1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with Ryan Seacrest. 2 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 1: Hey Tony, good morning. How are you. Good morning, I'm 3 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: doing great. How are you doing. I'm doing well well. 4 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: I actually I injured my ankle. I'll tell you about 5 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:20,079 Speaker 1: that in a second. Good morning, Patty, Good to see 6 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 1: you as well. Yeah. So you know when you'd say 7 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 1: to yourself, I'm gonna I'm gonna jam a quick workout 8 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 1: like a quick cardio worker. I'm an jam thirty thirty 9 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 1: minutes on the treadmill fast. So I went to the gym. 10 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 1: I get on the treadmill and I'm cruising one point 11 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 1: o incline six point two. Then I go two point 12 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: o incline six point six. Then I say film, pretty good, film, 13 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 1: pretty athletic. Gonna go, gonna go three point oh inclined 14 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:53,200 Speaker 1: seven point oh speed. As I did, my phone pops off, 15 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 1: the display goes under my foot. I land funky on 16 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 1: my ankle and now sprained the ligaments on the right 17 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 1: side of my ankle. I have a sprained I have 18 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 1: a sprained ankle. How long are you out of commission? 19 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 1: For the guy tell The doctor tells me four weeks. 20 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:13,760 Speaker 1: Four weeks for it to heal in the swelling to 21 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 1: go down sooner than but four weeks before I can 22 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 1: really be active again, Which is like me telling me 23 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:22,959 Speaker 1: I'm just about to start taking up tennis. Oh cute. 24 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 1: I could totally help you with that, but nobody have 25 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:27,759 Speaker 1: to set My ankle has to heal first. We can 26 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 1: do We can pick it up in a month. Yeah, 27 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 1: I was. I was shopping for cute sports and I 28 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 1: thought that was a cute one. Yes, tennis is a 29 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:36,320 Speaker 1: very cute sport and a very fun sport to play 30 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 1: with your significant other, So I highly recommend. Are you playing, 31 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 1: are you in a circuit? Are you playing tourneys? No? No, 32 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 1: I don't play tourneys. I play with my boyfriend. And 33 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: he's also out of commission for a while because he 34 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 1: got hurt on that mountain biking. What's his injury? He 35 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 1: has uh broken eight broken ribs and au and how 36 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: long that's a punctured lung and ribs much more severe 37 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: than my brain ankle. How long is he correct? He's 38 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: gonna probably be. He won't be able to do like 39 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 1: tennis and stuff like that for a couple of months, honestly, 40 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 1: But um, I have us on this anti inflammatory diet 41 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 1: because I think maybe you should do it too, because 42 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 1: it's it's gonna be good for your ankle, just to 43 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: keep all the swelling down. I'm always on the anti 44 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 1: inflammatory diet, so I'm trying that all the time. Yeah, 45 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: that my compression. Sock on. I'll show you later if 46 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 1: you want. Anyway, you know, you can't win, right You're 47 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 1: trying to go in there and burn some calories, do 48 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:29,399 Speaker 1: something good. You've got a little gap in your schedule, 49 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:34,640 Speaker 1: and then your phone falls onto the conveyor belt and 50 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 1: you tweak your ankle. You just can't win one false 51 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 1: move and it's just like and I was, so I 52 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 1: was just you just get you get so upset with yourself. 53 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: So anyway, nursing that could do um, but you could 54 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 1: do like weights with your upper body and like, yeah, 55 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 1: obviously I'm I mean clearly I'm continuing that as you 56 00:02:53,800 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 1: can see obviously where's the beach that way? Oh yeah, 57 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:02,799 Speaker 1: oh gun show you can't really see because I've probably 58 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:05,640 Speaker 1: up today. I didn't want to, you know, show you 59 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 1: all at once, but yeah, it is because your cardio 60 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 1: is like I love to run because I like the 61 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: endorphin kick, but not not right now. Alright, we're gonna 62 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:16,760 Speaker 1: get and they could have I don't have that like 63 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: large iPhone, the pro Max I would have been out 64 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 1: with a punctured lung and broken ribs right right. It 65 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: could have gone real bad with those. Well, as the 66 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 1: sun comes up, we are here. You map out your day, 67 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 1: just to give you a little look at suck cloudy 68 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 1: many places, oddly chili also some pockets in southern California 69 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 1: for this first week of October, highs mint to upper sixties. 70 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 1: Many spots listening in l A and Orange County. Do 71 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: we leave the tickets every hour? Just give some of 72 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: those way Ryan's roses. I'll tell you about that. Basically, 73 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 1: she says, you name a sign that someone is cheating 74 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: and my husband is doing it. You name us sign 75 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: or an indicator that someone is cheating, and my husband 76 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 1: checks that box. So we will get into that. Your 77 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 1: morning hack is coming in just a few minutest will 78 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: do that. So, Patty, should we just address this here 79 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: before Michael gets up and starts listening, because I know 80 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 1: before he starts beekeeping, he started he listened around. Uh. 81 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:24,279 Speaker 1: I don't want to say you're keeping something from your Michael, 82 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: but you kind of are is it's a sort of 83 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 1: selective information that you're holding back? Is that? What? How 84 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 1: what would you say? I would say, so, yeah, okay, 85 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 1: what are you hiding from him? Well, um, there's a wedding. 86 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:42,719 Speaker 1: There's there's a wedding, and we both got invited to 87 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: this wedding. And I haven't told him about the wedding 88 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 1: because it is a Sunday school night, and I was 89 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 1: just thinking of doing a quick in and out, go 90 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: to the ceremony, say hi to a few folks, get 91 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 1: in my car, come back home. Yeah. I know for 92 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 1: a fact that if I take him, he is very charming, 93 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 1: he will have a great time. I won't be able 94 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 1: to leave early if I take him. So his charm 95 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 1: is an issue. His charm is not only a blessing, 96 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 1: it is a curse because you want his charm sometimes, 97 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 1: but not I do not not on a Sunday. No, 98 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 1: not on a wedding, by the way, to the extent 99 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 1: we have any charm, Mine's not on on Sunday right Sunday. 100 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 1: It's just not My mine is not on Sunday's at 101 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 1: all either. Like I just want to do the you know, 102 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 1: your charm Patty went the height of your charm. Oh 103 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: my gosh, every day but Sunday, right, Patty's is every 104 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 1: day Sunday, Tony, what's the height of your charm? I'd 105 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: say Saturday's. I'm pretty like I'm flying pretty high on Saturday's, Friday, 106 00:05:54,279 --> 00:06:00,480 Speaker 1: Frida o'clock. Um, well, look, Patty, I I see it's 107 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 1: pretty clearly I did rs up for two. They expect 108 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:08,359 Speaker 1: two people. Okay, but your friends who are having a 109 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 1: wedding on Sunday and not so considerate to the guests, 110 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: know a lot of people are doing that. I've already 111 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 1: I've gone to a wedding on a Sunday because I 112 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:16,920 Speaker 1: think since all the weddings were so backed up because 113 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 1: of COVID and they just they don't really have a 114 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:22,840 Speaker 1: lot of options, so they're forced into scheduling it on 115 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 1: a Sunday. I mean, I do have friends that would 116 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 1: do it on a Sunday to weed people out. M hm. 117 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:32,280 Speaker 1: So I don't think that's the case right now. So Patty, 118 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 1: there's there's I mean, this is pretty simple and say, hey, Michael, look, 119 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 1: Sundays it's a school night basically, so let's zip it. 120 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 1: Just set the expectation. We're gonna zip into about or 121 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna do this and you stay with the kids. 122 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 1: I'll be right back. It's easy. He's gonna be like, 123 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:48,680 Speaker 1: you never take me anywhere. Yeah, well it's true. You 124 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: haven't take them anywhere in fifteen years, you haven't take 125 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 1: You took them to one? Did you take them to 126 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 1: that Mexican tequila celebration? Did not take them on the 127 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 1: last time you have seen him is at a Christmas 128 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: party two thousand and eight. Why are you keeping in 129 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 1: in a tent? I don't know. I have a suggestion. 