,599 Speaker 1: saying stay and not one of the favorite songs or 227 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 1: something like that. Yeah, I mean were recently. It's like her. 228 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 1: Her pr people are doing a great job, you know, 229 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 1: like always, very consistent. Always. The pandemic is probably good 230 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:52,520 Speaker 1: for her. She doesn't have to really leave the house. 231 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 1: She's very on brand, you know. Yes, it's very un brand. 232 00:12:57,760 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 1: Very they do. They go into it in the piece 233 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 1: the top about the piece in the New York magazine 234 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 1: piece that came out today, it's like her. This is 235 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:08,720 Speaker 1: her quarantine squad. It's like her, like a couple assistants, 236 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:13,040 Speaker 1: her hair person and Brian Tanaka, who did you guys 237 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 1: watch the reality show about Maria. I watched them episodes, 238 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 1: so there was like a reality of it came out 239 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:20,280 Speaker 1: a couple of years ago and she started dating her 240 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 1: backup dancer named Brian Tanaka, and everyone was like, there's 241 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 1: no way this is a real thing. He's like so 242 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:28,319 Speaker 1: much younger than her, etcetera. Well, the New York Magazine 243 00:13:28,400 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 1: piece reveals that he is living with them in quarantine 244 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 1: with her kids, Rock and Row, Moroccan and Monroe, who 245 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 1: it seemed to be very happy in their quarantine because 246 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 1: they're living in upstate New York, which no one knew. 247 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 1: And apparently it's the house that she used to live 248 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 1: in with Tommy Motola years and years and years ago 249 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 1: and she's now reclaimed it. So there's a lot going 250 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:54,959 Speaker 1: on here here here, this is where I'm going to 251 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:59,559 Speaker 1: actually pause you, because interesting is that we lived in 252 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 1: part of Yorktown that basically was only a few minutes 253 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 1: away from a few other towns because it happened to 254 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:08,559 Speaker 1: be like on the corner of a four town, like 255 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:12,760 Speaker 1: a little like four square, right, So cutting through to 256 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:16,400 Speaker 1: another town, we would actually go on the road that 257 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 1: had Maria Carry's house on it. But the house like 258 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 1: mysteriously burned down in a very like Sopranos like type 259 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 1: of way. Come. So, as far as I understand it 260 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:33,600 Speaker 1: is that like the only thing that's left there is 261 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 1: like ashes, just like that's it. Like I think somebody 262 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 1: bought the land or something like that. Basically, my understanding 263 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:44,200 Speaker 1: is that it was suspicious because it was basically too 264 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 1: big of a house and that they wouldn't be able 265 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 1: to offload it anytime soon. So some people have lead 266 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 1: it out to be obviously it was just an act 267 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 1: of God outside of anyone's control. But of course, of course, 268 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 1: just like every thing that happens to Maria, yes, honestly unbelievable. Okay, 269 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 1: so maybe I'm maybe I'm wrong, and it wasn't the house, 270 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 1: but it was like she's in upstate New York, which 271 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 1: is like I guess where some like tortured memories for 272 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:15,200 Speaker 1: her are sure, But like how baked into the lower 273 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 1: of Yorktown was the Maria house? Would you say while 274 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 1: you were growing up there? Um it was? It was 275 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:26,160 Speaker 1: a town over and at the time, Um, I don't 276 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:29,400 Speaker 1: even think that they Basically, it's funny. The way things 277 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:32,000 Speaker 1: are in Westchester is that it's it's literally you know, 278 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 1: old egg and new egg, right like Gatsby style, it 279 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:37,560 Speaker 1: is old Egg. It's it's the old money in that 280 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:40,480 Speaker 1: area where she actually was because I was a brokeer, 281 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:44,640 Speaker 1: Um there only until like recently, and basically the more 282 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:47,120 Speaker 1: money that there is in the area, the less streets 283 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: and the less street signs, less paving basically just turns 284 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:53,400 Speaker 1: into like back roads. So you try to know that, 285 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:57,440 Speaker 1: like Mariah lives somewhere on like this mountain, but you know, 286 00:15:57,520 --> 00:16:00,640 Speaker 1: there's it's it's the same sort of like idea of 287 00:16:00,680 --> 00:16:02,440 Speaker 1: just like nepotism if you know, you know, you know 288 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, So you couldn't get there without actually 289 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: knowing someone, especially back in the nineties. Sure, okay, you're 290 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 1: you were a broker up until recently. How do you 291 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 1: feel about this sort of new genre of reality TV 292 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 1: where it's just real estate is like the main fixture. 293 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 1: It really is happening on Netflix, it is. I mean, 294 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:26,000 Speaker 1: I haven't watched Selling Sunset just because I would watch 295 00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 1: HDTV and it would drive me insane because it would 296 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 1: be like, hey, like, you know, my name's Chris, and 297 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 1: I like shove a fork in the wall, and like 298 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 1: my wife eats crayons, and our budgets like three million 299 00:16:37,280 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 1: dollars and they see, you know, and they see like 300 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 1: three houses, and the brokers like you know, only changed once, 301 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 1: as if it's like a two day thing, and then 302 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 1: like they buy the house, and I'm like and everybody's like, oh, 303 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:50,680 Speaker 1: brokers are just like they don't have to work for 304 00:16:50,720 --> 00:16:53,800 Speaker 1: their money, and I'm just like, no, what is going 305 00:16:53,920 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 1: on a lot of our friends out of college became 306 00:16:56,520 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 1: brokers or showers. And we had a friend Billy Domino, 307 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 1: he would mind if we said this. But on his 308 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 1: business cards it said he didn't have the licenses or whatever. 309 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 1: So his his his title on his business cards was 310 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 1: shower but raised this shower, which is which is just 311 00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:14,440 Speaker 1: kind of so funny to me. But it's it's the 312 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:18,440 Speaker 1: it's such a hard job. It's a difficult line of work. 313 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:21,240 Speaker 1: You have to grind all day, is my understanding. It's 314 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:25,879 Speaker 1: literally seven like you constantly, if you don't pick up 315 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:28,280 Speaker 1: that phone, you're losing money. It's that simple. That's the 316 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 1: mill that's the millennial condition. Though it's like there's no 317 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:33,879 Speaker 1: boundary between work and no work exactly. It ties directly 318 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 1: into just the gig economy. Mm hmmm. And we're all 319 00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:41,600 Speaker 1: we're all sort of victims to it. I don't know, 320 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 1: were you always Did you do that right out of 321 00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:48,200 Speaker 1: school or did you do do the service industry route 322 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:51,639 Speaker 1: as well? Oh, I mean I've had so many service 323 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:58,000 Speaker 1: industry jobs, Like I've made um the not keep Mara, 324 00:17:58,240 --> 00:18:01,040 Speaker 1: I mean Camera's coffee, I mean c almost coffee. I 325 00:18:01,160 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 1: need the coffee of Kate Mara right after American Horror Story, 326 00:18:06,840 --> 00:18:09,159 Speaker 1: just so you know. So it was like it was 327 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:11,240 Speaker 1: like launching off. I'm pretty sure she had Runey in 328 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 1: the in the in the car outside or whatever. I 329 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:17,639 Speaker 1: didn't even recognize her. And my manager like the second 330 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:19,520 Speaker 1: she walked away, He's like, do you know who that is? 331 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:22,240 Speaker 1: And I'm like he were like the medium, like milk 332 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:27,199 Speaker 1: and sugar, Like that's who that person is. That her 333 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:29,680 Speaker 1: dad on the jets, And I'm like, if Rooney Mara 334 00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:33,399 Speaker 1: had come in, you probably would have known a million percent. 335 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:35,720 Speaker 1: You got that kind of like energy, kind of like 336 00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:38,880 Speaker 1: Ricardo tib On. She like the lightn flicker, a little 337 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:46,640 Speaker 1: bit like louky paranormal. You know what I'm saying. Respected? Respect, 338 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:48,879 Speaker 1: Oh I was? I mean if in the Battle of 339 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:51,919 Speaker 1: the mar Sisters, there is there is no doubt who 340 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:55,480 Speaker 1: reigned supreme. However, I do always give credit to Kate 341 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 1: Mara because she is very affecting. In the last scene 342 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:01,399 Speaker 1: I broke back Mountain and people forget that. Did you 343 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:05,440 Speaker 1: watch the first season? Opposed? Was she? Yes, she was unposed, 344 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:08,960 Speaker 1: she played she was James ander BIG's wife. No, Evan, 345 00:19:10,520 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 1: you're getting you, You're getting your white men of pose 346 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:17,600 Speaker 1: mixed up my Ryde white Man. Yeah, Evan Peters's wife 347 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 1: and Evan Peters is having an affair with India Moore 348 00:19:22,760 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 1: and so then they're not in the second season, probably 349 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:27,400 Speaker 1: because they couldn't find much much fun to be had 350 00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 1: with them anymore. After the first season of Boats. I 351 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:31,840 Speaker 1: liked her the best in House of Cards. I think 352 00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:35,640 Speaker 1: she's she got pushed in front of that damn train 353 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:38,439 Speaker 1: and what a shock it was, what a shock of wait? Wait, 354 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:41,840 Speaker 1: how is how? What was Cuoma's order? Do you remember? Um? 355 00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 1: I remember, I was just it was a little bit 356 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:47,560 Speaker 1: weird or caught me off, like he but the way 357 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:53,200 Speaker 1: he has has that like stern face in the person. Actually, 358 00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:55,639 Speaker 1: the person that I worked with it in her name 359 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 1: was like a Manda at the time, and she was 360 00:19:57,080 --> 00:19:59,400 Speaker 1: in law school and she was like, oh my god, 361 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:03,680 Speaker 1: that's Quoma and I'm just like okay, and she's like 362 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 1: I'm in law school and I'm like help me out here. 363 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 1: She's like like, it would be cool if like I 364 00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:11,679 Speaker 1: could work for him. I'm like, you should ask him 365 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:13,560 Speaker 1: and she's like no, I'm like do it or I'm 366 00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 1: gonna ask him. So she actually asked him and immediately 367 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:17,440 Speaker 1: he pulls out a card and he's like, here you 368 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:20,160 Speaker 1: go call my office. And she ended up immediately getting 369 00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 1: a job. What. Okay, there's a there's a theme popping 370 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:26,120 Speaker 1: up where you're just kind of facilitating all of these 371 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:35,200 Speaker 1: like the local nobility and and wow wow wait okay, 372 00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 1: before before we talk about anything else, I have a 373 00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:38,480 Speaker 1: bone to pick with you about Dike Cooke where you 374 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:42,000 Speaker 1: posted to your stories recently that Dike Cooke was the 375 00:20:42,040 --> 00:20:45,200 Speaker 1: taste of gay sadness. And I had to retort and say, 376 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:47,640 Speaker 1: to some of us, it's the taste of gay joy. 377 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:51,840 Speaker 1: Why do you associate die cook with sadness? And I 378 00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:53,720 Speaker 1: don't don't bring no, don't bring now to this like 379 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:56,840 Speaker 1: high fructress corn syrup like thing into the discourse. Please, 380 00:20:57,320 --> 00:21:01,119 Speaker 1: Why is it sad to you? What diet product is 381 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:06,920 Speaker 1: happy to you? Diet coke, which essentially, please please talk 382 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:09,600 Speaker 1: bowing out of consuming diet coke for good, because I've 383 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:12,200 Speaker 1: dealt with this for years. It is so sad because 384 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 1: it's also it tastes objectively better than regular coke. You're 385 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:20,560 Speaker 1: so it is a falsity, No, just ok, But what 386 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:22,520 Speaker 1: is what is the difference between diet coke and coke 387 00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 1: zero that people that that love diet coke stand. It's 388 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:27,920 Speaker 1: so hard that they're not willing to talk about coke 389 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:31,160 Speaker 1: zero because no, because this is the thing with coke zero. 390 00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:35,240 Speaker 1: The reason coke zero was brought into existence was because 391 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 1: it was going to be a zero calorie caffeiney to 392 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:41,439 Speaker 1: drink that tasted more like coke than diet coke. They 393 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:44,840 Speaker 1: were trying to market correct diet coke to be more 394 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 1: like regular coke, but there was no need for that, 395 00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:49,479 Speaker 1: and so that's why coke zero sucks, and no one 396 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 1: stands coke zero the way that people stand diet coke. 397 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:54,919 Speaker 1: Do you guys understand? No, I don't understand, and you're 398 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:57,520 Speaker 1: not gonna just because you're speaking forcefully, you're not gonna 399 00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:59,920 Speaker 1: get me on board with diet coke over coke zero, 400 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:03,320 Speaker 1: which tastes exactly like real coke but a zero calorie. 401 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:06,480 Speaker 1: I think the reason people like diet cocus because it 402 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:11,760 Speaker 1: just has a higher vogue association. You're basically exactly, you're 403 00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:15,440 Speaker 1: showing other people that you're happy being unhappy, and that's 404 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:19,400 Speaker 1: more moss than that, you know what I'm saying. Yes, 405 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:23,840 Speaker 1: the deprivation of it all, the chicness that comes with 406 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 1: like only a little it's austerity signaling is that what 407 00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:30,600 Speaker 1: you come up within your term. But I don't think 408 00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:34,120 Speaker 1: that's true. I just diet coke because it's zero calories 409 00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:35,960 Speaker 1: and it tastes great and it's got that fun little 410 00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:40,280 Speaker 1: aspartame taste. I just don't know. I don't understand, and 411 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:42,920 Speaker 1: I can't believe. Here on Lost Cultureations, we're doing a 412 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 1: coke versus diet coke conversation. But this is where, this 413 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:48,560 Speaker 1: is where you have led us to, and this is 414 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:51,560 Speaker 1: what I'm gonna say. Diet coke is not as good 415 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:54,560 Speaker 1: as coke. It's just not. And there's nothing you could do, 416 00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:57,480 Speaker 1: no lines or lemons you could put in it that's 417 00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:03,160 Speaker 1: gonna change my mind. But you both of you. Matt 418 00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 1: first of all, Matt is doing that girl from the 419 00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:07,600 Speaker 1: more show. There's nothing my stupid mom could do to 420 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:10,080 Speaker 1: change my mind. Wait what did she say then, my 421 00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:12,600 Speaker 1: stupid mother could do to change my mind? My mind 422 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 1: to Victoria? Victoria fourteen years old then was gonna have 423 00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,919 Speaker 1: a baby, and I'm gonna have a baby, And she did, 424 00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:22,520 Speaker 1: she did have a baby. But she seems like well 425 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 1: adjusted now like I think Morey did, like where are 426 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:26,800 Speaker 1: they now? Feature like in recent years, and she seems 427 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:29,440 Speaker 1: like chill, and she's just like, well, wherever she is, 428 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,280 Speaker 1: we hope the best for her. But you are don't 429 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 1: think I don't know what you're doing misdirecting about this 430 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,720 Speaker 1: diet coke because you've lost this is the diet coke thing. 