1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,280 Speaker 1: I ignored my dates twelve red flags, and now I'm 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:05,520 Speaker 1: paying for it. This is okay Op, the home of 3 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 1: the craziest stories on Earth. I'm Sam and John. What 4 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 1: is your red flag? 5 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 2: By red flag is that? I do not believe in 6 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 2: red flags. 7 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 1: Bro, It's a walking red flag right there does not exist. 8 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:19,639 Speaker 2: I'm not holding anything you're I read your sweater and 9 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 2: I read nothing. 10 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:21,880 Speaker 1: He's color blind. 11 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 3: I'm flag blind. He doesn't see flag colors. Where is 12 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 3: this where? No? Wow, I'm so progressive. True. 13 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:30,319 Speaker 1: The audience says my red flag is that I'm a 14 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 1: fuck boy. 15 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:34,279 Speaker 3: So they said that about you. Oh my god? 16 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 4: What is John's red flag? 17 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 3: Yeah? 18 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, Actually comment below? What is my red flag? I'm 19 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 2: very curious to know. 20 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:42,520 Speaker 1: Let's get into this story. So this actually comes from 21 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: our beautiful Okop family, Green flak, flat flag. Thought i'd 22 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 1: switch it up a bit from an am id a 23 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 1: whole post. 24 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 3: To a date from hell. 25 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 1: Oh god, this is a long story, but a lot 26 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 1: happened on this day. 27 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 3: Oh. 28 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 1: This is back in twenty nineteen, six months after I 29 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 1: three female now nineteen female, then got my heart broken 30 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 1: for the very first time. Nothing like the first love heartbreak, 31 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 1: you know, I never was fond of love. When I 32 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:12,040 Speaker 1: actually experienced it, I was devastated when I lost it. 33 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 1: Took a while to get back on my feet, but 34 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:16,480 Speaker 1: when I did, I was immediately reminded. 35 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 3: Of why dating sucks. Yeah. 36 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:21,319 Speaker 1: When I hit the six month mark for my breakup, 37 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:23,679 Speaker 1: one of my friends suggested I go on Tinder slash 38 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: dating apps to get my mind off my ex. Rebounding 39 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: not the best solution, but led me to greater things. 40 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: So I created a profile and immediately got matches. 41 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:33,839 Speaker 3: All right, Opie, we get. 42 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: It, You're hot right Back then, I was heavily into 43 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:39,839 Speaker 1: memes and bonded with one dude let's call him Villain 44 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 1: twenty one male. We would send our meme collection and 45 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 1: make a lot of jokes laughing again. Felt nice. Not 46 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 1: long after connecting, I agreed to go on a date 47 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: with him. 48 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 3: Is Dylan's real name Riley? Oh? 49 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 1: Big Protein? 50 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 3: Timeline is kind of matching up. 51 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 1: Although I think Riley mainly mains like Hinge, I don't 52 00:01:57,640 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 1: think he's much of a Tinder guy. 53 00:01:58,800 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 3: Hey, is that true, Riley? 54 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 4: I'm not. I got scared of tender. That's an okay 55 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 4: story time? 56 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 3: Right? Oh? Why Riley Town? 57 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 1: Why Riley Is Afraid of Tinder is a great, great 58 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 1: story title. 59 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 3: Somebody blow now. 60 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 1: I want to clarify this guy was super nice and 61 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: a good person. The odds were just not in his 62 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: favor on how successful the date was, considering all the 63 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 1: signs pointed to it not working out. It started with 64 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: him picking me up. It was raining super hard that day, 65 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 1: so I waited at my apartment window to see when 66 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 1: he arrived. He texted me he was there, but I 67 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 1: didn't see any new cars pull up. I went outside 68 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:33,920 Speaker 1: on my balcony to get a lay of the land 69 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 1: slash parking lot, and I spotted a jeep Cherokee that 70 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 1: matched his description across a lot two buildings down. I 71 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 1: texted him, explaining he was at the wrong building. He 72 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: seemed confused on where to go, so I told him 73 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: to stay put and I would walk over there. Unfortunately, 74 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:48,960 Speaker 1: my sister took the only umbrella we had in the 75 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 1: apartment for work. My umbrella was in my car that 76 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 1: my sister also took to work, so I was forced 77 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 1: to free ball it in the rain. It wouldn't have 78 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: been that bad if it weren't for Zeus bringing the 79 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 1: full wrath down on us. Oh my god, redish flag 80 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: for maybe him, not like going up to the door or. 81 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 2: Like like like I would have been like, no, just 82 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 2: we're gonna work this out, give me instructions. 83 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:12,799 Speaker 3: I'm pulling up your door, so you in the rain. 84 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 1: For sure, or I would say tiny red flag. I 85 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:18,240 Speaker 1: walked over twist car couldn't run due to kneecap issues, 86 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 1: and by the time I got in, my makeup was 87 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 1: heavily smeared. Oh that's rough, that's aw. You probably spent 88 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: time on that too. Yeah, yeah, that's rough. 89 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 3: It's so funny, Riley. 90 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:29,359 Speaker 4: It's just like comment was funny? 91 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 3: What why? Just a great podcast? 92 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 4: I just forgot women put like take time to put 93 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 4: makeup on? 94 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 1: How long do you take to get ready for a 95 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 1: first date? I'm curious what because like for me, it's 96 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 1: just like put on a T shirt? 97 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 3: Wow, wow, Dave, I go through a routine. 98 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 2: Sam will not spend more than five minutes getting ready 99 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 2: for his day. 100 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 1: Why his red flag of being a fuck boy is confirmed? 101 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 4: Saw like thirty minutes. Thirty minutes, Yeah, to get my 102 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 4: head's face right and. 103 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 1: Like getting Riley's meditating. I will find my wife, I 104 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 1: will find my one. We did our greetings, and I 105 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 1: apologize for the confusion. Not sure why. Then as he 106 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: backed out, I started fixing my makeup. This is red 107 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: flag number one. As we drove, I started to look 108 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 1: around the vehicle. Some trash here and there, but not 109 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 1: too bad. There was rust on the car floor with 110 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 1: a small hole. 111 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 3: It's a little rough. I was a little. 112 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:21,159 Speaker 1: Anxious about the fact that I could see. 113 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:24,839 Speaker 3: The road underneath. That's a little tough. Get confirmed, confirmed, 114 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 3: that's a little. 