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Speaker 1: busted wild you. You're a baddie.

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Speaker 2: But this is a ride, you know I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I'm being honest.

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Speaker 3: It's like you keep just glazing over that bussy.

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Speaker 1: It's in pristine conditions. Because I've seen some blown out bussy.

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Speaker 1: I get on X videos. I know what goes on.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 4: Is your girl.

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Speaker 1: Lexp and it's your girls Dray and a call and you.

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Speaker 3: Of poor Mind where a drunk mind speaks sob birthdays.

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Speaker 5: We gotta guest today, We gotta guess today.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all something. Y'all know this person. They

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Speaker 1: are one of the best hairstylists ever to exist. One

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Speaker 4: We have the one, the Only God.

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Speaker 1: Yes, oh yeah, that's a narration right there, girl, how

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Speaker 1: are you? I'm doing good? How you doing? I am great?

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you I always do this. I know

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Speaker 1: the listeners be like lix, please need a break. When

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Speaker 4: I mean, it looks like you got on a parisil.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you look the exact same person girl.

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Speaker 2: And y'all it's always the pretty girls like yes, what

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Speaker 4: Amazing?

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Speaker 1: Thank you taking one? And that one it does okay.

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Speaker 1: So I like to start at the beginning, just for

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Speaker 1: you and know, you know, don't know who you are.

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Speaker 1: So you started off as a hairstylist, yes, now do

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Speaker 1: you have your license? And you got my licenship.

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Speaker 4: But you know what's crazy about that? I would have

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Speaker 1: You know, she comes to be a tea she said,

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Speaker 2: But you know, like you said, the best of the

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Speaker 2: I just never went to take this test, if that

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Speaker 1: So when you don't have your license, I means you

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Speaker 1: Know sneaking you got to go? Yeah, you do like

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Speaker 2: Yes, she taught me everything, so shy. She was there

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Speaker 2: So, uh my first signing something was Bambi Basketball Wives. Okay,

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Speaker 2: Oh she wanted all them bundles in their head. But

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Speaker 1: Gas. Now you shot the motherfucker out. You ain't gonna

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Speaker 2: Damn it shot your ass like you're gonna get up clients.

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Speaker 2: And then my first real, real, real big celebrity will

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Speaker 1: her and when it's okay. So I'll say this as

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Speaker 3: Let's talk about beans every episode. Some goddamn beans. I'm

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Speaker 4: I have built like it's immune to it. You know

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Speaker 1: That it is naturally in my DNA. Oh, it's in

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Speaker 2: Honestly I would see back in my day that's like

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Speaker 2: Ye like with the baby hairs, I never you know,

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Speaker 2: I just like, to me the only person that I

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Speaker 1: And I think too it's like that soft baby hair

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Speaker 1: I am a fashion nover girl. I am a shean

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Speaker 2: It could just be a girl that ain't got no

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Speaker 1: They asses, they had interest rates and waiting fee. Yeah,

439
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Speaker 1: I need my money feeds and rent feeds and shit.

440
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Speaker 3: Okay, so yes, I do have a question.

441
00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 1: So you always have made.

442
00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,880
Speaker 3: Funny videos online as well, Like, obviously we know you're

443
00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:19,880
Speaker 3: gonna serve a look, makeup, gonna be tea body, tea, everything.

444
00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:23,600
Speaker 3: But you have a really really good personality too. And

445
00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:25,359
Speaker 3: I remember you from back in the day. We used

446
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Speaker 3: to make the funny videos with your wig.

447
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Speaker 1: Look.

448
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Speaker 3: I missed some days right years ago. I remember you

449
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Speaker 3: from back in the day. So do you feel like

450
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Speaker 3: your personality has helped it all with building your clients.

451
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Speaker 2: Hele Okay, honestly, I would say sixty percent of your

452
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:52,119
Speaker 2: clients is gonna coming you for your personality because you

453
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:54,080
Speaker 2: have to think about it. People are going through things

454
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 2: like when they come and sit in my chair, they're

455
00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:58,320
Speaker 2: gonna been about their husband. You know what they done,

456
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Speaker 2: did you know? Or they john the stuff, so they

457
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:02,960
Speaker 2: need a laugh. They want to look good too, but

458
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:05,919
Speaker 2: they need a laugh to just relax and just you know,

459
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 2: let it all out, shut them. Crowd of clients laugh

460
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:11,720
Speaker 2: with clients and they be really needing that. Yeah, they

461
00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:14,520
Speaker 2: need that healing, you know time. So yeah, I think.

462
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:16,479
Speaker 3: That's important because I always say that going to your

463
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 3: hairstylist is like theory.

464
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Speaker 1: Bro.

465
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Speaker 3: If you got a good one that you cool for sure,

466
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:24,360
Speaker 3: you leave just feeling so refreshed and like the way

467
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,160
Speaker 3: it is lifted off your shoulders and you look cute.

468
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,800
Speaker 1: It's like yes, And some of these hairstyles they be

469
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Speaker 1: so mean. Now I want you to talk. Yeah, talking's

470
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Speaker 1: crazy as the cup because like I said, I've been

471
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Speaker 1: going to d D for years. Di you knows all

472
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Speaker 1: my business me and d talks down and then I

473
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Speaker 1: think that's a part of the experience.

474
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Speaker 4: Actually been in TikTok video a while back.

475
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Speaker 1: And look y'all, we know you can't be in the

476
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Speaker 1: salon until you get that paper, right, I said, we

477
00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 1: need to bring that salon feeling bad. We used to

478
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 1: go to salon and it's three four of us in there.

479
00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:00,640
Speaker 1: We got a good show playing we have and we talking.

480
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 1: It's like a lot of times like if you go

481
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 1: to a salon, it's only you in there, which is

482
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:08,399
Speaker 1: cool if y'all have a relationship, but I like to

483
00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:10,879
Speaker 1: be with other girls and were talking and we chatting

484
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 1: it up. We got poor mons, right, We like, I

485
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Speaker 1: think we need that salon feel Oh.

486
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Speaker 2: I was just talking about that. Yes, the sweets really

487
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Speaker 2: messed up.

488
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Speaker 1: Yeah, because they're bad. You can't even learn nothing like

489
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 1: from other hairstyles. You know.

490
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Speaker 2: It was like when I was coming up at the

491
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Speaker 2: salon with my aunt, it was five of.

492
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Speaker 1: Us and I and I loved it.

493
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Speaker 2: Like it was a whole reality show. You have these

494
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Speaker 2: two stylars arguing and you know, a client. You know,

495
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:39,800
Speaker 2: it's it was so so good.

496
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Speaker 1: It feel like community, yes, and so fun. Right, It's

497
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:44,639
Speaker 1: like a family. I feel like that's what they talk

498
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:46,760
Speaker 1: about with Beyonce a lot like how her mom had

499
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Speaker 1: the salon and salan performing. It's just so many memory

500
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Speaker 1: Like growing up, I used to love going to the

501
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 1: salon too, Like I used to be like, oh, let

502
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 1: me see what everybody getting and they get their away

503
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 1: French rolls. I'm snatch ponytail the baddest right, But you

504
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 1: know I do feel that. But you know, these days,

505
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:09,520
Speaker 1: I definitely be trying to get in and out.

506
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Speaker 3: Like if you got three people here to me, let

507
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Speaker 3: me know when you are almost done, and then I'm.

508
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:15,800
Speaker 1: Gonna pull up. Yeah, child, you know.

509
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Speaker 2: Let me tell you back in the two thousands years,

510
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Speaker 2: my aunt she would have like fifteen twenty people and

511
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Speaker 2: they was this, you know, she'll be over there, and

512
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:26,800
Speaker 2: she she had an assistant, she had two assistants. And

513
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 2: when I tell you should come in there, like nine

514
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:31,399
Speaker 2: in the morning, it'd be like a line of people

515
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Speaker 2: writing on her should get there. They it's in and out.

516
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Speaker 2: Oh I see, I love that. I get thousand dollars thousands.

517
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Speaker 1: Of dollars a days.

518
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Speaker 3: I'm not right good, yes, but I love somebody who

519
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 3: can get you inting out because some hair stylists they

520
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:45,400
Speaker 3: be slow, because you will be the only one there and.

521
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Speaker 1: Then you will still be for like six, will be

522
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Speaker 1: there for two three days and damn I only didn't

523
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Speaker 1: want go on. I'm just kidd come back in the

524
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Speaker 1: morning so I can finish, right. I need I need

525
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Speaker 1: now ship don't take out. I need some pretendence just

526
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Speaker 1: taking up Rocky, So go ahead, go ahead, drest.

527
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Speaker 3: I don't know if you have another question, I'll get

528
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Speaker 3: into the first topic.

529
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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, one more question.

530
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Speaker 1: Who was your like favorite celebrity client, Like you was like,

531
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Speaker 1: oh I love you like we always gonna be locked

532
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:17,879
Speaker 1: in for life. Mm hmm. Well, I don't know if

533
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:24,159
Speaker 1: she liked me now, oh not me inside, I don't know.

534
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 2: I mean she followed me, but you know what I

535
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 2: always got loved for Megan honestly follow Yes, we uh

536
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Speaker 2: One thing about Megan a studus.

537
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Speaker 1: She was so fun to work with and.

538
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 2: She gets you the best gifts like birthday gifts, Christmas

539
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 2: gifts like that girl. I don't know if it's in

540
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 2: the quaries thing, but hor is they get really good gifts.

541
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Speaker 2: And she gave you some really really good gifts. She

542
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Speaker 2: was very fun even when like her around the time

543
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Speaker 2: I was working on her, her mom had just passed away.

544
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 2: You would never be able to know because she was

545
00:26:56,920 --> 00:27:00,640
Speaker 2: always so happy, upbeat. She never let nobody see her cried, never.

546
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:02,920
Speaker 1: Let you know what I'm saying. So I had a

547
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:05,360
Speaker 1: really good time working with her. When is she gonna

548
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 1: follow you? This is like twenty twenty one, I think, because.

549
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:14,239
Speaker 2: I think because her best friend was and Kelsey. They

550
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,199
Speaker 2: was going at it online and I had said some

551
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:18,159
Speaker 2: of the blocks. I don't know she's seen it, but

552
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 2: I was just like, I don't like nobody being ganged

553
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 2: up on. And so I was just like, yes, Kelsey,

554
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:24,679
Speaker 2: stand up for yourself, you know.

555
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 1: But I was, but I like what was said. But ooh,

556
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 1: I don't know.

557
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 2: Friend, I probably fall out. It was my it was

558
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,159
Speaker 2: my fine, you know. And I and that's when I

559
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 2: really like slowed down from really commenting on yeah, because she.

560
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:44,920
Speaker 1: Probably took that. It's like, damn bitch, like I thought

561
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 1: we was cool. Yeah. But and I think to everything

562
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 1: she went through, she was probably doing a cleanse of

563
00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff that she has been seeing on

564
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:57,360
Speaker 1: my probably not personal because she probably knows your personality. Yea, oh,

565
00:27:57,400 --> 00:28:01,679
Speaker 1: I know they're joking, but still right right, Yeah, And

566
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: I really understand what she was going through. But like

567
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 1: now looking back at it, she was going through a lot,

568
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 1: a lot going on.

569
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:09,640
Speaker 3: Yes, shut out to me.

570
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:11,919
Speaker 1: You killed me in fast. I see your looks.

571
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 3: You know her stylist is killing sh What was that

572
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 3: she was in Paris?

573
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 2: That Harry and in Japan and stuff, and she she

574
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:20,960
Speaker 2: looked amazing my body looks.

575
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,679
Speaker 1: She got me motivating going to the gym, child, not me,

576
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:29,199
Speaker 1: but I love it yout that er look like you

577
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:31,159
Speaker 1: go to the gym. But I'll be in there walking

578
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 1: on the trick me. You know, I get my steps right.

579
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 3: I'll be in in here sweating, bully on the step,

580
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:45,480
Speaker 3: mass girl on the stairs. Do you do it on

581
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 3: like one incline or do you sweet you?

582
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 2: I do level steven for forty five minutes straight and

583
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 2: five hundred calories. When I get about that motherfucker, i'd

584
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:56,600
Speaker 2: be late the hell out.

585
00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 1: But like the stomach, thank you, very, flash very. What's up, y'all?

586
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 1: Is your girl a lexp And it's sagrocery and a call.

587
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 1: And y'all know we are some hygien girlies. So we

588
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 1: are here to tell y'all about good wipes. Yes, y'all, y'all,

589
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 1: meaning a little more than toilet paper. You gotta use

590
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 1: a little white backdal when you're done. That's why I

591
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 1: love good wipes because they hypo allergenic and they come

592
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 1: in so many different scenes like shake, Coco, lavender botanical Believe,

593
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 1: I love that.

594
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 4: And they're free of harsh chemicals, you know what I'm saying.

595
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 1: So if you need some wipes other than toilet paper,

596
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:31,960
Speaker 1: what you're gonna do is go to your local grocery

597
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,160
Speaker 1: store like a Target, Kroger, or if you're more of

598
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 1: an online shopper, it's on Amazon.

599
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 4: So get you some good wipes, girl.

600
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 1: If you want to upgrade your restroom ritual, you can

601
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:45,600
Speaker 1: grab good wipes at Target, Walmart, Kroger, and most local

602
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 1: grocery stores. Just head to the toilet paper out and

603
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:51,480
Speaker 1: look for the bright, Aqua, Rose and Emerald packages. They're

604
00:29:51,520 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 1: also available on Amazon if you're more of an online shopper.

605
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?

606
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 3: As your girl x Pee and it's Sugarl Draying a

607
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:05,480
Speaker 3: call and we have a very.

608
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Speaker 1: Exciting announcement today. We have a brand new show dropping.

609
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 3: Yes, we have a brand new shout dropping y'all on

610
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 3: Patreon it's gonna air on September second, and it's called

611
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 3: Poor Chronicles. We're gonna be doing so much stuff on there.

612
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 3: We're gonna be doing challenges. If you can't go to

613
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 3: Bella Dache, where the hell could you go?

614
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 1: If you can't go to Blanche what a hell? Put

615
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: it out?

616
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 3: We're gonna be doing talk to me, chit chat with me.

617
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 3: We're gonna be spelling at Little Tea.

618
00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 1: Oh my god, No you didn't. God.

619
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Speaker 3: Everything y'all been wanting to see, we're gonna be doing

620
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 3: it right here on Patreon.

621
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Speaker 1: Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we've been

622
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 1: to give it to y'all every single Monday, and it's

623
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: gonna be a time. Y'all know. Poor Minds has grown

624
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 1: into its own little entity. Well, we're gonna have a

625
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 1: lot of fun still over here at Poor Chronicles. So

626
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 1: make sure y'all tune in Berke second, it's going down.

627
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:12,479
Speaker 3: So I want to get into the first topic. We're

628
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 3: gonna play a game called what's the Real Game? Okay,

629
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:18,440
Speaker 3: So we're gonna get into the game and we basically

630
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 3: gonna read you some questions. You either have to tell

631
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 3: us to see or you can take a suit your drink.

632
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 1: I think I think that needs another one.

633
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 6: Yeah right, because I'm juice, right, okay, that juice.