431 00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:43,000 Speaker 1: You both of you don't understand the wave of people 432 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:46,639 Speaker 1: who are firmly in the diet coke camp. I'm telling you, 433 00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:49,480 Speaker 1: it's just, it's it's out there. It's it's a it's 434 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:53,159 Speaker 1: a silent majority. It's you and Taylor Swift, and you 435 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:56,320 Speaker 1: both scream. You're not silent at all. And neither of 436 00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:59,639 Speaker 1: you will ever do the super Bowl because that's, of 437 00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 1: course the Pepsi product because of our exclusivity with diet coke. 438 00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:07,439 Speaker 1: That's right, That's right. Well, so can I say sorry, 439 00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:10,199 Speaker 1: but me and Gabriel gonna go do this super Bowl. Now, 440 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 1: let's take a quick break and then we'll come right back. Okay, 441 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:23,040 Speaker 1: and we're back with Gabriel Kaser Cortez. I want to 442 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:27,360 Speaker 1: ask just or or no, just. I want to get 443 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 1: maybe this firsthand account of the sequence of events that 444 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:34,040 Speaker 1: let you to nominate your sister to be UNS, because 445 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,479 Speaker 1: this is so pivotal to me and like it kind 446 00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:38,680 Speaker 1: of gets glossed over, I think in her narrative a 447 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:44,359 Speaker 1: little bit. I mean, yes, general society could probably benefit 448 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:46,040 Speaker 1: from talking about me a little bit more. That's what 449 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,720 Speaker 1: you're saying. That's what I was. That's literally the way 450 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 1: we felt. I understand. I totally get it. I mean, 451 00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:59,720 Speaker 1: you know, it was, um, it definitely all started. I 452 00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:02,680 Speaker 1: fee like two thousand eight. I feel like there was 453 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 1: pre two thousand eight, and then post two thousand eight, 454 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,560 Speaker 1: and um, me and my sister we lost our father 455 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:12,720 Speaker 1: September two eight, and then of course, you know, this 456 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:16,920 Speaker 1: economy decided just to like totally take a left. So 457 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:19,680 Speaker 1: we were left in a position where it's entirely fan 458 00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:22,440 Speaker 1: for yourself. UM, and my mom's you know, working a 459 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:26,800 Speaker 1: clean houses. I'm barely a junior in high school, and 460 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:31,440 Speaker 1: my sister's a freshman, um in college. And it was 461 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:35,080 Speaker 1: just a totally totally rough spot. But as we start 462 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:38,720 Speaker 1: to um, you know, see two, where we get to 463 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:40,520 Speaker 1: the point where you know, I'm in my car and 464 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 1: the rain, and I only pulled over because I hate 465 00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 1: driving in the rain, so I just I hate I'll 466 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:47,479 Speaker 1: take the snow, I'll take a blizzard anything, but the rain, 467 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:50,120 Speaker 1: So I pull over and while I'm actually killing time 468 00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:53,200 Speaker 1: in the rain, I nominate my sister. And that's that's 469 00:25:53,240 --> 00:26:02,239 Speaker 1: how it all started. Yeah, in twenty six No, how 470 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:06,720 Speaker 1: did you know about Brand New Congress. Well, it was everybody. Um, 471 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people that were following Bernie 472 00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:11,760 Speaker 1: Sanders at the time. We're sort of following the main 473 00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: message that he was sending, which was that you know, 474 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,879 Speaker 1: even if we get Hillary or Trump, whatever it is, 475 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,560 Speaker 1: if you want to see actual change, it has to 476 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,640 Speaker 1: come through Congress. It has to come through the senators. 477 00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:26,480 Speaker 1: So there was an organization that was tied to Bernie 478 00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 1: Sanders campaign with a parallel and they were called Brand 479 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:32,320 Speaker 1: New Congress, and they were basically looking for nominations so 480 00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:34,959 Speaker 1: that they could, you know, see whose names are being 481 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:37,280 Speaker 1: brought in, talk to everyone, and sort of see if 482 00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:39,520 Speaker 1: they're able to place one person in that aligns with 483 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:44,440 Speaker 1: their values in every congressional district. And I remember just 484 00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,680 Speaker 1: I think I probably made my sister sound like like 485 00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:52,600 Speaker 1: she could probably part the seat. I was very adamant about, 486 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 1: like you better call her. I was like, wow, I 487 00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,000 Speaker 1: was like, give her five minutes. I was like, if 488 00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:01,000 Speaker 1: it isn't worth your time. I'll pay you, but give 489 00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:02,600 Speaker 1: her five minutes. I was like, before you say no, 490 00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,040 Speaker 1: call her. And I went on and I was like, 491 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:07,560 Speaker 1: you have to speak with her. I was like, I 492 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,119 Speaker 1: will put because the thing about me and and what 493 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,679 Speaker 1: I also said in this was that I don't blindly 494 00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:15,879 Speaker 1: co sign anyone. You know, if if somebody asked me 495 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,280 Speaker 1: for for me to put my name on something, I 496 00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:21,120 Speaker 1: don't take that lightly. And I pretty much put that down. 497 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:22,960 Speaker 1: And I said, you know, I'll put every piece of 498 00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:26,040 Speaker 1: credibility that I have on the table if that means 499 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,919 Speaker 1: that you'll call her and that you'll talk to her. UM. 500 00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:30,800 Speaker 1: And I said that I don't take that lightly. You know, 501 00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:34,280 Speaker 1: I'm willing to put my entire being on the line. Um. 502 00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:37,160 Speaker 1: And they they heard it, and then I went from there. 503 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:40,760 Speaker 1: I mean, and this is the thing is that I 504 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:45,160 Speaker 1: feel like she has even like vocalized this thing where 505 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:46,960 Speaker 1: she was like, I never really visualized this sort of 506 00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:49,440 Speaker 1: life for myself, this path for myself, And and that 507 00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:51,399 Speaker 1: makes me want to ask you, like and just in 508 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:53,680 Speaker 1: terms of like in the context of like let's just 509 00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:57,240 Speaker 1: say like gay solipsism or gay like self centeredness, like 510 00:27:57,320 --> 00:27:59,240 Speaker 1: but why like like what like, why her instead of you? 511 00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,399 Speaker 1: You know, like, I mean what makes like what like, 512 00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,520 Speaker 1: what were the qualitative things in her that you were like, 513 00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:07,119 Speaker 1: she is perfect for this over like somewhere We're like, 514 00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:09,320 Speaker 1: we're I'm sure a lot of people they were probably 515 00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:13,200 Speaker 1: fielding a lot of nominations from people who were like, hey, 516 00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 1: I could probably do this because I know what I'm 517 00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,240 Speaker 1: capable of, blah blah. Bright We're like, hey, I'm a 518 00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:21,120 Speaker 1: confident person, so I'm ready to represent like a couple 519 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:24,719 Speaker 1: of million people. Um, So it's it's definitely. I can 520 00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:27,879 Speaker 1: only imagine, you know that the selection process that they 521 00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:30,359 Speaker 1: had to go through with with just a sheer number 522 00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 1: of people, you can't get back to eleven thousand I 523 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:37,440 Speaker 1: think submissions something like that. Um yeah, I get this question. 524 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 1: A lot of just sort of like why not you? 525 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:42,000 Speaker 1: And I guess it just came down to it just 526 00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:43,880 Speaker 1: wasn't a path that I was looking for in my 527 00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 1: personal life. And you know, I when I nominated her, 528 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:52,440 Speaker 1: I nominated her knowing that very well, if it worked out, 529 00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:56,480 Speaker 1: it could be the end of my career in real estate, 530 00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:58,160 Speaker 1: It could be the end of a lot of things, 531 00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:04,560 Speaker 1: because I very much understood that things just shake. You know, 532 00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:07,000 Speaker 1: when you shake, the table shakes it back. That's just reality. 533 00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:11,360 Speaker 1: But the need for what she fights for was just 534 00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:14,520 Speaker 1: worth it. It's always worth it, you know what I'm saying. 535 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:19,560 Speaker 1: And I felt like I knew that if given the opportunity, 536 00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:21,080 Speaker 1: she would be able to take it to a level 537 00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:23,320 Speaker 1: that either I couldn't take it to or that I 538 00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,440 Speaker 1: couldn't keep it up, because that just wasn't you know, 539 00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,240 Speaker 1: the line of work um and level of dedication that 540 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:32,320 Speaker 1: I was ready to give something, especially when other people's 541 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,240 Speaker 1: lives around the balance, It's just not something that you 542 00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 1: can play around with. I will never forget seeing her 543 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,320 Speaker 1: campaign video. I was actually I was living in Green 544 00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 1: Point at the time, and so it's just a little 545 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:45,240 Speaker 1: bit ways away from where where she represents. But I'll 546 00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:47,880 Speaker 1: never forget seeing it. There was just an energy about 547 00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:52,720 Speaker 1: it where she clearly was like bigger than the moment, 548 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,720 Speaker 1: and it wasn't for me. It was not not a 549 00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:58,240 Speaker 1: thing of will she what will she do with the 550 00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 1: sea when she gets nominate, when she gets elected? But 551 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 1: how far will it go? And we're seeing it go 552 00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:07,920 Speaker 1: to such a crazy place. So I guess for me 553 00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:12,360 Speaker 1: as a brother, it would be kind of crazy to 554 00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:15,320 Speaker 1: watch my sister become a celebrity in this way to 555 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 1: the point where everyone has an opinion on her. How 556 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,960 Speaker 1: do you deal with that? Because it's to the point 557 00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 1: now where she's on the news no matter what channel, 558 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:28,560 Speaker 1: it is like being picked apart by whether it's the left, 559 00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:31,600 Speaker 1: the right, wherever. It's kind of seems like everyone has 560 00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:36,160 Speaker 1: an agenda with her. So what is that like to watch? Uh, 561 00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:40,840 Speaker 1: it's tough. It's definitely a lot easier um, but I'd say, 562 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,640 Speaker 1: you know, especially right after she won the primary, and 563 00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:49,360 Speaker 1: it was just like, of course, no no overnight celebrities 564 00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:52,440 Speaker 1: ever overnight. This is obviously a lot of literal blood, 565 00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:56,480 Speaker 1: hears um and nothing but good intentions. And that's that's 566 00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:58,719 Speaker 1: all it's ever been, and that's all Little ever remained 567 00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:02,600 Speaker 1: to be. But you know, it was it was crazy 568 00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:06,000 Speaker 1: that I blinked and like I had eighteen voicemails from 569 00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:09,040 Speaker 1: like CNN and Fox and all these random things. It's 570 00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 1: it's it's a lot. It's weird. I do like that 571 00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 1: everybody knows how to pronounce my name though major time 572 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,520 Speaker 1: save it's like like not to get cocky, but it's like, 573 00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:19,200 Speaker 1: you know how to say my name. I don't have 574 00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:21,680 Speaker 1: to tell you anything. And the people that are still 575 00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:24,959 Speaker 1: pretending that they don't are like the truest fools ever, 576 00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,480 Speaker 1: Like like the hangers on at Fox News like that 577 00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:31,480 Speaker 1: are like okazy oh corties like being crazy. It's like, 578 00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 1: you know, how to say their name a million percent. 579 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:37,320 Speaker 1: It's like the cartoon evil characters whenever they give them 580 00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:44,400 Speaker 1: that like weird Eastern European like evil accent, like it's like, no, stop, um, 581 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:48,080 Speaker 1: it's a bondell In. But yeah, I mean it's it's 582 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:53,520 Speaker 1: it's weird too that the level of um just known 583 00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:56,800 Speaker 1: that she became was so huge, Because most people at 584 00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:59,440 Speaker 1: least have you become an overnight celebrity, it's fractional to 585 00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 1: what she got. So it was just she's one of 586 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:07,120 Speaker 1: the most famous people in America. It's insane, totally insane. Um, Yeah, 587 00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,840 Speaker 1: it's it's it's weird. It's still something that I that 588 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:11,800 Speaker 1: I have to sort of get a reality check with 589 00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 1: once in a while for sure. What also sticks out 590 00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,400 Speaker 1: to me is that you know or is like b 591 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:20,560 Speaker 1: n C are like meant to like you know, policy 592 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,240 Speaker 1: coach and the media train. Um, these people that they're 593 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:26,400 Speaker 1: backing but I feel like she kind of was like 594 00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:30,120 Speaker 1: ready to issue, Like she was like ready to go 595 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:34,240 Speaker 1: as soon as she was out there, and like and 596 00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:36,560 Speaker 1: even she to the point where she is now even 597 00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:41,800 Speaker 1: like coaching people um in Congress about like social media, 598 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:43,719 Speaker 1: and it's like just just use it authentically, Like if 599 00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:45,200 Speaker 1: you're like a mom who likes to guarden, be a 600 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,800 Speaker 1: mom who likes to garden. Don't be like some like 601 00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:51,920 Speaker 1: pandering to the youth like person. Like it seems like 602 00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:55,360 Speaker 1: she's able to get to some core like philosophy with 603 00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:58,240 Speaker 1: social media that other people just haven't been able to 604 00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:01,240 Speaker 1: figure out. But it's this resp bondsive. It's just very 605 00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:05,920 Speaker 1: like deep, like really really really like organic kind of 606 00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:10,800 Speaker 1: like use that she's sort of like kind of executing 607 00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:13,520 Speaker 1: on or whatever. But like she like anytime she tweets, 608 00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:15,840 Speaker 1: it's like it's like this event. It's like and not 609 00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:17,920 Speaker 1: in the same like parallel way as like Trump, but 610 00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:20,800 Speaker 1: like in this way that's like, oh wait, like let's 611 00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 1: lean in, like what is she's saying today? And that's 612 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:26,520 Speaker 1: kind of what's most remarkable. Yeah, See, the thing is 613 00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:29,040 Speaker 1: that that's funny is that you know, you you hear 614 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:32,480 Speaker 1: about her giving classes, you know and and Senate rooms 615 00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:39,160 Speaker 1: and teaching other people that are responsible for other amounts 616 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:42,880 Speaker 1: of Americans how to communicate with them. And it's weird 617 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:45,480 Speaker 1: because of course I see it one way, but I'm 618 00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:48,280 Speaker 1: sure that you know, anybody else is not related to 619 00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:51,920 Speaker 1: a politician just must wonder like why is she so good? 620 00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:54,080 Speaker 1: And why are they not so good? And here's the 621 00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:56,000 Speaker 1: thing is that it's not to knock her down and 622 00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:58,840 Speaker 1: see that she doesn't have skills. Obviously she does. The 623 00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:03,120 Speaker 1: reality is that other senators and other congressmen and congresswomen 624 00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:07,120 Speaker 1: are not able to um be authentic because they're paid for. 625 00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:14,239 Speaker 1: You know, if somebody has a vested interest in in 626 00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:17,680 Speaker 1: what you say and you have ventured interest in their 627 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:22,120 Speaker 1: best benefits because they're funding you, you can't ever speak 628 00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:25,040 Speaker 1: without thinking about what you say eight times. And if 629 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,320 Speaker 1: that's how you are, I mean, especially like any millennial, 630 00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:30,640 Speaker 1: like typing something out ten times before you hit sent. 631 00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:33,120 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, even when it's totally authentic. 