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Hey Grace, 11 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome to the program. How are you? 12 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 2: Good morning? I'm okay. 13 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:38,479 Speaker 1: What's going on with this guy? Xavier? I got to 14 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:40,520 Speaker 1: know everything? How did you meet? Tell us about any 15 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 1: dates you've been on, and then where things are now? 16 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:45,880 Speaker 2: Okay. We first met at a bar a couple of 17 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:49,520 Speaker 2: weeks ago, and I have to give him palps because 18 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:52,320 Speaker 2: he walked right up to me and we started chatting 19 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 2: and he was very charming. He took care of my 20 00:00:57,160 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 2: drinks all night. He was very respectful, which unfortunate, is rare, 21 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 2: and when the bar was closing, he said to me, 22 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 2: as much as I'd love to keep hanging out. I 23 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 2: want to take you on a proper date. And then 24 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 2: he asked you for my number. 25 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:14,400 Speaker 1: I know, I mean, well, you talk about a masterclass 26 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 1: in how to do this. Man, he walked up to 27 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 1: you in the wild, he handle the whole night, didn't 28 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 1: creep you out. And then and then it was hey, 29 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 1: you know we could do this, but no, oh no, 30 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: I'm going to be a gentleman and I'm going to 31 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:26,319 Speaker 1: take you on a proper date. I mean I would 32 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:28,039 Speaker 1: say that, you know, this is how you do it. 33 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:30,040 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I was absolutely floored. 34 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 1: Okay, so what's the problem and yeah, So well, the. 35 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 2: Next morning he texted me saying it was great to 36 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:38,759 Speaker 2: meet me, and he asked me to send him some 37 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 2: nights that I was free for dinner, and he said 38 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 2: he was going to take care of the rest. We 39 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:45,199 Speaker 2: went on another date, or we went on the first 40 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 2: date really, and I was just thinking, this is true, 41 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 2: good to be true, and lo and behold it is 42 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 2: because I have not heard from him, and I just 43 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 2: want your help. I'm really questioning everything that went down. 44 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 1: Okay, so you go from you know, him doing everything 45 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 1: right in the bar and you're super into it and 46 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: he's smooth and you like it, and then you you 47 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 1: you wind up going on a date, and then that's 48 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 1: even an upgrade from there. Except that's where it stops, 49 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: like all of a sudden, the dude's ghosting you, is 50 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,359 Speaker 1: he's you know, you can't find him. He's not I 51 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 1: assume you've reached out, he's not responding to you. 52 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I have. 53 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 3: I've reached out a couple of times. 54 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: So how do we go from doing everything right to 55 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:25,239 Speaker 1: now the guy's m I A. That's where we come in. 56 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:28,920 Speaker 1: We're gonna call this guy Xavier Xavier, and we're gonna 57 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: see if we can figure out what's going on. You know. 58 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 1: The hope is always, grace, is that we can straighten 59 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 1: this out. Hey Grace, Yeah, welcome back. Let's call this 60 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:39,919 Speaker 1: guy Xavier. You you met in the wild and I 61 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 1: that's sort of that's a really sort of precarious thing 62 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 1: as a guy, because you know, sometimes it's it's women 63 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:49,359 Speaker 1: will tell you that all I want to got to 64 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 1: come up to me in a wild and then the 65 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:52,520 Speaker 1: same people will be like, but the guy came up 66 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 1: to me in a while, and it was creepy when 67 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: he starts speaking to me like from his mouth, and 68 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:57,640 Speaker 1: it was like he's trying to interact with me, and 69 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:00,839 Speaker 1: it was weird. So I guess it depends on who 70 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 1: the guy is and who the girl is and what 71 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 1: the moment is. But in this case, everything worked perfectly. 