Speaker 1: Like you are bad as fucking You're a virgin, you
Speaker 1: bad as hell, you a boss like it's just a lot.
Speaker 1: And then on top of that who you are. Some
Speaker 1: people just want you because of who you are. Outside
Speaker 1: of that, that bussy could be bust wide. It don't matter,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. No, I say on that.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of people who are popular and they're
Speaker 1: they're not virgins, but people want them because of who
Speaker 1: they are. So the fact that that bussy ain't been
Speaker 1: busted wild you. You're a baddie.
Speaker 2: But this is a ride, you know I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I'm being honest.
Speaker 3: It's like you keep just glazing over that bussy.
Speaker 1: It's in pristine conditions. Because I've seen some blown out bussy.
Speaker 1: I get on X videos. I know what goes on.
Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?
Speaker 4: Is your girl.
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Speaker 4: Are tuned in to another episode.
Speaker 3: Of poor Mind where a drunk mind speaks sob birthdays.
Speaker 5: We gotta guest today, We gotta guess today.
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all something. Y'all know this person. They
Speaker 1: are one of the best hairstylists ever to exist. One
Speaker 1: of the most funniest people online and on top of that,
Speaker 1: a fashion killer don't play always puts it on.
Speaker 4: We have the one, the Only God.
Speaker 1: Yes, oh yeah, that's a narration right there, girl, how
Speaker 1: are you? I'm doing good? How you doing? I am great?
Speaker 1: Let me tell you I always do this. I know
Speaker 1: the listeners be like lix, please need a break. When
Speaker 1: I see people in person and it gives everything that
Speaker 1: it gives the mind, I'll just be like Chef's kids.
Speaker 4: I mean, it looks like you got on a parisil.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, you look the exact same person girl.
Speaker 2: And y'all it's always the pretty girls like yes, what
Speaker 2: the compliments?
Speaker 4: Amazing?
Speaker 1: Thank you taking one? And that one it does okay.
Speaker 1: So I like to start at the beginning, just for
Speaker 1: the people that are tuned in who aren't familiar with
Speaker 1: you and know, you know, don't know who you are.
Speaker 1: So you started off as a hairstylist, yes, now do
Speaker 1: you have your license? And you got my licenship.
Speaker 4: But you know what's crazy about that? I would have
Speaker 4: never guessed.
Speaker 1: You know, she comes to be a tea she said,
Speaker 1: ain't got my life saying, oh my god, yeah, it's honey.
Speaker 2: But you know, like you said, the best of the
Speaker 2: best don't normally have their license. It's just like a
Speaker 2: piece of paper to me, honest. Okay, because my aunt,
Speaker 2: who has a license, like, she gave me the hours.
Speaker 2: I just never went to take this test, if that
Speaker 2: makes sense. So I learned everything from her. So it's
Speaker 2: like child, I can literally take this test and go pass.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 4: Yeah, of course.
Speaker 1: So when you don't have your license, I means you
Speaker 1: can't wash hair with your package. Yeah you can't. You
Speaker 1: can't shampoo hair when State Board come, we gotta run.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's not the door.
Speaker 3: So you can't work in a salon either.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't really work on the salon. So I
Speaker 1: gotta come wash. You already washed them, right, but you.
Speaker 2: Know I still shout to pull my girls town now, okay,
Speaker 2: State Board, come try you.
Speaker 1: Know sneaking you got to go? Yeah, you do like
Speaker 1: this right, already do? Yes, I was already doing it. Okay.
Speaker 1: So talking about when you first started doing hair, like
Speaker 1: how old were you, like, when did you start doing hair?
Speaker 2: So I was this is back in twenty twelve. I
Speaker 2: was working at TAG on Fridays.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, yes, I would say, you did.
Speaker 4: What I used to be slanging them.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I worked for four months. Okay, I thought we
Speaker 1: were I was that probationary period. Okay, okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 2: Yes, So I was just you know, I was busting
Speaker 2: tables and tried the bills were behind, so you know,
Speaker 2: try to repos status everything, honey. So you know, I
Speaker 2: was like, let me start doing hair, and so I
Speaker 2: started doing the girls hair at the TGI Fridays and
Speaker 2: so like that was my little side money.
Speaker 1: And so the managers and stuff.
Speaker 2: They kind of like it kind of like overshadowed my
Speaker 2: work that I was really there for.
Speaker 1: And so I started being lazy eating one o'clock.
Speaker 2: And so they were just like you fired, and so
Speaker 2: I said, damn, what the hell am I gonna do now?
Speaker 1: So I just really stepped out on faith.
Speaker 2: Like advertising on craig List Instagram at the time just
Speaker 2: kind of got started. And like I was tried for
Speaker 2: like twenty five thirty dollars to do book presses Poe
Speaker 2: and curls.
Speaker 4: I wish I was driving to.
Speaker 1: Taxi. Yeah exactly.
Speaker 3: Noways, So did you always have a passion for doing
Speaker 3: hair or did you just start doing it because rent
Speaker 3: was due.
Speaker 2: So I always like, my sister used to let me
Speaker 2: go to the salon with her, and I would always
Speaker 2: like just watching the stylists, the people come in leaving
Speaker 2: looking so different and oh pretty, and so I was
Speaker 2: just fascinated and I was like, I want to do this.
Speaker 2: It's like, I think I was just made for beauty,
Speaker 2: because if you think about a hair, fashion, makeup, it
Speaker 2: all goes together.
Speaker 1: They're all complete to look.
Speaker 2: So I was like, let me do hair first, you know,
Speaker 2: to get my bules paid, and then I really fell
Speaker 2: in love with it and like it's not a job
Speaker 2: for me. Yeah, So it honestly just doesn't feel like work,
Speaker 2: Like if you have a passion for it, I think
Speaker 2: that it'll never feel like a job to you. Like
Speaker 2: if you look at the icons to the Janna Jackson,
Speaker 2: the Beyonce's, I just feel like they never retire, and
Speaker 2: that just I think it goes for hair too, any passion.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you said you learned from your sister, So
Speaker 1: I learned from my aunt. Your aunt, Okay, shout out
Speaker 1: to eng East Side of period.
Speaker 6: My girl.
Speaker 2: Yes, she taught me everything, so shy. She was there
Speaker 2: from the beginning the beginning. Yes, I love that.
Speaker 1: So who was your first like celebrity client, So very
Speaker 1: first one? What y'all considered celebrity, like it's reality TV.
Speaker 3: Or I know, I'm a little street, I'm a little
Speaker 3: streaks when it comes to celebrity, Like I think of
Speaker 3: like you know, actressies, right.
Speaker 4: Everybody famous.
Speaker 1: I'll be like, but I but I do.
Speaker 3: But I do think it's a categorized by least, right,
Speaker 3: So I feel like if you were like actress or
Speaker 3: if you're a rapper, a very known rapper and stuff,
Speaker 3: you're a well you're a least.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: But then I feel like the reality stars they be
Speaker 3: like Lee's least unless you a Kardashian then they.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, but I'll go about whatever you can. Yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: So, uh my first signing something was Bambi Basketball Wives. Okay,
Speaker 2: and you know I did her hair and she had
Speaker 2: like thirteen bundles. You know, band got a little smart head.
Speaker 2: Oh she wanted all them bundles in their head. But
Speaker 2: when I tell you she shot me out, everybody started
Speaker 2: to coming, like back in the day, Instagram like shoutouts
Speaker 2: was coming everything.
Speaker 1: Gas. Now you shot the motherfucker out. You ain't gonna
Speaker 1: get nothing else, right.
Speaker 2: Damn it shot your ass like you're gonna get up clients.
Speaker 1: So it just Instagram to algorithm change. But did her?
Speaker 2: And then my first real, real, real big celebrity will
Speaker 2: have to be Portia Williams.
Speaker 1: All Right, I am a portious me too. I love
Speaker 1: her and when it's okay. So I'll say this as
Speaker 1: a consumer, it's different between like if you do somebody's
Speaker 1: hair and all their hair looks good versus doing somebody
Speaker 1: hair who is known for being polished, Like if you
Speaker 1: do a porsial hair, a cast all hair like that,
Speaker 1: that differently it does because, like you said, shoutouts aren't
Speaker 1: the same. But if cash doll shout you are, you're
Speaker 1: getting booked. But they known for hair. Yes, yes, so
Speaker 1: that that that does hit a little different. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Like me, if I recommend a good bean,
Speaker 1: I like beans. I love a good good bean. Play
Speaker 1: if I shout out some beans, the people gonna buy
Speaker 1: it up.
Speaker 3: Let's talk about beans every episode. Some goddamn beans. I'm
Speaker 3: working on that bushes deal now it's coming because all
Speaker 3: the indoor sea.
Speaker 4: I have built like it's immune to it. You know
Speaker 4: what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I built up that fiber and take did you ask
Speaker 1: her about forty Yes, I'm saying the same thing.
Speaker 3: I'll be like, you need to carry some bean now
Speaker 3: in your part.
Speaker 1: That it is naturally in my DNA. Oh, it's in
Speaker 1: me the beans. I made it.
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, honey, Okay, go head, go ahead.
Speaker 3: So I wanted to know how do you stay with
Speaker 3: the trends because just like you just said, you know,
Speaker 3: back in the day, the girls used to love to
Speaker 3: wear ten fifteen bundles in their hair. Now these days,
Speaker 3: I feel like the girls be going for a more
Speaker 3: natural So how do you stay on top of the trains?
Speaker 1: Is just and on? Was always up today? You know what?
Speaker 2: Honestly I would see back in my day that's like
Speaker 2: I'm eight years okay, you know, uh, the girls see
Speaker 2: my clients because I did like a different type of hair.
Speaker 2: They didn't really like all that hair. Like I have
Speaker 2: some clients that like, you know, getting out of here.
Speaker 2: But I always went for the more natural, realistic type
Speaker 2: of approach.
Speaker 1: So I think I always just been you know, ahead
Speaker 1: of the game.
Speaker 2: Ye like with the baby hairs, I never you know,
Speaker 2: you I was just about to say that, you know
Speaker 2: them girls, they love they take their whole front of them.
Speaker 2: They look, yes, it be a bundle of.
Speaker 1: Can't even see. I don't see how the girls even
Speaker 1: drive ship. That just war because down here. But I
Speaker 1: will say I think the baby hair Tren came from.
Speaker 1: And I'm I love a little baby hair. But when
Speaker 1: I have the frontals, like when that lace get a
Speaker 1: little old and it's lifting, you need that baby hair
Speaker 1: kind of you do? You know? I like baby hair.
Speaker 1: I'm not against them.
Speaker 2: I just like, to me the only person that I
Speaker 2: think they can do some good baby hairs. And I
Speaker 2: think they really took it as his hat.
Speaker 1: He even natural looks.
Speaker 2: He does amazing just all around amazing stylar.
Speaker 1: And I think too it's like that soft baby hair
Speaker 1: like yeah, just forth and they're like a curtain in
Speaker 1: a look likewn hair.
Speaker 3: You cut their hair to make it look lam they
Speaker 3: do their real hair like that.
Speaker 1: Yes, I got to make your work right. You know
Speaker 1: where you get your hair? Bright of these braids is old, girl,
Speaker 1: I ain't got to get my hair.
Speaker 2: I think the older they look the better.
Speaker 1: But when them edges start falling out, when I tell you.
Speaker 1: I got a bob right now, right here, just sitting there.
Speaker 1: I'm struggling. Okay, so before we get home, because I
Speaker 1: know I'm gonna forget because I'm.
Speaker 4: The only one drinking. Ye, so tie, our beautiful tie.
Speaker 4: What are we drinking today?
Speaker 3: So look, I had to do some Instagram stalking and man,
Speaker 3: this is for the baddest in the room.
Speaker 1: Okay that Instagram eight honey.
