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Speaker 2: Is your girl lix p any Shure girl dry and

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Speaker 2: of Poor.

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Speaker 1: Minds where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 2: And we have a very special guest today.

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Speaker 1: I love when we have goods love.

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Speaker 2: So let me just apologize ahead of time because this

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Speaker 2: ain't one in our cultup today. They did think, okay,

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Speaker 2: because I'm just letting you know, we might get a

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Speaker 2: little roady now, I'm right, okay, So let everybody know

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Speaker 2: who you are and what you got going on with

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Speaker 2: us today.

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Speaker 3: So I go about nineteen keys. I consider myself to

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Speaker 3: be a thought leader. You understand me, entrepreneur, amongst other

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Speaker 3: different things. But you know I'm the one that shook

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Speaker 3: the minds of the culture. Understand wealth, tech, you understand me,

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Speaker 3: the infinite mindset. At the same time, I leave multiple movements.

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Speaker 3: Understand me. So you can't say you know I'm the

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Speaker 3: leader of leaders. You understand me behind the scenes. I'm

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Speaker 3: the one that get people to move in a certain

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Speaker 3: direction feel me. Even though that often get money and

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Speaker 3: you know, start to see themselves with a level of success.

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Speaker 4: After that, they don't know what to do next. I

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Speaker 4: understand me. So I try to encourage us to have

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Speaker 4: a bigger vision. You understand me.

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Speaker 3: So I'm consistently pushing us forward to where we need

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Speaker 3: to be so we can actually add some power.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you have a way with words, right

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Speaker 1: all right? You know like you.

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Speaker 2: Like that.

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Speaker 1: I like that. I feel smart already.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So first, before we get started, I love with

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Speaker 2: people coming here and bring giins.

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Speaker 1: So you brought us these books.

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Speaker 2: Now this is the book that you wrote. That's correct, okay,

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Speaker 2: So tell us about this book.

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Speaker 4: So this paradigm key.

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Speaker 3: So paradigm is basically being able to change up your habits.

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Speaker 3: Understand me, so that you can improve and become a

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Speaker 3: new person. So a solution based my reprogramming, meaning I

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Speaker 3: put some very simplistic, simple step that you can utilize

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Speaker 3: and start reprogramming stuff. I always get these frequently asked questions,

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Speaker 3: so I decided to put it in a quick book

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Speaker 3: format that can be a too for people when they

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Speaker 3: go through it, transform the mind and they can start

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Speaker 3: on their journey.

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Speaker 2: Okay, because I know a lot of times, like me,

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Speaker 2: Andre always go back and forth with it because she's

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Speaker 2: like the kind of person that believes like, whatever you

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Speaker 2: say you want to do, you can put your.

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Speaker 1: Mind to it and you can get it done. And

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Speaker 1: I'm more so a person, I'm like, no, that shit.

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Speaker 2: It's like the system is not built for us to

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Speaker 2: be successful. So we go back and forth about that

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Speaker 2: a lot. So what do you think about that?

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Speaker 4: I think both are true, you understand me.

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Speaker 3: Just because it's not built for us, though, be to

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Speaker 3: be successful, don't mean that we can't be right.

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Speaker 4: I feel like you got to make sure that your

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Speaker 4: knowledge mat your ego.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you understand me. I think people start building up

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Speaker 3: an ego on what they can do, but they don't

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Speaker 3: actually have the skill sets to get it done, right,

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Speaker 3: you understand me. So a lot of times is you know,

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Speaker 3: the idea of impossible is basically putting fear into somebody

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Speaker 3: and then once you believe it, you.

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Speaker 4: Create that limit for yourself.

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Speaker 3: Right, Because if you study throughout time in history, there's

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Speaker 3: been amazing black men and women who done incredible things,

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Speaker 4: Well understand me.

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Speaker 3: I'm talking about men and women throughout history through every

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Speaker 4: Dollars defy the odds.

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Speaker 3: Okay, but if you impressed upon that in your program,

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Speaker 3: and then of course you know it's possible. Now, So

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Speaker 3: every limiting thought now has a use case or now

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Speaker 3: has a correlating thought to be like, actually, shit, what

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Speaker 4: It's some boys shit because bruh or since did this?

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Speaker 3: So therefore for me, though if somebody else did it,

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Speaker 1: You understand me, And that's what I always kind of

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what you do frequently becomes your frequency. You understand me,

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Speaker 3: So what you see and what you're around that becomes

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Speaker 3: if you in a certain environment. A lot of people

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Speaker 3: think about peer pressure only in a bad sense, but

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Speaker 3: you can have good peer pressure be around peers that's

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Speaker 3: pushing you towards things beyond your current limits.

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Speaker 1: I agree.

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Speaker 4: So some people stuck by the sight of the environment.

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Speaker 3: But it's the imagination where you start to believe upon

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Speaker 4: And if you force yourself and you can.

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Speaker 3: Solidate that idea in your head, like this becomes a

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Speaker 3: real hard and belief, then you're gonna make it happen. Right,

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Speaker 3: you understand me. You only do what you believe. That's

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Speaker 3: just a simple fact of life.

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Speaker 1: I agree always, But that's kind of where I feel

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Speaker 1: like we always have like the disagreement, because I feel

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Speaker 1: like you only can accomplish in life what you feel

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Speaker 1: like you can accomplish. Most people don't accomplish things. It's

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Speaker 1: because they literally just don't feel like they're worthy that system.

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Speaker 1: I feel like, no matter, I mean, whatever you think

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Speaker 2: I've asked this before because trap came on. Yeah, real,

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Speaker 1: You know, go on and do better things that they're

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Speaker 4: I think it comes down to environment and education. You

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Speaker 3: Then everybody right now has the same ability to go

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Speaker 4: What your water grows.

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Speaker 3: Right Basically, whatever you give attention to is what you

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Speaker 4: So some people, if you go.

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Speaker 3: Look at their screen time, they didn't put no attention

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Speaker 3: Then afterwards they spend all their time complaining about the

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Speaker 3: the first part is you got to take accountability. You

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Speaker 3: understand me. How you educating yourself? How do you put

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Speaker 3: new experiences in your environments to where it forces you

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Speaker 3: like I'm not gonna put that on the one percent,

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Speaker 3: Because we now live in the environment where we got

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Speaker 3: understand me, then I can you change your mind, right,

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Speaker 3: and then that helps you change your world because your

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Speaker 4: It's just what you think on a daily basis.

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Speaker 2: Right, So, do you feel like a lot of people

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Speaker 2: are where they are in life because what they're consuming,

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Speaker 2: like the content they consume online.

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Speaker 4: I think most people are slaves to what they consume.

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Speaker 3: They don't actually know that they have power to change

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Speaker 3: what they consume, right, you understand me? Like, like, come on, now,

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Speaker 3: we know baller alert and share rooms stay poppul and

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Speaker 3: we're gonna look at you know, some of the things

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Speaker 4: The family.

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Speaker 3: Don't know financial literacy, don't know how to set up

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Speaker 3: don't know how to vest in gold, don't understand crypto

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Speaker 3: NFT's Web three business even marketing branded you just said, But.

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Speaker 4: That's the list of things.

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Speaker 3: Like if you simply change what you pay attention to,

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Speaker 3: you've changed what you produce.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like a lot of people just have

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Speaker 1: And again, like you said, like when people come home

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Speaker 1: what do you consumeing while you're at home? You probably

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Speaker 1: what I mean, But you're probably watching net fleets watching.

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Speaker 3: I get caught up in things like damn if I

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Speaker 4: You understand me, And you just sent a loop.

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Speaker 3: And then everybody's job is to keep you entertaining and

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Speaker 3: paying attention to them, whether it's good or bad.

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Speaker 4: Like the person that makes a billion.

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Speaker 3: Dollars, you understand me, or a million dollars, They don't

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Speaker 3: care if you're rich or poor, so they gonna make

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Speaker 3: more programming to make themselves rich. You're gonna enjoy that

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Speaker 3: you have to decide what you want.

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Speaker 4: You understand me.

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Speaker 3: If you want the same life that you live and

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Speaker 4: If you want another life, then change your habits.

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Speaker 3: And then most of the time it starts with like

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Speaker 3: a fast gotta take a break, right.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So let me ask you this, because look, we

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Speaker 2: feel that people can like choose their moods as far as, like,

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Speaker 2: you know, dealing with like depression or like happiness, Because

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Speaker 2: just like you said, training your mind, I feel like

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Speaker 2: it's the same way with moods because I was having

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Speaker 2: a conversation with someone another that and they were like,

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Speaker 2: you literally are choosing to be.

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Speaker 1: Sad, Like you're choosing to lay in bed all day

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Speaker 1: and you're choosing that.

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Speaker 2: But I don't feel like sometimes it's a choice, like

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Speaker 2: when I wake up in the morning, I'm not necessary.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know, it's not a choice that

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's what I'm asking.

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Speaker 4: That people are depressed, stressing with anxiety.

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Speaker 2: Y know.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's a choice. I feel like unfortunately

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I feel like what you watch

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, And I also just feel like it's

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Speaker 4: So when you don't meet that, then I don't have

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Speaker 2: Of times if people grow up and all they see

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Speaker 4: Multiple different ways.

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Speaker 3: One that I've been focusing on lately is taking a

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Speaker 3: But you're only doing things because that's what you normally do.

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Speaker 4: You understand me.

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Speaker 3: You never really spent time with actually learning what your

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 4: And you know they always say if you can do.

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Speaker 3: Something, think about whether you're doing for free. Right, those

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Speaker 4: Things around that. The same thing with friends.

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Speaker 3: You got categories that you just love talking about all

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Speaker 3: Right because you've been knowing people for so long you

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Speaker 3: So now I gotta find people you understand me that

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Speaker 3: Now I'm focused on money. I'm focused on the market.

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Speaker 3: I'm focused on kinship. I'm focusing on community. I gotta

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Speaker 2: Too, Like I have no queen of cut off longer

446
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Speaker 2: aligned with the path that I'm on.

447
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Speaker 1: What do you need to be around? I think people

448
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Speaker 1: make the mistake again or feeling like, oh, this person

449
00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:53,520
Speaker 1: is a nice person. They're so nice and they're so sweet, Like, no,

450
00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:55,480
Speaker 1: I shouldn't cut them off. It's like, Okay, that's cool

451
00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:57,600
Speaker 1: that they nice. Then they sweet. But if you're in

452
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Speaker 1: the same position that you was in ten years ago,

453
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Speaker 1: I'm not really sure that you're conducing to my growth.

454
00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:03,439
Speaker 1: I'm not sure that I need you around.

455
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Speaker 2: And that's how like you have started to rub off

456
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Speaker 2: on me a little bit because I'm bad with cutting

457
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Speaker 2: people off, Like I'd just be having a soft spot

458
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Speaker 2: for people sometimes and I'll be like, oh she's so sweet, she's.

459
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Speaker 5: Right, but.

460
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Speaker 4: Yeah, nice. I don't believe in being nice.

461
00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:22,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, nice, you understand me used to mean stupid back

462
00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:24,800
Speaker 3: in the day, So being nice don't make sense. So

463
00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:28,960
Speaker 3: for me, it's like I'm just saying you feel me

464
00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:31,680
Speaker 3: because it's like you're not gonna keep your old hair,

465
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Speaker 3: cut it off for some new growth.

466
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Speaker 4: I'm just saying, you got to treat friends like old.

467
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Speaker 2: Okay, So let's get into this first time because you're

468
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Speaker 2: talking about, you know, talking about things we like to

469
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Speaker 2: talk about.

470
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Speaker 1: So let's talk about let's talk about men and money,

471
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Speaker 1: talk about Drappy and the crowds don't even eat Celery.

472
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Speaker 5: They'd be like, oh, yeah, I know a lot about Celery.

473
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Speaker 1: What's up?

474
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Speaker 6: Y'all?

475
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Speaker 1: As your girl lisp and it's your girl traying the call.

476
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Speaker 2: And Dallas were coming to see y'all on July thirties

477
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Speaker 2: and we turning, Oh, period, I ain't from Dallas, but

478
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Speaker 2: I need time.

479
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Speaker 1: Hey you're from Dallas. Ruties period. I don't know, but

480
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Speaker 1: that was if y'all do, We're gonna try this ship

481
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Speaker 1: while we.

482
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Speaker 2: Out there, period, and we are turning. I can't wait.

483
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Speaker 2: I'm so excited.

484
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Speaker 5: I love that.

485
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Speaker 2: I love Dallas. I feel like y'all gonna show us

486
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Speaker 2: a good time. We all turn Oh, we're gonna have

487
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Speaker 2: a good leg. So July thirtieth, we are an Echo

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489
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Speaker 2: Doors open at six. I'm telling y'all get there on

490
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492
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Speaker 2: the new March. We're gonna have these shirts on sale.

493
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Speaker 2: Period And if you ain't never been to a Poor

494
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Speaker 2: Mind show, you ain't never had a new time.

495
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Speaker 1: So make sure y'all get y'all tickets, go to.

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497
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Speaker 2: July thirtieth, periods.

498
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Speaker 1: Okay.

499
00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:29,479
Speaker 2: So we have a term on this show that we

500
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Speaker 2: call bdb's. So a BDB is a big, big baller,

501
00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:35,679
Speaker 2: like somebody that's gonna take you out, show you a

502
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Speaker 2: good time, take you on vacations, buy the bags, the shoes,

503
00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:41,679
Speaker 2: all that good stuff. But you know, I was doing

504
00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:43,560
Speaker 2: my little research every time we had somebody on the show,

505
00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:48,080
Speaker 2: you know, research, So I saw something that you were

506
00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:53,359
Speaker 2: basically saying, insecure men hide behind money in and I

507
00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:56,800
Speaker 2: feel like, you know, nowadays though, But women, we want

508
00:20:57,040 --> 00:20:59,240
Speaker 2: the bosses, We want the guys with the money.

509
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Speaker 1: We want that, you know.

510
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Speaker 2: So it's like, I want to talk about what do

511
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Speaker 2: you exactly mean when you say insecure men hot behind money.

512
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Speaker 3: Well, that was a conversation I was having with my

513
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Speaker 3: brother Ian Dunlap on high level conversations, and a conversation's

514
00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:15,399
Speaker 3: grid towards you know, this idea that people believe in,

515
00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:19,359
Speaker 3: this high value man. My issue with that whole ideology

516
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:22,240
Speaker 3: is the fact that it don't deal with a man's principles,

517
00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:25,680
Speaker 3: you understand me. Don't deal with his intellect, his ability

518
00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:28,200
Speaker 3: to really take care of a family, right, don't deal

519
00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:31,359
Speaker 3: with whether that's an honorable person or not, whether a

520
00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:34,880
Speaker 3: person is egotistical or whatever. It really deals with him

521
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Speaker 3: as a socialite and the amount of money that he

522
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Speaker 3: has and what makes that person.

523
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Speaker 4: Quote unquote high value.

524
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Speaker 3: And a lot of men because they actually lack all

525
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Speaker 3: of those things that are real character, right, then they

526
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Speaker 3: put the money out front as the reason to be

527
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Speaker 3: attracted to them because they don't have all of those

528
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Speaker 3: as behind it. So it's like me, you can strip

529
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Speaker 3: me at a gold putting on some bummy clothes and

530
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Speaker 3: at the same time, I'm gonna have more value than

531
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Speaker 3: any man standing around me, no matter how much money

532
00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:03,200
Speaker 3: and what car you got, because I got a different

533
00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,520
Speaker 3: energy and that's not something that you can buy, right,

534
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Speaker 3: You feel me instead of And some men recognize that.

