WEBVTT - EP179: Boyfriend For Hire Feat Sensual Warrior 0:00:03.320 --> 0:00:07.680 Hi, you bro, you'd be coming to me about how 0:00:07.720 --> 0:00:09.720 I saw the motherfucking podcast. I was making sure to 0:00:09.720 --> 0:00:11.240 be quiet because I thought you was gonna come through 0:00:11.280 --> 0:00:13.800 with the fire, and that's what you said. What did? 0:00:13.920 --> 0:00:17.279 What would have preferred to me? I don't know, but Hi, no, 0:00:17.680 --> 0:00:19.200 no bro, I thought it was gonna. I thought you 0:00:19.320 --> 0:00:21.279 was coming with the fire, bro, because you do, you 0:00:21.400 --> 0:00:23.520 do came for me the last couple of times. I 0:00:23.560 --> 0:00:28.680 haven't started this motherfucking podcast, and I still will you. 0:00:28.840 --> 0:00:32.400 All right, Well, anyway, look all right, hey guys, welcome 0:00:32.400 --> 0:00:34.960 to you another motherfucker episode a mother all right, let 0:00:35.000 --> 0:00:36.360 me let me know I won't to do all that. 0:00:36.640 --> 0:00:39.960 Welcome to another episode of four Decisions. Guys. I feel 0:00:40.000 --> 0:00:41.839 like we should have a spiel by now if this 0:00:42.000 --> 0:00:43.680 is your first time listening, but we don't. But it's 0:00:43.720 --> 0:00:46.280 a sex podcast. Welcome. This is your girl, Mandy b 0:00:46.440 --> 0:00:48.159 a k A full core pumps a K A pet 0:00:48.280 --> 0:00:51.000 say a k A death bit. I'm not as excited, 0:00:51.120 --> 0:00:54.680 but my name is Wheezy uh. And today we had 0:00:54.800 --> 0:00:56.800 our first I can't believe in three and a half 0:00:56.840 --> 0:00:58.240 to say in our first Oh well, we had a 0:00:58.280 --> 0:01:01.160 Patreon episode and it went there because we've realized that 0:01:01.280 --> 0:01:04.400 Nigga might be lying. It was we have it was 0:01:04.400 --> 0:01:07.200 a little suspect our first meal. Escort, Like, I definitely 0:01:07.280 --> 0:01:11.720 know he fucked for money. That was his job, but 0:01:11.800 --> 0:01:14.080 it wasn't even his job. Wasn't like real, like to 0:01:14.240 --> 0:01:16.480 me when I hear escort like sex could happen, and 0:01:16.480 --> 0:01:18.200 correct me if I'm wrong, Anthony before we insure you. 0:01:18.319 --> 0:01:20.800 But I feel like escort you have to do it all. 0:01:21.160 --> 0:01:23.320 I feel like you have to be a companion. I 0:01:23.400 --> 0:01:24.840 have to feel like you have to be well versed 0:01:24.920 --> 0:01:26.600 enough to be able to go on a fucking trip, 0:01:27.000 --> 0:01:30.120 a wedding, whatever the funk it is, and if it 0:01:30.200 --> 0:01:32.800 turns into sex or leads into sex, be skilled in 0:01:32.880 --> 0:01:35.080 that enough. Don't just show up at my fucking door 0:01:35.319 --> 0:01:38.119 like and just think like that's like you really want 0:01:38.120 --> 0:01:40.840 to tell me that, you know? I think, nah, whistles 0:01:40.920 --> 0:01:44.200 on it. I mean, there's definitely levels to being like 0:01:45.040 --> 0:01:47.680 escorting as a whole, but I don't think you've got 0:01:47.760 --> 0:01:49.640 to know how to be a companion to be an escort. 0:01:50.760 --> 0:01:52.200 I feel like, if you want to make a decent 0:01:52.240 --> 0:01:56.240 amount of money, just like a good stripper as a salesman, Okay, well, Anthony, 0:01:56.640 --> 0:01:59.720 you are here with us today because you are a 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:03.480 male escort and I don't I'm sure you're a lot more. 0:02:03.560 --> 0:02:06.040 But we're not going to talk about your other gig 0:02:06.600 --> 0:02:08.959 or job or your career because we we wanted to 0:02:09.720 --> 0:02:11.840 the dirt. It's in your bio, Like, can you tell 0:02:11.919 --> 0:02:15.799 us your at introduce yourself to our listeners? Okay, all right, well, 0:02:15.919 --> 0:02:20.919 first of all, good morning, good afternoon, and good evening. 