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Speaker 1: What are you doing every morning?

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Speaker 2: You guys are so different.

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Speaker 3: You don't become a hero by being normal. And so

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Speaker 3: I was walking through the living room.

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Speaker 4: Interesting conversation going on, which mean Diamond, our friend Nick,

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Speaker 4: and of course it's Sam.

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Speaker 3: The question is how soon is too soon to say

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Speaker 3: I love you?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 6: Look, you know what.

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Speaker 3: In my opinion, it's it's it's a game. It's it's

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Speaker 3: it's a game.

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Speaker 4: You gotta be careful, like if you say it too early,

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Speaker 4: then they look at you like, oh you're so cling.

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Speaker 7: You don't want to look like you brought the U

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Speaker 7: haul right away exactly.

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Speaker 3: So okay, So Diamond, yes, Hi.

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Speaker 4: So the consensus out there with you and Sam and

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Speaker 4: that Nick.

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Speaker 8: Guy, that Nick guy is what? Well, Nick and I

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Speaker 8: don't agree. We got into a really big argument maybe

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Speaker 8: a week or two ago about this because he is

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Speaker 8: in love with his new girlfriend, but he won't tell

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Speaker 8: her because he's nervous, and he thinks that too soon.

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Speaker 8: They've been dating for four months, and.

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Speaker 3: I hold Nick is straight.

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Speaker 5: Revelations.

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Speaker 3: All right, Well, okay, good for him, Yeah, so good time.

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Speaker 3: So he's afraid he's afraid to say I love you

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Speaker 3: too soon?

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Speaker 8: Yes, And my I agree point of view is whoa really?

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Speaker 8: I just think that like when you feel like you

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Speaker 8: love someone, you need to tell them. Life is short.

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Speaker 8: You never know what could happen to you or another person.

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Speaker 8: And if you feel it, then't just jump right on

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Speaker 8: out there.

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Speaker 4: But what if you feel you quote unquote love them

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Speaker 4: within like hours of meeting them, would you say it then?

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Speaker 8: I've heard of people doing that. I wouldn't be against

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Speaker 8: it if you feel it like I feel like at

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Speaker 8: this big age, we all know what love feels like, right,

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Speaker 8: So like, okay, great, you felt it before and it's

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Speaker 8: like strong like that.

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Speaker 4: The thing is also, here's the thing through experience, you

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Speaker 4: know what, You hang out with someone and then things

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Speaker 4: turn south and things aren't good because you feel like

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Speaker 4: they're clinging too fast. You've been hurt before, so you

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Speaker 4: want to take your time. Keep in mind you need

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Speaker 4: to take your time sometimes just to make sure it's

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Speaker 4: a solid thing.

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Speaker 3: It's as a foundation. If I just like you're great,

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Speaker 3: I love you, it's kind of fast, okay.

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Speaker 8: So the thing about that is is like whether you

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Speaker 8: say it or not, if you feel that way, you

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Speaker 8: feel that way, right, So like if it's that strong,

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Speaker 8: I'm not talking about like little frivolous like puppy love

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Speaker 8: thing like.

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Speaker 5: Oh cute, I love you.

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Speaker 8: No, like if he he was like really going in

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Speaker 8: he's in love with this girl, full force foot on

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Speaker 8: the gas.

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Speaker 4: Wouldn't you be afraid to say I love you to

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Speaker 4: someone until you know that they're ready? They need to

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Speaker 4: be ready for that being so quiet?

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 9: I actually was totally on Diamond's side with this. When

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Speaker 9: they asked me, I said, I don't think there's ever

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Speaker 9: a time that's too soon.

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Speaker 5: If you feel it, you feel it. Life is short.

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Speaker 9: People die, like things happen, And what if you love

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Speaker 9: this person they get hit by a car and you

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Speaker 9: never said it. You want to carry that with you

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Speaker 9: forever or risk them thinking you're an idiot.

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Speaker 10: I don't care, like whatever, what you gotta be confident

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Speaker 10: of that I love you return. You got to know

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Speaker 10: that they're going to say I love you back. A

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Speaker 10: friend of mine was in love with this girl. They

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Speaker 10: were dating for three months. He goes, I love you.

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Speaker 10: She responds with I want to break.

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Speaker 3: Up A true story, Yeah, that's she wasn't ready for it, yeah.

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Speaker 6: And then he screwed up the relationship. Had he waited

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Speaker 6: a couple of months, maybe she would have returned with

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Speaker 6: that ship is a two way thing.

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Speaker 3: You'd need to be on the same planet.

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Speaker 9: You need to be in the same lane, okay, But

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Speaker 9: then if you're not, why not figure that out sooner

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Speaker 9: than later.

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Speaker 5: If somebody doesn't love you back and.

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Speaker 9: They don't feel the same way, and you're willing to

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Speaker 9: break up with a person because they said I love

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Speaker 9: you and you don't love them back, maybe that wasn't

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Speaker 9: the relationship anyway.

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Speaker 3: Well, it could have been on the way to that relationship.

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Speaker 5: But then why would they break up with you?

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Speaker 1: What? What?

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Speaker 3: Sam?

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Speaker 8: What?

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Speaker 11: I just don't understand why Nate's saying you both have

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Speaker 11: to be there on the same day for one of

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Speaker 11: you to express it. I said it to my fiance

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Speaker 11: William when I felt it, and he didn't say it

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Speaker 11: for another two months, and we were both totally fine

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Speaker 11: with that.

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Speaker 5: He was worried about me.

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Speaker 11: Because he said, I'm just I'm not ready to say

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Speaker 11: it yet, and he thought I was going to break

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Speaker 11: up with him because of that. I'm like, I was

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Speaker 11: just expressing where I was.

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Speaker 5: I know it. That's okay if you don't want to

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Speaker 5: break up.

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Speaker 11: That actually says more to me than if you lied

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Speaker 11: and said I love you back even though you weren't ready.

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Speaker 7: But you can handle that. I don't know if everybody

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Speaker 7: could handle that. Nate could handle that.

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Speaker 4: Okay, scary, scary, scary scary.

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Speaker 3: How long have you and Robin been together?

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Speaker 6: Over ten years?

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Speaker 3: He has yet to say I love you? Come on,

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Speaker 3: that's not true.

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Speaker 12: It took me a solid two years to actually say it.

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Speaker 12: I just feel that it's not an exact science. But

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Speaker 12: you're under a certain age and maturity level. She's not

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Speaker 12: gonna be able to handle it because she may just

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Speaker 12: be living her best life. She may not want to

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Speaker 12: hear that, no matter how much.

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Speaker 3: She likes him best.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, Frog what There's a big difference in love you

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Speaker 13: and I love you? Yes, completely different things. And that's

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Speaker 13: the thing is that you can you can almost test

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Speaker 13: the waters with a little love you and see what,

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Speaker 13: see what the response is. Before you drop the.

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Speaker 3: Full I love you, you have to follow it with

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Speaker 3: mean it. Yeah, love you?

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Speaker 14: Mean it.

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Speaker 15: My favorite is when you're watching a movie and you

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Speaker 15: they fall asleep in the bed and the guy goes

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Speaker 15: in the middle of the night and then she's like,

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Speaker 15: what do you say? And then she's like freaking out,

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Speaker 15: either she wants to leave or she's like, say it again?

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Speaker 5: What did you say? Say it again?

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Speaker 3: Hey? Brian, Brian, is that you?

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Speaker 13: Yes?

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Speaker 3: So you said it? After how long with them?

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Speaker 16: It was three weeks? Actually, see three weeks.

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Speaker 6: I mean, look, who are we to judge.

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Speaker 3: We don't know what your experiences were during those three weeks.

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Speaker 16: I had actually already been at that point, I had

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Speaker 16: been married twice.

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Speaker 3: And you can be married fifty times. You can still

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Speaker 3: love someone no problem. I don't know.

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Speaker 13: I don't know.

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Speaker 16: It was great. There was three weeks. Everything was just

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Speaker 16: everything fit, everything was right, and we've been together for

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Speaker 16: seven years. We have two kids together. It's great.

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Speaker 4: See the difference between me and Gandhi is I'm sensitive

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Speaker 4: to the other person's needs.

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Speaker 3: Oh, it's all about her. It's all about her expressing

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Speaker 3: her love.

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Speaker 7: Absolutely.

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Speaker 5: I love you. I don't care if you love me back.

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Speaker 5: I love you that way.

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Speaker 6: It's pretty.

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Speaker 3: What's that, Brian?

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Speaker 16: I said, that's the approach you have to take, though,

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Speaker 16: because you got to put yourself out there. You don't

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Speaker 16: put yourself out there. You never know more risks you take, Yes,

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Speaker 16: the more you know, the more failures you have, the

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Speaker 16: more risk you take, the more experiences.

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Speaker 4: What she just said was, I don't care what you think.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to tell you what I think. I love you.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, you don't have to love me back. I'm not

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Speaker 9: saying it to get the I love you back. I'm

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Speaker 9: saying it because I love you.

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Speaker 15: But you could say it in a way where you're

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Speaker 15: kind of like dangling the carrot, like you go, I

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Speaker 15: don't know about you, but do you feel this because

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Speaker 15: this is just I've never felt this before.

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Speaker 16: I feel like that's the way people do it when

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Speaker 16: they're like really insecure about the relationships because they're not

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Speaker 16: sure if they're going to get it back.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 15: I agree, but it's a way to do it. It's

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Speaker 15: a way to get in an.

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Speaker 9: You bust through that door like the koloid many.

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Speaker 3: I love you, Brian, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 13: I love you.

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Speaker 3: I love you, Brian.

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Speaker 13: We've we've only we've.

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Speaker 6: Only known each other sixty seconds, but I think I love.

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Speaker 5: You, love you.

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Speaker 4: Let me talk to Amanda. Amanda makes makes some sense

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Speaker 4: out of this. So how long did it take for

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Speaker 4: you to say I.

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Speaker 3: Love you.

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Speaker 17: My boyfriend and I my ex boyfriend and I we

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Speaker 17: both said it to one another in about one day,

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Speaker 17: twenty four hours.

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Speaker 3: Again, that was your ex boyfriend. Yes, twenty four hours.

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Speaker 2: We are together for a while there.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, how long were you together?

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Speaker 3: She said, twenty four hours?

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Speaker 5: Eight years after.

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Speaker 7: That after the I love you.

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Speaker 1: Oh, we're together for a while, mostly happily, mostly happily.

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Speaker 5: I say, you have to go for it and jump in.

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Speaker 3: Good for all of you, guys.

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Speaker 17: I also think it does depend and you have to you.

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Speaker 5: I think, you know, if that other person feeling it,

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Speaker 5: you hope, so yeah.

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Speaker 3: I mean you're rolling the dice here.

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Speaker 18: I still think you should do it. I still think

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Speaker 18: go for it.

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Speaker 19: I think we never know, all right, you never know.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Amanda.

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Speaker 7: Did you and Brandon say it really early?

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Speaker 5: He said it?

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Speaker 9: I think it was like three or four months in

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Speaker 9: and he texted it to me and I wrote back what.

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Speaker 5: He said, testing, testing, I love you too.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's so sweet. Look I love love, Don't get

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Speaker 3: me wrong. I'm I'm a love lover. I love it.

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Speaker 1: Elvis Duran, he just keeps opening his mouth stand in

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Speaker 1: the morning show. This is Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 3: I hope I never ever experienced it, but I've never

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Speaker 3: been dumped in a relationship.

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Speaker 6: No.

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Speaker 4: I mean there's this one guy who but he was

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Speaker 4: he was a dumb ass. He didn't really dumped me.

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Speaker 5: Totally I would try to talk to his friends and

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Speaker 5: Oh, you have to pick between the two of us.

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Speaker 7: That's the worst.

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Speaker 4: the seven deadly sins, scarious. Ready, there's seven of them.

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Speaker 3: Why do they call them deadly sins?

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Speaker 4: Let's discuss lust well, and then they take it to

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Speaker 6: So lust being unrestrained sexual craving sounds.

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Speaker 5: Like a good time.

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Speaker 3: Should we just rethink these may maybe add some to them?

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Speaker 4: I think so?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so we're saying a question mark next to lust.

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Speaker 13: I think I got that all right.

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Speaker 6: Number two, God, my favorite gluttony.

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Speaker 5: Oh love that one.

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Speaker 6: That's to over indulge, especially by over eating.

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Speaker 20: I have a problem with that one.

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Speaker 9: You do, We all do, because we're gonna die if

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Speaker 7: Yeabet is Yeah, so we agreed.

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Speaker 4: Gluttony that's it's a good thing to fill up and

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Speaker 4: greed Absolutely.

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Speaker 6: The excessive desire from material things.

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Speaker 13: It's pretty bad.

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Speaker 3: Totally excessive desire. I mean, you know, Amazon shows up

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Speaker 7: That's a problem.

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Speaker 13: I don't have an issue with lust, but gluttony agreed, Absolutely,

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Speaker 13: those are no ghosts.

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Speaker 6: Number four on scaries list.

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Speaker 3: Sloth.

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Speaker 6: I think it's sloth. Sloth. I think it's slow.

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Speaker 5: Think it's sloth.

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Speaker 3: Well, I thought it's named after the animal that's and

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Speaker 3: I've always heard sloth anyway you have, Yeah, well look

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're about to convince the majority of the people

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Speaker 7: And it would be sloth when I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Maybe we're going to find out. But yeah, I got

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Speaker 3: a little sloth in.

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Speaker 5: Me, a little bit.

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Speaker 9: But I think people need a little bit more sloth

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Speaker 4: Well, the well, the sin isn't relaxation. Their sin is

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Speaker 3: It's like not doing anything.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Nate, if you were wrong about sloth, you will

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Speaker 4: face my wrath well.

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Speaker 6: Better than your lust.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, they're saying it's a sin.

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Speaker 6: On number five, wrath, uncontrolled feelings of hatred and anger.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, how's that sloth thing working on it? Slow?

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Speaker 10: If it sloth technically both? I just looked it up.

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Speaker 10: It had the oh with the flat line across which oh.

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Speaker 3: Slow, Okay, I didn't know that, did You guys know

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Speaker 3: about all? You know you will not have to ruve

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Speaker 6: It comes from slow meaning lazy?

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Speaker 6: Wrath, uncontrolled feelings of hatred and anger.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's a sin.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, uncontrolled sure, Envy, jealousy towards another's happiness.

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Speaker 5: That's a terrible one. Oh, I hate that.

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Speaker 15: Are covering somebody else's stuff. Be happy for people have

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Speaker 15: their stuff your v What.

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Speaker 3: About our friend DJ Nvy on the Breakfast Club, He's different,

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Speaker 3: I'm DJ Slough. And finally number seven, they're saying it's

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Speaker 6: Pride.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, you know what, My whole house is done

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Speaker 3: in rainbow colors.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what my problem is dedicated to?

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Speaker 6: Are going to hell?

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Speaker 3: Sinners?

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Speaker 13: We pray for it.

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Speaker 7: Pride is the most serious and most deadly.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it is.

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Speaker 10: It's an inflated sense of one's accompanied a slightly different pride.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, if you it's carried out too far.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So let's uh, we all think lost is Okay,

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Speaker 4: I think we're about.

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Speaker 6: To eliminate lost.

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Speaker 5: I think it is.

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Speaker 3: You have to replace it with something else though.

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Speaker 5: Hmm over photoshopping your Instagram phos done.

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Speaker 13: People who say do better?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what, what would the word be?

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Speaker 4: People who really think they have the right to tell

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Speaker 4: you you're a piece of trash when they.

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Speaker 9: Really are self righteousness a piece of trash.

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Speaker 4: Maybe I'm judging that's pride then, right.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So next time someone tells me to do better,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna.

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Speaker 4: Say, hey, you know what, why don't you squelch your pride?

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Speaker 1: Do it?

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Speaker 22: Do it?

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Speaker 3: Squelch your pride? What sketty?

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Speaker 12: When people who TikTok and traffic they set up there

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Speaker 3: That's the deadly sin talking and traffic.

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Speaker 5: We should come up with our own list entirely.

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Speaker 7: You could die. I guess people at the.

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Speaker 6: Edge of the cliff could be all right.

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Speaker 13: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Something pride.

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Speaker 5: Would selfishness follow fall under any of those things?

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Speaker 3: Pride? Maybe?

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Let's reading.

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Speaker 4: Let's review lust, gluttony, greed, sloth, wrath, envy, and pride.

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Speaker 4: So do we all have a little drop of all

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Speaker 4: of these or or some worse than others?

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Speaker 13: The football game makes me feel wrath?

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Speaker 6: Okay, I'm in I would.

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Speaker 5: Say I am the biggest defender of gluttony and sloth

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Speaker 5: for sure. At the same time, one leads to the other,

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Speaker 5: Come on, so much food.

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Speaker 4: And then here's my I'll do this for you. I'll

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Speaker 4: be such a glutton and I'll be so slothy you

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Speaker 4: won't lust after me.

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Speaker 5: You're helping us, Thank you, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Helping you squelch your lust.

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Speaker 6: Nate trying this.

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Speaker 15: Says here that it's a grouping and classification of vices

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I always thought vanity was one of the sins,

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Speaker 5: but I guess it's not. I will too, I guess.

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Speaker 3: Not scary wants to add deceit, absolutely and hypocrites.

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Speaker 7: I think lying should be on there.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't understand that it's not.

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Speaker 3: Oh someone just said intolerance on the text message.

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Speaker 5: That's a good one, bad one.

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Speaker 3: It's a sin, right there, let's take out put it

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Speaker 3: intolerance done? All right? Lust feel free to lust all

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Speaker 1: The Brooklyn Boys podcast.

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Speaker 12: Comedian Sebastian Man of Scalcos.

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Speaker 16: Yes, today I do a radio tour. My neighbors are

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Speaker 16: sawing down their house. It's like it couldn't have been worse.

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Speaker 10: Time.

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Speaker 1: Listen to the Brooklyn Boys podcast on the iHeartRadio apps,

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Speaker 1: Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. Elvista ran

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Speaker 1: in the morning shows. In the morning.

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Speaker 4: Show, let's switch gears and talk about the real house

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Speaker 4: moms of NAT.

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Speaker 5: This should be a show.

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Speaker 7: This is awesome.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so I'm saying it right correct?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, okay.

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Speaker 4: So donkety is it's a neighborhood near where you live

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Speaker 4: in Jacksonville, right correct? Yes, and yeah, okay, so they

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Speaker 4: have this like all great neighborhoods have. They have the

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Speaker 4: housewives of you know, enter the name of your community

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Speaker 4: here online you can go on and bitch and moan.

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Speaker 4: You can find out if there's anyone who can come

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Speaker 4: over and clean your pool. You can like I've got

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Speaker 4: a bed for sale.

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Speaker 3: Whatever.

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Speaker 4: So read read the post that was put on the

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Speaker 4: Real house Moms of Nakati.

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Speaker 13: This was eight hours ago, so late last night. It says,

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Speaker 13: does anyone know any good divorce attorneys? I am tired

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Speaker 13: of my husband's BS. But they did not use BS.

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Speaker 13: They spelled it out fully, So why wouldn't you keep

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Speaker 13: something like this, I don't know, like to yourself or

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Speaker 13: talk to a friend or I mean, And then there's

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Speaker 13: fifteen comments. The fifteen comments are all completely railing, like

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Speaker 13: what okay, what she did?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she wanted to blow off some steam, but maybe

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Speaker 4: she really is reaching out for some advice.

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Speaker 3: But what what did they post below her comment?

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Speaker 13: Get rid of him, he's lazy, do anything? And then

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Speaker 13: there are a few attorney suggestions of people that she

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Speaker 13: should call, so foll on her way.

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Speaker 4: But I mean, these people are commenting, do they even

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Speaker 4: know who it is? They're just like assuming the guy's lazy.

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Speaker 6: I don't know, right.

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Speaker 13: See, that's what's weird. Most of the time, when you

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Speaker 13: post in these forums, it says the person's name. All

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Speaker 13: it says is group member. The reason I only see

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Speaker 13: group member is because I'm not a member of the

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Speaker 13: real house moms of NaKaT. Lisa is I'm not because

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Speaker 13: I'm not a house mom, so therefore I'm not allowed

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Speaker 13: to be member.

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Speaker 4: So she posts, does anyone know any good divorce attorneys?

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Speaker 4: I'm tired of my husband's b Yes. And then you say,

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Speaker 4: all these posts come rolling through, and I wonder if

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Speaker 4: she woke up this morning and said, let me go

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Speaker 4: check and see if I have any answers.

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Speaker 13: You know, I don't know.

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Speaker 15: I don't understand the why Lisa doesn't just talk to

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Speaker 15: you about it before posting something like that.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, but a lack of communication in your

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Speaker 4: house from anyway. But if you are amber in one

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Speaker 4: of these neighborhood of posting groups or whatever, did they

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Speaker 4: get really deep? They get really slicing and dicing in

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Speaker 4: these things.

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Speaker 13: I mean, yeah, there's lots of snarky comments like, oh

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Speaker 13: I saw so and so last night left their garbage,

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Speaker 13: I mean, and it just it goes from there.

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Speaker 15: We had somebody who was trying to find out who

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Speaker 15: the person was in the car with their other half

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Speaker 15: and posted the picture and said, can anybody tell me

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Speaker 15: who this was with my significant other? I'd like to

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Speaker 15: know because I think they're having an affair, And then

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Speaker 15: everybody give their comments underneath as to who they thought

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Speaker 15: it was.

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Speaker 4: I love it here for someone just sent a text

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Speaker 4: saying that naokot is swingers Central, a community of living

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Speaker 4: beyond their means and cheaters.

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Speaker 13: Wow, well, hey, well.

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Speaker 4: You know what, you know what you say, No, but

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Speaker 4: this is what their opinion is. They're saying, it's the

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Speaker 4: most surreal place.

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Speaker 5: Ever cheaters and debtors.

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Speaker 13: It's not that there's no swinging or whether I'm not

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Speaker 13: saying there's no swinging going on, it could be swing

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Speaker 13: going on, but it's not a community fellow swingers. We've

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Speaker 13: lived for three and a half years. Nobody's ever tried

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Speaker 13: to swing with us, because nobody's ever tried to swing

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Speaker 13: with us, and I think at least is decently attractive

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Speaker 13: somebody would have tried.

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Speaker 3: To get that.

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Speaker 13: I'm not expecting it from me. I'm just saying for her,

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Speaker 13: she would at least get an offer or too. I

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Speaker 13: don't know.

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Speaker 4: People are checking in, uh, Froggy. They're saying nokate is

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Speaker 4: for swingers.

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Speaker 5: Wow, Swingersville Frog.

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Speaker 4: I'm telling you well, but obviously they see a different

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Speaker 4: perspective of Nicate.

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Speaker 13: I want to talk to somebody who has who has

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Speaker 13: actually had success trying to swing with people in this neighborhood.

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Speaker 5: I want to hear asking for a friend.

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Speaker 4: Yeah to zero one hundred, Tiffany on line twenty four.

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Speaker 4: She has all the dirt on what's going on in knockrate.

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Speaker 4: So Tiffany, first of all, do you read the housewives

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Speaker 4: of Naicate online?

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Speaker 23: I do, very very silently.

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Speaker 1: I just watched.

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Speaker 4: So do you know who who that was that posted

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Speaker 4: about looking for a divorce attorney because her husband's full

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Speaker 4: of BS?

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Speaker 23: I do not.

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Speaker 22: So.

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Speaker 23: One of the features you can do is post anonymously,

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Speaker 23: and that person posted anonymous.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so.

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Speaker 4: We're hearing there's a lot of swinging going on there,

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Speaker 4: but Froggy insists there isn't.

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Speaker 23: What do you think, well, Froggy, let me ask you this.

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Speaker 23: How long have you lived there?

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Speaker 13: A little over three years?

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Speaker 23: Okay. So there's a restaurant in like the main town

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Speaker 23: center area of Nakati that is the Swingers subs.

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Speaker 13: Oh, which restaurant is it.

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Speaker 23: It's oh my gosh, my name just slipped my mind.

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Speaker 23: It's right next to the public soo to the.

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Speaker 13: Last trailer park. Trailer park Okay, yeah, restaurant.

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Speaker 3: The restaurant's called trailer Park.

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Speaker 13: Yeah. So the guy's name is Trey t r e

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Speaker 13: Y and it's it's spelled t r e y l

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Speaker 13: o r tray Lore then park. So it's like, okay,

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Speaker 13: all right.

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Speaker 3: Right, right, so this is where swinging goes on. Okay,

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Speaker 3: go ahead.

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Speaker 23: So there's been a couple of times for my husband

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Speaker 23: and I have gone in there and there would be

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Speaker 23: huge of people and we'd be watching couples come in

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Speaker 23: and then like slowly, those couples would break apart and

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Speaker 23: someone's wife would be over with someone else's husband, and

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Speaker 23: then they would all leave, and there's a there's a

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Speaker 23: really large help there. Their symbol is the upside down pineapple.

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Speaker 23: Do you ever see that at anyone's house? It's a thing.

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Speaker 23: It's real I lived there for about two and a

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Speaker 23: half years, and the messiness that I just saw was insane.

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Speaker 4: Because you don't want to get involved with that. But wait,

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Speaker 4: hold on, so Tiffany, So if someone hangs the upside

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Speaker 4: down pineapple in front of their house, that means they're swinging.