Speaker 3: Okay, So this is for you. This is what this
Speaker 3: is called the baddest in the room. This is a mocktail,
Speaker 3: but you can add whatever spirit of choice. We have
Speaker 3: some grapefruit, we have some strawberries, some lavender, some basil,
Speaker 3: and a little bit of lemon juice. And then we
Speaker 3: topped it with a sparkling water, a little bit of
Speaker 3: a gave as well, and we garnish it with some
Speaker 3: floating strawberries and some basil inside.
Speaker 1: So cheers, this is the baddest in the room. Cheers, cheers.
Speaker 1: See you, Alionza. So I do have real quick Have
Speaker 1: you ever been a wig where m I like the
Speaker 1: U part V part Okay, so but you've never been
Speaker 1: like a lace? I have them, but I just can't
Speaker 1: lay that front down.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I need the baby hair probably because when
Speaker 3: it lefts and I'm over it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm a braid girl. Braid or you part with
Speaker 1: Okay that was part back in the day.
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Speaker 1: ask you have you never drank liquor or you just
Speaker 1: like gave it up or you know where.
Speaker 2: I never drank, but you know I was when I
Speaker 2: was doing making a stallion here back in twenty nineteen,
Speaker 2: and it was b till Ward's weekend. She had me
Speaker 2: to do like two shots of duce mm hmm, and
Speaker 2: I didn't really feel nothing.
Speaker 1: Oh you got that duce that little hot heat cause
Speaker 1: you say get your I'm a little tired. I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't han't to feel nothing.
Speaker 2: She was like, what you got some other girls they
Speaker 2: was getting shine half a shot they was on the floor.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just like, girl it up. I had two,
Speaker 1: you know shou So I was like, damn, this is
Speaker 1: my first time drinking.
Speaker 4: So twenty nineteen was your first time?
Speaker 1: Dream you just didn't like it? He was like yeah.
Speaker 2: I was like it didn't really. Yeah, it didn't really
Speaker 2: do nothing to me. Like I smoked weed before with
Speaker 2: my brother. That ship had do nothing to me.
Speaker 1: I think I have a natural high. I don't know
Speaker 1: if that if that's something, but if he has some
Speaker 1: bad weeds. Look because I said when I smoke, give
Speaker 1: me the reggie. I like the bad like to be
Speaker 1: too hot. So do you have any vices though, like
Speaker 1: hookah or anything? You just all see that's why it's
Speaker 1: half like thank you, just you know, so I want
Speaker 1: to get into the fashion now, and I'm about to
Speaker 1: get in your business because I'm not gonna lie. So
Speaker 1: I am a fashion nover girl. I am a shean
Speaker 1: type of chick period.
Speaker 2: I get to what I can get times.
Speaker 4: Okay, So I'll say this. What I do sometimes is
Speaker 4: ill to go to.
Speaker 1: People's pages and get inspiration and like, oh, how can
Speaker 1: I recreate this look on a budget? You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But I can do that most of the
Speaker 1: time when I go to that, When your page, you
Speaker 1: can't recreate that because you'll be having some pieces, baby,
Speaker 1: some pieces. So I do want to ask you this.
Speaker 4: Do you have a budget of like how much do
Speaker 4: you spend a month on clothes?
Speaker 1: Be honest, girl, let me tell you something. If I
Speaker 1: was on my last and I had something.
Speaker 2: I really needed, I will get it because you know
Speaker 2: who kind of gave me that idea.
Speaker 1: Kim kardashiank She did an interview.
Speaker 2: And Kanye West told her she had these Anniversary of
Speaker 2: Christian loops and hills. Those are her first like big
Speaker 2: spending pair of heels, and he told her to throw
Speaker 2: them away, and she was like, I spent my last
Speaker 2: on these, and you know I was almost evicted, but.
Speaker 1: I can't throw these shoes away.
Speaker 2: So not saying to spend your last I want to
Speaker 2: stay do that, but my budget, I don't really have
Speaker 2: a budget. I'll just be like now I'm I'm more
Speaker 2: careful with my spending now. When I first got on tour,
Speaker 2: I was getting every damn thing.
Speaker 1: But now I'm just.
Speaker 2: Really careful because I feel like, especially in the times
Speaker 2: when you you got to hold on to your money, honey.
Speaker 2: So and I like a little budget, honey, Like this
Speaker 2: bag right here, it's worth seven eight thousand now and
Speaker 2: I got her for nineteen hundred.
Speaker 1: It looks like the new collection. Yeah, it does on
Speaker 1: her Disadventures one m Jacobs. That's right. So you don't
Speaker 1: have a budget. Now on what you spend a month
Speaker 1: on clothes, I would say a month, right, I would say.
Speaker 2: Now I'm looking at either two bags a month that
Speaker 2: I really want or about ten thousand dollars a month.
Speaker 4: Okay it used to be.
Speaker 1: You're talking about. See that's how I know this couch
Speaker 1: got money, right.
Speaker 4: I feel you send money on clothes too.
Speaker 1: I like clothes. A little shoe I'm fas I know,
Speaker 1: thank you. When fashion over say how you want to
Speaker 1: pay Clarina. Damn not fashion over with Clara. I don't
Speaker 1: know what's funny.
Speaker 3: Everybody has clarin now, like even like Javanci and stuff,
Speaker 3: they having clarinet too.
Speaker 1: They say that look shar boots now by my rebel.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. We offer styling to people, you know
Speaker 1: what I do want to start doing that. I think
Speaker 1: you should like one. It ain't even got to be
Speaker 1: a celibrity.
Speaker 2: It could just be a girl that ain't got no
Speaker 2: budget and be like, here's my car, go to the
Speaker 2: mall and get what you need. And you know it's
Speaker 2: not gonna be designed every time. Like I tell people,
Speaker 2: be comfortable whatever your budget is. It's some people out
Speaker 2: here you will never tell, like look at this dread tone.
Speaker 2: You would never tell what okay swing that hair?
Speaker 1: Fashion week? Yes, ma'am.
Speaker 2: You would just never be able to tell, like it
Speaker 2: looks like a designer piece.
Speaker 1: It's how you assessorize it. Your ear rings, everything you
Speaker 1: know I'm gonna do. I'm gonna do shoes. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do shoes every time because I feel like something
Speaker 1: shoes could be a statement. Yeah, you know, make it
Speaker 1: poking out. But I think styling is like you do
Speaker 1: hair so good. But I also think that's another thing
Speaker 1: that you can like dip into because the girls need
Speaker 1: you on the red carpet. We ain't made it to
Speaker 1: the red carpet yet, but I get so upset when
Speaker 1: I see these girls. I know y'all got the money, yes,
Speaker 1: the main ones that yes.
Speaker 3: They don't want to pay for a little been thinking
Speaker 3: that they can put this ship on. They on Colonna
Speaker 3: and Fashion over Looks with me Fashion over Looks to
Speaker 3: do we have some cute stuff they do. Now see
Speaker 3: that low girl Like, I really believe in mixing.
Speaker 1: I feel like you can't go wrong with it. You
Speaker 1: got a question because I got another one, So let
Speaker 1: me look.
Speaker 4: I'm nosy now come on.
Speaker 1: So I don't know if this was something I made
Speaker 1: up in my head. So I have been following your
Speaker 1: career for a very long time. I feel like there
Speaker 1: was one time you did like a live on Instagram
Speaker 1: or something, and you said, like you prefer having regular
Speaker 1: clients over celebrity clients. Yes, And I actually I hear
Speaker 1: that from a lot of people. I've been going to
Speaker 1: the same girl for years. Shout out to me, d
Speaker 1: Rich Look here I've been going to her for years
Speaker 1: and when I tell you she does hair down and
Speaker 1: she was like, honestly, my best clients are.
Speaker 4: Just regular working girls.
Speaker 1: So I think this is like a teaching moment too.
Speaker 1: So I think a lot of people who get in
Speaker 1: the game, the hair game, or the styling game or
Speaker 1: nails feet whatever you do, they want them celebrity clients
Speaker 1: so bad. So talk to the people about having celebrity
Speaker 1: clients and the downside of it versus, you know, having
Speaker 1: regular clientele and serving them properly. Girl, don't go after
Speaker 1: them celebrities.
Speaker 2: Girl, They're gonna come after you when you come into
Speaker 2: business and you just like, ooh, I want a celebrity
Speaker 2: because one thing about it, the everyday clients are the
Speaker 2: ones paying your bills. They don't want get me. You know,
Speaker 2: you have options with the everyday clients. The celebrity clients,
Speaker 2: they're always going to find someone else.
Speaker 1: And I had to learn that because I I kind
Speaker 1: of got tired of doing my regular everyday clients.
Speaker 2: And I would say, like twenty seventeen to twenty nineteen,
Speaker 2: I was just like straight traveling and when I got
Speaker 2: done and came back, those clients they had found enough stylust,
Speaker 2: and so I was like, well, damn, you.
Speaker 1: Know, y'all forgot about me. You know, I was texting
Speaker 1: them I'm back. You know.
Speaker 2: They was like, oh, girls doing my hair, you know, right, yes, right,
Speaker 2: It's like you know, I was just like, well, damn,
Speaker 2: you know. So I always have your everyday working clients,
Speaker 2: over your celebrities, and then with your celebrities, sometimes they
Speaker 2: could say months to pay you most do right now.
Speaker 2: They'd be like that nineties and next sixties, not even
Speaker 2: that now, honey, I did your hair down even now, yes,
Speaker 2: dam and you know I have started tacking.
Speaker 1: They asses, they had interest rates and waiting fee. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I need my money feeds and rent feeds and shit.
Speaker 3: Okay, so yes, I do have a question.
Speaker 1: So you always have made.
Speaker 3: Funny videos online as well, Like, obviously we know you're
Speaker 3: gonna serve a look, makeup, gonna be tea body, tea, everything.
Speaker 3: But you have a really really good personality too. And
Speaker 3: I remember you from back in the day. We used
Speaker 3: to make the funny videos with your wig.
Speaker 1: Look.
Speaker 3: I missed some days right years ago. I remember you
Speaker 3: from back in the day. So do you feel like
Speaker 3: your personality has helped it all with building your clients.
Speaker 2: Hele Okay, honestly, I would say sixty percent of your
Speaker 2: clients is gonna coming you for your personality because you
Speaker 2: have to think about it. People are going through things
Speaker 2: like when they come and sit in my chair, they're
Speaker 2: gonna been about their husband. You know what they done,
Speaker 2: did you know? Or they john the stuff, so they
Speaker 2: need a laugh. They want to look good too, but
Speaker 2: they need a laugh to just relax and just you know,
Speaker 2: let it all out, shut them. Crowd of clients laugh
Speaker 2: with clients and they be really needing that. Yeah, they
Speaker 2: need that healing, you know time. So yeah, I think.
Speaker 3: That's important because I always say that going to your
Speaker 3: hairstylist is like theory.
Speaker 1: Bro.
Speaker 3: If you got a good one that you cool for sure,
Speaker 3: you leave just feeling so refreshed and like the way
Speaker 3: it is lifted off your shoulders and you look cute.
Speaker 1: It's like yes, And some of these hairstyles they be
Speaker 1: so mean. Now I want you to talk. Yeah, talking's
Speaker 1: crazy as the cup because like I said, I've been
Speaker 1: going to d D for years. Di you knows all
Speaker 1: my business me and d talks down and then I
Speaker 1: think that's a part of the experience.
Speaker 4: Actually been in TikTok video a while back.
Speaker 1: And look y'all, we know you can't be in the
Speaker 1: salon until you get that paper, right, I said, we
Speaker 1: need to bring that salon feeling bad. We used to
Speaker 1: go to salon and it's three four of us in there.
Speaker 1: We got a good show playing we have and we talking.
