1 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: I could do a whole series on boarders books card. 2 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:09,160 Speaker 1: That's where I spent my child. Same. It's also where 3 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:11,319 Speaker 1: I used to find guys to hook up with when 4 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 1: I was a teenager. Same. Yeah. Really, it's just like 5 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: being prey for pedipiles. It is, and that is why 6 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 1: Borders did close. Fran, very happy to see you wearing 7 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:32,519 Speaker 1: I think your most expensive and stylish piece of clothing, 8 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:35,879 Speaker 1: which is a tied eye shirt with a marijuana leaf 9 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 1: on it that I bought you on the first trip 10 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 1: we ever talked together to Palm Springs Manories all alone 11 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 1: in Yes, I'm really glad you're wearing, you know, an expensive, 12 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:51,200 Speaker 1: designer curated piece of clothing. Because today we were talking 13 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 1: all about fashion through the lens of iconic two thousand 14 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 1: six film The Devil Worse Product. And here to help 15 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 1: us do that is nor Read, incredible comedian and TV writer. 16 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:07,319 Speaker 1: We're going to dive in all things fashion, rom com 17 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: Meryl Streep and Hathaway because this is like a virgin 18 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: the show we give yesterday's pop culture today's takes. I'm 19 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:17,319 Speaker 1: ros damn you and I'm Fran Toronto. Fran. What you 20 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:19,559 Speaker 1: don't know is that that sweater is not just blue. 21 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 1: It's not turquoise, it's not lapis, it's actually cerulean. Are 22 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:28,040 Speaker 1: you wearing the Am I wearing the Tide High Weed 23 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 1: Dollar Bine shirt that you gave me? Yes? I am. 24 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 1: Let me tell you so. Drake dropped a surprise album 25 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 1: called Honestly never Mind, which is such like a kind 26 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 1: of like funck Boy TikTok kind of album title, and 27 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 1: it was kind of immediately deemed the Academine album because 28 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 1: it just has a kind of trancy house feel. And 29 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 1: I would say that the beats there there are more 30 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 1: than there is rapping, Like some of the songs have 31 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 1: a very minimal amount of wrapping, and it's all just 32 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 1: kind of like dance music. It's good. I'm not gonna 33 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 1: lie it's I mean, it's it's some of it as 34 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:16,360 Speaker 1: really background music, but it's like it really shook me. Um. 35 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:19,920 Speaker 1: It found me at a very specific place during my 36 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: week where I came home from a function very late 37 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 1: at night. I had a photo shoot the next morning, 38 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 1: and I just got very very stoned and put on 39 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 1: the album because it had just dropped, and I got 40 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:37,839 Speaker 1: into the shower and shaved all of my body hair 41 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 1: while listening to this Drake album very stoned, and I 42 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: was like, what is going on with my life? But 43 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 1: it was actually like a very meditative, like beautiful experience, 44 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 1: and that the album lend, I think, lent itself to 45 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 1: to to that specific scene of of my life. I 46 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: don't I don't know that I've ever listened to Drake 47 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: album all the way through, like from from top to bottom. 48 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:09,639 Speaker 1: But I am interested in this because I have seen 49 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:13,920 Speaker 1: so many people whose music taste I trust talking about 50 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:15,919 Speaker 1: it and saying that it's good. So I definitely will 51 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 1: check it out. Did he announced it the same night 52 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 1: Beyonce announced? I don't know, actually, and we have to 53 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:25,639 Speaker 1: talk about the Beyonce of it all. But real quick, like, 54 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 1: I'm not really much of a Drake stand either. I 55 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:31,800 Speaker 1: really really loved his album Nothing was the Same. That 56 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 1: was like such an era of New York for me. 57 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 1: I loved his take Care era. I love nice for 58 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 1: what um so you know, I dabble here and there. 59 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 1: I feel like Drake collaborated one time with Jamie XX 60 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 1: and take Care like famously from the x X as 61 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 1: a very x X song, and this album, honestly, never 62 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 1: Mind is influenced from that like a decade ago, you 63 00:03:57,560 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: know what I mean? And I really wish that he 64 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 1: had just hired Jamie XX or someone like him to 65 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 1: make what I think could have been slightly better house music. 66 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 1: But what's on this album is good but still like 67 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 1: pretty generic. I feel like you would feel the same way. 68 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:19,600 Speaker 1: But I'd be interested to know what you think of it, 69 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 1: because to me, it's kind of like a toothless like 70 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 1: Jamie XX rip off. But but the album definitely said definitely, 71 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 1: I'll definitely give it a listen. I love that you're 72 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 1: like rubbing your tip as you talk about the Drake 73 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:35,719 Speaker 1: look that this album it's it's giving sexual energy like 74 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:38,720 Speaker 1: this album. This album is wearing a leak your sex 75 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:43,279 Speaker 1: tape body suit. This album is giving jubiterm peuter jewelry. 76 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 1: Only you know, it's Pride month and everyone wants to 77 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:50,599 Speaker 1: be at least a little gay. Absolutely, and this album 78 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 1: has Susanne Barsha's phone number on their iPhone success okay 79 00:04:54,960 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 1: not the six US. Oh my god. So I was 80 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 1: surprised that the Beyonce announcement did not make more of 81 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 1: a cultural impact. Did you feel that way too, Like, 82 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 1: obviously everyone was talking about it, but it was not 83 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: to the same level as I feel like other Beyonce 84 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 1: announcements happened, and maybe that's because we are used to 85 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:30,720 Speaker 1: her dropping entire albums and so it just becomes this 86 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 1: title wave so quickly, um r I P title. I 87 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 1: actually don't know if that still exists, but I'm sure 88 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 1: it does unfortunately, but this one, I think maybe because 89 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:42,160 Speaker 1: I got a heads up a couple of hours before 90 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 1: it was happening that it was happening, and maybe that's 91 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 1: why I, like I wasn't on Twitter and like didn't 92 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 1: see everyone like saying like, oh my god, Beyonce is coming. 93 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 1: But I do think that, you know, obviously, as we 94 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 1: have established many times before, I am y arry much 95 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 1: on TikTok, and I do think even though like I'm 96 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 1: in my like little algorithm, I think I do see 97 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 1: a good cross section of what's happening, and that is 98 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: what I feel like I'm seeing of like the pulse 99 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 1: of pop culture, like what people are talking about, what 100 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 1: people are making tiktoks about, especially younger people. And I 101 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 1: just have not seen a lot about Beyonce, even from 102 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:27,719 Speaker 1: people on TikTok who are continuously talking about pop culture. 103 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 1: So maybe like maybe it's coming, you know, when the 104 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 1: album comes, when Renaissance drops, you know, in July. But yeah, 105 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:38,359 Speaker 1: I was just surprised. And also I guess, like, you know, 106 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 1: the Vogue UK shoot was really good, but did she 107 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 1: really like give anything away? I guess maybe that's what 108 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:47,840 Speaker 1: it is. It's like, there's not a lot to work with. 109 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 1: That's it. There's a lack of information. There's she's even 110 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 1: selling merch that doesn't exist. People are buying merch online 111 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 1: that does not exist, has no actual like skew numbers 112 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 1: or anything, which only Beyonce could do. I think you're right, 113 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 1: there's a lack of information purposefully that kind of creates 114 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: a lot of allure around it. And we are recording 115 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 1: on Monday morning, so tonight a Beyonce song drops and 116 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:18,240 Speaker 1: maybe we'll have eaten our words or something. But I 117 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 1: will also say, um Show Kunishi, the designer that made 118 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 1: her like kind of armor breastplate for the Vogue shoot, 119 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:28,520 Speaker 1: was designing something for me that week for like this 120 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 1: party that my friend Cheeky through And you can basically 121 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 1: say that I wear the same garment as Beyonce. Wow, 122 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 1: you're like Destiny's cousin, do you know the Destiny's cousin 123 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 1: Destiny's Freema. Um, do have you heard the tea about 124 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 1: the album? No, what's the t There's some tea that 125 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 1: came out in March of this year that Honey de 126 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 1: Jon is producing a lot of album that that would 127 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 1: be a gag, you know what I mean? And and 128 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 1: it makes a lot of sense. Beyonce is always on trend, honey, 129 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 1: and like this wave and era of like discoee house 130 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 1: music that's in a lot of contemporary like albums right now. 131 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 1: If Beyonce did that, it would be incredible. And for 132 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 1: those who don't know, the children out there who need 133 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 1: to be educated. Honey Dijon is a legendary New York 134 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 1: City DJ. Has some incredible albums of really amazing dance music. Um, 135 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:35,319 Speaker 1: she is incredible remixes. She is an icon. Um definitely 136 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 1: go check her out a fashion mogul, I mean she is. 137 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 1: She is one of the one of the o G 138 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 1: New York dolls. I have. I have something that you 139 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 1: know has been on my heart. Okay, well let me 140 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:51,959 Speaker 1: start with this. I miss pampered hands a lot like 141 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: I miss our nail salon so much. I mean these 142 00:08:57,160 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 1: look at so busted. Look at these busted nails. The 143 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 1: gents can't see, but I'm holding up a peter see 144 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 1: the finger which I don't. I'm literally holding. I'm sorry 145 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 1: that was an accident, um, But like I don't think 146 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 1: we realize you and I collectively realize how good we 147 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:19,840 Speaker 1: have it at Pampered Hands because Dalyn has these girls 148 00:09:21,080 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 1: like trained down, and it doesn't matter which girl you get, 149 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:28,840 Speaker 1: they always give you the exact same manicure that is 150 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 1: like such a crystal clean cut manicure that lasts for ages. 151 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 1: And I feel like every time I go to any 152 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:40,600 Speaker 1: other nail salon, it's just like garbage compared to like 153 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 1: what I get at Pampered Hands. Do you know what 154 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: I mean? Yeah, I you know my my struggle with 155 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:50,079 Speaker 1: Pampered Hands. As as we've talked about before, I would 156 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 1: like a more luxurious experience. And yet when I have 157 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 1: sought that out and found it, I have still wound 158 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 1: up back at and Bred Hands, And exactly it's it's 159 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 1: that girl. Yeah. For those for those of you that 160 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 1: don't know, in l A, this this place like it's 161 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:12,840 Speaker 1: a very crowded, like no frills like strip mall, like 162 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 1: Vietnamese run like nail salon. All the girls are so 163 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 1: so good at what they do, and you walk in 164 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 1: and there's no appointments. Basically it's like walking only and 165 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:27,079 Speaker 1: you walk in and they lie to you and they 166 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 1: tell you that the weight is like thirty or forty 167 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 1: minutes just to like get you to leave because they're 168 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 1: always too busy and I only ever wait like five 169 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 1: minutes and then they see you and it's like I 170 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 1: have actually sometimes waited for a very long time. Wow, 171 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 1: really before because I was waiting too long. Daylyn. I 172 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 1: think maybe hooks me up sometimes because I'm always like 173 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 1: in there. Because one time I will say she was like, 174 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 1: we don't have anybody to do I need specifically needed 175 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 1: a gel extension. She's like, we don't have anybody to 176 00:10:57,440 --> 00:10:59,440 Speaker 1: do that, and I was like, please, Jelyn, I'm in 177 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 1: a Russian so sorry, blah blah blah, and then she 178 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:03,840 Speaker 1: removed things around and got someone to see me, like 179 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 1: in five minutes. I feel like I felt like I 180 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 1: was like a celebrity or something. Have you started watching 181 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 1: Miss Marvel yet? Yes, it's a perfect show. So it's 182 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 1: so good. I really I really am enjoying it. Um. 183 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:20,239 Speaker 1: I think it's so fun. I've watched all the episodes. 