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Speaker 4: Do you just go knock on the door and say, hey,

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Speaker 4: let's do it? I mean, does that work? Or how

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Speaker 4: does that?

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Speaker 3: Or is there out on the front porch waiting for you.

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Speaker 13: To walk by? How does that work?

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Speaker 17: Well?

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Speaker 23: I don't share, Well, so I don't go knocking on

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Speaker 23: anyone's door. But I think it's just like it's like

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Speaker 23: the bat symbol that means symbol. It's just letting people know.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, like if I put a rainbow flag in

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Speaker 4: front of my house, it means possibly that I'm gay

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Speaker 4: and living in this house, But it doesn't mean come on,

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Speaker 4: knock on the door, come on, knock on my door.

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Speaker 3: So it's just it's a symbol.

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Speaker 23: Well, yeah, I mean, how many upside down pineapples do

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Speaker 23: you see? And normally they're upright, So it's it's a

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Speaker 23: pretty clear deliberate.

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Speaker 13: Okay, Well, cool, now I know where we're going to

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Speaker 13: dinner tonight.

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Speaker 6: We're going to trailer park.

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Speaker 13: Tonight night and the next night, the next night.

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Speaker 4: Well, look, if you ever in, Tiffany, I know you're

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Speaker 4: you're quietly keeping an eye on the housewives of Knockotia online.

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Speaker 4: If you see anything uh unruly or festive, let us.

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Speaker 23: Know there always is. Just give it, give it an

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Speaker 23: hour or two.

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Speaker 3: You know what you could turn out to be uh

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Speaker 3: uh what's your name from? Uh Brokerton or Breakerton or yeah,

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Speaker 3: that way exactly. You have all the gossip. Anyway, thank

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Speaker 3: you for listening to us, Tiffany.

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Speaker 6: Have a great day.

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Speaker 7: Okay, thank you y'all.

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Speaker 3: Thank you very much for listening. Appreciate it. There you go.

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Speaker 4: So it's naive to think that there's not a little

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Speaker 4: of that going on in every neighborhood, because I know

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Speaker 4: out here where I live there's a lot. They're all

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Speaker 4: doing each other, and they all have done each other.

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Speaker 4: I mean, men, women, men, men, you know the whole thing.

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Speaker 5: I think it's so.

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Speaker 9: Much more rampant than any of us know about. And

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Speaker 9: I think a big part of it is discretion. So

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Speaker 9: they don't just run around talking about it to anybody.

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Speaker 5: On the radio. Froggy maybe that's why you're not getting

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Speaker 5: the invite.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, talk about it.

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Speaker 13: But you know what, Lisa, Lisa does have a pineapple

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Speaker 13: welcome doormat out our front door. Maybe Lisa's doing some

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Speaker 13: stuff I don't know about.

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Speaker 3: Turn it upside down, see what happens, See how your

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Speaker 3: day changes.

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Speaker 5: Hey, it's Nicki Minamata. This is Rihanna. Hey, this is

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Speaker 5: Lady Gaga.

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Speaker 11: You're listening to Elvis Duran and The Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: This is Elvis Duran and the Morning Show.

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Speaker 6: You know, one of the.

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Speaker 4: Most difficult things to do is to apologize to someone

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Speaker 4: for something you did.

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Speaker 3: A while back.

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Speaker 6: It really is.

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Speaker 4: I mean, as you know, the longer you wait to

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Speaker 4: apologize to someone, the more difficult it is to do it.

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Speaker 3: Yes, but I got to tell you.

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Speaker 4: If you come to me and say, hey, last year,

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Speaker 4: I X y Z and I'm so sorry, I just

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Speaker 4: want to let you know it's been bothering me. I

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Speaker 4: want to just clear the air and tell you I'm

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Speaker 4: very sorry that happened. I made a mistake. You know

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Speaker 4: what it tells me, Well, even though it's a year later,

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Speaker 4: it tells me you've had a year to think about it.

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Speaker 3: Ah, And you.

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Speaker 4: Know, what And I think that's an even stronger apology

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Speaker 4: I do. If I just say something and you're like, oh,

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Speaker 4: you dumbasic?

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Speaker 3: How dare you say that? Elvis? And I go, oh god,

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Speaker 3: I'm I'm sorry. That's an immediate apology and I may

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Speaker 3: just be doing it just to shut you up, even

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Speaker 3: though I don't really want to tell you I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: But if it's a year later, that's actually kind of

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Speaker 4: special that you're apologizing.

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Speaker 5: I think, No, I don't know if I feel that way.

680
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 9: I feel like, what do you want? What have you

681
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 9: been thinking about for a year that you now need

682
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 9: me to do for you? That's how I think about it.

683
00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 3: Hey, Frankie, what are you chewing on? I hear you

684
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 3: chewing on plastic.

685
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 13: I'm trying to fix I'm trying to fix this cup

686
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 13: back to the way it was.

687
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 3: With your teeth.

688
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 13: Yeah, but I'm trying to think. There's certain things that

689
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 13: I need an apology right away for, and then there

690
00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 13: are certain things that if it's bothered you for a year,

691
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 13: then that does it gains you a little? Like you

692
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:42,840
Speaker 13: know what, I'm glad it bothered you and now your

693
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 13: apology means a lot more.

694
00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 5: Okay, so, oh, that's good to write back. I'm glad

695
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 5: it bothered you.

696
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:51,960
Speaker 7: No, you don't write that back. No, don't, Oh my god.

697
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 4: Look even okay, let's say it's like five years later

698
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 4: and they say, god, you know what, I've been thinking

699
00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 4: about what happened five years ago, and I'm.

700
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 13: Not that's too long.

701
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 3: No, No, I don't think so an apology is an apology.

702
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 9: You don't think that there are some apologies that you

703
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 9: just don't have to accept, Like, Okay, you're sorry, and

704
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 9: I get it. That's great, you're sorry, but we're not friends.

705
00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 9: You don't need to be part of my life. We

706
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 9: don't need to have a conversation about this.

707
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:16,960
Speaker 4: Well that's if you choose to keep them out of

708
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 4: your life because you prefer life without them.

709
00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 3: And I get that. Okay, So has someone apologized to

710
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 3: you or yes? Okay, So who was it?

711
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 9: Well I can't really give out any details, but it

712
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 9: was somebody who I believe crossed me in a horrible

713
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 9: way about a year ago. And then this person reached

714
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 9: out and said, it's been a year and I was

715
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 9: thinking about what happened, and I would like to say

716
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 9: I don't like how it unfolded and that's not how

717
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 9: I would like.

718
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 5: To operate and blah blah. But I'm kind of like, eh, whatever.

719
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, if you're ready to move on, I get that.

720
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I moved on a long time ago.

721
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 5: I'm over it. I just I feel like, why do

722
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 5: we have to have this conversation now?

723
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 4: Well, because you you don't want to invest any of

724
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 4: your bandwidth to this person anymore.

725
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm like, you're out of my life. Just stay there. Yeah, yeah,

726
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 5: stay on that Sie.

727
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 9: But as Froggy said, I'm glad it bothered you.

728
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:07,880
Speaker 5: Okay, I don't you learned a.

729
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 4: Lesson because I got an apology once from a very

730
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:15,360
Speaker 4: dear friend saying, you know what I thought about what

731
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 4: you said two years ago about what I did, And

732
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 4: I get it now it makes sense to me. So

733
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 4: I don't know what happened in those two years and

734
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 4: why it took so long, But a two year thinking

735
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,440
Speaker 4: that something for two years, Yeah, I'm impressed with that.

736
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 1: I think so too.

737
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 7: I think it must have been bothering them.

738
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 5: I agree.

739
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 9: It takes a lot to apologize. I suck it apologizing.

740
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 9: I'm really not good at it. But also, I just

741
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 9: think that every now and then there's not a conversation

742
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:41,959
Speaker 9: that we need to have about this.

743
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 4: My favorite is to pick up the phone, Hey, how

744
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 4: are you doing? Hey, I haven't talked to you so long, Elvis.

745
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 4: I want to say something. I know that I used

746
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:52,760
Speaker 4: to drink heavily and I was not in my right

747
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 4: mind when I was drunk. I'm now in the program,

748
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 4: and as you know, part of my steps, I need

749
00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 4: to call people and make amends. I'm calling to say

750
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 4: I'm sorry. And that's happened several times with me, because well,

751
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 4: I have a lot of friends and we all party.

752
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 3: We lived through the eighties. Hello, you know what I'm saying,

753
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 3: And so I was like, you know, congratulations.

754
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 4: I think that's so cool that you called and did that.

755
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:17,200
Speaker 4: It's a part of that twelve step program.

756
00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 7: Yeah, that process.

757
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:19,720
Speaker 5: You're so much bigger than me.

758
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 3: Why No, I know, But that's different.

759
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 4: That's a sub that was a substance abuse, ye, and

760
00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 4: that's something they needed to do.

761
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 3: But you don't think your friend was going through substance abuse.

762
00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 5: No, I think this person was just being a giant

763
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 5: b I t H right, I know.

764
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 4: Did do you sometimes think if they come out of

765
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 4: the wood work and apologize two years later.

766
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 3: There they have an agenda.

767
00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm like, no, you're not getting jingle ball tickets.

768
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 5: Whatever it is.

769
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 1: There there are.

770
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 15: People that I think in my head, even if they apologized,

771
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 15: I would never accept it.

772
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:47,960
Speaker 5: Oh there's one person.

773
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 9: If she apologized and was like in a near vicinity

774
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 9: of me to be speaking, I would jump across.

775
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:54,880
Speaker 5: The table and probably pull her hair out. Wow this one.

776
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 4: Wow, Gandhi, because you know Daniel doesn't Gandhi seem like

777
00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 4: a live and let live kind of person.

778
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 3: I didn't know you were so vindictive.

779
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:03,959
Speaker 9: Now, for the most part, I am, but this this

780
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 9: I'll tell you what this one did.

781
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 5: Oh, I think you'll all be on my side.

782
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 9: Okay, so we all know that I had a boyfriend

783
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 9: who passed away. Yes, right, She was very good friends

784
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 9: with him as well. When he passed away, she didn't

785
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 9: show up at anything, not the funeral, not while.

786
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 5: We were looking for his body for three days. Nothing.

787
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:23,240
Speaker 9: Then, because it was her birthday, she but dialed me

788
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 9: and purposefully was having a conversation with someone about how

789
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:28,719
Speaker 9: horrible I was for expecting her to go to his

790
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 9: funeral or be there for the search party, and how

791
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 9: I'm selfish and yeah, he died, but he's gonna stay dead.

792
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 9: It's my birthday and I only get to celebrate. Oh yeah,

793
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:42,240
Speaker 9: let me find you all pull your hair out?

794
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, and she did the on purpose but dialogue purpose

795
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 4: o lame phone taps. Yeah, you could and talk about

796
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 4: a thing.

797
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, I get that's the worst.

798
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 3: Why would you ever even want to even think of forgiving?

799
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 5: I will not. I will put out her hair and

800
00:33:58,360 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 5: it's ugly hair, by the way.

801
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 3: Okay, good morning Sarah.

802
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 17: Hi, good morning, case Sulleve.

803
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 4: I'm on the radio right now, and obviously we said

804
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 4: something that like hit a nerve with you.

805
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:11,280
Speaker 3: What do you think it, Sarah.

806
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:13,800
Speaker 17: I've been through two experiences in my life that have

807
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 17: to deal with forgiveness, and they both shape me in

808
00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 17: crazy ways, and it's hit a nerve when you guys

809
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 17: started talking about it.

810
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 3: Okay, well, give us an example. What do you think?

811
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:28,360
Speaker 17: So the first example is I did something wrong, and

812
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,840
Speaker 17: I fully admit that I did something wrong, but the

813
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 17: friend in the situation it's something worse, and I apologize

814
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:40,239
Speaker 17: for my part in it. And the only reason that

815
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 17: person apologized back to me is because I apologized, and

816
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 17: it was the kind of apology that you're that you

817
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:48,920
Speaker 17: were saying you only did it because you had two.

818
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:49,400
Speaker 23: Kinds of things.

819
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 17: Wow, and that hit a nerve with me. In another situation,

820
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:01,360
Speaker 17: I was approached with a situation about a birthday party

821
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:04,120
Speaker 17: and I wasn't comfortable going. So I explained my situation

822
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 17: personal reasons as to why I didn't want to go,

823
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 17: and I explained to them that I would love to

824
00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:13,280
Speaker 17: celebrate another way. And then I didn't get a response

825
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:16,240
Speaker 17: for almost four or five months. And when that person

826
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:19,959
Speaker 17: finally responded and apologized for the way she reacted, I said,

827
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 17: thank you for the apology. I really appreciate it, but

828
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 17: I'm not interested in being friends with you anymore.

829
00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:24,439
Speaker 13: Wow.

830
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:26,960
Speaker 17: I just don't like what you did to me, and

831
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 17: it really hurt me. And it's forgiveness and having to

832
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 17: think about that. It's completely changed the way I've acted friendships, relationships, everything.

833
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:38,320
Speaker 17: It's crazy.

834
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:40,920
Speaker 4: You know what, you just said something that made me

835
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:45,880
Speaker 4: think if you say something that really hurt me, and

836
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:48,320
Speaker 4: I tell you it hurt me that you said that,

837
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:50,719
Speaker 4: that means obviously I still like you and expect more

838
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:51,080
Speaker 4: from you.

839
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's true.

840
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 4: But if someone is just if you're so ready to

841
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 4: write someone off and just kick them off your radar.

842
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 4: It doesn't even hurt. They didn't even hurt me any

843
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 4: I'm like done, I just I'm not even who cares

844
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:03,320
Speaker 4: what another U said hurt me?

845
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:03,719
Speaker 3: Good?

846
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 17: It had hurt in the moment, definitely, But then after

847
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:10,360
Speaker 17: I had the months to think about it and discuss

848
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:12,920
Speaker 17: it with my friends and my family, was like, I

849
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:15,360
Speaker 17: can't expect it anymore. She did this and it obviously

850
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:17,439
Speaker 17: didn't hurt for her to do this. Goodbye, It doesn't

851
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:18,240
Speaker 17: hurt me anymore.

852
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 3: Done, I got it. Listen, Sarah, thank you for listening to.

853
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 17: Us and much I've been listening for over twenty years.

854
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 17: This is insane to me.

855
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:29,399
Speaker 4: Hope, I don't say something to piss you off, Thank

856
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:31,760
Speaker 4: you very much. I don't know, Yes, Froggy.

857
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:33,839
Speaker 13: I believe it's how you deliver an apology. Like if

858
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 13: you just say sorry, sorry is not enough. Like there

859
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 13: needs to be adjectives and words in front of the

860
00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 13: word sorry that let me know that you really are

861
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:42,880
Speaker 13: truly sorry.

862
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 7: If you say with that attitude voice.

863
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 13: Sorry sorry, you're not sorry at that point.

864
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 3: I'm sure you feel that way. I'm sorry, you know

865
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:51,880
Speaker 3: another one is with me.

866
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 4: By the time you come to apologize to me, I'm

867
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 4: at a part in my life.

868
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:58,800
Speaker 3: Where I've probably have already written you off no offense.

869
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 4: But if I haven't talked to you in months or

870
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:04,799
Speaker 4: you're you're not in You're not even in my You're

871
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:07,239
Speaker 4: not in my world, so you don't even know me

872
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 4: an apology, have a nice day, exactly. And I'm not

873
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:11,800
Speaker 4: trying to be in an ahole. I'm just that's just

874
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:14,240
Speaker 4: the way it is. And I'm going to tell you

875
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:16,880
Speaker 4: through life experience. The older you get, as I'm getting older,

876
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 4: the less you tolerate other people in them trying to

877
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:26,320
Speaker 4: find themselves in this year, you know you may be struggling,

878
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:29,840
Speaker 4: and during your struggle you leave a trail of destruction

879
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 4: by being mean to friends and being reckless with their feelings.

880
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 3: I don't have time for you. I'm done. I'm so

881
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:41,400
Speaker 3: much happier just eliminating you from my world's letting it go.

882
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 12: Does it mean less if you apologize when you're drunk.

883
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:48,359
Speaker 12: Some people want to apologize, but it's awkward, so they

884
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 12: maybe just take the edge off of.

885
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:51,359
Speaker 7: Because half the time you don't remember what you did.

886
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 5: When you don't mean it.

887
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 6: Nobody could be meaning. It just.

888
00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 23: Gets you.

889
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:58,240
Speaker 3: I think if you're going to have a serious conversation

890
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:00,879
Speaker 3: with me, let's let's do it. Yeah. Then if we

891
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 3: like the outcome, then we'll get drunk. Right, you know how?

892
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,760
Speaker 4: What was the lady who wrote the book about cleaning

893
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 4: out your closet.

894
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:09,760
Speaker 5: Marie Condo?

895
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 3: Yes, you know what.

896
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:13,640
Speaker 4: I really think that should be what you do with people.

897
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:17,480
Speaker 4: I agree, tidy up. What is it If you find

898
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 4: a blouse in your closet and it doesn't bring you joy,

899
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 4: you should get rid of it.

900
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Speaker 8: You know.

901
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 4: If a person doesn't bring you joy, if you are

902
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Speaker 4: not nourished by what they bring to their relationship as

903
00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 4: you should be nourishing them, and you're maybe not, then.

904
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Speaker 3: What a waste of time?

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00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 9: One hundred percent. I even apply that method to like

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Speaker 9: my Instagram people I follow. I'll go through every now

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Speaker 9: and then and be like, this does not spark joy? Unfollow?

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Speaker 17: Yeah?

909
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Speaker 6: I mean, am I being just a no?

910
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 5: It's so important to do that.

911
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 15: Life is too short to surround yourself by people that

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Speaker 15: don't spark joy. Right, Really, you don't know what's going

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Speaker 15: to happen tomorrow. It should be a you know you

914
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:53,279
Speaker 15: should be surrounded by light.

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Speaker 3: It's true.

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Speaker 5: You get time back. Stop wasting it, all.

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Speaker 4: Right, So I'm encouraging everyone go out there and just

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Speaker 1: Scared.

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Speaker 4: I know it's kind of a it's a sad way

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Speaker 4: to look at it, but I would rather spend my

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Speaker 1: Ran in the Morning Show. This is Alista in the

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Speaker 1: Morning Show.

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Speaker 3: We're we googling.

936
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Speaker 4: We just discovered that if Google charged like ten cents

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Speaker 4: a search, we.

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Speaker 3: Would happily pay it.

939
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, nature over there googling like a googling food.

940
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:05,680
Speaker 3: Well, we have a lot.

941
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Speaker 10: Of conversations when we're not on the air during the

942
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:10,840
Speaker 10: commercial breaks, and one of the we were talking about

943
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Speaker 10: some of the music we've been playing here is a

944
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:14,759
Speaker 10: little slow. Yes, so you said, oh, it's like a

945
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 10: dirge around here. I said, yeah, it's like a it's

946
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Speaker 10: like listening to a funeral dirge. And I had never

947
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 10: heard that word before. So I look up DI I

948
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Speaker 10: R G E, and sure enough, it's a like a

949
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Speaker 10: funeral rite a song.

950
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:27,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a jerk, it's a dirge.

951
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:33,320
Speaker 10: And then we start talking about fish and you go, yeah,

952
00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 10: he had the Arctic charge.

953
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, Alex had the Arctic char, And scary goes.

954
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 6: Is that is that a white fish?

955
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:41,799
Speaker 10: I mean, of course, a very scary thing to say not.

956
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 10: So I looked up arctic char and you're right, it's

957
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 10: like a salmon trout thing.

958
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 3: It looks like a salmon anyway. So you are officially

959
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:49,839
Speaker 3: the Googler.

960
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:54,400
Speaker 6: That tried to Googler.

961
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:02,439
Speaker 4: Ask you a question, what have you heard us say

962
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:04,840
Speaker 4: on this show? Because it's rapid fire and sometimes you

963
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 4: got to go what what have you heard on our

964
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 4: show that made you go Google? It turns you into

965
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 4: the Googler.

966
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:13,759
Speaker 9: Oh, I'm very worried that if anything ever happens to me,

967
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 9: They're going to search my search history. So I really

968
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:17,839
Speaker 9: need one of you guys to come and delete this

969
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 9: because we'll be talking about things and I just go

970
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:20,360
Speaker 9: ahead and google.

971
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, things, I'm not even sure if.

972
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:24,839
Speaker 7: I can say them. But stuff pops up, pops up,

973
00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 7: and it's gonna make me.

974
00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:28,440
Speaker 5: Look real bad. You got to be the googler I

975
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:29,840
Speaker 5: am the That's what happens.

976
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:31,440
Speaker 9: I feel like I'm just going to rely on the

977
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:34,440
Speaker 9: excuse of show prep for when it courts is why not?

978
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:38,359
Speaker 4: No, they they'll check your search history. So Ali hi,

979
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:42,840
Speaker 4: ali uh. Brody said he made you be a Googler yesterday.

980
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 8: Yes, that was a Googler.

981
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:44,480
Speaker 3: What did you google?

982
00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 8: I googled potatoes all Grotton.

983
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 13: Why.

984
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 5: I don't know how to delay.

985
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:52,880
Speaker 4: There's many ways to say it. If you're in France,

986
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 4: it's I'll the t I N is usually ta. It's

987
00:41:58,080 --> 00:41:59,240
Speaker 4: like it's like tang.

988
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,319
Speaker 3: Anyway, So why did you I didn't know.

989
00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:04,319
Speaker 8: I was going to dinner last night and I asked

990
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 8: Brody at Peter Luger's and I asked Brody what I

991
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:12,960
Speaker 8: should get and he told me potatoes Grotton, And but

992
00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 8: I didn't know what it was, and he got really

993
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 8: mad at me and told me to look it up.

994
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 3: The googler. Did you have the you can say all

995
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:28,279
Speaker 3: grotton whatever you No, I did not?

996
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:28,880
Speaker 6: Why not?

997
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:32,360
Speaker 3: Oh my god, so good cheesy goodness.

998
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 5: Well, I didn't know how to order it.

999
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:37,440
Speaker 6: Peter Lugers, they'll they'll know what you're saying.

1000
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, but it's fun to google things. But we

1001
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:41,400
Speaker 3: do say a lot of stuff. In the course of

1002
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:45,759
Speaker 3: an hour. We just yeah, and it just goes.

1003
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 4: It just goes so fast. But you want to look

1004
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 4: it up? And what are they talking about? What's scary?

1005
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:52,400
Speaker 12: Well I was at a diner once and the Boston

1006
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,800
Speaker 12: scrad was on the medial. I'm like, what is Boston scraad?

1007
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:58,399
Speaker 12: I went right to the Googler and I found out

1008
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 12: the googler sheepish.

1009
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 15: I do. I do that when we're watching old movies.

1010
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 15: I want to see what the actor actress looks like

1011
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:11,880
Speaker 15: now and if they died and how they died and

1012
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:13,240
Speaker 15: what's going on in their lives.

1013
00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 7: And I Google every single time.

1014
00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:17,520
Speaker 6: Look, you know what, We've all become addicted to the Google.

1015
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 13: I know you have, Froggy, I do it watching like

1016
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 13: award shows or do it watching I I'll see a

1017
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:25,359
Speaker 13: commercial and I'm like, wait a second, I recognize that face.

1018
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:27,520
Speaker 13: They've been in another commercial, or they've been in a movie,

1019
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 13: and then I Google and up, yep, sure enough, that

1020
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Speaker 13: person has been in this movie, that commercial or whatever.

1021
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:39,600
Speaker 3: You're the googler. Yea, hello, Shannon, how are you good?

1022
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 2: How are you Elvis doing well?

1023
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 3: Are you a googler?

1024
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:43,399
Speaker 4: I am.

1025
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 3: What was one of the things you had to google?

1026
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:48,920
Speaker 18: I had a Google adic dick.

1027
00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:49,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, dig dick.

1028
00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 5: Animal.

1029
00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 13: Yeah.

1030
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:55,880
Speaker 18: Well, you guys were talking about it, and I'm just like,

1031
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:57,760
Speaker 18: what is that. I've never heard of that before.

1032
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 3: So funny. It's a dictved ik.

1033
00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:02,920
Speaker 5: Make sure that's yeah, d I K.

1034
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 3: Yeah. If you go, if you do a Google on

1035
00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:09,399
Speaker 3: dick dick d I K D I K, you'll see

1036
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:11,319
Speaker 3: it's it's like a small little deer looking thing.

1037
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 6: I spelled it the other way and did not get

1038
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 6: an animal.

1039
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 7: You did get an animal, but another animal.

1040
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 3: Shannon.

1041
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:21,719
Speaker 4: I'm glad that you heard us talk about the world

1042
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:23,239
Speaker 4: famous Dick Dick and you gave it a look, and

1043
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 4: now you know about the whole new world of Dick Dick.

1044
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:28,959
Speaker 18: I know you guys I listen to you guys every

1045
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 18: morning when I go to work. My husband's probably listening

1046
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 18: in his car right now. I've tried calling in so

1047
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:37,440
Speaker 18: many times and this is just awesome being able to

1048
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 18: talk to all of you.

1049
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 3: Well, it's easier to get through when we're not giving

1050
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:40,320
Speaker 3: away any money.

1051
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 13: So there is that, right.

1052
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:43,320
Speaker 6: Well, now what my question?

1053
00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:43,560
Speaker 13: Now?