115 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 1: I'm not going to car shame anyone for sure. You're right, 116 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 1: You're right, that has to be some kind of safety 117 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 1: hazard to. 118 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:36,119 Speaker 2: See the floor. Yeah, yeah, totally. But honestly, your comment 119 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 2: is right. 120 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 3: Maybe it's rating. There's water coming through that hole. Yeah, 121 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 3: least get a cork or something to plug it up. 122 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:45,160 Speaker 2: He doesn't deserve to be clowned on because like, hey, 123 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:46,160 Speaker 2: maybe he's like on the grind. 124 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 3: This is the car I have. 125 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 2: But if I were him, I would maybe because also 126 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 2: sometimes the girl's comfortable driving herself. There would have been like, 127 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 2: oh you want to meet at this like midway point. 128 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, she doesn't have a car, though. It is a 129 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:58,280 Speaker 1: nice move of him coming to her house. 130 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 4: Yes, you know you met beforehand, but first time meeting strangers, 131 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:03,720 Speaker 4: I'm always about like meeting at the place. I always offer, 132 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:05,599 Speaker 4: but if they decline, I'm like green flag. 133 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, agreed. 134 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:08,720 Speaker 1: I used to be on the side of the road 135 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 1: so much that I get anxiety anytime I'm in sketchy vehicles. 136 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 3: Why are you on the side of the road all 137 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 3: the time? 138 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 4: She doesn't have a car. 139 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 1: I guess waiting for buses. As I was observing this, 140 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:21,799 Speaker 1: a loud squeaking sound came from the dash. He laughed 141 00:05:21,800 --> 00:05:26,479 Speaker 1: and said, sorry, she likes to squeal, then proceeded to 142 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 1: bang on the dash until the sound stopped. 143 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 2: I'm sorry both at the same time, because that's hilarious. 144 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, like when all that's happening, I guess 145 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 1: you just have to make some funny this encounter. It 146 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 1: made me anxious in his car, and eventually from the date, 147 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 1: picking up the fact that he said she reminded me 148 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 1: of an ex naming his vehicle, he would also refer 149 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:50,720 Speaker 1: to the car at him. 150 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:52,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, this is my baby, maked. 151 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:55,560 Speaker 1: Oh god, I know that there is someone in this 152 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 1: room that also has a female name for his car. 153 00:05:58,040 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 3: Oh. 154 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:01,839 Speaker 4: I name all of my vehicles women because I would 155 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 4: never be inside of a man. 156 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 2: You never know until you try. Baby, Is that a 157 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:10,720 Speaker 2: red flag for Riley? Your answer to the comments what's 158 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 2: her name? 159 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:11,599 Speaker 3: Riley? 160 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:15,479 Speaker 1: My smile dropped a little. Did this guy know that? 161 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 1: Two weeks prior, I just kicked out my ex friend 162 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 1: Megan for tons of drama. It was an ugly fallout 163 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 1: from friends to roommates to strangers. Signed three. I didn't 164 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 1: tell Dylan this, and said, I complimented the name and 165 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: changed the subject. I mean, like, that's not a red flag. No, 166 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 1: because it's not the same person. It's not the same person, 167 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 1: it's just the name. But it could be a message 168 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:36,359 Speaker 1: from the universe. 169 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. Good. 170 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 1: This whole time, he was driving two towns over for date, 171 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 1: a forty minute drive. This town is where I actually worked, 172 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:45,840 Speaker 1: but it's also where my ex lived. I asked him 173 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:47,840 Speaker 1: where we were going. He responded with a name of 174 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 1: my favorite Chinese buffets. It's new I like Chinese food, 175 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 1: which I think is a green flag. 176 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 3: There you go, There you go. 177 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 1: I was excited at first, but then I remembered my 178 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 1: ex and I went there almost every weekend when I 179 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:02,720 Speaker 1: would stay nights with him. So many memories came rushing 180 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 1: back of us laughing in the booths and getting our 181 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: grub on. I still kept up conversation, but deep down 182 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 1: I was questioning if I was actually ready to move on. 183 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 3: Oh pee, that's not his faults. 184 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 1: But she's not saying it's his fault. She's just saying, oh, 185 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 1: maybe I'm not ready to be. 186 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 3: Dating signed number four. H got you? Got you? We 187 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 3: told up. 188 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 1: He decided to park in the very back, so it 189 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 1: was a walk to the front. I was a little 190 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 1: disappointed since there were closer spots. Like I mentioned earlier, 191 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: my kneecap issues nontheless, I sucked it up and we 192 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 1: made our way to the door. He saw I was 193 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: stretching my back as we walked and thought it was 194 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 1: a good time to do the same. The dude started 195 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: twisting his arms slashed torso super fast, resulting in him 196 00:07:37,960 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 1: accidentally clipping my head. 197 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 3: Oh god. 198 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 1: He apologized immediately, asking if I was okay. I laughed 199 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 1: it off and told him I was fine, even though 200 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 1: I could feel a bump already forming. Oh no, oh god, 201 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 1: this is just not going well. 202 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:55,600 Speaker 2: I think bro is just like he's just one of 203 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 2: those guys that just it's not working. 204 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 1: He's not religious, it's just it's just, you know, one 205 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 1: of those days, one of those everybody has those days. 206 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 3: Everybody makes mistakes. 207 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 1: As we entered the restaurant, he went up to the 208 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 1: booth and yelled how much for two? I stood there, 209 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 1: bears because everyone looked at us. I just like being 210 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 1: the center of attention, especially from a crowd. This will 211 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: come into plate later. Hostas stared at him in confusion, 212 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 1: that proceeded to explain the menu. We then got escorted 213 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:22,679 Speaker 1: to our booth, which of course was the same booth 214 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 1: my ex and I sat for our first date. 215 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 3: Oh god, oh. 216 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 1: Man, I feel like the cards are stacked against this guy. 217 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 1: We're already seventyep, like sixty, but yeah, sixty, but the 218 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:34,600 Speaker 1: real number. 219 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, here's the real number. Guys. 220 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:40,440 Speaker 1: For context, whenever I asked you questions, John immediately ignores 221 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 1: that question and said, but the real question is true, okop. 222 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 2: Fans, and then proceeded to do it like ten more 223 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 2: times after they pointed out I was doing that. 224 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 1: Once we got the drinks ordered, we made our way 225 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 1: to the buffet area. I grabbed my plate and immediately 226 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 1: made my way to my favorite dish, Coconut Trimp, which 227 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 1: is the way they made it here was a little 228 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 1: bit different, had more sauce than the shavings, and it 229 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 1: was delicious. I started to pile it on my plate. 