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Speaker 2: Hey, Cheeky's, it's your girls Intel. I hope you're doing well.

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Speaker 2: I just wanted to give them any life update. I

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Speaker 2: don't know if you remember, but I was the one

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Speaker 2: because you also gave me advice on that. All right,

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Speaker 2: So I just got done listening to your spiritual Reality

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Speaker 2: Versus Religion podcast, and I've been pondering with what religion

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Speaker 2: you in the way that you grew up Christian, went

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Speaker 2: to Christian Church. But I also empathize in the sense

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Speaker 2: And I did attend the Catholic Church as well, and

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Speaker 2: And I'm gonna be nosy. What are you going to

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Speaker 2: Love you, Thank you so much for Awie's answering.

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Speaker 1: Bye, oh Chantelle. I love, love love the updates. We

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Speaker 1: love the updates here on dear cheekies guys. So I'm

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Speaker 1: we have decided that we're going to baptize our child

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Speaker 1: Thank you well, my beautiful anonymous listener. Yeah, that's to me. Also,

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Speaker 1: You are so cute. Alec, Thank you so much for

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Speaker 1: your question. I love it. Absolutely. We watched Selena the movie.

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