0:02:21.760 --> 0:02:24.519 Do you everyone? Depended on where you are in the world, 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:28.200 my name is Anthony and Santi, I am a professional 0:02:28.360 --> 0:02:36.200 boy friends oh, male escort catering to women only. Well, 0:02:36.280 --> 0:02:37.880 damn you. S took a whole bunch of questions out 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:42.399 that we had, alright, episodes over gays, that's you. Everybody 0:02:43.000 --> 0:02:45.040 had questions. I went on live last night and I 0:02:45.040 --> 0:02:47.359 asked on Twitter. Everybody was like, does he have sex 0:02:47.400 --> 0:02:48.600 with men and women? Does he have sex with men 0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:51.919 and women? Are most did you mention that because most 0:02:52.000 --> 0:02:54.959 male escorts are fluid? Did you do you find that 0:02:55.040 --> 0:03:00.360 to be true? Uh? Most guys that say that they 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:03.880 are male escorts whenever I don't hear the words straight 0:03:04.120 --> 0:03:09.079 or if it is ambiguous. Nine point nine percent of 0:03:09.160 --> 0:03:14.520 the time, they deal with men and women, but usually 0:03:15.040 --> 0:03:20.400 most of them deal with men mostly. Well, I think 0:03:20.440 --> 0:03:24.200 the macause men pay for sex more than women. Well, 0:03:24.360 --> 0:03:29.760 not only that, it's also that women's sexuality and my 0:03:30.639 --> 0:03:36.840 humble opinion and experience is slightly different than men's. And 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:47.960 uh um, the money is more with the male client 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:52.000 more so than it is with a female. Depending on 0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:55.920 your your clients, I've had clients that were very very 0:03:56.240 --> 0:04:00.080 very very rich. I've had something that were poor. How 0:04:00.120 --> 0:04:03.120 do you have poor clients? Well, some save up for 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:08.200 a special occasion. Now you got to be real. You 0:04:08.320 --> 0:04:13.480 gotta be real. I'm like, damn, this is gonna overdrive 0:04:13.600 --> 0:04:17.360 or not? Do you take PayPal square a cat's preferred you? 0:04:17.560 --> 0:04:19.960 Do you have like a layaweight system? Like? Do they 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:22.680 like like? Can they lay? Like? Yo? Didny? I'm gonna 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:27.920 get that ship. Shoot. Well, let me let me start 0:04:28.000 --> 0:04:34.600 by dispelling some um misconceptions. When people think about a 0:04:34.720 --> 0:04:38.640 straight mail escort catering only two women, they generally think 0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:46.880 a woman paying a man for sex. Um, And sometimes 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:50.240 that happens. But what I think is really going on 0:04:51.800 --> 0:05:00.400 deep below the surface, is that a woman wants to lost. 0:05:01.440 --> 0:05:04.960 Where are you going? I just want to say why 0:05:05.040 --> 0:05:09.080 while you're cutting off, Siri, Um, where you're going with 0:05:09.200 --> 0:05:11.720 this was not where I thought, but my mind, you 0:05:11.960 --> 0:05:15.279 you know, I was literally well, I was literally about 0:05:15.279 --> 0:05:18.080 to be like when a woman pays for a man typically, 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:19.680 I thought you were gonna say that man got a 0:05:19.680 --> 0:05:23.200 big old dude, because that's the only like I think 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:26.080 that I would assume a male escort or any man 0:05:26.200 --> 0:05:28.800 that is charging women for sex just got a whole 0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:31.920 baby leg. And most women feel like baby legs ain't 0:05:31.960 --> 0:05:34.000 found out here in the in the in the wild 0:05:34.760 --> 0:05:36.920 very often. Like two years ago when I was talking 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:38.840 about how I watched gigglos and I wanted to pay 0:05:38.880 --> 0:05:41.120 for yes, but I was like, oh, I wanted to 0:05:41.240 --> 0:05:44.720 spend the night, I want to go