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Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

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Speaker 1: It is Bobbery Letter. Thank you for you. Subject over

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Speaker 1: sixty and full of stamina. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a

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Speaker 1: thirty one year old married woman and I've been married

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Speaker 1: for eight years and we have four kids. In the beginning,

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Speaker 1: our sex life was amazing and our intimate sessions would

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Speaker 1: last four hours. But after four kids, it's basically nonexistent,

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Speaker 1: and when we do have sex, it's terrible and boring.

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Speaker 1: There is no spice in our love life because my

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Speaker 1: husband is tired, is just and then he goes to sleep,

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Speaker 1: leaving me wanting more. We have sex once a week

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Speaker 1: so I can fulfill my duties as a wife, but

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Speaker 1: I get my satisfaction elsewhere. On two separate occasions, I

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Speaker 1: met two gentlemen that are at least thirty years older

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Speaker 1: than me. I was opened and honest with them about

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Speaker 1: my sad sex life, and they told me how bad

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Speaker 1: I need it, and I told them how bad I

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Speaker 1: needed some good sex. So now I'm having an affair

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Speaker 1: with both of them, and they both are beyond amazing

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Speaker 1: in bed. One guy is in his early sixties and

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Speaker 1: he is so passionate that I can't get enough of him.

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Speaker 1: The other one is in his late sixties and he

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Speaker 1: has more stamina than any man I've ever been with.

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Speaker 1: I was shocked to find out that the men in

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Speaker 1: their sixties still have it going on like this. The

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Speaker 1: more intimacy I have with these older men, the less

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Speaker 1: I want to be with my husband. It's like the

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Speaker 1: best experience ever, and I could see myself falling for them.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure these older men don't want anything but sex

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Speaker 1: for me, but I find it hard to go back

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Speaker 1: to boring sex with my husband after being with these

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Speaker 1: old pros. I do love my husband and I don't

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Speaker 1: want to lose him. He has no idea what I've

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Speaker 1: been doing on the side, and I almost feel bad

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Speaker 1: for cheating. My husband and I are both still young.

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Speaker 1: So do you think there is a way for us

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Speaker 1: to spice up our sex life again, or should I

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Speaker 1: realize that I need more than my husband can give me?

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Speaker 2: Wow? Okay, well but before you start.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I'm going to be beyond interested in he

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Speaker 3: and your response go here?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you, thank you for that. You should be

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Speaker 1: feel badly for cheating. You really should, you know what,

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Speaker 1: I don't think you've given it your your marriage, I

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Speaker 1: mean much of a chance. It sounds like you've given up.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, did you leave that part out

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Speaker 1: or something? I think you just said that it was

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Speaker 1: boring and basically non existent. But I mean you want

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Speaker 1: it to last for hours? I mean for how long?

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Speaker 1: You want it to last for? Like hours and hours?

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Speaker 1: No wonder he's tired. I'm sure both of you can

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Speaker 1: step up your game in the bedroom. Do you have

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Speaker 1: date nights? Do you plan anything to do together as

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Speaker 1: a married couple? I mean, I know you have four kids.

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Speaker 1: Do you get a babysitter from time to time so

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Speaker 1: you guys can go out and have time together? I

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Speaker 1: mean those are the kinds of things you do you

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Speaker 1: have to do to keep your marriage, you know, the

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Speaker 1: spice in your marriage and things like that. I mean

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Speaker 1: where is the romance? Where is it? Do you, you know,

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Speaker 1: I mean, it doesn't sound like either of you guys

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Speaker 1: or stepping out on your husband to get what you need.

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Speaker 1: That's not the answer. And you have two men. Wow.

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Speaker 1: I know women are smarter than men when it comes

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Speaker 1: so far. I guess you have been, because that really

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Speaker 1: really fall for either one of these guys, because it's

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Speaker 1: more than already is there with this sex situation. So

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Speaker 1: I think you need to reevaluate your marriage with your husband.

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Speaker 1: You and your husband need to sit down and talk

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Speaker 1: sort of agreement. You need romance, you need love, you

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Speaker 1: need all of that for play. All of that back

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Speaker 1: in your marriage, and you can put it back in.

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Speaker 1: You're only thirty one. You guys are young.

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Speaker 5: Steve thirty one, Oval thirty one girl who lod have

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Speaker 5: mercy it's called a repeat offender, someone who returns back

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Speaker 5: to the scene of the crime over and over and

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Speaker 2: Just this is my answer.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I'm interested in yours, just like you were

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Speaker 1: interested in mine.

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Speaker 5: No you're not, and anyway, thirty one.

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Speaker 2: Years old and is over.

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Speaker 3: But it used to be amazing because they had intimate

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Speaker 3: sections that lasted for hours. Here's some people that obviously

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Speaker 3: is not working. That is very hard hours. All your

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Speaker 3: intimate section sessions was ours. That's a lot welldom hours

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Speaker 3: turned into folk kids. It's basically nonexistent. When we have

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Speaker 3: sex now is terrible, it's boring. Ain't no spice in it.

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Speaker 3: As soon as he has sex, he go to sleep.

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Speaker 2: Leaving you want more. Y'all doing it once a week

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Speaker 2: so you can fulfill your duties.