Speaker 1: It's like a lot of times like if you go
Speaker 1: to a salon, it's only you in there, which is
Speaker 1: cool if y'all have a relationship, but I like to
Speaker 1: be with other girls and were talking and we chatting
Speaker 1: it up. We got poor mons, right, We like, I
Speaker 1: think we need that salon feel Oh.
Speaker 2: I was just talking about that. Yes, the sweets really
Speaker 2: messed up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because they're bad. You can't even learn nothing like
Speaker 1: from other hairstyles. You know.
Speaker 2: It was like when I was coming up at the
Speaker 2: salon with my aunt, it was five of.
Speaker 1: Us and I and I loved it.
Speaker 2: Like it was a whole reality show. You have these
Speaker 2: two stylars arguing and you know, a client. You know,
Speaker 2: it's it was so so good.
Speaker 1: It feel like community, yes, and so fun. Right, It's
Speaker 1: like a family. I feel like that's what they talk
Speaker 1: about with Beyonce a lot like how her mom had
Speaker 1: the salon and salan performing. It's just so many memory
Speaker 1: Like growing up, I used to love going to the
Speaker 1: salon too, Like I used to be like, oh, let
Speaker 1: me see what everybody getting and they get their away
Speaker 1: French rolls. I'm snatch ponytail the baddest right, But you
Speaker 1: know I do feel that. But you know, these days,
Speaker 1: I definitely be trying to get in and out.
Speaker 3: Like if you got three people here to me, let
Speaker 3: me know when you are almost done, and then I'm.
Speaker 1: Gonna pull up. Yeah, child, you know.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you back in the two thousands years,
Speaker 2: my aunt she would have like fifteen twenty people and
Speaker 2: they was this, you know, she'll be over there, and
Speaker 2: she she had an assistant, she had two assistants. And
Speaker 2: when I tell you should come in there, like nine
Speaker 2: in the morning, it'd be like a line of people
Speaker 2: writing on her should get there. They it's in and out.
Speaker 2: Oh I see, I love that. I get thousand dollars thousands.
Speaker 1: Of dollars a days.
Speaker 3: I'm not right good, yes, but I love somebody who
Speaker 3: can get you inting out because some hair stylists they
Speaker 3: be slow, because you will be the only one there and.
Speaker 1: Then you will still be for like six, will be
Speaker 1: there for two three days and damn I only didn't
Speaker 1: want go on. I'm just kidd come back in the
Speaker 1: morning so I can finish, right. I need I need
Speaker 1: now ship don't take out. I need some pretendence just
Speaker 1: taking up Rocky, So go ahead, go ahead, drest.
Speaker 3: I don't know if you have another question, I'll get
Speaker 3: into the first topic.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, one more question.
Speaker 1: Who was your like favorite celebrity client, Like you was like,
Speaker 1: oh I love you like we always gonna be locked
Speaker 1: in for life. Mm hmm. Well, I don't know if
Speaker 1: she liked me now, oh not me inside, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I mean she followed me, but you know what I
Speaker 2: always got loved for Megan honestly follow Yes, we uh
Speaker 2: One thing about Megan a studus.
Speaker 1: She was so fun to work with and.
Speaker 2: She gets you the best gifts like birthday gifts, Christmas
Speaker 2: gifts like that girl. I don't know if it's in
Speaker 2: the quaries thing, but hor is they get really good gifts.
Speaker 2: And she gave you some really really good gifts. She
Speaker 2: was very fun even when like her around the time
Speaker 2: I was working on her, her mom had just passed away.
Speaker 2: You would never be able to know because she was
Speaker 2: always so happy, upbeat. She never let nobody see her cried, never.
Speaker 1: Let you know what I'm saying. So I had a
Speaker 1: really good time working with her. When is she gonna
Speaker 1: follow you? This is like twenty twenty one, I think, because.
Speaker 2: I think because her best friend was and Kelsey. They
Speaker 2: was going at it online and I had said some
Speaker 2: of the blocks. I don't know she's seen it, but
Speaker 2: I was just like, I don't like nobody being ganged
Speaker 2: up on. And so I was just like, yes, Kelsey,
Speaker 2: stand up for yourself, you know.
Speaker 1: But I was, but I like what was said. But ooh,
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: Friend, I probably fall out. It was my it was
Speaker 2: my fine, you know. And I and that's when I
Speaker 2: really like slowed down from really commenting on yeah, because she.
Speaker 1: Probably took that. It's like, damn bitch, like I thought
Speaker 1: we was cool. Yeah. But and I think to everything
Speaker 1: she went through, she was probably doing a cleanse of
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff that she has been seeing on
Speaker 1: my probably not personal because she probably knows your personality. Yea, oh,
Speaker 1: I know they're joking, but still right right, Yeah, And
Speaker 1: I really understand what she was going through. But like
Speaker 1: now looking back at it, she was going through a lot,
Speaker 1: a lot going on.
Speaker 3: Yes, shut out to me.
Speaker 1: You killed me in fast. I see your looks.
Speaker 3: You know her stylist is killing sh What was that
Speaker 3: she was in Paris?
Speaker 2: That Harry and in Japan and stuff, and she she
Speaker 2: looked amazing my body looks.
Speaker 1: She got me motivating going to the gym, child, not me,
Speaker 1: but I love it yout that er look like you
Speaker 1: go to the gym. But I'll be in there walking
Speaker 1: on the trick me. You know, I get my steps right.
Speaker 3: I'll be in in here sweating, bully on the step,
Speaker 3: mass girl on the stairs. Do you do it on
Speaker 3: like one incline or do you sweet you?
Speaker 2: I do level steven for forty five minutes straight and
Speaker 2: five hundred calories. When I get about that motherfucker, i'd
Speaker 2: be late the hell out.
Speaker 1: But like the stomach, thank you, very, flash very. What's up, y'all?
Speaker 1: Is your girl a lexp And it's sagrocery and a call.
Speaker 1: And y'all know we are some hygien girlies. So we
Speaker 1: are here to tell y'all about good wipes. Yes, y'all, y'all,
Speaker 1: meaning a little more than toilet paper. You gotta use
Speaker 1: a little white backdal when you're done. That's why I
Speaker 1: love good wipes because they hypo allergenic and they come
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Speaker 4: And they're free of harsh chemicals, you know what I'm saying.
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Speaker 1: store like a Target, Kroger, or if you're more of
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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?
Speaker 3: As your girl x Pee and it's Sugarl Draying a
Speaker 3: call and we have a very.
Speaker 1: Exciting announcement today. We have a brand new show dropping.
Speaker 3: Yes, we have a brand new shout dropping y'all on
Speaker 3: Patreon it's gonna air on September second, and it's called
Speaker 3: Poor Chronicles. We're gonna be doing so much stuff on there.
Speaker 3: We're gonna be doing challenges. If you can't go to
Speaker 3: Bella Dache, where the hell could you go?
Speaker 1: If you can't go to Blanche what a hell? Put
Speaker 1: it out?
Speaker 3: We're gonna be doing talk to me, chit chat with me.
Speaker 3: We're gonna be spelling at Little Tea.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, No you didn't. God.
Speaker 3: Everything y'all been wanting to see, we're gonna be doing
Speaker 3: it right here on Patreon.
Speaker 1: Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we've been
Speaker 1: to give it to y'all every single Monday, and it's
Speaker 1: gonna be a time. Y'all know. Poor Minds has grown
Speaker 1: into its own little entity. Well, we're gonna have a
Speaker 1: lot of fun still over here at Poor Chronicles. So
Speaker 1: make sure y'all tune in Berke second, it's going down.
Speaker 3: So I want to get into the first topic. We're
Speaker 3: gonna play a game called what's the Real Game? Okay,
Speaker 3: So we're gonna get into the game and we basically
Speaker 3: gonna read you some questions. You either have to tell
Speaker 3: us to see or you can take a suit your drink.
Speaker 1: I think I think that needs another one.
Speaker 6: Yeah right, because I'm juice, right, okay, that juice.
Speaker 1: What are you like? What do you prefer? How do
Speaker 1: you give it that? Like they now say, he she.
Speaker 2: You can respectful, but okay, I kept trying to say that.
Speaker 1: I'm like, look right, look, dang, look okay, I mean
Speaker 1: I don't get and that ship. I'm like, I don't
Speaker 1: get it.
Speaker 2: I do expect my friends like if they want to
Speaker 2: because she Alley.
Speaker 1: Yeah whatever, but that I'd be like that. I had
Speaker 1: a friend who she was like, I'm day I said,
Speaker 1: oh you got a twin bitch. I didn't know. I'm like,
Speaker 1: you get them.
Speaker 3: Because we were trying to make sure we were being
Speaker 3: you're not respectful.
Speaker 1: I appreciate that. Okay, girls, okay because she drink that's
Speaker 1: my girl. Yeah, okay, we can start the game because
Speaker 1: got a little bit.
Speaker 3: Question number one, what's the worst the wig install you've
Speaker 3: ever seen on the Celebrity You Can?
Speaker 1: Sepper answer ship.
Speaker 2: The worst wig install I have ever seen on the Liberty.
Speaker 1: She said, that's a lot of thinking. Girl. We got time.
Speaker 1: I see some bad weeds I could think of. I
Speaker 1: can too who you thinking you money? I feel y'all.
Speaker 3: Okay, Kim Zozi egg that wig was terrible.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, you know she like them pushed back weeds.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 2: They used to mountain on top of the manpopulation mountains.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, I wrote that one.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: Let me bad weeds? Ooh who had a bad weed? S?
Speaker 2: I don't have a couple of bad damn weeds.
Speaker 1: I had one too bad. I had a few. It's
Speaker 1: ony Dre still got my bad You know what, I
Speaker 1: would say, the worst wig I ever seen? This is
Speaker 1: the BT Awards.
Speaker 2: What was that twenty and three in diamond I'm sorry
Speaker 2: crying out diamonds? And I don't think she'd you know,
Speaker 2: just Liberty, well, you know she's the rapper. So she
Speaker 2: came in there looking like little scrap. She was in
Speaker 2: the little scrappy honey and looking.
Speaker 1: Like I can tell you honey. And I said, well,
Speaker 1: what happened in that car?
Speaker 3: Girl?
Speaker 1: That damn we was just every day we Okay, I'll
Speaker 1: get it though, Okay, sometimes you have them nights.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm about to be googling.
Speaker 1: Who is one influencer you think is over hyped?
Speaker 2: Who is one influencer. I think it's over hyped. Oh
Speaker 2: my god, mm over hYP I be loving all the girls.
Speaker 3: I think if I have one to school, Oh I
Speaker 3: got one.
Speaker 1: Let me take a sip. Okay, you want me to
Speaker 1: hear her mind? Yeah, Alex earl, who is that? So
Speaker 1: she's she's like, I don't even know. Okay, but on TikTok,
Speaker 1: it's no offense to her get them. I just don't
Speaker 1: get the thing about her. And I mean, she's always
Speaker 1: on all the beauty brand trips, the tarts, the things
Speaker 1: and this and that, and I just I don't It
Speaker 1: doesn't give what it's supposed to be is for me.
Speaker 1: I can't believe y'all don't know who Alex Early is.
Speaker 1: You're not a TikTok scroller, but I thought you're a
Speaker 1: TikTok top scroller girl, Alex. Let me see, y'all have
Speaker 1: never seen this girl? Is that a singer? Her? She's
Speaker 1: got like millions and millions and millions of followers on TikTok,
Speaker 1: and what does she do.
Speaker 4: She's just she just makes videos.
Speaker 1: Get ready with me. She's dating like a football player,
Speaker 1: but that came after she was already popular. She's a
Speaker 1: beautiful girl. But it's just giving. Like, okay, but you
Speaker 1: know who one influencer I think should be way bigger.
Speaker 1: Since we're being negative, we gotta cancel out with Clark.
Speaker 1: I love Clark. I love Clark too.
Speaker 4: Clark is a good one.