184 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:24,559 Speaker 1: I'm so proud of Fatty. I love how there are 185 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 1: so many different kinds of Pakistani characters and none of 186 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 1: them feel like flattened. Like it's there's so many nuanced 187 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 1: conversations about being Pakistani like in the show that don't 188 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 1: really need to be in the show, you know what 189 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:44,200 Speaker 1: I mean, and yet they are and I don't know. 190 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 1: I love the show makes space for that in addition 191 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 1: to just being funny, entertaining, delightful, Like the lead is 192 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: so charismatic, Like what else did you think about it? 193 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 1: It's just so fun and such a nice I think 194 00:11:56,960 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 1: departure from a lot of the m c U properties recently, 195 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 1: which have been very like heavy. And also I think 196 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 1: the steaks have to be really really huge, And I 197 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 1: like that this is a much smaller story um the 198 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 1: main character, her whole world feels very real. I think 199 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 1: I was talking about this last week. I think it's 200 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 1: really interesting to watch a Marvel show that kind of 201 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:24,720 Speaker 1: like is self aware about the fandom of itself and 202 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:27,680 Speaker 1: kind of incorporates that into the story. And I like that. 203 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:31,440 Speaker 1: I like seeing someone who's like a superhero stand gets 204 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 1: superpowers like seeing this kid who like has grown up 205 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:38,080 Speaker 1: in a world where superheroes are real, like become one 206 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 1: and have that person be like Pakistani. Yeah, it's just 207 00:12:42,440 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 1: it's it's really well done so far. I like, and 208 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:49,960 Speaker 1: the crush is so hot. Cam Run the one that 209 00:12:50,040 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 1: now is maybe involved in the Oh my god, Yeah 210 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:57,240 Speaker 1: there's this. It's just I'm I'm really excited for the 211 00:12:57,280 --> 00:12:59,560 Speaker 1: rest of the show. I texted Fatina, It's like, please 212 00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:01,480 Speaker 1: just give me the rest of the episodes. I need 213 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 1: them now. I have really been bad at consuming pop 214 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 1: culture recently because I've been working, I've been trying to 215 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 1: be more social. Oh well, I did last week watch 216 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:22,439 Speaker 1: that there's a new Netflix docuseries about fundamentalist Mormonism and 217 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:26,720 Speaker 1: right how evil it is. And I did watch it 218 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 1: in twenty four hours last week, and it was really disturbing. 219 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:36,080 Speaker 1: It was interesting because I had just finished watching Under 220 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 1: the Banner of Heaven, the Hulu show, which is also 221 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:43,080 Speaker 1: like kind of the The thesis of that show is 222 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:48,680 Speaker 1: like fundamentalist Mormonism bad maybe, and just putting a light 223 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 1: on extremely corrupt elements of the church. Yes, so interesting 224 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:56,800 Speaker 1: to watch both of those things. It's not like they 225 00:13:56,800 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 1: were necessarily in conversation with each other, but like, having 226 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:02,920 Speaker 1: watched Under the Banner of Heaven first, I then like 227 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 1: watched this thing that gave me some more context for 228 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:10,400 Speaker 1: what fundamentalist Mormonism it was actually like, which is cool. 229 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:14,559 Speaker 1: I also saw that um Isabel Sandoval, who directed this 230 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: really great film Lingua Franca, directed one of the episodes 231 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 1: of Under the Better of Heaven that is being submitted 232 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 1: for emy consideration, which is pretty cool. And she's a 233 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:28,480 Speaker 1: trans filmmaker, so I love that for her. I finished 234 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 1: The Staircase, so I have nothing, nothing left on my roster. 235 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 1: And the Staircase, let me tell you, I got really 236 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:38,600 Speaker 1: boring at the end, but it was worth it so 237 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 1: that I could see Parker Posey giving one of the 238 00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 1: most amazing line readings I've ever seen, where she was 239 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 1: like laughs, not fair, laughs, not fair, and the law 240 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:52,320 Speaker 1: reflects that she was incredible, which is such an iconic 241 00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 1: thing to say. I have been asking if we could 242 00:14:55,560 --> 00:14:57,920 Speaker 1: do a Josie in the Possycots episode for so long. 243 00:14:58,080 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 1: Parker Posey isn't Josie in the poss Yes, she's Josie. No, 244 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 1: she's the Oh I did see after I mentioned it 245 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 1: last week, A lot of people have been asking us 246 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 1: to do a Star Wars episode, so I really think 247 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 1: we do need to do one. And this week is 248 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 1: the finale of Obi Wan Kenobi, and last week was 249 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:20,520 Speaker 1: so good with Young Anakin Skywalker in a flashback, which 250 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 1: was really fulfilling for me personally. I definitely think we 251 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 1: need to do a Star Wars show. I think you 252 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 1: need to do some work. Okay, if you give me 253 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 1: the prescription, Actually, will you give the Virgins and myself 254 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:35,560 Speaker 1: the prescription for a few that we might rewatch in 255 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 1: time for our Star Wars episode. I think definitely the 256 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:42,120 Speaker 1: prequels because the original films feel like so part of 257 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 1: the collective subconscious to me that like you don't need 258 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 1: to rewatch, Yeah, and then the new ones the Force Awakens. Sure, 259 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:55,040 Speaker 1: I might actually watch the Last Jedi because I haven't 260 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 1: seen it in a while and I do think it's 261 00:15:57,480 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 1: pretty good. Don't watch the Rise of Skywalker, it is 262 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 1: huge mega flop, Dudokoka, and then of the TV shows 263 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 1: like I will definitely want to talk about Obi Wan Kenobi, 264 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 1: and like maybe The Mandalorian a little bit, but like 265 00:16:09,040 --> 00:16:10,840 Speaker 1: I don't think you need to watch them, and I 266 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 1: don't know about that. Maybe watch Spaceballs. Maybe I'll watch 267 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:18,640 Speaker 1: Spaceballs and Preparation SABA because I love Spaceballs. Baseball got 268 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:22,080 Speaker 1: Joan Rivers and it is so good. I mean, Joan 269 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 1: Rivers is an exception, but like I just don't like 270 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 1: like bro comedies like that. I just I don't know. 271 00:16:29,280 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 1: I just I don't know that that's what Spaceballs is. 272 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe I I haven't seen it since 273 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 1: I was a kid, so maybe, honestly, I'll eat my words, 274 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:40,360 Speaker 1: But I don't know if I'm gonna watch episode one, 275 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 1: Episode one, the Phantom Menace. Don't people say that that's 276 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 1: the worst That's Star Wars movie ever? It is, and 277 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 1: I'm currently in the middle of watching it. I watched 278 00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 1: some of it when I was on vacation last week 279 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 1: and then got distracted by something else. And I did 280 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 1: a rewatch of the prequels and like the very beginning 281 00:16:57,400 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 1: of Quarantine, and I skipped The Phantom Menace because of 282 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 1: that same thing, like I remembered it being bad you 283 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 1: have to take breathe jar beings scenes. Maybe, but I 284 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 1: think because of that, I need to watch it. And 285 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 1: also i'm you know you and McGregor is so hot 286 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:18,800 Speaker 1: in it, So I'm just watching for him really well, 287 00:17:19,600 --> 00:17:21,239 Speaker 1: and for Darth Maul. I got my work cut out 288 00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:23,399 Speaker 1: for me. Slash, I probably won't watch that much. You 289 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:25,360 Speaker 1: probably will do not I will do so, I will. 290 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:27,919 Speaker 1: I will have to do some because I don't remember. 291 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:32,200 Speaker 1: For any of the virgins who don't know yet, we 292 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:36,639 Speaker 1: are doing a live show on Tuesday, June, New York City. 293 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:39,720 Speaker 1: It's going to be so much fun. Tickets are still available, 294 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:44,040 Speaker 1: Please get them and come carry with us. We are 295 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:47,280 Speaker 1: going to be doing a live episode. There's going to 296 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 1: be shows from some amazing drag queens, comedy set, cute 297 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:57,080 Speaker 1: little after party afterwards, our first ever live event. You 298 00:17:57,160 --> 00:17:59,359 Speaker 1: don't want to miss it. Yes, And it must be said, 299 00:17:59,400 --> 00:18:03,600 Speaker 1: this isn't us like a podcast episode taping, Okay, Like 300 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 1: I feel like podcast tapings get a bad rap for 301 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 1: a good reason because they're kind of boring sometimes and 302 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:13,879 Speaker 1: ours is not boring. And please get your ticket now 303 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:16,160 Speaker 1: instead of waiting till you get to the door because 304 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:17,879 Speaker 1: they're going to be more expensive at the door. Get 305 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 1: your tickets now. We would hate to have to turn 306 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:23,520 Speaker 1: you away at the door, would hate And Fran and 307 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:25,919 Speaker 1: I will be standing there booing and hissing at you 308 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:41,480 Speaker 1: for not getting how dare you shame? There's actually someone 309 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:43,520 Speaker 1: who wears the Newsy cap who works at the drive 310 00:18:43,560 --> 00:18:47,880 Speaker 1: through Starbucks that I go to, and you're here and 311 00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:50,080 Speaker 1: and she well, I guess I don't want to assume 312 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 1: her gender. They always say, UM, have a good day, friend, 313 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:58,119 Speaker 1: and the friend feels very gendered that think, yeah, oh yeah, 314 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:02,960 Speaker 1: there's words like that. There's like friend buddy. Buddy does 315 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 1: feel like something that one of the like older men 316 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:09,880 Speaker 1: I picked up in a Border's would call me when 317 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:14,480 Speaker 1: I was running late for a musical theater where, Oh 318 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 1: my god, I do think this is kind of a 319 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:19,720 Speaker 1: perfect segue, though, because it is because the place where 320 00:19:19,720 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 1: I first bought the novel The Divil Worce Product was 321 00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:28,440 Speaker 1: in a Border's bookstore, because it is famously a book 322 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 1: that was adapted into a move I forget, I literally forget. 323 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 1: Let me set the scene for the Virgins for anyone 324 00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:36,000 Speaker 1: who doesn't know so. The Devil wors Product is a 325 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:39,680 Speaker 1: two thousand six film that was adapted from a book 326 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:45,880 Speaker 1: by Laura Weissberger, and it is very famously about her 327 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 1: time as one of Anna Winter's assistance um. She very 328 00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:54,800 Speaker 1: loosely fictionalized it into the story of, you know, a 329 00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:57,960 Speaker 1: young girl in New York City who goes to work 330 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 1: for this like how Epowered fashion magazine editor in chief 331 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:06,440 Speaker 1: um and the trials and tribulations that she goes through. 332 00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 1: It was adapted into a film very quickly, starring Anne Hathaway, 333 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:13,680 Speaker 1: Meryl Streep, Emily Blunt, Stanley Tucci, that guy from Entourage 334 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:16,719 Speaker 1: who every six months Twitter wants to remind us as 335 00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:20,960 Speaker 1: the actual villain of the film, and also the woman 336 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 1: who was in the Rent movie. And I would say, 337 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:24,879 Speaker 1: for like, you know, a few years, it was just 338 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:28,160 Speaker 1: a normal good movie. It was just like an amazing movie, 339 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:30,879 Speaker 1: and everyone was happy about it. And then the you know, 340 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:34,760 Speaker 1: the decade and the half that followed was just everyone 341 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:37,720 Speaker 1: meaning this movie to death and claiming as the most 342 00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:40,520 Speaker 1: important film of the gay community to have ever existed. 