1 00:00:01,280 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Wired to Hunt Foundations podcast, your guide 2 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 1: to the fundamentals of better deer hunting, presented by first Light, 3 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: creating proven versatile hunting apparel for the stand, saddle or blind. 4 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 1: First Light Go Farther, Stay Longer, and now your host, 5 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 1: Tony Peterson. 6 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:23,440 Speaker 2: Hey, everyone, welcome to the Wire to Hunt Foundation's podcast, 7 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 2: which is brought to you by first Light. Today, I'm 8 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 2: going to talk about something that plagues so many hunters, 9 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:42,520 Speaker 2: even if they might not want to admit it. Sometimes 10 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 2: inspiration falls right into your lap, or at least pops 11 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 2: up in your email. An old acquaintance of mine recently 12 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:52,839 Speaker 2: sent me a note about how much he's struggling with 13 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 2: bow hunting. He feels like he can't get over the 14 00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 2: hurdle that separates being a deer shooter adder type of 15 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 2: guy to a deer shooter type of guy. His frustration 16 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 2: was palpable, and there were a lot of clues in 17 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 2: his message that spawned the idea for this whole podcast. 18 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:11,960 Speaker 2: He admitted to not being super good at bow hunting, 19 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 2: but also targeting mature four and a half year old 20 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 2: plus bucks. That's a bad combo that happens a lot. 21 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 2: It's also what this whole episode is kind of really 22 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:31,680 Speaker 2: all about. There used to be a progression to hunting 23 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 2: that allowed someone to start small and worked their way 24 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:37,560 Speaker 2: up to the deer. Not only was it a good 25 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:41,639 Speaker 2: way to develop some serious woodsmanship skills, it's also something 26 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 2: guys my age were romanticize and remember in a nice 27 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 2: glow of nostalgia. It doesn't always jive with reality. It 28 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 2: always started with rabbits and squirrels, and as a young 29 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 2: man with a bolt action Remington twenty two, in a 30 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 2: real bloodlust in my heart, I spent a lot of 31 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 2: time roman the woods with that rim fire, trying to 32 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 2: remove bushytails from the trees. I also got to carry 33 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 2: a pump twenty gage for bunnies, and if you think 34 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 2: I didn't love that shit, you're off your rocker. Some 35 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:13,119 Speaker 2: of my best memories of my childhood involved hunting small game, 36 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 2: mostly with my dad. I remember rallying around a squirrel 37 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:19,519 Speaker 2: family with a pocket full of shells one time, which 38 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 2: is a rage against the machine reference for you young 39 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 2: lads listening on that morning, my dad put me in 40 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 2: a tree stand, probably without a safety harness, and told 41 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 2: me to work on my squirrel accuracy. I think that's 42 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 2: where a lot of my problems started, because even though 43 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 2: I was surrounded by bushytails, I couldn't hit a squirrel 44 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:40,799 Speaker 2: well to save my life. I literally had squirrel fever. 45 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:43,679 Speaker 2: And I'll never forget him walking in to pick me up, 46 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 2: and he asked me how many I got, because he 47 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:49,919 Speaker 2: had spent all morning listening to me shoot. The body 48 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:52,799 Speaker 2: count was one, and it wasn't even a clean kill 49 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 2: until I got down and sent that poor bushytail to 50 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 2: the great big oak tree in the sky. Another time, 51 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 2: while rabbit hunting a lot a stretch of abandoned railroad tracks, 52 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:04,640 Speaker 2: I looked down in the grass and saw a cottontail 53 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:07,679 Speaker 2: pulling his best If I stay real still, maybe he 54 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 2: won't see me move. But I did see him, and 55 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 2: I don't know if you know what a well aimed, 56 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 2: loaded lead shot does to a bunny that is about 57 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 2: six feet off the end of your shotguns barrel. But 58 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 2: the disappointment in my dad's eyes when he tried to 59 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 2: pick up what was left of that poor rabbit was 60 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 2: pretty obvious. I probably knew it at the time without 61 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 2: really knowing it, But the whole stage was being set 62 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 2: for me to become a deer hunter then. Now, at 63 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 2: that time, twelve was the minimum age, and it took 64 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 2: me forever to get there. We hunted everything we could 65 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 2: but deer until that season. And then I gradulated to 66 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 2: the big leagues. And let me tell you something, I 67 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 2: was a born natural. Just kidding, I was definitely born unnatural. 