230 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 1: I don't typically eat out often, so when I do, 231 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 1: I make it worth it, knowing I'll pay for it 232 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 1: in the gym. Later, Dylan walked over to me, saying, wow, 233 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 1: that's a lot of shrimp fly with a big smile. 234 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's my favorite. Do you want some? 235 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 3: Him? No, thank you. 236 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 1: I'm allergic to shellfish, which I feel like that's foreshadowing. Yeah. 237 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:26,560 Speaker 1: I look at him confused in my mind was racing? 238 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:29,319 Speaker 1: Isn't coming to a Chinese buffet a bad decision? Then 239 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:32,319 Speaker 1: granted he was being thoughtful, but doesn't sound very safe, 240 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 1: and then proceeded, you know how bad was his allergy? 241 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 3: He stated? Very deadly? 242 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, which is a weird way to say, like, oh, yeah, 243 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 1: like how about your allergy? 244 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 3: Deadly? 245 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 1: Not like, oh it's pretty bad, yeah, deadly? 246 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:46,440 Speaker 3: It will kill me if it is. Yeah, I guess 247 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 3: good to know. 248 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 1: I look back at my plate, making note of everything 249 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 1: in that restaurant that was considered shellfish. I knew if 250 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:56,600 Speaker 1: I wanted some action, I couldn't have shellfish on my lips. Yeah, 251 00:09:56,640 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 1: I don't know how it fully works. Even if we 252 00:09:58,480 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 1: didn't go there, I didn't want to act accidentally touch 253 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 1: him with shellfish residue, so I sadly scooped out the shrimp, 254 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 1: put my plate in the dirty bin, and got a 255 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 1: new one. I only got non shellfish items on my 256 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 1: new plate and missed out on my favorite shrimp sign 257 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 1: number seven. Ooh, big yikes, lots of signs. It's just 258 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:20,559 Speaker 1: not going well. It's just, you know, for no fault 259 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:22,439 Speaker 1: of either of them, it's just not they're not. 260 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 3: Giving No, it's not going out. It's not working. 261 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:27,719 Speaker 1: When we finally sat down to eat, conversation was going 262 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 1: fine at first. I didn't notice that he had a 263 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 1: tabit of talking very loud, where I kept my voice 264 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:35,360 Speaker 1: consistently mellow and low for the restaurants setting. As we talked, 265 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 1: families of five or six were being seated around us, 266 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 1: with kids ranging five to thirteen. I usually cursed like 267 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 1: a sailor, but with kids around, tried to hold it 268 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:46,080 Speaker 1: back since it disliked public scenes. I let one slip 269 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 1: and then apologize, stating in the sailor comment he said 270 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 1: it was fine, and he curses a lot too sometimes, 271 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 1: and he started very loudly saying every curse word in 272 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:56,679 Speaker 1: the book. I look over at the families and they 273 00:10:56,679 --> 00:10:59,560 Speaker 1: were all staring at us, like bad tact with man's 274 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 1: heart as the right place he's trying. He's like, Oh, 275 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 1: don't worry, he. 276 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 3: Just doesn't get it. It's unfortunate. 277 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:09,079 Speaker 1: I feel like he's just like a little socially awkward. 278 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:10,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know. 279 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 1: The parents looked at us with annoyed looks. I put 280 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:14,840 Speaker 1: my head down, laughing it off, and got back to eating. 281 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:18,560 Speaker 1: Sign number eight. We finished our meal, got the ticket, 282 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 1: then made her way to pay. As we were walking 283 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 1: back to the front counter, he moaned, my back, my neck, 284 00:11:27,640 --> 00:11:31,959 Speaker 1: my back started to do the arm dorso twists. 285 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 3: I immediately stepped back. 286 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 1: Unfortunately, a waitress was walking by with drinks and she 287 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 1: had to duck out of the way to ensure he 288 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:42,559 Speaker 1: didn't smack the tray. Even with her daring escape, two 289 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:45,440 Speaker 1: drinks did spell oh. She glared at us as I 290 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 1: walked behind him and mouthed sorry to her. 291 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 3: Yikes. 292 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 1: At this point I decided dating probably wasn't the best 293 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 1: choice for me. However, I was still considering doing the 294 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 1: deed with him. What as shallow as it sounds, I'm 295 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:02,080 Speaker 1: six foot dang Ophie Paul and he was six y three. 296 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 1: This is rare for me to find taller guys, and 297 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 1: I don't discriminate against shortcakes, but as a tall girl, 298 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 1: sometimes it's nice not always being the tall one, especially 299 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:13,719 Speaker 1: back then. I never had been with a tall guy. 300 00:12:13,800 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 1: So we pay a hop in his car and I 301 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 1: ask what's next. He told me he bought a scary 302 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:20,960 Speaker 1: movie for us to watch it his apartment. Since I 303 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:26,960 Speaker 1: like scary movies like good Typically I wouldn't have went, 304 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 1: but it fell in line. 305 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 3: With the end and goal. 306 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 1: His apartment was about ten minutes away. When we arrived, 307 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 1: I was amazed how nice the apartment was, like high 308 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 1: quality designer apartment, ten times nicer than mine. It had 309 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:40,960 Speaker 1: a warm, cozy vibe. There was so much decoration to 310 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:43,439 Speaker 1: look at, and even have a beaded curtain going into 311 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:46,560 Speaker 1: laundry room to create a door complete one eighty from 312 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: his car. 313 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 2: So why does he have a car with a hole 314 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 2: in it and like a luxury apartment. 315 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 3: I know, I know that's a little weird. 316 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 1: I would rather have a nice house than a nice 317 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 1: car you have right, Like I mean, I didn't have 318 00:12:57,360 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 1: a car until like a year ago. I told him 319 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:02,680 Speaker 1: I loved apartment and he responded, thanks, my brother decorated it. 320 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:05,640 Speaker 1: Then proceeded to point out to where his brother's room was. Ah, 321 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 1: was all I could say. Then he escorted me to 322 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 1: his room, which was straight ahead from the entry door. 323 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:13,680 Speaker 1: His room was nothing like the department. It was a 324 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 1: clutter with large furniture, shelf, bed, full sized couch across 325 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 1: from the room from the bed, big dresser with the 326 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 1: TV on it. This made the room feel smaller and 327 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:23,960 Speaker 1: didn't help. It was a little messy with clothes and trash. 328 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:26,320 Speaker 1: This was a sign of me because of past experiences 329 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 1: with my mother. She was a hoarder and we also 330 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:31,959 Speaker 1: had messy homes growing up, so cluttered spaces aren't ideal. 