632 00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:36,920 Speaker 1: Imagine when you know you're not aligned with the interests 633 00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:39,000 Speaker 1: of the people, you know, you're gonna be typing it 634 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:42,040 Speaker 1: out fifty times and never hitting send because you don't 635 00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:43,960 Speaker 1: want to get canceled. You know what I'm saying, It's 636 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:48,239 Speaker 1: just this perpetual fear of the inevitable um judgment day. 637 00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:52,560 Speaker 1: When you have so many like shareholders in your job, 638 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:58,720 Speaker 1: it becomes sort of this like paralyzing thing to act 639 00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:02,239 Speaker 1: on any sort of like impulsive thing that like is 640 00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:05,320 Speaker 1: supposed to align with something moral or something like I 641 00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:07,319 Speaker 1: don't know, like something like clear. I mean the whole 642 00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:11,880 Speaker 1: Ed Markey thing. I feel like Ed Markey would not 643 00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:15,919 Speaker 1: sort of have proven his like progressive bone of fee 644 00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:19,200 Speaker 1: days without ao c s like sort of like without 645 00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,200 Speaker 1: that partnership in the Green New Deal, because I because 646 00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:23,360 Speaker 1: I feel like what Joe Kennedy's doing now is like 647 00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:25,440 Speaker 1: vouluying all these things at him that are like, um, 648 00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:27,680 Speaker 1: you know, he's kind of like buying because he used 649 00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:29,840 Speaker 1: to he was tough on crime and he like you know, 650 00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:32,000 Speaker 1: back to the Crime Bill in the nineties, and he 651 00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:35,360 Speaker 1: you know, was for like you know, he was like 652 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:38,279 Speaker 1: against integrating schools like back in the day, and he 653 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:40,520 Speaker 1: like supported the Iraq War. But it's like, oh, but 654 00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:43,840 Speaker 1: all of that sort of becomes irrelevant because Ed Markey 655 00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:47,879 Speaker 1: is sort of proven himself in some progressive way by 656 00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:51,440 Speaker 1: you know, co sponsoring the Green New Deal and stuff 657 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,840 Speaker 1: like that. Definitely, here's my problem with Joe Kennedy is 658 00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:58,960 Speaker 1: that Joe Kennedy is doing all of this for Eagle 659 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:01,799 Speaker 1: and you can like, I will, I will happily help. 660 00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:05,040 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm adding him on a daily basis on 661 00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:08,759 Speaker 1: Twitter basically person like I'll retreat Like here, here's the 662 00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:11,479 Speaker 1: thing with Joe Kennedy is that he's basically saying, vote 663 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:15,520 Speaker 1: for me because my family has helped you. He's basically saying, 664 00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:19,520 Speaker 1: bring back in the dynasty because obviously when we elect 665 00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:23,560 Speaker 1: outside of the dynasty, things just go Awryna seems so crazy, 666 00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:27,399 Speaker 1: pick me, you know me And here here's where here's 667 00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:32,880 Speaker 1: what scares me about Joe Kennedy because people, especially younger voters, um, 668 00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:36,040 Speaker 1: if they're not necessarily super engaged, but they're just trying 669 00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:38,440 Speaker 1: to get engaged. What happens is that you know, you 670 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:43,920 Speaker 1: have like my sister's um her first campaign run with 671 00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:47,280 Speaker 1: her sort of visual style, and that got stolen by progressive. 672 00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,080 Speaker 1: Its fine because it was a blueprint. That's what happens 673 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:53,560 Speaker 1: when you create something so um, so intrinsically unique, that's 674 00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:56,320 Speaker 1: so many people respond to. It's going to imprint itself. 675 00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:58,759 Speaker 1: But Joe Kennedy is a biter because here's what he's 676 00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:01,239 Speaker 1: trying to do is that he's taking this blueprint of 677 00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:04,799 Speaker 1: sort of this visual language, and he's basically saying I'm young, 678 00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:08,680 Speaker 1: I'm a Kennedy and sort of walking the walk in 679 00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:12,040 Speaker 1: the way that looks right on camera. And basically he's 680 00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,840 Speaker 1: trying to move people. He's trying to sway voters by 681 00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:18,680 Speaker 1: saying Ed Markey's too old, he can't be progressive. So 682 00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:20,400 Speaker 1: here's how I'm gonna smear him, and I hope that 683 00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:26,920 Speaker 1: I make it. Meanwhile, the other um JFK grandson is 684 00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:30,960 Speaker 1: not even following Joe Kennedy on on Instagram or Twitter 685 00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:34,680 Speaker 1: and is publicly supporting Ed Markey. So if you can't 686 00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:37,680 Speaker 1: even get to Kennedy's in the same family to agree 687 00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:41,960 Speaker 1: on a candidate, then who are you to convince me 688 00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:44,839 Speaker 1: you can't even get your cousin to vote for you. Oh, 689 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,920 Speaker 1: just facts are facts, you know. It's just the thing 690 00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:52,399 Speaker 1: I feel is like I can't say that two years ago, 691 00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:54,359 Speaker 1: three years ago, I wouldn't have been one of those 692 00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:57,920 Speaker 1: people that didn't see a younger person on the ticket, 693 00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:01,000 Speaker 1: a name I knew that was a soociated with democratic 694 00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,400 Speaker 1: values and check that name, because why wouldn't you. I 695 00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:05,320 Speaker 1: don't know who this older person is. I don't know 696 00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:08,319 Speaker 1: the policy. But the thing is that's changed, I think 697 00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:11,560 Speaker 1: in the past eighteen months to two years and maybe 698 00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:14,480 Speaker 1: even progressively throughout the Trump administration, is that on a 699 00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:21,320 Speaker 1: wider scale, people are understanding the policy itself. And also 700 00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:24,360 Speaker 1: all they have to do is follow the endorsements, like 701 00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:27,919 Speaker 1: ed Monkey has every progressive endorsement that you could possibly want, 702 00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:31,480 Speaker 1: so really the question of who to follow there is 703 00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:35,799 Speaker 1: pretty clear. And also the thing that's been great about 704 00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:39,560 Speaker 1: social media, I think is like people do get fired 705 00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:43,080 Speaker 1: up about it because people do see very clearly through 706 00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,279 Speaker 1: what Kennedy is doing. And I do think that that 707 00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:48,480 Speaker 1: is one that one good thing about, you know, social 708 00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:51,080 Speaker 1: media and the media being so sensitive, is you really 709 00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:54,839 Speaker 1: can't hide anymore no matter because people can find things. 710 00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:57,560 Speaker 1: I mean, it's always only a matter of time, right 711 00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:00,040 Speaker 1: And ultimately you look at the two records compared, and 712 00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:02,759 Speaker 1: it's almost it's it might as well be like a 713 00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:05,160 Speaker 1: Republican running, you know what I mean. At this point, 714 00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:06,960 Speaker 1: it's like if if we're going to turn the Democratic 715 00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:10,720 Speaker 1: Party into what we needed to be. Then in races 716 00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:13,759 Speaker 1: like this primary, where we have a choice, we will 717 00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:15,920 Speaker 1: pick the more progressive option. We will fight for the 718 00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:18,279 Speaker 1: more progressive option. You know, in the general we're going 719 00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:21,040 Speaker 1: to be voting for Biden and Harris because that's all 720 00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:24,200 Speaker 1: we have. But in these primary races like we have 721 00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:27,279 Speaker 1: to be putting all of our energy into supporting, donating to, 722 00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:31,480 Speaker 1: and elevating these truly progressive candidates. And I think that 723 00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:34,080 Speaker 1: that that we've seen a see change in the way 724 00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:39,360 Speaker 1: that works lately in a way that's encouraging definitely. The 725 00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:43,880 Speaker 1: The interesting thing about the the Massachusetts rights that this 726 00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:47,080 Speaker 1: is the marquee races that which will be decided about 727 00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,840 Speaker 1: the time it comes out, it will be decided, but hopefully. 728 00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:53,880 Speaker 1: But the thing is that it's an incumbent who is 729 00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:57,480 Speaker 1: the more progressive candidate. But it's sort of the inverted 730 00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:00,000 Speaker 1: thing we've we've seen mostly be inverted thing like between 731 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,920 Speaker 1: Joe Crowley. See it's like the incumbent is sort of 732 00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:05,920 Speaker 1: to the right or whatever or with them with Corey 733 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:10,400 Speaker 1: and and the Clay Clay yeah class like you know 734 00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:12,560 Speaker 1: you have I mean, this is like a this is 735 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:14,840 Speaker 1: a fun sort of like fun house mirror version of 736 00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:17,400 Speaker 1: like all of that, plus it's set against this like 737 00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:22,080 Speaker 1: crazy political dynasty um and just the fact that it's 738 00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:23,920 Speaker 1: in the same state as this Alex Moore stuff, which 739 00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:25,279 Speaker 1: is also what do you which I saw you were 740 00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:30,080 Speaker 1: posting about today? Definitely, definitely. So it's so it's but 741 00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:32,839 Speaker 1: speaking of like everything will come out, like even when 742 00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:37,480 Speaker 1: it comes out, it's like if it's improperly weaponized or used, 743 00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:40,080 Speaker 1: it fully backfires. I think, I hope, and I don't 744 00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,319 Speaker 1: gonna need to explain what this is to the readers. Okay, 745 00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:46,240 Speaker 1: might not? Yeah, do you mind? Do you want to? Definitely? 746 00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:48,560 Speaker 1: So here's here's what was that. We have Alex Morris 747 00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:54,160 Speaker 1: who's running against Richard Neil in Massachusetts. Massachusetts is first 748 00:40:55,840 --> 00:41:01,200 Speaker 1: m one right okay, and he's running again Richard Neil, 749 00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:04,040 Speaker 1: who is the head of the Committee on Ways and Means, 750 00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:08,440 Speaker 1: and essentially Richard Neil is being bankrolled by tons of 751 00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:11,760 Speaker 1: dark money and essentially he's the main reason why Medicare 752 00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:13,480 Speaker 1: for All can't go forward. He's the main reason why 753 00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:16,920 Speaker 1: the tail can't go forward because he essentially presents it 754 00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:19,000 Speaker 1: in a way that there are no weas or means 755 00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:21,919 Speaker 1: for it. To occur, right, So the thing about Richard 756 00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:25,040 Speaker 1: Neil is that um, although there isn't any proof to it, 757 00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:26,759 Speaker 1: so I'm not gonna get myself caught up in a 758 00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:30,120 Speaker 1: bad sound bite, is that there is an investigation that 759 00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:34,919 Speaker 1: has come out after some people have claimed that encounters 760 00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:38,520 Speaker 1: on dating apps with Alex that they entered into and 761 00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:43,279 Speaker 1: continued in totally of their own accord. We're making them uncomfortable. 762 00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:45,680 Speaker 1: Although Alex was never notified of this. Mr Morse was 763 00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:50,719 Speaker 1: never notified of this, and they get represented in a 764 00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:56,160 Speaker 1: letter written by an attorney from the Massachusetts Democratic Party. 765 00:41:56,800 --> 00:42:00,800 Speaker 1: So we have the system essentially aligning UM, and it 766 00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:06,680 Speaker 1: very much reads as if the established power, which reflects 767 00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:12,200 Speaker 1: Richard Neil, is going ahead and creating UM and fabricating 768 00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:17,359 Speaker 1: untrue things in order to defeat a progressive opponent. And you'll, 769 00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:20,759 Speaker 1: I mean, if you haven't seen the debates between Mr 770 00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:23,400 Speaker 1: Neil and Mr Morris, they're very good, and it's so 771 00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:26,920 Speaker 1: easy to see that Alex is under his skin without 772 00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:30,080 Speaker 1: raising his voice, without doing anything other than state the facts. 773 00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:35,000 Speaker 1: And when stating the facts is killing someone, Obviously, that's 774 00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:38,880 Speaker 1: something that you have to pay attention to. Absolutely, and 775 00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:43,279 Speaker 1: also just It's just so interesting to me how the 776 00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:46,239 Speaker 1: rules seem to not apply to the establishment, and like 777 00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:49,120 Speaker 1: the pearl clutching that goes on about anything that progressives do, 778 00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:52,719 Speaker 1: such as you know, Pelosi's endorsement of Kennedy. Correct. And 779 00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:56,160 Speaker 1: here's the important thing about that is that she said, Okay, 780 00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:59,360 Speaker 1: I'm not going to support anybody that's going against an incumbent. 