Speaker 1: I just am fascinated by these second date updates because
Speaker 1: we've been there, been on the other end of not
Speaker 1: knowing what's up right. You think you're reading it right,
Speaker 1: maybe you're not reading right. So this guy writes to us,
Speaker 1: his name is Ian. Ian reaches out and he says,
Speaker 1: I went on an amazing first date bike ride in Venice.
Speaker 1: It was incredible, fun meal drinks lass. But now I
Speaker 1: text her, she doesn't want to do anything. She doesn't
Speaker 1: even respond, So I thanks for coming on.
Speaker 2: Hey, thank you Ryan.
Speaker 1: I liked the bike ride idea. Did you guys rent
Speaker 1: them or you took your own?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 2: We rented him, Okay.
Speaker 4: Beach cruisers.
Speaker 2: Yeah they were.
Speaker 4: Actually I think those look cool like those are just
Speaker 4: I think they're very charming. A cruise on a beach cruiser. Yeah,
Speaker 4: yeah it So how did you know this person?
Speaker 2: So we actually met at physical therapy. She was recovering
Speaker 2: from the surgery and I had broken my ankle. But anyway,
Speaker 2: I would always see her there on Saturday mornings and
Speaker 2: we would smile at each other. It was awesome. So
Speaker 2: I timed it so we would walk out together and
Speaker 2: when we got to our cars, which were right next
Speaker 2: to each other, which seemed so perfect. I just asked
Speaker 2: her out.
Speaker 5: I love that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you ask her out, you do this what
Speaker 1: sounds like a great date, and now she's not getting
Speaker 1: back to you. When you start thinking it through and
Speaker 1: walking through all the moments and beats of this date
Speaker 1: and this time together in your head.
Speaker 4: What happened?
Speaker 2: Well, I really don't know. I mean, we went on
Speaker 2: a bike ride, we went to out Tarasco for lunch.
Speaker 2: We didn't kiss, which honestly I kind of expected it
Speaker 2: just because it was during the day. But we didn't
Speaker 2: hug either, which was a little disappointing.
Speaker 5: What did you guys do after dinner?
Speaker 2: Just went out for lunch?
Speaker 5: Well, what did you guys do?
Speaker 3: Act?
Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly, Like how do you say goodbye?
Speaker 2: I just said, hey, it was a great time. I'd
Speaker 2: love to do this again.
Speaker 4: And would you bown? Like what do you now?
Speaker 5: I mean, did you hid?
Speaker 1: That's so weird You're standing in front of them waving bye.
Speaker 5: I just think a hug at least, right.
Speaker 2: I mean, I would have liked that, but it just
Speaker 2: didn't happen.
Speaker 5: Are you a little more reserved? Like why didn't you
Speaker 5: go in.
Speaker 4: For the hug?
Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, I I just thought that
Speaker 2: I wanted to be respectful and you weren't feeling Yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean she seemed she seemed fine. I don't know.
Speaker 1: Look, clearly you don't. And that's why we're here, and
Speaker 1: that's what we're gonna do. We're gonna try and get her.
Speaker 1: She's agreed to come all on surprisingly and we're going
Speaker 1: to talk to her about what happened.
Speaker 4: You'll hear all of this. Let us try and find
Speaker 4: out what went wrong.
Speaker 5: If you want to know, Are you sure you want
Speaker 5: to know?
Speaker 2: It's really been driving me kind of crazy, so I
Speaker 2: would really like to know.
Speaker 4: I will tell you.
Speaker 1: Hold on one second, and I will tell you that
Speaker 1: I did avoid the hug with Tanya when we went
Speaker 1: to lunch. Yes, I dodged the hug. Why I know,
Speaker 1: thank TMZ was out front.
Speaker 5: Which also it's fine to hug your co workers. Like
Speaker 5: I was thinking about that in.
Speaker 6: Hindsight, and I was like, no one thinks anything weird
Speaker 6: is going on.
Speaker 5: I have loved.
Speaker 4: Disneyland. Tickets.
Speaker 1: Will try to track down Morgan. It's kiss FM on
Speaker 1: air on.
Speaker 5: Air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 1: On air. Secret So we do this thing called second
Speaker 1: date update. Sometimes I wonder why, but to help, that's why. Yeah.