72 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 1: You wind up going on a date, except you haven't 73 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:09,639 Speaker 1: heard from this guy since the date. You want to 74 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: know why? Let's call him now? Good luck, Grace. Hi' 75 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 1: Is this Xavier, x Xavier or just Xavier? How do 76 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:27,799 Speaker 1: you pronounce your name properly? I want to get it right, 77 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: But my name is Fred. By the way, I'm not 78 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 1: like a weird telemarket I'm weird, but not a telemarketer. 79 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 1: I'm actually calling from the Fred Show, the morning radio show. 80 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 1: How do you say your name properly? 81 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 4: Yeah? 82 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: Okay? Exaving so perfect. We're calling on behalf of a Well. 83 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 1: First of all, I have to tell you that I'm 84 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 1: all line of line again. I got my spiel. No, 85 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 1: I got my spiel. But if I don't do my 86 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 1: spiel in the right order, then I get totally thrown off. 87 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: We are on the radio. Can I have permission to 88 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 1: continue with this call? Would you mind? You can hang 89 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: up anytime. I know this whole thing is very strange, 90 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 1: but thank you for not hanging up. We're calling on 91 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 1: behalf of a woman named Grace. I guess you approached 92 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: her in a bar and went on a date recently. 93 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 1: Do you remember that? Okay? What happened? Because she reached 94 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 1: out to us and she was really impressed by you, 95 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 1: the way that you approached her and the evening that 96 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:21,359 Speaker 1: you guys spent together in the bar, and then I 97 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 1: guess she took her on a date and she thought 98 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 1: that was even better. But she hasn't heard from you 99 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 1: since any of that, and she wants to know why. 100 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:37,159 Speaker 3: Sorry, so strange, you sure? Okay? 101 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 2: Well, I. 102 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:42,160 Speaker 3: Don't know how much. 103 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 1: You all know. That's it. What we told you is 104 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 1: what we know. Just that she was impressed by you 105 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:49,919 Speaker 1: in a couple of dates, and it's confused as to 106 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 1: why you haven't responded to her or reached out for 107 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:53,159 Speaker 1: another one. That's what we know. 108 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 3: Okay. 109 00:04:56,000 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, so we met at the bar and you got 110 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:08,280 Speaker 4: her number after out for dinner. Yeah, I was into 111 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 4: her two, I guess, but a major red flag kind 112 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:15,480 Speaker 4: of presented itself. 113 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:22,039 Speaker 3: While we were about to eat and our food came 114 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:27,039 Speaker 3: and she grabs her phone to take a picture it's like, 115 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:29,599 Speaker 3: you know, I don't care that, you know, standard twenty 116 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 3: twenty five. I get it. But he stood up to 117 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 3: get the whole angle of the table, and you know, 118 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:39,919 Speaker 3: I realized my hand was in the picture, so I 119 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:43,839 Speaker 3: moved it so she didn't have that in there. Then 120 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 3: she grabbed my hand and puts it back and she 121 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:53,679 Speaker 3: tells me to leave it there. So I'm like, oh, 122 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 3: she she wanted my hand, and oh. 123 00:05:56,440 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 1: Okay, all right this yeah, I know I know this one. 124 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:04,480 Speaker 1: I know this one. Yeah, I've been I've been privy 125 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:07,039 Speaker 1: to this one before hand, right, I've been the hand 126 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:10,359 Speaker 1: or or I've I've had someone else's hand left it 127 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 1: in because it's like, let's get people talking a little 128 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 1: bit here, you know what I'm saying. Let's let's have people, 129 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 1: Let's keep people on their toes, you know what I mean, 130 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 1: make sure people are are on their game. So so 131 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 1: you believe that you were upon for something. 132 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 3: Well, so I asked her what was like what she 133 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 3: was doing, and she just kept smiling and she says, oh, 134 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 3: don't worry about it. So like to me, it was 135 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 3: very clear that she was, you know, like trying to 136 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 3: make someone jealous. And I'm not down for that. 137 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 1: So yeah, so that's it. So that's that I forgot 138 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 1: to mention that Grace is here. I'm very forgetful. I 139 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 1: always forget this part of it. Grace, is he right? 