781 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:02,440 Speaker 1: She said that, and that was supposed to be her 782 00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:07,640 Speaker 1: general policy. That's funny enough. She's like, um, too progressive, 783 00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:09,880 Speaker 1: Like why then do we need a planet anyways? And 784 00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:12,520 Speaker 1: why why is support the Green New Deal. Let me 785 00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:15,040 Speaker 1: just go ahead, go back on what I said and 786 00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:20,640 Speaker 1: go ahead and support the family dynasty candidate who is 787 00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:23,560 Speaker 1: young but going against his own future of the planet 788 00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:32,040 Speaker 1: for the sake of just achieving some kind of you know, fantasy. Yeah, 789 00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:35,719 Speaker 1: someone that has a job already, dude, Like, get out 790 00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:38,640 Speaker 1: this funk out. Losing your ship over the Green New 791 00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:42,759 Speaker 1: Deal is so embarrassing to me because wait for it, 792 00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:46,560 Speaker 1: it's just a resolution. It's just a set of guidelines 793 00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:49,360 Speaker 1: that are like putting a north Star out there to 794 00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:52,160 Speaker 1: be like, let's have zero carbon emissions by this year. 795 00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,279 Speaker 1: Like it's that's all it's doing. It's not saying we're 796 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:57,520 Speaker 1: taking these jobs away. It's not saying we're like fucking 797 00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:00,840 Speaker 1: shut up. It's saying, hey, this is a goal goal setting. 798 00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:03,480 Speaker 1: It's just exactly and that's all it is. And the 799 00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:06,640 Speaker 1: fact that you have these establishment democrats like wanting to 800 00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:10,839 Speaker 1: like melt down over it and like backing from their 801 00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:15,360 Speaker 1: word and endorsing these like primary challengers is so so 802 00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:18,840 Speaker 1: so like infuriating and pathetic to me. But the Alex 803 00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:20,320 Speaker 1: Moore thing, I know, but like, I mean, Gabe, you 804 00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:22,840 Speaker 1: do you nailed it? Uh. The thing that the petty 805 00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:24,879 Speaker 1: thing that I want to bring up is the person 806 00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:27,920 Speaker 1: who unearthed all of these tender exchanges between Alex Morris's 807 00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:31,120 Speaker 1: and these um her students was this guy who took 808 00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:33,640 Speaker 1: one of Richard Neil's classes I think at am Hurst 809 00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:35,320 Speaker 1: and was like, I want him to get get me 810 00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:38,960 Speaker 1: a job. And that's why I am. It's motivated by 811 00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:42,319 Speaker 1: this like dumb neoliberal thing of like, oh, there's there's 812 00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:44,200 Speaker 1: something to gain out of this, so let me like 813 00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:47,600 Speaker 1: go out of my way. I mean, you know, somebody's 814 00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:50,279 Speaker 1: got to be judas, somebody's gonna be bought, somebody's gonna 815 00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:54,480 Speaker 1: be paid for most for there's so few exceptions that 816 00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:56,640 Speaker 1: I just do have to say that everyone has a price, 817 00:44:57,320 --> 00:45:01,280 Speaker 1: and for some people it's it's nothing more than fifty 818 00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:04,120 Speaker 1: grand a year in benefits. Granted, you know it's not 819 00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:07,279 Speaker 1: I'm not knocking that because so many people out there 820 00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:11,560 Speaker 1: are suffering and that could be the difference between them 821 00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:15,320 Speaker 1: and their kids having insurance. And you know, it's it 822 00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:17,759 Speaker 1: is life changing for some people. But when you look 823 00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:20,120 Speaker 1: at you know who these people are and what they're 824 00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:23,279 Speaker 1: actually selling it for, and the money that they come from, 825 00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:26,040 Speaker 1: and the established power that they already have, they're really 826 00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:30,200 Speaker 1: selling it for nothing. Yeah, I just I have to 827 00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:32,879 Speaker 1: ask because it's covered a lot in Knockdown the House 828 00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:35,920 Speaker 1: in the documentary, which is actually how we found out 829 00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:38,799 Speaker 1: that it was you that nominated your sister to brand 830 00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:42,319 Speaker 1: new Congress. But they talk about how once you start 831 00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:44,360 Speaker 1: to show promise are once you start to show a 832 00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:47,239 Speaker 1: challenge to the establishment, the establishment will then come in 833 00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:49,520 Speaker 1: and sort of offer you a job and try to 834 00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:51,759 Speaker 1: offer you the world. Do you think that that's something 835 00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:55,000 Speaker 1: that your sister has dealt with. I think that they 836 00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:56,680 Speaker 1: have to see you as a threat in order to 837 00:45:56,800 --> 00:46:01,200 Speaker 1: offer that to you. First, and I think they looked 838 00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:04,680 Speaker 1: at her and they were like, she's you know, just 839 00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:07,160 Speaker 1: like some bitch from the Bronx, right, just something they 840 00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:10,640 Speaker 1: just didn't and it's like, what could she know? What 841 00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:12,840 Speaker 1: could she do? But the thing is that it was 842 00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,480 Speaker 1: never about her or she It wasn't it wasn't about 843 00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:18,120 Speaker 1: an individual. It was always about the fact that she 844 00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:22,560 Speaker 1: was representing a collective group of lots of people. But 845 00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:25,600 Speaker 1: they just did not understand that. You know, they wanted 846 00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:28,600 Speaker 1: they essentially needed to have their arm bent, you know, 847 00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:30,920 Speaker 1: in order to see that. But it's it's like, why 848 00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:33,960 Speaker 1: would you, um, why why would we go ahead and 849 00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:35,719 Speaker 1: twist your arm for you to see us if we 850 00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:39,080 Speaker 1: could just go ahead and replace you and you you 851 00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:42,640 Speaker 1: really do see that with um. You know political commentators 852 00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:45,840 Speaker 1: that UM interview your sister, like, for example, I'll just 853 00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:48,560 Speaker 1: use Megan McCain as an example, when your sister went 854 00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:52,759 Speaker 1: on the view UM. Someone like Megan McCain has such 855 00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:57,719 Speaker 1: a uh, just bad taste to her mouth immediately because 856 00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:00,520 Speaker 1: she just has an ad version chart and really because 857 00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:03,480 Speaker 1: she has an inability to see that this person is 858 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:06,720 Speaker 1: literally for the people and not in like a political 859 00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:09,400 Speaker 1: way like people that are in political dynasties, are involved 860 00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:11,600 Speaker 1: with political dynasties. It's very clear to me that they 861 00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:15,400 Speaker 1: they think, well, it's politics, so there must be an 862 00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:18,279 Speaker 1: ulterior motive because that's all they know. And you see 863 00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:21,280 Speaker 1: that in the way that politics has covered to for example, 864 00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:23,680 Speaker 1: like the way that I feel that they treat your 865 00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:27,920 Speaker 1: sister and MSNBC even on even on like the liberal network, 866 00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:33,600 Speaker 1: like they still there is network. Everyone's listening. It's like 867 00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:37,800 Speaker 1: except the young Turms. Kidding well, I love the young Turts. 868 00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,680 Speaker 1: I like, here's the thing about Megan McKean is that 869 00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:43,960 Speaker 1: you know it's listen to me. I have plenty of 870 00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:46,160 Speaker 1: differences with her, and I'm not even gonna get into it, 871 00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:48,960 Speaker 1: but I will say that at least um, I think 872 00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:52,200 Speaker 1: she has a basic understanding and value for her name, 873 00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:54,200 Speaker 1: and she very I believe she's smart enough to know 874 00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:56,719 Speaker 1: that if she was to go ahead and run for 875 00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:59,600 Speaker 1: her father's seat, she could probably win in a landslide. 876 00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:03,800 Speaker 1: And she chooses Nazi. She decides to let the system 877 00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:06,439 Speaker 1: and the establishment and the people choose who they want. 878 00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:09,800 Speaker 1: And I have you have to respect that ure. And 879 00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:12,759 Speaker 1: but one of the thing is that funny enough, I 880 00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:15,880 Speaker 1: think she actually agreed with my system more than Woody 881 00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:19,160 Speaker 1: Goldberg dig because what gold would be at least in 882 00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:21,840 Speaker 1: the In one of the segments, I think prior to 883 00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:23,839 Speaker 1: them having her on the show, they were like, Oh, 884 00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:26,200 Speaker 1: she's a bartender, what could she know? And it's like, 885 00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:28,239 Speaker 1: what what were you doing before you started acting in 886 00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:33,120 Speaker 1: successful gigs. It's like, you know, especially in this day 887 00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:37,680 Speaker 1: and age where um, just everybody needs our help, you know, 888 00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:40,560 Speaker 1: just getting forward. I especially when that's part of just 889 00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:45,160 Speaker 1: the greater social discussion. I just don't that just goes 890 00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:49,239 Speaker 1: to show that, you know, challenging something new is just 891 00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:52,480 Speaker 1: sort of a little bit natural for people that have 892 00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:56,560 Speaker 1: grown to be a part of the establishment. Just one 893 00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:59,240 Speaker 1: more thing about that is that I think that another 894 00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:03,400 Speaker 1: element of this obviously is that whenever, whenever she is 895 00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:07,120 Speaker 1: challenging something, and I think that's might have been where 896 00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:12,280 Speaker 1: like people were coming from, like in that particular instance 897 00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:14,360 Speaker 1: on the view is it's like, I think there is 898 00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:17,879 Speaker 1: an element obviously of racism and sexism when it comes 899 00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:21,120 Speaker 1: to someone like your sister speaking up because they think, oh, 900 00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:25,480 Speaker 1: she's being disrespectful. Like there's this like weird mentality around 901 00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:29,200 Speaker 1: AOC like when it comes to Biden and her criticisms 902 00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:32,000 Speaker 1: of Biden or people like him. It's like, you need 903 00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:35,080 Speaker 1: to slow your role. You're being disrespectful. These people are 904 00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:38,200 Speaker 1: not all bought and evil like you're saying, and which 905 00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:41,000 Speaker 1: is not what she's even saying in brass tacks, but 906 00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:45,200 Speaker 1: but you need to understand that people before you have 907 00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:48,279 Speaker 1: done a lot, and that sort of dismisses the immediacy 908 00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:50,520 Speaker 1: of what she is saying. And I feel that that 909 00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:53,200 Speaker 1: is targeting her in a way that they wouldn't target 910 00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:56,440 Speaker 1: someone that, say, looked like Joe Kennedy and was espousing 911 00:49:56,520 --> 00:50:00,640 Speaker 1: the ideals that your sister does its respectability politics. Yeah, right, 912 00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:05,640 Speaker 1: a million percent. I mean it's um. The reality is 913 00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:11,000 Speaker 1: that if she was in a different physical form, it 914 00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:14,719 Speaker 1: would be smooth, you know, it would be it would 915 00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:18,719 Speaker 1: be easier because she would be in a form that's 916 00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:24,200 Speaker 1: more palatable to the establishment. But because she's not the 917 00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:28,640 Speaker 1: ideal family dynasty candidate, because she's not in the form 918 00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:31,239 Speaker 1: of a Joe Kennedy, you know she's going to be 919 00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:34,160 Speaker 1: um put into positions where the establishment is going to 920 00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:36,680 Speaker 1: try to, you know, paint her off as like a 921 00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:39,239 Speaker 1: feisty like Sophia ved gotta and they're going to try 922 00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:42,000 Speaker 1: to make you a caricature because the easier it is 923 00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:44,640 Speaker 1: to draw you with a few lines, um, you know, 924 00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:46,280 Speaker 1: the easier it is for them just to go ahead 925 00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:50,440 Speaker 1: and close in that box around you. Sure, sure, Um. 926 00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:52,560 Speaker 1: I did want to point out this thing that I 927 00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:55,640 Speaker 1: thought was kind of great and like I think it 928 00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:57,799 Speaker 1: was like a moment where you saw Joe Crowley sort 929 00:50:57,840 --> 00:50:59,640 Speaker 1: of like buckle a bit was it was one of 930 00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:01,680 Speaker 1: the what like two debates that he actually showed up 931 00:51:01,719 --> 00:51:05,799 Speaker 1: to when um during the primary. But it's this thing 932 00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:08,160 Speaker 1: of like collectivism that you're talking about, Gabe, where it's 933 00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:13,560 Speaker 1: like she the question was, would the would the candidates 934 00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:16,880 Speaker 1: endorse the other candidate whoever won the primary? Basically, so 935 00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:19,759 Speaker 1: would would Joe Crowley endorsed c what AOC endors Joe 936 00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:23,000 Speaker 1: Crowley if they want? And Joe Crowley says, yes, I'll 937 00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:26,759 Speaker 1: endorse AOC, And then your sister goes, I'm happy to 938 00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:31,080 Speaker 1: take that question to my movement and put that up 939 00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:33,720 Speaker 1: for a vote if for that for it to always 940 00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:37,560 Speaker 1: go back to that is so important and so huge 941 00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:40,120 Speaker 1: and like kind of like I don't know, like drills 942 00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:43,399 Speaker 1: it into into my head like I'm watching and I'm like, oh, wait, 943 00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:45,760 Speaker 1: that's what this is about. It's not about this individualist 944 00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:48,600 Speaker 1: thing of like she's the only one who can do this. 945 00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:53,520 Speaker 1: It's no, it's she's being backed by people who need 946 00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:57,920 Speaker 1: need change or there's one collectivist voice in your ear. 947 00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:00,800 Speaker 1: And it's not like this thing where other candidates have 948 00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:04,680 Speaker 1: other private interests a million of them in therriers, right. 949 00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:08,640 Speaker 1: It's like she has one s like stakeholder in her 950 00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:12,360 Speaker 1: political life and that's her constituents. That's It's as simple 951 00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:15,800 Speaker 1: as that. Yeah, And it's it's just wild that we 952 00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:17,839 Speaker 1: got to this point in our society where we were 953 00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:22,879 Speaker 1: just largely cool with autopilot. It's it's totally totally irresponsible. 954 00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:25,560 Speaker 1: I mean, it's like you constantly read about people like 955 00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:28,480 Speaker 1: into accidents while they're on autopilot, and you're like, oh, 956 00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:31,760 Speaker 1: like if they're only paying attention, But how many decades 957 00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:33,880 Speaker 1: was the mass of the bulk of our society just 958 00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:38,360 Speaker 1: not paying attention exactly? And it seems so insane and 959 00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:40,800 Speaker 1: revolutionary that it's just like, oh, just listen to the 960 00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:43,320 Speaker 1: voters who would have thought it's just we we have 961 00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:46,680 Speaker 1: to recognize that, yes, it's exceptional that she's doing that, 962 00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:48,520 Speaker 1: but we still have to bring it down to the 963 00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:51,399 Speaker 1: basic level of like this is what everyone should be doing. 964 00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:55,239 Speaker 1: It's representative government, which is like it shouldn't be this thing. 965 00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:57,120 Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, it's like they to go back to 966 00:52:57,120 --> 00:52:59,239 Speaker 1: your analogy. It's like the person wouldn't have gone to 967 00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:02,160 Speaker 1: that that acts had autopilot not been invented or whatever. 