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Speaker 3: But then, on two different occasions, you met two gentlemen

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Speaker 2: At least thirty years older than me. So let's stop

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Speaker 2: right here.

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Speaker 3: You're attracted to older men because you have sat down

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Speaker 3: and explained to two older men how unhappy you are sexually.

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Speaker 5: Now.

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Speaker 3: The first one you might have just fell into it,

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Speaker 3: but after you saw how good he was, you explained

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Speaker 3: it to another sixty year old dude, if you'd have found.

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Speaker 2: Out that the old pros is just that old pro

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Speaker 2: bringing it all right, Hang on, Steve, find the baker.

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Speaker 1: We don't have part two of yours and there rejoined

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Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letter, over sixty and full.

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Speaker 2: Of sod roof and the garage.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters,

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Speaker 1: subject over sixty and full of stamina.

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Speaker 3: This thirty one year old lady had a wonderful relationship

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Speaker 3: with her man. They used to have our long love

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Speaker 3: making session that has resulted in folk kids. Now there's

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Speaker 3: no spark at all. They just he have sex and

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Speaker 3: go to sleep. She do it once a week and

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Speaker 3: she said that she's had to find land and he

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Speaker 3: falls asleep, leaving her wanting more so to cure the more.

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Speaker 3: She had started seeing two older men early sixties and

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Speaker 3: late sixties. She's explained to both of them how boring

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Speaker 3: her sex life is, and they say, hold on, you

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Speaker 3: ain't got to do that. So now these old pros

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Speaker 3: is in there working. They old too, they know old ways.

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Speaker 3: They and that.

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Speaker 2: Churning your butter. Come on, churning the buddy.

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Speaker 3: You getting your cotton picked checks like you like it? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: they in there, Uh huh they waxing you with bird

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Speaker 3: lap sacks.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, y'all have a civil rights sex Just just why

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Speaker 2: are you going so far? You don't? Just let me

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Speaker 2: get on back to what I was doing. Then this

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Speaker 2: old time sex.

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Speaker 7: Y'all in the healthyway said yeah, y'all up in the

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Speaker 7: money to vote the show the three to get there

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Speaker 7: and for y'all having Elvis president, who.

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Speaker 2: Little Richard said, so I know how you feel.

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Speaker 3: Because you've had something, because you're young, them them sixty

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Speaker 3: old men in there, just coming in there and bringing it.

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Speaker 3: And that this man is so passionate because he got moves,

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Speaker 3: he doing things, he know what to do. He'd have

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Speaker 3: done it before thirty more years experienced pouring it all

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Speaker 3: on you air now and then you can't take it.

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Speaker 3: And the other one got stamina. The reason all men

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Speaker 3: have standard stamin stanama. And I'm explaining to you this way.

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Speaker 3: The reason we have stamina is because we you've had

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Speaker 3: this before, we can control it better.

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Speaker 2: Oh, we know how to pace.

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Speaker 3: We know when it's getting close to the end. We

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Speaker 3: know how to you know, pull back a little bit

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Speaker 3: and take our time. We focus our mind and sometimes

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Speaker 3: it's called displacement. Sometimes being an old pro, you know

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Speaker 3: how to take your mind and put it somewhere else

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Speaker 3: so you can keep handling your business without the focus

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Speaker 3: being there. Thus bring it about in eroticism in yourself.

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Speaker 3: So you take your mind and displace it, Yeah, somewhere else.

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Speaker 2: Come on here now, stay with me.

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Speaker 3: D you you gentified.

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Speaker 2: You you you you you take it in another direction.

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Speaker 3: You rebuke of the power was of lesstifvity, lestivity.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 3: Uh And now dude, it is you won't one mm.

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Speaker 3: But I think you've come to the realization that that

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Speaker 3: all they want from you is your sex.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's hard for you to go back to

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Speaker 4: that bar in sex, that young boy thing, that that

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Speaker 4: hip hop love, that.

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Speaker 3: One pant leg up, one pass down love. You don't

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Speaker 3: want that many Yeah, that can't go hat love. That

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Speaker 3: that that that that that I got a extra jewelry love. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: you need to get back to that dark, shaky love.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, come on back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that that that love.

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Speaker 3: In the water before there was gold changing and and

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Speaker 3: and and all that we just wo was on some beads.

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Speaker 2: You need mood ring sex mm hmmmmm.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, red hot, cold all that.

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Speaker 2: You go right there. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: You need girl, You need Jared Carroll sick. You need

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Speaker 3: rocking trotten in sex. It's so rough, so tough out here. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: you need a computer live sex. Come on more, bounce

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Speaker 3: to the ounce. You need some headed through the grape vine. See,

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Speaker 3: you have been spoiled. Now you have been treated.

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Speaker 2: To a ticket to the past. You have some feel

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Speaker 2: love and put on you. Yeah album love Past. You

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Speaker 2: know some some out in the field. Look, you had

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Speaker 2: some behind the garage love put over you. I actually

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Speaker 2: did that one, but I know you did.

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Speaker 1: Hush, actually had.

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Speaker 2: Some black seat love.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've been back where your foot all up gainst

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Speaker 3: the window, tatted, tent off the window and hard.

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Speaker 2: Right now I looked up. All my tent was writing.

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