1054
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:44,959
Speaker 3: Google my Google nation?

1055
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:45,720
Speaker 22: Uh?

1056
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 4: Is dick dick all singular and plural? Is it like

1057
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 4: a group of dic dick or dick dix?

1058
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:50,520
Speaker 1: Oh?

1059
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 5: Google that?

1060
00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 4: Why are you throwing the phone? This is a brand

1061
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 4: new phone drama. Okay, well, thanks for listening to Shannon.

1062
00:44:57,120 --> 00:44:57,879
Speaker 4: Have a DIT day?

1063
00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:00,440
Speaker 5: I think so cult.

1064
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:01,439
Speaker 3: Thank you?

1065
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 11: What dikers dikers.

1066
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:08,800
Speaker 5: Differently?

1067
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:09,160
Speaker 22: Do you?

1068
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 5: Y k E R that?

1069
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 4: I don't know dikers do you? I was just thinking

1070
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:18,680
Speaker 4: dikers don't need dig dicks?

1071
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:22,719
Speaker 14: I don't know.

1072
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 3: So what else have you googled because of our show? Hello? Rachel, Hi?

1073
00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:30,239
Speaker 22: Hi?

1074
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 6: What did you google?

1075
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:32,880
Speaker 3: After hearing about us talk about it?

1076
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:34,360
Speaker 23: Because of Danielle?

1077
00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 17: I googled Jason Rulu's Instagram photos.

1078
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:39,960
Speaker 3: Talk about your life?

1079
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:43,520
Speaker 7: Did you get to see it before they pulled it down?

1080
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1081
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:47,239
Speaker 13: Yes I did? Oh my god, yeah I know I.

1082
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 4: Know you got to find it fast. That is a yeah,

1083
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:50,960
Speaker 4: you need to be a faster googler like you.

1084
00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 3: Rachel. Thanks for being a part of the Elvis drade

1085
00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 3: Boarding show. Googler Nation. Have a good day, Pier.

1086
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:02,440
Speaker 5: Remember Murk. Yes, when we talked about that for the first.

1087
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:04,000
Speaker 7: Time, I had to google that. I had no idea

1088
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:04,440
Speaker 7: what that was.

1089
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 19: It's a very important Hello, Brittany, Hey, how are you guys?

1090
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:09,960
Speaker 1: Do it?

1091
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:12,719
Speaker 3: Okay, Brittany, what did you google because of our show?

1092
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 18: So it wasn't actually me.

1093
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:15,960
Speaker 8: It was my daughter.

1094
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:17,839
Speaker 18: She was ridding with me in the car one day

1095
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:21,880
Speaker 18: and you guys had mentioned sex. And she's ten and

1096
00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 18: I found it in her search history. One is sex.

1097
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 13: Jeez wow.

1098
00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 3: And it's because she heard it on our show. Your

1099
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:31,880
Speaker 3: ten year old daughter googled the word sex.

1100
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 18: She did.

1101
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 5: Yes, Oh I'm sorry, yeah.

1102
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm a grown man. And I asked, what is sex? Anyway? Well,

1103
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:43,440
Speaker 3: thank you tell your daughter, We said.

1104
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:46,839
Speaker 13: Hi, Hi, will, thank you guys, Thank you.

1105
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1106
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:50,080
Speaker 4: People learning a lot from googling the things that use

1107
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:51,960
Speaker 4: on our show or other shows too.

1108
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 17: Hello, Ellen, Hi, good morning everybody, good morning, Well, good morning.

1109
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:58,360
Speaker 6: So what did you google after hearing about it on

1110
00:46:58,400 --> 00:46:58,799
Speaker 6: our show.

1111
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 13: I had a Dutch oven.

1112
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:04,600
Speaker 5: Now, let me ask you a question.

1113
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:07,000
Speaker 7: After you googled it, did you try to perform that?

1114
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,239
Speaker 23: I didn't even know what it was.

1115
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 13: Yeah.

1116
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 5: It's actually a tool too, isn't it. There's actually a

1117
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:15,439
Speaker 5: Dutch oven.

1118
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:17,920
Speaker 4: There's a Dutch oven, yeah, that you can cook in,

1119
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 4: and there's a Dutch oven where you get cooked.

1120
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:23,520
Speaker 18: Well I knew about the one that you could cook in,

1121
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:24,399
Speaker 18: but not the other one.

1122
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, Alex is famous for giving me his Dutch open.

1123
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 7: I'm so proud we're teaching people.

1124
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:35,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, this show really is kind of a waste. Alan,

1125
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:37,880
Speaker 4: Thank you, having a beautiful day. Thanks for listening to

1126
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:40,279
Speaker 4: Thank you, Thank you.

1127
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:40,440
Speaker 1: You know.

1128
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:43,239
Speaker 15: Google's also good for catching up on shows, like when

1129
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:45,360
Speaker 15: I missed a couple of episodes of Riverdale and I

1130
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:46,880
Speaker 15: wanted to watch it with my son. I was like,

1131
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:48,360
Speaker 15: you know what, I need to figure this out. So

1132
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 15: I went on Wikipedia.

1133
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:50,479
Speaker 5: It's all there.

1134
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 7: There you go everything that's happened.

1135
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,759
Speaker 9: I google significant others of people all the time, Like

1136
00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:57,480
Speaker 9: I don't know what her boyfriend looks like Danielle.

1137
00:47:57,520 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 3: I googled how big were Daniel's boobs before her reduction?

1138
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:01,080
Speaker 15: Yeah?

1139
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:01,880
Speaker 3: They want to see what.

1140
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:03,800
Speaker 7: Was thirty four double day?

1141
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, the googler.

1142
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:07,240
Speaker 7: I feel like they're back up there now.

1143
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:11,920
Speaker 3: That's okay, nothing wrong with that. You just be you.

1144
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:27,160
Speaker 1: That's weird. Elvis Duran in the Morning Show. Don't answer

1145
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 1: the phone, Elvis Duran, the Elvis Duran phone tap.

1146
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:34,520
Speaker 3: All right, into the phone, tap, dear Elvis. My friend

1147
00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 3: Jamie gets very very irritable, very very quickly when telemarketers

1148
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:43,160
Speaker 3: call her on her cell phone. She gets so mad.

1149
00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 3: In fact, she recently got into a fight with a

1150
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:49,640
Speaker 3: phone operator from a credit card company who solicited her

1151
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:53,360
Speaker 3: on her cell phone. Why don't you have our buddy

1152
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:57,479
Speaker 3: Michael Oppenheimer give her a call and try to sell

1153
00:48:57,480 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 3: her something. She'll explode. This comes to us from Kem Boshensky.

1154
00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 3: All right, Kim, We're now going to send Michael Oppenheimer

1155
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:09,279
Speaker 3: to the phone to call your friend Jamie on her

1156
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 3: cell phone.

1157
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 6: Let's listen it.

1158
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:18,440
Speaker 24: Hello, this is mister Michael up and him with the

1159
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:20,839
Speaker 24: Disabled war Veterans Christmas Memorial Fund.

1160
00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 14: How are you doing today?

1161
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 3: Miss?

1162
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:23,400
Speaker 20: Why are you calling this number?

1163
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 24: Because there are a lot of disabled war veterans that

1164
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:27,320
Speaker 24: need your help today.

1165
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 14: Miss.

1166
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 20: Okay, this is my cell phone. I do not wish

1167
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:31,840
Speaker 20: to be solicited on my cell phone.

1168
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:32,120
Speaker 9: Ever.

1169
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:34,239
Speaker 16: I'm very sorry, but I can't do this right now.

1170
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:34,600
Speaker 20: Thank you.

1171
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,759
Speaker 24: Are you feeling a little giving this holiday season? Maybe

1172
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:39,880
Speaker 24: you'd like to pledge your support this afternoon.

1173
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:41,920
Speaker 20: No, I really don't have the time. You're calling me

1174
00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:43,600
Speaker 20: on my cell phone. I do not wish to be

1175
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:46,360
Speaker 20: solicited on my cell phone. I am working, Thank you.

1176
00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:48,400
Speaker 14: This will only take twenty seconds, Miss.

1177
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 1: Hello.

1178
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 24: This is mister Michael Up and him with the Disabled

1179
00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 24: war Veterans Christmas Memorial Fund.

1180
00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:56,959
Speaker 14: How are you doing today?

1181
00:49:56,960 --> 00:49:58,600
Speaker 6: Miss You just called me.

1182
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 20: I asked you to call me on my cell phone,

1183
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 20: and now you're calling me back. Remove this number from

1184
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:06,000
Speaker 20: your list.

1185
00:50:06,080 --> 00:50:08,240
Speaker 14: With a pledge of fifteen dollars, you get the Disabled

1186
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:12,160
Speaker 14: war Gets Recording Memorial tote. Would you like one of those?

1187
00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:15,279
Speaker 14: Miss Hello? For one hundred dollars, we'll give you an

1188
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:18,160
Speaker 14: umbrella and for a more hundred and fifty.

1189
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:19,840
Speaker 25: Something.

1190
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:21,480
Speaker 14: Excuse me, and this is not a recording.

1191
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:23,760
Speaker 24: This is mister Michael Up in Harmon with the Disabled

1192
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:25,399
Speaker 24: war Veterans Christmas Memorial Fund.

1193
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:27,440
Speaker 20: Well, if this is not a recording, why aren't you

1194
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:28,640
Speaker 20: listening to what I'm saying.

1195
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:31,360
Speaker 14: I'm hearing you. I'm just choosing to ignore your yelling.

1196
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:33,440
Speaker 20: Well, can you listen to me?

1197
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:36,440
Speaker 3: Please maybe listen to me.

1198
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:38,080
Speaker 14: I'm listening with dated breath.

1199
00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 20: Miss good you called me twice in ten minutes on

1200
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 20: my cell phone. I do not want solicitation on my

1201
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:48,200
Speaker 20: cell phone. Remove this number from your list right now,

1202
00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:50,240
Speaker 20: or I'll report you to the Better Business Bureau.

1203
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:51,960
Speaker 1: Goodbye.

1204
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 3: Hello.

1205
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:57,000
Speaker 14: This is mister Michael Oop and Harmon with the Disabled

1206
00:50:57,040 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 14: war Veterans with Christmas Memorial Fund. How are you doing today? Miss?

1207
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:04,799
Speaker 20: Stop calling me? Take this number off your list.

1208
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:07,399
Speaker 14: We're looking for individuals today to.

1209
00:51:07,440 --> 00:51:10,719
Speaker 24: Share their holiday spirit and spread the joy with a

1210
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 24: monetary donation to disabled war veterans.

1211
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:18,040
Speaker 20: I don't care. You will remove this number from your list.

1212
00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:19,040
Speaker 20: Stop calling me.

1213
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:21,720
Speaker 24: I am on my job, but for a mere fifty

1214
00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:24,240
Speaker 24: dollars out of your pocket, wouldn't you like this handy

1215
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:25,360
Speaker 24: dandy little tote.

1216
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:26,640
Speaker 20: I don't care.

1217
00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:29,480
Speaker 14: Give us one hundred dollars and we'll give you this umbrella.

1218
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:33,560
Speaker 20: Take this number off your list right now.

1219
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:35,640
Speaker 14: And for one hundred and fifty dollars you get all

1220
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:38,719
Speaker 14: three spectacular gifts, including How the West Was One on

1221
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:40,399
Speaker 14: DVD how does that make you feel?

1222
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 7: Sorry?

1223
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:46,600
Speaker 14: Thanks, we must be having a bad connection. I'm having

1224
00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:47,480
Speaker 14: trouble receiving them.

1225
00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:48,760
Speaker 2: Now, let me tell you something.

1226
00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:51,799
Speaker 1: Okay, now you're dealing with me, You're not dealing with

1227
00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 1: the other person.

1228
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:55,239
Speaker 20: Who answered the phone before. And if you continue to

1229
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:57,960
Speaker 20: do this, this will definitely be reported because we've had

1230
00:51:58,040 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 20: enough of your gait.

1231
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:02,560
Speaker 14: We are a charity whatever, we are a charitable organization.

1232
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:03,839
Speaker 3: Okay, I don't care.

1233
00:52:03,960 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 5: This is not charity. You want charity, Winny.

1234
00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:09,360
Speaker 14: I don't understand how you came up. It won't be

1235
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 14: much longer.

1236
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 1: Now I want your number, and I want your name right.

1237
00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:14,600
Speaker 1: Excuse me.

1238
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:19,520
Speaker 14: My name is mister Michael Oppenheimer. On behalf of people

1239
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:23,399
Speaker 14: I'm calling on, behalf of people who listen to me.

1240
00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 13: The hell up?

1241
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:28,799
Speaker 8: Okay, n by again, do.

1242
00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:31,920
Speaker 26: You understand people who said or you will get babble

1243
00:52:31,960 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 26: abuse from me?

1244
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:33,440
Speaker 6: Okay, excuse me.

1245
00:52:33,600 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 20: I am not going to collorate this nonsense.

1246
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 14: I think you should bring it.

1247
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 24: We are talking about people who served in the line

1248
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 24: of duty in this country for you and for me,

1249
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 24: and stood up for America and all what it believes in.

1250
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 10: Hello.

1251
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:51,360
Speaker 24: Yes, this is mister Michael. I'm with the disabled, more veterans,

1252
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:53,439
Speaker 24: Christmas and oil fund? Have you changed your mind?

1253
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:55,560
Speaker 1: Miss, not at all?

1254
00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:58,399
Speaker 20: You know you're really using it my minute?

1255
00:52:58,440 --> 00:52:59,960
Speaker 1: Didn't there anyone else you could buy?

1256
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:02,799
Speaker 14: If you'd like, I can bother Kim Bashinsky.

1257
00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 20: Yes, by all means father kim by Shinski.

1258
00:53:07,080 --> 00:53:09,839
Speaker 14: Because Kim Bashinski told us to play his phone tap

1259
00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:10,120
Speaker 14: on you.

1260
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:13,080
Speaker 20: Oh great, I'd like a killer right now.

1261
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 14: This is Gary Jones Melvis Duran in the Morning Show.

1262
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:16,960
Speaker 6: I'm in the middle of.

1263
00:53:16,920 --> 00:53:19,719
Speaker 20: Macy's right now. For some reason, I thought of her

1264
00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:23,000
Speaker 20: because I tried to call her while you were calling me,

1265
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:24,840
Speaker 20: and I said she wouldn't do that to me.

1266
00:53:26,080 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 1: Elvis Duran's phone tap.

1267
00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:29,600
Speaker 13: You know what?

1268
00:53:29,640 --> 00:53:30,000
Speaker 1: I love?

1269
00:53:30,160 --> 00:53:32,839
Speaker 3: The phone kept bringing, they kept answering, I love her,

1270
00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:34,479
Speaker 3: mom shot down, hell up.

1271
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 12: This phone table was pre recorded with permission granted by

1272
00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 12: all participates.

1273
00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:42,759
Speaker 1: The Elvis Oran phone tap only on Elvis Daran in

1274
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:43,520
Speaker 1: the Morning Show.

1275
00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:45,960
Speaker 3: Hey, you know what.

1276
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 4: I was talking to Gandhi earlier about this interesting article.

1277
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:53,760
Speaker 4: She read tips on how not to be robbed from

1278
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 4: ex robbers and I find this fascinating. I mean, if

1279
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:01,080
Speaker 4: you want to learn how to stay safe on the

1280
00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 4: streets or wherever learn from the people who make the

1281
00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 4: streets unsafe?

1282
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 13: Right right?

1283
00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:06,560
Speaker 21: Why?

1284
00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:07,000
Speaker 6: Why not?

1285
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:09,440
Speaker 4: Okay, So you have the article in front of you,

1286
00:54:09,520 --> 00:54:12,320
Speaker 4: I do, Okay, So what in general, what are we

1287
00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:12,879
Speaker 4: learning here?

1288
00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:13,320
Speaker 5: Okay?

1289
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:16,359
Speaker 9: So these are specifically about home break ins and things

1290
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:17,839
Speaker 9: that you should not do, things that we all think

1291
00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:19,000
Speaker 9: are safe that are really not.

1292
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:19,400
Speaker 1: So.

1293
00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:21,880
Speaker 9: One of the first things they say is unless the

1294
00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 9: safe is bolted to the floor or in a wall,

1295
00:54:25,480 --> 00:54:27,360
Speaker 9: it's gonna get taken and they're going to get into it.

1296
00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 9: If you just purchase a safe, even a fireproof safe,

1297
00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:31,440
Speaker 9: whatever it is, they'll figure it out.

1298
00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:31,919
Speaker 5: They said.

1299
00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:34,320
Speaker 9: Anything that's going to take them more than fifteen minutes

1300
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 9: to get through or get into, they're not gonna mess with.

1301
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:40,000
Speaker 9: Closets are a gold mine. Under the bed is a

1302
00:54:40,080 --> 00:54:42,960
Speaker 9: gold mine. Any drawers you have gold mines. You have

1303
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:46,440
Speaker 9: to find better places to hide things, they say keeping

1304
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:48,080
Speaker 9: You know how a lot of people have a bowl

1305
00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:50,200
Speaker 9: that they'll toss all their keys in, or the rack,

1306
00:54:50,239 --> 00:54:51,960
Speaker 9: the key rack at the front door. Yeah, they say,

1307
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 9: don't do that because when they come in, they're going

1308
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:56,000
Speaker 9: to go for cars. If there are cars in the garage,

1309
00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:57,279
Speaker 9: we have your keys right there.

1310
00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 4: Interesting, Yeah, I'm wondering if the bedroom is where we

1311
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:05,160
Speaker 4: hide most of the stuff in our in our lives.

1312
00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:07,040
Speaker 5: I think a lot of people think, yeah, I'm just

1313
00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:07,920
Speaker 5: gonna put under my bed.

1314
00:55:08,120 --> 00:55:09,239
Speaker 7: We find it.

1315
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:11,279
Speaker 4: Do you know once someone broke into my house years

1316
00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 4: and years ago, they went into the laundry room and

1317
00:55:13,719 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 4: emptied out an entire box of detergent, because people hide

1318
00:55:17,320 --> 00:55:21,160
Speaker 4: jewelry in detergent. Yes, I'm like, what the doctor, I

1319
00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 4: mean the doctor the police officers told me, Yeah, that's

1320
00:55:24,040 --> 00:55:24,799
Speaker 4: what's going on there.

1321
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:25,160
Speaker 14: Wow.

1322
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:27,359
Speaker 9: They're saying, if you really have things that are very

1323
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:30,440
Speaker 9: valuable to you, just take it to a safe.

1324
00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:31,319
Speaker 5: Deposit box at a bank.

1325
00:55:31,600 --> 00:55:33,400
Speaker 9: Pay whatever that fee is for the month to keep

1326
00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:36,279
Speaker 9: it at a bank because that is actually secure, and

1327
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:38,520
Speaker 9: that it's kind of smart if you do live in

1328
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:41,360
Speaker 9: an area that's high crime and burglars, burglaries happen stuff

1329
00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:43,360
Speaker 9: like that, to have a decoy.

1330
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 5: Box, like a little jewelry box with crab jewelry.

1331
00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:47,399
Speaker 9: In it, Yeah, put it somewhere that looks like, oh,

1332
00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:49,640
Speaker 9: they got all the stuff if they come here. Don't

1333
00:55:49,719 --> 00:55:51,839
Speaker 9: hide things in your laundry baskets. They said, they will

1334
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:54,920
Speaker 9: just ransack your entire house. Chop a whatever they can.

1335
00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:57,319
Speaker 9: But if it's gonna take them a while to get

1336
00:55:57,360 --> 00:55:58,799
Speaker 9: to it, then they might not do it.

1337
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:00,799
Speaker 3: It's so what would that be. What could you do

1338
00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 3: that would force them to take a while to get

1339
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:02,920
Speaker 3: to it.

1340
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:04,960
Speaker 5: I don't know. They did not specify that far.

1341
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:06,879
Speaker 15: Put it in a safe deposit box, like you said,

1342
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 15: then they won't find it there you go, but.

1343
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:10,279
Speaker 4: They're going to ransack your house looking for it and

1344
00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:12,799
Speaker 4: cause some damage. Here's what I'm thinking. It doesn't make

1345
00:56:12,840 --> 00:56:15,040
Speaker 4: me sad, it makes me feel safe. I cannot think

1346
00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:18,120
Speaker 4: of one thing in my house that's worth stealing.

1347
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:18,759
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying.

1348
00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:20,719
Speaker 3: That they're gonna break in, They'll be like, oh, well,

1349
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:22,040
Speaker 3: next next door.

1350
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:26,160
Speaker 9: Maybe they said, be careful about what you're tossing into

1351
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:28,680
Speaker 9: your recycling bin. You know, like we all buy a

1352
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:30,520
Speaker 9: new computer and then you take the box and you

1353
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:32,680
Speaker 9: put it outside in the trash. They drive by, see

1354
00:56:32,680 --> 00:56:34,239
Speaker 9: that there's a new computer box in the trash.

1355
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:36,000
Speaker 5: They know you have that. They know you have a

1356
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:37,320
Speaker 5: TV inside your house.

1357
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:39,080
Speaker 13: If you do like an advertisement like hey look what

1358
00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:40,160
Speaker 13: we got a brand new TV.

1359
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:41,120
Speaker 3: It's brand new.

1360
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:44,640
Speaker 9: They said specifically after Christmas they will do drive bys

1361
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 9: of all of the different neighborhoods and see who's got what.

1362
00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:48,240
Speaker 5: Then they hit your house.

1363
00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:51,120
Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean there's there's a lot of stuff that

1364
00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:52,520
Speaker 9: I would never have thought.

1365
00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:53,320
Speaker 5: About being the case.

1366
00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:55,839
Speaker 9: And the one thing that they say, well absolutely keep

1367
00:56:55,840 --> 00:56:56,479
Speaker 9: them away from.

1368
00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:59,719
Speaker 5: Homes is a dog. They say, big dog, small dog.

1369
00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:02,520
Speaker 9: It doesn't matter because you can disable alarm systems if

1370
00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:04,480
Speaker 9: you want to, if power goes out, you know, there

1371
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:06,840
Speaker 9: are things that can happen, but you can't with a dog.

1372
00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:09,160
Speaker 9: And dogs will sense that people are coming from far

1373
00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:11,480
Speaker 9: away and start barking, and they don't want they don't

1374
00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:11,799
Speaker 9: want that.

1375
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:13,800
Speaker 5: So even a little dog keeps burglers away.

1376
00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:16,000
Speaker 4: So now I feel guilty for bitching a moment about

1377
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:17,600
Speaker 4: my dog's at bark all the time.

1378
00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 5: Now they're just looking out for you.

1379
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 3: They do what dogs do.

1380
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 4: Yesterday we had some people here at the house working

1381
00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:28,080
Speaker 4: on some stuff and it's not stop, you know Max especially, Yes,

1382
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:31,400
Speaker 4: I'm sorry about that.

1383
00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:37,520
Speaker 3: Yes, Froggy. Froggy actually taught my dogs how to how

1384
00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:42,240
Speaker 3: to bark, to be taught sorry to bark, and it

1385
00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:43,680
Speaker 3: is go ahead. I'm sorry.

1386
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:45,640
Speaker 9: No one of the other things that they say, people

1387
00:57:45,720 --> 00:57:47,600
Speaker 9: really need to take note of is if you're going

1388
00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:49,760
Speaker 9: on vacation, wait until you're home.

1389
00:57:49,600 --> 00:57:50,600
Speaker 5: To post your pictures.

1390
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:53,240
Speaker 9: Because if you're posting, hey, look at me, here I am,

1391
00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:54,000
Speaker 9: this is where I'm at.

1392
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:55,480
Speaker 5: People know you're not here.

1393
00:57:56,160 --> 00:57:57,560
Speaker 15: That's what a lot of people are saying when you

1394
00:57:57,560 --> 00:57:59,760
Speaker 15: go on Facebook and so excited about my trip to

1395
00:57:59,800 --> 00:58:02,040
Speaker 15: the bar tomorrow exactly.

1396
00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're gonna be gone for for three weeks. Yeah,

1397
00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:07,240
Speaker 3: come on, come on by.

1398
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:10,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know they're scary posting from a foam party

1399
00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:11,720
Speaker 4: at a pool at the hotel.

1400
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:14,520
Speaker 12: Maybe I should just leave the lights on in my

1401
00:58:14,560 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 12: apartment or something.

1402
00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:17,720
Speaker 5: They actually did say leaving a light on is important?

1403
00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 12: What about sticking the money in between the stacks of

1404
00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:21,920
Speaker 12: clothing and your your folded T shirts and your jaws?

1405
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 13: Thanks?

1406
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:25,960
Speaker 3: Thanks, scary, you just told us where to go.

1407
00:58:27,400 --> 00:58:27,600
Speaker 13: Look.

1408
00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:29,320
Speaker 4: You know, I had a really good friend who lived

1409
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 4: in a doorman building and uh, someone got into his

1410
00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:39,520
Speaker 4: apartment by knocking a hole in the wall in the

1411
00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:42,640
Speaker 4: hallway and went through their closet to get into their apartment.

1412
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 7: Wow, no, one crazy.

1413
00:58:46,240 --> 00:58:48,040
Speaker 4: Someone just walked by and saw a huge hole in

1414
00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:49,520
Speaker 4: the wall, like what happened here?