634
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 1: What are you like? What do you prefer? How do

635
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:45,920
Speaker 1: you give it that? Like they now say, he she.

636
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 2: You can respectful, but okay, I kept trying to say that.

637
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, look right, look, dang, look okay, I mean

638
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:03,480
Speaker 1: I don't get and that ship. I'm like, I don't

639
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 1: get it.

640
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 2: I do expect my friends like if they want to

641
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 2: because she Alley.

642
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 1: Yeah whatever, but that I'd be like that. I had

643
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 1: a friend who she was like, I'm day I said,

644
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 1: oh you got a twin bitch. I didn't know. I'm like,

645
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 1: you get them.

646
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:23,280
Speaker 3: Because we were trying to make sure we were being

647
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 3: you're not respectful.

648
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:30,600
Speaker 1: I appreciate that. Okay, girls, okay because she drink that's

649
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 1: my girl. Yeah, okay, we can start the game because

650
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 1: got a little bit.

651
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:40,960
Speaker 3: Question number one, what's the worst the wig install you've

652
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 3: ever seen on the Celebrity You Can?

653
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 1: Sepper answer ship.

654
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 2: The worst wig install I have ever seen on the Liberty.

655
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Speaker 1: She said, that's a lot of thinking. Girl. We got time.

656
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 1: I see some bad weeds I could think of. I

657
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 1: can too who you thinking you money? I feel y'all.

658
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 3: Okay, Kim Zozi egg that wig was terrible.

659
00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:21,280
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, you know she like them pushed back weeds.

660
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah yeah.

661
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 2: They used to mountain on top of the manpopulation mountains.

662
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, I wrote that one.

663
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:32,160
Speaker 1: I don't know.

664
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Speaker 2: Let me bad weeds? Ooh who had a bad weed? S?

665
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 2: I don't have a couple of bad damn weeds.

666
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 1: I had one too bad. I had a few. It's

667
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 1: ony Dre still got my bad You know what, I

668
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: would say, the worst wig I ever seen? This is

669
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Speaker 1: the BT Awards.

670
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 2: What was that twenty and three in diamond I'm sorry

671
00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 2: crying out diamonds? And I don't think she'd you know,

672
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 2: just Liberty, well, you know she's the rapper. So she

673
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:06,000
Speaker 2: came in there looking like little scrap. She was in

674
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 2: the little scrappy honey and looking.

675
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:10,919
Speaker 1: Like I can tell you honey. And I said, well,

676
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 1: what happened in that car?

677
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:12,319
Speaker 3: Girl?

678
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 1: That damn we was just every day we Okay, I'll

679
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,399
Speaker 1: get it though, Okay, sometimes you have them nights.

680
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:26,240
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm about to be googling.

681
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:31,240
Speaker 1: Who is one influencer you think is over hyped?

682
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:36,760
Speaker 2: Who is one influencer. I think it's over hyped. Oh

683
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:45,360
Speaker 2: my god, mm over hYP I be loving all the girls.

684
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 3: I think if I have one to school, Oh I

685
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:49,720
Speaker 3: got one.

686
00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 1: Let me take a sip. Okay, you want me to

687
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 1: hear her mind? Yeah, Alex earl, who is that? So

688
00:34:55,520 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 1: she's she's like, I don't even know. Okay, but on TikTok,

689
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 1: it's no offense to her get them. I just don't

690
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 1: get the thing about her. And I mean, she's always

691
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,280
Speaker 1: on all the beauty brand trips, the tarts, the things

692
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 1: and this and that, and I just I don't It

693
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 1: doesn't give what it's supposed to be is for me.

694
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 1: I can't believe y'all don't know who Alex Early is.

695
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 1: You're not a TikTok scroller, but I thought you're a

696
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:26,719
Speaker 1: TikTok top scroller girl, Alex. Let me see, y'all have

697
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 1: never seen this girl? Is that a singer? Her? She's

698
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 1: got like millions and millions and millions of followers on TikTok,

699
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:36,759
Speaker 1: and what does she do.

700
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 4: She's just she just makes videos.

701
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 1: Get ready with me. She's dating like a football player,

702
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:46,319
Speaker 1: but that came after she was already popular. She's a

703
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:50,520
Speaker 1: beautiful girl. But it's just giving. Like, okay, but you

704
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 1: know who one influencer I think should be way bigger.

705
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 1: Since we're being negative, we gotta cancel out with Clark.

706
00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:58,359
Speaker 1: I love Clark. I love Clark too.

707
00:35:58,480 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 4: Clark is a good one.

708
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 1: Cool. Her name is Clark.

709
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:04,760
Speaker 3: She's real popular on TikTok, and she's a young black girl.

710
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 3: She graduated from I think, why.

711
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 1: You I feel like I'm in my fifty so about

712
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 1: Clark ooh yeah, when she's young.

713
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:15,359
Speaker 3: She's like twenty two. She just graduated I think from

714
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:18,439
Speaker 3: like NYU Are Columbia, one of those schools up there,

715
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 3: and she's about to go to law school.

716
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:25,399
Speaker 1: But yeah, grocer was about a million dollar house. I go, yeah,

717
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 1: she really is.

718
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:32,439
Speaker 3: So okay, let's see question number three. Have you ever

719
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 3: charged someone extra just because they got on your nerves?

720
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:40,399
Speaker 1: Oh? Yes, I did. I know. That's right.

721
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 2: They got on my last motherfucking EU for real. They

722
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 2: came in. It wasn't the celebrity. It was just a

723
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Speaker 2: regular client. And this is like one of my regulars.

724
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Speaker 2: Honey girl, Sady s your.

725
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 1: Teeth till.

726
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 2: Tiffany came asking it down shop, I did some blond hair.

727
00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,920
Speaker 2: It was like the blonde color, honey, you know highlights,

728
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 2: bitch like Sierra's highlights. And then she's gonna say, oh,

729
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 2: I think I want to I changed my mind to

730
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:06,240
Speaker 2: jet black.

731
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Speaker 3: I would have charged extra too, though, what then you

732
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:11,240
Speaker 3: changed your mind?

733
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 1: Yeah? Girl, and tip to know.

734
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:15,320
Speaker 2: I had to go outside for about fifteen minutes of

735
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:16,920
Speaker 2: cool down because I was like, girl, I don't need this.

736
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:18,239
Speaker 1: Color for three days straight.

737
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:21,359
Speaker 2: Like girl, and I came in and I did her

738
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Speaker 2: hair and I charged her ass extra.

739
00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 4: I know that's right.

740
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,800
Speaker 3: You gotta have out because that makes sense, like you

741
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:27,839
Speaker 3: wasting my time?

742
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:29,359
Speaker 1: Right, like tell me right?

743
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:31,920
Speaker 2: Yes, said that was some good color, but you know

744
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:34,760
Speaker 2: I did make a weed out their hair, so mood.

745
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 1: I look, I look, I had two girls.

746
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:38,360
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm gonna skip that one.

747
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 1: Drea. Okay, who's the messiest person in your DMS? Ooh,

748
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:53,279
Speaker 1: the messiest person in my what's the messiest person in

749
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:54,279
Speaker 1: my DMS?

750
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Speaker 2: If anybody ever seen me in d have to say

751
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 2: me and my girl Perez?

752
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 1: Is that the way to be? Like?

753
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:12,840
Speaker 2: Right, all the tea is how to scott for some tea,

754
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 2: Get that tea and we child, we'll be talking about you.

755
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:17,520
Speaker 4: I'm talking about in the group.

756
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 6: Hell, yeah, sure, everybody do that.

757
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:21,400
Speaker 1: Nobody off, I think everybody do that.

758
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:24,319
Speaker 2: I hate one to be Oh you know, if it's

759
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 2: not about the money, don't talk please, so as you

760
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 2: ain't got no money, mother, let me tell you what

761
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:31,799
Speaker 2: Kiki did right?

762
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:34,080
Speaker 1: Where the money? About the money? Right?

763
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:35,480
Speaker 4: Okay?

764
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 1: I think you should do one more and then I'm

765
00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:39,239
Speaker 1: gonna do one more and then go to the topic talk.

766
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:44,879
Speaker 2: Okay, hmm, give me some good honey, I'm gonna think

767
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 2: about it.

768
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:50,719
Speaker 1: Who is the most famous person they ever slid in

769
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 1: your d m? Oh my god? Oh I gotta take

770
00:38:56,560 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 1: it that money cannot I said I was the open book.

771
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:07,280
Speaker 1: But let me close because you know, just in case.

772
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 1: I know that's right, Oh girl, let me take a

773
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:14,800
Speaker 1: whole glass of that, and what I see is paid.

774
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 1: I could look at her a little drinking. Okay, all right,

775
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 1: last one? Last one? Okay? What is hold on? Wait?

776
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:29,080
Speaker 4: I don't want to read this.

777
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 1: Okay. What's the pettiest reason you've unfollowed a celebrity that

778
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 1: you knew in real life?

779
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 2: The pettiest reason I followed a celebrity in real life? Well,

780
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:50,600
Speaker 2: this ain't really petty. What's the girl named Lila Hathaway.

781
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:54,360
Speaker 2: Who that hold on? Let me look lain halfaways. I

782
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:59,800
Speaker 2: think she is a gospel sinking something like that. Who Donnie,

783
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:08,359
Speaker 2: I ain't l oh Layla Hathaway, Layla Hathaway, Miss got

784
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:14,319
Speaker 2: the way you damn it got a white honey. But

785
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 2: it wasn't petty. It was because I did. I was

786
00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:21,240
Speaker 2: late with her weed now I was late with him. Okay,

787
00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 2: she needed them for a show, and she disputed the payment.

788
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:26,400
Speaker 1: Honey.

789
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 2: It was like it was like five thousand some dollars.

790
00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 2: She disputed to pay me, and I already sent the

791
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:34,919
Speaker 2: wigs out. And so when the weeds got her, I said,

792
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 2: miss Layla, can you please send my wied I never

793
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:39,200
Speaker 2: got the weeksvent.

794
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 4: Oh, she just went down, jay hud, I found her.

795
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 1: Who she did? She did? She just went down. She

796
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:49,879
Speaker 1: got my wig out. She probably to start park from

797
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:54,400
Speaker 1: twenty nineteen. She cut into her moulet. Oh, I'm just playing,

798
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 1: oh girl.

799
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:58,240
Speaker 6: She looked good though, but yeah, that's how ass.

800
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 1: She never gave the wigs.

801
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:01,120
Speaker 4: You never got a payment.

802
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 1: I disputed dot com honey, and it are still in

803
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:05,440
Speaker 1: l A.

804
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm down with. I don't know

805
00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:09,880
Speaker 2: she got them, I'm gonna follow them holes.

806
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 1: Yeah. Ups, I don't know, girl, and you p has

807
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:14,960
Speaker 1: lost and found.

808
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 3: I said, did you at least win the dispute?

809
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:21,319
Speaker 1: You know what? I was like, girl, You know what,

810
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 1: I ain't even got the response to dispute because I

811
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:27,280
Speaker 1: kind of took it.

812
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 2: Like I kind of you know what's to blame for it?

813
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:31,840
Speaker 2: And so I was just like, you know, it's a

814
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 2: business loss, and it is what it is.

815
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:36,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that was a good week two. Girl.

816
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:38,720
Speaker 2: I was like taking my time with me because you know, celebrity,

817
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:41,040
Speaker 2: you'd be wanting to even with your regular clients, you know.

818
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:42,719
Speaker 2: But I was like, let me pain these curls up

819
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 2: and I and I was late with them, and she

820
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:51,320
Speaker 2: needed for a performance and so yeah, you know you don't.

821
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 1: Because at least get him and send them back. You

822
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:57,120
Speaker 1: will never work in this town. Yes, that's all I

823
00:41:57,120 --> 00:42:00,759
Speaker 1: would have said. That's low Keith Steely. Now don't say

824
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 1: that to that lady, like look or I still love you, girl.

825
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 1: But I had blocked ass. I ain't I blocked period.

826
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 3: She said, I don't know, like right like she might

827
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:15,239
Speaker 3: take something if she come over here.

828
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:20,400
Speaker 2: You have to hide your damn Yeah, you're just flying

829
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:22,920
Speaker 2: on booting it all right that when she see the

830
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:28,320
Speaker 2: doggyt on, it's crazy.

831
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:36,840
Speaker 1: Okay, I'll say this. I'm tired of y'all with the

832
00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 1: Beyonce conspiracy theories about what y'all think she gonna do.

833
00:42:40,640 --> 00:42:42,840
Speaker 1: Obviously y'all don't be knowing. She will never know. You

834
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 1: never know and too so you know, I gotta y'all know,

835
00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:48,759
Speaker 1: I gotta report the negativity. There's a group of people

836
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 1: online who are very mad because she's calling it the

837
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 1: Chitlin circuit, and they're saying, if you're calling it the

838
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:56,280
Speaker 1: Chitlin circuit, then you need to go to the places

839
00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:58,520
Speaker 1: that Chitland circuits actually went to.

840
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:00,399
Speaker 4: So you need to be.

841
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 1: Touching the corners of the states that are small cities

842
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 1: that Chickling Chitlin circuits actually toured. But are they not

843
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:14,359
Speaker 1: gonna have a venue big enough? That was the argument back,

844
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:16,640
Speaker 1: They don't have the capacity to all them. But she

845
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 1: was like, you're and they're like, but your Beyonce created

846
00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 1: and generate revenue for these smaller towns are smaller states

847
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 1: to start holding these artists and doing that because you

848
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 1: want to be.

849
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Speaker 4: A pioneer, be a Pioneer.

850
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:33,760
Speaker 1: So it's been a lot of backlash of her naming

851
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:46,200
Speaker 1: it the Chiit List. I mean yeah, but I also, yeah,

852
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:49,319
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, I think Beyonce, I'm not gonna lie.

853
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at her for doing it this way,

854
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:53,920
Speaker 1: but I do believe, Hell, yeah, go to these cities

855
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:56,399
Speaker 1: and make these motherfuckers travel for you. We gonna see

856
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 1: who gonna buy tickets. Then, because I would have been

857
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:02,400
Speaker 1: a Tuscaloose to go to Orange, Texas, I would have

858
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:03,880
Speaker 1: hosted it for your ass.

859
00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:07,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I agree that's fair. But then on

860
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,359
Speaker 3: the other hand, I just do always feel like people

861
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:15,160
Speaker 3: just always gonna find something, something but to complain about. Like, yes,

862
00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:18,200
Speaker 3: she called it the Chitlin Circuit Tour, but I feel

863
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:22,840
Speaker 3: like it's not that deep to where people should be outraged.

864
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 1: And Beyonce's philanthropy with no but she has donated a

865
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:32,279
Speaker 1: lot of money to these smaller cities that have black rodeos,

866
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 1: and so she has done her job.

867
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I mean it's all big cities. I understand that,

868
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:46,360
Speaker 3: but I still don't feel like people should be that

869
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 3: goddamn outraged by you know, like people just be up

870
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 3: in arms by everything.

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00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 1: I think with the she could at least hit one

872
00:44:54,800 --> 00:45:00,320
Speaker 1: little chi Yeah, one little I mean she going no,

873
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:02,799
Speaker 1: she ain't going nowhere.

874
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 4: But like I said, I.