130 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 1: Why don't you just drive two cars that way you 131 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: can leave early and he can stay. Wait. No, No, 132 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 1: the worst idea ever. They're in it, they're in it together, 133 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 1: or she's going by herself. It's my wedding. I mean, 134 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 1: it's like my friend's wedding. Yeah, he's not going to 135 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 1: just hang out. But he would that he would. He 136 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 1: would have not because you're gonna manage expectation and say, hey, 137 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 1: cut down in the charisma. We're coming in and coming 138 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 1: out to school night, or I'm going by myself. What 139 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 1: is it gonna be? Michael, that's it on air with 140 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest, I have your morning hack and a quote, 141 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: just a quote of the day if you like quote. So, 142 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 1: if you hurt your shoulder, you ice your shoulder. I 143 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 1: sprained my ankle running ice my ankle. You's your need 144 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 1: blah blah blah. But what if you overdid it, like 145 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 1: you just over exercised, and you're really hurting all over 146 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: your store all over? They say, lie down with an 147 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 1: ice pack, but tween your shoulder blades. Lie down between 148 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 1: your should on the floor, a hard surface ice pack 149 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 1: between your shoulder blades. It'll cut your pain everywhere. By six. 150 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 1: It's certainly worth a try. Relieve some tension. And then 151 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 1: that sort of spreads all over the body. All right, 152 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 1: your quote? People go, but how they left always days? Hey, 153 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 1: you know I was looking back eighteen years ago. Tanya 154 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 1: Arnold Schwarzer became the governor California eighteen years ago. The 155 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: rams they're playing three and one rams taken on the 156 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 1: Seahawks and Seattle Thursday night football tonight and now other 157 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:46,839 Speaker 1: headlines Tany and for sissany, what do you have? Mayor 158 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 1: Eric Garcetti signed a sweeping mandate yesterday requiring proof of 159 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 1: COVID nineteen vaccination to enter indoor areas, including restaurants, bars, gym's, 160 00:08:56,200 --> 00:09:00,960 Speaker 1: movie theaters, malls, spas, salons, and more starting November four. 161 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 1: It's one of the nation's strictest vaccine mandates. Fiser today 162 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 1: officially asked the US government to allow use of its 163 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 1: COVID nineteen vaccine in children ages five to eleven, and 164 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:15,959 Speaker 1: if regulators agree, shots could begin within a matter of weeks. 165 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 1: An independent expert panel will publicly debate the evidence on 166 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 1: October and the Dodgers advance. They beat the St. Louis 167 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 1: Cardinals three to one last night on a home run 168 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:29,679 Speaker 1: by Chris Taylor in the bottom of the ninth. They 169 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:32,560 Speaker 1: will play the Giants in the division rounds starting tomorrow 170 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 1: night in San Francisco on air with Ryan Seacrest. All right, well, 171 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 1: I mean, how can we not? We must the Dodgers, 172 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:47,199 Speaker 1: Dodgers big. Did you see it? Did you hear it? 173 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: Let me so. My buddy Kurt introduced me years ago 174 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:57,840 Speaker 1: to Charlie Steiner, who was very dear friends, Larry King, Uh, 175 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 1: that's how we like, Larry King love Larry Right. Larry 176 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 1: King introduced me to Charlie Stanner and my buddy Kurt. 177 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 1: All of us would gather every once in a while, 178 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 1: and Charlie Steiner made the call, Listen to this the 179 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:16,719 Speaker 1: Dodgers big, big win. It was a very tense game 180 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:19,679 Speaker 1: against the Cardinals, right, it was wonder one. I think 181 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 1: it's just about the whole game. And then you get 182 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 1: Chris Taylor, Chris Taylor of the Dodgers to bat the 183 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 1: bottom of the night with Cody Bellinger on first, Shall 184 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 1: we Taylor wipe all the left and deep Chris Taylor, Oh, 185 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:42,960 Speaker 1: walk up home run. The goddre were walking off to 186 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 1: San Francisco. They went the wild card three. The one 187 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 1: here comes Taylor to the plate. They are bothering him. 188 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:57,320 Speaker 1: The crowd is going crazy. The Dodger's advance to the 189 00:10:57,480 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 1: National League Division Series one. The mighty swing by Chris Taylor. 190 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:07,840 Speaker 1: There's nothing better than here in Charlie Steiner, make that call. 191 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 1: That is as that is as big to me as 192 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:14,079 Speaker 1: the play was. You know what's so funny. We were 193 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 1: watching this. We were laying in bed last night and 194 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 1: I and my boyfriend is really into it, right, and 195 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:24,319 Speaker 1: I'm working on my trending reports, and so just having 196 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:26,319 Speaker 1: the visual of both of us laying there and one 197 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:28,320 Speaker 1: of us just like going wild and the other one 198 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 1: is just on the computer doing her work. It's really 199 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: just like that's a narrative in many homes. And it's 200 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 1: also different than many Dodges. One hundred six games this year. 201 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 1: I used to most they've ever won. What they had 202 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 1: to play in the wild card game because the Giants 203 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 1: had one seven Now that was Charlie Steiner. Here's the 204 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:47,319 Speaker 1: call over on TBS two balls and a strike to 205 00:11:47,400 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 1: count on Taylor fires swinging, tryad. Do you know what 206 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 1: I would love for you? I do actually what you 207 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 1: would love for me to just on TikTok no play 208 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:24,199 Speaker 1: and see how it sounded. No, it doesn't involve TikTok. 209 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:26,559 Speaker 1: I'm not trying to give you another job, but for 210 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 1: just one game, like a sport. What's the sport that 211 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:30,720 Speaker 1: you really understand that you can watch and really like? 212 00:12:30,800 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 1: Have you not been on this show every day? Patty football, 213 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 1: she knows, Patty knows if you would just be that 214 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:40,439 Speaker 1: voice like voice for one football game, I'm telling you, 215 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:42,839 Speaker 1: I no one would want to carry my coverage of 216 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:46,679 Speaker 1: me watching the University of Georgia. My coverage is pretty 217 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:49,200 Speaker 1: it needs to be on a satellite though. I think 218 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:51,960 Speaker 1: because I don't tell of the stuff I say during 219 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:54,680 Speaker 1: the U G. A game. I'm not so sure. You know. 220 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 1: I get excited and words that are not kiss fm 221 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:06,959 Speaker 1: oh r maybe yeah rated R for Ryan, Yeah yeah, 222 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:09,680 Speaker 1: but I I do. Maybe I'll give you a little 223 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 1: audio of me watching the game. Where look we the 224 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 1: U G A plane Auburn on Saturday in football? Football? 