1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 1: Welcome to Can'tfuley Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio and 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: the Black Effects, And. 3 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 2: Just like that, we're back on the air. 4 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:20,439 Speaker 1: Welcome back to yet another cafully reckless episode with your girl, Jess. 5 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:21,599 Speaker 2: Hilarious. What I'd be doing. 6 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:24,080 Speaker 1: I'll be fixing mess, y'all, and I do it pretty 7 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: well in my opinion. We do not have Taylor here 8 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: with us today. Oh, you're right here, but she got Look, 9 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 1: I didn't think she would say because she had other 10 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:32,279 Speaker 1: works to do. 11 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 2: Taylor be working, y'all. She'd be working, so I ain't 12 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:36,199 Speaker 2: want to bother her today. 13 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 1: But because she actually edits podcasts and everything for our hearts, 14 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:44,240 Speaker 1: so she actually do be working. Don't be thinking that 15 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 1: she just sitting up here pregnant me and shit fucking 16 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 1: up reading. No, she she'd be doing other things, so 17 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 1: my bad. I ain't have to say that last Yeah, 18 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 1: my be. But we're going jump straight and so this 19 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 1: woman wrote me, I have two wives who are writing 20 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:06,959 Speaker 1: me about their husbands. So let's jump straight into the 21 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 1: first Jess. I married my husband and now I'm responsible 22 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:14,960 Speaker 1: for his debt. He has student loans and he's locked 23 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 1: up and not trying to let me out of the marriage, 24 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:20,959 Speaker 1: talking about just don't pay them. But that's my fucking credit. 25 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 1: He is so fucking selfish and irresponsible. He speaks to 26 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:29,960 Speaker 1: me as if it east out here raising. Oh he's okay, 27 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:34,319 Speaker 1: so she can't spell yes, child, looks like you need 28 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 1: some fucking student loans too. 29 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 2: Should? He speaks to me as if I'm not. 30 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 1: Out here raising our twins and his older daughter by myself. 31 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 1: Her mom is also incarcerated with a twenty year sentence 32 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 1: for killing. 33 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 2: Her daughter's abuser. 34 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 1: Ooh, should So his older daughter was abused and the 35 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 1: mom is in jail for killing that person. Okay, okay, 36 00:01:58,160 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: so rightfully, so I. 37 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 2: Do get it. She can't go to jail for though 38 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 2: I know. Isn't that weird? 39 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 1: It depends on what what state it is, honestly, because 40 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 1: in some states that's self defense law or something like that. 41 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 2: It's one of those laws that exempts you from going 42 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 2: to jail if you do. 43 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 1: Partake in any retaliation with an abuser or to an 44 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 1: abuser or something like that. But it doesn't say how 45 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 1: she was abused. I'll say whether she was raped or 46 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: beaten or whatever. But she killed that nigga or I 47 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 1: don't even know if it was a nigga a woman. 48 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 1: It just said she killed her abus her. So she's 49 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 1: so his first baby mother is in jail serving ten years, 50 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: doing ten years for that. Okay, So but the problem 51 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: at hand, all right, because Shaney had to tell us 52 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: the mom business because. 53 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 2: I'm waring that, damn shit. 54 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:49,079 Speaker 1: I want to fix the mother's mask. God damn well, 55 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:52,640 Speaker 1: she fixed it because the niggas did. But the problem 56 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:56,279 Speaker 1: at hand, she married her husband and now she's responsible 57 00:02:56,320 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 1: for his debt, and that is really just unfortunate because 58 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 1: she didn't know. 59 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 2: Obviously, she didn't. 60 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 1: Know that when you marry somebody, you are married, like 61 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 1: y'all are one. You marry everything. You married their debt, Yes, 62 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 1: you marry their family, whether you believe it or not. 63 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 1: You marry into a oneness. It's a unity, you know. 64 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 1: So your debt would be his debt too. But the 65 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 1: thing is, she don't have no fucking debt. He got 66 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:26,360 Speaker 1: it and he's incarcerated. It's funny that she told us 67 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:28,679 Speaker 1: what his baby mother was incarcerated for, but she ain't 68 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: tell us what his ass is incarcerated for. 69 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 2: Oh, he's in jail too, Yes, she. 70 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 1: Said he's locked up, but he's not trying to let 71 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 1: me out of the marriage. But the thing is, damn, 72 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: you want out of the marriage. 