875
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:08,319
Speaker 1: Feel it on both ends because like I said, I

876
00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:12,239
Speaker 1: just really don't think those cities have the capacity too.

877
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 1: And the reason I say that, we went to Macon, Georgia,

878
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:20,240
Speaker 1: making right outside of Atlanta for an eighty five south

879
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:25,160
Speaker 1: show that traffic, they couldn't do it. Yeah, they didn't

880
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 1: have enough people to direct the traffic. And this was

881
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:29,319
Speaker 1: for eighty five and eighty five is big.

882
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 4: But obviously they're not Beyonce. So if a Macon can't

883
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 4: handle eighty.

884
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:37,360
Speaker 1: Five, what you think a Birmingham or a Tuscaloose is

885
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:37,759
Speaker 1: gonna do it?

886
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:40,520
Speaker 4: Fucking Beyonce, bro I.

887
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:43,520
Speaker 3: Mean, I'm not gonna lie eat.

888
00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:46,840
Speaker 4: That's I understand.

889
00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:54,360
Speaker 1: That's an Alabama game, but this is Beyonce baby.

890
00:45:52,440 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, yeah, okay mmm.

891
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. So basically Shane was saying, like in Alabama, they

892
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 1: can handle the capacity of like the roll tide and

893
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:26,839
Speaker 1: it be a lot of people and they can handle it.

894
00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 1: So but I do agree, I feel like she could

895
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:31,880
Speaker 1: have found one little at least one little city to

896
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:32,120
Speaker 1: do it.

897
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:32,719
Speaker 4: But I'm not mad.

898
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:35,400
Speaker 1: I'm going yea, we gonna see shop.

899
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:37,640
Speaker 3: We're gonna be there with our had sound in our

900
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 3: cowboy boots. You know, I've been waiting on this moment personally,

901
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 3: I grew up.

902
00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 1: So we gonna get into topic Nomber two.

903
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 3: But topic Nomber two, I wanted to talk about gas

904
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 3: lighting yourself because we always talk about other people gaslightness,

905
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 3: but I think people never really talk about how sometimes

906
00:46:56,719 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 3: we gas light ourselves out of opportunities, are out of

907
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:02,640
Speaker 3: doing certain things in life. So like, what do y'all

908
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:05,000
Speaker 3: think about gask y'all? Do y'all think that there's something

909
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:06,719
Speaker 3: that people actually do well?

910
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 1: I think we definitely gaslight ourselves out of situations, and

911
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:12,720
Speaker 1: I also think we gaslight ourselves when people are dealing

912
00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 1: with us. Yeah, yeah, So I think sometimes like if

913
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:17,239
Speaker 1: you're in a relationship or a friendship, or you're at

914
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:19,279
Speaker 1: work and you have a manager who is talking to

915
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:21,480
Speaker 1: you crazy, and you're like, well, you know, maybe he's

916
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 1: stressed out or she stressed out, and the only reason

917
00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:27,640
Speaker 1: they're doing this because no, they're disrespectful as but and

918
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 1: you need to check that shit. I think a lot

919
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:31,759
Speaker 1: of times we make excuses for other people out of

920
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:34,759
Speaker 1: love or you feel like you need this job. But

921
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: I think we need to stop staying in spaces where

922
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 1: we aren't felt valued. And I know I did that.

923
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,040
Speaker 1: I stayed at TEGF. Friday's for ten years. They didn't

924
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:45,439
Speaker 1: value me, right, you know what I'm saying. I think

925
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:47,719
Speaker 1: even at my job that I had, I was so

926
00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:50,359
Speaker 1: good at my job and they fired me. Remember I'll

927
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 1: walk to your house and my little bit to the

928
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,800
Speaker 1: side flats. Yeah, And I was so sad I lost

929
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 1: my job, I was saying too. I was so upset.

930
00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 1: But one thing about me, and Drea knows, is about me.

931
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:02,879
Speaker 1: When I start anything, I don't care if I'm working

932
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:04,960
Speaker 1: at Burger King, I don't care if I'm at a

933
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 1: Fortune five hundred company.

934
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 4: I'm giving my awe.

935
00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:10,480
Speaker 1: And I know, like as a person who has I

936
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:14,399
Speaker 1: run my own company now versus being a worker, we

937
00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 1: give so much to these jobs and we and we

938
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:21,560
Speaker 1: have these people who treat us like if you die,

939
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:25,680
Speaker 1: they're gonna have somebody there tomorrow. So if you aren't appreciated,

940
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 1: it's okay to move around from these spaces. If you

941
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:31,359
Speaker 1: have a friend who is treating you like you don't

942
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:33,799
Speaker 1: like to be treated. It's okay to move around from

943
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 1: that friend, especially in relationships. We do this, you will

944
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:40,280
Speaker 1: have a man or a woman who is talking crazy

945
00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:43,920
Speaker 1: to you. Oh he stress, work or stop making excuses

946
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 1: for people, because at the end of the day, there

947
00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 1: is no excuse.

948
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:48,600
Speaker 4: To treat somebody bad, period.

949
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:51,920
Speaker 1: I agree, and treating people bad as a reflection of

950
00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:54,520
Speaker 1: how your life is going. I've seen that quote when

951
00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:57,759
Speaker 1: you do people bad, it's because your life is bad,

952
00:48:57,800 --> 00:48:59,799
Speaker 1: bitch and leave me. You know.

953
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 2: I learned from my mom not to takee bs from people.

954
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:06,560
Speaker 1: Now. I used to put up with it, like.

955
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:08,640
Speaker 2: At jobs and stuff and give it my all, like

956
00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 2: you said, But I guess because they happened so much.

957
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:16,359
Speaker 1: Now I'm like, girl, who you talking to? It's like, girl,

958
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:18,680
Speaker 1: you let me cut you off? You know what she did?

959
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:19,120
Speaker 6: Girl?

960
00:49:19,160 --> 00:49:19,920
Speaker 4: You know they call you.

961
00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:21,440
Speaker 1: I just want to know why I ain't calling me

962
00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:24,799
Speaker 1: last couple girl, Girl, you're goron my girl.

963
00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 3: I mean.

964
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 1: And that's the thing about people. I feel like people

965
00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 1: definitely usually know what I mean.

966
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:34,359
Speaker 3: Is they just be trying to see I.

967
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 1: Don't miss nothing. So when y'all are in those situations, now, like,

968
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:40,960
Speaker 1: how do y'all take up for yourself, like what are

969
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:41,399
Speaker 1: y'all doing?

970
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:42,680
Speaker 4: So you feel like somebody.

971
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 1: Gased like you and they playing in your face or

972
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:45,640
Speaker 1: they treating you bad?

973
00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:47,520
Speaker 4: How do you take up for yourself?

974
00:49:47,760 --> 00:49:49,719
Speaker 1: Girl? I'd be at home sometimes I let this ship

975
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:51,759
Speaker 1: go by and I'd be like, you should have said

976
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:56,319
Speaker 1: this head. I call that motherfucker bad girl. Look, I

977
00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:59,800
Speaker 1: know we apologize about the ship, but look bitch y'all.

978
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:01,600
Speaker 1: You know, and it's a whole other argument.

979
00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 2: But uh I I love to stand up for myself.

980
00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:07,839
Speaker 4: I used to be so afraid to do.

981
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:10,719
Speaker 2: That because I felt like I didn't have the power to,

982
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:15,120
Speaker 2: especially as a child, like ooh, girl, people run off

983
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:16,839
Speaker 2: me in school. But I also had a I don't

984
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:19,799
Speaker 2: give a fuck mind like girl, you know to hell.

985
00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 2: But now it is so good to stand up for yourself.

986
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:26,120
Speaker 2: It just makes your mental like better, like it. Just

987
00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:27,879
Speaker 2: make sure you be like, damn, but you did that.

988
00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:29,799
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Patch yourself on the back.

989
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 2: So it is very important to stand to yourself. Don't

990
00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 2: let anybody mistreat you, run over you, take advantage of you,

991
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:38,799
Speaker 2: especially if you are like an entrepreneur or anything like.

992
00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 1: Uh uh yeah, that can't fly. My book what about you?

993
00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 4: How you take up for you?

994
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:45,040
Speaker 3: I agree, but I feel like I have never really

995
00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:47,439
Speaker 3: had a problem taking up for myself, like I would

996
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:48,880
Speaker 3: cush you out with the quakness.

997
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 1: I'm like that now, Yeah, you brought me up absolutely Now.

998
00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:54,320
Speaker 3: I feel like if you don't take up for yourself,

999
00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:57,279
Speaker 3: who else gonna take for you? And if you don't

1000
00:50:57,320 --> 00:50:59,279
Speaker 3: take up for yourself, people think that they can keep

1001
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:01,800
Speaker 3: playing ya bab And you're not about to keep playing

1002
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:03,480
Speaker 3: in my face like one of us gotta go and

1003
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 3: it ain't gonna be me, It's gonna be you.

1004
00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:06,240
Speaker 1: Got to get the fuck.

1005
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:11,319
Speaker 2: On and you Yeah, girl, now you crazy, not like

1006
00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 2: you the problem you started with starting ship, your outside entity.

1007
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:16,400
Speaker 1: You're the one that was me in real today.

1008
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:18,440
Speaker 3: It means to me now I'm wrong because I said

1009
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:21,680
Speaker 3: something like I don't know. I think you definitely have

1010
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:23,719
Speaker 3: to take up for yourself all the time, and people

1011
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:26,319
Speaker 3: should advocate for themself way more than they do. Like

1012
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:29,319
Speaker 3: I don't know, I think people often don't take up

1013
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 3: for themselves because they're scared to lose people, like they

1014
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:34,600
Speaker 3: scared to lose the person like oh, if I say

1015
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:37,279
Speaker 3: something something to them and rub them the wrong way.

1016
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 3: They probably not gonna fuck with me nowhere. If they

1017
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 3: treating you bad and they not a good person, you

1018
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:43,920
Speaker 3: don't need to care if they fucking with you either way.

1019
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 2: I agree with that you need you got to cut

1020
00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 2: that baggage your life that God want you to get

1021
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:50,800
Speaker 2: rid of that, like so you can progress to the

1022
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:54,279
Speaker 2: next level. So it's like, girl, mmm, I think that's

1023
00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 2: something I'm definitely working on because I don't take up

1024
00:51:57,520 --> 00:51:57,960
Speaker 2: for myself.

1025
00:51:58,000 --> 00:51:58,960
Speaker 4: My friends take up for me.

1026
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:02,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, d like nobody say so many of me. I'd

1027
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:07,480
Speaker 1: be like, I'll be like, they'd be like, let's stop

1028
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:14,320
Speaker 1: doing that, said my we Yeah, I am a cry

1029
00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 1: baby like everything, like, but I'm also like everything makes

1030
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 1: me cry if I'm happy and I'm sad if I'm mad.

1031
00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:24,880
Speaker 1: So I sometimes like I avoid conflicts a lot. And

1032
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:27,560
Speaker 1: for me, it's not necessarily that I'm scared to lose

1033
00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:31,600
Speaker 1: that person. I'm just like it makes me uncomfortable, it

1034
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:33,880
Speaker 1: gets so and I sometimes it's like I be wanting

1035
00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:36,520
Speaker 1: to take up for myself just but I just be like,

1036
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 1: you know what, Okay, I'd be like, okay, like all right,

1037
00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:43,080
Speaker 1: I just you know, I'm like that in relationships I'm

1038
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 1: like that, like with my sister. My sister's a tourist.

1039
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:48,279
Speaker 1: Like sometimes my Like, my sister went off on me

1040
00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:50,759
Speaker 1: last week and I was like okay, and I didn't

1041
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:51,799
Speaker 1: talk to her for like two days.

1042
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:53,080
Speaker 4: She was like what are you doing?

1043
00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 1: I was like, you hate me? She's like, girl, what

1044
00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:59,400
Speaker 1: is you talking about? Like, Oh, I am just like that.

1045
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:01,840
Speaker 1: I don't know, but it is something that I know

1046
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:03,480
Speaker 1: that I need to work on, and I also need

1047
00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:06,719
Speaker 1: to not I'm working on not being so sensitive too, yeah,

1048
00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:09,400
Speaker 1: because a lot of times I will take the tiniest

1049
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:12,120
Speaker 1: things to heart and I'm just like, oh, somebody doesn't

1050
00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 1: one thing, I'm like, they hate me.

1051
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:16,040
Speaker 2: I'm like that too in the night, if somebody don't

1052
00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:17,720
Speaker 2: reach out to me, I'd be like because I always

1053
00:53:17,719 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 2: reach out to my friends, right, And I'm the type

1054
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:24,120
Speaker 2: of person like they can't for advice, Like, bitch, you

1055
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:24,520
Speaker 2: went through it.

1056
00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 1: Let me pull up at your house, like you know

1057
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:28,440
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, get you back in the mood. But

1058
00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:29,680
Speaker 1: who the hell I'm checking on me?

1059
00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:31,279
Speaker 2: And I just be like, well, bitch, you know you

1060
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 2: was the breast two weeks ago, and I came and

1061
00:53:33,080 --> 00:53:35,600
Speaker 2: got your ass together and they're like, girl, now you're

1062
00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:37,000
Speaker 2: like you ain't reached out to me in a couple

1063
00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 2: of days, and now like, girl, what's going on?

1064
00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:41,960
Speaker 1: But I have a friend like that. I have a

1065
00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 1: friend like that.

1066
00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:45,279
Speaker 3: And then like I'm kind of the opposite, Like I

1067
00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:48,120
Speaker 3: be feeling like, Okay, if you're gonna call me, and

1068
00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 3: if I don't call you for like two weeks, it

1069
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:53,560
Speaker 3: ain't no change in our friendship, you know, like maybe

1070
00:53:53,600 --> 00:53:56,080
Speaker 3: I got something going on. And I feel like sometimes

1071
00:53:56,120 --> 00:53:57,799
Speaker 3: that's how people have to look at it too, like

1072
00:53:58,040 --> 00:53:59,920
Speaker 3: maybe the other person in life is just a little bit.

1073
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:02,480
Speaker 1: We're still cool. I still love you. But she felt

1074
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 1: that way to let.

1075
00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:05,399
Speaker 3: You like, I just feel like I'm always calling you.

1076
00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:07,839
Speaker 3: First thing, you don't never call me? And I was like, what, girl,

1077
00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 3: I didn't know he was keeping telling.

1078
00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:11,400
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie out that friend. I don't give

1079
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:12,839
Speaker 1: a fuck. If I call you four days in a row,

1080
00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:15,919
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a fifth. Yeah, right, I'm finna call

1081
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:19,520
Speaker 1: you me too. I'm gonna call I don't I don't

1082
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:20,239
Speaker 1: keep tabs on.

1083
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 4: Oh I called her last right?

1084
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:24,879
Speaker 1: I call her thirteen times? Yeah, I will, and I'll

1085
00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:28,040
Speaker 1: call back to back. If you don't answer. I hate that.

1086
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:30,360
Speaker 3: Oh that means and now you could see the video

1087
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:33,960
Speaker 3: not to what right my phone?

1088
00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:35,879
Speaker 1: I'll call back if she don't answer again, I'll be like, hey,

1089
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 1: I called you, girl. I got a fear of.