1415
00:58:49,760 --> 00:58:52,760
Speaker 13: Yeah, frog, this person's got a great idea they texted

1416
00:58:52,760 --> 00:58:55,640
Speaker 13: in from Mary Code from Miami three or five. If you,

1417
00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 13: if you have a robber, put valuables in the enclosure

1418
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:03,360
Speaker 13: of your reptiles. Nobody's going to go in the snaking exactable.

1419
00:59:04,280 --> 00:59:06,760
Speaker 15: When Tonko was alive, I should have put it under

1420
00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 15: his rock.

1421
00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:08,560
Speaker 5: I would have taken a reptile.

1422
00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:12,720
Speaker 4: You're coming with me, Yeah, you would have taken the

1423
00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:15,600
Speaker 4: reptile before you take any money. Gandhi, Is that the

1424
00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 4: entire list? Because I think it's pretty cool.

1425
00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:19,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's that's the majority of the list.

1426
00:59:19,880 --> 00:59:20,320
Speaker 3: All right.

1427
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:22,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, if you don't want Danielle to rip

1428
00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:24,919
Speaker 4: you off, put all your stuff in the mayonnaise job.

1429
00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:25,560
Speaker 13: Yeah.

1430
00:59:25,600 --> 00:59:27,480
Speaker 5: Oh yes, you would never not go in there.

1431
00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:29,640
Speaker 7: That's not even allowed in the house. In my house.

1432
00:59:29,840 --> 00:59:30,320
Speaker 13: There you go.

1433
00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:32,960
Speaker 9: Love to hear from somebody who actually did break into

1434
00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:34,320
Speaker 9: houses or does break in the house.

1435
00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:35,520
Speaker 5: Oh, Nate's waving at me.

1436
00:59:35,600 --> 00:59:38,640
Speaker 3: You have some Let's go talk to Garrett, a former

1437
00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:41,880
Speaker 3: burglar Burglar Burglar on line twenty four.

1438
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:45,439
Speaker 2: Hey Garrett, good morning, good morning. How are you well?

1439
00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:47,960
Speaker 4: We're doing fine? So you heard Gandhi reading this? Uh

1440
00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:50,960
Speaker 4: these tips from former robbers. Do you have any to

1441
00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:53,400
Speaker 4: add to that or are any of those kind of lame?

1442
00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:54,280
Speaker 3: What do you think?

1443
00:59:56,160 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 2: I think it's more of a matter of uh, you know,

1444
00:59:58,720 --> 01:00:02,400
Speaker 2: people know the person or if they're not.

1445
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:02,919
Speaker 13: Going to be home.

1446
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:06,240
Speaker 2: Like Gandhi said earlier, it's not really a matter of

1447
01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:10,080
Speaker 2: driving by, right.

1448
01:00:10,080 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 4: So people who I guess casing the situation, knowing if

1449
01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:16,320
Speaker 4: they're there or not knowing what their habits are, what

1450
01:00:16,400 --> 01:00:18,760
Speaker 4: time they usually leave their schedule, stuff.

1451
01:00:18,440 --> 01:00:22,480
Speaker 2: Like that, right, right, right, So I mean I was

1452
01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:25,120
Speaker 2: I wouldn't say I was a former burglar. When I

1453
01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:27,200
Speaker 2: was fourteen, I got into a little bit of trouble

1454
01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:31,080
Speaker 2: with some friends breaking into a house, ended up with

1455
01:00:31,120 --> 01:00:34,800
Speaker 2: some felonies. Luckily I was under the age of eighteen.

1456
01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:39,600
Speaker 2: So yeah, so that was all that was fun.

1457
01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:41,720
Speaker 3: That was a short lived career for you in the

1458
01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:43,400
Speaker 3: world of burglary.

1459
01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:45,360
Speaker 2: It was one and done. It was one and done.

1460
01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:48,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, good, I'm happy that you said that.

1461
01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:51,080
Speaker 4: Well anyway, so yeah, I think you bring up a

1462
01:00:51,080 --> 01:00:53,880
Speaker 4: good point is people watch your schedule, People.

1463
01:00:53,720 --> 01:00:57,000
Speaker 3: Know what time you leave the house. People know and.

1464
01:00:57,000 --> 01:00:59,080
Speaker 4: Look here we are at work, you know, when we're

1465
01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:01,120
Speaker 4: in the studio and we're a live show.

1466
01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:03,080
Speaker 6: You know exactly where we are.

1467
01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:04,480
Speaker 3: So, my god, we've.

1468
01:01:04,320 --> 01:01:08,040
Speaker 4: Got to stop doing this. It's very unsafe. All right,

1469
01:01:08,080 --> 01:01:10,280
Speaker 4: thank you very much, Garrett. You go have a good day.

1470
01:01:10,280 --> 01:01:13,200
Speaker 6: Okay, Yeah as well, thank you, thank you.

1471
01:01:13,240 --> 01:01:16,200
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1472
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1477
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Speaker 1: This is Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

1482
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Speaker 3: That list of places women don't want to go to

1483
01:01:53,000 --> 01:01:55,320
Speaker 3: on a first date, Yeah, I think it is. We

1484
01:01:55,400 --> 01:01:56,160
Speaker 3: never talked about it.

1485
01:01:56,200 --> 01:01:57,520
Speaker 6: We think, eh, it's never too late.

1486
01:01:57,720 --> 01:02:00,880
Speaker 5: No, I just think people have lost their only three

1487
01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:04,400
Speaker 5: places on this. I don't know about those.

1488
01:02:04,440 --> 01:02:05,880
Speaker 6: I mean, I give you a list and work.

1489
01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:09,760
Speaker 3: Okay, So a list of twenty eight places not to

1490
01:02:09,800 --> 01:02:11,280
Speaker 3: take a woman on the first date. Where did these

1491
01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:12,439
Speaker 3: this list even come from?

1492
01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 5: Like TikTok and instagram lists?

1493
01:02:15,440 --> 01:02:16,479
Speaker 3: Okay, have you seen the list?

1494
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:16,880
Speaker 17: Have you?

1495
01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:17,959
Speaker 3: Have you all seen the list?

1496
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:20,440
Speaker 4: So a group of women put together this list of

1497
01:02:20,440 --> 01:02:22,360
Speaker 4: twenty eight places women do not want to go to

1498
01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:26,200
Speaker 4: on a first date. A lot of it has to

1499
01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:30,600
Speaker 4: do with chain restaurants, Froggy, And by the way, just

1500
01:02:30,600 --> 01:02:32,440
Speaker 4: because I'm reading this list doesn't mean we agree.

1501
01:02:33,040 --> 01:02:35,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, I disagree with the majority of it.

1502
01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:38,400
Speaker 3: What's Froggy doing? Somebody?

1503
01:02:38,840 --> 01:02:41,320
Speaker 4: Well, I keep forgetting Froggy is a program director of

1504
01:02:41,360 --> 01:02:43,240
Speaker 4: another radio station, so he's doing three jobs at once.

1505
01:02:43,320 --> 01:02:44,960
Speaker 7: Any of something in his eyes?

1506
01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:46,320
Speaker 3: What do you have in your eye? Are you okay?

1507
01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:48,600
Speaker 13: I don't know. It just it like flew in my

1508
01:02:48,600 --> 01:02:50,280
Speaker 13: eye second ago and I cannot get it out.

1509
01:02:51,280 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 3: God, I hate it when it gets in my eyes.

1510
01:02:53,880 --> 01:02:55,600
Speaker 13: It's not that I didn't say.

1511
01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:56,560
Speaker 3: What did I say? It was?

1512
01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:58,240
Speaker 13: I don't know, but it's not that.

1513
01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:01,960
Speaker 4: Okay, So anyway, on this list of places women don't

1514
01:03:01,960 --> 01:03:03,120
Speaker 4: want to go on a first date, a lot of

1515
01:03:03,160 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 4: them are chain restaurants.

1516
01:03:05,200 --> 01:03:07,520
Speaker 13: That's okay, it's the first place I took Lisa. Okay,

1517
01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:09,600
Speaker 13: with Applebee's. There you go.

1518
01:03:09,680 --> 01:03:10,959
Speaker 3: That is on the list.

1519
01:03:11,040 --> 01:03:11,800
Speaker 5: That's a great day.

1520
01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:13,600
Speaker 7: Even my friend things about it.

1521
01:03:13,760 --> 01:03:14,320
Speaker 5: Exactly.

1522
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:15,400
Speaker 3: I love Applebee's.

1523
01:03:15,480 --> 01:03:15,720
Speaker 13: Yeah.

1524
01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:19,160
Speaker 4: Anyway, so on the list of restaurants they don't want

1525
01:03:19,240 --> 01:03:22,320
Speaker 4: to go on a date on first date, Cheesecake Factory.

1526
01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:22,920
Speaker 5: Nonsense.

1527
01:03:23,320 --> 01:03:24,560
Speaker 7: I would go there in a second.

1528
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:27,200
Speaker 9: If you can't find something on a cheesecake factory menu,

1529
01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:27,920
Speaker 9: you're the problem.

1530
01:03:28,520 --> 01:03:29,920
Speaker 7: Sniders are insane.

1531
01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:34,160
Speaker 4: Everything's insane, and you have a leftovers for like ten days.

1532
01:03:36,040 --> 01:03:37,080
Speaker 3: People, you could even.

1533
01:03:37,240 --> 01:03:42,600
Speaker 4: Have a first date leftover party with cheesecake factory. Oh yeah, okay,

1534
01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:43,440
Speaker 4: cheesecake Factory.

1535
01:03:43,520 --> 01:03:44,120
Speaker 3: Chili's.

1536
01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:47,920
Speaker 5: I'm going take me with Case Amazing, Ken.

1537
01:03:47,840 --> 01:03:48,880
Speaker 13: Jimpson, Salsa Man.

1538
01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:51,800
Speaker 3: Apple Bee's is on there. Chipotle, Now that's a little

1539
01:03:51,800 --> 01:03:55,600
Speaker 3: more fast foodish delicious. It's a first date. Let's hang out.

1540
01:03:55,520 --> 01:03:57,360
Speaker 5: Apple Bees on a date night.

1541
01:03:57,560 --> 01:03:59,240
Speaker 3: Okay, here comes my fine way.

1542
01:03:59,440 --> 01:04:02,160
Speaker 4: Okay, hey, I know it's a first date, but I've

1543
01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:04,800
Speaker 4: I've planned an evening at Olive Garden with you.

1544
01:04:04,960 --> 01:04:05,280
Speaker 6: I will go.

1545
01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:07,800
Speaker 7: I would go at the breadsteaks and then never ending salad.

1546
01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:08,120
Speaker 1: Hello.

1547
01:04:08,400 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 13: Yeah, and when you're done, buy the little cheese crater

1548
01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:12,480
Speaker 13: for them. That's extra bonus.

1549
01:04:13,040 --> 01:04:15,640
Speaker 7: Yeah, you get the salad dressing to take homes.

1550
01:04:15,640 --> 01:04:17,440
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm gonna say. I'm gonna say Olive Garden not

1551
01:04:17,480 --> 01:04:18,080
Speaker 3: on a first date.

1552
01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:19,200
Speaker 5: Whatever.

1553
01:04:19,280 --> 01:04:22,080
Speaker 3: Okay, that's an anniversary all right?

1554
01:04:23,520 --> 01:04:26,480
Speaker 4: Starbucks? Okay, look you know, let's meet for a cup

1555
01:04:26,480 --> 01:04:29,120
Speaker 4: of coffee. Nothing wrong with that for a quick meet up.

1556
01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 4: Why not first date?

1557
01:04:32,440 --> 01:04:35,440
Speaker 3: List? Uh, you don't want to hit on? Is Denny's?

1558
01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:40,120
Speaker 5: Well, Denny's is after you've partied to be there.

1559
01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:41,439
Speaker 7: Denny's breakfast that's.

1560
01:04:41,360 --> 01:04:42,080
Speaker 5: The next morning.

1561
01:04:42,440 --> 01:04:48,480
Speaker 4: Let's disco friedt you go there for some potin Mimi exactly?

1562
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:52,560
Speaker 4: How about I hop for your first day? I like,

1563
01:04:52,640 --> 01:04:54,520
Speaker 4: I don't want to Buffalo Wild Wings?

1564
01:04:54,600 --> 01:04:54,800
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1565
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:55,160
Speaker 5: Why not.

1566
01:04:58,520 --> 01:04:59,959
Speaker 3: Daniell Wings stuff?

1567
01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:01,320
Speaker 5: Yes? Sure?

1568
01:05:02,800 --> 01:05:04,400
Speaker 3: How about red lobster now?

1569
01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:05,160
Speaker 5: Yeah not me.

1570
01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:05,680
Speaker 7: I don't want to.

1571
01:05:06,080 --> 01:05:07,520
Speaker 3: It's for the seafood lover in you.

1572
01:05:07,720 --> 01:05:11,560
Speaker 15: I don't have no chicken and steak and your biscuits.

1573
01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:13,280
Speaker 3: Oh here's one.

1574
01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:17,680
Speaker 4: Would you ever take anyone to like a fight like

1575
01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:20,920
Speaker 4: the fights for a first day? Well, I spend all

1576
01:05:20,920 --> 01:05:24,520
Speaker 4: that money we can take into a waffle house. Oh

1577
01:05:24,560 --> 01:05:27,280
Speaker 4: my god, they throw chairs and crapping there they get that.

1578
01:05:27,640 --> 01:05:30,439
Speaker 7: And then you played Jonas Brothers on the way.

1579
01:05:31,440 --> 01:05:31,880
Speaker 3: Scottie B.

1580
01:05:32,720 --> 01:05:34,600
Speaker 6: Talk to me if you're not going to waffle house

1581
01:05:34,600 --> 01:05:34,840
Speaker 6: with me?

1582
01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:36,440
Speaker 3: Seriously? Okay.

1583
01:05:36,520 --> 01:05:39,440
Speaker 4: So also they say any foods, fast food chain or

1584
01:05:39,480 --> 01:05:45,960
Speaker 4: any buffet. All right, but that's my drag name, Chalita buffet. Yes,

1585
01:05:47,320 --> 01:05:49,240
Speaker 4: now non non restaurants.

1586
01:05:49,880 --> 01:05:51,080
Speaker 3: Uh the list.

1587
01:05:51,400 --> 01:05:53,200
Speaker 4: Don't take me on the first eight these women said,

1588
01:05:53,360 --> 01:05:54,440
Speaker 4: don't take me to the movies.

1589
01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:58,360
Speaker 9: I could kind of see that.

1590
01:05:58,360 --> 01:06:02,520
Speaker 4: That's good though, isn't this let's not chill with Netflix

1591
01:06:02,560 --> 01:06:03,080
Speaker 4: at the house.

1592
01:06:03,680 --> 01:06:05,240
Speaker 5: Oh, never invite me to your house on a first

1593
01:06:05,720 --> 01:06:06,240
Speaker 5: What if you're.

1594
01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:08,680
Speaker 3: Ready to do we do wet on the first date.

1595
01:06:09,000 --> 01:06:11,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's how you get killed. I've seen a lot

1596
01:06:11,400 --> 01:06:12,200
Speaker 5: of special start up.

1597
01:06:13,120 --> 01:06:15,880
Speaker 4: Well, most of the most of the documentaries on Netflix

1598
01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:18,200
Speaker 4: are about people going home to watch Netflix and getting killed.

1599
01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:23,400
Speaker 3: Murder, go into the guy's house. No, okay, how about church?

1600
01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:24,480
Speaker 3: The first date at church?

1601
01:06:24,960 --> 01:06:26,440
Speaker 5: For me not to know?

1602
01:06:25,960 --> 01:06:27,520
Speaker 3: I know, Okay, I do that either.

1603
01:06:27,640 --> 01:06:28,240
Speaker 6: Well you wouldn't.

1604
01:06:28,240 --> 01:06:30,040
Speaker 4: But there are some people if they if they find

1605
01:06:30,040 --> 01:06:33,640
Speaker 4: out before first date that they are they are into

1606
01:06:33,960 --> 01:06:35,120
Speaker 4: faith at a certain level.

1607
01:06:35,200 --> 01:06:36,880
Speaker 3: Yeah together, Okay.

1608
01:06:36,560 --> 01:06:38,520
Speaker 7: What if it's your grandle this funeral at the church?

1609
01:06:39,400 --> 01:06:41,440
Speaker 5: Okay, it's going to be a banger.

1610
01:06:43,680 --> 01:06:46,760
Speaker 4: How about the gym? Hey, first date at the gym.

1611
01:06:46,800 --> 01:06:48,560
Speaker 4: What if you're both health nuts and you really love

1612
01:06:48,600 --> 01:06:51,880
Speaker 4: to work out. Hey, you know what, tomorrow morning, Saturday morning,

1613
01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:53,400
Speaker 4: why don't we go to the gym and we'll go

1614
01:06:53,840 --> 01:06:54,560
Speaker 4: have lunch after.

1615
01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:55,600
Speaker 3: Would you do that?

1616
01:06:55,880 --> 01:06:56,080
Speaker 5: God?

1617
01:06:56,120 --> 01:06:57,920
Speaker 9: No, no, because then I'm also going to feel a

1618
01:06:57,920 --> 01:06:59,439
Speaker 9: lot of pressure about what I get at lunch because

1619
01:06:59,480 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 9: this idiot's gym buff and I'm like, Oh, we just

1620
01:07:01,880 --> 01:07:03,080
Speaker 9: worked out and I have to eat a salad.

1621
01:07:03,480 --> 01:07:05,200
Speaker 3: Not everyone I go to the gym. I'm not a

1622
01:07:05,280 --> 01:07:05,840
Speaker 3: gym buff.

1623
01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:07,160
Speaker 5: Whatever.

1624
01:07:07,280 --> 01:07:07,520
Speaker 20: I know.

1625
01:07:07,560 --> 01:07:09,480
Speaker 9: There are certain people, though, that you don't want to

1626
01:07:09,480 --> 01:07:11,320
Speaker 9: eat around because they're so healthy.

1627
01:07:11,360 --> 01:07:15,040
Speaker 4: Oh I know, Yeah, Tommy, Tommy de Daria. Forget, he's

1628
01:07:15,040 --> 01:07:16,960
Speaker 4: on the show all the time. I would I ate

1629
01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:20,040
Speaker 4: with him one time and I will never do it again.

1630
01:07:20,680 --> 01:07:21,280
Speaker 5: What did he get?

1631
01:07:21,320 --> 01:07:22,120
Speaker 7: Did you get a salad?

1632
01:07:22,200 --> 01:07:22,480
Speaker 5: No?

1633
01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:24,560
Speaker 3: No involved like fish with no oil?

1634
01:07:24,720 --> 01:07:24,880
Speaker 18: You know.

1635
01:07:27,560 --> 01:07:32,840
Speaker 3: First date, sporting events ready, let go. I would say,

1636
01:07:32,840 --> 01:07:35,000
Speaker 3: you're both a fan of you insert team.

1637
01:07:34,840 --> 01:07:37,840
Speaker 15: Here, Ay, you cheer them on and scream your heads off.

1638
01:07:37,840 --> 01:07:40,720
Speaker 5: It's a drink, eat some chicken wings, and beat ups.

1639
01:07:41,760 --> 01:07:43,760
Speaker 3: First date family functions.

1640
01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:46,280
Speaker 7: God, not a first date.

1641
01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:48,760
Speaker 5: You don't even know me, my parents meeting people for

1642
01:07:48,760 --> 01:07:49,960
Speaker 5: at least three years.

1643
01:07:51,120 --> 01:07:53,480
Speaker 4: Out for ice cream. They're saying coffee dates or no

1644
01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:58,080
Speaker 4: on this list, a bowling night, night, nightclubs, go ahead.

1645
01:07:58,160 --> 01:08:00,600
Speaker 3: Diansen made this list.

1646
01:08:00,640 --> 01:08:02,280
Speaker 5: Have no joy? Understand this?

1647
01:08:02,520 --> 01:08:07,840
Speaker 4: Hookah barlome hook a bar, or go out just for drinks.

1648
01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 3: Let's mean out for a drink.

1649
01:08:08,760 --> 01:08:09,920
Speaker 7: What's wrong with that?

1650
01:08:09,960 --> 01:08:12,760
Speaker 3: We're all functioning alcoholics?

1651
01:08:13,320 --> 01:08:15,400
Speaker 4: Or they say another place, not just not to kick

1652
01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:17,719
Speaker 4: off a relationship for the first day, is on any

1653
01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:20,599
Speaker 4: place or going to any place that requires a long drive.

1654
01:08:21,400 --> 01:08:22,040
Speaker 3: I agree with you.

1655
01:08:22,200 --> 01:08:23,720
Speaker 5: I agree with that you want to be able to

1656
01:08:23,720 --> 01:08:24,400
Speaker 5: go home quickly?

1657
01:08:24,640 --> 01:08:25,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, scary.

1658
01:08:26,120 --> 01:08:28,519
Speaker 12: I want to meet the high maintenance women who put

1659
01:08:28,560 --> 01:08:31,760
Speaker 12: this list together because coffee dates and going out for

1660
01:08:31,760 --> 01:08:34,720
Speaker 12: a drink are two of the biggest icebreakers. How are

1661
01:08:34,720 --> 01:08:37,080
Speaker 12: you supposed to go for a long, five hour dinner

1662
01:08:37,640 --> 01:08:40,080
Speaker 12: if you can't, like, screen the person first and go

1663
01:08:40,120 --> 01:08:41,320
Speaker 12: out with them and have a nice converse.

1664
01:08:41,360 --> 01:08:42,799
Speaker 3: A lot of people would agree with you.

1665
01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:47,160
Speaker 4: But also, I know, but going after the hi, what

1666
01:08:47,200 --> 01:08:47,680
Speaker 4: do you call them?

1667
01:08:49,120 --> 01:08:49,479
Speaker 13: The women?

1668
01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:52,759
Speaker 3: Well, I know, but that's what they're saying.

1669
01:08:54,160 --> 01:08:55,280
Speaker 7: Be at the gas station.

1670
01:08:57,400 --> 01:08:59,160
Speaker 5: I want to do that.

1671
01:08:59,360 --> 01:09:00,000
Speaker 3: What's that, Garrett?

1672
01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:03,960
Speaker 14: What's left?

1673
01:09:03,400 --> 01:09:07,840
Speaker 5: But we just went through everything at a park a beach.

1674
01:09:08,040 --> 01:09:09,519
Speaker 5: But then someone's gonna be like, it's free at a

1675
01:09:09,520 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 5: puck your cheap skate.

1676
01:09:12,560 --> 01:09:14,679
Speaker 15: If someone took out a coupon on their first date,

1677
01:09:14,760 --> 01:09:16,040
Speaker 15: would you be cool with it?

1678
01:09:16,120 --> 01:09:18,200
Speaker 3: Or would you be like, oh, that's another conversation.

1679
01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:19,000
Speaker 5: I'd be fine with it.

1680
01:09:19,040 --> 01:09:19,679
Speaker 3: I have no problem.

1681
01:09:19,680 --> 01:09:20,400
Speaker 5: I no, I don't care.

1682
01:09:21,400 --> 01:09:22,400
Speaker 3: Just take their money.

1683
01:09:22,520 --> 01:09:24,200
Speaker 4: If I would just please someone take me out, I

1684
01:09:24,200 --> 01:09:25,920
Speaker 4: don't care. I'll go into audi about card.

1685
01:09:26,040 --> 01:09:27,840
Speaker 13: But if somebody takes you on a on a date

1686
01:09:27,840 --> 01:09:29,200
Speaker 13: and uses a gift card, I don't see that there's

1687
01:09:29,200 --> 01:09:29,559
Speaker 13: a problem.

1688
01:09:30,120 --> 01:09:30,679
Speaker 3: I don't either.

1689
01:09:30,960 --> 01:09:32,080
Speaker 6: There are some people that would.

1690
01:09:32,160 --> 01:09:32,840
Speaker 7: I just want to eat.

1691
01:09:33,760 --> 01:09:35,880
Speaker 4: The video that was going around this woman she's getting

1692
01:09:35,920 --> 01:09:37,599
Speaker 4: out of the Is this where this came from.

1693
01:09:37,680 --> 01:09:39,040
Speaker 3: She was getting out of the car and the guy

1694
01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:39,960
Speaker 3: was taking her to the cheesecake.

1695
01:09:40,360 --> 01:09:41,000
Speaker 5: She wouldn't get out.

1696
01:09:41,040 --> 01:09:42,160
Speaker 3: She's like, I'm not getting out of this car and

1697
01:09:42,200 --> 01:09:42,639
Speaker 3: going in there.

1698
01:09:43,120 --> 01:09:44,960
Speaker 5: If I was him, I would have been like, fine, stay there.

1699
01:09:44,960 --> 01:09:46,439
Speaker 3: I would to get out of this car, but I'm

1700
01:09:46,439 --> 01:09:46,960
Speaker 3: not going in.

1701
01:09:47,360 --> 01:09:48,960
Speaker 13: You're going to launch her in the hot car and

1702
01:09:49,000 --> 01:09:52,160
Speaker 13: got in had my dinner date with her.

1703
01:09:52,280 --> 01:09:54,720
Speaker 4: You know, producers, Sam and I were talking about this

1704
01:09:54,800 --> 01:09:59,160
Speaker 4: and I couldn't agree more. Christy High, good morning.

1705
01:09:58,960 --> 01:09:59,400
Speaker 6: Good morning.

