WEBVTT - Episode 243: Forced Love (Feat. Usman “Sojaboy”) 0:00:02.240 --> 0:00:04.280 What's up? What's up? It's lip service. We're all in 0:00:04.320 --> 0:00:07.440 our respective home, so we are social distancing. But I'm 0:00:07.480 --> 0:00:14.200 Angela Yee, I'm G. G. Maguire, I'm Luria and the 0:00:14.280 --> 0:00:17.280 boy from Nan And by the way, we are huge fans, 0:00:17.360 --> 0:00:18.840 all of us of the show. I think I said 0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:25.200 it all did. Yeah. I do appreciate that Angela had 0:00:25.239 --> 0:00:28.360 all of us watching this show. Like I knew nothing 0:00:28.400 --> 0:00:31.120 about it, and I was so against watching at first. 0:00:31.200 --> 0:00:32.839 I was like, I don't want to watch anything like that. 0:00:33.000 --> 0:00:35.240 She was like, I'm telling you, it's gonna be addictive, 0:00:35.440 --> 0:00:40.640 and ever says then huck okay, thank you, yeah, thank you. 0:00:40.680 --> 0:00:42.800 I know, Angela has been my fun for a very 0:00:42.800 --> 0:00:45.800 long time. You know. I watched the interview that she 0:00:45.920 --> 0:00:48.880 was talking to, you know, Soldier Boy, the American rapper 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:51.000 Soldier Boy. It was like, do you know about this 0:00:51.080 --> 0:00:55.720 Girl's like, oh, thank you? So did you need as 0:00:55.760 --> 0:00:58.200 a soldier boy or was it just like where did 0:00:58.280 --> 0:01:02.560 that come from? Um? My name Soldier Boy came out 0:01:02.640 --> 0:01:06.679 because um, in my family, I have about three elder brothers. 0:01:06.760 --> 0:01:10.160 They're all in the military, so and I choose their 0:01:10.200 --> 0:01:13.319 career of being entertainer. So I was like, what kind 0:01:13.360 --> 0:01:14.840 of num am I going to choose? That is going 0:01:14.880 --> 0:01:17.240 to be unique to me? You know. So it's like, okay, 0:01:17.280 --> 0:01:19.480 my brother is a soldier, another brother is a soldier. 0:01:19.840 --> 0:01:22.000 I also have another brother. I was like, okay, let 0:01:22.000 --> 0:01:27.040 me just choose soldier boy. Sold Everybody was like, how 0:01:27.080 --> 0:01:29.320 did you come up with the name soldier boy. So 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:31.800 the reality of it is that I got the name. 0:01:31.920 --> 0:01:34.320 I get the expression to give myself the name from 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:43.839 my brothers that I you know, working in the military. Okay, um, Yeah. 0:01:43.880 --> 0:01:48.000 I met with Lisa on social media, but we just 0:01:48.040 --> 0:01:51.840 don't met just like that. I had a friend from Europe. 0:01:52.760 --> 0:01:55.760 I met a dil friend in Tanzania and I see 0:01:55.760 --> 0:02:00.000 a country called Tanzania I traveled to in two and fourteen. 0:02:00.600 --> 0:02:03.520 That's where I met the lady and she's from She's 0:02:03.560 --> 0:02:07.200 from UK so she was kind of you know, she's 0:02:07.240 --> 0:02:10.400 my fan. After the performance from the stage, she was like, yeah, 0:02:10.480 --> 0:02:13.160 I love the way, you know, because I usually thinking 0:02:13.240 --> 0:02:16.920 my language, my local She was like, what language is that. 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:19.040 I told her that's my language, house a language. She 0:02:19.120 --> 0:02:21.080 was like, wow, it's nice and I really love that. 0:02:21.240 --> 0:02:23.640 I was like, thank you, and we exchange number. We 0:02:23.680 --> 0:02:25.760 start talking to each other after she got back to 0:02:25.760 --> 0:02:28.560 her country and come back to Nagaia, Like she liked me, 0:02:29.240 --> 0:02:31.480 but you know, I have career to push you. So 0:02:31.560 --> 0:02:34.320 I was not really interested in, you know, paying attention 0:02:34.320 --> 0:02:37.680 to relationship that much because it may likely distruct me. 0:02:37.880 --> 0:02:40.760 So I was not paying attention and she was continued 0:02:40.800 --> 0:02:44.840 being patient, m you know, thinking that maybe you accept 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:47.240 