WEBVTT - More Conversations About Body Counts 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:04.360 Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:07.520 Sillers podcast with your host not funk that with your 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:17.240 low classes, Malone, Why are you scared to talk about 0:00:17.280 --> 0:00:21.919 body counts? Not that scared. I'm not screwed scared. It's 0:00:21.960 --> 0:00:26.120 just I always know it's a double standard, that bullshit. 0:00:26.440 --> 0:00:29.240 Basically know it's gonna be some bullshit come out. Shouldn't 0:00:29.240 --> 0:00:31.160 it be a double standard when it comes to things? 0:00:31.360 --> 0:00:33.160 You think we should always be the same. You think 0:00:34.000 --> 0:00:36.000 if you say, like, let's say a man, I'm just 0:00:36.159 --> 0:00:39.440 asking a question, I'm listening for man. So are you 0:00:39.560 --> 0:00:43.680 saying there shouldn't be double standards? You're saying so like 0:00:43.760 --> 0:00:45.680 if a woman takes care of a man, and a 0:00:45.760 --> 0:00:49.040 man is at home and he's cooking and cleaning, we 0:00:49.040 --> 0:00:51.239 should look at him as a success to like we 0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:56.040 were looking. That's what. That's not a double standard. I'm 0:00:56.040 --> 0:00:59.880 just saying, what's wrong with having a guy this at 0:01:00.040 --> 0:01:04.360 home being a stay at home? That's nothing wrong. He 0:01:04.400 --> 0:01:05.920 just wanted to know who You still feel that that's 0:01:06.400 --> 0:01:10.680 look at him differently? Yes, yes she would. She's not 0:01:10.720 --> 0:01:13.600 gonna tell the truth, but yes you would see the 0:01:13.640 --> 0:01:16.200 way out. You would look at your man differently, or 0:01:16.240 --> 0:01:18.160 you would look at the other like looking from the 0:01:18.200 --> 0:01:20.759 outside of someone's relationship different, you look at your man 0:01:20.840 --> 0:01:24.560 different If you had to take care of you and 0:01:24.600 --> 0:01:31.039 he just cooked and clip the house clean. You just 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:32.880 paid all the bills, you got the car, you got 0:01:32.880 --> 0:01:35.520 the oil change done. No, I don't want to do 0:01:35.600 --> 0:01:38.360 none of that. If that's happening, then there had to 0:01:38.400 --> 0:01:43.319 be some type of conversation like Okay, I'm doing you 0:01:43.319 --> 0:01:45.400 know what I'm saying, Like but no, not taking here 0:01:45.400 --> 0:01:49.200 and no like but like bums, like oh yeah, I'm 0:01:49.240 --> 0:01:51.440 just got to be a bump if he does the 0:01:51.520 --> 0:01:55.400 same thing the way you were making it, like, oh, 0:01:55.440 --> 0:01:58.600 he's just cooking clean. Those are jobs. Those are important 0:01:58.640 --> 0:02:02.640 things at home. Those are very important things. I agree. 0:02:02.680 --> 0:02:07.919 I never would. I would never disrespect a woman's job, 0:02:08.480 --> 0:02:10.240 you know, I mean as a housewife. I don't think 0:02:10.280 --> 0:02:13.240 that's an easy job. I totally disagree with this whole 0:02:13.280 --> 0:02:16.240 sentiment that is nothing. There's no big deal that ship 0:02:16.360 --> 0:02:19.600 make That ship is some work. No, it's definitely work. 0:02:19.760 --> 0:02:23.799 But I wouldn't look. I just wouldn't prefer that. I'm 0:02:23.840 --> 0:02:26.320 not gonna like disrespect him or anything or talk to 0:02:26.360 --> 0:02:29.960 him or belittle him because if he's no, I am 0:02:30.000 --> 0:02:32.000 not going to belittle him because if I'm with him, 0:02:32.000 --> 0:02:37.080 why why am I with him? That? No? Why not? 0:02:37.480 --> 0:02:39.640 Because that's not what I want. So then back to 0:02:39.680 --> 0:02:42.920 the double standards of body count? Okay, what about it? 0:02:43.520 --> 0:02:45.440 You don't think it should be a woman should be 0:02:45.480 --> 0:02:48.920 a lot more responsible for her body because her body contributes, 0:02:49.520 --> 0:02:51.880 should be responsible for their body? Why does it? Why 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:55.680 does it? Why is it that a man count? You 0:02:55.720 --> 0:02:59.280 can't pick the double standards when they're beneficial. You would 0:02:59.280 --> 0:03:02.560 have to literally go across the board who said those rules? 