1706
01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:01,400
Speaker 3: So your first day took you where? And did you

1707
01:10:01,479 --> 01:10:02,000
Speaker 3: like it or not?

1708
01:10:03,640 --> 01:10:06,080
Speaker 17: We went to Hooters?

1709
01:10:06,680 --> 01:10:10,120
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, so how did that conversation go? How was

1710
01:10:10,120 --> 01:10:10,880
Speaker 4: this proposed to you?

1711
01:10:12,240 --> 01:10:16,080
Speaker 21: Well, well, we were actually supposed to go to a

1712
01:10:16,120 --> 01:10:18,920
Speaker 21: different restaurant, but the weight was too long and I

1713
01:10:19,040 --> 01:10:21,960
Speaker 21: was starving because I was about probably an hour and

1714
01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:25,360
Speaker 21: a half late with meeting him for our first date.

1715
01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:29,120
Speaker 21: So we saw Hooters and I was like.

1716
01:10:29,080 --> 01:10:30,000
Speaker 13: I'm finally going there.

1717
01:10:30,080 --> 01:10:30,960
Speaker 5: Let's go to Hooters.

1718
01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:33,839
Speaker 21: I said, you know, I love their buffalo chicken salad.

1719
01:10:33,960 --> 01:10:35,679
Speaker 21: So that's what we did.

1720
01:10:36,040 --> 01:10:36,960
Speaker 5: I think that's a great date.

1721
01:10:37,080 --> 01:10:39,439
Speaker 3: Okay, that was the first date. Were there any dates after?

1722
01:10:41,040 --> 01:10:42,160
Speaker 13: Oh yeah, we're still together.

1723
01:10:42,400 --> 01:10:45,040
Speaker 6: Oh twenty seventeen.

1724
01:10:45,120 --> 01:10:48,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, wow, that's so cool. If someone said to me

1725
01:10:48,479 --> 01:10:50,680
Speaker 3: and Samantha was saying the same thing, Hooters.

1726
01:10:50,800 --> 01:10:53,840
Speaker 5: Hell yeah, yeah, it was my pick. And he never

1727
01:10:54,040 --> 01:10:56,200
Speaker 5: called me back. He thought I was kidding. I'm like,

1728
01:10:56,200 --> 01:10:57,000
Speaker 5: I'm at Hooters.

1729
01:10:57,160 --> 01:10:58,640
Speaker 11: And then I was at Hooters and he's like, you

1730
01:10:58,680 --> 01:11:00,400
Speaker 11: want to go somewhere else and like not the most

1731
01:11:00,479 --> 01:11:02,280
Speaker 11: do you need to And then he just sat there

1732
01:11:02,320 --> 01:11:03,720
Speaker 11: and didn't have fun all night.

1733
01:11:03,840 --> 01:11:07,479
Speaker 9: Oh and then you married him?

1734
01:11:07,640 --> 01:11:07,920
Speaker 13: All right?

1735
01:11:07,960 --> 01:11:09,000
Speaker 3: Well, Christie, thank you.

1736
01:11:09,439 --> 01:11:11,240
Speaker 4: I think I'm gonna put Hooters at the top of them,

1737
01:11:11,680 --> 01:11:13,679
Speaker 4: the top of the first date list. Thank you, Christy,

1738
01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:15,080
Speaker 4: thank you for listening to us every day.

1739
01:11:15,320 --> 01:11:17,640
Speaker 7: You imagine going to Buffalo Wildwad with Nate on his

1740
01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:18,120
Speaker 7: first date.

1741
01:11:18,439 --> 01:11:19,679
Speaker 6: Hold on, thank you, Christy.

1742
01:11:19,720 --> 01:11:20,200
Speaker 13: You have a good day.

1743
01:11:20,200 --> 01:11:21,800
Speaker 7: Okay, he had to put his gloves on.

1744
01:11:22,280 --> 01:11:24,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, my gloves and bring my.

1745
01:11:24,040 --> 01:11:26,320
Speaker 5: PEPSI and Nate you should never take a da That's right.

1746
01:11:26,439 --> 01:11:29,879
Speaker 4: That's why Daniel PEPs because he has gird he has aird.

1747
01:11:30,400 --> 01:11:33,080
Speaker 4: But no on Nate, he can't eat any finger foods

1748
01:11:33,120 --> 01:11:34,880
Speaker 4: without his his surgical gloves.

1749
01:11:34,960 --> 01:11:35,160
Speaker 17: Yeah.

1750
01:11:35,400 --> 01:11:37,320
Speaker 3: I mean it's the same gloves you use when you

1751
01:11:37,320 --> 01:11:38,519
Speaker 3: go out to the barn and check the horse.

1752
01:11:38,560 --> 01:11:39,120
Speaker 13: You know what I'm saying.

1753
01:11:39,760 --> 01:11:42,160
Speaker 10: Just imagine the date that I go on that I

1754
01:11:42,200 --> 01:11:44,280
Speaker 10: put on my gloves and she puts on her gloves

1755
01:11:44,479 --> 01:11:45,240
Speaker 10: match made.

1756
01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:46,240
Speaker 7: And it's not gonna happen.

1757
01:11:46,439 --> 01:11:48,360
Speaker 15: And so you're going on a date and you're you

1758
01:11:48,400 --> 01:11:50,760
Speaker 15: look like a crazy person, and they're like forget it's

1759
01:11:50,760 --> 01:11:51,400
Speaker 15: still a killer.

1760
01:11:51,479 --> 01:11:53,559
Speaker 3: Are those the same gloves you use in your kill room?

1761
01:11:54,479 --> 01:11:54,880
Speaker 3: Stop it?

1762
01:11:57,040 --> 01:11:58,960
Speaker 9: If I went on on date and the guy put

1763
01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:01,439
Speaker 9: on gloves while he was eating, I very take a

1764
01:12:01,439 --> 01:12:03,519
Speaker 9: picture and send it to my friends, like take a

1765
01:12:03,520 --> 01:12:03,880
Speaker 9: photo of.

1766
01:12:04,520 --> 01:12:07,599
Speaker 7: You would give your destination and say if I don't come.

1767
01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:12,640
Speaker 4: Home, here you go, hey Jermaine, Yes, yes, okay, So

1768
01:12:12,760 --> 01:12:13,240
Speaker 4: first date?

1769
01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:14,479
Speaker 6: Where was it who proposed this?

1770
01:12:14,560 --> 01:12:17,839
Speaker 3: By the way, uh so it was my idea.

1771
01:12:18,160 --> 01:12:20,479
Speaker 12: I thought it would be super cool, super like, yeah.

1772
01:12:20,520 --> 01:12:21,040
Speaker 1: Cool guy.

1773
01:12:22,040 --> 01:12:23,559
Speaker 6: Yeah, we went to hot yoga.

1774
01:12:23,760 --> 01:12:27,400
Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, we have a we have a mix

1775
01:12:27,439 --> 01:12:30,040
Speaker 3: of emotions in the room. Okay. So producer Sam said

1776
01:12:30,040 --> 01:12:31,639
Speaker 3: she would love a first date at the hot yoga.

1777
01:12:31,840 --> 01:12:32,639
Speaker 5: Would that.

1778
01:12:34,240 --> 01:12:34,639
Speaker 20: I would?

1779
01:12:34,920 --> 01:12:35,320
Speaker 1: I would.

1780
01:12:35,360 --> 01:12:36,639
Speaker 5: That's where I used to take dates.

1781
01:12:36,680 --> 01:12:38,720
Speaker 3: Smell the smells that came out of both of us

1782
01:12:38,880 --> 01:12:45,680
Speaker 3: was definitely on the truck. I don't know, all those

1783
01:12:45,720 --> 01:12:49,040
Speaker 3: pheromones rolling around, and then of course I would. You know,

1784
01:12:49,080 --> 01:12:51,080
Speaker 3: I went to hot yoga one time, Jermaine, and I've

1785
01:12:51,120 --> 01:12:53,240
Speaker 3: never heard so many people farting in the same room. Ever,

1786
01:12:53,320 --> 01:12:55,320
Speaker 3: it was like a lot of room and it's hot.

1787
01:12:55,640 --> 01:12:58,960
Speaker 4: So your idea was like, okay, hot yoga and was

1788
01:12:59,000 --> 01:13:03,400
Speaker 4: there a was there hesitation in your friends and demeanor?

1789
01:13:04,080 --> 01:13:04,160
Speaker 21: No?

1790
01:13:04,680 --> 01:13:07,599
Speaker 3: No, it was like, oh cool, I think that's super dope.

1791
01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:08,400
Speaker 13: Let's do it.

1792
01:13:08,520 --> 01:13:11,080
Speaker 3: And she was with it and yeah the smells the

1793
01:13:11,880 --> 01:13:18,360
Speaker 3: parts in Yeah, we didn't see each other. Only one

1794
01:13:18,400 --> 01:13:22,760
Speaker 3: part's acceptable, germane you know what the one?

1795
01:13:23,320 --> 01:13:24,000
Speaker 13: Okay, I get it.

1796
01:13:24,040 --> 01:13:29,160
Speaker 3: We'll stretch it, you know.

1797
01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:33,559
Speaker 4: And everything that we've mentioned about being off limit for

1798
01:13:33,560 --> 01:13:35,080
Speaker 4: first dates, I think do we all agree hot.

1799
01:13:35,080 --> 01:13:38,000
Speaker 3: Yoga is probably the winner. Yeah, yeah, you got it, Germaine,

1800
01:13:38,640 --> 01:13:40,640
Speaker 3: you got it. Man, Hey, good listening to you, and

1801
01:13:40,760 --> 01:13:41,800
Speaker 3: thanks for listening to us.

1802
01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:43,360
Speaker 26: No problem.

1803
01:13:43,400 --> 01:13:44,599
Speaker 13: You guys have a good big.

1804
01:13:45,600 --> 01:13:48,080
Speaker 3: This texture says, I have a strict first date, no

1805
01:13:48,320 --> 01:13:50,120
Speaker 3: go out for drinks policy. I just feel like this

1806
01:13:50,200 --> 01:13:52,639
Speaker 3: is the bottom of the barrel. Such a basic date.

1807
01:13:52,760 --> 01:13:55,360
Speaker 3: And he got asked me what told him, hey, be

1808
01:13:55,439 --> 01:13:56,120
Speaker 3: more creative?

1809
01:13:57,640 --> 01:14:00,200
Speaker 9: What does everybody expect somebody to like, want and done

1810
01:14:00,240 --> 01:14:02,080
Speaker 9: and impress the crap out of them on the first date.

1811
01:14:02,280 --> 01:14:03,599
Speaker 5: That's when you're getting to know a person.

1812
01:14:03,760 --> 01:14:05,920
Speaker 9: I might hate them, they might like this guy had

1813
01:14:06,360 --> 01:14:08,160
Speaker 9: fart too much, like you have no idea, and then

1814
01:14:08,200 --> 01:14:10,040
Speaker 9: you want them to waste all their creative juices on

1815
01:14:10,040 --> 01:14:14,479
Speaker 9: that first date he did, Yes, thank you.

1816
01:14:16,479 --> 01:14:21,840
Speaker 3: Here's the thing, we're all different, our profiles as far

1817
01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:25,840
Speaker 3: as level of humor and sarcasm, it's all different.

1818
01:14:25,880 --> 01:14:26,040
Speaker 13: Right.

1819
01:14:26,400 --> 01:14:28,840
Speaker 3: If you say we're going on a first date and we're.

1820
01:14:28,720 --> 01:14:31,000
Speaker 4: Going to fill in the blanket like the most ridiculous,

1821
01:14:31,080 --> 01:14:33,320
Speaker 4: screwed up, fed up place ever, I'll be like, Okay,

1822
01:14:33,360 --> 01:14:34,160
Speaker 4: I'm let's go.

1823
01:14:34,560 --> 01:14:36,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, just because it's a challenge.

1824
01:14:36,360 --> 01:14:40,320
Speaker 5: Absolutely. Where's your first date with Alex Do you remember?

1825
01:14:40,920 --> 01:14:43,320
Speaker 4: Oh, it wasn't really a date, the monster. It's a

1826
01:14:43,320 --> 01:14:46,160
Speaker 4: gay bar, okay, and everyone in there was so old.

1827
01:14:46,200 --> 01:14:50,960
Speaker 4: I mean they alsome, like from aldehyde. But that's where

1828
01:14:50,960 --> 01:14:57,200
Speaker 4: I met Uncle Johnny and drunk Jimmy. Sounds like the mob. Yeah, Jackson. Hello,

1829
01:14:59,120 --> 01:15:01,599
Speaker 4: So you say going a Starbucks Starbucks? Well, good morning.

1830
01:15:01,640 --> 01:15:05,120
Speaker 4: You're saying Starbucks is actually a really choice first date place.

1831
01:15:05,160 --> 01:15:06,240
Speaker 3: Why is that? In your opinion?

1832
01:15:07,080 --> 01:15:10,360
Speaker 6: Starbucks is the number one first date place Elvis.

1833
01:15:10,400 --> 01:15:13,479
Speaker 23: Okay, especially if it's a date that is blind or

1834
01:15:13,479 --> 01:15:14,000
Speaker 23: a date that.

1835
01:15:13,960 --> 01:15:16,160
Speaker 3: You're not really sure of but you made and you don't.

1836
01:15:15,960 --> 01:15:16,639
Speaker 20: Want to flake out.

1837
01:15:16,680 --> 01:15:19,960
Speaker 10: All right, It's a cup of coffee, maybe a pastry.

1838
01:15:20,360 --> 01:15:21,679
Speaker 16: You know, there's a lot of people.

1839
01:15:21,800 --> 01:15:23,520
Speaker 1: It's public, and it's easy.

1840
01:15:23,280 --> 01:15:24,080
Speaker 6: To walk away from.

1841
01:15:24,120 --> 01:15:24,920
Speaker 16: It's a short date.

1842
01:15:25,000 --> 01:15:25,959
Speaker 6: So if it's dunk.

1843
01:15:26,160 --> 01:15:28,120
Speaker 1: Great, coffee's over, it's like you need you to buy.

1844
01:15:28,640 --> 01:15:32,639
Speaker 4: But if the conversation is sparkling and the mood is good,

1845
01:15:32,720 --> 01:15:33,040
Speaker 4: I mean, it.

1846
01:15:33,080 --> 01:15:35,880
Speaker 1: Can escalate all the way back to your place. I

1847
01:15:35,880 --> 01:15:37,439
Speaker 1: don't know, I get it depends on how it goes.

1848
01:15:37,520 --> 01:15:39,120
Speaker 4: So Jackson, if you invited me on on a first

1849
01:15:39,160 --> 01:15:41,120
Speaker 4: day of Starbucks, I would immediately think, you know, he's

1850
01:15:41,160 --> 01:15:44,280
Speaker 4: smart because he knows that if I'm if I'm like,

1851
01:15:44,400 --> 01:15:46,880
Speaker 4: you know, a piece of crap, he can like exit

1852
01:15:46,960 --> 01:15:49,000
Speaker 4: quickly and for a blind date.

1853
01:15:49,200 --> 01:15:52,840
Speaker 3: Starbucks is great. Do they have menus in Braille? No,

1854
01:15:53,960 --> 01:15:55,400
Speaker 3: they don't, but they should.

1855
01:15:57,400 --> 01:15:58,240
Speaker 16: Actually that they do.

1856
01:15:58,320 --> 01:15:59,200
Speaker 6: Elvis like that they do.

1857
01:16:00,640 --> 01:16:02,920
Speaker 15: It Actually would be nice on like a Saturday morning

1858
01:16:02,960 --> 01:16:04,960
Speaker 15: you could say, like me me at Starbucks and we'll

1859
01:16:04,960 --> 01:16:05,800
Speaker 15: see how the day goes.

1860
01:16:06,000 --> 01:16:08,439
Speaker 9: Now that really in the morning, people aren't getting super

1861
01:16:08,479 --> 01:16:10,439
Speaker 9: dressed up, so you kind of have a better gauge

1862
01:16:10,439 --> 01:16:11,960
Speaker 9: on all what do you really Okay?

1863
01:16:12,000 --> 01:16:14,519
Speaker 3: See Jackson, I see you. You're you're playing You're playing

1864
01:16:14,520 --> 01:16:17,519
Speaker 3: straight here. I like that. And plus, don't drink coffee

1865
01:16:17,560 --> 01:16:18,840
Speaker 3: before you go to hot yoga.

1866
01:16:19,000 --> 01:16:25,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh honey, clean up on Aisle four. All right, Jackson,

1867
01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:28,400
Speaker 4: we'll see you Starbucks. Thank you so much, straight in eight.

1868
01:16:28,479 --> 01:16:28,799
Speaker 13: Okay.

1869
01:16:29,040 --> 01:16:31,200
Speaker 10: I think that's brilliant, Jackson, because you can tell a

1870
01:16:31,240 --> 01:16:32,760
Speaker 10: lot about a person based on their order.

1871
01:16:32,920 --> 01:16:33,840
Speaker 3: Because if they're doing.

1872
01:16:33,960 --> 01:16:37,439
Speaker 6: Non fat oat milk, no whip twenty.

1873
01:16:37,240 --> 01:16:42,120
Speaker 3: Eight degrees celsius.

1874
01:16:39,680 --> 01:16:41,760
Speaker 15: Than I gotta say that is the one thing that

1875
01:16:41,800 --> 01:16:43,360
Speaker 15: I think is so horrible. If you go out to

1876
01:16:43,400 --> 01:16:46,800
Speaker 15: dinner with someone and you're just starting out be you

1877
01:16:47,280 --> 01:16:50,559
Speaker 15: don't just order the salad because you think that's what

1878
01:16:50,640 --> 01:16:54,080
Speaker 15: they want, order the cheeseburgen fries because they're gonna see

1879
01:16:54,080 --> 01:16:54,559
Speaker 15: it eventually.

1880
01:16:54,560 --> 01:16:57,919
Speaker 3: Anything but what he's saying, like oil extra oat.

1881
01:16:59,320 --> 01:17:00,559
Speaker 6: So blind.

1882
01:17:00,840 --> 01:17:03,639
Speaker 3: Sometimes that is being them being don Also.

1883
01:17:03,560 --> 01:17:05,880
Speaker 9: Name if somebody's lactose intolerant, you don't want them not

1884
01:17:05,920 --> 01:17:06,320
Speaker 9: to get.

1885
01:17:06,160 --> 01:17:07,400
Speaker 5: Do you want them to get?

1886
01:17:07,640 --> 01:17:11,080
Speaker 6: I could somebody's last day?

1887
01:17:11,560 --> 01:17:13,360
Speaker 7: What's wrong with lactose intolerant people?

1888
01:17:13,400 --> 01:17:14,840
Speaker 6: I'm sorry, I love my milk.

1889
01:17:15,240 --> 01:17:22,960
Speaker 3: You're gonna have it and stuff you don't want to

1890
01:17:23,560 --> 01:17:26,200
Speaker 3: You don't you don't want to rename your first date

1891
01:17:26,360 --> 01:17:27,040
Speaker 3: mud flaps.

1892
01:17:30,439 --> 01:17:32,559
Speaker 13: I don't mean that mud flaps.

1893
01:17:34,120 --> 01:17:34,960
Speaker 3: So here's Nate.

1894
01:17:35,200 --> 01:17:38,960
Speaker 4: If you watch a dinner with Nate, he's gonna let's see,

1895
01:17:39,280 --> 01:17:43,640
Speaker 4: looking at your menu, do you have anything binding? And

1896
01:17:43,760 --> 01:17:44,760
Speaker 4: I get gird.

1897
01:17:46,040 --> 01:17:49,120
Speaker 7: And I need to take my gloves out, I'm gonna say.

1898
01:17:49,280 --> 01:17:51,360
Speaker 11: Yeah, what I just realized the irony of the guy

1899
01:17:51,439 --> 01:17:53,599
Speaker 11: with gloves saying you can't order oat milk?

1900
01:17:53,640 --> 01:17:54,519
Speaker 5: You maintenance?

1901
01:17:55,600 --> 01:17:58,599
Speaker 13: What's that? Frog? The guy that thinks it's high maintenance

1902
01:17:58,720 --> 01:18:00,880
Speaker 13: is also the guy that looks on the menu and goes, hey,

1903
01:18:01,400 --> 01:18:03,120
Speaker 13: I know you got these things in the back. Why

1904
01:18:03,120 --> 01:18:05,280
Speaker 13: don't you with this up from Even though it's you.

1905
01:18:05,600 --> 01:18:06,240
Speaker 3: That's what he does.

1906
01:18:07,360 --> 01:18:09,559
Speaker 5: What proof is your drink? It's with milk?

1907
01:18:10,760 --> 01:18:11,360
Speaker 13: Oh my god?

1908
01:18:12,240 --> 01:18:14,320
Speaker 3: Did you sneak let? What's scary?

1909
01:18:14,400 --> 01:18:17,000
Speaker 12: Would you agree though, that any date that you go

1910
01:18:17,200 --> 01:18:21,200
Speaker 12: on that doesn't encourage social stimulation or social interaction is

1911
01:18:21,280 --> 01:18:24,200
Speaker 12: a bad first date? Like the movies, that's a terrible

1912
01:18:24,240 --> 01:18:24,680
Speaker 12: first date.

1913
01:18:25,080 --> 01:18:27,479
Speaker 4: No, because that could be the way you met each other.

1914
01:18:27,720 --> 01:18:29,800
Speaker 4: You we really want to go see this movie together

1915
01:18:29,800 --> 01:18:31,760
Speaker 4: because you know, talk and get to know each other well,

1916
01:18:31,760 --> 01:18:34,799
Speaker 4: because when you leave the theater, you go there someplace

1917
01:18:34,840 --> 01:18:35,240
Speaker 4: and talk.

1918
01:18:35,400 --> 01:18:36,599
Speaker 5: Yeah, you can talk about the movie.

1919
01:18:36,680 --> 01:18:39,200
Speaker 3: Maybe I don't know, I think it's different for everyone.

1920
01:18:39,240 --> 01:18:41,840
Speaker 4: I think painting everyone into a corner saying I feel

1921
01:18:41,920 --> 01:18:44,040
Speaker 4: like this about you, and therefore that is who you want.

1922
01:18:52,640 --> 01:18:54,080
Speaker 1: Elvis term in the Morning Show.

1923
01:18:54,840 --> 01:18:56,760
Speaker 3: You know, I'm producer Sam. A little while ago, you

1924
01:18:56,800 --> 01:18:59,639
Speaker 3: were talking about a friend of yours, Yes, who needed

1925
01:19:00,320 --> 01:19:04,479
Speaker 3: to take a second look at her relationship. She's in correct,

1926
01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:08,439
Speaker 3: maybe from someone else's viewpoint, and and you helped her

1927
01:19:08,439 --> 01:19:10,600
Speaker 3: out right, Yes, So can we go back to that

1928
01:19:10,680 --> 01:19:11,080
Speaker 3: for a minute.

1929
01:19:11,160 --> 01:19:11,800
Speaker 8: Absolutely.

1930
01:19:12,080 --> 01:19:13,400
Speaker 6: I mean I don't want to, you know, I don't

1931
01:19:13,400 --> 01:19:15,200
Speaker 6: want to embarrass anyone to use names or anything.

1932
01:19:15,560 --> 01:19:16,519
Speaker 5: No, I won't use her name.

1933
01:19:16,640 --> 01:19:19,519
Speaker 11: And she's a very very smart girl. I've known her

1934
01:19:19,920 --> 01:19:22,120
Speaker 11: since high school, so yeah, she's a very wise person.

1935
01:19:22,200 --> 01:19:25,040
Speaker 11: But sometimes when you're in the thick of a relationship

1936
01:19:25,160 --> 01:19:27,880
Speaker 11: and feeling in love with someone, you fail to see

1937
01:19:28,240 --> 01:19:29,360
Speaker 11: what was to me.

1938
01:19:29,840 --> 01:19:31,479
Speaker 5: A really obvious red flag.

1939
01:19:31,680 --> 01:19:34,639
Speaker 3: Right, So what's the obvious If I may ask, what's

1940
01:19:34,720 --> 01:19:35,759
Speaker 3: the obvious red flag?

1941
01:19:35,840 --> 01:19:38,360
Speaker 11: They've been together for over a year and he keeps

1942
01:19:38,400 --> 01:19:41,520
Speaker 11: coming up with different reasons why he's yet to introduce

1943
01:19:41,600 --> 01:19:42,840
Speaker 11: her to any of his friends.

1944
01:19:43,000 --> 01:19:49,519
Speaker 4: Oh okay, well we could break that down it well,

1945
01:19:49,600 --> 01:19:51,439
Speaker 4: maybe he hangs out with people he's embarrassed to hang

1946
01:19:51,520 --> 01:19:53,280
Speaker 4: out with, or maybe he doesn't want them to meet her.

1947
01:19:53,600 --> 01:19:56,080
Speaker 5: So true, there's a bunch of different reasons. So I

1948
01:19:56,200 --> 01:19:58,559
Speaker 5: was very careful to not be like that means he's

1949
01:19:58,680 --> 01:20:00,920
Speaker 5: blank because I don't know. I don't know the guy.

1950
01:20:01,200 --> 01:20:02,240
Speaker 7: I couldn't tell you what it is.

