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Speaker 1: is Strawberry Letter. All right, thank you, nephew. Subject he

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Speaker 1: has taken performing in bed to a whole another level.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay. Dear Stephen Shirley, I am a thirty two

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Speaker 1: year old married woman and I normally never write into you,

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Speaker 1: but I heard you cover a topic that I'm going through,

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Speaker 1: so I'm turning to you for help. It's about an

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Speaker 1: issue that I've been having with my husband since the

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Speaker 1: quarantine began. He and I were having sex more than

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Speaker 1: usual and it was getting boring. I wanted to spice

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Speaker 1: things up with role playing. One day, my husband was

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Speaker 1: a professor and I was a naughty college student. Another day,

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Speaker 1: I was a rich housewife and he played the pool boy.

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Speaker 1: One day, when I was washing clothes, he came up

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Speaker 1: behind me and surprised me. It was a lot of

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Speaker 1: fun until my husband became bored with it, and then

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Speaker 1: when things got and then that's when things got weird.

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Speaker 1: My husband had been ordering costumes from Amazon, and I

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Speaker 1: had no idea. The first one he pulled out was

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Speaker 1: to be Goldilocks on the way to Grandma's house. See Tommy.

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Speaker 1: He wore the big bad wolf costume while we had sex.

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Speaker 1: The next day, he had a fireman's costume and he

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Speaker 1: told me to get on a ladder in our backyard

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Speaker 1: There was a dog costume and I was the owner,

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Speaker 1: and he had a policeman policeman costume with fuzzy handcuffs

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Speaker 1: and other stuff. This is just too crazy to mention.

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Speaker 1: I told him I was tired of the costumes. He

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Speaker 1: had to put my foot down. He has been taking

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Speaker 1: care of himself nightly and I just stay out of

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Speaker 1: to entice him to have sex with me, but he refuses.

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Speaker 1: It's all very weird to me. Is this something I

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Speaker 1: should worry about? Yeah? I think it's something you should

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Speaker 1: absolutely worry about because of his attitude. He's mad and

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Speaker 1: he won't get he won't have sex with you. This

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Speaker 1: is your husband. He prefers to fulfill himself nightly because

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Speaker 1: you won't get in costume. Yeah, I think it's absolutely

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Speaker 1: worth worrying about. And I'm thinking you must have heard

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Speaker 1: our letter earlier in the week about infantilism, about the

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Speaker 1: man who wanted to put the diaper on. That's why

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Speaker 1: you decided to write us. And I just found out

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Speaker 1: today because I looked it up. That costume play. That's

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Speaker 1: a thing. I didn't know that that's a thing. It's

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Speaker 1: called cosplay. It's when adults don't just wear costumes on Halloween.

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Speaker 1: They wear them all year long during sex. Uh, and

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Speaker 1: they're committed to it, meaning they take on the persona

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Speaker 1: see why you're tired of this. What adult wouldn't get

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Speaker 1: tired of this? Um, it's too much. I'm not in

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Speaker 1: and your husband's too much. And for him, this is

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Speaker 1: him to get mad, it's it's childish, it's it's selfish.

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Speaker 1: As I said, you're you're way, way more important than

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Speaker 1: well here we go. See this COVID. This COVID doesn't

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Speaker 1: not get the virus, you may not need the vaccine,

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Speaker 1: but we have all been affected by COVID. True. True,

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Speaker 1: Now they ain't that they quarantine, so they're having most

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Speaker 1: What's the spice things up with some role playing? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: naughty cottage student. I don't know how that work. Paper

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Speaker 1: part two seems response coming up at twenty three minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letters subject he has taken

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Speaker 1: performing in bed to another level. We'll get back into

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Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's crazy Strawberry

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Speaker 1: Letters subject. He has taken performing in bad to another level. Well,

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Speaker 1: it's thirty two year old lady in that COVID nineteen

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Speaker 1: I ain't got no paper. Well, i'll get what did

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Speaker 1: They was they was hot? Yeah, this one with Brad right,

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Speaker 1: that was another hot ass outfit. Then it was a

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Speaker 1: You started this, Yeah, well you bought role playing into it,

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Speaker 1: ordering next. Oh Scooba Gil, he gonna come in there

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Speaker 1: You're gonna be hot again. I know all the outfits

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