968 00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:05,120 Speaker 1: You know, it's like, anyway, it was invented because they 969 00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:07,800 Speaker 1: told us we could invent it and don't worry, Like, 970 00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:09,920 Speaker 1: don't we don't worry. We have something that's going to 971 00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:12,480 Speaker 1: take care of you. I remember growing up and being 972 00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:16,880 Speaker 1: in school and the mentality very much being like, and 973 00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:19,480 Speaker 1: that's government is something that other people do you know, 974 00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:22,920 Speaker 1: there's it doesn't it can be for you or people 975 00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:25,480 Speaker 1: like you, And how would you even start? And you 976 00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:27,239 Speaker 1: know what I mean, It's just like it feels like 977 00:53:27,760 --> 00:53:30,759 Speaker 1: something you'd have to put a life's work into a 978 00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:32,840 Speaker 1: specific thing. You have to go into law, or you 979 00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:36,240 Speaker 1: have to do this or that. But I really love 980 00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:39,160 Speaker 1: just like in watching Knock Down the House, which I 981 00:53:39,239 --> 00:53:41,880 Speaker 1: believe everyone should wash. If you have not watched it, 982 00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:44,160 Speaker 1: we've talked about it at nauseam on the podcast. But 983 00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:48,080 Speaker 1: it's not just Alexandria Acazio Cortez. It's you know, Corey Bush, 984 00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:51,960 Speaker 1: who Pologene swearing in and it's um you know, um 985 00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:56,040 Speaker 1: Amy Valela. And these are amazing stories all for and 986 00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:59,279 Speaker 1: only one, you know, quote unquote has a happy ending 987 00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:01,480 Speaker 1: in terms of the result of the election. But what 988 00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:04,360 Speaker 1: you can know is that from going forward, you know, 989 00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:07,520 Speaker 1: Corey Bush did win her primary this year and will 990 00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:12,800 Speaker 1: be elected to Congress barring something crazy, and Apologene is 991 00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:16,920 Speaker 1: running again and like pulling better. And so this is 992 00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:22,400 Speaker 1: it's frustrating to watch that documentary because you see people 993 00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:25,480 Speaker 1: who are just in it for the people, and are 994 00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:28,360 Speaker 1: just in it for the for health care, for for 995 00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:30,320 Speaker 1: medicare for all, and are just in there for a 996 00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:32,839 Speaker 1: better earth and a better fighting chance for the people 997 00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:36,000 Speaker 1: that really haven't had one, and to see them run 998 00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:39,759 Speaker 1: up against these like roadblocks, which are the establishment just 999 00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:43,320 Speaker 1: like so dead set on keeping things the way that 1000 00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:45,319 Speaker 1: they are. And what I would say to everyone who 1001 00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:49,000 Speaker 1: needs it, like really spelled out clearly is it's it 1002 00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:51,520 Speaker 1: has never been okay, you know what I mean. It's 1003 00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:53,840 Speaker 1: just it's not just not okay now because of Trump. 1004 00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:59,239 Speaker 1: This system allowed Trump like this system being was essentially 1005 00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:02,719 Speaker 1: really for a Trump to come in. They just had 1006 00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:06,320 Speaker 1: to do it. So it's like, I guess that's my 1007 00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:10,319 Speaker 1: own little endorsement of the film. And the one thing 1008 00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:12,800 Speaker 1: I wanted to ask about it was in terms of 1009 00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:15,920 Speaker 1: the crew shooting it was that just something because it 1010 00:55:16,040 --> 00:55:18,640 Speaker 1: was it's kind of crazy that they followed your sister 1011 00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:20,680 Speaker 1: from the beginning with her going to get ice from 1012 00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:23,840 Speaker 1: the basement at the bar and then like her standing 1013 00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:26,040 Speaker 1: at the end of the documentary in front of the 1014 00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:31,040 Speaker 1: Capitol building. It's crazy. You know, it's Rachel the director 1015 00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:34,320 Speaker 1: of Knockdown the House. She is so easy to forget 1016 00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:36,440 Speaker 1: that you're there. She is brilliant at just finding that 1017 00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:38,960 Speaker 1: one little corner, and you know, she's she's a little 1018 00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:40,680 Speaker 1: bit smaller, she's got a type frame, she's got the 1019 00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:44,040 Speaker 1: camera worked up so like she's totally condensed into um 1020 00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:47,840 Speaker 1: like a one form with this with this camera, and 1021 00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:50,400 Speaker 1: it's like when you're watching reality TV and you're like, 1022 00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:52,680 Speaker 1: there's no way that they forget that the cameras are there. 1023 00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:54,759 Speaker 1: That like you assume that the cameras just like in 1024 00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:58,719 Speaker 1: your face, like like a microphone on a stick. You 1025 00:55:58,800 --> 00:56:01,960 Speaker 1: know it because of this not the case, like sometimes 1026 00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:05,000 Speaker 1: I would scratch my chest into like, oh no, I've 1027 00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:07,640 Speaker 1: got a mike on, you know. Not that I'm ever 1028 00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:10,759 Speaker 1: saying anything too crazy, but it's it's definitely easier to 1029 00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:13,319 Speaker 1: um to get into it with them there than than 1030 00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:18,160 Speaker 1: you would imagine all documentarians should be small and that's 1031 00:56:18,160 --> 00:56:27,759 Speaker 1: actually documents. So they were just following you're said, were 1032 00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:29,880 Speaker 1: they following a ton of people from brand new Congress 1033 00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:32,520 Speaker 1: and saying we'll see who works out if any. They 1034 00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:35,680 Speaker 1: followed four um, so it was just this f It 1035 00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:37,600 Speaker 1: was just those four that I understand, and they filmed 1036 00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:39,799 Speaker 1: a good chunk after it too. They actually filmed all 1037 00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:43,200 Speaker 1: the way until November, so there's a lot that happens 1038 00:56:43,239 --> 00:56:45,480 Speaker 1: in those summer months that are just not you know, 1039 00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:49,160 Speaker 1: on film. Because my understanding after talking with Rachel um 1040 00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:53,560 Speaker 1: at the at the premiere that they did at Bernard, 1041 00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:59,239 Speaker 1: is that she basically just thought that the understanding would 1042 00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:01,560 Speaker 1: be that, Okay, they the primary in a deeply blue 1043 00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:05,520 Speaker 1: blue area, then it's pretty much gonna be good until 1044 00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:08,160 Speaker 1: the end. Um and everybody knows that she once they 1045 00:57:08,160 --> 00:57:09,800 Speaker 1: felt there it just would be a little bit redundant. 1046 00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:11,279 Speaker 1: So I get I get why they did it, but 1047 00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:16,280 Speaker 1: there's so much that's not included in that. Mm hmm, yeah, 1048 00:57:16,880 --> 00:57:19,920 Speaker 1: very interesting. It is pretty unbelievable that it worked out 1049 00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:22,240 Speaker 1: the way it did, I mean narratively, just in terms 1050 00:57:22,280 --> 00:57:25,160 Speaker 1: of like from filmmaking, I'm like, this is crazy, Like 1051 00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:28,640 Speaker 1: it's so thrilling and gratifying to watch and also to 1052 00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:32,200 Speaker 1: know that she's not to be like not just someone 1053 00:57:32,240 --> 00:57:35,200 Speaker 1: who got into Congress, but you know, literally the face 1054 00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:39,840 Speaker 1: and start for so many people watching anyway of something 1055 00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:44,040 Speaker 1: so much bigger. I've only seen it like barely twice. 1056 00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:46,720 Speaker 1: I've only seen it like once. It's just it's so 1057 00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:51,760 Speaker 1: it's just so just meta, it's just so weird. And 1058 00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:55,160 Speaker 1: then even then just the other three stories, they all 1059 00:57:55,280 --> 00:58:01,800 Speaker 1: made me cry. Um And it's just a reminder of um, 1060 00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:04,240 Speaker 1: where we are in America because the reality is that 1061 00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:07,800 Speaker 1: you these people that are running have the first hand 1062 00:58:08,000 --> 00:58:11,440 Speaker 1: loss and the first hand lived experience of what happens 1063 00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:14,360 Speaker 1: when the policy fails you you know, and it's like 1064 00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:18,280 Speaker 1: you can't find somebody that's better experienced in that situation 1065 00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:21,080 Speaker 1: because it happened to them, you know, literally like que 1066 00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:23,560 Speaker 1: Lady Gaga Mze until it happens to you. It's just 1067 00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:25,840 Speaker 1: very real, like it is. Until it happens to you, 1068 00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:29,320 Speaker 1: you just don't you will never know. Um, so it's 1069 00:58:29,400 --> 00:58:31,440 Speaker 1: just you couldn't. I don't think that you could get 1070 00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:33,800 Speaker 1: better people to run in the districts that than the 1071 00:58:33,880 --> 00:58:36,680 Speaker 1: four women that were presented. Yeah, and tell me what 1072 00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:41,960 Speaker 1: the hell do you know? What the hell do you Okay, 1073 00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:43,520 Speaker 1: we'll take a quick break and then we're gonna ask 1074 00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:54,400 Speaker 1: Gabriel the question. Okay, great, perfect, Okay, we're back with 1075 00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:57,520 Speaker 1: Gabriel Kaser Cortes. Gabriel, we would ask you the question 1076 00:58:57,600 --> 00:58:58,920 Speaker 1: we ask all of our guests, which is what is 1077 00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:01,680 Speaker 1: the culture that made you say? Culture is for me? 1078 00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:05,040 Speaker 1: And Matt explain what that means. So this is that 1079 00:59:05,240 --> 00:59:07,720 Speaker 1: thing that comes along in your life in the realm 1080 00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:10,120 Speaker 1: of pop culture, and you're like, oh, I feel seen 1081 00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:15,760 Speaker 1: by this. My my being is I'm powerless against this. 1082 00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:17,960 Speaker 1: It has an influence on me and the rest of 1083 00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:22,000 Speaker 1: my life is dictated by this, maybe even entirely. Okay, 1084 00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:30,000 Speaker 1: no pressure, right, it's culture. Okay, So two moments, one event, 1085 00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:33,040 Speaker 1: and it comes full circle. All right, damn, Okay, I 1086 00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:41,400 Speaker 1: love it. So here's where we are. Um, it's February Graham, Okay, 1087 00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:45,200 Speaker 1: it so basically I think my dad is in the 1088 00:59:45,320 --> 00:59:47,720 Speaker 1: hospital at this time. The last year was was difficult. 1089 00:59:47,760 --> 00:59:49,920 Speaker 1: It was a lot of in and out. Um, And 1090 00:59:50,760 --> 00:59:53,160 Speaker 1: just like any kid that's going through this, at least 1091 00:59:53,200 --> 00:59:56,160 Speaker 1: for those that understand, you know, you'll understand. It's that 1092 00:59:56,440 --> 00:59:59,360 Speaker 1: you assume every time the last so you know you're 1093 00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:03,120 Speaker 1: in this. I'm in this really fragile, you know, emotional state. Um, 1094 01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:05,720 Speaker 1: I just turned fifteen like two months before, so like 1095 01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:09,080 Speaker 1: all intensive purposes, I'm like fourteen. So we're looking at 1096 01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:12,720 Speaker 1: the Grammys and I've watched the Grammys every year that 1097 01:00:12,800 --> 01:00:16,440 Speaker 1: I've been able to have the cognitive awareness enough to 1098 01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:21,200 Speaker 1: put on love the Grammys's a guilty pleasure. Um, we'll 1099 01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:25,640 Speaker 1: talk about the color. She absolutely on that. We're watching it. 1100 01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:32,400 Speaker 1: And you know, Kanye West, God rest his soul is 1101 01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:35,600 Speaker 1: on the Grammys, and he was so fresh, his style 1102 01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:38,840 Speaker 1: was so He's obviously a taste maker, and he was 1103 01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:41,080 Speaker 1: a force to be reckoned with. He was everything at 1104 01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:48,720 Speaker 1: that time. He was being pregnant. Whatever. I hope. So 1105 01:00:48,720 --> 01:00:51,360 Speaker 1: I hope she's wish everybody's best. Whatever she is, we 1106 01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:56,640 Speaker 1: hope she's well exactly you're good. So Kanye. I'm watching 1107 01:00:56,720 --> 01:00:59,760 Speaker 1: Kanye and he starts off and he starts singing, hey 1108 01:00:59,880 --> 01:01:03,400 Speaker 1: my because he had just lost his mom. And I'm 1109 01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:07,320 Speaker 1: watching this artist in front of me, and I'm seeing 1110 01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:13,560 Speaker 1: what I assume i'll be in soon enough, and I'm 1111 01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:16,840 Speaker 1: seeing his heartbreak and seeing his pain, and I'm just like, 1112 01:01:17,920 --> 01:01:21,720 Speaker 1: I guess this is how a creative mourns. You have 1113 01:01:21,840 --> 01:01:27,560 Speaker 1: no choice but to perform, you know, And it's not 1114 01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:30,720 Speaker 1: necessarily just being on the stage. It's just, you know, 1115 01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:33,680 Speaker 1: fake it till you make it in the saddest sense, 1116 01:01:33,760 --> 01:01:35,720 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And you're watching him and 1117 01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:38,640 Speaker 1: he's reciting these lyrics. Um, you know you never put 1118 01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:40,480 Speaker 1: no man over me. And I love you for that. Mom. 1119 01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:42,920 Speaker 1: You can't just see seven years old like going through 1120 01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:47,200 Speaker 1: it and he's struggling so much. And I'm next to 1121 01:01:47,320 --> 01:01:50,640 Speaker 1: my mom on the couch in our tiny tiny house 1122 01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:53,440 Speaker 1: that they that like Fox likes to portray was like 1123 01:01:53,480 --> 01:01:57,400 Speaker 1: Maria's carry mansion when it was like best and it's 1124 01:01:57,440 --> 01:01:59,000 Speaker 1: like I didn't even know they were framing it like 1125 01:01:59,080 --> 01:02:03,560 Speaker 1: that anyways. So it's me and my mom and this 1126 01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:06,200 Speaker 1: oversize great Dane that did not belong in the house 1127 01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:11,000 Speaker 1: that's and we're watching this and I'm just like, I 1128 01:02:11,080 --> 01:02:12,960 Speaker 1: have a few tears just running down my eyes, and 1129 01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:15,840 Speaker 1: she just like, you know, giving my space. I was 1130 01:02:15,920 --> 01:02:17,360 Speaker 1: just I'm that type of person when I'm upset, you 1131 01:02:17,400 --> 01:02:19,880 Speaker 1: just gotta let me be, don't chase me. And I'm 1132 01:02:19,920 --> 01:02:22,560 Speaker 1: watching it and then I see him going too stronger 1133 01:02:23,160 --> 01:02:26,840 Speaker 1: immediately like seconds after he finished his Hey mama, And 1134 01:02:27,400 --> 01:02:29,960 Speaker 1: I remember looking at this and I'm just like, this 1135 01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:35,000 Speaker 1: man is broken. This man is totally destroyed. He will 1136 01:02:35,120 --> 01:02:37,200 Speaker 1: never be the same and it was never the same. 1137 01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:41,400 Speaker 1: And he's just out here giving his all because that's 1138 01:02:42,080 --> 01:02:44,360 Speaker 1: what that's the job of the creative is that you 1139 01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:47,160 Speaker 1: you have to deliver, you have to perform, you have 1140 01:02:47,320 --> 01:02:50,120 Speaker 1: to you have to. That's just what it is. And 1141 01:02:51,200 --> 01:02:55,680 Speaker 1: that same event the Grammys that I guess, like what 1142 01:02:55,800 --> 01:02:59,680 Speaker 1: thirty minutes later, whatever you have, Amy Winehouse, I mean 1143 01:02:59,720 --> 01:03:03,680 Speaker 1: you talk about a bucket of talent, I mean overflowing that. 1144 01:03:04,080 --> 01:03:07,200 Speaker 1: There's hardly anybody that even matches her. Adele maybe you know, 1145 01:03:07,320 --> 01:03:09,840 Speaker 1: but there's nobody that will ever be like her. Um 1146 01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:11,800 Speaker 1: and you see her, and you see her because they 1147 01:03:11,880 --> 01:03:16,600 Speaker 1: denied her visa. UM come into the US for due 1148 01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:19,560 Speaker 1: to tabloids. They were like no, so she was performing 1149 01:03:19,600 --> 01:03:22,280 Speaker 1: live when I think like a venue in like Camden, London, 1150 01:03:22,960 --> 01:03:27,360 Speaker 1: and I think Tony Bennett reads off the wind and 1151 01:03:27,560 --> 01:03:29,560 Speaker 1: they cut to her and everybody around her is just 1152 01:03:30,320 --> 01:03:35,360 Speaker 1: losing their mind and she's just she's just like she 1153 01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:39,000 Speaker 1: couldn't believe that, like just absolute. And I watched it 1154 01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:43,240 Speaker 1: again this morning and it's only like five seconds that 1155 01:03:43,600 --> 01:03:45,160 Speaker 1: you know, she's just kind of like what's going on? 1156 01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:50,240 Speaker 1: But I remember being in that moment and feeling so 1157 01:03:50,400 --> 01:03:53,240 Speaker 1: fragile and looking at her and seeing that this was 1158 01:03:53,480 --> 01:03:57,400 Speaker 1: also you know, another broken human being, you know, somebody 1159 01:03:57,480 --> 01:04:01,160 Speaker 1: that's just stuck, you know, and it and then of 1160 01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:03,680 Speaker 1: course you know the crowded rops and it's Amy Winehouse 1161 01:04:03,800 --> 01:04:06,000 Speaker 1: and huge. I think she brought him like five Grammy's 1162 01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:09,520 Speaker 1: that night, and yeah, and it was I think the 1163 01:04:09,640 --> 01:04:13,400 Speaker 1: most taken home by a woman in Grammy history until 1164 01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:17,360 Speaker 1: like Beyonce, Um I Am, Sasha Fierce and then Adele 1165 01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:19,080 Speaker 1: match Chart I think bringing home six or eight in 1166 01:04:19,120 --> 01:04:22,600 Speaker 1: the same night. But it was it was literally record breaking. 