343 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:43,360 Speaker 1: The thing that I remember the most distinctly about the 344 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 1: first time I experienced the movie was, I don't know 345 00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:50,200 Speaker 1: if you remember this. When the first trailer was released 346 00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:52,679 Speaker 1: for it, they did something which was very unusual for 347 00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 1: trailers at the time, which was it wasn't like a 348 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:58,960 Speaker 1: cut together montage. It was the whole scene from the 349 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:02,920 Speaker 1: beginning of the film where Andy and Hathaway's character goes 350 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:07,199 Speaker 1: to interview at Runway the magazine, And it was like 351 00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 1: very shocking at the time to get so dropped into 352 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 1: the world in the trailer. And I was so excited 353 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:16,479 Speaker 1: because I had read the book. I was very like, 354 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:18,159 Speaker 1: you know, it was a gay teen, so I was 355 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:21,359 Speaker 1: always looking for what the chicklet of the summer was. 356 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 1: It wasn't The Diaries. Well, Nanny Diaries was very much 357 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:30,760 Speaker 1: of the time, but devil Wors product far surpast, and 358 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:34,960 Speaker 1: I do think it is one of the rare book 359 00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:38,440 Speaker 1: to film adaptations where the movie is so much better 360 00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:42,879 Speaker 1: than the yeah, because in the book it's so obviously 361 00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:47,440 Speaker 1: on Andy's side and you're really only getting her experience 362 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:51,760 Speaker 1: and the um you know, Miranda Priestley played by Meryl 363 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:54,400 Speaker 1: Streep in the film is so flat and two dimensional 364 00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:56,480 Speaker 1: and like it's just the villain. And like in the movie, 365 00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:59,439 Speaker 1: obviously it's Meryl Streep, so like she's very humanized. You 366 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:02,159 Speaker 1: understand why she's a monster. She's still a monster, but 367 00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:04,399 Speaker 1: you get why. And I do think it is really 368 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:06,919 Speaker 1: her movie. She was nominated for an Oscar for it, 369 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:11,120 Speaker 1: so Nori places in time. Do you remember like what 370 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:14,560 Speaker 1: you're if not, your reactions when you first watched it, 371 00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:17,159 Speaker 1: Like how what was your how's your relationship to the 372 00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:19,800 Speaker 1: film built? Like what what? What? What was your relationship 373 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:24,280 Speaker 1: to it? Well, when I graduated college, I my first 374 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,800 Speaker 1: uh work was in the fashion industry because that's what 375 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,640 Speaker 1: I wanted to do. And so I graduated from college, 376 00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 1: moved to New York, and then first I interned at 377 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:40,720 Speaker 1: Narcissio Rodriguez, who at the time was Michelle Obama, you 378 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:45,000 Speaker 1: know in inaugural dress like cut like huge, juge designer, 379 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:48,320 Speaker 1: and it was like so toxic and so crazy, and 380 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:51,919 Speaker 1: I remember thinking like I'm like Andy, Like it's like, 381 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:54,560 Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm like Andy, like because you know, 382 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 1: it was like a lot of like yelling at me 383 00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:58,800 Speaker 1: and like being like cleaned this up and go here, 384 00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 1: and like just very stressful, was delivering like garments to 385 00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:05,199 Speaker 1: celebrities and like I just remember thinking like, Wow, this 386 00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:08,840 Speaker 1: is my Like like I'm like this is so fabulous 387 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:12,239 Speaker 1: And it absolutely wasn't. It was so bad. It was 388 00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:17,399 Speaker 1: a time where that kind of story I think was 389 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:22,080 Speaker 1: very popular and very desired in pop culture, like the 390 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:27,320 Speaker 1: peeling back of this super glamorous industry. I definitely think 391 00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 1: it started with America's Next Top Model obviously, which we 392 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:34,080 Speaker 1: have covered on the podcast before. But you know, we 393 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:37,560 Speaker 1: were also used to just seeing this world from afar, 394 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 1: and this was one of the first times where someone 395 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 1: was like, oh, this is very actually very ugly and 396 00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:47,879 Speaker 1: very cursed. Um, and I'm going to spill all of 397 00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:50,600 Speaker 1: the tea all the tea. It is kind of interesting 398 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:53,120 Speaker 1: how that movie or things like it, because Ugly Betty 399 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:57,639 Speaker 1: came out the same year. I think, um that, Like 400 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:01,480 Speaker 1: I also like watched the this movie and Ugly Bettie 401 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:04,120 Speaker 1: and I thought to myself, like, I want to get 402 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:07,200 Speaker 1: treated like ship too, Like I there, it's so funny 403 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,199 Speaker 1: how like culturally there is a kind of like sadistic 404 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:15,919 Speaker 1: appeal to going to an institution and just being completely subjugated. Well, 405 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:19,000 Speaker 1: it's like it's like, look at this world. It's so 406 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 1: ugly and evil and everyone's mean, but like you still 407 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,120 Speaker 1: want to be part of it. And there's something really 408 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:28,119 Speaker 1: glamorous about that survival in New York specifically, like I 409 00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:30,120 Speaker 1: just yeah, I don't know, there was it was something 410 00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 1: that I wanted to be a part of, and I didn't. 411 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:35,520 Speaker 1: I in my mind, I was like, well, getting treated 412 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:37,480 Speaker 1: like ship, it's just to write of passage like that's 413 00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:39,160 Speaker 1: just something that's going to happen to me. I don't 414 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:40,800 Speaker 1: know if I don't know if I stand behind what 415 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:43,240 Speaker 1: I'm about to say because I just thought about this, 416 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:47,760 Speaker 1: But I do feel like Josie and the Pussycats walked 417 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:51,639 Speaker 1: so double where it's brought out absolutely that was in percent. 418 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:53,640 Speaker 1: You have no idea how many times I have tried 419 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,400 Speaker 1: to get friend to watch Josie and the pussy It's 420 00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:59,359 Speaker 1: it's so fabulous. But I feel like Josie was the first, 421 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,400 Speaker 1: maybe not the first, but it stands out to me 422 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:05,720 Speaker 1: as a film that goes into an industry, this one 423 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:09,280 Speaker 1: being the music industry, and it's like very self aware 424 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:11,080 Speaker 1: in the way that it's making fun of it, but 425 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:14,400 Speaker 1: it's also selling as the walk As the viewer, we're 426 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:18,560 Speaker 1: being sold stuff absolutely, even though it's self aware of 427 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,920 Speaker 1: itself totally. It's not trying to hide anything, but we're 428 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:25,760 Speaker 1: being because Devil is brought it. It's still glamorous and shiny. Yeah, 429 00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:28,360 Speaker 1: and you also think about all of the industry by 430 00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:31,000 Speaker 1: in that it has because they were able to pull 431 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:36,399 Speaker 1: from real designers and the real fashion people and to 432 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:42,440 Speaker 1: the premier product. Um. So, like it is very interesting 433 00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:46,520 Speaker 1: that it's supposed to be this like this critique of 434 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:50,000 Speaker 1: the industry, and yet the industry is fully behind it 435 00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:52,680 Speaker 1: because at the end of the day is still an 436 00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 1: ad for And it like reminds me of that line 437 00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:57,480 Speaker 1: that Miranda Priestly says at the end, like everyone wants 438 00:25:57,520 --> 00:26:00,800 Speaker 1: to be us, and like that's it's true. You leave 439 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:04,080 Speaker 1: the movie, you leave the movie being like, okay, sure, 440 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 1: I'm happy that you know, Andy quit or whatever kind 441 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:13,639 Speaker 1: of going. She gave all the clothes to Emily Blunt, 442 00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 1: who deserved but in the book she sells all the clothes, 443 00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:22,600 Speaker 1: which I don't support that stupid. I mean, you would 444 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:25,320 Speaker 1: make a lot of money because but like I don't know, 445 00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:28,000 Speaker 1: I mean, Nori, did you ever work in like media media, 446 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 1: Like did you ever write, Like, did you ever like 447 00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:33,840 Speaker 1: write for publications or working only only freelance? I've written 448 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:38,119 Speaker 1: for Vogue, Um yeah, just like but just freelance. Carrie 449 00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:41,360 Speaker 1: Bradshaw tease Cary Bradshaw here. Yeah, Rose and I are 450 00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:46,680 Speaker 1: trying and true recovering media girls. Rose Rose famously was 451 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:50,120 Speaker 1: my boss. I was I mean not, you know, not 452 00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:53,720 Speaker 1: in what we would call traditional media. I think, you know, 453 00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:59,200 Speaker 1: probably post media, that kind of new media where editorial 454 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,840 Speaker 1: people are going over to tech. But you know, fran 455 00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:07,440 Speaker 1: and I did spend years as um like editorial people, 456 00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:13,719 Speaker 1: as as editorial people in like real editorial, like writing clickbait, um, 457 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:18,360 Speaker 1: you know, and it's so much less glamorous than anyone 458 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:21,480 Speaker 1: would ever imagine, because there's nothing glamorous about clickbait and 459 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:25,000 Speaker 1: traffic margins. You know, like we never we never had 460 00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:27,199 Speaker 1: the experience of or at least I never had the 461 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:30,600 Speaker 1: experience of working at like a big company like Conde, 462 00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,080 Speaker 1: and Austin knows if that would have been different, But 463 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,280 Speaker 1: I still think it's like kind of the same everywhere, 464 00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:39,280 Speaker 1: and like, especially when you're at a freelancing level, you know, 465 00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:43,600 Speaker 1: you're just like still off in your own space, like writing. 466 00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:48,719 Speaker 1: Like at least my time in you know media was 467 00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:53,720 Speaker 1: either writing a home and like writing gay clickbait, or 468 00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:56,879 Speaker 1: being in an office where it was like all fluorescent 469 00:27:56,960 --> 00:28:00,520 Speaker 1: lighting and no one was getting paid well and people 470 00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:02,800 Speaker 1: were suing the owners of the company. We didn't work 471 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,280 Speaker 1: at Coney, but even working at Cone day, like they're 472 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,159 Speaker 1: only very few number of people at the company have 473 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:11,600 Speaker 1: access to the glamour that's in that you know, obviously 474 00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:15,720 Speaker 1: culture cyclical. I kind of think that kind that thing 475 00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 1: might have a resurgence, or at least I feel like 476 00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:24,160 Speaker 1: print media might come back. No girl, Yeah, no, I've 477 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:28,720 Speaker 1: watched so many different print resurgences, and I will tell 478 00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:31,800 Speaker 1: you it's never coming back. Do you remember the dead 479 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:35,119 Speaker 1: Books are garbage, magazine are toilet paper? To remember the 480 00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:40,040 Speaker 1: pivot to video moment in media where every media company 481 00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 1: laid off tons of employees and pivoted to video because 482 00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:47,040 Speaker 1: Google was literally lying about data that it had a 483 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 1: Facebook ads to every single company that I was working on. Yeah, 484 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:52,240 Speaker 1: I was. I was reading an article about this because 485 00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:56,520 Speaker 1: I read an article about Hot Ones, the show where 486 00:28:56,520 --> 00:29:00,600 Speaker 1: celebrities go on and eat really um, and they were 487 00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,000 Speaker 1: talking about how that was born out of that era 488 00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:05,280 Speaker 1: and media where everyone wanted to pivot to video, and 489 00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,640 Speaker 1: it's like the only successful thing that ever came out 490 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:11,160 Speaker 1: of it. Yeah. I hate. The worst thing about that 491 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:17,480 Speaker 1: is making these like YouTube like idiots, like celebrities like 492 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:19,680 Speaker 1: that to me is like that was one of the 493 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:24,080 Speaker 1: like the four horsemen of the apocalypse. Charles, I was 494 00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:26,720 Speaker 1: like once they started to become like invited to the 495 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:30,400 Speaker 1: met gal and stuff like that, Yeah, it's just like, 496 00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:32,600 Speaker 1: oh my god, it's over. I was like, it's over. 497 00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 1: These are like children who are like so on iconic 498 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:41,240 Speaker 1: and just like just young, like it's just their youth. 499 00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:45,680 Speaker 1: So that the devil Is product took place in what 500 00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:48,840 Speaker 1: would it even be? Like I'm not saying who would 501 00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 1: be in it, but like what would it be? Because 502 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 1: that world doesn't exist? So would it be like all 503 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:58,040 Speaker 1: these girls working from home? So would they be at 504 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:01,880 Speaker 1: a tech company? It could start. What I'm thinking is 505 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 1: like Miranda Priestley, they've pivoted to video and she needs 506 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:09,880 Speaker 1: someone who knows that she needs a content creator. And 507 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,160 Speaker 1: Andy is like that content creator, but was doing like 508 00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:15,240 Speaker 1: used car videos before, like you know what I mean, 509 00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:18,400 Speaker 1: Like yeah, she's yeah, and she's doing like thrifts. Yeah, 510 00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:23,040 Speaker 1: and now she's like she's she's a lesbian. She's a lesbian. 511 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:29,440 Speaker 1: She makes she makes Taylor Swift lesbian conspiracy and that's 512 00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:31,440 Speaker 1: her life and her true passion. She doesn't care about 513 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:33,920 Speaker 1: this fashion stuff. And then they're like, now you have 514 00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 1: to start making fashion videos and she's surprisingly really good 515 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,720 Speaker 1: at it. Um and she can fem it up. She 516 00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,120 Speaker 1: fends it up, and it was like, what's happening? And 517 00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:47,680 Speaker 1: also obviously in this version she she um and Miranda 518 00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:54,040 Speaker 1: fuck they because Miranda trouble at home or Emily Blunt. 