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Speaker 1: It's topic time.

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Speaker 2: Called eight hundred five eight five one five one to

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Speaker 2: join it to the discussion with the Breakfast Club talking about.

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Speaker 3: It morning everybody.

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Speaker 4: It's DJ env Charlemagne the God. We are the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 4: Now Charlomagne is out, so we got our guest hosts

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Speaker 4: with us. We have Claudia Jordan. My wife Gia is

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Speaker 4: here as well. Now we're asking if you're just joining

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Speaker 4: us eight hundred five A five one oh five one.

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Speaker 4: Yesterday after the show, the ladies of the Breakfast Club

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Speaker 4: were talking about shooting their shots and they were saying

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Speaker 4: when they shoot their shot with a man, they always

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Speaker 4: hit one hundred percent from the line.

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Speaker 1: And they were saying that their relationships when they shoot

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Speaker 1: their shot, last a little longer.

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Speaker 4: So we're asking, ladies, have you ever shot your shot

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Speaker 4: and how did it turn out?

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Speaker 1: Eight hundred five a five one oh five to one.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna ask you a question, yes, ma'am.

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Speaker 5: So they said that when they shoot their shot from

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Speaker 5: the line, it usually goes in. Those are their longest relationships.

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Speaker 5: So from a man's point of view, why do you

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Speaker 5: think that is? Is it because the man is flattered

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Speaker 5: because he knows that the woman is one hundred percent

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Speaker 5: in that she really wants to be there because she

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Speaker 5: approached him, because she went for the gusto.

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Speaker 3: What do you think it is?

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Speaker 1: I think it's a little bit of everything.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you still have to look attractive, like you

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Speaker 4: just can't shoot your shot, and you know you gotta

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Speaker 4: you know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, look attractive. You still have to look attraction.

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Speaker 3: You still have to be active, yes, okay, And.

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Speaker 1: I think it's I think it's dope.

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Speaker 4: I think a lot of times I don't think necessarily

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Speaker 4: women shoot the shots as much as men do, so

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Speaker 4: I think when they do, it's kind of intriguing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, makes you, you know, want to see, well, what

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Speaker 4: Let's have a conversation, let's talk, and then you know,

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Speaker 4: I think most men feel like if a woman shooting

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Speaker 4: the shots, she's probably horny and I can probably get

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Speaker 4: it in a little faster.

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Speaker 1: Maybe, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I think we're also more efficient.

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Speaker 6: I think men cast a big net and you're trying

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Speaker 6: to holler at anything. We're fat ass, and we like

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Speaker 6: we'll look at you first, like okay, I cauld see.

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Speaker 3: We're looking at the shoes, your nails, like we a

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Speaker 3: man deliberate. Yeah, we don't look more deliberate right about.

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Speaker 3: That's why we have a higher success rate.

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Speaker 6: Just like oh as we're like, okay, he looks stable, Okay,

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Speaker 6: he seems nice, nice smile, says.

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Speaker 3: We look at different things.

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Speaker 1: So when's the last time you shot your shot at

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Speaker 1: an individual?

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Speaker 6: So just straight up with someone I just met, I

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Speaker 6: don't really do it that often. I will definitely give

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Speaker 6: the cues where like give them the red the green

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Speaker 6: light where they know it's okay.

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Speaker 3: To what are cues?

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Speaker 1: Like what's the cue?

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Speaker 6: Like you know, you give a little flirty look or

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Speaker 6: whatever all that kind of stuff. But I will say

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Speaker 6: I did get turned down one time with someone that

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Speaker 6: I dated, and I try to spin the block again.

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Speaker 3: Oh, this is super.

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Speaker 6: Embarrassing, and I don't embarrassing. So anyways, this is guy

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Speaker 6: that I thought was the one. Okay, so we had

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Speaker 6: broken up.

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Speaker 3: But like, no, babe, wait why'd you break up?

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Speaker 6: So we were kind of young, and he came into

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Speaker 6: like a big contract and so like he gotta kind

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Speaker 6: of go live his life a little bit and have

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Speaker 6: his little fun. And I understood that, Like I wish

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Speaker 6: I would have met him like way before you know. Anyways,

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Speaker 6: long story short, I always felt like he was like

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Speaker 6: but it wasn't bad.

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Speaker 3: So he was in.

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Speaker 6: Town for an awards show and they were hosting a

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Speaker 6: to be there, so I packed an overnight bag.

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Speaker 3: Oh so you was ready.

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Speaker 1: He was like, he.

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Speaker 6: Backed an overnight bag, right, And I'm like, thinking, surely

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Speaker 3: With me afterwards. Of course, why would you not. He

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Speaker 6: So anyways, at the end of the night, I was hovering,

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Speaker 3: He's like yeah. I was like, but I brought up

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Speaker 3: open night. Jee you didn't tell him that. No you didn't, Claudia, Jeezi, Claudia,

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Speaker 3: tell me you didn't tell him that. I said it

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Speaker 3: with my eyes, eyes, I said my eyes.

