1 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: It just always makes me laugh. I mean, I just 2 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: I can't get enough of it. 3 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:09,680 Speaker 2: It makes my morning. 4 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:12,639 Speaker 3: I don't even notice that I'm sitting in traffic thing. 5 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 4: I wake up to the show every day. 6 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:17,760 Speaker 5: I literally listen all the time. It uses up all 7 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 5: my data. I just love their interaction. They really seem 8 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:23,239 Speaker 5: to genuinely love each other. Love each other. 9 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 6: Tell the s in the morning show. 10 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 1: There I bring up man's plaining. 11 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:32,199 Speaker 5: It's so. 12 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:34,599 Speaker 1: The other day Gandhi and our friend Cheryl Crowley were 13 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:37,920 Speaker 1: having watched together, dinner together. There's a guy at the 14 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:39,920 Speaker 1: next table who decided to tell them what it's like 15 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:40,520 Speaker 1: to be a woman. 16 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:41,879 Speaker 5: Yeah, it was great. 17 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: How did this conversation conversation get sparked? 18 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:48,880 Speaker 5: He was very friendly and he just sat down and started, 19 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 5: you know, like kind of I think, hitting on some people. 20 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 5: And in the process of him doing that, he was 21 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 5: talking about how women love him because he knows what 22 00:00:58,040 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 5: women love. 23 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 4: Of course he doesn't, he. 24 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 1: Said, did he say those words, I know what women love? Yeah, 25 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 1: so listen closely learn something, little lady, without a doubt. 26 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:08,039 Speaker 1: Is that what he said. 27 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 5: He didn't say, little lady, but he was like, oh, 28 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 5: let me tell you women love me because I know 29 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 5: what women love and that's important. And I was like, 30 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 5: by all means regale me. 31 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 1: Well, Danielle, don't you want to hear what women love? 32 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 7: As I would laugh my ass off at this guy. 33 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 1: So what's on his list of things he is aware 34 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:26,479 Speaker 1: of that women love? 35 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 5: Okay, he will woo you because he knows that women 36 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 5: love the Kardashians purses A big dinger, a man who 37 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 5: takes charge being ignored. Women love being ignored. He said, 38 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:42,319 Speaker 5: oh we do. Yeah, they love it. And I love 39 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 5: competing for attention with other women. That is what women 40 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 5: love it. 41 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:47,040 Speaker 6: We do. 42 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 1: Okay, so this makes him the Romeo of all Romeos 43 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 1: because he knows that this is what women love. Let's 44 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 1: let's break this down. Okay, all women love purses. 45 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 4: I do not. 46 00:01:57,880 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 5: Okay, a lot of them do. I'm not saying that 47 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 5: that's not possible. But not every woman is obsessed with purses. 48 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 4: I am. But you know that's just me. 49 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: Okay, you like you like bags. But the thing is, 50 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 1: he's saying that he's a great guy for women because 51 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 1: he knows that women love purses. 52 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 5: Okay, guys love purses. 53 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 1: Women love the Kardashians. 54 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:21,960 Speaker 4: Here, no Okay, I do love them. 55 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 1: So, Danielle, this guy so far is uh, he's winning 56 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 1: in your book. So he knows that women like a 57 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: big dinger Danielle. 58 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 2: Yes, nobody walks through wanting a small one. 59 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 5: No one wants a small one. But there is is 60 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 5: too big. 61 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, there is such. 62 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:44,359 Speaker 1: Yeah there there. I'm assuming I'm not man's planning. I'm 63 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: assuming there are women that like all sorts of different things. 64 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: I mean, but for him to say that he is 65 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 1: God's gift to women because he knows that all women 66 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 1: love big dingers, that's my point. 67 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 5: You love this the Kardashians and a big thing. 68 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: He thinks that he does well with women because he 69 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 1: knows that women like men who take charge. 70 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 5: I'm not so sure about. Yeah. And he was saying, 71 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 5: you know, ladies, what at the end of the day, 72 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 5: you want to come home and you want to be 73 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 5: treated basically like you just said, Elvis, like a little lady. 74 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 5: I'm gonna do everything. I'm gonna tell you what you 75 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 5: want to do. It's great. Oh thanks, are you? 76 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 8: Thanks? 77 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:21,800 Speaker 4: You're gonna tell me what to do? Love that? 78 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, what do I. 79 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 2: Want to do? 80 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 1: He thinks he's God's give to women because he knows 81 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 1: that women like being ignored, is what he said. 82 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:33,359 Speaker 5: Nope, that is my favorite thing. Opposite. Yeah, please don't 83 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 5: ignore me. I don't get irritated. 84 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: I would want him to ignore me. 85 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 9: So you come home with a big purse, turn on 86 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 9: the Kardashians, show you your dinger, and ignore her. 87 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: She's all yours what to do? This is why he's winning. 88 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 10: Yes, Gary, So I disagree vehemently with all the things 89 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 10: that of this guy said. 90 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: However, when I would hope you would think that, yeah, yes. 91 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 10: But when it comes to the ignoring thing, maybe it 92 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 10: was a poor choice of words, and maybe it was 93 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 10: he's talking about getting the girl. 94 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 11: See, I feel like. 95 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 10: Explaining for the man's playing guy on this point only only, 96 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:19,599 Speaker 10: and that is I think that this guy is trying 97 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:22,279 Speaker 10: to say that if you chase too hard, too quickly, 98 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 10: you may they may run away because a lot of 99 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:27,599 Speaker 10: times that women, women will pay attention to. 100 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 2: Okay, we would call that women like a challenge not 101 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 2: to be ignored. 102 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 1: You know, I think that works for both men and women, 103 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 1: with men and men and women and women. 104 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:39,720 Speaker 5: And let's also be honest, people only say you're giving 105 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 5: them too much attention because they're not that attracted to you. 106 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 5: Because if somebody is attracted to you, they want all 107 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 5: the attention. You can send them the flowers, you can 108 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:47,840 Speaker 5: show up and say hi, and they'll be like, oh, 109 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:49,839 Speaker 5: it's so romantic. But when they're not attracted to you, 110 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 5: then it's creepy. That's the difference. 111 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. 112 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:55,599 Speaker 1: And the word ignore means you completely disconnect. 113 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 6: Right. 114 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:59,280 Speaker 1: So look, you you may play whatever you want to 115 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 1: call it hard to get at or hey, list, take 116 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 1: this slow, you know, whatever version of that game you 117 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:06,919 Speaker 1: want to play. I get that. But if you just 118 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:10,360 Speaker 1: ghost me, that's ignoring me. And I think that's that's 119 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 1: really crappy. 120 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 4: No, not cool. 121 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 2: I don't know. 122 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:14,159 Speaker 1: In my man's planning, maybe. 123 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 5: I Nope, I agree with you on that. 124 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:16,159 Speaker 2: Okay. 125 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:19,599 Speaker 1: See, he also thinks he's God's gift women because he 126 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 1: thinks that women love competing with other women around them. 127 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 4: Oh I got a list now, Oh thank you. 128 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 5: That's me of the worst man's plain ever, which I 129 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:34,039 Speaker 5: think a lot of men think that way, and I 130 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 5: could be wrong. I don't want to females plain woman's plain, 131 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 5: but women don't want to compete with each other. The 132 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 5: women that I know in my life. We want to 133 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 5: uplift each other and be on a team with one another. 134 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:48,599 Speaker 5: Danielle and I do not compete for anything, maybe like 135 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 5: a snack if one of us has to run for 136 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 5: it first, but aside from that, we don't come at 137 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 5: each other. None of the women on this show, do 138 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 5: you know? And it's completely wrong that he says all 139 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:00,279 Speaker 5: women love that. No, maybe the ones he hangs out with, 140 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:01,919 Speaker 5: which don't sound super funny. 141 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 4: I think guy said, was this guy even cute? 142 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 5: I don't want to say in Casey's listening, Well, sure 143 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:08,600 Speaker 5: people think he's handsome. 144 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 1: Okay, but that's good. Well he's just he negated all that. 145 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: But all I'm saying is this, if you if a 146 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 1: guy feels the need to tell you why he is 147 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 1: successful with women, and here's my list, that really tells 148 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 1: you a lot, right there, doesn't it? 149 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 12: Yeah? 150 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 5: Absolutely? And all I could think the whole time was 151 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 5: I wonder what the guys on this show think women love, 152 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 5: because that would be hilarious. We already know what Sury thinks. 153 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what I think because you told us 154 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 1: I think you love the things that you have been 155 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:41,479 Speaker 1: very clear about. You like a guy with a sense 156 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: of humor. 157 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 5: Absolutely. 158 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 1: Now, I'm not trying to man's plain and tell you 159 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: what I think. I'm telling you that because you you 160 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 1: have said that too much. We listen to what you said. 161 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 5: I appreciate that about you. That is true. I think 162 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 5: women enjoy having somebody around who makes them laugh, somebody 163 00:06:57,120 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 5: who makes them feel comfortable in their skin. I think 164 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 5: any buddy, man or woman or other believes that they 165 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 5: want to be around people who make them feel good, 166 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 5: make them feel good about themselves, make them feel like 167 00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 5: they're a better version of themselves. Not this like I'm 168 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 5: going to ignore you. You have to keep up with me. 169 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 5: We're going to play this stupid game. I don't think 170 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 5: a lot of people. 171 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 3: Can like that. 172 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 7: If you're ignoring me, I'm not sure that's making me 173 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 7: feel good about my daughter. 174 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 1: He thinks that. Okay, let me give you another one. 175 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 1: I believe. 176 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:25,600 Speaker 2: Let me mana some more. Oh wow, okay, great. 177 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I believe that you would really really appreciate being 178 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 1: listened to. 179 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 5: Absolutely. 180 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, you've made that very clear as well. 181 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 8: Yeah. 182 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, So I actually was dating somebody for a while, 183 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 5: and you know me, I don't want to get married. 184 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 5: That is not my thing. I am not a marriage hater. 185 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 5: It's just not for me. And we were dating for 186 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 5: a long time. All the women at his workplace were 187 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 5: telling him, dude, you got to get her a ring 188 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 5: or she's leaving. You gotta do it. And I would 189 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 5: say to him, please, don't listen to those other women 190 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 5: at work, listen to the woman in the home. That's me. 191 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 5: I don't want to ring. Don't do that. And it 192 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 5: was just always the stinct. They told me again that 193 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 5: I got to get to a ring. I was like, oh, 194 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 5: so annoying. 195 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 1: There you go, any other man's players in the room. 196 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 9: No, I'm just trying to keep check of all the 197 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 9: things I need to do so that a woman will 198 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 9: like me. All right, here we go, So make sure 199 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 9: I got this right. I need to come home. I 200 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 9: need to have another woman with me for her to 201 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 9: compete with. Hand her a purse, tell her what to do, 202 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 9: turn on the Kardashians, show her my dinger, and then 203 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 9: ignore her. 204 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, according a mine. According to that guy, I say, 205 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 1: you do the opposite that. Let's go talk to Liz 206 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:35,680 Speaker 1: on line twenty four. 207 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:40,200 Speaker 13: Hey Liz, Hi, how are you you? 208 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:42,720 Speaker 1: We're doing well? So you heard about this man's plaining 209 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 1: guy that was across the restaurant from Gandhi and her 210 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 1: friend Cheryl. But you said your brother, Actually, man's playing 211 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 1: something about what he knows about women, and it must 212 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 1: drive you a little crazy, right, Oh? 213 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 14: Absolutely? I think my brother is a total player. He 214 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 14: probably wouldn't say the same, but he treats women poorly, 215 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 14: and he is adamant that that is what gets them interested. 216 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 1: In him, interested in what way, which I guess that's 217 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:12,079 Speaker 1: the question. 218 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 15: I get to sleep with him? 219 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 5: See, I think that there are probably some women out 220 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:22,959 Speaker 5: there who do respond to that, and from like a 221 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 5: place of insecurity and wanting to people please and thinking, oh, 222 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 5: this guy doesn't like me, let me do everything I 223 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 5: can to make him like me. What I would say, 224 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 5: the majority of women don't want that. Nobody wants to 225 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 5: be treated poorly. 226 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:36,839 Speaker 7: I could say, if if a guy is really hot 227 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 7: and you're only in it to sleep with him, and 228 00:09:39,559 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 7: you know you have the same views like you wouldn't 229 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 7: you're not in it for a long term thing, and 230 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 7: then maybe you'll sleep with them. But if it's somebody 231 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 7: you want to have a relationship with, that's not how 232 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 7: you're going to go about doing it, that's why you 233 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 7: want to be treated. 234 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 1: Hey scary, is there something stupid do you want to 235 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 1: add to the show? Guys, I see it simmering. 236 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 10: There is some Some women get drunk off the d 237 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 10: and then it's tough times. 238 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:07,320 Speaker 1: It's tough to break away. 239 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 11: From a guy who treats them poorly. 240 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:12,559 Speaker 10: So you can't see the light through the trees because 241 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:15,720 Speaker 10: they're so blinded by something that they may be addicted 242 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:17,560 Speaker 10: to it in their world. 243 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 1: So do you think that really has more to do 244 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:22,559 Speaker 1: with her than him? Actually? 245 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 16: Yeah, probably, yeah, yeah, so it's not some women are 246 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 16: addicted to the deeds. 247 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 1: Some people just haven't come to the realization that they 248 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 1: deserve better, and they do. But I'm sorry, I must 249 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:39,079 Speaker 1: be man's plaining again, Pale, Liz. I mean, so, did 250 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:41,680 Speaker 1: you have an argument with your brother about his claims 251 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:44,439 Speaker 1: that treating women poorly get him laid? 252 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:48,679 Speaker 14: I mean, he's not wrong, it does, it works out 253 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 14: in his favor. But for you know, my sister and 254 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 14: I we just look at him like he has ten 255 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 14: heads because we like our boyfriends to treat us very nicely, right, 256 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 14: And you know, I think it's just it. It gives 257 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 14: any future women in my brother's path kind of a 258 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 14: a sophie's choice of whether you want to nice. 259 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:10,560 Speaker 17: Die or. 260 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:18,679 Speaker 18: Well. 261 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 1: But Liz, you have crafted your sentstance brilliantly, and thank 262 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 1: you for listening to us. You have a good day. Okay. 263 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 7: Some some women will be like, oh, you know what, 264 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:31,240 Speaker 7: I can change him. He might have treated me like crap, 265 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:33,440 Speaker 7: but I'm going to get him to treat me better 266 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:36,079 Speaker 7: and I'm going to change this guy challenge. 267 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. 268 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 2: Look, you know. 269 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:42,720 Speaker 1: One thing we're all in search of, I must Man's 270 00:11:42,760 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 1: plain is happiness and the feeling of being appreciated and loved. 271 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:49,600 Speaker 1: And you know, sometimes you got to reevaluate little how 272 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 1: you're how you're mining for that. Is it really working 273 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 1: out to your favor? Are you really going to get 274 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 1: the person that you truly deserved that way? Well, you know, 275 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 1: those these are lessons you have a learning your own. 276 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 1: But having a guy in a restaurant man's planning it 277 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 1: to you say, well here's a little lady, here's the let. 278 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:10,199 Speaker 5: Me tell you what you like. Okay, I love it, 279 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 5: And there you have it. 280 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 6: Hey, this is Taylor Swift. 281 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 19: Hi, this is this is about and you're. 282 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 5: Listening to Elvis Duran in the Morning Show. 283 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:27,839 Speaker 6: Elvis Duran in the Morning Show. 284 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:31,959 Speaker 1: You know what I'm thinking. I was thinking about you 285 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 1: last night, Gandhi. 286 00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:33,839 Speaker 5: Oh what were you thinking? 287 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:36,800 Speaker 1: Well, you know what, a lot of people don't know this, 288 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 1: and I'm always proud to say that you are the 289 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:41,840 Speaker 1: great granddaughter of Mahatma Gandhi. 290 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 5: Oh yes, okay, and I know you. 291 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:47,439 Speaker 1: Maybe you get embarrassed. I love telling people that story. 292 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 5: It's true. Every time that we go to take a 293 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 5: picture with an artist after and we're standing in front 294 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 5: of that drop down, he'll always say, did you know? 295 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 20: So? 296 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 1: I have an idea because, as you know, your great 297 00:12:56,760 --> 00:13:00,600 Speaker 1: great grandfather, Mahatma Gandhi, he left us with not only 298 00:13:00,640 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 1: his legacy of love, but also some great slogans, Oh yeah, 299 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 1: to get us through life and to make us think. 300 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 1: But you know what, so has his great great granddaughter 301 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:14,560 Speaker 1: Maya Gandhi. So let's play a little game called who 302 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:17,800 Speaker 1: said it? Gandhi or Gandhi. 303 00:13:20,160 --> 00:13:20,719 Speaker 8: You can win. 304 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 4: I'm sorry to say Gandhi and you kind of win. 305 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 1: Now you must say Mahatma or Meida. Oh yeah, you 306 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 1: can say Meda. It's okay, that's okay. Even though it's 307 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:29,360 Speaker 1: pronounced meyda. 308 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 5: Yes, may the force be with you. 309 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 1: Let's just play here in the room for a second. 310 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 2: This is going to be the easiest game we've ever all. 311 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 1: Okay, who said it? Mahatma or Meda? I can't date 312 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:44,839 Speaker 1: people who are too nice, but if you happen to 313 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:47,199 Speaker 1: be a sociopath with poor manners and no money, I'm 314 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 1: likely to fall in love. Yes, DANIELI who said this? 315 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 1: Mahatma or Meyo? No, I don't want to hold your baby. 316 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 1: It kind of freaks me out. 317 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 5: That we should go down in all the quote books. 318 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:13,240 Speaker 1: By way, you would think Mahatma said that hate the sin, 319 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:14,440 Speaker 1: love the sinner. 320 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:16,239 Speaker 2: Mahatma. 321 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, very good. 322 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 4: Okay, this really is too easy. 323 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:22,880 Speaker 1: Okay, let's go get a contest on the line. Good morning, 324 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 1: is this Tina? 325 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 21: Yes? 326 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 22: This is all right? 327 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:29,560 Speaker 1: So who said it? Gandhi or Gandhi? 328 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 5: Yeah? 329 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 1: As you know, we're so proud to have Mayda Gandhi. 330 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 1: I was a member of our family, and that means 331 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 1: I guess if you're a member of our family, then 332 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:40,360 Speaker 1: Mahatma Gandhi is our great great grandfather as well. 333 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 5: Yes, all right, so. 334 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a quote. You tell me if 335 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:51,120 Speaker 1: it was Mahatma or a Meido. Okay, okay, my eyes 336 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 1: are so big I can I can see your thoughts. 337 00:14:56,920 --> 00:15:01,840 Speaker 20: I'm guessing yes, very good? 338 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 1: All right? Who said it, Mahatma Gandhi or Meida Gandhi. 339 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 1: This place is not a democracy. You're not entitled to 340 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 1: your opinion if it bothers me. And of course she 341 00:15:11,200 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 1: was saying that or he was saying that on why 342 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 1: people who are rude are blocked on social media? 