535
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Speaker 4: And so when they recognize that, they say.

536
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Speaker 3: No, well I got the car, I got the watch,

537
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:14,520
Speaker 3: I got the money, so look at me for that,

538
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Speaker 3: because I don't want you to see the other parts

539
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Speaker 3: of myself that I'm liking it.

540
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Speaker 2: Yeah, that is true, because I feel like sometimes, like

541
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Speaker 2: you know, because we always advocate, I feel like you

542
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Speaker 2: should talk to somebody that's ambitious or has things going

543
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Speaker 2: for themselves.

544
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Speaker 1: I think we all want that in a partner, you

545
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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.

546
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Speaker 2: But I always say at the same time, you do

547
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Speaker 2: sometimes got to watch out for these like you know

548
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Speaker 2: bdbs that we talk about now.

549
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Speaker 1: Sometimes you always gotta out reason, Right, your money is

550
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Speaker 1: not an indication of what type of person that you are,

551
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Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Again, A lot of even

552
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Speaker 1: men who do have money and stuff, they don't have

553
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Speaker 1: no character, they don't have no morals, They're not good people. Right.

554
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Speaker 1: We know that we've dealt with guys like that money

555
00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:58,400
Speaker 1: don't make you like And another thing, dudes be thinking

556
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Speaker 1: money make you unlaying you, you're still.

557
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Speaker 3: Like the lame.

558
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 1: It's the lame that you got money like nobody gives

559
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Speaker 1: a fuck because and again, these men they try to

560
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 1: use their money as a personality trait. But if you're born,

561
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Speaker 1: you're born right. If you're not interested.

562
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:19,639
Speaker 4: Like that.

563
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Speaker 1: Born, if you don't have no substance, if you don't

564
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Speaker 1: have great conversation, money doesn't change. And nobody wants to

565
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Speaker 1: hear about your money all the time. Nobody wants to

566
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Speaker 1: talk about drip and jewelry and all this shit.

567
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Speaker 4: It's I mean, yeah, but I'm some gods.

568
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Speaker 3: Y'all gotta find the gods out here with real character.

569
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Speaker 3: Understand me, who know who they are? They got some

570
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Speaker 3: knowledge yourself, and they get into the bag. At the

571
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Speaker 3: same time, it gotta be more than just money as

572
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Speaker 3: a principle, because high value ain't it's so much just

573
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Speaker 3: the thing. They got to be high level, you understand me.

574
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:56,920
Speaker 3: They got to have high level tastes, They got a

575
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Speaker 3: high level intelligence, high level character, high level principles.

576
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Speaker 4: Morals, values, all of those different things.

577
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Speaker 3: And then that's how you grave because short term, you

578
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Speaker 3: may get with, you know, somebody with some.

579
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Speaker 4: Money, but then eventually that going roll. You understand me,

580
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Speaker 4: especially for any woman that's getting our own money.

581
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Speaker 3: You understand me because do you want to be depressed

582
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:18,160
Speaker 3: in a relationship or whether you want to be happy

583
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:21,200
Speaker 3: in one? Right, So if you think long term where

584
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:23,520
Speaker 3: I would rather suffer while being with somebody where I

585
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:25,880
Speaker 3: can have some experiences with because they got some money

586
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Speaker 3: to provide that, then don't lie to yourself, right because

587
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:31,720
Speaker 3: you're honing yourself off for a couple of dollars that's

588
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:33,920
Speaker 3: the reality. Or do you actually want to be in

589
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 3: a relationship that's sustainable for the long term, then you

590
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:38,879
Speaker 3: got to find a man with character and values because

591
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Speaker 3: that's what's going to sustain a relationship, not the money.

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Speaker 2: And I always say this because, like I said, we

593
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Speaker 2: all want somebody who, like I said, is ambitious, takes

594
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Speaker 2: care of their people, you know, has things going on.

595
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Speaker 2: But at the same time, I always talk about focus

596
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 2: on yourself and get your money, especially as women, because

597
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Speaker 2: I feel like everybody has this fantasy like we're gonna

598
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Speaker 2: meet Prince Charming, we never have to work, and he's

599
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:02,240
Speaker 2: just gonna take care of.

600
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Speaker 1: It, and exactly it ain't everybody. I feel like every

601
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:08,439
Speaker 1: woman wants today the man with money. But when you

602
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:11,360
Speaker 1: start getting your own money, you value other things more

603
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Speaker 1: than the money.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, money, money is an interesting tool because, don't get

605
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Speaker 3: me wrong, you know most divorces they break up because

606
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:18,879
Speaker 3: of money.

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Speaker 4: You understand me.

608
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Speaker 3: So I think money is a standard. But you also

609
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Speaker 3: got to think about what you think about relationships.

610
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Speaker 4: The relationships are that's a business.

611
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 3: When you marry somebody, that's a business, right you understand me.

612
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:30,960
Speaker 3: That's now is your partner to do business with y'all

613
00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:33,359
Speaker 3: making transactions with while you all handling business.

614
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Speaker 4: She may be dealing with the kids, you understand me.

615
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 3: Or she may be partnering with you in that business,

616
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Speaker 3: helping with different details of that business.

617
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Speaker 4: It depends.

618
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Speaker 3: Y'all might have to set up a trust foundation, whatever

619
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Speaker 3: it may be. But if you don't go into that

620
00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:48,480
Speaker 3: relationship thinking about how we gonna build wealth? Do we

621
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Speaker 3: got goals?

622
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Speaker 4: Do we got visions with each other right and for

623
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Speaker 4: each other?

624
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Speaker 3: And how we go support each other by being in

625
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Speaker 3: a relationship, it really don't make no sense to being

626
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Speaker 3: one so quick question.

627
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Speaker 1: So that means that you don't believe that you should

628
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Speaker 1: solily marriage just beloved.

629
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Speaker 3: No, I don't, okay, because then you may solely divorce

630
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:06,680
Speaker 3: because of love.

631
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Speaker 1: I agree.

632
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Speaker 4: You understand me, because when of love not there was

633
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:11,200
Speaker 4: left right. And when you.

634
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:14,159
Speaker 3: Understand marriage, marriages have they up and downs. You understand

635
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:17,680
Speaker 3: relationships is not always on the high when if you're

636
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:21,200
Speaker 3: going if you stop loving somebody, and but y'all still

637
00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 3: got a business together, you understand me. Y'all got family,

638
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 3: y'all got properties, y'all got these things.

639
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 4: Y'all still have goals.

640
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Speaker 3: That's gonna be a reason that keeps y'all together through

641
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 3: those up and down emotions. It's the same thing when

642
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:33,520
Speaker 3: you got a business partner. Y'all might not like each

643
00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 3: other right now, but we got business together.

644
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,119
Speaker 1: In our friendship, and I feel like we didn't really

645
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:43,439
Speaker 1: like each other at the time, but we had a

646
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 1: common goal and we were running a business. We still

647
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 1: had to every week come and do what we had

648
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 1: to do as far as the shaw was concerned. But

649
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 1: we wasn't really fucking with each other. That's real love.

650
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,199
Speaker 3: Though love is a duty, it is you feel me,

651
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 3: so y'all still established the duty y'all had towards each

652
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:58,679
Speaker 3: other because that was the real connection, right.

653
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Speaker 2: I think at one point, though, I will say, because

654
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 2: like you said, it can't just be about love. But

655
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 2: I feel like for us in our situation, even though

656
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 2: we're not talking about like romantically obviously, Yeah, but I

657
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:11,919
Speaker 2: feel like at one point it was kind of like, Okay,

658
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 2: fuck the business, we have to fix this. So I

659
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:17,239
Speaker 2: feel like I would look for that same kind of

660
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 2: balance in a relationship as well, Like if we're doing

661
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 2: business caps I'm not gonna say necessarily fuck the business,

662
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:25,440
Speaker 2: but I just need that balance. It's like, Okay, if

663
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:27,720
Speaker 2: this is going wrong, but this is going right, let's

664
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Speaker 2: just take a break and so we can figure this

665
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 2: out and get everything right.

666
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 3: Absolutely no, it definitely you still should love each other,

667
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 3: understand me, but that shouldn't be the only foundation that

668
00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:38,480
Speaker 3: keeps y'all together.

669
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 4: You feel me, because then why do you love each other?

670
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 4: You feel me?

671
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 3: And I think that once you get to that core

672
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 3: purpose of why we loving each other, then you know

673
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:50,159
Speaker 3: how to properly build You understand me, because a lot

674
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 3: of people in the relationships and they don't know why

675
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 3: they just in a relationship because they've been in a

676
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 3: relationship for so long. Don't re evaluate, Like, all right,

677
00:27:58,080 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 3: now we're in a relationship. We was at this level

678
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,479
Speaker 3: little maturity when we first met each other. We've grown,

679
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 3: Have we outgrown each other? Or can we continue to

680
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 3: grow together?

681
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 1: You speaking a word?

682
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 2: Now?

683
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:09,880
Speaker 1: You do what I do? You know what I'm saying.

684
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 2: I feel like you're reading my mind a little with

685
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 2: my montships because they're comfortable.

686
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 3: But that's not a reason to stay in relationship for

687
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 3: a man. You know, you want to be in a

688
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 3: relationship that really grows you and stresses you. Not stress

689
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:27,680
Speaker 3: you out, but you know, stretches you to the point

690
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 3: where if I'm with a woman, she gotta help expanding.

691
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:30,479
Speaker 4: She gotta be nurturing.

692
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 3: You understand me, Like, if a woman don't have that

693
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 3: nurturing quality, then she not in her feminine energy to

694
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 3: where I'm very masculine, so she can't balance me out

695
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 3: at all.

696
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 2: Okay, So I have this conversation a lot about feminine energy.

697
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 4: Okay, let's talk.

698
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:48,520
Speaker 2: Real quick, because look, we gonna get it, get it started, Okay,

699
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:53,520
Speaker 2: because I feel like this I tend to have. I

700
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 2: have a hard outer shell, you know, I tend to

701
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 2: have Sometimes I will say like masculine energy, the strong

702
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 2: person showing personality. But just because I feel like a

703
00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 2: lot of times I meet a lot of men that

704
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 2: don't even bring that feminine energy out in me, Like

705
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 2: I don't feel like I can be I don't feel safe,

706
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 2: I don't feel protected. So I feel like a lot

707
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 2: of times women they at.

708
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 1: But no being honest though.

709
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 2: Because I feel like a lot of guys would be like, oh, well,

710
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 2: not just talking about like me, but just women in general.

711
00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 2: They feel like, oh, women aren't women anymore, They're not

712
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 2: soft anymore. But I'm like, oh, we don't feel safe

713
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 2: around y'all. We don't feel like we can let our

714
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 2: guard down. We don't feel like, you know, we're protected

715
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 2: and we're safe. So that's why we keep this guard up,

716
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 2: and you get this hard like image of us.

717
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 4: I mean, I get it, all right. So it's two

718
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 4: parts of that.

719
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 3: Not y'all you're talking about them, you understand me, because

720
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 3: I'm not part of the y'all. But you know, when

721
00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:52,959
Speaker 3: you're talking about them, you understand me. Number One, femininity

722
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 3: should never be based on a man. You understand me.

723
00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 3: It's the same way masculinity is not based on a woman.

724
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 3: You understand me. I'm never going to to say that damn,

725
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 3: she didn't bring out my masculine side, right, And so

726
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 3: the same has to be for the opposite. A woman

727
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 3: has to be in her feminine because that's the energy

728
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 3: she utilized to grow things and to nurture things and

729
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 3: produce things into reality. So femininity is not supposed to

730
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 3: be a If you do this, then I become this right.

731
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 3: So once you understand that you always in your feminine,

732
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 3: you always learned how to utilize that energy. One example,

733
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 3: always give like you know you get with a woman.

734
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 3: Give her some some plants. She ain't got no plants.

735
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 3: She can't take care of a plant. She can't help take.

736
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 4: Care of you.

737
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:41,960
Speaker 7: Okay, I'm telling you her house and everything.

738
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 4: Did love your life to something? You feel me like.

739
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 3: She can nurture something, take care of some grouty.

740
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 4: Because nature is feminine energy, you feel me.

741
00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 3: So first, a woman has to know how to even

742
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 3: have that feminine energetic quality.

743
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 4: Do you got to develop on what you're talking about?

744
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 3: If you can't take care of a plan, how you

745
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 3: will take care of a child?

746
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 1: Cry?

747
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 4: Right? But men cry on the inside.

748
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 7: Sometimes it's conditioning, nurturing and loving, You understand me, So

749
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 7: you have to know when to condition, went to water,

750
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 7: went to nurture, went to love.

751
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 4: So the things around you continue to grow.

752
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 3: And you got to have that energy at all times

753
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,240
Speaker 3: to where you cognitive of the life around you, to

754
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:38,720
Speaker 3: where you're constantly speaking and putting life into the things

755
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 3: around you. Right, and so a lot of women have

756
00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 3: lost that quality because you become more masculine like a man,

757
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 3: where you think, more logical in your purpose.

758
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 4: You understand me. But when you.

759
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 3: Learn to nurture things, then everything wants to be around

760
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 3: you because they feel that love. You understand me, and

761
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 3: then you automatically bring that side out. And a man

762
00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 3: that wants to protect that which loves him, that is

763
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 3: nurturing him. I'm not gonna let nothing happen to you now.

764
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 3: Certain men turn into suffice because they've been effeminized. Right,

765
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 3: we in Atlanta, so we know how that goes. It's

766
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 3: a lot of broke risk action now because of that

767
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 3: you understand me and the new waves and the new courtyard.

768
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 3: A lot of men don't know how to tap into

769
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 3: the masculine side from a logical disposition.

770
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 4: You understand me, how to go for that goal? Sometime

771
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:24,120
Speaker 4: they end up laying under the woman.

772
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 3: Then a woman no longer wants them because now he's

773
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 3: not attractive to her, because he's no longer in that

774
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 3: masculine energy. A man has to constantly be moving towards

775
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 3: his goal and his vision in order for his woman

776
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 3: to respect him, right, like love is for women for

777
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 3: the most part, Like you know, a love is not.

778
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 3: A man is not supposed to chase love in the relationship.

779
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 3: A man is supposed to chase purpose in the relationship.

780
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:49,440
Speaker 4: You understand me. The woman chases the love and the relationship.

781
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 3: The moment those dynamics become opposite, then they no longer

782
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 3: attracted to each other, at least the woman no longer

783
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 3: be attracted to him, you understand me.

784
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 4: She busy. Now he's chasing love in the.

785
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 3: Relationship, right when he he's busy, she's chasing love, right,

786
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 3: but instead when he's chasing purpose.

787
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 4: It keeps the dynamics balance at all times, right.

788
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 3: And being able to learn how to love and learn

789
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 3: how to understand those different principles like I'm in my

790
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 3: masculine right now.

791
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 4: You're in your feminine. Wait a minute, you and your feminine.

792
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 3: I'm in my masculine right now, right like those dynamics

793
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 3: move up and down when you got two people in

794
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 3: masculine energy.