0:03:02.639 --> 0:03:05.200 You know, I'm just saying, why would you not if 0:03:05.200 --> 0:03:06.800 you want fairness? I know you don't want to know 0:03:06.840 --> 0:03:10.400 you want to be fair. I do want to be fair, 0:03:10.520 --> 0:03:13.079 but I just feel like at that point, everybody should. 0:03:13.360 --> 0:03:15.800 You should always respect your body where whether you are 0:03:15.840 --> 0:03:18.799 a man or a woman. But the respect of a 0:03:18.880 --> 0:03:22.840 body is different, right, like men don't. Man's body are 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:25.560 not as valuable as women. Like you can't develop a 0:03:25.639 --> 0:03:29.160 child right inside of a man's body. You can't nourish 0:03:29.200 --> 0:03:31.400 a child inside of a man's body. So you have 0:03:31.480 --> 0:03:34.520 to be a lot more protective over your body than 0:03:34.560 --> 0:03:38.080 I would have mined. Is that fair, especially when it 0:03:38.120 --> 0:03:40.760 comes to the matters of sex and things like that. 0:03:40.840 --> 0:03:45.520 Your body is a lot more temperamental and like dangerous. 0:03:45.560 --> 0:03:47.000 You know, I'm saying, that's a good ship that could 0:03:47.000 --> 0:03:51.120 happen with your body, like it's more valuable in society. Okay, 0:03:51.240 --> 0:03:56.200 I can understand that one. But like, if you needed 0:03:56.240 --> 0:04:00.480 to repopulate the earth, right, would you rather have ten 0:04:00.600 --> 0:04:02.920 men and one women or would you either have one 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:07.600 man and ten women? Damn? You know why you would 0:04:07.600 --> 0:04:09.880 have to have ten, williament because their bodies are more 0:04:10.040 --> 0:04:13.320 valuable at that extreme when you have them in mass 0:04:14.240 --> 0:04:17.040 you can make tons of children with ten women. If 0:04:17.080 --> 0:04:19.840 you have ten men and one woman, it's gonna take 0:04:19.839 --> 0:04:22.920 a long time, and it's gonna be some gay ship 0:04:22.960 --> 0:04:32.479 going on, gonna be super empty v gm as happening. Man. 0:04:33.120 --> 0:04:35.760 But I do think that. I mean, as a woman, 0:04:36.920 --> 0:04:40.159 I wouldn't want to have like a stupid body count 0:04:40.320 --> 0:04:45.480 no ship like that. But I also feel like some 0:04:45.520 --> 0:04:50.159 women they're okay with that. I don't think no woman 0:04:50.279 --> 0:04:53.880 is okay with it because nobody's proud of it. So 0:04:53.960 --> 0:04:56.880 you don't think like porn stars are proud of their No, 0:04:57.040 --> 0:05:00.320 they really talk about being married. They talk about being 0:05:00.400 --> 0:05:04.839 respectable women stars. I'm not saying they aren't. I'm saying 0:05:05.000 --> 0:05:08.479 they talk about being respectable women. That's why they want 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:12.040 to eventually get married. Why would you be taking all 0:05:12.080 --> 0:05:15.720 these dicks if you want to get married? Feel me 0:05:15.880 --> 0:05:18.800 so again, that's that that lack of accountability. I'm not 0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:22.520 knocking a porn star. I just I'm just saying they're 0:05:22.560 --> 0:05:24.560 still in the line where they're getting all the penis 0:05:24.640 --> 0:05:27.040 they want and they still be dreaming of being married. 0:05:29.279 --> 0:05:32.160 Like porn stars usually ain't. Like the belief is that 0:05:32.240 --> 0:05:36.600 porn stars are like, uh, freaky or like they're super promiscuous. 