343 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:18,880 Speaker 13: Who do you think said that? 344 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 20: I'm gonna go with me. 345 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:25,480 Speaker 5: I wouldn't say about his own Instagram page, and I 346 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 5: know it. 347 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 1: Here's one, here's one. An eye for an eye will 348 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 1: make the whole world blind. Who said that, Mahatma Gandhi 349 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 1: or Meida Gandhi. 350 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 23: I'm gonna go with There you go. 351 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:44,000 Speaker 5: We both talked about our arms. 352 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:50,640 Speaker 23: About I feel like I should know you. 353 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:55,720 Speaker 1: Here's another quote. Who said this, keep the change you 354 00:15:55,800 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 1: find on the street, Keep the change you find on 355 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 1: the street. Who would have said that? 356 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 23: I don't think there's much change on the I'm going 357 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:06,040 Speaker 23: to go. 358 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 1: With mad Yeah, loose, You're a great Greek grandfather wasn't 359 00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 1: a greedy bastard. 360 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:11,040 Speaker 24: She is. 361 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 5: That's why I'm not a millionaire. He kept no fortune. 362 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 1: Congratulations anymore, you just won. 363 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:25,600 Speaker 7: It is the easiest conta easiest game in the world. 364 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 1: Tina was great. 365 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 5: Tina was awesome. 366 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:31,480 Speaker 1: So Danielle who said this happiness is smoking a joint 367 00:16:31,480 --> 00:16:32,920 Speaker 1: and a pile of puppies and snacks. 368 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:34,160 Speaker 4: That'd be gone mad. 369 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 1: But you don't say a pile of puppies and snacks. 370 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 4: The other day you get the puppies eye. 371 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 1: That's not good. 372 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 5: No, no, you will to smoke away. Just hold the puppies. 373 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 1: I think I think this game has run its course. 374 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 1: It was a lot of fun. I'm just looking down 375 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 1: some of these beautiful, beautiful quotes from your great great grandfather. Huh, 376 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 1: I will not let anyone walk through my mind with 377 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 1: their dirty feet. But Maya says, I will not let 378 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 1: people walk through my house with. 379 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:09,680 Speaker 5: Their dirty fis right, that's gross. 380 00:17:10,640 --> 00:17:13,040 Speaker 1: Mahatma said the best way to find yourself is to 381 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:18,280 Speaker 1: lose yourself in the service of others. Ourmeida says an 382 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:20,840 Speaker 1: ounce of weed costs less in Boston, and it's legal 383 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:23,840 Speaker 1: now in Michigan. 384 00:17:23,960 --> 00:17:24,160 Speaker 25: Yep. 385 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 1: Wow, just a few generations did a lot of chance. 386 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, big difference there, huh. But I feel like all 387 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:37,440 Speaker 5: of my quotes are very informative. They are in the 388 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 5: right direction. 389 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:42,719 Speaker 26: They are don't answer the phone, Elvis Duran, the Elvis 390 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:43,840 Speaker 26: Duran phone tap? 391 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 1: All right, scary? What's your phone tap about today? 392 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:48,399 Speaker 10: So Tyina submitted a phone tap to be played on 393 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:51,000 Speaker 10: her brother in law Stephen. Turns out Stephen had bought 394 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 10: this ring for his girlfriend and he left it at 395 00:17:53,480 --> 00:17:56,280 Speaker 10: this jewelry place to be repaired. So I'm going to 396 00:17:56,359 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 10: call as the jeweler from the store with an update 397 00:17:58,560 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 10: on the ring. 398 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:02,439 Speaker 1: What happens to the scariest phone tap? Steven? 399 00:18:02,440 --> 00:18:06,240 Speaker 10: It's Luigi the Onnate Spring shop, and they own, all right, hey, 400 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:08,440 Speaker 10: are you up to speed on what's happening with this ring? 401 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:13,119 Speaker 25: I said, the girlfriend and handling most of it. I 402 00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 25: think she was speaking with her sister about it actually right. 403 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 10: Now, I think really what you should do is start 404 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:20,439 Speaker 10: over here with this ring and just get a new one. 405 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:22,720 Speaker 10: We have a great selection of rings here at the 406 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:25,160 Speaker 10: shop which you could come look at, because this ring 407 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 10: isn't really worth a whole lot. 408 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 25: How much is it worth? 409 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 27: It's but I have an authentication for it. 410 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:33,720 Speaker 10: It looks like it was one of those cubic Zarconia 411 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:35,879 Speaker 10: jobs bought from the home shopping channel. 412 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:38,680 Speaker 25: Then higher ring looks like that. Yeah, is it because 413 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 25: the quality of the diamonds so far? 414 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:44,400 Speaker 10: Yeah, I think she deserves a bigger and better diamond. 415 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:46,840 Speaker 25: You guys had a covert and now and now I 416 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 25: it just seems very any suspicious that you guys just 417 00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:49,160 Speaker 25: might be. 418 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 1: Trying to take more money off of Right now, listen, 419 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 1: how much do you love this girl? 420 00:18:52,320 --> 00:18:52,600 Speaker 11: Really? 421 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:55,920 Speaker 25: Are you thinking this is the thing? You think I'm 422 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:57,480 Speaker 25: doing it to be cheap. I didn't get it a 423 00:18:57,560 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 25: ring to be cheap. I got it because that's what 424 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 25: I could afford doing it seems like I don't love 425 00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 25: my girlfriend or sometime. 426 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:04,080 Speaker 1: I don't want to come right out and say that. 427 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:06,960 Speaker 27: Steven's all winning at it right. 428 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:08,800 Speaker 1: Let's face it, the more you love them, the bigger 429 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:09,639 Speaker 1: the ring is going to be. 430 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 20: No, no, no, not when we have other priorities. 431 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 1: That's not the case. 432 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:15,320 Speaker 25: I'm not just isn't a materialistic women. That's just someone 433 00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 25: would love. 434 00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:16,399 Speaker 27: Me for who I am. 435 00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:18,359 Speaker 25: She's not with me because of how much I'm spending 436 00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:20,639 Speaker 25: on a ring. Like, that's so rude, and you know 437 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:21,280 Speaker 25: it's rude. 438 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 10: You don't want her to be embarrassed when she shows 439 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:24,120 Speaker 10: it off to her friends, right. 440 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 27: No, everyone that she surely who loved it. 441 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 25: Everyone thought it was a beautiful ring, and no one 442 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:29,960 Speaker 25: questioned whether or not who was regal or anything like that. 443 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 10: But when they go behind their back, well, yeah, we 444 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 10: got disconnected, Steve. 445 00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:38,760 Speaker 25: That's I din't get disconnected. I hung up on you. 446 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:40,959 Speaker 25: I really don't appreciate the way of conducting yourself. If 447 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:42,919 Speaker 25: you're a professional person, you should know how to conduct 448 00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:43,720 Speaker 25: yourself better than this. 449 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:45,600 Speaker 1: Okay, listen, I get paid a lot of money to 450 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:46,119 Speaker 1: do what I do. 451 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:47,359 Speaker 28: All right, Fine, that's fine. 452 00:19:47,359 --> 00:19:48,560 Speaker 29: I got paid money to do what I do. 453 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 25: Also be I mean, I'm a lot to be rude 454 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:52,680 Speaker 25: to people that were quitit my service. I'm going to 455 00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 25: go buy them and pick up my ring. I'm gonna 456 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:55,680 Speaker 25: have it a praise if it's not the same thing 457 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 25: I gave you guys, and I'll see you guys in 458 00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:57,920 Speaker 25: quirt about it. 459 00:19:57,920 --> 00:19:58,439 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. 460 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:00,640 Speaker 10: I'm just gonna squirt some crazy lou in the hall 461 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:02,199 Speaker 10: and then just put the diamond back on. 462 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 1: And because that's pretty much. 463 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:06,360 Speaker 2: I will be. 464 00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:11,119 Speaker 1: Instead of you. 465 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 10: Picking it up, why don't we just have the sanitation 466 00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:15,360 Speaker 10: department pick it up, because that's really where it belongs 467 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:16,199 Speaker 10: in the garbage. 468 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:22,880 Speaker 1: Hello, why you're still there? 469 00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:28,960 Speaker 25: You grown manners a child? We never settled, kindled Stephen. 470 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:34,119 Speaker 1: All I was saying, was I think. 471 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:34,600 Speaker 30: Dying. 472 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:37,520 Speaker 25: If you're good, you shouldn't have it's hard. 473 00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:39,400 Speaker 10: Okay, Well, i'll tell you what. I'm going to give 474 00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:42,120 Speaker 10: you a gift. It's actually not for me. It's from 475 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 10: your sister in law to be Tina. She's decided to 476 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:47,200 Speaker 10: phone tap you on the radio. 477 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:52,120 Speaker 31: Stephen, This is scary Jones, mel in the Morning Show, 478 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 31: you got phone tapped. 479 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:03,959 Speaker 18: This phone table was pre recorded with permission granted by 480 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:04,439 Speaker 18: all parties. 481 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:08,480 Speaker 26: Todays the Elvis Duran phone tap only on Elvis Duran 482 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:09,359 Speaker 26: in the Morning Show. 483 00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:16,040 Speaker 6: Elvis Duran in the Morning. 484 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:22,480 Speaker 1: Show, Straight Nate. So I need straight Nate, Straight Nate. Hello, 485 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:23,680 Speaker 1: aging straight Nate. 486 00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:24,080 Speaker 32: I need. 487 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:27,919 Speaker 1: We're talking about your pubic hair. Get off the phone. 488 00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:29,439 Speaker 2: What's that, Elvis? 489 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:32,720 Speaker 1: We're talking about your pubic hair? So straight Nate? Actually, 490 00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:34,879 Speaker 1: oh you're talking about that? Did you do it? You 491 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:38,040 Speaker 1: actually went outside and trimmed your your hair yet. 492 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:42,679 Speaker 33: Okay, so there's some backstory. So normally I do it 493 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:44,400 Speaker 33: in hotels. Scotty B taught me. 494 00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:44,879 Speaker 2: How to do this. 495 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:45,879 Speaker 1: That's expensive. 496 00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:49,399 Speaker 33: So I put a towel around my waist yesterday, and 497 00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:52,000 Speaker 33: I realized my neighbor, who I only really have one 498 00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:54,320 Speaker 33: neighbor that can see into the backyard. There was no 499 00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:56,920 Speaker 33: car in the driveway, and I'm pretty sure nobody was home. 500 00:21:57,240 --> 00:21:59,200 Speaker 33: So I just went into the backyard and a secluded 501 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 33: spot and removed the towel. Because you don't want to 502 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 33: wear pants because then it's just going to get all 503 00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:04,880 Speaker 33: in the pants, you. 504 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:09,560 Speaker 2: Know, in your backyard with your junk out. What what's 505 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:11,000 Speaker 2: the big deal? It's my backyard. 506 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:14,680 Speaker 1: I just as long as no one's watching its bat there, 507 00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:16,480 Speaker 1: as long as the kid's playing hopscotch. 508 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:19,800 Speaker 33: There's no kids playing the games behind us. Haven't been 509 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:22,359 Speaker 33: in their backyard for twenty years. It's all overgrown on 510 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:24,760 Speaker 33: the swing set and stuff. I mean, there's nobody back there. 511 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:27,800 Speaker 33: So I just moved the towel and I had my 512 00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 33: electric rechargeable trimmer, and I just. 513 00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:34,600 Speaker 2: I was done in about three minutes. 514 00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:36,480 Speaker 1: Did you do did you do it in a shape 515 00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:39,359 Speaker 1: of like a topiaria and scissorhand. I do a number 516 00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:46,320 Speaker 1: two and I just beg your pardon. Backyard is all 517 00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:49,200 Speaker 1: sorts of action number two on the trimmer. Yeah, I 518 00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:51,080 Speaker 1: tell you what. We'll get into this in a minute. 519 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:53,520 Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe we should do. 520 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:57,879 Speaker 5: Said, he's pretty sure the neighbors weren't home like in 521 00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:00,880 Speaker 5: that scenario. Pretty sure is not sure enough, Nate, Well, my. 522 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,640 Speaker 1: Favorite part is your brand in the neighborhood. And they're like, okay, 523 00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:05,639 Speaker 1: here comes the Nate Marino family. 524 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:09,199 Speaker 33: If these neighbors only knew what I actually do in 525 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:11,160 Speaker 33: my backyard, they wouldn't they would be moving. 526 00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 1: Does a Nate shave in the woods? All right? 527 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:17,919 Speaker 33: By the way, Just to clarify, I guarantee I'm not 528 00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:20,400 Speaker 33: the only person that does this. Nobody wants to get 529 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:22,920 Speaker 33: those things all over their bathtub or bathroom. 530 00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 1: I've an idea for you. Stephanie has a great idea 531 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:29,480 Speaker 1: only twenty four Stephanie, Hi, Hey, welcome to the show. 532 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 1: It's good to have you here. You doing okay? 533 00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:33,880 Speaker 23: Oh yeah, this is amazing. 534 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,159 Speaker 1: Well, this is amazing what you're about to tell everyone? 535 00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:40,240 Speaker 1: Give Nate your tip on how you clean up after 536 00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:41,719 Speaker 1: your husband when he shaves. 537 00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:46,320 Speaker 23: Yeah, so well he shaves his head, So I shave 538 00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:50,159 Speaker 23: his head, and then I'm like drop trials. I'm gonna, 539 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:52,680 Speaker 23: you know, shave the junk in the garage. 540 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:54,240 Speaker 2: Yeah okay. 541 00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:58,800 Speaker 23: Then then then when we're all done, I blow him 542 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:00,680 Speaker 23: off with the leaf blower, and then I blow the 543 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:03,880 Speaker 23: scraps out of the garage with. 544 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:08,719 Speaker 9: The Yeah no, there's like pubes floating around in the neighborhood, 545 00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:10,600 Speaker 9: I know, but. 546 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:14,439 Speaker 1: With a clean garage. And thank you for finishing all 547 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:19,000 Speaker 1: those sentences with the leaf blower. Well you have to, 548 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 1: you know, yeah, exactly, Well, go ahead and see, no fuss, 549 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:24,440 Speaker 1: no must. And then it just kind of goes out 550 00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 1: into the grass. Right, there's grass out front. Is that 551 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 1: where it's going. 552 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:30,639 Speaker 13: Yeah, it just disappears. 553 00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 1: And then when you mow the grass the next time, 554 00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:35,360 Speaker 1: it just cuts it up into little bit hair shards. 555 00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:36,879 Speaker 20: Yup, yup. 556 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,880 Speaker 2: Something kind of creepy to me being naked in your garage. 557 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:42,840 Speaker 2: I don't know, I would rather be in your backyard. 558 00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:44,040 Speaker 2: You're naked in your backyard. 559 00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:45,919 Speaker 1: I would rather be in my backyard than in my 560 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:47,399 Speaker 1: garage with no pants on. 561 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:49,639 Speaker 2: I don't know. Does that seem weird to anybody? I 562 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 2: don't know. 563 00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:53,239 Speaker 1: No, you're you're covered by four walls. If the door 564 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:54,960 Speaker 1: is down right, yeah, yeah. 565 00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:57,160 Speaker 23: You shut the door and then you open it. 566 00:24:57,400 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 1: Gandhi has an idea for a new invention. She's always 567 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:00,480 Speaker 1: making ahead. 568 00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:04,400 Speaker 5: Yes, Gandhi, I hope that we can copyright trademark this immediately. 569 00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 5: But why don't we invent a buzzer that has a 570 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 5: little vacuum suction thing that sucks the hair into it 571 00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 5: as you're shaving. 572 00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:11,720 Speaker 1: That's called the flow. 573 00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:14,439 Speaker 2: If they have that, I don't know. 574 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,040 Speaker 5: Can you get the around you're junk. 575 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:18,040 Speaker 1: I wouldn't put it anywhere near my junk. 576 00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:21,960 Speaker 4: Maybe it don't make it bigger all that? 577 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:29,720 Speaker 1: Okay, thank you, thank you for the sucking sounds here 578 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:32,320 Speaker 1: to please, then you're always here to contribute and please. 579 00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:36,520 Speaker 1: Oh my god, what's scary? 580 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:41,119 Speaker 10: I compare shave ole your body hair off outside to 581 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:44,560 Speaker 10: throwing a banana peel in your yard too. It's all compost. 582 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:46,920 Speaker 10: It all is good. It's all part of the circle 583 00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 10: of life is hair compost. I don't know how hair 584 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,200 Speaker 10: breaks down. It's the ecosystem. 585 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:52,720 Speaker 2: No hold on. 586 00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:55,439 Speaker 9: If one of your neighbors are painting their house and 587 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:57,320 Speaker 9: you blow your pubes in the air. It's going to 588 00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:58,520 Speaker 9: stick to the side of their house. 589 00:25:58,600 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 2: Man, they don't want that. 590 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:03,439 Speaker 1: They're gonna have a whole painted wall of like textured 591 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 1: painted pube hair. 592 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 2: You know, we don't want that. 593 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:08,720 Speaker 4: Or if they have a pool and it goes. 594 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 1: In the pool, it's like peeing in the ocean, you know. 595 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 1: I think it disperses enough where it's not going to 596 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:16,080 Speaker 1: really harm anyone. You're good. 597 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:18,920 Speaker 5: But could you imagine walking by someone's garage and they're 598 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 5: just leaf blowing something out, and all of a sudden 599 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 5: you got a little hair stuck to your face. 600 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:28,360 Speaker 1: This is true. Hey, Stephanie, do we lost her? Just okay, Stephanie, 601 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 1: I for one think it's a great idea. Shave your 602 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:33,680 Speaker 1: husband and blow it out the front of the garage. 603 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 2: It's all good. O. What a flying by a bird's. 604 00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:42,200 Speaker 1: Gonna get a hair in his mouth. It's okay, Thank you, Stephanie. 605 00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:45,560 Speaker 1: Thank you. Have a great day. Yeah, I'm in I 606 00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:48,120 Speaker 1: don't know why when it has to be so negative. 607 00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:48,560 Speaker 11: I don't hear. 608 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:50,760 Speaker 33: I don't hear anybody you're coming up with any better 609 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:52,240 Speaker 33: ideas about how to shave your pubes? 610 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:53,399 Speaker 5: What about over your toilet? 611 00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:57,280 Speaker 33: Neat sprattling a toilet. That stuff gets everywhere, Gandhi. 612 00:26:58,560 --> 00:26:59,200 Speaker 2: In a shower. 613 00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:00,719 Speaker 4: Wait, how long do you let it go? 614 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:01,040 Speaker 34: Then? 615 00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:02,919 Speaker 4: Like you get that it's not a few months. 616 00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,919 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm not going to get into details here, but 617 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 1: I I have to I need to like have a 618 00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:12,000 Speaker 1: way to dispose. And I'm not saying because I let 619 00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:14,240 Speaker 1: it go for a year. It's because you know, I'm 620 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,160 Speaker 1: a guy. I want to take it off my chest 621 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,720 Speaker 1: and off my legs. I want it all gone. So 622 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:21,480 Speaker 1: that's a lot of hair. So enough of this, let's 623 00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:28,520 Speaker 1: talk to Julie Julie Online twenty two. Hello Julie, Julie. 624 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:32,720 Speaker 1: Hello Julie. So you're calling about Stephanie who likes to 625 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:37,080 Speaker 1: use use the uh blow, the leaf blower to blow 626 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:40,720 Speaker 1: her husband's hair out of the garage. What is your suggestion? 627 00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:44,480 Speaker 23: Why does she just sweep it into a dust pan? 628 00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:45,800 Speaker 6: Right? 629 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,199 Speaker 1: Oh, there is a dust pan. I guess we overlooked that. 630 00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:48,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. 631 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:50,919 Speaker 33: I don't wonder how many pubes this guy has that 632 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,320 Speaker 33: she has to use a leaf blower like that's that's 633 00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:54,760 Speaker 33: got to be an extraordinary amount of the. 634 00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,520 Speaker 1: Thing about the leaf blower is it's like bam and 635 00:27:57,560 --> 00:27:58,040 Speaker 1: it's done. 636 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:00,399 Speaker 2: You know, it's like the kind of. 637 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:03,679 Speaker 35: I mean, the are going to get all over her 638 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:07,960 Speaker 35: driveway and all over the r I mean, it's it's disgusting. 639 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,840 Speaker 23: And what if it's just rained, They're just gonna stick. 640 00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 32: You know. 641 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:14,679 Speaker 1: But you know what I will say in scaries defense 642 00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:17,320 Speaker 1: about nature of this texture, says, hey, the birds will 643 00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 1: use the pubic hairs to build new nests. I don't know. 644 00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:28,520 Speaker 1: Thank you, Julie, Julie, I think your answer is just 645 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:33,520 Speaker 1: too obvious. We overlooked that, we overlooked the simple way 646 00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:35,680 Speaker 1: to do it. All right, Julie, thank you your genius. 647 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:36,280 Speaker 1: Have a great day. 648 00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,360 Speaker 13: Okay, oh you too. 649 00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:38,920 Speaker 35: Thanks. 650 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone says using just put it down the drain 651 00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:46,040 Speaker 1: and use draino. So what so, froggy draino actually melts hair? 652 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:46,840 Speaker 1: Is that what it does? 653 00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:50,080 Speaker 9: Somebody told me that a plumber told me that there 654 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 9: is a certain kind of drain or like professional strength 655 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,080 Speaker 9: or something that actually. 656 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 2: Dissolves of the hair. 657 00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 9: The acid or whatever is in it does help the 658 00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 9: hair dissolve. That's why it works so well. I don't 659 00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:00,080 Speaker 9: think it. 660 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 1: Why don't you just just get rid of the middle 661 00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:05,240 Speaker 1: man and just rubbed draino on your on your hair, 662 00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:06,160 Speaker 1: on your because. 663 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:07,480 Speaker 9: I'm gonna go out on a lemon. Say, that's pretty 664 00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:10,440 Speaker 9: bad for your skin. Probably just caussing. 665 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:11,320 Speaker 5: To solve it right away. 666 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:15,440 Speaker 1: Have some moisturizer ready to go? All right, good God, 667 00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:22,680 Speaker 1: all right, enough enough enough? Have we had enough of this? Yes, Nate, Nate, 668 00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:25,280 Speaker 1: you go ahead. You keep shaving your pubes in your backyard. 