795
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:26,480
Speaker 4: Thatt's go ahead, but you understand me, like, nah, we

796
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 4: can't rock.

797
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 3: Or when the man is on his feminine he chasing her?

798
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:32,160
Speaker 3: She busy right now and all he want to do

799
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 3: is be loved.

800
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:34,520
Speaker 4: She's like, man, this fucking I ain't got time for

801
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:38,160
Speaker 4: this right now. She stopping the calls. You ain't getting Texas.

802
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 3: She's scrolling down nineteen keys feed trying to get some

803
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 3: advice on this.

804
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 4: She opened it up paradox.

805
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 3: She wants some solutions to the place. Nah, I'm the cleanup,

806
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 3: you feel me. I couldn't clean up the mess you

807
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:52,479
Speaker 3: feel me?

808
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 4: No, Yeah, I do.

809
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 1: Feel like when you're in relationships, are you always supposed

810
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 1: to exube in the Yeah?

811
00:33:57,640 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 2: I mean I feel like I do that in a

812
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:03,520
Speaker 2: relation and ship, but it's really it's hard.

813
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 1: I feel like in most of your interactions with me

814
00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 1: and you are supposed to.

815
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:12,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, not just because you gotta have big womb energy.

816
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:16,760
Speaker 4: Because y'all talking about big womb energy, you feel me, y'all.

817
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:20,839
Speaker 3: Talking about a man, y'all y'all saying the man got big,

818
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:21,399
Speaker 3: big energy.

819
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 4: You ain't got no big woman.

820
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:30,400
Speaker 1: About and the b w what we're talking about like

821
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 1: that telling niggas that big wom energy feeling playing with

822
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:38,399
Speaker 1: me a big you know what it is?

823
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:40,799
Speaker 4: What? What?

824
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:41,000
Speaker 3: What?

825
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 1: What does the womb do?

826
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 4: Everything you give.

827
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 1: A woman, it produces life out Okay, feeling Okay.

828
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 4: I'm talking ideas. You nurturing that idea.

829
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 3: You feel me, You nurturing the mass, You nurture everything

830
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 3: around you. See that's the beauty of the masculine and

831
00:34:57,520 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 3: the feminine and how they work together. Now and feel

832
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:01,919
Speaker 3: me like even when we're born, you got that little

833
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:04,840
Speaker 3: sperm e spirals the feminine energy.

834
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:07,480
Speaker 4: Cause it they don't find this way. That's the science

835
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:08,319
Speaker 4: of it. It calls it.

836
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:10,879
Speaker 3: So when you're around that energy, it's gonna call it's

837
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:12,959
Speaker 3: gonna bring out those ideas in a man. It's gonna

838
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 3: make him want to grow more. It's gonna make him

839
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 3: want to produce more. There's certain women you get around

840
00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 3: and it's like, damn, man, I gotta get around that

841
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 3: energy again. She made me want to go ten times harder.

842
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 3: She spoke a certain kind of life for me. You

843
00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:26,879
Speaker 3: ain't got no big womb energy. Why you deserve, big dick.

844
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:30,640
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, you're gonna spoke a little word now.

845
00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:32,839
Speaker 1: Now why they be telling me I got a big

846
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 1: womb energy because.

847
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:40,000
Speaker 2: It's so many So what advice can you give to

848
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 2: men that need to tap into that masculinity or women

849
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:44,840
Speaker 2: that need to tap into their femininity.

850
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 3: There's a good book by Queen I four that I

851
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 3: think everybody should tap into.

852
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 4: I just didn't.

853
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 3: I just did an interview with her not too long

854
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,560
Speaker 3: ago on my channel, and that's one of the things

855
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:59,399
Speaker 3: that she helps understand me warm wellness, understand me women

856
00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:01,719
Speaker 3: to tap in to that nurturing and warm energy that

857
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 3: they have because other than that, women become so external

858
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 3: and into the world and so logical like a man

859
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:12,720
Speaker 3: that they don't tap into any of that. They always

860
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:15,840
Speaker 3: in here the heart, never in the womb, always in

861
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:19,480
Speaker 3: those fluctuating emotions, right, And so a woman has to

862
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 3: go through those cleanses, right, Like that's why people may

863
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:25,360
Speaker 3: make fun of like women that have the sage and

864
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 3: the crystals and they got the plants, But that's.

865
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:28,719
Speaker 4: A feminine woman.

866
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:34,360
Speaker 3: She taps into the spoons. I'm just saying, like, you

867
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 3: gotta have some of those things. Because when you go

868
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 3: on social media.

869
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 4: Right, we think that the filters and all of that

870
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:40,960
Speaker 4: would attract the man.

871
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 3: But when he done looking at your face, you know

872
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:45,520
Speaker 3: he want to fallunteer grace, you feel me, He.

873
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:45,920
Speaker 1: Want to be.

874
00:36:50,239 --> 00:37:00,120
Speaker 2: You put that on a sharp already.

875
00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 1: Okay, so we got another thing we want to tap into.

876
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 2: Okay, So I'm gonna switch these topics around real quick. Okay,

877
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 2: we're talking about this. We should, Yeah, because you you

878
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:16,840
Speaker 2: were talking about like the opposite attracting and all that stuff.

879
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 2: So you said something about like the dependent man and

880
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:23,360
Speaker 2: the independent woman go in opposite directions.

881
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:24,319
Speaker 4: Yes, and the.

882
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 2: Dependent man can't depend on and the dependent woman depends

883
00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 2: on no one.

884
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 3: Right, So I believe that the independent woman and the

885
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 3: dependent man of both machinations of white supremacy, specifically for

886
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 3: the black family.

887
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:40,680
Speaker 1: This is what I love. Let's talk about them, crackers.

888
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is what I'm ready to talk about them, turkey.

889
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 4: So let's let's let's look at it. Let's deal with

890
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:48,400
Speaker 4: the math here.

891
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 1: Right.

892
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:52,279
Speaker 3: If a woman is dependent on a man, right, then

893
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:54,319
Speaker 3: they have usefulness and purpose for each other.

894
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 1: Right.

895
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 3: If a man cannot be dependent on she can't, She

896
00:37:57,600 --> 00:37:59,400
Speaker 3: don't have any purpose for him because she can't depend

897
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 3: on him, right, because he's dependent, he's not independent, he

898
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:05,160
Speaker 3: can't nobody can depend on him, all right, So now

899
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 3: they are opposites of each other.

900
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 4: They going in opposite directions.

901
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 3: Right, when a man is stripped of his masculinity, if

902
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:13,400
Speaker 3: you go during slavery time, the first thing they have

903
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 3: to do was emasculate the slaves. Because a man that's

904
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 3: within his masculinity, his testosterone will make him want power

905
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 3: and will and control his own circumstances. A masculine male

906
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:27,920
Speaker 3: like testosterone makes us want to win. Right, when we lose,

907
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:30,880
Speaker 3: we are emasculated, you understand me. That's when men go

908
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 3: into stress and then go into anxiety and they become weak.

909
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 3: Right during recessions they actually make a lot of weak

910
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:39,880
Speaker 3: times for men. Right, So what you want to do is,

911
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:42,720
Speaker 3: you know, look at the dynamics of how to bring

912
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 3: those families back together. Right, A man that can be

913
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 3: dependent on a woman gonna be looking at him, multiple

914
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:51,240
Speaker 3: women gonna be looking at them. You understand me, because

915
00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 3: that's why the whole conversation around high value men came out,

916
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,759
Speaker 3: because women were trying to figure out, like, damn, how

917
00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:00,360
Speaker 3: do I get a man, right, that's worth where you

918
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 3: can find that balance. Again, a lot of women don't

919
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:03,719
Speaker 3: want to admit the fact that they don't like this

920
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 3: independent ship. Understand every day lonely got him a couple

921
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 3: of dollars. Keep posting it on Twitter like I'm independent,

922
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 3: I'm happy. Goddamn sitting over there with that couple of

923
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 3: noodles in that wine, going through it right now.

924
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 4: With the cat on the side.

925
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 1: Take this up. Listen, I don't no, We're good.

926
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 4: I'm here to help. I'm the cleaner right so so no,

927
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:31,920
Speaker 4: but in real life, though, you know, no disrespect to

928
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 4: the cat ladies. You know what I'm saying. That's chilling

929
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 4: and everything. That's their bay.

930
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 3: And then otherwise women make their son they bay right,

931
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 3: that's their new king.

932
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 1: Was literally all last episode King, that ain't gonna work.

933
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:49,200
Speaker 4: That ain't gonna work my king. No, that's that's a

934
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 4: little prince. Understand me. You gotta have an actual king

935
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:53,919
Speaker 4: in the house, right And.

936
00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 3: So when you're gonna look at the dynamics of what

937
00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 3: happened to is in fifteen fifty five, first thing they

938
00:39:58,120 --> 00:39:59,840
Speaker 3: had to figure out was how to break up the family.

939
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 3: You understand me, because and you got to remember all

940
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 3: throughout slavery, that whole entire time, we found a way

941
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 3: to keep the family together. It wasn't until modern times,

942
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:12,320
Speaker 3: right when you're talking about welfare state that actually started

943
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:13,200
Speaker 3: to split up the family.

944
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 4: So we made it through four hundred plus years.

945
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 3: Of slavery, and then modern politics broke up the black family,

946
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 3: and then drugs and you know all of these different

947
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:24,719
Speaker 3: codes in law that they have today, and now the

948
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 3: masculinity is no longer celebrated.

949
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:28,520
Speaker 4: You understand me, Like, you're not gonna see that in

950
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 4: no campaigns.

951
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:32,000
Speaker 3: Matter of fact, black men and women being together not celebrating.

952
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 3: Go look, go when you go through the airport in Atlanta,

953
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 3: go show me a black couple that's on the wall

954
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 3: during the campaign advertisement. You understand, you're gonna look at

955
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:41,359
Speaker 3: these shows and show me where there's black families that's

956
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 3: being celebrated.

957
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:45,280
Speaker 4: We only had one really good black family that was hostome.

958
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:48,440
Speaker 4: And now Bill Cosby about to say that.

959
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:50,399
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, you got to think about how they

960
00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:53,279
Speaker 3: destroy every image of black family in our minds to

961
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:55,799
Speaker 3: where we don't have no actual examples.

962
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:58,840
Speaker 2: Kyle Winslow would like a word because he's still strong.

963
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 4: We got we got a black, beautiful wife and family

964
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:02,280
Speaker 4: and stuff.

965
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:05,840
Speaker 2: I don't know, I mean, family matters.

966
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:09,799
Speaker 1: Nothing came out about family matter, talking about real.

967
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:13,800
Speaker 3: Life because everybody talking about black life matter, but family

968
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:16,839
Speaker 3: matters is way more important. You stand mean, because that's

969
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 3: what actually you're talking about, somebody in the household that's

970
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:22,839
Speaker 3: protecting the child. Like when you're talking about toxic masculinity,

971
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 3: toxic masculinity don't really exist because masculinity is not toxic.

972
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:31,800
Speaker 3: The issue is is that the men that aren't masculine.

973
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:32,240
Speaker 4: Are the toxic ones.

974
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 3: You understand, because masculinity comes with the principles, it comes.

975
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:36,120
Speaker 4: With the values.

976
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:39,920
Speaker 3: That makes men that don't have followers in their household

977
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:41,439
Speaker 3: are the ones that are the toxic ones.

978
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 1: So they're not masculine, They're not masculine at all.

979
00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:47,000
Speaker 4: It's the lack of masculinity that makes.

980
00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:56,239
Speaker 2: Them beach may in proper English, king English, we're not

981
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 2: talking to.

982
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:06,319
Speaker 4: I know. I wasn't gonna say I'm gonna co sign it.

983
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:11,600
Speaker 1: We gotta break it down at okay.

984
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:13,960
Speaker 2: But though that does make sense though, because I do

985
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 2: feel like sometimes but I feel like a lot of

986
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 2: women feel like we have to do that like, we

987
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:20,839
Speaker 2: have to be independent because a lot of these men

988
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 2: we cannot depend on, You can't now.

989
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:27,279
Speaker 3: And that's why I very much empathize because with men

990
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 3: being so immaculately, I was always taught that where there's

991
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 3: no good women, there was a no good man who

992
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 3: made her that way. Right, So in a sense of

993
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 3: where we talk about women being in a certain position,

994
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:39,439
Speaker 3: you can always find the common thread that there were

995
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:41,799
Speaker 3: men that traumatized them or treated them a certain way

996
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 3: to where they're.

997
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 4: Now in that position. Right.

998
00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:46,399
Speaker 3: If you want to change the foundation of any nation,

999
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 3: then you go towards the woman first, right, because she

1000
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,360
Speaker 3: is the one that's going to teach generations towards to

1001
00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:55,360
Speaker 3: come right. So I empathize with the fact that women

1002
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 3: now have to put themselves in the position to be

1003
00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:01,399
Speaker 3: more masculine because men are no longer filling in those shoes, right,

1004
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:05,320
Speaker 3: and so it's now our time as men to step

1005
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 3: in that position, to be so impressive that she's not

1006
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:09,840
Speaker 3: looking at no other men and a white man that

1007
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 3: can get her. No, Louis Sanchez ain't jumping in, you

1008
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 3: understand me, No Asian jumping in or women. She's so

1009
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:18,759
Speaker 3: impressed over here what we got going on that she

1010
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 3: locked in with us, like.

1011
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:23,799
Speaker 4: You feel me all of the energy over here with

1012
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:24,320
Speaker 4: the gods.

1013
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:26,799
Speaker 1: So we'll say I have this theory, and I want

1014
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 1: to know if you feel this, Like I just feel

1015
00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:32,280
Speaker 1: like social media has fucked up the dynamic between women

1016
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:36,040
Speaker 1: and men, Like I just feel like it's just not

1017
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:38,319
Speaker 1: the same no more. And it's because we have so

1018
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 1: many other people to look at that. People are like, oh, well,

1019
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 1: this girl is independent. I want to be like her.

1020
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:47,000
Speaker 1: So it's no value in being like the housewife or

1021
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:49,440
Speaker 1: taking care of the home anymore. Now everybody want to

1022
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:51,800
Speaker 1: be an independent boss beach. I wish nothing is wrong

1023
00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:54,239
Speaker 1: with that, but if you I do personally feel like,

1024
00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 1: if you want to get a good man, you have

1025
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 1: to kind of still know how to submit.

1026
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, of course, and not.

1027
00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:02,480
Speaker 1: Kind that you do need to know how to submit.

1028
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:02,880
Speaker 1: You do not.

1029
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:05,200
Speaker 2: But I also feel like on the other end of

1030
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 2: the spectrum, it's kind of opposite. Now, you know, it's

1031
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 2: the same thing with the rapper's girlfriend trend.

1032
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:13,240
Speaker 1: That's I don't want to say it's a trend.

1033
00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:15,359
Speaker 2: But kind of everybody wants to be the They do

1034
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:16,759
Speaker 2: want to be a stay at home mom. But they

1035
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:18,279
Speaker 2: don't want to a stay at home wife. But they

1036
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 2: don't want to do nothing. They don't want to bring

1037
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 2: nothing to the table. And I will say, we make

1038
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:24,440
Speaker 2: jokes about this all the time, but you know, when

1039
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:26,399
Speaker 2: people ask what we bring to the table, the long

1040
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 2: running joke, people be like, pussy and that's it and

1041
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 2: that you know. But I'm saying, like, as a woman

1042
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 2: and as a man, y'all both have to bring things

1043
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:34,720
Speaker 2: to the table.

