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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject my three way love affair. Dear

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I'm a forty year old married woman and

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Speaker 1: my husband and I have a sister friend that has

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Speaker 1: been a major part of my life since I was

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Speaker 1: seven years old. We did everything together, even went to

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Speaker 1: college the same college and graduated at the same time.

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Speaker 1: When I got engaged, she got engaged. Our fiancees didn't

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Speaker 1: get along, so my man would always take my best

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Speaker 1: decide when she was having an issue with her fiance.

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Speaker 1: A few weeks after we got engaged, my man and

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Speaker 1: told me that my besties man was cheating on her.

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Speaker 1: I was shocked and hurt when I saw the video

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Speaker 1: My man and I decided not to tell her anything,

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Speaker 1: But then my man got really upset with the dude

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Speaker 1: the cheating. She was so devastated she stayed with us

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Speaker 1: for two weeks and called off their engagement. So now

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Speaker 1: that we're married, she's part of our family. She travels

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Speaker 1: with my husband, hubby, and I, and she comes for

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Speaker 1: weekly movie nights at her house. She's dating again, and

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Speaker 1: when she meets men, she brings them to meet us

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Speaker 1: so we can pass judgment on them. I've been noticing

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Speaker 1: lately that my husband is more opinionated than usual, and

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Speaker 1: none of the guys have been good enough for my bestie.

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Speaker 1: That's a red flag for me, so I jokingly asked

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Speaker 1: him if he'd like to clone himself so my bestie

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Speaker 1: could be with a man just like him. He got

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Speaker 1: very irritated with me. I've been wondering if something is

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Speaker 1: going on with him and my bestie. As a test,

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Speaker 1: I told him that we're going on on an anniversary

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Speaker 1: trip alone. He said it would be weird to leave

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Speaker 1: my bestie out. I asked him if we are in

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Speaker 1: a three way love affair. He laughed it off and said, no,

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Speaker 1: but does he really care about her feelings? What's going

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Speaker 1: on here? Well, yeah, he does care about her feelings,

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Speaker 1: as do you. I mean you called her your sister friend.

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Speaker 1: You guys have been together since seven years old, So yeah,

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Speaker 1: he cares about her for sure. And if you ask me,

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Speaker 1: he's certainly acting like a guilty jealous man when she

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Speaker 1: brings other men around. I'm very surprised it took you

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Speaker 1: so long to notice the red flag. I think there

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Speaker 1: have been several First, and most importantly, when you guys agreed,

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Speaker 1: when you and your husband agreed not to tell your bestie,

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Speaker 1: he's the one who told about cheating. That's a major riff, Like,

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Speaker 1: that's not really what men do. They don't snitch on

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Speaker 1: each other. Now, he's so concerned about her and who

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Speaker 1: she dates. You guys have movie nights together and she

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Speaker 1: travels with you. What your feeling is, right? You know,

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Speaker 1: it is a three way love affair. Who or what

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Speaker 1: couple do you know whose husband can behave How your

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Speaker 1: husband is behaving about her and that there's nothing going on.

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Speaker 2: Just think about that.

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Speaker 1: He's doing way too much when it comes to her

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Speaker 1: and you need to check them both. You don't have

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Speaker 1: to catch them in the act or anything like that

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Speaker 1: to know what's going on. You already suspect them anyway,

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Speaker 1: So I say you confront them and get it over with. Steve.

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Speaker 3: Wow, Well, it's interesting. It's an interesting letter. I will

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Speaker 3: say this about women. Most of the time, what you

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Speaker 3: feel is real. Most of the time. It's because God

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Speaker 3: gifted you all with this thing called intuition. He gave

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Speaker 3: it to you more than he gave it to me.

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Speaker 3: Women are born with it. You should trust it and

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Speaker 3: lean on it. So usually what you think or feel

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Speaker 3: is usually real. You're a forty year old married women.

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Speaker 3: Your husband and I have a sister, Fred. That's interesting.

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Speaker 3: That's been a major part of my life since I

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Speaker 3: was seven. We did everything together. This is very important

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Speaker 3: in this whole letter. We did everything together. Now pay

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Speaker 3: attention to y'all. Even went to the same college, graduated

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Speaker 3: at the same time.

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Speaker 2: When I got engaged, she got engaged.

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Speaker 3: That's everything, das everything. Our fiances didn't get along, so

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Speaker 3: my man would always take my besty side when she

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Speaker 3: he was having an.

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Speaker 2: Issue with her fiance.

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Speaker 3: A few weeks after we got engaged, my man told

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Speaker 3: me that my besties man was cheating on her. I

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Speaker 2: Stop, wait a minute, what? Wait a minute.

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Speaker 3: You're saying that your man told you that your besties

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Speaker 3: man was cheating on her, and then right after that

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Speaker 3: you said, I'm shocked and hurt when I saw the

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Speaker 2: Where your man get the video from?

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Speaker 3: You? What did your man get the video from? Now,

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Speaker 3: let's just do some hood logic. One of two things

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Speaker 3: was happening. Either the fiance who don't get along, Hello,

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Speaker 3: the fiances that don't get along?

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Speaker 2: He gave your husband the video? Hey, check me.

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Speaker 3: Out all your husband made the video. Maybe two things

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Speaker 3: can happen, aby, two things can happen. Hello, Hello, y'all

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Speaker 3: do everything young? Hello?

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Speaker 2: Oh that thought.