for us to be you know, to date and maybe 0:02:47.240 --> 0:02:50.079 if possible, we get married. But that don't work out. 0:02:50.160 --> 0:02:52.880 We just remember as friends. And one certain time she 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:54.519 was like, I had a friend and she's in the 0:02:54.560 --> 0:02:57.400 United State. Her name is Lisa. I'm going to share 0:02:57.440 --> 0:03:02.440 the you know, uh book under so that you guys 0:03:02.440 --> 0:03:05.160 cannot So that's how I met Lisa. From that my 0:03:05.280 --> 0:03:10.720 friend and um, from there, listen, start putting so much presure, listen, 0:03:10.840 --> 0:03:14.000 pay attention, lista put more preasure than the older friends 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:18.200 in UK. And that's how we're started. From there where 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:20.959 you find out us into you know, loving each other, 0:03:21.040 --> 0:03:24.040 and from there we're moving on. So you bounced from 0:03:24.120 --> 0:03:27.560 friend to friend, right, you're a friend, You're a friend, sucker, 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:31.920 and I messed up this man. Yeah, yeah, I got 0:03:32.000 --> 0:03:38.560 down from the wait, I'm interested in knowing the because 0:03:38.560 --> 0:03:40.600 of the age range with you and Lisa being such 0:03:40.640 --> 0:03:42.880 a huge get what is the age range between you 0:03:42.960 --> 0:03:49.760 and Lisa's friend and you can too? Is there how 0:03:49.840 --> 0:03:53.320 you like them or you just trying a little something 0:03:53.320 --> 0:03:57.520 with the older ladies or you typically date older women. Um, 0:03:57.560 --> 0:04:01.440 it's not that I prepare tatting all the women know. 0:04:02.640 --> 0:04:05.040 The truth is that she came to me, the UK lady. 0:04:05.120 --> 0:04:07.480 She came to me as a fun and I was 0:04:07.560 --> 0:04:10.200 even most of my songs. If you're listening, you have that. 0:04:10.280 --> 0:04:12.680 I I have so much you know my local language 0:04:12.680 --> 0:04:16.560 you need because I'm trying to promote my own wos man. 0:04:16.600 --> 0:04:19.599 I gotta ask you a question. When the Baby Loves Lisa, 0:04:19.760 --> 0:04:24.240 when she asked me to go down on her, that 0:04:24.360 --> 0:04:27.280 was the first time you ever did that? What she 0:04:27.360 --> 0:04:32.280 asks me to do? What e her vagina? Let her 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:39.480 kitty yet respect the bar? Put your face in it? No, no, no, no, 0:04:39.520 --> 0:04:41.640 I don't do it. Honestly, I don't do it. I 0:04:41.839 --> 0:04:45.839 did do it? Did you listen? Where do we get this? 0:04:46.320 --> 0:04:51.400 Who get this? Who give you this information? That Baby 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:53.280 Love said she had to teach you how to work 0:04:53.320 --> 0:04:55.599 that tongue. Honey, give you some mouth and lift service 0:04:55.680 --> 0:04:58.560 she had to teach maybe maybe you miss understood. No 0:05:00.000 --> 0:05:02.080 teach me, she said, I you have to teach me 0:05:02.080 --> 0:05:04.720 an American way that I would teach her in in 0:05:05.120 --> 0:05:08.400 an egeriant way. But I'm going to go down on 0:05:08.680 --> 0:05:10.960 you know, did you do? You didn't go down on her. 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:16.560 I can't talk about that. I'm sorry. So what was 0:05:16.600 --> 0:05:19.039 it like the first time you guys held Dad said, 0:05:19.080 --> 0:05:26.880 it wasn't like but it was pretty decent. Yeah, something right, 0:05:26.920 --> 0:05:32.920 listen listening. She she's my fiance. She come down to 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:35.720 to see me. What do you aspect? You know, she 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:39.640 can't just because she's from America. In my in my culture, 0:05:39.680 --> 0:05:41.320 it's not even allowed for you to have sex with 0:05:41.440 --> 0:05:44.159 a woman that you did not get married. We're trying 0:05:44.160 --> 0:05:49.039 to blend the culture in the same way. So