0:05:36.680 --> 0:05:39.280 It's not true. Most porn stars I've ever met, what 0:05:39.320 --> 0:05:42.920 I'm saying, are not like that. They usually pretty much 0:05:42.920 --> 0:05:45.920 be cool women. They just that's what they do. They 0:05:45.960 --> 0:05:47.840 have found the space in their mind where they can 0:05:47.920 --> 0:05:52.560 operate and just have sex as a profession. I don't 0:05:52.560 --> 0:05:56.760 mean they like fucking sound crazy right, sound like you 0:05:56.880 --> 0:05:59.680 like fucking right. But people think that were about strippers too. 0:05:59.720 --> 0:06:01.320 They but oh they got to be like they like 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:04.600 the funk was selling the dream. So a porn star, 0:06:05.080 --> 0:06:08.080 the most of the porn stars I know considering themselves actresses, 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:14.960 not prostitutes. Right. I can definitely agree with the part 0:06:15.000 --> 0:06:19.720 of like, um, liking to fuck, because when I was younger, 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:23.480 I would have sex, but it wasn't because I liked 0:06:22.960 --> 0:06:26.120 you to make somebody else happy. I just yeah, I 0:06:26.160 --> 0:06:29.440 was just having tex And I told you I had 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:32.040 sex because everybody else was having sex. I didn't want 0:06:32.080 --> 0:06:35.480 to have sex. Then I started enjoying sex in my thirties. 0:06:35.960 --> 0:06:38.320 That's when I wasn't like I could agree with that. 0:06:38.360 --> 0:06:40.360 I didn't really enjoy sex that I was in my 0:06:40.520 --> 0:06:44.359 mia thirties. Sex was like a horrible experience for me 0:06:44.440 --> 0:06:48.359 for a long time. Really, man. I literally was with 0:06:48.440 --> 0:06:51.120 a girl that I trusted and she gave me clamidia 0:06:51.279 --> 0:06:53.800 when I was twenty. So I don't have sex without 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:57.200 a condom probably for like twelve years. Right, So I 0:06:57.240 --> 0:06:59.760 pretty much ruined everything I thought about sex for a 0:06:59.760 --> 0:07:04.239 long time. Yeah, because it's like I trusted the person, 0:07:05.320 --> 0:07:09.320 So that was tough. But um, this is no Sillings 0:07:10.160 --> 0:07:16.880 gel bread red in the spot on what we do 0:07:17.880 --> 0:07:21.560 back to these body camps that you keep trying to avoid. 0:07:22.400 --> 0:07:28.400 Nobody's awaiting in um. If a woman is thirty four 0:07:29.400 --> 0:07:34.320 and she started having sex at fourteen? How many men 0:07:34.600 --> 0:07:37.640 is too many penises? How many penises is too many 0:07:37.640 --> 0:07:42.040 penises from a woman's perspective. And I know, obviously y'all 0:07:42.080 --> 0:07:44.640 have to keepe and put on and act like you know, 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:46.640 you have to speak up for women. I think you'll 0:07:46.680 --> 0:07:48.520 have some kind of silent agreement to where y'all all 0:07:48.520 --> 0:07:51.440 alive for each other. But I would prefer if you 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:54.360 were being honest, but honestly, how could you calculate how 0:07:54.400 --> 0:07:57.560 many dicks someone should have? Like I don't know, like 0:07:57.760 --> 0:08:01.000 you're saying from fourteen? I mean, what's a lot of penises? 0:08:01.400 --> 0:08:03.400 From fourteen to thirty four? Have you been working for 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:07.520 twenty years? What's a lot of penises? Damn? Well, as 0:08:07.560 --> 0:08:09.640 a woman, you'll be like, damn, that's a lot of penises. 0:08:12.280 --> 0:08:16.160 I just saw what just saw something word woman said 0:08:16.200 --> 0:08:21.840 if you had more than five that you know he 0:08:21.960 --> 0:08:24.080 was out there? But five over how much time? Though? 0:08:25.320 --> 0:08:34.599 Because that matter? Five? Maybe like twenty five penis is 0:08:35.480 --> 0:08:40.800 penis is from sixth Have you been for twenty years? 