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Speaker 1: Brooking jubil in the morning. Remember, if you want a

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Speaker 1: second date update, all you have to do is email

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Speaker 1: us Brook and Jewel at Moving nine two five dot com.

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Speaker 1: We will call the person that didn't call you back.

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Speaker 1: We've got Martin on the phone with us. We just

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Speaker 1: spoke with him about the date that he went on

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Speaker 1: with a girl named Joe Anne. They went downtown, had

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Speaker 1: Thai food, rode the Ferris Wheel. He doesn't understand why

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Speaker 1: she isn't calling him back. It sounds to me, Martin,

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Speaker 1: like you're not over the long relationship that you got

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Speaker 1: out of five years. Well, you know, I just think Martin,

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Speaker 1: you sound kind of boring a little bit. I mean,

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Speaker 1: there's just there's just not a lot of inflection in

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Speaker 1: his voice. I was trying to give him a valid

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Speaker 1: reason that restructive feedback. Anybody else want to pile on literally,

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Speaker 1: I think Martin might be ugly. I don't know, Martin.

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Speaker 1: I think you're a great human being. You know what

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Speaker 1: I meant, right, Martin, Sometimes it's hard to have perspective

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Speaker 1: on oneself. Martin's gonna do the second day up. It's

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Speaker 1: just gonna have horrible insecurity. That's all I meant all right, Martin,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call joe Anne right now. I get her

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Speaker 1: on the phone and get your second day update. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get so much hate text for that while

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Speaker 1: we call her. I just want you to say some

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Speaker 1: confident things to yourself in the mirror to make yourself

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Speaker 1: feel better. I apologize for piling on. Hello. Hi, can

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Speaker 1: I speak to Joeanne? Please? Hi? How are you? How

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Speaker 1: are you? I'm good? Do you know who this is? No,

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Speaker 1: not at all. You're like the most friendly person I've

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Speaker 1: ever spoke to. Hi. This is Jewil from brook and

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Speaker 1: Jewel in the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five

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Speaker 1: at the radio station. Oh okay, why are you calling?

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Speaker 1: You were going on a date with a guy named

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Speaker 1: Martin a little while ago. Yeah, I went on one

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Speaker 1: date with Martin. That's interesting because we do a segment

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Speaker 1: on our show called the second Date Update. It's where

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Speaker 1: if you go on a date with someone and then

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Speaker 1: blow them off, they email us to ask why you

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Speaker 1: haven't called him back. So Martin emailed us about you.

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Speaker 1: It is kind. You started out this phone call so happy, happy,

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Speaker 1: Come on, Joanne, just so confused. He emailed us and

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Speaker 1: said that you guys met through a mutual friend. You

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Speaker 1: went downtown, had some sushi, rode the ferris wheel, and had,

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Speaker 1: in his opinion of fun time, and then you parted

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Speaker 1: ways and hasn't heard from you since. Okay, that's definitely

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Speaker 1: not how the date went. And clearly his memory is

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Speaker 1: not ringing true because what you're talking about his ex

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Speaker 1: girlfriend the whole time about you know, he painted for

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Speaker 1: five years. He doesn't know how to date clearly. And

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Speaker 1: then like towards the end of the night, we were

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Speaker 1: like on the ferris wheel and he's like, you know,

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Speaker 1: let's talk about what we could change. Let's see what

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Speaker 1: would we change about each other. And he's like, I

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Speaker 1: would change your nose. What your nose looks like a

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Speaker 1: dolphin's nose. It's long, it's pointy. And then he starts

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Speaker 1: going on about how he would take a little off

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Speaker 1: from a bet, justok, a little bit like five pounds,

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Speaker 1: but other than that would be perfect. And I could

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Speaker 1: not get out of that date faster enough. He actually

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Speaker 1: said he would take five pounds off of you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that is that's terrible. Joanne Martin's on the phone with

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Speaker 1: us right now. I was just kidding alone. I mean

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Speaker 1: I get I say stupid stuff when i'd bit nervous.

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Speaker 1: If you're on a first date with someone and you

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Speaker 1: shouldn't be tearing them apart and saying what you would

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Speaker 1: change about them. You should be complimenting them. I don't

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Speaker 1: even know you, Yeah, Martin, say something for yourself. Dude,

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Speaker 1: you look really bad right now. The only reason I

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know she's got the resent. We've all

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Speaker 1: been on a date where people make bad jokes. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: every girl that's ever dated Jose, that is true. I

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Speaker 1: can see they show up to Jose's door. You gotta

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Speaker 1: look like a dolphin with your big nose. There the

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Speaker 1: only comments on big boobs. What are you guys talking about.

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Speaker 1: I mean, she definitely need to lose. I mean, can't

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Speaker 1: she see that she looks great? No? No, she looks great.