140 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 1: I mean, is that? I guess you admitted to it, 141 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 1: But like, who are we trying to make jealous? And 142 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 1: why would we necessarily announce that? I mean, there are 143 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:58,919 Speaker 1: sneaky ways to do this, so you don't have to 144 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 1: tell the person that there's another guy whose opinion you 145 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 1: care about, or girl or whatever you're into. 146 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, I think everybody needs to take it 147 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 2: down a notch. Yes, he is right, but it wasn't 148 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 2: a big deal in the moment. I mean, I just 149 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 2: I I he had his hand in the photo, and 150 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 2: I said, I said, oh no, it's okay, keep it in, 151 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 2: you know, kind of wink wink, And then I didn't 152 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 2: even realize that set him up. It was a very 153 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 2: inconsequential moment. I just like to be mysterious, and you know, 154 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 2: if I have a great date and I happen to 155 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 2: make someone jealous, then uh, lock me up. 156 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 1: Well yeah, but see, Grace's if I'm out with you 157 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 1: and you're obsessed with using me to make someone else jealous. 158 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: That implies to me that you still care about this 159 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 1: other person's opinion. And then it's like, well what am 160 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 1: I doing here? And what if it works? And the 161 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 1: person who you're admitting that you're trying to make jealous 162 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 1: and reaches out and it works, and then okay, And 163 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 1: then all of a sudden you're like, I never mind, 164 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 1: don't need you anymore because I was trying to get 165 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 1: someone else's attention and it worked. 166 00:07:58,240 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 2: I think you might have anxiety or. 167 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 1: Some Well, first of all, I may, and second of all, 168 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 1: I don't think that's how my brain works. I think 169 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:08,120 Speaker 1: that's exactly what you were trying to do. 170 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 2: That's quite a jump with a very small moment. And 171 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 2: everybody has someone from their past that they that they 172 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:18,680 Speaker 2: want to make a little jealous. I mean, I don't 173 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 2: think that makes me such a bad person. 174 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 1: No one said you were a bad person, Grace. But 175 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 1: so you're saying you wanted to make someone jealous, but 176 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 1: you didn't, but you weren't trying to get their attention. 177 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 1: It wouldn't matter if they reached out. You simply wanted 178 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 1: someone else to see that you've moved on. It's that simple. 179 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:34,320 Speaker 1: It had nothing to do with hoping that they would 180 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 1: see it in DM you or call you or anything, 181 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 1: because that's I don't think that's crazy for me to think. 182 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:41,680 Speaker 2: Not okay, not in the slightest. It was a passing thought. 183 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:43,560 Speaker 2: I thought, Okay, the hand is in the photo. You 184 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 2: know who who cares, Let's let's see what happened. 185 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 1: And they say, if you're not buying this, You're like no, 186 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 1: I mean she she obviously wanted someone to see it. 187 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 1: She admitted to that, who is this person? And why 188 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 1: are you using me? Because here you were trying to 189 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 1: be a good dude and you were doing everything right. 190 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 1: And it's like, at any moment, I guess if so 191 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 1: and so gets his act together and calls, well, then 192 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 1: I'm out. I don't I don't think that's a leap. Guys, like, 193 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 1: I don't think that's a crazy thing to think. 194 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 3: Not at all. Yeah, I mean to me, hold on 195 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 3: to Xavier, you go first. I just think that everything 196 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 3: that she just said, I mean, like, I don't have 197 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:24,840 Speaker 3: anybody in my path that I'm trying to make jealous. 198 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:29,960 Speaker 3: I have moved on from everything. Just to me, that 199 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 3: means grace isn't ready for a relationship, so what to me, 200 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 3: what she's doing and saying is not something normal. 