when 0:05:49.080 --> 0:05:51.039 she comes down in here, you know, we have to 0:05:51.040 --> 0:05:53.560 do what we have to do. So we had sex, Yes, 0:05:53.680 --> 0:05:56.599 we have to have sex, and we had sex, and 0:05:56.640 --> 0:06:00.520 it was okay, you know, okay, I'm sorry. But the 0:06:00.640 --> 0:06:04.160 look on your mother's face when she met Lisa was 0:06:04.200 --> 0:06:07.120 absolutely priceless, and it probably would have been my look 0:06:07.200 --> 0:06:10.920 as well. Were you shocked by the look on her 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:13.919 face or where do you expect them? Pretty much that 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:15.640 your mother was going to act like that when she 0:06:15.760 --> 0:06:19.520 met her um. This is uh, you know, I'm that 0:06:19.600 --> 0:06:22.120 kind of passing that whatever I want to do and 0:06:22.279 --> 0:06:25.480 make decision on it, I go would fit. I don't 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:29.440 believe in impossibility. I don't believe there's anything that's going 0:06:29.480 --> 0:06:32.800 to be impossible to me. So, but before Lisa come 0:06:32.839 --> 0:06:34.640 down to Nanda, I know it's going to be tough. 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:37.599 He's not going to be easy for my mom to 0:06:37.680 --> 0:06:40.279 just say, okay, this man, you can go ahead and 0:06:40.279 --> 0:06:42.200 get married to her. I know it's not going to 0:06:42.320 --> 0:06:44.440 be easy. I know that, but I don't want to 0:06:44.440 --> 0:06:48.159 tell Lisa because Lisa's in Nigeria already. If I tell 0:06:48.200 --> 0:06:51.520 her that, you know, we're not going to get most blessing. 0:06:51.760 --> 0:06:53.760 It's going to be She's going to feel m you know, 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:56.159 I like to her, but I just want to. I 0:06:56.240 --> 0:06:59.400 just want us to, you know, push on, continue, you know, 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:04.520 praying and applying so many logic to see how can 0:07:04.600 --> 0:07:07.559 we know we can convince Mom. So I'm not shocked 0:07:07.560 --> 0:07:09.960 about anything because I know Mom is not going to say, okay, 0:07:09.960 --> 0:07:12.400 go ahead and get married to her. Not in my region. 0:07:12.440 --> 0:07:16.880 In Nigeria, we have three We have about three different regions, 0:07:16.920 --> 0:07:19.800 which are you know, big major regions we have are 0:07:19.880 --> 0:07:22.920 not We have East, we have Waste. My region. The 0:07:23.040 --> 0:07:27.520 population of Nigeria is about approximately three million. My region 0:07:27.640 --> 0:07:30.760 has the largest and you know, my most populated region. 0:07:31.160 --> 0:07:34.760 We have over one hundred and something million population and 0:07:35.600 --> 0:07:38.920 in my region. My culture does not accept marrying any 0:07:39.240 --> 0:07:42.080 white woman or you know, for you to bring somebody 0:07:42.080 --> 0:07:46.760 from another country, it's totally unacceptable, not by religion, but 0:07:46.960 --> 0:07:51.800 by culture. Okay, she wasn't white. It would have been 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:55.840 okay if she was like a black woman from the US. No, everyway, 0:07:55.920 --> 0:07:58.800 she's black from US, it's not gonna be okay. The 0:07:58.880 --> 0:08:01.800 problem is that you are bring give somebody from different countries. Okay, 0:08:01.800 --> 0:08:04.120 so any country, it doesn't matter why or black. But 0:08:04.240 --> 0:08:06.720 what if I have a question whatever, her parents were 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:09.280 originally from Nigeria, but she just happened to be going 0:08:09.320 --> 0:08:11.640 and raised in the United States. But her parents are 0:08:11.640 --> 0:08:15.240 from Nigeria and she based you know, in a media, 0:08:15.240 --> 0:08:18.080 her parents based in America. They give bath Todia. It's 0:08:18.120 --> 0:08:21.040 a different case because they know where the father. We 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:26.720 don't know where the parents come from. She's white. You know, 0:08:27.360 --> 0:08:29.480 we don't have white at all in fact Africa. It's 0:08:29.520 --> 0:08:32.839 not a it's not you know, it will sound to 0:08:32.880 --> 0:08:35.960 you somehow when you call me black, it's nothing. It's normal. 