1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: Ruthie's Table for presented by Sky. 2 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:09,600 Speaker 2: I think part of the reason I love cooking so 3 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 2: much is that I if I'm working on a book, yeah, 4 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 2: it's years of pretty isolated work in which I'm not 5 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:22,640 Speaker 2: getting a huge amount of day to day affirmation, and 6 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:25,320 Speaker 2: I think there are times when you can. I mean, 7 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:28,479 Speaker 2: I'm a relatively confident writer, but I but of course 8 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 2: for any of us, there are times when you sort 9 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:32,559 Speaker 2: of you know, you don't know how much further it 10 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 2: is up the mountain, and you're just wondering what am 11 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 2: I doing here? Whereas you cook a meal. In my case, 12 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 2: it's like you cook a meal for your family or 13 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 2: your kids, or a friend who comes over, and there's 14 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 2: the sort of tangible satisfaction in the space of half 15 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 2: an hour. You can make something. It's the beginning, middle, 16 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 2: an end, and it can hopefully give somebody pleasure. 17 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 1: I always think about, you know, food is seduction as well. 18 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 1: Food is many things, but it's also the number of 19 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 1: people I've spoken to who actually thought about what they 20 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 1: would cook for their first date or their second day. 21 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 1: I have a friend who met this He met this 22 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 1: guy and he really liked him, and they made a 23 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 1: date to go out to dinner and to come up 24 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 1: for a drink first, and he said he cooked all 25 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 1: day in case the drink went well and they didn't 26 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:21,319 Speaker 1: want to go out for dinner. And I just thought 27 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 1: that's you know, food is that way of also dreaming 28 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: or connecting or planning well. 29 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:28,679 Speaker 2: And we I mean, we have that because we'll have 30 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:32,119 Speaker 2: a dinner party sometimes on a Saturday night. And and 31 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:40,479 Speaker 2: I do most of the cooking. She said, already again, 32 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 2: I do all the cooking. 33 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 1: We'll just call the next book is going to be 34 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: called the next book is going to be I do 35 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: all the cooking. Yeah, by discuss this book called exactly 36 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 1: London Forest, it would be quite when you said you'd cook. 37 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 1: Maybe should do a cookbook, Maybe. 38 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 2: That should be should be the next thing. Yeah, So 39 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 2: what I was going to say is I'll cook all 40 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:10,519 Speaker 2: day for the people coming that night. And I would 41 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:13,239 Speaker 2: almost be embarrassed to let them know how long I've 42 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 2: been working on what we're doing, you. 43 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 1: Know, because it yeah, exactly, I'm coming to dinner, Okay, 44 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: I'm coming on my next drive to London and with 45 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: some friends. And what would you when do you start 46 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:28,639 Speaker 1: thinking about what you're going to cook for that dinner 47 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 1: or what do you want to do? 48 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 2: Sometimes spontaneously, we can just go to the farmer's market 49 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 2: that morning and get a nice piece of fish, and 50 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 2: I'll often do some kind of pasta as well, a 51 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 2: nice salady. But then occasionally you do things that just 52 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 2: require more time. 53 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:49,360 Speaker 1: Do you think that sometimes if you cook more to 54 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: get ready, then you don't have to cook so much 55 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 1: while they're. 56 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 2: There and relax, which is what I always wanted to. 57 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, so you can enjoy this. 58 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 2: But we have a big kitchen now, and actually it's 59 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:02,080 Speaker 2: nicer that everybody comes. 60 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 3: But we have a kitchen. 61 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 2: Everybody comes in and drink wine and things laid out. 62 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 2: And so because I'm sort of buzzing around, Yeah, do. 63 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 1: You mind cooking, whether other people watching you or I. 64 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 2: Don't mind at all. Yeah, it's a little you know, 65 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 2: I'm always kind of a little sweaty and discombobulated. But 66 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 2: but I think it all adds to the manic energy. 67 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:26,079 Speaker 1: You know, when did you two meet? You meant did 68 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 1: you meet a Columbia. 69 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 2: Then just yeah, so we came here. 70 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: He did a lot of cooking, right, We cooked a lot. 71 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 3: Because frankly, he would cook up a big meal just 72 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 3: for himself, and I was like, I've never cooked like this. 73 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 3: Fancy Yeah, no, I I thought it was very strange. 74 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 3: He would like even if it was just he's still. 75 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 2: I still do Yeah, y cool. 76 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 1: Sure treat yourself, you know, just to bring up and again, 77 00:03:56,200 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 1: another guess is that David Beckham his idea of a 78 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: great night is to have the house to himself, Victoria's 79 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: going out, the kids aren't there, and to cook an 80 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 1: amazing meal for himself. And he will go and he'll 81 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 1: just think about it so carefully as if he was 82 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: entertaining seventy people instead of one. And he'll choose the wine, 83 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 1: he'll choose the dish, he'll choose the meat, he describes 84 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 1: it in great detail, and then I'll sit down with 85 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: the greatest pleasure and eat himself. 