to dinner, and 0:05:45.200 --> 0:05:47.680 real quick to before because you just said that. And 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:51.440 while you're dispelling miss, is there a difference between the 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:55.280 term jiggolo and what you do? Or is it is 0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:59.040 jiggolo kind of intertwining with male escort? Uh? For me, 0:06:00.040 --> 0:06:04.600 there really is not a different, But I know for 0:06:04.800 --> 0:06:10.880 some they make a distinction. And what's the distinction, like 0:06:11.000 --> 0:06:14.200 that you've heard of one is that it is a 0:06:14.680 --> 0:06:20.640 way of life um, But for me, there is no distinction, 0:06:20.760 --> 0:06:27.640 because catering to women is as a professional boyfriend is 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:30.200 a way of life. For me, it is a discipline. 0:06:30.320 --> 0:06:32.120 I get up in the morning, I do I have 0:06:32.279 --> 0:06:37.000 certain rituals, I do certain things, UM, and I have 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:41.400 certain exercises, I have certain I have a certain diet 0:06:41.960 --> 0:06:44.800 I have. When I get ready to go on an 0:06:44.839 --> 0:06:48.000 adventure with a woman, then there are certain things I 0:06:48.080 --> 0:06:51.480 do to prepare. So there are certain things that I 0:06:51.800 --> 0:06:56.200 don't do so that I can come with the correct 0:06:57.040 --> 0:07:00.160 energy and the look my mind is going. So where 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:02.600 else I thought to come had to be a certain taste, 0:07:03.760 --> 0:07:08.120 even like the zion for the come, like what you're 0:07:08.160 --> 0:07:10.920 really talking about maybe an adventure Well before we because 0:07:10.920 --> 0:07:14.080 I do like want to get into your dudes and 0:07:14.200 --> 0:07:16.760 your don't how you pick your clients, And we're gonna 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:19.880 get more into that, um for the horrible decision, because 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:22.120 everything that you're saying is going to be the meat 0:07:22.160 --> 0:07:24.400 and potatoes of this episode. So if you guys have 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:26.920 not picked up yet, we have a whole male escort 0:07:26.920 --> 0:07:29.840 and we're gonna deep dive into you know how how 0:07:29.920 --> 0:07:32.160 you kind of how your operation works. But before we 0:07:32.240 --> 0:07:34.280 do that, we're gonna go ahead and throw us into 0:07:34.320 --> 0:07:37.160 al vanilla sheet. Now, you guys may have heard us 0:07:37.160 --> 0:07:40.440 talk about a doll brothel before, but this one is 0:07:40.560 --> 0:07:42.920 in Las Vegas, which I want to bring up because 0:07:42.960 --> 0:07:45.440 it's one of the only cities that are semi open. 0:07:45.480 --> 0:07:47.120 I was about to say, I think I think the 0:07:47.200 --> 0:07:49.080 one that we talked about last time was in Europe 0:07:49.160 --> 0:07:51.160 or Germany or something. No, they we're trying to open 0:07:51.200 --> 0:07:53.480 one in Texas, but there's one in Canada. Okay, but 0:07:53.720 --> 0:07:55.440 definitely they have them in Europe. But like they're getting 0:07:55.440 --> 0:07:58.760 closer and closer. Now here's the interesting part. So UM, 0:07:59.480 --> 0:08:03.640 a fluid gender social lifestyle club that rents space to 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:06.440 a sex doll operation, is in Clark County and they're 0:08:06.480 --> 0:08:09.600 in federal court because they're trying to retain their business license. 