0:08:36.320 --> 0:08:38.400 When I call you what, it's nothing, it's normal. You 0:08:38.400 --> 0:08:41.559 don't feel like barracist or anything. Now we can scorize 0:08:41.600 --> 0:08:43.679 it where you look, and it's normal. So she's a 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:46.240 white and she comes to a region where the culture 0:08:46.280 --> 0:08:50.080 and tradition has been has been dominated. So it's not easy. 0:08:50.360 --> 0:08:53.200 I can tell you that I'm the first person to 0:08:53.320 --> 0:08:55.880 bring any white to all the way from America down 0:08:56.000 --> 0:08:58.640 to my region. So it's it's not something to be 0:08:58.679 --> 0:09:01.960 proud of. It's some thing that has never happened, and 0:09:02.000 --> 0:09:06.160 I'm trying to break that culture. You know, Ruth, She's 0:09:06.200 --> 0:09:08.560 not going to be easy, I know. But I know 0:09:08.640 --> 0:09:11.280 I have so much influence to my mom. Whatever she 0:09:11.360 --> 0:09:14.640 see me insisting, what about she see me fain, you know, 0:09:14.679 --> 0:09:18.240 paying attention to she at the end, she will give up. 0:09:18.559 --> 0:09:22.000 I always come with positive things. It's my family. Can 0:09:22.040 --> 0:09:23.800 we know me. I don't bring anything that has to 0:09:23.800 --> 0:09:26.400 be negative. So when they see me insisting, you know, 0:09:26.480 --> 0:09:28.280 I push up. If they don't like it. They have 0:09:28.320 --> 0:09:30.079 to stay okay with me, go ahead and do it, 0:09:30.400 --> 0:09:33.160 but please don't blame anybody here. I thought it was 0:09:33.240 --> 0:09:35.959 hilarious that your mom said that she was going to 0:09:36.040 --> 0:09:39.480 take you to be a slave. But then I think, 0:09:39.800 --> 0:09:42.319 like she's right there like a sex slave, because it 0:09:42.400 --> 0:09:44.960 seems like Lisa is like a bit of a you know, 0:09:45.440 --> 0:09:48.679 horny one what's the word that y'all would use and Nigeria. 0:09:49.320 --> 0:09:54.160 But it seems like she likes to have sex alt um. 0:09:54.200 --> 0:09:57.400 Not not really, not really, I don't have to say that. 0:09:57.440 --> 0:10:00.640 I don't think she like, no, not really, she's not. 0:10:00.840 --> 0:10:03.079 She likes sex a lot. It's just that, you know, 0:10:03.720 --> 0:10:08.760 initially from the ancestors, from the history, white people usually 0:10:08.800 --> 0:10:11.800 come to Africa check the black people and pant them 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:16.480 to sleeve that coote era. You know. So in our 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:20.040 region that belief is still there, right, there's still a 0:10:20.040 --> 0:10:23.200 lot of mistress, Yeah, that that believe is still there 0:10:23.679 --> 0:10:26.280 that this white woman is coming down here, she's taking 0:10:26.400 --> 0:10:28.120 my child, She's going to take him to America, is 0:10:28.160 --> 0:10:31.480 going to be a slave there, because they still have 0:10:31.559 --> 0:10:35.360 that believe in their head. Yeah, yeah, that mentality is 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:38.000 still there. But a person like me that you know, 0:10:38.040 --> 0:10:40.839 I've been into music and that you know industry, I have, 0:10:41.000 --> 0:10:44.080 you know, this big explodure. I am out from my region, 0:10:44.320 --> 0:10:47.120 I'm out from my country even I've been working around 0:10:47.120 --> 0:10:50.280 the continent, so I know that it's not going to 0:10:50.320 --> 0:10:52.600 be possible. You know, nobody can tell me to slave. 