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Speaker 1: Second date update. If you've ever been set up by

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Speaker 1: a friend for a blind date, you know how awkward

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Speaker 1: that can be, especially if the friend who's setting you

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Speaker 1: up is Brook.

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Speaker 2: My god, no, no, I am so good at this.

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Speaker 2: One of my friends actually got married to the person

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Speaker 2: I said her up.

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Speaker 1: But the problem is Brook is notoriously competitive. So right

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Speaker 1: after she introduces you to the date, Brook undoes an

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Speaker 1: extra button and tries to flirt and then steal the

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Speaker 1: guy right back. Mommy can give it, take you. That's

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Speaker 1: how it's done. Apparently isn't as awkward as the blind

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Speaker 1: date situation. One of our listeners found herself tossed into

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Speaker 1: the other night the Brook button yourself back up and

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Speaker 1: let's say, hi Robin, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hi, thanks my buttons.

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Speaker 1: We're in a safe space now, but it's still uncomfortable

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Speaker 1: a little bit. Yeah. So you went out on a

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Speaker 1: blind date set up by a friend.

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Speaker 3: I did it was something else, did I did?

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Speaker 4: I hear the sales pitch from your friend, like why

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Speaker 1: Let's tell us how it started.

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Speaker 3: All right, So I'm recently single. Okay, my friends were

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Speaker 3: just really encouraging me to go on and get out there.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, jump back on the horse. And it

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Speaker 3: had been a long time since I'd been on any

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Speaker 5: I thought you were going to say any horse, Well

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Speaker 5: that too, okay, And what did that feel like on.

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Speaker 2: The dating apps for your first time in a while.

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Speaker 3: Well, I wasn't really sure what to do, and so

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Speaker 3: my friend, like my bestie, said I can make a

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Speaker 2: Okay, well.

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Speaker 1: Dangerous.

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Speaker 3: I was a little hesitant, but I mean she does

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Speaker 3: know me the best, so I just trusted her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I has my best friend to do it.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I would argue my mom knows me better

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Speaker 1: for me and that turned out freaking horribly. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe that's different. I'm sure your friend

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Speaker 1: was kinder than my mom was. Tell us how it went,

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Speaker 1: how did it go?

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Speaker 3: So basically, I get a call from her like a

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Speaker 3: week after. I guess she's been really monitoring my Oh she's.

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Speaker 2: Still logged in.

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Speaker 1: We're exciting.

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Speaker 5: I thought, like, she set it up for you and

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Speaker 5: then she let you go, like you know, give you wings,

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Speaker 1: It sounds like she took full control over your dating profile.

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Speaker 3: I guess I wasn't ready for the wings just yet.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: He told me that she found the perfect match for me, Like, Hey,

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Speaker 3: we're going to go to this nice bar tomorrow and

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna come with you.

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Speaker 2: What way?

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Speaker 1: Now she's pulling a Brook move. But does that mean

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Speaker 1: she told the guy, Hey, I'm setting up my friend

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Speaker 3: She said she was setting up me.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, so there's honesty from the beginning.

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Speaker 1: Before you went to the bar, did she show you

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Speaker 3: No, No, she didn't.

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Speaker 1: It was a real blind.

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Speaker 3: Definition blind date. Yeah, and I was like, okay, well,

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Speaker 2: Okay, So is he there when you walk into the bar?

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Speaker 6: She didn't know.

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Speaker 2: Well, her friend would know. Her friend would tell her.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know, but I will say. Right after walking in,

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Speaker 3: you must be Robin.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and he's cute.

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Speaker 3: She picked a good one. His name is Jay.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's awesome.

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Speaker 1: Well, good work on your friend.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. So here's where it gets crazy. My

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Speaker 3: She's like, hey, they hide a cal and Jack. And

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Speaker 3: So she made a very public announcement and I quote,

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Speaker 3: I all here to give her her own TV experience

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Speaker 3: as the Bachelor.

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Speaker 1: Ret No, oh my god.

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Speaker 3: Invited like twenty guys.

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Speaker 2: It was men. Twenty men were waiting for just one men,

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Speaker 2: but not all of them new.

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Speaker 3: Not all of them new, And like I saw a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would walk out.

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Speaker 2: That wasn't because you. They just couldn't handle the competition.