225 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 1: Is it? Right down? Football is my sport? Okay, maybe 226 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:21,959 Speaker 1: just pull up your voice notes, like on your phone, 227 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 1: so it doesn't even require that much work. Just pull 228 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:26,320 Speaker 1: up your voice notes and record yourself while you're watching 229 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 1: the game. How do you do that? You'll show me. 230 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:33,120 Speaker 1: I'll show you. Yeah, I'll send you a video. Is 231 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 1: that the voicemail people send me? No, no voice notes 232 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 1: is like in your phone. It's really really easy voice 233 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:43,719 Speaker 1: memos because what people do to me is they sit 234 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 1: on their phones amount and then they record ambiance and 235 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 1: I get it and I play. I think, oh my gosh, 236 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 1: my friends sent me a one minute voicemail and I 237 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:52,839 Speaker 1: had playing is nothing but a room. At least your 238 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 1: friends don't actually give you voice memos to text, Like 239 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 1: I'll text somebody and they'll send me a forty five 240 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:01,920 Speaker 1: second voice not back and I'm like, come on there, 241 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:04,440 Speaker 1: they're just not paying attention to your career and they 242 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:07,480 Speaker 1: should be. What kind of friend are they? So Dodgers 243 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 1: Advanced Play the Giants and the Best of Five? Thanks 244 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 1: for having us on. Let's bring him in. Let's bring 245 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 1: him into the zoom. We have a guest standing by. 246 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:18,319 Speaker 1: Actually this is a coworker of ours, uh, standing by 247 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 1: to come in. He's actually, he's in. He's in our studio. 248 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 1: He's in our studio on our microphone. Uh, Woody from 249 00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 1: the Woody Show. What's up? Good morning, Woody. How's this 250 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 1: show going so far? So far as you know, it's on, 251 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 1: it's on as they hold it. Let's keep it on 252 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 1: the air. Let's keep the let's keep the job. And 253 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:42,120 Speaker 1: you know, anything that happens after that, it's just a bonus, right, 254 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 1: set the expectation very low. Hey, So Woody and I 255 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 1: ran into each other. D I had Readio Music Festival 256 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 1: and I would like it. What you our conversation like, 257 00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:53,040 Speaker 1: we geeked out about being on the radio because it 258 00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 1: was our dream since we were tiny, tiny kids, and 259 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 1: we board everybody else in the room with it. Listen. 260 00:14:57,400 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 1: It was almost embarrassing how we included no one in 261 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 1: the room. While we were geeking out, I would liken 262 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 1: it to two pilots, Like if you're a pilot and 263 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:07,320 Speaker 1: you meet another pilot and you start talking about like 264 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 1: the aircraft you fly and where you train and all that, 265 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 1: that's kind of like what we got. We don't like 266 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 1: a pilot hole. And I realized that what he's literally 267 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 1: he's at the he's at the frequency. It's a different 268 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 1: station now, he's at the frequency where I started in 269 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:23,240 Speaker 1: l A in the afternoon job. And he's come in 270 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 1: and he's you know, he's crushing it on the morning 271 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:29,560 Speaker 1: show there in but different than I. He's calm, Like 272 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 1: this guy's chill about, Like we get excited about stuff 273 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 1: and we worry and get anxious, and so I don't 274 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 1: believe it, you know, like it No, I don't believe it, 275 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 1: Like I always think, like, um, you know, this is 276 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:43,280 Speaker 1: some kind of like alternate reality. So what is going 277 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:45,840 Speaker 1: on right now isn't real. And at any moment they're 278 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 1: going to figure out that they've got the wrong guy, 279 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 1: or like you know what, I'm sorry, this is all mistake. 280 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 1: We had it all wrong. Those those ratings aren't what 281 00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:55,760 Speaker 1: they what we thought they were this is the real 282 00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 1: There was a correction, so I'm always waiting for the 283 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 1: shoot to drop. I think that somebody told me what 284 00:16:01,120 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 1: it's like imposter syndrome. Yeah, okay, Well that makes me 285 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 1: feel better about you because I thought, really you were 286 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 1: that cool common color. And but I go through life. 287 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 1: I I go through life expecting that everybody sucks until 288 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 1: proven otherwise. That way, I can only be pleasantly surprised 289 00:16:15,920 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 1: as opposed to constantly disappointed. So I kind of set 290 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 1: myself up so that again the bar is so low 291 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 1: that I can always, you know, feel okay, even if 292 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: everything's just kind of you know, average. So where did 293 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:30,520 Speaker 1: this cynicism come from? Withyh God? How many you don't 294 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:32,520 Speaker 1: have that kind of time. I got a dude, I 295 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 1: got some crazy I can tell you some crazy story. 296 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:36,040 Speaker 1: I'll give you, like just a little. I went to 297 00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:38,040 Speaker 1: boarding school and at one point got kicked out of 298 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 1: the boarding school, and they hired somebody to bring me 299 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:42,560 Speaker 1: to another program, kind of like you know, Paris Hilton 300 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 1: is talking about these um these schools that she went to. 301 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:47,200 Speaker 1: I went to one of those schools. It was the 302 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:49,520 Speaker 1: same type of school. In fact, I know the school 303 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 1: that she was talking about, Provocanyon. I went to one 304 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:54,520 Speaker 1: called Mount Bachelor Academy. You went to the same kind 305 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:56,840 Speaker 1: of school as Paris Hilton. Well, yeah, she was talking 306 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 1: about like all this crazy stuff went on, and she 307 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 1: was like, you know now she's camp hanging against um. 308 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:04,120 Speaker 1: So you were scarred by some things that happened there. Well, 309 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 1: I'll give you just an idea of like how crazy 310 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 1: things got. So I was on my way then after 311 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 1: getting kicked out of one of those schools being sent 312 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 1: to another program, and they hired some my parents hired 313 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 1: somebody on an opposite coast at this point to bring 314 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:18,800 Speaker 1: me to this program. And um, the one night that 315 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 1: we had to spend before they can bring me to 316 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:24,159 Speaker 1: the other other school was at this hotel. Uh, the Boise, 317 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:27,640 Speaker 1: Idaho Police Department kicked down the door, came in, swooped 318 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:30,120 Speaker 1: me out of there, had the guy that was transported 319 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:32,879 Speaker 1: me on the ground in handcuffs within seconds with a 320 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:35,439 Speaker 1: gun to the back of his head because somebody had 321 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 1: reported that they thought they had a kidnapped child in 322 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:41,640 Speaker 1: this room and it was not the case, like my parents, 323 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 1: you know, and I had to tell the cops that, 324 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:45,280 Speaker 1: but it was it's a pretty interesting story. Well listen, 325 00:17:45,280 --> 00:17:47,440 Speaker 1: it's just craziness. You've got several hours in the morning 326 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:49,200 Speaker 1: at ninety seven. Sounds like you got a lot to 327 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 1: get off your chest. If you want a couple more 328 00:17:50,800 --> 00:17:53,359 Speaker 1: hours at night here at kiss, let us know because 329 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:56,360 Speaker 1: we can, you know, because I'm not sure what's going 330 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,800 Speaker 1: on in there anymore. Uh. He's a family guy too. 331 00:17:58,840 --> 00:18:01,320 Speaker 1: What he's got, he's he's got like a real life. 332 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:02,959 Speaker 1: So we're talking about kids here. I want to get 333 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 1: your guidance on this one. The reason I want to 334 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:06,480 Speaker 1: have you back to your guidance to go ahead, Well, 335 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:08,240 Speaker 1: I don't have any yet, No, no I need because 336 00:18:08,280 --> 00:18:10,399 Speaker 1: you got you're always busting like cheaters and stuff like that. 337 00:18:10,480 --> 00:18:13,600 Speaker 1: So my wife has this personal training Thank you for listening. 