201 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 1: I don't like that because you're just jumping to jealousy 202 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 1: right away. It's also toxic. It can be, But what 203 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:44,320 Speaker 1: if you just want to get the town talking, like, oh, 204 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 1: who is you know she with? 205 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 2: Who is that is that? Her ex is a new guy? 206 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:50,679 Speaker 2: Like I want to just know the gossip. 207 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 1: Behind Yeah, why does it have to be like jealous 208 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 1: the jealous ex? I saw someone the other day on 209 00:09:57,640 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 1: TikTok it was like, if you want to be toxic 210 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:01,040 Speaker 1: and get people's a ten, And then it was a 211 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 1: girl and she was like, take a picture on the couch, 212 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 1: but have a men's hoodie like sort of like in 213 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 1: the corner or something like draped over like sort of 214 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,559 Speaker 1: like so and it'd be like, you know, cozy night 215 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 1: in or whatever, but it's like you're implying that it's 216 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:17,200 Speaker 1: a cozy night in with a guy. That would miss 217 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 1: me though, like go right over my head because a 218 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:20,199 Speaker 1: lot of us were guy hoodies, Like I would. 219 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:20,959 Speaker 2: Just go right over my head. 220 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 1: I look for stuff like this, so like if I 221 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 1: if a pretty girl shows up on my for you 222 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:27,760 Speaker 1: and I'll go through the grid and be like, I 223 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 1: see like a dude's hands. Yeah. Yeah. Then I'm like, 224 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:32,559 Speaker 1: well she's got a boyfriend nobody, that's fine. What do 225 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:34,840 Speaker 1: you mean? Oh no, I'm a single due I know 226 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 1: that though you get what I'm saying, you jump into conclusions. Yeah, 227 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 1: but I mean, I think it's a pretty good, pretty 228 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:42,240 Speaker 1: good odds that I might look stupid if I, you know, 229 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 1: slide in the DMS. And I think, but that person 230 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:47,679 Speaker 1: is not doing anything wrong, and Grace, neither are you necessarily. 231 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 1: But I also I can see why he would feel 232 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 1: like he's being used a little. 233 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 2: You know, I think we all put things on the 234 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 2: internet wondering how people are going to react. And I'm 235 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:02,439 Speaker 2: I didn't mean to to set him off, but if 236 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 2: I did, then maybe I need someone who's a little 237 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:05,319 Speaker 2: bit more secure. 238 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know about that. So let me ask 239 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 1: you this then, Grace, And here's a point blank question. 240 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 1: So you you do not have interest in someone else. 241 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:15,200 Speaker 1: You're not hoping someone else sees that and reaches out. 242 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 1: You're one hundred percent focused on Xavier and seeing him again. 243 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 1: And this has nothing to do with another particular person. 244 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 2: That is correct. However, you know, I'm a very honest person. 245 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:30,840 Speaker 2: I like to make jokes. I have people from my past, 246 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:36,319 Speaker 2: and if that is going to upset the person I'm dating, 247 00:11:36,400 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 2: then it's probably not a good sit. 248 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 1: I don't know. This seems a little weird, but said 249 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: your call, do you want to go out with her again? 250 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 1: We'll pay for it. I mean, she didn't do anything wrong. 251 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 1: But I also see where you're coming from. So what 252 00:11:47,240 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 1: do you think? 253 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:49,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I think I'm gonna pass. 254 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:53,640 Speaker 1: I'm good, Okay, all right, fair enough, So Grace, I'm 255 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:55,320 Speaker 1: sorry it's not going to work out. Maybe I don't know. 256 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 1: Maybe down the road, once you guys have established something, 257 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:00,200 Speaker 1: that might be something where you could say that he 258 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:01,920 Speaker 1: might laugh. But like, you don't know each other, so 259 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 1: he doesn't know what your intentions are. He doesn't know 260 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 1: that there's not someone else that you're still reeling over 261 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:09,960 Speaker 1: or trying to get over whatever. He doesn't know that 262 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 1: because he doesn't know you. 263 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 2: Yep, that's fair. I mean, I guess I respect it. 264 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 2: Just don't watch my Instagram stories.