331 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:34,319 Speaker 1: We sit down on the couch, him to my left, 332 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:37,319 Speaker 1: and get the movie started. The movie was The Nut, 333 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:39,680 Speaker 1: which I had already seen but didn't say anything due 334 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: to not expecting to watch it anyways. 335 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 3: Nice Sophie. 336 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 4: Wait, wait, boy, you guys don't watch scare movis? 337 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:44,959 Speaker 2: Do not? 338 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 3: Really? No neither. 339 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:48,440 Speaker 4: If you do like scay movies, how do you like 340 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 4: make like, aren't you scared Something's gonna happen? And you're like, 341 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:54,240 Speaker 4: whatever you're doing, you get scared, and like people jerk 342 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:56,839 Speaker 4: when they get oh interesting, I've never considered that. 343 00:13:56,920 --> 00:13:57,040 Speaker 3: Well. 344 00:13:57,040 --> 00:14:00,320 Speaker 1: I feel like like screaming in the movies is similar 345 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:02,360 Speaker 1: to screaming and coitas perfect camouflage. 346 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, especially if you have roommates living with brother hearing that, 347 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 3: Oh my god, Auto part. 348 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 1: Puts his now shoeless feet on the bed across from 349 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:18,560 Speaker 1: us to lay back. When he does this, I noticed 350 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 1: his socks were the white and gray socks with a 351 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:24,000 Speaker 1: hole in each big toe. There we go, hey man's 352 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 1: matching his car. Yeah, I dislike feet, But the main 353 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 1: problem was the fact my ex stepdad used to have 354 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:31,760 Speaker 1: socks like that all the time, with the holes in them. 355 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 1: My stepdad was very mean to my family, so seeing 356 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 1: those socks just made me frown. I mean again, oor god, 357 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 1: you know, I feel like he's getting like like. 358 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 2: This reminded me of guilty my association. That's what's happening here. 359 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 1: But to be fair, like, if I'm going on a date, 360 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: I'm wearing socks that holes. Yes, yeah, one, come on, 361 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:55,600 Speaker 1: I remind myself that He's cute and tall and refocused 362 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 1: on the TV. 363 00:14:56,200 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 3: There we Go. 364 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 1: He had his arm around me as I lean into 365 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 1: the couch slash him. I waited for him to make 366 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 1: a move, but he never did. I actually have an 367 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 1: okay story time about this. 368 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 3: Yeh we go. 369 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 1: We made it through the entire movie without a single move. 370 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 1: I thought to myself, maybe he was just being respectful 371 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 1: tonight interrupt it. Yes, if I wanted to watch another? 372 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 1: I told him yes, thinking this one is the one. 373 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 1: Stuff well and nope. I pushed up my chest giving 374 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 1: him a view. My God, where we go to VI 375 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:27,760 Speaker 1: He and even had my hand on his leg close 376 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 1: to the goods. Still made it through the whole movie 377 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 1: without anything happening. After the second movie, he asked if 378 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 1: I wanted to watch another. I respond with a sure, 379 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 1: thinking I'll just make the move. Fifteen minutes into the movie, 380 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:41,200 Speaker 1: I sparked up a conversation then kissed him. The kiss 381 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 1: was interesting. I had my mouth closed, only doing lips. 382 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 1: This dude was kind of eating my lips with how 383 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 1: wide his mouth was opening. As we pull back, I 384 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 1: noticed he is smiling ear to ear. 385 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:51,800 Speaker 3: I asked what. 386 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:53,920 Speaker 1: He then told me I've never done that before. At 387 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:56,480 Speaker 1: this point, all the puzzle pieces started falling into place. 388 00:15:56,600 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 1: I was thinking of what to do next because I 389 00:15:58,240 --> 00:16:01,120 Speaker 1: didn't want to be the guy's first time, especially since 390 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 1: I knew I wasn't going. 391 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:02,520 Speaker 3: To date him. 392 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 1: Plusk risk of pregnancy went up. Yes, we were going 393 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:07,720 Speaker 1: to use protection, but I still didn't want to risk it. 394 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 3: But as you mean conversation. 395 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 1: I texted my sister to call me that she locked 396 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 1: herself out of the apartment and needed to come home. 397 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:14,960 Speaker 1: Ten minutes later, she called with her story of locking 398 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 1: her keys in her car and the spare is locked 399 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 1: in the apartment. 400 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 3: Do you girls do that? Yeah, it's like the classic thing. Dude, 401 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 3: you didn't know that. 402 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 4: I have a migraine right before the date and. 403 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 2: Like and correct me if I'm listen nine, watch and 404 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 2: correct me if I'm wrong. At times, you'll have like 405 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 2: the on call friend that's like, yo, if I need 406 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:34,640 Speaker 2: to get out, there's the thing, or they're just in 407 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 2: general like they maybe if they don't set it up 408 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:38,040 Speaker 2: in advance, but they're like, you're you know what that 409 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:38,680 Speaker 2: is the case. 410 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 3: I like a good challenge. What do you mean you 411 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 3: could collaborate. 412 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 4: Every date that I've been on there's been an on 413 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 4: call friend. They have never been. 414 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 3: Called oh yeah, you're you're saying like you like. 415 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:49,680 Speaker 1: No ever had a call on a date where it's like, oh, 416 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 1: I got to leave. 417 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:51,000 Speaker 3: They never escaped. 418 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I had the phone turned up so he could hear. 419 00:16:58,320 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 1: He then asked if we needed to go. What sucked 420 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 1: is we had a forty minute drive all the way 421 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 1: back to my apartment. This is why you drive your 422 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:05,639 Speaker 1: own vehicle. 423 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:05,880 Speaker 3: Oh. 424 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:08,560 Speaker 1: I was already anxious in this car. However, what made 425 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:11,639 Speaker 1: the drive hell was the playlist he jose, Oh no, 426 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 1: he was playing the Mary Poppin's musical playlist for the 427 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:17,920 Speaker 1: musical that just came out. But he also didn't know 428 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:20,040 Speaker 1: about me. Is I dislike musicals? 429 00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 3: Oh no. 430 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 1: The only one I can stand is Rock of Ages 431 00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:25,119 Speaker 1: with Tom Cruise. So the whole way back I just 432 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:28,160 Speaker 1: was sitting there as the guy was jamming to musical music. 433 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:30,560 Speaker 1: By the time we get to my apartment, I'm starting 434 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:32,720 Speaker 1: to get a headache from its high pitch singing. He 435 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:35,119 Speaker 1: turned off the radio, looked at me, and then immediately 436 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:37,399 Speaker 1: went to kiss me or should I say eat my mouth? 