1090
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:39,680
Speaker 2: That to call you like four times back to back,

1091
00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:42,319
Speaker 2: and I just be like, girl, and somebody died?

1092
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:50,839
Speaker 1: What happened? Right? Seven thirty? God? What's going on? Ship?

1093
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:53,480
Speaker 3: But I do think if your friend never, like, if

1094
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:55,640
Speaker 3: a person never call you first, then I do kind

1095
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:58,000
Speaker 3: of feel like that's a little bit of like a

1096
00:54:58,120 --> 00:54:58,760
Speaker 3: red flag.

1097
00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 1: What do ya thinking of relationship? Though? Wait, if the

1098
00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:03,240
Speaker 1: person never call you first?

1099
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:06,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, or you like, are you if you always the

1100
00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:07,600
Speaker 2: one that's like, you.

1101
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:09,760
Speaker 1: Know what's crazy? I think?

1102
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:11,480
Speaker 4: I like, I'm a creature of habit.

1103
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:15,200
Speaker 1: So every day my man calls me first in the morning,

1104
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 1: I don't play that shit. You call me in the

1105
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:19,359
Speaker 1: morning first, and he text me, and I'm not being like,

1106
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:22,640
Speaker 1: oh he has a no, that's just what we do. Yeah,

1107
00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 1: And sometimes I do call him first or first in

1108
00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:27,799
Speaker 1: the morning every now and then. But I think that's

1109
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 1: just the thing that so it's not like, oh he

1110
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 1: only because throughout the day we're calling each other and

1111
00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:34,800
Speaker 1: we're texting each other, but how we get that day started?

1112
00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:38,239
Speaker 1: Because he is a extreme morning person. He wakes up

1113
00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:42,480
Speaker 1: like five six in the morning, so I think it's

1114
00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:45,319
Speaker 1: like a pattern that we have. Like, But again, I

1115
00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:47,759
Speaker 1: don't keep tabs on it. I just know, Okay, his

1116
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:50,839
Speaker 1: day has already started. I'm fill sleep. I don't.

1117
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:53,400
Speaker 4: I'm not a riseing grind ass bit me either.

1118
00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:57,560
Speaker 1: I rise, rise, and then I'm a grind right, I

1119
00:55:57,760 --> 00:56:01,600
Speaker 1: rise and shit right, rise the bath. Yes, I don't

1120
00:56:01,719 --> 00:56:04,759
Speaker 1: rise and grind. He is a riser and grinder. That's

1121
00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:08,120
Speaker 1: not right. So I don't necessarily keep tabs on that.

1122
00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:11,840
Speaker 1: But like I said, my relationship, my friendships, anything, I

1123
00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:16,200
Speaker 1: don't keep tab Now, if you're early dating stages and

1124
00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:19,440
Speaker 1: you're always calling him first, I think that's like a

1125
00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:24,560
Speaker 1: red flat because men love to chase. Yes, honey, they do.

1126
00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:25,320
Speaker 1: I agree.

1127
00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:28,040
Speaker 3: I feel like if he really feeling you, he's gonna

1128
00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:31,319
Speaker 3: be blowing your phone up, especially in the beginning. If

1129
00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:33,439
Speaker 3: he not calling you in this early on, I feel

1130
00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:35,960
Speaker 3: like as a relationship for gress, you know, y'all, donet

1131
00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:38,000
Speaker 3: got used to each other, he probably.

1132
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:39,000
Speaker 1: Not gonna call first. All.

1133
00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:42,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, but in the beginning, I think if a man

1134
00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:44,239
Speaker 3: really like you, yeah, he gonna pursue you.

1135
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:47,480
Speaker 1: So if he not calling, that's what I say. I

1136
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:50,439
Speaker 1: get my man about eleven, and once it's eleven, I'm

1137
00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:52,520
Speaker 1: like up and I donet scrolled enough.

1138
00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:54,400
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, let me see what he's doing. I'll

1139
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:54,759
Speaker 4: call him.

1140
00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:56,719
Speaker 1: You'll call what I'm saying, But yeah, I don't think

1141
00:56:56,719 --> 00:56:59,200
Speaker 1: you should keep tabs on stuff like that. Like early,

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Speaker 4: You know, I like to pride in your business.

1174
00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:41,040
Speaker 1: So you are a sexual? Correct on whatever the the

1175
00:58:41,040 --> 00:58:44,360
Speaker 1: heir's sex little honey. One thing about me, I'm not

1176
00:58:44,480 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 1: a sexual. I know I know what I like. I

1177
00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:49,160
Speaker 1: like mens honey. You know, y you know I like

1178
00:58:49,200 --> 00:58:50,200
Speaker 1: I like my men's honey.

1179
00:58:50,480 --> 00:58:53,040
Speaker 2: I did not know that, Yes, I think that was

1180
00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:56,200
Speaker 2: like back in twenty eighteen, twenty seventeen.

1181
00:58:56,760 --> 00:58:57,960
Speaker 1: You know how the motherfuckers get.

1182
00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:00,400
Speaker 2: They get confused and shipping when it goes you know,

1183
00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:02,040
Speaker 2: you know, and then they'd be like, well, hey.

1184
00:59:01,920 --> 00:59:05,840
Speaker 1: I'm gay, you know. But yeah, yeah, I mean okay,

1185
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 1: so you do like me. I never knew that this

1186
00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:11,000
Speaker 1: whole time. I thought you were. But I'm a virgin,

1187
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:12,400
Speaker 1: that's what I mean.

1188
00:59:12,480 --> 00:59:14,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm a veron good.

1189
00:59:14,600 --> 00:59:18,080
Speaker 3: I do remember, like seeing that you said you were asexual.

1190
00:59:18,320 --> 00:59:19,920
Speaker 1: I didn't even know what the hair asexual was at

1191
00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:23,240
Speaker 1: the time. Money claim the reason like I heard you

1192
00:59:23,280 --> 00:59:25,480
Speaker 1: say it a while back as well. But you're so

1193
00:59:25,720 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 1: private with your personal life and I've never seen you

1194
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:31,240
Speaker 1: with anyone, right, and you never talk about your private

1195
00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:34,320
Speaker 1: life either. So I'm like, okay, maybe she still identifies

1196
00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:36,960
Speaker 1: as that, you know what I'm saying. So you like

1197
00:59:37,040 --> 00:59:38,360
Speaker 1: me and so but what do you so what do

1198
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:43,200
Speaker 1: you identify as sexually? What you mean like my like,

1199
00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 1: do you identify as like gay? Yeah you can say gay? Yeah, okay, okay,

1200
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:51,040
Speaker 1: all right, so you do your topic then the one

1201
00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 1: that you said first, because my topic was about the

1202
00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:55,160
Speaker 1: a sexual but you said you wanted to talk about

1203
00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 1: her being a virgin. Yes, I did.

1204
00:59:57,640 --> 01:00:00,520
Speaker 3: I wanted to talk about being a virgin and navigating dating,

1205
01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:02,240
Speaker 3: Like how do you do that?

1206
01:00:02,360 --> 01:00:03,600
Speaker 1: How do the conversations go?

1207
01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:07,040
Speaker 3: When you normally tell a guy, look, I don't get

1208
01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:08,320
Speaker 3: down like that, I'm not heavy.

1209
01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 1: Six, they'd be like what and see I'm a scorpio,

1210
01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:15,520
Speaker 1: so they'd be like you cannot right. It's like girl,

1211
01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:18,760
Speaker 1: you you're lying to me, Like yeah, you're lying. But

1212
01:00:18,800 --> 01:00:22,720
Speaker 1: I'd be like, I'm dead for real, Like I don't know.

1213
01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:24,480
Speaker 2: I just think that sex for me, like I love

1214
01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:28,240
Speaker 2: cuddling hugs and you know, just being under someone, but

1215
01:00:28,920 --> 01:00:30,840
Speaker 2: just having sex out of time. Like it was this

1216
01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:32,880
Speaker 2: one guy who I had went on the date with

1217
01:00:33,600 --> 01:00:36,240
Speaker 2: and he was like a sex free county like ooh girl,

1218
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:38,040
Speaker 2: just talking about what he would.

1219
01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:38,080
Speaker 1: Do to me.

1220
01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:39,960
Speaker 2: And I was just say, look, we ain't even got

1221
01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:42,440
Speaker 2: an appetite to jail. You're talking about hell is going on?

1222
01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:48,520
Speaker 3: Try bye, that's gonna turn off to about early right.

1223
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:51,360
Speaker 1: And I'm a version like you trying you're gonna break

1224
01:00:51,360 --> 01:00:56,760
Speaker 1: me in? And shit, girl, ain't no house. So are

1225
01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:59,600
Speaker 1: you waiting for like marriage? Are you waiting for that

1226
01:00:59,640 --> 01:01:02,240
Speaker 1: special like person? A serious relationship, Like, what are you

1227
01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:04,720
Speaker 1: waiting for? Or do you not want to at all?

1228
01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:06,200
Speaker 1: I don't even know what the hell I'm waiting for.

1229
01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:06,560
Speaker 1: A girl.

1230
01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:09,640
Speaker 2: God could have somebody in my damn bed to ma, right,

1231
01:01:09,720 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 2: I just I locked the key, honey, Okay, But I honestly,

1232
01:01:16,720 --> 01:01:20,240
Speaker 2: it's just nasty, y'all. It's like, let me tell y'all.

1233
01:01:20,360 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 1: I had a friend.

1234
01:01:23,360 --> 01:01:29,280
Speaker 2: Who like was just taking it safe and just caught hip.

1235
01:01:30,120 --> 01:01:33,760
Speaker 2: And it's just like, girl, if that was me, like,

1236
01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:35,240
Speaker 2: I don't know what the hell to do, and it's

1237
01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:37,880
Speaker 2: just like you know what I'm saying, i'd be so scared,

1238
01:01:37,960 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 2: like you just never know, like you know. But honestly,

1239
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:44,440
Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm waiting for. I mean, I

1240
01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:48,920
Speaker 2: think God, will you know? Yeah, right, person, I'm not

1241
01:01:48,960 --> 01:01:50,880
Speaker 2: gonna lie to you. I had a friend who she

1242
01:01:51,040 --> 01:01:52,400
Speaker 2: was a virgin all.

1243
01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 1: Throughout high school and she waited till like college.

1244
01:01:56,600 --> 01:01:58,680
Speaker 4: And I remember I finally like because.

1245
01:01:58,560 --> 01:01:59,960
Speaker 1: It was like seven of us in high school that

1246
01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:02,080
Speaker 1: really close, and when she finally lost her virginia, she

1247
01:02:02,160 --> 01:02:04,600
Speaker 1: was like, it was horrible. It was this, it was it.

1248
01:02:04,640 --> 01:02:06,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, you waited all this time

1249
01:02:06,600 --> 01:02:08,800
Speaker 1: and it suck. And my first time I lost my

1250
01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:11,640
Speaker 1: virginity when I was like fifteen sixteen, and it was

1251
01:02:11,680 --> 01:02:15,120
Speaker 1: a magical time. It was my hoschol sweetheart. We weren't

1252
01:02:15,120 --> 01:02:19,200
Speaker 1: in love, babe, I loved him down, and I always

1253
01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:21,560
Speaker 1: think of that like a good it, Like my first

1254
01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:24,000
Speaker 1: time was a good memory for me. So I say

1255
01:02:24,640 --> 01:02:27,920
Speaker 1: I say all that to say, like now that you're like,

1256
01:02:28,160 --> 01:02:31,040
Speaker 1: you know, and it was right. You've said that before though,

1257
01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:33,400
Speaker 1: like my first time was like I remember it like

1258
01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:37,280
Speaker 1: it was yesterday. So I feel like, since you've waited

1259
01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:40,320
Speaker 1: so long, at least bare minimum, make sure it's with

1260
01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:42,920
Speaker 1: somebody like you've been with you in a serious relationship,

1261
01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:44,960
Speaker 1: because even if y'all do break up and not be together,

1262
01:02:45,360 --> 01:02:48,640
Speaker 1: you want it to be like a good memory, right, Yeah, yeah,

1263
01:02:48,880 --> 01:02:52,240
Speaker 1: like somebody who really versus somebody like, oh right, that's

1264
01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:54,560
Speaker 1: a virgin I wanted to break it in. That's what

1265
01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:55,280
Speaker 1: I was gonna say.

1266
01:02:55,280 --> 01:02:57,680
Speaker 3: I'm sure you probably think about that too, because that's

1267
01:02:57,680 --> 01:02:59,400
Speaker 3: something that I would think you have to worry about

1268
01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:02,320
Speaker 3: as well as people even wanting to date. You are

1269
01:03:02,320 --> 01:03:04,600
Speaker 3: wanting to try to get it because nobody got it before.

1270
01:03:04,600 --> 01:03:08,600
Speaker 2: It ain't nobody got the body, honey. You know, don't

1271
01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:14,880
Speaker 2: nobody know you know what they It's just like god,

1272
01:03:15,080 --> 01:03:17,959
Speaker 2: they be wanting it, like oh and they be knowing

1273
01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:19,360
Speaker 2: to girl like when I be in the club, don't

1274
01:03:19,400 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 2: mean be.

1275
01:03:19,880 --> 01:03:23,760
Speaker 1: Flocking, yes, girl with their shirt something. They girl. They

1276
01:03:23,920 --> 01:03:26,280
Speaker 1: acting like like they security guards.

1277
01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:27,600
Speaker 4: Honey, they just like come over here.

1278
01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:30,120
Speaker 1: You know. Yeah, I don't know my.

1279
01:03:30,040 --> 01:03:33,320
Speaker 2: Girlfriends, you know, just act all shy and shit because

1280
01:03:33,360 --> 01:03:34,400
Speaker 2: I am shy in real life.

1281
01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:35,240
Speaker 1: And that's another thing.

1282
01:03:36,040 --> 01:03:39,760
Speaker 2: I'm so shy like what people see like on Instagram

1283
01:03:39,920 --> 01:03:42,280
Speaker 2: or girl in person, I just be sar reserves like.

1284
01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:46,880
Speaker 1: Oh yes, really, that's so funny. And that's why I

1285
01:03:46,880 --> 01:03:49,920
Speaker 1: say I think too. On top of that, you being

1286
01:03:50,440 --> 01:03:55,320
Speaker 1: a baddy like you are bad as fucking you're a virgin,

1287
01:03:55,520 --> 01:03:58,760
Speaker 1: you bad as hell, you a boss like it's just

1288
01:03:58,760 --> 01:04:00,720
Speaker 1: a lot. And then on top of that who you are,

1289
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:03,000
Speaker 1: some people just want you because of who you are.

1290
01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:06,840
Speaker 1: Outside of that, that bussy could be bust wide, it

1291
01:04:06,920 --> 01:04:09,160
Speaker 1: don't matter, you know what I'm saying. No, I say

1292
01:04:09,360 --> 01:04:13,320
Speaker 1: that there's a lot of people who are popular and

1293
01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:15,960
Speaker 1: they're they're not virgins, but people want them because of

1294
01:04:16,000 --> 01:04:16,480
Speaker 1: who they are.

1295
01:04:16,600 --> 01:04:19,640
Speaker 4: So the fact that that bussy ain't been busted while.