338 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 1: It's a legendary bit um. So my wife has this trainer, right, 339 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:22,240 Speaker 1: and it's a distance trainer, so she doesn't work out 340 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:24,359 Speaker 1: with this person. It's a friend of a friend or whatever. 341 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:27,119 Speaker 1: But anyway, so sends of the workout, sends for the 342 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:29,360 Speaker 1: diet stuff. They have these like group calls or these 343 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:32,040 Speaker 1: other women that are like being trained as well. And 344 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:34,719 Speaker 1: every once in a while she sends what they call project, 345 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:39,200 Speaker 1: our project progress pictures. And these are pictures that where 346 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:41,960 Speaker 1: she's like in her like bra and underwear, sending her 347 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:45,400 Speaker 1: pictures to this guy. And I'm like, is this normal? 348 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 1: And he says he's looking at her like a progress 349 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 1: of the body. Yes, no, that's not normal. That's I 350 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:53,399 Speaker 1: didn't think I see. And women always say the same thing, 351 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 1: Oh no, it's totally normal. So this is what you're doing, 352 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:58,960 Speaker 1: and she goes, they aren't flattering. I'm like, I'm a guy. Anything. 353 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:01,680 Speaker 1: If some other woman and who's not my wife or girlfriend, 354 00:19:01,680 --> 00:19:04,440 Speaker 1: whether like the Forbidden Fruit, is sending you pictures in 355 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 1: their panties or whatever, that's going to be exciting as 356 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:10,480 Speaker 1: a guy. And she's trying to tell me it's totally normal, 357 00:19:10,520 --> 00:19:12,400 Speaker 1: and other women agree with her. Well, by the way, 358 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:15,080 Speaker 1: what do you do explain something that I think is correct? 359 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:17,240 Speaker 1: And that is we don't see clearly, right do we 360 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:19,240 Speaker 1: just see that photo comes in and all of a sudden, 361 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:22,159 Speaker 1: there like something in our body goes like I know 362 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:24,199 Speaker 1: what that something is? Yes, right, thank you. I mean 363 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask you how you got your name later, 364 00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:29,879 Speaker 1: but I understand what you're saying. Um, but yes, I 365 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:31,720 Speaker 1: I think that that is that to me would be 366 00:19:31,760 --> 00:19:33,359 Speaker 1: an issue. I would not like that at all. It 367 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:35,480 Speaker 1: doesn't matter if it's a project. Now, do I really 368 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 1: think that she's cheating on me? I don't do. I 369 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 1: know this guy, Yes, she trains people from the process. 370 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:44,320 Speaker 1: He trains people for these like bikini shows, which he's 371 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:47,280 Speaker 1: not doing. But these are like competitive you know, people 372 00:19:47,359 --> 00:19:49,360 Speaker 1: that he's training most of the time. So I I don't. 373 00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:50,879 Speaker 1: I don't think that anything is really happening. I just 374 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:53,120 Speaker 1: thought it was very strange. But that's a chip for you. 375 00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:55,399 Speaker 1: You can screw up in some minor way and use 376 00:19:55,440 --> 00:20:00,600 Speaker 1: that as a chip. I'll try that. No, I know, 377 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 1: but that's how they work in real life. Um. So 378 00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:05,440 Speaker 1: I went back and I looked four out of thirteen 379 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 1: of our Ryan's roses were about trainers, and the four 380 00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:10,880 Speaker 1: the four numbers that they were cheating. So I think 381 00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:12,840 Speaker 1: you're all right, thank you? All right? And they were 382 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:15,639 Speaker 1: all sending pictures, I'm assuming, well, not not necessarily pictures. 383 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:18,359 Speaker 1: They were spending time to um, all right, what do 384 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:20,320 Speaker 1: you listen. I know you've got a show and we 385 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 1: have to keep moving back. I want to have you back. 386 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:23,879 Speaker 1: We'll talk about do you really have my picture on 387 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:25,399 Speaker 1: the page. They're just in case you didn't know what 388 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 1: I looked like. This is how good team is we've had. 389 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:31,040 Speaker 1: We've had so many conversations over the years, like but 390 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 1: they've still felt to me to put the picture just 391 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 1: in case if you were my mother. They sent me 392 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:37,359 Speaker 1: a cheet Yes, sure, I know you run five to 393 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:41,680 Speaker 1: time miles a day. Let's see. It's all right? Is right? 394 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 1: Is that right? It's not called run because I don't run. 395 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:48,160 Speaker 1: I do I do walk. I'm trying to uh move 396 00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:52,119 Speaker 1: my body. I've lost seventy five pounds since February. Um, 397 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:55,119 Speaker 1: I'm eating very boring, but still you have no running. 398 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 1: But also, what kind of interesting stuff you got there? 399 00:20:57,280 --> 00:21:00,159 Speaker 1: I'm kind of curious. I want to see my own picture. Well, 400 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:02,000 Speaker 1: there it is. You were in the same thing. Today's 401 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 1: pretty much. I'm like a cartoon character. Do you always 402 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:08,040 Speaker 1: see you in the same thing? Started on old seven 403 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:11,679 Speaker 1: half years ago? Right, you got Ravy, Greg Menace and 404 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:14,680 Speaker 1: who's the other person? Doesn't matter? Go ahead. They kind 405 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:17,280 Speaker 1: of trailed off there on my notes. They do my 406 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 1: own mind to kid. Yeah, let's see. Start originally January 407 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:23,680 Speaker 1: three years ago in San Francisco, is that that's not what 408 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 1: what you told me. Well, the you know the team 409 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:28,720 Speaker 1: that I have now we first worked together. Yea, so 410 00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:32,879 Speaker 1: really wrong. So I should know that better than Wikipedia. 411 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 1: All right, what do you check them out? Is our 412 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:38,199 Speaker 1: our our family station here, let's talk again. So it's 413 00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:42,040 Speaker 1: really great. Let's catch up in the world too, Okay, 414 00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:45,000 Speaker 1: A super nice guy and super nice guy. It's funny 415 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:46,840 Speaker 1: because you know when you meet a person like this 416 00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:48,639 Speaker 1: is as I told you, I come and do the 417 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:50,879 Speaker 1: radio show, then I go to my job, right then 418 00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:53,240 Speaker 1: I go to work and he and I just like 419 00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:55,960 Speaker 1: geeked out. I'm trying to think what would be something 420 00:21:56,000 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 1: you would geek out, like with somebody about Tanya City, right, Okay, 421 00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:02,960 Speaker 1: we were in a grays Anatomy conversation about being on 422 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:05,879 Speaker 1: the radio, That's what it was. And I hours, but 423 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:08,199 Speaker 1: I was like buzzing afterwards, and I called Mark. I'm like, 424 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:11,040 Speaker 1: that's a book Woody on this show. And I still 425 00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 1: don't know why we called Woody because I'm sure Mark 426 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:18,200 Speaker 1: appreciated the Saturday night phone call. And then he sends 427 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 1: me over what he's picture, and I said, why are 428 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:21,480 Speaker 1: you saying me what he's picture? He goes because you 429 00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 1: want to have monies. That's right, that's the reason on 430 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:31,040 Speaker 1: air with Ryan's Secrets. Are you ready It's time for 431 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 1: Ryan's roses. Dear Ryan and the team. My husband recently 432 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:42,159 Speaker 1: joined a workout class and is suddenly very interested in 433 00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 1: grooming himself and exercising. We spent a lot of time 434 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 1: together and now he's just busy all the time and 435 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,040 Speaker 1: he's a boid to me. See, this is the thing 436 00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 1: not knowing anything else really yet. That's from HEATHERN Chatsworth 437 00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:58,639 Speaker 1: put her on. Here's the thing. It sucks. What sucks. 