68 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 2: That's probably not the right way to say it, but 69 00:03:56,880 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 2: if there wasn't a word for being really, really bad 70 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 2: at deer hunting, I'd have definitely been in the running 71 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 2: for some hardware for my trophy case. Those first couple 72 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 2: of years, I could barely lay eyes on a deer, 73 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 2: and if I did and it got within twenty yards, 74 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 2: it definitely got shot at, and it always walked or 75 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 2: ran away totally unscathed. My daughter's recently asked me if 76 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 2: I've missed more deer than I've shot, and I honestly 77 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:26,920 Speaker 2: couldn't answer. I'd say maybe, because just in those first 78 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 2: four years alone, I racked up a string of whiffs 79 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 2: that should have got me sent back down to the miners, 80 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 2: or worse, sent down to carry the mobile hot dog 81 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 2: heater thing while hiking up and down the concrete steps, 82 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 2: yelling at people. It was brutal and it was the 83 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 2: source of my first white tail meltdown. When I was fifteen, 84 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 2: the thing I wanted so much was so close, yet 85 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 2: so very very far away. I told my dad I 86 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 2: was done. I was going to become a gun hunter. 87 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 2: Now I was going to start killing deer. He said, okay, 88 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 2: let's get some slugs and figure this thing out. But 89 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 2: he didn't, and I didn't really want to go that route. 90 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 2: I wanted to arrow a deer. If you're wondering if 91 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 2: I really have any character flaws, I'll tell you this. 92 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:13,480 Speaker 2: I'm a pretty stubborn fella. I don't know why. It 93 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 2: mostly doesn't serve me very well. But in some ways, 94 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:18,039 Speaker 2: if I set a course for myself, it takes a 95 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:19,599 Speaker 2: hell of a lot to get me to steer in 96 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 2: a new direction. So I kept hunting, you know what. 97 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 2: I eventually started to hit a few deer. Then I 98 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 2: started to hit a few correctly, and over time the 99 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 2: young bucks and even some two year old started to 100 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 2: die with enough frequency where I got a little cocky. 101 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:37,719 Speaker 2: My progression to that point in my life had involved 102 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 2: a whole lot of small game, a whole lot of 103 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 2: upland birds, quite a few turkeys, a fair amount of 104 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 2: deer well rounded. I was for sure and totally clueless 105 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:50,719 Speaker 2: about what I was getting into when I said it 106 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 2: was time to kill a pope and young buck. When 107 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 2: I made that move, what I didn't realize was that 108 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 2: I was turning back the time to old Tony or 109 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:01,480 Speaker 2: I guess young Tony. Anyway, it was like I was 110 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 2: twelve again, and while I could always get my bow drawn, 111 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 2: I definitely could not get the pin anywhere close to 112 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 2: where it needed to be meltdown. Number two happened again 113 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 2: on a night I've talked about on this podcast before, 114 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:16,559 Speaker 2: where in the span of maybe ten minutes, I missed 115 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 2: a solid one hundred and fifty class year and then 116 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 2: a really nice eight pointer that was close enough that 117 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 2: I probably could have dismounted from my stand and very 118 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 2: briefly wrote him like a rodeo bowl. In fact, that 119 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 2: probably would have been more effective than what I actually did, 120 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:33,040 Speaker 2: which was see him pee my pants, a little shoot 121 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 2: over his back, and then pray to the deer guys 122 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 2: that lightning would take me out of this life that 123 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 2: I definitely wasn't meant to live. As all stories go, 124 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 2: I finally did kind of get my shit together and 125 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 2: I killed a couple of big bucks in consecutive seasons. 