0:08:09.840 --> 0:08:14.320 So the studio places basically operating as a fluid lifestyle 0:08:14.480 --> 0:08:18.600 learning center and they are an educational institution and have 0:08:18.800 --> 0:08:22.280 been since two thousand sixteen. However, there's allegations that the 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:24.480 property is being used as an illegal sex club and 0:08:24.560 --> 0:08:27.280 sex to all brothel, and they are suing back because 0:08:27.320 --> 0:08:30.320 they're basically saying that they don't want their business license 0:08:30.400 --> 0:08:33.480 provoked because they have not encouraged those things. So, you 0:08:33.559 --> 0:08:36.400 know what this reminds me of. We were at the 0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:40.200 bank trying to open up our business account and fucking 0:08:40.280 --> 0:08:42.120 our logo was at the top of course that said 0:08:42.160 --> 0:08:45.280 horrible decisions. Don't know why no, no, no, I know. 0:08:45.720 --> 0:08:47.640 So our business title just let you guys know, does 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:50.800 not It's just an acronym. There's no horrible decisions thing 0:08:50.840 --> 0:08:54.640 in there. But Alex needed to send us at this well, 0:08:54.720 --> 0:08:56.120 at this time, we were at the bank and we 0:08:56.200 --> 0:08:59.440 needed an actual letterhead for our business to open up 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:04.400 the accout the fucker sent us a big as horrible 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:06.280 decision at the top of the letter hand It's like, 0:09:06.400 --> 0:09:08.640 is this good? And I'm like, nigked, I just sent 0:09:08.720 --> 0:09:11.439 you the LC name and and so he put that 0:09:11.559 --> 0:09:14.120 on there, and literally we're at the bank and we 0:09:14.280 --> 0:09:17.319 just get started, like we all these questions, well, do 0:09:17.440 --> 0:09:20.160 you guys do anything involving sex, because if it's a 0:09:20.200 --> 0:09:23.199 sex based operation, we can't really open your business account here. 0:09:23.240 --> 0:09:25.600 And they just started asking all these questions about sex. 0:09:26.040 --> 0:09:28.319 It also reminds me when people like when I was 0:09:28.400 --> 0:09:31.839 out with when this podcast early you know started off early, Um, 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:34.600 I was kind of ashamed, especially working in corporate How 0:09:34.640 --> 0:09:37.680 to explain what my podcasts about. So instead of saying, 0:09:37.720 --> 0:09:40.440 you know, we do stigmatize Kase, I would. So it's 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:44.079 a podcast about women empowerment and sexual liberation and so 0:09:44.280 --> 0:09:47.400 that's what this reminds me of sexual health. Okay, the 0:09:47.440 --> 0:09:49.240 way Anthony have us remind us to come back and 0:09:49.280 --> 0:09:50.880 ask you about our bank account stuff and how that 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:54.800 works in your business. Um. So the sex Dolls experience, Okay, 0:09:55.160 --> 0:09:57.400 basically this is what they do. You get to go 0:09:57.440 --> 0:10:01.120 in a private room to learn about these dolls. It's 0:10:01.160 --> 0:10:05.080 an hourly rate. It's undisclosed according to their website. However, 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:09.000 the rooms have beds, couches, TVs, at least one stripper ful, 0:10:09.080 --> 0:10:12.360 and bondage equipment. Um. Now, the judge did not deny 0:10:12.679 --> 0:10:17.760 that the social venue um social sex. But she did 0:10:17.920 --> 0:10:20.400 say the judge, if people have sex, they're doing it 0:10:20.440 --> 0:10:24.280 in private rooms. Um. And there's nobody else involved because 0:10:24.280 --> 0:10:26.959 it's a doll. So that's why they're having such a 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:29.640 hard time figuring out what this place is because it's 0:10:29.679 --> 0:10:33.960 not technically a brothel because there's no one having sex. 0:10:34.040 --> 0:10:36.080 On the other I don't even gonna hold you, especially 0:10:36.240 --> 0:10:38.920 right now with everything with COVID, I would find some 0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:40.839 type of COVID law. There's no way you're going to 0:10:40.920 --> 0:10:46.359 sanitize everything to make this not be sanitizabal What sanitiza 0:10:46.559 --> 0:10:48.079 and that is the word. I feel like, you know 0:10:48.160 --> 0:10:50.439 what this made me think of? In New York. I 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:52.160 believe one of them I used to live by it. 