73 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 2: I don't know. 74 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 3: Why say so. Maybe that's probably one of the reasons too. 75 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 1: Why he why she wants to get out of the marriage. Well, 76 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 1: she didn't say. One of the reasons that she wanted 77 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 1: to get out of the marriage was him being incarcerated 78 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 1: because he probably ain't got as much time as his 79 00:03:57,600 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: baby mother got. But she'd taken care of their kids. 80 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 1: She said they have two kids. No, she said, he 81 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: has student loans and he's locked up, not trying to 82 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: let me out of the marriage, talking about just don't 83 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 1: pay them. But that's my fucking credit. And he's so 84 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 1: selfish and irresponsible. He speaks to me, is if I 85 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:18,039 Speaker 1: don't as if I'm not out here raising our twins. 86 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:21,719 Speaker 2: Okay, so they have two children and his older daughter. 87 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:29,840 Speaker 1: Hmm, Well, my advice on the part of you see, 88 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 1: I need some more meat on the bone because is 89 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 1: that the only reason why you want to leave him, 90 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 1: or you want out of the marriage, or are you 91 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 1: even sure if you want out of the marriage. I 92 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:40,840 Speaker 1: think that you may be just frustrated because you know 93 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 1: you do have debt. You do have his debt. He 94 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:48,839 Speaker 1: has student loans obviously. You know he went to college, 95 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:50,919 Speaker 1: you know, so he might not be that bad of 96 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 1: a person. You know, who knows why he's incarcerata. She 97 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 1: didn't tell us. All we can do is assume that 98 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 1: he is a good guy, you know what I mean, 99 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 1: because there's a lot of good people sitting in jail too. 100 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:04,720 Speaker 2: You know, everybody's not bad, you know what I mean. 101 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 2: You know why he went to jail? Yeah? Why? 102 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 3: Yeah? 103 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 1: I would love to know why he went to jail too, 104 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 1: and why you told us the reason that his baby 105 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 1: mother went in there but not him. But that's neither 106 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 1: here or there. She has these debts that he has 107 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 1: accumulated over time from student loans that she married into. 108 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:25,479 Speaker 2: I don't know if he knew that. 109 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 1: Maybe he didn't even know that when I married my wife, 110 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: she'll be responsible for my student loans. Maybe that's something 111 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:32,919 Speaker 1: that he didn't know either, because he told her just 112 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: don't pay them. That's that is irresponsible and the selfish. 113 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 1: Part of it is the fact that he may like 114 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 1: seemingly not give a fuck like about I guess in 115 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:50,159 Speaker 1: her opinion, he don't give a fuck about my credit 116 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 1: if he just saying don't pay them, like, nigga, we 117 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 1: both are responsible now we're legally married, so legally I'm 118 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 1: responsible for your debt if you don't fucking pay them, 119 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So I think that's the issue. 