1044
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:35,239
Speaker 4: You know.

1045
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:38,440
Speaker 2: It's like nobody wants to work for a relationship anymore.

1046
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 2: Everybody just thinks it's gonna be easy. They're gonna find

1047
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 2: the man that's gonna sweep off their feet. I mean,

1048
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 2: I literally posted this on my close friends of that

1049
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:47,640
Speaker 2: because I was so shocked because it was like a

1050
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:48,720
Speaker 2: girl who.

1051
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 1: Had got pregnant for like a married man.

1052
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 2: And I just feel like that's the times we're in

1053
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:53,959
Speaker 2: because at the end the day, oh he got money,

1054
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have his baby.

1055
00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:57,880
Speaker 1: But that's the times that we're living in.

1056
00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:00,280
Speaker 2: Oh, and people looking at her like, oh, well, she

1057
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,760
Speaker 2: she wining, she got her BDB and she got pregnant.

1058
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 2: By I feel like society and like like you said,

1059
00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:08,799
Speaker 2: social media is really like it's really poison right now.

1060
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:09,600
Speaker 1: It really is.

1061
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:09,959
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1062
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:12,280
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like it's a great outlet because

1063
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:15,400
Speaker 1: it shows people what they can accomplish. Roy's great to

1064
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:19,399
Speaker 1: get online and see so many young black people, you know,

1065
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:22,240
Speaker 1: thriving and becoming successful. And I feel like it's also

1066
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 1: gay people a platform to make money. Like it's so

1067
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:27,319
Speaker 1: many people who have literally became millionaires off of social media.

1068
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:29,480
Speaker 1: So I feel like it's great for that reason, because

1069
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:31,879
Speaker 1: it's given us opportunities that we didn't have twenty years

1070
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:33,919
Speaker 1: ago and stuff. But I also do feel like, yes,

1071
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:37,799
Speaker 1: it's poisoning people minds, it's giving them unrealistic expectations when

1072
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:40,360
Speaker 1: it comes to relationships. When it comes today. Then I

1073
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 1: feel like even us you know now, I'm not saying

1074
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,440
Speaker 1: just the people that watch these shot us included too.

1075
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 2: It gives you an unrealistic expectatally most of those.

1076
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 3: You know, Instagram craze, faux intimacy, fake intimacy, you understand

1077
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:56,080
Speaker 3: me to where you feel like you actually connected with people,

1078
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:58,600
Speaker 3: people care about you, all of those different things, right,

1079
00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:00,239
Speaker 3: And it makes you want to use that, and then

1080
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:03,360
Speaker 3: it makes you not actually source that in real life.

1081
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 2: Right.

1082
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:07,279
Speaker 4: So relationships are no longer based on real intimacy. You

1083
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 4: understand me.

1084
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:10,239
Speaker 3: But when you do get it, oftentimes, and I'm talking

1085
00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:12,800
Speaker 3: about in a real sense, you oftentimes start using social

1086
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:15,120
Speaker 3: media a little less because you no longer looking for

1087
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 3: intimacy online. Right now, the issue when you're talking about

1088
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 3: over comparison, that's a bad narrative that exists in society

1089
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:25,839
Speaker 3: because that happens where the algorithms are set to keep

1090
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:28,360
Speaker 3: showing you things to keep you on this app and

1091
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 3: keep you looping. So damn, the algorithm already know who

1092
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:33,399
Speaker 3: think you feel me, so they gonna show you.

1093
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:36,280
Speaker 1: Up every time they looking, they reading.

1094
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:37,879
Speaker 4: Facial expressions, knowing who bad.

1095
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:39,839
Speaker 3: So I'm gonna keep showing you the bad ones because

1096
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:42,560
Speaker 3: this gonna keep you on social media longer. You feel

1097
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:46,239
Speaker 3: me so, And but what happens is is that now

1098
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:48,880
Speaker 3: you stuck on social media, just looping and watching and

1099
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:51,800
Speaker 3: watching and watching. So everything on social media is feeding

1100
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:54,920
Speaker 3: your lower nature, your animal side. Nothing is speeding your

1101
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:58,320
Speaker 3: spiritual and having you thinking higher. So now you attracted

1102
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:00,400
Speaker 3: to people because of us. It ain't got nothing to

1103
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:04,600
Speaker 3: do with love. So love is no longer a ruling relationship. Goals,

1104
00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 3: lust is whether you lust than after another couple in

1105
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 3: the way that they built their life, which is probably

1106
00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 3: not real on the back end, because we see that

1107
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 3: all the time, one person making them a couple goals.

1108
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 3: Next thing, you know, the police is breaking them up

1109
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 3: because they got some issues at the crib. So it's like,

1110
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 3: you know, and then most women don't look like how

1111
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:23,600
Speaker 3: they look. You know in real life you.

1112
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:27,759
Speaker 4: Feel me so but I feel period absolutely beautiful. Real life,

1113
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:30,359
Speaker 4: you feel me. But everything is fake though.

1114
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:33,840
Speaker 3: So it's a theory called the dead Internet saying that

1115
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:36,680
Speaker 3: basically eighty percent of the Internet is fake.

1116
00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:39,840
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. Most of the things on

1117
00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:40,800
Speaker 4: the Internet.

1118
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:42,440
Speaker 3: Are all just repeated, and most of them are created

1119
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 3: by algorithm computers. Right, Like if you go on the internet,

1120
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:47,960
Speaker 3: how much is actually fresh and new and creative? And

1121
00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 3: like all of these people were talking about billions of

1122
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 3: people on the Internet, and everybody just copy each other

1123
00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 3: and put out the same thing, right, right, it's not.

1124
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:57,759
Speaker 3: The Internet is actually a very small place and it's

1125
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:00,160
Speaker 3: only meant and built to keep you loop.

1126
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:00,760
Speaker 4: On there forever.

1127
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:03,520
Speaker 3: It's a business and you're the product, right, And that's

1128
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:05,759
Speaker 3: why like now with web three is kind of like

1129
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 3: changing that whole thing to say that no, you're no

1130
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 3: longer the product, you the owner and so.

1131
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:11,280
Speaker 4: But that's a whole nother conversation.

1132
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:14,760
Speaker 3: But when it comes to relationships, it destroys your ability

1133
00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 3: to think and feel long term.

1134
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:22,720
Speaker 4: Like my parents had to write each other. You understand me.

1135
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:25,920
Speaker 4: Let me give you a breakdown. So look, my parents

1136
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 4: met in jail though.

1137
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:36,440
Speaker 8: Oh okay, but still though Mama sixty pops what seventy?

1138
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:38,600
Speaker 4: So they were still born in the time before you

1139
00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:39,279
Speaker 4: know cell phone.

1140
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:42,839
Speaker 3: But you got to think that energy that happens when

1141
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:45,360
Speaker 3: you got to write a person. You gotta really be

1142
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 3: specifical about what you feel, your intentions.

1143
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:49,800
Speaker 4: You got to be poetic as a man. Then you

1144
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:51,800
Speaker 4: got to be patient enough to wait for the reply

1145
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:53,360
Speaker 4: to come in. You understand me.

1146
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 7: That's a completely different type of energy than a micro

1147
00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:59,040
Speaker 7: a microwave relationships and love that we have nowadays.

1148
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:01,799
Speaker 4: You just dm into the battist woman in the world

1149
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:05,960
Speaker 4: and she might just reply if you got that. Understand me.

1150
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:09,400
Speaker 4: So you know, I don't know nothing about not but.

1151
00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:14,759
Speaker 1: This is y'all gonna stop me.

1152
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 4: I ain't nothing. I'm just saying though, So like that

1153
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:21,920
Speaker 4: really changes the dynamics.

1154
00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:25,200
Speaker 3: How people think about relationships, like we want everything fast, fast,

1155
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,319
Speaker 3: and then we don't appreciate what we have because we're

1156
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:31,120
Speaker 3: always looking at what could be better, and oftentimes it's not.

1157
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:35,319
Speaker 1: I feel like that's an advantage that our parents and

1158
00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:37,799
Speaker 1: grandparents definitely had. I mean, you didn't know what was

1159
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:41,000
Speaker 1: going on person. Everything is on display.

1160
00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 2: If you got a good girl at home, it does

1161
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:45,600
Speaker 2: everything that you want her to do, and she seems

1162
00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:48,359
Speaker 2: like a perfect woman. You still getting on Instagram, which

1163
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:49,480
Speaker 2: essentially to me is a.

1164
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 1: Catalog shopping mall. You're living on there. You seeing another girl,

1165
00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 1: You're like, damn, she batter than my.

1166
00:49:57,600 --> 00:49:58,799
Speaker 4: Girls, and she really not.

1167
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:03,319
Speaker 3: Though you probably got an issue stressed, depressed, you feel me,

1168
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 3: probably got don't even look good in real life filters

1169
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:10,399
Speaker 3: is going crazy, you understand me. I don't know about

1170
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:12,759
Speaker 3: the edges, you know, but you know, at the end

1171
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:21,640
Speaker 3: of the day, edges that thing solid, God about the

1172
00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:24,880
Speaker 3: energy under here. Cover I just covered with the universe

1173
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 3: just to remind me who I am. I know, that's

1174
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 3: universe knowledge around.

1175
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:31,399
Speaker 1: I just had because you know, sometimes people be trying

1176
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:31,839
Speaker 1: to cover up.

1177
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:33,680
Speaker 4: The head I got. I got, really, I got one

1178
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 4: of the wrong because you gotta think about, like what

1179
00:50:37,680 --> 00:50:40,760
Speaker 4: day somebody might snatch it on? What if I'm fighting nobody?

1180
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:46,440
Speaker 3: Would you do somebody getting stumped out?

1181
00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:46,880
Speaker 4: Not?

1182
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 3: You got listen, I grew up, mustlim we get a militime.

1183
00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:53,600
Speaker 3: You know, it ain't gangster. It's just being a man,

1184
00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:56,359
Speaker 3: you understand me. So if somebody do that, then they

1185
00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:59,319
Speaker 3: gotta take care of so. But at the same time,

1186
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:01,319
Speaker 3: my line they take it off through. I'm gonna be

1187
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:05,560
Speaker 3: camera ready though. That's what I said, like we were

1188
00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:07,560
Speaker 3: good out the here though, That's what I was getting to.

1189
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:10,360
Speaker 1: Okay, you feel me pain.

1190
00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 3: Who I don't like all of that new stuff people

1191
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:16,319
Speaker 3: putting men putting on wigs and stuff that it's called

1192
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:16,800
Speaker 3: a meg.

1193
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 4: No, No, it's called sucker.

1194
00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 1: All right, Okay, so I got one.

1195
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 2: I want to touch on this before we move on

1196
00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:25,520
Speaker 2: to the big topic because I want to talk about

1197
00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:29,600
Speaker 2: a third eye you were talking about, because you know,

1198
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 2: I feel like my third eye is definitely called because

1199
00:51:32,200 --> 00:51:33,480
Speaker 2: it's a lot of fun going on.

1200
00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:35,400
Speaker 1: I need to see. I can't see.

1201
00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:38,640
Speaker 4: Y'all to I got to give y'all this gift.

1202
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:44,680
Speaker 1: Is it a third house? Okay? I need I need

1203
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:45,839
Speaker 1: to feel like.

1204
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 4: You got one right here. These are my soub type cards.

1205
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 4: I made these a while ago.

1206
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm scared.

1207
00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 3: No, So these are nineteen different exercises you can do

1208
00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:02,960
Speaker 3: with a partner saw to get y'all deeper you feel me?

1209
00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:06,359
Speaker 3: So instead of this microwave love, you get to tap

1210
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:07,960
Speaker 3: into them soultas you feel me?

1211
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:10,560
Speaker 1: Okay, and where can because.

1212
00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:18,359
Speaker 2: Okay, you know what, put it to the side. Put

1213
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:20,879
Speaker 2: that to the side. We're gonna say that to the bed. Okay, okay,

1214
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:22,520
Speaker 2: So let's talk about the third hour real quick.

1215
00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:26,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you know I talked about my third eye experience.

1216
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 3: Kundalini experiences is what it's called. Basically, you're talking about

1217
00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:34,000
Speaker 3: tapping into having your spine become electrical and then ignite

1218
00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 3: your pineal gland, which is a very real thing that.

1219
00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:36,879
Speaker 4: We have in our brain.

1220
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 1: All right.

1221
00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:40,120
Speaker 3: So like, no, when you go to sleep and you

1222
00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:42,440
Speaker 3: imagine what part of the brain you use, I understand me.

1223
00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 3: When you have imagination and you close your eyes and

1224
00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:47,600
Speaker 3: you can still see, that's your third eye, understand me.

1225
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:50,560
Speaker 3: So everybody actually utilizes their eye because you don't see

1226
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 3: what your eyes, you see what your mind.

1227
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:54,799
Speaker 4: Understand me, and so the third eye.

1228
00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:58,959
Speaker 3: It becomes decalcified because you know, some of the things

1229
00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 3: that we eat, right, So like even alcohol, processed foods,

1230
00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:04,520
Speaker 3: and a multitude of different things.

1231
00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:06,440
Speaker 4: They go calcify your pie Neil.

1232
00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:11,920
Speaker 1: Gland cancel that just because I like so, I.

1233
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:13,920
Speaker 4: Mean maybe some navy beans. Oh, you can get that

1234
00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:16,600
Speaker 4: small white navy beans. It up, you understand me. It's

1235
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:18,239
Speaker 4: gonna put out that radioactivity that.

1236
00:53:20,120 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 1: I just had to asking keep going.

1237
00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, okay, you can add no such thing as

1238
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:24,920
Speaker 3: a dumb question exactly.

1239
00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:26,680
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. We're here to support each other.

1240
00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:31,040
Speaker 2: So certain things that we consume block our third eye.

1241
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, so it calcilfies it, you understand me, because of

1242
00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:37,120
Speaker 3: too much calcio builders. So when you get that calcification process,

1243
00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:40,680
Speaker 3: then that can block some of your psychic abilities intuitive power.

1244
00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:41,360
Speaker 4: So you understand me.

1245
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:44,279
Speaker 3: And so you know that happens from fluoride and two

1246
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:47,080
Speaker 3: past and the different things that you use. So that's

1247
00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 3: why people like to eat holistic and healthy so that

1248
00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:50,600
Speaker 3: their body can be clear.

1249
00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:53,719
Speaker 7: You gotta think our ancestors never ate all this process food, right,

1250
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:55,839
Speaker 7: ancestors never ate all this artificial food.

1251
00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 3: Every food that they ate was organic. It had a

1252
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:00,720
Speaker 3: lot of sun and energy. So they the whole body

1253
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:02,759
Speaker 3: was like a light being body. They was tapped in,

1254
00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 3: They was tuned in the ideas and information was processing

1255
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:10,040
Speaker 3: at super speed. Our credit generation man they slow. You

1256
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 3: ever walked outside and had a conversation with somebody, sang,

1257
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:17,200
Speaker 3: So now we got to get back to a point

1258
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:20,759
Speaker 3: where number one fasting. Like I said, fasting is number

1259
00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 3: one keeping right. When you fast, you allow your body

1260
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:27,440
Speaker 3: time to regenerate. R Your body is usually constantly feeding

1261
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:30,680
Speaker 3: toxices within your body, and when you stop eating, it

1262
00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:32,920
Speaker 3: kills off those toxes and those germs and all those

1263
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:34,640
Speaker 3: different things that exist within your body.