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:54.240 I think it was on a forties something, the eighth 0:10:55.240 --> 0:10:59.160 one of the left few private viewing rooms for porn 0:10:59.600 --> 0:11:02.480 totally illegal because someone's alone and you don't know what 0:11:02.559 --> 0:11:04.360 they're doing when they're looking at that DVD. It's the 0:11:04.480 --> 0:11:06.839 same ship not the only thing I will say that 0:11:06.880 --> 0:11:09.640 ain't shit about these people? How is the educational center? 0:11:10.400 --> 0:11:14.120 Because you're learning about your body? Like just like, no, 0:11:14.400 --> 0:11:16.160 just like And y'all know, I don't really do science, 0:11:16.200 --> 0:11:18.360 but the anatomy is a part of science. And when 0:11:18.400 --> 0:11:21.320 you're learning as a doctor, they laid like little little 0:11:21.400 --> 0:11:23.720 dolls on the table for you to learn the anatomy 0:11:23.800 --> 0:11:26.199 of a human being. Oh, this is hell. Do you 0:11:26.360 --> 0:11:28.560 learn in the parts of a body? Ben with the doll? 0:11:30.600 --> 0:11:34.080 You gotta make it. Give me my law degreement. Mandy Cochran, 0:11:37.880 --> 0:11:39.480 I love to having listen I thought it was good, 0:11:39.600 --> 0:11:41.240 So now I did think that was good. To moving on, 0:11:41.400 --> 0:11:43.680 we're gonna get to the Horror derv Our. Horror derv 0:11:43.760 --> 0:11:45.439 segment is basically where we get you give you a 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:47.840 sex tip every week, and we have one from a listener. 0:11:47.880 --> 0:11:50.120 I love this one, and Anthony, we would love a 0:11:50.160 --> 0:11:52.680 sex tip from you as well, So you can while 0:11:52.760 --> 0:11:55.240 we read this tip sex tip from one of our listeners, 0:11:55.280 --> 0:11:56.840 if you could think of one to give our audience, 0:11:57.040 --> 0:11:58.840 just so you know too. It could be a sex 0:11:58.920 --> 0:12:02.040 tip that you have men to please women, or it 0:12:02.080 --> 0:12:04.960 could be a sex tip to give women to please men. 0:12:05.320 --> 0:12:06.559 So just think of one in your head while we 0:12:06.640 --> 0:12:09.120 read this. All right, Hey, Mandy and Wheezy. I know 0:12:09.200 --> 0:12:11.080 I probably sound like every other email, but I absolutely 0:12:11.080 --> 0:12:13.560 love you, I think and my husband and I get 0:12:13.600 --> 0:12:15.840 caught up all the episodes together thanks to this podcast. 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:18.600 We explore things he would he would have never even 0:12:18.640 --> 0:12:21.280 thought about. She put in parentheses. He's Jamaican. We heard 0:12:21.320 --> 0:12:24.079 you this, but anyway, I have a sex tip that 0:12:24.120 --> 0:12:27.000 will drive him crazy. If you're a man likes you 0:12:27.120 --> 0:12:29.599 to eat the groceries. For those of you don't know, 0:12:29.720 --> 0:12:33.599 that is the ass the bulla hole. When he's on 0:12:33.920 --> 0:12:36.760 his back, position the tip of your nose on his 0:12:36.880 --> 0:12:40.040 balls and move your face around so the balls and 0:12:40.520 --> 0:12:43.400 booty hole all caps and it says mandy voice are 0:12:43.480 --> 0:12:46.280 stimulated at the same time while also jerking him off. 0:12:46.559 --> 0:12:49.000 This can also be modified while licking the gooch. If 0:12:49.000 --> 0:12:50.920 you're scared to go lower as well, try this and 0:12:50.960 --> 0:12:55.599 your man will thank you the nose, she says. Um So, 0:12:56.520 --> 0:13:01.240 the thing about that is, um it not only smelling it, 0:13:01.480 --> 0:13:04.880 but like, so I've done it before, like not necessarily 0:13:04.960 --> 0:13:07.920 on purpose, but when you're down there licking the booda hole, 0:13:08.280 --> 0:13:11.800 you do make it. You still use saliva and spit, 0:13:11.920 --> 0:13:14.439 and now it gets wet down there in the booty hole. 