Speaker 4: Uh, you know.
Speaker 1: It's like when you out with somebody and they blow
Speaker 1: you off and you can't figure out why and you
Speaker 1: want peace of mind, but you don't. You can't get
Speaker 1: them on the phone. You can't get them the text back.
Speaker 1: We try and get the answer for you. You have
Speaker 1: to have a little thick skin for this though. So
Speaker 1: Ian goo'es on a bike ride Venice to Manhattan Beach.
Speaker 1: They stop, they have a drink, they eat whatever, they laugh,
Speaker 1: but at the end it's like a goodbye wave, no hug,
Speaker 1: no kiss, no handshake, and he's trying to get her
Speaker 1: to go out again and she's not responding.
Speaker 4: So what could go wrong on this bike ride? What happened?
Speaker 4: Is he an un sexy biker?
Speaker 1: I don't know, h Like, like, if you were to
Speaker 1: see me in snorkel gear, you might not want to
Speaker 1: go out with me.
Speaker 4: Like you put on the gear. I'm just wanting to
Speaker 4: put on.
Speaker 5: The gear pushes on your lips and your cheeks. Right,
Speaker 5: if you were to see look on anybody with the.
Speaker 4: Fins, the flippers, it's.
Speaker 1: Not you would literally whatever turned you on would turn
Speaker 1: you so off.
Speaker 6: There is this video that went viral of this woman
Speaker 6: who like shows a video of a cup like a
Speaker 6: newly dating couple in the water in the ocean. They're like,
Speaker 6: you know, being cuy and she goes and this is
Speaker 6: my tenure marriage and it shows her husband coming at
Speaker 6: her with like goggles or like a snorkel, just not snorkel.
Speaker 1: I that's why I don't wear snorkel gear unless I'm snorkling. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because it's not cute to where elsewhere?
Speaker 4: Uh? Morgan? Yeah, how are you?
Speaker 3: I'm doing all right? How are you?
Speaker 1: I'm doing well too, So just calling you about Ian
Speaker 1: And this might or might not make sense, but if
Speaker 1: you just go with this here we're trying to find
Speaker 1: out how you went out with him on a date.
Speaker 4: How was that?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: It was It was nice. He was he was nice.
Speaker 3: He was funny, sweaty.
Speaker 4: It was funny and sweaty.
Speaker 3: What yeah?
Speaker 4: Okay, so y'all what did you do? What did you do?
Speaker 3: We went on a bike ride together? Uh huh yeah
Speaker 3: in Venice.
Speaker 1: And what'd y'all do on the bike ride? What'd y'all
Speaker 1: talk about? Where'd y'll stop?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 3: We were just like chatting, making small talk. We were
Speaker 3: we had met in physical therapy, so we were sort
Speaker 3: of like bonding about our injuries and stuff and surgeries
Speaker 3: and all that, and yeah, you know, he had a
Speaker 3: great smile, and you know it was nice, great, But.
Speaker 1: You know, it's funny you say all these things because
Speaker 1: to me, in a world where you're dating, you meet somebody,
Speaker 1: you have a common denominator like this injury, you bond
Speaker 1: over that. You go on a bike ride, you're outside
Speaker 1: in somen California, you have a bike to eat. That's
Speaker 1: all good, that seems like a great day. What's next?
Speaker 3: Well, like I said, I like this guy just like
Speaker 3: sweats uncontrollably.
Speaker 1: So now that's a healthy thing in many cases, right
Speaker 1: because your metabolism is up, you're burning calories, you're shining,
Speaker 1: you're you know, it's like, did you find it sure
Speaker 1: an issue?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I mean I guess maybe that makes me sound a
Speaker 3: little superficial, but it was kind of a major turn
Speaker 3: off for me. Like it it gave me the ick,
Speaker 3: you know. And and we went down to the beach,
Speaker 3: like not even very far, like I usually go all
Speaker 3: the way down to Manhattan Beach, but he was like
Speaker 3: ready to turn around which is fine, but like it
Speaker 3: was sixty degrees, which is like not even that warm
Speaker 3: for la and you know, the sun was out, but
Speaker 3: he like he was.
Speaker 4: Sixty degrees on a bike is freezing. I've taken that ride.