1264
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:36,440
Speaker 4: So therefore, now you could become clear.

1265
00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:41,279
Speaker 3: We overeat, we undermineralize, and we over chemicalized, you understand me.

1266
00:54:41,360 --> 00:54:43,480
Speaker 3: And so when we got so many chemicals, a body

1267
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 3: is overworked. So therefore it never has time to actually

1268
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:47,160
Speaker 3: become clear.

1269
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 1: So we can't drink at all.

1270
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:54,560
Speaker 3: You know my suggestion that some scientists say that you

1271
00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:56,840
Speaker 3: can have a little red wine. You understand that some

1272
00:54:56,880 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 3: people combat at that. But you know they said a

1273
00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:01,920
Speaker 3: little red wine maybe, But you know, alcohol is a

1274
00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:05,479
Speaker 3: natural depressant, you understand me, So for the most part.

1275
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:07,520
Speaker 3: Even when you drink too much alcohol to the point

1276
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:09,719
Speaker 3: where you're getting blacked out, you actually don't have an

1277
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 3: immune system at that point, right, so you more susceptible

1278
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:16,080
Speaker 3: to s disease, you more susceptible to any sicknesses that

1279
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:18,400
Speaker 3: you may receive. And think about the times that we

1280
00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 3: do it. We do it when we're around the most germs.

1281
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:22,799
Speaker 3: Were around strangers and people who don't know, and we

1282
00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:31,520
Speaker 3: just drinking and drinking and drinking.

1283
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:34,640
Speaker 4: No, but you know, that's that's a real thing. Like

1284
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 4: we don't really think about our bodies in terms of.

1285
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:39,799
Speaker 3: Health because you know, we live as if we're gonna

1286
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:42,799
Speaker 3: die tomorrow sometimes, you know, instead of living like we

1287
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:45,239
Speaker 3: want to actually live alone life, Like we can't talk

1288
00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:47,319
Speaker 3: about wealth and money and all these different things if

1289
00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:49,560
Speaker 3: you don't actually plan on living to enjoy it. Yeah,

1290
00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:52,040
Speaker 3: and not where you're getting all timers. You can't remember nothing.

1291
00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:54,360
Speaker 3: You're waking up foggy. You gotta drink hell of caffeine

1292
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:56,360
Speaker 3: and stuff. I'm talking about actually having a good quality

1293
00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:58,960
Speaker 3: of life, Like I want my brain to constantly be

1294
00:55:59,000 --> 00:55:59,920
Speaker 3: able to retain it for me.

1295
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:05,840
Speaker 2: So no, I'm healthy, Okay, But you don't drink her

1296
00:56:06,480 --> 00:56:07,160
Speaker 2: drink smoke.

1297
00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:08,399
Speaker 1: I'm sure you don't eat, like.

1298
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:13,799
Speaker 4: Not even one little week, one little we know I'm

1299
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:16,240
Speaker 4: gonna smoke. I would smoke a whole not one little week.

1300
00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:20,359
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, So but let me ask you what this Okay,

1301
00:56:20,520 --> 00:56:23,080
Speaker 2: because I wanted to ask this because I have a reader,

1302
00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:25,200
Speaker 2: and like she does my readings all the time.

1303
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:28,400
Speaker 1: Shout out to shot. I absolutely love her. So what

1304
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 1: she noticed about me? What does she say, dre It's like,

1305
00:56:31,320 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 1: what does she say? She's an impact?

1306
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:36,160
Speaker 2: Yes, Like so a lot of times I see a

1307
00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:39,160
Speaker 2: lot of things. And sometimes I'll see something and I'll

1308
00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:39,839
Speaker 2: ignore it.

1309
00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:40,960
Speaker 1: And then it ends up happening.

1310
00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:44,279
Speaker 2: Sometimes I see things I can't recognize what it is,

1311
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:46,799
Speaker 2: and I'll just, like I said, ignore it and it

1312
00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:47,600
Speaker 2: ends up happening.

1313
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:50,200
Speaker 1: This always always happened.

1314
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:54,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like it's a lot of things. So that's all

1315
00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:55,920
Speaker 2: I was like really wondering how to unlock it.

1316
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:57,000
Speaker 1: So I gotta stop drinking.

1317
00:56:57,400 --> 00:57:01,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, you stop drinking and you know, clearing your body out,

1318
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:03,279
Speaker 3: and then there's certain things that you can eat as well.

1319
00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:06,399
Speaker 3: Like we got new tropics that we have right, so

1320
00:57:06,600 --> 00:57:09,879
Speaker 3: you know, we got the shrooms, we got the gold water. Right,

1321
00:57:09,960 --> 00:57:13,360
Speaker 3: we got the sea mass pills and then were combined

1322
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:14,120
Speaker 3: in different.

1323
00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:15,760
Speaker 4: Concoctions to where it actually help your brain.

1324
00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:18,120
Speaker 3: The gold water can help with that pineal gland, so

1325
00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 3: allow you to tap in and your body is electrical,

1326
00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 3: you feel me.

1327
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:22,040
Speaker 4: So we got you over.

1328
00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:24,960
Speaker 2: Here though, okay, because I'm gonna need to figure out

1329
00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:25,640
Speaker 2: what's going on.

1330
00:57:26,720 --> 00:57:28,480
Speaker 1: How long you drinking?

1331
00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:32,520
Speaker 4: I think it was. I think the last time I drank,

1332
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:33,280
Speaker 4: I had gotten a fight.

1333
00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:37,160
Speaker 3: I was on some Hennessy and somebody started it with me,

1334
00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:41,000
Speaker 3: but I definitely finished it. Hell don know, you know,

1335
00:57:41,200 --> 00:57:44,840
Speaker 3: But what happened was is though, yeah, buddy was tripping

1336
00:57:44,960 --> 00:57:47,080
Speaker 3: and then you know, I was on the Hendy sea

1337
00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:49,760
Speaker 3: so I'm like, I'm tripping with you, you know, and then

1338
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:51,760
Speaker 3: it turned into a situation. But that was years and

1339
00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:55,959
Speaker 3: years ago. You know, you had a long time, long time,

1340
00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:59,040
Speaker 3: you understand me. Uh, but I don't feel any need

1341
00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:02,760
Speaker 3: like I'm already on a at all times?

1342
00:58:02,880 --> 00:58:04,919
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, because there were things.

1343
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:06,840
Speaker 3: Number One, the way I looked at it is there

1344
00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 3: were things way bigger than my need to drink, especially socially,

1345
00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:10,560
Speaker 3: you feel me.

1346
00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:12,040
Speaker 4: I thought about, like what if I.

1347
00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:14,240
Speaker 3: Get in type of situations and I could mess up

1348
00:58:14,280 --> 00:58:16,600
Speaker 3: everything that I got going on, you feel me. So

1349
00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:19,720
Speaker 3: I would rather be responsible, and i'd rather be clear,

1350
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:21,360
Speaker 3: and i'd rather have my mind. And I don't like

1351
00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:23,440
Speaker 3: picking up anything that I can't drop at a moment's

1352
00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:26,280
Speaker 3: so I always test myself to make sure that I

1353
00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:28,640
Speaker 3: have full control over my faculties.

1354
00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:31,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I feel like I don't have an

1355
00:58:31,240 --> 00:58:34,680
Speaker 1: addictive personality. Super yeah for me to stop doing things.

1356
00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:38,160
Speaker 1: We actually both just stopped smoking hookah, like we haven't

1357
00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:38,440
Speaker 1: done that.

1358
00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:41,440
Speaker 4: Congratulations in money, Now y'all should do muling.

1359
00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:44,360
Speaker 3: So mulling is a tea that you can actually smoke

1360
00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:47,160
Speaker 3: as well, but it detoxifies your lungs suos at all

1361
00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:48,880
Speaker 3: of the stuff that's been in your lungs because of

1362
00:58:48,880 --> 00:58:49,720
Speaker 3: the hookah.

1363
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:51,760
Speaker 4: That's another thing.

1364
00:58:51,960 --> 00:58:54,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, E L L I N they got something that

1365
00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 3: without out here on atl you get the gold water

1366
00:58:56,440 --> 00:58:58,040
Speaker 3: there too.

1367
00:58:57,080 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, hookahs is like November. It's been a long for me.

1368
00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:02,160
Speaker 1: It's been since I think Mark.

1369
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:05,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, whocas just one of them social things

1370
00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:07,680
Speaker 3: definitely definitely not good.

1371
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:10,760
Speaker 1: For you, and it's from drinking, Like I definitely have

1372
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 1: not had a drink for like six That's what I said,

1373
00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 1: this is the some wine. Yeah, this is a while,

1374
00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:18,480
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna stop one day.

1375
00:59:18,240 --> 00:59:20,960
Speaker 3: Baby, We're gonna get gold on the show and then

1376
00:59:21,000 --> 00:59:22,680
Speaker 3: y'all just sip some gold water during the show.

1377
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:25,320
Speaker 1: Exactly. You're taking it too far.

1378
00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:29,480
Speaker 4: I'm it's called pour minds, man, I know you can

1379
00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:32,919
Speaker 4: still pour something else. It's call poor mind.

1380
00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:37,160
Speaker 3: You feel gonna pour some gold in your mind?

1381
00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:42,200
Speaker 4: What's right saying? Oh, it's gold water.

1382
00:59:42,280 --> 00:59:44,680
Speaker 3: So gold water is basically what it sounds like is

1383
00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:46,800
Speaker 3: gold within the water, small gold particles.

1384
00:59:47,240 --> 00:59:50,120
Speaker 4: This was something that was started by the ancient Egyptians. Actually,

1385
00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:51,600
Speaker 4: they used to drink gold in that water.

1386
00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:55,000
Speaker 1: You know, I've had gold schlogger before. It's a liquor,

1387
00:59:56,400 --> 01:00:05,640
Speaker 1: y'all neverler before. It's like chicken up around for a

1388
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:19,000
Speaker 1: long time. Since she was like eighteen, your first anyway,

1389
01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:22,640
Speaker 1: they had a little gold flakes and into my bed. Nah.

1390
01:00:22,680 --> 01:00:25,040
Speaker 3: So basically, you know, we're born with zero point zero

1391
01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:27,720
Speaker 3: two percent gold within our body. So by increasing the

1392
01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:29,640
Speaker 3: amount of gold within our body, and it's there to

1393
01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:32,800
Speaker 3: electrify our body on Earth, and it's like we mostly water,

1394
01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:35,400
Speaker 3: and you can electrify that water within a body. So

1395
01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:38,000
Speaker 3: now you have more conductivity within your body. You got

1396
01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:40,400
Speaker 3: more energy, your mind is thinking, your ore field it's

1397
01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:41,240
Speaker 3: more activated.

1398
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:43,120
Speaker 4: It even helps you to have a deeper sleep, so

1399
01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:45,680
Speaker 4: you're waking up clear mighty things of that nature. So

1400
01:00:45,720 --> 01:00:48,880
Speaker 4: the ancient Egyptians believed that it was an elix for immortality.

1401
01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:50,480
Speaker 4: I believe it was a different city. They used to

1402
01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:52,479
Speaker 4: take it. You know, you put it on the face.

1403
01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:55,680
Speaker 3: Sometimes they put gold and beauty products forever reason because

1404
01:00:55,680 --> 01:00:56,320
Speaker 3: they helped clear.

1405
01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:59,120
Speaker 4: The micro tears in the skin and pour down inflammation

1406
01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:01,160
Speaker 4: as well. You feel me, So you want to be

1407
01:01:01,200 --> 01:01:01,680
Speaker 4: on that goal.

1408
01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:05,120
Speaker 1: You got a skin ca routine. Yeah, I know that's right.

1409
01:01:06,400 --> 01:01:07,640
Speaker 4: It's called Godlan fun.

1410
01:01:08,120 --> 01:01:13,360
Speaker 1: You know what period? What's up?

1411
01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:16,440
Speaker 2: Y'all's your girl lex Pe and it's your girl Dre

1412
01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:19,960
Speaker 2: and the cold and we outside this summer, y'all know

1413
01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:20,680
Speaker 2: what time it is.

1414
01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:23,640
Speaker 1: It's tour time. I'm so excited for the tour.

1415
01:01:23,880 --> 01:01:26,640
Speaker 2: And we're going to the number one and number two

1416
01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:28,960
Speaker 2: requested places that everybody's been asking us to go.

1417
01:01:29,320 --> 01:01:32,000
Speaker 1: And you already know who on the list first Atlanta.

1418
01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:37,040
Speaker 2: Atlanta, Houston, Dallas, Columbia, Birmingham, Chicago, New York. Y'all, we

1419
01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:39,520
Speaker 2: are outside when I tell y'all this show, we have

1420
01:01:39,560 --> 01:01:40,760
Speaker 2: a lot of special guests coming.

1421
01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:43,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all just gonna be blown away. It's gonna be

1422
01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:49,000
Speaker 1: so much fun. I don't know that, but if you

1423
01:01:49,080 --> 01:01:50,080
Speaker 1: start talking.

1424
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:58,040
Speaker 2: Like Dre, so make sure y'all get your tickets right now.

1425
01:01:58,280 --> 01:02:00,680
Speaker 2: Go to poor Minds dot com. Y'all don't want to.

1426
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Speaker 1: Miss out and even never know we might add somewhere days. Oh,

1427
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Speaker 1: we definitely gonna add some most let's know, if it's

1428
01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:08,000
Speaker 1: the city that we missing it, y'all want us to come.

1429
01:02:07,840 --> 01:02:10,040
Speaker 2: To, and y'all know they gonna sell out, so don't

1430
01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:12,400
Speaker 2: be asking us. Oh when y'all gonna come back, Get

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Speaker 2: y'all tickets right now. Dot we'll see y'all this summer

1432
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Speaker 2: link in the buyout. What's up y'all as your girl

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Speaker 9: Yes, okayo bow okay.

1452
01:03:29,160 --> 01:03:31,120
Speaker 1: So I want to talk about this because I saw

1453
01:03:31,200 --> 01:03:33,240
Speaker 1: this quote and I'm not gonna lie. I have to

1454
01:03:33,240 --> 01:03:35,080
Speaker 1: scrolling your page. I'm like, I know he got something

1455
01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:35,920
Speaker 1: to say about this too.

1456
01:03:36,400 --> 01:03:39,160
Speaker 2: So the quote says, a man who isn't a slave

1457
01:03:39,320 --> 01:03:41,800
Speaker 2: to his sexual urges is a focused man.

1458
01:03:42,320 --> 01:03:44,640
Speaker 1: A focused man is a dangerous man.

1459
01:03:44,760 --> 01:03:45,280
Speaker 4: That's fact.

1460
01:03:45,520 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 2: So do you feel like most men know our slaves

1461
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:49,920
Speaker 2: to their sexual urges?

1462
01:03:50,160 --> 01:03:51,920
Speaker 4: One hundred percent? I think that.