120 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 1: But to one out of the marriage for that is, uh, 121 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: it's a little wild. 122 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 2: Now there is. I wonder if that stops people from 123 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 2: getting married too. 124 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, it stopped Yandy from marrying mid DC right away. 125 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 1: Like she she did marry they are married, and she 126 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:26,479 Speaker 1: did marry him, but she wanted to make sure that, Nigga, 127 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 1: that was clear, Like that was something that Yandy knew 128 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:31,919 Speaker 1: going in. That's why she's like, oh no, you you 129 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 1: my husband, you know for playplate right now and you 130 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 1: know not for playplay. But they just didn't have She didn't. 131 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:38,720 Speaker 1: She never set the paperwork off. 132 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 3: She revealed that I know a girl, oh god, she 133 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 3: passed away, but she was married, was a lesbian couple. 134 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 4: But they got married and. 135 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 3: She had a lot her her wife had a lot 136 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 3: of debt and she that either and that's how I 137 00:06:59,560 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 3: found out. 138 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, oh, so. 139 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 2: You've been there, so you found that shit. 140 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:06,480 Speaker 4: Out, Like from her telling me like that, Yeah, you 141 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 4: got to make. 142 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 1: Sure all that is fucking clear, because what not my 143 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:12,280 Speaker 1: dad is your fucking dad? 144 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 2: That sucks. Yeah, because nigga, I don't want that on 145 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 2: my name. 146 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, hold up, hold up, I know this shit getting good, 147 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 1: But listen to just a couple of seconds of a commercial. 148 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 2: If you love me, you'll listen, bitch. 149 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 1: And then up here one of the callers called up 150 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 1: and said that, you know, the whole student loan shit, 151 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 1: they they've been dealing with that, you know, because of 152 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 1: the government and ship. 153 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 3: Yeah with that, I didn't see the exact headline for it, though, 154 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 3: Like what what's the government? 155 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 1: So basically they have to I think they're raising the 156 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 1: price on student loans or some shit like that, like 157 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 1: how you raised fifteen percent something about a fifteen percent 158 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 1: increase or some shit like that. And a woman had 159 00:07:53,320 --> 00:08:00,080 Speaker 1: called up and was saying like she's basically drowning and 160 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 1: student loans like because and then when she went to 161 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:08,119 Speaker 1: school for she doesn't even have a job in that trade, 162 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 1: like and that's the truck driver. Yeah, and she's like, 163 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 1: I made the most money that I ever made in 164 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: my fucking life. 165 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 4: I wonder if. 166 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 2: I wonder if this makes people not want to. 167 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 1: Go to college though it ain't none of it credited 168 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 1: to school exactly. 169 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 2: I only did one semester. 170 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 4: Well, let's take a scholarship because I. 171 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 3: Just wonder if it makes people like I'm gonna find 172 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 3: another way. 173 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 1: You're fucking right, like, yeah, the fucking enrollment percentage is 174 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:37,720 Speaker 1: about to drop. Crazy, like nah, this ship scared people 175 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 1: away from going to school, that's that. What if they 176 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 1: trying to do that though? But why what if they're 177 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 1: trying to fucking scare minorities away from going to school? 178 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 3: It's not just minorities though, like white people got plenty of. 179 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 1: I know loan that too, though I have no idea 180 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 1: the reason. But you know what the crazy thing is, 181 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 1: they stop funding. They cut funding from HBCUs though, So 182 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 1: that's another thing too. It's like and then it's it's 183 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:10,440 Speaker 1: gonna be hard for black and brown kids to get in, 184 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 1: like students to get in any of these, you know 185 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:16,080 Speaker 1: other schools, you know, these p wis and ship like, 186 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 1: you know, especially HBCUs, and they cutting everything for us. 187 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 3: I think also, but I do think people applying the schools, 188 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:31,320 Speaker 3: I don't think I think that's gonna go down lower, 189 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 3: just because this new generations finding new ways to make 190 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 3: money too with streaming and like you know what I mean, 191 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:38,079 Speaker 3: they got YouTube University. 