0:10:53.720 --> 0:10:55.679 They don't understand that the boy for a second, Let's 0:10:55.720 --> 0:10:59.840 talk about your career for a second. Okay, okay, that's performances, 0:11:00.040 --> 0:11:02.640 heard your music. Do you think that being in a 0:11:02.679 --> 0:11:06.560 relationship with Lisa was harmful to your career? Having to 0:11:06.679 --> 0:11:09.400 change your video and having to worry about women who 0:11:09.400 --> 0:11:13.120 are your fans, living comments and things like that, that's 0:11:13.120 --> 0:11:16.840 not that is something that could potentially negatively affect your career. 0:11:17.000 --> 0:11:19.520 So what were your thoughts on that, because it felt 0:11:19.559 --> 0:11:22.360 like you were really giving in a lot. Yeah, that 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:25.040 is a big one. Honestly, it's a big one because 0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:28.160 that is the challenges I have because Lisa is very 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:32.480 jealous type. She don't usually even to understand what happened 0:11:32.520 --> 0:11:36.400 in the music industry, and music industry is what I choose, 0:11:36.440 --> 0:11:38.720 and you know, being a musician is what I choose 0:11:38.720 --> 0:11:40.800 to be. And I've been on this race for a 0:11:40.880 --> 0:11:43.840 very long time. You know, I've been into music industry 0:11:43.920 --> 0:11:46.360 since to tourn On five, but I started making it 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:50.719 big around to tourn On fur. So I choose to 0:11:50.760 --> 0:11:53.160 be a musician, and I don't think there's anybody's who's 0:11:53.160 --> 0:11:56.640 going to stop me. If you cannot going to if 0:11:56.679 --> 0:12:01.199 you're don would you know my business is Honestly, I 0:12:01.320 --> 0:12:03.880 think the only option is for us to break up. 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:07.160 So she has so much love for me, and she 0:12:07.320 --> 0:12:10.280 has this problem of you know, any time I post 0:12:10.360 --> 0:12:14.079 any picture or anything, she gets jealous for any lady 0:12:14.200 --> 0:12:16.280 that is going to come and say, hi, Soldier, but 0:12:16.400 --> 0:12:18.360 we love you and imoj you love and all that. 0:12:19.320 --> 0:12:21.960 She has this problem. I always try to make her 0:12:22.080 --> 0:12:25.719 understand this is not something that you have to be 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:29.280 jealous to me. This is my career and that is 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:31.720 the way that I can That's the way I will 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:36.319 understand I'm doing well by responding from my fans. And 0:12:36.640 --> 0:12:39.280 you know, the young ladies are very important when it 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:42.760 comes to you know, entertaining nine music. Yeah, she needs 0:12:42.800 --> 0:12:45.800 to understand that they love Soldier boy and that she 0:12:45.960 --> 0:12:49.360 loves usman, and even though you are both people that 0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:52.319 they don't share the part of usman that she shared. 0:12:52.360 --> 0:12:54.480 They don't share Uman with her, they share Soldier Boy 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:56.439 with her. So she needs to understand their business is 0:12:56.520 --> 0:12:58.160 business and that's a part of how you thrive in 0:12:58.200 --> 0:13:00.559 this industry. You have to have fans, the fans that 0:13:00.640 --> 0:13:02.600 love you. Was well, drive your music and drive your 0:13:02.640 --> 0:13:04.760 market up so that you can make money. And and 0:13:04.960 --> 0:13:07.480 she needs to understand that it's just business. How was 0:13:07.559 --> 0:13:11.080 she felt about an interview like this with three three 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:16.880 women that are nice looking? How is about something like that? Man, 0:13:17.000 --> 0:13:19.560 she's gonna hate on us when she snatched the computer 0:13:19.679 --> 0:13:23.200 away from you? What do you think? No? No, listen, um, 0:13:24.480 --> 0:13:26.400 it is what it is. You know, I used to 0:13:26.440 --> 0:13:29.559 do what I choosed to be, so I have been. 0:13:29.640 --> 0:13:31.959 You know, I have to tolerate, you know, when whenever 0:13:32.080 --> 0:13:34.800 you are staying with somebody, you have to tolerate each other. 