519 00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:56,360 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I think that would make more Well, I 520 00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:59,200 Speaker 1: think she and Emily Blunt like have a friends with 521 00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:02,960 Speaker 1: benefits situation where Emily Blunt like does secretly love her 522 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,920 Speaker 1: but it's still very casual. But then you know, Miranda 523 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:10,200 Speaker 1: comes in as the mommy figure um and it's like 524 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 1: three ways, you know. Yeah, and then like instead of 525 00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:17,440 Speaker 1: going to like fashion Week, they're like, Okay, you're going 526 00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:22,000 Speaker 1: to south By Southwest, We're sending you to Coach, You're 527 00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 1: going to can Yes exactly. I wanted to ask, Sorry, 528 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:29,680 Speaker 1: this is like very much backing up, but what are 529 00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:34,440 Speaker 1: the words that bait gay people the most for clickbait? 530 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 1: Like what what is the biggest bait for that is? Yeah, 531 00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:41,320 Speaker 1: that is a really good question. Sex stuff, but not 532 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:45,760 Speaker 1: explicit sex stuff, Okay, like you can say, you know, 533 00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:48,040 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm trying to think of an exactle because 534 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:52,040 Speaker 1: because we would we would always think about like what's 535 00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:55,160 Speaker 1: the perfect headline for like S E O and then 536 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 1: also like in the actual U r L, like what 537 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:01,160 Speaker 1: are the words? So I think the so Fran and 538 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:03,840 Speaker 1: I used to work at Out magazine and we worked 539 00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:07,479 Speaker 1: in digital and print as well, But I think some 540 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:11,120 Speaker 1: of the most popular stories of all time were like 541 00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:16,520 Speaker 1: top two hundred gay sex things to try something like that, um, 542 00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:20,000 Speaker 1: and like eleven twelve steps to like having anal Like, 543 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:24,640 Speaker 1: so it's just like a Cosmo. You're telling me that, Like, 544 00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 1: we haven't evolved past like a cosmo. Yeah. And then 545 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:30,720 Speaker 1: and then, of course anything that makes people angry, which 546 00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:34,040 Speaker 1: so I had. I had an article that god really 547 00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:37,560 Speaker 1: infamously went viral and it's probably still going viral right now, 548 00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:40,959 Speaker 1: and it was dear gay men, stop telling women they 549 00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:47,640 Speaker 1: can't go to gay bars. So any time any time 550 00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:52,040 Speaker 1: you say, dear someone, you can't do this thing that 551 00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:56,680 Speaker 1: you want to do, um is it was horrible. There 552 00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,640 Speaker 1: are still people who like email me about it, slide 553 00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:04,520 Speaker 1: into my Linkedins comment tweets. Yeah, because it's the kind 554 00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 1: of article that gets resurfaced every six to nine months 555 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:12,360 Speaker 1: and makes people mad and like obviously they don't read it. 556 00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:16,360 Speaker 1: They only read the headline, um, and they're like, oh, 557 00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:19,160 Speaker 1: like we don't want bachelorette parties and gay bars, and 558 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:22,480 Speaker 1: like the article was obviously like um, also queer women 559 00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:25,320 Speaker 1: go to gay bars, so like, don't tell them they 560 00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:30,320 Speaker 1: can't be there. But you know, I as a former journalist, 561 00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:34,000 Speaker 1: I don't stand behind literally anything I wrote. And there 562 00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:37,600 Speaker 1: are whenever there are hundreds of articles out on the 563 00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 1: Internet that have my name on it. It's very terror 564 00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:42,240 Speaker 1: read like there's naked pictures of me on the internet 565 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:45,320 Speaker 1: from cruel intentions. And I mean there's also naked pictures 566 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,960 Speaker 1: of me on the internet, but I feel worse about 567 00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:52,520 Speaker 1: the clickbait, and I would like it all scrubbed, scrubbed. 568 00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:55,760 Speaker 1: I missed the era of writing when everything was paper 569 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,200 Speaker 1: and we didn't have to worry about the eternal archive 570 00:33:58,280 --> 00:33:59,960 Speaker 1: that we now have of work that we're no longer 571 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,200 Speaker 1: proud of. Well, that's why it was. That's why it 572 00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:04,440 Speaker 1: was nice to work in social media for you know, 573 00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:08,680 Speaker 1: tech overlords, is that you're nothing has your name on it. 574 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:10,479 Speaker 1: It's all just tweets. You don't have to sign them. 575 00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:13,839 Speaker 1: That's nice, that is nice. One of the best performing 576 00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:17,560 Speaker 1: tweets ever. The page that I used to run, that 577 00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:19,839 Speaker 1: I used to write for was gay people are some 578 00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,920 Speaker 1: of the gayest people you will ever meet, which is 579 00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:29,879 Speaker 1: so funny, and it's like it has like likes. It's 580 00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,480 Speaker 1: so stupid, it really is, right, that is it. You 581 00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:34,600 Speaker 1: have to get paid to do dumb What does that 582 00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:37,439 Speaker 1: even mean? That's that's honestly the problem with the Double 583 00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:40,839 Speaker 1: Worst Products. They took themselves way too seriously. Actually, like 584 00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 1: fashion in general, I'd be curious to hear more about 585 00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:47,560 Speaker 1: like your where, how you started in fashion, and like 586 00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 1: what your relationship to it now is, because like that movie, 587 00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:57,440 Speaker 1: obviously it's an exaggeration, but like fashion really is that horrible? 588 00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:01,680 Speaker 1: Everyone is that mean, everyone's like a fucking fascist, Like 589 00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:05,480 Speaker 1: everyone has no allegiance to anything outside of capitalism, and 590 00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:08,160 Speaker 1: it's like so I don't know, it's and it's like 591 00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:14,280 Speaker 1: extremely racist, queer phobic, fat phobic. And they thrive on exclusivity, 592 00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:17,160 Speaker 1: you know. And it's like like the whole gaslight Gatekeepe, 593 00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:18,920 Speaker 1: girl Boss, Yes, and the theme at the end to 594 00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:21,040 Speaker 1: be like everyone wants to be us. Like that is 595 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:24,640 Speaker 1: the ethos of Vogue and all the brands trying to 596 00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,399 Speaker 1: be Vogue. Because everyone is trying to be Vogue. It's 597 00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:30,400 Speaker 1: like you because you don't belong to this thing, we 598 00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:33,239 Speaker 1: are forever going to make a profit, like I one 599 00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:35,640 Speaker 1: of the one of the first. So when I when 600 00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:39,239 Speaker 1: I was at narciss so like there was one um 601 00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:42,760 Speaker 1: because I interned there, and there was one intern who 602 00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:48,120 Speaker 1: was so wealthy and like so rich like some his 603 00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:51,920 Speaker 1: dad was like some Swiss like banker or something, and 604 00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:54,520 Speaker 1: like it was it became so real to me that 605 00:35:54,600 --> 00:36:01,239 Speaker 1: like the way that we like subscribe like like morality 606 00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:04,520 Speaker 1: to like affluence or like like people who are affluent 607 00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:07,719 Speaker 1: are like are better or like somehow like just like 608 00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:12,200 Speaker 1: better people or just like that's what we do. And 609 00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:14,560 Speaker 1: like the way that everyone just like loved him and 610 00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:17,560 Speaker 1: just like we're obsessed with him and like because he 611 00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:20,799 Speaker 1: was just rich, like truly because he was rich, and 612 00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:25,480 Speaker 1: like that was one of my first like oh, like okay, 613 00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:28,520 Speaker 1: this is this is what this is, like this is 614 00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:30,560 Speaker 1: what's going on. Like and if that sounds so like, 615 00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:33,799 Speaker 1: I'm not naive, like obviously I always knew that, and 616 00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:35,560 Speaker 1: but it was still like in my first time, I 617 00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:37,600 Speaker 1: was like so in my face of like he's not 618 00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:40,400 Speaker 1: more talented than I am. He's not, but just because 619 00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:43,279 Speaker 1: he's like fucking rich, he was the only one of 620 00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:47,480 Speaker 1: us who actually got hired like to the team, because 621 00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:50,920 Speaker 1: because he had all these connections and like he could have, 622 00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:54,000 Speaker 1: he was able to bring so much more than just 623 00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:56,680 Speaker 1: his like skills at a job because of his connections 624 00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:59,279 Speaker 1: and network. And you know what I mean, A lot 625 00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:01,640 Speaker 1: of people What a lot of people don't get about 626 00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:06,920 Speaker 1: these industries, like fashion, like media, like entertainment, is the 627 00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:11,240 Speaker 1: people who succeed are usually the people who have some 628 00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:16,600 Speaker 1: kind of you know, class privilege that allows them to 629 00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:21,200 Speaker 1: work for free for long enough to work their way 630 00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:23,359 Speaker 1: up the ladder. That's how it works. Even you know, 631 00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:26,840 Speaker 1: now being in Hollywood in the business like you see 632 00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:32,680 Speaker 1: that people in you know, like content positions executives are 633 00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:36,359 Speaker 1: people who started there, you know, their professional careers as 634 00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:39,719 Speaker 1: interns because for some reason they were able to work 635 00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:42,640 Speaker 1: for free for like five and then yet they still 636 00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:44,879 Speaker 1: want to split the lunch bill, you know what I mean, 637 00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:48,000 Speaker 1: like put it on the corporate card, babe. They still 638 00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:50,279 Speaker 1: send you the venom requests after and you're like, are 639 00:37:50,400 --> 00:38:07,680 Speaker 1: you sure? In Double Works product, when Miranda Preseas coming 640 00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:09,759 Speaker 1: to the office for the first time and there's a 641 00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:13,319 Speaker 1: montage of all the employees freaking out I actually I 642 00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:16,480 Speaker 1: empathize and relate to the most. So there's this very 643 00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:20,400 Speaker 1: plain Jane looking woman who's wearing sneakers and then she 644 00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:23,880 Speaker 1: like puts those away and then puts on heels. I 645 00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:26,480 Speaker 1: actually like really related to her because I was like, 646 00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:29,719 Speaker 1: you know what, she lives in Jersey, Like she she 647 00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 1: takes that path every day, she takes the path she 648 00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:37,480 Speaker 1: gets in. She has she has like maybe a family maybe, 649 00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:40,320 Speaker 1: like she's the first person who went to college maybe, 650 00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:42,359 Speaker 1: and then she she's in there, she has her tennis 651 00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:44,480 Speaker 1: shoes on and then she puts she puts on the 652 00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:46,839 Speaker 1: high heels. Like I'm like, that's who I worked with, 653 00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:49,560 Speaker 1: like all the people at because after Narsis so, I 654 00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:52,680 Speaker 1: also was at Michael Cores and like for for the 655 00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:54,560 Speaker 1: for the main line, I'm so sorry for the for 656 00:38:54,600 --> 00:39:00,000 Speaker 1: the main no diffusion lines, no top floor project run. 657 00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:04,319 Speaker 1: Working with Michael, he's actually great, He's wonderful and so 658 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:07,000 Speaker 1: basically like all the women I worked with in that 659 00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:11,400 Speaker 1: for the women's wear aligned, they are from a working 660 00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:16,040 Speaker 1: class background, like they were like, it's like the people 661 00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:18,839 Speaker 1: who who are in those businesses and who actually do 662 00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:21,799 Speaker 1: the work and make it happen are people from like 663 00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:25,120 Speaker 1: middle and low class backgrounds who had this dream of 664 00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:28,480 Speaker 1: like working in fashion, but their lives are very normal 665 00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:33,200 Speaker 1: and like they didn't dress like luxurious or like they 666 00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:37,240 Speaker 1: were wearing like very basic clothing, you know what I'm saying. 667 00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:40,319 Speaker 1: Like like the all these glamorous industries are run by 668 00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:42,600 Speaker 1: very like non glamorous people. But you have to think 669 00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:45,359 Speaker 1: about the you know, the iceberg of it all, Like 670 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:48,799 Speaker 1: we only see the part that sells us, the thing, 671 00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:52,360 Speaker 1: the part that makes everyone wants to be us. Um, 672 00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:56,360 Speaker 1: but you it, there's the bottom of the iceberg is 673 00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:59,840 Speaker 1: full of just normal people and everyone who is not visible. 674 00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:03,560 Speaker 1: Like there's this huge like swell of resentment around all 675 00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:05,560 Speaker 1: the people that do get to like inherit all the 676 00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:07,400 Speaker 1: glam and they get all the free gifts and they 677 00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:09,959 Speaker 1: get in and who do very little of the work, 678 00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:12,480 Speaker 1: do very little of the work and take all the vacations. 