669 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:26,840 Speaker 1: The neighbors are gonna be okay with it. 670 00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:27,320 Speaker 2: On it. 671 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 33: Hey, listen, it's my body, it's my backyard. You know, 672 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,280 Speaker 33: I feel like it's probably the safest place to do it. 673 00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:36,640 Speaker 2: Love that you're the new guy in the neighborhood. 674 00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,600 Speaker 1: Listen, says Brody says, just lay down in the living 675 00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:42,760 Speaker 1: room and let the roomba do its job. O. 676 00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:47,239 Speaker 7: Gosh, see, when we moved into our house, we had 677 00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:49,880 Speaker 7: naked guy who did everything naked. He walked outside to 678 00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:53,160 Speaker 7: get the mail naked, barbecued naked. So when you move out, 679 00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:55,560 Speaker 7: they're gonna go, oh, pube guy. 680 00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:57,920 Speaker 1: Hold on, there's another way to get rid of your 681 00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:00,240 Speaker 1: your hair on the front is barbecue naked on melt 682 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:00,720 Speaker 1: right off. 683 00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:01,320 Speaker 25: Yeah. 684 00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,800 Speaker 26: I want to hear something slightly more unhinged in the 685 00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:12,720 Speaker 26: Morning show, Elvister Rands After Party, a podcast we record 686 00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:14,400 Speaker 26: daily when the morning show is finished. 687 00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:15,720 Speaker 5: He is literally. 688 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,200 Speaker 4: Elvister Rands After Party. 689 00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:22,560 Speaker 26: Listen on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts. 690 00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:37,000 Speaker 27: Elvis d in the Morning show. 691 00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:39,800 Speaker 6: This is Elvis Duran in the Morning Show. 692 00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:43,760 Speaker 1: I don't know where I got this. Ap signs that 693 00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:46,040 Speaker 1: you're a flake. Do you think that you could qualify 694 00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:48,320 Speaker 1: as being a flake when it comes to certain things? 695 00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:48,960 Speaker 5: Certain things? 696 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:54,720 Speaker 1: I'm sure, So I went down the list. I'm thinking, Okay, 697 00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:57,080 Speaker 1: let me see how many of these things apply to me, 698 00:30:57,120 --> 00:31:00,160 Speaker 1: and maybe you should play along as well. Signs a 699 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:04,440 Speaker 1: flake who people cannot rely on. Number One, you arrive 700 00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:05,800 Speaker 1: late to everything. 701 00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:09,800 Speaker 5: I don't do, Yeah, everything. 702 00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:14,360 Speaker 1: I mean, don't you have? And I know we have 703 00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:16,360 Speaker 1: a mutual friend or two, but I know we have 704 00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:20,320 Speaker 1: other people in our own circles, outside the circle who 705 00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 1: are late every single time. I mean, it's just a 706 00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:23,320 Speaker 1: known fact. 707 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:26,440 Speaker 5: It's infuriating. I find it rude. My sister is one 708 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:29,760 Speaker 5: of these people, and her response is that she's optimistic 709 00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:31,760 Speaker 5: and that is why she's late to everything. 710 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:37,320 Speaker 1: There faster, okay, but she never does right. Never Signs 711 00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:40,880 Speaker 1: you're a flake. Your non committal, Like you never commit 712 00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:43,680 Speaker 1: to anything. If someone says, hey, can we we're having 713 00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:47,680 Speaker 1: a dinner party? You never ever commit, You're like, and 714 00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:52,280 Speaker 1: you wait until sometimes later, well i'm too Yeah, I'll 715 00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:53,960 Speaker 1: have to let you know. Or maybe there's nothing wrong 716 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:54,560 Speaker 1: with saying that. 717 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:58,440 Speaker 4: Well, I guess, Hey, have. 718 00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:00,160 Speaker 1: You ever been invited to a dinner or something and 719 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:01,400 Speaker 1: you you really want to ask? 720 00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,720 Speaker 4: Well, who else is going to be there? 721 00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:08,160 Speaker 1: That's the right there, I know, but it's it's so obvious, right, 722 00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:12,960 Speaker 1: it's I mean, because they're in this make or break 723 00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 1: there are people that they are friends with. 724 00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:16,560 Speaker 7: I don't want to hang out with absolutely, but I 725 00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:18,520 Speaker 7: do have one person I can ask that too, and 726 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:19,680 Speaker 7: she knows right away. 727 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:21,920 Speaker 4: Sometimes even before I ask, she'll give me the list. 728 00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:26,880 Speaker 1: She'll say, Hey, by the way, going to be oh uh, 729 00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,480 Speaker 1: ways that you could be considered a flake. You're always 730 00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:33,160 Speaker 1: keeping your options open. You know, sometime you feel stressed 731 00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 1: about all the options you have at your disposal. You'd 732 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:37,680 Speaker 1: like to leave things to the last minute because you 733 00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 1: have that grass is always greener on the other side 734 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:43,600 Speaker 1: syndrome going on. Yeah, I guess that kind of falls 735 00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:47,680 Speaker 1: in place with the noncommittal thing totally you always fall 736 00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:52,800 Speaker 1: behind with deadlines. See this is why I never create deadlines. 737 00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:57,280 Speaker 1: And you know deadlines, especially in the workplace, in a 738 00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:00,120 Speaker 1: professional atmosphere, people say, okay, I need this done. I 739 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,640 Speaker 1: need it done by five pm to day. The big 740 00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:05,360 Speaker 1: thing here at a iHeart is end of business day. 741 00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:07,160 Speaker 1: It must be done by the end of the business 742 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:07,640 Speaker 1: day today. 743 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:08,600 Speaker 32: Eh. 744 00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:11,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a floating timeline, isn't it. 745 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:14,040 Speaker 5: Can we let them like who's business day in China? 746 00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:15,200 Speaker 5: It might still be going. 747 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:19,440 Speaker 1: Ways that you could perceive be perceived as a little flaky. 748 00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:19,480 Speaker 36: You. 749 00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:23,240 Speaker 1: You're very quick to make promises. Sometimes you don't stop 750 00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:25,720 Speaker 1: and think about what you're promising to do and get 751 00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:32,240 Speaker 1: done right. How about spontaneity. Sometimes spontaneity makes other people nervous. 752 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:36,680 Speaker 1: Look Spontanady's fun, right, Like oh, let's just let's let 753 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:38,520 Speaker 1: let's just go to the important catch a flight out 754 00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:40,360 Speaker 1: of here. Where are we going? I don't care, yes, 755 00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:44,480 Speaker 1: let's just well. It drives other people into an anxiety, 756 00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,280 Speaker 1: a high level of anxiety, like, well, they have kids, 757 00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:48,920 Speaker 1: they have to make plans, they have to do like 758 00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:51,880 Speaker 1: scary gets mad and his friends who are married with kids. Hey, 759 00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:53,600 Speaker 1: hey man, let's go let's go out and have dinner tonight. 760 00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,120 Speaker 1: Well I can't. Oh man, you always say no. Well, 761 00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:57,400 Speaker 1: I know they have to get a babysitter. 762 00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:00,000 Speaker 4: There's things they gotta do, ask some like ten minutes. 763 00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:01,160 Speaker 4: That's where he's walking out the door. 764 00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:03,479 Speaker 10: I'm the king of last minute because in my world 765 00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:05,440 Speaker 10: I can make those snap decisions. 766 00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:06,920 Speaker 1: And just go well no, But you gotta keep you 767 00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:08,640 Speaker 1: on it. It's not just your world when you involve 768 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:09,200 Speaker 1: other people. 769 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:12,680 Speaker 10: Right, But does that make me a flake? 770 00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:16,160 Speaker 1: Yes, you come not a flake, but you come across 771 00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:20,200 Speaker 1: as being a little a little much, a little bit. 772 00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:20,640 Speaker 5: I get it. 773 00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:21,799 Speaker 11: You're in the same boat. 774 00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:28,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're not easy to trust you. Now, what is this? 775 00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:30,399 Speaker 1: Let me It might urge your feelings when people say 776 00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:32,280 Speaker 1: that they can't trust you, but it makes sense, especially 777 00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:34,279 Speaker 1: if you said you'd be there for them, but then 778 00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:37,080 Speaker 1: at the last minute, how about a rain check? Can 779 00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:38,680 Speaker 1: we do this another time? Okay? 780 00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:40,160 Speaker 5: That's good. 781 00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:43,200 Speaker 1: You say yes when you really don't want to do things. See, 782 00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:44,319 Speaker 1: I'm guilty of that. 783 00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:45,520 Speaker 5: I think we've all been there. 784 00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:48,920 Speaker 1: You say yes, you're like uh, and then you find 785 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:52,080 Speaker 1: that last minute excuse to get out of it. All right, 786 00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 1: I don't know what about you, Like, what's your weakness 787 00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:58,960 Speaker 1: that you wish you could or you should focus in 788 00:34:59,000 --> 00:34:59,880 Speaker 1: on and try to fix. 789 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:04,680 Speaker 5: Probably the committal thing. I'm really noncommittal about everything in 790 00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:06,399 Speaker 5: my life, even you know, when it comes to work, 791 00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:09,399 Speaker 5: signing contracts and stuff, I sweat. I'm like, oh, how 792 00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:11,000 Speaker 5: many years come on? I don't know what I'm gonna 793 00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:12,680 Speaker 5: be doing by then. But I think I should be 794 00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:14,799 Speaker 5: a little more committal with things and just say yes 795 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,200 Speaker 5: and then be excited about the thing I said yes 796 00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,280 Speaker 5: to instead of looking at it like a sentence. 797 00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:22,719 Speaker 1: Well, I'm in the committal bandwagon as well, because a 798 00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:25,440 Speaker 1: lot of times, you guys know, people ask me, oh, 799 00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:26,400 Speaker 1: can you come do this? You want to go to 800 00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:29,160 Speaker 1: this party? I'm like, no, I don't even think about it. 801 00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:32,640 Speaker 1: It's like, nah, I'd rather not and I don't want 802 00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:34,120 Speaker 1: to commit to that. And maybe it's the last minute. 803 00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:35,879 Speaker 1: If you have room for me, maybe I'll go. That's 804 00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:38,440 Speaker 1: not good for you if you're planning out a table 805 00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:40,280 Speaker 1: setting or something that's right you Froggy. 806 00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:46,160 Speaker 9: Definitely procrastination, Oh god, yes, mine's procrastination. Like for example, 807 00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,680 Speaker 9: with work, like emails, they pile up and then before 808 00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:50,480 Speaker 9: I'm like you know what, I'll answer that email later. 809 00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:52,400 Speaker 9: I'll answer that email later, and then I don't want 810 00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:54,399 Speaker 9: to get back to it, and then it's last minute 811 00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:56,080 Speaker 9: and I'm trying to burn through them all. 812 00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:57,120 Speaker 2: I need to get better about that. 813 00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:01,480 Speaker 5: Okay, But the deadline thing, when people give you a deadline, 814 00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:04,280 Speaker 5: don't ask me about it until the deadline comes, because 815 00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:06,400 Speaker 5: I will wait until that deadline and then drop everything 816 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:08,319 Speaker 5: I need to do at that time, and people get 817 00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:10,520 Speaker 5: really stressed. Well, the deadline is tomorrow. I'm like, right, 818 00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:12,120 Speaker 5: and it's today. Why are you asking this? 819 00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:16,600 Speaker 7: It's do homework and your assignments or reports. They most 820 00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:18,759 Speaker 7: kids wait till the very last minute to get it 821 00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:20,759 Speaker 7: done and hands it in like very rare. 822 00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:21,840 Speaker 4: Do kids work ahead? 823 00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:24,200 Speaker 1: You know I'm an old kid. Then I'm the same way. 824 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:26,360 Speaker 2: It really does feel good when you do it ahead 825 00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:27,040 Speaker 2: of time and get it done. 826 00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:29,440 Speaker 5: I wouldn't know. I have no idea you do. 827 00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:32,400 Speaker 1: What does that feeling feel like? Wait, Daniel, what about you? 828 00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:32,640 Speaker 37: Yeah? 829 00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:35,440 Speaker 7: Same thing like just like saying I want to do something, 830 00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:37,359 Speaker 7: saying yes, and then leading up. 831 00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:39,880 Speaker 4: To it, humming and hunging about it. Why did I 832 00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:41,560 Speaker 4: say yes? I shouldn't have said yes? 833 00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:44,320 Speaker 7: And then and then I wind up going and enjoying 834 00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:45,440 Speaker 7: myself and having a good time. 835 00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:46,200 Speaker 5: So that was cool. 836 00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:47,120 Speaker 4: Yeah. 837 00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:50,560 Speaker 1: My thing with Alex is I'll say, hey, x y Z, 838 00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:53,279 Speaker 1: they invited us to their house this tonight for a 839 00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:56,879 Speaker 1: dinner party. Okay, let's go, and then he'll get home 840 00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:57,200 Speaker 1: from work. 841 00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:59,040 Speaker 2: Na, what do you mean? 842 00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:02,160 Speaker 1: Nay, that means. That means that puts me in the middle. 843 00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:03,680 Speaker 1: Now I have to call them and come up with 844 00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:04,919 Speaker 1: an excuse name. 845 00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:10,000 Speaker 10: Yeah, scary mine is RSVP for a wedding because I 846 00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:12,600 Speaker 10: wait to the very last minute and then beyond the deadline, 847 00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:13,440 Speaker 10: well beyond the deadline. 848 00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:15,879 Speaker 11: Yes, I hate going to weddings, so it's like, oh 849 00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:18,080 Speaker 11: my god, what's my answer going to be? 850 00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:20,960 Speaker 1: And then I usually wind up going, But I you know. 851 00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:24,480 Speaker 5: That's monstrous, man, I tell them too late. Yeah, sorry, But. 852 00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,000 Speaker 1: If you don't want to go, don't go. I mean 853 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:27,239 Speaker 1: it gets to the point where if you just don't 854 00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:29,080 Speaker 1: want to go, be absolute about it, don't don't like. 855 00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:31,279 Speaker 1: I think the whole point of that that one on 856 00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:34,080 Speaker 1: this list is commit commit to doing it or commit 857 00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:37,040 Speaker 1: to not doing it, just and just once you commit 858 00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:38,200 Speaker 1: either way, stick with it. 859 00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:39,320 Speaker 11: Right Yeah? 860 00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:42,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. Tanisha Online twenty has a suggestion for all of 861 00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:45,840 Speaker 1: us when people invite us somewhere. Yes, Tanisha, help us 862 00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:46,239 Speaker 1: out with this. 863 00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:49,680 Speaker 38: Yeah, so I have the best response for when someone 864 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,520 Speaker 38: asks to come out somewhere. I always say, oh, that 865 00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:57,239 Speaker 38: sounds fun, So I'm not necessarily committing to it. But 866 00:37:57,640 --> 00:37:59,360 Speaker 38: I also don't want to shoot down their plans so 867 00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:03,040 Speaker 38: they feel bad about, you know, me not being interested 868 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:03,560 Speaker 38: in going. 869 00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,399 Speaker 1: If you if I asked, Tanisha, if I said, Hey, 870 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:10,200 Speaker 1: we're getting together for dinner tonight, if you told me 871 00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:12,120 Speaker 1: that sounds fun, I think I would assume you were 872 00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:15,200 Speaker 1: going to be there. Is that wrong? Maybe maybe I shouldn't. 873 00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:17,280 Speaker 4: Think that, Maybe you shouldn't. 874 00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:19,080 Speaker 38: I'm just letting you know that it sounds like a 875 00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:21,080 Speaker 38: fun plant, but I'm not telling you that I'm going 876 00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:21,560 Speaker 38: to be there. 877 00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:24,759 Speaker 5: Yeah, I agree, I totally agree. 878 00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,600 Speaker 7: If I say to somebody that sounds awesome, it doesn't 879 00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:28,640 Speaker 7: mean I'm committing to go. 880 00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:30,640 Speaker 2: That sounds like a commitment to me. 881 00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,360 Speaker 33: Can I just point out Elvis does this all the 882 00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:38,400 Speaker 33: time in the most when. 883 00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:40,160 Speaker 11: Scary because he almost having a party. 884 00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:42,600 Speaker 1: Hey, that sounds like a great time, have a blast. 885 00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:43,839 Speaker 32: Now. 886 00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:46,040 Speaker 1: My favorite line is, hey, tell her when I said hello. 887 00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:50,840 Speaker 5: But he leaves to think he's going because he's like, 888 00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:53,160 Speaker 5: have a great time. Tell him, I said, hi, but 889 00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:54,839 Speaker 5: if you were to just leave it, Oh my gosh, 890 00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:57,040 Speaker 5: that sounds like a great time. I love to see 891 00:38:57,080 --> 00:38:57,719 Speaker 5: your ass there. 892 00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:00,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, Tanisha, I don't know. Ts you be at dinner tonight. 893 00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:04,640 Speaker 38: I'm telling you right now, I'll tell you why Elvis, 894 00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:06,080 Speaker 38: that sounds like a lot of fun. 895 00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:10,840 Speaker 1: There you go, all right to these Thank you for 896 00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:13,239 Speaker 1: listening today. We appreciate your controversial. 897 00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:15,759 Speaker 10: That's as brilliant as it is offensive. By the way, 898 00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:19,000 Speaker 10: would people do that that you think that they're committing 899 00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:19,440 Speaker 10: but they're not. 900 00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:21,879 Speaker 2: It's like, what was it? What was the other line 901 00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:22,960 Speaker 2: that Lee Schrager used. 902 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:23,279 Speaker 1: The other day? 903 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:26,840 Speaker 5: When somebody says or shows you a picture, you're supposed 904 00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:28,440 Speaker 5: to be like, well, that isn't that something? 905 00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:32,759 Speaker 4: Yes, exactly, when you don't like something, something that. 906 00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:35,640 Speaker 1: Something, which could be like that's crap or that's right, great, 907 00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:37,879 Speaker 1: I'm not going to commit either way, Like pictures. 908 00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:39,720 Speaker 5: Of people's children. He's like, oh that's something. 909 00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:42,880 Speaker 1: Oh, that's something. Look at that. 910 00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:49,440 Speaker 6: Ell mister now, mister Oran. In the morning show. 911 00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:54,920 Speaker 1: In the Morning show, you know, our auction manager. Andrew 912 00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:58,000 Speaker 1: is doing something that I'm a little uncomfortable with. What 913 00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:02,200 Speaker 1: can you commit from? You have a seat option manager? 914 00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:02,720 Speaker 5: Andrew? 915 00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:04,319 Speaker 1: Can you turn his microphone on? I don't know how 916 00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:07,399 Speaker 1: this thing works. No, it's Garrett seat. What are you doing? 917 00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:11,560 Speaker 1: That's it's you're taking a room seats So you know, 918 00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:14,040 Speaker 1: we're waiting for coach to boy Josh to return from vacation. 919 00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:16,880 Speaker 1: So I asked him, Andrews, and Andrew, do you have 920 00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:19,560 Speaker 1: you heard from Josh? Is he close? So Andrew goes 921 00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:23,080 Speaker 1: on his phone and he's tracking Josh. 922 00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:24,760 Speaker 4: Do you have three sixty on Josh? 923 00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:27,440 Speaker 16: No, it's to find my friend feature on iPhone. Well, 924 00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:29,319 Speaker 16: I share my location with a whole bunch of friends. 925 00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, I have time too, So he says he knows 926 00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:33,240 Speaker 1: where we all are at all times. 927 00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:36,040 Speaker 2: What, Well, I'm not all of you. 928 00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:39,279 Speaker 1: I thought it was a little a little odd that 929 00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:40,640 Speaker 1: you you're you're tracking me? 930 00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:42,920 Speaker 2: Yes, and but. 931 00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:43,600 Speaker 1: You know what it's. 932 00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:46,040 Speaker 5: It's I just need to know where. 933 00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:50,600 Speaker 16: People are, like with you specifically, Let's say I don't 934 00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:51,279 Speaker 16: even know where I am. 935 00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:52,400 Speaker 8: Well, let's say. 936 00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:54,520 Speaker 16: We're going someplace and I need to know your et 937 00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:58,560 Speaker 16: A for me. I just like saying, oh, he's on 938 00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:01,759 Speaker 16: his way. That is it helps me out? Is that bad? 939 00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:03,719 Speaker 1: I don't think he's that bad. I mean I think 940 00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:06,520 Speaker 1: you should have let me know that you're tracking. You 941 00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:08,839 Speaker 1: went on my phone and turn it on without me knowing. Yes, 942 00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:12,680 Speaker 1: I mean it's like it's I'll just find that a 943 00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:15,080 Speaker 1: little odd. You know, it's just a sneaky little subscription. 944 00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:18,840 Speaker 16: You just go boop boop, and then he will gotcha, how. 945 00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:19,960 Speaker 11: Do I boom? 946 00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:23,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll take your phone and then I'll. 947 00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:24,480 Speaker 11: Be boop and then you're done. 948 00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:25,279 Speaker 4: You're such a liar. 949 00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:26,319 Speaker 25: It off? 950 00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:27,319 Speaker 1: Shut it off? 951 00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:29,200 Speaker 2: Yea, yeah, because. 952 00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:31,080 Speaker 7: You know if he looks at you say I'm ten 953 00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:32,480 Speaker 7: minutes out and he looks. 954 00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:34,600 Speaker 4: At it and goes, no, he's not, he's twenty five minutes. 955 00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:36,760 Speaker 1: I just find it a bit creepy. 956 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:39,000 Speaker 5: It's important though. I have a couple of friends that 957 00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:40,520 Speaker 5: will tell me they're on the way to things and 958 00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:42,040 Speaker 5: I'm like, you're not on the way. Share your location 959 00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:43,000 Speaker 5: right now, drop me a pin. 960 00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,719 Speaker 16: Well, I share locations with you and Diamond when we 961 00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:47,200 Speaker 16: were at the uh off. 962 00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:48,759 Speaker 1: The Great Trip, I need to know where you guys were, 963 00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:50,640 Speaker 1: and then fine, I don't mind dropping a pin at 964 00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:53,080 Speaker 1: least drop a pin. At least I know that I 965 00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:54,200 Speaker 1: sent it to you. 966 00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:55,239 Speaker 11: Did you get that? 967 00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:56,680 Speaker 1: Everybody? Everybody call her? 968 00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:57,000 Speaker 34: Yes? 969 00:41:57,760 --> 00:41:58,640 Speaker 11: Right here here? 970 00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:05,000 Speaker 1: Oh Jamie, Hi, Jamie, Hi, good morning, Good morning Jamie. 