1167 01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:25,320 Speaker 1: But for you could you could just it was just 1168 01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:27,960 Speaker 1: so clear on her face that um, she was just 1169 01:04:28,480 --> 01:04:31,600 Speaker 1: grateful to be noticed, let alone get to that level. 1170 01:04:32,360 --> 01:04:34,840 Speaker 1: So for me, I remember walking away from that and 1171 01:04:34,920 --> 01:04:38,560 Speaker 1: I felt like what it taught me was that there's 1172 01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:42,520 Speaker 1: no part of of any product that gets given to 1173 01:04:42,600 --> 01:04:46,160 Speaker 1: the public that doesn't come with this major sacrifice. And 1174 01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:50,160 Speaker 1: you look at Kanye West and he loses his mom, 1175 01:04:50,680 --> 01:04:55,320 Speaker 1: his world, you know, and it sent him on a 1176 01:04:56,320 --> 01:04:59,439 Speaker 1: life path that is where he is now, where he's 1177 01:04:59,640 --> 01:05:03,240 Speaker 1: you know, essentially compromising all of our collective safety by 1178 01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:07,360 Speaker 1: running for president. And then I look at what happened 1179 01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:09,600 Speaker 1: in my life with my dad dying and where it 1180 01:05:09,840 --> 01:05:13,080 Speaker 1: left me and my sister, and it's just a constant 1181 01:05:13,120 --> 01:05:17,560 Speaker 1: reminder that one event can just send you one way 1182 01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:19,920 Speaker 1: or the other. You know, you've got her trying to 1183 01:05:20,320 --> 01:05:23,959 Speaker 1: keep our democracy legitimate and you've got him essentially trying 1184 01:05:24,040 --> 01:05:27,680 Speaker 1: to undermine it. And how can you not look at 1185 01:05:27,720 --> 01:05:31,439 Speaker 1: it and just be like, what happened? You know? It's 1186 01:05:32,040 --> 01:05:35,680 Speaker 1: it's intense. I mean the fact that at like fourteen fifteen, 1187 01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:38,480 Speaker 1: you're able to like have that like locus of like 1188 01:05:39,000 --> 01:05:41,840 Speaker 1: clarity around like seeing someone on the TV, being like 1189 01:05:42,040 --> 01:05:45,240 Speaker 1: that person is broken and to them like yeah, it 1190 01:05:45,400 --> 01:05:47,200 Speaker 1: is a full circle thing to then connected back to 1191 01:05:47,320 --> 01:05:50,760 Speaker 1: like what's going on today with him and then also 1192 01:05:51,080 --> 01:05:54,200 Speaker 1: as it relates in this inverted way to your sister 1193 01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:57,480 Speaker 1: and you is wild. Oh my god, thank you for 1194 01:05:57,520 --> 01:05:59,960 Speaker 1: sharing that. Yeah, that was great. Also talk about it. 1195 01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:03,120 Speaker 1: Another terrific documentary film is Amy. Have you seen that? 1196 01:06:04,960 --> 01:06:06,920 Speaker 1: It's just amazing, And it's just you know what I 1197 01:06:06,960 --> 01:06:11,040 Speaker 1: really you know what I really loved about it was 1198 01:06:11,200 --> 01:06:13,960 Speaker 1: it captured that this is something that I think we 1199 01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:17,520 Speaker 1: lose sometimes and when we lose the humanity of these 1200 01:06:17,560 --> 01:06:20,720 Speaker 1: people when they become super famous. Is it captured her 1201 01:06:20,800 --> 01:06:23,080 Speaker 1: humor And I thought when she's like giving the tour 1202 01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:28,040 Speaker 1: of her house and that like character and ultimately it 1203 01:06:28,200 --> 01:06:31,560 Speaker 1: just it made it hurt even more. But but she 1204 01:06:31,800 --> 01:06:34,120 Speaker 1: was such a funny person, like on top of being 1205 01:06:34,200 --> 01:06:37,280 Speaker 1: like a talent that we have not seen. I would 1206 01:06:37,360 --> 01:06:40,280 Speaker 1: argue we have not seen Um. And I also think 1207 01:06:40,360 --> 01:06:42,880 Speaker 1: she should have gone six or six that Grammys because 1208 01:06:42,920 --> 01:06:46,480 Speaker 1: she lost that UM album a year to the Herbie 1209 01:06:46,600 --> 01:06:51,160 Speaker 1: Hancock Joni Mitchell album that he did River, the Herbie 1210 01:06:51,160 --> 01:06:53,240 Speaker 1: Hancock did like a Joni Mitchell album and that one 1211 01:06:53,280 --> 01:06:59,080 Speaker 1: the Grammys Hancock, But fucking awful timing. I'm so sorry. 1212 01:06:59,160 --> 01:07:03,560 Speaker 1: I just so there the fact that let's just get 1213 01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:09,200 Speaker 1: into it. Then Grammys, what are you doing? You nominate 1214 01:07:09,280 --> 01:07:11,760 Speaker 1: jay Z eight times just to get the viewership, just 1215 01:07:11,920 --> 01:07:15,000 Speaker 1: to next and for the sake of basically taking a 1216 01:07:15,120 --> 01:07:17,400 Speaker 1: dog and rubbing their face in its saying don't don't 1217 01:07:17,440 --> 01:07:21,680 Speaker 1: disturb the established order. Right, So that's one thing, And 1218 01:07:21,760 --> 01:07:24,160 Speaker 1: then how do you not give Beyonce album of the 1219 01:07:24,240 --> 01:07:28,120 Speaker 1: Year selling eight copies in what two days? Changing the 1220 01:07:28,280 --> 01:07:31,600 Speaker 1: market for music forever? Everybody state is on a Friday now, 1221 01:07:31,680 --> 01:07:33,480 Speaker 1: which a lot of people on the back of a 1222 01:07:33,560 --> 01:07:35,720 Speaker 1: lot of people just that just listen to music, don't 1223 01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:39,480 Speaker 1: really understand how much that changed the entire The Tuesday 1224 01:07:39,520 --> 01:07:43,520 Speaker 1: to Friday shift was huge. It's h it changed charting 1225 01:07:43,560 --> 01:07:46,880 Speaker 1: in the formulas for forever um. And to not give 1226 01:07:46,920 --> 01:07:49,040 Speaker 1: her and besides the fact that it was huge, it 1227 01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:52,920 Speaker 1: was the best album of that year and in that category, 1228 01:07:53,040 --> 01:07:57,640 Speaker 1: and to give it a herbian cock is basically just uh. 1229 01:07:58,280 --> 01:08:00,800 Speaker 1: It served its purpose, which was to say to Beyonce, hey, 1230 01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:04,600 Speaker 1: you're not too big for us to make you loose. Well, 1231 01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:06,840 Speaker 1: the thing about Beyonce is she really should have two 1232 01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:10,520 Speaker 1: Albums of the Year Grammys because I feel like something 1233 01:08:10,920 --> 01:08:12,320 Speaker 1: you know, what if we're going to give them the 1234 01:08:12,360 --> 01:08:15,080 Speaker 1: benefit of the doubt, which we shouldn't like. Sometimes things happen, 1235 01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:17,400 Speaker 1: Sometimes they think one album is better than the other. Whatever. 1236 01:08:17,479 --> 01:08:19,960 Speaker 1: For me, Beyonce Is Self Titled was the defining album 1237 01:08:20,000 --> 01:08:22,479 Speaker 1: of that year. When that album came out at midnight. 1238 01:08:22,520 --> 01:08:24,479 Speaker 1: I'll never forget where I was. I'll never forgetting how 1239 01:08:24,520 --> 01:08:27,120 Speaker 1: I felt. I'll never forget the weeks following I can 1240 01:08:27,240 --> 01:08:30,120 Speaker 1: do you the first thing, oh girl, And I remember 1241 01:08:30,160 --> 01:08:32,160 Speaker 1: you saying this feels like a sick dream, and that's 1242 01:08:32,280 --> 01:08:35,240 Speaker 1: that's my memory of that relief. I'll never forget. It 1243 01:08:35,360 --> 01:08:38,720 Speaker 1: was like twelve oh four and for some reason, my my, 1244 01:08:39,160 --> 01:08:42,160 Speaker 1: I'd never go on iTunes. For some reason, I was like, 1245 01:08:42,240 --> 01:08:44,479 Speaker 1: I mosied over to iTunes and I just saw Beyonce 1246 01:08:44,720 --> 01:08:47,439 Speaker 1: and that iconic font on that like black background, and 1247 01:08:47,520 --> 01:08:50,400 Speaker 1: I was like, knockout fund the font is called knockout Yes, 1248 01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:54,640 Speaker 1: well there you go, and graphic design zone boone yang um. 1249 01:08:55,000 --> 01:08:58,599 Speaker 1: But I was like, this can't be a whole album. 1250 01:08:58,680 --> 01:09:01,280 Speaker 1: And then to see that was a visual album like that. 1251 01:09:02,200 --> 01:09:05,160 Speaker 1: For anyone that loves music and loves Beyonce and loves 1252 01:09:05,520 --> 01:09:08,120 Speaker 1: just joy, that was such a moment and for her 1253 01:09:08,160 --> 01:09:10,080 Speaker 1: to also not only just put out an album, but 1254 01:09:10,120 --> 01:09:13,920 Speaker 1: revolutionize herself as an artist, to make herself into some 1255 01:09:14,240 --> 01:09:17,920 Speaker 1: reincarnate really like a new spirit. Was like born, but 1256 01:09:18,520 --> 01:09:21,160 Speaker 1: so whatever. They didn't give it to that one, but 1257 01:09:21,320 --> 01:09:24,400 Speaker 1: the Lemonade snub just to give it to Adele for 1258 01:09:24,479 --> 01:09:27,479 Speaker 1: an album that was a redux of the first album 1259 01:09:27,560 --> 01:09:29,640 Speaker 1: she had one album of the year. For that, to 1260 01:09:29,720 --> 01:09:34,120 Speaker 1: me was truly unacceptable because Lemonade is I mean, if 1261 01:09:34,160 --> 01:09:37,920 Speaker 1: you're gonna say Beyonce is amazing but not a cohesive work, 1262 01:09:38,360 --> 01:09:44,080 Speaker 1: you're insane. But I guess Lemonade is an unbelievable cohesive 1263 01:09:44,479 --> 01:09:47,760 Speaker 1: work that is about something specific. It is it is 1264 01:09:47,800 --> 01:09:51,200 Speaker 1: a change in the artist when she how could she 1265 01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:53,680 Speaker 1: possibly get even better? I mean, to me, it's just 1266 01:09:53,840 --> 01:09:57,360 Speaker 1: like I I invalidate them now almost completely because they 1267 01:09:57,439 --> 01:10:00,360 Speaker 1: did that. And here's the thing about the self titled 1268 01:10:00,439 --> 01:10:04,800 Speaker 1: is that it was arguably ahead of itself with the 1269 01:10:04,840 --> 01:10:08,080 Speaker 1: philosophy of everyone is so focused on the single and 1270 01:10:08,160 --> 01:10:11,200 Speaker 1: on the quick pace and nobody's looking at the bigger picture, 1271 01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:13,519 Speaker 1: which is what that album was about, which is why 1272 01:10:13,560 --> 01:10:15,479 Speaker 1: there was a video for us about the feeling of 1273 01:10:15,560 --> 01:10:19,360 Speaker 1: watching Michael Jackson and MTV and the way music used 1274 01:10:19,360 --> 01:10:21,280 Speaker 1: to be given to us where we would have to 1275 01:10:21,439 --> 01:10:24,600 Speaker 1: listen to the record, and how just sort of like 1276 01:10:25,120 --> 01:10:27,599 Speaker 1: the way TikTok is sort of taking our attention spans 1277 01:10:27,640 --> 01:10:30,640 Speaker 1: back down. You know, it's it's a comment on on that. 1278 01:10:30,960 --> 01:10:35,080 Speaker 1: So it's it's one thing to snub, but then when 1279 01:10:35,120 --> 01:10:38,400 Speaker 1: she comes back doubles down on her message and goes 1280 01:10:38,439 --> 01:10:42,599 Speaker 1: ahead and issues this entirely different body of work than 1281 01:10:42,640 --> 01:10:46,160 Speaker 1: to snub that. Just you could tell it hurt her too, 1282 01:10:47,120 --> 01:10:49,280 Speaker 1: you could tell, because the thing about these artists is 1283 01:10:49,360 --> 01:10:51,479 Speaker 1: like you think, like you get to a certain point 1284 01:10:51,520 --> 01:10:53,960 Speaker 1: in your career and like it doesn't matter, but it 1285 01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:58,920 Speaker 1: does because it's like it really is a recognition and 1286 01:10:59,280 --> 01:11:03,160 Speaker 1: and that's all people really because at the in our hearts, 1287 01:11:03,320 --> 01:11:05,800 Speaker 1: like we can say it's because we want to make 1288 01:11:05,840 --> 01:11:07,880 Speaker 1: people laugh or you want to make people dance or whatever, 1289 01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:11,560 Speaker 1: but really this is like it's it's your art. And 1290 01:11:11,720 --> 01:11:17,719 Speaker 1: to be to know that you've completed, um, something amazing 1291 01:11:17,960 --> 01:11:20,560 Speaker 1: and something that no one else could have done, and 1292 01:11:20,680 --> 01:11:23,800 Speaker 1: then to see them make that safe commercial decision because 1293 01:11:23,880 --> 01:11:27,559 Speaker 1: someone else has sold more records um because artistically they're 1294 01:11:27,600 --> 01:11:31,439 Speaker 1: not in comparison, is just so disheartening and to see 1295 01:11:31,479 --> 01:11:34,040 Speaker 1: her there in the front row and like only received 1296 01:11:34,080 --> 01:11:38,560 Speaker 1: like I think Urban Alternative album right, which basically says like, oh, like, 1297 01:11:39,160 --> 01:11:42,560 Speaker 1: we like you as a black person, but not not 1298 01:11:43,000 --> 01:11:44,680 Speaker 1: not the album of the year, because we've got to 1299 01:11:44,720 --> 01:11:47,120 Speaker 1: put you against the rest of of what we've got. 1300 01:11:47,680 --> 01:11:51,000 Speaker 1: And the thing is that, you know it's you. You'll 1301 01:11:51,040 --> 01:11:53,080 Speaker 1: have people that say, oh, but the Grammys can't eat her. 1302 01:11:53,160 --> 01:11:55,160 Speaker 1: She has like twenty four whatever it is, she's got 1303 01:11:55,240 --> 01:11:57,800 Speaker 1: the most, like the outside of Allison Krawse, she's got 1304 01:11:57,840 --> 01:12:00,640 Speaker 1: the most. But there is you have to understand like 1305 01:12:00,920 --> 01:12:04,439 Speaker 1: they're they're segregating it. That's what they're doing, totally totally, 1306 01:12:04,479 --> 01:12:05,920 Speaker 1: and that's why I totally stand by Talley of the 1307 01:12:06,000 --> 01:12:09,439 Speaker 1: Creator when he was like, okay, you're basically you know 1308 01:12:09,640 --> 01:12:13,479 Speaker 1: just I think he was making the comparison to being 1309 01:12:13,560 --> 01:12:15,519 Speaker 1: a field slave or a house slave. It's like, yeah, 1310 01:12:15,560 --> 01:12:17,680 Speaker 1: you bumped me up a little bit, but you know 1311 01:12:17,800 --> 01:12:20,320 Speaker 1: what does that mean if I'm so asleeve? And the 1312 01:12:20,400 --> 01:12:22,160 Speaker 1: thing is that you know, people are like, oh, so 1313 01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:24,479 Speaker 1: many Grammys, and it's like yeah, because they were giving 1314 01:12:24,560 --> 01:12:28,280 Speaker 1: her like basically crumbs for Destiny's child and for little 1315 01:12:28,320 --> 01:12:30,880 Speaker 1: things and for like little pop performances here and there. 1316 01:12:31,120 --> 01:12:32,400 Speaker 1: So when you look at on people, it's like, WHOA, 1317 01:12:32,400 --> 01:12:34,559 Speaker 1: she's got an impressive amount of Grammys, which she does. 1318 01:12:35,080 --> 01:12:39,479 Speaker 1: They're not giving her front runner grammat and general have 1319 01:12:39,680 --> 01:12:43,800 Speaker 1: to understand. And there is something too when people dismiss 1320 01:12:43,920 --> 01:12:46,840 Speaker 1: the Grammys as and and I know you might have 1321 01:12:46,880 --> 01:12:48,719 Speaker 1: just said this map, but it's like when people dismissed 1322 01:12:48,720 --> 01:12:52,240 Speaker 1: the Grammys as, oh, it's it's this, you know, you know, 1323 01:12:52,360 --> 01:12:55,560 Speaker 1: their cares whatever, right, But it's like whether or not 1324 01:12:55,680 --> 01:12:58,519 Speaker 1: you believe that art is art, what art isn't until 1325 01:12:58,520 --> 01:13:03,040 Speaker 1: it's evaluated or something. It's still this thing where if 1326 01:13:03,080 --> 01:13:07,920 Speaker 1: it's not being recognized by like an institutional thing, whether 1327 01:13:08,200 --> 01:13:10,200 Speaker 1: however much you value that where if you don't give 1328 01:13:10,240 --> 01:13:14,040 Speaker 1: it power, it's still meaningful in some way to the artist. 1329 01:13:14,120 --> 01:13:16,479 Speaker 1: It depends on the artist. And I think Beyonce someone 1330 01:13:16,520 --> 01:13:21,360 Speaker 1: who is in some way like an institutionalist as far 1331 01:13:21,400 --> 01:13:23,400 Speaker 1: as the music industry goes, like I think she would 1332 01:13:23,439 --> 01:13:27,800 Speaker 1: have like I loved that recognition. Well, she the thing is, 1333 01:13:27,880 --> 01:13:30,720 Speaker 1: she deserved it. And I'm actually I'm happy that we're 1334 01:13:30,760 --> 01:13:33,120 Speaker 1: talking about this because it actually loops around to what 1335 01:13:33,200 --> 01:13:36,160 Speaker 1: I started bringing up in this podcast, which is this 1336 01:13:36,280 --> 01:13:40,839 Speaker 1: Mariah Carey New York Magazine interview, because you know, Mariah 1337 01:13:40,920 --> 01:13:45,120 Speaker 1: has only one five Grammys out of her entire career, 1338 01:13:45,200 --> 01:13:50,520 Speaker 1: and she is she is the revolutionary. She is a revolutionary, 1339 01:13:50,560 --> 01:13:54,240 Speaker 1: one of maybe five female artists that have done what 1340 01:13:54,439 --> 01:13:58,599 Speaker 1: she has done. I mean, it's like Madonna, Maria Whitney, 1341 01:13:59,600 --> 01:14:04,680 Speaker 1: you know, and beyond. And the thing about Mariah is 1342 01:14:04,960 --> 01:14:07,400 Speaker 1: she is a real songwriter, a real producer, and a 1343 01:14:07,720 --> 01:14:10,240 Speaker 1: singer that we've never seen the likes of and probably 1344 01:14:10,280 --> 01:14:14,400 Speaker 1: will never again in terms of like the specific tone, range, ability, 1345 01:14:15,160 --> 01:14:19,560 Speaker 1: emotion that she can convey. And they discuss in this 1346 01:14:19,840 --> 01:14:22,680 Speaker 1: piece how a lot of her book that's going to 1347 01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:26,880 Speaker 1: be coming out is about how she um deals with 1348 01:14:27,040 --> 01:14:30,439 Speaker 1: being mixed race and how she was marketed in the 1349 01:14:30,520 --> 01:14:33,679 Speaker 1: beginning of her career by her white record executive husband 1350 01:14:34,040 --> 01:14:36,680 Speaker 1: as white and they tried to keep her very like 1351 01:14:37,360 --> 01:14:39,479 Speaker 1: Even the critics that would review her music were like, 1352 01:14:39,720 --> 01:14:42,320 Speaker 1: she's a white singer who sounds black. She's a white singer, 1353 01:14:42,360 --> 01:14:44,599 Speaker 1: white singer, white singer. And she dealt for the first 1354 01:14:45,080 --> 01:14:47,559 Speaker 1: six or seven years, which is a really long time 1355 01:14:47,600 --> 01:14:51,839 Speaker 1: in your professional career where they were really like tampering 1356 01:14:51,920 --> 01:14:54,640 Speaker 1: down her blackness, and they would not allow her to 1357 01:14:54,760 --> 01:14:57,840 Speaker 1: explore that musical side of herself. And I think that 1358 01:14:57,960 --> 01:15:01,200 Speaker 1: as a result of doing that, it's kind of crazy 1359 01:15:01,280 --> 01:15:03,840 Speaker 1: that she was able to have the massive success that 1360 01:15:03,960 --> 01:15:06,960 Speaker 1: she had and crossover successes she had because she was 1361 01:15:07,080 --> 01:15:10,840 Speaker 1: being so like, in a calculated way, kept from what 1362 01:15:11,000 --> 01:15:13,920 Speaker 1: her artistic impulses were. And I think the Grammy thing, 1363 01:15:14,479 --> 01:15:17,759 Speaker 1: it's actually no surprise that she's only one five because 1364 01:15:18,120 --> 01:15:21,120 Speaker 1: they are segregated categories and she was never black enough 1365 01:15:21,160 --> 01:15:23,640 Speaker 1: for the black categories and was never white enough for 1366 01:15:23,680 --> 01:15:27,760 Speaker 1: the white categories. And it's like really crazy because she's 1367 01:15:27,840 --> 01:15:31,960 Speaker 1: Mariah Carrey. Like I don't think anybody else could even 1368 01:15:32,040 --> 01:15:35,800 Speaker 1: sell a quarter of the records that she sold and 1369 01:15:36,439 --> 01:15:40,400 Speaker 1: not have at least like fifteen Grammys. Yeah, it's just 1370 01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:43,360 Speaker 1: that the number, that's the number insane. Like I'd say 1371 01:15:43,400 --> 01:15:51,360 Speaker 1: she she's minimum sixteen Grammys front runner, you know, categories 1372 01:15:51,439 --> 01:15:55,080 Speaker 1: Best vocal Performance, etcetera. This is a fun game to 1373 01:15:56,000 --> 01:15:58,519 Speaker 1: quantify the number of Grammys and artists deserves. I mean this, 1374 01:15:58,640 --> 01:16:00,479 Speaker 1: I'm like, you can do this with any one, Like 1375 01:16:00,560 --> 01:16:03,000 Speaker 1: Katy Perry has never won when I think she deserves 1376 01:16:03,000 --> 01:16:08,479 Speaker 1: at least three she deserves she deserves, right. I don't 1377 01:16:08,640 --> 01:16:10,439 Speaker 1: love I don't stand Katy Perry in the way that 1378 01:16:10,439 --> 01:16:11,920 Speaker 1: a lot of people know, but I agree with you. 1379 01:16:12,080 --> 01:16:15,720 Speaker 1: She feels consequential enough where you think she'd have a few. Yeah. Yes, 1380 01:16:16,600 --> 01:16:19,600 Speaker 1: So it's like with with Mariah. With Mariah, it's like 1381 01:16:20,000 --> 01:16:22,519 Speaker 1: I think at least sixteen because the thing too about 1382 01:16:22,560 --> 01:16:25,560 Speaker 1: Mariah and she's constantly ahead of her time, constantly like 1383 01:16:25,920 --> 01:16:28,040 Speaker 1: when she released Butterfly and ninety seven, and they talked 1384 01:16:28,040 --> 01:16:30,880 Speaker 1: about this in the article and I really recommend the 1385 01:16:30,960 --> 01:16:35,680 Speaker 1: article now that that I'm Davis, who's the best um? 1386 01:16:36,240 --> 01:16:39,519 Speaker 1: But she also talks about how you know that Butterfly 1387 01:16:39,680 --> 01:16:42,880 Speaker 1: album like pop music, like pop artists were not crossing 1388 01:16:42,960 --> 01:16:44,519 Speaker 1: over into R and B as much. There was not 1389 01:16:44,720 --> 01:16:47,040 Speaker 1: like that pop R and B vibe until she really 1390 01:16:47,560 --> 01:16:50,360 Speaker 1: like made that like a mainstream thing. And also she 1391 01:16:50,560 --> 01:16:54,400 Speaker 1: kind of revolutionized having features like O d B when 1392 01:16:54,439 --> 01:16:57,559 Speaker 1: he was on the Fantasy Remix, like Huge Deal Jay 1393 01:16:57,680 --> 01:17:03,360 Speaker 1: z On, like Heartbreaker on Hartpreak