679 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:15,080 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Um, yeah, it's it's I mean, 680 00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:17,000 Speaker 1: you and I are no stranger to like being the 681 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:19,440 Speaker 1: people that are doing no And that's why you know, 682 00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:23,480 Speaker 1: like as as a journalist, like when you're working in media, 683 00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:26,560 Speaker 1: you take as much of the glamour as you can get. 684 00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:30,400 Speaker 1: You take the press trips and the free pr because 685 00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:33,360 Speaker 1: you're getting paid nothing, and so you have to like 686 00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:36,720 Speaker 1: find some way for it to make sense. And also 687 00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:39,479 Speaker 1: you learn very quickly to look down on the people 688 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:42,239 Speaker 1: who are in the wrong below you. And like that 689 00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:44,480 Speaker 1: thing you were talking about earlier about like that everything 690 00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:46,960 Speaker 1: being kind of powered by working class people that have 691 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,080 Speaker 1: a dream, Like that's why Ugly Betty is so good. 692 00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:51,719 Speaker 1: Did you ever watch it? Ye oh my god? That 693 00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:53,680 Speaker 1: I mean Rose and I talked about all the time. 694 00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:56,680 Speaker 1: We're gonna obviously do a whole episode on it someday 695 00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:59,480 Speaker 1: because it's so important to us. But like Betty showing 696 00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:03,800 Speaker 1: up to that space like as herself from Queens wearing 697 00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:08,000 Speaker 1: the fucking poncho, probably wearing sneakers like that is like 698 00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:11,360 Speaker 1: was my dream. And I also, like I remember my 699 00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:14,560 Speaker 1: commune from Brooklyn to like my published My first publishing 700 00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:17,759 Speaker 1: job in New York was an hour like and I 701 00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:21,040 Speaker 1: remember wearing gym shoes to the office and then changing 702 00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:23,279 Speaker 1: into like my night shoes once I got there. So 703 00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:26,200 Speaker 1: I never did that. I wore I either wore sneakers 704 00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:29,160 Speaker 1: the whole time, or I, like you know, wasn't pay 705 00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:30,799 Speaker 1: in the whole time I committed to the bit. And 706 00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:33,640 Speaker 1: this was right when I started wearing exclusively black, which 707 00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:35,640 Speaker 1: was also very like you know, me trying to be 708 00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:38,399 Speaker 1: fashion girl like you did. You did have a black era. 709 00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:40,920 Speaker 1: I had a black era where like I literally only 710 00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:43,080 Speaker 1: wore black. If you open up my closet was like 711 00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:46,800 Speaker 1: a cartoon closet. It's the same as you. I'm color blind, 712 00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:49,320 Speaker 1: and so it's like like worry about in the morning. 713 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:51,240 Speaker 1: It was like, I don't have to mix and match stuff. 714 00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:52,960 Speaker 1: And also, I mean it's a good way to like 715 00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,560 Speaker 1: invisibilize your outfit so people don't like, you know, judge 716 00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,880 Speaker 1: you for what you're wearing. And also it's easy to 717 00:41:57,920 --> 00:42:02,239 Speaker 1: make black clothes like look expensive. It's fashion. There's that 718 00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:04,560 Speaker 1: whole kind of like myth that you know all the 719 00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:07,239 Speaker 1: designers like they don't care what they wear and they're 720 00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:09,640 Speaker 1: just like they have a uniform, they wear the same 721 00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:11,719 Speaker 1: thing every day, and like, I'm sure that's true of 722 00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:14,480 Speaker 1: some designers, but I want to be that used to 723 00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:18,080 Speaker 1: sweet she like I always was obsessed with her and 724 00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:21,600 Speaker 1: looked up to her because there's nothing more powerful than 725 00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:24,640 Speaker 1: like an ugly woman who's like who's at the top. 726 00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:26,720 Speaker 1: Of her game and who doesn't give a fuck, Like 727 00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:30,279 Speaker 1: she never has makes She's like bare faced wearing like 728 00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:32,600 Speaker 1: god knows what, and she has the most. She makes 729 00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:35,480 Speaker 1: the most fabulous beautiful clothes, Like I like, that's what 730 00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:38,360 Speaker 1: I aspire to be somebody. It's like I when I 731 00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:40,400 Speaker 1: go I'm in a writer's room, and like when I 732 00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:43,480 Speaker 1: go to work, I look like absolute complete ship and 733 00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:47,600 Speaker 1: it feels like power. I feel powerful because I'm like no, 734 00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:50,640 Speaker 1: like I'm gonna like I'm here because I'm talented, not 735 00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:53,279 Speaker 1: because of what I look like. I saved that for 736 00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:56,120 Speaker 1: you know what, when I when I need to like 737 00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:58,640 Speaker 1: look good, I look good, but like if you're not 738 00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:02,440 Speaker 1: paying me to look good, I'm going to be ugly absolutely, 739 00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:04,520 Speaker 1: and that is that is what it is. It's like 740 00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,799 Speaker 1: you all, I'm only putting work into my appearance when 741 00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:11,200 Speaker 1: it's making me money. I'm not doing free. Yeah. I 742 00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:15,319 Speaker 1: feel like with Grace like that she was never she 743 00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:16,759 Speaker 1: used to be a model and like she was she 744 00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:18,879 Speaker 1: was a model and then she was like a car 745 00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:22,799 Speaker 1: accident or have you ever seen Grace Coddington in the wild? Yes, 746 00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:26,840 Speaker 1: I have one twice and they were both you fork experiences. 747 00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:30,000 Speaker 1: Once was on the subway, was on the A train 748 00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:34,360 Speaker 1: going downtown, and then the other time was seeing portrait 749 00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:37,319 Speaker 1: of a lady on fire at Angelica. That's amazing. I'm 750 00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:39,480 Speaker 1: so glad she's I used to work at a Ghosian 751 00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:43,000 Speaker 1: gallery in New York. Once I hated the Once I 752 00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:47,280 Speaker 1: was like, I can't do this anymore. Fashion is horrible, 753 00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:52,000 Speaker 1: but I still wanted that toxic experience. I was like, yeah, 754 00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:53,400 Speaker 1: I was like, I want to do an art gallery. 755 00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:55,600 Speaker 1: So then I started working at a ghos End and 756 00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:59,880 Speaker 1: like that was and that was the true buffoonery of 757 00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:02,520 Speaker 1: at all was working and that was like did you 758 00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:06,439 Speaker 1: ever watch Gallery Girls? I did, which none of those 759 00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:10,840 Speaker 1: girls ever you know, they're they're like pariahs. They would 760 00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:15,560 Speaker 1: never actually make it. But also that that TV show 761 00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:18,640 Speaker 1: and I think like that, like art Gallery World does 762 00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:22,600 Speaker 1: feel very post Devil Worce product because also it wasn't 763 00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:27,799 Speaker 1: wasn't Goosian kind of part of the Nanny Diaries in 764 00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:30,879 Speaker 1: some way. I think maybe I think maybe the mom 765 00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:35,800 Speaker 1: worked there. Um, but Gallery Girls for the Virgin Okay. 766 00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:38,880 Speaker 1: Gallery Girls was the show on Bravo only lasted for 767 00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:41,719 Speaker 1: one season and season and it was about a bunch 768 00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:44,120 Speaker 1: of girls who worked at different right galleries. It was 769 00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:47,120 Speaker 1: trying to do for the New York art scene what 770 00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:49,880 Speaker 1: Devil Worce product did for the fashion scene. And so 771 00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:51,719 Speaker 1: there were like a couple of different camps. There were 772 00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:54,200 Speaker 1: the girls who worked at like who were trying to 773 00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:57,440 Speaker 1: be like Southern best girls. Um. There were the girls 774 00:44:57,480 --> 00:45:00,560 Speaker 1: who worked at like the downtown art galleries like goes In. 775 00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:03,640 Speaker 1: And then there were the Brooklyn girls who had like 776 00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:06,120 Speaker 1: opened up this space on the Lower East Side that 777 00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:09,000 Speaker 1: was by my old apartment, and they were like, awful, 778 00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:14,640 Speaker 1: There's this girl, Shantala, who's like a monster, a monster. 779 00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:18,120 Speaker 1: She's either dead or in prisons. And I will say, 780 00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:20,600 Speaker 1: the reason why that show didn't work is because the 781 00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:24,319 Speaker 1: art world is shrouded in secrecy, and they don't they'll 782 00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:28,399 Speaker 1: they'll never like, if you really are in, you are 783 00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:33,240 Speaker 1: never going to to share what is actually happening, because 784 00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:36,480 Speaker 1: the art world really is just like money laundering business. 785 00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:39,200 Speaker 1: It's it's and I've witnessed that. I can't remember if 786 00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:41,640 Speaker 1: I signed NDA or not, but I don't care. But 787 00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:45,279 Speaker 1: like basically, like I would witness things where like you know, 788 00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:50,080 Speaker 1: you know, Larry would tell Larry goes In is the 789 00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:54,200 Speaker 1: owner and he he has been accused of like controlling 790 00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:56,920 Speaker 1: the art market and whatever, and I've witnessed stuff like 791 00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:59,080 Speaker 1: that where like, you know, there's there was a famous 792 00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:02,239 Speaker 1: artist that he represented, maybe at the time. I don't 793 00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:05,160 Speaker 1: know if he still represents this person or not, but um, 794 00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:07,080 Speaker 1: he was on the phone and he was like he 795 00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:11,840 Speaker 1: was like, stop making green, nobody fucking buys green. Start 796 00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:14,640 Speaker 1: painting red, red, red, red, and then like hung up 797 00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:21,360 Speaker 1: because yes, and like literally he would tell yes and 798 00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:27,000 Speaker 1: these painting self and like, to me, the art world 799 00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:31,000 Speaker 1: was so much more fabulous than the fashion world because 800 00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:35,200 Speaker 1: they're one of my favorite women I worked for. Her 801 00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:38,879 Speaker 1: name was Valentina, and she is proud as muse and 802 00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:42,520 Speaker 1: so every well one of her muses. And every day 803 00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:47,360 Speaker 1: she would be head to toe proughtuct fresh off the runway, 804 00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:52,040 Speaker 1: not in stores, and just like just like so chic 805 00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:57,120 Speaker 1: and so so hungry. They were all like I mean 806 00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,960 Speaker 1: this this part is not very fabulous, just eating disorder, 807 00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,920 Speaker 1: were like really hard. Like I worked for another I 808 00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:06,600 Speaker 1: was the assistant of a few women and um, of 809 00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:08,800 Speaker 1: course they put the little twink. They're like, okay, twink, 810 00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:12,480 Speaker 1: Like like no one was gay, that everyone was straight. 811 00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:16,800 Speaker 1: I was the only that I was like the only 812 00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:20,200 Speaker 1: gay at my where I was working, and um, they 813 00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:22,400 Speaker 1: put me with all the like women or whatever. But 814 00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:24,719 Speaker 1: of course they put me with the women, and like 815 00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:27,760 Speaker 1: of course, and like there was this one like god 816 00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:32,279 Speaker 1: like she was so um fragile, like she had just 817 00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:35,600 Speaker 1: gone brittle, brittle, frag she had just gone. She was 818 00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:39,440 Speaker 1: going through a divorce. She was like on something. Always 819 00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:46,600 Speaker 1: daily blowout, blow out, every single every day to lunch 820 00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:48,640 Speaker 1: instead of eating, she'd get to blow out. And I 821 00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:51,840 Speaker 1: would always I'd go to Saint and do you for 822 00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:54,520 Speaker 1: got to stand in bros The like it's on the 823 00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:56,759 Speaker 1: upper side. It's like it's like these little sandwiches. They're 824 00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:59,120 Speaker 1: like very expensive. But like I'd always go and like 825 00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:01,799 Speaker 1: get her these little sandwiches and like try to get 826 00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:03,719 Speaker 1: her to eat, and she'd be like, nothing tastes as 827 00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:06,759 Speaker 1: good as dry bar feet. Yes, but she was so 828 00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:09,800 Speaker 1: delicate and fragile, and I just wanted to like save 829 00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:13,760 Speaker 1: her from herself. Can't But I couldn't. Got the easy culture. 830 00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:17,640 Speaker 1: That's also obviously a huge part of the divorce. How 831 00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:21,160 Speaker 1: they're always talking about how Anne Hathaway is fat and 832 00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:24,200 Speaker 1: calling her the biggest insult is calling her a six 833 00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:32,040 Speaker 1: six Can you believe? Can you believe she's she's so thin? 834 00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:35,799 Speaker 1: I think she she at the time, did she gain 835 00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:37,720 Speaker 1: weight for the role? I think she might have talked 836 00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:43,600 Speaker 1: about gained I'm doing for the role. And she looked 837 00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:49,040 Speaker 1: so fucking good. Oh my god, her she I mean, 838 00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:52,279 Speaker 1: that was her role. That was Anne Hathaway. That was 839 00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,640 Speaker 1: the beginning. I do think there were a couple of 840 00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:58,200 Speaker 1: their women who were up for it. Um, but she 841 00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:02,279 Speaker 1: got it and she looks incredible, acted the ship out 842 00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:07,040 Speaker 1: of it. Her her bangs are so good. Um. The 843 00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:10,239 Speaker 1: I mean obviously like it's it's so I am so 844 00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:13,600 Speaker 1: over it at this point, but the Chanel boots the moment. 