971 00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:07,359 Speaker 1: Do you have friends that track me? Well, hello, lady. 972 00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:09,600 Speaker 1: Do you have friends that track you on their iPhone 973 00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:11,920 Speaker 1: without you knowing it? Is that a little creepy? 974 00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:12,799 Speaker 19: Ah? 975 00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:20,400 Speaker 29: I'm an android person, so nobody's tracking me. 976 00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:22,920 Speaker 1: So Jamie? 977 00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:25,960 Speaker 16: Oh, okay, okay, Andrew, you ain't leave no, okay, Well 978 00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:26,759 Speaker 16: I'll know where you are. 979 00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:28,080 Speaker 2: Bye. 980 00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:31,040 Speaker 1: So Jamie, you send a text? What was your question? 981 00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:32,680 Speaker 5: Okay? 982 00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:35,840 Speaker 16: So I heard the song everybody, everybody and it just 983 00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:38,359 Speaker 16: the guy in the background, the guy, and. 984 00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:40,120 Speaker 4: You say that that's you? Is that really you? 985 00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:41,000 Speaker 5: Is that really you? 986 00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:41,920 Speaker 19: Okay? 987 00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:42,319 Speaker 39: I am. 988 00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:46,960 Speaker 1: I am in the song everybody, everybody, that's really you. 989 00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:49,719 Speaker 1: But I'm not the guy who goes ow. I'm the 990 00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:58,480 Speaker 1: guy that goes pooh, yes here, that's not me, not me. 991 00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:02,239 Speaker 18: Right now. 992 00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:10,120 Speaker 4: That's that's amazing. 993 00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:12,000 Speaker 2: I have a question. What's that? 994 00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:14,880 Speaker 9: Did you just do that once and they looped it? 995 00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:16,759 Speaker 9: Or did you do that every single time? 996 00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:16,960 Speaker 2: Oh? 997 00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:18,560 Speaker 1: I was in the studio for hours? 998 00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:21,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, Okaying, how many different ways can you do? 999 00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:25,040 Speaker 1: Tried to try to keep it consistent. 1000 00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:27,520 Speaker 5: Are you paid for the song in royalties? 1001 00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:28,799 Speaker 4: You get royalties. 1002 00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:41,960 Speaker 40: I happily paid that. That's not me, Jamie. 1003 00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:42,720 Speaker 5: He's got a bridge. 1004 00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:43,919 Speaker 4: He wants to sell you as. 1005 00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:46,879 Speaker 2: How do you know that's not him? 1006 00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:48,680 Speaker 1: Come on, you know that's. 1007 00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:50,680 Speaker 16: I was, like, you know what I have I been 1008 00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,799 Speaker 16: being had all these years? 1009 00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:54,360 Speaker 4: Not him, Like I don't know. 1010 00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:59,640 Speaker 2: I was a part of here. 1011 00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:06,880 Speaker 24: Mamie. 1012 00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:07,560 Speaker 1: You have a great day. 1013 00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:16,359 Speaker 41: I love you. We have like a list of things 1014 00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:19,399 Speaker 41: we should be doing, and we're not doing any of them. 1015 00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:24,560 Speaker 26: Don't answer the phone. Elvis Duran, the Elvis durand phone. 1016 00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:27,600 Speaker 4: Tappened, daniel Yes, sorry, just comes from Helen. 1017 00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:30,799 Speaker 7: She's my husband, Delcho and I own many solid creations. 1018 00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:32,600 Speaker 4: Let's call him, tell him. 1019 00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:34,840 Speaker 7: That the electricity is not working at one of the 1020 00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:36,879 Speaker 7: stores and he will flip out. 1021 00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:40,919 Speaker 1: Let's listen into your phone, tap hit it, Danielle. 1022 00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:45,319 Speaker 8: Hello, honey, yeah, yeah, the power went out in the store. Uh, 1023 00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:47,600 Speaker 8: the whole store. I can't get the lights to come on. 1024 00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,920 Speaker 8: And I called on and I've got the lady on 1025 00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:53,040 Speaker 8: the phone and she's saying we didn't pay our bill. 1026 00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:54,200 Speaker 37: I don't know. 1027 00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:55,920 Speaker 8: I really don't know what to do. You need to 1028 00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:59,320 Speaker 8: talk to the lady. She's on the line. 1029 00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:03,279 Speaker 4: I can't Hello. Hello, Hello, Hello, This is Marianne from 1030 00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:04,239 Speaker 4: Milan and Hi. 1031 00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:05,319 Speaker 1: How are you good? 1032 00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:05,879 Speaker 4: How are you? 1033 00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:09,640 Speaker 17: I'm doing good. I paid it through my online banking. 1034 00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:13,160 Speaker 17: They took it out because I never got a bill. Okay, 1035 00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:14,560 Speaker 17: we took it out of my account. 1036 00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:17,120 Speaker 4: Two forty six thirty six is still owed. 1037 00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:19,520 Speaker 8: Don't kill the food is gonna go bad? 1038 00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:20,040 Speaker 32: Okay? 1039 00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:22,880 Speaker 17: Can I pay for it right now? I mean, because 1040 00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:25,920 Speaker 17: I really I paid for what was old. 1041 00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,400 Speaker 7: You can, but it's gonna take twenty four hours for 1042 00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:29,920 Speaker 7: it to be reset. 1043 00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:32,000 Speaker 17: So what you're telling me is I'm gonna go out 1044 00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:33,920 Speaker 17: of business for twenty four hours. 1045 00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:36,120 Speaker 4: Unfortunately, that's the rules of good Lord. 1046 00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:37,920 Speaker 17: I'm gonna you can't do this to me. Can I 1047 00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:39,240 Speaker 17: go somewhere and pay this please? 1048 00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:41,919 Speaker 7: We did send you numerous bills in the mail saying 1049 00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:43,759 Speaker 7: that there was two forty six thirty six over. 1050 00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:45,680 Speaker 17: Oh I never got that. I just got what they 1051 00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:47,799 Speaker 17: told me on the phone, and I went and I 1052 00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:49,200 Speaker 17: paid it on the on the phone. 1053 00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:50,080 Speaker 8: What did it look like? 1054 00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:51,640 Speaker 4: Hold on one second, let me see if I can 1055 00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:52,160 Speaker 4: figure this out. 1056 00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:54,200 Speaker 17: Hold on, yeah, please, honey, I don't. 1057 00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:55,920 Speaker 8: I don't know what to do. All the food is 1058 00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:57,920 Speaker 8: going bad. It's already defrosting everything. 1059 00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:00,719 Speaker 17: I'll be quiet for that, just bet for that. I 1060 00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,440 Speaker 17: don't want to talk to you about that. I need 1061 00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:05,400 Speaker 17: to get the lecture turned on, please, honey. 1062 00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:06,520 Speaker 8: Hello, Hello. 1063 00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:09,399 Speaker 7: Unfortunately, it's going to be at least three days, they're 1064 00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:11,359 Speaker 7: telling me before the electric can be turned back on 1065 00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:12,120 Speaker 7: three days. 1066 00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:13,160 Speaker 17: I'm gonna go out. 1067 00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:14,759 Speaker 6: Of business, sir. 1068 00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:16,680 Speaker 7: I mean I can't help you. I mean, if you 1069 00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:18,360 Speaker 7: don't pay your bills, this is what happens. 1070 00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:21,280 Speaker 17: I know, but I never got to fill Please, please, 1071 00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:22,560 Speaker 17: can I talk to your boss? 1072 00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:23,719 Speaker 4: I can't hold on? 1073 00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:26,080 Speaker 17: Oh god, what am I gonna do? 1074 00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:27,920 Speaker 5: I can't. 1075 00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:29,839 Speaker 8: Coolers aren't on. 1076 00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:32,760 Speaker 17: I mean, do you understand that the cools on on? Allan? 1077 00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:33,680 Speaker 2: Don't kidding? 1078 00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:35,680 Speaker 17: Of course they're not going to be on where you're 1079 00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:37,560 Speaker 17: going on that's crazy. 1080 00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:39,320 Speaker 8: So well, I'll just serve the food. 1081 00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:42,040 Speaker 17: Yeah, but you have no lights on? So what No, 1082 00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:44,160 Speaker 17: we got to get a generator and until they turn 1083 00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:44,840 Speaker 17: it on, I don't know. 1084 00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:46,040 Speaker 13: I can't believe you said this. 1085 00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:49,120 Speaker 17: We're going to close the store down for three days. 1086 00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:51,840 Speaker 8: My closed door for three days. Why would you do that? 1087 00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:53,080 Speaker 32: Huh? 1088 00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:54,640 Speaker 4: Why would you do? You have no power? 1089 00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:56,440 Speaker 11: Are you going to run the store with no power? 1090 00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:58,400 Speaker 8: Well, we'll just serve the food. 1091 00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:02,120 Speaker 17: You can't you're gonna because if you can't serve warm food, 1092 00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:03,120 Speaker 17: alphophone will come down? 1093 00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:03,640 Speaker 28: Are you kidding me? 1094 00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:04,200 Speaker 35: Well? 1095 00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:06,840 Speaker 8: Can't we just put ice on the bottom of it? 1096 00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:07,279 Speaker 28: Oh? 1097 00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:08,480 Speaker 11: I need to take care of this. 1098 00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:11,160 Speaker 8: We'll just forget about it then. I mean, it is 1099 00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:13,279 Speaker 8: what it is. What are we gonna do? It is 1100 00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:15,480 Speaker 8: so we lose some money, big deal? What are we 1101 00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:15,840 Speaker 8: gonna do? 1102 00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:16,640 Speaker 20: Are you serious? 1103 00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:16,960 Speaker 31: Helen? 1104 00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:20,800 Speaker 17: Why are you acting weird like this? This is very strange, Honey. 1105 00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:22,960 Speaker 8: I think I may have threw that stuff out. I 1106 00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:26,560 Speaker 8: think they were sending it here. What they were sending 1107 00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:28,719 Speaker 8: it to the store? And I think I threw it out. 1108 00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:30,000 Speaker 8: I realize what. 1109 00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:31,280 Speaker 28: It was, Helen. 1110 00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:32,360 Speaker 2: How can you do this to me? 1111 00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:35,160 Speaker 42: I didn't know what do you mean you did know? 1112 00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:37,120 Speaker 17: Helen? 1113 00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:38,239 Speaker 37: How can you not know? 1114 00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:41,560 Speaker 8: They were just coming in like little pamphlets. I didn't 1115 00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:44,080 Speaker 8: know what it was. I threw where did you get 1116 00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:45,440 Speaker 8: them here at the store? 1117 00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:47,360 Speaker 17: And you would you, Helen? 1118 00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:48,920 Speaker 11: It's gonna destroy us? 1119 00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:49,640 Speaker 29: Do you understand. 1120 00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:51,640 Speaker 17: I can't believe. 1121 00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:55,040 Speaker 40: This classic Hello huh hi, he holla. 1122 00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:56,000 Speaker 39: Can you explain to her? 1123 00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:58,440 Speaker 17: Because I don't know either my wife. I don't know, Helen, 1124 00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:00,759 Speaker 17: explain or to this to us? Why did you throw 1125 00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:01,239 Speaker 17: him out? 1126 00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:01,680 Speaker 13: Why? 1127 00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:04,759 Speaker 8: I don't know. It just didn't look like anything to me. 1128 00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:05,960 Speaker 17: Did you open it up? 1129 00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:06,320 Speaker 29: Helen? 1130 00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:11,680 Speaker 4: No, I didn't even open it up. 1131 00:48:12,040 --> 00:48:13,399 Speaker 17: My leg is shaking right now. 1132 00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:14,719 Speaker 4: Can you hold on second? 1133 00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:15,080 Speaker 39: Hold on? 1134 00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:18,839 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, Well, this guy is saying that he never 1135 00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:20,640 Speaker 7: got the bill, and his stupid wife. 1136 00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:22,040 Speaker 4: Is saying that she got it, but she thought it 1137 00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:22,960 Speaker 4: was JUN don't know. 1138 00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:25,520 Speaker 8: She was uns calling me stupid. 1139 00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:29,520 Speaker 7: It says right hello, right on the cover it said 1140 00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:32,560 Speaker 7: last year she is hello that Oh no. 1141 00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:33,120 Speaker 5: It's junk bill. 1142 00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:35,960 Speaker 4: I just in the garbage. I'm not doing anything for them. 1143 00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:39,520 Speaker 17: Hey hello, hello, hello, Yes, yeah, what's your name? 1144 00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:40,600 Speaker 4: Mary Anne? 1145 00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:43,319 Speaker 17: Mary Anne? Can I speak to your supervisor? You were 1146 00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:45,319 Speaker 17: just talking to I. 1147 00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:46,560 Speaker 4: Wasn't speaking to anybody. 1148 00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:48,440 Speaker 17: Yeah, you were just calling my wife an idiot. 1149 00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:50,320 Speaker 4: I never would call your wife an idiot. 1150 00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:51,360 Speaker 32: I listen. 1151 00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:53,440 Speaker 17: Can I speak to your supervisor you were just talking 1152 00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:55,359 Speaker 17: to I heard everything you just said about my wife. 1153 00:48:55,560 --> 00:48:57,440 Speaker 4: I swear I wasn't saying anything about anybody. 1154 00:48:57,560 --> 00:48:58,400 Speaker 28: I just had you. 1155 00:48:58,480 --> 00:48:59,440 Speaker 21: I told him my wife. 1156 00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:00,680 Speaker 5: Are you hearing things? 1157 00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:00,919 Speaker 32: Sir? 1158 00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:02,719 Speaker 17: You gotta be kidding me? 1159 00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:03,839 Speaker 36: Full of it? 1160 00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:09,680 Speaker 17: Honey, you know I'm shaking over here. I want to 1161 00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:11,759 Speaker 17: talk to your supervisor right now that you were just 1162 00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:12,200 Speaker 17: talking to. 1163 00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:17,480 Speaker 4: Well, my name is Danielle. You can just talk to me. Yeah, 1164 00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:18,560 Speaker 4: well I changed my name. 1165 00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:21,520 Speaker 7: It's actually Danielle Monarrow from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show. 1166 00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:22,640 Speaker 4: You got phone tapped? 1167 00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:25,319 Speaker 17: Why, Hellen, why would you do this something stupid like that? 1168 00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:28,480 Speaker 4: She wants to play a joke on That's stupid. 1169 00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:30,280 Speaker 2: Hell that is stupid. 1170 00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:31,719 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I gotta go. 1171 00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:32,320 Speaker 32: I'm busy. 1172 00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:33,399 Speaker 17: I'm in the middle of a meeting. 1173 00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:35,640 Speaker 13: He how can you do you? 1174 00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:37,399 Speaker 8: I set up that meeting with Jeff. 1175 00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:39,359 Speaker 31: You made me cut up all the way over here 1176 00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:40,640 Speaker 31: for this, kidding me. 1177 00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:45,000 Speaker 17: I did my god, I can't believe this. You guys 1178 00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:45,799 Speaker 17: are crazy. 1179 00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:48,120 Speaker 6: Elvis Duran's phone time. 1180 00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:53,040 Speaker 18: This phone table was pre recorded permission granted by all party. 1181 00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:56,880 Speaker 26: See Elvis Teroran phone tap only on Elvis Duran in 1182 00:49:56,920 --> 00:50:09,040 Speaker 26: the Morning Show. This is Elvis Duran in the Morning Show. 1183 00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:13,359 Speaker 1: You know, one of the most difficult things to do 1184 00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:18,160 Speaker 1: is to apologize to someone for something you did a 1185 00:50:18,200 --> 00:50:21,000 Speaker 1: while back. It really is. I mean, as you know, 1186 00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:24,319 Speaker 1: the longer you wait to apologize to someone, the more 1187 00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:26,719 Speaker 1: difficult it is to do it. Yes, but I got 1188 00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:28,479 Speaker 1: to tell you. If you come to me and say, hey, 1189 00:50:29,239 --> 00:50:32,320 Speaker 1: last year, I X y Z and I'm so sorry, 1190 00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:34,440 Speaker 1: I just want to let you know, and it's been 1191 00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:36,239 Speaker 1: bothering me. I want to just clear the air and 1192 00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:38,480 Speaker 1: tell you I'm very sorry that happened. I made a mistake. 1193 00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:40,839 Speaker 1: You know what that tells me? Well, even though it's 1194 00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:43,080 Speaker 1: a year later, it tells me you've had a year 1195 00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:43,920 Speaker 1: to think about it. 1196 00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:45,320 Speaker 5: Ah. 1197 00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:47,480 Speaker 1: And you know what, And I think that's an even 1198 00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:51,680 Speaker 1: stronger apology I do. If I just say something and 1199 00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:54,240 Speaker 1: you're like, oh you dumbasic? How dare you say that? Elvis? 1200 00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:56,320 Speaker 1: And I go, oh god, I'm sorry. That's an immediate 1201 00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:58,480 Speaker 1: apology and I may just be doing it just to 1202 00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:01,320 Speaker 1: shut you up, even though I don't really want to 1203 00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:03,680 Speaker 1: tell you I'm sorry. But if it's a year later, 1204 00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:08,280 Speaker 1: that's actually kind of special that you're apologizing. I think. 1205 00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:10,360 Speaker 5: No, I don't know if I feel that way. I 1206 00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:12,440 Speaker 5: feel like, what do you want? What have you been 1207 00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:13,960 Speaker 5: thinking about for a year that you now need me 1208 00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:16,120 Speaker 5: to do for you. That's how I think about it. 1209 00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:18,480 Speaker 1: Hey, Frankie, what are you chewing on? I hear you 1210 00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:19,400 Speaker 1: chewing on plastic. 1211 00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:22,560 Speaker 2: I'm trying to fix. I'm trying to fix this cup 1212 00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:23,640 Speaker 2: back to the way it was. 1213 00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:24,360 Speaker 1: With your teeth. 1214 00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:28,719 Speaker 9: Yeah, but I'm trying to think there's certain things that 1215 00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:31,000 Speaker 9: I need an apology right away for, and then there 1216 00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:33,479 Speaker 9: are certain things that if it's bothered you for a year, 1217 00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:36,040 Speaker 9: then that does it gains you a little? Like you 1218 00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:38,000 Speaker 9: know what, I'm glad it bothered you, and now your 1219 00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:39,239 Speaker 9: apology means a lot more. 1220 00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:40,720 Speaker 1: Okay, so, oh that's good. 1221 00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:42,239 Speaker 5: To write back. I'm glad it bothered you. 1222 00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:45,040 Speaker 4: No, you don't write that back. No, you don't. Oh 1223 00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:47,120 Speaker 4: my god. 1224 00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:51,040 Speaker 1: Look even okay, let's say it's like five years later, 1225 00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:53,200 Speaker 1: even and they say, god, you know what, I've been 1226 00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,680 Speaker 1: thinking about what happened five years ago? 1227 00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:57,160 Speaker 2: And I'm not that's too long. 1228 00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:59,960 Speaker 1: No, No, I don't think so an apology is an apology. 1229 00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:02,200 Speaker 5: You don't think that there are some apologies that you 1230 00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:04,960 Speaker 5: just don't have to accept. Like, Okay, you're sorry, and 1231 00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:07,040 Speaker 5: I get it. That's great. You're sorry, but we're not friends. 1232 00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:08,200 Speaker 5: You don't need to be part of my life. We 1233 00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:09,759 Speaker 5: don't need to have a conversation about this. 1234 00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:12,120 Speaker 1: Well that's if you choose to keep them out of 1235 00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:14,719 Speaker 1: your life because you prefer life without them. And I 1236 00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:18,080 Speaker 1: get that. Okay, So has someone apologized to you or yes? Okay, 1237 00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:20,239 Speaker 1: So who was it? 1238 00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:23,200 Speaker 5: Well I can't really give out any details, but it 1239 00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:26,200 Speaker 5: was somebody who I believe crossed me in a horrible 1240 00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:29,320 Speaker 5: way about a year ago. And then this person reached 1241 00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:31,360 Speaker 5: out and said, it's been a year and I was 1242 00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:33,920 Speaker 5: thinking about what happened, and I would like to say 1243 00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:36,440 Speaker 5: I don't like how it unfolded and that's not how 1244 00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:38,680 Speaker 5: I would like to operate, and blah blah. But I'm 1245 00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:40,719 Speaker 5: kind of like, eh, whatever. 1246 00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:42,480 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, if you're ready to move on, I get that. 1247 00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:43,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I moved on a long time ago. 1248 00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:45,680 Speaker 5: I'm over it. I just I feel like, why do 1249 00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:47,359 Speaker 5: we have to have this conversation now? 1250 00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:50,200 Speaker 1: Well, because you don't want to invest any of your 1251 00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:51,920 Speaker 1: bandwidth to this person anymore. 1252 00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:54,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm like, you're out of my life. Just stay there. Yeah, yeah, 1253 00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:57,080 Speaker 5: stay on that side. But as Froggy said, I'm glad 1254 00:52:57,080 --> 00:53:03,680 Speaker 5: it bothered you. Okay, I don't you learned a lesson. 1255 00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:08,120 Speaker 1: Because I got an apology once from a very dear 1256 00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:10,680 Speaker 1: friend saying, you know what, I've thought about what you 1257 00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:14,480 Speaker 1: said two years ago about what I did, and I 1258 00:53:14,680 --> 00:53:17,400 Speaker 1: get it now. It makes sense to me. So I 1259 00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:19,040 Speaker 1: don't know what happened in those two years and why 1260 00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:23,200 Speaker 1: it took so long, But a two year thinking about 1261 00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:25,600 Speaker 1: something for two years, Yeah, I'm impressed with that. 1262 00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:26,680 Speaker 8: I think so too. 1263 00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:28,759 Speaker 4: I think it must have been bothering them. 1264 00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:31,359 Speaker 5: I agree. It takes a lot to apologize. I suck 1265 00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:33,520 Speaker 5: it apologizing. I'm really not good at it. But also 1266 00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:35,440 Speaker 5: I just think that every now and then there's not 1267 00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:37,120 Speaker 5: a conversation that we need to have about this. 1268 00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:39,200 Speaker 1: My favorite is to pick up the phone, Hey, how 1269 00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:41,840 Speaker 1: are you doing? Hey, I haven't talked to you so long, Elvis. 1270 00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:44,560 Speaker 1: I want to say something. I know that I used 1271 00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:47,919 Speaker 1: to drink heavily and I was not in my right 1272 00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:50,600 Speaker 1: mind when I was drunk. I'm now in the program, 1273 00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:53,440 Speaker 1: and as you know, part of my steps I need 1274 00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:55,760 Speaker 1: to call people and make amends. I'm calling to say 1275 00:53:56,120 --> 00:53:59,239 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. And that's happened several times with me because 1276 00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:02,439 Speaker 1: while I have a lot of friends and we all party. 1277 00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:05,000 Speaker 1: We lived through the eighties. Hello, you know what I'm saying. 1278 00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:07,799 Speaker 1: And so I was like, you know, congratulations. I think 1279 00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:10,120 Speaker 1: that's so cool that you called and did that. It's 1280 00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:12,360 Speaker 1: a part of that twelve step program. 1281 00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:13,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, that process. 1282 00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:14,880 Speaker 5: You're so much bigger than me. 1283 00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:16,799 Speaker 1: Why No, I know, But that's different. That's a sub 1284 00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:19,640 Speaker 1: that was a substance abuse, and that's something they needed 1285 00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:21,319 Speaker 1: to do. But you don't think your friend was going 1286 00:54:21,320 --> 00:54:22,280 Speaker 1: through substance abuse. 