1296
01:04:21,040 --> 01:04:25,680
Speaker 1: You you're a batty. But this is a ride.

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01:04:25,840 --> 01:04:29,040
Speaker 4: It's you know what I'm saying, I'm being honest.

1298
01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:32,720
Speaker 3: It's you keep just glazing over that bussy.

1299
01:04:32,760 --> 01:04:37,880
Speaker 1: It's in pristine conditions. Because I've seen some blown out bussy.

1300
01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:41,840
Speaker 1: I get on ex videos. I know what goes on.

1301
01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:47,080
Speaker 1: I have watched gay porn before because Mandy sent it

1302
01:04:47,080 --> 01:04:50,800
Speaker 1: to me. Mandy from Decisions Decisions. It's not horrible decision anymore.

1303
01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:53,360
Speaker 1: But Mandy has sent me some ship before. You know,

1304
01:04:53,480 --> 01:04:58,840
Speaker 1: she likes to pay. She do like get down like girl,

1305
01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:00,960
Speaker 1: and there be some big peace, said Tony. Got to

1306
01:05:01,080 --> 01:05:03,720
Speaker 1: hear they get that big. You know what's crazy. So

1307
01:05:03,760 --> 01:05:07,840
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I be seeing the the baddy

1308
01:05:08,680 --> 01:05:12,720
Speaker 1: like they be bad like titties done, and they're having

1309
01:05:12,720 --> 01:05:15,640
Speaker 1: a little they be having a p p right, having

1310
01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:21,360
Speaker 1: a big one. I'll be shy about it. The girl sick,

1311
01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:27,560
Speaker 1: you know, bearing on showing that mother and I'll be

1312
01:05:27,600 --> 01:05:29,840
Speaker 1: scrolling to be swagging to the ground. I'm like, whata

1313
01:05:31,800 --> 01:05:35,440
Speaker 1: what happened to girl? Did you? So?

1314
01:05:35,520 --> 01:05:37,480
Speaker 4: Do you attract a lot of straight man?

1315
01:05:38,040 --> 01:05:38,400
Speaker 1: I do?

1316
01:05:38,520 --> 01:05:40,480
Speaker 2: I attract a lot of straight man, and I love

1317
01:05:40,560 --> 01:05:43,000
Speaker 2: my man to be. I like trade, so trade is

1318
01:05:43,040 --> 01:05:44,880
Speaker 2: like the girls canery him.

1319
01:05:45,440 --> 01:05:46,240
Speaker 4: They don't be knowing.

1320
01:05:46,840 --> 01:05:48,959
Speaker 1: I like a little bit.

1321
01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:51,440
Speaker 2: Of feminine, you know, you just never know. But I

1322
01:05:51,520 --> 01:05:53,120
Speaker 2: like a mascular man, honey, because.

1323
01:05:53,000 --> 01:05:54,720
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm the girl. I am the girl

1324
01:05:54,760 --> 01:05:56,320
Speaker 1: of the relationship. I'm soft.

1325
01:05:56,480 --> 01:05:57,919
Speaker 4: It's not anything else.

1326
01:05:58,120 --> 01:06:03,560
Speaker 2: But lady, lady, it's given, you know, classy, it's given.

1327
01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:08,600
Speaker 1: You know, it ain't giving these right. So I need

1328
01:06:08,960 --> 01:06:10,960
Speaker 1: I need a man. I need a masklar man. I'm

1329
01:06:10,960 --> 01:06:11,320
Speaker 1: not gonna lie.

1330
01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:12,840
Speaker 4: I'm probably more masculine.

1331
01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:17,320
Speaker 1: Than you, Damn I am. We was walking together, like,

1332
01:06:17,360 --> 01:06:24,360
Speaker 1: look at that trans girl heels. I look, I still

1333
01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:27,480
Speaker 1: got my heels on. The girl little walking in my sneakers, Like,

1334
01:06:27,480 --> 01:06:34,840
Speaker 1: what's up? Something never it's given. It's very like you.

1335
01:06:35,200 --> 01:06:36,680
Speaker 1: And because I know it's a thing in the community,

1336
01:06:36,720 --> 01:06:38,920
Speaker 1: they say, the girls that are like non detectable.

1337
01:06:39,280 --> 01:06:41,040
Speaker 4: Yes, like I think because you're.

1338
01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:44,439
Speaker 1: So well known, people know. But like if you're you're

1339
01:06:44,480 --> 01:06:47,960
Speaker 1: not detecting your I still don't believe me. Yeah, Like

1340
01:06:48,000 --> 01:06:50,080
Speaker 1: if you just talked, I don't know if I believe

1341
01:06:50,120 --> 01:06:51,040
Speaker 1: you either. I need to see that.

1342
01:06:51,080 --> 01:06:55,200
Speaker 2: But you know, I had a girl in a mob

1343
01:06:55,320 --> 01:06:59,080
Speaker 2: one time she did not believe me, and girl, she

1344
01:06:59,200 --> 01:07:00,760
Speaker 2: was like, I just don't believe you. Like she was like,

1345
01:07:00,760 --> 01:07:02,200
Speaker 2: I've been following me for so long and I just

1346
01:07:02,240 --> 01:07:04,280
Speaker 2: can't believe you. I said, let me see your hand,

1347
01:07:05,040 --> 01:07:06,360
Speaker 2: I said, do you feel this.

1348
01:07:08,080 --> 01:07:10,680
Speaker 1: Right? I said, girl, you know it ain't.

1349
01:07:11,240 --> 01:07:13,600
Speaker 4: I got everything about you is petite.

1350
01:07:14,000 --> 01:07:18,760
Speaker 1: Yes. So usually when you look at people, look, my

1351
01:07:18,800 --> 01:07:25,640
Speaker 1: hairs are probably be fifteen sixty. Yes.

1352
01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:29,960
Speaker 4: Yes, I wasn't say you know, oh, look you were

1353
01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:31,400
Speaker 4: That's what I said.

1354
01:07:31,960 --> 01:07:35,320
Speaker 1: They're gonna look at me and be like, no, I

1355
01:07:35,520 --> 01:07:38,720
Speaker 1: got they gonna look at all us, be like it

1356
01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:41,120
Speaker 1: ain't now. I want to let me get all of

1357
01:07:41,160 --> 01:07:41,919
Speaker 1: y'all numbers. Honey.

1358
01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:44,160
Speaker 4: But are you dating though? Are you dating right now?

1359
01:07:44,240 --> 01:07:46,880
Speaker 1: No? No, I ain't got nobody. That's up my roster. Honey.

1360
01:07:46,880 --> 01:07:49,760
Speaker 4: You know how God send you? Somebody used to be like, yeah,

1361
01:07:49,800 --> 01:07:52,320
Speaker 4: I ain't got nobody. But are you looking though? Are

1362
01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:53,320
Speaker 4: you like on the prown?

1363
01:07:53,640 --> 01:07:56,480
Speaker 2: I wouldn't mind looking, you know, for a little something,

1364
01:07:57,360 --> 01:07:59,000
Speaker 2: you know you got to have, you you know, something going.

1365
01:07:59,040 --> 01:08:03,680
Speaker 1: I don't look something you know, yeah, change or something. Yeah.

1366
01:08:03,800 --> 01:08:05,920
Speaker 2: I just love a man that really gets to the

1367
01:08:05,960 --> 01:08:09,640
Speaker 2: small things like the details, you know, like, how did

1368
01:08:09,680 --> 01:08:11,800
Speaker 2: you know my my car needy gas?

1369
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:12,000
Speaker 1: You know?

1370
01:08:12,160 --> 01:08:14,880
Speaker 2: How did you know I needed some toilet paper? You

1371
01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:15,760
Speaker 2: know it's some tissue.

1372
01:08:15,880 --> 01:08:16,639
Speaker 4: How does you know this?

1373
01:08:16,760 --> 01:08:18,639
Speaker 1: You know? So I like that. I love a man

1374
01:08:18,680 --> 01:08:24,120
Speaker 1: that listens. Yes, yes, the romance. Romance ain't dead, right,

1375
01:08:24,200 --> 01:08:25,639
Speaker 1: it's not romance easy dead.

1376
01:08:25,680 --> 01:08:27,960
Speaker 3: And I feel like it's just a lost art form,

1377
01:08:28,080 --> 01:08:29,840
Speaker 3: Like yeah, I just not romantic.

1378
01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:32,800
Speaker 1: They not They like got that hood ship and I

1379
01:08:32,840 --> 01:08:35,960
Speaker 1: looked five hundred and five thousand tax time now for girls,

1380
01:08:36,000 --> 01:08:42,360
Speaker 1: watch your taxi? Okay, Oh my god. Oh I had

1381
01:08:42,439 --> 01:08:44,880
Speaker 1: a cousin that got got like that. Girl.

1382
01:08:45,840 --> 01:08:48,360
Speaker 2: So, girl, she met a man right, and she got

1383
01:08:48,400 --> 01:08:50,920
Speaker 2: a new car. They both started working in May. Girl

1384
01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:52,720
Speaker 2: she had a man, honey, and he was a I

1385
01:08:52,760 --> 01:08:56,160
Speaker 2: flipped two thousand into twenty thousand, and girl, she gave

1386
01:08:56,240 --> 01:08:57,800
Speaker 2: him down there, all that tax money.

1387
01:08:57,800 --> 01:09:00,519
Speaker 1: Honey, you seem never seen it again. He flips. She

1388
01:09:00,800 --> 01:09:04,800
Speaker 1: he flipped on her, He flipped the door, got the

1389
01:09:04,840 --> 01:09:11,040
Speaker 1: hell out, Okay, gonna give him that money.

1390
01:09:11,200 --> 01:09:12,679
Speaker 4: And she was like, I was like, girl, I told

1391
01:09:12,720 --> 01:09:13,080
Speaker 4: you how.

1392
01:09:13,000 --> 01:09:14,680
Speaker 1: To do it. That is terrible.

1393
01:09:14,880 --> 01:09:17,000
Speaker 4: You gotta stop. Don't give no, man, no, don't.

1394
01:09:16,760 --> 01:09:19,800
Speaker 1: Give that man none, they gonna flip it on the

1395
01:09:19,840 --> 01:09:22,400
Speaker 1: next girl. Oh yeah, you know how bad it is

1396
01:09:22,439 --> 01:09:24,479
Speaker 1: to like if you give a man money, then you

1397
01:09:24,520 --> 01:09:26,040
Speaker 1: find out like he on a date with a girl.

1398
01:09:26,479 --> 01:09:27,479
Speaker 1: He took that money.

1399
01:09:27,920 --> 01:09:31,000
Speaker 2: Money, Stop giving men be put up on that date

1400
01:09:31,040 --> 01:09:32,719
Speaker 2: seat what That's why I can't.

1401
01:09:32,600 --> 01:09:33,360
Speaker 1: Be in a relationship.

1402
01:09:33,640 --> 01:09:35,720
Speaker 3: And every time I see him, so I would be like,

1403
01:09:35,760 --> 01:09:38,360
Speaker 3: so you are my right, said, I'll walk up to

1404
01:09:38,439 --> 01:09:40,200
Speaker 3: him while he go do you have my money?

1405
01:09:40,640 --> 01:09:43,280
Speaker 2: Let me call my brothers a cousin's honey. But you

1406
01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:45,000
Speaker 2: know what I will say when you're a good person.

1407
01:09:45,200 --> 01:09:47,360
Speaker 1: So this is for the ladies who have given me

1408
01:09:47,400 --> 01:09:49,120
Speaker 1: and money and it didn't work out in their favor,

1409
01:09:49,200 --> 01:09:50,800
Speaker 1: because I know you gave that man money out of

1410
01:09:50,840 --> 01:09:52,880
Speaker 1: the goodness of your heart. Because I'm gonna say this,

1411
01:09:53,120 --> 01:09:55,719
Speaker 1: not that in this situation, I gave a man money.

1412
01:09:55,760 --> 01:09:57,120
Speaker 1: But it's like, even if you give a man your

1413
01:09:57,200 --> 01:09:59,040
Speaker 1: all and in a relationship, let me tell you how

1414
01:09:59,080 --> 01:09:59,679
Speaker 1: calmer worked.

1415
01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:02,040
Speaker 4: Because I am not a believer in karma.

1416
01:10:02,200 --> 01:10:05,240
Speaker 1: I've said that before because I think sometimes it's just

1417
01:10:05,840 --> 01:10:08,479
Speaker 1: things just happen. Yeah, yeah, but I had something that

1418
01:10:08,600 --> 01:10:10,720
Speaker 1: happened to me. What two days ago, we got a

1419
01:10:10,800 --> 01:10:13,720
Speaker 1: text in the group chat. And when I tell you,

1420
01:10:15,040 --> 01:10:17,759
Speaker 1: I am not a petty person. I don't believe in revenge.

1421
01:10:17,840 --> 01:10:22,439
Speaker 1: But it felt so good to laugh at somebody that

1422
01:10:23,320 --> 01:10:27,560
Speaker 1: just did not believe in nothing. And it was like,

1423
01:10:27,760 --> 01:10:29,479
Speaker 1: that's why you don't holpe people, because you never know

1424
01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:32,439
Speaker 1: when you might need a favorite. And when I tell you,

1425
01:10:32,560 --> 01:10:40,439
Speaker 1: I said, I gave that rich white woman left absolutely right. Oh,

1426
01:10:40,880 --> 01:10:42,040
Speaker 1: it felt so good.

1427
01:10:42,320 --> 01:10:44,200
Speaker 4: It felt so good, And that's why I said, God,

1428
01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:44,880
Speaker 4: don't play by me.

1429
01:10:44,960 --> 01:10:47,479
Speaker 1: I deserved though. So sometimes when you do good things

1430
01:10:47,520 --> 01:10:50,160
Speaker 1: for people and you may feel hurt, just wait, just

1431
01:10:50,240 --> 01:10:55,320
Speaker 1: wait on that karma, especially you chosen honey, God gonna speak.

1432
01:10:58,680 --> 01:11:16,679
Speaker 1: Got in the car city. You know that's sorry. I'm sorry, Okay,

1433
01:11:17,400 --> 01:11:19,759
Speaker 1: my bad. But I also think it's the difference between

1434
01:11:20,160 --> 01:11:23,000
Speaker 1: doing things and expecting something back and just doing things

1435
01:11:23,040 --> 01:11:25,400
Speaker 1: out of the goodness your heart. So I feel like

1436
01:11:25,520 --> 01:11:27,720
Speaker 1: everything I've ever done for anybody in my life, my

1437
01:11:27,800 --> 01:11:30,519
Speaker 1: friends can attest for this, I'm just doing it because

1438
01:11:30,560 --> 01:11:32,680
Speaker 1: I fuck with you that heart, and I believe in

1439
01:11:32,800 --> 01:11:35,439
Speaker 1: you or I love you. I don't need no payback

1440
01:11:35,479 --> 01:11:39,519
Speaker 1: from nothing. So when I tell you, God, I had

1441
01:11:39,560 --> 01:11:42,080
Speaker 1: a moment me Andrea had went on a trip. I

1442
01:11:42,160 --> 01:11:43,600
Speaker 1: had a moment where I just woke up and I

1443
01:11:43,760 --> 01:11:47,439
Speaker 1: was just crying and I was thanking guys because I

1444
01:11:47,560 --> 01:11:50,720
Speaker 1: cannot believe this is my life and all the struggles

1445
01:11:50,760 --> 01:11:52,960
Speaker 1: I went through, everything that I did for people that

1446
01:11:53,439 --> 01:11:54,840
Speaker 1: maybe took me for granted stuff.

