1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand jewils dirty Little Secret. Hello, Hey, 2 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 1: what's up? This is the Jewels Show. And you texted 3 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 1: us at four one six one and said you had 4 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: a dirty little secret. So hi's calling you back? Hi? 5 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 1: How are you Hi? Hello? How are you good? What's 6 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: going on? Um? You know, not a whole lot. You 7 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:34,200 Speaker 1: just wanted to get my dirty little secret in here. Well, 8 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: we're ready for it. Give it to us, sure, daddy. So, um, 9 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,919 Speaker 1: you know, everybody always says they have, you know, like 10 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: a messy divorce or like it's crazy or you know, 11 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 1: it's it's her not me, but like this one, it's 12 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: it's it is actually her. So okay, so you're getting divorced. Yeah, 13 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: so I'm going to this it is actually Bessie that sorry. 14 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, it's it's for the better at 15 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 1: the end. You know, we have two kids together, so 16 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 1: you know that's kind of you know, the main focus 17 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 1: here is that you know, they always say divorces are 18 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 1: hard on kids, but I think sometimes staying together is 19 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: worse for the kids, you know, right, So like, you know, 20 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get custody of the kids full time. 21 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 1: You know, I would love to do the co parenting thing, 22 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: but it definitely doesn't work out. She is not good 23 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: with the kids at all, Okay, way, I mean like 24 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 1: she's like verbally and like emotionally abusive with them. Also 25 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: with me, but you know, mostly with them. They're four 26 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 1: and six, so they're young, and like you know, I've 27 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 1: noticed them when I pick them up, like maybe they 28 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 1: have a couple of bruises on their arms. I'm like, so, 29 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 1: I mean this is awful and definitely needs to be 30 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 1: dealt with. What part of this is a secret because 31 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: she has to know the role that she's playing right exactly. 32 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 1: So like you know, a lot of the time, they 33 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 1: always favored the mother in situation. Just you know, that's 34 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: how it is usually in court. But like I kind 35 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: of have, like you know, a little trick up my 36 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: sleep here that I'm going to try and use against 37 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:11,519 Speaker 1: her in court. Okay, to get full custody of the kid. 38 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 1: What is it? That's what I would do. Yeah, So 39 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: she does only fans that's like her main like cash 40 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: flow gig um, and so I like, I'm all for 41 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:27,839 Speaker 1: people making their money, but like in this case, I'm 42 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: going to use it against her, like to like prove 43 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: that she's not a good fit for these kids, but 44 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:35,920 Speaker 1: you know she's a bad parent. Um, you know, I 45 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 1: don't know that being on only fans is going to 46 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 1: show the court or anybody that she's a bad parent. 47 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:42,959 Speaker 1: I think that the other stuff that you said is 48 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: a lot than the only fans to get your kids 49 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 1: full time. And normally I would never advocate for anybody 50 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 1: to have children full time either, because I think they 51 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 1: need both of their parents. But in this abusive situation, 52 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 1: I would lead on that, And who cares about all 53 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: these fans? You don't really need that if you have 54 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 1: the other stuff. Yeah, I'm sure people have used probably 55 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 1: that's probably been used a lot in court now these days, 56 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 1: like they probably do pull up only fans a lot 57 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:07,360 Speaker 1: in these cases because I bet you there's a lot 58 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 1: of people doing only fans. But do you think that 59 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:12,959 Speaker 1: that really makes apparent unfit. I don't. I don't either. Yeah, 60 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 1: I would just stick with the facts you know that 61 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:17,959 Speaker 1: you have. Yeah, I mean, yeah, that's I was kind 62 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 1: of calling in. Get some opinions that, you know, maybe 63 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:22,359 Speaker 1: put it to a vote, you know, see what's up? 64 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 1: You know, I mean, you know, it can be hard 65 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:28,959 Speaker 1: to prove the verbal and emotional. I think you know, yeah, 66 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 1: I mean if you said, if you get them to 67 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 1: the right counselor, they'll be able to they'll be able 68 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: to spot it. Oh yeah, immediately. Okay, we can put 69 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: this to a vote. I don't even know that there's 70 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 1: anything to vote on here, Like, I don't even no 71 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 1: need to tell any secrets. I think you will get 72 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 1: your lawyer. I think you do whatever you need to 73 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 1: do to protect your children. Do you mean, what do 74 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: you guys think? Exactly? Yeah, I don't even need to 75 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 1: put it to a vote. I say, no, don't call here, 76 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 1: but definitely do whatever you have to do to protect 77 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 1: your kids. Absolutely, Like one her lawyer doesn't even like her. Wow, 78 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 1: one less day they can be here and you know 79 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: a lot. Yeah, one less day that they can be 80 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 1: in that will do wonders for them on their journey 81 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: because like, no matter what you know, I grew up abuse, 82 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 1: I grew up in an abusive househole. I'm telling you 83 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 1: protect them because every single day that they have to 84 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 1: go through another experience is another day of work that 85 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: they're gonna have later on. So you do need to 86 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:22,480 Speaker 1: protect them. If you need resources or anything like that, 87 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 1: we can talk to you about it when we get 88 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 1: off the air, and try to make sure you have 89 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 1: everything you need for sure for your children. Yeah, I mean, 90 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 1: any advice is good. You know, you never know what's 91 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:33,360 Speaker 1: gonna happen in these chords. Now, all right, well, hang 92 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 1: on the phone. We'll talk to you off air and 93 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:36,720 Speaker 1: maybe see we can help you out. Okay, all right, 94 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 1: appreciate it. Yeah, man, thanks for well, I don't even know, 95 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 1: so I don't really consider that dirty little secret, but 96 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:45,159 Speaker 1: it was dirty little secrets, right. The Jebel Show on 97 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 1: Demand