1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 1: Love me fucking Jebels. Second date update. A reasonable excuse 2 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 1: to not call somebody back after a first date would be, what, 3 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 1: like they're a bad kisser? Yeah, that'd be good one. Okay, 4 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: how about cutting their fingernails too short? Would that be No? 5 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: That's too far unreasonable and weird that you're noticing that 6 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 1: we've got Leslie on the phone. Leslie? Hey, yeah, eys, 7 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:25,640 Speaker 1: how are you doing pretty good? So you want to 8 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 1: do a second date update on a dude that you 9 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 1: went out with. Tell us a little bit about it. Well, 10 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: his name is Mark, and we went out like nine 11 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:41,480 Speaker 1: days ago. I'm not counting, I swear seconds um, but yeah, 12 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 1: we went out nine days ago. And it was one 13 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 1: of those things where you get into it and you're like, wow, 14 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 1: like I actually can communicate with this guy and not 15 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:52,159 Speaker 1: want to shoot myself. What did you guys? Do? I 16 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 1: totally know that feeling. We went to a dinner. It 17 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 1: was a nice Italian place, you know, we like ordered appetizers, 18 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: we had salad, we had like the whole Wow, you 19 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 1: will remember everything about this day, like how long it's been, 20 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 1: and then you're just like and also, one of the 21 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: forks I had was a little dingy, So I sent 22 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:12,959 Speaker 1: the fork back. You really enjoyed this day? No, it 23 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 1: was so much fun. And he's like funny and he's 24 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 1: hute and he's smart. I mean, like, you know, you 25 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 1: hardly meet smart guys nowadays, and you're like, wow, like 26 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 1: he actually has an opinion. Wow, you you really like Mark? 27 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 1: How did it end? We just gave each other a 28 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 1: really nice long hug, you know, it was like a 29 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:35,680 Speaker 1: lingering hug, and Leslie, I picture, you're not letting him 30 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:39,959 Speaker 1: go and just like smelling his hair. Okay, so he's 31 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 1: dragging him into my apartment now. It was really really 32 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: sweet and he was like, oh, I'm going to call 33 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 1: you soon, and I was like all right, and and 34 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 1: that was it. Have you tried to get a hold 35 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 1: of him? No, you know, I'm one of those girls. 36 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 1: I'm old fashioned. I don't want to like push it. 37 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: So I haven't contacted him because he said he was 38 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 1: going to call me, so I didn't. I didn't think 39 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: I should, which tubl is surprises by because he still 40 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: thinks that you clipped off a piece of his hair. Yeah. Yeah, 41 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: I haven't called him, but I have been watching him. Okay, 42 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 1: we're gonna call him right after this and get your 43 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 1: answer as to why hasn't called you back? Okay, okay, 44 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: brooking Jubil in the morning. Second update. Remember, if you 45 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 1: want a second date update for yourself, you can email 46 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: us Brooke and Jubile at Move one two five dot com. 47 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 1: That's when someone blows you off after you got on 48 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: a date with him and you want to figure out why. 49 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 1: Leslie emailed us about a guy named Mark. She had 50 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 1: a great time on the date. At the end of 51 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:37,960 Speaker 1: the date, they hugged and said goodbye. She hasn't tried 52 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 1: to contact him. She hasn't heard from him, and she 53 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 1: really really really really really really really really really wants 54 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:47,919 Speaker 1: to know why, right, Leslie? Okay, maybe maybe one less really, 55 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: but yet, Leslie break she was excited. I can get 56 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:53,799 Speaker 1: behind a girl that was excited about him date. It's cool. 57 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 1: I'm not rooping you for it. I think it's awesome 58 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 1: that you're excited about it. All right? Are you ready 59 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 1: to call him? Yes? Are you nervous a little bit? Okay? Yeah? 60 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna dial them right now. Hello. Hey, 61 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 1: can I speak to Mark? Please? Yeah? This is Mark, Mark, 62 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 1: what's up? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in 63 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:23,080 Speaker 1: the morning on Moving ninety two point five. How are 64 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 1: you wait? I'm sorry, who's this Jewil from the radio 65 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:30,359 Speaker 1: station Moving ninety two point five. We do the morning 66 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 1: show here, all right, Um, so you're excited. I wanted 67 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 1: to call. I wanted to call and talk to you 68 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 1: about a mutual friend we have if you got a 69 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 1: second Um, it's a girl named Leslie that you went 70 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 1: out on a date with. She said that you had 71 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: a great time and then, um, you haven't called her back, 72 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: and so you know, we were all just kind of 73 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 1: wondering what happened on the date, if there was any 74 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: particular reason that you weren't calling her back. We're not 75 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 1: actually honorating, right, Yes, we we are. Here's the here's 76 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 1: the deal, Mark, Okay, we do this segment on our 77 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 1: show called second Date Update. Leslie emailed us about you. 78 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 1: She wants to know why you didn't call her back. Uh, 79 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 1: you know, it's just one of those situations where just 80 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: it's not going to work out. But she said you 81 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 1: had like over a two hour dinner Mark, I mean, 82 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 1: why would why would you hang out with somebody for 83 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:26,039 Speaker 1: so long if you weren't into him? I mean, yeah, 84 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: I don't know if you know, just something she said 85 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 1: during the day that just kind of, you know, put 86 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: me off. What did she say? What did she say 87 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 1: that put you off? She was saying that she and 88 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:41,359 Speaker 1: this friend of ours met by taking part in this 89 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 1: like weight loss program. Okay, and she was saying that, 90 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: you know, she had lost over seventy pounds in the 91 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 1: last like year or so, okay, great for her, and 92 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: something about that. I just like, I started thinking, like, well, 93 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 1: what if we like it's serious, I mean, you get 94 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 1: married or whatever, and you know she gains all that 95 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 1: way back. Something about the fact that she lost seventy pounds. Wait, 96 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 1: let me get this straight, Mark, And I just started 97 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 1: picturing her like Mark. She would look like if Mark 98 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:16,720 Speaker 1: has seventy pounds on the stage, Mark, Mark, you are 99 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 1: not calling her back because of possible future weight gain? 100 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 1: Come on, like you got I mean, look, Leslie, Yes, Mark, 101 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,679 Speaker 1: Leslie's actually on the phone and heard what you just said. 102 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:35,599 Speaker 1: Oh my god, God, Mark, you God is unbelievable. Like 103 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 1: I did something positive in my life and you're judging 104 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 1: me for it. You're like, oh, man, what if she 105 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 1: gained seventy pounds in like ten years? I mean, yeah, 106 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 1: I mean, how superficial do you found right now? Exactly? Mark? 107 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 1: You know that everybody that you meet in life has 108 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 1: the potential to gain weight at a certain Yeah, why 109 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: do you see that as a negative thing? Why don't 110 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 1: you see that as something positive? Like she has determination 111 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 1: and cares about her house. No, I mean good for her, 112 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 1: that's awesome for her. But the idea of the potential 113 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 1: to go back to that while being with someone in 114 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:09,840 Speaker 1: a relationship, I just he doesn't care about health lydia. 115 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 1: He cares about hotness, exactly. Mark. Wow, I don't even 116 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 1: know what to say right now, this is unbelievable. Mark. 117 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 1: I agree with you on the hottest thing. I'm totally 118 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 1: with you, But I would like to date a hot girl, 119 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:23,840 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But you don't think it's 120 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 1: a little judgmental to like not go out with her again? Yeah? 121 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I can't change these sort of 122 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 1: feelings that I have. You know, I can't. I can't 123 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 1: change compassion, you know, kindness. Well, that's a first date, 124 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:41,040 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like, honestly, Leslie, I think 125 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 1: what you did is great, but it's a first date. 126 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 1: If he feels that way after our first date. If 127 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 1: he's like, look, I'm scared she may gain weight back, 128 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 1: then fine totally. I mean now, I mean thank you, 129 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 1: thank you guys for helping me, because now I know 130 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 1: exactly the kind of person that he is. I mean, 131 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 1: you know, I lost so many pounds. I mean, it's 132 00:06:57,560 --> 00:06:59,279 Speaker 1: been like the best year of my life. And then 133 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:01,360 Speaker 1: to find out like that there are guys like this 134 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 1: out out there dating. It's at least I know now 135 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 1: and I'm not like three months down the line like, wow, 136 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:08,599 Speaker 1: you're a real jerk. Yeah. At the end of these 137 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 1: we always ask if you guys want to go on 138 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 1: a second date. Um, I think I'm good. I think 139 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 1: I'm good. Mark, Do you want to go out with 140 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 1: Leslie again? Or I think we'll pass answer? All right, Leslie, 141 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 1: keep up the good work with your weight loss. H Mark, 142 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 1: No fat chicks. How about that broken jewel in the morning.