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Speaker 6: So anyways, I went in the car and I cried right,

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Speaker 6: and I filmed I did one of those twenty well

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Speaker 6: I did the tyree thing.

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Speaker 3: I filmed myself crying right to.

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Speaker 6: Remind myself to never do that's okay, to remind myself

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Speaker 6: to never go out like that again.

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Speaker 3: And then I told my friends the story, and I

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Speaker 3: told them, but I.

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Speaker 6: Bought an open night to this day, they would like

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Speaker 6: put bags undernease my comments and times.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I did get shot. I did the last

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Speaker 3: my shot, my shot.

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Speaker 6: So wait, but and he never called you back after

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Speaker 6: we talked, but it wasn't We never went there.

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Speaker 3: It was awkward.

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Speaker 1: She's not going back there now.

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Speaker 5: Because for me, logically that doesn't seem like a turndown.

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Speaker 5: That seems like, oh maybe I would, but I have

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Speaker 5: plans now. That is he turned all afterwards to say, hey,

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Speaker 5: you know, so you brought that overnight bag, so.

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Speaker 3: You know what's up.

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Speaker 1: That's a turndown.

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Speaker 4: That that's what more was like, you know what, I'm

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Speaker 1: But since he didn't that second.

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Speaker 5: Well, we don't know what his plans are.

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Speaker 3: I never liked to presume. Once again, I came in second.

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Speaker 7: Hello this hi, this is Destiny, my Destiny. Are you?

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Speaker 7: I love you?

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Speaker 8: I love you?

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Speaker 3: Like that came in first, thank you. I wanted did

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Speaker 3: you shoot your shot at somebody?

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Speaker 1: Destiny?

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Speaker 7: Okay, the one time in life.

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Speaker 8: I never did this ever.

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Speaker 7: So I was in college and it was like a

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Speaker 7: They came to our college and it was this guy.

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Speaker 9: He kept looking at me like, and I was telling

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Speaker 9: my friends like, oh he's still.

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Speaker 8: Girl, and my friend Zoe he said, oh, you're you're

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Speaker 8: so bad. Go over that prompting when you think you're

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Speaker 8: all that. I said, Okay, I'm gonna go talk to him,

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Speaker 8: and he literally left in my face and for the

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Speaker 8: damn it man.

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Speaker 5: So when you went up to him and spoke, what

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Speaker 5: was it that you said before he laughed in your face?

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Speaker 7: I was just like, Hi, I see that. We keep

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Speaker 7: making eye. Clan Bag my name was says to me, and.

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Speaker 8: I just was trying to see, you know, which like

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Speaker 10: Or something like that.

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Speaker 1: It was just something like laying like, hey, damn.

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Speaker 3: That's it actually live.

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Speaker 8: When we got he was just like, I'm married, and

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Speaker 8: he was like, my wife married me for lady. He

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Speaker 10: He married me for lady.

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Speaker 8: And this girl from college that's living on a little

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Speaker 7: Dan.

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Speaker 3: I wonder who the comedian was, some low.

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Speaker 8: Name guy from Savannah, Georgia.

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Speaker 4: Did you do the breath check before you went over there?

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Speaker 4: Did you do like to make sure you was good money?

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Speaker 10: I was good?

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Speaker 8: Let me tell you I was. I was cute that day.

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Speaker 8: I'm a makeup arty, damn, so my makeup was everything.

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Speaker 8: And he even said like, oh you're you're crue, but

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Speaker 8: my wife married me. I'm the kid.

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Speaker 1: Damn.

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Speaker 8: It was little bit he kept saying, I literally ate

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Speaker 5: Sorry for two right now. So as far as kicking

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Speaker 5: it to guys right now, I'm against it.

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Speaker 3: But guys nowadays think they're a bad bitch. Though guys

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Speaker 5: I can't imagine kicking it to a guy if I

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Speaker 5: especially especially now, because men are very, very full of themselves,

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Speaker 3: Have you told me that you were a bad bitch.

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Speaker 6: He says it a lot he has said that, So

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Speaker 6: this is nothing is definitely sad.

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Speaker 3: Who's mat you or your wife? Oh? My God? Depends

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Speaker 3: on what God you're supposed to answer that different wednesdays.

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Speaker 3: He's pretty bad wife, don't calling myself? Look at your

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Speaker 3: at your line?

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Speaker 4: That five a five one oh five one? Women, ladies?

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Speaker 4: Do you kick it to men? Do you shoot your

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Speaker 4: shot at the guy? How did that go down?

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Speaker 3: Let's talk about it.

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Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast clumb On be Eat.

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Speaker 2: It's topic time call eight hundred and five five one

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Speaker 4: Up Morning everybody. It's DJ Envy Charlomagne the God. We

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Speaker 4: are the Breakfast Club. Charlomagne's out to Monday. We have

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Speaker 4: Claudia Jordan and Gia and my wife as guest host

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Speaker 4: and we're asking if you're just joining us eight hundred

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Speaker 4: five eight five one oh five. When we're asking women,

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Speaker 4: have you shot your shot and how did it work out?