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Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour today Strawberry letter, subject

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Speaker 1: my three way love affair. We'll get back into it

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Speaker 1: dot com. All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's

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Speaker 1: strawberry letter. The subject is my three way love affair.

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Speaker 3: Forty you old married woman and her husband. They have

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Speaker 3: a sister friend. Well it's a husband now, but we're

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Speaker 3: gonna take you on this journey. And the sister free

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Speaker 3: have been a major part of this woman's license to

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Speaker 3: you seven. They do everything together. Keep that in mind.

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Speaker 3: Even went to the same college, graduated the same time.

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Speaker 3: When I got engaged, she got engaged. Our fiances didn't

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Speaker 3: get along. So my man, which is her fiance, the

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Speaker 3: writer of this letter, would always take my bestie side

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Speaker 3: when she was having any issue with a field.

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Speaker 2: Now, a few.

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Speaker 3: Weeks after everybody got engaged, my man told me that

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Speaker 3: my besties man was cheating on her. I was shocking

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Speaker 3: hurt when I saw the video of her fiance a

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Speaker 3: sleep naked over his side chick's house. I'm confused, where

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Speaker 3: did your man get this video from? Because they don't

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Speaker 3: get along, The two fiances don't get along, and the

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Speaker 3: two fiances don't like each other. He always siding with

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Speaker 3: the girl. Where did he get the video? Because if

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Speaker 3: I don't like a dude that we ain't cool, why

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Speaker 3: would I show him a video of me or sleep

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Speaker 2: What purpose did that, sir?

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Speaker 3: Unless your man was there and took the video?

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Speaker 2: You hit him? Cricky? Did you hit him? Cricket? Is

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Speaker 2: just nothing.

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Speaker 3: I got your thinking. Ain't us a man? And I

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Speaker 3: decided not to tell her anything. But then my man

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Speaker 3: got really upset with the dude and went and told

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Speaker 2: Chief Like Shirley said, what man do that? What man

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Speaker 2: does that?

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Speaker 3: She was so devastated she stayed with us for two

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Speaker 3: weeks and called off her engagement. So now that we're married,

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Speaker 3: now y'all married. Now she's part of our family. She

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Speaker 3: travels with my husband and our husband and I. She

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Speaker 3: comes for weekly movie nights at our house. Okay, she's

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Speaker 3: dating again, which means that she ain't got no problem

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Speaker 3: meeting men. But check this out, and when she meets me,

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Speaker 3: pass judgment on her.

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Speaker 2: So it don't take the chick long to meet men

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Speaker 2: because she ain't got no problem meeting men.

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Speaker 3: So I'm assuming that your girl is attractive, and I

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Speaker 3: that he wants around everywhere. So now y'all traveling together,

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Speaker 3: y'all doing movie nights at the house. I've been noticing, lady,

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Speaker 3: that my husband is more opinionated than usual, and none

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Speaker 3: of the guys have been good enough for my bestie.

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Speaker 3: That's a red flag for me. I had a lady

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Speaker 3: on my talk show one time said women should stop

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Speaker 3: collecting red flags. It's a red flag for a reason.

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Speaker 3: Stop collecting them. But you don't put this one in

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Speaker 3: the backseat of the car. So I jokingly asked him,

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Speaker 3: I'm joke, you know, would you like to clone yourself

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Speaker 3: so your bessie could be with a man just like him?

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Speaker 2: He got irritated with me.

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Speaker 3: So I've been wondering if something is going on with

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Speaker 3: that were going on our anniversary trip alone. He said

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Speaker 3: He laughed at off and said, no, he does really

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Speaker 3: care about her feeling. What's going on here? Okay, okay, okay,

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Speaker 3: you ready, you're ready? What you think going on? Because

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Speaker 3: that's what you wrote the letter for. Usually what women

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Speaker 3: think and feel is the deal.

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Speaker 2: I've said that now.

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Speaker 3: The fact that this whole letter took you this long

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Speaker 3: when you told him y'all was going on y'all anniversary

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Speaker 3: trip alone, and he said it'd be weird to leave

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Speaker 3: my bestie out? Ask him if we are in a

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Speaker 3: three way love affairs? Yeah, yeah, that's what you mean,

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Speaker 3: that's what you want. But you know you got to

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Speaker 3: be careful what you say and let come out your mouth.

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Speaker 3: You did say, y'all do everything each other day. Ain't

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Speaker 3: that what you said? Didn't y'all invite this third party

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Speaker 2: Don't she go on all the trips with y'all and

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Speaker 2: she eager to go. She'll never say, girl, nigga, y'all

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Speaker 2: do y'all y'all need some boot time.

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Speaker 3: I ain't gonna go up there. It be no third wheel,

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Speaker 3: because that's what most people say. Girl. Let me sitting

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Speaker 3: up and having no dinner with y'all and everything, and

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Speaker 3: I'm the only one. I ain't got no man. Well,

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Speaker 3: she ain't saying that because she got a man. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: because when he go down there to get the coffee,

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Speaker 3: where you think he stopped? When he go to the

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Speaker 3: gym and the spa on the trip, Well, who you

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Speaker 3: another question. You ever noticed that the two of y'all

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Speaker 3: ain't ever alone together. I'm talking about you and your girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: You ever noticed that? Ah?

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Speaker 2: Wow, uh, you have you peak that game.

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Speaker 3: When y'all go on the trips, it ain't ever you

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Speaker 3: always going somewhere by hisself, but you don't see her.

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Speaker 3: She don't cause girl says he's going to the gym

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