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:16.600 You already gott like move the cheeks out the way. 0:13:16.920 --> 0:13:19.000 So my thing is, I don't want to drown. And 0:13:19.120 --> 0:13:21.240 to me, I don't like feeling like all that spit 0:13:21.400 --> 0:13:23.720 and all of because now it's boota juice and spit. 0:13:24.200 --> 0:13:25.640 I don't like that it's all in my nose. I 0:13:25.640 --> 0:13:27.839 feel like i'ma blow a little Buddha juice bubbles out 0:13:27.840 --> 0:13:29.520 of my nose. I don't like that I ain't even 0:13:29.520 --> 0:13:33.520 gonna hold you. Yeah, but even if you lean it 0:13:33.559 --> 0:13:36.600 while your tongue is there licking the buoda hole. Now 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:39.040 you got the spit in the boota juices going up 0:13:39.080 --> 0:13:43.400 your nostrils? Was this a hord? Duncan I feel? I 0:13:43.559 --> 0:13:46.480 feel like, do you get he laughing? I just feel 0:13:46.559 --> 0:13:50.959 like that's that's she's about to kill it, and I 0:13:51.080 --> 0:13:54.559 feel like it was aint expert. You know, I'll be 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:56.439 down there in the boot hole and I've done that, Like, 0:13:56.559 --> 0:13:59.240 I don't like all that spit getting up in my holes. Bro, 0:13:59.559 --> 0:14:01.880 So that cute if it works for her, I'm gonna 0:14:01.880 --> 0:14:05.439 tell you now, but where you may drown? Okay. So 0:14:06.040 --> 0:14:09.000 so we're gonna come to Anthony now. I'm sorry, you know. 0:14:09.600 --> 0:14:11.360 And that's the type of tip we would love to 0:14:11.440 --> 0:14:13.679 hear from here. Since you out here, says you out 0:14:13.720 --> 0:14:16.280 here getting paid and ship, can you go ahead and 0:14:16.520 --> 0:14:18.280 let us know if your tip is for men or 0:14:18.360 --> 0:14:21.880 for women? And what your sex tip is? Um, Actually 0:14:22.160 --> 0:14:31.000 it's for men and it is more so think about seduction. 0:14:31.960 --> 0:14:41.560 Sexual subduction more like a um more like a dance okay, 0:14:42.600 --> 0:14:43.920 not a lot. So this will be hard for a 0:14:43.960 --> 0:14:50.360 white man. You need rhythm, okay, so sorry, So seduction, 0:14:50.520 --> 0:14:53.840 what tips do you have for men to seduce. That's 0:14:53.880 --> 0:14:56.640 what I was saying. We make of seduction more like 0:14:56.840 --> 0:15:05.520 a dance than a battle. Okay, what if they can't dance, Anthony, Well, 0:15:05.720 --> 0:15:08.280 you can still think of it that way. It's it's 0:15:08.320 --> 0:15:13.800 a give and take. It is having fun. It is 0:15:15.040 --> 0:15:19.760 um wanting to discover so much about the person that 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:23.840 you're with versus I gotta get this in terms of 0:15:23.920 --> 0:15:27.680 like seduction is not being physical. You mean, that's how 0:15:27.760 --> 0:15:28.960 I take it. I mean, when you think about like 0:15:29.000 --> 0:15:30.840 the book The Artist Deduction, one of the most popular 0:15:30.920 --> 0:15:34.080 books for sex, right, people always talk about how it 0:15:34.160 --> 0:15:37.600 starts before you get to the bedroom, And I think 0:15:37.720 --> 0:15:41.080 that's mainly the issue that men always have with sex 0:15:41.200 --> 0:15:44.880 is that like sometimes we don't even really see uh 0:15:45.480 --> 0:15:48.640 side to them until we get to the bedroom. Like 0:15:48.800 --> 0:15:51.560 I think flirtation can go beyond just touching me. Like 0:15:52.120 --> 0:15:55.840 certain things that you're saying, you know, I contact as 0:15:55.840 --> 0:15:57.840 a Anthony, I ain't gonna hold you, you'll tip just 0:15:57.880 --> 0:16:00.960 sounded like a horoscope. I ain't stand ship, like I 0:16:01.000 --> 0:16:02.760 didn't get shipped out of it, Like I need to 0:16:02.840 --> 0:16:07.680 know a tip, Like are we dancing actually in the 0:16:07.720 --> 0:16:10.040 living room if we're not really dancing because we're bringing 0:16:10.120 --> 0:16:14.239 up rhythm. Like, what is something that you do in seduction? 