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Speaker 1: Second date, up date. Just doing this segment, we hear

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Speaker 1: from couples who meet in all sorts of strange new ways. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: for sure, but this one is going to be particularly

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Speaker 1: terrifying for one person in this room.

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Speaker 2: Always thinks he's the one that's going to be scared.

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Speaker 1: Jose's fears are right today because, apparently, according to this email,

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Speaker 1: they met while doing one of Jose's absolute worst fears,

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Speaker 1: physical exercise.

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Speaker 2: They're gonna say, like a roller coaster, Jose.

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Speaker 1: Let's try to keep the whimpers and begging from mommies

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Speaker 1: to a minimum. Here as we talked to a guy

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Speaker 1: named Vaughn about his first date. Vaughn, Welcome to Brook

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: How you doing doing good? How about you doing good?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean what is this? You met a girl

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Speaker 2: of the gym? Is that what he's getting.

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Speaker 4: To No, I participate in a run club. I don't

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Speaker 4: know if you've ever done one of legs before?

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Speaker 2: Wow club? Should I be concerned?

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Speaker 1: Is the worst club I could think of?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Because would be like video game club where you sit

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Speaker 1: and don't move.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It's actually though, is this like a like an exercising

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Speaker 4: It's kind of like a mix of both. It's like,

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Speaker 4: if you're single, you wear black or something dark. Okay,

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Speaker 4: if you have a girlfriend or a boyfriend, you wear

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Speaker 4: a color.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Brooke, what does your husband wear to his run club?

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Speaker 2: Well, he's going to be wearing an orange reflective vesta

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Speaker 2: after this report, just wears a bunch of apples.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know what that means. Okay.

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Speaker 2: How many people are in this club?

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Speaker 4: There had been at least one hundred people. There's a bar.

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Speaker 1: This is like a okay, cool.

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Speaker 4: It's a crazy thing because there's a lot of hot chicks.

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Speaker 4: There had been at least like.

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Speaker 1: And there's actually like the people who exercise can be

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Speaker 1: good looking at they was still not going to join

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Speaker 1: a run player. How did it go?

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Speaker 4: Well? Pretty good? That's how I met a test test? Okay, Okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: she had really nice cas.

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Speaker 2: She's like i'd like to think stairs, That's what I'd

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Speaker 2: like to think.

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Speaker 1: Well, the fact that you didn't get maced, right there

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Speaker 1: is a win in my book.

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Speaker 2: So, oh my god, I think it's such a good

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Speaker 2: couple of it.

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Speaker 1: You were able to like get to no tests a

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Speaker 1: little bit there.

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Speaker 4: I did and I got to see a good deal.

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Speaker 4: I got her number.

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Speaker 1: So you also have a different definition of sealing the

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Speaker 1: deal with a girl. So a lot of differences here,

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Speaker 1: but good. I'm glad you got her phone number. Just

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Speaker 1: the first deal, Yeah, one of many deals.

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Speaker 2: I think you were you able to turn it into

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Speaker 4: Yeah. We met up a few days later at a

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Speaker 4: bar and I had a great time.

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Speaker 1: You did, Okay, tell us about it, yeah, give us

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Speaker 1: the highlights.

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Speaker 4: All right. So I'm been watching my dilately. So I

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Speaker 4: compiled this note card card. I thought her, this is

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Speaker 4: how many calories that.

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Speaker 3: We burned on our run, and now we had to

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Speaker 3: gain it back on the menu.

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Speaker 1: Smart.

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Speaker 2: No, no, don't talk about calories ever with a woman.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that. I think he's just trying to

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Speaker 2: That's how it comes off. Though it doesn't matter what

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Speaker 2: his intention was.

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Speaker 1: He's using a note card, like, don't you.

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Speaker 2: Have like an.

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Speaker 1: How did test react to the note card move?

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Speaker 4: She loved it?

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Speaker 1: But uh, whoa in your face?

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Speaker 2: She's not calling you back.

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Speaker 4: So.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that counts as a whe So you

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Speaker 1: guys ordered a bunch of food together, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and then she guiltily aided.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what happened next.

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Speaker 4: Well, we just kind of hung out and grabbed some

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Speaker 2: Tall shelves like that you would put books on or something.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it looked like he put books on it,

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Speaker 4: but they had a bunch of mugs.