1287 00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:24,560 Speaker 5: No, I think this person was just being a giant 1288 00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:25,799 Speaker 5: b I t H right? 1289 00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:26,000 Speaker 41: I know? 1290 00:54:26,160 --> 00:54:28,040 Speaker 1: Did do You sometimes think if they come out of 1291 00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:30,759 Speaker 1: the wood work and apologize two years later, there they 1292 00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:31,680 Speaker 1: have an agenda. 1293 00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:33,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm like, no, you're not getting jingle ball tickets 1294 00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:36,359 Speaker 5: whatever it is. You know, there are. 1295 00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:38,879 Speaker 7: People that I think, in my head, even if they apologized, 1296 00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:40,879 Speaker 7: I would never accept it. 1297 00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:44,960 Speaker 5: Oh there's one person. If she apologized and was like 1298 00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:46,960 Speaker 5: in a near vicinity of me to be speaking, I 1299 00:54:46,960 --> 00:54:49,120 Speaker 5: would jump across the table and probably pull her hair out. 1300 00:54:49,239 --> 00:54:50,040 Speaker 5: Wow this one. 1301 00:54:51,080 --> 00:54:54,080 Speaker 1: Wow Gandhi, Because you know Daniel doesn't Gandhi seem like 1302 00:54:54,120 --> 00:54:56,040 Speaker 1: a live and let live kind of person. I didn't 1303 00:54:56,040 --> 00:54:56,920 Speaker 1: know you were so vindictive. 1304 00:54:57,000 --> 00:54:59,080 Speaker 5: No, for the most part, I am. But this this, 1305 00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:02,719 Speaker 5: I'll tell you what the one did. Oh, I think 1306 00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:04,520 Speaker 5: you'll all be on my side. Okay, so we all 1307 00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:07,000 Speaker 5: know that I had a boyfriend who passed away. Yes, right, 1308 00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:09,040 Speaker 5: she was very good friends with him as well. When 1309 00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:11,080 Speaker 5: he passed away, she didn't show up at anything, not 1310 00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:13,360 Speaker 5: the funeral, not while we were looking for his body 1311 00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:16,800 Speaker 5: for three days. Nothing. Then, because it was her birthday, 1312 00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:20,400 Speaker 5: she but dialed me and purposefully was having a conversation 1313 00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:23,319 Speaker 5: with someone about how horrible I was for expecting her 1314 00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:25,520 Speaker 5: to go to his funeral or be there for the 1315 00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:28,160 Speaker 5: search party, and how I'm selfish, and yeah, he died, 1316 00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:30,600 Speaker 5: but he's gonna stay dead. It's my birthday and I 1317 00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:34,000 Speaker 5: only get to celebrate. Oh okay, yeah, let me find 1318 00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:37,400 Speaker 5: you all pull your hair out. 1319 00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:40,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, and she did the on purpose but dialogue purpose 1320 00:55:40,640 --> 00:55:46,239 Speaker 1: our lame phone taps. Yeah, you could and talk about 1321 00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:49,879 Speaker 1: a thing. Oh my gosh, that's why would you ever 1322 00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:51,640 Speaker 1: even want to even think of forgiving? 1323 00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:53,480 Speaker 5: I will not. I will put out her hair. And 1324 00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:54,799 Speaker 5: it's ugly hair, by the way. 1325 00:55:55,160 --> 00:56:00,440 Speaker 1: Okay, good morning Sarah, Hi, good morning you right now, 1326 00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:03,839 Speaker 1: And obviously we said something that like hit a nerve 1327 00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:04,040 Speaker 1: with you. 1328 00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:07,479 Speaker 34: What do you think it, Sarah, I've been through two 1329 00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:10,120 Speaker 34: experiences in my life that have to deal with forgiveness 1330 00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:14,440 Speaker 34: and they both shaped me in crazy ways, and it's 1331 00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:16,640 Speaker 34: hit a nerve when you guys started talking about it. 1332 00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:18,719 Speaker 1: Okay, well give us an example. What do you think? 1333 00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:23,520 Speaker 34: So the first example is I did something wrong and 1334 00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:26,000 Speaker 34: I fully admit that I did something wrong, but the 1335 00:56:26,680 --> 00:56:32,160 Speaker 34: friend in the situation, it's something worse, and I apologize 1336 00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:35,399 Speaker 34: for my part in it. And the only reason that 1337 00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:38,880 Speaker 34: person apologized back to me is because I apologized, And 1338 00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:41,239 Speaker 34: it was the kind of apology that you're that you 1339 00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:43,920 Speaker 34: were saying you only did it because you had two 1340 00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:44,560 Speaker 34: kinds of things. 1341 00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:46,640 Speaker 14: Wow, And that hit a nerve with me. 1342 00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:55,600 Speaker 34: In another situation, I was approached with a situation about 1343 00:56:55,640 --> 00:56:58,360 Speaker 34: a birthday party and I wasn't comfortable going. So I 1344 00:56:58,360 --> 00:57:01,040 Speaker 34: explained my situation personal reasons, that's why I didn't want 1345 00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:04,839 Speaker 34: to go, and I explained to them that I would 1346 00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:08,040 Speaker 34: love to celebrate another way. And then I didn't get 1347 00:57:08,040 --> 00:57:10,960 Speaker 34: a response for almost four or five months. And when 1348 00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:14,120 Speaker 34: that person finally responded and apologized for the way she reacted, 1349 00:57:14,719 --> 00:57:17,200 Speaker 34: I said, thank you for the apology. I really appreciate it, 1350 00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:19,200 Speaker 34: but I'm not interested in being friends with you anymore. 1351 00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:20,840 Speaker 13: Wow, I just don't like what. 1352 00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:23,760 Speaker 34: You did to me, and it really hurt me, and 1353 00:57:24,160 --> 00:57:28,800 Speaker 34: it's forgiveness and having to think about that. It's completely 1354 00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:33,560 Speaker 34: changed the way I've acted friendships, relationships, everything. It's crazy. 1355 00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:36,080 Speaker 1: You know what, You just said something that made me 1356 00:57:36,120 --> 00:57:40,400 Speaker 1: think I if you say something that really hurt me, 1357 00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:43,480 Speaker 1: and I tell you it hurt me that you said that, 1358 00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:45,880 Speaker 1: that means obviously I still like you and expect more 1359 00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:46,240 Speaker 1: from you. 1360 00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:47,240 Speaker 4: Yep, that's true. 1361 00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:49,760 Speaker 1: But if someone is just if you're so ready to 1362 00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:51,760 Speaker 1: write someone off and just kick them off your radar, 1363 00:57:52,440 --> 00:57:54,080 Speaker 1: it doesn't even hurt. They didn't even hurt me any 1364 00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:57,840 Speaker 1: I'm like done. I just I'm not even who another 1365 00:57:57,840 --> 00:57:58,520 Speaker 1: thing you said hurt me. 1366 00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:03,280 Speaker 34: It had hurt in the moment, definitely, but then after 1367 00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:05,520 Speaker 34: I had the months to think about it and discuss 1368 00:58:05,560 --> 00:58:07,200 Speaker 34: it with my friends and my family, it was like, 1369 00:58:08,000 --> 00:58:10,200 Speaker 34: I can't expect it anymore. She did this and it 1370 00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:12,360 Speaker 34: obviously didn't hurt for her to do this. Goodbye, it 1371 00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:13,400 Speaker 34: doesn't hurt me anymore. 1372 00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:16,080 Speaker 1: Done, I got it. Listen, Sarah, thank you for listening. 1373 00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:18,920 Speaker 34: To us and much I've been listening for over twenty years. 1374 00:58:18,960 --> 00:58:19,800 Speaker 34: This is insane to me. 1375 00:58:20,040 --> 00:58:24,560 Speaker 1: Hope, I don't say something to piss you off, thank 1376 00:58:24,600 --> 00:58:26,760 Speaker 1: you very much. I don't know, Yes, Froggy. 1377 00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:29,000 Speaker 9: I believe it's how you deliver an apology. Like if 1378 00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:32,200 Speaker 9: you just say sorry, sorry is not enough. Like there 1379 00:58:32,240 --> 00:58:34,840 Speaker 9: needs to be adjectives and words in front of the 1380 00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:37,360 Speaker 9: word sorry that let me know that you really are 1381 00:58:37,400 --> 00:58:38,040 Speaker 9: truly sorry. 1382 00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:40,800 Speaker 4: If you say with that attitude voice. 1383 00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:42,720 Speaker 2: Sorry, sorry, you're not sorry at that point. 1384 00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:45,280 Speaker 1: I'm sure you feel that way. I'm sorry, you know 1385 00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:48,600 Speaker 1: another one is with me. By the time you come 1386 00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:51,000 Speaker 1: to apologize to me. I'm at a part in my 1387 00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:53,960 Speaker 1: life where I've probably have already written you off no offense. 1388 00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:56,720 Speaker 1: But I'm if I haven't talked to you in months, 1389 00:58:56,880 --> 00:59:01,320 Speaker 1: you're not even in my right in my world, so 1390 00:59:01,720 --> 00:59:04,800 Speaker 1: you don't even know me an apology. Have a nice day, exactly. 1391 00:59:04,840 --> 00:59:06,520 Speaker 1: And I'm not trying to be in an ahole. I'm 1392 00:59:06,560 --> 00:59:08,720 Speaker 1: just that's just the way it is. And I'm going 1393 00:59:08,760 --> 00:59:11,000 Speaker 1: to tell you through life experience. The older you get, 1394 00:59:11,040 --> 00:59:16,640 Speaker 1: as I'm getting older, the less you tolerate other people 1395 00:59:17,440 --> 00:59:20,240 Speaker 1: in them trying to find themselves in this year. You know, 1396 00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:23,880 Speaker 1: you may be struggling, and during your struggle you leave 1397 00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:26,880 Speaker 1: a trail of destruction by being mean to friends and 1398 00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:30,400 Speaker 1: being reckless with their feelings. I don't have time for you. 1399 00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:34,480 Speaker 1: I'm done. I'm so much happier just eliminating you from 1400 00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:36,560 Speaker 1: my world rights letting it go? 1401 00:59:36,680 --> 00:59:39,600 Speaker 10: Does it mean less if you apologize when you're drunk. 1402 00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:43,520 Speaker 10: Some people want to apologize, but it's awkward, so they 1403 00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:45,520 Speaker 10: maybe just take the edge off, because half. 1404 00:59:45,320 --> 00:59:46,520 Speaker 4: The time you don't remember what you did. 1405 00:59:46,600 --> 00:59:49,120 Speaker 5: When you don't mean it, nobody could be meaning. 1406 00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:49,720 Speaker 11: It just. 1407 00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:51,680 Speaker 6: Gets you. 1408 00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:53,640 Speaker 1: I think if you're gonna have a serious conversation with me, 1409 00:59:53,720 --> 00:59:56,400 Speaker 1: let's let's do it. Yeah, and then if we like 1410 00:59:56,480 --> 01:00:00,880 Speaker 1: the outcome, then we'll get drunk. You know what was 1411 01:00:00,880 --> 01:00:04,600 Speaker 1: the lady who wrote the book about cleaning out your closet. 1412 01:00:04,320 --> 01:00:04,920 Speaker 5: Marie Condo? 1413 01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:07,440 Speaker 1: Yes, you know what. I really think that should be 1414 01:00:07,520 --> 01:00:10,840 Speaker 1: what you do with people. I agree, tidy up? 1415 01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:12,160 Speaker 8: What is it? 1416 01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:14,120 Speaker 1: If you find a blouse in your closet and it 1417 01:00:14,120 --> 01:00:16,240 Speaker 1: doesn't bring you joy, you should get rid of it. 1418 01:00:16,440 --> 01:00:18,760 Speaker 1: You know, if a person doesn't bring you joy, if 1419 01:00:18,760 --> 01:00:21,440 Speaker 1: you are not nourished by what they bring to their 1420 01:00:21,480 --> 01:00:25,640 Speaker 1: relationship as you should be nourishing them and you're maybe not, 1421 01:00:25,880 --> 01:00:27,400 Speaker 1: then what a waste of time? 1422 01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:30,320 Speaker 5: One hundred percent. I even apply that method to like 1423 01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:32,400 Speaker 5: my Instagram people I follow. I'll go through every now 1424 01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:34,960 Speaker 5: and then and be like, this does not spark joy? Unfollow? 1425 01:00:35,480 --> 01:00:35,680 Speaker 43: Yeah? 1426 01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:37,439 Speaker 1: I mean, am I being just a no? 1427 01:00:37,840 --> 01:00:39,120 Speaker 5: It's so important to do that. 1428 01:00:39,240 --> 01:00:41,840 Speaker 7: Life is too short to surround yourself by people that 1429 01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:45,200 Speaker 7: don't spark joy. Right, Really, you don't know what's going 1430 01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:47,240 Speaker 7: to happen tomorrow. It should be a you know, you 1431 01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:48,439 Speaker 7: should be surrounded by light. 1432 01:00:48,680 --> 01:00:51,600 Speaker 5: It's true, you get time back, stop wasting it, all. 1433 01:00:51,560 --> 01:00:53,320 Speaker 1: Right, So I'm encouraging everyone go out there and just 1434 01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:58,400 Speaker 1: douce your friends out. I mean, this town needs an enema. 1435 01:00:58,560 --> 01:00:59,640 Speaker 4: Do a good Summer's eve. 1436 01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:03,800 Speaker 1: Yes, somers Eat, I'm gonna wash that mantin right out 1437 01:01:03,840 --> 01:01:04,400 Speaker 1: of my head. 1438 01:01:05,800 --> 01:01:08,080 Speaker 2: Them on his way. 1439 01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:15,400 Speaker 1: Scary. I know it's kind of a it's a sad 1440 01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:18,040 Speaker 1: way to look at it, but I would rather spend 1441 01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:21,960 Speaker 1: my time with myself or with people that I really love. 1442 01:01:23,360 --> 01:01:25,760 Speaker 6: The Mercedes Benz Interview Lounge. 1443 01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:27,440 Speaker 1: Timothy Shallow are you kidding me? 1444 01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:27,600 Speaker 32: Man? 1445 01:01:27,640 --> 01:01:29,400 Speaker 1: I grew up listening to you. I grew up listening 1446 01:01:29,400 --> 01:01:33,920 Speaker 1: on the way se Elvis Durant. 1447 01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:37,080 Speaker 6: Sometimes you guys veer into quote unquote vulgar territories. 1448 01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:38,960 Speaker 2: When my dad would say, you know something, I couldn't. 1449 01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:43,120 Speaker 1: Listen to it. Really, at Mercedes Benz, there's a reason 1450 01:01:43,160 --> 01:01:45,880 Speaker 1: they go the extra mile, from testing their vehicles in 1451 01:01:46,040 --> 01:01:49,600 Speaker 1: desert heat and arctic cold to creating AI that can 1452 01:01:49,680 --> 01:01:53,200 Speaker 1: anticipate your needs and preferences on the road. They demand 1453 01:01:53,280 --> 01:01:57,200 Speaker 1: every car is worthy of their star because it's Mercedes Benz. 1454 01:01:57,360 --> 01:02:03,760 Speaker 6: Elvis ran in the Morning show. This is Alister in 1455 01:02:03,800 --> 01:02:04,600 Speaker 6: the Morning show. 1456 01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:08,280 Speaker 1: I want to talk about this story, Gandhi. Yes, you'll 1457 01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:09,920 Speaker 1: give the story just quickly if you would. 1458 01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:13,440 Speaker 5: It says that unmarried women are healthier and happier than 1459 01:02:13,560 --> 01:02:14,400 Speaker 5: everyone else in the world. 1460 01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:16,360 Speaker 1: Okay, now why is this? According to this. 1461 01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:19,439 Speaker 5: Source, because they can focus on their goals, they take 1462 01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:22,600 Speaker 5: more risks at work, they don't have feelings of guilt, 1463 01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:25,160 Speaker 5: being weighed down by family members and what they need 1464 01:02:25,200 --> 01:02:27,040 Speaker 5: to do for society. They're just living their lives the 1465 01:02:27,080 --> 01:02:28,200 Speaker 5: way that they want to live them. 1466 01:02:28,080 --> 01:02:30,600 Speaker 1: All right. Of course, keep in mind Gandhi is a 1467 01:02:30,640 --> 01:02:31,640 Speaker 1: single female. 1468 01:02:31,760 --> 01:02:34,520 Speaker 5: Yes, I am all right. I enjoy this research all right. 1469 01:02:35,120 --> 01:02:37,680 Speaker 1: By the way, Now, keep in mind, research doesn't say 1470 01:02:37,680 --> 01:02:39,000 Speaker 1: this is the way it is that you just have 1471 01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:42,080 Speaker 1: to know it's you know, it doesn't. It doesn't apply 1472 01:02:42,160 --> 01:02:45,840 Speaker 1: to every single person like Daniel, for instance, you seem 1473 01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:48,200 Speaker 1: to be very very happy with two children. 1474 01:02:48,440 --> 01:02:50,200 Speaker 4: I wouldn't give it up for the world exactly. 1475 01:02:50,800 --> 01:02:52,680 Speaker 1: But you know, because you're stuck. They'll just face it. 1476 01:02:52,680 --> 01:02:53,080 Speaker 1: You're stuck. 1477 01:02:53,840 --> 01:02:57,280 Speaker 7: There are moments where you know, you get upset, but 1478 01:02:58,400 --> 01:03:01,840 Speaker 7: the pro is outweigh the in my book at least, 1479 01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:03,480 Speaker 7: and I would not give it up for the world. 1480 01:03:03,680 --> 01:03:06,600 Speaker 5: I'm exactly opposite. Like when I have friends over all 1481 01:03:06,640 --> 01:03:08,360 Speaker 5: the time and I come home, I'm like, oh, you're here, 1482 01:03:08,400 --> 01:03:10,560 Speaker 5: get out all to myself. 1483 01:03:10,600 --> 01:03:13,120 Speaker 1: Okay, keep in mind, this is one research project. We're 1484 01:03:13,120 --> 01:03:15,600 Speaker 1: not pointing fingers and saying anyone is better or worse 1485 01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:18,200 Speaker 1: than anyone else. Let's just get that out of the way, right. 1486 01:03:18,320 --> 01:03:19,960 Speaker 1: I don't want to hear any bitching and moan and 1487 01:03:20,040 --> 01:03:22,440 Speaker 1: let's just look at the research and let's comment on 1488 01:03:22,520 --> 01:03:25,920 Speaker 1: it again. This is a report about a research study 1489 01:03:25,960 --> 01:03:28,240 Speaker 1: from a professor that says that. 1490 01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:31,400 Speaker 5: Single women are the happiest group of people on the planet. 1491 01:03:31,600 --> 01:03:34,080 Speaker 1: Okay, What they did, obviously, is they did the pros 1492 01:03:34,080 --> 01:03:38,200 Speaker 1: and cons. Obviously the pros outweighed the cons more for 1493 01:03:38,320 --> 01:03:41,400 Speaker 1: single women than it did for any other subsets. Right, 1494 01:03:41,720 --> 01:03:45,920 Speaker 1: married women or men or single men, like all of us. 1495 01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:47,520 Speaker 2: This isn't just a female thing. 1496 01:03:47,600 --> 01:03:51,000 Speaker 1: This isn't every one thing. Who's the happiest person you're 1497 01:03:51,040 --> 01:03:53,200 Speaker 1: saying according to this research study? 1498 01:03:53,320 --> 01:03:53,440 Speaker 31: Right? 1499 01:03:53,680 --> 01:03:54,720 Speaker 1: Single women? 1500 01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:57,400 Speaker 5: Yes, according to the research study, because you are more 1501 01:03:57,520 --> 01:04:00,000 Speaker 5: likely to take risks at work and follow your dreams, 1502 01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:01,680 Speaker 5: fulfill the things that you wanted to get done in 1503 01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:04,720 Speaker 5: your life. It says that you're healthier and you live longer. 1504 01:04:04,760 --> 01:04:06,680 Speaker 1: Now do they talk about the age of women, Because 1505 01:04:06,680 --> 01:04:09,200 Speaker 1: I'm thinking if you're if let's say you're in your 1506 01:04:09,760 --> 01:04:12,000 Speaker 1: late thirties or early forties, it may not apply to 1507 01:04:12,040 --> 01:04:13,800 Speaker 1: you as much as it would a twenty two year 1508 01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:14,240 Speaker 1: old woman. 1509 01:04:14,320 --> 01:04:15,760 Speaker 5: This does not have an age group. 1510 01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:16,360 Speaker 2: Huh. 1511 01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:19,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, all right, single and happy, single and happy, And. 1512 01:04:19,320 --> 01:04:24,080 Speaker 1: Danielle seems healthy. She's got guns? Yeah, you got some guns. 1513 01:04:24,160 --> 01:04:25,920 Speaker 4: Huh. I'm working on it. 1514 01:04:26,040 --> 01:04:27,560 Speaker 1: You do you take good care of yourself? 1515 01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:27,800 Speaker 39: Yeah? 1516 01:04:27,800 --> 01:04:28,200 Speaker 36: I try? 1517 01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:30,680 Speaker 1: You love your kids? I do you love your husband? 1518 01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:32,680 Speaker 1: I can't imagine in life without Oh no, okay, and 1519 01:04:32,720 --> 01:04:33,400 Speaker 1: then nor should you? 1520 01:04:34,560 --> 01:04:36,600 Speaker 7: All right, so with that, but I feel like I 1521 01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:40,480 Speaker 7: take sometimes more risks because I have them, like with 1522 01:04:40,720 --> 01:04:43,040 Speaker 7: certain things, because I want to get to that next 1523 01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:45,959 Speaker 7: goal so that I can provide for them. 1524 01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:47,240 Speaker 4: A little bit more, do you know what I mean? 1525 01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:48,080 Speaker 1: Financial risks? 1526 01:04:48,080 --> 01:04:50,360 Speaker 4: So sometimes I feel like I, yeah. 1527 01:04:50,080 --> 01:04:52,800 Speaker 1: So you're not pulling risks on your kids, like no, 1528 01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:54,160 Speaker 1: letting them eat off the floor. 1529 01:04:54,800 --> 01:04:58,400 Speaker 4: Now they do that on their own, right, they're boys. 1530 01:04:57,960 --> 01:04:59,919 Speaker 1: All right, kids, let's go lick the atm. 1531 01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:04,160 Speaker 7: Never when my son lick the banister at the at 1532 01:05:04,160 --> 01:05:04,960 Speaker 7: the subway station. 1533 01:05:05,800 --> 01:05:06,439 Speaker 4: That wasn't good. 1534 01:05:06,560 --> 01:05:09,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, anyway, So scary thinks this sort of applies to 1535 01:05:09,480 --> 01:05:11,800 Speaker 1: guys too. Yeah, you know what, I know, single guys 1536 01:05:11,920 --> 01:05:13,880 Speaker 1: versus guys who were right the. 1537 01:05:13,840 --> 01:05:16,360 Speaker 11: Survey was for women. But I'm happier than a pig 1538 01:05:16,400 --> 01:05:17,320 Speaker 11: and dung right now that. 1539 01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:18,440 Speaker 1: I don't have to that's gross. 1540 01:05:18,480 --> 01:05:19,040 Speaker 2: Go away, you know. 1541 01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:21,560 Speaker 1: If you're gonna use lines like that, just go away happy. Well, 1542 01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:25,480 Speaker 1: the survey is not for women, it's for everyone again. 1543 01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:27,880 Speaker 5: Yes, okay, And it actually says opposite of what you 1544 01:05:27,920 --> 01:05:30,520 Speaker 5: just said. It said men are far far happier in 1545 01:05:30,560 --> 01:05:31,440 Speaker 5: a relationship. 1546 01:05:32,040 --> 01:05:34,640 Speaker 1: I read that the other day too. But guys need 1547 01:05:34,800 --> 01:05:36,840 Speaker 1: to be tethered, they need to be ground. 1548 01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:37,200 Speaker 32: Yeah. 1549 01:05:37,200 --> 01:05:39,200 Speaker 5: Wow, I actually think that's true because if you look at, 1550 01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:41,000 Speaker 5: you know, couples who get older and one of them 1551 01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:43,640 Speaker 5: passes away, it seems like women just kind of enjoy it, 1552 01:05:43,640 --> 01:05:45,680 Speaker 5: say single do whatever. Guys get married again in like 1553 01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:46,720 Speaker 5: a day, right. 1554 01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:50,600 Speaker 1: They need maybe less. Yeah, they need to be in 1555 01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:53,280 Speaker 1: that relationship. They need someone to help them you get 1556 01:05:53,280 --> 01:05:54,960 Speaker 1: through the day. Hey, Page, how are you doing? 1557 01:05:55,680 --> 01:05:56,160 Speaker 23: I'm great? 1558 01:05:56,200 --> 01:05:56,880 Speaker 15: How are you guys? 1559 01:05:56,880 --> 01:05:59,800 Speaker 1: We're doing well. So you've never you're you've never been 1560 01:05:59,800 --> 01:06:00,800 Speaker 1: had be being single? 1561 01:06:01,720 --> 01:06:03,080 Speaker 14: No, I mean I am grown up. 1562 01:06:03,080 --> 01:06:04,960 Speaker 15: So my parents got divorced and I was like two 1563 01:06:05,040 --> 01:06:05,880 Speaker 15: or three, and. 1564 01:06:05,760 --> 01:06:07,640 Speaker 30: They it was pretty it was pretty bad. 1565 01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:12,040 Speaker 15: So growing up, I've always wanted to have that happy 1566 01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:16,360 Speaker 15: Ever after, I guess never really felt right being single. 1567 01:06:16,400 --> 01:06:18,720 Speaker 15: But everybody I dated it was kind of awful too. 1568 01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:22,960 Speaker 15: So you know, hey, but you know the guy that 1569 01:06:23,000 --> 01:06:26,120 Speaker 15: I ended up marrying, I mean, he has he just 1570 01:06:26,160 --> 01:06:28,439 Speaker 15: gets me, you know, and every time I'm with him, 1571 01:06:28,440 --> 01:06:29,960 Speaker 15: I'm just I'm just very excited. 1572 01:06:30,360 --> 01:06:30,760 Speaker 1: Wow. 1573 01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:33,440 Speaker 15: So I just feel like I've finally, you know, finally 1574 01:06:33,440 --> 01:06:34,280 Speaker 15: found my happiness. 1575 01:06:34,360 --> 01:06:34,480 Speaker 19: You know. 1576 01:06:34,600 --> 01:06:38,120 Speaker 1: Oh, good and congratulations. That's awesome and great for you 1577 01:06:38,160 --> 01:06:40,640 Speaker 1: and anyone else who's experiencing the same thing. But keep 1578 01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:43,280 Speaker 1: in mind, this is a a This is hard for 1579 01:06:43,320 --> 01:06:45,520 Speaker 1: some people to get and I know you do though, Uh, 1580 01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:48,520 Speaker 1: it's a study. We're not talking about everyone. We know 1581 01:06:48,640 --> 01:06:51,840 Speaker 1: that it doesn't apply to everyone, right, But they're saying 1582 01:06:52,240 --> 01:06:57,600 Speaker 1: as a whole, being a single female, you have a 1583 01:06:57,600 --> 01:07:00,240 Speaker 1: better chance at happiness than you do in all the 1584 01:07:00,240 --> 01:07:01,920 Speaker 1: other sectors according to this study. 1585 01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:04,600 Speaker 4: That makes sense, now, No, I absolutely diet that. 1586 01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:08,320 Speaker 15: Like, my best friend is single and she has no 1587 01:07:08,400 --> 01:07:11,040 Speaker 15: desire to get married ever, and I mean she's happy, 1588 01:07:11,080 --> 01:07:11,640 Speaker 15: So who cares. 1589 01:07:11,840 --> 01:07:14,040 Speaker 1: Everybody's different, Yeah, like Gandhi Fri instance. 1590 01:07:14,120 --> 01:07:16,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's just never been something that's on my list. 1591 01:07:16,280 --> 01:07:17,960 Speaker 5: And I will say I was in a relationship for 1592 01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:20,439 Speaker 5: a long time and when we broke up, I did 1593 01:07:20,480 --> 01:07:22,200 Speaker 5: start doing all of the things. I started to take 1594 01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:24,200 Speaker 5: more risks and care more about myself and I am 1595 01:07:24,240 --> 01:07:26,280 Speaker 5: happier now than I ever was before. 1596 01:07:27,000 --> 01:07:30,160 Speaker 1: So here's my question for everyone, including you, Paige. If 1597 01:07:30,200 --> 01:07:34,960 Speaker 1: we can learn from this study about how females who 1598 01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:38,440 Speaker 1: are unmarried and single with no kids are the happiest, 1599 01:07:38,840 --> 01:07:42,240 Speaker 1: how can we find the things that cause them to 1600 01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:44,760 Speaker 1: be happy and apply them to our lives if we 1601 01:07:44,880 --> 01:07:47,160 Speaker 1: have kids, or if we are getting married, or we 1602 01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:49,080 Speaker 1: have a boyfriend or a girlfriend. You know what I'm saying. 1603 01:07:49,640 --> 01:07:52,520 Speaker 1: I think there's something to be learned about balance, the 1604 01:07:52,600 --> 01:07:54,760 Speaker 1: risk taking. All right, page, thank you for listening to. 1605 01:07:54,760 --> 01:07:56,600 Speaker 15: Us, No problem, have a great day, guys. 1606 01:07:56,880 --> 01:08:00,560 Speaker 5: I think that the balance is don't forget your because 1607 01:08:00,560 --> 01:08:02,040 Speaker 5: I think a lot of times when people get married 1608 01:08:02,040 --> 01:08:04,840 Speaker 5: and they have kids, that you fall into making them 1609 01:08:05,040 --> 01:08:06,800 Speaker 5: one hundred percent of your life and your priorities, and you 1610 01:08:06,800 --> 01:08:08,880 Speaker 5: forget about yourself, which maybe is what makes you unhappy. 1611 01:08:08,960 --> 01:08:10,680 Speaker 5: So if you don't and you continue to do things 1612 01:08:10,680 --> 01:08:13,640 Speaker 5: like Danielle is and follow your dreams and take the risks, 1613 01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:14,800 Speaker 5: maybe you still stay happy. 1614 01:08:14,840 --> 01:08:17,040 Speaker 7: I always say that if you don't take care of yourself, 1615 01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:19,400 Speaker 7: it's very hard for you to take care of somebody else. Yeah, 1616 01:08:19,439 --> 01:08:22,679 Speaker 7: so you cannot neglect yourself. Sometimes it's not easy because 1617 01:08:22,720 --> 01:08:25,960 Speaker 7: obviously what they're well being and taking care of them, 1618 01:08:26,000 --> 01:08:27,760 Speaker 7: and take care of your husband or your wife or 1619 01:08:27,800 --> 01:08:30,880 Speaker 7: whatever that has to come you know first. And you know, 1620 01:08:31,000 --> 01:08:33,200 Speaker 7: when we go on a trip, I make sure they're 1621 01:08:33,200 --> 01:08:36,040 Speaker 7: all taken care of before I pack myself or before 1622 01:08:36,080 --> 01:08:37,720 Speaker 7: I take care of what I need, I make sure 1623 01:08:37,760 --> 01:08:38,160 Speaker 7: that you know. 1624 01:08:38,240 --> 01:08:40,320 Speaker 1: But that's just the way that think of it this way. 1625 01:08:40,479 --> 01:08:43,600 Speaker 1: So think of it this way. You get married, and 1626 01:08:43,640 --> 01:08:46,599 Speaker 1: then those voices in your head like oh my god, 1627 01:08:46,640 --> 01:08:48,479 Speaker 1: did I say something that made them mad? Or oh 1628 01:08:48,520 --> 01:08:51,439 Speaker 1: my god, I better do it this way otherwise I'm 1629 01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:54,240 Speaker 1: going to get hell from them because and maybe I 1630 01:08:54,240 --> 01:08:56,200 Speaker 1: don't want to go do that, even though I really 1631 01:08:56,240 --> 01:08:58,800 Speaker 1: love to go do that with my friends, because it'll 1632 01:08:58,880 --> 01:09:01,880 Speaker 1: it'll cause a problem when you start getting into those 1633 01:09:02,160 --> 01:09:05,840 Speaker 1: inner conversations. I think that's the slippery slope. Will you 1634 01:09:05,880 --> 01:09:09,160 Speaker 1: stop being yourself? You're with someone who's not allowing you 1635 01:09:09,200 --> 01:09:11,639 Speaker 1: to be yourself? Yes, and maybe partially your fault. You're 1636 01:09:11,680 --> 01:09:14,559 Speaker 1: not communicating to them. Hey, I love you, but you 1637 01:09:14,600 --> 01:09:17,439 Speaker 1: need to understand if you don't let me be me 1638 01:09:18,040 --> 01:09:20,920 Speaker 1: and take my chances and take my risks, then I'm 1639 01:09:20,920 --> 01:09:22,559 Speaker 1: not going to be good for you. 1640 01:09:22,840 --> 01:09:23,759 Speaker 5: Oh that's so important. 