437 00:17:37,600 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 3: Yeah? 438 00:17:38,040 --> 00:17:39,960 Speaker 1: I leaned back and asked him to stop doing the 439 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 1: mouth motion he was doing. He did, and I told 440 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 1: him that was better. I thanked him for the evening, 441 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:46,159 Speaker 1: got out and waved him off. I talked to him 442 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 1: a couple of days after that. I'm sure of how 443 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 1: to break it off. Then eventually told him I didn't 444 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 1: think I was over my ex and wasn't ready for 445 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:53,679 Speaker 1: anything serious, which I think is true. 446 00:17:53,480 --> 00:17:56,160 Speaker 3: Totally fair. She doesn't know him anything. Yeah, I think 447 00:17:56,320 --> 00:17:56,720 Speaker 3: that's fine. 448 00:17:56,840 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 1: We understood. Then we went separate ways. After going through 449 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:02,200 Speaker 1: that date, I conclude dating's overrated. I still kept the 450 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 1: apps forever for my hoe phase I had. I know 451 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:06,320 Speaker 1: people look down on that kind of stuff, but during 452 00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:09,920 Speaker 1: that time I was actually living, going to parties, having adventures. 453 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:12,440 Speaker 1: It healed me in its own way. Then the next 454 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:14,679 Speaker 1: year after I met my now boyfriend and we have 455 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:15,760 Speaker 1: been together ever since. 456 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 3: Hey, there we go. 457 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:18,639 Speaker 1: Also to clarify. I know some of the things I 458 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:20,879 Speaker 1: judged Dylan on were maybe harsh. The reason the heartbreak 459 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:23,680 Speaker 1: didn't help. Unfortunately for Dylan, he just kept bringing back 460 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:26,119 Speaker 1: places I want to be. I do hope he's doing okay. 461 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:28,440 Speaker 1: I also hope you guys enjoyed the story. Would love 462 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 1: outside input slash thoughts on this interesting dates? 463 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:36,919 Speaker 3: Wooo, we have some interesting days, do we do? So? 464 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:39,720 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess, what do you think of how 465 00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:42,679 Speaker 1: she told Dylan, like I don't want to go on 466 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:43,200 Speaker 1: another day? 467 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:44,399 Speaker 3: Perfectly acceptable. 468 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 2: She she doesn't owe him anythings, she doesn't have to 469 00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:47,359 Speaker 2: be his friend. 470 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:50,080 Speaker 1: And she was also honest too, Like I think it 471 00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:52,399 Speaker 1: was obvious from a lot of the story that she 472 00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 1: wasn't completely overreased. 473 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:54,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, great point. 474 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's I think she handled it very well, very well, 475 00:18:57,600 --> 00:18:58,280 Speaker 2: super solid. 476 00:18:58,320 --> 00:18:59,280 Speaker 3: I agree, I agree. 477 00:18:59,320 --> 00:19:01,159 Speaker 1: And it's just like it's not necessarily I don't think 478 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:03,879 Speaker 1: Dylan's a bad guy or anything poor, just you know, 479 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:05,360 Speaker 1: it's just what he was a givant. 480 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:07,760 Speaker 2: He's just a bit of a hapless, a little bit 481 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 2: of a happless klutz. 482 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:11,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, and you know he means I feel I feel 483 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:12,280 Speaker 3: bad for him. Man. 484 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:17,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's out here trying, yeah, stretching his back, stretching 485 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:20,679 Speaker 2: his back, elbowing anyone. I mean, actually, if you think 486 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:22,960 Speaker 2: about it, if he's six three, think about his wingspan, 487 00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:25,680 Speaker 2: he's a helicopter, just. 488 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:29,119 Speaker 1: Like it's probably big, he's big six thor he's big. 489 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 3: Exact all of us, big boy. 490 00:19:31,880 --> 00:19:35,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, but Riley you have an okay story talk gosh, 491 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:35,920 Speaker 1: here we go. 492 00:19:36,600 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 3: I'm excited for this one. Okay, So have I told 493 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 3: you about the time went on a tender date. I 494 00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 3: don't think so. 495 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:42,400 Speaker 4: This is back in Tennessee. 496 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:44,280 Speaker 3: I don't think so. I don't think so. So I found 497 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:44,760 Speaker 3: this girl. 498 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:46,480 Speaker 4: I was like into redheads forbids. 499 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:46,879 Speaker 3: Still am. 500 00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:49,439 Speaker 2: I love all women redheads who love Riley come up 501 00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:52,880 Speaker 2: below continue Riley had his eye on this redhead at 502 00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:53,840 Speaker 2: our party recently. 503 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 3: Oh oh my gosh. 504 00:19:56,880 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, she was taking anyways. But I found 505 00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:02,879 Speaker 4: this read it online. I was like, oh, I texted 506 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 4: my brother's screenshop. I was like, dude, I need to 507 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:06,360 Speaker 4: find her, like blah blah blah blah blah. And then 508 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:08,199 Speaker 4: I saw her tender and I was like, dude, I 509 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:10,280 Speaker 4: found her. I swiped on her, she swiped back. I 510 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:12,919 Speaker 4: was like just interested because she had red hair. I 511 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:15,200 Speaker 4: was gonna take her to my local coffee shop. And 512 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:17,280 Speaker 4: it was like an hour late, like didn't show up 513 00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:19,840 Speaker 4: thirty minutes and then she was like another and it closed, 514 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:21,800 Speaker 4: and I know when she ble at the coffee shop 515 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 4: and I was like, hey, can I get two coffees? 516 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:26,359 Speaker 4: And her name is Molly I could say. Molly was like, 517 00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:28,400 Speaker 4: what do you want? And I was like, I'll take 518 00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:31,480 Speaker 4: a cafe or an ice latte. And then I looked 519 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 4: down and I saw what she wanted, and she wanted 520 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:36,720 Speaker 4: a frat puccino. I was like, no, because they hate 521 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 4: making frappuccinos and frat puccinos are not a coffee. I'm sorry, yeah, 522 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 4: you're not a coffee. I'm a coffee drinker. I don't 523 00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:46,120 Speaker 4: know what that puts me out there, but. 524 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:49,359 Speaker 2: I think we need to spark a serious debate in 525 00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:53,280 Speaker 2: with everyone wanting a coffee, give it coffee. 526 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:55,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, if it has coffee and it's a coffee. 527 00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 4: Anyway, she asked for that. That was red flag number one 528 00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:00,200 Speaker 4: of my heads. She was like, you can in my 529 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:02,520 Speaker 4: apartment and I was like, all right. She goes to 530 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:05,439 Speaker 4: uh the local school I was at, and I go 531 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 4: to an apartment. I knock on the door, open it up. 532 00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 4: It's both of her roommates, not even her, it's both 533 00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:10,560 Speaker 4: of her roommates there. 534 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:11,120 Speaker 3: And I'm like all right. 535 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 4: She's like, hey, blah blah blah's getting ready. She'll be 536 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:16,959 Speaker 4: ready soon. And so I sit awkwardly in the living 537 00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 4: room with both of her roommates, trying to like make conversations. 538 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:22,360 Speaker 1: So good at conversations. 539 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, I did great. I did great. 540 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:27,440 Speaker 4: It was like, was this before Mollie, I don't know. Anyways, 541 00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:29,840 Speaker 4: it was just like weird and I went there, I 542 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:31,959 Speaker 4: sat down and I was talking to him, and then 543 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 4: she was ready and she looked nothing, nothing like her 544 00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:35,200 Speaker 4: tender profile. 