1447
01:11:54,880 --> 01:11:57,240
Speaker 4: You know what, God gave that back to me. Ten folks,

1448
01:11:58,280 --> 01:11:59,479
Speaker 4: was gonna give it back to you. You know what

1449
01:11:59,520 --> 01:11:59,880
Speaker 4: I'm saying.

1450
01:12:00,000 --> 01:12:02,439
Speaker 1: I gotta let friends borrow one thousands of dollars and

1451
01:12:02,560 --> 01:12:04,160
Speaker 1: they didn't pay it back, and I'll just be like,

1452
01:12:04,200 --> 01:12:08,120
Speaker 1: you know what, you can keep it y and honey,

1453
01:12:08,240 --> 01:12:10,280
Speaker 1: God will find a way here. Next week, I have

1454
01:12:10,360 --> 01:12:14,719
Speaker 1: a book in twenty thousand dollars, like damn girl, two thousands, twenty.

1455
01:12:15,200 --> 01:12:18,200
Speaker 1: It's just like, hey man, thank you Jesus. He always

1456
01:12:18,240 --> 01:12:19,479
Speaker 1: gonna look out for you. This story.

1457
01:12:19,520 --> 01:12:21,519
Speaker 3: And I always say too because my mom taught me this.

1458
01:12:22,080 --> 01:12:25,080
Speaker 3: Don't ever lend people money that you not gonna be

1459
01:12:25,120 --> 01:12:27,360
Speaker 3: okay if you don't get it big. You of course

1460
01:12:27,520 --> 01:12:29,600
Speaker 3: y'all need to be paying people begs. Don't just go

1461
01:12:29,720 --> 01:12:32,719
Speaker 3: around not paying people big. But at the same time,

1462
01:12:33,320 --> 01:12:35,439
Speaker 3: you shouldn't give it out if you can't afford to

1463
01:12:35,520 --> 01:12:37,160
Speaker 3: speak right, you know what I mean, because a lot

1464
01:12:37,200 --> 01:12:38,920
Speaker 3: of the time people not gonna give you your money

1465
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:40,320
Speaker 3: big and that shit is fucked.

1466
01:12:40,120 --> 01:12:43,560
Speaker 1: U it is. My mama taught me like that, the

1467
01:12:43,680 --> 01:12:44,160
Speaker 1: same thing.

1468
01:12:44,720 --> 01:12:48,040
Speaker 2: I have such a loving heart, and I'd be like, well,

1469
01:12:48,120 --> 01:12:49,719
Speaker 2: damn if it was me, you know, I want somebody

1470
01:12:49,720 --> 01:12:50,680
Speaker 2: to help me out here, and.

1471
01:12:50,720 --> 01:12:52,280
Speaker 1: Like I'll call my mom, boy it. She'd be like,

1472
01:12:52,280 --> 01:12:54,760
Speaker 1: what I tell your ass about giving that damn money?

1473
01:12:54,800 --> 01:12:57,680
Speaker 1: You could have gave it to me. Why they say it,

1474
01:12:57,760 --> 01:13:01,320
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna get it from real life. Mine ain't worked. Okay,

1475
01:13:01,720 --> 01:13:03,040
Speaker 1: look just calm down.

1476
01:13:03,080 --> 01:13:05,560
Speaker 3: They gonna get got But that's why you continue to

1477
01:13:05,600 --> 01:13:08,160
Speaker 3: get blessed yet to give it herd.

1478
01:13:08,360 --> 01:13:10,720
Speaker 1: And one thing I will say about like, even like

1479
01:13:10,920 --> 01:13:15,559
Speaker 1: hairstylists social media influencers, you have stood the test of time,

1480
01:13:16,200 --> 01:13:18,960
Speaker 1: you know how, Like we'll hear about a hairstyle and

1481
01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:21,679
Speaker 1: we have never heard about them again, or a social

1482
01:13:21,760 --> 01:13:24,760
Speaker 1: media influencer and you never hear. So the fact that

1483
01:13:24,840 --> 01:13:27,320
Speaker 1: you've been in this game for a long time and

1484
01:13:27,439 --> 01:13:31,439
Speaker 1: you still killing it and still that's the blessing thing.

1485
01:13:31,640 --> 01:13:35,479
Speaker 1: I'm like a Nicki Minaj, honey, the going Okay, see yes,

1486
01:13:35,840 --> 01:13:40,000
Speaker 1: can't stop that trunk tu you know what I'm saying. Okay,

1487
01:13:40,080 --> 01:13:41,680
Speaker 1: So now it's the Autumn of the week, Drea. What

1488
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:43,240
Speaker 1: you got for autom of the week this week?

1489
01:13:43,360 --> 01:13:45,519
Speaker 3: So for my item of the week, of course, it's

1490
01:13:45,560 --> 01:13:48,840
Speaker 3: gonna be Mused Beauty Collection dot Com, which is my

1491
01:13:48,920 --> 01:13:52,400
Speaker 3: cosmetics brand. Make sure you get your lip glosses, your

1492
01:13:52,479 --> 01:13:54,320
Speaker 3: lip liners, Matt liqu with lipsticks.

1493
01:13:54,400 --> 01:13:55,800
Speaker 1: Y'all shall have jelly blisses.

1494
01:13:56,280 --> 01:13:59,280
Speaker 3: I also have on the eyeliner in a Mescira right now,

1495
01:13:59,360 --> 01:14:01,920
Speaker 3: which is coming out really really soon. So of course

1496
01:14:02,000 --> 01:14:05,080
Speaker 3: I had to bring you a little cute just because.

1497
01:14:04,760 --> 01:14:06,200
Speaker 1: I know you will make those girls.

1498
01:14:07,760 --> 01:14:09,680
Speaker 3: Yes, I wanted to give you a little basket in

1499
01:14:09,720 --> 01:14:11,360
Speaker 3: the spirit of Valentine's Day.

1500
01:14:13,600 --> 01:14:38,320
Speaker 1: Everyonec honey, I got havening came out the people, that's kind.

1501
01:14:38,840 --> 01:14:41,160
Speaker 3: But yes, the messcar haven't came out yet, but it's

1502
01:14:41,200 --> 01:14:43,200
Speaker 3: coming out next month and I'll make sure I see you.

1503
01:14:43,320 --> 01:14:45,680
Speaker 1: Thank you. I'body what you got in there?

1504
01:14:46,120 --> 01:14:49,360
Speaker 3: Some lip glosses. I gave her some of the jelly blushes.

1505
01:14:49,439 --> 01:14:51,920
Speaker 3: I also gave her some of the lip liners.

1506
01:14:51,520 --> 01:14:53,639
Speaker 1: And I think it might be a few mad lip

1507
01:14:53,800 --> 01:14:56,719
Speaker 1: liquid lipsticks in there. Let me tell you that jelly blush,

1508
01:14:56,920 --> 01:14:59,599
Speaker 1: the jelly if you do like the light makeup look

1509
01:14:59,640 --> 01:15:05,920
Speaker 1: one day, oh that flush. Yes, So it's gonna give like.

1510
01:15:07,840 --> 01:15:09,920
Speaker 3: It'll just give you like that little Rosie cheeks.

1511
01:15:10,000 --> 01:15:11,519
Speaker 1: That's why I said it's giving, like, Oh my god,

1512
01:15:11,600 --> 01:15:12,240
Speaker 1: you invested me.

1513
01:15:13,000 --> 01:15:15,839
Speaker 4: That's what you need to do a commercial?

1514
01:15:16,760 --> 01:15:21,600
Speaker 1: Right, that'll your girl XP and it's Sugarl Dre and

1515
01:15:21,680 --> 01:15:24,240
Speaker 1: the call. Y'all know. We have a segment on Poor

1516
01:15:24,360 --> 01:15:26,400
Speaker 1: Minds called Item of the Week. But do you have

1517
01:15:26,520 --> 01:15:28,200
Speaker 1: a product or something that you want to promote and

1518
01:15:28,240 --> 01:15:29,840
Speaker 1: you want it featured on Poor Minds.

1519
01:15:30,120 --> 01:15:33,800
Speaker 3: Your opportunity is here period. If you have an item

1520
01:15:33,960 --> 01:15:35,400
Speaker 3: or you have a business and you want to get

1521
01:15:35,439 --> 01:15:38,720
Speaker 3: it promoted. We are now having slots available on the

1522
01:15:38,760 --> 01:15:41,080
Speaker 3: Poor Minds episode. So if you would like to get

1523
01:15:41,120 --> 01:15:43,640
Speaker 3: your product featured for Item of the Week, all you

1524
01:15:43,760 --> 01:15:46,160
Speaker 3: need to do is send an email to Item of

1525
01:15:46,240 --> 01:15:49,439
Speaker 3: the Week p M at gmail dot com. That's I

1526
01:15:49,600 --> 01:15:53,360
Speaker 3: T E M O F T H E W e

1527
01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:57,920
Speaker 3: E K p M at gmail dot com. Send us

1528
01:15:57,960 --> 01:15:59,640
Speaker 3: an email and we'll work it out.

1529
01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:00,599
Speaker 1: We canna figure it out.

1530
01:16:01,040 --> 01:16:04,840
Speaker 3: Get your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make.

1531
01:16:04,720 --> 01:16:05,240
Speaker 1: You some money.

1532
01:16:06,280 --> 01:16:08,439
Speaker 4: We love to moret a small business now.

1533
01:16:08,400 --> 01:16:10,680
Speaker 1: And a black business said that, but.

1534
01:16:10,800 --> 01:16:16,040
Speaker 3: I Meaninade, any business is welcome.

1535
01:16:16,360 --> 01:16:22,280
Speaker 1: Okay. So now it's time to get into a about

1536
01:16:23,280 --> 01:16:26,000
Speaker 1: about about bow Pal.

1537
01:16:26,960 --> 01:16:27,280
Speaker 4: Okay.

1538
01:16:27,400 --> 01:16:30,960
Speaker 1: So I say this a lot. One thing I have

1539
01:16:31,200 --> 01:16:36,160
Speaker 1: curated all my social media accounts. My algorithm is fire.

1540
01:16:36,760 --> 01:16:39,519
Speaker 1: So I'm a music head. I'm a music girlie. And

1541
01:16:39,720 --> 01:16:42,559
Speaker 1: one thing I love is like seeing a new artist

1542
01:16:42,640 --> 01:16:45,680
Speaker 1: that I haven't seen before, and I'm like, how did

1543
01:16:45,720 --> 01:16:48,479
Speaker 1: this come up on my timeline? Because my algorithm is fired.

1544
01:16:48,560 --> 01:16:51,200
Speaker 1: I found this small artist. She only gets like fourteen

1545
01:16:51,280 --> 01:16:54,240
Speaker 1: thousand listens a month. But when I tell you, it's

1546
01:16:54,280 --> 01:16:56,439
Speaker 1: so many superstars out there that we just haven't even

1547
01:16:56,479 --> 01:16:59,000
Speaker 1: heard of. This song is such a good song. So

1548
01:16:59,479 --> 01:17:03,800
Speaker 1: her name is Sid Franklin. The song is called Plastic Waterfalls.

1549
01:17:04,520 --> 01:17:05,679
Speaker 4: It is such a good song.

1550
01:17:05,760 --> 01:17:09,040
Speaker 1: It's basically about like she's in love with this guy

1551
01:17:09,560 --> 01:17:12,400
Speaker 1: and everything was plastic. It was fake.

1552
01:17:12,520 --> 01:17:14,160
Speaker 4: It wasn't what she thought it was. You know, you

1553
01:17:14,240 --> 01:17:15,120
Speaker 4: see a waterfall and.

1554
01:17:15,120 --> 01:17:17,000
Speaker 1: You feel like it's so beautiful, then you get up

1555
01:17:17,040 --> 01:17:19,800
Speaker 1: close and it's plastic. Yes, when I tell you, I'm

1556
01:17:19,840 --> 01:17:22,720
Speaker 1: a I'm a lyrics girl. So the lyrics in this

1557
01:17:22,840 --> 01:17:25,439
Speaker 1: song are just so beautiful. It gives like an R

1558
01:17:25,479 --> 01:17:28,760
Speaker 1: and B vibe. So yeah, that's my bop of the week.

1559
01:17:28,880 --> 01:17:31,559
Speaker 1: Like I said, music ain't dead, y'all. Just not looking

1560
01:17:31,640 --> 01:17:33,880
Speaker 1: for it, y'all. Not it's such a good song, Like

1561
01:17:34,160 --> 01:17:36,080
Speaker 1: it's very rare that I come across the song and

1562
01:17:36,160 --> 01:17:39,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I'm excited about this. So yeah, Sid

1563
01:17:39,200 --> 01:17:43,920
Speaker 1: Franklin Plastic Waterfalls Fire, I'm fucking with you said, I'm

1564
01:17:44,000 --> 01:17:44,519
Speaker 1: rooting for you.

1565
01:17:44,840 --> 01:17:46,920
Speaker 4: Okay, go download that all right?

1566
01:17:47,439 --> 01:17:48,559
Speaker 1: What you're listening to? Drea?

1567
01:17:49,240 --> 01:17:53,599
Speaker 3: So I like Loto and Playboy CARDI new song, oh

1568
01:17:53,640 --> 01:17:54,160
Speaker 3: blig song.

1569
01:17:54,320 --> 01:17:58,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love the album. Yeah, yeah, I like the

1570
01:17:58,479 --> 01:17:59,120
Speaker 1: little intro.

1571
01:17:59,479 --> 01:18:02,120
Speaker 3: I like intro, but I just also I love when

1572
01:18:02,120 --> 01:18:03,880
Speaker 3: the girls get on the track and just be popping

1573
01:18:03,960 --> 01:18:04,360
Speaker 3: they sheep.

1574
01:18:04,439 --> 01:18:06,439
Speaker 1: Yes, you know what I mean. So shout out to

1575
01:18:06,439 --> 01:18:09,160
Speaker 1: a Loto she wants to play Boy Cardy because I didn't.

1576
01:18:09,280 --> 01:18:11,800
Speaker 1: I was like, he hadn't really been making no music lately.

1577
01:18:12,360 --> 01:18:14,559
Speaker 4: That's because he's been over there giving Iggy azillia.

1578
01:18:15,000 --> 01:18:17,519
Speaker 1: No, I see, you don't have to make.

1579
01:18:17,520 --> 01:18:21,160
Speaker 3: Music, yes, torturing that okay, but he had a nice

1580
01:18:21,200 --> 01:18:23,160
Speaker 3: little run at one point. Remember he had that song

1581
01:18:23,240 --> 01:18:26,160
Speaker 3: everybody was singing, woke up to the niggas get like, yeah,

1582
01:18:26,680 --> 01:18:28,840
Speaker 3: I think that was his first song, right, yeah, But

1583
01:18:28,920 --> 01:18:30,720
Speaker 3: then he had a few more songs after day, and

1584
01:18:30,840 --> 01:18:31,439
Speaker 3: then I feel like.