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Speaker 1: On it, mugs, a bunch of stins or something like.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it kind of like steins. And so these drunk

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Speaker 3: They're kind of hanging out and stumbling around there, and

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Speaker 4: Quick movement just pulled her out of the way. She

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Speaker 4: got a little upset, but then crashed right behind her.

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Speaker 1: Wow, saved her life. That's the universe, dude. You were

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Speaker 1: put in a situation to protect her and you did, bros.

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Speaker 1: A good job. Was she grateful or was she upset

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Speaker 4: Oh? After she saw a crash behind her, then she realized, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's kind of wild. You must be

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Speaker 1: thinking I'm getting a kiss for sure.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, dude, you nailed it. It was like one

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Speaker 3: It was, and she gave me one right on the cheek.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's a hero kiss.

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Speaker 2: Just make out and it's her state. Yeah cute. I

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Speaker 2: mean it means that she's like somewhat attracted to you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, you know that's the kiss that my mom

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Speaker 1: gave me when I graduated fifth grade. Romantically, I don't

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Speaker 1: want to look too much into it, but so, how

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Speaker 1: long has it been since your bar date happened?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Man, that was like two weeks ago.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you've had a couple of run clubs in

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Speaker 2: there too, and you haven't seen her or heard from

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I went to one and I didn't see her

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Speaker 4: at the last one. Yeah. I gave her a couple

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Speaker 2: I was kind of did you see under another nutrients table?

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Speaker 1: Is it possible that she didn't want to burn off

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Speaker 1: all those calories? That you gained together that night. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: It's gonna be my new I remembers.

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Speaker 1: Let's come back. We're gonna give Tessa call for you

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Speaker 1: and try and get you your second date update right

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Speaker 1: after this second date update. It is rare on a

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Speaker 1: first date where you get an opportunity to look like

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Speaker 1: a real superhero. But our listener Vaughn swooped in to

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Speaker 1: save the day when a falling beer monk was careening

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Speaker 1: straight towards the head of his dates and before it

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Speaker 1: struck her, Von reached out with his powerful arms and

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Speaker 1: exact spot where she was standing. Wow, I mean that

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Speaker 1: should automatically earn him five more dates. Five that's a

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Speaker 1: that's the superhero fee. That's why Superman always has dates. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's why he saves Lois Lane.

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Speaker 2: Constantly jo he's expecting something to return this whole time. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he's working for free typical, but he's exhausting.

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Speaker 1: It's true, but Vaughan hasn't even been able to score

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Speaker 1: one more date with tests, which is why he's reached

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Speaker 1: out to us for help. But Von, how did it

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Speaker 1: feel to know that you had your Superman moments?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: I felt like the man of the restaurant.

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Speaker 1: I was that guy.

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Speaker 2: Did people applaud you? Were they asking for your autograph

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Speaker 4: No, you'd be surprised, but there weren't many people watching.

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Speaker 6: Focused on the drunk guys.

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Speaker 1: Next, you just have to work on your laser eye

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Speaker 1: tests for you right here and try and get you

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Speaker 1: your second date up date. You ready? Yeah, I'm down

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Speaker 1: it right now.

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Speaker 4: Hello?

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Speaker 1: Hey is this test?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry test to bother you?

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Speaker 5: Who is this?

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Speaker 1: We're a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the Morning, and we're really really excited to talk to

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Speaker 1: you about a date that you went on not too

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Speaker 1: long ago. It's with a guy named Vaughan that you

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, okay.

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Speaker 2: I can't tell that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, pretty neutral. But here's the cool thing you got.

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Speaker 1: We know that you got to spend some one on

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Speaker 5: Uh yeah, yeah, it was a it was fine. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 2: Have you heard this segment before where we call people

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Speaker 5: Actually, but uh yeah, we went to.

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Speaker 5: Oh great, okay, well if you heard the story then

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Speaker 4: You know the part where like.

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Speaker 5: The mug fell off the shelf.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah that was Like that was a

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Speaker 2: I mean, not for you because you almost got hit

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Speaker 2: by a mug, but pretty amazing that he saved you

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 5: I thought it was so weird.

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Speaker 4: It was just so extra.

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Speaker 5: There was no need to do that.

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Speaker 4: He like what.

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Speaker 5: It was just like the whole place was covered in mugs,

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Speaker 5: and like I was like, ew, like why.

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Speaker 1: Wait, he stopping it from hitting you on the head.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but I feel like I would have seen it

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Speaker 5: like before it did, Like he didn't need to go

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Speaker 5: out of his way to be the savior you are.