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, that's that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And you or was it like his clothes were soaking wet.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get a picture and that was a turnoff.
Speaker 1: And that's why you don't want to go out with
Speaker 1: the guy again. Although everything else seemed cool.
Speaker 3: I mean everything what else was cool? Yeah, but like
Speaker 3: if I'm going to be physical with this person, you.
Speaker 4: Know, so wait, so you started thinking if you were.
Speaker 1: To be physical with the person that they would sweat
Speaker 1: on you, like if she goes all.
Speaker 3: The way totally, which is like that's great a lot.
Speaker 4: Okay, Morgan, do you say go all the way?
Speaker 3: I'm not really no, I'm just.
Speaker 4: Putting into the research. Okay, we're going to focus, all right.
Speaker 1: So Morgan, I just want to tell that Ian is
Speaker 1: on the phone. He's listening to this. I want to
Speaker 1: give him a chance to respond. I fee a little
Speaker 1: bit bad because he was really into and wanted to
Speaker 1: take you out again. Ian, what's your response to the
Speaker 1: sweat issue.
Speaker 2: Hey, Morgan, Hi, I mean it's accurate. I sweat a lot.
Speaker 3: I do, but.
Speaker 2: I mean I like to do stuff like viking and
Speaker 2: hiking and stuff.
Speaker 1: So I just said, do you sweat because you're in
Speaker 1: great shape and your body's just pumping out stuff.
Speaker 2: I just naturally sweat a lot. It's not something I
Speaker 2: can really control.
Speaker 4: Yeah, do you like, does he have an odor when
Speaker 4: he sweat?
Speaker 5: You know what fair question.
Speaker 2: You're asking me.
Speaker 5: I mean we were not there, Morgan.
Speaker 3: Yeah, without getting too like graphic. Yeah, it didn't smell great.
Speaker 1: Can you just pick a non athletic activity and have
Speaker 1: some chips and salce over Margaret reading, get to know
Speaker 1: each other.
Speaker 4: It's not like everything else is good.
Speaker 1: I don't want this to be a I feel for
Speaker 1: you Ian because I sometimes sweat.
Speaker 5: I too too, I too exactly, And then when you
Speaker 5: do get to that point when you're in the bedroom,
Speaker 5: maybe you just like post up a fan next to
Speaker 5: the bed.
Speaker 3: But there's like a difference between like a healthy amount
Speaker 3: of sweat and like a really really just like.
Speaker 4: Going in circles.
Speaker 1: And I feel bad for you because I don't think
Speaker 1: this is a reason to break it all up. I mean, Morgan,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out with him again? It's
Speaker 1: kind of that simple, yes, sir.
Speaker 3: No, I don't. I don't think so. Well.
Speaker 4: Thank you very much for chatting with us.
Speaker 5: Okay, I she's not your girl.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess so, Thank you, Morgan. I I like
Speaker 4: you for someone.
Speaker 5: Yeah, don't worry about her.
Speaker 4: I don't want the sweat thing to get in your head.
Speaker 4: That's not you know, like you can't control it. And
Speaker 4: by the way it's sweating.
Speaker 5: Is yeah, that's not going to be a big deal
Speaker 5: for somebody else.
Speaker 4: No, I kind of into it.
Speaker 2: I dried off when we went to the restaurant.
Speaker 5: Good, you're aware of it, and that's fine.
Speaker 4: And bro we I pray have pitsweat right now.
Speaker 6: I definitely have pit sweat.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry I had her.
Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you very much.
Speaker 3: Ian.
Speaker 1: You take care and there's someone out there for you.
Speaker 1: But I really appreciate reaching out to Luck.
Speaker 5: Thank you for your vulnerability.
Speaker 2: Thank you you guys.
Speaker 1: Ny you couldn't get physical somebody you might sweat like
Speaker 1: it just happens.
Speaker 4: Yeah, right, great.
Speaker 5: Can't you get botox in your armpits?
Speaker 1: These days?
Speaker 4: But not help about that. I'm not opening the Boatok store,
Speaker 4: but I.
Speaker 5: Heard people that sweat a lot in their arm pits.
Speaker 4: I heard a friend
Speaker 5: Done it in my armpits.