845 00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:17,200 Speaker 1: We have to talk about the montage because and like 846 00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:22,239 Speaker 1: the fashion look after looking to take over montages, look 847 00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:26,600 Speaker 1: fashion montages and movies are incredible. I do think this 848 00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:29,360 Speaker 1: is one of the best, if not the best, of 849 00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:33,400 Speaker 1: all time because it's set two Vogue by Madonna, and 850 00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:36,000 Speaker 1: every time the cars passed, it's a new outfit. I 851 00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:39,560 Speaker 1: was like, that's that's art. Watching it in cinemas in 852 00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:41,879 Speaker 1: the theater for the first time, I have never been 853 00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:45,359 Speaker 1: more gagged. Yes, and I think some of the some 854 00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:48,120 Speaker 1: of the looks, I actually would say all of the looks. 855 00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:51,520 Speaker 1: Hold up. Let's stand the test of time. Um. I 856 00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:54,200 Speaker 1: when you were talking about Anne Hathaway not being the 857 00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:56,600 Speaker 1: first pick, I was looking at the alternates, and the 858 00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:59,799 Speaker 1: first pick was Rachel McAdams for the role of Andy, 859 00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:03,840 Speaker 1: which would have been crazy, but like it would have 860 00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:07,279 Speaker 1: made sense because it was pretty much directly post Mean 861 00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:10,640 Speaker 1: Girls and The Notebook, so I think it would have been. 862 00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:13,520 Speaker 1: It would have been because Anne Hathaway was not a 863 00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:17,040 Speaker 1: star yet, so it was a star making role. Can 864 00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:19,319 Speaker 1: you imagine Andy's a Would she have died her hair? 865 00:50:19,600 --> 00:50:22,200 Speaker 1: Would she have been a brunette because Rachel McAdams was 866 00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:25,880 Speaker 1: a brunette at the time. She Actually I was. I 867 00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:31,000 Speaker 1: was watching has Benett. I was watching a TikTok about 868 00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:33,839 Speaker 1: this the other day. Rachel mcgadam's refused to dye her 869 00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:37,520 Speaker 1: hair blonde for Mean Girls. She wanted to play Katie originally, 870 00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:40,960 Speaker 1: and so she had a wig that was worth dollars 871 00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:45,439 Speaker 1: to play Regina and Lindsay Lohan wanted to play wanted 872 00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:49,040 Speaker 1: the other people they went out to for Andy, where 873 00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:54,799 Speaker 1: Kirsten Dunn's Scarlett Johansson Natalie Portman and Kate Hudson. Can 874 00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:59,840 Speaker 1: you imagine that Natalie Portman and the keep her gardens 875 00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:02,520 Speaker 1: where she belongs. I do love Natalie, but oh my god, 876 00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:03,840 Speaker 1: there'd be like a scene where she's like in the 877 00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:06,520 Speaker 1: Vogue closet, just like just like, just like, just like 878 00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:10,200 Speaker 1: scared in the Vote closet. Scarlett Scarlett would have I 879 00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:13,480 Speaker 1: think would have worked. And Scarlett was in The Nanny Diaries, 880 00:51:13,520 --> 00:51:16,800 Speaker 1: which is, you know, the sister film of this movie. 881 00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:19,839 Speaker 1: I don't know if any of the other ones would 882 00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:21,799 Speaker 1: have would have been as good. It had to be. 883 00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:25,640 Speaker 1: And because Anne does have that energy of being like 884 00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:28,160 Speaker 1: a bit of a try hard, try hard that is 885 00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:29,799 Speaker 1: the thing that I relate to her so much. I 886 00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:32,520 Speaker 1: guess she tries so hard in and on an off 887 00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:35,680 Speaker 1: screen Annie Annie Hathaway, I mean sorry, didn't need to 888 00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:38,480 Speaker 1: dead name her, right, Did you hear that that she 889 00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:42,040 Speaker 1: rebranded to Annie? I mean kind, I mean I think 890 00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:44,759 Speaker 1: it's I think it's that she in her in her 891 00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:48,560 Speaker 1: everyday life, most people call her Annie, and so now 892 00:51:48,600 --> 00:51:52,799 Speaker 1: she's kind of coming out, coming out, and because but 893 00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:55,480 Speaker 1: she had to basically all of her like Screen Actors 894 00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:59,200 Speaker 1: Guild or whatever, or her whatever the fucking guild is, Like, 895 00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:01,640 Speaker 1: she had to register as Anne Hathaway and she did 896 00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:03,560 Speaker 1: a long time ago, and she says she regrets doing that. 897 00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:05,360 Speaker 1: She wished she could have done it as Annie. And 898 00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:08,520 Speaker 1: also Anne Hathaway was Shakespeare's wife, so she wanted you know, 899 00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:13,359 Speaker 1: oh I forgot that. She so she's going, She's going 900 00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:16,640 Speaker 1: by Annie. Now I think it's more like this is 901 00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:22,239 Speaker 1: that this is me, this is me. But I think 902 00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:25,080 Speaker 1: she will probably always be billed as Anne halfway because 903 00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:27,480 Speaker 1: that is how we know her. Okay. I also like, 904 00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:30,439 Speaker 1: in terms of villain of the film, one of the 905 00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:32,560 Speaker 1: points that stand out to me, and this isn't breaking 906 00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:34,720 Speaker 1: new ground for the people have discussed this a lot, 907 00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:38,560 Speaker 1: but just like when she she gave like that fabulous 908 00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:42,120 Speaker 1: like at the time mark Jacob's purse, and then the 909 00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:47,160 Speaker 1: way that she just like wasn't appreciative way the way 910 00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:50,759 Speaker 1: she gave them gifts and they were just like so mean. 911 00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:53,560 Speaker 1: And then no one was just like because she's working hard. Yeah, 912 00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:56,279 Speaker 1: No one was just like, yeah, jobs are hard, Like 913 00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:59,960 Speaker 1: I totally erstand. You're a woman, you're a woman, were 914 00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:02,000 Speaker 1: king in this industry. I support you. You know. They 915 00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:04,400 Speaker 1: were all like Oh my god, you're a horrible person 916 00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:07,680 Speaker 1: for trying to like make money and like, you know, 917 00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:11,439 Speaker 1: invest in yourself in your career. Yeah. I get why 918 00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:14,880 Speaker 1: the boyfriend was mad because she was so juicy and 919 00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:17,920 Speaker 1: then she got skinny and for her to lose that ass, Like, 920 00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:21,040 Speaker 1: I get why he's like pissed, he's pissed the ass 921 00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:23,640 Speaker 1: is gone, he's mad. I do love the scene where 922 00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:27,880 Speaker 1: he makes them, you know, a grilled cheek, the Yarlsberg 923 00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:43,520 Speaker 1: who doesn't want to eat a grilled Yarrolsberg. Fuck right, Honestly, 924 00:53:43,600 --> 00:53:45,400 Speaker 1: if back on the back on the convent of like, 925 00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:48,439 Speaker 1: if this were made in instead, like it really would 926 00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:50,520 Speaker 1: be like her group of friends are not being like 927 00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:52,440 Speaker 1: you work too harder. Group of friends would be like, 928 00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:57,160 Speaker 1: there's no ethical consumption under and then be like, don't 929 00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:01,279 Speaker 1: conflate yourself work. You're a class trader. You're a you're 930 00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:03,200 Speaker 1: a class trader, and you need to quit your job 931 00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:08,719 Speaker 1: and become a freelancer. It's the only different colors like 932 00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:24,560 Speaker 1: um that montage um where they um where they're like 933 00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:28,880 Speaker 1: they're like Miranda Priestley's coming or whatever. That is still 934 00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:31,760 Speaker 1: kind of true to life with Anna, Like you would 935 00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:34,000 Speaker 1: think that that would be kind of a cartoonish like 936 00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:38,239 Speaker 1: representation of how she exists inside the County building. But like, 937 00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:41,160 Speaker 1: I had a friend that was like at coned, like 938 00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:44,719 Speaker 1: seeing Anna for like a meeting or whatever, literally like 939 00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:47,719 Speaker 1: last year, and he was telling me that, like, of 940 00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:50,520 Speaker 1: the four assistants that he had to coordinate with in 941 00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:53,200 Speaker 1: order to make this meeting happen, three of which were 942 00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:56,440 Speaker 1: present at all standing in the room waiting with him. 943 00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:58,360 Speaker 1: While they were all waiting for Anna, They're all just 944 00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:01,239 Speaker 1: standing there on their phone. It's just like standing next 945 00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:04,560 Speaker 1: to each other silently looking at their phones. And while 946 00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:07,520 Speaker 1: he was waiting, one of them just says, Anna's walking, 947 00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:11,200 Speaker 1: And like he's like, uh, are you saying that to me? 948 00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:13,640 Speaker 1: Are you saying that to just generally like but like 949 00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:17,480 Speaker 1: her every move that she makes, it's like how a 950 00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:19,839 Speaker 1: lot of the things are directly lifted from her life, 951 00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:22,960 Speaker 1: Like her lunch order, which she recently revealed is a 952 00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:26,000 Speaker 1: steak and a compress a solid. It looks no tomato, 953 00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:29,040 Speaker 1: it does look delicious. And in the movie Um and 954 00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:31,160 Speaker 1: he goes to get her a stake from Smith and 955 00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:34,560 Speaker 1: Wilensky and I actually when I moved to New York City, 956 00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:38,640 Speaker 1: which was the fall that this movie had come out. 957 00:55:38,680 --> 00:55:41,120 Speaker 1: The first place my mom and I went UM. When 958 00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:42,960 Speaker 1: we landed in New York. The week we were moving 959 00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:45,400 Speaker 1: me into my dorm, we went to Smith and Wilensky 960 00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:47,359 Speaker 1: to lunch and I was like, oh my god, I'm 961 00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:50,560 Speaker 1: living my devil is brout of fantasy. I just I 962 00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:53,920 Speaker 1: just remembered that at Narcissi. So we were doing UM. 963 00:55:54,200 --> 00:55:56,319 Speaker 1: It was during fashion week and we're doing a presentation 964 00:55:56,520 --> 00:56:00,360 Speaker 1: in studio and we were like, you know, everything was 965 00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:03,000 Speaker 1: on schedule. We were addressing the models. It was like 966 00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:06,120 Speaker 1: very very normal, all the Suddens when this is all 967 00:56:06,480 --> 00:56:09,000 Speaker 1: I forgot all of this when ran in and goes, 968 00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:12,800 Speaker 1: oh my god, Anna's here because she had arrived two 969 00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:18,560 Speaker 1: hours early without any did not tell anyone the amount 970 00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:23,359 Speaker 1: of chaos. Everyone was freaking out. It was like the 971 00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:27,960 Speaker 1: worst energy. Everyone was so scared, and we just we 972 00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:31,680 Speaker 1: just had to dress the models literally like slap makeup 973 00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:35,520 Speaker 1: on them, and just show Anna because she was there. 974 00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:39,160 Speaker 1: I am kind of obsessed with the idea that of 975 00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:44,080 Speaker 1: of the world being on your schedule. Yes, that is iconic. 976 00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:47,400 Speaker 1: Also famously like doesn't doesn't she like not even have 977 00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:56,400 Speaker 1: a smartphone. She has a BlackBerry. I think she's but 978 00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:59,160 Speaker 1: she famously does. I feel like she is always like 979 00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:03,120 Speaker 1: she always ends meetings. She thinks that every no meeting 980 00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:05,560 Speaker 1: should be more than like five to ten minutes. Which 981 00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:10,840 Speaker 1: did you see? So my friend um Alison has a 982 00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:13,400 Speaker 1: show New York called I think it's called Oh God, 983 00:57:13,520 --> 00:57:17,200 Speaker 1: to show about abortion. And Anna Wintour came to it 984 00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:22,360 Speaker 1: and the person outside taking the ford and then she 985 00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:24,800 Speaker 1: was like, are you kidding me? And she was like no, 986 00:57:25,520 --> 00:57:28,640 Speaker 1: and so she had to get her I D out 987 00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:32,560 Speaker 1: and show the person her ID. She got humbled. Wow, 988 00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:35,920 Speaker 1: I love actually carries her idea though, yeah, she had it, 989 00:57:36,120 --> 00:57:40,120 Speaker 1: I mean truly truly, sir. Okay, something we do need 990 00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:44,040 Speaker 1: to discuss is the Harry Potter book. Do we really 991 00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:49,440 Speaker 1: you have to do? There are currently three trans people 992 00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:57,600 Speaker 1: on this podcast. JK in the Devil's Product, it was 993 00:57:57,600 --> 00:58:01,040 Speaker 1: the seventh Coming? Was it the seventh book that she was? 994 00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:03,480 Speaker 1: It was? I think it was the fourth book at 995 00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:06,760 Speaker 1: the time. Oh, it feels like because I think that's 996 00:58:06,760 --> 00:58:08,960 Speaker 1: at the time that the book came out, it would 997 00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:11,360 Speaker 1: have been the fourth one in terms of the publication 998 00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:14,200 Speaker 1: schedule that maybe most crazed. I feel like the fourth 999 00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:16,800 Speaker 1: one was the like it was one of the most fervor. Yes, 1000 00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:20,200 Speaker 1: it was when it became like an avenge that they 1001 00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:24,080 Speaker 1: came out and there was outside the Borders book when 1002 00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:26,720 Speaker 1: there was so much secrecy about it. But like the 1003 00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:32,480 Speaker 1: idea that at that time someone could get an advanced 1004 00:58:32,520 --> 00:58:37,560 Speaker 1: copy of the most secretive book in the world from 1005 00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:42,160 Speaker 1: a woman who we now know is pure evil. Um 1006 00:58:42,640 --> 00:58:45,840 Speaker 1: is ridiculous, But you know, I wanted to be one 1007 00:58:45,840 --> 00:58:50,280 Speaker 1: of those little twins reading that book. Early. Maybe Andy 1008 00:58:50,360 --> 00:58:53,200 Speaker 1: called j K. She was like, I also hate trans people, 1009 00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:55,560 Speaker 1: and there's a safe space we could talk about it. 1010 00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:57,680 Speaker 1: And then they had a conversation, which like you know what, 1011 00:58:57,720 --> 00:58:59,800 Speaker 1: You're cool girl, and then she just like she gave 1012 00:58:59,800 --> 00:59:02,200 Speaker 1: her that It was like, listen, the first thing we 1013 00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:10,800 Speaker 1: have to get through is trans women are men. Yeah. Yeah, 1014 00:59:10,920 --> 00:59:14,480 Speaker 1: And she was like to advanced copies. Yeah, I'm sending 1015 00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:21,840 Speaker 1: one copies, one for all of the genders that exists. 