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:38.840 But it has limits. So my music as my music 0:13:38.920 --> 0:13:40.959 and she's not gonna stop. But I don't have to 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:44.600 stop too. So what did you she stopt that model 0:13:44.679 --> 0:13:49.319 from being in that video? Yeah, she stopped listen, she 0:13:49.440 --> 0:13:52.200 stopped the model from being into you know, music video. 0:13:52.520 --> 0:13:54.640 But we have already shot this since all the things 0:13:54.720 --> 0:13:58.040 abolready shot. Edit, we got the music video complete already, 0:13:58.559 --> 0:14:01.840 so it is. When she complained in then, I was like, okay, 0:14:02.480 --> 0:14:05.880 I'm doing this. This music video is particularly for her, 0:14:06.640 --> 0:14:11.720 but she's taking the credit. She don't understand. She don't understand. 0:14:11.960 --> 0:14:14.120 Take the credit. You are the original to you're the 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:16.079 reason why I see the song. But that does no 0:14:16.160 --> 0:14:17.920 mean that you're going to give me all the money 0:14:17.960 --> 0:14:19.920 as supposed to get from the music video. So just 0:14:20.040 --> 0:14:21.680 take the credit and allow me to roam with the 0:14:23.360 --> 0:14:25.040 in the future. If you make a video with the 0:14:25.120 --> 0:14:27.560 woman and the song isn't about her, she still don't 0:14:27.560 --> 0:14:29.040 have a problem if you have an ext woman in 0:14:29.080 --> 0:14:31.880 the video. Anytime leaves a sitting with any woman around me, 0:14:31.960 --> 0:14:35.360 without media or anyway, he's going to feel. You don't 0:14:35.400 --> 0:14:38.320 need somebody to really instill. Don't heard it, it's just 0:14:38.560 --> 0:14:40.920 business and that my face should be in the cloud. 0:14:41.160 --> 0:14:44.960 But you're not. You're not together anyway, right So no, 0:14:45.120 --> 0:14:51.280 he said that what's happening here? It was, man, are 0:14:51.320 --> 0:14:53.520 you not getting me? Now? We want to know that 0:14:54.400 --> 0:14:56.840 you are? You guys together currently? Can we see your hands? 0:14:58.920 --> 0:15:02.040 That's not his fiance anymore. So y'all and not y'all 0:15:02.080 --> 0:15:06.080 are no longer together listening. Are some women on your 0:15:06.120 --> 0:15:08.400 Instagram page it was man and I know she was 0:15:08.480 --> 0:15:12.360 a man I listening. The issue here is that in 0:15:12.480 --> 0:15:17.560 my culture, marriage or being fiance does not refer for 0:15:17.640 --> 0:15:20.920 you to put ring. M Ninety percent of the people 0:15:21.000 --> 0:15:24.400 in my region, they don't put a ring. You're not remember, 0:15:24.440 --> 0:15:28.360 don't we that now? We don't use ring at all. 0:15:28.520 --> 0:15:30.880 I only try to put the ring to make sure 0:15:30.880 --> 0:15:33.920 that at least I feel okay, she feels better. But 0:15:34.160 --> 0:15:36.240 it's not in our culture. It's not in our tradition. 0:15:37.320 --> 0:15:39.680 So what do you have to say about the people 0:15:39.800 --> 0:15:42.560 that think that you were doing this just so that 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:47.120 you can get to America? Because I definitely wasn't um, 0:15:47.320 --> 0:15:49.720 and I still might not be ad sold on the 0:15:49.880 --> 0:15:52.840 fact that you just saw Lisa and was like, oh 0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:58.200 so sexy, can't wait to get in a relationship with her? Okay, Um, 0:15:58.400 --> 0:16:00.400 everybody has his own opinion, and you have right to 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:03.960 your opinion. If anybody jumped up and said, oh, this 0:16:04.080 --> 0:16:06.360 guy is is fucking crazy, you know he's just doing 0:16:06.440 --> 0:16:09.240 this to get to America, it's your it's your opinion. 