126 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. I thought I had the 127 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 2: whole thing tied up with a nice bow after that. 128 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 2: What I didn't expect was to get a job in 129 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 2: the hunting industry and suddenly have a whole lot of 130 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 2: pressure to be good at this stuff. My deer hunting 131 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:02,160 Speaker 2: life has been a lot like trying to go up 132 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 2: a super steep driveway that is covered in mostly ice. 133 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 2: You know, I can throw it and four low and try, 134 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 2: but the odds are pretty good that my best efforts 135 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 2: will eventually leave me at the bottom of the hill, 136 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 2: sideways in the road, with nothing to show for it 137 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 2: but elevated blood pressure and the desire to set the 138 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 2: world on fire. That meltdown was so bad that it 139 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 2: forced me to switch up how I shot, how I practiced, 140 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 2: what I thought about, and pretty much reinvent myself as 141 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 2: a deer hunter. That's not that easy to do, my friends, 142 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 2: But so far this mostly worked. Now I'm too conditioned 143 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 2: to failure to believe another meltdown isn't coming, But for 144 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 2: now it feels like I might not regress anytime too soon. 145 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 2: I'll think about this. That's a pretty abbreviated version of 146 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 2: thirty one years of bow hunting, and I still struggle 147 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 2: all the time, And I mean all the time. Do 148 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 2: you know why? Because bow hunting white tail deer, specifically 149 00:07:57,920 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 2: mature bucks, is really, really hard. It's not easy for anyone, 150 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 2: at least if they are hunting pressure deer. 151 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 1: Oh. 152 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 2: Sure, we have ways to hack the system, and if 153 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 2: you have the right land, you can all but ensure 154 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 2: an opportunity are free. But most folks don't have that option. 155 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 2: Most folks are like you and I, where they work 156 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 2: and have kids and are under constant strain of life. 157 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:33,960 Speaker 2: They have small spots to hunt, or share farms with 158 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 2: other folks, or trek across public land all season. For 159 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 2: most of us, this stuff is really difficult. There's a 160 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 2: silver lining. If you've been a passenger on the old 161 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:47,200 Speaker 2: Big Bucks struggle bus for a while, you can get 162 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 2: over it. Unfortunately, you might not like the remedy. You 163 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 2: might not like the cure a whole lot. I'm going 164 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 2: to be blunt about this in a way that for 165 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 2: some reason in society we look down on We just 166 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 2: don't value honesty over hurting people's feelings. And I'll admit 167 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 2: there's always room for tact. There's also always room to 168 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 2: just lay things out and not pull your punches. So 169 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:12,439 Speaker 2: here it goes. If you're struggling with killing a mature buck, 170 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 2: whether it's your first or maybe you sporadically make it happen, 171 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:18,840 Speaker 2: but there's no consistency to your game, here's the deal. 172 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:22,320 Speaker 2: You're probably not good enough at hunting to make that 173 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 2: your goal. Now. I know, goals are subjective and you're 174 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 2: free to do what you want to do, but keep 175 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:31,440 Speaker 2: that in mind, especially if you find yourself having a 176 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:35,680 Speaker 2: meltdown over not achieving that specific goal. If you're super 177 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 2: content with your hunting, great, If you're not, you can't 178 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:41,959 Speaker 2: understand why deer hunting is so frustrating and not all 179 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 2: that much fun. Listen up, you're not good enough at 180 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 2: it to set your goals where they are. They're just 181 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 2: too high and you either need to live with that 182 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 2: or make a real change. Now. A lot of hunters, 183 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 2: I think they realize that, and they do what we 184 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 2: just kind of often do in life. They look for 185 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 2: a quick fix, like maybe if you ask Andy May 186 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:07,319 Speaker 2: to look at your screenshot of your property, he'll tell 187 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:10,320 Speaker 2: you how to hunt. And if you do you know 188 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:13,960 Speaker 2: you'll have andy may results not quite though, or maybe 189 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:16,200 Speaker 2: if you buy a sweet decoy or some new calls, 190 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 2: or you go all out on the salad game and 191 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:19,600 Speaker 2: decide the best way to kill big Bucks is to 192 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 2: be in a new tree stand every night. Give that 193 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 2: a shot. Whatever floats your boat. But this strategy is 194 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 2: like trying to reason with your physical fitness, trying to 195 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 2: rationalize why you don't really need to do cardio or 196 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 2: why it's not that big of a deal to eat 197 00:10:34,080 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 2: ice cream every night. The formula for getting in shape 198 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 