0:08:40.840 --> 0:08:44.200 Twenty five penises is a fair amount of penises to have? 0:08:44.520 --> 0:08:54.120 Damn penis and dangerous topic. You don't listen as a 0:08:54.200 --> 0:08:57.880 penis and a quarter of years, so what could happen 0:08:58.000 --> 0:09:00.000 is right? Is right? You could be in a relation 0:09:00.040 --> 0:09:03.160 lation two years and that's one opinions. But when you 0:09:03.160 --> 0:09:06.600 get free again, you go catch up for lost time. 0:09:06.679 --> 0:09:08.800 So you get there four dudes that you thought could 0:09:08.800 --> 0:09:10.960 have been something in a new dude and then you 0:09:11.040 --> 0:09:12.720 kind of slow down because you got that four foot 0:09:12.760 --> 0:09:15.320 in and you're like, damn, this is a lot. But 0:09:15.360 --> 0:09:19.120 I'm not are you? But I'm not thinking about like 0:09:19.160 --> 0:09:21.040 when I'm having like when I decided to have sex 0:09:21.080 --> 0:09:24.120 with him, Man, I'm not saying, oh, funk, I can't 0:09:24.160 --> 0:09:27.840 fuck him because my body count, Like I'm not thinking that, 0:09:27.920 --> 0:09:30.839 Like you don't ever think sometimes that maybe you're being 0:09:30.880 --> 0:09:35.320 a bit easy? No, I don't. I don't think like okay, 0:09:35.559 --> 0:09:41.800 Like I've had situations where I'm like, I'm like, fun, 0:09:43.160 --> 0:09:46.600 why that The only difference is I'm telling you ahead 0:09:46.600 --> 0:09:48.320 of time to think that you're saying you wait to 0:09:48.320 --> 0:09:50.480 after you get the PI and raise the body count. 0:09:50.520 --> 0:09:53.679 Now that's just what happened. But then I got smarter 0:09:53.840 --> 0:09:57.520 and I'm like, okay, bitch, you're tripping, Like if you 0:09:57.559 --> 0:10:01.680 didn't want to like Kim, why did you fuck him, 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:06.480 because sometimes it be investigative journalism. You're investigating and you're like, 0:10:06.520 --> 0:10:09.920 well maybe it could be something let me see, or 0:10:09.920 --> 0:10:11.760 it could be that you just curious, you just wanted 0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:14.959 to know. Because no, because typically if I'm gonna have 0:10:15.040 --> 0:10:19.560 sex sex with you, we're gonna talk like your mind 0:10:19.720 --> 0:10:22.720 makes me want to have sex with you more so so, 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:28.080 but my whole thing is like okay, probably like a 0:10:28.120 --> 0:10:30.120 couple of times, that's where I'm like, damn, why did 0:10:30.160 --> 0:10:32.800 I Why did I suck him? Like but I'm not 0:10:32.880 --> 0:10:36.440 thinking like, oh, well, now I sucked him. I can't 0:10:36.440 --> 0:10:39.360 go have sex or suck him because they him don't 0:10:39.360 --> 0:10:41.760 have too many bodies, Like you never felt slutty at 0:10:41.760 --> 0:10:45.560 the sex. That's a lie. Slutty after sex, slutty after sex, 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:52.080 like you slept with somebody and then how everything came Yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:10:52.080 --> 0:10:57.319 I had a Yeah, I had really take it easy 0:10:57.600 --> 0:11:00.760 for me because this should not be happening like this. 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:06.040 That never happens to y'all. You never feel sl Have 0:11:06.120 --> 0:11:09.439 you ever slept with a dude and once it was over, 0:11:09.640 --> 0:11:13.640 like he was like not if it was bad or nothing, 0:11:13.640 --> 0:11:15.679 but you just thought about the person. You really didn't 0:11:15.679 --> 0:11:19.240 funk with the person enough, and now you're kind of like, 0:11:19.320 --> 0:11:22.000 what the yeah, like what the hell. That's why I'll 0:11:22.040 --> 0:11:24.320 be saying sex it's such a powerful weapon that we 0:11:24.480 --> 0:11:27.200 try to reduce, damn like abortions, Like we try to 0:11:27.240 --> 0:11:30.360 make abortions a woman's body discussion, when it really is 0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:33.560 how we deal with unborn children who haven't came out 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:37.960 the womb. So we reduced the conversation now, right, so 0:11:38.000 --> 0:11:41.320 we could make it more tolerable. Really, But that's the 0:11:41.360 --> 0:11:43.840 point of having it at the highest level is so 0:11:43.920 --> 0:11:47.440 you could actually make better decisions. If you actually really 0:11:47.640 --> 0:11:50.480 focus on how responsible it is to have sex, or 0:11:50.520 --> 0:11:53.560 to get pregnant or have sex in general, it becomes 0:11:53.559 --> 0:11:56.000 a much more quality decision you make. But if you 0:11:56.080 --> 0:11:59.120 keep treating it like it's nothing, that's why we always 0:11:59.160 --> 0:12:01.240 feel like that. And I'm not gonna say always, but 0:12:01.280 --> 0:12:03.880 I felt like that a lot of times where I 0:12:03.960 --> 0:12:07.080 was like, damn, man, I would never funk with this person, 0:12:07.320 --> 0:12:11.040 I would never be with this person like I've with 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:14.200 girls to where yeah, and it's like so at that point, 0:12:14.200 --> 0:12:17.160 what am I really sucking you for? Like what if 0:12:17.200 --> 0:12:19.600 you got pregnant? But what if this condom bust then 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:21.800 and then I got you pregnant. Then I'm stuck with 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:24.080 somebody I would never funk with. And I think that's 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:27.760 what's happening. More times than not, feel me two people 0:12:28.559 --> 0:12:33.920 they fucking people they would never be with. I haven't. 0:12:35.200 --> 0:12:37.680 I've had that a couple and it's worse for gods. 0:12:37.720 --> 0:12:40.839 And I think girls are a little bit more optimistic 0:12:40.920 --> 0:12:46.920 about love and relationships versus gods. Gods you pretty much no, 0:12:48.040 --> 0:12:50.120 you're not working with her like that. I mean, you 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:54.800 just wanted something that you got. However, but more times 0:12:54.800 --> 0:12:56.800 than not, I slept with somebody I knew for sure 0:12:56.840 --> 0:12:59.439 I would never be with. I'm talking about nine out 0:12:59.440 --> 0:13:03.840 of ten girls. Damn yeh, that's not I can say 0:13:03.840 --> 0:13:06.720 that's happened to me at least three times. At least 0:13:06.760 --> 0:13:11.520 three times it was like like whoa, yeah, never we 0:13:11.880 --> 0:13:14.240 touch this ever again? What the hell was I thinking? 0:13:14.400 --> 0:13:17.840 I think I was just more naive and I would 0:13:18.200 --> 0:13:22.560 just really be like the funk, like I can't be 0:13:22.760 --> 0:13:26.200 this naive, like I have to like you still and 0:13:26.200 --> 0:13:29.880 being naive after and that ship sucked me up, Like 0:13:30.880 --> 0:13:34.320 what body count matters? Right, Because that's what makes it 0:13:34.360 --> 0:13:37.400 hard when you struggle. When you finally find somebody worthy 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:41.160 of pursuing a relationship, you start comparing things that you 0:13:41.160 --> 0:13:45.320 shouldn't compare. You start referencing things you shouldn't reference because 0:13:45.360 --> 0:13:47.920 every journey is individual. You feel me when it comes 0:13:47.960 --> 0:13:52.000 to like a real relationship, like it becomes really independent. 0:13:53.240 --> 0:13:56.360 So you said over twenty years is probably and you 0:13:56.400 --> 0:13:58.720 now you're thinking about you like, that's not that many dicks, 0:13:59.280 --> 0:14:02.520 right when you really do you think about dicks over 0:14:02.559 --> 0:14:05.920 twenty years, because that's not that many dicks. That's a 0:14:05.960 --> 0:14:09.000 dick in a quarter a year. She got a little 0:14:09.040 --> 0:14:14.199 bit of something that's a dick in a quarter a year, 0:14:14.280 --> 0:14:17.240 and you think about it. So really take your time 0:14:17.280 --> 0:14:19.840 and think about twenty years what would be a lot 0:14:19.880 --> 0:14:22.440 of dicks? And the difference between how we see it 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:25.080 and how y'all said it's gonna be night and day, 0:14:25.320 --> 0:14:27.520 you know, versus me. I don't see it that way 0:14:27.560 --> 0:14:29.120 because I'll be thinking that should I'd be like, oh, 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:32.400 she niggas she could have been a relationship every year. 