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Speaker 1: You know, how did you feel when your friend sprung

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Speaker 6: I was horrified.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So what did you say to your friend?

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Speaker 2: Was she did she get that? You were? Like mortified?

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Speaker 3: I think she got it. But she pushes me, which

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Speaker 3: most of the time is a good thing. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 3: you know we balanced each other out.

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Speaker 1: So did you start talking to all these dudes?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just I just imagine her with a clipboard

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Speaker 2: Like, all right, next, come on, I got to organize.

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Speaker 2: It's a casting call.

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Speaker 1: She's doing side interviews.

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Speaker 3: She just might have done that. I wouldn't be surprised.

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Speaker 1: My god, I mean, did you end up like vibing

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Speaker 3: Surprisingly?

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Speaker 3: Oh, okay, they're at least like three or four that

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Speaker 1: Really so, are we calling four guys right now? What's

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Speaker 6: Well?

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Speaker 3: I really like the first guy that was there right in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you told us his name Jay.

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Speaker 2: Got really distracted by the twenty dudes forgotten it and

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Speaker 2: why did Why did Jay stand out?

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Speaker 3: He was just like really smart and son. We had

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Speaker 6: And all that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's on time. He was the first one there.

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Speaker 1: So Jay was your favorite from the Bachelorette experience?

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Speaker 3: Like him? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Did you ever end up going out with him again

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Speaker 3: So we exchanged numbers, okay, and we've been texting and

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like he's fading a little bit.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I just I don't know why keeps pulling away?

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Speaker 6: Now?

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Speaker 2: Interesting? I mean, how long has it been since your

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Speaker 2: That's a long time. Yeah, that's a long time. Did

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Speaker 2: you ever go out with any of the other guys now?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 1: Is the one and only.

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Speaker 2: All eggs one basket hunt?

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Speaker 1: All right, thank god, here's what we're doing. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: come back. We're gonna call Jay for you, and we're

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Speaker 1: did he all go out with you? One morning? With

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Speaker 1: your second date? Up games right after that second date update.

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Speaker 1: Anybody who's seen The Bachelor or The Bachelorette knows the

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Speaker 1: relationships that start on those shows have a notoriously high

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Speaker 1: success rate of going I lost seasons. I'd say almost

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Speaker 1: three of those couples are still on speaking terms, which

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Speaker 1: is pretty good. I'd like, we may get divorced before

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Speaker 1: the marriage. But I bring it up because one of

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Speaker 1: our listeners, Robin, had her own bachelorette experience the other night,

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Speaker 1: did not know what was happening until she arrived at

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Speaker 1: It was hero, this is not your moment.

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Speaker 6: This is.

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Speaker 1: Why buttons back up, please. Robin spooks to all of

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Speaker 1: them that night, at least the ones who didn't immediately

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Speaker 1: guy that she liked the best was actually the first

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Speaker 1: one she met, named Jay. They had a great time

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Speaker 1: after that, so we do apologize for broke. After that night,

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Speaker 1: Robin feels like she's been putting more effort into like

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Speaker 1: seeing him again. She wants some help moving things along.

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Speaker 4: What we didn't ask is have you asked your best

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Speaker 2: Or we are we done with her advice?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well I think I'm taking just a little break.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, we'll go back.

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Speaker 1: To her after we're done calling Jay here. First, Let's

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Speaker 2: Doesn't want to go out with you again. Bonus, you

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Speaker 2: got some backup numbers still right from that night. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean yeah, okay, the overflow guys.

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Speaker 1: Maybe let's just trying to focus on Jay for now.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to dial his number let's hopefully he picks up.

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Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking to speak with

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Speaker 1: Jay speaking. Hey Jay, you are speaking with a radio

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Speaker 1: show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 7: Good morning, Oh wow, hey, good morning. How you doing?

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Speaker 2: Cuttle voice? I think he has an accent, sir, I mean, no,

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Speaker 1: You sound pretty comfortable being on the radio here, do

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Speaker 7: Every now and then? Yeah, I would say, yeah, oh

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Speaker 7: no accent.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, we can turn Brooks microphone off.

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Speaker 2: I am just jokeing.

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Speaker 1: We're all very excited to talk to you because we've

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Speaker 1: heard about you through one of our listeners that you

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Speaker 1: met the other night and she had a really good

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Speaker 1: time with you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well a couple of weeks bill, right.