0:16:14.640 --> 0:16:17.120 Is it how you look into her eyes? Is it? 0:16:17.320 --> 0:16:19.680 Do you hold her hand and rub it smoothly? You 0:16:19.720 --> 0:16:23.280 know what I mean? Like? How do you seduce? You 0:16:23.360 --> 0:16:30.000 get what I mean? Well? Uh, with women, what you 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:37.080 have to do is deal with her mind and thinking 0:16:37.120 --> 0:16:40.960 about you in a sexual way. I always say that 0:16:41.160 --> 0:16:45.480 if a woman is not trying to rip your clothes 0:16:45.520 --> 0:16:51.440 off in private, then you've done something wrong. Okay, So 0:16:53.240 --> 0:16:55.680 I like that. We just said that last we were Yeah, 0:16:55.760 --> 0:16:59.120 we just had that guy who was saying how even 0:16:59.160 --> 0:17:00.880 when he knows a woman us to have sex with him, 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:05.040 he's not necessarily pressed right away, Like he mentioned that, 0:17:05.280 --> 0:17:07.159 you know, he likes to wait it out. And I 0:17:07.359 --> 0:17:10.280 liked that because I think that more often than not, 0:17:10.720 --> 0:17:13.359 like we normally, it's the instant gratification, like let's just 0:17:13.400 --> 0:17:16.640 get it over with, let's suck whatever, even a nightcap 0:17:16.680 --> 0:17:18.640 for instance. Mandy and I debate about this all the time, 0:17:18.720 --> 0:17:22.040 but I've always liked kind of spending time alone before 0:17:22.119 --> 0:17:24.040 the first time we have sex, which is a lot 0:17:24.119 --> 0:17:26.840 of people's first time. Right you go upstairs, you go 0:17:26.880 --> 0:17:29.360 to their apartment, they come to yours whatever, and then 0:17:29.400 --> 0:17:32.680 you fuck. I like that like lingering feeling. I feel 0:17:32.720 --> 0:17:34.280 like that's going to give me the rip the clothes 0:17:34.320 --> 0:17:37.080 off moment. If we don't kiss and touch and flirt 0:17:37.119 --> 0:17:40.720 before that, I'm not as ship. I went hiking and 0:17:40.920 --> 0:17:43.200 just had adults compoleo on a coffee and a bitch. 0:17:43.240 --> 0:17:45.639 I was ready to fuck. So I don't know about you, 0:17:45.720 --> 0:17:48.720 but he the average woman ain't always ready well ship 0:17:48.960 --> 0:17:50.879 all the sick with someone. I was compoo bitch and 0:17:50.880 --> 0:17:53.520 I saw him every day. So uh, Anthony's tip is 0:17:53.560 --> 0:17:58.440 a dance, Mandy's a chicken and all right for the 0:17:58.880 --> 0:18:01.200 for the horrible decision in today we go, Yeah, we 0:18:01.280 --> 0:18:02.840 get it to the meeting. But t is now it 0:18:03.000 --> 0:18:05.000 is a male escorting one on one. So we're gonna 0:18:05.000 --> 0:18:07.040 start with the first question. You wrote in your bio 0:18:07.200 --> 0:18:08.919 that you were in the military before. I think we've 0:18:08.960 --> 0:18:12.720 only had one of the person was being nasty right yeah? Maybe? Yeah? 0:18:12.920 --> 0:18:16.160 And UM, I'm curious to know so that was your job? 0:18:16.480 --> 0:18:18.440 How did you get started escorting? How many years have 0:18:18.520 --> 0:18:23.320 you been doing this? Um? Nine years? I started in 0:18:23.960 --> 0:18:32.879 two thousand and how did it happen? The crisis. Well, no, 0:18:34.119 --> 0:18:36.800 I was in I think it was right around that. 0:18:38.960 --> 0:18:42.960 I was in law school, okay, and I was at 0:18:43.000 --> 0:18:47.680 a law library in d C. And uh I saw 0:18:47.800 --> 0:18:53.359 this woman, uh that looked quite attractive. She was they're 0:18:53.480 --> 0:18:55.800 doing some research. She was a partner at a law firm. 0:18:57.240 --> 0:19:00.679 And uh, we struck up a conversation and it went 0:19:00.840 --> 0:19:07.520 quite well. She asked me out for dinner. Um, we connected, 0:19:08.920 --> 0:19:11.600 and I thought that she was going to ask me 0:19:11.880 --> 0:19:16.120 over for the night, but she asked me to instead. 