192 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 1: Oh absolutely, you can literally find out how to do anything. 193 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 2: You got baby chips. 194 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying, Like with all of this 195 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:52,680 Speaker 1: ship the newer generations, girl, my daughter around be like, man, 196 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 1: I'm already answering that, Like I already learned like how 197 00:09:56,280 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 1: to do it, like what you learn doing what? But 198 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 1: like they're not going to be requiring certifications for certain 199 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 1: ship thanks, Like that's that's weird to me. And that's 200 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 1: why I think it's also so weird now even when 201 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 1: it comes to I mean I think people trying to 202 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 1: find ways around it, but even when it comes to 203 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 1: like if you have to be a college student to intern. 204 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:28,320 Speaker 3: Now in spots, so you do, okay, like here you 205 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:32,959 Speaker 3: have to be a cause okay, but I was a 206 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:35,079 Speaker 3: fucking intern and I was not in college. 207 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 4: But they just start like they just started companies are 208 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 4: doing that now. 209 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 1: It's yeah, it's just like you have to be in 210 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:46,560 Speaker 1: school to receive any type of internship. Yeah, that's weird, 211 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 1: just about to be yeah, yeah, because an intern is 212 00:10:49,480 --> 00:10:52,760 Speaker 1: just really to take the experience, to get the experience, 213 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 1: and to work on whatever the credit. 214 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 4: Now I think they're pushing. 215 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 3: I don't know if there's this company, but they're pushing 216 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 3: like they want, you know, people to get paid. 217 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 4: They don't. There's no free internships at least at least not. 218 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 2: Well that's actually. 219 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:13,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I wasn't getting paid as aid. Yeah, so that 220 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:16,679 Speaker 1: actually is a good thing when you think about it. 221 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 1: But back to this woman's mess, because I'm because girl, 222 00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 1: we always go off on a t but it's okay. 223 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 1: I feel like this should not be the reason that 224 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:31,439 Speaker 1: she wants out of the marriage. I feel like it's 225 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 1: some other ship that she's not happy about and she's 226 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:34,560 Speaker 1: just not saying it. 227 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:38,440 Speaker 4: Well, hold on, what's my orange? She said? 228 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 1: Oh, this pregnant woman just walked the fuck up out 229 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 1: of here looking for an orange juice. So we be 230 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 1: sending we be sending this girl who work up here 231 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 1: to get fucking breakfast every morning, right and you know, 232 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 1: because I be doing my podcast up at the breakfast club, 233 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:57,679 Speaker 1: you know, because I do it in between bricks or whatever. Right, 234 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 1: So a girl, why well not girl? Because girls and 235 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 1: boys listening, girls and guys. 236 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 2: So your Taylor. You know she pregnant. 237 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 1: She bought the fucking pop literally right, and so oh 238 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 1: she's backing here, so we can't talk. 239 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 2: About her no more. 240 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 1: But Grabble's letting them know, like how you being We 241 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:18,200 Speaker 1: be sending the girls to the store, like girl saying 242 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 1: to be like, where the fuck is my orange? Sounding 243 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 1: very much like Eve from the Bubble Shop when somebody drunk. 244 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 2: You want some orange juice? You fucking with my time? 245 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, oh my, hey, can you grab an 246 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 2: orange juice for tailor for me? Please? 247 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:36,439 Speaker 1: Yes? 248 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 2: Okay, cool, thank you? All right. 249 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:42,320 Speaker 1: See I had to get that pregnant woman at orange juice, honey, 250 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:45,679 Speaker 1: Like one thing I learned from myself, get them whatever 251 00:12:45,679 --> 00:12:47,080 Speaker 1: the fuck they want when they pregnant. 252 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 2: Just get them, give them that ship. Chris learned. 