545 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:35,960 Speaker 1: Did she have red hair? 546 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:37,879 Speaker 4: She did have red hair, but like the way she 547 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:39,440 Speaker 4: did her red hair. I was like, oh my god, 548 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:44,360 Speaker 4: this isn't right, diet. They don't judge me. It just 549 00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:46,600 Speaker 4: it just looked different from the pictures. And it was 550 00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:49,640 Speaker 4: like curly and like very fluffy and really red like. 551 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 1: Hermione, like like like Hermione in the books, like the chick. 552 00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:56,679 Speaker 4: From last night, like the chick from last night or 553 00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:57,399 Speaker 4: the night before. 554 00:21:57,480 --> 00:21:59,720 Speaker 3: I kind of read like Loki maybe died. Oh well, 555 00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:01,000 Speaker 3: yeah was a redhead. I don't know. 556 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:02,440 Speaker 4: I don't even think she was, like it, I don't 557 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 4: know what's real. 558 00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:08,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, what's really the question? We're in that? And like 559 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:10,320 Speaker 3: it just didn't she did not look at her profile. 560 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:12,680 Speaker 1: Wait, so you're saying dyed hair is a red flag 561 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:12,879 Speaker 1: for you? 562 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,159 Speaker 4: No, I do like red dyed hair. But I just 563 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:16,120 Speaker 4: don't know if it's real. 564 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:18,160 Speaker 3: You didn't you didn't know if first was real. 565 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,119 Speaker 4: Her hair, it wasn't a red red flag for me. 566 00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:22,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, a red hair, red flag. 567 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:24,160 Speaker 4: Yeah. 568 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:24,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. 569 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:26,280 Speaker 4: Then I go into her bedroom and she keeps to 570 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 4: like the door open, which is fine. But she has 571 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 4: like a bunny, like a small bunny, and you know what, great, 572 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,000 Speaker 4: great for her, And she did have like anxiety that 573 00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:34,919 Speaker 4: she was working through and like she was very like 574 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:36,920 Speaker 4: I was trying to like just play it cool. Yeah, 575 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:39,440 Speaker 4: try to be very calm, be like, oh that's really nice, 576 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 4: and like her bunny was around. But the red flag. 577 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 3: Wasn't the bunny. 578 00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:44,879 Speaker 4: How many toys and how many places the bunny had 579 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:46,560 Speaker 4: to sleep that was a red flag for me. Had 580 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:48,399 Speaker 4: like three places for the bunny to sleep, and like 581 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:50,480 Speaker 4: a bunch of like different toys and stuff like that. 582 00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:51,680 Speaker 3: And I was like like. 583 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:53,920 Speaker 4: To me, you have a pet, give it like one 584 00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:55,359 Speaker 4: spot and like a few toys. 585 00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:56,120 Speaker 3: You don't give it like. 586 00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 4: Spoil it, because if you spoil it. I had an 587 00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:00,600 Speaker 4: ex that like had a dog and the dog and 588 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:01,480 Speaker 4: they treated the dog. 589 00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:04,680 Speaker 3: Better than her, right, Yeah, mess up. So that's my mindset. 590 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,160 Speaker 1: I think the red flag is how much she loves 591 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:11,600 Speaker 1: this bunny, this anxious this anxious girl who's just looking 592 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 1: for connection. 593 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:16,240 Speaker 3: Sam's putting the Nazi today, Ladies and gentleman. 594 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:18,400 Speaker 4: Like, you can give the bunny things, but if you're 595 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:19,760 Speaker 4: just like consistent, so you were. 596 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 1: Jealous of the bunny, You're like, the bunny is getting 597 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 1: more attention than me. 598 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:27,159 Speaker 3: Places Oh yeah, yeah, I don't know. 599 00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:31,280 Speaker 4: This happened at like dang, I'm not even gonna how 600 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:34,560 Speaker 4: to talk about that. So this happened at like two 601 00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:38,679 Speaker 4: o'clock on a Friday, and yes, okay, And the only 602 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:41,160 Speaker 4: thing that was going to save me from this was John, 603 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:43,639 Speaker 4: because we had a meeting at four o'clock and it 604 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:46,320 Speaker 4: was currently three, and I just had to wait out 605 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 4: an hour and then I like, we just talked about 606 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 4: her bunny, soccer, she played soccer, all these different things, 607 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:54,760 Speaker 4: and then it was getting close to the time for 608 00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 4: the thing I knew. I could have been like, hey, John, 609 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 4: I got to push it back that I'm talking to chick, 610 00:23:57,880 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 4: you would understood. 611 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 3: But John's real one was a real one. I got 612 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:02,240 Speaker 3: you broke and I. 613 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 4: Was like, sorry, I cannot miss it, like I have 614 00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:06,000 Speaker 4: to go, And I was like but we can like 615 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:07,960 Speaker 4: hang out later or whatever. Those were lies I was 616 00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:11,080 Speaker 4: telling her, and then we got up, we let I left, 617 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:13,160 Speaker 4: and then I just talked to John through I don't 618 00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:14,680 Speaker 4: even think you remember, but like I was. 619 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,200 Speaker 3: Just be honest, I don't. 620 00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:18,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, I was just like, oh my gosh, would you 621 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,360 Speaker 4: save me from this? And then she hit me up 622 00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:22,440 Speaker 4: like like later that day, try to hang out, but 623 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:23,880 Speaker 4: I was like, I just was just awkward. 624 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:25,000 Speaker 3: I couldn't and it was so weird. 625 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:26,920 Speaker 4: So I don't think I'll ever go on another tender 626 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:28,000 Speaker 4: day because that was just a. 627 00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:31,120 Speaker 1: Whole It ruined the whole platform. And he'll never date 628 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:32,639 Speaker 1: a person who has a bunny ever. 629 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, just don't foil it like that. 630 00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:37,920 Speaker 2: I don't know you know what I'll give you, because 631 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 2: what you could have said, you could have like stretched 632 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:41,960 Speaker 2: the truth a little bit and been like, oh, the 633 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:45,280 Speaker 2: meeting's at three, so she was an hour late too, right, 634 00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 2: that's like hour late, you waited for an hour, you 635 00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,439 Speaker 2: drive over. I think you would have been totally okay 636 00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:51,960 Speaker 2: with me, like all right, let me, I'm gonna fudge 637 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:53,439 Speaker 2: numbers a little bit. I'm gonna say the meetings an 638 00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,000 Speaker 2: hour earlier and be like, hey, I have a meeting. 639 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:56,680 Speaker 2: Cap you don't understand I'm gonna get fire. 640 00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:57,719 Speaker 1: Yeah I did. 641 00:24:57,800 --> 00:24:59,520 Speaker 4: I was like, it's super important, we're doing this. 642 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:02,159 Speaker 3: And then but you did it, but you stayed. You 643 00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:03,720 Speaker 3: gave her the hour, which. 644 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:05,480 Speaker 4: I gave her the thing, And like sometimes whenever i'm 645 00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,639 Speaker 4: meet person, all I need is like ten seconds and 646 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:09,119 Speaker 4: then I'm like, I'm gonna go on the second day 647 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:10,920 Speaker 4: and sometimes and that's all I need. And the first 648 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:12,480 Speaker 4: and seconds I met her, I was like, yeah, this 649 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:13,200 Speaker 4: isn't gonna happen. 