and Tommy Mottola just 1394 01:17:03,520 --> 01:17:07,040 Speaker 1: like the whole making like the the R and B 1395 01:17:07,200 --> 01:17:10,680 Speaker 1: diva with with the hip hop feature. That was the 1396 01:17:10,800 --> 01:17:14,720 Speaker 1: formula that leads to crazy and love level and all 1397 01:17:14,800 --> 01:17:19,280 Speaker 1: these early two thousand sounds. Um that that was totally 1398 01:17:19,360 --> 01:17:22,479 Speaker 1: the creator of it was Mariah Carey, jay z O, 1399 01:17:22,640 --> 01:17:27,320 Speaker 1: d B P, Diddy, Mace. Yes, that that entire era 1400 01:17:27,479 --> 01:17:30,320 Speaker 1: was such a great era. And I feel like, honestly, 1401 01:17:30,479 --> 01:17:33,920 Speaker 1: like it's just it's just rough to know that while 1402 01:17:34,040 --> 01:17:37,000 Speaker 1: they were because they were also revolutionary, and they were 1403 01:17:37,080 --> 01:17:39,880 Speaker 1: so under rewarded like at the end, and to also 1404 01:17:39,960 --> 01:17:43,120 Speaker 1: think about how many artists we could be enjoying right 1405 01:17:43,160 --> 01:17:46,040 Speaker 1: now if the market didn't like market correct them or 1406 01:17:46,160 --> 01:17:48,760 Speaker 1: like push people out because they found someone else, like 1407 01:17:49,080 --> 01:17:51,120 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like for as big as 1408 01:17:52,320 --> 01:17:56,280 Speaker 1: that's he's the perfect example of oh, you made it. 1409 01:17:56,479 --> 01:18:00,599 Speaker 1: You made country music sound to urban, so we can't 1410 01:18:00,640 --> 01:18:04,759 Speaker 1: even consider it in the realm of country is raist 1411 01:18:04,800 --> 01:18:07,479 Speaker 1: and itself. The fact that nobody even addresses the fact 1412 01:18:07,520 --> 01:18:09,040 Speaker 1: that like the people that took that off the charts 1413 01:18:09,280 --> 01:18:13,439 Speaker 1: had an agenda and and how and how how solely 1414 01:18:13,600 --> 01:18:17,800 Speaker 1: based on the artist's race. A lot of placement and 1415 01:18:17,920 --> 01:18:20,760 Speaker 1: categories is at something like the Grammys, whereas like, you know, 1416 01:18:21,120 --> 01:18:23,920 Speaker 1: you couldn't have told me, like like when when I 1417 01:18:24,000 --> 01:18:26,040 Speaker 1: first heard there you Go by Pink I would have 1418 01:18:26,200 --> 01:18:29,120 Speaker 1: never thought that was a white girl. Literally, Tony Braxton 1419 01:18:29,240 --> 01:18:32,160 Speaker 1: or something like could release the same song as like 1420 01:18:32,280 --> 01:18:34,760 Speaker 1: Selendon and they would put Tony Braxton in the R 1421 01:18:34,800 --> 01:18:36,800 Speaker 1: and B category and they put Celendion in the pop 1422 01:18:36,960 --> 01:18:39,559 Speaker 1: category at that time, and it would never it would 1423 01:18:39,600 --> 01:18:43,519 Speaker 1: never cross over. And it feels like maybe you know 1424 01:18:43,680 --> 01:18:45,960 Speaker 1: not to not to like make decisions for them or 1425 01:18:46,040 --> 01:18:48,360 Speaker 1: like definitively say how I fail right here. But it's 1426 01:18:48,400 --> 01:18:51,439 Speaker 1: like I always wish that It's like the Grammy should 1427 01:18:51,439 --> 01:18:54,599 Speaker 1: be like they get together, they felt that ten pieces 1428 01:18:54,640 --> 01:18:58,160 Speaker 1: of work were really deserving of recognition this year, and 1429 01:18:58,479 --> 01:19:02,080 Speaker 1: we have like a large performance like that is like 1430 01:19:02,240 --> 01:19:04,519 Speaker 1: all those amazing pieces of work and then you do 1431 01:19:04,600 --> 01:19:08,320 Speaker 1: it like that. But this characterization based on like race 1432 01:19:08,439 --> 01:19:12,639 Speaker 1: with the Grammys, and you know, gender and everything as 1433 01:19:12,680 --> 01:19:16,400 Speaker 1: as gender is becoming um something different than it used 1434 01:19:16,400 --> 01:19:18,760 Speaker 1: to be in the public eye. Like I feel like 1435 01:19:18,960 --> 01:19:21,880 Speaker 1: all of this is feeling really antiquated. So as the 1436 01:19:22,000 --> 01:19:24,800 Speaker 1: media gets more sensitive and you find out like these 1437 01:19:24,880 --> 01:19:26,959 Speaker 1: things can be bought and sold and it's all industry 1438 01:19:27,000 --> 01:19:29,120 Speaker 1: pandering whatever, and they place things the way they see 1439 01:19:29,160 --> 01:19:31,479 Speaker 1: fit that works best for them. It kind of like 1440 01:19:31,960 --> 01:19:34,680 Speaker 1: for kids that like love the Grammys and loved the Oscars, 1441 01:19:34,800 --> 01:19:38,360 Speaker 1: Like it makes it so much less fun and so 1442 01:19:38,520 --> 01:19:41,240 Speaker 1: much it's so much shittier to watch, But it's also 1443 01:19:41,360 --> 01:19:43,760 Speaker 1: like freeing to understand that that's the reality of the 1444 01:19:43,800 --> 01:19:46,000 Speaker 1: world and you do get something from that. It is 1445 01:19:46,040 --> 01:19:48,280 Speaker 1: being exposed for what it is more so than it 1446 01:19:48,400 --> 01:19:51,360 Speaker 1: was in the past. I think hopefully it's like when 1447 01:19:51,720 --> 01:19:54,680 Speaker 1: like a learning study. Our friends studio always so. There 1448 01:19:54,760 --> 01:19:57,280 Speaker 1: was one time where I was watching the reality show 1449 01:19:57,360 --> 01:19:59,840 Speaker 1: The X Factor with her, and um, I was like, 1450 01:20:00,160 --> 01:20:02,120 Speaker 1: this is like American a little bit better. And I 1451 01:20:02,240 --> 01:20:04,640 Speaker 1: was watching it with her and I this girl was 1452 01:20:04,720 --> 01:20:07,680 Speaker 1: performing and she was like she was not having it. 1453 01:20:07,760 --> 01:20:09,320 Speaker 1: Our friend's studio was like not having it. I was like, 1454 01:20:09,320 --> 01:20:12,439 Speaker 1: why don't you like it? She's like, look at how 1455 01:20:12,479 --> 01:20:15,479 Speaker 1: many pepsi cans that are count how many? And that 1456 01:20:15,680 --> 01:20:18,439 Speaker 1: was the first time I ever, like quote unquote saw 1457 01:20:18,560 --> 01:20:21,719 Speaker 1: all the pepsi cans. Like my mind was. I couldn't 1458 01:20:21,800 --> 01:20:24,559 Speaker 1: not see the way I was being marketed to at 1459 01:20:24,640 --> 01:20:28,200 Speaker 1: all times from now on. But I I someone who 1460 01:20:28,280 --> 01:20:31,320 Speaker 1: was born in consumer America like us all, like I 1461 01:20:31,479 --> 01:20:34,080 Speaker 1: had to be told that it was happening. You know, 1462 01:20:34,200 --> 01:20:36,559 Speaker 1: you have to be slapped across the face to wake 1463 01:20:36,680 --> 01:20:40,000 Speaker 1: up and like understand that, like this, this is bullshit. 1464 01:20:40,560 --> 01:20:42,920 Speaker 1: Like that happens at different times for different people. But 1465 01:20:43,439 --> 01:20:45,160 Speaker 1: I guess what I'm saying is I'm happy it happened 1466 01:20:45,160 --> 01:20:48,599 Speaker 1: at all because it's so real. Yeah. Well, I mean 1467 01:20:48,680 --> 01:20:50,920 Speaker 1: we're still watching the Grammys thow as much as we 1468 01:20:51,280 --> 01:20:53,479 Speaker 1: The first episode of this podcast is called the Grammys 1469 01:20:53,479 --> 01:20:57,599 Speaker 1: we talked as as flawed as they are, I mean, 1470 01:20:57,680 --> 01:21:01,519 Speaker 1: we're still we're still tuning in because the words still matter. 1471 01:21:01,800 --> 01:21:04,679 Speaker 1: Is that it's it's too easy to say us screw 1472 01:21:04,760 --> 01:21:07,760 Speaker 1: them anyways? Is that? No, The awards matter. That's why 1473 01:21:07,760 --> 01:21:09,760 Speaker 1: they're given out to people. That's why you have them, 1474 01:21:09,840 --> 01:21:13,720 Speaker 1: because they're motivating, their reminders, they're they're everything that you 1475 01:21:13,880 --> 01:21:17,400 Speaker 1: need them to be when you need uplifting and etcetera. 1476 01:21:17,479 --> 01:21:21,479 Speaker 1: And it's they're still just it's too important in in 1477 01:21:21,600 --> 01:21:24,479 Speaker 1: pop culture and our culture and music in America to 1478 01:21:24,920 --> 01:21:28,280 Speaker 1: to abandon it. Yeah. But if you know, if they're 1479 01:21:28,280 --> 01:21:30,640 Speaker 1: not willing to change, what position are we left in? 1480 01:21:30,800 --> 01:21:35,320 Speaker 1: You know? Right for sure? And I think I think 1481 01:21:35,360 --> 01:21:37,479 Speaker 1: it might be time on that note for I don't 1482 01:21:37,560 --> 01:21:41,280 Speaker 1: think so, honey. When you say a bough, I would 1483 01:21:41,320 --> 01:21:43,320 Speaker 1: say so. So, I don't think so honey is our 1484 01:21:43,479 --> 01:21:45,880 Speaker 1: segment at the end of every episode, we take one 1485 01:21:45,960 --> 01:21:50,080 Speaker 1: minute each to rail against something in the culture, using 1486 01:21:50,120 --> 01:21:52,639 Speaker 1: the words I don't think so honey as the sort 1487 01:21:52,680 --> 01:21:57,000 Speaker 1: of syntactical frame for it. So, um, Matt. So we'll 1488 01:21:57,080 --> 01:21:59,040 Speaker 1: do Matt, me, and then we'll do Gabe. Does that 1489 01:21:59,120 --> 01:22:02,120 Speaker 1: sound good? That sounds good. That sounds good. I have 1490 01:22:02,240 --> 01:22:04,839 Speaker 1: one and I'm ready to fire away on it. That's perfect. 1491 01:22:04,920 --> 01:22:06,640 Speaker 1: This is Matt Rodgers. I don't think so honey as 1492 01:22:06,680 --> 01:22:09,160 Speaker 1: time starts now, I don't think so honey, you feeling 1493 01:22:09,160 --> 01:22:11,240 Speaker 1: like you need to ship talk my ex just because 1494 01:22:11,280 --> 01:22:14,040 Speaker 1: they're my ex. You don't need to do that, like 1495 01:22:14,400 --> 01:22:17,240 Speaker 1: people who come up to you and are like, oh, 1496 01:22:17,479 --> 01:22:19,400 Speaker 1: just so you know, I always thought this about your ex. 1497 01:22:19,720 --> 01:22:23,639 Speaker 1: Shut up because you're wrong, because I liked that person 1498 01:22:23,720 --> 01:22:26,800 Speaker 1: and even love that person and be It's like, if 1499 01:22:26,840 --> 01:22:29,160 Speaker 1: you thought this the whole fucking time, where were you at, 1500 01:22:29,520 --> 01:22:32,880 Speaker 1: a disingenuous piece of shit. I don't think so honey. Also, 1501 01:22:33,120 --> 01:22:34,720 Speaker 1: you don't have to fill the time with this bitch. 1502 01:22:34,880 --> 01:22:36,599 Speaker 1: There's so many other things that we could talk about. 1503 01:22:36,720 --> 01:22:38,320 Speaker 1: So maybe I don't even want to talk about my 1504 01:22:38,400 --> 01:22:40,559 Speaker 1: fucking X. I want to talk about how the Grammys 1505 01:22:40,560 --> 01:22:43,080 Speaker 1: are bullshit. I don't want to talk about my ex. Also, 1506 01:22:43,200 --> 01:22:44,640 Speaker 1: not for nothing, but a lot of the ship that 1507 01:22:44,760 --> 01:22:47,200 Speaker 1: you say about my ex is not true. You don't 1508 01:22:47,240 --> 01:22:48,960 Speaker 1: know them like I know them, And there's nothing you're 1509 01:22:48,960 --> 01:22:51,639 Speaker 1: gonna do to illuminate me. And also, if you're gonna 1510 01:22:51,680 --> 01:22:54,320 Speaker 1: tell me something shitty about guess what, bitch, I probably 1511 01:22:54,360 --> 01:22:55,880 Speaker 1: already knew it. That's probably one of the part of 1512 01:22:55,880 --> 01:22:58,320 Speaker 1: the reasons how you broke up. I don't think so, honey. 1513 01:22:58,439 --> 01:23:01,000 Speaker 1: You come in with the breaking news. Was that actually 1514 01:23:01,080 --> 01:23:03,320 Speaker 1: you didn't like that my my friend had a bad 1515 01:23:03,400 --> 01:23:06,120 Speaker 1: taste or was weird? Shut up, you're not helping me, 1516 01:23:06,200 --> 01:23:08,519 Speaker 1: You're not helping yourself. You look stupid. I don't think so, honey. 1517 01:23:08,800 --> 01:23:12,560 Speaker 1: And that's one minute. Wow. That that that was just 1518 01:23:14,000 --> 01:23:16,680 Speaker 1: like a straight line like start to finish. It's not 1519 01:23:16,960 --> 01:23:20,280 Speaker 1: a good idea to do this. Yeah, I know, totally, 1520 01:23:20,360 --> 01:23:22,479 Speaker 1: don't do it. Don't do it, you're because Also it's 1521 01:23:22,520 --> 01:23:24,760 Speaker 1: just like I'm so happy you broke up with so 1522 01:23:24,840 --> 01:23:28,240 Speaker 1: and so, because this it's like this is ugly, like 1523 01:23:28,439 --> 01:23:30,559 Speaker 1: and also like who are you to bring this up 1524 01:23:30,640 --> 01:23:32,200 Speaker 1: to me, and also I don't want to hear this. 1525 01:23:32,400 --> 01:23:35,479 Speaker 1: And another thing too, is like I have I'm on 1526 01:23:35,640 --> 01:23:37,800 Speaker 1: good terms with everyone that I've been in a relationship 1527 01:23:37,840 --> 01:23:42,479 Speaker 1: with you to assume that it was a contemptuous thing 1528 01:23:42,520 --> 01:23:44,600 Speaker 1: in the first place. Yeah, I don't know, And I 1529 01:23:44,920 --> 01:23:46,600 Speaker 1: guess maybe it's like people run out of things to 1530 01:23:46,760 --> 01:23:48,960 Speaker 1: say or feel like they have to to make me 1531 01:23:49,080 --> 01:23:51,599 Speaker 1: feel better. But it's like, no, we're in a post 1532 01:23:51,760 --> 01:23:54,840 Speaker 1: Jada and Will at the Red Table world where it's 1533 01:23:55,000 --> 01:23:58,000 Speaker 1: kind of I hope that it's sort of reorganized our 1534 01:23:58,080 --> 01:24:01,519 Speaker 1: thoughts around what separation means, not that they're even separated, 1535 01:24:01,560 --> 01:24:06,080 Speaker 1: but around like what, you know, what like a compromised 1536 01:24:06,240 --> 01:24:10,639 Speaker 1: couplehood is. And also it's like I'll bring my partner 1537 01:24:10,720 --> 01:24:12,720 Speaker 1: to the red table. I don't need you to bring 1538 01:24:13,120 --> 01:24:16,080 Speaker 1: me to the red table about my partner. Actually, I've 1539 01:24:16,200 --> 01:24:18,120 Speaker 1: seen red Table and I know how it works, and 1540 01:24:18,200 --> 01:24:20,000 Speaker 1: I know that I bring myself to the red table 1541 01:24:20,080 --> 01:24:22,880 Speaker 1: or it doesn't mean anything. Basically, what it reminds me 1542 01:24:22,960 --> 01:24:26,200 Speaker 1: of is when people are like, oh, hey, like I 1543 01:24:26,320 --> 01:24:27,680 Speaker 1: just want to let you know that so and so 1544 01:24:27,880 --> 01:24:30,160 Speaker 1: just happened to tell me this, Like it seems like 1545 01:24:30,439 --> 01:24:33,720 Speaker 1: they might feel this this way about you, or think 1546 01:24:33,840 --> 01:24:38,920 Speaker 1: that why do they feel so comfortable telling you about it? Then? Yes, yes, 1547 01:24:39,280 --> 01:24:41,640 Speaker 1: why are you in a position to be you know, 1548 01:24:42,040 --> 01:24:45,760 Speaker 1: a sticky pad for this, for this rat to get 1549 01:24:45,840 --> 01:24:49,120 Speaker 1: caught on exactly? And also who we're playing, because you're 1550 01:24:49,120 --> 01:24:51,760 Speaker 1: playing one of us. Somebody's getting played and I'm not 1551 01:24:51,840 --> 01:24:54,479 Speaker 1: going to be played. So you if somebody feels comfortable 1552 01:24:54,520 --> 01:24:56,960 Speaker 1: telling you some ship, you're out, I've cut you off. 1553 01:24:57,000 --> 01:25:00,800 Speaker 1: The circle is done. So I love it's out. It 1554 01:25:00,840 --> 01:25:03,040 Speaker 1: always puts in my head like, well, what did you 1555 01:25:03,200 --> 01:25:04,960 Speaker 1: say to them when they said that to you? Like 1556 01:25:05,080 --> 01:25:08,760 Speaker 1: I always know that this person has talked more ship 1557 01:25:08,840 --> 01:25:11,240 Speaker 1: than they let on, and that's that's actually a thing. 1558 01:25:11,320 --> 01:25:13,000 Speaker 1: And I'll say it out to the universe right now. 1559 01:25:13,080 --> 01:25:16,200 Speaker 1: I don't know how you guys feel. I never want 1560 01:25:16,280 --> 01:25:19,519 Speaker 1: to know when someone is talking about me. Ever, Just 1561 01:25:19,640 --> 01:25:22,160 Speaker 1: let me live in this ignorant bliss. I never want 1562 01:25:22,200 --> 01:25:24,040 Speaker 1: to know. I don't. I don't need that because honestly, 1563 01:25:24,080 --> 01:25:25,479 Speaker 1: I'm the kind of person that will sit with it 1564 01:25:25,640 --> 01:25:29,479 Speaker 1: all day. You can send me a screenshot mm hmm, 1565 01:25:30,160 --> 01:25:35,200 Speaker 1: which is send me a receipt, send me something material. Fact, fine, 1566 01:25:35,600 --> 01:25:37,280 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say no to facts, because then that's 1567 01:25:37,320 --> 01:25:40,040 Speaker 1: just choosing to be ignorant, and that's something different. But 1568 01:25:40,160 --> 01:25:42,720 Speaker 1: for somebody to present the facts, that's one thing though, 1569 01:25:42,920 --> 01:25:44,760 Speaker 1: that's a different thing. It's just like if you if 1570 01:25:44,800 --> 01:25:47,760 Speaker 1: you are on somebody's fencet or some ship, I don't 1571 01:25:47,760 --> 01:25:52,840 Speaker 1: know whatever, the kids or like they you know, dropped 1572 01:25:52,840 --> 01:25:54,280 Speaker 1: a tweet and then deleted it and you caught it 1573 01:25:54,360 --> 01:25:57,200 Speaker 1: in time, fine, fine him, Fine, But if suddenly it's 1574 01:25:57,200 --> 01:25:59,320 Speaker 1: just something that you're in conversation with them with for 1575 01:25:59,439 --> 01:26:01,960 Speaker 1: some reason, regardless of if you need it or you 1576 01:26:02,080 --> 01:26:05,680 Speaker 1: let it, then no, then like come over to my 1577 01:26:05,720 --> 01:26:08,400 Speaker 1: house and me see your phone, and even then it's 1578 01:26:08,439 --> 01:26:11,519 Speaker 1: like too much manipulation is possible? Just know? Yeah? No. 1579 01:26:11,920 --> 01:26:14,120 Speaker 1: I just feel like if here's what I would say 1580 01:26:14,160 --> 01:26:17,240 Speaker 1: to everyone. If you are if you have information and 1581 01:26:17,840 --> 01:26:20,320 Speaker 1: you're gonna give it to someone about and it's about 1582 01:26:20,360 --> 01:26:23,680 Speaker 1: them and it's gonna hurt them, that sucks. If it's 1583 01:26:23,680 --> 01:26:26,760 Speaker 1: going to hurt them, but help them, then maybe it's 1584 01:26:26,760 --> 01:26:29,800 Speaker 1: worth giving if someone needs to know something. And I 1585 01:26:29,880 --> 01:26:32,080 Speaker 1: always feel like people can filter things into what they 1586 01:26:32,479 --> 01:26:35,200 Speaker 1: need to say and what they want to say. But 1587 01:26:35,880 --> 01:26:38,680 Speaker 1: people seem to have really lose that line, and I 1588 01:26:38,800 --> 01:26:41,160 Speaker 1: feel like, just keep it to yourself. If it's gonna 1589 01:26:41,240 --> 01:26:43,760 Speaker 1: hurt someone's feelings, don't be the messenger because I might 1590 01:26:43,800 --> 01:26:49,080 Speaker 1: shoot the messenger with a bow and arrow. Okay, um okay, 1591 01:26:49,120 --> 01:26:53,040 Speaker 1: And now with that um, it's gonna be boone yang. 1592 01:26:53,120 --> 01:26:54,680 Speaker 1: So I don't think so, honey, no bone yang. Do 1593 01:26:54,760 --> 01:26:57,720 Speaker 1: you have a topic on this day? A topic? All right? 1594 01:26:57,760 --> 01:27:02,960 Speaker 1: Well that's good. Actually, well here we go. Well, honey, 1595 01:27:03,040 --> 01:27:05,280 Speaker 1: and his time actually is going to start now. I 1596 01:27:05,320 --> 01:27:09,400 Speaker 1: don't think so, honey. Giant ice cube is in a tumbler. 1597 01:27:10,080 --> 01:27:13,680 Speaker 1: It just rolls around it. It hits you in your 1598 01:27:13,760 --> 01:27:16,519 Speaker 1: damn nose when you're trying to take a little sip 1599 01:27:16,640 --> 01:27:19,320 Speaker 1: of something. You know what I'm saying? And what is 1600 01:27:19,439 --> 01:27:21,679 Speaker 1: the what is the novelty around here? Are we still 1601 01:27:21,920 --> 01:27:25,160 Speaker 1: in where this was cool? Are we still in a 1602 01:27:25,320 --> 01:27:29,880 Speaker 1: time where mixologists are fuckable? I mean they still are 1603 01:27:29,920 --> 01:27:32,040 Speaker 1: And I actually don't. Actually I was thinking about this 1604 01:27:32,040 --> 01:27:33,160 Speaker 1: the other day. I was like, oh no, look what 1605 01:27:33,240 --> 01:27:35,960 Speaker 1: I was like, what happened to like the sexologist? I mean, 1606 01:27:36,000 --> 01:27:37,920 Speaker 1: it must be the pandemic because bars are closed. But 1607 01:27:38,000 --> 01:27:40,040 Speaker 1: I feel like there is going to be there. I 1608 01:27:40,160 --> 01:27:42,040 Speaker 1: feel like we need the return of the of the 1609 01:27:42,680 --> 01:27:46,000 Speaker 1: sexy mixologists. Again. I feel like culturally they've been sidelined 1610 01:27:46,040 --> 01:27:49,720 Speaker 1: and marginalized too long anyway. But I think we can 1611 01:27:49,800 --> 01:27:52,720 Speaker 1: take we can take the giant ou ice cube out 1612 01:27:52,800 --> 01:27:55,200 Speaker 1: of that sort of aesthetic, right because I think that 1613 01:27:55,320 --> 01:28:00,120 Speaker 1: it's not this like necessary motif in you know, in 1614 01:28:00,640 --> 01:28:03,360 Speaker 1: in bar culture. I don't need a giant fucking thing 1615 01:28:03,439 --> 01:28:06,240 Speaker 1: of ice hitting me in the face as I take 1616 01:28:06,400 --> 01:28:10,240 Speaker 1: and that's one minute. That's quite enough. I just want 1617 01:28:10,240 --> 01:28:13,200 Speaker 1: to tell you, as a former bartender, it is uh 1618 01:28:13,720 --> 01:28:16,920 Speaker 1: a stylish thing to have that large ice cube. It's 1619 01:28:16,960 --> 01:28:22,000 Speaker 1: a thing of style, and it's not functional. It's why 1620 01:28:22,200 --> 01:28:24,800 Speaker 1: why is it? Why do I Why do I need that? Okay, 1621 01:28:25,000 --> 01:28:29,960 Speaker 1: I want my little trapezoid prism cubes in my glass. 