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:12.720 You don't get me angry easily, you know, I don't 0:16:12.760 --> 0:16:14.920 want to get you angry. No, no, no, I'm not 0:16:14.960 --> 0:16:17.400 talking about you. I'm talking about people. I'm not talking 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:20.360 about people. No, not you. I'm talking about people who 0:16:20.400 --> 0:16:22.440 were saying that this guy is doing this just to 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:25.000 get to America. You have right to your opinion. It 0:16:25.120 --> 0:16:27.160 is what you feel like. But if I want to 0:16:27.240 --> 0:16:29.680 come to America, I've been dating Lissa for good three years, 0:16:30.240 --> 0:16:32.440 m so if I want to come to America, I 0:16:32.480 --> 0:16:34.840 would have come to America. You know. So you said 0:16:34.960 --> 0:16:38.440 you're in love though, um, yeah, I have to be. 0:16:38.560 --> 0:16:40.920 I'm a love time because somebody who has been with 0:16:41.040 --> 0:16:43.240 you for almost every day, you get used to that 0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:45.760 person and if you if you don't talk to that 0:16:45.840 --> 0:16:48.240 person sometime you miss him. So by the time you 0:16:48.320 --> 0:16:51.160 start missing somebody, definitely, I think it's either you love 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:52.880 him or you care for him. So I love Lisa. 0:16:53.280 --> 0:16:55.040 Can you remember the moment that you fell in love? 0:16:55.480 --> 0:16:57.560 Do you remember what it was that he was like, Man, 0:16:58.280 --> 0:17:00.000 I think I'm in love with this lady. I really, 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:02.800 I really feel it was from the time that I 0:17:02.880 --> 0:17:05.960 started missing how you know when when the first time 0:17:06.000 --> 0:17:08.959 we had issue and it's been about like three day 0:17:09.520 --> 0:17:11.280 I didn't hear from her. She didn't call me. Was like, 0:17:11.800 --> 0:17:13.879 I'm missing something, you know that somebody I used to 0:17:13.920 --> 0:17:15.720 talk about, and this person is not a continue to 0:17:15.760 --> 0:17:17.840 do what is happening, so I have to call her. 0:17:18.200 --> 0:17:19.960 I was like, why didn't you call me for today? 0:17:20.000 --> 0:17:22.760 She was like, no, you know, it's likely I'm forcing 0:17:22.840 --> 0:17:25.080 myself to you, blah blah blah. I was like, it's okay, 0:17:25.119 --> 0:17:27.960 I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Just forget about that. Let's continue 0:17:28.000 --> 0:17:30.440 and that's how we, you know, resolve that issue and 0:17:30.560 --> 0:17:34.560 we continue. So, now do you feel like your fans 0:17:35.040 --> 0:17:36.960 had an issue with the fact that you're with Lisa? 0:17:37.000 --> 0:17:39.280 How did that affect your career? Because I know, even 0:17:39.359 --> 0:17:42.240 watching you doing a video of at least party and 0:17:42.400 --> 0:17:49.679 the women did not look too thrilled Lisa audience, how 0:17:49.760 --> 0:17:54.080 did that affect your fans? Honestly, it is that is 0:17:54.160 --> 0:17:58.040 what bothers me a lot, you know, because Lisa, you know, 0:17:58.800 --> 0:18:02.359 she is always at is, you know, chasing my fans, 0:18:02.440 --> 0:18:05.160 and it is giving me so much you know, bad 0:18:05.200 --> 0:18:07.520 in my career. Because I can tell you that it's 0:18:07.560 --> 0:18:10.760 one that's one lady that was even asking me how 0:18:10.960 --> 0:18:12.680 can she assess to my song? I said, just go 0:18:12.800 --> 0:18:15.760 to any digital platform such force which where you see 0:18:15.800 --> 0:18:18.720 my song. She was like, no, no, no. After after 0:18:18.800 --> 0:18:21.000 all that, she was like, no, please, I don't I 0:18:21.040 --> 0:18:22.879 don't even I don't even want anything that has to 0:18:22.920 --> 0:18:25.280 do too because that your old cat blah blah blah 0:18:25.600 --> 0:18:27.440 she was inserting this. I was like, oh, I'm sorry, 0:18:27.520 --> 0:18:30.520 I'm sorry. So it's it's affecting my it is affecting 0:18:30.560 --> 0:18:33.600 my career seriously or not. And I'm honestly I'm not 0:18:33.680 --> 0:18:36.639 feeling good about that because this is the way for 0:18:36.720 --> 0:18:38.520 me to make my re this way for me to 0:18:38.560 --> 0:18:41.760 get my income. And if a lady that is going 0:18:41.800 --> 0:18:43.760 to do to me have to you know, be doing 0:18:43.840 --> 0:18:46.120 this for me to to kill my career, then where 0:18:46.119 --> 0:18:47.320 am I going to be in the next in the 0:18:47.400 --> 0:18:50.960 nearest future. I don't think we have to just get 0:18:51.240 --> 0:18:53.800 we have to get solution to this problem, or we 0:18:53.920 --> 0:18:57.479 have to break up also have the solution to this problem. 