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Speaker 4: We were talking behind the scenes yesterday and one of

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Speaker 4: our producers says, she shoots a shot all the time,

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Speaker 4: she's one hundred percent with it and every relationship that

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Speaker 4: she shot a shot actually lasted the longest.

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Speaker 3: So we're asking, ladies, have you shot your shot? Tracy?

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Speaker 1: Good morning, good morning. How are you feeling, Tracy? Where

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Speaker 1: are you calling him from?

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Speaker 10: I am am Rochester.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're talking about shooting your shot.

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Speaker 10: Oh yeah, I had a friend who he was raised

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Speaker 10: by the in laws of my clubin so he's not related,

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Speaker 10: but he's always he was always around, brilliant, beautiful black man.

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Speaker 10: And three years ago I shot, you know, I shot

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Speaker 10: my shot with him and as of two months ago,

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Speaker 10: he's my husband.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, nice.

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Speaker 3: So it worked for you. So he lets you we

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Speaker 3: did so, he let you bring the overnight back. So

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Speaker 3: what did you say, how did you highlight him?

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Speaker 1: What was what was the line?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 10: Well, from the beginning, my family, our family has tried

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Speaker 5: We're happy for yous and it's not worked out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah you what's your name, Troy Rider? That's your mother's

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Speaker 4: Oh there you go. Now you sound good, Troy Reader.

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Speaker 4: Go talk to us when you when you shoot your shot, mama.

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Speaker 9: And he was like yes, but he gave me his

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Speaker 3: You guys are still together.

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Speaker 9: No, it didn't work out, but I was never trying

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Speaker 9: It's like either they gonna go they like you, or

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Speaker 6: So you just want to have a little phone with him,

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Speaker 9: I mean, not just necessarily just have fun. But I

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Speaker 9: So we did that. We went out, hung out.

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Speaker 9: We still talk to this day, but we're not like

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Speaker 5: Okay, Sirra Sean, let me ask you a question. How

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Speaker 3: I don't care. I was thinking the same thing, like

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Speaker 6: But in this new bad Bitch era, I think that

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Speaker 3: I think that there's something psychological there.

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Speaker 5: No no, no, it's not about money. It's just about the

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Speaker 3: It turns me off. No, no, no.

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Speaker 5: The idea of it completely turns me off. No, I

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Speaker 3: If he is not.

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Speaker 5: I am not going to push the envelope and put

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Speaker 3: And I'm further not going to.

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Speaker 3: Oh please stay married, because they're not courting these days.

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Speaker 5: But now here's the thing. Do you feed into that

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Speaker 3: No, because I'm with you, I'm still holding out. I

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Speaker 6: If I'm masculine towards you, it makes me kind of

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Speaker 3: But you should.

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Speaker 1: I think I think that it is nothing wrong.

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Speaker 5: I'm not talking about you're misunderstanding me, talking about if

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Speaker 5: I love the push pull, the back and forth where

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Speaker 3: Tip for tat type of way at the beginning.

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Speaker 5: Whenever it's in the beginning, I as the woman, I

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Speaker 5: going to be, you know, buying you gifts. I'm not

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Speaker 5: If I'm out and I see something cute for you, yes,

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Speaker 5: if it comes from the heart, but I'm not going

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Speaker 1: That's why a lot of women are single.

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Speaker 3: Right there.

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Speaker 4: They see something they want, they see something they like,

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Speaker 4: they better go see what's going on with that thing

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Speaker 4: that they like or see because they're not going.

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Speaker 1: To see it again.

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Speaker 4: If you say something you like, you go approach that man. Hey,

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Speaker 4: your name? I think you're handsome. Why don't we go

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Speaker 5: But if he thought that you were cute, he would

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Speaker 5: have kicked it to Well, then that's not that masculine.

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Speaker 5: I don't want it only man either, though, exactly want

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Speaker 3: Listen, here's the lu All you need to do is dunk.

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Speaker 3: I'm here. If you don't kick it to me, you

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Speaker 3: don't look in my direction.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, not.

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Speaker 4: Every man can. Don't be interested, Not every man could.

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Speaker 4: Dun't be too sure.

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Speaker 6: thinking down the line, Do I have to get on

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Speaker 3: Do?

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Speaker 10: Ladies?

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Speaker 4: This single Claudia, you see a man out there, you

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Speaker 3: The world is the world got three more years? The

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Speaker 3: I don't even know the universe is messing with her.

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Speaker 3: It's a test. Claudia, Well, my.

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Speaker 6: Mother told me that this lady and it doesn't When

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Speaker 3: There's a lady in Italy that they said supposedly said

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Speaker 6: My dad left this one lady from my mom and

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Speaker 3: Will forever have issues Jesus Christ.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, So anyways, I'm only dating if I get a

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Speaker 3: I don't trust my own meter and pick her. I

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Speaker 1: About that, all right.

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Speaker 4: Well, when we come back, we got a room and

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Speaker 6: Talk about our girl Jess hilarious and musty people and

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Speaker 3: It's all going down and dms. It's a whole lot.

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Speaker 1: Going on, all right. And also we have a huge

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