1463
01:03:52,360 --> 01:03:55,520
Speaker 3: Like I put this together at the listening to Minister

1464
01:03:55,600 --> 01:03:58,400
Speaker 3: far Cut. There's a chart when you take two triangles right.

1465
01:03:58,440 --> 01:04:00,400
Speaker 3: If you take a regular start like the one on head,

1466
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:04,040
Speaker 3: it represents arm leg leg armhead. Then there's another point

1467
01:04:04,120 --> 01:04:06,240
Speaker 3: to the star wars pointed down like towards your growing

1468
01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:09,400
Speaker 3: area right now represents your energy is either pointed up

1469
01:04:09,480 --> 01:04:12,240
Speaker 3: here to logical thought processes. You understand me, or it

1470
01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:14,960
Speaker 3: is pointed down here to like lust. You understand me,

1471
01:04:15,080 --> 01:04:17,320
Speaker 3: and you be in controlled most of the things that

1472
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:19,680
Speaker 3: in society is going to point you down here, so

1473
01:04:19,800 --> 01:04:21,960
Speaker 3: you always thinking with this head instead of this head

1474
01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:24,320
Speaker 3: right right, And then when you're making decisions, you less

1475
01:04:24,360 --> 01:04:26,760
Speaker 3: intelligent because you got more blood going down towards here

1476
01:04:27,120 --> 01:04:30,040
Speaker 3: rather than up here. So for most men not being

1477
01:04:30,080 --> 01:04:32,120
Speaker 3: able to have control over yourself, then you can be

1478
01:04:32,200 --> 01:04:34,480
Speaker 3: easily swayed, and you can be thrown off your discipline

1479
01:04:34,520 --> 01:04:35,520
Speaker 3: at any point in time.

1480
01:04:35,960 --> 01:04:38,479
Speaker 4: You understand me. So, and then women, you know, women

1481
01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:40,640
Speaker 4: know that they want a man that is.

1482
01:04:40,760 --> 01:04:42,560
Speaker 3: More in control of themselves that they want to have

1483
01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:45,080
Speaker 3: to go for, rather than one that's already ready to go.

1484
01:04:45,600 --> 01:04:46,280
Speaker 4: You understand me.

1485
01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:48,280
Speaker 3: I think you have more power and control of your

1486
01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:50,760
Speaker 3: self period, and you can control the world. But that

1487
01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:54,200
Speaker 3: goes into just the power and self control. You understand,

1488
01:04:54,240 --> 01:04:57,240
Speaker 3: you have to ask yourself. If you ask yourself right now, damn,

1489
01:04:57,280 --> 01:04:58,840
Speaker 3: I want to stop if you smoke weed. You said

1490
01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:01,920
Speaker 3: I want to stop smoking to could you. For a

1491
01:05:01,960 --> 01:05:04,440
Speaker 3: lot of people to answer truthfully will be known. And

1492
01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:07,160
Speaker 3: if they can't, then what controls you? Right, It's the

1493
01:05:07,200 --> 01:05:09,120
Speaker 3: same thing with men, the same thing with sex. Sex

1494
01:05:09,240 --> 01:05:12,000
Speaker 3: is one of the most powerful energies on the planet Earth.

1495
01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:15,280
Speaker 3: Like we literally produce life when we have sex. That's

1496
01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:16,320
Speaker 3: an electrical energy.

1497
01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:19,560
Speaker 4: So being able to control that you now being able.

1498
01:05:19,400 --> 01:05:22,440
Speaker 3: To store that energy for creativity, for focus, for discipline,

1499
01:05:22,480 --> 01:05:23,400
Speaker 3: for powerful will.

1500
01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:26,200
Speaker 4: So a man that has the ability to control that

1501
01:05:26,400 --> 01:05:29,240
Speaker 4: energy can control himself. He can't through controlled by nothing else.

1502
01:05:29,840 --> 01:05:31,960
Speaker 2: I mean, I think that goes into you know, every

1503
01:05:32,000 --> 01:05:34,240
Speaker 2: woman says that, oh like oh pussy run the world

1504
01:05:34,360 --> 01:05:37,360
Speaker 2: and things like that, because most men are a slave

1505
01:05:37,480 --> 01:05:40,800
Speaker 2: to that, and you know, like, oh, women say this

1506
01:05:40,880 --> 01:05:41,200
Speaker 2: all the time.

1507
01:05:41,280 --> 01:05:43,360
Speaker 1: Oh I got that good, he ain't going nowhere.

1508
01:05:43,600 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 2: But I feel like some I don't want a man

1509
01:05:45,960 --> 01:05:49,120
Speaker 2: attached to me because of how my sex is or

1510
01:05:49,200 --> 01:05:52,480
Speaker 2: how I feel, you know, like it feels very surface level,

1511
01:05:52,640 --> 01:05:53,320
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

1512
01:05:53,440 --> 01:05:57,920
Speaker 1: So oh yeah, I mean if that's the only reason

1513
01:05:57,960 --> 01:06:00,640
Speaker 1: he around, then well that's.

1514
01:06:01,080 --> 01:06:03,440
Speaker 3: Because then he might he might want to compare somebody

1515
01:06:03,520 --> 01:06:05,440
Speaker 3: else to see if they got that same thing, right,

1516
01:06:05,680 --> 01:06:06,080
Speaker 3: you feel me?

1517
01:06:06,280 --> 01:06:08,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, But I'm saying like, I think that's what a

1518
01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:11,760
Speaker 2: lot of women say and do, and they feel like, Oh,

1519
01:06:12,320 --> 01:06:12,880
Speaker 2: puts it good.

1520
01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:14,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be straight always.

1521
01:06:14,320 --> 01:06:15,280
Speaker 4: That's that's that's.

1522
01:06:15,120 --> 01:06:17,240
Speaker 3: Almost like when a man puts his money in front

1523
01:06:17,240 --> 01:06:19,720
Speaker 3: of himself, right, put hers in front of that because

1524
01:06:19,760 --> 01:06:24,840
Speaker 3: she don't know her other value, you understand me, And

1525
01:06:24,920 --> 01:06:27,360
Speaker 3: then you usually you get two insecure people who come

1526
01:06:27,440 --> 01:06:28,840
Speaker 3: together and only meet for those.

1527
01:06:28,680 --> 01:06:32,920
Speaker 2: Reasons and even exchange they can be where they transactionship.

1528
01:06:33,520 --> 01:06:35,560
Speaker 1: So why do you feel like a focused man is dangerous?

1529
01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:39,000
Speaker 3: Because when you are able to take any thought that

1530
01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:41,200
Speaker 3: you have, and you have the ability to focus, you

1531
01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:43,920
Speaker 3: can bring any thought into reality, like when a man

1532
01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:46,800
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Speaker 3: the things that make him strong. That means that any

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01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:51,280
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1535
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Speaker 3: can get birth to it.

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Speaker 4: You understand me. That's dangerous because.

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Speaker 3: It's specifically for black men were powerful as hell, and

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01:06:58,400 --> 01:07:00,960
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01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:05,080
Speaker 3: which is focused for a prolonged period of time and specific.

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Speaker 4: Manner that they can pull their will out. So now

1541
01:07:06,600 --> 01:07:07,960
Speaker 4: I want to start controlling the world.

1542
01:07:08,520 --> 01:07:11,919
Speaker 3: Right, Like the Constitution was only written in like four

1543
01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:14,640
Speaker 3: months or so, and those were men coming together concentrating

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Speaker 4: And now look we all living off they loss. You

1546
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Speaker 4: understand me.

1547
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Speaker 3: So when men are able to focus, they can do

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Speaker 3: anything with their passion and their power. So the moment

1549
01:07:23,800 --> 01:07:26,520
Speaker 3: that you take, the one issue that black people have

1550
01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:31,560
Speaker 3: is focused. If we can just focus, we win that moment.

1551
01:07:31,760 --> 01:07:35,120
Speaker 3: Like if today all black people just got focused, tomorrow

1552
01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:39,360
Speaker 3: this earth is ours. Why because courtiers ring off of

1553
01:07:39,440 --> 01:07:43,160
Speaker 3: us understand me, We influence everything in the world, every

1554
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1555
01:07:46,240 --> 01:07:49,480
Speaker 3: we was able to collectively focus our minds together, then

1556
01:07:49,520 --> 01:07:52,200
Speaker 3: we have an infinite amount of power. So the biggest

1557
01:07:52,240 --> 01:07:54,360
Speaker 3: issue that we have is that the devil is keeping

1558
01:07:54,440 --> 01:07:58,040
Speaker 3: us distracted. The mind that God is focused, you understand me.

1559
01:07:58,160 --> 01:08:00,600
Speaker 3: He takes his purpose and he can produce that into reality.

1560
01:08:00,680 --> 01:08:03,120
Speaker 3: Ain't nobody can stop him. You're trying to sway me

1561
01:08:03,160 --> 01:08:04,760
Speaker 3: over here. I ain't looking over there. I don't want

1562
01:08:04,800 --> 01:08:06,320
Speaker 3: nothing to do with that. That was trying to temp

1563
01:08:06,400 --> 01:08:08,400
Speaker 3: you over here, like, no, fall off your square. I

1564
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Speaker 3: ain't got nothing to do with that. I'm ana build

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01:08:10,320 --> 01:08:12,080
Speaker 3: on what I'm doing and I'm gonna keep moving forward.

1566
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Speaker 3: Right when you find a man with that focus, and

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Speaker 3: then every woman in the world go love him because

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Speaker 3: she can see what he sees. She see that purpose,

1569
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Speaker 3: she see that vision, she see that power that he got. Like, damn,

1570
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Speaker 3: that's a man of purpose. He ain't even looking at me.

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Speaker 3: Everybody else looking at him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I like me, and they be falling victim today's

1573
01:08:29,000 --> 01:08:31,240
Speaker 1: sexual urgers, Like I don't want nobody people to be

1574
01:08:31,360 --> 01:08:34,920
Speaker 1: fucking oh my god. That the worst with everybody. And

1575
01:08:34,960 --> 01:08:36,720
Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, Like in my past, when I

1576
01:08:36,840 --> 01:08:39,439
Speaker 1: was younger, I have daily guys like this. But now

1577
01:08:39,520 --> 01:08:41,200
Speaker 1: that I'm older and I'm more mature, and then on

1578
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Speaker 1: top of that, I just feel like we have way

1579
01:08:43,240 --> 01:08:46,280
Speaker 1: more to lose these Absolutely, I can't afford to be

1580
01:08:46,600 --> 01:08:48,360
Speaker 1: out here mixing with those type of media.

1581
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Speaker 2: I mean, nobody wants somebody that's easily accessible. I don't

1582
01:08:50,720 --> 01:08:52,800
Speaker 2: think that everybody wants somebody who's still.

1583
01:08:52,880 --> 01:08:55,719
Speaker 1: I don't feel like everybody, well me, let me speak

1584
01:08:55,720 --> 01:08:56,960
Speaker 1: from the like, I don't.

1585
01:08:56,800 --> 01:09:00,400
Speaker 2: Want somebody who is like easily accessible, Like I don't

1586
01:09:00,439 --> 01:09:02,680
Speaker 2: want somebody who feel like, oh well if I if

1587
01:09:02,720 --> 01:09:04,439
Speaker 2: I see him, I'm gonna give him, you know, like

1588
01:09:04,760 --> 01:09:07,120
Speaker 2: sometimes women do see that, and sometimes women, I.

1589
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Speaker 1: Mean, because it's a lot of men that you can

1590
01:09:09,360 --> 01:09:10,679
Speaker 1: see them and be like, I'm gonna get.

1591
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Speaker 2: Him right, And I don't care who here because I

1592
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Speaker 2: know he gonna I know he gonna.

1593
01:09:14,040 --> 01:09:18,200
Speaker 1: Be gonna go right, because they do be on go, Yeah,

1594
01:09:18,800 --> 01:09:21,519
Speaker 1: they be on go. Okay, So now we're gonna get

1595
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Speaker 1: into the bob a bad a not bad. Why that

1596
01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:30,880
Speaker 1: was a hot pitch? I like it.

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Speaker 2: It was it was given a remixy Okay. So my

1598
01:09:34,960 --> 01:09:36,920
Speaker 2: bop other week that I've been jamming this week is

1599
01:09:37,000 --> 01:09:39,479
Speaker 2: by Aaron Ray. A lot of y'all sent this to

1600
01:09:39,640 --> 01:09:41,679
Speaker 2: me when I this specific song.

1601
01:09:41,760 --> 01:09:43,960
Speaker 1: But this artist, he's an R and B artist.

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01:09:44,200 --> 01:09:46,560
Speaker 2: I think I actually had him as my bop of

1603
01:09:46,600 --> 01:09:48,080
Speaker 2: the week a while back, but I didn't listen to

1604
01:09:48,200 --> 01:09:52,040
Speaker 2: his whole project. But he has a song featuring Blast

1605
01:09:52,120 --> 01:09:54,880
Speaker 2: I think that's how you say his name, and it's

1606
01:09:55,080 --> 01:09:55,679
Speaker 2: really dope.

1607
01:09:55,840 --> 01:09:57,080
Speaker 1: He is a vibe.

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01:09:57,640 --> 01:10:02,800
Speaker 2: It's called bad Idea and it's basically talking about him

1609
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Speaker 2: dealing with a girl and it's just a bad idea,

1610
01:10:04,880 --> 01:10:07,400
Speaker 2: but he just he caught up in it. So yeah,

1611
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Speaker 2: Aaron Ray and it's spelled A R I n Right

1612
01:10:10,560 --> 01:10:11,960
Speaker 2: featuring blast Bad Idea.

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01:10:12,600 --> 01:10:14,720
Speaker 1: Love it, good song. I've been jamming it.

1614
01:10:15,240 --> 01:10:17,040
Speaker 4: H you got over here.

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01:10:18,880 --> 01:10:22,280
Speaker 1: My song is min joe By. First off, this is

1616
01:10:22,400 --> 01:10:26,320
Speaker 1: Mayo period Lakia did that shout out to Laquilla the

1617
01:10:26,400 --> 01:10:32,559
Speaker 1: birth line. It's Lakia featuring Lotto. Does she go about?

1618
01:10:33,160 --> 01:10:34,519
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I like that. That's a good

1619
01:10:34,600 --> 01:10:38,479
Speaker 1: tag beat Lotto. Okay, well, yeah, this is the song

1620
01:10:38,560 --> 01:10:40,439
Speaker 1: that's about for the week. I like this song. I

1621
01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:42,519
Speaker 1: think it's cute. I think it's catchy. I think you

1622
01:10:42,640 --> 01:10:44,840
Speaker 1: know it's a summer answer. It definitely is a sum

1623
01:10:45,360 --> 01:10:47,439
Speaker 1: It's a great song. So that's about what.

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Speaker 4: Legend bl Okay, why you understand me? That's big guy

1625
01:10:53,840 --> 01:10:55,679
Speaker 4: energy right there. You gotta listen to it. You gotta

1626
01:10:55,720 --> 01:10:58,280
Speaker 4: tap in put you. You remind me of like the

1627
01:10:58,479 --> 01:10:59,400
Speaker 4: spiritual future.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what's his name again?

1629
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Speaker 2: You know?

1630
01:11:03,760 --> 01:11:04,640
Speaker 4: I know, so imagine that.

1631
01:11:06,080 --> 01:11:14,360
Speaker 1: Okay, listen to that. And what's the song.