438 00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:02,760 Speaker 1: It sucks that you're you decide to like be a 439 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:05,680 Speaker 1: better you. You're gonna start, You're gonna eat cleaner, you're 440 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 1: gonna motivate yourself, you're gonna work harder, you're gonna do 441 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:10,960 Speaker 1: some exercising, you're gonna look better, You're gonna groom yourself. 442 00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:15,160 Speaker 1: And it sucks that that is an indicator to cheating, right, 443 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 1: Self improvement indicates cheating. Come on, I don't like it. 444 00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:21,680 Speaker 1: It's not necessarily that. It's like if it just comes 445 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:24,240 Speaker 1: out of nowhere, you know, like, but what you can 446 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 1: that's how these things start. Like for me, when I 447 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:30,800 Speaker 1: start a you know, I'm vegan except for when I 448 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:35,440 Speaker 1: have ribs and brisk and stuff. But for me, it's like, okay, 449 00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:38,159 Speaker 1: you know my my my waistline and my pants are 450 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:40,400 Speaker 1: snugger than I want. I'm uncomfortable with it, so I'm 451 00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:43,919 Speaker 1: starting full speed. But why is that an indicator for 452 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:46,800 Speaker 1: something bad? It should be good? No, but you like 453 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:48,919 Speaker 1: on the regular, that's part of who you are. You do, 454 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:50,920 Speaker 1: you like to stay in shape, and you you work. 455 00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 1: It's not like out of nowhere. That's like if you 456 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, even better that he's doing it 457 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:57,399 Speaker 1: out of nowhere because he wants to get better. Maybe 458 00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:00,480 Speaker 1: for his own wife, Heather, we need to good morning, 459 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 1: thanks for coming on. I'm picking apart the self improvement 460 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 1: component to this all because I think it's great that 461 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,560 Speaker 1: somebody motivates himself to be a better them. But what 462 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:10,760 Speaker 1: other signs? There must be something else that's got you 463 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:15,359 Speaker 1: thinking about cheating though? Well, yeah, I mean we've been 464 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,800 Speaker 1: together for nine years and married for five and he 465 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,719 Speaker 1: had you know, the whole dad bought before that was 466 00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:26,000 Speaker 1: even a thing. Um, And it's just that he's all 467 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:28,800 Speaker 1: of a sudden trying like getting in really good shape, 468 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,920 Speaker 1: and he's like trying out different looks, like with his beard, 469 00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:36,439 Speaker 1: and we never spend any time together anymore, like at 470 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,800 Speaker 1: night we used to watch TV together and then go 471 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:42,359 Speaker 1: to bed. I don't mind the guys, you know, using 472 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:47,199 Speaker 1: a different what do you call that thing guard for 473 00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:49,680 Speaker 1: his beard. I don't mind he's using a different guard 474 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 1: for his beard. I don't mind that he's working out. 475 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,560 Speaker 1: But if he's not seeing you're spending time, then that 476 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:55,840 Speaker 1: to me is a bigger issue than him wanting to 477 00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:58,920 Speaker 1: be better him. Right have you seen? Have you seen? 478 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:03,760 Speaker 1: Has been the other trace of another person? Well? I 479 00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:09,440 Speaker 1: she just he's spending a lot of time, like on Instagram, 480 00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:12,560 Speaker 1: and I noticed that he's like following like some women 481 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:16,359 Speaker 1: from his class. And I asked him about him, like 482 00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:19,480 Speaker 1: who are these women? And he's like, oh, it's no 483 00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:26,000 Speaker 1: big deal, just like some people. I don't really know them. 484 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:28,399 Speaker 1: We are making the call for Ryan's roses, so you 485 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 1: really haven't missed anything yet if you're just getting here. Basically, 486 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:33,639 Speaker 1: we know that Heather's told us her husband doesn't spend 487 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,240 Speaker 1: much time with her and he's fully focused on the 488 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 1: gym and grooming, and she thinks that's an indicator that 489 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:41,919 Speaker 1: something's going on with somebody else. I think as a stretch. 490 00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:50,200 Speaker 1: But that's why we're all here, because we don't know yet. 491 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:52,439 Speaker 1: So howther I need you to say, Ryan, you my 492 00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:55,440 Speaker 1: permission to call, and then his name on Kiss FM. 493 00:25:55,520 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 1: Go ahead, Brian, you have my permission to call. Okay, 494 00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 1: we're calling him now. Tanya is gonna make the call. 495 00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:06,639 Speaker 1: We're gonna offer him some roses. Let's see who he 496 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 1: is thinking about, who's top of mind, and then of 497 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 1: course what he might put on the card that's attached 498 00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:13,600 Speaker 1: to the roses. So be very quiet, Heather, until we 499 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:17,080 Speaker 1: tell him he's on the air. Okay, okay, okay, good luck, 500 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:33,800 Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. Hi is this David? Yes, Hi, 501 00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:37,040 Speaker 1: good morning David. My name is Tanya. I'm from Stop 502 00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 1: and Smell the Roses. We're a new flower shop here 503 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 1: in town, and I wanted to call and offer you 504 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:45,400 Speaker 1: a free dozen of our red roses. They're so so beautiful. 505 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:48,160 Speaker 1: I don't need anything from you, just name of who 506 00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:50,640 Speaker 1: you want to send them to and maybe the address, 507 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:52,359 Speaker 1: and I'll get them to them by one pm today. 508 00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:58,479 Speaker 1: I sure you said they're free. Yes, I don't need 509 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 1: any any credit card information. I would just need a 510 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:06,360 Speaker 1: name a note and we'll get them out this afternoon. Uh, 511 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,760 Speaker 1: all right, yeah, I'll do that. Um, I guess I'll 512 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:15,120 Speaker 1: just send it to my wife. Let's just put okay, wait, 513 00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 1: let me get her name first. Sure, okay, what's her name? 514 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 1: Her name is Heather? Heather? All right, and what do 515 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:28,119 Speaker 1: you want to put on the note? Um? What is it? 516 00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:33,160 Speaker 1: This is really happy Thursday and then love David. Mm 517 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:40,960 Speaker 1: hmm that's so nice. And you want red roses? Yeah, yeah, glad, 518 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:45,520 Speaker 1: it's great. Thank you, Thank you, David. Your voice is 519 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,640 Speaker 1: being broadcast on the radio. My name is Ryan. Thank 520 00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,360 Speaker 1: you for staying on with us for a second. Um, 521 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,280 Speaker 1: your wife head, Your wife, Heather is on the phone. 522 00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:55,120 Speaker 1: She's asked us to reach out to you. Heather, would 523 00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:59,480 Speaker 1: you say hello please? Hi, So David. She's asked us 524 00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,880 Speaker 1: to reach out because she's concerned that you might be cheating. 525 00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 1: Let me tell you why. She has seen you take 526 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 1: real interest in working out and grooming herself, which I 527 00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:10,919 Speaker 1: have no problem with. And she also says that you 528 00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:14,440 Speaker 1: don't make time for her. You're very uh, you're limited 529 00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:15,959 Speaker 1: on the amount of time that you're spending with her, 530 00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,680 Speaker 1: more so than ever before. She thinks there's someone else, 531 00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:22,919 Speaker 1: can you tell her what's going on? Oh my gosh, 532 00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 1: they do called. So I'm not cheating. I'm they I've 533 00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:34,320 Speaker 1: got to say. It just feels like you're like sort 534 00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:36,720 Speaker 1: of down on everything. It feels like lately you're kind 535 00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,200 Speaker 1: of negative, and I feel like I can't do anything right. 