1585
01:18:31,479 --> 01:18:36,679
Speaker 1: He's just dot well you know what. I yes, right, torturing,

1586
01:18:36,800 --> 01:18:37,320
Speaker 1: I told you to.

1587
01:18:37,840 --> 01:18:39,880
Speaker 4: But I think his music now is more so like

1588
01:18:40,200 --> 01:18:44,240
Speaker 4: it's kind of rockish, yeah, rock that rock, rap loozy

1589
01:18:44,439 --> 01:18:45,040
Speaker 4: kind of vibe.

1590
01:18:45,280 --> 01:18:48,320
Speaker 1: Okay, So I think it's just why yeah, he's making music,

1591
01:18:48,360 --> 01:18:50,160
Speaker 1: but I don't think it's like for us probably oversea

1592
01:18:50,200 --> 01:18:54,720
Speaker 1: for us, Yeah, it's for us probably. Yeah.

1593
01:18:55,160 --> 01:18:57,040
Speaker 4: You know they're hitting a five six seven.

1594
01:18:56,880 --> 01:18:58,240
Speaker 1: Eights, right, you know?

1595
01:18:58,560 --> 01:19:00,000
Speaker 4: So okay, that's a good bye.

1596
01:19:00,120 --> 01:19:02,519
Speaker 1: Though. I like, I like a lot of a lot

1597
01:19:02,600 --> 01:19:07,519
Speaker 1: of talks that ship, didn't y'all know. I'm an R

1598
01:19:07,560 --> 01:19:11,439
Speaker 1: and B head, Honey, you know it means carry Hilson.

1599
01:19:11,680 --> 01:19:15,599
Speaker 2: You know, to a good old Kelly you got deep

1600
01:19:15,640 --> 01:19:21,360
Speaker 2: in bad, yes, ma'am, Honey, I mean.

1601
01:19:21,560 --> 01:19:24,280
Speaker 1: A Marie who I love me so good, A Marie

1602
01:19:24,680 --> 01:19:26,840
Speaker 1: Mary J. Blige. I mean I love R and B.

1603
01:19:27,800 --> 01:19:33,240
Speaker 1: I of course the queen of rap, honey, Nick, Yes,

1604
01:19:33,720 --> 01:19:35,640
Speaker 1: she's that girl, will always be. I love her.

1605
01:19:36,920 --> 01:19:40,000
Speaker 2: I mean I'm I'm very versatile in my music, but

1606
01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:42,560
Speaker 2: I love R and B. Like that's just I'm a

1607
01:19:42,600 --> 01:19:43,360
Speaker 2: hopeless for manny.

1608
01:19:43,479 --> 01:19:45,439
Speaker 1: So what have you been doing like this week? Like

1609
01:19:45,520 --> 01:19:47,840
Speaker 1: what's your song that you just cannot stop playing? And

1610
01:19:47,920 --> 01:19:50,000
Speaker 1: it could be new or old new or oh yeah,

1611
01:19:50,960 --> 01:19:55,040
Speaker 1: it could be new old. I really haven't been getting

1612
01:19:55,040 --> 01:19:58,479
Speaker 1: into the new music y'all that I feel like, Yeah,

1613
01:19:58,640 --> 01:20:00,120
Speaker 1: it's like maybe.

1614
01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:02,639
Speaker 2: It's because I'm not really doing my research on underground

1615
01:20:02,680 --> 01:20:05,920
Speaker 2: artist that really made it yet, but like I'm just

1616
01:20:06,000 --> 01:20:08,360
Speaker 2: on my way here listening to system a Marie period

1617
01:20:08,880 --> 01:20:13,960
Speaker 2: your Touch album, I was on the right right again.

1618
01:20:14,200 --> 01:20:19,880
Speaker 1: Look you know Scott is another one. Honey. She was

1619
01:20:20,000 --> 01:20:26,840
Speaker 1: ooh girl, love love rain, love it, old school, I

1620
01:20:27,040 --> 01:20:31,599
Speaker 1: love it. That's what I said. Will you have an ear? Yes,

1621
01:20:31,760 --> 01:20:35,040
Speaker 1: it's hard to enjoy music now because the mainstream stuff

1622
01:20:35,160 --> 01:20:39,880
Speaker 1: is not necessarily enjoyable. The Grammys just passed and I

1623
01:20:39,960 --> 01:20:44,760
Speaker 1: don't know what their agenda was. But Chapel Rowan, I've

1624
01:20:44,840 --> 01:20:46,840
Speaker 1: never got heard of her. I tried to listen to it,

1625
01:20:46,920 --> 01:20:49,920
Speaker 1: but when I saw that performance, right, that song has

1626
01:20:50,000 --> 01:20:52,439
Speaker 1: been stuck in my head. Oh my god.

1627
01:20:53,920 --> 01:20:55,720
Speaker 3: I tried to listen to some of her music too

1628
01:20:55,840 --> 01:20:56,960
Speaker 3: after the Grammys, and I.

1629
01:20:57,080 --> 01:21:00,720
Speaker 1: Was just like, Okay, you know, actually it's not bad.

1630
01:21:01,120 --> 01:21:03,080
Speaker 1: So a long time ago I tried to listen to him.

1631
01:21:03,080 --> 01:21:06,000
Speaker 1: I was like, no, after that Grammy, I said, I

1632
01:21:06,120 --> 01:21:10,519
Speaker 1: get it now. I see the what's his name, Benson Boone?

1633
01:21:10,720 --> 01:21:15,599
Speaker 1: He flips off of these beautiful things and all, maybe

1634
01:21:15,600 --> 01:21:16,840
Speaker 1: he gonna flip off that PM.

1635
01:21:17,040 --> 01:21:19,720
Speaker 3: Right, He's like Chris Brown, you ain't the only one

1636
01:21:19,880 --> 01:21:23,400
Speaker 3: jumbling talking about people flipping Remember last time?

1637
01:21:23,680 --> 01:21:24,920
Speaker 1: Why last time?

1638
01:21:25,000 --> 01:21:27,040
Speaker 3: He talks about somebody flipping off of building?

1639
01:21:27,600 --> 01:21:28,840
Speaker 1: What happened? What I did?

1640
01:21:29,760 --> 01:21:31,960
Speaker 3: He talks about somebody flipping off of building?

1641
01:21:32,720 --> 01:21:38,120
Speaker 4: No, I don't, I promise by the same way, I

1642
01:21:38,160 --> 01:21:39,080
Speaker 4: don't remember nothing.

1643
01:21:39,560 --> 01:21:42,280
Speaker 1: Who flipped off a building? Somebody flip?

1644
01:21:42,840 --> 01:21:43,160
Speaker 8: I don't know.

1645
01:21:43,600 --> 01:21:44,439
Speaker 1: Did I get drunk?

1646
01:21:45,840 --> 01:21:47,719
Speaker 3: Yes, you got drank, don't twitter?

1647
01:21:47,960 --> 01:21:50,639
Speaker 4: We folkey flipping off a building?

1648
01:21:52,000 --> 01:21:59,639
Speaker 1: Oh oh my god? Next topic, because I got drug

1649
01:21:59,800 --> 01:22:04,439
Speaker 1: to hell, we definitely, oh my god, let's move on.

1650
01:22:05,439 --> 01:22:07,439
Speaker 1: Let's move on. Okay, so before we get into this

1651
01:22:07,760 --> 01:22:10,839
Speaker 1: last topic, because we've been to wrap it up, Alonzo,

1652
01:22:11,560 --> 01:22:17,840
Speaker 1: this has been so much fun. I love you, like

1653
01:22:18,360 --> 01:22:21,200
Speaker 1: honestly I love I was telling my friend before we

1654
01:22:21,240 --> 01:22:23,080
Speaker 1: got here, I'm like, oh my gosh, I just I

1655
01:22:23,240 --> 01:22:25,640
Speaker 1: never know how people's energy gonna be. Yeah, we've been

1656
01:22:25,680 --> 01:22:27,719
Speaker 1: doing this a long time and sometimes you see people

1657
01:22:27,760 --> 01:22:30,200
Speaker 1: online and they're so bubbly and so this and that,

1658
01:22:30,280 --> 01:22:32,120
Speaker 1: and then you get in perfect you get in a.

1659
01:22:32,120 --> 01:22:34,280
Speaker 4: Person, they're like yes.

1660
01:22:34,720 --> 01:22:36,840
Speaker 1: So for all the listeners out there and people who

1661
01:22:36,840 --> 01:22:38,920
Speaker 1: are fans of you, thank you for being who you

1662
01:22:39,080 --> 01:22:42,760
Speaker 1: really are and showing up and being your real, authentic self.

1663
01:22:42,840 --> 01:22:46,800
Speaker 4: You have educated us today me about you and I

1664
01:22:46,920 --> 01:22:51,000
Speaker 4: know I can call you girl girl, one of the girl.

1665
01:22:52,000 --> 01:22:53,040
Speaker 4: So do you give good advice?

1666
01:22:53,720 --> 01:22:57,080
Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay, so we're gonna do our advice segment.

1667
01:22:57,640 --> 01:22:58,960
Speaker 4: This is called pour your Heart Out.

1668
01:22:59,000 --> 01:23:01,240
Speaker 1: If you want your question answered on the show, and

1669
01:23:01,280 --> 01:23:04,320
Speaker 1: make sure you email us at ask poor Minds at

1670
01:23:04,560 --> 01:23:07,080
Speaker 1: gmail dot com. If you're a Patreon member, put that

1671
01:23:07,200 --> 01:23:10,000
Speaker 1: in a headline so you can skip the line.

1672
01:23:10,120 --> 01:23:12,240
Speaker 4: Okay, So I have questioned one.

1673
01:23:13,320 --> 01:23:16,720
Speaker 1: All right, So it says I'm thirty two and I've

1674
01:23:16,800 --> 01:23:20,280
Speaker 1: always dated my age or older. I'm a guy that

1675
01:23:20,560 --> 01:23:22,800
Speaker 1: likes guys. By the way, and I'm in Atlanta, so

1676
01:23:22,960 --> 01:23:25,479
Speaker 1: y'all know it's a shit show. I met this guy

1677
01:23:25,600 --> 01:23:29,760
Speaker 1: who on paper checks all the boxes. He's six', eight very,

1678
01:23:29,880 --> 01:23:33,920
Speaker 1: handsome has a great, job was raised, right y'all know

1679
01:23:34,000 --> 01:23:36,680
Speaker 1: that's where, nowadays and we've met a few times in.

1680
01:23:36,800 --> 01:23:40,880
Speaker 1: Person it's been a vibe so. Far the thing, is

1681
01:23:41,320 --> 01:23:46,240
Speaker 1: he's twenty. Seven. Now i've, Dated i've dated men five

1682
01:23:46,360 --> 01:23:48,720
Speaker 1: plus years older than, me and they were all a

1683
01:23:48,840 --> 01:23:50,280
Speaker 1: joke in one or multiple.

1684
01:23:50,360 --> 01:23:53,160
Speaker 4: Ways but dating younger has never been in my.

1685
01:23:53,320 --> 01:23:56,479
Speaker 1: Ministry would y'all keep seeing where it? Goes or be

1686
01:23:56,600 --> 01:23:59,640
Speaker 1: like fuck them. Kids i'm a lover like, Y'ALL i

1687
01:23:59,720 --> 01:24:02,040
Speaker 1: can't from, love And i'm, cute SO i Know i'll

1688
01:24:02,080 --> 01:24:04,519
Speaker 1: find my, Person but never in a million years THAT

1689
01:24:04,600 --> 01:24:06,720
Speaker 1: i think he'd be younger than. Me curious to hear

1690
01:24:06,800 --> 01:24:10,519
Speaker 1: y'all thoughts how he's thirty two and be thirty two

1691
01:24:10,600 --> 01:24:12,200
Speaker 1: and then a man is twenty? Seven, yes and he

1692
01:24:12,280 --> 01:24:15,000
Speaker 1: usually dates. Older, god go see that.

1693
01:24:15,080 --> 01:24:18,720
Speaker 2: Nigga, yeah stay that, Nigga. Huney don't judge he, right

1694
01:24:18,800 --> 01:24:20,680
Speaker 2: don't judge him just because of his. Age, HONEY i

1695
01:24:20,680 --> 01:24:23,840
Speaker 2: could see if you said twenty three or, one you.

1696
01:24:23,920 --> 01:24:27,200
Speaker 1: Know then you on the butter line On. Kelly oh you, know, so,

1697
01:24:28,120 --> 01:24:30,360
Speaker 1: yes go see that, man, Honey go see that. Man

1698
01:24:30,439 --> 01:24:32,120
Speaker 1: you thirty, two you're getting.

1699
01:24:32,200 --> 01:24:35,200
Speaker 2: Older everybody's getting, Older, honey he checks all the baptis.

1700
01:24:35,479 --> 01:24:37,720
Speaker 1: To go check on, him cause if you, DON'T i

1701
01:24:37,800 --> 01:24:38,679
Speaker 1: will right.

1702
01:24:38,640 --> 01:24:43,440
Speaker 4: Hello six him to right THINK i got balls, anyway.

1703
01:24:44,960 --> 01:24:45,679
Speaker 1: AND i SEE.

1704
01:24:47,680 --> 01:24:47,720
Speaker 7: I.

1705
01:24:47,960 --> 01:24:51,439
Speaker 3: AGREE i definitely feel like if he was a little bit,

1706
01:24:51,680 --> 01:24:54,960
Speaker 3: younger THEN i can understand you having your reservations about.

1707
01:24:54,960 --> 01:24:57,360
Speaker 1: It but twenty seven and you thirty, two, like have

1708
01:24:57,520 --> 01:24:58,560
Speaker 1: a good. Time see WHERE i.

1709
01:24:58,600 --> 01:25:00,360
Speaker 3: GO i, mean cause it might not even and end

1710
01:25:00,439 --> 01:25:02,880
Speaker 3: up being something that's, serious but just see where it.

1711
01:25:02,960 --> 01:25:03,720
Speaker 1: Goes i'm just.

1712
01:25:03,800 --> 01:25:05,960
Speaker 3: Not give him a chance just because he's.

1713
01:25:06,080 --> 01:25:09,639
Speaker 1: Young he've any, Day, yeah BECAUSE i usually get. OLDER

1714
01:25:09,760 --> 01:25:13,800
Speaker 1: i like my niggas knocking on depth, door damn and

1715
01:25:14,160 --> 01:25:18,920
Speaker 1: mama me not one but in the, grave. Yob i'm

1716
01:25:19,040 --> 01:25:21,799
Speaker 1: like where you live and may be like puny nursing

1717
01:25:21,920 --> 01:25:28,080
Speaker 1: home policy looking, Right, yes but it's not my name on.

1718
01:25:28,160 --> 01:25:29,560
Speaker 1: It you know What i'm. Saying but my man is

1719
01:25:29,600 --> 01:25:31,639
Speaker 1: younger than. Me he's thirty, Two i'm thirty. Five i'm

1720
01:25:31,640 --> 01:25:33,559
Speaker 1: about to be thirty. Six SO i feel like sometimes

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01:25:33,600 --> 01:25:36,639
Speaker 1: it'd be the ones that you least expect that'll take

1722
01:25:36,680 --> 01:25:39,680
Speaker 1: you by. Surprise let that six a man take you

1723
01:25:39,760 --> 01:25:44,080
Speaker 1: for a rule you might like you eight honey likes

1724
01:25:44,240 --> 01:25:49,200
Speaker 1: THAT i? Agree, Okay question number, Two, Hey, Lex drea And.