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01:11:14,240 --> 01:11:15,639
Speaker 4: Called that one called legend?

1633
01:11:16,080 --> 01:11:20,880
Speaker 1: Legends? We don't check that out. So what other stuff

1634
01:11:20,920 --> 01:11:21,640
Speaker 1: you usually listen to?

1635
01:11:21,760 --> 01:11:21,800
Speaker 4: Like?

1636
01:11:22,120 --> 01:11:25,880
Speaker 1: If I had to artists, you have three favorite artists.

1637
01:11:25,560 --> 01:11:26,679
Speaker 4: Three favorite artists?

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Speaker 1: Playlist?

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01:11:29,000 --> 01:11:32,560
Speaker 4: What cool? What I've been listening to? Because I'm a

1640
01:11:32,600 --> 01:11:36,280
Speaker 4: lot of human makes music out that. I like that

1641
01:11:36,400 --> 01:11:38,600
Speaker 4: last Push a T album Okay.

1642
01:11:40,080 --> 01:11:40,120
Speaker 3: Was?

1643
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Speaker 4: I feel like every like form.

1644
01:11:41,720 --> 01:11:43,800
Speaker 3: What he been trying to do is even talking about

1645
01:11:43,840 --> 01:11:46,519
Speaker 3: coke and dope for years. I think he finally actually

1646
01:11:46,640 --> 01:11:49,000
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1647
01:11:49,040 --> 01:11:49,600
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1648
01:11:51,160 --> 01:11:52,439
Speaker 4: I think the kench Lamar album.

1649
01:11:52,800 --> 01:11:55,280
Speaker 3: I can't consistently listen to it, but I think he

1650
01:11:55,400 --> 01:11:57,040
Speaker 3: has some cool boppers on there as well.

1651
01:11:57,080 --> 01:11:59,000
Speaker 4: I like Savior and a couple other ones on that.

1652
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Speaker 1: I say, I take you for Kendrick Lamar. I like

1653
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Speaker 1: kend Last week was Ken Lamar?

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Speaker 3: I like Kendrick. I like how Cold being on a

1655
01:12:08,760 --> 01:12:10,320
Speaker 3: He been killing it lately. I like the song with

1656
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Speaker 1: Oh was it not London?

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Speaker 2: His verse was crazy. Jake Cole is actually part of

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Speaker 3: I mean men like when women hit on them. It

1749
01:16:23,439 --> 01:16:25,040
Speaker 3: doesn't mean that that's gonna be the one that they

1750
01:16:25,120 --> 01:16:28,960
Speaker 3: won't you feel me? I think everybody wants to be wanted,

1751
01:16:29,320 --> 01:16:32,760
Speaker 3: understand me. I think that traditionally, you know, for a

1752
01:16:32,840 --> 01:16:36,080
Speaker 3: masculine energy. I think though, when you look at Instagram,

1753
01:16:36,200 --> 01:16:38,680
Speaker 3: Instagram don't feel like making the first move because this

1754
01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:41,240
Speaker 3: is such a social network that people can find so

1755
01:16:41,320 --> 01:16:43,719
Speaker 3: many different ways to like come in and then correct

1756
01:16:43,760 --> 01:16:47,160
Speaker 3: conversation unless somebody is being just direct, like yo, I

1757
01:16:47,240 --> 01:16:49,560
Speaker 3: want you understand me? Then I think that there's no

1758
01:16:49,720 --> 01:16:51,240
Speaker 3: tact in that, and then that could be a draw

1759
01:16:51,280 --> 01:16:53,160
Speaker 3: because you believe that, Yo, she's probably doing.

1760
01:16:53,040 --> 01:16:57,680
Speaker 1: This everybody that's turn off. Yes, I don't know. I

1761
01:16:57,840 --> 01:17:00,240
Speaker 1: just I like to talk to guys that I know

1762
01:17:00,360 --> 01:17:01,800
Speaker 1: for sure want to fuck with me.

1763
01:17:02,080 --> 01:17:02,280
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1764
01:17:02,680 --> 01:17:05,200
Speaker 1: So I think that's why I don't never slide in

1765
01:17:05,240 --> 01:17:08,000
Speaker 1: people them trying to holler them first, because I want

1766
01:17:08,080 --> 01:17:09,800
Speaker 1: to know that you're interested. I guess I want to

1767
01:17:09,840 --> 01:17:11,839
Speaker 1: know that you're interested in me more than I'm interested

1768
01:17:11,840 --> 01:17:13,760
Speaker 1: in you to a I mean, I think women like

1769
01:17:13,800 --> 01:17:15,679
Speaker 1: to be, like I said, we like to be chased,

1770
01:17:15,920 --> 01:17:20,000
Speaker 1: and men like to chase exactly. And I leave it

1771
01:17:20,080 --> 01:17:22,040
Speaker 1: at that. If you want me, you're gonna you're gonna.

1772
01:17:21,880 --> 01:17:23,080
Speaker 3: Come and ask you all the question before y'all go

1773
01:17:23,080 --> 01:17:24,800
Speaker 3: to the next question. Do y'all believe that women are

1774
01:17:24,800 --> 01:17:25,679
Speaker 3: supposed to propose?

1775
01:17:26,280 --> 01:17:29,960
Speaker 1: You don't know, bread grass is what I would count saying.

1776
01:17:30,120 --> 01:17:34,040
Speaker 1: Or no, absolutely not.

1777
01:17:34,439 --> 01:17:36,400
Speaker 4: Okay, we understand you know how hard.

1778
01:17:36,240 --> 01:17:40,200
Speaker 1: They probably will be. So yeah, I'm not I'm not

1779
01:17:40,320 --> 01:17:42,800
Speaker 1: doing proposed to a man. I feel like if a

1780
01:17:42,880 --> 01:17:44,519
Speaker 1: man wants to marry you, he's gonna ask you to

1781
01:17:44,560 --> 01:17:46,360
Speaker 1: marry him. If he had it don't matter how many

1782
01:17:46,400 --> 01:17:48,639
Speaker 1: years I've been together. If y'all been together for fifteen

1783
01:17:48,760 --> 01:17:50,400
Speaker 1: years and you were impatient, you like, I want us

1784
01:17:50,439 --> 01:17:52,080
Speaker 1: to get married. And he haven't proposed this because you're

1785
01:17:52,120 --> 01:17:57,360
Speaker 1: not the one. That's I'm never asked. Because you're not

1786
01:17:57,479 --> 01:18:01,800
Speaker 1: the one, You're probably a placeholder. Facts, big facts. We're

1787
01:18:01,840 --> 01:18:07,040
Speaker 1: gonna talk about that next episode. Okay, question too, Hey, ladies.

1788
01:18:07,080 --> 01:18:09,600
Speaker 2: So I'm accustomed to dating badb's, but I'm tired of

1789
01:18:09,680 --> 01:18:12,679
Speaker 2: these niggas and I'm ready to settle down. I'm dating

1790
01:18:12,720 --> 01:18:14,640
Speaker 2: a BADB and he has got me big gifts in

1791
01:18:14,720 --> 01:18:15,759
Speaker 2: a year we've been dating.

1792
01:18:16,160 --> 01:18:18,920
Speaker 1: Watch jewelry and money. But I'm used to being.

1793
01:18:18,800 --> 01:18:22,439
Speaker 2: Spoiled and going on lavish vacations. My love language is

1794
01:18:22,600 --> 01:18:25,920
Speaker 2: gift giving. I think I prefer small gifts, bags and

1795
01:18:26,000 --> 01:18:30,160
Speaker 2: shoes every month versus huge gifts every six months. He

1796
01:18:30,360 --> 01:18:32,759
Speaker 2: is just not thoughtful, but when he does get me something,

1797
01:18:32,840 --> 01:18:35,680
Speaker 2: he does it big. Can y'all imagine fucking and being

1798
01:18:35,800 --> 01:18:38,800
Speaker 2: loyal and not receiving shit for months and he is

1799
01:18:38,880 --> 01:18:42,360
Speaker 2: boring a capricorn, but he is fine and comes off

1800
01:18:42,439 --> 01:18:43,599
Speaker 2: extremely loyal.

1801
01:18:43,960 --> 01:18:46,400
Speaker 1: It's hard to find a fine and loyal nigga with money.

1802
01:18:46,680 --> 01:18:48,920
Speaker 2: So am I tripping or is this just a mature

1803
01:18:48,960 --> 01:18:52,120
Speaker 2: adult relationship? Or should I move on and find a fun,

1804
01:18:52,360 --> 01:18:53,240
Speaker 2: thoughtful guy.

1805
01:18:53,960 --> 01:18:55,560
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say you need to move on so he

1806
01:18:55,600 --> 01:18:59,240
Speaker 3: can give somebody that appreciates cool to you in the way.

1807
01:18:59,479 --> 01:19:05,680
Speaker 3: Oh on social work, if my girl was writing that,

1808
01:19:06,200 --> 01:19:07,920
Speaker 3: I would want her to find somebody else so I

1809
01:19:07,960 --> 01:19:08,960
Speaker 3: could find somebody else.

1810
01:19:09,320 --> 01:19:09,960
Speaker 2: I agree.

1811
01:19:10,000 --> 01:19:12,160
Speaker 1: I feel like maybe y'all aren't for each other. I'm

1812
01:19:12,200 --> 01:19:14,360
Speaker 1: not aligning. Yeah, y'all are not aligning.

1813
01:19:14,520 --> 01:19:17,120
Speaker 3: She's trying to find reason it's about, and gifts can't

1814
01:19:17,280 --> 01:19:19,240
Speaker 3: never not be the reason to keep y'all together. So

1815
01:19:19,320 --> 01:19:21,880
Speaker 3: eventually y'all will fall out anyway, So you might as

1816
01:19:21,920 --> 01:19:24,680
Speaker 3: well predict the future, you feel me and go and

1817
01:19:24,800 --> 01:19:25,639
Speaker 3: find somebody else.

1818
01:19:25,920 --> 01:19:28,400
Speaker 1: But I mean, she literally said, this is what's confusing me.

1819
01:19:28,560 --> 01:19:33,240
Speaker 1: Like he's bought me big gifts, watch, jewelry and money.

1820
01:19:33,360 --> 01:19:36,120
Speaker 1: But I'm used to being spoiled and going on lavish vacation.

1821
01:19:36,400 --> 01:19:39,080
Speaker 1: So I just feel like, if he doing all of

1822
01:19:39,160 --> 01:19:41,800
Speaker 1: this stuff, obviously he's not like a broke nigga.

1823
01:19:43,520 --> 01:19:45,400
Speaker 2: Said, he's doing it every six months, so he's not

1824
01:19:45,479 --> 01:19:47,120
Speaker 2: doing it as often as she's.

1825
01:19:47,080 --> 01:19:50,200
Speaker 1: Like, I mean, but a vacation. She needs the reason

1826
01:19:50,240 --> 01:19:51,880
Speaker 1: why you want to break up with somebody because he's

1827
01:19:51,920 --> 01:19:54,880
Speaker 1: not taking you on vacations more than everything money. This

1828
01:19:55,040 --> 01:19:56,880
Speaker 1: is what I like to say. I don't like to

1829
01:19:57,360 --> 01:20:00,400
Speaker 1: condemn people for how they're thinking. Not everybody. I'm not

1830
01:20:00,479 --> 01:20:03,280
Speaker 1: condemning her, but I'm just saying, like that just sounds

1831
01:20:03,360 --> 01:20:04,800
Speaker 1: it's very it's very sad.

1832
01:20:04,840 --> 01:20:07,400
Speaker 3: Communication is key, So I don't know if she's communicating

1833
01:20:07,439 --> 01:20:09,479
Speaker 3: that with him, you understand me. But if she's not,

1834
01:20:09,640 --> 01:20:11,600
Speaker 3: then that's probably a big issue as well, because she

1835
01:20:11,680 --> 01:20:14,479
Speaker 3: can't just be fostering these feelings right and not you know,

1836
01:20:14,680 --> 01:20:16,559
Speaker 3: putting out hints like yo, I want to go somewhere.

1837
01:20:16,680 --> 01:20:18,800
Speaker 3: So if the brother refusing to take you somewhere, or

1838
01:20:18,840 --> 01:20:21,240
Speaker 3: you're just not communicating, wait on the next thing.

1839
01:20:21,280 --> 01:20:23,479
Speaker 2: I mean, she said her love language is gift giving,

1840
01:20:23,680 --> 01:20:26,280
Speaker 2: So I feel like everybody deserves to be loved in

1841
01:20:26,360 --> 01:20:27,200
Speaker 2: their love language.

1842
01:20:27,200 --> 01:20:29,439
Speaker 1: So if that's your love language and he's not giving

1843
01:20:29,479 --> 01:20:31,519
Speaker 1: it to you how you want it, y'all need to

1844
01:20:31,560 --> 01:20:33,800
Speaker 1: go y'all separate. Only Yeah, I only said what I

1845
01:20:33,840 --> 01:20:35,640
Speaker 1: said because she said in my tripping or is this

1846
01:20:35,880 --> 01:20:38,320
Speaker 1: just a mature adult relationship. I feel like it's just

1847
01:20:38,400 --> 01:20:40,960
Speaker 1: a mature adult relationship. She only said they've been dating

1848
01:20:41,000 --> 01:20:41,400
Speaker 1: for a year.

1849
01:20:41,479 --> 01:20:45,759
Speaker 8: He waughts you to watch jor Let too much already,

1850
01:20:52,840 --> 01:20:56,000
Speaker 8: it took you on two vacations kind of watch and.

1851
01:20:57,640 --> 01:21:00,559
Speaker 1: Too good. But I feel like you're tripping. I feel

1852
01:21:00,600 --> 01:21:01,639
Speaker 1: like that's a lot though.

1853
01:21:01,760 --> 01:21:05,439
Speaker 3: If you're starting off just trigging and that's too much.

1854
01:21:05,680 --> 01:21:07,479
Speaker 4: Right. I feel like the time let you know that

1855
01:21:07,520 --> 01:21:08,639
Speaker 4: you're with the right person, then.

1856
01:21:08,600 --> 01:21:10,040
Speaker 3: It gets to a point where you don't mind giving

1857
01:21:10,080 --> 01:21:12,280
Speaker 3: them whatever because you know you with the right one.

1858
01:21:12,800 --> 01:21:14,479
Speaker 3: Understand me, Like, I don't think you need to spend

1859
01:21:14,560 --> 01:21:16,559
Speaker 3: all your money trying to figure out this the right person.

1860
01:21:16,840 --> 01:21:21,040
Speaker 4: I agree, Yeah, But like I said, recession, so fellas

1861
01:21:21,840 --> 01:21:22,439
Speaker 4: say your money.

1862
01:21:22,960 --> 01:21:25,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, say that you know we I mean, we still

1863
01:21:25,960 --> 01:21:27,400
Speaker 2: want our things and we still want to have a

1864
01:21:27,439 --> 01:21:29,599
Speaker 2: good time, but we're gonna have to go a little easy,

1865
01:21:29,960 --> 01:21:35,599
Speaker 2: like get out here now, mag just file off right now?

1866
01:21:36,080 --> 01:21:37,360
Speaker 4: Have you got gas in the quarter?