536 00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 1: I'm I'm getting older and I want to get in shape, 537 00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:44,880 Speaker 1: so I started this class and it makes me feel 538 00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:48,640 Speaker 1: better about my body. But honestly, babe, you're like on 539 00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:51,160 Speaker 1: my case every time I go. It feels like you're 540 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:54,200 Speaker 1: nagging me. I'm not cheating, I swear to you. I'm 541 00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 1: just trying to have my own space, my own mental 542 00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:02,120 Speaker 1: space at the gym. And honestly, I've started wondering if 543 00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:04,640 Speaker 1: you are having an affair, honestly, because it feels like 544 00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:08,640 Speaker 1: why else would you be asking me constantly about what's 545 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:13,760 Speaker 1: going on if you're not happy? Yourself seems to make 546 00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:18,240 Speaker 1: you happy? Right now, that's not true. I mean, I 547 00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:23,520 Speaker 1: am not I'm definitely not cheating on you, and I 548 00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:25,760 Speaker 1: am not like trying to be on your case all 549 00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:29,680 Speaker 1: the time. But now let's not let's not turn the 550 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:33,920 Speaker 1: tables here. Let's stay focused, all right, David, Why is 551 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:37,320 Speaker 1: it that you're offering less time to spend with your wife? 552 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:43,400 Speaker 1: Is that a product of working out? No? I mean, 553 00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:49,440 Speaker 1: what's going on there? It's honestly, I feel like I'm 554 00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:52,080 Speaker 1: just the time we spend together. I feel like you're 555 00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:56,200 Speaker 1: just nagging me. I mean, I hate that I'm saying 556 00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:59,760 Speaker 1: it like that, but it's just you're constantly nagging me. Okay. 557 00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 1: In then, now, why would what do you think that 558 00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:06,320 Speaker 1: would mean? And that's probably not a great word for 559 00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:09,560 Speaker 1: productivity here, But what do you think he means by 560 00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:16,360 Speaker 1: nagging Heather? I think just me asking all the questions, 561 00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:19,480 Speaker 1: like about like his class, and like why are you 562 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,280 Speaker 1: on Instagram? And like why are you following all these women? 563 00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:28,440 Speaker 1: And I think that's probably where he is kind of 564 00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:34,120 Speaker 1: taking up as nagging. But I mean, I I think 565 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:37,560 Speaker 1: I might be being too hard on you, and I'm 566 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:41,480 Speaker 1: I think I'm just projecting my insecurities onto you. Okay, 567 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:44,680 Speaker 1: So here's we We have insecurities, which means we have 568 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 1: a lack of trust. So now, why is there a 569 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 1: lack of trust? Why are what made you get to 570 00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:52,239 Speaker 1: a place of second guessing your own husband? I think 571 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:55,320 Speaker 1: that's the question you both need to ask each other 572 00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:58,240 Speaker 1: for each other and then talk about because there's a 573 00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:01,880 Speaker 1: reason why had there your second guessing, there's the reason 574 00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:04,200 Speaker 1: why you're insecure. This is why you're not trusting. So 575 00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:06,400 Speaker 1: why is that? And let's try and fill that void. 576 00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:09,400 Speaker 1: We're gonna let you go work on this together, David Heather, 577 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 1: thank you for reaching out. Thank you. All right, wait, 578 00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:16,800 Speaker 1: can we before we get back to that, can you 579 00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:21,080 Speaker 1: mute your microphone when I'm making the call, it's always muted. No, 580 00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:23,720 Speaker 1: you were like about too. You were like huffing and 581 00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:25,760 Speaker 1: puffing or doing something when I was getting the note 582 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:27,880 Speaker 1: from that one. Yes, there was a point where I 583 00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:31,680 Speaker 1: turned it on and I inhaled, like that about to speak, 584 00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:33,480 Speaker 1: and I think that that I don't think he heard it, 585 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 1: but I heard. I did hear that I needed. I 586 00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:36,960 Speaker 1: wanted to get the No, I wanted to like ask 587 00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:39,520 Speaker 1: more questions, and then I got nervous. You made me 588 00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:42,920 Speaker 1: have stage right. M M. Then we need to get 589 00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 1: past the stage right. If I say, if I didn't 590 00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:47,160 Speaker 1: even say that, I like that, you should not give 591 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:49,800 Speaker 1: you stage right. I got nervous. He threw me off 592 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,840 Speaker 1: my game. No, your game was fine. The game was fine. 593 00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:57,160 Speaker 1: The deal is this David's working out trying to be 594 00:31:57,200 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 1: a better him. Heather think somebody else is in the picture. 595 00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:06,760 Speaker 1: He perceives time with her as time that she nags him. 596 00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:10,080 Speaker 1: She quote nags him because she's insecure about something and 597 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:12,720 Speaker 1: there's not full trust. I mean, that's what this boiled 598 00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 1: down to you. I don't think the guy's cheating, but 599 00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:17,600 Speaker 1: I do think there must be some reason why she doesn't. 600 00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:21,000 Speaker 1: They don't trust. There's not but but doesn't necessarily have 601 00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:23,400 Speaker 1: to be in their relationship. Like her insecurities could come 602 00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:26,000 Speaker 1: from things that happened and past relationships, things that happened 603 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:29,200 Speaker 1: to her in her childhood. Like people, when you have insecurities, 604 00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:31,960 Speaker 1: that doesn't necessarily mean it's from your partner. It could 605 00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:35,479 Speaker 1: be deep rooted. Could could be your own scars, your 606 00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:38,960 Speaker 1: own wounds from history. That's fair, and that makes a 607 00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,800 Speaker 1: lot of sense. You must be seeing someone that's good. 608 00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:47,760 Speaker 1: That's good. Um, I'm always reading a self help book 609 00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:50,040 Speaker 1: and I go to therapy weekly. Well, it's all paying 610 00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:53,280 Speaker 1: off because you're you're spreading the wealth of knowledge now 611 00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:56,200 Speaker 1: here for free for us. That David could be triggering 612 00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:58,160 Speaker 1: her insecurities, and so that's what she needs to be 613 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:01,680 Speaker 1: vocal about because he could be triggering. I was not knowing, yes, 614 00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:04,000 Speaker 1: and that's why we let them go immediately to talk 615 00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 1: it through, talk it down. Alright, So Kira or Kira 616 00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:13,040 Speaker 1: actually is right? Kira? What do you think? Yeah? It's Kira. Um. So, 617 00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:17,320 Speaker 1: first of all, I feel like David totally dismissed her feelings, 618 00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:22,200 Speaker 1: like just the way he reacted like, but I think 619 00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:23,920 Speaker 1: he may not now, Like, I think there was some 620 00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:29,160 Speaker 1: dismissal going on, but I think maybe this is uh, 621 00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:32,160 Speaker 1: we're trying to spotlight on that dismissiveness and they need 622 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:35,960 Speaker 1: to focus on that, right, I mean makes a great point. Yeah, 623 00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:40,320 Speaker 1: clearly they have a communication problem. Um. I mean she 624 00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:43,040 Speaker 1: sounds really insecure, and I don't know that I would 625 00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:45,440 Speaker 1: be able to date someone who's you know, could be 626 00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 1: because someone else burned her, not him. Wait do you 627 00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:52,160 Speaker 1: hear she said? I don't think. I don't think I 628 00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:55,040 Speaker 1: could date somebody that's thinner than me. Is that what 629 00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:58,240 Speaker 1: you said? I said, fitter than me? But yeah, yeah, 630 00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:05,640 Speaker 1: I mean you'd have to win the fitness competition. Interesting? Interesting? Interesting? Wow, 631 00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:07,840 Speaker 1: what does that say? That's a sting? Hey, take that 632 00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:11,960 Speaker 1: to your therapist. Find out. I'd like to hear that. 633 00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 1: You know nothing's wrong and all there's no judgment, nothing wrong. 