1951
01:20:02,439 --> 01:20:04,679
Speaker 11: But I couldn't even come up with a best case

1952
01:20:04,840 --> 01:20:07,760
Speaker 11: scenario where I felt like that was treating her the

1953
01:20:07,800 --> 01:20:10,640
Speaker 11: way she deserved to be treated in a relationship.

1954
01:20:10,720 --> 01:20:12,640
Speaker 4: I get that if I had a friend coming to

1955
01:20:12,680 --> 01:20:14,040
Speaker 4: me and say, hey, you know, we've been dating for

1956
01:20:14,080 --> 01:20:18,040
Speaker 4: a year and I haven't met anyone that they are

1957
01:20:18,120 --> 01:20:19,880
Speaker 4: friends with, but they go out with them.

1958
01:20:20,439 --> 01:20:22,080
Speaker 3: So I'm assuming this person goes out with.

1959
01:20:22,240 --> 01:20:25,080
Speaker 5: The friend time he goes out with friends, but she's

1960
01:20:25,120 --> 01:20:28,320
Speaker 5: not invited, correct, I don't know.

1961
01:20:28,479 --> 01:20:31,160
Speaker 15: I mean, it could be that his friends are just

1962
01:20:31,280 --> 01:20:33,760
Speaker 15: scumbags and he doesn't want her around them because he

1963
01:20:33,880 --> 01:20:37,120
Speaker 15: values what he has. But if that's the case, then

1964
01:20:37,400 --> 01:20:39,160
Speaker 15: do you want to be with someone who has friends

1965
01:20:39,240 --> 01:20:40,040
Speaker 15: that are scumbags?

1966
01:20:40,840 --> 01:20:41,240
Speaker 13: Exactly?

1967
01:20:41,600 --> 01:20:43,640
Speaker 3: So you know you are who you surround yourself with.

1968
01:20:45,200 --> 01:20:47,280
Speaker 3: But wait, why has she not asked him?

1969
01:20:47,960 --> 01:20:50,559
Speaker 11: She says she I would she said, she's asked him.

1970
01:20:50,600 --> 01:20:53,479
Speaker 11: But she's kind of a passive personality, so she's not

1971
01:20:53,680 --> 01:20:57,080
Speaker 11: like me. It would be like we're doing this this

1972
01:20:57,280 --> 01:20:59,479
Speaker 11: weekend or not at all. She just kind of like

1973
01:20:59,600 --> 01:21:01,840
Speaker 11: lets him know and then kind of lets herself get

1974
01:21:02,120 --> 01:21:03,519
Speaker 11: I think a little walked on.

1975
01:21:03,560 --> 01:21:05,479
Speaker 3: See I couldn't I couldn't you know me? I'd be

1976
01:21:05,680 --> 01:21:06,519
Speaker 3: right under that hood.

1977
01:21:06,600 --> 01:21:09,799
Speaker 6: Man's right? Who are your friends? Who are these friends?

1978
01:21:10,000 --> 01:21:10,160
Speaker 17: Right?

1979
01:21:10,360 --> 01:21:12,960
Speaker 11: There's so many reasons that are potential, and most of

1980
01:21:13,040 --> 01:21:14,599
Speaker 11: them are bad, most of them.

1981
01:21:14,800 --> 01:21:17,000
Speaker 3: Is there something wonky about her that he doesn't want

1982
01:21:17,200 --> 01:21:18,000
Speaker 3: them to know about?

1983
01:21:18,200 --> 01:21:19,559
Speaker 5: I don't think so, not at all.

1984
01:21:20,000 --> 01:21:22,839
Speaker 11: She's like a little bit of a silently intimidating character,

1985
01:21:23,080 --> 01:21:25,200
Speaker 11: So I think that like might be possible. But if

1986
01:21:25,240 --> 01:21:28,360
Speaker 11: we're in a committed relationship, you prioritize me. If you

1987
01:21:28,479 --> 01:21:32,160
Speaker 11: hate this personality, let me know by actually actively choosing it.

1988
01:21:32,439 --> 01:21:36,360
Speaker 4: But here's the thing, I don't consider this a committed relationship. No,

1989
01:21:36,960 --> 01:21:39,799
Speaker 4: if you can't bring me around, yeah, yeah, exactly.

1990
01:21:39,920 --> 01:21:41,960
Speaker 7: If how do your friends not know about me? That's

1991
01:21:42,360 --> 01:21:44,600
Speaker 7: like a secret they you know, they know.

1992
01:21:44,800 --> 01:21:46,439
Speaker 3: The old part of a relationship is you were a

1993
01:21:46,479 --> 01:21:49,479
Speaker 3: part of their lives. I agree with you, so they

1994
01:21:49,560 --> 01:21:50,439
Speaker 3: know she exists.

1995
01:21:50,720 --> 01:21:53,960
Speaker 11: Yes, she's talked to a few of them on social Oh,

1996
01:21:54,320 --> 01:21:57,880
Speaker 11: he's just never allowed her or invited her, and she

1997
01:21:58,000 --> 01:22:00,760
Speaker 11: has not invited herself to mesh with these friends. And

1998
01:22:00,840 --> 01:22:03,680
Speaker 11: when it comes up in conversation, he's, you know, just

1999
01:22:03,880 --> 01:22:06,439
Speaker 11: kind of does a great job skirting it.

2000
01:22:06,600 --> 01:22:11,080
Speaker 3: Okay, let's let's consider another possibility maybe as well, sort

2001
01:22:11,080 --> 01:22:11,720
Speaker 3: of on the heels of.

2002
01:22:11,720 --> 01:22:14,080
Speaker 4: What Daniel said. There are a bunch of scumbacks. Maybe

2003
01:22:14,120 --> 01:22:16,920
Speaker 4: they're not, but maybe for some reason, he is ready

2004
01:22:17,040 --> 01:22:19,679
Speaker 4: for a new life. He wants a life with new people.

2005
01:22:20,400 --> 01:22:22,000
Speaker 4: But then again, if he's still hanging out with them,

2006
01:22:22,040 --> 01:22:22,880
Speaker 4: then that's not the case.

2007
01:22:22,960 --> 01:22:23,280
Speaker 6: I don't know.

2008
01:22:23,479 --> 01:22:25,560
Speaker 11: Yeah, he says he has one like she says, he

2009
01:22:25,640 --> 01:22:28,160
Speaker 11: has one core group, like that person you know that

2010
01:22:28,240 --> 01:22:30,680
Speaker 11: always hangs out with the same friends, and that's that,

2011
01:22:30,840 --> 01:22:31,760
Speaker 11: that's his social life.

2012
01:22:31,960 --> 01:22:34,040
Speaker 4: I have a really dear friend who has been in

2013
01:22:34,120 --> 01:22:37,240
Speaker 4: a relationship for many years and has never met the family,

2014
01:22:37,320 --> 01:22:40,519
Speaker 4: has never met anyone in his circle ever.

2015
01:22:41,320 --> 01:22:44,240
Speaker 3: But they continue to move on and life is.

2016
01:22:44,240 --> 01:22:47,439
Speaker 5: Still whatever it is, and they're both happy about that.

2017
01:22:47,960 --> 01:22:49,920
Speaker 3: It doesn't seem that way. I think it's more of

2018
01:22:49,960 --> 01:22:51,680
Speaker 3: a it's just the way it is, so we live

2019
01:22:51,720 --> 01:22:52,960
Speaker 3: with it. Would I don't know.

2020
01:22:53,760 --> 01:22:55,000
Speaker 4: I don't want to sit here and say, well, I

2021
01:22:55,040 --> 01:22:56,920
Speaker 4: would never do that. I would never do that because

2022
01:22:56,960 --> 01:22:58,000
Speaker 4: I mean, because we're all different.

2023
01:22:58,040 --> 01:22:58,800
Speaker 6: I mean, we all have.

2024
01:22:58,880 --> 01:23:03,320
Speaker 3: Different different levels of patience and whatever.

2025
01:23:04,160 --> 01:23:06,639
Speaker 11: But it wasn't making her feel very secure, Like That's

2026
01:23:06,720 --> 01:23:08,920
Speaker 11: what started this part of the conversation is the way

2027
01:23:09,000 --> 01:23:11,360
Speaker 11: she talked about it. She was feeling a little insecure

2028
01:23:11,720 --> 01:23:14,840
Speaker 11: with herself and her relationship to him. So that's why

2029
01:23:14,840 --> 01:23:16,519
Speaker 11: I'm like, all right, let's let's just talk about the

2030
01:23:16,560 --> 01:23:19,920
Speaker 11: potential of this being a serious red flag and maybe

2031
01:23:19,960 --> 01:23:22,400
Speaker 11: it's not quite as rosy as you feel like it is.

2032
01:23:23,360 --> 01:23:25,760
Speaker 3: I like this text. Maybe he's a gamer and all

2033
01:23:25,840 --> 01:23:26,839
Speaker 3: his friends are online.

2034
01:23:29,080 --> 01:23:32,679
Speaker 7: Maybe maybe all his friends are just imaginary friends.

2035
01:23:32,800 --> 01:23:40,320
Speaker 3: Maybe or maybe maybe maybe she needs to like follow

2036
01:23:40,680 --> 01:23:41,760
Speaker 3: follow him some night.

2037
01:23:43,200 --> 01:23:45,040
Speaker 5: That's the best answer, follow him.

2038
01:23:45,040 --> 01:23:47,800
Speaker 4: Where's he going with the Let's go see what they're doing,

2039
01:23:47,880 --> 01:23:51,640
Speaker 4: what they to What if they're like, you know, some Satanists?

2040
01:23:51,880 --> 01:23:54,400
Speaker 7: Yeah, actually would they work for this CIA?

2041
01:23:54,560 --> 01:23:58,360
Speaker 3: Yeah? Maybe they're like they're killing frogs and things. Even

2042
01:23:58,600 --> 01:23:59,400
Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know.

2043
01:24:00,439 --> 01:24:04,360
Speaker 4: Hello Melissa, Hi, how are you guys doing very well.

2044
01:24:04,400 --> 01:24:06,520
Speaker 4: I'm so glad you're listening. I'm so glad you're participating

2045
01:24:06,560 --> 01:24:10,080
Speaker 4: in the conversation. I know that you said you were

2046
01:24:10,120 --> 01:24:14,360
Speaker 4: in a relationship for two years, and I.

2047
01:24:14,520 --> 01:24:17,480
Speaker 5: Never ever, never have a situationship.

2048
01:24:16,800 --> 01:24:19,000
Speaker 3: A situation ship, and never met his friends. All right,

2049
01:24:19,040 --> 01:24:22,680
Speaker 3: go ahead, Yeah, So we.

2050
01:24:22,760 --> 01:24:26,719
Speaker 26: Had met online and it was all great in the beginning,

2051
01:24:27,040 --> 01:24:29,680
Speaker 26: and then I couldn't wait for him to meet my

2052
01:24:29,840 --> 01:24:33,719
Speaker 26: family and friends. My sister went on two double dates

2053
01:24:33,760 --> 01:24:37,599
Speaker 26: with two of my friends, but I never met his family,

2054
01:24:37,760 --> 01:24:39,880
Speaker 26: never met his friends, and.

2055
01:24:40,680 --> 01:24:42,960
Speaker 19: It started to make me feel like I was a

2056
01:24:43,080 --> 01:24:47,760
Speaker 19: cup secret. So I ended up breaking up with him

2057
01:24:47,920 --> 01:24:49,120
Speaker 19: on Valentine's Day.

2058
01:24:49,560 --> 01:24:53,040
Speaker 4: Okay, but wait, what's your gut feeling telling you? Why

2059
01:24:53,160 --> 01:24:55,639
Speaker 4: do you think it may not be accurate? But why

2060
01:24:55,720 --> 01:24:57,800
Speaker 4: do you what's your hunch? Why do you think he

2061
01:24:58,479 --> 01:25:01,240
Speaker 4: never ever introduced you to his family? Were friends in

2062
01:25:01,320 --> 01:25:01,760
Speaker 4: two years?

2063
01:25:03,400 --> 01:25:05,160
Speaker 5: Well, I think it was a couple things.

2064
01:25:05,800 --> 01:25:08,639
Speaker 19: His parents, he told me, were really strict.

2065
01:25:09,240 --> 01:25:13,719
Speaker 26: It was also an inter racial relationship, so I think

2066
01:25:14,200 --> 01:25:17,640
Speaker 26: he was a little nervous to introduce.

2067
01:25:17,320 --> 01:25:17,840
Speaker 18: Me and.

2068
01:25:19,720 --> 01:25:22,719
Speaker 19: Have different aspects that he wasn't used.

2069
01:25:22,600 --> 01:25:23,600
Speaker 13: To to introduce me to.

2070
01:25:23,840 --> 01:25:26,920
Speaker 19: But I also think like for him, he had trouble

2071
01:25:26,960 --> 01:25:30,080
Speaker 19: with commitment, like I was looking to always define it

2072
01:25:30,240 --> 01:25:32,760
Speaker 19: and he was like, oh, I feel like we're moving

2073
01:25:32,880 --> 01:25:36,040
Speaker 19: to pass. But he was also older than me. He

2074
01:25:36,240 --> 01:25:38,200
Speaker 19: was about sixty years older than me, so I'm like,

2075
01:25:38,320 --> 01:25:40,200
Speaker 19: what do you mean, Like, how long do you think

2076
01:25:41,640 --> 01:25:44,599
Speaker 19: you know you're looking for a commitment and how.

2077
01:25:44,520 --> 01:25:45,479
Speaker 18: Long do you think you would know?

2078
01:25:45,720 --> 01:25:48,120
Speaker 19: And I just felt like I was always making pieces

2079
01:25:49,080 --> 01:25:51,720
Speaker 19: for him, like why he couldn't come out to meet

2080
01:25:51,760 --> 01:25:54,040
Speaker 19: out with friends because we were always invited to things

2081
01:25:54,120 --> 01:25:55,959
Speaker 19: that I would always show up by myself.

2082
01:25:57,880 --> 01:26:00,840
Speaker 4: Next not a relationship, I mean, well it is, it's

2083
01:26:00,960 --> 01:26:03,960
Speaker 4: just not a very healthy one in my opinion. I mean,

2084
01:26:04,760 --> 01:26:07,360
Speaker 4: and you obviously, after two years, realized that you deserve

2085
01:26:07,520 --> 01:26:09,679
Speaker 4: better than that. So kaboom, you know, goodbye.

2086
01:26:09,880 --> 01:26:11,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, exactly.

2087
01:26:11,960 --> 01:26:14,920
Speaker 19: Now I'm now I'm in a new relationship and couldn't

2088
01:26:14,960 --> 01:26:15,360
Speaker 19: be happier.

2089
01:26:15,479 --> 01:26:15,880
Speaker 1: Right away.

2090
01:26:16,080 --> 01:26:17,960
Speaker 19: He couldn't wait to introduce me to friends and family.

2091
01:26:18,000 --> 01:26:21,320
Speaker 19: I'm like, to me, it was such a big deal,

2092
01:26:21,520 --> 01:26:24,240
Speaker 19: but it was also bare minimum and it just made

2093
01:26:24,240 --> 01:26:27,160
Speaker 19: me realize how easy it is to just be treated

2094
01:26:27,880 --> 01:26:29,680
Speaker 19: respect and yes, there you.

2095
01:26:29,720 --> 01:26:32,120
Speaker 4: Go, all right, Well thank you Melissa, and best of

2096
01:26:32,200 --> 01:26:35,560
Speaker 4: luck with your new fresh I know his friend's relationship.

2097
01:26:37,120 --> 01:26:38,200
Speaker 5: Thank you so much, guys.

2098
01:26:38,240 --> 01:26:39,240
Speaker 19: I love you guys so much.

2099
01:26:39,240 --> 01:26:40,160
Speaker 18: I hope you have a great day.

2100
01:26:40,240 --> 01:26:41,519
Speaker 13: Oh you too, hope you do too.

2101
01:26:41,560 --> 01:26:42,719
Speaker 3: And finally we talked to Shannon.

2102
01:26:42,800 --> 01:26:46,559
Speaker 6: Hi, Shannon, Hi, how are you guying? Doing very well?

2103
01:26:46,640 --> 01:26:47,200
Speaker 1: We're doing well.

2104
01:26:47,640 --> 01:26:49,000
Speaker 3: I don't want to speak for everyone. If you're not

2105
01:26:49,080 --> 01:26:49,960
Speaker 3: doing well, speak now.

2106
01:26:52,120 --> 01:26:55,439
Speaker 22: So I totally think she should leave him. I mean,

2107
01:26:55,520 --> 01:26:57,400
Speaker 22: I was in a relationship for four years. I got

2108
01:26:57,479 --> 01:26:58,519
Speaker 22: engaged in December.

2109
01:26:58,960 --> 01:27:00,759
Speaker 18: It was by June.

2110
01:27:01,479 --> 01:27:03,360
Speaker 22: There were so many red flags. I wasn't allowed to

2111
01:27:03,400 --> 01:27:04,599
Speaker 22: go out with the boys with him.

2112
01:27:04,960 --> 01:27:06,160
Speaker 1: He would go out all the time.

2113
01:27:06,520 --> 01:27:08,560
Speaker 22: When I asked, so can I come? No, I was

2114
01:27:08,640 --> 01:27:11,120
Speaker 22: never allowed to come. I mean I did meet his

2115
01:27:11,280 --> 01:27:14,160
Speaker 22: family and everything. I mean down the line, there was

2116
01:27:14,240 --> 01:27:17,320
Speaker 22: some couple there, but uh, he was definitely a Mohamed's boy.

2117
01:27:18,439 --> 01:27:21,599
Speaker 22: But honestly, I think that it's better off. She's better alone.

2118
01:27:22,200 --> 01:27:25,880
Speaker 22: There's definitely some piss in this dating pool nowadays. I

2119
01:27:26,040 --> 01:27:28,639
Speaker 22: think men are dogs, and you know, if they can't

2120
01:27:28,760 --> 01:27:31,479
Speaker 22: bring you around their friends and show you your family,

2121
01:27:31,640 --> 01:27:34,400
Speaker 22: like I don't understand, I don't see really anything happening there.

2122
01:27:34,360 --> 01:27:34,720
Speaker 3: There you go.

2123
01:27:34,880 --> 01:27:37,679
Speaker 4: You want someone that makes you feel secure and loved

2124
01:27:37,800 --> 01:27:40,760
Speaker 4: and protected and you know and there's there should be

2125
01:27:40,880 --> 01:27:43,320
Speaker 4: no doubt that they're that they're into you and they

2126
01:27:43,400 --> 01:27:45,200
Speaker 4: want you to meet their family and friends.

2127
01:27:45,200 --> 01:27:46,320
Speaker 6: What's that, Danielle Sam did?

2128
01:27:46,439 --> 01:27:48,720
Speaker 7: She has she ever said hey, can I come out

2129
01:27:48,760 --> 01:27:49,400
Speaker 7: with you? And the guys?

2130
01:27:49,560 --> 01:27:50,559
Speaker 5: Yeah, she's him.

2131
01:27:51,040 --> 01:27:53,080
Speaker 7: He has just said nope, I don't.

2132
01:27:53,160 --> 01:27:55,920
Speaker 5: He's not He's crafty. He hasn't said no. It's more like,

2133
01:27:56,000 --> 01:27:58,200
Speaker 5: we'll make a plan. This one won't work, We'll get there.

2134
01:27:58,240 --> 01:27:59,800
Speaker 5: And it's been a year of not getting which is

2135
01:27:59,840 --> 01:28:01,360
Speaker 5: say no? What you just saying no?

2136
01:28:01,840 --> 01:28:06,240
Speaker 4: Basically exactly, Shannon sounds like you know exactly what it

2137
01:28:06,400 --> 01:28:08,679
Speaker 4: is you want and exactly what it is you deserve.

2138
01:28:09,080 --> 01:28:11,759
Speaker 3: And I'm so happy that you that it's totally totally

2139
01:28:12,439 --> 01:28:15,240
Speaker 3: totally uh you your walk in life?

2140
01:28:15,320 --> 01:28:15,400
Speaker 17: Right?

2141
01:28:15,600 --> 01:28:15,960
Speaker 13: I love that.

2142
01:28:16,439 --> 01:28:18,759
Speaker 7: I love that go for it exactly.

2143
01:28:18,920 --> 01:28:20,120
Speaker 23: Nobody should fight for love.

2144
01:28:20,200 --> 01:28:23,320
Speaker 22: It should be you know, given and taken and you

2145
01:28:23,400 --> 01:28:24,439
Speaker 22: should give it in return.

2146
01:28:24,560 --> 01:28:24,880
Speaker 6: Amen.

2147
01:28:25,160 --> 01:28:27,000
Speaker 3: I love it all right, Shannon, thank you very much.

2148
01:28:27,000 --> 01:28:27,840
Speaker 3: I appreciate your call.

2149
01:28:28,560 --> 01:28:30,320
Speaker 1: Thank you guys, we love you, love you.

2150
01:28:31,320 --> 01:28:33,519
Speaker 3: See there you go, So best of.

2151
01:28:33,600 --> 01:28:34,280
Speaker 6: Luck with your friend.

2152
01:28:34,360 --> 01:28:34,519
Speaker 17: I know.

2153
01:28:34,600 --> 01:28:36,800
Speaker 11: I think the bare basement of any relationship should be

2154
01:28:36,880 --> 01:28:39,280
Speaker 11: at least making you feel better about yourself than you

2155
01:28:39,320 --> 01:28:40,479
Speaker 11: would without them, whatever that.

2156
01:28:40,520 --> 01:28:40,880
Speaker 5: Means to you.

2157
01:28:41,000 --> 01:28:44,080
Speaker 4: So if it's not well, at least in dialogue you say, look,

2158
01:28:44,080 --> 01:28:46,120
Speaker 4: you're making me feel like crap about myself because you

2159
01:28:46,200 --> 01:28:48,080
Speaker 4: make me feel like there's something wrong, right, right, right,

2160
01:28:48,200 --> 01:28:50,080
Speaker 4: You're not introducing me to your friends and your family.

2161
01:28:50,160 --> 01:28:53,360
Speaker 5: Now, if you think you deserve better, you probably do excellent.

2162
01:28:53,640 --> 01:28:54,560
Speaker 13: I agree.

2163
01:28:56,040 --> 01:28:58,559
Speaker 1: The Mercedes Benz Charlie.

2164
01:28:59,560 --> 01:29:01,639
Speaker 5: I was in a yoga class yesterday and I thought

2165
01:29:01,680 --> 01:29:01,840
Speaker 5: of you.

2166
01:29:02,400 --> 01:29:05,280
Speaker 9: Everybody did the home at the same time, and everyone

2167
01:29:05,360 --> 01:29:07,120
Speaker 9: came in on a different note, and I thought, oh

2168
01:29:07,200 --> 01:29:09,719
Speaker 9: my god, that would probably make Charlie Pooh's blood hoole pucker.

2169
01:29:09,920 --> 01:29:11,320
Speaker 3: And then I think it was like the stream.

2170
01:29:13,960 --> 01:29:17,120
Speaker 4: It's the Mercedes Benz Holiday Love Celebration, going on now

2171
01:29:17,200 --> 01:29:18,320
Speaker 4: through January second.

2172
01:29:18,600 --> 01:29:21,920
Speaker 3: Learn more at mbusa dot com. Slash special offers.

2173
01:29:22,120 --> 01:29:26,400
Speaker 1: Elvist Ran in the Morning Show, Elvis ter Ran in

2174
01:29:26,520 --> 01:29:27,280
Speaker 1: the Morning Show.

2175
01:29:29,080 --> 01:29:32,600
Speaker 3: You know Scotty b years and years ago, appeared on

2176
01:29:32,800 --> 01:29:35,200
Speaker 3: a couponing show. What was the name of the show

2177
01:29:35,240 --> 01:29:38,920
Speaker 3: you were on? It was extreme coupony. Yes, extreme couponting.

2178
01:29:39,120 --> 01:29:41,920
Speaker 4: And they went into his basement and they did video

2179
01:29:42,040 --> 01:29:45,240
Speaker 4: of his It looked like a doomsday.

2180
01:29:46,280 --> 01:29:46,679
Speaker 3: Basement.

2181
01:29:46,920 --> 01:29:49,080
Speaker 4: I mean, you had saved so much money on so

2182
01:29:49,160 --> 01:29:52,120
Speaker 4: many products, and you were stocking up with shelves and

2183
01:29:52,200 --> 01:29:53,120
Speaker 4: shelves in your basement.

2184
01:29:53,200 --> 01:29:53,280
Speaker 19: Right.

2185
01:29:53,400 --> 01:29:55,559
Speaker 25: Yes, for the show, I got four hundred and twenty

2186
01:29:55,680 --> 01:29:58,720
Speaker 25: nine dollars in groceries and I paid fifteen dollars and

2187
01:29:58,760 --> 01:30:00,559
Speaker 25: twenty nine cents and most of that was tax.

2188
01:30:00,880 --> 01:30:01,160
Speaker 1: Wow.

2189
01:30:01,280 --> 01:30:01,519
Speaker 11: Wow.

2190
01:30:03,479 --> 01:30:06,960
Speaker 4: Well, the other day, my girlfriend Diamond says, oh, please,

2191
01:30:08,600 --> 01:30:12,680
Speaker 4: Scotty Bee is old school thinking with couponing. I am

2192
01:30:12,840 --> 01:30:16,439
Speaker 4: modern day. I know how to do it today, that

2193
01:30:16,520 --> 01:30:20,120
Speaker 4: you're twenty twenty two. So Diamond is convinced that she's

2194
01:30:20,200 --> 01:30:22,200
Speaker 4: better at coupon than couponing than you.