253 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 1: He learned real quick, and I learned to you. I 254 00:12:54,040 --> 00:13:00,839 Speaker 1: was like, oh shit, okay, please get it anyway. So, yeah, 255 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 1: it has she has to be unhappy with something else. 256 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:06,720 Speaker 2: Like she is locked up, and I wonder how did 257 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:09,319 Speaker 2: she say no, she didn't say how long he's locked up. 258 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 1: She made sure she gave us all the details about 259 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:14,560 Speaker 1: mother twenty is she kills Mike. 260 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 2: So but you gotta think about it too. 261 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:21,559 Speaker 1: His older daughter. More than likely she's a fucking teenager. 262 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 1: She's probably a handful on top of the two twins. 263 00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:26,959 Speaker 1: Then she got this debt, and she's probably frustrated. She's 264 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: sexually frustrated. 265 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 4: She's not huh, you know how old the twins are. 266 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:34,559 Speaker 1: No, I'm assuming they're younger though, because she said older daughter, 267 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 1: So she's probably a teenager or going into that stage 268 00:13:39,040 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 1: of life. 269 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:41,360 Speaker 2: Maybe she's between. 270 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:46,199 Speaker 1: Uh, she can be anywhere between eleven and fucking fifteen. 271 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: You just don't know. I'm assuming the twins are younger. Yeah, 272 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:53,360 Speaker 1: that's three kids. Bam, you in jail. Then I find 273 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:56,840 Speaker 1: out I got this fucking debt, My credit is gonna fuck. 274 00:13:57,200 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 2: It's gonna be fucked up. 275 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 1: So she frustrated, And I understand his frustration as well, 276 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 1: because if you've never gone to prison, then you don't 277 00:14:04,840 --> 00:14:06,839 Speaker 1: know you've ever gone to jail, Then you don't know 278 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 1: how they feel in there. 279 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 2: And yes, I get it. 280 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 1: Oh well, the listeners can say, oh, that's his fault 281 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:16,760 Speaker 1: hand in jail. Yeah, that's not always the case. And 282 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 1: we don't know what landed him there, you know. Obviously 283 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 1: I can't even say obviously I was gonna say, obviously, 284 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 1: he's not gonna be in there for a long time. 285 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 1: But if she's trying to get out the marriage, maybe 286 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 1: he did get a lot of time. 287 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 2: Maybe maybe got a amount of time fuming up. 288 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 1: Though. Yeah, he probably just like he was probably on 289 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 1: trial or some ship, and he probably just got sentenced 290 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 1: and now he's serving his time. 291 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 2: I have no fucking idea. But if you love me, 292 00:14:43,240 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 2: you'll listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back. 293 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 2: See how long they've been married for. No, she did 294 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 2: not see that I'm responsible for his dad. 295 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 1: No, that's why I say, No, they didn't give me 296 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 1: any fucking meat, one of her own, Like he was typing. 297 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:01,920 Speaker 1: It's like she was about to be on the way 298 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 1: in the jail, and I was like, let me just 299 00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 1: send this real quick with visit him, like because she 300 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:10,120 Speaker 1: left a lot of meat off the bones, but using 301 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 1: with using what we know. 302 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 2: But what should she do? I mean, it's a marriage. 303 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:20,560 Speaker 3: I mean the only thing I think is like you 304 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 3: didn't like you said, she didn't give us enough meat. 305 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 2: So I would say, try to stick through it or whatever. 306 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 1: The let me get a piece of bagel, just a 307 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 1: little piece not that I just look even smaller than 308 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 1: h okay, thank you. 309 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 2: Let me get a little bit of. 310 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 1: Cream cheese, thank you. But yeah, I don't know this 311 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 1: ship is good. I've been sleeping on how fucking good 312 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 1: bagels and cream cheesey it's listen mm hmm, because y'all 313 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 1: know I'm not a fan of the dairy, and that's 314 00:15:56,840 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 1: something is cream cheese over there. 315 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 2: But it's it's really good. You haven't had the whip 316 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 2: cream cheese. That's better. 