86 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 2: To me, the kind of solitary experience funny because as 87 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 2: much as food as a communal thing. This is another 88 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 2: conversation we have. Just Tina's traveling for work and she 89 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:38,239 Speaker 2: has a long day. She'll go back to the hotel, 90 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:41,479 Speaker 2: get room service and you know, and conk out. I 91 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 2: will find the best restaurant I can where they can 92 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:45,480 Speaker 2: take me at the bar, and I will sit by 93 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 2: myself and get a glass of wine and have a meal, 94 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:49,599 Speaker 2: and she thinks that's crazy. 95 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:52,159 Speaker 1: I'm always so intrigued by the people who sit here. 96 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 1: But you know, as you see that, and it's very 97 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 1: often as that some people read and that's whatever they 98 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:00,480 Speaker 1: do is fine. But I'm always interested in this military 99 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:04,480 Speaker 1: dynomy because I'm like you, I don't eat out alone. 100 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 2: You don't do it. 101 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 1: I don't think so. Even my husband died two years ago, 102 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 1: and people keep saying, what's it like cooking for one? 103 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 1: And it took me a long time to confess that 104 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 1: I don't think I've practically cooked a meal for myself. Yeah, 105 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 1: I just go out. I come here. You know, if 106 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:24,039 Speaker 1: I with my kid, you have kids, and this is 107 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 1: a bit it's like being home. So everybody is different, 108 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 1: you know, in terms of But that's so cool. I'm 109 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 1: going to try it. Yeah, I think I. 110 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 2: Remember when I was in college. It's funny. A friend 111 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 2: of mine turned me onto this. But when I was 112 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 2: in college, we would I would occasionally go to the 113 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 2: old Union squareout family in the original location and sit 114 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 2: by myself. It was the best burger in the city, 115 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:51,479 Speaker 2: by myself at the bar glass of red wine. 116 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 1: Okay, and every day, what time do you do it? 117 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 2: First thing? 118 00:05:57,560 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 1: Did you do it today? 119 00:05:58,760 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 3: Not yet? 120 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 2: I'm a little because I'm out of my time. 121 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 1: Really I cannot. 122 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, see the troubles. I've done it. I've done it 123 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 2: since the very beginning. And every morning on signal I 124 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 2: share with these two, my two dearest friends. We always 125 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 2: scores and I'm the worst always, and it's a joke 126 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 2: for that, having. 127 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 1: A diversion of Somebody told me that there are too 128 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 1: many two's of threes are cheating. 129 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 2: I don't even know why you these guys have so 130 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 2: many twos and threes. Yeah, I think they cheat it out? 131 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 2: Can I tell them that you said they cheat? That's 132 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:34,159 Speaker 2: a very very I might have to call them right now. 133 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 2: I'm sitting with Ruthy Rogers, and she said, she said, 134 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 2: it is an improbable number of all the. 135 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 1: Things you can cheat. Why do you want to? 136 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:44,720 Speaker 2: Why cheat your friends? 137 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:47,040 Speaker 1: I did it last I do? 138 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 2: What's your start? What's your star wars? 139 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 1: I often do train and I sometimes do have I do. 140 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 1: If you do train and house, you've got all the fowls, 141 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:58,159 Speaker 1: but you've also got the S and the R and 142 00:06:58,200 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 1: the T. 143 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:00,720 Speaker 2: Have you ever tried audio that's mine? 144 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: Is that you like that? 145 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:02,159 Speaker 2: Get a bunch of. 146 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:06,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. I kind of like the consonants. But also what 147 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 1: I also do is I think if the word you 148 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 1: know that, I think we should find her. There's a 149 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 1: woman called Tracy who says them, do you know that? 150 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 1: By the beginning, But I do it with my friend 151 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 1: Noah Brumba, and so we have this theory that Tracy 152 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 1: lives in New York and she does this, and sometimes 153 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 1: she's in a really bad mood. 154 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 2: She makes him like a real person. She's not just at. 155 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 1: The first page word or where they say number or 156 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 1: whatever word it's set by Tracy. 157 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 2: What are you doing? 158 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 1: I just say, don't you feel I'm really mad at 159 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 1: Tracy today? I'm going to definitely not invite her. She 160 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 1: doesn't get a table at the River Cafe. 161 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 2: That's what I feel, as though there's a kind of 162 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 2: I guess, given my sort of pension for stories about criminality, 163 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 2: I would go here. But I'm not wondering if there's 164 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 2: some insider trading scheme. 165 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 1: You're listening