1725
01:25:49,360 --> 01:25:53,000
Speaker 3: TIE i Watched Poor mindes religiously and DECIDED i want

1726
01:25:53,080 --> 01:25:55,479
Speaker 3: to pour my heart, OUT o. L i cut off

1727
01:25:55,520 --> 01:25:57,439
Speaker 3: one of my close friends since high, school AND i

1728
01:25:57,479 --> 01:25:59,600
Speaker 3: don't know how to feel about the. SITUATION i have

1729
01:25:59,680 --> 01:26:02,280
Speaker 3: a two old and from the MOMENT i found out

1730
01:26:02,320 --> 01:26:04,920
Speaker 3: THAT i was, pregnant she told, me damn near every

1731
01:26:05,000 --> 01:26:08,280
Speaker 3: minute to get an. Abortion i've had an abortion before

1732
01:26:08,600 --> 01:26:11,599
Speaker 3: and it just wasn't an. Option it confused me because

1733
01:26:11,640 --> 01:26:13,800
Speaker 3: she never told any of our other friends to get an,

1734
01:26:13,800 --> 01:26:16,000
Speaker 3: abortion and they are like two or three kids in

1735
01:26:16,680 --> 01:26:19,160
Speaker 3: her mom died WHILE i was, pregnant AND i still

1736
01:26:19,280 --> 01:26:21,960
Speaker 3: made a way to her homegoing even THOUGH i was high.

1737
01:26:22,000 --> 01:26:25,240
Speaker 3: Risk i've always been there for her, daughter buying gifts

1738
01:26:25,320 --> 01:26:28,040
Speaker 3: every holiday and, birthday but she hasn't even seen my.

1739
01:26:28,160 --> 01:26:29,559
Speaker 1: Son other than.

1740
01:26:29,640 --> 01:26:32,400
Speaker 3: Pictures then she messaged me On New year saying her

1741
01:26:32,439 --> 01:26:34,720
Speaker 3: resolution is to be a better friend to. Me that

1742
01:26:34,880 --> 01:26:37,320
Speaker 3: really rubbed me the wrong way Because i've always been

1743
01:26:37,360 --> 01:26:39,160
Speaker 3: a good friend to. HER i could be a little,

1744
01:26:39,200 --> 01:26:41,320
Speaker 3: defensive but do you ladies think she is a weirdo

1745
01:26:41,520 --> 01:26:43,840
Speaker 3: or AM i just overreacting and she was trying to

1746
01:26:43,920 --> 01:26:46,200
Speaker 3: give me friendly, advice thanks.

1747
01:26:46,320 --> 01:26:49,880
Speaker 1: Ladies So i'm seeing it from two points of. View

1748
01:26:50,320 --> 01:26:52,720
Speaker 1: so her reaching out and Saying i'm trying to be

1749
01:26:52,800 --> 01:26:55,080
Speaker 1: a better, friend and you still getting offended by, that like,

1750
01:26:55,200 --> 01:26:58,120
Speaker 1: damn what can she? Do SO i think if somebody

1751
01:26:58,200 --> 01:27:00,160
Speaker 1: is genuinely, saying, Hey i'm trying to be a bit her,

1752
01:27:00,160 --> 01:27:02,240
Speaker 1: friend BECAUSE i had that conversation with two of my

1753
01:27:02,320 --> 01:27:04,320
Speaker 1: close friends like a couple of years, ago And i'm,

1754
01:27:04,360 --> 01:27:06,280
Speaker 1: Like i'm trying to be a better friend THAN i.

1755
01:27:06,360 --> 01:27:09,080
Speaker 1: Will and you got to give people a, chance especially

1756
01:27:09,080 --> 01:27:11,479
Speaker 1: if you really care about. Them so that's, One BUT

1757
01:27:12,120 --> 01:27:13,960
Speaker 1: i think it's more to the story because her telling

1758
01:27:13,960 --> 01:27:15,800
Speaker 1: you to get, abortion she don't like your baby. Daddy

1759
01:27:16,680 --> 01:27:17,160
Speaker 1: that's what it's.

1760
01:27:17,200 --> 01:27:19,320
Speaker 4: Giving she didn't want you to have them kids because

1761
01:27:19,720 --> 01:27:21,880
Speaker 4: it baby attached to an eight shit.

1762
01:27:22,080 --> 01:27:24,800
Speaker 1: Nigga because a lot of times you been trying to save.

1763
01:27:24,840 --> 01:27:27,160
Speaker 1: FOLKS i saved a few folks in my, life AND

1764
01:27:27,280 --> 01:27:30,040
Speaker 1: i have been saved a few. TIMES R I, P

1765
01:27:30,320 --> 01:27:32,400
Speaker 1: R I. P BUT i say all that to, say

1766
01:27:32,720 --> 01:27:35,160
Speaker 1: sometimes your friends can see things that you don't, See

1767
01:27:35,680 --> 01:27:37,599
Speaker 1: so tell us about your baby, Daddy so we can

1768
01:27:37,680 --> 01:27:41,080
Speaker 1: give you a good. Answer if she stayed their friend

1769
01:27:41,120 --> 01:27:41,760
Speaker 1: then come to see her.

1770
01:27:41,840 --> 01:27:44,720
Speaker 3: Kids, yeah she says she has always been near for

1771
01:27:44,920 --> 01:27:47,280
Speaker 3: her friend's, daughter but her, DAUGHTER i, mean but she's

1772
01:27:47,360 --> 01:27:49,479
Speaker 3: never came to see her, son only outside of.

1773
01:27:49,520 --> 01:27:52,280
Speaker 1: Features. Mmmm so see that's WHAT i caught.

1774
01:27:52,360 --> 01:27:55,320
Speaker 4: That, yeah because now the child's here.

1775
01:27:56,280 --> 01:28:01,040
Speaker 1: Already yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, okay yeah. Yeah.

1776
01:28:02,280 --> 01:28:04,240
Speaker 2: Yeah like you said that she probably telling you to

1777
01:28:04,280 --> 01:28:06,880
Speaker 2: get an abortion because of that. Man, yeah either that

1778
01:28:07,040 --> 01:28:11,760
Speaker 2: either that man is no good, man or she might

1779
01:28:11,800 --> 01:28:12,439
Speaker 2: be fucking with that.

1780
01:28:12,520 --> 01:28:17,599
Speaker 1: Man you never know how Some, yeah that that's. True,

1781
01:28:17,800 --> 01:28:19,280
Speaker 1: so like you, said we need a little more to

1782
01:28:19,720 --> 01:28:21,280
Speaker 1: a little more to the. Story LIKE i, said the

1783
01:28:21,400 --> 01:28:23,559
Speaker 1: few times in my life That i've told a friend

1784
01:28:23,720 --> 01:28:25,760
Speaker 1: not to have a baby by someone or have an,

1785
01:28:25,760 --> 01:28:28,400
Speaker 1: abortion it had nothing to do with the, baby or

1786
01:28:28,600 --> 01:28:31,360
Speaker 1: it had everything to do with the, man everything to

1787
01:28:31,439 --> 01:28:32,240
Speaker 1: do with who the man.

1788
01:28:32,520 --> 01:28:35,400
Speaker 3: Was, yeah because she said too that she feels like

1789
01:28:35,960 --> 01:28:37,760
Speaker 3: she told her to get an, abortion but she never

1790
01:28:37,840 --> 01:28:39,519
Speaker 3: told none of the other friends to get an. Abortion

1791
01:28:39,600 --> 01:28:42,160
Speaker 3: maybe they got a good, baby maybe they married in.

1792
01:28:42,240 --> 01:28:44,400
Speaker 3: Relationships we don't, know because you didn't provide all of

1793
01:28:44,439 --> 01:28:45,200
Speaker 3: that content you.

1794
01:28:45,320 --> 01:28:48,760
Speaker 1: Was given a one side of but, yeah BUT i

1795
01:28:48,840 --> 01:28:51,639
Speaker 1: mean in some cases, though people do be being weird

1796
01:28:51,680 --> 01:28:52,080
Speaker 1: though and.

1797
01:28:52,680 --> 01:28:55,880
Speaker 4: Hating, yes so sometimes If i'll tell, you don't get

1798
01:28:55,920 --> 01:28:58,360
Speaker 4: pregnant because she's, like because you're gonna live a glamorousy like.

1799
01:28:58,439 --> 01:29:00,479
Speaker 1: Right And i'm gonna be here by. Myself. Yeah, no

1800
01:29:02,120 --> 01:29:05,120
Speaker 1: do what's best in your. Heart, GOD i agree it

1801
01:29:05,320 --> 01:29:06,800
Speaker 1: was best for. You you know you.

1802
01:29:06,880 --> 01:29:08,760
Speaker 3: CAN'T i feel like when it comes to situations like,

1803
01:29:08,840 --> 01:29:11,040
Speaker 3: that not trying to be, funny but if it's coming

1804
01:29:11,080 --> 01:29:13,639
Speaker 3: down to you having a, child you shouldn't be taking

1805
01:29:13,880 --> 01:29:16,120
Speaker 3: your friend and no way this between you and your.

1806
01:29:16,200 --> 01:29:18,920
Speaker 1: Men but now that your child is, here as far

1807
01:29:18,960 --> 01:29:22,200
Speaker 1: as y'all's friendship, goes if this person is somebody that

1808
01:29:22,280 --> 01:29:25,680
Speaker 1: you care about and you're truly happy around, them reconcile the.

1809
01:29:25,720 --> 01:29:28,240
Speaker 1: Relationship but if you feel like life is good And

1810
01:29:28,360 --> 01:29:31,840
Speaker 1: i'm cool not being your, friend that's your. Insurrection, yeah

1811
01:29:32,160 --> 01:29:35,479
Speaker 1: it's up to. You i'm all about give a onemore,

1812
01:29:35,560 --> 01:29:39,679
Speaker 1: chance one, Chance, okay, alonzo let the people. Know, okay

1813
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Speaker 1: let me ask you. This do you still take clients

1814
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Speaker 1: to do their? Hair?

1815
01:29:43,080 --> 01:29:45,120
Speaker 4: Yes not Do, Okay SO i don't know how they can.

1816
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Speaker 1: Book.

1817
01:29:45,680 --> 01:29:46,600
Speaker 4: Okay so a lot of.

1818
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Speaker 2: People been asking me if you go to My, instagram

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1821
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Speaker 1: Evan some people. DO i had a girl book in

1825
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1826
01:30:10,680 --> 01:30:12,080
Speaker 1: CLAUDA i don't know what the hell she.

1827
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1828
01:30:14,520 --> 01:30:16,879
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1829
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1830
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1831
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1833
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Speaker 2: DO i miss doing clients, here LIKE i used to

1834
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Speaker 2: just do nothing but make wigs in the house AND

1835
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1836
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Speaker 2: know doing her BECAUSE i get bored at.

1837
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Speaker 1: know if you want to get your full lace. Wig

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1847
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Speaker 4: Money now do you accept after pay or? CLARINA i

1848
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Speaker 4: need before?

1849
01:31:11,240 --> 01:31:15,080
Speaker 1: Pay? Okay you KNOW i don't fall. RIGHT i don't

1850
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1867
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1868
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1931
01:35:43,560 --> 01:35:49,200
Speaker 10: Downside come in my bedroom and turn off the.

1932
01:35:49,560 --> 01:35:59,400
Speaker 1: Line you it's spasiftly in my. Ear maybe who, wait

1933
01:35:59,600 --> 01:36:02,120
Speaker 1: you urs me bless me know your.

1934
01:36:02,400 --> 01:36:06,040
Speaker 5: Mind i'd rather be with you BECAUSE i love the

1935
01:36:06,160 --> 01:36:07,439
Speaker 5: way you free.

1936
01:36:07,640 --> 01:36:12,320
Speaker 1: Mine and then, no other man that gives me. Wow

1937
01:36:13,000 --> 01:36:14,040
Speaker 1: he makes me feel this.

1938
01:36:14,400 --> 01:36:18,840
Speaker 5: Way i'd rather be with you because you have the

1939
01:36:19,000 --> 01:36:24,320
Speaker 5: heart to say care. Me i'd rather be with Youes,

1940
01:36:24,840 --> 01:36:27,680
Speaker 5: no rather be with you.

1941
01:36:31,640 --> 01:36:35,519
Speaker 1: No way you look at? Me tell meto my? Eyes

1942
01:36:37,240 --> 01:36:39,280
Speaker 1: what do they say to? You?

1943
01:36:39,640 --> 01:36:45,240
Speaker 4: Boy don't be shy ha ha she last not you,

1944
01:36:45,439 --> 01:36:46,280
Speaker 4: man see.

1945
01:36:47,080 --> 01:36:54,880
Speaker 1: LOUD i am your. Woman i'll be along telling you low,

1946
01:36:59,240 --> 01:37:05,920
Speaker 1: OH i am my soul connected meeting hollow so say

1947
01:37:06,200 --> 01:37:10,840
Speaker 1: And i'm nois You oh my, GOODNESS i forgot the

1948
01:37:10,960 --> 01:37:18,120
Speaker 1: lyrics baby allow man laugh to. You it's like a

1949
01:37:18,320 --> 01:37:20,560
Speaker 1: high no damn for you.

1950
01:37:20,680 --> 01:37:29,040
Speaker 5: All be with you because a live wream.

1951
01:37:26,680 --> 01:37:36,000
Speaker 8: Man make me make me feel this away hella be with,

1952
01:37:36,120 --> 01:37:37,519
Speaker 8: you ear me.

1953
01:37:39,080 --> 01:37:39,120
Speaker 6: With.

1954
01:37:39,280 --> 01:37:46,720
Speaker 1: You i'd rather be boy a rather be with? Whoa

1955
01:37:47,680 --> 01:37:53,360
Speaker 1: oh hi ha ha hey yeah, Wow i'd rather be

1956
01:37:53,560 --> 01:38:00,720
Speaker 1: with you boo yeah yeah whoa. Boy i'm rather be

1957
01:38:02,080 --> 01:38:20,080
Speaker 1: shut hi issue? Yo yeah? Boy rather how you hearing that?

1958
01:38:20,200 --> 01:38:35,479
Speaker 1: Long yeah? Right make mixing s got bad bad song

1959
01:38:35,720 --> 01:38:44,800
Speaker 1: the fauna be the. Studio, Hello, grammys you hardy here

1960
01:38:44,880 --> 01:38:48,680
Speaker 1: fire so long Ride helloa Studio, grammy y'all give it.

1961
01:38:48,800 --> 01:38:57,479
Speaker 1: Up AS i was saying, away yes period that DRESS

1962
01:38:57,600 --> 01:38:58,439
Speaker 1: i would rather be with.

1963
01:38:58,640 --> 01:39:01,240
Speaker 8: You she did not try to bracs to here.

1964
01:39:01,320 --> 01:39:04,679
Speaker 1: You Hello, Na, Na my, bad