2: is real simple and it hasn't changed a lot in 199 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 2: a long time. You can make bargains, but you don't 200 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 2: make the rules. They are there, like the laws of physics, 201 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:49,960 Speaker 2: and whether you agree with them or not, you're still 202 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:54,360 Speaker 2: beholding the gravity and the law of thermodynamics. So are 203 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 2: you good enough for your goals? This is a tricky 204 00:10:57,440 --> 00:11:00,240 Speaker 2: one because if you don't set challenging, somewhat hard to 205 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 2: achieve goals, and how are you going to grow as 206 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 2: a person and as a hunter. The downside of this 207 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:07,680 Speaker 2: is we often focus our goals on a simple metric, 208 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:12,559 Speaker 2: which is antler size. Sure, we say we target mature bucks, 209 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 2: that's just weasel words, and we all know it. If 210 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 2: a deer comes in with one hundred and sixty inches 211 00:11:16,920 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 2: of antlers on his head, he's getting shot. Whether he's 212 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:22,680 Speaker 2: a baby or a grandpa, dear, Mostly what we target 213 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:25,200 Speaker 2: is actually antler size, and that's just the reality of 214 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 2: it all. But simply killing one hundred and forty inch 215 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:29,719 Speaker 2: or when you've only ever killed two and a half 216 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:33,080 Speaker 2: year olds, isn't the only way to go about this. Like, 217 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 2: I don't know how good of a shot are you 218 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 2: not at the range, but on real deer. If you 219 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 2: think you have the younger bucks and does mastered, so 220 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:43,960 Speaker 2: it's time to target the big boys. Ask yourself when 221 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 2: you shoot those other deer, do you really always do 222 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 2: your job correctly or mostly always? How many of them 223 00:11:51,400 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 2: have you shot? When you're sitting in a stand and 224 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:55,679 Speaker 2: you see one hundred inch two year old coming down 225 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 2: the trail and the weather is perfect and your heart 226 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 2: rate spikes, do you want to shoot him? Be honest 227 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 2: if you do, but you're worried he isn't big enough, 228 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 2: Ask yourself who is not big enough? For strangers on 229 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:11,720 Speaker 2: social media? You're hunting buddies If you have good buddies. 230 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:13,559 Speaker 2: They'll give you some shit, but they'll also be real 231 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 2: happy for you. If someone on social media disapproves of 232 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 2: the deer you shot, you have some options like not 233 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 2: posting your kills, which is pretty simple. If you just 234 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 2: have to post it, just be happy about it and 235 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 2: let folks know that you are happy about it. Some 236 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:30,680 Speaker 2: people will still be pricks about it, but that's because 237 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 2: they are miserable with their own lives. Leave them alone 238 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 2: and let them suffer until they get their act together. 239 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 2: Celebrate your success. Those people aren't your problem. If you 240 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:43,679 Speaker 2: have the world of younger Bucks and Doze totally dialed 241 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:46,440 Speaker 2: and you are honestly ready for the big leagues but 242 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 2: have struggled mightily, think about this. Where are you going wrong? 243 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 2: Are you not seeing the big bucks well? Are they 244 00:12:54,960 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 2: there or are you hunting a place where the age 245 00:12:57,080 --> 00:13:00,440 Speaker 2: quality is lacking. If they are there and you can't 246 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:03,199 Speaker 2: see them when you're hunting, then it's probably all about 247 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 2: scouting and hunting smarter. That's it. Got to put in 248 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:08,599 Speaker 2: the work and really think through your setups. Try to 249 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:12,319 Speaker 2: learn why your efforts aren't producing the sightings or are 250 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:15,080 Speaker 2: you seeing the big ones getting shots at them? But 251 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 2: not quite able to make the right connection. This is 252 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:22,080 Speaker 2: a big one and it happens to just about every 253 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 2: bow hunter who doesn't grow up with a thousand acres 254 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 2: a premale ground to hunt in Iowa. This stage can 255 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 2: wreck you as a hunter and as a human. It's 256 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 2: just rough. So what do you do? The only way 257 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:39,199 Speaker 2: out is through, and for me it involved a lot 258 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 2: of target practice and a lot of inner monologue where 259 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 2: I told myself to focus on the shot, watch the 260 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 2: deer's body, plan for the moment when I'll draw the 261 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:51,320 Speaker 2: moment went I'll shoot. Am I gonna stop him? Am 262 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:54,080 Speaker 2: I gonna shoot him as he naturally comes through. What 263 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna do is stare at those antlers and 264 00:13:56,840 --> 00:14:02,240 Speaker 2: think about how much I'm worried that I'm going to face. Now, 265 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:05,720 Speaker 2: this seems easy enough, but even if you do keep 266 00:14:05,720 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 2: your kind of head in the game and plan out 267 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 2: the shot, most of those encounters are still going to 268 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 2: result in failure. That failure is going to tell you 269 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 2: what to do differently next time. That's how I look 270 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 2: at it. It's kind of like getting kicked in the 271 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 2: mental nards while getting stung by wass on your eyeballs. 