0:18:57.960 --> 0:19:00.920 It's either for her to ask up to it and 0:19:01.000 --> 0:19:02.720 allow me to do my things in a way that 0:19:02.760 --> 0:19:04.960 I're supposed to read, or just have to break up 0:19:05.920 --> 0:19:09.440 the truth. So, basically, you're saying, if it really comes 0:19:09.480 --> 0:19:12.520 down to your career or Lisa, you would choose your 0:19:12.600 --> 0:19:18.679 career career definitely, How are y all approached to do this? Shall? Um? 0:19:18.840 --> 0:19:21.720 I am done that apply for it and I was 0:19:21.840 --> 0:19:25.840 access and they access me with the series of all 0:19:25.920 --> 0:19:29.960 this interview and all those things. They selected me. Then 0:19:30.600 --> 0:19:33.800 we start processing it with the detriments you know papers right, 0:19:34.240 --> 0:19:36.720 it was what's the what's the most romantic thing at 0:19:36.760 --> 0:19:40.200 Lisa's ever done for you? Um? It's baby love? You 0:19:40.240 --> 0:19:45.880 know she called me bablove baby Lisa. What's the most 0:19:45.960 --> 0:19:48.560 romantic thing you ever damp period? Maybe not with Lisa 0:19:48.640 --> 0:19:52.399 but with somebody else. When Lisa, you know what was 0:19:52.840 --> 0:19:54.600 when she come down to NAA and you know, I 0:19:54.600 --> 0:19:57.080 will come out at the airport and I come with 0:19:57.440 --> 0:19:59.480 you know flower, I've never done that. You know, I 0:19:59.600 --> 0:20:01.920 told you I'm never going to any seroes relationship in 0:20:02.119 --> 0:20:04.879 my life. Wow, that's your first one. Yeah, that was 0:20:04.960 --> 0:20:06.920 my first time to bring a flower that I was 0:20:07.200 --> 0:20:11.000 welcoming my my, my, my, my, my, my girlfriend or 0:20:11.080 --> 0:20:13.560 my fiance, my woman. Am I going to see that? 0:20:15.280 --> 0:20:17.159 That was the first time, you know I did that 0:20:17.359 --> 0:20:20.159 through so you never seen it or anything. It was 0:20:20.280 --> 0:20:25.720 man after me to Lisa. No, okay, I'm just checking. 0:20:26.160 --> 0:20:29.720 I say, you're a paper man. Yeah, I have know. 0:20:29.880 --> 0:20:33.159 The point is that, um, I'm a man, you know. 0:20:34.240 --> 0:20:37.000 And then I have a desire for any for a woman. 0:20:37.440 --> 0:20:42.280 But I don't pay too much attention two women because 0:20:43.280 --> 0:20:45.879 I just, you know, time, I think my career is 0:20:45.920 --> 0:20:49.680 more important. If you want me and you think maybe 0:20:50.280 --> 0:20:53.639 you love me, please help me, you know, supporting me 0:20:53.720 --> 0:20:57.480 to push my career over, so I I don't Usulypi 0:20:57.560 --> 0:21:00.680 and then all these than off love. You know, I 0:21:00.800 --> 0:21:03.240 choose one lady, and I did that lady, and I'm okay. 0:21:03.359 --> 0:21:05.399 I don't have to go to this room and go 0:21:05.480 --> 0:21:07.840 to know. I don't do that. Honestly. Do you see 0:21:07.920 --> 0:21:10.359 other people the other couples and nanny day fiance, Like 0:21:10.400 --> 0:21:13.480 do you want a big ad? Yeah? Who's your favorite couple? 0:21:14.440 --> 0:21:19.440 My favorite is this this season? Yeah? Other than yourself? Yeah, 0:21:19.480 --> 0:21:22.280 they're all doing good. You know, I love all of them. Honestly, 0:21:22.320 --> 0:21:25.440 who's your favorite? I don't really I don't really have 0:21:25.600 --> 0:21:28.280 one particular couple, but I feel like this at the beast, 0:21:28.640 --> 0:21:32.320 they're all doing good, and I love all of them. Erica, 0:21:33.080 --> 0:21:37.639