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:36.120 I don't think nobody going a year without penis Like 0:14:36.280 --> 0:14:38.000 I think I have to make conscious efforts to do 0:14:38.000 --> 0:14:44.240 that about Like that's not true. Some people can go 0:14:45.600 --> 0:14:47.880 he said, a conscious effort. So that was something where 0:14:47.880 --> 0:14:50.960 it was like, Okay, I'm not. I'm not because you 0:14:51.040 --> 0:14:54.240 had a bad situation that happened. That usually makes you not. Yeah, 0:14:54.240 --> 0:14:56.000 that's true because when I when I was like, you 0:14:56.000 --> 0:14:58.680 know what this ship it was, I didn't have sex 0:14:58.680 --> 0:15:04.400 for like years, almost two years. Oh god. She was 0:15:04.440 --> 0:15:05.920 the worst. She was like, you just need to get 0:15:05.960 --> 0:15:11.560 you penis. I was a snappy. The first year was okay. 0:15:11.600 --> 0:15:14.239 The second year I was just like, hi, hain't everybody 0:15:15.400 --> 0:15:20.160 everybody everybody, But like you said, it was a decision. 0:15:21.440 --> 0:15:25.160 It happened because damn, some sh it happened. It was 0:15:25.200 --> 0:15:28.440 just not traumatizing, like where I was just like damn, 0:15:28.480 --> 0:15:31.880 like I need to rethink who are thinking. So it 0:15:32.000 --> 0:15:35.080 was just a lot of constant, I want to say, 0:15:35.120 --> 0:15:38.840 like cheating. But then it turned into where it was 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:43.680 like not it was like verbally like abusive, you know 0:15:43.720 --> 0:15:46.880 what I mean, where I would start getting people I'm 0:15:46.920 --> 0:15:49.200 calling my name, calling me out my name and just 0:15:49.320 --> 0:15:51.440 it was a lot of ship and I just I'm 0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:54.320 just like what what the women really go through a 0:15:54.360 --> 0:15:57.600 lot of relationships. I think men go through stuff, but 0:15:57.680 --> 0:16:03.440 it's nothing like women because men women are like always 0:16:03.480 --> 0:16:05.800 a run a crocier ride. You'll never find a woman 0:16:05.840 --> 0:16:08.480 as a fair as will most likely ever in life. 0:16:09.000 --> 0:16:10.640 Women have to figure out how the way to make 0:16:10.680 --> 0:16:13.320 it exciting. They figured, you're gonna make a problem. It's 0:16:13.360 --> 0:16:15.680 just kind of what you'll do as human beings. I 0:16:15.720 --> 0:16:17.400 can't make a problem with your eye last years. You 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:19.560 make a problem with your skin. You make a problem 0:16:19.600 --> 0:16:21.600 with your eyebrows, I'll make a problem with you. It's 0:16:21.640 --> 0:16:23.960 what y'all do, Like, y'all have to find a problem. 0:16:24.000 --> 0:16:27.920 It's almost unbelievably weird for somebody as incredible as women 0:16:28.360 --> 0:16:31.520 to find things that is always wrong with them, Like 0:16:31.600 --> 0:16:33.840 y'all just do that ship great, y'all will find some 0:16:33.880 --> 0:16:40.160 ship that's fucked up, Like but my ears, you know 0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:42.360 what I'm saying, And then motherfucker's be wearing weeds covering 0:16:42.360 --> 0:16:45.200 their ears. You just watch women go through all kinds 0:16:45.240 --> 0:16:48.200 of ships. You get what I'm saying, to like deal 0:16:48.240 --> 0:16:49.840 with ship, like I gotta wear a gird or I 0:16:49.840 --> 0:16:52.280 gotta wear a way trainer. I gotta wear heels to 0:16:52.320 --> 0:16:54.920 get my cusps. So I gotta like y'all just fuck 0:16:55.000 --> 0:16:58.200 yourself up. So crazy. But that society though, like that 0:16:58.240 --> 0:17:00.840 makes you makes you feel you need to be a 0:17:00.880 --> 0:17:04.080 certain way, like if you if you're happy with yourself, 0:17:04.160 --> 0:17:06.359 like none of that's just gonna matter, Like you're gonna 0:17:06.480 --> 0:17:09.840 carry yourself the way you want. No woman is happy 0:17:09.119 --> 0:17:14.480 with it's virtually usible. But like men will be happy. 