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Speaker 1: It's time to check in with the Cheap Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: you to answer all of everybody's love questions.

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Speaker 2: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: Mike and Clearwater, Florida says, I went on a blind

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Speaker 1: date with the finest girl I have ever met. She's

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Speaker 1: got beautiful teeth, eyes, and hair, and she's a little

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Speaker 1: on the thick side, which I love. The only problem

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Speaker 1: is that she smokes cigars and I could taste it

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Speaker 1: on her breast when we kiss. She only does it

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Speaker 1: on the weekend, So should I deal with it or

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Speaker 1: move on?

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Speaker 3: Hey? Dog, it's just on the weekends and along a lane,

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, there being a cigar smoker, there

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Speaker 3: are some things you can do, you know, to help

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Speaker 3: the situation, like what I mean, like, don't smoke fol

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Speaker 3: you kiss. That's a big one. Yeah, it's they got stuff.

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Speaker 3: But at me, when you act the cigar places and

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Speaker 3: you lead over kiss, you fin to eat some cigar though,

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Speaker 3: that's just.

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Speaker 1: All to it.

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Speaker 2: Your kissing schedule.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you're gonna work that out

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Speaker 3: with fine.

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Speaker 1: For fine, fine, make that absolute him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Oh, we find to be blowing cigar smoke all each other.

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Speaker 3: We all smoke a cigar.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, fine, how fine she is?

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, it has a lot.

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Speaker 1: To do it Okay, so he should deal with it

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Speaker 1: and not move on. Just stay there and take it,

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Speaker 1: take it absolutely.

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Speaker 2: I mean, come on, man, come on, man, where.

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Speaker 3: A boll of doctor tish.

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Speaker 2: And all y take all her taste, buzz out everything.

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Speaker 3: Doctor Trishner removes one layo of mouth land.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Felicity in Topeka, Felicity writes, I have

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Speaker 1: been seeing a man that is twelve years my junior,

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Speaker 1: and he's handsome and muscular up top, but lacking down below.

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Speaker 1: He tries to overcompensate for his shortcomings and is too

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Speaker 1: much for me to handle. I have a schedule to

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Speaker 1: keep up with and kids to look after, so I

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Speaker 1: can't be lying around for hours with him. Is it

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Speaker 1: cool to tell him to hurry up? Or will he

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Speaker 1: be offended? Please advise.

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Speaker 2: It's not going to fend him if you tell him

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Speaker 2: to hurry up.

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Speaker 3: What will offend him is you tell him why he

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Speaker 3: needs to hurry.

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Speaker 2: I know why you putting me in all this extra

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Speaker 2: time you're not in.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, you know. Once again, you know what

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Speaker 3: I'm saying. Being on the other side of this one

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Speaker 3: right here. I can tell you, you know.

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Speaker 2: What.

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Speaker 3: In my life, I've been too much, but I ain't

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Speaker 3: never been not enough. I've been here, I've been oh Lord,

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Speaker 3: but I ain't never been open. I think you're gonna

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Speaker 3: have to tell him to hurry up. You got thanks

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Speaker 3: to do.

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Speaker 1: But in a nice way?

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Speaker 3: Is he a really great guy? Does he treats you

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Speaker 3: really well? They treat the kids great? How is he

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Speaker 3: as a man? You can work through some of these things.

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Speaker 3: You know some things you can do to speed up

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Speaker 3: the process.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, all right, Felicity moving on to Carolyn

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Speaker 1: and making Georgia. Carolyn says, as luck would have it,

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Speaker 1: I'm broke again at the wrong time of the year.

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Speaker 1: I was talking to my coworker about my issues, and

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Speaker 1: he said he could help me out if I showed

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Speaker 1: him two things. The two things are right under my chin,

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Speaker 1: and he wants to see them. I've never been propositioned

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Speaker 1: like this, but he said he'd give me two hundred

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Speaker 1: dollars and that would help me get my little girl

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Speaker 1: that bike she wants. Is it so terrible if I

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Speaker 1: show him what? If he wants to pay to see more?

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Speaker 2: What you what?

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Speaker 1: You?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 3: You what you think it's going to be leading to

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Speaker 3: this is this is to see what you're willing to do. Now,

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Speaker 3: if you do this for two hundred dollars, he already

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Speaker 3: know he got five you mark right, Hey, though, how

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Speaker 3: did you go in there and tell your little girl

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Speaker 3: we ain't getting no damn bike this year? You know,

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Speaker 3: many years I heard that bike?