634 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:20,879 Speaker 1: We're just it's just judgment, never wrong. Why right, see 635 00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:26,359 Speaker 1: other w thank you for calling. Right. There's two. There's 636 00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:28,440 Speaker 1: the one we don't use and then there's the one 637 00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:37,480 Speaker 1: we really use. How about that Dodger game last night, 638 00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:40,160 Speaker 1: Charlie Steiner making the call in a M five seventy 639 00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:43,440 Speaker 1: Dodgers when at Chris Taylor come in a back bottom 640 00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:46,160 Speaker 1: of the night, Cody Beligern first, and then the Dodgers 641 00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:48,400 Speaker 1: do it three to one against the Cardinals. Now, tomorrow night, 642 00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:51,040 Speaker 1: we're in San Francisco and it all begins and it 643 00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:54,400 Speaker 1: gets tense. Uh, San Francisco to morrow night, best of 644 00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:58,880 Speaker 1: five series Secrets with you, Johnny. You asked the question, 645 00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:02,720 Speaker 1: and this is coming from the training report, but correct, 646 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:06,240 Speaker 1: when you dine out, do you like to dine next 647 00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:13,080 Speaker 1: to your significant other or across from them? To be across? Okay? Well, 648 00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:17,000 Speaker 1: I am a self proclaimed same cider. I love sitting 649 00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:19,400 Speaker 1: on the same side as my significant other. I just 650 00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:21,480 Speaker 1: love being close to them. I love everything about it. 651 00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:26,080 Speaker 1: Megan Trainer, it's kind of getting some heat for something 652 00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:28,920 Speaker 1: that she revealed recently about her relationship with her husband 653 00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:31,879 Speaker 1: Darryl Um. She said, nobody knows it, so she's taking 654 00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:34,479 Speaker 1: the same side seating, but to a whole another level. 655 00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:37,040 Speaker 1: She said, nobody knows this, But in our bathroom there 656 00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:38,960 Speaker 1: was one toilet, and a lot of times in the 657 00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:40,800 Speaker 1: middle of the night when we were with the baby, 658 00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:43,160 Speaker 1: we got a pee at the same time. So I 659 00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:46,280 Speaker 1: was like, can we please have two toilets right next 660 00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:49,879 Speaker 1: to each other? And that is what they got. They 661 00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:53,640 Speaker 1: got two toilets right next to each other in the bathroom. 662 00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:55,320 Speaker 1: And I was reading this and a lot of people 663 00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:57,080 Speaker 1: were kind of giving Megan heat on it, and I 664 00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:59,120 Speaker 1: was like, this is the most Tanya thing I have 665 00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:03,239 Speaker 1: ever seen. I nothing I enjoy more than having the 666 00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:05,440 Speaker 1: two sinks and being able to like brush my teeth 667 00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:07,560 Speaker 1: next to my boyfriend and wash my face next to him. 668 00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:10,560 Speaker 1: Could you imagine having two toilets next. I'm not so 669 00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:13,120 Speaker 1: sure I believe you. Actually, I don't know that I 670 00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:17,920 Speaker 1: believe you because I know about your digestive issues, and 671 00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:20,520 Speaker 1: I don't think you're wanting to sit there like two 672 00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:22,799 Speaker 1: news anchors on a toilet with the issues that you've 673 00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:24,759 Speaker 1: told me about. I I just don't think you're being 674 00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:28,120 Speaker 1: totally honest on this one. I don't. I don't think 675 00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:30,200 Speaker 1: I would do that, but I think I would. I 676 00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:32,520 Speaker 1: would really enjoy having the two if we did have to, 677 00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:35,319 Speaker 1: like tinkle at the same time. Uh, it's not that 678 00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:37,399 Speaker 1: long of a pit stop to wait it out. I 679 00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:40,200 Speaker 1: have experienced it where I you know, in the middle 680 00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:42,120 Speaker 1: of the night, you stumble into the bathroom and someone's there. 681 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,400 Speaker 1: Who is that? Oh, it's obviously the other person, and 682 00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:46,560 Speaker 1: you just wait. It's not it's not like you're waiting 683 00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:49,279 Speaker 1: at the Delhi counter for a hundred tickets to go by. 684 00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:53,080 Speaker 1: It's pretty easy, patty, And there's nothing sexy about it. 685 00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:57,759 Speaker 1: Like men. Yeah, we do, and there's roma we thank you. 686 00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:01,040 Speaker 1: I totally agree. I don't. I don't like it. I 687 00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:03,160 Speaker 1: don't like and I actually don't like sitting next to 688 00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,920 Speaker 1: my significant other at a restaurant either, because you can't 689 00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:08,320 Speaker 1: look him into the eye, you can't talk, You really can't. 690 00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,439 Speaker 1: We could never date. We could never date. Well, this 691 00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:14,279 Speaker 1: is on the list of many, many reasons why but 692 00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:17,680 Speaker 1: I I can't. I don't. First of all, I can't 693 00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:21,799 Speaker 1: eat and turn torqu to myself. It's not comfortable. It's 694 00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:23,839 Speaker 1: not hard. You don't have to tork yourself. You can 695 00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:26,279 Speaker 1: just put your your hand on their leg. You can 696 00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:29,160 Speaker 1: just like be touching them. You don't have to, Tony. 697 00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:31,080 Speaker 1: I like to look someone in the eyes when I'm 698 00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:33,279 Speaker 1: talking to them, and the eyes are not from I 699 00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:39,320 Speaker 1: can't look through my ear to them. And I have 700 00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:41,719 Speaker 1: a long list of why we can never date. Oh yeah, 701 00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:45,839 Speaker 1: I care to share. How many years are wet? I'll 702 00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:50,240 Speaker 1: share over the course of this, but put it or longer, 703 00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 1: I don't know, put a pin in it for now. 704 00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:56,520 Speaker 1: All right, Rachel, good morning, how you doing? Good morning? 705 00:37:56,680 --> 00:38:03,560 Speaker 1: I'm doing okay. What's wrong? Um? You know what? It is? 706 00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:08,120 Speaker 1: A daddy, daughter and wedding issue all wrapped up into one, 707 00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:13,000 Speaker 1: so hopefully you can help me. Um. Essentially, my parents 708 00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:16,160 Speaker 1: got divorced, you know, a couple of years ago, and 709 00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:20,400 Speaker 1: now with my wedding coming up, you know, everyone everyone's 710 00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:22,319 Speaker 1: asking me about the dirty daughter dance and what I'm 711 00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:27,360 Speaker 1: going to do, and I feel really uncomfortable, Um, you know, 712 00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:30,000 Speaker 1: having everyone look at me during the datty daughter dance 713 00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:32,600 Speaker 1: because my dad cheated on my mom. That's why they 714 00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:37,160 Speaker 1: got divorced. So I just I feel really weird being 715 00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:40,440 Speaker 1: up there, and and our relationship hasn't been the same. 716 00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:44,040 Speaker 1: So I want to share that time maybe with my 717 00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:47,439 Speaker 1: fiance and his mom. Maybe we do like my dad 718 00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:50,640 Speaker 1: and I dance and then him and his mom danced 719 00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:53,719 Speaker 1: together to one song, and that way, you know, I'm 720 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:55,880 Speaker 1: sharing that time. I don't know. I'm not sure what 721 00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:58,759 Speaker 1: to do, all right, Can someone explain to me exactly 722 00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:04,359 Speaker 1: what's happening? Because Okay, so traditionally at weddings UM at 723 00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:08,680 Speaker 1: the very beginning of the ceremony, the groom, meaning the husband, 724 00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:11,399 Speaker 1: has a dance that they pick a song to dance 725 00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:15,440 Speaker 1: with his mother, and the bride does a dance with 726 00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:17,920 Speaker 1: her father, and there are songs that are meaningful to 727 00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:21,920 Speaker 1: their relationship. And your dad cheated and my dad cheating 728 00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:26,080 Speaker 1: on my mom. Yea, oh, so now it's uncomfortable. Have 729 00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:28,120 Speaker 1: you Have you worked past it? Though sounds like you 730 00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:31,240 Speaker 1: have not worked past it the two of you, We've 731 00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:34,640 Speaker 1: we've been working on it, um. But our relationship just 732 00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:37,680 Speaker 1: isn't the same. I was a total daddy's girl. We 733 00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:40,960 Speaker 1: had the best relationship, and I just was heartbroken after 734 00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:45,600 Speaker 1: the divorce. So it's not the same. I this is 735 00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,680 Speaker 1: a tricky one. I mean to me, it's your wedding. 