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Speaker 1: What will you do lesi at Evergreen dot Com Rooking

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Speaker 1: Jewels Second Data Day. A Rex sports league is a

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Speaker 1: good way to meet people. I know that I've met

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Speaker 1: people that way before. Anytime I've been in one. I

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Speaker 1: always meet people because I played dodgeball while back, and

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Speaker 1: it was just like anybody who hits me gets me. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: to meet people. Although I was just playing by myself.

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Speaker 1: I would just hit myself with the ball and then

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Speaker 1: think you have to sign up for a rec league

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Speaker 1: for that man. Andrew who's on the phone right now,

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Speaker 1: sports league? What sport was it? Andrew? We kickball? All right?

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Speaker 1: Anybody who kicks me it gets me? Is that what happened? No,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't quite work like that kind of weird rec leagues?

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Speaker 1: Are you joining everything? What's the name of the guy

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Speaker 1: Was he a competitor? He was actually on an opposing

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Speaker 1: him before. I do feel like I played kickball for

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Speaker 1: you know. So we got to hang out after. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so you guys didn't get drunk and brawl each other

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Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, like, I would love to go

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Speaker 1: So it's been like a week. Okay, a week? Wow?

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Speaker 1: All right, well we'll play a song and then come

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Speaker 1: thank you brooking jubil in the morning. Second Update. Hi,

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Speaker 1: and welcome back to today's second date Update. Today, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna be cooking up some love. Oh I'm gonna teach

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Speaker 1: you how to do that. First. You take one part Andrea,

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Speaker 1: and all you're left with is Andreay, Wow, that wasn't

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Speaker 1: right now and she wants to call a dude named Dennis.

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Speaker 1: They went out to a cooking class. She said they

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Speaker 1: All right, Andrew, you're ready to go. I'm super ready.

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Speaker 1: I thought this guy might have some long term potential

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Speaker 1: here we go. I'm a Dallas pharmer. Hello, I'm looking

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Speaker 1: for a Dennis Dennis. How are you? Man? This is

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Speaker 1: Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the morning. Um, I'm

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Speaker 1: doing well. Who is this? Are you? Dennis from the

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Speaker 1: kickball team? I might be depending on who's asking. Well,

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Speaker 1: Sweet well, Dennis from the Kickball Team. I'm calling you

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Speaker 1: today because we do a segment on our show called

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Speaker 1: the second Date Update Tests, where if you go out

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Speaker 1: So I'm kind of like we kept skating or whatever.

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Speaker 1: are you texting? Like I don't and I don't want

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Speaker 1: to be that dude. So wait, you're selling yourself right now,

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Speaker 1: Dennis as an insecure, jealous guy. I mean, it's not

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Speaker 1: something that would put on my resume, but yeah, wow,

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Speaker 1: you don't know yet, Andrew, you don't know yet. For sure, Dennis,

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