1016 00:59:23,640 --> 00:59:28,160 Speaker 1: I think that's what happened. That is exactly what happened. 1017 00:59:28,160 --> 00:59:30,560 Speaker 1: I hope that like some news site who's listening to 1018 00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:33,480 Speaker 1: our podcast takes that as a headline and just runs 1019 00:59:33,560 --> 00:59:36,360 Speaker 1: with it. Breaks do you think j K Rowling has 1020 00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:39,520 Speaker 1: seen the Devil Wors product? Probably yeah, if she, I'm 1021 00:59:39,560 --> 00:59:42,800 Speaker 1: sure she's obsessed with anything she's mentioned. And yeah, she 1022 00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:45,720 Speaker 1: certainly does reply to a lot of tweets. Yeah she 1023 00:59:45,840 --> 00:59:50,600 Speaker 1: has the time. Um, I have to say, Uh, you 1024 00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:53,680 Speaker 1: were talking earlier about like people that just want to 1025 00:59:53,720 --> 00:59:55,720 Speaker 1: show up and do the job, but like it doesn't 1026 00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:57,800 Speaker 1: matter like how they look. I'm thinking a little bit 1027 00:59:57,800 --> 01:00:02,720 Speaker 1: about Andre Leon Tallyho. Stanley Tu's character was famously based 1028 01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:05,640 Speaker 1: on him, and I feel like, you know, obviously Andre 1029 01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:07,800 Speaker 1: is like very fabulous and like shut up to work 1030 01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:11,000 Speaker 1: looking fami, but he would he said often he was 1031 01:00:11,080 --> 01:00:14,160 Speaker 1: like what I lack in beauty, like a self deprecating 1032 01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:15,520 Speaker 1: kind of joke. You would say, like what I lack 1033 01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:17,840 Speaker 1: in beauty, I have in brains. And that's like what 1034 01:00:17,840 --> 01:00:21,120 Speaker 1: what makes me necessary to every single you know space 1035 01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:24,360 Speaker 1: I'm in. And I think that's so true, like especially 1036 01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:28,440 Speaker 1: in my experience, like I am the try hard. I 1037 01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:30,960 Speaker 1: like don't have like you know, the fashion chops a 1038 01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:33,440 Speaker 1: lot of the time, and I feel like I'm not cool, 1039 01:00:33,760 --> 01:00:36,640 Speaker 1: you know, but I I do you are cool. I'm like, 1040 01:00:36,680 --> 01:00:39,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, what are you doing? You look literally so 1041 01:00:39,360 --> 01:00:51,240 Speaker 1: cool that you do well. I mean, I don't know, 1042 01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:54,280 Speaker 1: maybe working in media, I just like um hammered the 1043 01:00:54,320 --> 01:00:55,960 Speaker 1: idea that I'm not cool into my head over and 1044 01:00:56,000 --> 01:00:58,520 Speaker 1: over again. Maybe that's just like part of the conditioning. 1045 01:00:58,800 --> 01:01:02,000 Speaker 1: But regardless, like I do feel like that is I 1046 01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:05,400 Speaker 1: think a lot of people forget about what it really 1047 01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:08,920 Speaker 1: takes to make yourself necessary because obviously, you know, in 1048 01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:11,600 Speaker 1: a superficial industry, you can show up to work looking 1049 01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:13,600 Speaker 1: fab every day and not really do a great job. 1050 01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:16,600 Speaker 1: Like that is true, like it's not a meritocracy. But 1051 01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:19,520 Speaker 1: if you do prove your worth over and over again 1052 01:01:19,880 --> 01:01:22,560 Speaker 1: like a lot of times, that does make you necessary, unless, 1053 01:01:22,600 --> 01:01:24,840 Speaker 1: of course, you work in digital media, in which case 1054 01:01:24,960 --> 01:01:28,520 Speaker 1: you are disposable. But like print media, it's like you're safe, 1055 01:01:28,600 --> 01:01:33,000 Speaker 1: you know. Ecagozian I started as an intern and they 1056 01:01:33,160 --> 01:01:35,520 Speaker 1: never hire interns, they just use them, and they're all 1057 01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:38,120 Speaker 1: rich kids. So it's like like the kid of like 1058 01:01:38,720 --> 01:01:41,160 Speaker 1: so and so celebrity would like be an intern for 1059 01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:43,600 Speaker 1: a season or something, and so I went in there 1060 01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:45,320 Speaker 1: being like I want a job. I want a job 1061 01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:48,200 Speaker 1: from this. I was a waiter the whole time I 1062 01:01:48,240 --> 01:01:51,320 Speaker 1: was interning, like trying to make money, like very come 1063 01:01:51,360 --> 01:01:55,120 Speaker 1: from a like a very working class background, and um, 1064 01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:58,560 Speaker 1: the way that I got a job was I started 1065 01:01:58,680 --> 01:02:05,200 Speaker 1: making the models of gallery spaces to prep for the show, 1066 01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:08,520 Speaker 1: so like whenever the curator wanted to see, like so 1067 01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:12,200 Speaker 1: before they like have the actual show, there's a architectural 1068 01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:15,120 Speaker 1: model and then you print out like smaller sizes of 1069 01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:18,160 Speaker 1: the paintings or the sculptures, and then the curator moves 1070 01:02:18,200 --> 01:02:20,960 Speaker 1: it around almost like a dollhouse, and then that from 1071 01:02:21,000 --> 01:02:23,720 Speaker 1: that then they make the real show. I started just 1072 01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:26,120 Speaker 1: doing that and it was very easy. It was just 1073 01:02:26,160 --> 01:02:29,439 Speaker 1: like using very basic photoshop skills to like make this, 1074 01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:33,560 Speaker 1: and before long I became the person that someone would 1075 01:02:33,560 --> 01:02:37,600 Speaker 1: call to make one like from London or China or 1076 01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:41,840 Speaker 1: like wherever whatever. And so by the time they started 1077 01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:45,760 Speaker 1: to actually like need me and they actually couldn't, I 1078 01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:47,360 Speaker 1: was the one who knew how to do these things, 1079 01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:51,800 Speaker 1: even though it was based it was like basic skills. 1080 01:02:51,840 --> 01:02:54,439 Speaker 1: All of you know, our bosses were older people who 1081 01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:56,720 Speaker 1: would not know how to use any of those things. 1082 01:02:57,240 --> 01:02:58,800 Speaker 1: And so by the time I was like I'm leaving 1083 01:02:58,840 --> 01:03:01,240 Speaker 1: because I got offered a job somewhere else, They're like, 1084 01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:03,440 Speaker 1: oh wait a second, Wait a second, don't leave, don't leave, 1085 01:03:03,480 --> 01:03:05,680 Speaker 1: and then you know hired me on. So it's like 1086 01:03:06,160 --> 01:03:08,360 Speaker 1: it's like literally just because of I was making those 1087 01:03:08,360 --> 01:03:11,800 Speaker 1: like stupid little but you come indispensable. That's what you 1088 01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:14,520 Speaker 1: have to get. It's like it's interesting. Yeah, I don't know, 1089 01:03:14,600 --> 01:03:18,040 Speaker 1: maybe it's not interesting. I just like it. Kids, if 1090 01:03:18,080 --> 01:03:22,760 Speaker 1: you're listening to this, yes, make yourself indispensable your job. 1091 01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:25,760 Speaker 1: I'm sure all of us have done a version of 1092 01:03:25,800 --> 01:03:28,480 Speaker 1: that at different jobs that we've had. Like you do 1093 01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:31,320 Speaker 1: something that like no one was asking you to do 1094 01:03:31,960 --> 01:03:34,840 Speaker 1: and it proves to be very like either profitable or 1095 01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:38,200 Speaker 1: helpful or whatever, and then they no longer can let 1096 01:03:38,240 --> 01:03:39,760 Speaker 1: go of you. I mean that was very much my 1097 01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:42,760 Speaker 1: experience and media when I was working it out. Um, 1098 01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:47,120 Speaker 1: no one there was doing like junket interviews with celebrities, 1099 01:03:47,200 --> 01:03:52,000 Speaker 1: and like we were always getting those offers because like 1100 01:03:52,040 --> 01:03:54,840 Speaker 1: we were, you know, the like the biggest lgbt Q 1101 01:03:55,080 --> 01:03:58,880 Speaker 1: plus magazine in the country. Um, and so I just 1102 01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:01,040 Speaker 1: started doing them because no one else was, and like 1103 01:04:01,960 --> 01:04:04,560 Speaker 1: I was really good at them, and like they would 1104 01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:07,800 Speaker 1: go viral and then like it was something that the 1105 01:04:07,840 --> 01:04:11,840 Speaker 1: magazine kind of needed and then I like had the 1106 01:04:11,920 --> 01:04:14,120 Speaker 1: power of this thing that no one had asked me 1107 01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:15,760 Speaker 1: to do, and I was just like, I'm going to 1108 01:04:15,840 --> 01:04:17,560 Speaker 1: do it and be really good at it, and then 1109 01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:20,320 Speaker 1: you're going to realize like it's actually really valuable to you, 1110 01:04:20,880 --> 01:04:25,040 Speaker 1: and then I'm gonna leave and go work. Exactly, I'm 1111 01:04:25,040 --> 01:04:27,280 Speaker 1: gonna did you leave you high and dry? That is 1112 01:04:27,320 --> 01:04:29,520 Speaker 1: the That is the other thing. Also just about like 1113 01:04:30,360 --> 01:04:33,320 Speaker 1: quitting your job in general. Anybody listening to this podcast, 1114 01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:37,680 Speaker 1: quit your job. I just did it, and it was 1115 01:04:37,720 --> 01:04:41,200 Speaker 1: so and I was on my close friends Instagram story. 1116 01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:47,560 Speaker 1: I posted the photo of Andy throwing her phone as 1117 01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:50,320 Speaker 1: my like, as my like tease to my friends that 1118 01:04:50,400 --> 01:04:53,720 Speaker 1: I quit my job. Truly, Like the artifice of like 1119 01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:56,480 Speaker 1: you needing a nine to five is like just like, 1120 01:04:56,640 --> 01:04:59,120 Speaker 1: don't subscribe to it. Like you can work hard enough 1121 01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:02,000 Speaker 1: to work for yourself off, it's not worth it. Every 1122 01:05:02,080 --> 01:05:06,560 Speaker 1: job sucks. That's actually every jobs. That is the lesson 1123 01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:09,280 Speaker 1: of the version of the double Wares products that every 1124 01:05:09,400 --> 01:05:13,560 Speaker 1: job sucks. Working for the man sucks. And I it's 1125 01:05:13,560 --> 01:05:19,480 Speaker 1: funny now to see like fashion try to create commentary 1126 01:05:19,640 --> 01:05:22,000 Speaker 1: on things that we talked about in the justice space. 1127 01:05:22,080 --> 01:05:24,880 Speaker 1: Now like brand, like fashion, brand is trying to be woke, 1128 01:05:24,960 --> 01:05:27,280 Speaker 1: and like I think fashion has like a responsibility to 1129 01:05:27,320 --> 01:05:29,440 Speaker 1: be sustainable, so I'm like not really talking about that, 1130 01:05:29,480 --> 01:05:33,280 Speaker 1: but like, honestly, this like last Balenciaga runway that was like, 1131 01:05:33,480 --> 01:05:35,480 Speaker 1: how did you see this? It was at like NASDAC 1132 01:05:35,960 --> 01:05:39,240 Speaker 1: or whatever it was, Yes, and like the whole line 1133 01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:44,000 Speaker 1: is like a critique on like capitalism or something. If 1134 01:05:44,040 --> 01:05:48,160 Speaker 1: you're like, that's not a quick teak if you're it 1135 01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:50,320 Speaker 1: was so stupid and they should stop trying to do that, 1136 01:05:50,360 --> 01:05:54,680 Speaker 1: which I say, I was gonna say. Unfortunately, I thought 1137 01:05:54,680 --> 01:05:57,000 Speaker 1: the run I was very cool. I did too when 1138 01:05:57,000 --> 01:06:01,200 Speaker 1: I really want some of the ass I don't want 1139 01:06:01,520 --> 01:06:05,800 Speaker 1: fashion or any brands to like have a critique on capitalism, 1140 01:06:06,000 --> 01:06:08,440 Speaker 1: like like companies do not have a voice in the 1141 01:06:08,480 --> 01:06:12,560 Speaker 1: conversation of like anti capital a critique on being a 1142 01:06:12,640 --> 01:06:15,920 Speaker 1: dumb bitch or if honestly, it'd be like it'd be 1143 01:06:15,960 --> 01:06:19,440 Speaker 1: like a slaughterhouse having a critique on being like everyone 1144 01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:23,160 Speaker 1: should go vegan, like like what wait one second here, 1145 01:06:23,240 --> 01:06:27,560 Speaker 1: and then they're like grinding a cow. Yeah, it's just 1146 01:06:27,680 --> 01:06:31,160 Speaker 1: not um, it's stupid sometimes, but I just and they 1147 01:06:31,200 --> 01:06:36,400 Speaker 1: just they they famously just did the like dollar dirty, dirty, 1148 01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:41,840 Speaker 1: dirty sneaker. Yes, arms about so it's like, come on, 1149 01:06:42,080 --> 01:06:44,720 Speaker 1: you know what I do do like that that they did, 1150 01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:46,680 Speaker 1: which was also kind of a publicity something like that 1151 01:06:46,720 --> 01:06:50,920 Speaker 1: where the comb shoes were the wait, maybe those weren't Balenciago, 1152 01:06:50,960 --> 01:06:53,760 Speaker 1: were those more Jella? They were these shoes that looked 1153 01:06:53,760 --> 01:06:58,640 Speaker 1: like they were covered and come like, you know, I 1154 01:06:58,680 --> 01:07:01,320 Speaker 1: would mind, I wouldn't you know what I really wanted. 1155 01:07:01,600 --> 01:07:04,680 Speaker 1: I wanted Alexa Demi's like all the pants that went 1156 01:07:04,760 --> 01:07:07,600 Speaker 1: up to her shoulders look like have you seen that? 1157 01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:11,200 Speaker 1: Have you seen that? It is really gross the way 1158 01:07:11,200 --> 01:07:17,040 Speaker 1: that once you um have money to spend on nice clothes, 1159 01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:20,680 Speaker 1: even if that's not something that you have traditionally cared about, 1160 01:07:21,240 --> 01:07:25,400 Speaker 1: you you all of a sudden it becomes real important 1161 01:07:25,600 --> 01:07:28,680 Speaker 1: because I have like now gone through this these cycles 1162 01:07:28,680 --> 01:07:30,600 Speaker 1: in my life where you know, like when I was 1163 01:07:30,640 --> 01:07:32,800 Speaker 1: a teenager and I went to college for the first 1164 01:07:32,840 --> 01:07:36,440 Speaker 1: time is out of time when my parents were making 1165 01:07:36,480 --> 01:07:39,600 Speaker 1: a lot of money and I like had all this 1166 01:07:39,720 --> 01:07:42,600 Speaker 1: designer ship that like I didn't really care about. But 1167 01:07:42,640 --> 01:07:44,960 Speaker 1: it was just like because I'd been reading the Divorce 1168 01:07:45,040 --> 01:07:46,760 Speaker 1: product and like saw the movie and I was like, 1169 01:07:46,760 --> 01:07:49,560 Speaker 1: oh my god, I have to have like a product backpack. 1170 01:07:49,960 --> 01:07:52,760 Speaker 1: And then like I when I was like poor and 1171 01:07:52,800 --> 01:07:55,240 Speaker 1: living in New York and like my parents weren't supporting 1172 01:07:55,240 --> 01:07:58,120 Speaker 1: me anymore, I like sold it all and like didn't 1173 01:07:58,280 --> 01:08:01,200 Speaker 1: care about wearing stuff like that. Now as an adult, 1174 01:08:01,280 --> 01:08:04,160 Speaker 1: like once I started like making real money, I was like, oh, 1175 01:08:04,200 --> 01:08:07,360 Speaker 1: well now I want nice things again. Yeah. I just um, 1176 01:08:07,520 --> 01:08:12,080 Speaker 1: I just finished I'm finishing my first ever real lucrative 1177 01:08:12,240 --> 01:08:16,080 Speaker 1: job ever. And so I bought. I bought a produ 1178 01:08:16,120 --> 01:08:19,639 Speaker 1: bag and it was like it felt so honestly, it 1179 01:08:19,680 --> 01:08:23,559 Speaker 1: was an incredible experience. I love my bag. I get 1180 01:08:23,640 --> 01:08:28,720 Speaker 1: nothing but compliments. People treat me better, which is insane. 