Speaker 1: Cool. Her name is Clark.
Speaker 3: She's real popular on TikTok, and she's a young black girl.
Speaker 3: She graduated from I think, why.
Speaker 1: You I feel like I'm in my fifty so about
Speaker 1: Clark ooh yeah, when she's young.
Speaker 3: She's like twenty two. She just graduated I think from
Speaker 3: like NYU Are Columbia, one of those schools up there,
Speaker 3: and she's about to go to law school.
Speaker 1: But yeah, grocer was about a million dollar house. I go, yeah,
Speaker 1: she really is.
Speaker 3: So okay, let's see question number three. Have you ever
Speaker 3: charged someone extra just because they got on your nerves?
Speaker 1: Oh? Yes, I did. I know. That's right.
Speaker 2: They got on my last motherfucking EU for real. They
Speaker 2: came in. It wasn't the celebrity. It was just a
Speaker 2: regular client. And this is like one of my regulars.
Speaker 2: Honey girl, Sady s your.
Speaker 1: Teeth till.
Speaker 2: Tiffany came asking it down shop, I did some blond hair.
Speaker 2: It was like the blonde color, honey, you know highlights,
Speaker 2: bitch like Sierra's highlights. And then she's gonna say, oh,
Speaker 2: I think I want to I changed my mind to
Speaker 2: jet black.
Speaker 3: I would have charged extra too, though, what then you
Speaker 3: changed your mind?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Girl, and tip to know.
Speaker 2: I had to go outside for about fifteen minutes of
Speaker 2: cool down because I was like, girl, I don't need this.
Speaker 1: Color for three days straight.
Speaker 2: Like girl, and I came in and I did her
Speaker 2: hair and I charged her ass extra.
Speaker 4: I know that's right.
Speaker 3: You gotta have out because that makes sense, like you
Speaker 3: wasting my time?
Speaker 1: Right, like tell me right?
Speaker 2: Yes, said that was some good color, but you know
Speaker 2: I did make a weed out their hair, so mood.
Speaker 1: I look, I look, I had two girls.
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm gonna skip that one.
Speaker 1: Drea. Okay, who's the messiest person in your DMS? Ooh,
Speaker 1: the messiest person in my what's the messiest person in
Speaker 1: my DMS?
Speaker 2: If anybody ever seen me in d have to say
Speaker 2: me and my girl Perez?
Speaker 1: Is that the way to be? Like?
Speaker 2: Right, all the tea is how to scott for some tea,
Speaker 2: Get that tea and we child, we'll be talking about you.
Speaker 4: I'm talking about in the group.
Speaker 6: Hell, yeah, sure, everybody do that.
Speaker 1: Nobody off, I think everybody do that.
Speaker 2: I hate one to be Oh you know, if it's
Speaker 2: not about the money, don't talk please, so as you
Speaker 2: ain't got no money, mother, let me tell you what
Speaker 2: Kiki did right?
Speaker 1: Where the money? About the money? Right?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 1: I think you should do one more and then I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do one more and then go to the topic talk.
Speaker 2: Okay, hmm, give me some good honey, I'm gonna think
Speaker 2: about it.
Speaker 1: Who is the most famous person they ever slid in
Speaker 1: your d m? Oh my god? Oh I gotta take
Speaker 1: it that money cannot I said I was the open book.
Speaker 1: But let me close because you know, just in case.
Speaker 1: I know that's right, Oh girl, let me take a
Speaker 1: whole glass of that, and what I see is paid.
Speaker 1: I could look at her a little drinking. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: last one? Last one? Okay? What is hold on? Wait?
Speaker 4: I don't want to read this.
Speaker 1: Okay. What's the pettiest reason you've unfollowed a celebrity that
Speaker 1: you knew in real life?
Speaker 2: The pettiest reason I followed a celebrity in real life? Well,
Speaker 2: this ain't really petty. What's the girl named Lila Hathaway.
Speaker 2: Who that hold on? Let me look lain halfaways. I
Speaker 2: think she is a gospel sinking something like that. Who Donnie,
Speaker 2: I ain't l oh Layla Hathaway, Layla Hathaway, Miss got
Speaker 2: the way you damn it got a white honey. But
Speaker 2: it wasn't petty. It was because I did. I was
Speaker 2: late with her weed now I was late with him. Okay,
Speaker 2: she needed them for a show, and she disputed the payment.
Speaker 1: Honey.
Speaker 2: It was like it was like five thousand some dollars.
Speaker 2: She disputed to pay me, and I already sent the
Speaker 2: wigs out. And so when the weeds got her, I said,
Speaker 2: miss Layla, can you please send my wied I never
Speaker 2: got the weeksvent.
Speaker 4: Oh, she just went down, jay hud, I found her.
Speaker 1: Who she did? She did? She just went down. She
Speaker 1: got my wig out. She probably to start park from
Speaker 1: twenty nineteen. She cut into her moulet. Oh, I'm just playing,
Speaker 1: oh girl.
Speaker 6: She looked good though, but yeah, that's how ass.
Speaker 1: She never gave the wigs.
Speaker 4: You never got a payment.
Speaker 1: I disputed dot com honey, and it are still in
Speaker 1: l A.
Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm down with. I don't know
Speaker 2: she got them, I'm gonna follow them holes.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Ups, I don't know, girl, and you p has
Speaker 1: lost and found.
Speaker 3: I said, did you at least win the dispute?
Speaker 1: You know what? I was like, girl, You know what,
Speaker 1: I ain't even got the response to dispute because I
Speaker 1: kind of took it.
Speaker 2: Like I kind of you know what's to blame for it?
Speaker 2: And so I was just like, you know, it's a
Speaker 2: business loss, and it is what it is.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that was a good week two. Girl.
Speaker 2: I was like taking my time with me because you know, celebrity,
Speaker 2: you'd be wanting to even with your regular clients, you know.
Speaker 2: But I was like, let me pain these curls up
Speaker 2: and I and I was late with them, and she
Speaker 2: needed for a performance and so yeah, you know you don't.
Speaker 1: Because at least get him and send them back. You
Speaker 1: will never work in this town. Yes, that's all I
Speaker 1: would have said. That's low Keith Steely. Now don't say
Speaker 1: that to that lady, like look or I still love you, girl.
Speaker 1: But I had blocked ass. I ain't I blocked period.
Speaker 3: She said, I don't know, like right like she might
Speaker 3: take something if she come over here.
Speaker 2: You have to hide your damn Yeah, you're just flying
Speaker 2: on booting it all right that when she see the
Speaker 2: doggyt on, it's crazy.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'll say this. I'm tired of y'all with the
Speaker 1: Beyonce conspiracy theories about what y'all think she gonna do.
Speaker 1: Obviously y'all don't be knowing. She will never know. You
Speaker 1: never know and too so you know, I gotta y'all know,
Speaker 1: I gotta report the negativity. There's a group of people
Speaker 1: online who are very mad because she's calling it the
Speaker 1: Chitlin circuit, and they're saying, if you're calling it the
Speaker 1: Chitlin circuit, then you need to go to the places
Speaker 1: that Chitland circuits actually went to.
Speaker 4: So you need to be.
Speaker 1: Touching the corners of the states that are small cities
Speaker 1: that Chickling Chitlin circuits actually toured. But are they not
Speaker 1: gonna have a venue big enough? That was the argument back,
Speaker 1: They don't have the capacity to all them. But she
Speaker 1: was like, you're and they're like, but your Beyonce created
Speaker 1: and generate revenue for these smaller towns are smaller states
Speaker 1: to start holding these artists and doing that because you
Speaker 1: want to be.
Speaker 4: A pioneer, be a Pioneer.
Speaker 1: So it's been a lot of backlash of her naming
Speaker 1: it the Chiit List. I mean yeah, but I also, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, I think Beyonce, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at her for doing it this way,
Speaker 1: but I do believe, Hell, yeah, go to these cities
Speaker 1: and make these motherfuckers travel for you. We gonna see
Speaker 1: who gonna buy tickets. Then, because I would have been
Speaker 1: a Tuscaloose to go to Orange, Texas, I would have
Speaker 1: hosted it for your ass.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I agree that's fair. But then on
Speaker 3: the other hand, I just do always feel like people
Speaker 3: just always gonna find something, something but to complain about. Like, yes,
Speaker 3: she called it the Chitlin Circuit Tour, but I feel
Speaker 3: like it's not that deep to where people should be outraged.
Speaker 1: And Beyonce's philanthropy with no but she has donated a
Speaker 1: lot of money to these smaller cities that have black rodeos,
Speaker 1: and so she has done her job.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I mean it's all big cities. I understand that,
Speaker 3: but I still don't feel like people should be that
Speaker 3: goddamn outraged by you know, like people just be up
Speaker 3: in arms by everything.
Speaker 1: I think with the she could at least hit one
Speaker 1: little chi Yeah, one little I mean she going no,
Speaker 1: she ain't going nowhere.
Speaker 4: But like I said, I.
Speaker 1: Feel it on both ends because like I said, I
Speaker 1: just really don't think those cities have the capacity too.
Speaker 1: And the reason I say that, we went to Macon, Georgia,
Speaker 1: making right outside of Atlanta for an eighty five south
Speaker 1: show that traffic, they couldn't do it. Yeah, they didn't
Speaker 1: have enough people to direct the traffic. And this was
Speaker 1: for eighty five and eighty five is big.
Speaker 4: But obviously they're not Beyonce. So if a Macon can't
Speaker 4: handle eighty.
Speaker 1: Five, what you think a Birmingham or a Tuscaloose is
Speaker 1: gonna do it?
Speaker 4: Fucking Beyonce, bro I.
Speaker 3: Mean, I'm not gonna lie eat.
Speaker 4: That's I understand.
Speaker 1: That's an Alabama game, but this is Beyonce baby.
Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, yeah, okay mmm.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So basically Shane was saying, like in Alabama, they
Speaker 1: can handle the capacity of like the roll tide and
Speaker 1: it be a lot of people and they can handle it.
Speaker 1: So but I do agree, I feel like she could
Speaker 1: have found one little at least one little city to
Speaker 1: do it.
Speaker 4: But I'm not mad.
Speaker 1: I'm going yea, we gonna see shop.
Speaker 3: We're gonna be there with our had sound in our
Speaker 3: cowboy boots. You know, I've been waiting on this moment personally,
Speaker 3: I grew up.
Speaker 1: So we gonna get into topic Nomber two.
Speaker 3: But topic Nomber two, I wanted to talk about gas
Speaker 3: lighting yourself because we always talk about other people gaslightness,
Speaker 3: but I think people never really talk about how sometimes
Speaker 3: we gas light ourselves out of opportunities, are out of
Speaker 3: doing certain things in life. So like, what do y'all
Speaker 3: think about gask y'all? Do y'all think that there's something
Speaker 3: that people actually do well?
Speaker 1: I think we definitely gaslight ourselves out of situations, and
Speaker 1: I also think we gaslight ourselves when people are dealing
Speaker 1: with us. Yeah, yeah, So I think sometimes like if
Speaker 1: you're in a relationship or a friendship, or you're at
Speaker 1: work and you have a manager who is talking to
Speaker 1: you crazy, and you're like, well, you know, maybe he's
Speaker 1: stressed out or she stressed out, and the only reason
Speaker 1: they're doing this because no, they're disrespectful as but and
Speaker 1: you need to check that shit. I think a lot
Speaker 1: of times we make excuses for other people out of
Speaker 1: love or you feel like you need this job. But
Speaker 1: I think we need to stop staying in spaces where
Speaker 1: we aren't felt valued. And I know I did that.
Speaker 1: I stayed at TEGF. Friday's for ten years. They didn't
Speaker 1: value me, right, you know what I'm saying. I think
Speaker 1: even at my job that I had, I was so
Speaker 1: good at my job and they fired me. Remember I'll
Speaker 1: walk to your house and my little bit to the
Speaker 1: side flats. Yeah, And I was so sad I lost
Speaker 1: my job, I was saying too. I was so upset.