1622 01:28:30,080 --> 01:28:34,880 Speaker 1: That's it. That is no, it's should It's just there's 1623 01:28:34,920 --> 01:28:37,240 Speaker 1: a reason why it's so universe, it's so sort of 1624 01:28:37,320 --> 01:28:39,880 Speaker 1: widely distributed. First of all, for an ice cube to 1625 01:28:39,960 --> 01:28:41,519 Speaker 1: be functional, all I has to do is make a 1626 01:28:41,600 --> 01:28:44,280 Speaker 1: liquid cold and that's actually real culture number seventy. For 1627 01:28:44,360 --> 01:28:47,400 Speaker 1: an ice cube to be functional all has to do. 1628 01:28:48,640 --> 01:28:50,519 Speaker 1: You're talking about the functionality, Maybe you have a big 1629 01:28:50,600 --> 01:28:53,240 Speaker 1: fucking nose bitch, how about that get your nose out 1630 01:28:53,280 --> 01:28:55,800 Speaker 1: of the drink. How about how about don't go so 1631 01:28:55,960 --> 01:28:58,840 Speaker 1: far back. It's not about the individual experience, it's about 1632 01:28:58,880 --> 01:29:02,599 Speaker 1: the collective struggle with big ice cubes in the way 1633 01:29:02,640 --> 01:29:05,320 Speaker 1: that they are. You say big ice cube like it's 1634 01:29:05,400 --> 01:29:08,800 Speaker 1: like big industry. No no, no, I'm saying, looks on 1635 01:29:08,880 --> 01:29:11,360 Speaker 1: a scale, thing on a scale. Will you attack it 1636 01:29:11,400 --> 01:29:15,880 Speaker 1: as such? Game? Please decide this for us. Listen. So 1637 01:29:17,080 --> 01:29:19,280 Speaker 1: I have to be on the side of the bartender, 1638 01:29:19,680 --> 01:29:22,120 Speaker 1: thank you, Okay, but I don't think the bartender is 1639 01:29:22,160 --> 01:29:23,800 Speaker 1: like the big ice cub. They do, that's why they 1640 01:29:23,920 --> 01:29:26,479 Speaker 1: use them, That's why you've been You have to think 1641 01:29:26,520 --> 01:29:30,160 Speaker 1: about tip factor. Is that having a bigger ice cube 1642 01:29:30,200 --> 01:29:33,639 Speaker 1: looks cool because it's been marketed as a higher taste 1643 01:29:34,040 --> 01:29:36,400 Speaker 1: kind of item, which is why people have, you know, 1644 01:29:36,560 --> 01:29:39,479 Speaker 1: whiskey's meat with the ice cube, with the with the 1645 01:29:39,760 --> 01:29:43,280 Speaker 1: with the larger sphere. It's just expected that if you're 1646 01:29:43,400 --> 01:29:46,439 Speaker 1: given a larger ice cube and then they slowly pour 1647 01:29:46,479 --> 01:29:48,840 Speaker 1: it on top of it, that you were likely going 1648 01:29:48,960 --> 01:29:51,840 Speaker 1: to see it as a luxury item and therefore tip better, 1649 01:29:51,920 --> 01:29:53,800 Speaker 1: which is going to help them pay their rent. So 1650 01:29:54,439 --> 01:29:58,400 Speaker 1: I got and that's why Gabe and I are for 1651 01:29:58,600 --> 01:30:00,640 Speaker 1: the working class and we are or the people, and 1652 01:30:00,760 --> 01:30:03,640 Speaker 1: Boon and Yang is classist and the establishment, and he 1653 01:30:03,760 --> 01:30:08,840 Speaker 1: is Saturday Night Live. What I tip them for the 1654 01:30:09,560 --> 01:30:14,559 Speaker 1: just the liquor. It is an experience, and there you've 1655 01:30:14,560 --> 01:30:18,720 Speaker 1: obviously been too long. If if okay, if any bartenders 1656 01:30:19,600 --> 01:30:21,320 Speaker 1: like that, but just let him know so that he 1657 01:30:21,479 --> 01:30:23,920 Speaker 1: just cuts down all the effort and just gives it 1658 01:30:24,000 --> 01:30:25,720 Speaker 1: to you without the show, and just tell him say, hey, 1659 01:30:25,960 --> 01:30:28,680 Speaker 1: I don't care less if if it's like if it's 1660 01:30:28,680 --> 01:30:30,479 Speaker 1: the good stuff, it's the good stuff, just give it. Fine, 1661 01:30:30,720 --> 01:30:33,040 Speaker 1: But then you're telling him he can't perform. And also 1662 01:30:33,160 --> 01:30:35,280 Speaker 1: part of that, part of the joy of doing it 1663 01:30:35,479 --> 01:30:39,400 Speaker 1: is the art of seduction. Oh my god. I mean, 1664 01:30:39,760 --> 01:30:42,519 Speaker 1: maybe it doesn't track entirely, but to me it does 1665 01:30:42,960 --> 01:30:45,720 Speaker 1: both of you're stupid. It's marketing to Half of its 1666 01:30:45,760 --> 01:30:48,200 Speaker 1: marketing is that you're showing the other people that are 1667 01:30:48,240 --> 01:30:50,599 Speaker 1: about to order that you're that bitch that you can 1668 01:30:50,640 --> 01:30:54,000 Speaker 1: make that drink. Percent you're saying you want to wait 1669 01:30:54,120 --> 01:30:56,560 Speaker 1: for my ask to pour you your cocktail over this 1670 01:30:57,000 --> 01:30:59,760 Speaker 1: globular ice cube that you don't even know how the 1671 01:31:00,360 --> 01:31:02,640 Speaker 1: just made. But just come over here, sit down and 1672 01:31:02,680 --> 01:31:07,519 Speaker 1: have a drink. I mean then, I mean this does 1673 01:31:07,680 --> 01:31:10,200 Speaker 1: fall on me individually to be like, I don't like 1674 01:31:10,439 --> 01:31:12,559 Speaker 1: this thing, and that's fine, it's true. I don't think 1675 01:31:12,560 --> 01:31:15,720 Speaker 1: so honey. You're entitled. Thank you and thank you. We 1676 01:31:15,800 --> 01:31:17,560 Speaker 1: have to respect you. I don't think so hony. We 1677 01:31:17,720 --> 01:31:20,240 Speaker 1: refect the form, but also understand that once you got 1678 01:31:20,320 --> 01:31:23,080 Speaker 1: dive into the form the form is, then you know 1679 01:31:23,400 --> 01:31:26,720 Speaker 1: it's able to be critiqued. Okay, thank you. Um, I 1680 01:31:26,760 --> 01:31:28,760 Speaker 1: think it's time for a Gabe to do his I 1681 01:31:29,000 --> 01:31:32,240 Speaker 1: am excited. So do you have a topic here? So 1682 01:31:34,080 --> 01:31:35,960 Speaker 1: I do, I do. It was gonna be it was 1683 01:31:36,000 --> 01:31:39,160 Speaker 1: either going to be one or another, but we already 1684 01:31:39,160 --> 01:31:44,200 Speaker 1: went over Kanye. And here's the thing. Kanye, he doesn't 1685 01:31:44,240 --> 01:31:46,880 Speaker 1: even deserve our energy. And I don't think so honey. Okay, 1686 01:31:48,680 --> 01:31:50,840 Speaker 1: we just need him to go. We need to go 1687 01:31:50,960 --> 01:31:56,160 Speaker 1: get well. Um, but okay, it's Gabriel Kasio Cortez is. 1688 01:31:56,240 --> 01:31:59,080 Speaker 1: I don't think so honey, and his time starts now. 1689 01:31:59,760 --> 01:32:02,320 Speaker 1: I don't think so honey. People that hate on the Bronx, 1690 01:32:02,360 --> 01:32:04,720 Speaker 1: I don't know who you are come from or what 1691 01:32:04,920 --> 01:32:06,720 Speaker 1: you get off on. Thinking that you could hate on 1692 01:32:07,160 --> 01:32:10,400 Speaker 1: the best borough in New York City. Chances are that 1693 01:32:10,560 --> 01:32:12,680 Speaker 1: you're the type of person that strolled into town not 1694 01:32:12,880 --> 01:32:14,519 Speaker 1: from here, so you don't have a voice in it. 1695 01:32:15,040 --> 01:32:18,360 Speaker 1: And then you're probably also the same person that moves 1696 01:32:18,400 --> 01:32:21,640 Speaker 1: into a gentrified apartment in Brooklyn because it's trendy for you. 1697 01:32:22,080 --> 01:32:24,600 Speaker 1: And then you go out and you post on Instagram 1698 01:32:24,640 --> 01:32:27,160 Speaker 1: and Twitter, black lives matter, Black lives matter, But you 1699 01:32:27,360 --> 01:32:29,759 Speaker 1: chose to go into a neighborhood where you either knowingly 1700 01:32:29,880 --> 01:32:33,240 Speaker 1: or unknowingly displaced black and Hispanic families. How much do 1701 01:32:33,320 --> 01:32:35,760 Speaker 1: black lives matter to you? And then you want to 1702 01:32:35,800 --> 01:32:37,360 Speaker 1: go ahead and then hate on the Bronx. We have 1703 01:32:37,479 --> 01:32:41,040 Speaker 1: given you me AOC j Lo Cardi b so your 1704 01:32:41,160 --> 01:32:45,000 Speaker 1: Colne Powell, do not come for us the best borrow. 1705 01:32:45,040 --> 01:32:48,120 Speaker 1: We are the kindest borrow, and we are the realist borough. 1706 01:32:48,240 --> 01:32:50,880 Speaker 1: And you get your life and your pop culture from 1707 01:32:51,000 --> 01:32:53,400 Speaker 1: us and our style. If you like us, then you 1708 01:32:53,520 --> 01:32:59,479 Speaker 1: have to respect that. Cannot hate on the Bronx? Who 1709 01:33:00,000 --> 01:33:02,200 Speaker 1: start these and he did it in a fifty in 1710 01:33:02,280 --> 01:33:05,080 Speaker 1: a quick fifty eight. But wait, who the funk are 1711 01:33:05,120 --> 01:33:07,960 Speaker 1: these teople talking about the Bronx? Are they just as 1712 01:33:08,000 --> 01:33:11,000 Speaker 1: throwaway things? Being like, oh, the Bronx. No, it's just 1713 01:33:11,280 --> 01:33:14,559 Speaker 1: people that totally dismiss it as like a respectable part 1714 01:33:14,600 --> 01:33:17,519 Speaker 1: of New York City, like millions of people don't live here, 1715 01:33:17,520 --> 01:33:20,759 Speaker 1: and as if we don't have major contributions to the culture. 1716 01:33:21,040 --> 01:33:23,600 Speaker 1: I mean the Yankee cap Us. You know, we just 1717 01:33:23,680 --> 01:33:27,720 Speaker 1: filled in us, you know, like the godfathers us, like 1718 01:33:27,800 --> 01:33:30,600 Speaker 1: you know, like, seriously, if you ever jammed out to 1719 01:33:30,720 --> 01:33:32,880 Speaker 1: on the six, you have to respect the six trainers. 1720 01:33:34,880 --> 01:33:38,639 Speaker 1: That's simple. It's actually it's actually real culture. Number one 1721 01:33:39,120 --> 01:33:44,320 Speaker 1: and one know where this is on the six. Yeah, 1722 01:33:44,840 --> 01:33:47,360 Speaker 1: you cannot you cannot say that you like j lo 1723 01:33:47,400 --> 01:33:51,599 Speaker 1: O without without doing your best to not erase an 1724 01:33:51,720 --> 01:33:54,600 Speaker 1: entire burrow of this huge the Bronx created Waiting for 1725 01:33:54,880 --> 01:33:57,519 Speaker 1: a Night, So it's like you've ever waited for an 1726 01:33:57,560 --> 01:34:00,400 Speaker 1: event at night? You owe it's the Bronx. You owe 1727 01:34:00,400 --> 01:34:03,320 Speaker 1: it to then we do owe it to the Bronx. Also, 1728 01:34:03,400 --> 01:34:06,560 Speaker 1: can we say, what a perfectly titled album? What What 1729 01:34:06,680 --> 01:34:09,640 Speaker 1: an amazing debut album, What a perfectly titled album? What 1730 01:34:09,840 --> 01:34:12,639 Speaker 1: a fucking box. Every time you hear waiting for Tonight, 1731 01:34:13,400 --> 01:34:15,760 Speaker 1: it's you're done for. You have to respect that song 1732 01:34:15,800 --> 01:34:17,519 Speaker 1: and give that song at three and a half minutes 1733 01:34:17,760 --> 01:34:20,599 Speaker 1: because it is a Bob forever. And also she owns 1734 01:34:20,760 --> 01:34:24,040 Speaker 1: that green lighting. No one lasers hit me in the 1735 01:34:24,080 --> 01:34:27,280 Speaker 1: eye and that's what led to homosexuality for me. Yeah, 1736 01:34:27,320 --> 01:34:30,040 Speaker 1: I would believe that's what led to homosexuality. That's that's 1737 01:34:30,080 --> 01:34:31,880 Speaker 1: what happened. She was on the screen and then there 1738 01:34:31,920 --> 01:34:35,680 Speaker 1: were green lasers and like blink twice and um, and 1739 01:34:35,760 --> 01:34:38,080 Speaker 1: that was okay. Yeah, so that had to be when 1740 01:34:38,080 --> 01:34:39,880 Speaker 1: you were like, what because that that was two thousand? 1741 01:34:40,040 --> 01:34:45,360 Speaker 1: Was that? Yeah, so you were said that was six 1742 01:34:45,479 --> 01:34:48,439 Speaker 1: and a half. Yeah, that'll do it. That'll do it. 1743 01:34:48,680 --> 01:34:50,760 Speaker 1: All you need is an icon to come in at 1744 01:34:50,800 --> 01:34:52,960 Speaker 1: that formative stage of your life when you're kind of 1745 01:34:53,120 --> 01:34:59,880 Speaker 1: realizing like what your personality is. A weekend someone, I'm like, yeah, 1746 01:35:00,560 --> 01:35:03,240 Speaker 1: what's your thoughts on j Loo? As she stands? Or 1747 01:35:03,320 --> 01:35:07,560 Speaker 1: do we stand? Jlo? Um? She's about to buy the 1748 01:35:07,640 --> 01:35:11,000 Speaker 1: mats she just lost. She she's got swag, man, she's 1749 01:35:11,040 --> 01:35:15,759 Speaker 1: got swag. She's she's dope. She performs, she looks amazing, 1750 01:35:15,880 --> 01:35:18,760 Speaker 1: she is amazing. Um, you can't. You can't really come 1751 01:35:18,800 --> 01:35:21,760 Speaker 1: for her anybody, Even if you want to question somebody's talent, 1752 01:35:21,840 --> 01:35:25,120 Speaker 1: if they've got longevity. You can't say ship is that 1753 01:35:25,200 --> 01:35:27,080 Speaker 1: if they've kept their foot in the door, and then 1754 01:35:27,320 --> 01:35:30,000 Speaker 1: some you just can't come for them, Like if you 1755 01:35:30,040 --> 01:35:32,439 Speaker 1: want to try to clock Mariah, you just you can't know, 1756 01:35:32,760 --> 01:35:34,960 Speaker 1: you can't. We we were talking yes on our last 1757 01:35:34,960 --> 01:35:38,760 Speaker 1: episode with Justin Tranter, who's a big songwriter. He was saying, like, 1758 01:35:39,360 --> 01:35:41,960 Speaker 1: just as someone who works in the industry, whenever an 1759 01:35:42,080 --> 01:35:45,160 Speaker 1: artist has more led multiple hits like again and again 1760 01:35:45,200 --> 01:35:47,599 Speaker 1: and again and again, it is because of the artist, 1761 01:35:47,680 --> 01:35:50,080 Speaker 1: and you do have to have respect, Like he works 1762 01:35:50,080 --> 01:35:52,120 Speaker 1: at Selena Gomez a lot, and she is another one 1763 01:35:52,160 --> 01:35:54,800 Speaker 1: where people are like, whatever, it's Selena Gomez, like she's 1764 01:35:54,800 --> 01:35:57,680 Speaker 1: not a good singer or whatever, but she is artistically 1765 01:35:57,760 --> 01:36:00,320 Speaker 1: involved and chooses all those things. And you can't just 1766 01:36:00,439 --> 01:36:04,120 Speaker 1: be an artist that they feed everything too for years 1767 01:36:04,200 --> 01:36:06,400 Speaker 1: and years and years, like and j Loo has been 1768 01:36:06,439 --> 01:36:10,639 Speaker 1: going for years and years and years and years, probably 1769 01:36:10,800 --> 01:36:14,240 Speaker 1: before she was even in the mind's eye of you 1770 01:36:14,479 --> 01:36:19,160 Speaker 1: the reader at home, like before Selena, well, I mean 1771 01:36:19,320 --> 01:36:23,200 Speaker 1: she was a fly girl. A lot of people their 1772 01:36:23,240 --> 01:36:28,160 Speaker 1: whole idea of Selena is tied to Jennifers. And that 1773 01:36:28,240 --> 01:36:31,240 Speaker 1: should have been an OSCAR nominated performance right there, because 1774 01:36:32,280 --> 01:36:34,240 Speaker 1: my my thing with the Oscars is always like I 1775 01:36:34,320 --> 01:36:36,519 Speaker 1: feel like someone should be nominated if no one else 1776 01:36:36,600 --> 01:36:40,200 Speaker 1: going on, who else could have done that? Who else 1777 01:36:40,280 --> 01:36:42,920 Speaker 1: would have had the star quality to get out there 1778 01:36:42,960 --> 01:36:46,360 Speaker 1: in that like huge stadium and who would you buy 1779 01:36:46,520 --> 01:36:49,639 Speaker 1: turning around and smiling, cracking a smile, a movie star 1780 01:36:50,080 --> 01:36:53,320 Speaker 1: pop star smile and the entire arena going crazy. It's 1781 01:36:53,360 --> 01:36:55,320 Speaker 1: just like you have to be so good. And she 1782 01:36:55,479 --> 01:36:58,920 Speaker 1: was so funny and so like heartwrenching, and she, to 1783 01:36:59,000 --> 01:37:00,720 Speaker 1: me that was like a star is born moment on 1784 01:37:00,800 --> 01:37:03,479 Speaker 1: another level. And she has a career. She has re 1785 01:37:03,680 --> 01:37:05,519 Speaker 1: upped that again and again and again. She can do 1786 01:37:05,680 --> 01:37:09,559 Speaker 1: it all, from in living color to like the super 1787 01:37:09,600 --> 01:37:12,320 Speaker 1: Bowl halftime, the one good thing that happened this year. 1788 01:37:12,520 --> 01:37:15,840 Speaker 1: I mean, what a fucking what a fucking legend. And 1789 01:37:16,160 --> 01:37:19,280 Speaker 1: I gotta say I shared a very gay moment with 1790 01:37:19,400 --> 01:37:21,840 Speaker 1: her Monday during the pitch meeting at s And now 1791 01:37:21,920 --> 01:37:24,320 Speaker 1: I told you this, Matt where she she had the 1792 01:37:24,680 --> 01:37:29,400 Speaker 1: she but she in the pitch meeting, she had this um. 1793 01:37:30,080 --> 01:37:32,240 Speaker 1: She had this bag that had like sort of this 1794 01:37:32,360 --> 01:37:35,880 Speaker 1: like Andy warhol ESQ, like Barbara streisand face on it. 1795 01:37:36,200 --> 01:37:38,479 Speaker 1: It's this coach. She got she got coached before coach 1796 01:37:38,560 --> 01:37:41,880 Speaker 1: releases their stuff. And then I sat down and then 1797 01:37:41,880 --> 01:37:44,360 Speaker 1: I whispered to myself. I didn't think she would hear, 1798 01:37:44,400 --> 01:37:47,439 Speaker 1: I said, Barbara, and then she looks at me and 1799 01:37:47,520 --> 01:37:51,040 Speaker 1: goes and strokes the bag and goes Barbara and looks 1800 01:37:51,040 --> 01:37:54,080 Speaker 1: into my soul and goes Barbara. And she did it 1801 01:37:54,120 --> 01:37:56,080 Speaker 1: because it's funny girl, and it's because she was hosting 1802 01:37:56,160 --> 01:37:59,160 Speaker 1: SNL and it's because it's it's icons and it's icons 1803 01:37:59,200 --> 01:38:04,479 Speaker 1: respecting like icons, respecting icons. Jlo is bonified icon definitely. 1804 01:38:04,960 --> 01:38:09,679 Speaker 1: And the Bronx gave her to you everyone and respect. 1805 01:38:10,080 --> 01:38:12,519 Speaker 1: Gabe saying, the Bronx give you so many things me, 1806 01:38:13,160 --> 01:38:17,840 Speaker 1: my sisters to start yourself. Listen, I'm never going to 1807 01:38:17,920 --> 01:38:20,479 Speaker 1: put myself last. You are going to always be your 1808 01:38:20,520 --> 01:38:22,679 Speaker 1: best advocate. And at the end of the day, any 1809 01:38:22,760 --> 01:38:24,360 Speaker 1: interaction that you have with me, you're not going to 1810 01:38:24,479 --> 01:38:27,920 Speaker 1: forget me. And that's just how it's gonna be. Yeah. 1811 01:38:28,760 --> 01:38:32,120 Speaker 1: I love this, and quickly quickly just um explain to 1812 01:38:32,160 --> 01:38:34,320 Speaker 1: people your philosophy around this advice that you're giving on 1813 01:38:34,400 --> 01:38:36,000 Speaker 1: an I g because I think it is a thing 1814 01:38:36,080 --> 01:38:38,280 Speaker 1: that you can really that has a lot of legs. 1815 01:38:38,320 --> 01:38:41,040 Speaker 1: I think you start your own sort of like column. Perhaps. 1816 01:38:41,160 --> 01:38:42,720 Speaker 1: I think there's a future in this for you, in 1817 01:38:42,800 --> 01:38:45,639 Speaker 1: this space. I had no idea that it was going 1818 01:38:45,720 --> 01:38:48,240 Speaker 1: to turn into what it is like. I get uproar 1819 01:38:48,320 --> 01:38:52,080 Speaker 1: in my d MS when it closes out. Um, it's 1820 01:38:54,120 --> 01:38:56,800 Speaker 1: I think people I don't know how they find me. 1821 01:38:56,840 --> 01:38:59,320 Speaker 1: I feel so sorry that they end up following me. Um. 1822 01:39:00,160 --> 01:39:02,519 Speaker 1: But the reality is that I get a lot of 1823 01:39:02,520 --> 01:39:04,960 Speaker 1: people that reach out to me because I think that 1824 01:39:05,040 --> 01:39:07,880 Speaker 1: they've seen enough of my content and interacted with me 1825 01:39:08,240 --> 01:39:10,479 Speaker 1: and mediums like this where they understand that I'm just 1826 01:39:10,520 --> 01:39:12,840 Speaker 1: gonna give it to you straight, no chaser, but I'm 1827 01:39:12,840 --> 01:39:14,600 Speaker 1: gonna give it to you in a way that you know, 1828 01:39:14,720 --> 01:39:16,439 Speaker 1: rips off the bandit, but not for the sake of 1829 01:39:16,520 --> 01:39:18,519 Speaker 1: burning you, for the for the sake of causing pain. 1830 01:39:18,600 --> 01:39:20,200 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I'm gonna give you just 1831 01:39:20,439 --> 01:39:22,599 Speaker 1: enough that you need to hear and leave it open 1832 01:39:22,720 --> 01:39:24,760 Speaker 1: ended enough that you can interpret it the way you 1833 01:39:24,880 --> 01:39:26,640 Speaker 1: need to, because I'm not here to tell you how 1834 01:39:26,680 --> 01:39:29,040 Speaker 1: to live your life, you know what I'm saying. So 1835 01:39:29,439 --> 01:39:31,080 Speaker 1: this is how I go about it. I mean, I've 1836 01:39:31,080 --> 01:39:34,320 Speaker 1: been approached to potentially do it UM as something more formal, 1837 01:39:34,479 --> 01:39:38,680 Speaker 1: maybe something you know, in collaboration with the company, something editorial, UM. 1838 01:39:38,760 --> 01:39:41,479 Speaker 1: And I'm toying with it. But the thing is that, UM, 1839 01:39:41,960 --> 01:39:45,000 Speaker 1: the more you get people into it, the more I'm 1840 01:39:45,080 --> 01:39:48,800 Speaker 1: scared for its integrity of what it is. UM. So 1841 01:39:49,439 --> 01:39:52,200 Speaker 1: I'm not afraid to leave it as a Q and 1842 01:39:52,280 --> 01:39:55,400 Speaker 1: a me directly to the people. UM. If that means 1843 01:39:55,439 --> 01:39:57,320 Speaker 1: that I lose out on a check, then that's what 1844 01:39:57,520 --> 01:40:01,360 Speaker 1: it is. But I want it to just simply be sincere. 1845 01:40:01,360 --> 01:40:03,600 Speaker 1: If you're asking me about how to handle your you know, 1846 01:40:03,840 --> 01:40:07,240 Speaker 1: prison fiance that you've never met, or you know, just 1847 01:40:07,439 --> 01:40:10,519 Speaker 1: coming out as potentially as trans are coming out as 1848 01:40:10,600 --> 01:40:14,439 Speaker 1: just anything, and perhaps you just don't even know yourself, 1849 01:40:14,520 --> 01:40:16,360 Speaker 1: but you know that you have that urge inside you. 1850 01:40:16,400 --> 01:40:19,519 Speaker 1: It's just the range and the gamut being run um 1851 01:40:19,760 --> 01:40:21,240 Speaker 1: of people that are just coming to me. It's just 1852 01:40:21,640 --> 01:40:24,280 Speaker 1: really intriguing and it's really UM, it's really humbling that 1853 01:40:24,360 --> 01:40:27,400 Speaker 1: people want my help in this. I'm really excited to 1854 01:40:27,479 --> 01:40:31,000 Speaker 1: see what becomes of you and the talent that you've 1855 01:40:31,080 --> 01:40:34,560 Speaker 1: so clearly possessed, because it's very cool and we we 1856 01:40:34,680 --> 01:40:37,000 Speaker 1: can We wanted you on the show because we felt 1857 01:40:37,080 --> 01:40:39,320 Speaker 1: that you were definitely special, so we're super excited that 1858 01:40:39,400 --> 01:40:43,920 Speaker 1: you came out and did the show. Sweet yeah, yeah 1859 01:40:44,640 --> 01:40:46,559 Speaker 1: he is. And every time you talk to me, you're 1860 01:40:46,560 --> 01:40:48,519 Speaker 1: gonna leave the interaction knowing that that guy is Sweet 1861 01:40:48,880 --> 01:40:50,920 Speaker 1: c C. I planted the seed in his head. Now 1862 01:40:51,040 --> 01:40:52,800 Speaker 1: he's just like he's thinking about it. He's like, yeah, 1863 01:40:53,080 --> 01:40:56,840 Speaker 1: I need everybody to remember me again. After the interaction, 1864 01:40:58,800 --> 01:41:01,040 Speaker 1: you are. You are giving him an identity, which is 1865 01:41:01,560 --> 01:41:05,600 Speaker 1: and thank you so much much. I've been waiting for 1866 01:41:05,840 --> 01:41:10,639 Speaker 1: years to get one. Wow. This episode was fucking great, 1867 01:41:11,120 --> 01:41:14,000 Speaker 1: a phenomenal episode. Thank you so much to Gabriel Kasio 1868 01:41:14,080 --> 01:41:17,400 Speaker 1: Cortez for joining us. Thank you for having me tell 1869 01:41:17,800 --> 01:41:20,479 Speaker 1: them you're damn handles so they can follow you. So 1870 01:41:20,560 --> 01:41:23,599 Speaker 1: I'm on Instagram at Gabriel Costu courtoes. I'm on Twitter 1871 01:41:23,760 --> 01:41:26,479 Speaker 1: at Gabe Quartos, but I'm private on Twitter, so maybe 1872 01:41:26,520 --> 01:41:28,479 Speaker 1: I'll let you follow me. Maybe I won't. But try it, 1873 01:41:28,800 --> 01:41:32,200 Speaker 1: why not? You know what? Try it? Why not? Which? 1874 01:41:32,240 --> 01:41:35,200 Speaker 1: I love it? I love it and honestly Frontrunner title 1875 01:41:35,240 --> 01:41:38,719 Speaker 1: love that. Try it, try it. I like that, Pippy, 1876 01:41:38,800 --> 01:41:42,000 Speaker 1: It's nice. We close every episode out with the song 1877 01:41:42,600 --> 01:41:47,480 Speaker 1: did what do you think we've seen in the sweet 1878 01:41:48,960 --> 01:41:59,519 Speaker 1: pictured and have to hear the rest of that. You 1879 01:41:59,560 --> 01:42:02,200 Speaker 1: can go listen to the album on the sixth by 1880 01:42:02,360 --> 01:42:05,960 Speaker 1: Jennifer Lopez, The Problem's own exact Yes,