1181 01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:32,200 Speaker 1: When I when I walked out of that shop with 1182 01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:35,080 Speaker 1: the shopping bag, like the huge shopping bag, it was 1183 01:08:35,200 --> 01:08:40,600 Speaker 1: wrapped up. The instant change of experience that I was 1184 01:08:40,680 --> 01:08:43,479 Speaker 1: having in the world was actually kind of dark and 1185 01:08:43,640 --> 01:08:47,479 Speaker 1: sinister because it made me realize how much of this 1186 01:08:47,560 --> 01:08:50,559 Speaker 1: stuff is just like code. It's like it's literally just 1187 01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:52,639 Speaker 1: like the matrix. Just walk into a prod and ask 1188 01:08:52,680 --> 01:08:55,240 Speaker 1: for an en shopping back. I would have saved so much. 1189 01:08:55,479 --> 01:08:58,560 Speaker 1: I just got a shopping back because my experiences immediately 1190 01:08:58,560 --> 01:09:02,160 Speaker 1: started changing, even like social interactions where I was um 1191 01:09:02,479 --> 01:09:05,000 Speaker 1: getting into an elevator to get to go back to 1192 01:09:05,040 --> 01:09:08,439 Speaker 1: my car, and in the elevator walked a girl with 1193 01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:12,400 Speaker 1: her own product shopping bag. And I would have never 1194 01:09:13,080 --> 01:09:16,479 Speaker 1: ever spoken to this person ever, but because we both 1195 01:09:16,520 --> 01:09:20,000 Speaker 1: had these shopping bags, we started talking about what did 1196 01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:22,000 Speaker 1: you get? And then also like are you going on 1197 01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:25,080 Speaker 1: a trip soon? Oh you live here? Oh you're from 1198 01:09:25,160 --> 01:09:27,080 Speaker 1: It opened up this whole and she had like a jody. 1199 01:09:27,160 --> 01:09:30,000 Speaker 1: She had like a gorgeous Botako jody that that's my 1200 01:09:30,080 --> 01:09:32,880 Speaker 1: next that's my next bag. But like, well, just they 1201 01:09:32,920 --> 01:09:36,080 Speaker 1: don't hold a lot. I don't care. It looks good, 1202 01:09:36,640 --> 01:09:40,160 Speaker 1: they're very, they're very and then the zippers horrible. I've 1203 01:09:40,200 --> 01:09:42,439 Speaker 1: heard all I've heard all of these things, but I 1204 01:09:42,479 --> 01:09:45,479 Speaker 1: totally support this woman. This woman the elevator and like 1205 01:09:45,800 --> 01:09:48,639 Speaker 1: it's just like I would have never And my friend 1206 01:09:48,760 --> 01:09:51,519 Speaker 1: was with me, who was very poor, and she was 1207 01:09:51,560 --> 01:09:53,679 Speaker 1: just like who I made come with me to get 1208 01:09:53,680 --> 01:10:03,920 Speaker 1: the back. Wanted wanted to witness ascension the next d 1209 01:10:04,439 --> 01:10:07,599 Speaker 1: literally come with me, but like literally, like there has 1210 01:10:07,640 --> 01:10:11,280 Speaker 1: to be someone to have witnesses lunch. I bought lunch. 1211 01:10:16,840 --> 01:10:21,320 Speaker 1: Combating bad shopping habits is like the issue for me now, 1212 01:10:21,439 --> 01:10:23,960 Speaker 1: I feel like the things that I'm always telling myself 1213 01:10:24,320 --> 01:10:27,559 Speaker 1: that my friend and bestowed on me was shop for 1214 01:10:27,640 --> 01:10:33,280 Speaker 1: the collection, not the occasion, because I'm always shopping because 1215 01:10:33,320 --> 01:10:35,040 Speaker 1: i have a party to go to or whatever, and 1216 01:10:35,160 --> 01:10:37,640 Speaker 1: I'm like an event to whatever, and I'm thinking specifically 1217 01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:39,760 Speaker 1: for that party, and then i might wear it once 1218 01:10:39,840 --> 01:10:41,960 Speaker 1: then like it's unwearable. This is why you have to 1219 01:10:41,960 --> 01:10:44,240 Speaker 1: shop your closet, as I've heard a lot of people 1220 01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:47,640 Speaker 1: talk about on TikTok shop your closet, which is, you know, 1221 01:10:47,680 --> 01:10:50,519 Speaker 1: go into your closet and treat it as like a 1222 01:10:50,560 --> 01:10:54,680 Speaker 1: boutique because you wish because you will find things in 1223 01:10:54,720 --> 01:10:57,639 Speaker 1: there that you never wear. I would never think of, 1224 01:10:57,720 --> 01:11:00,840 Speaker 1: like try putting things together. I have a subscribed to 1225 01:11:01,040 --> 01:11:03,400 Speaker 1: and I think like part of this is like obviously 1226 01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:06,280 Speaker 1: like being a fat person in a world that like 1227 01:11:06,400 --> 01:11:11,360 Speaker 1: does not value or like you know, center fatness. Yeah, 1228 01:11:11,439 --> 01:11:14,719 Speaker 1: it's like I'm I'm like, oh, i I'm like buying 1229 01:11:14,840 --> 01:11:17,120 Speaker 1: things that I can just like put on my body 1230 01:11:17,240 --> 01:11:19,120 Speaker 1: because I'm not a person who can go into the 1231 01:11:19,160 --> 01:11:21,120 Speaker 1: world and just like find a bunch of things that 1232 01:11:21,160 --> 01:11:24,360 Speaker 1: will go together in an interesting way. And I'm trying 1233 01:11:24,400 --> 01:11:26,400 Speaker 1: to now look at my closet and be more intentional 1234 01:11:26,400 --> 01:11:28,600 Speaker 1: about like, Okay, I have all these pieces, Like I 1235 01:11:28,640 --> 01:11:31,519 Speaker 1: don't need to just like find one thing that someone 1236 01:11:31,640 --> 01:11:33,280 Speaker 1: sold me that I can throw my body and go 1237 01:11:33,320 --> 01:11:36,320 Speaker 1: out into the world that will like hide my body 1238 01:11:36,400 --> 01:11:38,280 Speaker 1: or make it look better than it is. Like I 1239 01:11:38,360 --> 01:11:41,680 Speaker 1: have to be an active participant in the way that 1240 01:11:41,760 --> 01:11:43,960 Speaker 1: I present and show up in the world to create 1241 01:11:44,000 --> 01:11:46,120 Speaker 1: being like being bigger bodied or like whatever you wanna 1242 01:11:46,160 --> 01:11:48,880 Speaker 1: call it, like it because I am too like it. 1243 01:11:48,880 --> 01:11:51,280 Speaker 1: It creates a panic where like if you find something 1244 01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:55,360 Speaker 1: that even if you like like, you have to get 1245 01:11:55,360 --> 01:11:57,040 Speaker 1: it because you're like, I don't know the next time 1246 01:11:57,120 --> 01:12:00,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna find something that fits me that is this 1247 01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:06,000 Speaker 1: thing or as like yeah, or like buying aspirationally, like oh, 1248 01:12:06,120 --> 01:12:08,400 Speaker 1: this is like a little tight, but like you know, 1249 01:12:08,439 --> 01:12:11,840 Speaker 1: it'll be good when I like lose fifteen pounds or whatever. 1250 01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:14,720 Speaker 1: But I went shopping recently, I like bought a bunch 1251 01:12:14,800 --> 01:12:18,000 Speaker 1: of stuff online and at Nordstrom. It was delivered in 1252 01:12:18,120 --> 01:12:20,000 Speaker 1: store and I went and like tried it all on 1253 01:12:20,120 --> 01:12:21,799 Speaker 1: to see if I wanted to keep it or return 1254 01:12:21,840 --> 01:12:24,040 Speaker 1: any of it. And there was a dress that I bought, 1255 01:12:24,040 --> 01:12:27,320 Speaker 1: which was like, body con is like not uh something 1256 01:12:27,360 --> 01:12:30,360 Speaker 1: that I usually wear. And I was like, oh, like 1257 01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:33,080 Speaker 1: this doesn't it's not you know, voluminous, it doesn't you know, 1258 01:12:33,200 --> 01:12:34,960 Speaker 1: cover my body in the way that I would normally 1259 01:12:34,960 --> 01:12:37,679 Speaker 1: want a garment too. And I was like, but I'm fat, 1260 01:12:37,760 --> 01:12:39,960 Speaker 1: like nothing that I was going to hide that fact. 1261 01:12:40,400 --> 01:12:43,120 Speaker 1: So like, why shouldn't I like wear this garment that 1262 01:12:43,160 --> 01:12:46,040 Speaker 1: I really like and think I look good in, um, 1263 01:12:46,080 --> 01:12:48,920 Speaker 1: just because it's not like doing the kind of disguise 1264 01:12:49,000 --> 01:12:52,240 Speaker 1: that I think some perfect piece of clothing is going 1265 01:12:52,320 --> 01:12:55,360 Speaker 1: to do one day, because it doesn't exist. That's so true. 1266 01:12:55,400 --> 01:12:58,759 Speaker 1: I recently performed at the Netflix Comedy Festival and I 1267 01:12:58,800 --> 01:13:00,760 Speaker 1: was on a big show, and so I got a 1268 01:13:00,880 --> 01:13:04,160 Speaker 1: dress for for this show. And I always cover I 1269 01:13:04,240 --> 01:13:07,280 Speaker 1: always if I show leg if anything but like my 1270 01:13:07,439 --> 01:13:10,280 Speaker 1: like upper body or whatever. But for whatever reason, I 1271 01:13:10,320 --> 01:13:12,200 Speaker 1: was like, you know what, no, And I got this 1272 01:13:12,240 --> 01:13:16,080 Speaker 1: like dress from Eloqui that was like cutouts and like, 1273 01:13:16,240 --> 01:13:19,880 Speaker 1: you know, very short. What I never I looked so hot? 1274 01:13:20,640 --> 01:13:25,120 Speaker 1: People were I forget how like hot it is to 1275 01:13:25,280 --> 01:13:28,600 Speaker 1: have a fat body, like literally like like curves and 1276 01:13:28,600 --> 01:13:31,160 Speaker 1: stuff like that. Literally, like with the body con stuff, 1277 01:13:31,520 --> 01:13:34,200 Speaker 1: I forget that I have these things that I'm like 1278 01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:37,559 Speaker 1: covering or whatever, and people were like, oh my god, 1279 01:13:37,640 --> 01:13:41,760 Speaker 1: you look so hot. Yeah, because because fashion, I think, 1280 01:13:42,040 --> 01:13:45,680 Speaker 1: like mainstream fashion, and especially now that um, you know, 1281 01:13:45,720 --> 01:13:49,439 Speaker 1: like body inclusivity is becoming something that as we're talking about, 1282 01:13:49,439 --> 01:13:52,839 Speaker 1: like mainstream fashion brands are trying to like wocify themselves 1283 01:13:52,840 --> 01:13:55,280 Speaker 1: by catering to but like they're doing it by just 1284 01:13:55,320 --> 01:13:59,519 Speaker 1: selling a ton of smock dresses and probably still not 1285 01:13:59,600 --> 01:14:04,040 Speaker 1: even like the most inclusive stop at a certain number. 1286 01:14:04,080 --> 01:14:07,360 Speaker 1: It's so expensive, it's never on sale. It's always like 1287 01:14:07,560 --> 01:14:10,960 Speaker 1: so I can't, yeah, but like I want to. There 1288 01:14:11,000 --> 01:14:13,040 Speaker 1: have been times in my life where I have like 1289 01:14:13,200 --> 01:14:18,080 Speaker 1: really felt really embodied, and part of that has been 1290 01:14:18,200 --> 01:14:20,919 Speaker 1: because of the things that I wear and like, especially 1291 01:14:20,960 --> 01:14:23,400 Speaker 1: as someone who used to like be like I used 1292 01:14:23,400 --> 01:14:24,800 Speaker 1: to be a club kid, I used to be a 1293 01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:28,200 Speaker 1: sex worker. So I know what it's like to feel 1294 01:14:28,360 --> 01:14:33,200 Speaker 1: like like to have very concrete knowledge that my body 1295 01:14:33,240 --> 01:14:38,280 Speaker 1: is valuable, literally valuable, um, And I like don't want 1296 01:14:38,280 --> 01:14:41,519 Speaker 1: to feel pressured by a world that thinks that shouldn't 1297 01:14:41,520 --> 01:14:45,120 Speaker 1: be to hide it and the people that like are 1298 01:14:45,160 --> 01:14:48,200 Speaker 1: out there shopping and feeling that feeling of like I 1299 01:14:48,240 --> 01:14:50,600 Speaker 1: don't belong, like these clothes aren't made for me, Like 1300 01:14:50,640 --> 01:14:52,880 Speaker 1: this industry doesn't care about me. It's like, yeah, the 1301 01:14:52,920 --> 01:14:55,880 Speaker 1: industry doesn't. But that's like a product of like the 1302 01:14:55,920 --> 01:14:59,240 Speaker 1: oppression of fashion, Like fashion wants you to feel that way, 1303 01:14:59,320 --> 01:15:01,240 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And I feel like, honestly, 1304 01:15:01,240 --> 01:15:03,840 Speaker 1: like I only shop women's clothes, so I just have 1305 01:15:03,920 --> 01:15:05,439 Speaker 1: to be read as in the fact that these clothes 1306 01:15:05,479 --> 01:15:08,439 Speaker 1: are like not made or designed for like my body ever, 1307 01:15:08,720 --> 01:15:11,840 Speaker 1: and I feel like a lot of times you just 1308 01:15:11,880 --> 01:15:13,720 Speaker 1: have to you have to, just as you said, do 1309 01:15:13,840 --> 01:15:17,240 Speaker 1: that work of being like I don't care if fashion 1310 01:15:17,280 --> 01:15:19,759 Speaker 1: doesn't care about me, I care about fashion. There's something 1311 01:15:19,880 --> 01:15:22,960 Speaker 1: so sad about that and something I experienced in my 1312 01:15:23,040 --> 01:15:26,040 Speaker 1: life too. I was recently in a coach commercial, just 1313 01:15:26,120 --> 01:15:28,439 Speaker 1: like randomly because like the I'm friends with the director 1314 01:15:28,760 --> 01:15:31,880 Speaker 1: a commercial. It's like a really it's a Megan the 1315 01:15:31,920 --> 01:15:34,519 Speaker 1: Stallions in it, and I have to it's a mean 1316 01:15:34,560 --> 01:15:36,760 Speaker 1: Girls parody. And it was her idea. She she she 1317 01:15:36,840 --> 01:15:39,280 Speaker 1: loves Regina George. So she was like, she was like, 1318 01:15:39,320 --> 01:15:41,519 Speaker 1: I want to be Regina George in this in this commercial. 1319 01:15:41,640 --> 01:15:44,400 Speaker 1: So um, I have a very I'm a I have 1320 01:15:44,400 --> 01:15:47,760 Speaker 1: a very large body, and all the clothes they had 1321 01:15:47,760 --> 01:15:51,400 Speaker 1: on set because everyone in the commercials wearing coach, nothing 1322 01:15:51,840 --> 01:15:54,719 Speaker 1: was going to fit me, so they actually had pought 1323 01:15:54,800 --> 01:15:58,000 Speaker 1: like clothes from Target for me to wear. And then 1324 01:15:58,000 --> 01:16:01,120 Speaker 1: I had like a coach like scarf or something, and 1325 01:16:01,160 --> 01:16:03,800 Speaker 1: it was such a bad feeling and like literally the 1326 01:16:03,880 --> 01:16:07,320 Speaker 1: stylists came in and um, I didn't even try to 1327 01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:10,320 Speaker 1: whisper anything. And at that point I was wearing my 1328 01:16:10,400 --> 01:16:13,320 Speaker 1: clothes like I had not yet changed, and the stylist 1329 01:16:13,439 --> 01:16:16,320 Speaker 1: was like, that's not what she's wearing, is it? And 1330 01:16:16,360 --> 01:16:18,680 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god. First of all, I 1331 01:16:18,680 --> 01:16:21,160 Speaker 1: can like literally hear you and like what the funk? 1332 01:16:21,360 --> 01:16:23,559 Speaker 1: And that's and then the person who was the wardrobe 1333 01:16:23,560 --> 01:16:27,000 Speaker 1: person was like no, like no, but then like put 1334 01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:31,439 Speaker 1: me in these like Target clothes and like because that 1335 01:16:31,520 --> 01:16:34,200 Speaker 1: means those people are bad at their job. And then 1336 01:16:34,280 --> 01:16:36,320 Speaker 1: all the other girls, like all the other girls in 1337 01:16:36,320 --> 01:16:38,120 Speaker 1: the commercial who I'm friends with, who were like fit 1338 01:16:38,160 --> 01:16:40,519 Speaker 1: into standard sizes or whatever whatever you wanna call it, 1339 01:16:40,800 --> 01:16:44,320 Speaker 1: like they were wearing like gorgeous like jackets, and even 1340 01:16:44,360 --> 01:16:47,400 Speaker 1: like the makeup artist right like she spent maybe like 1341 01:16:47,600 --> 01:16:51,880 Speaker 1: forty minutes on them. She she spent five minutes on me, 1342 01:16:52,160 --> 01:16:54,120 Speaker 1: and I had to be like, hey, I'd actually love 1343 01:16:54,200 --> 01:16:57,320 Speaker 1: some more makeup and had to fight her to put 1344 01:16:57,400 --> 01:17:00,400 Speaker 1: makeup on my face because she wouldn't do it. And 1345 01:17:00,400 --> 01:17:03,080 Speaker 1: it's just like stuff like that where it's like being 1346 01:17:03,080 --> 01:17:05,519 Speaker 1: a being a fat person in this industry is just 1347 01:17:05,600 --> 01:17:10,439 Speaker 1: like so hard and so violent. Like it's like, what's 1348 01:17:10,439 --> 01:17:13,200 Speaker 1: harder being fatter trans? Because it's like it's because like 1349 01:17:13,240 --> 01:17:15,799 Speaker 1: in this industry, it's just like they'd rather be trans 1350 01:17:15,840 --> 01:17:19,280 Speaker 1: than fat. It's it's like like that because jewels, like 1351 01:17:19,320 --> 01:17:24,000 Speaker 1: you know, it's like these skinny little and it's crazy 1352 01:17:24,040 --> 01:17:26,800 Speaker 1: because it's hard to be to be that person and 1353 01:17:26,840 --> 01:17:29,280 Speaker 1: come onto that side and do what anyone else in 1354 01:17:29,320 --> 01:17:32,439 Speaker 1: your position would do, which is say, hey, you need 1355 01:17:32,640 --> 01:17:35,360 Speaker 1: it is actually not my job to worry about any 1356 01:17:35,400 --> 01:17:39,559 Speaker 1: of this. It's your job too, And it's your job 1357 01:17:39,640 --> 01:17:42,320 Speaker 1: to have clothes that fit my body and make me 1358 01:17:42,360 --> 01:17:44,559 Speaker 1: look good and put makeup on my face and make 1359 01:17:44,600 --> 01:17:46,640 Speaker 1: me look pretty so I can do the job that 1360 01:17:46,720 --> 01:17:50,759 Speaker 1: I'm here being paid to. I don't need to worry 1361 01:17:50,760 --> 01:17:53,719 Speaker 1: about any of this. I am a product and you 1362 01:17:53,760 --> 01:17:57,559 Speaker 1: need to literally you need to work around me. My 1363 01:17:57,960 --> 01:18:01,200 Speaker 1: reasonly I did a I did a tape set recently, um, 1364 01:18:01,280 --> 01:18:03,760 Speaker 1: which was really cool in New York and Um, I 1365 01:18:03,800 --> 01:18:07,000 Speaker 1: got another dress from Eloqui and this one these shorts 1366 01:18:07,000 --> 01:18:10,120 Speaker 1: are I love Eloquis love. It's good. It's like clothes 1367 01:18:10,160 --> 01:18:13,000 Speaker 1: for us and like literally and it had a crinkle. 1368 01:18:13,160 --> 01:18:15,639 Speaker 1: It was made of like almost like a parachute fabric 1369 01:18:15,680 --> 01:18:17,439 Speaker 1: and I didn't know that. So when I got it 1370 01:18:17,479 --> 01:18:20,160 Speaker 1: and had the crinkle, so like I was like freaking 1371 01:18:20,200 --> 01:18:23,040 Speaker 1: out about it because of sound and like I was 1372 01:18:23,080 --> 01:18:26,280 Speaker 1: texting my friend Um who she has a connections that 1373 01:18:26,320 --> 01:18:28,640 Speaker 1: Eloquy and was like, can someone like just send me 1374 01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:32,680 Speaker 1: something or like I need something now, and she was 1375 01:18:32,760 --> 01:18:37,240 Speaker 1: like and she was like, girl because she she's also 1376 01:18:37,240 --> 01:18:40,640 Speaker 1: a performer. She was like, a girl, you're the product. 1377 01:18:41,240 --> 01:18:44,400 Speaker 1: Let the sound engineers do their job. She goes wear 1378 01:18:44,439 --> 01:18:46,920 Speaker 1: that dress. If you love that dressing, look good in 1379 01:18:46,960 --> 01:18:49,720 Speaker 1: their dress. The sound engineers will figure it out. And 1380 01:18:49,760 --> 01:18:52,280 Speaker 1: that that was so empowering. I was like, Oh, she 1381 01:18:52,360 --> 01:18:54,719 Speaker 1: was like, you show up, You do what you're supposed 1382 01:18:54,720 --> 01:18:57,040 Speaker 1: to do, which is like do your comedy and then 1383 01:18:57,160 --> 01:19:00,240 Speaker 1: like let them figure figure that. You have to be 1384 01:19:00,360 --> 01:19:03,400 Speaker 1: the Miranda Priestley the world to find your schedule. Love 1385 01:19:03,479 --> 01:19:06,360 Speaker 1: that well, you don't have to be horrible, you don't 1386 01:19:06,360 --> 01:19:08,280 Speaker 1: have to get her late months. But I think there 1387 01:19:08,280 --> 01:19:11,080 Speaker 1: are lessons to be learned from her and the way 1388 01:19:11,120 --> 01:19:13,960 Speaker 1: that she moves in the world. And I do think 1389 01:19:14,160 --> 01:19:17,760 Speaker 1: the movie ends with Andy realizing that there are some 1390 01:19:17,880 --> 01:19:21,120 Speaker 1: things she got from that experience and that job that 1391 01:19:21,240 --> 01:19:23,320 Speaker 1: she can take with her and some that she can 1392 01:19:23,800 --> 01:19:34,200 Speaker 1: leave behind. You can tell us what you want us 1393 01:19:34,240 --> 01:19:37,840 Speaker 1: to watch or read or talk about next at three 1394 01:19:37,880 --> 01:19:41,080 Speaker 1: to three pennants. That's three to three seven three six, 1395 01:19:41,280 --> 01:19:44,680 Speaker 1: two six two three, and we really do love your recommendation, 1396 01:19:44,840 --> 01:19:47,680 Speaker 1: so keep them coming, keep them coming. You can leave 1397 01:19:47,760 --> 01:19:50,120 Speaker 1: us a review on Apple Podcast for Spotify. It really 1398 01:19:50,160 --> 01:19:53,240 Speaker 1: helps us a lot. 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