Speaker 1: But one thing about me, and Drea knows, is about me.
Speaker 1: When I start anything, I don't care if I'm working
Speaker 1: at Burger King, I don't care if I'm at a
Speaker 1: Fortune five hundred company.
Speaker 4: I'm giving my awe.
Speaker 1: And I know, like as a person who has I
Speaker 1: run my own company now versus being a worker, we
Speaker 1: give so much to these jobs and we and we
Speaker 1: have these people who treat us like if you die,
Speaker 1: they're gonna have somebody there tomorrow. So if you aren't appreciated,
Speaker 1: it's okay to move around from these spaces. If you
Speaker 1: have a friend who is treating you like you don't
Speaker 1: like to be treated. It's okay to move around from
Speaker 1: that friend, especially in relationships. We do this, you will
Speaker 1: have a man or a woman who is talking crazy
Speaker 1: to you. Oh he stress, work or stop making excuses
Speaker 1: for people, because at the end of the day, there
Speaker 1: is no excuse.
Speaker 4: To treat somebody bad, period.
Speaker 1: I agree, and treating people bad as a reflection of
Speaker 1: how your life is going. I've seen that quote when
Speaker 1: you do people bad, it's because your life is bad,
Speaker 1: bitch and leave me. You know.
Speaker 2: I learned from my mom not to takee bs from people.
Speaker 1: Now. I used to put up with it, like.
Speaker 2: At jobs and stuff and give it my all, like
Speaker 2: you said, But I guess because they happened so much.
Speaker 1: Now I'm like, girl, who you talking to? It's like, girl,
Speaker 1: you let me cut you off? You know what she did?
Speaker 6: Girl?
Speaker 4: You know they call you.
Speaker 1: I just want to know why I ain't calling me
Speaker 1: last couple girl, Girl, you're goron my girl.
Speaker 3: I mean.
Speaker 1: And that's the thing about people. I feel like people
Speaker 1: definitely usually know what I mean.
Speaker 3: Is they just be trying to see I.
Speaker 1: Don't miss nothing. So when y'all are in those situations, now, like,
Speaker 1: how do y'all take up for yourself, like what are
Speaker 1: y'all doing?
Speaker 4: So you feel like somebody.
Speaker 1: Gased like you and they playing in your face or
Speaker 1: they treating you bad?
Speaker 4: How do you take up for yourself?
Speaker 1: Girl? I'd be at home sometimes I let this ship
Speaker 1: go by and I'd be like, you should have said
Speaker 1: this head. I call that motherfucker bad girl. Look, I
Speaker 1: know we apologize about the ship, but look bitch y'all.
Speaker 1: You know, and it's a whole other argument.
Speaker 2: But uh I I love to stand up for myself.
Speaker 4: I used to be so afraid to do.
Speaker 2: That because I felt like I didn't have the power to,
Speaker 2: especially as a child, like ooh, girl, people run off
Speaker 2: me in school. But I also had a I don't
Speaker 2: give a fuck mind like girl, you know to hell.
Speaker 2: But now it is so good to stand up for yourself.
Speaker 2: It just makes your mental like better, like it. Just
Speaker 2: make sure you be like, damn, but you did that.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Patch yourself on the back.
Speaker 2: So it is very important to stand to yourself. Don't
Speaker 2: let anybody mistreat you, run over you, take advantage of you,
Speaker 2: especially if you are like an entrepreneur or anything like.
Speaker 1: Uh uh yeah, that can't fly. My book what about you?
Speaker 4: How you take up for you?
Speaker 3: I agree, but I feel like I have never really
Speaker 3: had a problem taking up for myself, like I would
Speaker 3: cush you out with the quakness.
Speaker 1: I'm like that now, Yeah, you brought me up absolutely Now.
Speaker 3: I feel like if you don't take up for yourself,
Speaker 3: who else gonna take for you? And if you don't
Speaker 3: take up for yourself, people think that they can keep
Speaker 3: playing ya bab And you're not about to keep playing
Speaker 3: in my face like one of us gotta go and
Speaker 3: it ain't gonna be me, It's gonna be you.
Speaker 1: Got to get the fuck.
Speaker 2: On and you Yeah, girl, now you crazy, not like
Speaker 2: you the problem you started with starting ship, your outside entity.
Speaker 1: You're the one that was me in real today.
Speaker 3: It means to me now I'm wrong because I said
Speaker 3: something like I don't know. I think you definitely have
Speaker 3: to take up for yourself all the time, and people
Speaker 3: should advocate for themself way more than they do. Like
Speaker 3: I don't know, I think people often don't take up
Speaker 3: for themselves because they're scared to lose people, like they
Speaker 3: scared to lose the person like oh, if I say
Speaker 3: something something to them and rub them the wrong way.
Speaker 3: They probably not gonna fuck with me nowhere. If they
Speaker 3: treating you bad and they not a good person, you
Speaker 3: don't need to care if they fucking with you either way.
Speaker 2: I agree with that you need you got to cut
Speaker 2: that baggage your life that God want you to get
Speaker 2: rid of that, like so you can progress to the
Speaker 2: next level. So it's like, girl, mmm, I think that's
Speaker 2: something I'm definitely working on because I don't take up
Speaker 2: for myself.
Speaker 4: My friends take up for me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, d like nobody say so many of me. I'd
Speaker 1: be like, I'll be like, they'd be like, let's stop
Speaker 1: doing that, said my we Yeah, I am a cry
Speaker 1: baby like everything, like, but I'm also like everything makes
Speaker 1: me cry if I'm happy and I'm sad if I'm mad.
Speaker 1: So I sometimes like I avoid conflicts a lot. And
Speaker 1: for me, it's not necessarily that I'm scared to lose
Speaker 1: that person. I'm just like it makes me uncomfortable, it
Speaker 1: gets so and I sometimes it's like I be wanting
Speaker 1: to take up for myself just but I just be like,
Speaker 1: you know what, Okay, I'd be like, okay, like all right,
Speaker 1: I just you know, I'm like that in relationships I'm
Speaker 1: like that, like with my sister. My sister's a tourist.
Speaker 1: Like sometimes my Like, my sister went off on me
Speaker 1: last week and I was like okay, and I didn't
Speaker 1: talk to her for like two days.
Speaker 4: She was like what are you doing?
Speaker 1: I was like, you hate me? She's like, girl, what
Speaker 1: is you talking about? Like, Oh, I am just like that.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but it is something that I know
Speaker 1: that I need to work on, and I also need
Speaker 1: to not I'm working on not being so sensitive too, yeah,
Speaker 1: because a lot of times I will take the tiniest
Speaker 1: things to heart and I'm just like, oh, somebody doesn't
Speaker 1: one thing, I'm like, they hate me.
Speaker 2: I'm like that too in the night, if somebody don't
Speaker 2: reach out to me, I'd be like because I always
Speaker 2: reach out to my friends, right, And I'm the type
Speaker 2: of person like they can't for advice, Like, bitch, you
Speaker 2: went through it.
Speaker 1: Let me pull up at your house, like you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, get you back in the mood. But
Speaker 1: who the hell I'm checking on me?
Speaker 2: And I just be like, well, bitch, you know you
Speaker 2: was the breast two weeks ago, and I came and
Speaker 2: got your ass together and they're like, girl, now you're
Speaker 2: like you ain't reached out to me in a couple
Speaker 2: of days, and now like, girl, what's going on?
Speaker 1: But I have a friend like that. I have a
Speaker 1: friend like that.
Speaker 3: And then like I'm kind of the opposite, Like I
Speaker 3: be feeling like, Okay, if you're gonna call me, and
Speaker 3: if I don't call you for like two weeks, it
Speaker 3: ain't no change in our friendship, you know, like maybe
Speaker 3: I got something going on. And I feel like sometimes
Speaker 3: that's how people have to look at it too, like
Speaker 3: maybe the other person in life is just a little bit.
Speaker 1: We're still cool. I still love you. But she felt
Speaker 1: that way to let.
Speaker 3: You like, I just feel like I'm always calling you.
Speaker 3: First thing, you don't never call me? And I was like, what, girl,
Speaker 3: I didn't know he was keeping telling.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie out that friend. I don't give
Speaker 1: a fuck. If I call you four days in a row,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a fifth. Yeah, right, I'm finna call
Speaker 1: you me too. I'm gonna call I don't I don't
Speaker 1: keep tabs on.
Speaker 4: Oh I called her last right?
Speaker 1: I call her thirteen times? Yeah, I will, and I'll
Speaker 1: call back to back. If you don't answer. I hate that.
Speaker 3: Oh that means and now you could see the video
Speaker 3: not to what right my phone?
Speaker 1: I'll call back if she don't answer again, I'll be like, hey,
Speaker 1: I called you, girl. I got a fear of.
Speaker 2: That to call you like four times back to back,
Speaker 2: and I just be like, girl, and somebody died?
Speaker 1: What happened? Right? Seven thirty? God? What's going on? Ship?
Speaker 3: But I do think if your friend never, like, if
Speaker 3: a person never call you first, then I do kind
Speaker 3: of feel like that's a little bit of like a
Speaker 3: red flag.
Speaker 1: What do ya thinking of relationship? Though? Wait, if the
Speaker 1: person never call you first?
Speaker 2: Yeah, or you like, are you if you always the
Speaker 2: one that's like, you.
Speaker 1: Know what's crazy? I think?
Speaker 4: I like, I'm a creature of habit.
Speaker 1: So every day my man calls me first in the morning,
Speaker 1: I don't play that shit. You call me in the
Speaker 1: morning first, and he text me, and I'm not being like,
Speaker 1: oh he has a no, that's just what we do. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And sometimes I do call him first or first in
Speaker 1: the morning every now and then. But I think that's
Speaker 1: just the thing that so it's not like, oh he
Speaker 1: only because throughout the day we're calling each other and
Speaker 1: we're texting each other, but how we get that day started?
Speaker 1: Because he is a extreme morning person. He wakes up
Speaker 1: like five six in the morning, so I think it's
Speaker 1: like a pattern that we have. Like, But again, I
Speaker 1: don't keep tabs on it. I just know, Okay, his
Speaker 1: day has already started. I'm fill sleep. I don't.
Speaker 4: I'm not a riseing grind ass bit me either.
Speaker 1: I rise, rise, and then I'm a grind right, I
Speaker 1: rise and shit right, rise the bath. Yes, I don't
Speaker 1: rise and grind. He is a riser and grinder. That's
Speaker 1: not right. So I don't necessarily keep tabs on that.
Speaker 1: But like I said, my relationship, my friendships, anything, I
Speaker 1: don't keep tab Now, if you're early dating stages and
Speaker 1: you're always calling him first, I think that's like a
Speaker 1: red flat because men love to chase. Yes, honey, they do.
Speaker 1: I agree.
Speaker 3: I feel like if he really feeling you, he's gonna
Speaker 3: be blowing your phone up, especially in the beginning. If
Speaker 3: he not calling you in this early on, I feel
Speaker 3: like as a relationship for gress, you know, y'all, donet
Speaker 3: got used to each other, he probably.
Speaker 1: Not gonna call first. All.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but in the beginning, I think if a man
Speaker 3: really like you, yeah, he gonna pursue you.
Speaker 1: So if he not calling, that's what I say. I
Speaker 1: get my man about eleven, and once it's eleven, I'm
Speaker 1: like up and I donet scrolled enough.
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, let me see what he's doing. I'll
Speaker 4: call him.
Speaker 1: You'll call what I'm saying, But yeah, I don't think
Speaker 1: you should keep tabs on stuff like that. Like early,
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Speaker 1: bead is our sex topic of the week, but we're
Speaker 1: gonna obviously do something a little different, okay, girl for
Speaker 1: you today because.