1641 01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:26,599 Speaker 7: And also, you fell in love with this me, so 1642 01:09:26,920 --> 01:09:29,160 Speaker 7: why would I change this me to you know what 1643 01:09:29,160 --> 01:09:31,559 Speaker 7: I mean like that? It is all about compromise, of course, 1644 01:09:32,160 --> 01:09:35,120 Speaker 7: but you know this is the person you wanted to 1645 01:09:35,160 --> 01:09:36,519 Speaker 7: be with So why would you want. 1646 01:09:36,400 --> 01:09:37,120 Speaker 4: To change that past? 1647 01:09:37,200 --> 01:09:39,439 Speaker 1: Exactly? You got to be you. So what you said 1648 01:09:39,479 --> 01:09:42,559 Speaker 1: Gandhi is so important. You've got to continue to be 1649 01:09:42,760 --> 01:09:45,719 Speaker 1: you if you want a relationship to work. 1650 01:09:45,840 --> 01:09:48,880 Speaker 9: Right, Yeah, Frog, you and Danielle kind of touched on it. 1651 01:09:48,920 --> 01:09:52,680 Speaker 9: You kind of lose the person that you were that 1652 01:09:52,800 --> 01:09:54,760 Speaker 9: this person met that made them want to change their 1653 01:09:54,800 --> 01:09:56,240 Speaker 9: life and be with you and fall in love. And 1654 01:09:56,240 --> 01:09:59,080 Speaker 9: then you don't become that person any longer because you're 1655 01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:02,040 Speaker 9: trying so hard to please them that you've lost you 1656 01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:03,599 Speaker 9: tend to be you? 1657 01:10:04,080 --> 01:10:04,519 Speaker 1: Is It's true? 1658 01:10:04,560 --> 01:10:04,760 Speaker 2: Though. 1659 01:10:04,800 --> 01:10:07,000 Speaker 10: I think if you're looking for a balance for married 1660 01:10:07,040 --> 01:10:10,160 Speaker 10: women that the balance is you need time away with 1661 01:10:10,200 --> 01:10:10,880 Speaker 10: the girls. 1662 01:10:11,439 --> 01:10:15,040 Speaker 1: I need time away with the girls. All right, So gosh, 1663 01:10:15,080 --> 01:10:16,760 Speaker 1: you know what, Okay, think about it. You're in a 1664 01:10:16,760 --> 01:10:18,800 Speaker 1: relationship because you've been dating this person for a couple 1665 01:10:18,840 --> 01:10:21,960 Speaker 1: of years now. There's something missing that you miss from 1666 01:10:21,960 --> 01:10:23,840 Speaker 1: being single, even though you're happy. 1667 01:10:23,560 --> 01:10:24,120 Speaker 2: Being with them. 1668 01:10:25,120 --> 01:10:27,920 Speaker 1: We just figured it out. You just had an epiphany. 1669 01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:29,519 Speaker 1: He was like, oh my god, I need to be 1670 01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:32,120 Speaker 1: more independent, but I can still be in a relationship. 1671 01:10:33,160 --> 01:10:37,360 Speaker 1: It's about balance. Don't lose yourself. Yes, yes, I'm looking 1672 01:10:37,360 --> 01:10:39,160 Speaker 1: at you. Yes, yes, straight and eight and a phone 1673 01:10:39,200 --> 01:10:41,240 Speaker 1: call just come in, Yes I do here we go 1674 01:10:41,400 --> 01:10:46,200 Speaker 1: we love phone calls. Well, someone's on that line. Hello, Sarah, 1675 01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:46,840 Speaker 1: what's going on? 1676 01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:48,360 Speaker 13: Hello? 1677 01:10:48,840 --> 01:10:51,320 Speaker 30: I was just listening and I have to say that 1678 01:10:51,360 --> 01:10:54,880 Speaker 30: I'm actually much happier and being married my husband. I 1679 01:10:54,880 --> 01:10:58,000 Speaker 30: had been gathered since for about married for three years 1680 01:10:58,000 --> 01:11:00,400 Speaker 30: and leave turn the Lord adventures that she's h marry 1681 01:11:00,439 --> 01:11:01,599 Speaker 30: than I ever wasn't a single. 1682 01:11:02,680 --> 01:11:04,320 Speaker 1: Why Because it gives you the confidence to go out 1683 01:11:04,320 --> 01:11:06,280 Speaker 1: there and live your life because you have a partner. 1684 01:11:06,680 --> 01:11:08,840 Speaker 30: Oh yeah, like he encourages me to be myself. You 1685 01:11:09,400 --> 01:11:11,120 Speaker 30: always want to go, like, let's go somewhere. We don't 1686 01:11:11,120 --> 01:11:13,240 Speaker 30: send it before and it's more fun. 1687 01:11:13,400 --> 01:11:15,959 Speaker 1: All right there you go. See but you're still. 1688 01:11:15,760 --> 01:11:19,759 Speaker 20: You oh absolutely don't give up before. 1689 01:11:20,840 --> 01:11:22,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what, Every once in a while you 1690 01:11:22,920 --> 01:11:24,840 Speaker 1: got to look at your boyfriend, your girlfriend or your 1691 01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:27,600 Speaker 1: husband and your wife and say, you know what, you 1692 01:11:27,600 --> 01:11:30,599 Speaker 1: You're here because I'm excellent. 1693 01:11:32,160 --> 01:11:32,800 Speaker 11: You know what I'm saying. 1694 01:11:35,880 --> 01:11:36,280 Speaker 5: Come again. 1695 01:11:37,400 --> 01:11:47,519 Speaker 26: Elvis Duran in the Morning Show. Yeah, this is Elvis 1696 01:11:47,600 --> 01:11:49,240 Speaker 26: Duran in the Morning Show. 1697 01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:53,759 Speaker 1: Hey Jen, how are you great? How are you Elvis 1698 01:11:53,920 --> 01:11:55,640 Speaker 1: doing well? Doing well? You know, look you know it 1699 01:11:55,680 --> 01:11:57,400 Speaker 1: hasn't happened to anyone here in the room, but I 1700 01:11:57,600 --> 01:12:02,280 Speaker 1: don't see why it's considered that unusual to actually call 1701 01:12:02,400 --> 01:12:05,200 Speaker 1: the police and have a family member thrown in jail. 1702 01:12:05,680 --> 01:12:09,120 Speaker 1: And so this happened to you, right, Yes, okay, so 1703 01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:10,800 Speaker 1: what happened your ex boyfriend? 1704 01:12:11,960 --> 01:12:16,280 Speaker 43: Yes, my ex boyfriend had stolen my debit card and 1705 01:12:16,640 --> 01:12:19,160 Speaker 43: I take sixty bucks off, but at the ATM because 1706 01:12:19,200 --> 01:12:21,439 Speaker 43: he did have he did have the pin number, but 1707 01:12:21,479 --> 01:12:23,960 Speaker 43: he didn't have my permission to take it. And I 1708 01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:26,160 Speaker 43: didn't know about this. I found out by trying to 1709 01:12:26,160 --> 01:12:31,640 Speaker 43: buy something, and and so I asked him if he 1710 01:12:31,680 --> 01:12:32,840 Speaker 43: did it. He lied to me and told me no, 1711 01:12:32,920 --> 01:12:34,960 Speaker 43: he kept tell him, you know, And so I filed 1712 01:12:34,960 --> 01:12:38,880 Speaker 43: a report and they ended up finding him on the camera. 1713 01:12:38,600 --> 01:12:39,400 Speaker 13: At the ATM. 1714 01:12:39,560 --> 01:12:42,519 Speaker 43: So that's how I guess the banks would go over. 1715 01:12:43,080 --> 01:12:45,400 Speaker 4: We forget there's camera, Yeah, there's cameras there. 1716 01:12:46,040 --> 01:12:46,200 Speaker 29: Now. 1717 01:12:46,240 --> 01:12:49,000 Speaker 1: Wait, So okay, so was he still your boyfriend when 1718 01:12:49,040 --> 01:12:49,680 Speaker 1: he stole it? 1719 01:12:51,040 --> 01:12:51,800 Speaker 36: Yes? He was. 1720 01:12:52,280 --> 01:12:52,800 Speaker 2: Wow. 1721 01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:55,360 Speaker 1: Now, okay, I know this may sound just kind of 1722 01:12:55,560 --> 01:12:57,880 Speaker 1: like a stupid question, but were you just looking for 1723 01:12:57,920 --> 01:12:59,880 Speaker 1: an excuse to get rid of him? 1724 01:13:00,040 --> 01:13:00,840 Speaker 2: I mean, was it already? 1725 01:13:01,040 --> 01:13:04,080 Speaker 1: Was it already falling off the cliff anyway, or in like, 1726 01:13:04,120 --> 01:13:07,240 Speaker 1: oh God, thank goodness, we pend him on the ATMs, 1727 01:13:07,360 --> 01:13:08,120 Speaker 1: the theft. 1728 01:13:08,640 --> 01:13:10,280 Speaker 43: I mean, you know, I wish I would have been 1729 01:13:10,360 --> 01:13:13,280 Speaker 43: smart and left him then, but no, I stayed there 1730 01:13:13,560 --> 01:13:16,280 Speaker 43: with him for another five years. But now I'm no 1731 01:13:16,320 --> 01:13:16,840 Speaker 43: longer with. 1732 01:13:16,800 --> 01:13:17,200 Speaker 15: Him, and. 1733 01:13:18,680 --> 01:13:19,280 Speaker 19: Stayed with him. 1734 01:13:19,520 --> 01:13:21,439 Speaker 7: He stayed with him five years more after he stole 1735 01:13:21,479 --> 01:13:24,760 Speaker 7: the money here because. 1736 01:13:24,479 --> 01:13:25,599 Speaker 43: I had with him. 1737 01:13:25,760 --> 01:13:29,320 Speaker 1: Okay, well wait, now how long was he did? He 1738 01:13:29,400 --> 01:13:29,960 Speaker 1: go away for. 1739 01:13:31,400 --> 01:13:32,080 Speaker 13: Five years? 1740 01:13:32,080 --> 01:13:35,519 Speaker 1: Five years? Okay, so we had a relationship until he 1741 01:13:35,520 --> 01:13:36,720 Speaker 1: got out of prison, and then you were like, you 1742 01:13:36,760 --> 01:13:39,640 Speaker 1: let him go at least when I always say, I 1743 01:13:39,680 --> 01:13:41,760 Speaker 1: always say, when when your boyfriend's in prison, at least 1744 01:13:41,800 --> 01:13:42,280 Speaker 1: you know where he. 1745 01:13:42,240 --> 01:13:42,680 Speaker 2: Is every night? 1746 01:13:43,680 --> 01:13:46,080 Speaker 4: You know every night, but you know where he is? 1747 01:13:46,200 --> 01:13:49,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't know. They renamed him Sally. 1748 01:13:49,960 --> 01:13:51,639 Speaker 4: Sorry all right. 1749 01:13:51,640 --> 01:13:53,559 Speaker 1: Jen, Well, thank you for listening to us. Have a 1750 01:13:53,560 --> 01:13:54,360 Speaker 1: beautiful day to day. 1751 01:13:54,400 --> 01:13:57,040 Speaker 43: Okay, I think, hey, can I get a T shirt? 1752 01:13:58,000 --> 01:13:59,320 Speaker 2: We have any I can steal you? 1753 01:13:59,320 --> 01:14:02,439 Speaker 1: One? Hold on, let's go talk to Matt. 1754 01:14:02,439 --> 01:14:04,280 Speaker 24: Hey, Matt, Hey, how you doing? 1755 01:14:04,320 --> 01:14:04,639 Speaker 2: We're doing? 1756 01:14:04,640 --> 01:14:06,120 Speaker 1: Okay, let me see if I get this trade. 1757 01:14:06,160 --> 01:14:06,479 Speaker 30: Matt. 1758 01:14:06,920 --> 01:14:10,719 Speaker 1: First of all, a pleasure having you here. Matt's mom 1759 01:14:10,840 --> 01:14:16,000 Speaker 1: stole sixty thousand dollars in Matt's wife's name, and now 1760 01:14:16,040 --> 01:14:17,120 Speaker 1: you have to send her to jail. 1761 01:14:18,479 --> 01:14:19,040 Speaker 17: Wow. 1762 01:14:19,080 --> 01:14:19,280 Speaker 8: Man. 1763 01:14:19,680 --> 01:14:23,639 Speaker 24: Twenty fifteen, I had broken my back and my wife 1764 01:14:23,640 --> 01:14:25,479 Speaker 24: became my nurse cause she was my mom's nurse at 1765 01:14:25,479 --> 01:14:27,719 Speaker 24: the time, so she had to quit being my mom's nurse, 1766 01:14:28,760 --> 01:14:31,040 Speaker 24: and she kept getting checks on my wife's name up 1767 01:14:31,120 --> 01:14:33,160 Speaker 24: until twenty eighteen when I finally had the surgery and 1768 01:14:33,160 --> 01:14:36,160 Speaker 24: I went on disability and we found out through the 1769 01:14:36,200 --> 01:14:39,439 Speaker 24: disability people, I couldn't get disability because my wife had 1770 01:14:39,439 --> 01:14:40,760 Speaker 24: an income that we never knew about. 1771 01:14:40,920 --> 01:14:42,280 Speaker 1: Oh, and your mom was taking it. 1772 01:14:43,200 --> 01:14:45,120 Speaker 32: Yeah, can you have your mom? 1773 01:14:46,040 --> 01:14:46,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1774 01:14:46,640 --> 01:14:48,400 Speaker 24: I was a mama's boy growing up. 1775 01:14:48,640 --> 01:14:52,679 Speaker 1: Well, gosh, so so she's in jail now. 1776 01:14:53,640 --> 01:14:55,639 Speaker 24: Not yet. We're in the process of it, going through 1777 01:14:55,640 --> 01:14:58,639 Speaker 24: court and everything right now. But this feelings some time, 1778 01:14:58,680 --> 01:15:00,679 Speaker 24: and I feel terrible, might feel terrible. 1779 01:15:00,680 --> 01:15:04,160 Speaker 1: I mean, but have you considered dropping the charges or 1780 01:15:04,200 --> 01:15:05,040 Speaker 1: is that out of your hands? 1781 01:15:05,960 --> 01:15:07,439 Speaker 24: It's out of my hand. This's more, it's in the 1782 01:15:07,439 --> 01:15:10,040 Speaker 24: state's hands now because it was so much. If it 1783 01:15:10,080 --> 01:15:12,240 Speaker 24: wasn't as much, I wouldn't care because I have to 1784 01:15:12,240 --> 01:15:13,559 Speaker 24: pay taxes on it and everything. 1785 01:15:13,600 --> 01:15:13,840 Speaker 32: Wow. 1786 01:15:13,960 --> 01:15:16,960 Speaker 1: Oh man, I'm so sorry, because that's the thing if 1787 01:15:17,560 --> 01:15:19,880 Speaker 1: you have to turn in someone who's in your family, 1788 01:15:19,920 --> 01:15:22,960 Speaker 1: especially your mom. Oh god, that has to that really 1789 01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:25,200 Speaker 1: has to grete on you. I'm sorry about that, Matt. 1790 01:15:25,240 --> 01:15:27,080 Speaker 1: But so how long does mom have to go away 1791 01:15:27,080 --> 01:15:27,880 Speaker 1: for it? Do we know yet? 1792 01:15:28,840 --> 01:15:30,639 Speaker 24: She's looking like ten fifteen years? 1793 01:15:30,720 --> 01:15:31,400 Speaker 37: Wow? 1794 01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:34,439 Speaker 4: Is mom talking to her? Are you talking to mom? 1795 01:15:35,040 --> 01:15:36,760 Speaker 24: She's trying to talk to me. I have a hard 1796 01:15:36,800 --> 01:15:38,760 Speaker 24: time talking to her because I can't be around her 1797 01:15:38,800 --> 01:15:40,439 Speaker 24: because I just get angry everything. 1798 01:15:40,520 --> 01:15:41,280 Speaker 1: Oh, I'm sorry. 1799 01:15:41,280 --> 01:15:41,439 Speaker 24: Man. 1800 01:15:41,439 --> 01:15:43,800 Speaker 1: All right, listen, thanks for colling, but you know what, Look, 1801 01:15:43,880 --> 01:15:47,120 Speaker 1: don't steal sixty thousand dollars from your son. There is that, 1802 01:15:47,160 --> 01:15:48,800 Speaker 1: all right, Matt, listen, have a great day to day 1803 01:15:48,920 --> 01:15:49,960 Speaker 1: in best over getting through this. 1804 01:15:50,040 --> 01:15:52,280 Speaker 24: Okay, thanks for having me. It was a great talking 1805 01:15:52,280 --> 01:15:52,439 Speaker 24: to you. 1806 01:15:52,560 --> 01:15:53,800 Speaker 1: It's a great talking to you too. 1807 01:15:54,120 --> 01:15:54,360 Speaker 32: Yeah. 1808 01:15:54,439 --> 01:15:56,400 Speaker 1: I mean you look we laugh like I always said, 1809 01:15:56,520 --> 01:15:59,400 Speaker 1: dad to jail. I know, but it's your you said 1810 01:15:59,439 --> 01:16:02,160 Speaker 1: mom to Jay like it's just Sad's really tough. 1811 01:16:02,280 --> 01:16:02,639 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1812 01:16:02,840 --> 01:16:04,240 Speaker 1: Now, who on the show would you send to jail? 1813 01:16:04,320 --> 01:16:04,800 Speaker 1: And why go? 1814 01:16:05,760 --> 01:16:08,160 Speaker 4: Well, we know Nate murdered someone, so he's the first time. 1815 01:16:08,880 --> 01:16:09,800 Speaker 2: That was my first time. 1816 01:16:09,840 --> 01:16:10,559 Speaker 1: You're going in there? 1817 01:16:10,640 --> 01:16:11,559 Speaker 11: Didn't murder anybody? 1818 01:16:11,600 --> 01:16:11,880 Speaker 13: All right? 1819 01:16:11,920 --> 01:16:12,240 Speaker 1: All right? 1820 01:16:12,320 --> 01:16:14,360 Speaker 5: I got it was scary. I don't know why what 1821 01:16:14,400 --> 01:16:16,320 Speaker 5: did I do? I hear you end up hanging out 1822 01:16:16,320 --> 01:16:16,479 Speaker 5: with this? 1823 01:16:16,920 --> 01:16:22,639 Speaker 9: We must send you would do wellen, No, don't answer 1824 01:16:22,720 --> 01:16:23,200 Speaker 9: the phone. 1825 01:16:23,400 --> 01:16:26,080 Speaker 26: Elvis Duran, the Elvis Duran phone tap? 1826 01:16:26,439 --> 01:16:27,720 Speaker 2: All right, Garrett? All right? 1827 01:16:27,800 --> 01:16:31,360 Speaker 44: So Joanna is playing a phone tap on her husband, George. 1828 01:16:31,479 --> 01:16:34,160 Speaker 44: George works late, so he comes home in the middle 1829 01:16:34,200 --> 01:16:36,120 Speaker 44: of the afternoon and he puts in, you know, a 1830 01:16:36,160 --> 01:16:38,400 Speaker 44: good night's sleep starting at like three, four o'clock in 1831 01:16:38,439 --> 01:16:41,559 Speaker 44: the afternoon. Joanne's away on business, so she's not around 1832 01:16:41,560 --> 01:16:43,679 Speaker 44: to wake George up to you know, go do stuff 1833 01:16:43,720 --> 01:16:44,320 Speaker 44: with the kids. 1834 01:16:44,600 --> 01:16:46,559 Speaker 1: So she thought it would be good for us to 1835 01:16:46,640 --> 01:16:49,320 Speaker 1: wake George up. Wow, it's Georgia heavy sleeper. 1836 01:16:49,439 --> 01:16:49,920 Speaker 2: A little bit. 1837 01:16:50,040 --> 01:16:52,720 Speaker 1: Let's see what happens. It's Garrett's phone tap. Let's see 1838 01:16:52,760 --> 01:16:54,160 Speaker 1: what goes on here. Listen closely. 1839 01:16:56,360 --> 01:17:08,519 Speaker 12: Hello, good afternoon, Misteris this is your four to oh 1840 01:17:08,520 --> 01:17:09,360 Speaker 12: one wake up call? 1841 01:17:11,479 --> 01:17:11,519 Speaker 27: What? 1842 01:17:13,439 --> 01:17:14,439 Speaker 2: I have a great day? 1843 01:17:19,120 --> 01:17:31,240 Speaker 45: Hello, good afternoon, mister, this is your four oh three 1844 01:17:31,360 --> 01:17:31,960 Speaker 45: wake up call? 1845 01:17:32,720 --> 01:17:36,280 Speaker 36: O God, what are you calling me, Oh, have a 1846 01:17:36,320 --> 01:17:45,160 Speaker 36: great day? Hello kid me? 1847 01:17:50,200 --> 01:17:50,360 Speaker 8: Hi? 1848 01:17:50,520 --> 01:17:50,960 Speaker 1: Is this mister? 1849 01:17:55,360 --> 01:17:56,040 Speaker 2: Good afternoon? 1850 01:17:56,080 --> 01:17:57,800 Speaker 1: This is your four oh four wake up call? 1851 01:17:58,360 --> 01:18:05,120 Speaker 2: Why have a great day? 1852 01:18:05,640 --> 01:18:06,719 Speaker 13: Are you calling me again? 1853 01:18:14,520 --> 01:18:15,639 Speaker 25: When I find out who. 1854 01:18:15,840 --> 01:18:21,439 Speaker 1: You are, mister, find you and bele living you. 1855 01:18:21,640 --> 01:18:22,240 Speaker 4: I'm trying to. 1856 01:18:23,000 --> 01:18:24,840 Speaker 1: This is your four or four wake up call. 1857 01:18:25,040 --> 01:18:27,679 Speaker 2: Have a great day, Have a great day, you stupid? 1858 01:18:27,960 --> 01:18:31,040 Speaker 36: Are you getting any Stop calling me? 1859 01:18:32,120 --> 01:18:33,680 Speaker 1: All right? Jo and I just hung up on him. 1860 01:18:33,680 --> 01:18:35,679 Speaker 1: Now we're gonna call him back and you talk. 1861 01:18:36,040 --> 01:18:39,400 Speaker 4: Okay, Are you serious? 1862 01:18:39,479 --> 01:18:41,240 Speaker 25: Well Johns? 1863 01:18:41,479 --> 01:18:41,799 Speaker 6: Honey? 1864 01:18:41,840 --> 01:18:42,439 Speaker 4: Are you who king? 1865 01:18:42,600 --> 01:18:43,280 Speaker 32: What's the matter? 1866 01:18:44,479 --> 01:18:47,880 Speaker 36: Oh my gosh, Yeah, there has been somebody prank calling 1867 01:18:47,920 --> 01:18:50,639 Speaker 36: me or something so stupid wake up call? 1868 01:18:50,760 --> 01:18:52,640 Speaker 43: They know my name and I don't know what the 1869 01:18:52,960 --> 01:18:53,360 Speaker 43: going on. 1870 01:18:53,800 --> 01:18:55,320 Speaker 8: Now, I say, how it worked? 1871 01:18:55,439 --> 01:18:58,839 Speaker 32: I did that? I'm so glad. 1872 01:18:59,520 --> 01:19:01,639 Speaker 36: What do you It worked? 1873 01:19:02,200 --> 01:19:02,400 Speaker 23: Well? 1874 01:19:02,479 --> 01:19:05,160 Speaker 32: I I thought, because I was away, that it would 1875 01:19:05,160 --> 01:19:07,360 Speaker 32: be nice if I hired somebody to call and wake 1876 01:19:07,400 --> 01:19:10,360 Speaker 32: you up so you would be late. Yeah, I didn't 1877 01:19:10,360 --> 01:19:12,439 Speaker 32: want you to be late to pick up the kids. 1878 01:19:12,479 --> 01:19:15,760 Speaker 4: And I said, I just got home and just got 1879 01:19:15,760 --> 01:19:16,240 Speaker 4: to sleep. 1880 01:19:16,560 --> 01:19:18,200 Speaker 36: They got trumpets going off. 1881 01:19:18,320 --> 01:19:19,679 Speaker 4: I like stupid music. 1882 01:19:19,720 --> 01:19:25,920 Speaker 36: And then this boy Kim, I thought, good. 1883 01:19:25,760 --> 01:19:28,479 Speaker 32: Guys, I'll fund a new way to have someone wake 1884 01:19:28,520 --> 01:19:30,160 Speaker 32: you up, you know, because I'm not bad. 1885 01:19:30,720 --> 01:19:32,240 Speaker 25: I like the way you wake me up. 1886 01:19:32,280 --> 01:19:35,360 Speaker 17: I don't want some stupid soul call with trumpets on 1887 01:19:35,439 --> 01:19:36,599 Speaker 17: it waking me up. 1888 01:19:36,640 --> 01:19:38,280 Speaker 25: I'm learned to kill somebody. 1889 01:19:38,360 --> 01:19:39,800 Speaker 32: Well, you have to get up and go get the 1890 01:19:39,880 --> 01:19:41,960 Speaker 32: kids anyway. And I spent quite a bit of money 1891 01:19:42,000 --> 01:19:43,479 Speaker 32: to do this for you, because I thought it was 1892 01:19:43,720 --> 01:19:45,000 Speaker 32: nice money. 1893 01:19:45,200 --> 01:19:47,760 Speaker 36: You're gonna say a whole lot of money but just 1894 01:19:47,840 --> 01:19:48,879 Speaker 36: calling me yourself. 1895 01:19:49,040 --> 01:19:52,680 Speaker 17: But instead you had some stupid chick ass to play trumpets. 1896 01:19:53,280 --> 01:19:54,600 Speaker 32: The service works. 1897 01:19:55,040 --> 01:19:56,960 Speaker 36: I don't want to be awake right now. 1898 01:19:57,160 --> 01:19:58,439 Speaker 11: I want to be a slate. 1899 01:19:58,720 --> 01:20:03,439 Speaker 32: How about you go back to sweep. Okay, I'll call 1900 01:20:03,479 --> 01:20:04,599 Speaker 32: you back in like an hour. 1901 01:20:04,920 --> 01:20:05,880 Speaker 28: Thank you, Thank. 1902 01:20:05,760 --> 01:20:06,400 Speaker 29: You very much. 1903 01:20:06,439 --> 01:20:07,080 Speaker 32: You're welcome. 1904 01:20:10,000 --> 01:20:18,439 Speaker 37: Hello. 1905 01:20:17,200 --> 01:20:19,559 Speaker 27: Oh god, are you kidding me? 1906 01:20:19,880 --> 01:20:20,080 Speaker 2: Mister? 1907 01:20:23,920 --> 01:20:25,000 Speaker 11: I want to shut you off. 1908 01:20:26,560 --> 01:20:27,240 Speaker 4: Shut off. 1909 01:20:27,520 --> 01:20:29,120 Speaker 12: I think now is a good time to tell you 1910 01:20:29,160 --> 01:20:34,360 Speaker 12: that you've been phone tapped. What your wife, Joanne wanted 1911 01:20:34,400 --> 01:20:35,840 Speaker 12: to play a joke on you. 1912 01:20:38,680 --> 01:20:40,479 Speaker 4: I got you, Good. 1913 01:20:40,280 --> 01:20:42,839 Speaker 1: Morning, sunshine, I got you, honey. 1914 01:20:44,800 --> 01:20:47,400 Speaker 44: Your wife said that you were on some crazy sleep, 1915 01:20:47,520 --> 01:20:49,559 Speaker 44: so h we decided to wake up. 1916 01:20:49,680 --> 01:20:52,559 Speaker 5: You know, I heard these things all the time, you. 1917 01:20:52,560 --> 01:20:55,160 Speaker 43: Know, And I tell my wife you'll never get me 1918 01:20:55,200 --> 01:20:55,599 Speaker 43: on one. 1919 01:20:55,479 --> 01:20:58,360 Speaker 26: Of those Elvis Duran's phone tap. 1920 01:21:00,040 --> 01:21:02,679 Speaker 18: Phone Table was pre recorded with permission granted by all. 1921 01:21:03,640 --> 01:21:07,080 Speaker 26: The Elvis Dan phone Tap only on Elvis Duran in 1922 01:21:07,120 --> 01:21:07,880 Speaker 26: the Morning Show. 1923 01:21:12,160 --> 01:21:14,520 Speaker 36: Hey, this is Taylor Swift. 1924 01:21:13,800 --> 01:21:17,640 Speaker 5: This is a you're listening to Elvis Duran in the 1925 01:21:17,720 --> 01:21:18,320 Speaker 5: Morning Show. 1926 01:21:18,560 --> 01:21:20,679 Speaker 1: So we got this game in the mail. I don't 1927 01:21:20,760 --> 01:21:21,360 Speaker 1: did we order it? 1928 01:21:21,400 --> 01:21:23,760 Speaker 11: Do we pay for it? 1929 01:21:23,760 --> 01:21:25,599 Speaker 1: It's called it's called butt Hurt. 1930 01:21:25,920 --> 01:21:27,840 Speaker 5: I've been looking at that box wondering what was it. 1931 01:21:28,640 --> 01:21:32,120 Speaker 1: It's no time for but hurt? Okay, who wants to 1932 01:21:32,120 --> 01:21:33,120 Speaker 1: play a round of butt Hurt? 1933 01:21:33,880 --> 01:21:34,920 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1934 01:21:35,040 --> 01:21:36,360 Speaker 5: I actually I'm not sure what it is. 1935 01:21:36,439 --> 01:21:39,960 Speaker 1: I'm not sure how to play. Okay, here Elvis hope 1936 01:21:39,960 --> 01:21:42,439 Speaker 1: all is well. I have a show idea. We want 1937 01:21:42,479 --> 01:21:44,679 Speaker 1: your listeners to come up with a butt Hurt question. 1938 01:21:44,960 --> 01:21:47,639 Speaker 1: We'll add the winner's question and first name on our 1939 01:21:47,720 --> 01:21:50,800 Speaker 1: next order of butt Hurt games. You guys, chose the winner. Remember, 1940 01:21:50,840 --> 01:21:53,400 Speaker 1: if you play, you cannot pick yourself. I have included 1941 01:21:53,400 --> 01:21:57,639 Speaker 1: additional games for giveaways. Oh nice, this is from Brandon. Now, 1942 01:21:58,640 --> 01:22:01,559 Speaker 1: like I guess, it's a game you play with your friends. 1943 01:22:01,960 --> 01:22:04,240 Speaker 1: How well do you know your friends? Okay, let's all 1944 01:22:04,320 --> 01:22:06,719 Speaker 1: vote in this room. Who is the best looking? 1945 01:22:07,120 --> 01:22:07,280 Speaker 8: Oh? 1946 01:22:07,720 --> 01:22:10,720 Speaker 7: Ohate's gonna say it's him. 1947 01:22:12,360 --> 01:22:13,680 Speaker 5: He's not allowed to say his name though. 1948 01:22:15,400 --> 01:22:17,760 Speaker 1: Okay, so in this room it's Frog. Froggy's in the 1949 01:22:17,840 --> 01:22:20,680 Speaker 1: room with us and Danielle and Gandhi, scary me Nate? 1950 01:22:20,800 --> 01:22:21,120 Speaker 2: Okay? 1951 01:22:21,320 --> 01:22:24,560 Speaker 1: Who is the most adventurous in bed? 1952 01:22:24,840 --> 01:22:28,639 Speaker 5: Oh? Take it, thanks, guys, I think. 1953 01:22:30,640 --> 01:22:33,679 Speaker 1: Who is the most patient? It's not made. 1954 01:22:36,240 --> 01:22:38,520 Speaker 5: I think scary scary patient. 1955 01:22:38,720 --> 01:22:39,720 Speaker 1: Who's the friendliest? 1956 01:22:40,960 --> 01:22:42,400 Speaker 5: Daniel? 1957 01:22:42,600 --> 01:22:44,520 Speaker 2: I was gonna say Danielle, daniel. 1958 01:22:44,280 --> 01:22:50,479 Speaker 1: Who's most generous? Who is the most jealous person in 1959 01:22:50,479 --> 01:22:50,800 Speaker 1: the room? 1960 01:22:56,640 --> 01:23:00,479 Speaker 11: A minute ago, I wasn't even in the room, and 1961 01:23:00,600 --> 01:23:02,000 Speaker 11: I got jealous. You didn't mention me. 1962 01:23:04,000 --> 01:23:06,639 Speaker 1: Who thinks okay, I know the essence? Who thinks their 1963 01:23:06,640 --> 01:23:14,400 Speaker 1: gods give to the opposite sex? Who has the biggest 1964 01:23:14,439 --> 01:23:24,960 Speaker 1: ego elvis? Okay, I'm gonna say names bleeptoosting god. Who 1965 01:23:25,000 --> 01:23:32,600 Speaker 1: is most likely to steal something from you? Who's the 1966 01:23:32,640 --> 01:23:34,000 Speaker 1: most boring name? 1967 01:23:37,240 --> 01:23:38,120 Speaker 5: I don't think that. 1968 01:23:38,439 --> 01:23:38,679 Speaker 20: Okay. 1969 01:23:38,720 --> 01:23:40,960 Speaker 1: So this is one of those games. This is one 1970 01:23:40,960 --> 01:23:42,600 Speaker 1: of those games you play with your friends and you 1971 01:23:42,640 --> 01:23:45,840 Speaker 1: know someone's gonna get butt her. Someone's gonna get mad, 1972 01:23:45,880 --> 01:23:47,519 Speaker 1: and they're not going to talk to you. Some people 1973 01:23:47,600 --> 01:23:49,240 Speaker 1: just can't play games. You know who's like that is 1974 01:23:49,280 --> 01:23:50,240 Speaker 1: a producer Sam. 1975 01:23:50,640 --> 01:23:51,920 Speaker 5: Oh she's so competitive. 1976 01:23:52,040 --> 01:23:54,880 Speaker 1: Oh she's come here, Sam, she just cannot play games. 1977 01:23:55,240 --> 01:23:57,280 Speaker 5: One time we went to office trivia, like for the 1978 01:23:57,280 --> 01:24:00,559 Speaker 5: show The Office, and we came in I believe, second place, 1979 01:24:00,720 --> 01:24:03,120 Speaker 5: and Sam was like ripping things off the walls and 1980 01:24:03,240 --> 01:24:04,040 Speaker 5: kicking barstools. 1981 01:24:04,080 --> 01:24:06,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, woman, Okay, so you Sam, Yeah, you're just 1982 01:24:07,000 --> 01:24:08,760 Speaker 1: you even admit you're a bad sport when it comes 1983 01:24:08,800 --> 01:24:09,439 Speaker 1: to playing games. 1984 01:24:09,439 --> 01:24:10,200 Speaker 5: Only if I'm losing. 1985 01:24:10,280 --> 01:24:12,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, but why do you get that way? Can't you 1986 01:24:12,680 --> 01:24:14,920 Speaker 1: just have fun? Can't you just play the game and have. 1987 01:24:14,880 --> 01:24:18,799 Speaker 5: Fun being the best that something is fun? Oh my lord, 1988 01:24:19,000 --> 01:24:21,040 Speaker 5: why else would you play if it's not for blood? 1989 01:24:21,360 --> 01:24:21,640 Speaker 2: You know what? 1990 01:24:22,080 --> 01:24:23,800 Speaker 1: It kind of takes the fun away from it. 1991 01:24:23,840 --> 01:24:26,040 Speaker 5: Well, only if you're losing. So that's why you have 1992 01:24:26,120 --> 01:24:28,360 Speaker 5: to win, and then I'm happy and then we're all good. 1993 01:24:28,400 --> 01:24:28,840 Speaker 37: Right God? 1994 01:24:28,920 --> 01:24:30,600 Speaker 9: And people say, oh, why do you keep Oh you 1995 01:24:30,640 --> 01:24:32,360 Speaker 9: don't have to win. Well that's why they keep score, 1996 01:24:32,560 --> 01:24:33,800 Speaker 9: so they win and lose. 1997 01:24:33,960 --> 01:24:34,679 Speaker 4: Ye, Yeah that's true. 1998 01:24:34,680 --> 01:24:36,599 Speaker 5: I mean I want to win. But if I lose, 1999 01:24:36,600 --> 01:24:39,000 Speaker 5: I'm not going to kick a barstool or hurt a puppy. 2000 01:24:39,120 --> 01:24:42,320 Speaker 7: I get excited for the other person that wins. 2001 01:24:42,520 --> 01:24:43,840 Speaker 5: You guys are competing wrong. 2002 01:24:46,160 --> 01:24:48,720 Speaker 7: I would think of all people in this room, you 2003 01:24:48,760 --> 01:24:50,760 Speaker 7: would be the one to be like, oh, I'm so 2004 01:24:50,840 --> 01:24:51,880 Speaker 7: happy for someone else. 2005 01:24:52,000 --> 01:24:54,439 Speaker 2: Do we not all have our vices a good day 2006 01:24:54,479 --> 01:24:54,800 Speaker 2: to day. 2007 01:24:54,960 --> 01:24:56,880 Speaker 5: Just don't compete with me and win, or we'll have 2008 01:24:56,920 --> 01:24:57,360 Speaker 5: a problem. 2009 01:24:57,520 --> 01:24:58,920 Speaker 1: Right, I know, But you know there's so much more 2010 01:24:58,960 --> 01:25:01,760 Speaker 1: to you than you know. Sam. Winning or losing a game, 2011 01:25:01,960 --> 01:25:02,519 Speaker 1: there we go. 2012 01:25:02,600 --> 01:25:04,240 Speaker 5: That's the half full attitude, Elvis. 2013 01:25:04,680 --> 01:25:07,639 Speaker 1: But sometimes these games and they're not really skill, it's luck. 2014 01:25:07,680 --> 01:25:09,320 Speaker 1: I mean, you can't sit there and get mad because 2015 01:25:09,439 --> 01:25:10,639 Speaker 1: someone else is luckier than you. 2016 01:25:10,760 --> 01:25:14,240 Speaker 5: I find a way to get mess Oh my god, stool, yes, 2017 01:25:14,280 --> 01:25:15,400 Speaker 5: but not a puppy. God. 2018 01:25:16,640 --> 01:25:18,800 Speaker 1: So we've been playing these these butt hurt cards. Let 2019 01:25:18,800 --> 01:25:20,160 Speaker 1: me let's play with Sam in the room. 2020 01:25:20,320 --> 01:25:22,920 Speaker 5: Oh what if she loses? Let me stretch. 2021 01:25:24,200 --> 01:25:29,280 Speaker 1: Who has the least common sense in this room? Scary? 2022 01:25:29,680 --> 01:25:33,040 Speaker 4: Scary? 2023 01:25:33,560 --> 01:25:36,719 Speaker 46: Uh No, if you have common sense, you would know 2024 01:25:36,760 --> 01:25:42,519 Speaker 46: if you had a lick of common sense, who's the 2025 01:25:42,520 --> 01:25:43,680 Speaker 46: biggest pessimist? 2026 01:25:44,360 --> 01:25:45,519 Speaker 5: Oh, come on, Nate. 2027 01:25:47,600 --> 01:25:56,839 Speaker 7: Brody is the most butt hurt, right, not awesome. 2028 01:25:57,120 --> 01:25:59,320 Speaker 1: The name of the game is butt hurt, and so 2029 01:25:59,320 --> 01:26:01,479 Speaker 1: we're just giving it little. Yeah, but I'm not I 2030 01:26:01,479 --> 01:26:03,960 Speaker 1: think getting back to this competitive thing. I think there 2031 01:26:04,080 --> 01:26:06,960 Speaker 1: is something there. We all have that one person in 2032 01:26:07,000 --> 01:26:09,240 Speaker 1: our lives who just you don't want to play a 2033 01:26:09,240 --> 01:26:12,559 Speaker 1: game with. Oh yeah, mine is Rosanna Scotto, my friend Rosanna. Yeah, 2034 01:26:13,040 --> 01:26:14,880 Speaker 1: she works, she's a good day in New York on 2035 01:26:14,920 --> 01:26:16,960 Speaker 1: Fox five. Here in New York, we have game night 2036 01:26:17,040 --> 01:26:20,080 Speaker 1: at her house and we always swear we're never going back, yeah, 2037 01:26:20,320 --> 01:26:25,880 Speaker 1: because she cheats and then and then if someone else, 2038 01:26:26,439 --> 01:26:29,640 Speaker 1: someone else starts to win, she gets mad. I mean 2039 01:26:29,680 --> 01:26:31,600 Speaker 1: she's out for blood every time my. 2040 01:26:31,680 --> 01:26:34,920 Speaker 7: Son Derek cheater because he used to cheat a lot 2041 01:26:34,920 --> 01:26:36,479 Speaker 7: at the game. And I'm like, I'm not playing with 2042 01:26:36,479 --> 01:26:38,759 Speaker 7: Derek cheater. Sorry, that's so funny. 2043 01:26:38,840 --> 01:26:41,400 Speaker 5: My mom's saying my mom cheats. It's ugly, and my 2044 01:26:41,479 --> 01:26:43,760 Speaker 5: dad busts her out every single time. I'm like, why 2045 01:26:43,760 --> 01:26:44,160 Speaker 5: are you doing? 2046 01:26:44,160 --> 01:26:44,360 Speaker 1: This? 2047 01:26:44,479 --> 01:26:45,040 Speaker 5: Is an example. 2048 01:26:45,040 --> 01:26:46,960 Speaker 1: It's supposed to be fun. Game nights are supposed to 2049 01:26:46,960 --> 01:26:49,000 Speaker 1: be fun. You're not there to prove that you can win. 2050 01:26:49,439 --> 01:26:52,400 Speaker 5: People just can't lose. Sam, don't cheat, Well I don't cheat. 2051 01:26:52,479 --> 01:26:54,439 Speaker 5: That's not cool, but no, I'm here to show you. 2052 01:26:54,400 --> 01:26:54,760 Speaker 13: I can win. 2053 01:26:54,840 --> 01:26:55,519 Speaker 1: What's up frog? 2054 01:26:55,960 --> 01:26:57,920 Speaker 9: We would have a couple come over and play games, 2055 01:26:57,960 --> 01:27:01,320 Speaker 9: but then one night I always suspect that they were cheaters. 