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Speaker 2: But I thought he said, you didn't see it till

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Speaker 5: I mean, it wasn't like that high up. It wouldn't

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Speaker 5: was we were there like max an hour at that point,

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Speaker 5: Like we hadn't spent any time together alone before that.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if.

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Speaker 2: He needs heroes before they step in. You know, listen, Batman,

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Speaker 2: I don't know you yet. You can tell me a

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Speaker 6: I've had a friend stop talking to guys who are

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Speaker 2: That, like why is it awesome?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you you were saying you would have preferred

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it just seems like he was just like obsessed

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean he's on a date with you, so

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Speaker 1: he is probably paying attention. I'm obsessive major.

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Speaker 4: Find it so funny.

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Speaker 1: I don't want you to get the feeling that he's

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Speaker 3: You or anything.

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Speaker 1: At a certain point, I have to let you know

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Speaker 2: Unless he was smart enough to hang up already.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't care.

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Speaker 1: Bro, hang up right now? Are you there?

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Speaker 5: Von?

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Speaker 3: I'm there? OK.

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Speaker 2: Yeah did you just say, oh, alexis Yeah? Because of

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Speaker 1: Let's let him talk and maybe they can work something out.

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Speaker 1: Go ahead, you.

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Speaker 4: Two, What am I gonna do?

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Speaker 3: Just let a heavy glass bogs fall on your head

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Speaker 5: I need to be very clear about like me as

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm sorry. As a man, I naturally have

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Speaker 3: if you're a stranger or somebody i've met for an hour.

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Speaker 1: That okay. So if you two were like walking across

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Speaker 5: I think that I am not dumb enough to step

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Speaker 2: Moving car, just okay. I think what she's saying is

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Speaker 2: can handle her own emergencies. Okay, whether it's a car

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Speaker 2: Let the girl do her.

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Speaker 4: So if that scenario plays that a second time, you

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Speaker 1: Hey, look out, is that too aggressive?

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Speaker 4: Nothing?

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Speaker 5: That probably would have been less gross than you weeping

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Speaker 5: in gross And like it would depends what your tone was, too,

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Speaker 5: Like if you were telling me like I'm a child

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Speaker 6: Think I actually I actually see what she's saying too,

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Speaker 2: When I'm driving with my husband and he acts like

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Speaker 1: I'm not an idiot.

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Speaker 2: That's a good example.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think, if anything, Vaughan has definitely learned his

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Speaker 1: any way. Watch out. He can't say watch out. He

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Speaker 2: You can watch out, just in a cool.

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Speaker 1: Tone, Vaughn, you're capable of doing that, right, I'm just

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Speaker 1: really confused. Right now, perfect, that's exactly where she wants

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Speaker 5: I mean, like I feel like I would. But the

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Speaker 4: Why brother, you.

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Speaker 1: Mean that's your last option?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Do you have anything else to say to her?

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Speaker 4: Listen, tests I'll put it in words that you can understand.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, I think anything.

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Speaker 2: That he says is condescending, a little condescending.

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Speaker 1: What do you want to say?

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry?

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Speaker 1: Well, regrets, that's something that you're going to say, I

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Speaker 4: New phone? Who did?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 4: No? Date?

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Speaker 3: I'm good.

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Speaker 4: Better?

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Speaker 1: She's going it sounds like Bond just got hit in

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Speaker 1: the head by falling Jeffrey in the morning. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: I know you were kind of joking there, but are

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Speaker 2: They can step in. I'm just trying to explain why

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Speaker 1: Okay, I just want to make sure that that's not

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Speaker 2: To always help people, I mean not always okay, not

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Speaker 1: Well, okay, read the room. Well, this is good. Maybe

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Speaker 1: you don't have to take those CPR classes at least

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Speaker 1: if you're a guy. Now, this guy just.

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Speaker 2: Got shot, sir, do you mind if I call Actually,

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Speaker 2: statistically women get CPR administered to them a lot less

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Speaker 1: Well good, yeah, because we don't want to come off

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Speaker 2: It's literally because guys don't want to touch their chest

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Speaker 2: like it's like crazy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, man, but you know what we will do will

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Speaker 1: help you resuscitate your love life if you give us

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Speaker 1: permission to do it first, we'll call that person who's

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Speaker 1: not calling you back. Email the show for help anytime,

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