650 00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:14,200 Speaker 3: So that's funny. 651 00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:15,400 Speaker 4: Yeah that's my tender bang. 652 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 3: Why Riley will never tender again? Yeah, you got a 653 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:19,959 Speaker 3: story for us? 654 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, I have a little story for you guys. Actually 655 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:24,159 Speaker 1: it's more like I need kind of your advice. Oh 656 00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:28,040 Speaker 1: I'm very excited about Okay, So at our party the 657 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:33,000 Speaker 1: other day, there was this girl that was a friend. 658 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:36,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, I see we're going and can you. 659 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:39,679 Speaker 2: Give me one more non descriptive descriptor to help unlock 660 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:40,080 Speaker 2: it for me? 661 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:41,359 Speaker 4: She listen to the pod. 662 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:44,119 Speaker 1: No, okay, no, I know no one listens. 663 00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:44,560 Speaker 3: No, no way. 664 00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:47,800 Speaker 1: She's listening to every episode of the pot. Maybe there's 665 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 1: no way any of our direct friends listen to every 666 00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:52,480 Speaker 1: episode of the pod. Besides Riley, why do you think someone. 667 00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 4: Does she's called me and talk to me about it? 668 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,480 Speaker 3: Who the person? Plant girl, plant girl that wrote me 669 00:25:57,520 --> 00:25:57,880 Speaker 3: a letter? 670 00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 1: So I gotta like, okay, okay, Well, I don't think 671 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 1: anyone we know she would know that from that another 672 00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:07,560 Speaker 1: descriptor she was at the party right macket for me. 673 00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:10,440 Speaker 1: She was one of the last people that was staying there. 674 00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:11,760 Speaker 1: She sat next to me on the couch. 675 00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:12,879 Speaker 3: I like one of her friends. 676 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:16,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, yep, done, So like I'm I do, I'm just 677 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,840 Speaker 1: really not looking for I think I've gone on like 678 00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 1: a couple of date ish things and I'm just like 679 00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,879 Speaker 1: very much not looking for a relationship right now or 680 00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:26,760 Speaker 1: looking to hook up with anyone. I'm just I'm looking 681 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:28,160 Speaker 1: to be what. 682 00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 3: Are you looking for? Sam? 683 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:32,159 Speaker 1: Looking to be just focused on my friends and my 684 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,520 Speaker 1: friendships and okop right, just like you know, is he 685 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:37,880 Speaker 1: out of the f boy territory? Ladies, gentlemen, Well yeah, 686 00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:41,679 Speaker 1: I'm trying to turn out. And this girl that I 687 00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:44,880 Speaker 1: see as a friend was like kind of like while 688 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:46,879 Speaker 1: I was watching a movie and she was like tucking 689 00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:50,840 Speaker 1: a thumb in my waistband what who like not like 690 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:53,359 Speaker 1: not like all the way in, but like like feeling 691 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:56,760 Speaker 1: like like you will Sam so long, and and just 692 00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 1: being being a little touchy and like I was dancing 693 00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:01,640 Speaker 1: with my sister and swing dancing and then we dance, 694 00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:03,240 Speaker 1: and I think she was looking for like a little 695 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:06,160 Speaker 1: more action possibly right, And I think she's great. I'm 696 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:09,440 Speaker 1: just not, I'm just not I'm not interested in that way. 697 00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 1: So my question to you guys and to the audience 698 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:17,560 Speaker 1: is what point do you say explicitly like, hey, I 699 00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:21,720 Speaker 1: am not interested in a in anything but friendship with you. 700 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:23,280 Speaker 1: And do you even say that. 701 00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:24,520 Speaker 3: This is one for the ages? 702 00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:27,560 Speaker 2: This is a this is a big, big one. But okay, 703 00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:30,240 Speaker 2: I do think I have some some decent thoughts on it. 704 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:33,000 Speaker 1: And knowing Riley, you kind of saw what was happening 705 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:36,200 Speaker 1: at a party. Maybe John didn't see it as much, but. 706 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:41,879 Speaker 2: I've noticed I'm very unobservant, is what it is. But 707 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:44,760 Speaker 2: I think that you for now, I mean, you know. 708 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,520 Speaker 3: Thumb the Waves band, We're approaching that territory, but for. 709 00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:51,640 Speaker 2: Now, keep dropping the hints of friendship and if it ever, 710 00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,480 Speaker 2: it's a great line. And I never like pushed it away, 711 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,520 Speaker 2: but I didn't like reciprocate. I was just kind of 712 00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:59,280 Speaker 2: like staying like neutral, but it was like she was 713 00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:01,040 Speaker 2: like touching my legs and stuff, and like I was 714 00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:03,879 Speaker 2: just like, you know, I think if it goes any 715 00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,960 Speaker 2: further than that, but like I definitely think it's super. 716 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:09,639 Speaker 1: Unharm No, I wasn't. I wasn't uncomfortable, right, Like I'm not. 717 00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:12,160 Speaker 2: It's more so just like communicating you're not you don't 718 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,359 Speaker 2: want to I'm not. I'm to be clear, I'm not 719 00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:17,160 Speaker 2: uncomfortable at all. Yeah, but it's just like I don't 720 00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:20,040 Speaker 2: you know, there's a buy not saying that I'm not interested. 721 00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:22,119 Speaker 2: Like it's like am I leading things on? 722 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:23,880 Speaker 1: Because like we've hung out one on one, we got 723 00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:25,800 Speaker 1: ice cream together, but like I would get ice cream 724 00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:28,000 Speaker 1: with Riley And doesn't mean like I'm looking for him 725 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,760 Speaker 1: to like put his hand in my waistban you, Yeah. 726 00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,119 Speaker 3: I mean speak for yourself, bro, don't ever take me 727 00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:38,160 Speaker 3: to ice cream Riley when it gets some ice cream, buddy. 728 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:41,480 Speaker 2: But just keep keep dropping as heavy friend hints as 729 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:45,240 Speaker 2: you can until it Like right now, she's like she's entered. 730 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,040 Speaker 3: The gray zone, and once she kind. 731 00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,560 Speaker 2: Of crosses that threshold, right out of the gray zone, 732 00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:52,760 Speaker 2: like maybe like leans over or whatever, like maybe then 733 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:54,480 Speaker 2: saying something you could. 734 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 4: Do what they do on Parks and reg Ron whenever 735 00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:58,560 Speaker 4: someone's getting too chummy with them, he'll call them like 736 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:02,720 Speaker 4: put another name. You could be like, oh, thanks Sarah Tom. 737 00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 1: We now know that her name is not either Sarah 738 00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:06,600 Speaker 1: or Tom. 739 00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:11,960 Speaker 3: Wow. Way they use one of my axes? Yeah, for real, Sorry, 740 00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:15,240 Speaker 3: you have so many, it's kind of hard. We don't 741 00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:16,520 Speaker 3: got a lot of room over here. 742 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:21,520 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, we Josh, we could you 743 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:23,280 Speaker 2: had Riley in the hot seat, Turler. 