2056 01:27:01,400 --> 01:27:04,680 Speaker 9: And so one night it's over, game ends and I 2057 01:27:04,760 --> 01:27:06,439 Speaker 9: go back to where we were playing the game, and 2058 01:27:06,520 --> 01:27:09,040 Speaker 9: I saw they had their cheat sheet hidden underneath something 2059 01:27:09,040 --> 01:27:10,000 Speaker 9: they forgot to take away. 2060 01:27:10,160 --> 01:27:14,360 Speaker 1: So they had premeditated cheating. Yes, like what games? 2061 01:27:14,400 --> 01:27:15,000 Speaker 25: What do you think? 2062 01:27:15,640 --> 01:27:17,479 Speaker 9: They brought the game with them. I don't remember what 2063 01:27:17,479 --> 01:27:18,920 Speaker 9: what the game was called. And they brought the game 2064 01:27:18,960 --> 01:27:20,880 Speaker 9: with them. They're like, oh, it's our turn this week, 2065 01:27:20,920 --> 01:27:22,840 Speaker 9: we'll bring the game with us. So they brought the game, 2066 01:27:23,240 --> 01:27:25,559 Speaker 9: and underneath the pillow on the couch where we were 2067 01:27:25,600 --> 01:27:28,240 Speaker 9: all sitting and playing the game, there was their cheat sheet. 2068 01:27:28,280 --> 01:27:34,760 Speaker 9: They were cheating together to win the game. Told Lisa, yes, 2069 01:27:34,840 --> 01:27:36,479 Speaker 9: I saw. I kept the cheat sheet. And the next 2070 01:27:36,520 --> 01:27:38,200 Speaker 9: day I went over to their house. I said, hey, 2071 01:27:38,560 --> 01:27:41,759 Speaker 9: I think you forgot this, and they're like, oh, I'm 2072 01:27:41,840 --> 01:27:43,120 Speaker 9: not sure exactly what that is. 2073 01:27:43,160 --> 01:27:45,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, you know exactly what it is. We're not 2074 01:27:45,000 --> 01:27:45,640 Speaker 2: playing games with you. 2075 01:27:47,600 --> 01:27:50,280 Speaker 1: I love this, so Sam, who we all voted you 2076 01:27:50,320 --> 01:27:52,559 Speaker 1: are the most competitive in the room. Someone just sent 2077 01:27:52,640 --> 01:27:55,400 Speaker 1: a text saying, hey, remind Sam that no one remembers 2078 01:27:55,400 --> 01:28:03,640 Speaker 1: who comes in second. 2079 01:28:00,120 --> 01:28:00,839 Speaker 2: The first loser. 2080 01:28:01,000 --> 01:28:04,200 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Hello Jenna, Jennifer. Jennifer's at you. 2081 01:28:04,400 --> 01:28:05,400 Speaker 32: Hi? Hi? 2082 01:28:05,520 --> 01:28:05,680 Speaker 25: Yes? 2083 01:28:06,640 --> 01:28:08,280 Speaker 36: How are you like Sam? 2084 01:28:08,360 --> 01:28:12,280 Speaker 1: Are you like Monica from friends who could not lose? 2085 01:28:12,720 --> 01:28:12,880 Speaker 17: Yes? 2086 01:28:13,439 --> 01:28:14,680 Speaker 15: I am very competitive. 2087 01:28:14,800 --> 01:28:17,120 Speaker 22: I only play if I know I'm going to win, 2088 01:28:17,360 --> 01:28:19,160 Speaker 22: and even if I'm playing with a child. 2089 01:28:21,400 --> 01:28:23,680 Speaker 1: You'll even tell a child I'm bigger than you, I'm 2090 01:28:23,680 --> 01:28:26,200 Speaker 1: stronger than you. I will beat you every time. I 2091 01:28:26,280 --> 01:28:27,280 Speaker 1: can't listen. 2092 01:28:27,360 --> 01:28:29,439 Speaker 5: I fully support that we can't. 2093 01:28:29,479 --> 01:28:33,320 Speaker 34: We can't always have this mentality that it's okay to 2094 01:28:33,560 --> 01:28:35,679 Speaker 34: be first place for anything unless it's. 2095 01:28:35,520 --> 01:28:39,200 Speaker 5: Me exactly, My god, I have to compete with this girl. 2096 01:28:39,320 --> 01:28:40,920 Speaker 1: Oh my lord, No, I don't want to be a 2097 01:28:40,920 --> 01:28:43,000 Speaker 1: part of that, all right, Jennifer, Thank you. I love 2098 01:28:43,040 --> 01:28:45,000 Speaker 1: how you only play games if you know you're going 2099 01:28:45,040 --> 01:28:45,320 Speaker 1: to win. 2100 01:28:46,880 --> 01:28:47,639 Speaker 47: I'm a good one. 2101 01:28:48,800 --> 01:28:50,719 Speaker 5: I was playing tether ball once with a little kid 2102 01:28:50,800 --> 01:28:53,280 Speaker 5: and I let him win, which was a big mistake 2103 01:28:53,320 --> 01:28:55,200 Speaker 5: because he looked at me and he said, that's right. 2104 01:28:55,280 --> 01:28:58,519 Speaker 5: Girls suck, just like my dad said, So I was like, oh, really, kid, 2105 01:28:58,600 --> 01:29:00,320 Speaker 5: let's play again. And then I beat him fIF teen 2106 01:29:00,320 --> 01:29:01,919 Speaker 5: times in a row. My friend said it was embarrassing, 2107 01:29:01,920 --> 01:29:02,800 Speaker 5: but I felt good about it. 2108 01:29:03,520 --> 01:29:05,559 Speaker 4: This poor little kid. 2109 01:29:06,160 --> 01:29:07,240 Speaker 1: Hey Gary, how you doing? 2110 01:29:08,360 --> 01:29:09,800 Speaker 37: Hey Elvis? How you doing this morning? 2111 01:29:09,800 --> 01:29:12,040 Speaker 1: Guys, Well, you know, I'm finding out more and more 2112 01:29:12,080 --> 01:29:15,680 Speaker 1: about my coworkers, don't. I don't know if I like it, 2113 01:29:15,680 --> 01:29:17,599 Speaker 1: but we know each other pretty well. Can you tell that? 2114 01:29:19,040 --> 01:29:20,560 Speaker 37: I could tell that, And That's what I was just 2115 01:29:20,640 --> 01:29:23,000 Speaker 37: gonna say. You guys are It's so amazing how you 2116 01:29:23,040 --> 01:29:25,040 Speaker 37: guys are like a family working with each other. Love 2117 01:29:25,080 --> 01:29:27,679 Speaker 37: hate thing going on, but it's more love than anything. 2118 01:29:27,800 --> 01:29:29,679 Speaker 1: So you know that's the thing. That's the thing about 2119 01:29:29,720 --> 01:29:32,280 Speaker 1: our room. We know we can jab each other and 2120 01:29:32,320 --> 01:29:35,960 Speaker 1: we could just go in each other's throats. Yeah, but 2121 01:29:36,000 --> 01:29:37,599 Speaker 1: we know at the end of the day we're stuck 2122 01:29:37,640 --> 01:29:39,240 Speaker 1: with each other. There's nothing we can do about it. 2123 01:29:39,280 --> 01:29:41,680 Speaker 1: So you know, we're all good. I appreciate you noticing it. 2124 01:29:41,800 --> 01:29:44,320 Speaker 37: It sounds like an amazing place to work. But I 2125 01:29:44,600 --> 01:29:48,040 Speaker 37: want to disagree with one of the answers with being 2126 01:29:48,080 --> 01:29:50,000 Speaker 37: the best looking, but I'm biased because I'm a guy. 2127 01:29:50,439 --> 01:29:52,720 Speaker 37: I mean, he's a stud don't get me wrong, but 2128 01:29:52,840 --> 01:29:56,040 Speaker 37: the talk up was between Sam and Danielle, and then 2129 01:29:56,080 --> 01:29:59,320 Speaker 37: you said Gandhi was creative or imaginative in bed, and 2130 01:29:59,360 --> 01:30:01,040 Speaker 37: then that made my head turned a little bit. 2131 01:30:01,200 --> 01:30:07,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we pretty much know Gandhi. Gandhi's wild, she's crazy. 2132 01:30:08,479 --> 01:30:11,280 Speaker 5: Thanks, I'll take it so reserved. 2133 01:30:11,400 --> 01:30:12,439 Speaker 24: Good for you, Gandhi. 2134 01:30:12,520 --> 01:30:13,400 Speaker 37: You get a girl. 2135 01:30:16,080 --> 01:30:20,840 Speaker 2: She seems yeah, a little bit, you know what I mean. 2136 01:30:20,920 --> 01:30:23,839 Speaker 37: It's just you didn't see it coming, but it couldn't 2137 01:30:23,880 --> 01:30:30,479 Speaker 37: know it coming. Yes, she wins, Guys, I'm sorry, she 2138 01:30:30,560 --> 01:30:30,920 Speaker 37: gets it. 2139 01:30:30,920 --> 01:30:32,680 Speaker 1: That's okay, Gary, We'll let her. We'll let her win 2140 01:30:32,720 --> 01:30:34,760 Speaker 1: this time. Thanks for listening to us, and have a 2141 01:30:34,760 --> 01:30:35,160 Speaker 1: great day. 2142 01:30:35,160 --> 01:30:37,120 Speaker 2: Okay, you guys do the same. 2143 01:30:37,160 --> 01:30:37,360 Speaker 34: Thanks. 2144 01:30:37,640 --> 01:30:42,839 Speaker 26: By the Mercedes Benze Welcome home, honey. 2145 01:30:43,200 --> 01:30:46,040 Speaker 1: At Mercedes Benz, there's a reason they go the extra mile, 2146 01:30:46,200 --> 01:30:49,479 Speaker 1: from testing their vehicles in desert heat and arctic cold 2147 01:30:49,800 --> 01:30:53,520 Speaker 1: to creating AI that can anticipate your needs and preferences 2148 01:30:53,560 --> 01:30:56,240 Speaker 1: on the road. They demand every car is worthy of 2149 01:30:56,280 --> 01:30:58,920 Speaker 1: their star because it's Mercedes Benz. 2150 01:31:00,000 --> 01:31:09,519 Speaker 26: And in the Morning Show, Elvister ran in the Morning Show. 2151 01:31:11,000 --> 01:31:14,559 Speaker 1: So tell me about this nightclub called Zamboni in New 2152 01:31:14,640 --> 01:31:15,160 Speaker 1: York City. 2153 01:31:15,400 --> 01:31:18,280 Speaker 11: Oh is this even legal? 2154 01:31:18,360 --> 01:31:19,960 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't even know if there's a problem here, 2155 01:31:20,000 --> 01:31:21,719 Speaker 1: but anyway, go ahead, tell him the story. 2156 01:31:21,840 --> 01:31:24,360 Speaker 5: Okay, So a story broke, maybe like a week or 2157 01:31:24,360 --> 01:31:27,240 Speaker 5: two ago, about a nightclub called Zamboni. They're calling it 2158 01:31:27,280 --> 01:31:30,040 Speaker 5: a luxury nightclub here in the city where they've decided 2159 01:31:30,080 --> 01:31:33,080 Speaker 5: that there is one zodiac sign they will not allow in. 2160 01:31:33,920 --> 01:31:36,280 Speaker 5: And it is because they've realized that every time there 2161 01:31:36,320 --> 01:31:38,280 Speaker 5: is a fight or a brawl of some sort, the 2162 01:31:38,320 --> 01:31:42,600 Speaker 5: person responsible is that zodiac sign. So they said, just 2163 01:31:42,600 --> 01:31:44,240 Speaker 5: to make it easy and have a good time and 2164 01:31:44,240 --> 01:31:46,439 Speaker 5: make sure we're all safe. These people are not allowed 2165 01:31:46,439 --> 01:31:48,479 Speaker 5: in there anymore. And I wanted guesses from you guys 2166 01:31:48,520 --> 01:31:51,360 Speaker 5: as to which zodiac sign that was, because it actually 2167 01:31:51,400 --> 01:31:55,560 Speaker 5: surprised me. I would have guessed Scorpio. 2168 01:31:55,680 --> 01:31:57,679 Speaker 1: What's wrong with Scorpio's gem? 2169 01:31:57,680 --> 01:31:59,000 Speaker 5: And I would have been my second guest, you know 2170 01:31:59,040 --> 01:31:59,479 Speaker 5: what gem? 2171 01:31:59,479 --> 01:32:01,280 Speaker 1: And I would have been my first guess because I'm 2172 01:32:01,280 --> 01:32:03,080 Speaker 1: married to Jem and I would never let him in 2173 01:32:03,120 --> 01:32:06,960 Speaker 1: my nightclub. Right, I'm kidding. I don't know which which 2174 01:32:07,200 --> 01:32:08,440 Speaker 1: which zodiac. 2175 01:32:08,080 --> 01:32:12,479 Speaker 7: Sign is aries yell, you're out, that's my sign. I'm 2176 01:32:12,560 --> 01:32:14,759 Speaker 7: very nice. I don't cause problems in the club. 2177 01:32:14,920 --> 01:32:15,240 Speaker 13: I don't know. 2178 01:32:15,280 --> 01:32:16,720 Speaker 5: If one of us supposed to get in a bar fight, 2179 01:32:16,760 --> 01:32:17,600 Speaker 5: I'd put my money on you. 2180 01:32:17,960 --> 01:32:20,840 Speaker 1: So they're saying Aries in their experience as a club 2181 01:32:21,439 --> 01:32:25,400 Speaker 1: and you know, fights and skirmishes in the club, they 2182 01:32:25,479 --> 01:32:25,960 Speaker 1: knew they were. 2183 01:32:26,160 --> 01:32:27,519 Speaker 2: How do they know they were all Aries? 2184 01:32:27,560 --> 01:32:28,280 Speaker 1: They checked their ID. 2185 01:32:28,560 --> 01:32:30,280 Speaker 5: Well, they've got their idea. I'm sure if people are 2186 01:32:30,280 --> 01:32:32,280 Speaker 5: getting arrested, they take a look, see what's going on 2187 01:32:32,320 --> 01:32:33,360 Speaker 5: over there. 2188 01:32:33,520 --> 01:32:37,080 Speaker 1: So they're saying Aries causes the most most turmoil in 2189 01:32:37,080 --> 01:32:37,760 Speaker 1: a club. 2190 01:32:38,080 --> 01:32:39,120 Speaker 5: Because of that their band. 2191 01:32:39,560 --> 01:32:41,800 Speaker 1: Wow, it means I have to go get a fake 2192 01:32:41,880 --> 01:32:43,519 Speaker 1: idea if I'm an Aries, if I want to go 2193 01:32:43,560 --> 01:32:44,320 Speaker 1: to Zamboni. 2194 01:32:44,800 --> 01:32:48,160 Speaker 5: Maybe Wow. I'd like to know if they're really sticking 2195 01:32:48,200 --> 01:32:50,280 Speaker 5: to this or if they just you know, are using 2196 01:32:50,280 --> 01:32:51,960 Speaker 5: it as Hey, if we suspect something in your area, 2197 01:32:52,120 --> 01:32:53,000 Speaker 5: you're out. I don't know. 2198 01:32:54,840 --> 01:32:57,040 Speaker 4: I'd one club fight and it wasn't. 2199 01:32:59,160 --> 01:33:01,880 Speaker 5: What was years ago happens happens. 2200 01:33:01,560 --> 01:33:02,400 Speaker 4: To the best of us. 2201 01:33:02,640 --> 01:33:05,519 Speaker 1: Yeah, I see. Look, I'm not really a big believer 2202 01:33:05,680 --> 01:33:09,479 Speaker 1: in people, you know, with the profile of a person 2203 01:33:09,520 --> 01:33:12,200 Speaker 1: in there the way they are because of their sign. 2204 01:33:13,160 --> 01:33:17,240 Speaker 1: But we do see some some connections like I'm a 2205 01:33:17,320 --> 01:33:19,400 Speaker 1: Leo and they say that Leo's are a bunch of 2206 01:33:19,400 --> 01:33:23,120 Speaker 1: a holes. We're controlling a holes. Okay, I'll give you that. 2207 01:33:24,040 --> 01:33:25,040 Speaker 1: And what is your sign? 2208 01:33:25,040 --> 01:33:28,720 Speaker 5: Gandhi, I'm Sagittarius, and I mean, if you were to 2209 01:33:28,760 --> 01:33:32,000 Speaker 5: look at the characteristics of the sagittary eye, it's it's 2210 01:33:32,040 --> 01:33:36,639 Speaker 5: spot on. We are flighty and we cannot be pinned down. 2211 01:33:37,200 --> 01:33:39,599 Speaker 5: We like to have a good time, maybe sometimes too 2212 01:33:39,600 --> 01:33:42,920 Speaker 5: honest for our own good. There's a lot that I'm like, Oh, okay, 2213 01:33:43,120 --> 01:33:43,599 Speaker 5: I see that. 2214 01:33:43,720 --> 01:33:48,479 Speaker 1: And Danielle as an Aris, you are known as no idea. 2215 01:33:49,040 --> 01:33:52,280 Speaker 7: Okay, I've never really I've never really looked into it. 2216 01:33:52,320 --> 01:33:54,479 Speaker 7: I like the Aris sign because I feel like my 2217 01:33:54,560 --> 01:33:58,120 Speaker 7: dad gives me signs with that sign. I've never honestly 2218 01:33:58,160 --> 01:33:59,920 Speaker 7: even looked to see what an aries is. 2219 01:34:00,320 --> 01:34:04,200 Speaker 5: So I know that my best match, according to the signs, 2220 01:34:04,320 --> 01:34:07,120 Speaker 5: is an aries man who apparently are insane. And this 2221 01:34:07,160 --> 01:34:07,840 Speaker 5: makes a lot of sense. 2222 01:34:07,880 --> 01:34:12,599 Speaker 1: There you go, insanity. Oh there you are a club 2223 01:34:12,640 --> 01:34:14,400 Speaker 1: that says you cannot come in. I mean you get 2224 01:34:14,400 --> 01:34:17,840 Speaker 1: there and they can and they look at no Aries. 2225 01:34:17,920 --> 01:34:20,240 Speaker 4: No, Daniel, this is totally you. 2226 01:34:20,840 --> 01:34:23,559 Speaker 5: A go getter who balances work and personal life. You 2227 01:34:23,560 --> 01:34:25,439 Speaker 5: can switch from a homebody to a knight on the 2228 01:34:25,439 --> 01:34:26,120 Speaker 5: town easily. 2229 01:34:26,240 --> 01:34:28,760 Speaker 1: That's totally That is totally me, that is totally you. 2230 01:34:28,960 --> 01:34:31,600 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and most likely to cause a fight at 2231 01:34:31,600 --> 01:34:32,920 Speaker 1: another Yeah. 2232 01:34:33,040 --> 01:34:35,479 Speaker 5: And Diamond says, hands down, this is the right choice. 2233 01:34:35,479 --> 01:34:37,559 Speaker 5: That aries are the worst, that they're menaces, and they. 2234 01:34:37,720 --> 01:34:40,360 Speaker 1: Turn up, well, turn on Diamond, Diamond, why are you 2235 01:34:40,360 --> 01:34:40,880 Speaker 1: saying that? 2236 01:34:41,439 --> 01:34:44,799 Speaker 39: Well, my dad is in aries, and so is my sister, 2237 01:34:44,880 --> 01:34:46,559 Speaker 39: and so is my best friend. Now that I'm thinking 2238 01:34:46,560 --> 01:34:48,799 Speaker 39: about it, all three of them have one thing in common. 2239 01:34:49,120 --> 01:34:52,439 Speaker 5: What they lose it at the drop of a dime. 2240 01:34:52,640 --> 01:34:57,600 Speaker 39: Like I'm saying like one to ten within thirty seconds, 2241 01:34:57,680 --> 01:35:00,880 Speaker 39: and then they calm right back down, nothing ever happened. 2242 01:35:00,880 --> 01:35:03,880 Speaker 39: And I'm like, no, no, I totally get it. 2243 01:35:03,920 --> 01:35:04,280 Speaker 8: That is me. 2244 01:35:04,439 --> 01:35:06,760 Speaker 7: I like, I will get so upset, And then like 2245 01:35:06,800 --> 01:35:10,519 Speaker 7: five minutes later, I'm like, can we pretend that didn't happen? 2246 01:35:11,680 --> 01:35:13,639 Speaker 1: And everyone around He's like walking around like what happened 2247 01:35:13,680 --> 01:35:16,679 Speaker 1: to that? You're a mad one minute and they're like, okay, 2248 01:35:16,760 --> 01:35:20,000 Speaker 1: say what for dinner? Like a goldfish around the boat 2249 01:35:20,439 --> 01:35:22,439 Speaker 1: the dust hasn't even settled in the room. 2250 01:35:22,439 --> 01:35:25,160 Speaker 2: And then I was like, yeah, everything's great. What happened? 2251 01:35:25,880 --> 01:35:28,799 Speaker 1: So where'd you get that as description? Where'd they come from? 2252 01:35:28,840 --> 01:35:31,559 Speaker 5: I just googled it, I said, aries female traits, and 2253 01:35:31,560 --> 01:35:32,680 Speaker 5: this is what Google kicked back to me. 2254 01:35:32,680 --> 01:35:35,200 Speaker 1: Okay, look at Leo, tell me more about me. 2255 01:35:35,439 --> 01:35:39,280 Speaker 5: Traits of a Leo man. And it does matter which 2256 01:35:39,320 --> 01:35:47,320 Speaker 5: gender you are. You are loyal, creative, protective, possessive, stubborn, confident, passionate, charismatic. 2257 01:35:47,840 --> 01:35:52,559 Speaker 1: Okay, so hear me out all those descriptors you just 2258 01:35:52,600 --> 01:35:55,080 Speaker 1: gave us. Yeah, would that describe all of us? 2259 01:35:55,280 --> 01:36:00,240 Speaker 2: I mean pretty much. No, that definitely described you for sure. 2260 01:35:59,800 --> 01:36:01,960 Speaker 1: That's nearly as bad as a scorpio. Can we get 2261 01:36:01,960 --> 01:36:02,599 Speaker 1: back to scorpio? 2262 01:36:02,640 --> 01:36:04,520 Speaker 2: Because of what's wrong with scorpios? 2263 01:36:04,760 --> 01:36:08,559 Speaker 11: A scorpio one fiery, jealousy anger. 2264 01:36:09,160 --> 01:36:13,719 Speaker 1: They are not just see I thought that of Gemini. Okay, 2265 01:36:13,720 --> 01:36:19,960 Speaker 1: read scorpio young male man or female? Which one man woman? 2266 01:36:20,160 --> 01:36:21,640 Speaker 1: Which you know we can't do both, just do one 2267 01:36:21,640 --> 01:36:21,920 Speaker 1: of the other. 2268 01:36:21,960 --> 01:36:23,759 Speaker 5: I'm the male, all right, I'm gonna give it to you, Froggy, 2269 01:36:23,760 --> 01:36:31,880 Speaker 5: because you are the male. It says that you are intense, scary, secretive, sexual, sensual, deep, 2270 01:36:31,920 --> 01:36:33,559 Speaker 5: and vengeful. 2271 01:36:34,280 --> 01:36:36,720 Speaker 2: God I agree, I'm all that stuff. 2272 01:36:36,560 --> 01:36:39,200 Speaker 4: You do, I don't think so, I mean some of it. 2273 01:36:39,160 --> 01:36:41,519 Speaker 2: But not all of them. If you screw me over, 2274 01:36:41,520 --> 01:36:42,200 Speaker 2: I'll screw you back. 2275 01:36:42,280 --> 01:36:49,320 Speaker 1: No problems. Go to line twenty Cametra see money is 2276 01:36:49,360 --> 01:36:54,519 Speaker 1: this camtra? It is okay? So you say absolutely if 2277 01:36:54,520 --> 01:36:57,040 Speaker 1: you own that night club called Zamboni, you would not 2278 01:36:57,120 --> 01:37:01,400 Speaker 1: allow aries in your nightclub either? Why is that absolutely not? 2279 01:37:01,880 --> 01:37:03,760 Speaker 37: I don't blame them one bit. 2280 01:37:04,640 --> 01:37:10,280 Speaker 29: The most toxic sign that I know is aries. 2281 01:37:10,800 --> 01:37:18,280 Speaker 47: If you want, they are arrogant, They're arrogant and narcissistic 2282 01:37:18,840 --> 01:37:22,120 Speaker 47: and so trauma filled. 2283 01:37:22,479 --> 01:37:25,320 Speaker 4: All and I am not any of those things. I 2284 01:37:25,360 --> 01:37:28,000 Speaker 4: don't know who you're dealing with over. 2285 01:37:27,840 --> 01:37:31,680 Speaker 1: And now, I mean, isn't it easy for us? Now 2286 01:37:31,720 --> 01:37:34,680 Speaker 1: hear me out comitra? Isn't it easy for us to 2287 01:37:34,680 --> 01:37:37,479 Speaker 1: to make this kind of judgment because we've had we've 2288 01:37:37,479 --> 01:37:39,920 Speaker 1: been burned by one person who so happened to have 2289 01:37:39,960 --> 01:37:42,640 Speaker 1: been an Aries? Or are you talking about dozens of 2290 01:37:42,640 --> 01:37:44,080 Speaker 1: people you know who are aries and they're all a 2291 01:37:44,080 --> 01:37:45,879 Speaker 1: bunch of idiots? 2292 01:37:45,920 --> 01:37:48,160 Speaker 21: Well, uh, I. 2293 01:37:48,080 --> 01:37:53,400 Speaker 29: Have a very personal connection to an Aries, and he 2294 01:37:55,400 --> 01:37:59,400 Speaker 29: is so toxic and he's angry all the time. 2295 01:37:59,200 --> 01:37:59,960 Speaker 6: But volatile. 2296 01:38:00,680 --> 01:38:05,400 Speaker 29: The drop of a hat, he goes straight to twenty. 2297 01:38:06,720 --> 01:38:10,000 Speaker 29: Good cripon right now? If that, if that means anything. 2298 01:38:10,000 --> 01:38:14,000 Speaker 1: Well, hope he's hope he's calming down in the prison. 2299 01:38:14,800 --> 01:38:18,599 Speaker 1: He's in prison. I wonder if prisoners. I woulder if 2300 01:38:18,600 --> 01:38:22,040 Speaker 1: most incarcerated people are aries? Can we do a study it? 2301 01:38:22,760 --> 01:38:23,080 Speaker 2: All right? 2302 01:38:23,120 --> 01:38:25,799 Speaker 1: Well, look, look, I'm not gonna say you're wrong, Cometri, 2303 01:38:25,840 --> 01:38:28,640 Speaker 1: because obviously your experience with Aries has been awful, and 2304 01:38:28,640 --> 01:38:30,960 Speaker 1: I'm glad that you're on a better path without this 2305 01:38:31,000 --> 01:38:32,280 Speaker 1: guy in your life. So good for you. 2306 01:38:33,680 --> 01:38:35,400 Speaker 11: Thank you, You're very welcome. 2307 01:38:35,439 --> 01:38:39,120 Speaker 1: Kmetra, thank you for listening. What's that name? I just wonder, Okay, 2308 01:38:39,280 --> 01:38:40,040 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, what. 2309 01:38:40,200 --> 01:38:42,360 Speaker 2: So her ex is in prison? Do you think his 2310 01:38:42,520 --> 01:38:44,400 Speaker 2: cellmate was concerned about his sign? 2311 01:38:44,680 --> 01:38:44,880 Speaker 1: Right? 2312 01:38:45,040 --> 01:38:46,400 Speaker 2: Like, oh god, he's an aries. 2313 01:38:46,560 --> 01:38:50,439 Speaker 1: I don't want to be bunking with him at that 2314 01:38:50,520 --> 01:38:53,000 Speaker 1: point that we don't have a much of us, say so, 2315 01:38:53,040 --> 01:38:55,360 Speaker 1: I don't think all right? 2316 01:38:55,439 --> 01:38:55,599 Speaker 30: Uh? 2317 01:38:55,720 --> 01:38:59,320 Speaker 1: Is Sandra so online nineteen? Yeah? No, Sandra, you are 2318 01:38:59,360 --> 01:39:02,680 Speaker 1: an aries and you totally get agreeing with Camitro the 2319 01:39:02,720 --> 01:39:05,760 Speaker 1: last caller that you're you're toxic in the worst. 2320 01:39:06,080 --> 01:39:09,879 Speaker 20: All right, well, no, now she threw out some fighting words, 2321 01:39:09,920 --> 01:39:13,680 Speaker 20: but I will say in general, I'm kind of a 2322 01:39:13,720 --> 01:39:17,400 Speaker 20: dick and I know it about myself, you know, all right, 2323 01:39:18,160 --> 01:39:20,200 Speaker 20: So I think, yes. 2324 01:39:20,600 --> 01:39:23,920 Speaker 5: Do you blame the sign the stars for you being that? 2325 01:39:24,280 --> 01:39:27,120 Speaker 5: Or do you take a little responsibility because maybe that's 2326 01:39:27,120 --> 01:39:27,840 Speaker 5: on you also? 2327 01:39:28,840 --> 01:39:31,840 Speaker 42: No, I mean I think, all right, I will blame 2328 01:39:31,880 --> 01:39:34,080 Speaker 42: my dad a little bit because he's a dick. 2329 01:39:34,240 --> 01:39:38,679 Speaker 20: We'll start there for fourting finger, and I will also 2330 01:39:38,800 --> 01:39:42,519 Speaker 20: say I'm a very self aware jerk. So it's like, 2331 01:39:43,080 --> 01:39:45,840 Speaker 20: it's maybe not the sign, it's me, but I fall 2332 01:39:45,880 --> 01:39:49,719 Speaker 20: into the aries category. So I understand we're fiery. I'm 2333 01:39:49,880 --> 01:39:52,720 Speaker 20: zero to hero like they're saying. You know, it's one 2334 01:39:52,760 --> 01:39:54,000 Speaker 20: of those things where. 2335 01:39:54,400 --> 01:39:56,519 Speaker 42: I will snap at you and then two seconds later 2336 01:39:56,560 --> 01:39:58,800 Speaker 42: I'm like, so, I'm what's going on? 2337 01:39:58,960 --> 01:40:00,200 Speaker 20: How's the weather today? 2338 01:40:00,360 --> 01:40:00,559 Speaker 32: You know? 2339 01:40:02,640 --> 01:40:02,880 Speaker 17: Yeah? 2340 01:40:02,960 --> 01:40:03,320 Speaker 13: No way? 2341 01:40:04,680 --> 01:40:07,160 Speaker 1: Now are you the kind of Sandra? Are you the 2342 01:40:07,200 --> 01:40:10,280 Speaker 1: kind of person that would say, hey, don't cross me. 2343 01:40:10,640 --> 01:40:12,800 Speaker 1: You don't even know how mad I could get, or 2344 01:40:13,040 --> 01:40:16,080 Speaker 1: you have even heard mad yet. I'm gonna let you know, 2345 01:40:16,600 --> 01:40:19,599 Speaker 1: I mean, do you because because you know they're about 2346 01:40:19,640 --> 01:40:21,640 Speaker 1: to push a button on you, and so you're like 2347 01:40:21,760 --> 01:40:26,280 Speaker 1: you need to back off. I'm warning you. 2348 01:40:24,760 --> 01:40:27,320 Speaker 42: You know, I think the older I get, yes, young 2349 01:40:27,400 --> 01:40:30,120 Speaker 42: me would have been very much. So go ahead and 2350 01:40:30,160 --> 01:40:32,240 Speaker 42: look at the chart and you can figure it out 2351 01:40:32,280 --> 01:40:35,000 Speaker 42: on your own. But at this point, I think for 2352 01:40:35,120 --> 01:40:37,200 Speaker 42: my own inner piece and the fact that I know 2353 01:40:37,280 --> 01:40:40,080 Speaker 42: that my rage is so present that I do kind 2354 01:40:40,120 --> 01:40:42,800 Speaker 42: of try to say listen, I'm gonna walk away. But 2355 01:40:42,880 --> 01:40:46,000 Speaker 42: if they choose to stick around, that's on them. 2356 01:40:46,120 --> 01:40:48,799 Speaker 1: Okay, I like that you start to push my buttons. 2357 01:40:48,800 --> 01:40:49,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna look at you and then I and go, 2358 01:40:49,840 --> 01:40:53,280 Speaker 1: you know what, I'm warning you you have Yeah, you 2359 01:40:53,320 --> 01:40:55,160 Speaker 1: know I am. I am caged heat. 2360 01:40:57,240 --> 01:40:57,600 Speaker 20: Look like. 2361 01:40:57,640 --> 01:40:58,439 Speaker 1: I don't want to. 2362 01:40:58,400 --> 01:41:01,080 Speaker 42: Be a jerk, but you know, it's just it's there 2363 01:41:01,240 --> 01:41:02,840 Speaker 42: and it creeps out when you push me. 2364 01:41:03,520 --> 01:41:03,760 Speaker 24: Wow. 2365 01:41:03,880 --> 01:41:06,479 Speaker 1: Okay, well, thanks for the warning. And I love I 2366 01:41:06,520 --> 01:41:09,479 Speaker 1: love your self awareness. It's it's very enlightening. I love that. 2367 01:41:09,920 --> 01:41:12,280 Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna mess with you. We're gonna We're 2368 01:41:12,280 --> 01:41:15,679 Speaker 1: gonna like to see here's on the phone. 2369 01:41:16,760 --> 01:41:19,200 Speaker 42: Right as I'm cussing you out in my head, I'm going, 2370 01:41:19,280 --> 01:41:20,880 Speaker 42: please stop that, Why are you doing that? 2371 01:41:20,920 --> 01:41:23,320 Speaker 20: Please don't do this to them? But it just continues, 2372 01:41:23,479 --> 01:41:23,800 Speaker 20: you know. 2373 01:41:24,120 --> 01:41:26,000 Speaker 1: All right, Sondra, the aries We're gonna leave you it on, 2374 01:41:26,080 --> 01:41:27,760 Speaker 1: have a great day, and let's not poke the. 2375 01:41:28,160 --> 01:41:30,080 Speaker 20: You guys are awesome. I appreciate you. 2376 01:41:30,560 --> 01:41:33,439 Speaker 1: Thank you for not hurting us. Thank you, carry on, 2377 01:41:34,040 --> 01:41:37,160 Speaker 1: and there you go. I never knew before this conversation, 2378 01:41:37,240 --> 01:41:41,160 Speaker 1: before this nightclub, the edict saying no one can come 2379 01:41:41,160 --> 01:41:43,200 Speaker 1: in different areas. I didn't even know there was a 2380 01:41:43,240 --> 01:41:46,080 Speaker 1: problem with aries until now either. And there you go. 2381 01:41:47,560 --> 01:41:49,600 Speaker 6: I want to see what we actually look like. 2382 01:41:50,120 --> 01:41:53,639 Speaker 5: Look lack o, very princess that resides over the pits 2383 01:41:53,680 --> 01:41:54,000 Speaker 5: of hell. 2384 01:41:54,280 --> 01:41:58,960 Speaker 26: Follow us on Instagram at Elvis Duran Show. See Elvis 2385 01:41:59,040 --> 01:42:03,920 Speaker 26: Duran in the Morning Elvis in the Morning Show. 2386 01:42:05,560 --> 01:42:07,599 Speaker 1: I did it again yesterday. I'm sure we're all guilty 2387 01:42:07,640 --> 01:42:09,120 Speaker 1: of this, whether you want to admit it or not. 2388 01:42:09,720 --> 01:42:16,000 Speaker 1: You go online Instagram sometimes X and you fall into 2389 01:42:16,000 --> 01:42:20,559 Speaker 1: that hole. Oh yeah, have you seen I'm sure the 2390 01:42:20,640 --> 01:42:23,240 Speaker 1: ads I've seen. We've all seen the one where you 2391 01:42:23,280 --> 01:42:25,920 Speaker 1: spray that foam down the drain and it comes out 2392 01:42:25,960 --> 01:42:29,000 Speaker 1: like a big snake. Oh yeah, and it cleans it out. 2393 01:42:29,120 --> 01:42:33,840 Speaker 1: It looks so satisfying, it really does. It's left tune, 2394 01:42:34,000 --> 01:42:38,599 Speaker 1: no rents cleaner. Yeah, you spray it on the drain 2395 01:42:38,680 --> 01:42:42,160 Speaker 1: and it's like this eight foot long snake comes crawling 2396 01:42:42,200 --> 01:42:45,160 Speaker 1: out of your out of your drain with all that 2397 01:42:45,280 --> 01:42:48,000 Speaker 1: dirt and ick with it. Does Does it work? 2398 01:42:48,680 --> 01:42:49,000 Speaker 32: I don't know. 2399 01:42:49,200 --> 01:42:50,080 Speaker 4: Ever tried it. I don't know. 2400 01:42:50,120 --> 01:42:52,360 Speaker 5: There's only one way to find out. 2401 01:42:52,000 --> 01:42:54,759 Speaker 1: Because I'm thinking, you know, because Scotty bees always complaining 2402 01:42:54,800 --> 01:42:59,080 Speaker 1: about being stopped up, we could shoot this up your butt. 2403 01:43:00,320 --> 01:43:01,160 Speaker 1: I'm not stopped up. 2404 01:43:01,200 --> 01:43:01,920 Speaker 2: That's my problem. 2405 01:43:02,880 --> 01:43:07,519 Speaker 1: Oh so you already have this stuff going? Yeah, I 2406 01:43:07,560 --> 01:43:11,200 Speaker 1: don't know. Hey, have you guys been seriously yesterday? Did 2407 01:43:11,240 --> 01:43:12,840 Speaker 1: any of you get sucked down a hole for a 2408 01:43:12,840 --> 01:43:13,320 Speaker 1: little while? 2409 01:43:13,479 --> 01:43:18,599 Speaker 5: Always constantly? I man, once I see two animals who 2410 01:43:18,600 --> 01:43:21,799 Speaker 5: are not actually the same species playing together and petting 2411 01:43:21,840 --> 01:43:24,679 Speaker 5: each other. Game over, I'm down that hole for probably 2412 01:43:24,720 --> 01:43:27,160 Speaker 5: an hour. I send Danielle videos. I'm like, look at this. 2413 01:43:27,200 --> 01:43:28,320 Speaker 5: It's a monkey petting a deer. 2414 01:43:28,720 --> 01:43:30,160 Speaker 2: It's a monkey and a goat. 2415 01:43:30,479 --> 01:43:31,759 Speaker 4: Yeah. 2416 01:43:31,800 --> 01:43:32,559 Speaker 1: I love that stuff. 2417 01:43:32,600 --> 01:43:35,120 Speaker 7: Mine is like little kittens, like and you know when 2418 01:43:35,160 --> 01:43:38,280 Speaker 7: they put them in costumes and stuff and I send 2419 01:43:38,280 --> 01:43:39,280 Speaker 7: them to my son Spencer. 2420 01:43:39,320 --> 01:43:41,080 Speaker 4: I'm like, okay, I can't I'm like this, I can't 2421 01:43:41,080 --> 01:43:42,400 Speaker 4: take this. I'm like, oh my gosh, look at. 2422 01:43:42,280 --> 01:43:44,519 Speaker 7: This and the little monkeys, the little monkeys with the 2423 01:43:44,560 --> 01:43:46,840 Speaker 7: Louis Vaton purst on his back, and he's like looking 2424 01:43:46,880 --> 01:43:48,559 Speaker 7: around in my gra I can't I need a monkey 2425 01:43:48,640 --> 01:43:49,560 Speaker 7: someone onkey. 2426 01:43:50,560 --> 01:43:53,000 Speaker 1: No one can disagree with you that it all sounds adorable, 2427 01:43:53,160 --> 01:43:54,519 Speaker 1: but an hour and a half. 2428 01:43:54,360 --> 01:43:58,560 Speaker 5: Of it because they do different things, absolutely, baby pandas 2429 01:43:58,680 --> 01:44:00,920 Speaker 5: how are they even alive? I have no idea. They're 2430 01:44:00,960 --> 01:44:03,320 Speaker 5: the stupidest of things ever, But I'll watch them. 2431 01:44:03,920 --> 01:44:07,200 Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, I'm I'm starting to catch 2432 01:44:07,240 --> 01:44:12,240 Speaker 1: myself and go, no, no, no, stop. You can have five minutes, Yeah, 2433 01:44:12,280 --> 01:44:15,960 Speaker 1: five minutes, that's all you get watching whatever distortion you're watching, 2434 01:44:16,000 --> 01:44:18,000 Speaker 1: And that's it. You got to cut yourself off. And 2435 01:44:18,040 --> 01:44:20,360 Speaker 1: so I try my best. I try my best to 2436 01:44:20,360 --> 01:44:20,559 Speaker 1: do that. 2437 01:44:21,120 --> 01:44:23,479 Speaker 5: I do what's your guilty pleasure? Which holes are we 2438 01:44:23,520 --> 01:44:24,479 Speaker 5: falling down these days? 2439 01:44:24,520 --> 01:44:24,920 Speaker 11: Oh? 2440 01:44:25,040 --> 01:44:27,599 Speaker 1: Well, I tell you that that foam you shoot down 2441 01:44:27,640 --> 01:44:30,800 Speaker 1: your drain that makes that eight foot long snake come 2442 01:44:30,800 --> 01:44:34,920 Speaker 1: out with all the dirt, That thing is amazing. I 2443 01:44:34,920 --> 01:44:36,680 Speaker 1: don't know, but you know what I think, out of 2444 01:44:36,720 --> 01:44:39,559 Speaker 1: all of us, Gandhi and I send the most trash 2445 01:44:39,600 --> 01:44:41,920 Speaker 1: to each other on Instagram, right on the DMS. 2446 01:44:42,080 --> 01:44:43,840 Speaker 5: Yes, there are times where I'll go to send you 2447 01:44:43,840 --> 01:44:45,680 Speaker 5: a video, and then I realize I just spammed you 2448 01:44:45,720 --> 01:44:47,679 Speaker 5: with like nine in a row, and I really hope 2449 01:44:47,720 --> 01:44:49,479 Speaker 5: you watch them all. If I ever send you a video, 2450 01:44:49,479 --> 01:44:50,880 Speaker 5: don't just watch the last one. Scroll up. 2451 01:44:50,880 --> 01:44:52,360 Speaker 1: Oh you sent me to last night? 2452 01:44:52,479 --> 01:44:53,200 Speaker 6: Yeah? 2453 01:44:53,320 --> 01:44:56,120 Speaker 10: Yeah, Hey, when people do that, they only watched the 2454 01:44:56,160 --> 01:44:58,439 Speaker 10: last video, you said, like, wait a second, these other. 2455 01:44:58,320 --> 01:44:59,759 Speaker 2: Three were even more brilliant. 2456 01:44:59,800 --> 01:45:03,599 Speaker 5: Yeah, skip them. The guy falling and sync with Phil 2457 01:45:03,640 --> 01:45:04,960 Speaker 5: Collins in the air tonight. 2458 01:45:06,479 --> 01:45:08,679 Speaker 10: Seen in a Long Time, and the woman falling off 2459 01:45:08,760 --> 01:45:11,000 Speaker 10: the office chair in rhythm to that same song. 2460 01:45:11,120 --> 01:45:13,400 Speaker 5: So good, but it's not. 2461 01:45:13,720 --> 01:45:19,280 Speaker 1: It really isn't. It's just we are so stupid, but 2462 01:45:19,400 --> 01:45:22,200 Speaker 1: we go down there so but part of me justifies 2463 01:45:22,240 --> 01:45:25,160 Speaker 1: it by saying to myself, Hey self, this is a 2464 01:45:25,200 --> 01:45:27,839 Speaker 1: moment of just unplugging from the reality of the world. 