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Speaker 1: Huh it's someone that you met named Robin.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, you definitely remember Robin.

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Speaker 4: And she didn't say like you're ghosting or anything like that.

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Speaker 4: It sounds like you guys have been chatting a little

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Speaker 7: We have, but it's it's been pretty nice.

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Speaker 1: I could say, yeah, okay and we've heard about how

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm wondering, how what was that like for you.

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Speaker 7: I'm actually really surprised she even told you. She explained

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Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, did you know going in that her friend

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Speaker 7: Well, that's the thing. I walked in there. I'm expecting

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Speaker 7: I had no idea what was going on. No, but

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Speaker 4: Oh no, I want to crawl into all that.

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Speaker 7: Honestly, I felt really bad for her because she seemed shocked.

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Speaker 7: I don't really think she walked in there expecting this

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Speaker 7: We were both shocked, which I think is why we

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Speaker 4: So what if you guys like you sounds like you

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Speaker 2: Were you going to ask her out and you just

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Speaker 7: Or so here's the thing. My friends we were talking

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Speaker 7: Why don't we do this for you?

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Speaker 1: Wait what Yeah, you're doing the same thing as she's doing.

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Speaker 7: So I gave them the password for my dating app

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Speaker 2: And if that's the case, why isn't Robin invited? She

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Speaker 1: That's not very fair to Robin, who like chose you

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Speaker 1: Zero unless it's open bar that night, and the guys

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Speaker 7: I just figured that if she was doing it, maybe

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Speaker 4: So wait, so you want to go out with Robin,

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Speaker 7: Sure Robin's going out with like three or four of

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Speaker 1: You know, that wasn't what we heard from her, But

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 7: True.

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Speaker 1: We do have a way that we could find out,

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Speaker 1: because I need to let you know, Jay that there

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Speaker 2: We would hand out carnation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, surprise, it's Robin.

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Speaker 2: She's on the phone.

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Speaker 7: She's on the phone. What do you mean she's on

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Hi, Hi Robin.

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Speaker 6: Hey this is really weird.

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Speaker 7: Yeah a little bit. Have you been though?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't what kind of question is that?

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Speaker 7: Well, I wouldn't say that's the case. I mean I

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Speaker 6: You, Okay, I'm.

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Speaker 7: Honestly I mean, the reason I haven't made like an

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Speaker 6: To you and make me you know, God forbid, my

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Speaker 4: But isn't that the whole problem with dating right now

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Speaker 1: It Hamster's having fun on the wheel right now. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: but Robin, what I'm hearing here is this bachelor pad

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I can't force you to do anything,

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Speaker 6: However, I will say.

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Speaker 3: If the only thing holding you back is just the

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Speaker 7: I don't want to let my friends down though, either.

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Speaker 2: You know, I.

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Speaker 4: Honestly think if you go to that and you have

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Book is plotting her key party ida like she

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Speaker 7: I think that's a great idea. Okay, but I can't

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Speaker 7: do that. Oh why, No matter what after the event,

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna text you. I'm gonna call you.

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Speaker 2: Lucky you Robin.

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Speaker 1: You want to say to Jay before we end this?

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Speaker 3: You know, I know that I probably shouldn't. I know

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Speaker 1: Wait what after all that you're going to go out

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I really think that they're going to work out. I

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Speaker 4: I think that he's gonna go and there's gonna be

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Speaker 2: Out for him, and he's going to be like, I'm

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Speaker 1: And you know, the dudes are way worse at picking

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Speaker 2: I bet the half of them are catfishes.

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Speaker 1: You would stick around if a guy said to you, Hey,

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Speaker 1: I really really like you, but I'm going to date

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Speaker 1: twenty other women. First, I haven't even gone.

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Speaker 7: Out of a date.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't have DIBs on anything.

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Speaker 1: They can't go on a date as twenty other ones lined.

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Speaker 2: Up for who does it? These days?

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Speaker 1: I give up on relationships and love, don't you, Jack?

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Speaker 1: You know what? They're still hard for you. You can

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Speaker 1: twenty five other people that you're also sort of interested in,

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Speaker 1: ye try and get you a second date.

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Speaker 2: That's why this segment works, where everyone gets a date.

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Speaker 1: Rooking Jeffrey in the morning,