2195
01:30:22,680 --> 01:30:24,680
Speaker 6: Diamond, do you really want to stand behind that?

2196
01:30:24,760 --> 01:30:25,920
Speaker 3: Do you really think that's true?

2197
01:30:26,400 --> 01:30:26,519
Speaker 23: Oh?

2198
01:30:26,560 --> 01:30:27,000
Speaker 1: I mean it.

2199
01:30:27,400 --> 01:30:30,880
Speaker 8: You know what makes me feel like I'm right? What's

2200
01:30:30,920 --> 01:30:33,120
Speaker 8: that that he came here today and tried to change

2201
01:30:33,200 --> 01:30:36,200
Speaker 8: the rules all over again. He's got nervous I.

2202
01:30:36,240 --> 01:30:38,559
Speaker 4: Gotta be honest, I'm not quite sure what these rules

2203
01:30:38,600 --> 01:30:40,200
Speaker 4: are because I never came up with rules.

2204
01:30:40,240 --> 01:30:41,519
Speaker 3: What rules are there?

2205
01:30:41,600 --> 01:30:44,200
Speaker 25: The rules were, and you said it is, let's see

2206
01:30:44,240 --> 01:30:46,720
Speaker 25: who can get who can come back with the least

2207
01:30:46,720 --> 01:30:48,320
Speaker 25: amount of money or the most of money back.

2208
01:30:48,479 --> 01:30:49,160
Speaker 6: That's what you said.

2209
01:30:49,439 --> 01:30:51,000
Speaker 3: No, yes, least amount of money.

2210
01:30:51,080 --> 01:30:52,840
Speaker 25: Yeah, who can spend the least amount of money or

2211
01:30:52,880 --> 01:30:55,880
Speaker 25: come back with the most cash back?

2212
01:30:56,160 --> 01:30:58,880
Speaker 3: Exactly? So in other words, you know, it's sort of whatever.

2213
01:31:00,280 --> 01:31:03,559
Speaker 4: My rule is this, whichever one of you impresses us

2214
01:31:03,640 --> 01:31:05,240
Speaker 4: the most, and we will take a vote.

2215
01:31:05,880 --> 01:31:08,840
Speaker 3: You will win this couponting contest. Yes, scary.

2216
01:31:09,000 --> 01:31:11,600
Speaker 12: So we knew there was gonna be this argument. So

2217
01:31:11,840 --> 01:31:14,960
Speaker 12: we went back and have Elvis's actual words.

2218
01:31:14,800 --> 01:31:17,600
Speaker 3: Seven seconds of setting the rules. Oh good, maybe I

2219
01:31:17,680 --> 01:31:19,479
Speaker 3: said none of the above. We'll find out this is

2220
01:31:19,520 --> 01:31:20,560
Speaker 3: not unusual for me.

2221
01:31:21,040 --> 01:31:22,559
Speaker 6: All right, you each get twenty dollars.

2222
01:31:23,120 --> 01:31:24,880
Speaker 3: One of them is going to either save the most

2223
01:31:24,920 --> 01:31:27,840
Speaker 3: money or bring back more money getting cash back.

2224
01:31:28,760 --> 01:31:31,600
Speaker 4: Oh that was really the only rule. But you know,

2225
01:31:31,720 --> 01:31:34,400
Speaker 4: Danielle and Gandhi, it's very important, Froggy Scary. It's important

2226
01:31:34,439 --> 01:31:36,720
Speaker 4: that we vote for who we were most impressed by.

2227
01:31:36,960 --> 01:31:39,400
Speaker 7: I already tell you I'm calling sus on Diamond.

2228
01:31:39,560 --> 01:31:40,439
Speaker 5: Okay, yes, same here.

2229
01:31:40,640 --> 01:31:42,280
Speaker 3: Why are you calling suss on Diamond?

2230
01:31:42,360 --> 01:31:43,280
Speaker 5: Because give me a break.

2231
01:31:43,400 --> 01:31:46,040
Speaker 15: Look at the amount of stuff that she's got the

2232
01:31:46,200 --> 01:31:49,040
Speaker 15: paper towels alone or toilet pair, whatever the hell it is,

2233
01:31:49,680 --> 01:31:50,759
Speaker 15: is like twenty dollars.

2234
01:31:50,920 --> 01:31:52,639
Speaker 3: Give me a break, all right, right, Diamond.

2235
01:31:52,720 --> 01:31:55,920
Speaker 4: And for people who are driving can't see your hall,

2236
01:31:56,360 --> 01:31:59,240
Speaker 4: would you please tell them everything you have on the table, just.

2237
01:31:59,439 --> 01:31:59,920
Speaker 13: As the navy.

2238
01:32:00,560 --> 01:32:04,280
Speaker 8: Okay, I want to start by saying that the paper

2239
01:32:04,400 --> 01:32:06,320
Speaker 8: towel is a part of a deal that I had

2240
01:32:06,360 --> 01:32:09,519
Speaker 8: to do just in case, because I know Scotty and

2241
01:32:09,560 --> 01:32:12,280
Speaker 8: I knew that he would have other rules the day of.

2242
01:32:12,680 --> 01:32:15,559
Speaker 8: So I have a separate deal that the paper towel

2243
01:32:15,600 --> 01:32:16,040
Speaker 8: is a part of.

2244
01:32:16,160 --> 01:32:21,200
Speaker 4: Okay, Now this is getting all convol I'll tell you what. Okay,

2245
01:32:21,280 --> 01:32:23,640
Speaker 4: So I guess we're ready. I don't even know what

2246
01:32:23,760 --> 01:32:26,280
Speaker 4: you just what you said, I don't know what it means. Okay,

2247
01:32:26,520 --> 01:32:27,120
Speaker 4: go right ahead.

2248
01:32:27,120 --> 01:32:27,519
Speaker 13: What do you have.

2249
01:32:29,439 --> 01:32:29,919
Speaker 3: The microphone?

2250
01:32:30,560 --> 01:32:30,760
Speaker 5: High?

2251
01:32:31,000 --> 01:32:31,280
Speaker 7: Okay?

2252
01:32:31,680 --> 01:32:36,880
Speaker 8: I have three fabric softeners okay, well kind shampoo and

2253
01:32:36,960 --> 01:32:44,120
Speaker 8: condition that this is uh okay, yeah, optic white, two

2254
01:32:44,280 --> 01:32:49,240
Speaker 8: optic white hoof pastes, I have a favorite, two Snuggies

2255
01:32:49,360 --> 01:32:50,040
Speaker 8: dry sheets.

2256
01:32:50,439 --> 01:32:50,760
Speaker 17: I have.

2257
01:32:52,600 --> 01:32:56,439
Speaker 8: The Airwick essential oils, you know the plugins I have.

2258
01:32:57,760 --> 01:32:59,920
Speaker 8: Then I have two for breeze plug in.

2259
01:33:00,280 --> 01:33:03,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, okay, your house is gonna smell great.

2260
01:33:03,760 --> 01:33:04,000
Speaker 1: It is.

2261
01:33:04,360 --> 01:33:06,240
Speaker 8: It smells great over here. If you want to smell

2262
01:33:06,400 --> 01:33:11,360
Speaker 8: like nice, then I have three what is this baby wipes?

2263
01:33:11,720 --> 01:33:13,960
Speaker 8: I have three toothbrushes.

2264
01:33:14,320 --> 01:33:14,600
Speaker 20: I have.

2265
01:33:16,120 --> 01:33:20,360
Speaker 8: Snuggle super Fresh fabric softener. Two of those no way,

2266
01:33:20,720 --> 01:33:24,080
Speaker 8: a way razors, sentimate.

2267
01:33:24,080 --> 01:33:26,479
Speaker 3: Noors, keep going, keep going, and.

2268
01:33:27,240 --> 01:33:29,360
Speaker 8: Okay, we'll leave the other one on the side just

2269
01:33:29,400 --> 01:33:29,760
Speaker 8: in case.

2270
01:33:30,600 --> 01:33:33,040
Speaker 4: Wow, she has a side gig going. All right, Okay,

2271
01:33:33,080 --> 01:33:35,080
Speaker 4: that's a lot of stuff, but it means nothing until

2272
01:33:35,080 --> 01:33:35,479
Speaker 4: we find.

2273
01:33:35,360 --> 01:33:36,280
Speaker 3: Out how you paid for it.

2274
01:33:36,800 --> 01:33:38,120
Speaker 8: Okay, would you like the total?

2275
01:33:38,560 --> 01:33:41,840
Speaker 3: Yes, the total for all that stuff was how much.

2276
01:33:42,120 --> 01:33:43,960
Speaker 5: For all of this on this table?

2277
01:33:44,400 --> 01:33:48,400
Speaker 8: Ninety three dollars and ninety three cents. Okay, and I

2278
01:33:48,640 --> 01:33:51,280
Speaker 8: paid nineteen dollars and ten cents.

2279
01:33:52,200 --> 01:33:54,799
Speaker 6: No, no way, Wow, it's possible.

2280
01:33:55,040 --> 01:33:57,640
Speaker 3: Receipts absolutely as possible. She's got receipts, and.

2281
01:34:00,120 --> 01:34:05,280
Speaker 4: Say, okay, whatever, So you got ninety dollars worth of

2282
01:34:05,280 --> 01:34:08,120
Speaker 4: stuff for under twenty dollars, is what you're saying. Yes, wow,

2283
01:34:08,200 --> 01:34:10,479
Speaker 4: all right, the accounting firm of Nate is going to

2284
01:34:10,520 --> 01:34:13,880
Speaker 4: take a look at your receipts, all right now, Okay,

2285
01:34:14,320 --> 01:34:16,200
Speaker 4: you know what, if this is all true, I am

2286
01:34:16,520 --> 01:34:20,120
Speaker 4: mighty impressed. Yeah, Diamond, Mary, And if it's not true, I'm.

2287
01:34:19,960 --> 01:34:22,040
Speaker 3: Still impressed because I love you. I believe it. It

2288
01:34:22,080 --> 01:34:25,320
Speaker 3: can be done. All right, now, Scotty, comment on what

2289
01:34:25,439 --> 01:34:27,760
Speaker 3: she is showing us, and then show us your haul.

2290
01:34:28,360 --> 01:34:31,439
Speaker 25: I am very impressed by Diamond. This is a friendly competition.

2291
01:34:31,520 --> 01:34:33,280
Speaker 25: I'm so happy that she she did that. I'd have

2292
01:34:33,320 --> 01:34:34,439
Speaker 25: done better with all that stuff.

2293
01:34:34,479 --> 01:34:35,559
Speaker 6: But she did great.

2294
01:34:35,880 --> 01:34:38,840
Speaker 3: Okay, that was kind of a slap anyway, I'm kidding.

2295
01:34:38,880 --> 01:34:42,120
Speaker 25: I think she did for a Novice couponer. I think

2296
01:34:42,160 --> 01:34:44,240
Speaker 25: she did great. Okay, now what are you going on?

2297
01:34:44,520 --> 01:34:44,840
Speaker 13: All right?

2298
01:34:44,960 --> 01:34:47,519
Speaker 6: So for me, I got two bottles of for Breeze

2299
01:34:47,680 --> 01:34:48,360
Speaker 6: air Effects.

2300
01:34:48,880 --> 01:34:52,599
Speaker 25: I got a bottle of hand sanitizer, some Luigi's Mango

2301
01:34:52,640 --> 01:34:57,000
Speaker 25: Italian ices, the big box of Nature Valley biscuits, a

2302
01:34:58,080 --> 01:35:03,160
Speaker 25: dozen of Vital farms or eggs, two boxes of Dove

2303
01:35:03,400 --> 01:35:07,760
Speaker 25: ice cream bars, two bottles of Nifia body wash, and

2304
01:35:08,479 --> 01:35:11,559
Speaker 25: a package of antibiotic surface wipes.

2305
01:35:12,320 --> 01:35:15,599
Speaker 4: Okay, by the way, I am impressed at Scotty's whole Hole.

2306
01:35:15,800 --> 01:35:19,720
Speaker 4: Sorry tull his Scotty's Hall, because you can actually eat

2307
01:35:19,800 --> 01:35:22,360
Speaker 4: some of his diamonds is all like stuff you you know,

2308
01:35:22,680 --> 01:35:24,599
Speaker 4: you brush your teeth with and put.

2309
01:35:24,479 --> 01:35:25,559
Speaker 3: In your laundry.

2310
01:35:26,080 --> 01:35:27,560
Speaker 6: Yes, Diamond, I love you.

2311
01:35:27,680 --> 01:35:30,200
Speaker 3: I think you did great. But let's see what they think.

2312
01:35:30,960 --> 01:35:32,120
Speaker 8: I just want to bring up a point.

2313
01:35:32,439 --> 01:35:38,200
Speaker 3: Yea, the price is right, rave verse great, turn it off.

2314
01:35:38,400 --> 01:35:39,280
Speaker 6: Now what's that diamond?

2315
01:35:39,360 --> 01:35:41,760
Speaker 8: A few days ago I said that I was a

2316
01:35:41,800 --> 01:35:45,360
Speaker 8: little nervous because the things that I was getting, the

2317
01:35:45,439 --> 01:35:47,559
Speaker 8: thing like, the deals that I was getting were things

2318
01:35:47,600 --> 01:35:50,200
Speaker 8: that I didn't actually use. And you all said, no,

2319
01:35:51,280 --> 01:35:52,000
Speaker 8: get them anyway.

2320
01:35:52,160 --> 01:35:54,559
Speaker 3: That's fun here. No one said you did something bad.

2321
01:35:55,800 --> 01:35:57,920
Speaker 3: You did great. This is not a fight, Diamond. All right,

2322
01:35:58,560 --> 01:36:00,320
Speaker 3: she's being a little defensive.

2323
01:36:00,320 --> 01:36:01,519
Speaker 6: But that's you, all right.

2324
01:36:01,520 --> 01:36:04,160
Speaker 4: All right, So Scottie, all this stuff you just read

2325
01:36:04,200 --> 01:36:06,680
Speaker 4: off to us. How much did it cost, how much

2326
01:36:06,720 --> 01:36:07,160
Speaker 4: did you save?

2327
01:36:07,280 --> 01:36:07,559
Speaker 13: Whatever?

2328
01:36:07,760 --> 01:36:10,120
Speaker 6: First of all, here's your twenty dollars back.

2329
01:36:10,560 --> 01:36:11,280
Speaker 13: So you can have that.

2330
01:36:11,800 --> 01:36:15,040
Speaker 6: Oh my god, that was a smooth move. And I

2331
01:36:15,200 --> 01:36:17,559
Speaker 6: got back eight dollars and eighty nine cents on top

2332
01:36:17,600 --> 01:36:17,760
Speaker 6: of that.

2333
01:36:18,120 --> 01:36:23,160
Speaker 3: Oh my god, god, so you made money.

2334
01:36:23,360 --> 01:36:23,680
Speaker 13: I did.

2335
01:36:24,479 --> 01:36:24,519
Speaker 21: So.

2336
01:36:24,680 --> 01:36:27,439
Speaker 25: The actual retail price was fifty six dollars and eighty

2337
01:36:27,479 --> 01:36:30,240
Speaker 25: two cents, right with sales and coupons that took off

2338
01:36:30,280 --> 01:36:32,360
Speaker 25: fifty dollars and twenty one cent, so out of pocket

2339
01:36:32,439 --> 01:36:34,720
Speaker 25: was six sixty one. I used I bought a cash

2340
01:36:34,800 --> 01:36:37,479
Speaker 25: back to get eleven dollars and fifty cents back coupons.

2341
01:36:37,520 --> 01:36:39,800
Speaker 25: Dot Com cash Back gave me four dollars right into

2342
01:36:39,840 --> 01:36:43,240
Speaker 25: my PayPal account, so that leaves me with negative eight

2343
01:36:43,320 --> 01:36:44,320
Speaker 25: dollars and eighty nine.

2344
01:36:44,200 --> 01:36:45,599
Speaker 6: Cents and plus plus.

2345
01:36:45,720 --> 01:36:47,920
Speaker 25: I used the Fetch app to get two hundred points

2346
01:36:47,920 --> 01:36:50,680
Speaker 25: toward gift cards you promised for my five twenty nine

2347
01:36:50,720 --> 01:36:53,840
Speaker 25: college account gave me sixty cents, and box Tops gave

2348
01:36:53,880 --> 01:36:55,639
Speaker 25: twenty cents to the schools for the kids.

2349
01:36:55,800 --> 01:37:02,000
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Hello Diamond, he's helping out kids to

2350
01:37:02,040 --> 01:37:02,679
Speaker 3: play this game.

2351
01:37:02,800 --> 01:37:03,840
Speaker 13: No, he made money.

2352
01:37:03,960 --> 01:37:07,320
Speaker 8: He told me that he wouldn't be using Ibota. He

2353
01:37:07,439 --> 01:37:09,760
Speaker 8: told me he wouldn't be using Ibota, so I didn't

2354
01:37:09,840 --> 01:37:10,360
Speaker 8: use ibod.

2355
01:37:10,439 --> 01:37:11,240
Speaker 13: You could do what you want.

2356
01:37:11,560 --> 01:37:13,479
Speaker 1: What is I, bottle guy? What's I?

2357
01:37:16,280 --> 01:37:17,280
Speaker 6: It's a cash back app?

2358
01:37:17,320 --> 01:37:19,880
Speaker 25: And I even gave her a referral link for Fetch

2359
01:37:19,960 --> 01:37:21,559
Speaker 25: that she could have used and got more stuff back,

2360
01:37:21,600 --> 01:37:22,280
Speaker 25: but you didn't use it.

2361
01:37:22,439 --> 01:37:25,160
Speaker 8: You told me, You told me using iybody would be cheating.

2362
01:37:25,240 --> 01:37:25,840
Speaker 8: So I didn't use it.

2363
01:37:25,880 --> 01:37:27,280
Speaker 5: Do you know how much money I could have got back?

2364
01:37:27,520 --> 01:37:27,640
Speaker 13: Oh?

2365
01:37:28,360 --> 01:37:28,599
Speaker 3: Okay?

2366
01:37:28,680 --> 01:37:31,200
Speaker 6: Did anyone hear him say that to Diamond?

2367
01:37:31,280 --> 01:37:31,719
Speaker 3: Did anyone?

2368
01:37:32,080 --> 01:37:34,000
Speaker 5: I wasn't listening. I believe her.

2369
01:37:34,360 --> 01:37:36,080
Speaker 25: I didn't say it would be cheating. I just said

2370
01:37:36,080 --> 01:37:37,920
Speaker 25: I don't normally use that. That's what I said. I

2371
01:37:37,960 --> 01:37:38,400
Speaker 25: don't use that.

2372
01:37:38,520 --> 01:37:41,800
Speaker 13: But I Scotty gave you back your twenty dollars. He

2373
01:37:42,000 --> 01:37:45,000
Speaker 13: made eight more dollars, and he still got all that stuff.

2374
01:37:45,120 --> 01:37:47,439
Speaker 3: He bought, like a drum for a kid in a

2375
01:37:47,560 --> 01:37:48,360
Speaker 3: high school band.

2376
01:37:48,560 --> 01:37:52,040
Speaker 6: But it's all relative. Diamond got a lot of stuff

2377
01:37:52,080 --> 01:37:52,280
Speaker 6: and it.

2378
01:37:52,640 --> 01:37:55,680
Speaker 3: Cost her a lot. All right? So a question, yes,

2379
01:37:55,800 --> 01:37:57,840
Speaker 3: A GANDH. You help me sort through this? Yes?

2380
01:37:57,960 --> 01:37:58,000
Speaker 17: What?

2381
01:37:58,560 --> 01:38:00,880
Speaker 9: So let's let's settle the I bought a thing. How

2382
01:38:01,000 --> 01:38:02,920
Speaker 9: much did you save with Ibata Scotty?

2383
01:38:03,080 --> 01:38:04,439
Speaker 6: Eleven dollars and fifty cents?

2384
01:38:04,640 --> 01:38:04,880
Speaker 7: Wow?

2385
01:38:05,000 --> 01:38:07,439
Speaker 9: Okay, So if we took that into consideration, then he

2386
01:38:07,479 --> 01:38:09,439
Speaker 9: would have spent about three dollars on all of his stuff,

2387
01:38:09,560 --> 01:38:13,439
Speaker 9: right right? Okay, And Diamond spent twenty dollars on all

2388
01:38:13,600 --> 01:38:16,320
Speaker 9: that stuff. So now we have kind of more equal

2389
01:38:16,400 --> 01:38:17,960
Speaker 9: footing if we're doing it that way.

2390
01:38:18,200 --> 01:38:19,240
Speaker 13: No, she could have used it.

2391
01:38:19,400 --> 01:38:20,600
Speaker 3: I didn't say don't use it.

2392
01:38:20,680 --> 01:38:23,120
Speaker 4: There were no okay even even if okay, let's say

2393
01:38:23,240 --> 01:38:26,040
Speaker 4: maybe there was a misunderstanding, and obviously there is. And

2394
01:38:26,240 --> 01:38:28,280
Speaker 4: she felt as if you said no, you cannot use

2395
01:38:28,320 --> 01:38:32,360
Speaker 4: ibada and you so okay, you still come out ahead

2396
01:38:32,560 --> 01:38:33,080
Speaker 4: money wise.

2397
01:38:33,160 --> 01:38:39,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you know, No, Diamond, we cannot move.

2398
01:38:39,120 --> 01:38:42,439
Speaker 4: Forward without saying how impressive your take has been. I mean,

2399
01:38:42,640 --> 01:38:44,200
Speaker 4: you've done very very well here.

2400
01:38:44,720 --> 01:38:45,280
Speaker 7: Well, thank you.

2401
01:38:46,320 --> 01:38:47,960
Speaker 8: I just also want to bring up the fact that

2402
01:38:48,040 --> 01:38:50,280
Speaker 8: this is the second time today that he's changed the rules.

2403
01:38:50,360 --> 01:38:51,960
Speaker 8: So I think I should be able to bring on

2404
01:38:52,479 --> 01:38:55,240
Speaker 8: my extra bag, bring it because.

2405
01:38:55,080 --> 01:38:57,080
Speaker 4: Hold on, let me point something else out that you

2406
01:38:57,160 --> 01:39:00,559
Speaker 4: guys haven't realized as far as saving money goes.

2407
01:39:00,760 --> 01:39:04,720
Speaker 3: She got ninety dollars worth of stuff for only a

2408
01:39:04,880 --> 01:39:06,439
Speaker 3: nineteen dollars. Yeah, that's great.

2409
01:39:06,880 --> 01:39:10,599
Speaker 4: See the number, the amount of savings that she got,

2410
01:39:11,120 --> 01:39:13,880
Speaker 4: I believe is more than what Scotty got if you

2411
01:39:14,040 --> 01:39:14,799
Speaker 4: do the numbers.

2412
01:39:14,880 --> 01:39:17,080
Speaker 7: Well, now, isn't the rule the rule was who brings

2413
01:39:17,160 --> 01:39:17,840
Speaker 7: back more money?

2414
01:39:17,920 --> 01:39:21,639
Speaker 8: There were no rules, Danielle, No, when we heard Elvis second,

2415
01:39:22,160 --> 01:39:22,759
Speaker 8: the rule.

2416
01:39:22,720 --> 01:39:25,840
Speaker 4: The rule is whoever is most impressive. And Danielle, you

2417
01:39:26,120 --> 01:39:27,200
Speaker 4: you will have to be the judge on that in

2418
01:39:27,240 --> 01:39:27,599
Speaker 4: a second.

2419
01:39:27,680 --> 01:39:29,040
Speaker 6: I'm not looking for a win, you know.

2420
01:39:29,120 --> 01:39:31,120
Speaker 3: Now, what is this? What is this side hustle you're

2421
01:39:31,120 --> 01:39:33,880
Speaker 3: working over here, Diamond, This I can't.

2422
01:39:35,080 --> 01:39:38,320
Speaker 8: About an hour ago, Scotti and Nate decided to tell

2423
01:39:38,400 --> 01:39:42,120
Speaker 8: me that the rules were who could what was it,

2424
01:39:42,680 --> 01:39:45,240
Speaker 8: who could bring back the most cash?

2425
01:39:45,400 --> 01:39:47,240
Speaker 6: That was what Elvis said in his Instagram.

2426
01:39:47,360 --> 01:39:50,240
Speaker 8: Okay, and if that's the case, then I have a

2427
01:39:50,360 --> 01:39:52,000
Speaker 8: completely separate order.

2428
01:39:52,439 --> 01:39:54,000
Speaker 3: Oh what's this?

2429
01:39:55,400 --> 01:39:56,000
Speaker 10: What is this?

2430
01:39:56,240 --> 01:39:57,439
Speaker 8: Scott's toilet paper?

2431
01:39:57,520 --> 01:39:58,080
Speaker 7: Five dollars?

2432
01:39:58,479 --> 01:39:59,439
Speaker 3: Five dollars okay.

2433
01:40:01,880 --> 01:40:03,920
Speaker 8: To trust May Hair?

2434
01:40:04,280 --> 01:40:04,640
Speaker 23: What is this?