736 00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:51,799 Speaker 1: You are his daughter. I think it's okay to have 737 00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:54,600 Speaker 1: the dance, but continue to work through what you're working through, 738 00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:59,440 Speaker 1: the two of you. That's not what I think. Well, look, 739 00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:01,040 Speaker 1: neither of us been to a wedding of our own, 740 00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,520 Speaker 1: so we don't really know. Okay, so maybe we're giving 741 00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:07,360 Speaker 1: you the wrong advice. Well, no, it's your wedding, I think. Yes, Okay, 742 00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:11,200 Speaker 1: tradition is a beautiful thing, but sometimes you make your own. 743 00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:13,480 Speaker 1: You can make your own traditions. And if you don't 744 00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:16,720 Speaker 1: want to have a father daughter dance at your wedding, 745 00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:19,680 Speaker 1: you don't have to do that if you. I mean, 746 00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:21,640 Speaker 1: I understand there's the cheating coupona, but I'm trying to 747 00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:25,640 Speaker 1: compartmentalize for the celebratory moment of your for your father 748 00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:27,120 Speaker 1: and for you, and it might be a step in 749 00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:31,080 Speaker 1: the right direction to healing right you. If you have 750 00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:33,239 Speaker 1: a stronger relationship with your mom and you want to 751 00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:36,200 Speaker 1: do that dance with your mom, then do that dance 752 00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:38,520 Speaker 1: with your mom. If you don't want to partake in it, 753 00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:41,640 Speaker 1: don't partake in it, or let him do the dance 754 00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:43,839 Speaker 1: with his mom. You don't. It's like I think that, 755 00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:46,600 Speaker 1: you know, sometimes we get so stuck in these traditions 756 00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:48,640 Speaker 1: of how things have been for so long and how 757 00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:51,319 Speaker 1: other people's weddings look, and it just might not be 758 00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:54,759 Speaker 1: the case for everybody. And I think that's okay. Yeah, 759 00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:58,040 Speaker 1: I really appreciate that perspective. And I think I'm going 760 00:40:58,080 --> 00:40:59,680 Speaker 1: to have to I think I have to do some 761 00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:02,640 Speaker 1: more walking with my family and just see what, you know, 762 00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:05,839 Speaker 1: what do I feel comfortable with? I think I will 763 00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:08,279 Speaker 1: see this the tiny's point. It is your day. You 764 00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:11,720 Speaker 1: can do no wrong, Like either way is not wrong, right, 765 00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:13,840 Speaker 1: there's no right or wrong, Like you're not going to 766 00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:15,960 Speaker 1: make a mistake no matter what you decide, but you 767 00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:18,600 Speaker 1: should think through. Okay, if you don't do it, what 768 00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:20,960 Speaker 1: happens afterwards? And if you do do it, what happens afterwards? 769 00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:23,600 Speaker 1: I would make a teach heart right pros contact kind 770 00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:25,880 Speaker 1: of a deal and good luck and happy congrats on 771 00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:29,799 Speaker 1: the marriage, the wedding, the DeLeo. Thank you so much. Yeah, 772 00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:32,360 Speaker 1: thank you. I I'm getting a teachert out right now. Okay, 773 00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:36,439 Speaker 1: take bye bye. Everybody is talking this morning about this 774 00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:42,880 Speaker 1: moment last night, Taylor, I'm all the left in God, 775 00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:49,920 Speaker 1: Chris Taylor or walk off hold wrong? The dogs are 776 00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:55,320 Speaker 1: walking off to San Francisco. They went the wild card three, 777 00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:59,239 Speaker 1: the one here comes Taylor to the plate. They are 778 00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:03,920 Speaker 1: bother you, but crowd is going crazy. The Dooger's a 779 00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:09,440 Speaker 1: fence for the National League Division Series one. The Mighty 780 00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:14,359 Speaker 1: Swing by Chris Taylor. Charlie Steiner calling it right there 781 00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:18,920 Speaker 1: on the air live, very exciting. There is science that 782 00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:24,080 Speaker 1: tells you why games, certainly at that level, are one 783 00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:29,360 Speaker 1: in the last second. Really human nature. There's something about 784 00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:35,160 Speaker 1: human beings where something kicks in focus, adrenaline rush, and 785 00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:38,279 Speaker 1: you just get it done. Look at only football games 786 00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:40,960 Speaker 1: in the NFL are one in the last few seconds. 787 00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:48,040 Speaker 1: Something happens. You're a competitor, what happens? Not really a competitor. 788 00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:52,359 Speaker 1: You jiu jitsu all day. Yeah, it's a it's a game. 789 00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:54,239 Speaker 1: It's a fun game, though it's not very It's not 790 00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:58,840 Speaker 1: a game. It's a practice. It's a sport. It's a practice. 791 00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:02,719 Speaker 1: I was corrected by my yoga teacher the other day 792 00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:05,120 Speaker 1: when I said, hey, can I get a session at 793 00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:10,520 Speaker 1: one thirty? And they're like, you mean a practice? Yeah, Sures, 794 00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:13,960 Speaker 1: is that the same DeLeo. So it's okay. Yeah, it's 795 00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:18,040 Speaker 1: a practice. By the way, may I see your hips? 796 00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:24,320 Speaker 1: It's not I'm not wearing it now. You mean like 797 00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:26,120 Speaker 1: like you got a leather belt and I want to 798 00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:31,200 Speaker 1: see one shopping. All right, let's see what we got. 799 00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:35,399 Speaker 1: Let's get down to Bill's business here, kiss am paying 800 00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:38,000 Speaker 1: your bills always. Now, what we're doing is paying for 801 00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:41,920 Speaker 1: your next vacation. You picked a vacation, We take care 802 00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:47,960 Speaker 1: of the Okay, let's see Jessica Guillermo, are you there? Yes, 803 00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:51,560 Speaker 1: I am MS Giarma. How are you? I'm good and 804 00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:54,799 Speaker 1: you I'm doing well. I'm doing well. So you are 805 00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:59,640 Speaker 1: in sane, Gabriel, I am. Now did you win at 806 00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:01,920 Speaker 1: four oh too here on Kiss FM with Jojo on 807 00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:07,600 Speaker 1: the radio? I did, That's what Jojo told me. But 808 00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:09,960 Speaker 1: just confirming that. What was that moment like when you 809 00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:11,600 Speaker 1: got to speak to Jojo, You're on the air and 810 00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:15,000 Speaker 1: you found out you won a qualifying vacation bills paid 811 00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:19,040 Speaker 1: for a grand price. I was totally shocked because I 812 00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:21,360 Speaker 1: have been trying for weeks and I listened to you 813 00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:23,920 Speaker 1: like every single date, and I cannot believe I'm speaking 814 00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:26,960 Speaker 1: to you right now. Ryan, Well, This is gonna get 815 00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:30,080 Speaker 1: better than just speaking with me. We are calling to 816 00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:35,760 Speaker 1: tell you we're paying for your next vacation bills. Congratulations, yes, 817 00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:43,160 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, thank you so much. It is with pleasure. 818 00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:46,520 Speaker 1: So jess where would you go? Where do you want 819 00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:50,120 Speaker 1: to go? Oh? Um? I want to go to Maldivia's. 820 00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:54,560 Speaker 1: I've never been. I've only seen the commercials for them 821 00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:57,600 Speaker 1: Aldives on the television. The water look and I like 822 00:44:57,680 --> 00:44:59,480 Speaker 1: clear Water where I can see if any he's gonna 823 00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:04,759 Speaker 1: get me, so that clear Water Central looks like, yes, 824 00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:07,799 Speaker 1: it's beautiful. I would love to go there. Good choice. 825 00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:10,200 Speaker 1: All right, Well listen, Jessica, hold on one second. We'll 826 00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:11,799 Speaker 1: take care of the details so we can pay for 827 00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:13,200 Speaker 1: and you decide when you want to go. And thank 828 00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:18,680 Speaker 1: you for listening to Kiss FM on air with Ryan Seacrest. 829 00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:25,040 Speaker 1: That's it for us today. So tomorrow we're gonna wrap 830 00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:26,839 Speaker 1: up the week with more Duly Pic tickets and we've 831 00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:29,719 Speaker 1: gone hometown Hustler after eight o'clock and we continue to 832 00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:33,319 Speaker 1: pay your vacation bills on the tens. Another shot ten 833 00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:36,040 Speaker 1: ten this morning with Gavin Diaz to get your vacation 834 00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:38,719 Speaker 1: paid for on l a IS number one music station 835 00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:40,200 Speaker 1: one of two point seven Kiss of Him. You'll take 836 00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:42,880 Speaker 1: care see bye bye bye bye. Thanks for listening so 837 00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:45,640 Speaker 1: on Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe it 838 00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:47,080 Speaker 1: and we'll talk to you again tomorrow