Speaker 4: You know, I like to pride in your business.
Speaker 1: So you are a sexual? Correct on whatever the the
Speaker 1: heir's sex little honey. One thing about me, I'm not
Speaker 1: a sexual. I know I know what I like. I
Speaker 1: like mens honey. You know, y you know I like
Speaker 1: I like my men's honey.
Speaker 2: I did not know that, Yes, I think that was
Speaker 2: like back in twenty eighteen, twenty seventeen.
Speaker 1: You know how the motherfuckers get.
Speaker 2: They get confused and shipping when it goes you know,
Speaker 2: you know, and then they'd be like, well, hey.
Speaker 1: I'm gay, you know. But yeah, yeah, I mean okay,
Speaker 1: so you do like me. I never knew that this
Speaker 1: whole time. I thought you were. But I'm a virgin,
Speaker 1: that's what I mean.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm a veron good.
Speaker 3: I do remember, like seeing that you said you were asexual.
Speaker 1: I didn't even know what the hair asexual was at
Speaker 1: the time. Money claim the reason like I heard you
Speaker 1: say it a while back as well. But you're so
Speaker 1: private with your personal life and I've never seen you
Speaker 1: with anyone, right, and you never talk about your private
Speaker 1: life either. So I'm like, okay, maybe she still identifies
Speaker 1: as that, you know what I'm saying. So you like
Speaker 1: me and so but what do you so what do
Speaker 1: you identify as sexually? What you mean like my like,
Speaker 1: do you identify as like gay? Yeah you can say gay? Yeah, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, so you do your topic then the one
Speaker 1: that you said first, because my topic was about the
Speaker 1: a sexual but you said you wanted to talk about
Speaker 1: her being a virgin. Yes, I did.
Speaker 3: I wanted to talk about being a virgin and navigating dating,
Speaker 3: Like how do you do that?
Speaker 1: How do the conversations go?
Speaker 3: When you normally tell a guy, look, I don't get
Speaker 3: down like that, I'm not heavy.
Speaker 1: Six, they'd be like what and see I'm a scorpio,
Speaker 1: so they'd be like you cannot right. It's like girl,
Speaker 1: you you're lying to me, Like yeah, you're lying. But
Speaker 1: I'd be like, I'm dead for real, Like I don't know.
Speaker 2: I just think that sex for me, like I love
Speaker 2: cuddling hugs and you know, just being under someone, but
Speaker 2: just having sex out of time. Like it was this
Speaker 2: one guy who I had went on the date with
Speaker 2: and he was like a sex free county like ooh girl,
Speaker 2: just talking about what he would.
Speaker 1: Do to me.
Speaker 2: And I was just say, look, we ain't even got
Speaker 2: an appetite to jail. You're talking about hell is going on?
Speaker 3: Try bye, that's gonna turn off to about early right.
Speaker 1: And I'm a version like you trying you're gonna break
Speaker 1: me in? And shit, girl, ain't no house. So are
Speaker 1: you waiting for like marriage? Are you waiting for that
Speaker 1: special like person? A serious relationship, Like, what are you
Speaker 1: waiting for? Or do you not want to at all?
Speaker 1: I don't even know what the hell I'm waiting for.
Speaker 1: A girl.
Speaker 2: God could have somebody in my damn bed to ma, right,
Speaker 2: I just I locked the key, honey, Okay, But I honestly,
Speaker 2: it's just nasty, y'all. It's like, let me tell y'all.
Speaker 1: I had a friend.
Speaker 2: Who like was just taking it safe and just caught hip.
Speaker 2: And it's just like, girl, if that was me, like,
Speaker 2: I don't know what the hell to do, and it's
Speaker 2: just like you know what I'm saying, i'd be so scared,
Speaker 2: like you just never know, like you know. But honestly,
Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm waiting for. I mean, I
Speaker 2: think God, will you know? Yeah, right, person, I'm not
Speaker 2: gonna lie to you. I had a friend who she
Speaker 2: was a virgin all.
Speaker 1: Throughout high school and she waited till like college.
Speaker 4: And I remember I finally like because.
Speaker 1: It was like seven of us in high school that
Speaker 1: really close, and when she finally lost her virginia, she
Speaker 1: was like, it was horrible. It was this, it was it.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, you waited all this time
Speaker 1: and it suck. And my first time I lost my
Speaker 1: virginity when I was like fifteen sixteen, and it was
Speaker 1: a magical time. It was my hoschol sweetheart. We weren't
Speaker 1: in love, babe, I loved him down, and I always
Speaker 1: think of that like a good it, Like my first
Speaker 1: time was a good memory for me. So I say
Speaker 1: I say all that to say, like now that you're like,
Speaker 1: you know, and it was right. You've said that before though,
Speaker 1: like my first time was like I remember it like
Speaker 1: it was yesterday. So I feel like, since you've waited
Speaker 1: so long, at least bare minimum, make sure it's with
Speaker 1: somebody like you've been with you in a serious relationship,
Speaker 1: because even if y'all do break up and not be together,
Speaker 1: you want it to be like a good memory, right, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: like somebody who really versus somebody like, oh right, that's
Speaker 1: a virgin I wanted to break it in. That's what
Speaker 1: I was gonna say.
Speaker 3: I'm sure you probably think about that too, because that's
Speaker 3: something that I would think you have to worry about
Speaker 3: as well as people even wanting to date. You are
Speaker 3: wanting to try to get it because nobody got it before.
Speaker 2: It ain't nobody got the body, honey. You know, don't
Speaker 2: nobody know you know what they It's just like god,
Speaker 2: they be wanting it, like oh and they be knowing
Speaker 2: to girl like when I be in the club, don't
Speaker 2: mean be.
Speaker 1: Flocking, yes, girl with their shirt something. They girl. They
Speaker 1: acting like like they security guards.
Speaker 4: Honey, they just like come over here.
Speaker 1: You know. Yeah, I don't know my.
Speaker 2: Girlfriends, you know, just act all shy and shit because
Speaker 2: I am shy in real life.
Speaker 1: And that's another thing.
Speaker 2: I'm so shy like what people see like on Instagram
Speaker 2: or girl in person, I just be sar reserves like.
Speaker 1: Oh yes, really, that's so funny. And that's why I
Speaker 1: say I think too. On top of that, you being
Speaker 1: a baddy like you are bad as fucking you're a virgin,
Speaker 1: you bad as hell, you a boss like it's just
Speaker 1: a lot. And then on top of that who you are,
Speaker 1: some people just want you because of who you are.
Speaker 1: Outside of that, that bussy could be bust wide, it
Speaker 1: don't matter, you know what I'm saying. No, I say
Speaker 1: that there's a lot of people who are popular and
Speaker 1: they're they're not virgins, but people want them because of
Speaker 1: who they are.
Speaker 4: So the fact that that bussy ain't been busted while.
Speaker 1: You you're a batty. But this is a ride.
Speaker 4: It's you know what I'm saying, I'm being honest.
Speaker 3: It's you keep just glazing over that bussy.
Speaker 1: It's in pristine conditions. Because I've seen some blown out bussy.
Speaker 1: I get on ex videos. I know what goes on.
Speaker 1: I have watched gay porn before because Mandy sent it
Speaker 1: to me. Mandy from Decisions Decisions. It's not horrible decision anymore.
Speaker 1: But Mandy has sent me some ship before. You know,
Speaker 1: she likes to pay. She do like get down like girl,
Speaker 1: and there be some big peace, said Tony. Got to
Speaker 1: hear they get that big. You know what's crazy. So
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I be seeing the the baddy
Speaker 1: like they be bad like titties done, and they're having
Speaker 1: a little they be having a p p right, having
Speaker 1: a big one. I'll be shy about it. The girl sick,
Speaker 1: you know, bearing on showing that mother and I'll be
Speaker 1: scrolling to be swagging to the ground. I'm like, whata
Speaker 1: what happened to girl? Did you? So?
Speaker 4: Do you attract a lot of straight man?
Speaker 1: I do?
Speaker 2: I attract a lot of straight man, and I love
Speaker 2: my man to be. I like trade, so trade is
Speaker 2: like the girls canery him.
Speaker 4: They don't be knowing.
Speaker 1: I like a little bit.
Speaker 2: Of feminine, you know, you just never know. But I
Speaker 2: like a mascular man, honey, because.
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm the girl. I am the girl
Speaker 1: of the relationship. I'm soft.
Speaker 4: It's not anything else.
Speaker 2: But lady, lady, it's given, you know, classy, it's given.
Speaker 1: You know, it ain't giving these right. So I need
Speaker 1: I need a man. I need a masklar man. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie.
Speaker 4: I'm probably more masculine.
Speaker 1: Than you, Damn I am. We was walking together, like,
Speaker 1: look at that trans girl heels. I look, I still
Speaker 1: got my heels on. The girl little walking in my sneakers, Like,
Speaker 1: what's up? Something never it's given. It's very like you.
Speaker 1: And because I know it's a thing in the community,
Speaker 1: they say, the girls that are like non detectable.
Speaker 4: Yes, like I think because you're.
Speaker 1: So well known, people know. But like if you're you're
Speaker 1: not detecting your I still don't believe me. Yeah, Like
Speaker 1: if you just talked, I don't know if I believe
Speaker 1: you either. I need to see that.
Speaker 2: But you know, I had a girl in a mob
Speaker 2: one time she did not believe me, and girl, she
Speaker 2: was like, I just don't believe you. Like she was like,
Speaker 2: I've been following me for so long and I just
Speaker 2: can't believe you. I said, let me see your hand,
Speaker 2: I said, do you feel this.
Speaker 1: Right? I said, girl, you know it ain't.
Speaker 4: I got everything about you is petite.
Speaker 1: Yes. So usually when you look at people, look, my
Speaker 1: hairs are probably be fifteen sixty. Yes.
Speaker 4: Yes, I wasn't say you know, oh, look you were
Speaker 4: That's what I said.
Speaker 1: They're gonna look at me and be like, no, I
Speaker 1: got they gonna look at all us, be like it
Speaker 1: ain't now. I want to let me get all of
Speaker 1: y'all numbers. Honey.
Speaker 4: But are you dating though? Are you dating right now?
Speaker 1: No? No, I ain't got nobody. That's up my roster. Honey.
Speaker 4: You know how God send you? Somebody used to be like, yeah,
Speaker 4: I ain't got nobody. But are you looking though? Are
Speaker 4: you like on the prown?
Speaker 2: I wouldn't mind looking, you know, for a little something,
Speaker 2: you know you got to have, you you know, something going.
Speaker 1: I don't look something you know, yeah, change or something. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I just love a man that really gets to the
Speaker 2: small things like the details, you know, like, how did
Speaker 2: you know my my car needy gas?
Speaker 1: You know?
Speaker 2: How did you know I needed some toilet paper? You
Speaker 2: know it's some tissue.
Speaker 4: How does you know this?
Speaker 1: You know? So I like that. I love a man
Speaker 1: that listens. Yes, yes, the romance. Romance ain't dead, right,
Speaker 1: it's not romance easy dead.
Speaker 3: And I feel like it's just a lost art form,
Speaker 3: Like yeah, I just not romantic.
Speaker 1: They not They like got that hood ship and I
Speaker 1: looked five hundred and five thousand tax time now for girls,
Speaker 1: watch your taxi? Okay, Oh my god. Oh I had
Speaker 1: a cousin that got got like that. Girl.
Speaker 2: So, girl, she met a man right, and she got
Speaker 2: a new car. They both started working in May. Girl
Speaker 2: she had a man, honey, and he was a I
Speaker 2: flipped two thousand into twenty thousand, and girl, she gave
Speaker 2: him down there, all that tax money.
Speaker 1: Honey, you seem never seen it again. He flips. She
Speaker 1: he flipped on her, He flipped the door, got the
Speaker 1: hell out, Okay, gonna give him that money.