744 00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 3: He's just returning fire. 745 00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 2: He's just returning fire. But that's that's what I'm thinking 746 00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:27,920 Speaker 2: for now. 747 00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 1: So you're saying, don't say there's no need to say 748 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:35,080 Speaker 1: anything now yet, like next like party where she kind of. 749 00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:37,040 Speaker 3: If yeah, if it gets there. You know. 750 00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:39,239 Speaker 1: It was also weird because we were like sitting with 751 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:41,440 Speaker 1: like other people on the couch too, so I didn't 752 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:43,040 Speaker 1: want to be like there wasn't really a conversation. 753 00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:45,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I think it is like and maybe 754 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:48,640 Speaker 2: I'm being too light on it, but I feel like 755 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:51,760 Speaker 2: unless it like really really gets like boils up to 756 00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:55,920 Speaker 2: a point, it's maybe not worth the you know. 757 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,480 Speaker 4: It's so hard being like friends with someone and letting 758 00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 4: them know that you're not interested in the and yet 759 00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 4: still be having them around. 760 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,520 Speaker 1: One of my friends had a girlfriend that was kind 761 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 1: of like becoming too interested in him, and he was like, 762 00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:09,640 Speaker 1: you know, I feel like like she's a little bit 763 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:11,600 Speaker 1: too interested with me. I think it's probably time that 764 00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 1: I have a talk with her. But they were to talk, 765 00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 1: and then he had a talk with her, was like, hey, 766 00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:17,840 Speaker 1: like I just want to be clear, like like we're friends. 767 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 2: So they weren't a girlfriend. Isn't like a friend that 768 00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:21,440 Speaker 2: was a girl not? 769 00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:23,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, a friend that was a girl was like 770 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:25,280 Speaker 1: being a little bit too. 771 00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:28,040 Speaker 2: When you said girlfriend, I thought like, oh, they're in 772 00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:30,840 Speaker 2: a relationship. They recognize each other's boyfriend girlfriend. He's like, 773 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:34,520 Speaker 2: you're just too interested in me, like a friend who 774 00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 2: was a friend. 775 00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:35,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. 776 00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:37,960 Speaker 4: Always tricky. How should we approach this, ladies? How would 777 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:38,560 Speaker 4: you want? Y? 778 00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:39,320 Speaker 3: Yeah? 779 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:42,360 Speaker 1: I would love to know from our audience, like what what? 780 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:42,600 Speaker 3: What? 781 00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:44,120 Speaker 1: What do you think is like the best way to 782 00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:46,800 Speaker 1: approach it? Is it to have like a conversation with 783 00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 1: her or is it to wait until I don't know 784 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:50,920 Speaker 1: a further moment. 785 00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:53,800 Speaker 3: Such a bum to drop so tricky. 786 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:55,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, because it makes it like I don't want to like, 787 00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:56,880 Speaker 1: you know, you know, it hurts the friendship. I don't 788 00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:58,280 Speaker 1: want to hurt the friend and like hurt her feelings 789 00:30:58,360 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 1: or anything. 790 00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:00,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh that is tough. 791 00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:01,800 Speaker 1: Help us out, ladies, Yeah, let us know. 792 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:02,320 Speaker 3: Let us know. 793 00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,480 Speaker 1: Riley, did you notice anything at the dude? 794 00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:07,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was low key getting some vibes like that. 795 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:12,000 Speaker 3: Did she have anything to drink? Probably a little bit, okay, 796 00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 3: because like I was talking to her and she she's 797 00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 3: giving me those eyes. She was giving you eyes right. 798 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:19,640 Speaker 2: Also, I don't know if you overheard this. So I 799 00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,280 Speaker 2: someone threw up in the toilet. I think I cleaned 800 00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:24,600 Speaker 2: it up a little bit yesterday. Yeah, it was just 801 00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:27,800 Speaker 2: a little thing on the on the the bdet like 802 00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,040 Speaker 2: I bet they like they like closed it not even 803 00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:33,440 Speaker 2: realizing that there was like a little little splosh there. 804 00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:35,560 Speaker 3: But I'm like yes, And then Christian was like, oh, yeah, 805 00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:36,480 Speaker 3: like I heard someone. 806 00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:39,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, okay, I have more context on this because 807 00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:41,760 Speaker 4: there was a lot of like things on the floor, 808 00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:45,920 Speaker 4: like beads, some pants material had the pants It was 809 00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 4: a female? 810 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:50,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, was it Megan? Oh way, she wasn't. No, she 811 00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:50,400 Speaker 3: went home. 812 00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:51,920 Speaker 4: We definitely went in there though. 813 00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:55,280 Speaker 2: There was another girl with glitter and like sequins in 814 00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:57,600 Speaker 2: her hair too, sequin pants and then sequin hair two 815 00:31:57,600 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 2: different people. 816 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:01,160 Speaker 1: No because she left her Girl one and doctor Elena 817 00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:03,560 Speaker 1: have like little thing like like they were bigger. 818 00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:08,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, we're giving y'all. This is this is some 819 00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:12,400 Speaker 2: okop personal t today. My goodness, we're going deep, you know. 820 00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:17,680 Speaker 3: Yea into this next story, right, let's do it. It's 821 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:18,640 Speaker 3: nice transition. 822 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:23,240 Speaker 1: Also, this comes from our beautiful Okay fam from personality 823 00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:27,280 Speaker 1: Patient fourteen. They submitted on our subreddit hour slash Okop Show. 824 00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:28,520 Speaker 1: So if you want to submit your story, go to 825 00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:30,640 Speaker 1: our slash o Kop show or callus at four four 826 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:32,680 Speaker 1: zero five or eight six five six seven. 827 00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:33,840 Speaker 3: Let's get into this. 828 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:35,760 Speaker 2: I met my boyfriend on a dating site and I 829 00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:37,840 Speaker 2: don't think things will ever be the same. 830 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:41,520 Speaker 3: What should I do? Sam? Everyone watching? What should hope 831 00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 3: you do? 832 00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:43,920 Speaker 1: I mean, don't have much contact to go on here? 833 00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:45,240 Speaker 3: Zero? Yeah zero. 834 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,800 Speaker 1: Sometimes dating app people can be a little sketchy. I 835 00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:52,280 Speaker 1: once heard a story of someone meeting an AX murder. 836 00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 1: I told you that, Oh my god, yeah, oh my gosh, 837 00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:56,360 Speaker 1: that was crazy. 838 00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:58,120 Speaker 3: It could be okay story. 839 00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:01,680 Speaker 4: That one's insane. Cramb gals would love it. 840 00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, that one's insane. 841 00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 2: Yes, honestly, dating site probably sit with no context, probably 842 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:08,400 Speaker 2: safe to go, like. 843 00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,320 Speaker 3: Leave right or something like what should I do? Believe? 844 00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:12,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, if it ends up negative, if if it's weird, 845 00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,280 Speaker 2: leave leave you leave earlier, then you should think. 846 00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:20,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, way earlier. 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