0:17:14.920 --> 0:17:17.560 Men are happy. There was something men are happy. No, 0:17:17.680 --> 0:17:20.000 they're not. A lot of men are really happy with you. 0:17:21.520 --> 0:17:24.040 I'm telling you. Niggas will look at themselves like they 0:17:24.040 --> 0:17:27.800 are like the crackers said the cat's pajamas. They'd be like, 0:17:27.880 --> 0:17:31.000 I am awesome. Niggas really think they're awesome because on everything, 0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:34.000 niggas could be crazy looking, fat and all that be 0:17:34.080 --> 0:17:36.240 Like when I get bitches, as long as you get bitches, 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:39.680 it's not that bad, Like you have to feel special 0:17:39.920 --> 0:17:42.040 and y'all don't feel that way. Like if guys are 0:17:42.080 --> 0:17:44.320 attracted to you still be like, I don't know, I 0:17:44.320 --> 0:17:48.240 don't like this. Men. Longest you could tell the nigga anything, 0:17:48.560 --> 0:17:50.159 you'd be like, Nigga, you ain't got no team. They 0:17:50.200 --> 0:17:55.320 gotta get bitches. Nigga your hairline, they gotta get bitches, 0:17:56.760 --> 0:18:00.480 Like nigga, they are validated in life That's why the 0:18:00.520 --> 0:18:03.760 body count conversation is unique for both of us. We 0:18:03.960 --> 0:18:07.320 pride ourselves off how many women we can sleep with. 0:18:08.480 --> 0:18:11.000 That is the The nigga who can get the most 0:18:11.040 --> 0:18:15.199 women for me is the guy he's king like for 0:18:15.400 --> 0:18:18.760 years right oh at the Playboy mat his old ass 0:18:18.760 --> 0:18:20.760 had on him to young girls. For me, he was 0:18:20.800 --> 0:18:23.960 the man every nigga wanted to be him. Don't nobody 0:18:24.000 --> 0:18:25.879 want to be Barack Obama? Don't know, man want to 0:18:25.880 --> 0:18:29.439 be broder? You've got a wife. Niggas do not celebrate wives. 0:18:29.720 --> 0:18:32.680 They're trying to, like, you know, make that a thing now, 0:18:32.800 --> 0:18:37.879 but please, nobody want to be Everybody want to be 0:18:38.240 --> 0:18:41.600 Hugh Hefning. But don't nobody want to be Superherd. Everybody 0:18:41.600 --> 0:18:45.639 want to be Michelle Obama. From a woman's perspective, you 0:18:45.640 --> 0:18:47.520 don't want to be Superherd. I don't know how many 0:18:47.560 --> 0:18:50.600 dicks you want to suck. I don't think you really 0:18:50.640 --> 0:18:52.320 be like I want to suck all these rappers dicks 0:18:52.760 --> 0:18:54.840 to write a book about it. Definitely don't want to 0:18:54.880 --> 0:19:00.480 do that. What you really want to be? I'm no, 0:19:02.359 --> 0:19:04.960 you definitely don't want to be super Head. I mean, 0:19:05.080 --> 0:19:08.080 you don't be known for super as being super Head. 0:19:08.320 --> 0:19:10.840 You don't want to That's my point. Even though that's 0:19:10.880 --> 0:19:14.919 literally a compliment about her sexual escapades and talents, you 0:19:15.040 --> 0:19:18.159 still don't pride yourself of wanting to be hurt. You 0:19:18.200 --> 0:19:20.240 may want to suck opinions like her Black I want 0:19:20.240 --> 0:19:22.320 to be that good at head, but you don't want 0:19:22.400 --> 0:19:25.400 all the rappers to know it, but all of them. 0:19:25.440 --> 0:19:30.240 Maybe you know one or two somebody, But you don't 0:19:30.240 --> 0:19:34.679 want to definitely write a book and let everybody but 0:19:34.880 --> 0:19:37.400 every nigga. There is no nigger that would turn down 0:19:37.440 --> 0:19:41.119 being Hugh Heffner. We thank you Heffner, and fu everybody 0:19:41.200 --> 0:19:44.560 in the Playboy mansion. You have eighty seven years old. 0:19:44.800 --> 0:19:48.600 Bitches seventeen Nicky still didn't say nothing. He's sucking thirty 0:19:48.640 --> 0:19:55.119 seven to seven team. That's crazy. Yeah, so body counts 0:19:55.119 --> 0:19:58.280 it is. It's not a double standards. Standards are separate 0:19:58.400 --> 0:20:01.160 based off of genders. Excuse your sex. That's just life. 0:20:01.800 --> 0:20:04.359 Like if if if I take care of you right 0:20:04.800 --> 0:20:08.000 you and you take care of the home, we both 0:20:08.040 --> 0:20:11.840 are champions and our respective lifestyles and our respective fields. 