2465 01:45:28,840 --> 01:45:32,040 Speaker 1: Just watch the man fall down the staircase in rhythm 2466 01:45:32,040 --> 01:45:35,720 Speaker 1: to the drum solo a Phil Collins song. 2467 01:45:36,240 --> 01:45:41,200 Speaker 7: Have you ever seen those people that are lined up 2468 01:45:41,320 --> 01:45:44,000 Speaker 7: sitting behind each other and they start with, like say, 2469 01:45:44,080 --> 01:45:47,200 Speaker 7: a huge bucket of water, and they dump it behind 2470 01:45:47,280 --> 01:45:50,360 Speaker 7: them into the other person's bucket without looking, and then 2471 01:45:50,439 --> 01:45:52,960 Speaker 7: that person takes the bucket and tries to dump it 2472 01:45:53,040 --> 01:45:55,040 Speaker 7: behind them, and by the time they get to the 2473 01:45:55,160 --> 01:45:57,920 Speaker 7: end there's like no water. Laugh, and the last it's 2474 01:45:57,920 --> 01:46:00,800 Speaker 7: the I'm like, well they do it out there, you 2475 01:46:00,840 --> 01:46:02,360 Speaker 7: go like, sprinkle. 2476 01:46:02,000 --> 01:46:04,880 Speaker 1: Another another hour, thank you, Danielle. Another hour out of 2477 01:46:04,880 --> 01:46:06,920 Speaker 1: our lives. Yep, yeah, what's up? 2478 01:46:07,160 --> 01:46:08,840 Speaker 9: I saw one the other day a guy put baking 2479 01:46:08,880 --> 01:46:10,800 Speaker 9: soda in his wife's hair dryer so that when she 2480 01:46:10,880 --> 01:46:11,760 Speaker 9: turned down a blow. 2481 01:46:13,680 --> 01:46:15,840 Speaker 2: It was hilarious. I'm like, I want to try that. 2482 01:46:16,200 --> 01:46:19,240 Speaker 1: Wait, didn't you see the mother who did something like 2483 01:46:19,520 --> 01:46:21,160 Speaker 1: that to her son and it caught his head on 2484 01:46:21,240 --> 01:46:22,519 Speaker 1: fire or something like that. 2485 01:46:22,520 --> 01:46:23,160 Speaker 2: I did not see. 2486 01:46:23,200 --> 01:46:23,800 Speaker 4: I didn't see that. 2487 01:46:24,439 --> 01:46:27,960 Speaker 1: Okay, but see we can even talk about it for 2488 01:46:28,000 --> 01:46:28,240 Speaker 1: an hour. 2489 01:46:28,240 --> 01:46:30,880 Speaker 5: Are not even looking at Yeah, the lions who had 2490 01:46:30,880 --> 01:46:33,759 Speaker 5: finally had enough at the circus. I was like, yeah, lions, 2491 01:46:33,840 --> 01:46:34,559 Speaker 5: you do your thing. 2492 01:46:35,200 --> 01:46:36,040 Speaker 2: That's it. 2493 01:46:36,520 --> 01:46:40,400 Speaker 26: Don't answer the phone. Elvis Duran, the Elvis durand phone tap? 2494 01:46:40,479 --> 01:46:42,400 Speaker 1: All right, scary, tell me all about this phone tap 2495 01:46:42,439 --> 01:46:43,000 Speaker 1: you're doing here. 2496 01:46:43,280 --> 01:46:47,080 Speaker 10: So Derek wants to play a phone tap on his fiance, Julie. 2497 01:46:47,160 --> 01:46:50,200 Speaker 10: Julie has been a control freak about every last detail 2498 01:46:50,240 --> 01:46:52,960 Speaker 10: of her wedding except for booking the DJ. 2499 01:46:53,160 --> 01:46:54,280 Speaker 11: She left that to Derek. 2500 01:46:54,600 --> 01:46:57,120 Speaker 10: But she's been wanting to speak to the DJ and 2501 01:46:57,160 --> 01:47:00,240 Speaker 10: go over all the introductions for the reception and all that. 2502 01:47:00,560 --> 01:47:02,720 Speaker 10: So Derek's going to pretend to be at the DJ 2503 01:47:02,840 --> 01:47:06,400 Speaker 10: company office and introduce me at their wedding DJ. 2504 01:47:06,600 --> 01:47:09,040 Speaker 1: All right, so scary is the wedding DJ. Let's see 2505 01:47:09,080 --> 01:47:11,439 Speaker 1: what happens in today's phone tap. Here we go. 2506 01:47:11,560 --> 01:47:16,479 Speaker 28: Hello, Hey, what's up? Nothing, I'm actually at the DJ place. 2507 01:47:16,960 --> 01:47:18,200 Speaker 32: Oh yeah, huh yeah. 2508 01:47:18,240 --> 01:47:20,000 Speaker 28: So I just want to let you know that I 2509 01:47:20,040 --> 01:47:22,040 Speaker 28: put the final payment down. 2510 01:47:22,520 --> 01:47:22,960 Speaker 19: Is he cool? 2511 01:47:23,040 --> 01:47:23,560 Speaker 36: Or lets me do? 2512 01:47:24,040 --> 01:47:25,320 Speaker 28: He's great? Do you want to talk to him? You 2513 01:47:25,320 --> 01:47:26,680 Speaker 28: can talk to him, you know. 2514 01:47:27,000 --> 01:47:27,439 Speaker 6: Yeah? 2515 01:47:27,720 --> 01:47:31,559 Speaker 28: So his name is DJ Dribs. What somebody goes by 2516 01:47:31,640 --> 01:47:33,040 Speaker 28: it's DJ name. 2517 01:47:33,120 --> 01:47:34,360 Speaker 11: I'm gonna turn this mother out. 2518 01:47:34,880 --> 01:47:35,759 Speaker 6: That's kind of gross. 2519 01:47:35,960 --> 01:47:36,400 Speaker 28: Talk to them. 2520 01:47:36,439 --> 01:47:40,639 Speaker 2: Okay, that doesn't sound classic, Julie. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're 2521 01:47:40,680 --> 01:47:42,360 Speaker 2: ready for the big day. Yeah, it's gonna be a 2522 01:47:42,360 --> 01:47:42,760 Speaker 2: good time. 2523 01:47:43,040 --> 01:47:44,479 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. 2524 01:47:44,520 --> 01:47:47,679 Speaker 2: Do you have another name you could go by? No? 2525 01:47:47,680 --> 01:47:49,800 Speaker 10: No, no, no, That's how I'm known the clubs this way, 2526 01:47:49,840 --> 01:47:51,679 Speaker 10: I'm knowing I have a legendary name. 2527 01:47:51,960 --> 01:47:53,240 Speaker 11: Can you use your real name. 2528 01:47:53,360 --> 01:47:56,120 Speaker 1: Well, my name is Dick Dick Dribbler, but I go 2529 01:47:56,200 --> 01:47:57,479 Speaker 1: by DJ Dribs. 2530 01:47:57,800 --> 01:47:59,840 Speaker 2: Well, you don't have to say a name, you never. 2531 01:48:00,280 --> 01:48:02,200 Speaker 4: It's not about you, it's about us. 2532 01:48:02,240 --> 01:48:03,479 Speaker 10: I thought that this was going to be one of 2533 01:48:03,520 --> 01:48:06,759 Speaker 10: those upbeat parties, you know, bumping bass and in some house. 2534 01:48:07,240 --> 01:48:09,040 Speaker 35: We don't want any house music at our wedding. 2535 01:48:09,400 --> 01:48:12,760 Speaker 1: Say what, No, it's a wedding, house music all that long. 2536 01:48:12,840 --> 01:48:13,360 Speaker 4: It's a wedding. 2537 01:48:13,400 --> 01:48:14,160 Speaker 40: It's not a club. 2538 01:48:14,200 --> 01:48:15,240 Speaker 23: We're not at a. 2539 01:48:15,200 --> 01:48:17,120 Speaker 1: Club, yo, Derek, what's with her? 2540 01:48:17,400 --> 01:48:17,920 Speaker 34: Excuse me? 2541 01:48:18,240 --> 01:48:18,880 Speaker 37: Let me talk to I. 2542 01:48:19,720 --> 01:48:24,200 Speaker 6: Okay, hold on, Julie, who is this guy? 2543 01:48:25,080 --> 01:48:26,120 Speaker 28: So listen, listen, listen. 2544 01:48:26,320 --> 01:48:26,760 Speaker 25: Just let him. 2545 01:48:26,800 --> 01:48:29,280 Speaker 28: Let him run a few intros by you. He wrote them. 2546 01:48:29,800 --> 01:48:30,559 Speaker 1: What is that name? 2547 01:48:30,680 --> 01:48:31,160 Speaker 13: Is that real? 2548 01:48:31,680 --> 01:48:33,679 Speaker 28: That's his name? You know he's famous to we're gonna 2549 01:48:33,680 --> 01:48:34,639 Speaker 28: have a famous thame. 2550 01:48:34,680 --> 01:48:36,240 Speaker 1: As I googled him and nothing came up. 2551 01:48:36,400 --> 01:48:37,360 Speaker 29: He's some club. 2552 01:48:37,640 --> 01:48:40,439 Speaker 28: He does clubs, he does strip joints. I mean he's 2553 01:48:41,120 --> 01:48:41,800 Speaker 28: in his own way. 2554 01:48:42,040 --> 01:48:46,240 Speaker 8: No way, No, here's a strip of he gonna do 2555 01:48:46,320 --> 01:48:46,799 Speaker 8: my wedding. 2556 01:48:47,080 --> 01:48:49,439 Speaker 13: No, I mean he's disgusting. 2557 01:48:49,080 --> 01:48:51,320 Speaker 28: He does that. But just give him a chance. 2558 01:48:51,360 --> 01:48:53,599 Speaker 1: Okay, you know, we turned the party out every time. 2559 01:48:54,400 --> 01:48:55,920 Speaker 28: He's got videos on YouTube and everything. 2560 01:48:55,960 --> 01:48:58,520 Speaker 1: I thought I was gonna run through some of the intros. 2561 01:48:58,680 --> 01:48:59,920 Speaker 29: Oh, I can't wait to hear these. 2562 01:49:01,080 --> 01:49:03,479 Speaker 11: See here, I wrote one for the brother of the bride. 2563 01:49:03,720 --> 01:49:04,920 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen. Here he comes. 2564 01:49:04,920 --> 01:49:08,080 Speaker 48: He's Colin, the bride's brother from another mother, escorted by 2565 01:49:08,160 --> 01:49:09,759 Speaker 48: the voluptuous Valerie. 2566 01:49:11,920 --> 01:49:12,640 Speaker 29: He's adopted. 2567 01:49:13,240 --> 01:49:13,599 Speaker 1: I know. 2568 01:49:13,840 --> 01:49:14,800 Speaker 11: That's why I wrote that. 2569 01:49:15,080 --> 01:49:17,479 Speaker 47: Derek was telling me that's not funny at all, and 2570 01:49:17,720 --> 01:49:19,639 Speaker 47: that's very insecure about her chest. 2571 01:49:19,680 --> 01:49:21,599 Speaker 2: You will not say that, but that's part of what 2572 01:49:21,680 --> 01:49:22,160 Speaker 2: people know. 2573 01:49:22,280 --> 01:49:27,360 Speaker 1: DJ dribs by no by our introductions and how we 2574 01:49:27,400 --> 01:49:28,439 Speaker 1: bring people into the room. 2575 01:49:28,439 --> 01:49:33,000 Speaker 48: We're crowd motivators, you know, like now the motivat crowd. 2576 01:49:33,920 --> 01:49:36,120 Speaker 1: How about this one I got for your mother the bride. 2577 01:49:36,200 --> 01:49:39,559 Speaker 1: Your mom now entering the room. She's single and right 2578 01:49:39,640 --> 01:49:45,960 Speaker 1: and mingle. It's Dorothy. I've got more for you. 2579 01:49:46,960 --> 01:49:49,720 Speaker 48: He's the best man in title only because we all 2580 01:49:49,760 --> 01:49:53,200 Speaker 48: know Julie dumped him five years ago, escorted by Julie's 2581 01:49:53,240 --> 01:49:55,960 Speaker 48: best friend, the reason they broke up in the first place. 2582 01:49:56,080 --> 01:50:03,639 Speaker 48: Put your hands together for Roger and Stephanie. It's that's 2583 01:50:03,680 --> 01:50:08,840 Speaker 48: why I writ down that's my signature. 2584 01:50:09,400 --> 01:50:10,720 Speaker 1: Dude, you hear this. You can hear this for the 2585 01:50:10,720 --> 01:50:13,439 Speaker 1: rest of your im cut paid right now. 2586 01:50:13,479 --> 01:50:15,759 Speaker 11: Fe Are you here, Julie? 2587 01:50:15,880 --> 01:50:17,800 Speaker 14: Okay, I gave you one thing to do and he 2588 01:50:17,880 --> 01:50:18,840 Speaker 14: totally shut up. 2589 01:50:20,200 --> 01:50:21,240 Speaker 28: He's gonna be really good doing. 2590 01:50:21,360 --> 01:50:24,439 Speaker 36: Think is not gonna be Nothing is not coming. 2591 01:50:25,120 --> 01:50:27,160 Speaker 11: I'm the Ayatola rock and roller teller. 2592 01:50:29,520 --> 01:50:30,320 Speaker 42: Are you stupid? 2593 01:50:30,479 --> 01:50:32,760 Speaker 4: Get the jack and run they are. 2594 01:50:33,040 --> 01:50:34,439 Speaker 28: She wants me to get my money back. 2595 01:50:34,560 --> 01:50:35,000 Speaker 29: No way. 2596 01:50:35,040 --> 01:50:37,280 Speaker 11: I already paid for plastic knee on sunglasses. 2597 01:50:37,320 --> 01:50:41,120 Speaker 28: I'm going to give out for hot, hot hot. 2598 01:50:42,240 --> 01:50:44,280 Speaker 11: I bought a bunch of umbrellas for its raining men. 2599 01:50:45,320 --> 01:50:48,720 Speaker 34: What here you thinking is this idiot has no experience? 2600 01:50:48,920 --> 01:50:50,600 Speaker 28: Okay, she's kind of prinking. 2601 01:50:52,320 --> 01:50:52,640 Speaker 36: Right now. 2602 01:50:53,520 --> 01:50:57,559 Speaker 11: Why are you laughing at me? He's laughing because you're 2603 01:50:57,640 --> 01:50:58,439 Speaker 11: being phone down. 2604 01:51:01,120 --> 01:51:03,599 Speaker 1: This is scary. Jones in the Morning Show. 2605 01:51:04,320 --> 01:51:06,680 Speaker 28: What oh my god, we know? 2606 01:51:07,920 --> 01:51:11,599 Speaker 4: Oh my god, you. 2607 01:51:11,640 --> 01:51:15,439 Speaker 6: Are the Elvis Duran phone tap. 2608 01:51:16,880 --> 01:51:20,480 Speaker 18: This table was pre recorded with permission granted by all participates. 2609 01:51:20,720 --> 01:51:24,160 Speaker 26: The Elvis Duran phone tap only on Elvis Duran in 2610 01:51:24,160 --> 01:51:36,599 Speaker 26: the Morning Show. Elvis Ter Elvis Duran in the Morning Show. 2611 01:51:37,320 --> 01:51:42,080 Speaker 1: I want to ask you something about relationships look, either 2612 01:51:42,120 --> 01:51:45,760 Speaker 1: you're in a relationship all the way or you want 2613 01:51:45,760 --> 01:51:48,479 Speaker 1: to be single. But there's also that in between things, 2614 01:51:48,520 --> 01:51:51,160 Speaker 1: the casual relationship. I met a couple over the weekend 2615 01:51:51,760 --> 01:51:57,599 Speaker 1: and it was wonderful how their relationship is very, very casual. 2616 01:51:58,600 --> 01:52:01,720 Speaker 1: They're not going for everything at the same time. I 2617 01:52:01,760 --> 01:52:04,000 Speaker 1: don't think they're dating other people. I just think I 2618 01:52:04,000 --> 01:52:06,120 Speaker 1: don't think they have time because of their careers whatever. 2619 01:52:06,720 --> 01:52:09,640 Speaker 1: But there are a lot of people who actually like 2620 01:52:09,720 --> 01:52:11,200 Speaker 1: it that way. And there are a lot of people 2621 01:52:11,240 --> 01:52:13,400 Speaker 1: out there who don't understand how you can be in 2622 01:52:13,439 --> 01:52:16,040 Speaker 1: a relationship and not be full throttle like you know, 2623 01:52:16,280 --> 01:52:19,920 Speaker 1: but their friends are just totally against it. They can't 2624 01:52:19,960 --> 01:52:22,439 Speaker 1: see how you can be that way. They think you 2625 01:52:22,520 --> 01:52:23,519 Speaker 1: have to be all or nothing. 2626 01:52:23,880 --> 01:52:27,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, but see if it's if it's working for them, 2627 01:52:27,920 --> 01:52:29,120 Speaker 7: then it's nobody's business. 2628 01:52:29,200 --> 01:52:34,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know exactly. But for instance, line twenty four. 2629 01:52:34,760 --> 01:52:36,840 Speaker 1: Let's go to line twenty four. This is seven high seven. 2630 01:52:36,880 --> 01:52:40,240 Speaker 2: How you doing good Born and Elvis? How are you 2631 01:52:40,320 --> 01:52:41,160 Speaker 2: doing very well? 2632 01:52:41,320 --> 01:52:44,160 Speaker 1: So you've been with your boyfriend for four years now 2633 01:52:44,160 --> 01:52:46,200 Speaker 1: and you consider it like a casual thing. 2634 01:52:46,120 --> 01:52:49,240 Speaker 19: Right, yes, but we are exclusive? 2635 01:52:50,000 --> 01:52:54,560 Speaker 7: Okay, So now what how do you describe casual exclusive. 2636 01:52:56,760 --> 01:53:00,320 Speaker 19: We only see each other. We see each other maybe 2637 01:53:00,320 --> 01:53:03,720 Speaker 19: a week. We've only had two sleepovers in the four 2638 01:53:03,800 --> 01:53:06,559 Speaker 19: years we've been together. If I see him, I see him. 2639 01:53:06,560 --> 01:53:07,479 Speaker 19: If I don't, I don't. 2640 01:53:07,560 --> 01:53:11,599 Speaker 1: We just it just works, right, and you're totally convinced 2641 01:53:11,600 --> 01:53:15,600 Speaker 1: it's it's definitely, uh, you're just with each other. It's monogamous. 2642 01:53:16,160 --> 01:53:19,400 Speaker 13: Yes, absolutely, Okay, Well all right, so I mean do 2643 01:53:19,439 --> 01:53:21,000 Speaker 13: you have any friends who are like, what's wrong with you? 2644 01:53:21,080 --> 01:53:21,920 Speaker 1: Or what's wrong with him? 2645 01:53:22,040 --> 01:53:23,639 Speaker 2: Or I mean do you have people here? 2646 01:53:23,720 --> 01:53:25,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, talk about that, Like what do they say it? 2647 01:53:26,960 --> 01:53:29,599 Speaker 19: They just think it's odd. They think we're just stuck 2648 01:53:29,640 --> 01:53:32,000 Speaker 19: up each other all week and long. And even when 2649 01:53:32,040 --> 01:53:34,720 Speaker 19: we lived the block away, I still only sell him 2650 01:53:34,720 --> 01:53:36,600 Speaker 19: once a week. And it started off because we have 2651 01:53:36,760 --> 01:53:39,120 Speaker 19: totally opposite work schedules. 2652 01:53:39,600 --> 01:53:42,880 Speaker 1: Right, So he's not your number one priority in your life. 2653 01:53:44,320 --> 01:53:50,599 Speaker 19: He is, but you know, I don't know, well, as 2654 01:53:50,680 --> 01:53:51,040 Speaker 19: long as. 2655 01:53:50,920 --> 01:53:53,040 Speaker 1: It works for you. But see, there are people listening 2656 01:53:53,080 --> 01:53:55,800 Speaker 1: to this right now going no, I don't know. But 2657 01:53:55,880 --> 01:53:58,400 Speaker 1: if you know why, it's because they're comparing it to 2658 01:53:58,439 --> 01:54:01,840 Speaker 1: what they believe is what it should be. You know, it's. 2659 01:54:01,560 --> 01:54:04,519 Speaker 19: Exactly and I've had that. Yes, yes, would you. 2660 01:54:04,479 --> 01:54:06,559 Speaker 7: Be upset if he's if you found out he was 2661 01:54:06,600 --> 01:54:09,200 Speaker 7: seeing somebody else, I'd be curious. 2662 01:54:11,600 --> 01:54:14,040 Speaker 1: But look, if this once or twice thing a week, 2663 01:54:14,479 --> 01:54:16,720 Speaker 1: this once or twice a week thing is working for you, 2664 01:54:17,040 --> 01:54:19,920 Speaker 1: that's excellent. Yeah, you know, and I hope you guys 2665 01:54:19,960 --> 01:54:22,000 Speaker 1: at least talk about it. You talk about the fact 2666 01:54:22,000 --> 01:54:24,439 Speaker 1: that you do have a unique relationship and it's great 2667 01:54:24,479 --> 01:54:26,519 Speaker 1: it's working out this way. And see what he says. 2668 01:54:26,720 --> 01:54:28,040 Speaker 1: I'm interested to see, you. 2669 01:54:28,000 --> 01:54:30,840 Speaker 19: Know, And we do talk about that. We do talk 2670 01:54:30,880 --> 01:54:33,000 Speaker 19: about that he can go out and do what he 2671 01:54:33,080 --> 01:54:35,320 Speaker 19: wants and I'm not blowing up his phone. I'm not 2672 01:54:35,840 --> 01:54:37,960 Speaker 19: worried about where he is, and he doesn't worry about 2673 01:54:38,000 --> 01:54:40,160 Speaker 19: what I'm doing. It's just it's great. I mean, I've 2674 01:54:40,200 --> 01:54:43,040 Speaker 19: had that relationship where we're with each other all the time, 2675 01:54:43,120 --> 01:54:44,760 Speaker 19: and this is just it's nice. 2676 01:54:45,080 --> 01:54:47,360 Speaker 1: Right there, you go, all right, seven, thank you for 2677 01:54:47,400 --> 01:54:48,560 Speaker 1: listening to us. Go have a good day. 2678 01:54:48,600 --> 01:54:51,040 Speaker 19: Okay, thank you you too, Bye bye. 2679 01:54:51,120 --> 01:54:53,320 Speaker 1: See you know, I see I have an interesting relationship 2680 01:54:53,320 --> 01:54:56,120 Speaker 1: with Alex that people are questioning because we're only together 2681 01:54:56,160 --> 01:54:58,240 Speaker 1: like four nights a week, sometimes three nights a week 2682 01:54:58,840 --> 01:55:01,400 Speaker 1: and it's just the way we're work and it's working 2683 01:55:01,440 --> 01:55:03,520 Speaker 1: for us beautifully. We love it like this. As a 2684 01:55:03,560 --> 01:55:05,280 Speaker 1: matter of fact, when we talk about moving in together, 2685 01:55:05,360 --> 01:55:07,640 Speaker 1: I know we both stop and go ooh, I don't 2686 01:55:07,680 --> 01:55:10,600 Speaker 1: know we want to do that? I don't know. 2687 01:55:10,760 --> 01:55:10,880 Speaker 24: Hey. 2688 01:55:10,960 --> 01:55:15,200 Speaker 1: Line twenty one is Amy Beth calling from Harrisonburg, Virginia. Hello, 2689 01:55:15,240 --> 01:55:16,200 Speaker 1: Amy Beth. How you doing? 2690 01:55:17,240 --> 01:55:19,080 Speaker 21: I am well, all, y'all. 2691 01:55:18,960 --> 01:55:22,760 Speaker 1: We're doing okay. So you've been in casual relationships and 2692 01:55:22,880 --> 01:55:24,360 Speaker 1: they worked for you, I mean, are you in a 2693 01:55:24,400 --> 01:55:25,320 Speaker 1: relationship currently? 2694 01:55:26,560 --> 01:55:29,320 Speaker 21: No, I'm not currently. I've decided to spend time working 2695 01:55:29,360 --> 01:55:31,240 Speaker 21: on myself and not worrying about anyone else. 2696 01:55:31,240 --> 01:55:33,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, there you go. I love hearing that. So 2697 01:55:33,960 --> 01:55:37,400 Speaker 1: even if like the perfect person arrived on your doorstep today, 2698 01:55:37,720 --> 01:55:40,400 Speaker 1: you would still go, eh, I'm still got me. I 2699 01:55:40,400 --> 01:55:41,880 Speaker 1: gotta to work on my stuff for now. 2700 01:55:42,960 --> 01:55:45,560 Speaker 21: Unfortunately, I have to say that's true. I probably would. 2701 01:55:46,520 --> 01:55:49,200 Speaker 21: But you know, it's what you put into a situation 2702 01:55:49,600 --> 01:55:53,560 Speaker 21: that makes the relationships. So if I'm not ready to 2703 01:55:53,560 --> 01:55:55,960 Speaker 21: put myself into it and I'm not invested in it 2704 01:55:56,240 --> 01:55:58,360 Speaker 21: and it doesn't go anywhere, well, yeah, that's on me. 2705 01:55:58,680 --> 01:56:01,480 Speaker 21: But this doesn't mean I'm any less interested in what 2706 01:56:01,520 --> 01:56:02,840 Speaker 21: I'm dealing with at the time. 2707 01:56:03,200 --> 01:56:06,080 Speaker 1: How do you respond to people who say the following, Well, 2708 01:56:06,160 --> 01:56:08,400 Speaker 1: if the right person came along, it would be a 2709 01:56:08,400 --> 01:56:10,360 Speaker 1: different story, but obviously they haven't. 2710 01:56:10,400 --> 01:56:14,760 Speaker 21: I mean, well, I have been married, I have lived 2711 01:56:14,800 --> 01:56:17,640 Speaker 21: with people, and I have been in casual relationship, and 2712 01:56:17,800 --> 01:56:19,840 Speaker 21: I don't think that any one of them is better 2713 01:56:19,880 --> 01:56:23,280 Speaker 21: than the other. I tell them that if. 2714 01:56:23,120 --> 01:56:25,800 Speaker 23: That right person does come along. 2715 01:56:25,600 --> 01:56:28,440 Speaker 21: And I know it, well, maybe the dynamic will change 2716 01:56:28,440 --> 01:56:30,840 Speaker 21: at that point, but currently that hasn't happened yet. 2717 01:56:31,240 --> 01:56:33,520 Speaker 1: There you go. You know what, It's just really funny 2718 01:56:33,520 --> 01:56:35,880 Speaker 1: how everyone's so quick to judge without thinking it through, 2719 01:56:35,920 --> 01:56:38,040 Speaker 1: and so just said of text, this says relationships with 2720 01:56:38,120 --> 01:56:40,880 Speaker 1: integrity don't need definition. I think that's really well put. 2721 01:56:41,040 --> 01:56:43,360 Speaker 13: Yes, I agree, I agree. 2722 01:56:43,640 --> 01:56:45,440 Speaker 1: We hear more and more from people who say they're 2723 01:56:45,440 --> 01:56:47,800 Speaker 1: married but they don't sleep in the same room or 2724 01:56:47,840 --> 01:56:50,520 Speaker 1: the same bed. They need their space, and they are 2725 01:56:50,560 --> 01:56:54,200 Speaker 1: saying that the relationship is working because they're not forcing 2726 01:56:54,600 --> 01:56:56,560 Speaker 1: the relationship that people are expecting them to have. 2727 01:56:56,840 --> 01:56:58,480 Speaker 4: My husband would like to do that just because of 2728 01:56:58,520 --> 01:56:59,080 Speaker 4: my snoring. 2729 01:56:59,080 --> 01:57:01,400 Speaker 1: There you go, okay, but you know what, that's that's 2730 01:57:01,520 --> 01:57:03,760 Speaker 1: one reason why people don't sleep together because it's snoring. 2731 01:57:03,920 --> 01:57:06,120 Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with that. Now, now let me ask 2732 01:57:06,160 --> 01:57:08,400 Speaker 1: you this, Danielle, what if what if Sheldon said, I 2733 01:57:08,480 --> 01:57:11,120 Speaker 1: want to propose something to you, why don't we have 2734 01:57:11,160 --> 01:57:13,480 Speaker 1: separate bedrooms? Would you what would you do? What would 2735 01:57:13,480 --> 01:57:13,760 Speaker 1: you say? 2736 01:57:13,920 --> 01:57:14,520 Speaker 25: I don't know. 2737 01:57:14,880 --> 01:57:17,280 Speaker 7: I get it because I know he doesn't get such 2738 01:57:17,280 --> 01:57:21,200 Speaker 7: a great night sleep because of my snoring, but I 2739 01:57:21,240 --> 01:57:23,280 Speaker 7: would miss him be next to me all night. 2740 01:57:23,440 --> 01:57:24,440 Speaker 1: You know I get that? 2741 01:57:24,640 --> 01:57:25,200 Speaker 4: Yeah? 2742 01:57:25,320 --> 01:57:27,800 Speaker 1: All right, Amy Beth, thanks for listening and thanks for 2743 01:57:27,800 --> 01:57:29,760 Speaker 1: for sharing your story. We appreciate it. 2744 01:57:30,040 --> 01:57:31,920 Speaker 21: Absolutely, have a great day everyone you too. 2745 01:57:32,040 --> 01:57:34,880 Speaker 1: Jordan online three a different way of looking at it, 2746 01:57:34,880 --> 01:57:38,240 Speaker 1: but this is real, Jordan uh says, too jealous for 2747 01:57:38,280 --> 01:57:40,680 Speaker 1: a casual, casual relationship? What do you mean by that? 2748 01:57:42,000 --> 01:57:45,040 Speaker 35: So I try not to think of myself as like 2749 01:57:45,240 --> 01:57:48,960 Speaker 35: territorial or anything like that, but I mean, I'm a leo, 2750 01:57:49,200 --> 01:57:56,400 Speaker 35: So what's mine is mine. 2751 01:57:53,640 --> 01:57:57,880 Speaker 13: To make myself up, so not to shoot my own horn, 2752 01:57:57,960 --> 01:58:00,960 Speaker 13: but like I'm enough, So if I'm not enough for 2753 01:58:01,040 --> 01:58:05,360 Speaker 13: us to just be like exclusively together, then I mean 2754 01:58:05,840 --> 01:58:08,800 Speaker 13: I support whoever wants to have a casual relationship. Just 2755 01:58:09,240 --> 01:58:11,040 Speaker 13: that's not my cup of tea and gotcha. 2756 01:58:11,440 --> 01:58:12,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, No, you're not alone. 2757 01:58:12,920 --> 01:58:14,680 Speaker 1: There's a lot of people know it's all or nothing 2758 01:58:14,960 --> 01:58:16,840 Speaker 1: like like I'm not. A lot of people are living 2759 01:58:16,880 --> 01:58:18,840 Speaker 1: a life and maybe you two, Jordan, Like, if I'm 2760 01:58:18,880 --> 01:58:22,160 Speaker 1: going to invest myself into you, you better invest yourself 2761 01:58:22,160 --> 01:58:25,280 Speaker 1: into me. And we are exclusively and if you know, 2762 01:58:25,360 --> 01:58:28,280 Speaker 1: if you have time, uh time away from work or whatever, 2763 01:58:28,560 --> 01:58:30,640 Speaker 1: I want you to put me first. I want to 2764 01:58:30,640 --> 01:58:32,640 Speaker 1: be that number one in your life and that that 2765 01:58:32,760 --> 01:58:35,120 Speaker 1: is that is not the definition of a casual relationship. 2766 01:58:35,160 --> 01:58:37,680 Speaker 1: I don't think. But that's cool, okay, Jordan. And it 2767 01:58:37,800 --> 01:58:39,440 Speaker 1: just know you're you know, you're not alone. A lot 2768 01:58:39,440 --> 01:58:40,440 Speaker 1: of people look at it like that. 2769 01:58:40,520 --> 01:58:42,360 Speaker 13: Absolutely not yet. 2770 01:58:42,240 --> 01:58:43,720 Speaker 1: Right, wait till you hear this next call. I'm kind 2771 01:58:43,720 --> 01:58:45,760 Speaker 1: of curious about line seven. We're about to go to Jordan. 2772 01:58:45,960 --> 01:58:49,800 Speaker 1: Thank you very much, Jessica is online seven not in 2773 01:58:49,840 --> 01:58:52,680 Speaker 1: a casual relationship. But you're saying you don't recommend it. 2774 01:58:54,480 --> 01:58:59,240 Speaker 22: No, I actually don't talk about it. So I've been 2775 01:58:59,280 --> 01:59:01,520 Speaker 22: in a relationship for a very long time and we 2776 01:59:01,640 --> 01:59:05,360 Speaker 22: transitioned into a casual relationship just because the guy felt 2777 01:59:05,400 --> 01:59:07,920 Speaker 22: like there was too much pressure going on. And I 2778 01:59:07,960 --> 01:59:11,120 Speaker 22: actually disagree. I feel that if you think that you 2779 01:59:11,160 --> 01:59:13,080 Speaker 22: can't be in a serious relationship and you want them 2780 01:59:13,120 --> 01:59:16,440 Speaker 22: to casual, it's because you want to be able to 2781 01:59:16,680 --> 01:59:20,400 Speaker 22: have freedom. And in regards to sleeping in separate beds 2782 01:59:20,520 --> 01:59:22,760 Speaker 22: or being in separate rooms, then just look for a room. 2783 01:59:24,480 --> 01:59:24,800 Speaker 24: Wow. 2784 01:59:24,920 --> 01:59:28,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're saying I feel so you're saying your relationship 2785 01:59:28,840 --> 01:59:31,520 Speaker 1: was that you were staying in the same bed and 2786 01:59:31,560 --> 01:59:33,440 Speaker 1: now you're not, and you're saying it was a mistake 2787 01:59:33,480 --> 01:59:34,480 Speaker 1: for you to go that direction. 2788 01:59:35,400 --> 01:59:39,560 Speaker 22: Correct, Because I feel like a couple, a real couple 2789 01:59:39,880 --> 01:59:43,680 Speaker 22: who build a good foundation, shouldn't have casual unless it's 2790 01:59:43,680 --> 01:59:47,000 Speaker 22: somebody who tried the marriage, has the kids, done it all, 2791 01:59:47,240 --> 01:59:50,280 Speaker 22: and just wants a companion, like a temporary companion, just 2792 01:59:50,280 --> 01:59:51,840 Speaker 22: to have somebody on quote. 2793 01:59:51,880 --> 01:59:53,880 Speaker 1: Wow, Okay, keep in mind, though you know there were 2794 01:59:53,920 --> 01:59:56,640 Speaker 1: different there may be different definitions of casual rolling around 2795 01:59:56,640 --> 01:59:58,920 Speaker 1: in people's minds right now. I'm not talking about a 2796 01:59:58,960 --> 02:00:01,520 Speaker 1: casual where it's so casual you can date other people 2797 02:00:01,600 --> 02:00:04,200 Speaker 1: or see other people. I'm just saying it's it's it's 2798 02:00:04,280 --> 02:00:06,360 Speaker 1: not the norm that we that we. 2799 02:00:06,400 --> 02:00:11,040 Speaker 22: Usually right, I agree, But I feel like casual allows 2800 02:00:11,040 --> 02:00:14,840 Speaker 22: the definition and allows the privilege for either party to 2801 02:00:15,280 --> 02:00:17,640 Speaker 22: do whatever they want, because that's a definition of casual. 2802 02:00:17,720 --> 02:00:20,920 Speaker 22: There's no worry. Nobody's required to check in on anybody, 2803 02:00:21,200 --> 02:00:24,080 Speaker 22: and you could have a serious, normal relationship and not 2804 02:00:24,200 --> 02:00:26,440 Speaker 22: call them every day and see where they are on 2805 02:00:26,520 --> 02:00:29,280 Speaker 22: an hourly basis. You can call them if you have 2806 02:00:29,400 --> 02:00:31,200 Speaker 22: something going on in your life where you're you know, 2807 02:00:31,480 --> 02:00:34,600 Speaker 22: employed all day and you're doing something actively, or your parents. 2808 02:00:34,800 --> 02:00:36,480 Speaker 22: You don't have to call the other party and be like, 2809 02:00:36,520 --> 02:00:39,520 Speaker 22: what are you doing every hour of the day. Serious 2810 02:00:39,520 --> 02:00:40,320 Speaker 22: relationship as well. 2811 02:00:40,520 --> 02:00:41,520 Speaker 1: I will tell you this. I don't know if you 2812 02:00:41,520 --> 02:00:43,760 Speaker 1: guys noticed, but several people have texted in saying, oh 2813 02:00:43,760 --> 02:00:46,840 Speaker 1: my god, what Elvis, You and Alex don't live together? No, 2814 02:00:47,560 --> 02:00:50,040 Speaker 1: we don't, not seven days a week. We are together 2815 02:00:50,080 --> 02:00:52,480 Speaker 1: three or four nights a week and even and there 2816 02:00:52,520 --> 02:00:55,280 Speaker 1: are a lot of people there that don't really understand that. 2817 02:00:55,600 --> 02:00:56,840 Speaker 1: I mean, what do you think of that? Do you 2818 02:00:56,840 --> 02:00:59,160 Speaker 1: think I can I can have a successful relationship and 2819 02:00:59,280 --> 02:01:00,920 Speaker 1: only be with them three or four nights a week. 2820 02:01:01,640 --> 02:01:04,440 Speaker 22: Absolutely, because there's a lot of marriages that are like 2821 02:01:04,480 --> 02:01:08,240 Speaker 22: that right now. There's women and men that work over night. 2822 02:01:08,360 --> 02:01:10,960 Speaker 22: They don't see their husband or their wife throughout the night. 2823 02:01:11,000 --> 02:01:14,360 Speaker 22: They see them as shift changing, and they probably share 2824 02:01:14,400 --> 02:01:17,440 Speaker 22: one or two three days of the week at home together, 2825 02:01:17,840 --> 02:01:20,200 Speaker 22: So that's as equivalent to you not being with your 2826 02:01:20,280 --> 02:01:21,960 Speaker 22: partner seven days of the week. 2827 02:01:22,600 --> 02:01:25,160 Speaker 1: There you go, Look, thank you for sharing. I appreciate it, 2828 02:01:25,440 --> 02:01:27,120 Speaker 1: and then you have a great day. Thank you for 2829 02:01:27,160 --> 02:01:30,120 Speaker 1: listening to us. Gandhi. You and your last boyfriend were 2830 02:01:30,720 --> 02:01:31,520 Speaker 1: you were casual? 2831 02:01:31,680 --> 02:01:31,920 Speaker 2: Right? 2832 02:01:32,160 --> 02:01:32,360 Speaker 25: Yeah? 2833 02:01:32,440 --> 02:01:34,440 Speaker 5: I wouldn't even have called him a boyfriend, the one 2834 02:01:34,440 --> 02:01:36,640 Speaker 5: that I was dating when I first moved here. I mean, 2835 02:01:36,680 --> 02:01:38,520 Speaker 5: it was very casual. We knew that there was an 2836 02:01:38,600 --> 02:01:40,360 Speaker 5: end to it. I lived here, he lived somewhere else, 2837 02:01:40,400 --> 02:01:42,600 Speaker 5: and he went off to a place. 2838 02:01:42,520 --> 02:01:44,840 Speaker 1: That's a little different then, I guess. I guess there's 2839 02:01:44,840 --> 02:01:47,200 Speaker 1: a whole spectrum of casual, the far left, the far 2840 02:01:47,320 --> 02:01:49,960 Speaker 1: right right. But your new guy you're with now, you 2841 02:01:50,000 --> 02:01:51,040 Speaker 1: don't consider casual. 2842 02:01:51,240 --> 02:01:54,440 Speaker 5: No, I would definitely say that serious. But everyone has 2843 02:01:54,480 --> 02:01:56,480 Speaker 5: their opinion on Oh my gosh, he lives in a 2844 02:01:56,480 --> 02:01:58,120 Speaker 5: different state. Are you guys going to live together? You 2845 02:01:58,160 --> 02:01:59,240 Speaker 5: have to he has to move. 2846 02:01:59,480 --> 02:01:59,520 Speaker 27: No. 2847 02:01:59,680 --> 02:02:02,960 Speaker 5: Why we're good, right, todays see each other a lot. 2848 02:02:03,080 --> 02:02:05,600 Speaker 5: We do so too much things. 2849 02:02:06,120 --> 02:02:08,640 Speaker 9: Different things work for different people. Some tacle if they 2850 02:02:08,640 --> 02:02:11,240 Speaker 9: were together all the time, it would make it worse. 2851 02:02:11,360 --> 02:02:12,400 Speaker 9: It's almost better that you have. 2852 02:02:12,600 --> 02:02:14,480 Speaker 2: I am that purple days here and offer right. 2853 02:02:14,520 --> 02:02:16,280 Speaker 5: I don't like twenty four to seven. I feel like 2854 02:02:16,360 --> 02:02:18,800 Speaker 5: living with my last boyfriend ruined our relationships. So I 2855 02:02:18,840 --> 02:02:20,120 Speaker 5: don't know that I want to do that again. 2856 02:02:20,240 --> 02:02:22,480 Speaker 1: So you've had to talk with your current boyfriend and 2857 02:02:22,520 --> 02:02:25,560 Speaker 1: you guys understand that you are just with each other. Yep, 2858 02:02:26,040 --> 02:02:28,600 Speaker 1: that's great, and the thing is here and I know this. 2859 02:02:29,200 --> 02:02:32,160 Speaker 1: I can be with Alex for two weeks every night 2860 02:02:32,240 --> 02:02:34,240 Speaker 1: from on vacation and we get along fine. So I'm like, okay, 2861 02:02:34,240 --> 02:02:36,800 Speaker 1: I think we could do this. Yeah, yeah, okay, il 2862 02:02:36,880 --> 02:02:40,600 Speaker 1: Mariam Mother Knows Death. 2863 02:02:41,440 --> 02:02:44,160 Speaker 49: Hey, it's popall, just assistant Nicole and Jemmy and I'm 2864 02:02:44,160 --> 02:02:47,320 Speaker 49: her daughter, Maria Q Kane. 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