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Speaker 1: It is time to check in with the Cheap Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: you to answer all of everybody's love questions.

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Speaker 2: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: Mike and Clearwater, Florida says, I went on a blind

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Speaker 1: dave with the finest girl I have ever met. She's

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Speaker 1: got beautiful teeth, eyes, and hair, and she's a little

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Speaker 1: on the.

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Speaker 2: Thick side, which I love.

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Speaker 1: The only problem is that she smokes cigars and I

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Speaker 1: could taste it on her breast when we kiss. She

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Speaker 1: only does it on the weekend, So should I deal

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Speaker 1: with it or move on?

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Speaker 3: Hey?

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Speaker 4: Dog, it's just on the weekends. That's along it, Lane.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you know, there being a cigar smoker, there

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Speaker 4: are some things you can do, you know, to help

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Speaker 4: the situation, like what I mean, like, don't smoke fo

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Speaker 4: you kiss. That's a big one.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's they got stuff for that.

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Speaker 4: But when you actual cigar placing, you lean over a kiss,

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Speaker 4: you fin to eat some cigar.

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Speaker 3: Dog, that's just all to it your kissing schedule. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: you're gonna work that out.

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Speaker 2: Was fine, for fine, for fine, make that absolutely yeah.

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Speaker 4: We're finn to be blowing cigare smoke all over each other.

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Speaker 4: We all smokeing cigars.

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Speaker 5: Yeah fine, how fine she is?

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah, it has a lot to.

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Speaker 2: Do it Okay, so he should deal with it and

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Speaker 2: not move on. Just stay there and take it.

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Speaker 3: Take absolutely. I mean, come on, man, come on man.

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Speaker 4: What a model of doctor Tishan and they all have merschool.

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Speaker 4: Take all her taste, buzz on everything. Doctor Trishner removes

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Speaker 4: one layer of mouth landed.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Felicity in Topeka, Felicity writes, I have

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Speaker 1: been seeing a man that is twelve years my junior,

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Speaker 1: and he's handsome and muscular up top, but lacking down below.

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Speaker 1: He tries to overcompensate for his shortcomings and is too

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Speaker 1: much for me to handle. I have a schedule to

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Speaker 1: keep up with and kids to look after, so I

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Speaker 1: can't be lying around for hours with him. Is it

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Speaker 1: cool to tell him to hurry up?

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Speaker 2: Or will he be offended?

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Speaker 4: Please advice, It's not going to send him if you

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Speaker 4: tell him to hurry up. What will offend him is

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Speaker 4: you tell him why he needs to hurry I know

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Speaker 4: why you putting in all this extra time? You're yeah,

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Speaker 4: you know, you know? Once again, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: Being on the other side of this one right here,

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Speaker 4: I can tell.

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Speaker 3: You, you know.

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Speaker 4: What, in my life, I've been too much, but I

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Speaker 4: ain't never been not enough. I've been here, Lord, I've

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Speaker 4: been O lawd, but I ain't never been Okay.

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Speaker 3: I think you're gonna have to tell him to hurry up.

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Speaker 3: You got things to do.

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Speaker 2: But in a nice way?

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Speaker 4: Is he a really great guy? Does he treat you

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Speaker 4: really well? They treat the kids great? How is he

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Speaker 4: as a man? You can work through some of these things?

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Speaker 4: You know some things you can do to speed up

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Speaker 4: the process.

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Speaker 1: I don't know a Felicity. Moving on to Carolyn and

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Speaker 1: making Georgia. Carolyn says, is luck would have it. I'm

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Speaker 1: broke again at the wrong time of the year. I

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Speaker 1: was talking to my coworker about my issues and he said,

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Speaker 1: and he could help me out if I showed him

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Speaker 1: two things. The two things are right under my chin,

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Speaker 1: and he wants to see them. I've never been propositioned

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Speaker 1: like this, but he said he'd give me two hundred

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Speaker 1: dollars and that would.

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Speaker 2: Help me get my little girl that bike she wants.

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Speaker 1: It is so terrible. If I show him what if

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Speaker 1: he wants to pay to see more.

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Speaker 4: What you what you what you? What you think is

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Speaker 4: going to be leading to this is this is to

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Speaker 4: see what you're willing to do. Now, if you do

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Speaker 4: this for two hundred dollars, he already know he got

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Speaker 4: five hundred. Mean you marking like, hey, Ian, you go

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Speaker 4: in there and tell your little girl, we ain't getting

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Speaker 4: no bike this year. You know, many years I heard

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Speaker 4: that bike. Oh you working, I'd heard stuff like that bike.