Speaker 4: And she was like, I was like, girl, I told
Speaker 4: you how.
Speaker 1: To do it. That is terrible.
Speaker 4: You gotta stop. Don't give no, man, no, don't.
Speaker 1: Give that man none, they gonna flip it on the
Speaker 1: next girl. Oh yeah, you know how bad it is
Speaker 1: to like if you give a man money, then you
Speaker 1: find out like he on a date with a girl.
Speaker 1: He took that money.
Speaker 2: Money, Stop giving men be put up on that date
Speaker 2: seat what That's why I can't.
Speaker 1: Be in a relationship.
Speaker 3: And every time I see him, so I would be like,
Speaker 3: so you are my right, said, I'll walk up to
Speaker 3: him while he go do you have my money?
Speaker 2: Let me call my brothers a cousin's honey. But you
Speaker 2: know what I will say when you're a good person.
Speaker 1: So this is for the ladies who have given me
Speaker 1: and money and it didn't work out in their favor,
Speaker 1: because I know you gave that man money out of
Speaker 1: the goodness of your heart. Because I'm gonna say this,
Speaker 1: not that in this situation, I gave a man money.
Speaker 1: But it's like, even if you give a man your
Speaker 1: all and in a relationship, let me tell you how
Speaker 1: calmer worked.
Speaker 4: Because I am not a believer in karma.
Speaker 1: I've said that before because I think sometimes it's just
Speaker 1: things just happen. Yeah, yeah, but I had something that
Speaker 1: happened to me. What two days ago, we got a
Speaker 1: text in the group chat. And when I tell you,
Speaker 1: I am not a petty person. I don't believe in revenge.
Speaker 1: But it felt so good to laugh at somebody that
Speaker 1: just did not believe in nothing. And it was like,
Speaker 1: that's why you don't holpe people, because you never know
Speaker 1: when you might need a favorite. And when I tell you,
Speaker 1: I said, I gave that rich white woman left absolutely right. Oh,
Speaker 1: it felt so good.
Speaker 4: It felt so good, And that's why I said, God,
Speaker 4: don't play by me.
Speaker 1: I deserved though. So sometimes when you do good things
Speaker 1: for people and you may feel hurt, just wait, just
Speaker 1: wait on that karma, especially you chosen honey, God gonna speak.
Speaker 1: Got in the car city. You know that's sorry. I'm sorry, Okay,
Speaker 1: my bad. But I also think it's the difference between
Speaker 1: doing things and expecting something back and just doing things
Speaker 1: out of the goodness your heart. So I feel like
Speaker 1: everything I've ever done for anybody in my life, my
Speaker 1: friends can attest for this, I'm just doing it because
Speaker 1: I fuck with you that heart, and I believe in
Speaker 1: you or I love you. I don't need no payback
Speaker 1: from nothing. So when I tell you, God, I had
Speaker 1: a moment me Andrea had went on a trip. I
Speaker 1: had a moment where I just woke up and I
Speaker 1: was just crying and I was thanking guys because I
Speaker 1: cannot believe this is my life and all the struggles
Speaker 1: I went through, everything that I did for people that
Speaker 1: maybe took me for granted stuff.
Speaker 4: You know what, God gave that back to me. Ten folks,
Speaker 4: was gonna give it back to you. You know what
Speaker 4: I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I gotta let friends borrow one thousands of dollars and
Speaker 1: they didn't pay it back, and I'll just be like,
Speaker 1: you know what, you can keep it y and honey,
Speaker 1: God will find a way here. Next week, I have
Speaker 1: a book in twenty thousand dollars, like damn girl, two thousands, twenty.
Speaker 1: It's just like, hey man, thank you Jesus. He always
Speaker 1: gonna look out for you. This story.
Speaker 3: And I always say too because my mom taught me this.
Speaker 3: Don't ever lend people money that you not gonna be
Speaker 3: okay if you don't get it big. You of course
Speaker 3: y'all need to be paying people begs. Don't just go
Speaker 3: around not paying people big. But at the same time,
Speaker 3: you shouldn't give it out if you can't afford to
Speaker 3: speak right, you know what I mean, because a lot
Speaker 3: of the time people not gonna give you your money
Speaker 3: big and that shit is fucked.
Speaker 1: U it is. My mama taught me like that, the
Speaker 1: same thing.
Speaker 2: I have such a loving heart, and I'd be like, well,
Speaker 2: damn if it was me, you know, I want somebody
Speaker 2: to help me out here, and.
Speaker 1: Like I'll call my mom, boy it. She'd be like,
Speaker 1: what I tell your ass about giving that damn money?
Speaker 1: You could have gave it to me. Why they say it,
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna get it from real life. Mine ain't worked. Okay,
Speaker 1: look just calm down.
Speaker 3: They gonna get got But that's why you continue to
Speaker 3: get blessed yet to give it herd.
Speaker 1: And one thing I will say about like, even like
Speaker 1: hairstylists social media influencers, you have stood the test of time,
Speaker 1: you know how, Like we'll hear about a hairstyle and
Speaker 1: we have never heard about them again, or a social
Speaker 1: media influencer and you never hear. So the fact that
Speaker 1: you've been in this game for a long time and
Speaker 1: you still killing it and still that's the blessing thing.
Speaker 1: I'm like a Nicki Minaj, honey, the going Okay, see yes,
Speaker 1: can't stop that trunk tu you know what I'm saying. Okay,
Speaker 1: So now it's the Autumn of the week, Drea. What
Speaker 1: you got for autom of the week this week?
Speaker 3: So for my item of the week, of course, it's
Speaker 3: gonna be Mused Beauty Collection dot Com, which is my
Speaker 3: cosmetics brand. Make sure you get your lip glosses, your
Speaker 3: lip liners, Matt liqu with lipsticks.
Speaker 1: Y'all shall have jelly blisses.
Speaker 3: I also have on the eyeliner in a Mescira right now,
Speaker 3: which is coming out really really soon. So of course
Speaker 3: I had to bring you a little cute just because.
Speaker 1: I know you will make those girls.
Speaker 3: Yes, I wanted to give you a little basket in
Speaker 3: the spirit of Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1: Everyonec honey, I got havening came out the people, that's kind.
Speaker 3: But yes, the messcar haven't came out yet, but it's
Speaker 3: coming out next month and I'll make sure I see you.
Speaker 1: Thank you. I'body what you got in there?
Speaker 3: Some lip glosses. I gave her some of the jelly blushes.
Speaker 3: I also gave her some of the lip liners.
Speaker 1: And I think it might be a few mad lip
Speaker 1: liquid lipsticks in there. Let me tell you that jelly blush,
Speaker 1: the jelly if you do like the light makeup look
Speaker 1: one day, oh that flush. Yes, So it's gonna give like.
Speaker 3: It'll just give you like that little Rosie cheeks.
Speaker 1: That's why I said it's giving, like, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: you invested me.
Speaker 4: That's what you need to do a commercial?
Speaker 1: Right, that'll your girl XP and it's Sugarl Dre and
Speaker 1: the call. Y'all know. We have a segment on Poor
Speaker 1: Minds called Item of the Week. But do you have
Speaker 1: a product or something that you want to promote and
Speaker 1: you want it featured on Poor Minds.
Speaker 3: Your opportunity is here period. If you have an item
Speaker 3: or you have a business and you want to get
Speaker 3: it promoted. We are now having slots available on the
Speaker 3: Poor Minds episode. So if you would like to get
Speaker 3: your product featured for Item of the Week, all you
Speaker 3: need to do is send an email to Item of
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Speaker 1: We canna figure it out.
Speaker 3: Get your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make.
Speaker 1: You some money.
Speaker 4: We love to moret a small business now.
Speaker 1: And a black business said that, but.
Speaker 3: I Meaninade, any business is welcome.
Speaker 1: Okay. So now it's time to get into a about
Speaker 1: about about bow Pal.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 1: So I say this a lot. One thing I have
Speaker 1: curated all my social media accounts. My algorithm is fire.
Speaker 1: So I'm a music head. I'm a music girlie. And
Speaker 1: one thing I love is like seeing a new artist
Speaker 1: that I haven't seen before, and I'm like, how did
Speaker 1: this come up on my timeline? Because my algorithm is fired.
Speaker 1: I found this small artist. She only gets like fourteen
Speaker 1: thousand listens a month. But when I tell you, it's
Speaker 1: so many superstars out there that we just haven't even
Speaker 1: heard of. This song is such a good song. So
Speaker 1: her name is Sid Franklin. The song is called Plastic Waterfalls.
Speaker 4: It is such a good song.
Speaker 1: It's basically about like she's in love with this guy
Speaker 1: and everything was plastic. It was fake.
Speaker 4: It wasn't what she thought it was. You know, you
Speaker 4: see a waterfall and.
Speaker 1: You feel like it's so beautiful, then you get up
Speaker 1: close and it's plastic. Yes, when I tell you, I'm
Speaker 1: a I'm a lyrics girl. So the lyrics in this
Speaker 1: song are just so beautiful. It gives like an R
Speaker 1: and B vibe. So yeah, that's my bop of the week.
Speaker 1: Like I said, music ain't dead, y'all. Just not looking
Speaker 1: for it, y'all. Not it's such a good song, Like
Speaker 1: it's very rare that I come across the song and
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I'm excited about this. So yeah, Sid
Speaker 1: Franklin Plastic Waterfalls Fire, I'm fucking with you said, I'm
Speaker 1: rooting for you.
Speaker 4: Okay, go download that all right?
Speaker 1: What you're listening to? Drea?
Speaker 3: So I like Loto and Playboy CARDI new song, oh
Speaker 3: blig song.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love the album. Yeah, yeah, I like the
Speaker 1: little intro.
Speaker 3: I like intro, but I just also I love when
Speaker 3: the girls get on the track and just be popping
Speaker 3: they sheep.
Speaker 1: Yes, you know what I mean. So shout out to
Speaker 1: a Loto she wants to play Boy Cardy because I didn't.
Speaker 1: I was like, he hadn't really been making no music lately.
Speaker 4: That's because he's been over there giving Iggy azillia.
Speaker 1: No, I see, you don't have to make.
Speaker 3: Music, yes, torturing that okay, but he had a nice
Speaker 3: little run at one point. Remember he had that song
Speaker 3: everybody was singing, woke up to the niggas get like, yeah,
Speaker 3: I think that was his first song, right, yeah, But
Speaker 3: then he had a few more songs after day, and
Speaker 3: then I feel like.
Speaker 1: He's just dot well you know what. I yes, right, torturing,
Speaker 1: I told you to.
Speaker 4: But I think his music now is more so like
Speaker 4: it's kind of rockish, yeah, rock that rock, rap loozy
Speaker 4: kind of vibe.
Speaker 1: Okay, So I think it's just why yeah, he's making music,
Speaker 1: but I don't think it's like for us probably oversea
Speaker 1: for us, Yeah, it's for us probably. Yeah.
Speaker 4: You know they're hitting a five six seven.
Speaker 1: Eights, right, you know?
Speaker 4: So okay, that's a good bye.
Speaker 1: Though. I like, I like a lot of a lot
Speaker 1: of talks that ship, didn't y'all know. I'm an R
Speaker 1: and B head, Honey, you know it means carry Hilson.
Speaker 2: You know, to a good old Kelly you got deep
Speaker 2: in bad, yes, ma'am, Honey, I mean.
Speaker 1: A Marie who I love me so good, A Marie
Speaker 1: Mary J. Blige. I mean I love R and B.
Speaker 1: I of course the queen of rap, honey, Nick, Yes,
Speaker 1: she's that girl, will always be. I love her.
Speaker 2: I mean I'm I'm very versatile in my music, but
Speaker 2: I love R and B. Like that's just I'm a
Speaker 2: hopeless for manny.