272 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 2: But it is a stepping stone. Did you shoot too high, 273 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 2: too low? Seven feet behind this tail? Where did you 274 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 2: go wrong? What went wrong? What would you have done differently? 275 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:38,880 Speaker 2: What will you do differently next time? Do you consider 276 00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 2: it a win to have a deer like that that 277 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 2: close to you? Because you should. Most hunters don't get 278 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 2: that in any given season. Listen, I know that's thin 279 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 2: gruel to live on, but it's not nothing. You did 280 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 2: it once, you can do it again. And this time, 281 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 2: instead of punching the trigger on your release before you 282 00:14:55,520 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 2: settle your pin, settle your pin. It's a difference of 283 00:14:59,760 --> 00:15:02,320 Speaker 2: one two seconds. But it's also the difference between another 284 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:06,240 Speaker 2: meltdown or that sweet, sweet feeling of finally doing things right. 285 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 2: And remember this, You're not alone. This thing we do 286 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 2: with white tails so damn fun, it's so damn hard. 287 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 2: I promise you that. Just about every hunter you look 288 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 2: up to, and many others you've never heard of. But 289 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 2: who are the best of the best, all struggled. They 290 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 2: shared a seat with guys like you and me on 291 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 2: the struggle bus at one point or another, maybe for 292 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:32,000 Speaker 2: a season or two, maybe for a decade or two. 293 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 2: The journey to becoming a content somewhat consistent. Big buck 294 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 2: killer is a long personal one for almost everyone. It 295 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 2: can be a lot of things, both good and bad, 296 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 2: and it will be just that. But it's also a 297 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:49,160 Speaker 2: progression of sorts. If you treat it right now, you 298 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 2: don't need to murder a million squirrels and cottontails when 299 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:53,400 Speaker 2: you're in grade school to work your way up to it. 300 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 2: You do have to look around and ask yourself, where 301 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 2: are you in your journey now? Did you get a 302 00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 2: little too far ahead of yourself because of the social 303 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 2: pressure to not shoot young bucks. Did you take a 304 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:07,280 Speaker 2: few wins and use them as conclusive evidence that it's 305 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:09,560 Speaker 2: time to skip ahead by about forty seven steps in 306 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 2: the process, or are you getting there you know, naturally 307 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:16,800 Speaker 2: in a way that feels pretty good. Where are you 308 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:18,840 Speaker 2: on this journey? And what does it mean for you 309 00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 2: to set certain goals? I don't take the easy way out, 310 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:24,640 Speaker 2: but don't put yourself in a position where this thing 311 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 2: you are supposed to love becomes just a source of 312 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 2: stress and anxiety and disappointment. There's plenty of life to 313 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 2: do that for you. You don't need it from deer hunting, 314 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 2: So find your path, walk it at the pace you need, 315 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 2: and eventually you'll get to a point where the challenge 316 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 2: is real but also doable. That's a wonderful place to be, 317 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 2: even if it's just always kind of a temporary place 318 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 2: to be. So get out there, my friends. Make something 319 00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 2: good happen in the woods. Come back next week because 320 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 2: I'm going to talk about gambling kind of. That's it 321 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 2: for this week, my friends. I'm Tony Peterson. This has 322 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:00,920 Speaker 2: been the Wired to Hunt Foundation's podcast. As always, thank 323 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 2: you so much for listening. I can't tell you how 324 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 2: much all of us here at meat Eater truly appreciate 325 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:09,199 Speaker 2: your support, but we do. It means the world to us, 326 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:11,680 Speaker 2: so thank you for that. 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