317 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:08,360 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's better for you. Yeah, but that if 318 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 1: Darry don't affect you, then it's different. Darry certainly affects 319 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:12,960 Speaker 1: me in my thirties. I don't know why I used 320 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:15,520 Speaker 1: to eat cheese and milk every fucking day. I cannot 321 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:16,000 Speaker 1: do it now. 322 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 2: I love it. Fucks me up. I love cheese. See. 323 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 1: I know so many people that love it and they 324 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 1: can consume it every day and nothing happens to them. Yo, 325 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 1: my skin be fucked up. You know how you have 326 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:32,800 Speaker 1: like post nasal drip that shit gets thicker and thicker 327 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 1: like when you swallow and shit like you can feel 328 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 1: the fucking dairy. And one thing about your body when 329 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:41,920 Speaker 1: you haven't consumed dairy for a long time, like you 330 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:44,640 Speaker 1: cut it out for like months, even just for one month, 331 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 1: two months, you'll see a difference, and then you start 332 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 1: to consume it again. Your body will be like, oh 333 00:16:51,520 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 1: hell no, yeah, your gas is like, oh my god, 334 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 1: I've had some of the worst gas, like after getting 335 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 1: back on there. Yeah that's spright. That's probably because it 336 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 1: doesn't bother you. I think everybody's different. 337 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 3: I think a lot of people be scared to take 338 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:08,160 Speaker 3: a ship. 339 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:09,240 Speaker 4: I'm not scared to take a ship. 340 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:11,080 Speaker 1: I already know who the fucking kid that's like I 341 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:14,440 Speaker 1: should I actually die? No. 342 00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:17,360 Speaker 3: But a lot of people don't do that certain hearing 343 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 3: something because they're like, oh my son's gonna be fucked up, 344 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:19,879 Speaker 3: all am. 345 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 2: I gonna be sucked up? Oh I get it, yeah, 346 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:24,800 Speaker 2: because that's how that's how I be. I be scared sometimes. 347 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:26,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, you all could only eat macaroni and cheese 348 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:29,200 Speaker 1: twice a year now Christmas and Thanksgiving. 349 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:30,840 Speaker 2: I cannot tell. 350 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 1: I cannot y'all used to be eat that ship every 351 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:38,840 Speaker 1: day with some fucking barbecue ribs, with some yams and 352 00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 1: some Cali graens. 353 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:41,040 Speaker 2: G can't like there every day now. 354 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:42,120 Speaker 4: I'm not gonna wry them. 355 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 3: This past weekend, you went in in Maryland and oh 356 00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:47,880 Speaker 3: he was in Maryland. 357 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 2: Hey, that's what's up. 358 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 3: I was in between Silver Springing Upper Marlborough. 359 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:56,120 Speaker 2: It was so fucking close, yo. 360 00:17:56,560 --> 00:18:00,680 Speaker 1: I literally live like eighteen minutes away from Upper Marlborough. 361 00:18:01,160 --> 00:18:05,680 Speaker 2: I literally live like, yeah, eight to ten minutes from 362 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:07,879 Speaker 2: Upper Marlborough. Girl, he was right there by my fucking house. 363 00:18:08,040 --> 00:18:10,199 Speaker 4: Oh I was. I was there for a baby shower 364 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:14,440 Speaker 4: and I ate and I felt like I just. 365 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 3: Finished, like yeah, damn last weekend. Damn good food. 366 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 1: Though, let me ask you this, if were gonna get 367 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 1: out of here, did you when you when you eat 368 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:29,160 Speaker 1: certain foods? 369 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 2: Do the baby cake? For real? What foods makes him? 370 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 2: Foods tail? 371 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:38,760 Speaker 1: Yesterday? Was it spicy? 372 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:38,720 Speaker 2: Okay? 373 00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:41,480 Speaker 1: But he was like it felt like he was going 374 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:45,119 Speaker 1: there and he might be like, thank you going for 375 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:48,199 Speaker 1: something else other than a bagel with cream cheese, you 376 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 1: fucking dry cereal all day? 377 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 4: No that he like, he probably liked it, like out 378 00:18:56,320 --> 00:18:56,880 Speaker 4: And then. 379 00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:01,679 Speaker 2: Do you need anything that makes you throw up? Still? No, 380 00:19:01,880 --> 00:19:03,440 Speaker 2: So your morning sickness is kind of. 381 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:06,719 Speaker 4: Like for a while, it was just that one you 382 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:07,560 Speaker 4: didn't in the beginning. 