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Speaker 3: What's wrong with the bike you got out there? You're

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Speaker 3: talking about the board you gave me from the construction site.

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Speaker 3: That bike, Daddy, that's never been new, like a new bike. Well,

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Speaker 3: I want a new car. You don't see, No, you

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Speaker 3: don't see what I say out the day.

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Speaker 2: That's take a lot, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 4: So every time I asked him for something, he every

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Speaker 4: time I told my daddy I wanted something, he told

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Speaker 4: me something he wanted.

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Speaker 3: I want a new bike, I want a new car.

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Speaker 3: Yeah I want to go home. Well, hell, I want

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Speaker 3: to go home too, But now I got to go

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Speaker 3: to work. So you can eat what they got to

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Speaker 3: do with what I said.

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Speaker 2: So, Carolyn, I hope you're getting something from this, okay.

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Speaker 4: I mean, if you show him to him for two

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Speaker 4: hundred dollars. The next offer fing to be five hundred.

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Speaker 4: What you're gonna do?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and they work together, so that's really not cool.

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Speaker 2: It's inappropriate, car, yeah, really.

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Speaker 3: All the way. But two hundred dollars that ain't nothing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, one hundred dollars each? Oh you didne divided

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Speaker 2: it up?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 5: Cool?

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Speaker 3: He's horrible, all right, all right?

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Speaker 1: Misty and rustin Louisiana says, I'm forty years old and

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Speaker 1: I purchased my first home for my son and I

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Speaker 1: my son is fifteen years old and refuses to do

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Speaker 1: the yard work for me. He told me that I

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Speaker 1: need to get my boyfriend to do it, since he's

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Speaker 1: always over there. I lit into him when he spoke

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Speaker 1: to me that way, and I called my father to

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Speaker 1: come and talk to him. My father sided with him.

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Speaker 1: I expected my son to have pride in his home.

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Speaker 1: So am I wrong to demand that he do the

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Speaker 1: yard work at this house?

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Speaker 4: Well, I understand what you're saying. You're exactly right and

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Speaker 4: feeling what you're feeling. But your fifteen year old son going,

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Speaker 4: So what this lazy dude doing is coming over here

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Speaker 4: sleeping with my mama. See, at fifteen, he got some

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Speaker 4: feelings about that that you haven't addressed. The fifteen year

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Speaker 4: old boy is jealous that you're in this relationship with

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Speaker 4: this man, and he tried to figure God, what's the

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Speaker 4: value him because he don't see him doing nothing except

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Speaker 4: sleeping with his mama. That's the problem you have, and

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Speaker 4: them feelings ain't fitna leave that boy no time soon.

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Speaker 3: So the conversation you should have.

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Speaker 4: Really is with this man of yours as to what

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Speaker 4: kind of example he's setting for your son, Because all

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Speaker 4: boys want to be some type of man.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be a good man or bad man.

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Speaker 4: And right now that's the example of manhood that's been

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Speaker 4: put in front of him, and he don't see much

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Speaker 3: Man coming out of him.

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Speaker 2: Great advice I was on that.

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Speaker 4: If you went to the bath, if you went to

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Speaker 4: the boyfriend and said, I wish you'd talk to my son,

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Speaker 4: maybe y'all could do it together or something, it would

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Speaker 4: mean a lot to him and then you could finally

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Speaker 4: see what you're dealing with, which don't sound like much

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Speaker 4: or nothing.

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Speaker 2: All right, Thank you, CLO.

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Speaker 5: Good morning. This is your girl Carla Farrell from the

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Speaker 5: Steve Harvey Morning Show and my favorite Christmas memory is

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Speaker 5: every year my mom and grandma would decorate the home

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Speaker 5: and play the Temptations Christmas album.

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Speaker 2: When we were here. Donnie Hathaway come mom with.

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Speaker 5: Jam every Christmas season, So have a wonderful Holiday season.

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Speaker 5: We would have agnaw my grandmother would make homemade egnaw.

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Speaker 5: Just wonderful, wonderful memories. But have a wonderful Holiday season.

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Speaker 5: From Carla Ferrell and all of us here our family

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Speaker 5: to yours at the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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