0:20:12.359 --> 0:20:14.879 But if it's the exact opposite, I'm frowned upon. In 0:20:14.880 --> 0:20:21.359 the community straight frowned upon. If I'm if I'm waiting 0:20:21.359 --> 0:20:22.600 on you to rub your feet when you get home, 0:20:22.640 --> 0:20:24.840 I'm getting my girl dinner ready. I tell my nigga 0:20:24.880 --> 0:20:26.320 that you think you're gonna be like, oh, that's cool. 0:20:27.240 --> 0:20:30.760 I don't know. I'm calling you Mrmorrow. If you came 0:20:30.800 --> 0:20:33.199 and told Britt right now, I'm just kidding. If you're 0:20:33.200 --> 0:20:36.720 told Red So the crazy part is right, I believe 0:20:36.800 --> 0:20:40.920 there is a small part because that's missing. When y'all 0:20:40.960 --> 0:20:43.280 talk to us about how y'all talk about sex. I 0:20:43.320 --> 0:20:46.120 think y'all lied to us to some degree. Y'all are 0:20:46.119 --> 0:20:48.720 a little bit more liberal than you lead on to us. 0:20:49.359 --> 0:20:52.040 What do you mean when we talk about sex? Like 0:20:52.160 --> 0:20:55.399 to me, you're not gonna tell me all the guys 0:20:55.400 --> 0:20:58.840 you slept with, but you may tell Britt more of 0:20:58.880 --> 0:21:03.520 the guys you slept with. Well, I mean, are we 0:21:03.880 --> 0:21:05.680 Why am I telling you any guy that I said? 0:21:05.800 --> 0:21:09.119 Are we having that conversation? Then? Yeah? I mean you're 0:21:09.160 --> 0:21:13.040 gonna run down to this. Would you give you're a 0:21:13.040 --> 0:21:15.080 guy a body county like, oh, this is the number 0:21:15.119 --> 0:21:22.720 on man? If he asked you, if he asked the truth? Yeah, really, 0:21:23.840 --> 0:21:34.680 you wouldn't listen. I don't give a funk if you fucked. 0:21:34.840 --> 0:21:39.159 I know how men think if you fucked more if 0:21:39.200 --> 0:21:42.439 they just don't there anyway, Okay, they just want to 0:21:42.440 --> 0:21:45.199 think about their penis entering you. They don't want to know. 0:21:45.359 --> 0:21:47.080 I don't ask you. I don't care if you had 0:21:47.119 --> 0:21:51.919 sex with one or sixty dicks. They only want to 0:21:51.960 --> 0:21:55.640 know how their dick feels. They don't want to know 0:21:55.760 --> 0:21:58.520 about none of that. But they asked if they know 0:21:58.760 --> 0:22:02.119 I've never I've never had I've never had a man 0:22:02.200 --> 0:22:05.119 asked me that I'm not courageous enough. No, it's not 0:22:05.160 --> 0:22:07.800 even I mean if he sit down and talking about 0:22:08.680 --> 0:22:10.159 if you really want to sit on and talk about it. 0:22:10.160 --> 0:22:12.680 But I'm gonna be very fucking honest with you. I've 0:22:12.720 --> 0:22:18.720 never had a man says here, yeah, right down, everybody 0:22:18.720 --> 0:22:21.199 you have sex with, because you know why, because we 0:22:21.280 --> 0:22:23.720 don't want to think of the worst fittings in the world. 0:22:24.000 --> 0:22:27.000 The worst fittings in the world is when you walk 0:22:27.040 --> 0:22:29.040 in the room with somebody and you know this person 0:22:29.119 --> 0:22:34.879 slept with your girl. Yeah, like immediately pigs out your ego, 0:22:35.000 --> 0:22:38.439 Like your ego lowers definitely don't matter. She's it's your 0:22:38.480 --> 0:22:44.080 worst is she's your wife. Yeah, this nigga leftover. He 0:22:44.240 --> 0:22:48.119 knocked her down, but someone is and he walks with 0:22:48.160 --> 0:22:51.240 his shoulders a little broader. Yeah, I had that nigger wife. 0:22:51.359 --> 0:22:54.359 But this is the thing, though, you're you're somebody's like, 0:22:54.400 --> 0:22:56.720 what do you mean, Like you've had an ex. She's 0:22:56.760 --> 0:23:01.520 had an ex, like everybody is. Then with someone people 0:23:01.600 --> 0:23:05.080 if you're walking in the same room, there's you're that 0:23:05.160 --> 0:23:09.800 circle or there's some type of something where you're gonna bump. Logically, 0:23:09.880 --> 0:23:12.159 the reason I'm having this conversation which I had this 0:23:12.200 --> 0:23:15.320 conversation with Pete, and I couldn't figure out what bothers 0:23:15.400 --> 0:23:20.720 me the most about it. Right, um, Like now some guys, 0:23:20.760 --> 0:23:23.000