383 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:10,880 Speaker 1: Oh, you just know you know what, I'm mistaking your 384 00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:13,359 Speaker 1: morning sickness for when you were coming and not feel good. 385 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 1: But you wouldn't throw up, Remember, you would just be 386 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 1: like like really. 387 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:22,640 Speaker 3: The only time I I did throw up in the 388 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 3: beginning that one day. 389 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:28,119 Speaker 2: It was one day you threw one time. 390 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, with I had jerk chicken and that shit came right. 391 00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:35,679 Speaker 3: Oh no, that was a little overpowering. Yeah that was 392 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:37,640 Speaker 3: in the beginning. Because now I feel like I could 393 00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 3: eat it and it's fine. 394 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:41,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, probably so the way you suck down on oxtails 395 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 1: and he was like, thank you mom. Okay, see me, 396 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:48,640 Speaker 1: it was spaghetti that she used to give me heartburn. 397 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 1: Food that make her kick would be like Alfredo and 398 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:59,120 Speaker 1: like ship with pestle in it. So spaghetti Alfredo. It's yep, yes, 399 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:02,880 Speaker 1: oh for you that make him kick. See, I wasn't 400 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:04,720 Speaker 1: drinking green juices when I was pregnant. 401 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:07,440 Speaker 2: No, but you. 402 00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:10,160 Speaker 1: Know why be kicking because Ginger is fucking spicy tail. 403 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 4: Are you strong? 404 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:18,560 Speaker 2: He's strong? Yeah, he had muscles. Okay, Ginger's not worrying 405 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 2: about fucking muscles that shi. Oh my god. 406 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:27,440 Speaker 4: Fine, he is fine. 407 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:29,600 Speaker 2: Everything that you do is good for him. 408 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:32,400 Speaker 3: No, you're and they said that when they looked at 409 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 3: his when I did that for d things like whatever, 410 00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 3: they said, what I drinking like, it's clear you see it, 411 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:40,160 Speaker 3: that's something. 412 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 1: That's because you drink those juices, you drink water, you 413 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:45,040 Speaker 1: drink like you don't drink You're not in this bitch 414 00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 1: drinking soda. 415 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 2: I don't drink so that at all though. 416 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:51,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh, before pregnancy, you just didn't really, Yeah, gra 417 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:55,320 Speaker 1: was drinking kool aid everything. Girls, I wanted what I 418 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:58,479 Speaker 1: wanted your rail a little bit, but every now and then, Yeah, 419 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:01,520 Speaker 1: I'm not a person ginger. It's horrible. I do not 420 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 1: like ginger. I never have really, yeah, it was. It 421 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:05,080 Speaker 1: was not good to me. 422 00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 3: Interesting im juice though, Yeah, juicema, I love juice, like 423 00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:12,639 Speaker 3: juicing or just like orange juice, apple juice. 424 00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm that type of girl too. Well, just 425 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:17,679 Speaker 1: like that with oh ship. 426 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:18,440 Speaker 2: Did we fix this bitch? 427 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, girl, you gotta call us back, 428 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:25,000 Speaker 1: call us back and give us more information friends, And 429 00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 1: just like that, we've come to the end of yet 430 00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:29,080 Speaker 1: another carefully reckless episode with you girl. 431 00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:29,680 Speaker 2: Just hilarious. 432 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:31,439 Speaker 1: What I be doing, I'll be fixing mess and I 433 00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:33,760 Speaker 1: do it on the daily. Make sure you well, I 434 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:36,560 Speaker 1: do it on the weekly, so make sure you're say it. 435 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 1: It's a breakfast club each and every Thursday, because I 436 00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:41,520 Speaker 1: fix the mess live there as well, and we'll catch 437 00:21:41,520 --> 00:22:54,920 Speaker 1: you next week. Peace Can't Fully Reckless is a production 438 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:58,280 Speaker 1: of iHeart Radio and The Black Effect. For more podcasts 439 00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:02,280 Speaker 1: from iHeart Radio, visit the eye heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, 440 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:04,320 Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.