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Speaker 2: Oh you working?

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Speaker 3: I'd heard stuff like that bike?

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Speaker 2: What's wrong with the bike you got out there?

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Speaker 3: You're talking about the board you gave me from the

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Speaker 3: construction site. That bike, daddy, that's never been new, like

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Speaker 3: a new bike. Well, I want a new car. You

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Speaker 3: don't see. No, you don't see why I say not

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Speaker 3: that day?

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Speaker 2: That's a lot, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 3: So every time I asked him for something, he every

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Speaker 3: time I told my daddy I wanted something, he told

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Speaker 3: me something he wanted.

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Speaker 2: If I want a new bike, I want a new car. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I want to go home.

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Speaker 3: Well, hell, I want to go home too, but now

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Speaker 3: I got to go to work. So you're little ask

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Speaker 3: and eat what they got to do with what I said?

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Speaker 1: So, Carolyn, you're getting something from this, okay?

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Speaker 3: I mean if you show him to him for two

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Speaker 3: hundred dollars. The next offer fing to be five hundred.

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Speaker 3: What you gonna do?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and they work together, so that's really not cool.

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Speaker 1: It's inappropriate, yeah, really.

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Speaker 2: All the way. But two hundred dollars that ain't nothing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I am one hundred dollars each.

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Speaker 2: I know you didn't divide it up.

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Speaker 1: H Yes, cool?

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Speaker 2: Please horrible pride?

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Speaker 1: All right? Misty and Rustin Louisiana says, I'm forty years

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Speaker 1: old and I purchased my first home for my son

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Speaker 1: and I my son is fifteen years old and refuses

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Speaker 1: to do the yard work for me. He told me

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Speaker 1: that I need to get my boyfriend to do it,

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Speaker 1: since he's always over there. I lit into him when

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Speaker 1: he spoke to me that way, and I called my

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Speaker 1: father to come and talk to him. My father sided

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Speaker 1: with him. I expected my son to have pride in

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Speaker 1: his home. So am I wrong to demand that he

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Speaker 1: do the yard work at this house?

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Speaker 3: Well, I understand what you're saying. You're exactly right and

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Speaker 3: feeling what you're feeling.

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Speaker 4: But your fifteen year old son going So what this

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Speaker 4: lady is doing is coming over here sleeping with my mama. See,

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Speaker 4: at fifteen, he got some feelings about that that you

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Speaker 4: haven't addressed. The fifteen year old boy is jealous that

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Speaker 4: you're in this relationship with this man, and he tried

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Speaker 4: to figure out what's to value of him because he

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Speaker 4: don't see him doing nothing except sleeping with his mama.

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Speaker 4: That's the problem you have, and never feelings ain't fitna

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Speaker 4: leave that boy no time soon. So the conversation you

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Speaker 4: should have really is with this man of yours as

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Speaker 4: to what kind of example he's setting for your son,

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Speaker 4: because all boys want to be some type of man.

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Speaker 4: It's gonna be a good man or a bad man,

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Speaker 4: and right now that's the example of manhood that's been

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Speaker 4: put in front of him, and he don't see much

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Speaker 4: of a man coming.

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Speaker 2: Out of him.

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Speaker 1: Great advice I was.

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Speaker 3: On that if you went to the bad if you

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Speaker 3: went to the boyfriend and said, I wish you'd talk

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Speaker 3: to my son, maybe y'all could do it together or something,

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Speaker 3: it would mean a lot to him and then you

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Speaker 3: can finally see what you're dealing with, which don't sound

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Speaker 3: like much of nothing.

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Speaker 1: All right, thank you, clo Hey, good morning. This is

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Speaker 1: your girl, Shirley Strawberry. And my favorite Christmas memory is

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Speaker 1: every single one of my childhood Christmases. My mom gave

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Speaker 1: us the best Christmasses ever. Our entire living room was

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Speaker 1: filled with all kinds of presents like dolls, bikes. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: easy bake ovens had to have one of those.

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Speaker 2: But anyway, have.

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Speaker 1: A wonderful holiday season. From Shirley Strawberry and The Steve

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