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Speaker 1: She should know she looks great. Did Joanne? Do you

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Speaker 1: believe any of his crap right now? No? I don't

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Speaker 1: even know why I'm on the phone. Yeah, liarly, I

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Speaker 1: huble question. I'm not the only guy that's says stupid

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Speaker 1: stuff let me get nervous. Uh No, I think guys

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Speaker 1: think girls say stupid stuff when they're nervous too. Absolutely.

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Speaker 1: I do, however, think that most guys nervous, drunk, stupid everything. No,

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Speaker 1: never to tell a woman she should lose five pounds,

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Speaker 1: whether you've been on the first date or twenty years

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Speaker 1: of marriage. I don't even have alcohol as an excuse.

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Speaker 1: But I get what you're saying, man, I mean, I

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Speaker 1: understand you could be nervous and they're trying to be

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Speaker 1: funny and cute and go like, let's play a little game.

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Speaker 1: It didn't work out in your favor, But why wouldn't

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Speaker 1: you take the game to like what you love about

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Speaker 1: each other? I feel like that would be creepy though

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Speaker 1: on a first date, like I'm gonna tell you everything

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Speaker 1: that I like about it would be an improvement, That's

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Speaker 1: all I'm saying. Why don't Martin, you tell her what

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Speaker 1: you really think of her right now and be as

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Speaker 1: specific as you were before when you were negative? Okay,

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Speaker 1: Like if I didn't think you were beautiful and cool

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Speaker 1: after dinner, I would have said, Okay, well thanks, that

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Speaker 1: was great. Bye. But I think you're beautiful, and how

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Speaker 1: about I just make it easy for you. I'm just

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Speaker 1: not interested. There it is, there it is, folks, Joanne. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I want to play a little game with you right now.

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Speaker 1: If I could change one thing about you, it would

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Speaker 1: be that you would give Martin a second chance. Is

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Speaker 1: there any chance that you would go out with him again? No,

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Speaker 1: thank you, I'm sorry. We'll pay for it. We'll pay

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Speaker 1: for the date. No, no, no, I'm gonna think so.

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Speaker 1: She's probably calling plastic surgeons after this date to try

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Speaker 1: to get her nose fixed because he made her so

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Speaker 1: self called Martin boring a little while ago. Well, I

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Speaker 1: wish I would have said worse after I heard people

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Speaker 1: with all right, Joanne, thank you, Thanks, have a good day, Martin. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you got your answer. Yeah, I need to work on editing.

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Speaker 1: I'll give you some advice. Figure out a go to

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Speaker 1: move when you get nervous. The what would I change

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Speaker 1: about your game? Forget that one? Clearly is not a

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Speaker 1: good move. All right, Yeah, I agree, I got it, dude,

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Speaker 1: I got the game for you when you get nervous. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: whatt you sit there and you go let's play a game.

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Speaker 1: I'm to point out all the other girls in the room,

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Speaker 1: I'd rather do than you in the morning. I actually

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Speaker 1: feel bad for Martin. It's broken jewel in the morning,

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Speaker 1: I'm moved a ninety two point five. You didn't hear

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Speaker 1: the second dight update that we just played for you, Martin.

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Speaker 1: When I was a girl named Joanne, he got really nervous.

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Speaker 1: He just got out a five year relationship as the

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Speaker 1: first date he's been on in six months. It's the

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Speaker 1: third date he's been on. Oh, don't give him too

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Speaker 1: much credit. I feel like he's just not very good

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Speaker 1: at dating and he's heartbroken. But he decided to play

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Speaker 1: a little game with his date called what would We

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Speaker 1: change about each other? Because he was nervous, he said

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Speaker 1: so many texts came in just ripping the guy. One

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Speaker 1: of the Texas seven eight five and Night two says,

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Speaker 1: oh MG, this guy sounds like Jose at butchering dates.

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Speaker 1: Even Jose wouldn't go into telling a girl that she

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Speaker 1: needs to lose five pounds. That was the one that

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Speaker 1: got me talk about her how nicer boobs are, no

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Speaker 1: matter how yea, no matter how nervous you are, Why

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Speaker 1: would you ever say that, Jenny, you thought that Martin

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Speaker 1: was funny, though. I thought he was hilarious. I think

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Speaker 1: needs to calm down. Really, he compared her nose to

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Speaker 1: a dolphin and told her she needed to drop some pounds.

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Speaker 1: needs to get some self confident. They're on a freaking

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Speaker 1: ferris wheel, for Christ's sake, right, you sit on that

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Speaker 1: thing for quite a while, it's like, makes it okay,

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Speaker 1: say whatever you want. I don't know that. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: use an excuse. Hey, sorry, I was on a ferris wheel.

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Speaker 1: I didn't mean to I didn't mean to tell you

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Speaker 1: to put the fork down. I don't think Martin's a

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Speaker 1: bad guy. Like he he sounds clueless. He doesn't sound

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Speaker 1: That's what I would say. What I don't understand is

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Speaker 1: how can a man be with a woman for five

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Speaker 1: five years? If not training him? Martin is single now

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Speaker 1: for a reason. For a reason, I think if you

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