0:19:17.680 --> 0:19:21.000 She gave me an indecent proposal. She asked me to 0:19:21.480 --> 0:19:24.840 bring some pleasure and some joy and some excitement to 0:19:24.960 --> 0:19:30.320 her life. Now you have to understand her mindset and 0:19:30.760 --> 0:19:36.639 mindset of many clients, at least of mine. Um, she 0:19:36.920 --> 0:19:41.800 was very successful in her profession. She was at the 0:19:41.840 --> 0:19:45.679 top of her game. Very little time for bs, very 0:19:45.720 --> 0:19:49.600 little time for boyfriend, very little time to date. H 0:19:49.960 --> 0:19:54.800 Plus UM, a lot of men because she was very 0:19:54.880 --> 0:19:59.480 beautiful and very successful, a lot of men felt intimidated. 0:19:59.560 --> 0:20:05.080 So she and get approached a lot either and uh, 0:20:05.600 --> 0:20:11.119 so she decided to asked me to fill in as 0:20:11.160 --> 0:20:15.439 a boyfriend for her at her beck in call. Did 0:20:15.480 --> 0:20:19.320 she make it sound like that at the time. Uh no, 0:20:19.680 --> 0:20:23.160 but uh, because it doesn't sound like it's when you wanted. 0:20:23.240 --> 0:20:26.359 It sounds like I need you to do this for me. No, no, no, 0:20:26.760 --> 0:20:32.240 she knew that. Uh my time was limited. Also, she 0:20:32.320 --> 0:20:36.440 would act, are you available such a date at such 0:20:36.480 --> 0:20:42.240 a time? Now, Um, we did that. We connected. We 0:20:42.400 --> 0:20:47.960 had lots of good times in and out of the bedroom. Um. 0:20:48.640 --> 0:20:52.240 And she introduced me to some of her friends that 0:20:52.359 --> 0:20:57.440 were in the same boat. Um, were you getting paid 0:20:57.560 --> 0:21:02.880 at the time? Yeah, she was. She was happing me out. Okay, 0:21:02.920 --> 0:21:04.159 So I didn't know if it happened when she went 0:21:04.200 --> 0:21:07.840 to her friend. So when it first started, how what 0:21:08.160 --> 0:21:10.399 was payment like? Because I'm curious to know because I 0:21:10.480 --> 0:21:13.320 feel like when I start hearing stories from escorts, but 0:21:13.520 --> 0:21:15.240 whether they be male or female. I've ever listened to 0:21:15.280 --> 0:21:17.440 a show or whatever. It starts like a sugar Mama 0:21:17.520 --> 0:21:21.440 type of thing. Was it for you immediate cash? Was 0:21:21.520 --> 0:21:23.760 it gifts? How did that start? And how do you 0:21:23.840 --> 0:21:26.760 know how to go about it? There was cash? There 0:21:26.920 --> 0:21:30.240 was some gifts. Also. Can I ask you a question? 0:21:30.440 --> 0:21:33.359 And this is this is because and this is just 0:21:33.440 --> 0:21:35.680 me finding it. I'm at a library. I get it. 0:21:36.000 --> 0:21:39.639 Can I ask you what color she is? Oh she 0:21:39.840 --> 0:21:42.960 was black? Oh she was black. Well, okay, gott to 0:21:43.119 --> 0:21:45.359 be I'm not gonna lie. I thought I was a 0:21:45.400 --> 0:21:47.320 white woman wanting a black man. I'm not gonna lie. 0:21:47.840 --> 0:21:49.399 That was one of the questions I had for you. 0:21:49.600 --> 0:21:53.600 So I, oh, let me, let me, let me finish this, 0:21:54.160 --> 0:21:58.040 and I certainly, I'll certainly get to your question now. 0:21:58.560 --> 0:22:04.600 When she started introducing me to her friends, UM, I figured, 0:22:05.840 --> 0:22:08.680 if I'm going to do this, then I'm going to 0:22:08.800 --> 0:22:12.840 do it right. I researched the business of providing companionship 0:22:12.880 --> 0:22:17.879 to women. I got a male escort mentor and I 0:22:18.000 --> 0:22:23.000 got a mail excort coach. I paid these guys to 0:22:23.200 --> 0:22:25.640 show me the ropes. Both of them had books, both 0:22:25.720 --> 0:22:28.080 of them had been in the business for these ten years. 0:22:28.840 --> 0:22:32.000 They taught me the ends and out, what to do 0:22:32.160 --> 0:22:34.320 with women, what not to do with women, how to 0:22:34.440 --> 0:22:37.560 present myself, how to do all those things over and 0:22:37.640 --> 0:22:44.480 above just right. M hmm um. And that's the other thing. 0:22:45.960 --> 0:22:50.800 There's more to this than fucking. There's a hell of 0:22:50.880 --> 0:22:52.960 a lot more to it. I have clients that I've 0:22:53.040 --> 0:22:56.240 never even seen before. We just talked on the phone. 0:22:56.640 --> 0:23:03.280 Women are paying for that. Yeah, only bit just yeah, 0:23:03.320 --> 0:23:05.760