1867
01:21:37,560 --> 01:21:42,080
Speaker 1: I here, y'all, Okay, go ahead. Question three, drah dre

1868
01:21:42,439 --> 01:21:44,519
Speaker 1: how Lex and Dreia. My question is do you prefer

1869
01:21:44,680 --> 01:21:47,200
Speaker 1: saying with your right within your rights today or have

1870
01:21:47,320 --> 01:21:49,960
Speaker 1: you considered dating outside of it. If you have dated

1871
01:21:50,000 --> 01:21:52,920
Speaker 1: another race, how was your experience. My problem is I

1872
01:21:53,040 --> 01:21:55,720
Speaker 1: love Black men and don't want to disrespect my ancestors,

1873
01:21:56,040 --> 01:21:58,280
Speaker 1: but it's getting hard out here for us black women

1874
01:21:58,400 --> 01:22:01,519
Speaker 1: with the disrespect every Everybody says they are not the same,

1875
01:22:01,600 --> 01:22:04,559
Speaker 1: but it seems nowadays everybody is just settling and getting

1876
01:22:04,680 --> 01:22:08,360
Speaker 1: cheated on. I want to monogamy relationships and not like

1877
01:22:08,479 --> 01:22:10,560
Speaker 1: the old school either, but one way we do what

1878
01:22:10,680 --> 01:22:13,479
Speaker 1: works for us is that hard to find. I'm also

1879
01:22:13,600 --> 01:22:16,040
Speaker 1: hesitating because I'm raising a black son, so I feel

1880
01:22:16,080 --> 01:22:18,439
Speaker 1: like another race wouldn't be able to understand him.

1881
01:22:20,439 --> 01:22:20,759
Speaker 4: Girl.

1882
01:22:21,040 --> 01:22:23,920
Speaker 1: So I've talked about these before on the show Outside

1883
01:22:23,960 --> 01:22:25,600
Speaker 1: of my race the one time, and I would not

1884
01:22:25,680 --> 01:22:26,479
Speaker 1: recommend very.

1885
01:22:26,439 --> 01:22:26,680
Speaker 2: Yet O.

1886
01:22:28,320 --> 01:22:28,599
Speaker 1: Very yet.

1887
01:22:31,560 --> 01:22:35,479
Speaker 2: We all know I have dibbled and dabbled in other races,

1888
01:22:35,960 --> 01:22:40,200
Speaker 2: and honestly I don't. I used to be all for

1889
01:22:40,320 --> 01:22:42,400
Speaker 2: it because I always feel like, you know, love is love,

1890
01:22:42,439 --> 01:22:44,519
Speaker 2: and I don't like to judge people. But for me, personally,

1891
01:22:45,040 --> 01:22:49,120
Speaker 2: there's nothing like black love. It's just it's different. It's unmatched.

1892
01:22:49,200 --> 01:22:52,320
Speaker 1: It's like, especially that you're raising a black son.

1893
01:22:53,000 --> 01:22:55,720
Speaker 2: Nobody can tell him how to navigate this world like

1894
01:22:55,840 --> 01:22:57,880
Speaker 2: a black man, and I do get that.

1895
01:22:58,000 --> 01:23:00,519
Speaker 1: It is hard because I've had I'm not gonna lie.

1896
01:23:00,720 --> 01:23:03,560
Speaker 2: I've had the same feelings in the past of feeling like,

1897
01:23:03,640 --> 01:23:05,160
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, I'm limiting.

1898
01:23:04,880 --> 01:23:06,519
Speaker 1: Myself, but I can't help it.

1899
01:23:06,600 --> 01:23:07,280
Speaker 2: I like what I like.

1900
01:23:07,400 --> 01:23:09,200
Speaker 1: I love black men. I'm not gonna give up. I

1901
01:23:09,240 --> 01:23:11,240
Speaker 1: feel like somebody is out there for me.

1902
01:23:11,360 --> 01:23:13,240
Speaker 2: So I feel like you just have to hold on

1903
01:23:13,360 --> 01:23:16,040
Speaker 2: because I feel like you really do want a black man.

1904
01:23:16,120 --> 01:23:17,760
Speaker 2: That's why you wrote this letter, and that's why you

1905
01:23:17,880 --> 01:23:18,800
Speaker 2: said what you said.

1906
01:23:19,280 --> 01:23:20,719
Speaker 1: So if you go date.

1907
01:23:20,640 --> 01:23:22,880
Speaker 2: Outside your race, you kind of low key selling because

1908
01:23:22,880 --> 01:23:25,120
Speaker 2: that's not really what you want. And I like you

1909
01:23:25,280 --> 01:23:29,120
Speaker 2: said before too, like because you had experienced dating people

1910
01:23:29,200 --> 01:23:30,040
Speaker 2: outside of your race.

1911
01:23:30,120 --> 01:23:35,400
Speaker 1: He was like, they be ain't sip too. Let me

1912
01:23:35,439 --> 01:23:36,120
Speaker 1: tell you I say that.

1913
01:23:36,240 --> 01:23:38,280
Speaker 2: I mean the time I got cheated on, it was

1914
01:23:38,320 --> 01:23:39,519
Speaker 2: from somebody from another race.

1915
01:23:39,560 --> 01:23:41,720
Speaker 1: The first time I seen somebody slash on tires, it

1916
01:23:41,840 --> 01:23:43,400
Speaker 1: was one of my white home girls. Like, it's not

1917
01:23:43,560 --> 01:23:47,040
Speaker 1: I don't know why people do that. Man, he left

1918
01:23:47,080 --> 01:23:53,360
Speaker 1: me in. He take for my own p exactly.

1919
01:23:56,080 --> 01:23:59,120
Speaker 2: So No, I definitely feel like you want what you

1920
01:23:59,200 --> 01:24:01,000
Speaker 2: want your check to to what you're attracted to. I

1921
01:24:01,040 --> 01:24:02,600
Speaker 2: don't like to knock other people, but I know for

1922
01:24:02,720 --> 01:24:06,840
Speaker 2: me personally, experiencing black love and being with the black man,

1923
01:24:06,920 --> 01:24:08,479
Speaker 2: there's nothing like.

1924
01:24:08,560 --> 01:24:11,240
Speaker 1: That in the world. So I feel like, if you

1925
01:24:11,439 --> 01:24:14,280
Speaker 1: want to try that, I'm not knocking you. Go ahead.

1926
01:24:14,320 --> 01:24:15,960
Speaker 2: But it sounds like you really want a black man,

1927
01:24:16,040 --> 01:24:18,240
Speaker 2: So don't settle for something else just because you feel

1928
01:24:18,320 --> 01:24:19,559
Speaker 2: like you're missing out.

1929
01:24:19,840 --> 01:24:21,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, and y'all just gotta stop feeling like.

1930
01:24:21,920 --> 01:24:22,320
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1931
01:24:22,400 --> 01:24:23,760
Speaker 1: I just feel like because I grew up in a

1932
01:24:23,800 --> 01:24:26,920
Speaker 1: two parent household and about my parents were together in

1933
01:24:27,000 --> 01:24:29,760
Speaker 1: my whole life. They had a very loving relationship. I

1934
01:24:29,920 --> 01:24:33,280
Speaker 1: truly believe that it is like some good black men

1935
01:24:33,400 --> 01:24:37,080
Speaker 1: out there. It's probably not as me. It's phone up

1936
01:24:37,120 --> 01:24:37,720
Speaker 1: and we got the.

1937
01:24:40,880 --> 01:24:44,040
Speaker 4: Most most Black women married black men. They understand me

1938
01:24:45,200 --> 01:24:45,960
Speaker 4: for the most part.

1939
01:24:46,080 --> 01:24:49,760
Speaker 3: Like that's when we look at successful couples within our

1940
01:24:49,880 --> 01:24:52,200
Speaker 3: reality is black men and black women. I think that

1941
01:24:52,680 --> 01:24:55,000
Speaker 3: the new found attitude is in curture. Don't allow us

1942
01:24:55,080 --> 01:24:57,720
Speaker 3: to appreciate each other. You understand me anymore. So I

1943
01:24:57,800 --> 01:24:59,519
Speaker 3: think a lot of time you got to check yourself.

1944
01:25:00,000 --> 01:25:02,120
Speaker 3: You understand me when you're going out looking for somebody

1945
01:25:02,200 --> 01:25:05,320
Speaker 3: and then number two, black men are You're not settling

1946
01:25:05,400 --> 01:25:07,160
Speaker 3: ever when you want a black man, we are the

1947
01:25:07,240 --> 01:25:10,600
Speaker 3: most wanted desired men on the planet Earth, you feel me.

1948
01:25:10,720 --> 01:25:12,880
Speaker 4: So that's the max you can go to. There's like

1949
01:25:13,000 --> 01:25:15,240
Speaker 4: just the selling. You feel me like, it's nothing nowhere

1950
01:25:15,240 --> 01:25:16,040
Speaker 4: else to go after this.

1951
01:25:16,720 --> 01:25:19,320
Speaker 3: You feel me like unless you're getting a ticket on

1952
01:25:19,400 --> 01:25:21,400
Speaker 3: Elon Mus to Mars or something. And there's some brothers

1953
01:25:21,439 --> 01:25:24,000
Speaker 3: over there, but it's still don't guarantee that they're gonna

1954
01:25:24,000 --> 01:25:26,000
Speaker 3: be better than what's on Earth, you feel me. So

1955
01:25:26,560 --> 01:25:28,759
Speaker 3: you definitely got to be appreciative. And if you're raising

1956
01:25:28,800 --> 01:25:30,479
Speaker 3: the black Sun, the best thing for him is to

1957
01:25:30,600 --> 01:25:33,400
Speaker 3: have a black man as an example. You understand me,

1958
01:25:33,479 --> 01:25:35,880
Speaker 3: So you already know what to do. Continue to choose.

1959
01:25:35,920 --> 01:25:38,479
Speaker 3: The King is a mounda, I know that's right now.

1960
01:25:39,080 --> 01:25:47,080
Speaker 1: King is the Moonda. Well, y'all know, grow up. Okay,

1961
01:25:47,160 --> 01:25:49,439
Speaker 1: so make sure y'all check us out. Y'all know we

1962
01:25:49,600 --> 01:25:51,519
Speaker 1: on tour right now, So get y'all tickets in the

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Speaker 1: mines dot com.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So wait, before we wrap this up, I want

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Speaker 2: to read one of those cars real quick.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I want one of those cars. So you said,

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Speaker 1: what do these cars.

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Speaker 4: Do those, They allow you to have a deeper experience

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Speaker 4: with the one you love.

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Speaker 3: Okay, and really you can have it with a non

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Speaker 3: monogamous partner as well.

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Speaker 4: You feel me.

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Speaker 1: I know that's smart. You believe in it. What multiple families.

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Speaker 3: I said, non monogamous, and that you're not having sex

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Speaker 3: with them, not polygamy. Okay, No, I believe in one family.

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Speaker 1: Okay. Take essential oil, run it under your nose and

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Speaker 1: think about what memory comes to mind. If with a partner,

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Speaker 1: both participate.

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Speaker 4: So you're gonna need some essential oil. You're gonna need

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Speaker 4: some sage.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna need a thing, a couple of water and

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Speaker 3: the candle. Okay, but it's mostly gonna be things that

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Speaker 3: you've never done with a person that you will.

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Speaker 1: Okay, take a couple of water, speak life into it,

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Speaker 1: then drink the water. If with a partner, give the

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Speaker 1: water to your partner to drink. I like that too.

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Speaker 2: This is very intimate, Like it's gotta be with somebody

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Speaker 2: like you're really really comfortable.

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Speaker 4: Yes, really like create a strong but I ain't gonna

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Speaker 4: forget none of these others.

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Speaker 1: I know that's right. I even give me some do

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Speaker 1: one yoga pose stretch for five minutes while breathing in

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Speaker 1: and out slowly. I'm not that's right, I'm gonna do

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Speaker 1: the Holland Dog even know if that's we see where

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Speaker 1: this is going.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So let everybody know where they can find you

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Speaker 2: at what you got going.

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Speaker 1: On and all that good stuff.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so you can find me on ig YouTube or

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Speaker 3: under nineteen keys. I currently have a show that's trending.

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Speaker 3: It's called High Level Conversations where we really definitely have

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Speaker 3: very high level conversations. We talk about you know, ancient wisdom, spirituality, masculinity, unity,

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Speaker 3: high level intelligence, economics, business, three technology, like we really

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Speaker 3: go deep into all different layers of conversation because I

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Speaker 3: feel like we don't have enough high level conversations in

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Speaker 3: our culture. So I want to make sure we have

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Speaker 3: a place where we can vibrate at the highest level

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Speaker 3: you can get your questions answered.

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Speaker 4: And then beyond that, I have BWO.

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Speaker 3: It's called Block World Order, where we teach people we

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Speaker 3: have three skills so they can create businesses and jobs

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Speaker 3: of the future. Understand me, and then we also teach

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Speaker 3: them the infinite mindset, where we teach you how to

2014
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Speaker 3: optimize yourself. You understand how to redesign yourself, how to

2015
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Speaker 3: understand who you are, what are your strength, your weaknesses,

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Speaker 3: you feel me so you can become a more purposeful,

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Speaker 3: focused human being. And then at the end of the

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Speaker 3: day you can go get you some Crowns books. I

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Speaker 3: got products, products and products.

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Speaker 4: You understand me. I'm an entrepreneur. So come to the page.

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Speaker 3: If you like what we talk about in who we are,

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Speaker 3: what we believe in, and you believe in yourself, then

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Speaker 3: tap it.

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Speaker 4: Into that guy energy.

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Speaker 1: And what's your website.

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Speaker 3: It's called Crowns with a Z nineteen dot com. The

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Speaker 3: other one is Goldwater g O L d ewater dot com.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well that charl my third win a little bit.

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna close the song out with a song

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Speaker 2: that you pick out, because this is like, how are

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Speaker 2: you supposed to do in the club? I want dance tonight,

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Speaker 2: I want a toes tonight, und tonight, wanna get freaky tonight?

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Speaker 2: I want a dance tonight, I want a toe tonight,

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Speaker 2: staring my money tonight. Won't get freaky tonight? Sing a

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Speaker 2: draf First thing we need to Yeah, it's my brandy,

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Speaker 2: It's for you.

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Speaker 1: Make sure that you look good. Make sure I smell good.

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Speaker 1: Y'all's too new. I know that. I know that it

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Speaker 1: looks ty, laugh that it's not.

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Speaker 6: He'll come there, girl named Chinye, and if she wants

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Speaker 6: to go yah son, it's gonna be her plus show.

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Speaker 6: Be insting on the floor, both tripping, I don't know,

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Speaker 6: money flying everywhere, y'all, champagne.

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Speaker 1: We won't go there, bottle popping in the they'll be screaming.

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Speaker 1: I don't care. Let me say this. Your vocals have

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Speaker 1: gotten amazing.

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Speaker 4: I know like he was a little shaking up.

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Speaker 1: It was shaking. The Houston is shaking right now. My girl.

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Speaker 1: That was the first thing so much she go there everything.

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Speaker 1: I didn't mean it like that. Y'all know that's my

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Speaker 1: favorite singer. Shout out to my girl.

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Speaker 2: Thank not so much for tuning in nineteen keys and

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Speaker 2: up billing.

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Speaker 1: We'll see y'all next week.

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Speaker 3: Bye, y'all,