Speaker 1: So what have you been doing like this week? Like
Speaker 1: what's your song that you just cannot stop playing? And
Speaker 1: it could be new or old new or oh yeah,
Speaker 1: it could be new old. I really haven't been getting
Speaker 1: into the new music y'all that I feel like, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like maybe.
Speaker 2: It's because I'm not really doing my research on underground
Speaker 2: artist that really made it yet, but like I'm just
Speaker 2: on my way here listening to system a Marie period
Speaker 2: your Touch album, I was on the right right again.
Speaker 1: Look you know Scott is another one. Honey. She was
Speaker 1: ooh girl, love love rain, love it, old school, I
Speaker 1: love it. That's what I said. Will you have an ear? Yes,
Speaker 1: it's hard to enjoy music now because the mainstream stuff
Speaker 1: is not necessarily enjoyable. The Grammys just passed and I
Speaker 1: don't know what their agenda was. But Chapel Rowan, I've
Speaker 1: never got heard of her. I tried to listen to it,
Speaker 1: but when I saw that performance, right, that song has
Speaker 1: been stuck in my head. Oh my god.
Speaker 3: I tried to listen to some of her music too
Speaker 3: after the Grammys, and I.
Speaker 1: Was just like, Okay, you know, actually it's not bad.
Speaker 1: So a long time ago I tried to listen to him.
Speaker 1: I was like, no, after that Grammy, I said, I
Speaker 1: get it now. I see the what's his name, Benson Boone?
Speaker 1: He flips off of these beautiful things and all, maybe
Speaker 1: he gonna flip off that PM.
Speaker 3: Right, He's like Chris Brown, you ain't the only one
Speaker 3: jumbling talking about people flipping Remember last time?
Speaker 1: Why last time?
Speaker 3: He talks about somebody flipping off of building?
Speaker 1: What happened? What I did?
Speaker 3: He talks about somebody flipping off of building?
Speaker 4: No, I don't, I promise by the same way, I
Speaker 4: don't remember nothing.
Speaker 1: Who flipped off a building? Somebody flip?
Speaker 8: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Did I get drunk?
Speaker 3: Yes, you got drank, don't twitter?
Speaker 4: We folkey flipping off a building?
Speaker 1: Oh oh my god? Next topic, because I got drug
Speaker 1: to hell, we definitely, oh my god, let's move on.
Speaker 1: Let's move on. Okay, so before we get into this
Speaker 1: last topic, because we've been to wrap it up, Alonzo,
Speaker 1: this has been so much fun. I love you, like
Speaker 1: honestly I love I was telling my friend before we
Speaker 1: got here, I'm like, oh my gosh, I just I
Speaker 1: never know how people's energy gonna be. Yeah, we've been
Speaker 1: doing this a long time and sometimes you see people
Speaker 1: online and they're so bubbly and so this and that,
Speaker 1: and then you get in perfect you get in a.
Speaker 4: Person, they're like yes.
Speaker 1: So for all the listeners out there and people who
Speaker 1: are fans of you, thank you for being who you
Speaker 1: really are and showing up and being your real, authentic self.
Speaker 4: You have educated us today me about you and I
Speaker 4: know I can call you girl girl, one of the girl.
Speaker 4: So do you give good advice?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay, so we're gonna do our advice segment.
Speaker 4: This is called pour your Heart Out.
Speaker 1: If you want your question answered on the show, and
Speaker 1: make sure you email us at ask poor Minds at
Speaker 1: gmail dot com. If you're a Patreon member, put that
Speaker 1: in a headline so you can skip the line.
Speaker 4: Okay, So I have questioned one.
Speaker 1: All right, So it says I'm thirty two and I've
Speaker 1: always dated my age or older. I'm a guy that
Speaker 1: likes guys. By the way, and I'm in Atlanta, so
Speaker 1: y'all know it's a shit show. I met this guy
Speaker 1: who on paper checks all the boxes. He's six', eight very,
Speaker 1: handsome has a great, job was raised, right y'all know
Speaker 1: that's where, nowadays and we've met a few times in.
Speaker 1: Person it's been a vibe so. Far the thing, is
Speaker 1: he's twenty. Seven. Now i've, Dated i've dated men five
Speaker 1: plus years older than, me and they were all a
Speaker 1: joke in one or multiple.
Speaker 4: Ways but dating younger has never been in my.
Speaker 1: Ministry would y'all keep seeing where it? Goes or be
Speaker 1: like fuck them. Kids i'm a lover like, Y'ALL i
Speaker 1: can't from, love And i'm, cute SO i Know i'll
Speaker 1: find my, Person but never in a million years THAT
Speaker 1: i think he'd be younger than. Me curious to hear
Speaker 1: y'all thoughts how he's thirty two and be thirty two
Speaker 1: and then a man is twenty? Seven, yes and he
Speaker 1: usually dates. Older, god go see that.
Speaker 2: Nigga, yeah stay that, Nigga. Huney don't judge he, right
Speaker 2: don't judge him just because of his. Age, HONEY i
Speaker 2: could see if you said twenty three or, one you.
Speaker 1: Know then you on the butter line On. Kelly oh you, know, so,
Speaker 1: yes go see that, man, Honey go see that. Man
Speaker 1: you thirty, two you're getting.
Speaker 2: Older everybody's getting, Older, honey he checks all the baptis.
Speaker 1: To go check on, him cause if you, DON'T i
Speaker 1: will right.
Speaker 4: Hello six him to right THINK i got balls, anyway.
Speaker 1: AND i SEE.
Speaker 7: I.
Speaker 3: AGREE i definitely feel like if he was a little bit,
Speaker 3: younger THEN i can understand you having your reservations about.
Speaker 1: It but twenty seven and you thirty, two, like have
Speaker 1: a good. Time see WHERE i.
Speaker 3: GO i, mean cause it might not even and end
Speaker 3: up being something that's, serious but just see where it.
Speaker 1: Goes i'm just.
Speaker 3: Not give him a chance just because he's.
Speaker 1: Young he've any, Day, yeah BECAUSE i usually get. OLDER
Speaker 1: i like my niggas knocking on depth, door damn and
Speaker 1: mama me not one but in the, grave. Yob i'm
Speaker 1: like where you live and may be like puny nursing
Speaker 1: home policy looking, Right, yes but it's not my name on.
Speaker 1: It you know What i'm. Saying but my man is
Speaker 1: younger than. Me he's thirty, Two i'm thirty. Five i'm
Speaker 1: about to be thirty. Six SO i feel like sometimes
Speaker 1: it'd be the ones that you least expect that'll take
Speaker 1: you by. Surprise let that six a man take you
Speaker 1: for a rule you might like you eight honey likes
Speaker 1: THAT i? Agree, Okay question number, Two, Hey, Lex drea And.
Speaker 3: TIE i Watched Poor mindes religiously and DECIDED i want
Speaker 3: to pour my heart, OUT o. L i cut off
Speaker 3: one of my close friends since high, school AND i
Speaker 3: don't know how to feel about the. SITUATION i have
Speaker 3: a two old and from the MOMENT i found out
Speaker 3: THAT i was, pregnant she told, me damn near every
Speaker 3: minute to get an. Abortion i've had an abortion before
Speaker 3: and it just wasn't an. Option it confused me because
Speaker 3: she never told any of our other friends to get an,
Speaker 3: abortion and they are like two or three kids in
Speaker 3: her mom died WHILE i was, pregnant AND i still
Speaker 3: made a way to her homegoing even THOUGH i was high.
Speaker 3: Risk i've always been there for her, daughter buying gifts
Speaker 3: every holiday and, birthday but she hasn't even seen my.
Speaker 1: Son other than.
Speaker 3: Pictures then she messaged me On New year saying her
Speaker 3: resolution is to be a better friend to. Me that
Speaker 3: really rubbed me the wrong way Because i've always been
Speaker 3: a good friend to. HER i could be a little,
Speaker 3: defensive but do you ladies think she is a weirdo
Speaker 3: or AM i just overreacting and she was trying to
Speaker 3: give me friendly, advice thanks.
Speaker 1: Ladies So i'm seeing it from two points of. View
Speaker 1: so her reaching out and Saying i'm trying to be
Speaker 1: a better, friend and you still getting offended by, that like,
Speaker 1: damn what can she? Do SO i think if somebody
Speaker 1: is genuinely, saying, Hey i'm trying to be a bit her,
Speaker 1: friend BECAUSE i had that conversation with two of my
Speaker 1: close friends like a couple of years, ago And i'm,
Speaker 1: Like i'm trying to be a better friend THAN i.
Speaker 1: Will and you got to give people a, chance especially
Speaker 1: if you really care about. Them so that's, One BUT
Speaker 1: i think it's more to the story because her telling
Speaker 1: you to get, abortion she don't like your baby. Daddy
Speaker 1: that's what it's.
Speaker 4: Giving she didn't want you to have them kids because
Speaker 4: it baby attached to an eight shit.
Speaker 1: Nigga because a lot of times you been trying to save.
Speaker 1: FOLKS i saved a few folks in my, life AND
Speaker 1: i have been saved a few. TIMES R I, P
Speaker 1: R I. P BUT i say all that to, say
Speaker 1: sometimes your friends can see things that you don't, See
Speaker 1: so tell us about your baby, Daddy so we can
Speaker 1: give you a good. Answer if she stayed their friend
Speaker 1: then come to see her.
Speaker 3: Kids, yeah she says she has always been near for
Speaker 3: her friend's, daughter but her, DAUGHTER i, mean but she's
Speaker 3: never came to see her, son only outside of.
Speaker 1: Features. Mmmm so see that's WHAT i caught.
Speaker 4: That, yeah because now the child's here.
Speaker 1: Already yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, okay yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah like you said that she probably telling you to
Speaker 2: get an abortion because of that. Man, yeah either that
Speaker 2: either that man is no good, man or she might
Speaker 2: be fucking with that.
Speaker 1: Man you never know how Some, yeah that that's. True,
Speaker 1: so like you, said we need a little more to
Speaker 1: a little more to the. Story LIKE i, said the
Speaker 1: few times in my life That i've told a friend
Speaker 1: not to have a baby by someone or have an,
Speaker 1: abortion it had nothing to do with the, baby or
Speaker 1: it had everything to do with the, man everything to
Speaker 1: do with who the man.
Speaker 3: Was, yeah because she said too that she feels like
Speaker 3: she told her to get an, abortion but she never
Speaker 3: told none of the other friends to get an. Abortion
Speaker 3: maybe they got a good, baby maybe they married in.
Speaker 3: Relationships we don't, know because you didn't provide all of
Speaker 3: that content you.
Speaker 1: Was given a one side of but, yeah BUT i
Speaker 1: mean in some cases, though people do be being weird
Speaker 1: though and.
Speaker 4: Hating, yes so sometimes If i'll tell, you don't get
Speaker 4: pregnant because she's, like because you're gonna live a glamorousy like.
Speaker 1: Right And i'm gonna be here by. Myself. Yeah, no
Speaker 1: do what's best in your. Heart, GOD i agree it
Speaker 1: was best for. You you know you.
Speaker 3: CAN'T i feel like when it comes to situations like,
Speaker 3: that not trying to be, funny but if it's coming
Speaker 3: down to you having a, child you shouldn't be taking
Speaker 3: your friend and no way this between you and your.
Speaker 1: Men but now that your child is, here as far
Speaker 1: as y'all's friendship, goes if this person is somebody that
Speaker 1: you care about and you're truly happy around, them reconcile the.
Speaker 1: Relationship but if you feel like life is good And
Speaker 1: i'm cool not being your, friend that's your. Insurrection, yeah
Speaker 1: it's up to. You i'm all about give a onemore,
Speaker 1: chance one, Chance, okay, alonzo let the people. Know, okay
Speaker 1: let me ask you. This do you still take clients
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