2435
01:40:04,840 --> 01:40:05,759
Speaker 8: Uh? Hair sprays?

2436
01:40:06,000 --> 01:40:08,120
Speaker 3: Okay, hair spray very good?

2437
01:40:08,680 --> 01:40:11,600
Speaker 8: Three cress Pro Health.

2438
01:40:12,920 --> 01:40:15,479
Speaker 13: To pas okay, you gotta have toothpaste for an army.

2439
01:40:15,479 --> 01:40:17,759
Speaker 6: I want to see the dates on all these receipts.

2440
01:40:17,920 --> 01:40:22,960
Speaker 8: Sure, gladly, Rammell, London Bronzer.

2441
01:40:23,520 --> 01:40:24,360
Speaker 7: Oh that's as good.

2442
01:40:24,560 --> 01:40:27,360
Speaker 3: No, where are we getting I'm not quite sure what's

2443
01:40:27,400 --> 01:40:27,640
Speaker 3: going on.

2444
01:40:27,920 --> 01:40:28,960
Speaker 8: It's coming and then too?

2445
01:40:30,760 --> 01:40:32,559
Speaker 6: Okay, okay, what does this mean?

2446
01:40:32,680 --> 01:40:33,000
Speaker 3: Diamond?

2447
01:40:33,120 --> 01:40:35,960
Speaker 8: This all came to twenty one dollars and two cents.

2448
01:40:36,000 --> 01:40:38,800
Speaker 8: And since we're using cash back, I used my Walgreens

2449
01:40:38,840 --> 01:40:41,519
Speaker 8: cash and it only came to a dollar, but hold

2450
01:40:41,600 --> 01:40:44,040
Speaker 8: two cents so I could give you your twenty bucks back.

2451
01:40:44,200 --> 01:40:44,479
Speaker 8: Thank you.

2452
01:40:47,240 --> 01:40:48,720
Speaker 7: You can't get the twenty back if it came to.

2453
01:40:48,720 --> 01:40:52,240
Speaker 3: A dollar, okay, okay, no, no, no, you know what,

2454
01:40:52,400 --> 01:40:53,360
Speaker 3: that's very impressive.

2455
01:40:53,560 --> 01:40:56,680
Speaker 4: I'm trying to so if we add that to what

2456
01:40:56,760 --> 01:40:58,840
Speaker 4: you already did, essentially it's used to be just one

2457
01:40:59,000 --> 01:40:59,840
Speaker 4: big thing.

2458
01:41:00,280 --> 01:41:03,639
Speaker 3: Right, What what did you just do? I'm a little confused.

2459
01:41:03,680 --> 01:41:05,840
Speaker 25: Well, what can I say something real quick? I'm sure

2460
01:41:05,840 --> 01:41:07,960
Speaker 25: I want I drag it on. But I mean, she

2461
01:41:08,400 --> 01:41:10,960
Speaker 25: that was money that she had stored for buying stuff.

2462
01:41:11,160 --> 01:41:12,840
Speaker 25: You know a while ago. I could have got a

2463
01:41:12,880 --> 01:41:14,920
Speaker 25: free turkey in a big box of Matza for free too,

2464
01:41:16,200 --> 01:41:18,920
Speaker 25: because because I had spent one hundred dollars over the

2465
01:41:19,040 --> 01:41:20,439
Speaker 25: last month, you know what I mean.

2466
01:41:21,040 --> 01:41:22,479
Speaker 8: I want to know how it's not true because I

2467
01:41:22,640 --> 01:41:26,559
Speaker 8: got the twenty cash back from the two the three

2468
01:41:26,800 --> 01:41:29,200
Speaker 8: Walgreens trips that I took up here.

2469
01:41:29,120 --> 01:41:29,639
Speaker 3: On this table.

2470
01:41:29,960 --> 01:41:30,880
Speaker 6: Congratulations time.

2471
01:41:31,000 --> 01:41:36,840
Speaker 4: So you're saying because of your original purchases, you it

2472
01:41:37,240 --> 01:41:39,600
Speaker 4: bled over into new purchases from walkan this is what

2473
01:41:39,640 --> 01:41:43,160
Speaker 4: you're saying. Yep, Okay, I think that's that's totally.

2474
01:41:44,920 --> 01:41:45,280
Speaker 13: Go ahead.

2475
01:41:46,200 --> 01:41:48,240
Speaker 15: I wish we could give out a couple of prizes

2476
01:41:48,280 --> 01:41:52,120
Speaker 15: here because I feel like for effort, Diamond should win.

2477
01:41:52,200 --> 01:41:54,600
Speaker 7: I mean the amount of effort that went into what

2478
01:41:54,760 --> 01:41:59,120
Speaker 7: she did. But I think overall, Scottie.

2479
01:41:58,680 --> 01:42:00,840
Speaker 15: Wins because he did what the game said, and that

2480
01:42:00,960 --> 01:42:02,720
Speaker 15: was to bring back the most money or save them

2481
01:42:02,800 --> 01:42:02,960
Speaker 15: you know.

2482
01:42:04,240 --> 01:42:05,040
Speaker 6: Tough numbers.

2483
01:42:05,280 --> 01:42:06,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, impressed.

2484
01:42:06,320 --> 01:42:09,160
Speaker 3: So it's kind of like, you know, well, so it's like,

2485
01:42:10,000 --> 01:42:10,759
Speaker 3: go ahead, Gandhi.

2486
01:42:10,960 --> 01:42:13,000
Speaker 9: No, it's like it's like a Miss America pageant where

2487
01:42:13,040 --> 01:42:14,960
Speaker 9: one of them is super beautiful but the other one

2488
01:42:15,000 --> 01:42:16,320
Speaker 9: has an incredible.

2489
01:42:15,880 --> 01:42:20,559
Speaker 5: Talent, and now we're like, oh, which one's.

2490
01:42:20,400 --> 01:42:22,160
Speaker 13: Wits Gondy, go ahead, tell us which?

2491
01:42:22,200 --> 01:42:25,479
Speaker 4: All right, I'm gonna go ahead and ask for votes

2492
01:42:25,800 --> 01:42:30,240
Speaker 4: who is most impressive? And keep in mind that Diamond's

2493
01:42:30,320 --> 01:42:33,360
Speaker 4: numbers did change at the end, and I think the

2494
01:42:33,479 --> 01:42:37,080
Speaker 4: way she did it should be acceptable. And if it's

2495
01:42:37,120 --> 01:42:39,960
Speaker 4: all a part of like this shopping spree that she did,

2496
01:42:40,240 --> 01:42:43,360
Speaker 4: it wasn't like she was accumulating these Walgreens numbers over

2497
01:42:43,520 --> 01:42:44,519
Speaker 4: years and years and years.

2498
01:42:44,920 --> 01:42:46,960
Speaker 3: She did it. Buying the other stuff is a part

2499
01:42:47,000 --> 01:42:47,720
Speaker 3: of this competition.

2500
01:42:47,960 --> 01:42:48,679
Speaker 14: Does that make sense?

2501
01:42:49,000 --> 01:42:49,200
Speaker 6: Yes?

2502
01:42:50,720 --> 01:42:53,880
Speaker 12: Okay, Diamond's surprise box at the end put her over

2503
01:42:53,960 --> 01:42:54,360
Speaker 12: the edge.

2504
01:42:54,640 --> 01:42:55,040
Speaker 3: There you go.

2505
01:42:55,439 --> 01:42:56,839
Speaker 7: Her box is very surprising.

2506
01:42:57,080 --> 01:42:57,360
Speaker 21: It is.

2507
01:42:57,600 --> 01:43:01,680
Speaker 4: Now that said, let's take a vote, Froggy, who are

2508
01:43:02,080 --> 01:43:03,280
Speaker 4: who is most impressive?

2509
01:43:03,400 --> 01:43:05,080
Speaker 3: Diamond or Scotty Bee.

2510
01:43:05,439 --> 01:43:07,240
Speaker 13: I'm gonna go with Scotty Bee in this case. I

2511
01:43:07,280 --> 01:43:09,280
Speaker 13: think Scotty. The fact that because the fact that they

2512
01:43:09,320 --> 01:43:11,400
Speaker 13: have a negative number at the end, the fact that

2513
01:43:11,560 --> 01:43:14,640
Speaker 13: he basically got all these items, gave you back your

2514
01:43:14,680 --> 01:43:18,160
Speaker 13: twenty bucks and then made almost nine dollars, that's pretty impressive.

2515
01:43:18,439 --> 01:43:21,960
Speaker 3: All right, Scotty Bee, All right? What about you? Gandhi?

2516
01:43:23,400 --> 01:43:25,240
Speaker 9: This is really difficult because I would like it to

2517
01:43:25,280 --> 01:43:27,400
Speaker 9: be a tie because the rules were not clear. But

2518
01:43:28,200 --> 01:43:30,719
Speaker 9: I gotta say I was so impressed by what Diamond

2519
01:43:30,800 --> 01:43:32,639
Speaker 9: has on her table that I thought she was lying.

2520
01:43:33,240 --> 01:43:36,200
Speaker 9: So I might have to lean into Diamond because there's

2521
01:43:36,320 --> 01:43:37,519
Speaker 9: just so much stuff there.

2522
01:43:37,800 --> 01:43:38,679
Speaker 13: There is a lot of stuff.

2523
01:43:38,880 --> 01:43:43,360
Speaker 15: I'm still not convinced she's not lying, Diamond, but you know,

2524
01:43:43,479 --> 01:43:45,360
Speaker 15: she keeps waiting her seats, so.

2525
01:43:46,040 --> 01:43:48,080
Speaker 3: Lying going on? Maybe it's just it's just it's a

2526
01:43:48,320 --> 01:43:50,599
Speaker 3: it's a creative accounting.

2527
01:43:50,720 --> 01:43:55,840
Speaker 13: Oh okay, that's right, fraud say that.

2528
01:43:56,920 --> 01:43:57,439
Speaker 6: What about you?

2529
01:43:58,520 --> 01:44:00,800
Speaker 12: Well, you know, Scotty's been at this for years, and

2530
01:44:01,000 --> 01:44:03,840
Speaker 12: if we're asking the question, who's more impressive, Yes, Scotty

2531
01:44:03,840 --> 01:44:05,559
Speaker 12: doesn't impress me much these days because he's been doing

2532
01:44:05,560 --> 01:44:06,679
Speaker 12: it for twenty five damn.

2533
01:44:07,000 --> 01:44:07,840
Speaker 6: So I do think that.

2534
01:44:07,960 --> 01:44:12,240
Speaker 14: Diamond, in my opinion, is more impressive, came Rodeo.

2535
01:44:12,400 --> 01:44:15,080
Speaker 4: It's like it's like Dancing with the stars, where they

2536
01:44:15,160 --> 01:44:17,880
Speaker 4: start and how they ended up. Wow, what an impressive

2537
01:44:18,080 --> 01:44:21,080
Speaker 4: impressive learning curve here, Danielle.

2538
01:44:21,520 --> 01:44:23,200
Speaker 15: All right, So, I, like I said, I wish we

2539
01:44:23,240 --> 01:44:25,600
Speaker 15: could give two prizes out because Diamond I feel like,

2540
01:44:25,640 --> 01:44:28,360
Speaker 15: put in so much effort it's crazy and it's awesome.

2541
01:44:28,560 --> 01:44:33,280
Speaker 15: But the amount of resources that Scotty has found that

2542
01:44:33,600 --> 01:44:36,880
Speaker 15: have saved him money and actually paid him to shop,

2543
01:44:37,400 --> 01:44:40,560
Speaker 15: he has been paid to shop, is insane. And so

2544
01:44:40,760 --> 01:44:42,000
Speaker 15: my vote has to go to Scotty.

2545
01:44:42,160 --> 01:44:42,400
Speaker 13: Thank you.

2546
01:44:42,520 --> 01:44:45,040
Speaker 3: Okay, Well we are in a tie, right man, Wow.

2547
01:44:46,240 --> 01:44:49,240
Speaker 5: Tie, we should make them arm wrestle. Diamond will definitely win.

2548
01:44:49,360 --> 01:44:53,720
Speaker 4: Will, yes, you will, I think, Nate. I have to

2549
01:44:53,760 --> 01:44:55,720
Speaker 4: ask your opinion here. We got to get your vote. Well,

2550
01:44:55,880 --> 01:44:58,520
Speaker 4: I was going according to speaking to the microphone.

2551
01:44:58,160 --> 01:45:00,240
Speaker 10: Ken, I was doing according to receipts all this, and

2552
01:45:00,320 --> 01:45:02,840
Speaker 10: I was doing some number crunching and you know, at

2553
01:45:02,880 --> 01:45:06,040
Speaker 10: first we were thinking Diamond was cheating because she had

2554
01:45:06,160 --> 01:45:08,200
Speaker 10: such a copious amount of stuff.

2555
01:45:08,320 --> 01:45:10,040
Speaker 3: But no, these receipts are accurate.

2556
01:45:10,160 --> 01:45:13,240
Speaker 10: So because I'm going according to the numbers, I do

2557
01:45:13,400 --> 01:45:16,320
Speaker 10: have to give Scotty be the slight advantage because of

2558
01:45:16,400 --> 01:45:21,080
Speaker 10: the numbers, right, his technically came out ahead, including the

2559
01:45:21,120 --> 01:45:23,160
Speaker 10: fact that he said he could have gotten a free turkey.

2560
01:45:22,960 --> 01:45:25,320
Speaker 4: In a box of matza for pre So I am

2561
01:45:26,000 --> 01:45:27,720
Speaker 4: you cannot. You cannot roll that in as a part

2562
01:45:27,760 --> 01:45:28,360
Speaker 4: of your decision.

2563
01:45:28,360 --> 01:45:30,799
Speaker 13: So I still kind of give the itge to Scotty

2564
01:45:30,960 --> 01:45:34,800
Speaker 13: here tally, technically, didn't Diamond spend more than twenty bucks

2565
01:45:34,840 --> 01:45:36,960
Speaker 13: because it was nineteen in change and then a dollar

2566
01:45:37,040 --> 01:45:37,439
Speaker 13: in change?

2567
01:45:38,000 --> 01:45:40,280
Speaker 8: Why I didn't that in the original order. But if

2568
01:45:40,320 --> 01:45:41,960
Speaker 8: you want to change the rules, and that's.

2569
01:45:41,880 --> 01:45:43,040
Speaker 3: My separate.

2570
01:45:45,040 --> 01:45:45,919
Speaker 13: I'm so confused.

2571
01:45:47,600 --> 01:45:49,519
Speaker 7: Well, okay, she's hustling, that's for sure.

2572
01:45:49,720 --> 01:45:52,439
Speaker 4: Well then, okay, so that means Scott has a slight

2573
01:45:52,479 --> 01:45:54,000
Speaker 4: advantage because of Nate's vote.

2574
01:45:55,160 --> 01:45:57,639
Speaker 3: Unfortunately, I'm gonna have to vote for Diamonds. So we're

2575
01:45:57,640 --> 01:45:58,240
Speaker 3: at a tie here.

2576
01:45:59,680 --> 01:46:02,880
Speaker 25: Well, you know what, I will the tie and vote

2577
01:46:02,920 --> 01:46:04,800
Speaker 25: for Diamond because I think she was great.

2578
01:46:05,200 --> 01:46:07,559
Speaker 6: Well, no, she was great. That's my point, Diamond.

2579
01:46:08,080 --> 01:46:11,040
Speaker 3: Diamond walked into this saying she knew everything about it,

2580
01:46:11,160 --> 01:46:13,599
Speaker 3: and we all know she didn't know squat about.

2581
01:46:13,400 --> 01:46:13,760
Speaker 13: Any of it.

2582
01:46:15,280 --> 01:46:17,920
Speaker 4: And she Diamond, I think you did a beautiful job.

2583
01:46:17,960 --> 01:46:20,520
Speaker 4: And Scotty Bee, I just you're just on an autopilot.

2584
01:46:20,600 --> 01:46:22,240
Speaker 4: This is this is like second nature to you.

2585
01:46:22,479 --> 01:46:24,640
Speaker 15: I feel like I see a podcast here where you

2586
01:46:24,880 --> 01:46:28,000
Speaker 15: take Diamond under your wing and teach her everything you know,

2587
01:46:28,120 --> 01:46:30,799
Speaker 15: and she comes back each week and uses your tricks

2588
01:46:30,800 --> 01:46:32,639
Speaker 15: of the trade, and you can teach.

2589
01:46:32,479 --> 01:46:34,719
Speaker 7: So many people, so many cool things about shopping.

2590
01:46:34,760 --> 01:46:36,599
Speaker 6: I mean, she could teach me something. Look at all

2591
01:46:36,640 --> 01:46:37,519
Speaker 6: she got. That's great.

2592
01:46:37,560 --> 01:46:40,519
Speaker 5: She got a lot too gracious. It's a little annoying.

2593
01:46:41,880 --> 01:46:43,680
Speaker 4: So if you have a tie here, Diamond is being

2594
01:46:44,479 --> 01:46:49,360
Speaker 4: a very bitter, bitter type type and Scotty seems kind

2595
01:46:49,360 --> 01:46:51,000
Speaker 4: to take the higher road. Other than that, I think

2596
01:46:51,000 --> 01:46:53,000
Speaker 4: it's a lot of fun. Diamond, We love you, you

2597
01:46:53,080 --> 01:46:58,440
Speaker 4: did fabulous. Congratulations. Scotty Bee is always a blue ribbon performance.

2598
01:46:58,520 --> 01:46:59,400
Speaker 5: Thank you, good job.

2599
01:46:59,560 --> 01:46:59,760
Speaker 6: Get that.

2600
01:47:02,600 --> 01:47:03,640
Speaker 19: Oh no, we gotta go.

2601
01:47:05,240 --> 01:47:18,040
Speaker 1: Elvis Duran in the Morning Show, Elvis Ter, Elvis Duran

2602
01:47:18,240 --> 01:47:19,160
Speaker 1: in the Morning Show.

2603
01:47:20,000 --> 01:47:24,519
Speaker 3: Hey for what it's worth listening to your favorite music

2604
01:47:24,720 --> 01:47:28,160
Speaker 3: can reduce pain. This was a story that was out yesterday.

2605
01:47:28,200 --> 01:47:29,080
Speaker 3: Did you read this, Kandhi?

2606
01:47:29,920 --> 01:47:30,400
Speaker 7: I believe it.

2607
01:47:30,600 --> 01:47:33,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, if you're listening to your favorite music, it might

2608
01:47:33,040 --> 01:47:35,760
Speaker 4: be beneficial. It might be beneficial to your health after all.

2609
01:47:36,280 --> 01:47:38,880
Speaker 4: And I would think, why are we just now learning this,

2610
01:47:39,800 --> 01:47:42,519
Speaker 4: because we've known for a fact that people who live

2611
01:47:42,600 --> 01:47:47,080
Speaker 4: happier lives, live longer and are healthier. And even the

2612
01:47:47,160 --> 01:47:51,240
Speaker 4: best of medical doctors will tell you it goes beyond medicine.

2613
01:47:51,320 --> 01:47:54,200
Speaker 4: It has to do with your outlook on life, your positivity,

2614
01:47:54,560 --> 01:47:56,360
Speaker 4: the people you surround yourself.

2615
01:47:56,080 --> 01:47:58,960
Speaker 3: With, and then you know, exercising and eating well from

2616
01:47:58,960 --> 01:47:59,840
Speaker 3: time to time. I'm not smoking.

2617
01:48:00,360 --> 01:48:02,680
Speaker 4: There's a whole list, right, Yeah, and then none of

2618
01:48:02,720 --> 01:48:05,640
Speaker 4: the all of that can be achieved without going to

2619
01:48:05,720 --> 01:48:10,439
Speaker 4: a doctor's office. But listening to your favorite music, it's

2620
01:48:10,680 --> 01:48:13,320
Speaker 4: surely it's the same as being happy, right, I mean,

2621
01:48:13,760 --> 01:48:14,720
Speaker 4: the pheromones or whatever.

2622
01:48:14,760 --> 01:48:16,080
Speaker 3: I don't know, I totally agree.

2623
01:48:16,240 --> 01:48:18,439
Speaker 9: I mean, I know this sounds very silly, but they

2624
01:48:18,600 --> 01:48:20,680
Speaker 9: say that even if you're in a bad mood and

2625
01:48:20,760 --> 01:48:23,040
Speaker 9: you start singing your favorite songs, that that's supposed to

2626
01:48:23,080 --> 01:48:25,280
Speaker 9: help you get better. Not just because one it's your

2627
01:48:25,280 --> 01:48:27,320
Speaker 9: favorite song and you like to hear it, it elicits

2628
01:48:27,360 --> 01:48:30,559
Speaker 9: good emotion, but because of the airflow while you're breathing

2629
01:48:30,760 --> 01:48:32,439
Speaker 9: and singing, it's supposed to be very good for you.

2630
01:48:32,680 --> 01:48:33,320
Speaker 13: Well, there is that.

2631
01:48:33,760 --> 01:48:35,960
Speaker 3: See we were talking about that special that's on and

2632
01:48:36,400 --> 01:48:37,640
Speaker 3: I think it's Netflix. I don't know.

2633
01:48:37,680 --> 01:48:40,519
Speaker 4: It's called one hundred Years Blue Zones. People that live

2634
01:48:40,560 --> 01:48:43,639
Speaker 4: in these blue zones around the world who are living

2635
01:48:44,240 --> 01:48:47,240
Speaker 4: on average, much older lives than the rest of us.

2636
01:48:48,240 --> 01:48:50,400
Speaker 4: And he went to this one village somewhere and look

2637
01:48:50,439 --> 01:48:53,680
Speaker 4: at me. All the details were missing, and I think

2638
01:48:53,720 --> 01:48:56,640
Speaker 4: it was in Greece actually, And these people in this

2639
01:48:56,800 --> 01:48:58,679
Speaker 4: village and the friends and the families, they get together

2640
01:48:58,720 --> 01:49:01,360
Speaker 4: almost every night or every other night, and they party and.

2641
01:49:01,400 --> 01:49:04,200
Speaker 3: They dance and they have a little wine and they.

2642
01:49:04,240 --> 01:49:08,160
Speaker 4: Laugh, and they live much longer lives than the rest

2643
01:49:08,240 --> 01:49:11,760
Speaker 4: of us. He's like, they don't exercise, but he was

2644
01:49:11,800 --> 01:49:13,400
Speaker 4: showing them dancing around the campfire.

2645
01:49:14,120 --> 01:49:15,040
Speaker 3: They were exercising.

2646
01:49:15,160 --> 01:49:15,800
Speaker 5: They're getting there.

2647
01:49:16,400 --> 01:49:18,599
Speaker 6: Yeah, they're getting their cardio through dancing.

2648
01:49:18,840 --> 01:49:22,400
Speaker 4: And and you know, I just when you say, hey,

2649
01:49:22,439 --> 01:49:24,519
Speaker 4: if you sing your favorite song, it also includes you know,

2650
01:49:24,760 --> 01:49:27,960
Speaker 4: airflow and oxygen going to your brain because you're breathing

2651
01:49:28,000 --> 01:49:28,439
Speaker 4: and singing.

2652
01:49:29,240 --> 01:49:30,040
Speaker 3: It all makes sense.

2653
01:49:30,160 --> 01:49:32,559
Speaker 4: Doing the things that make you happy at the moment

2654
01:49:32,960 --> 01:49:35,000
Speaker 4: are doing much more to your body in a positive

2655
01:49:35,040 --> 01:49:36,880
Speaker 4: way than you'll ever ever realize.

2656
01:49:37,080 --> 01:49:41,080
Speaker 3: Right, yeah, they say here, you.

2657
01:49:41,120 --> 01:49:42,760
Speaker 4: Know how if you go to the doctor and you're

2658
01:49:42,760 --> 01:49:44,519
Speaker 4: feeling pain, he'll say, okay, the pain you have in

2659
01:49:44,600 --> 01:49:48,000
Speaker 4: your arm the scale of zero to ten, where is it?

2660
01:49:48,160 --> 01:49:50,439
Speaker 4: And you give him a number? So that's I'm assuming

2661
01:49:50,479 --> 01:49:53,400
Speaker 4: how they did it. Scientists found that pain was not

2662
01:49:53,640 --> 01:49:58,479
Speaker 4: just reduced, but strongly reduced among participants if they were

2663
01:49:58,520 --> 01:50:00,560
Speaker 4: listening to some of their favorite music. They're saying, it

2664
01:50:00,680 --> 01:50:03,799
Speaker 4: was a very noticeable, noticeable difference.

2665
01:50:04,760 --> 01:50:04,920
Speaker 13: Right.

2666
01:50:06,880 --> 01:50:12,200
Speaker 4: My mother, who was living with an awful, awful, awful

2667
01:50:12,400 --> 01:50:16,439
Speaker 4: life of dementia. Near the end of her days, of course,

2668
01:50:17,520 --> 01:50:19,479
Speaker 4: she just couldn't remember anything, and every once in a

2669
01:50:19,479 --> 01:50:21,600
Speaker 4: while she would become a little lucid than not. We

2670
01:50:21,640 --> 01:50:24,880
Speaker 4: would play music from her from her earlier years. You

2671
01:50:24,960 --> 01:50:28,360
Speaker 4: put on some Tony Bennett, she would light up and

2672
01:50:28,439 --> 01:50:30,840
Speaker 4: she would sing all the words. And it really shows

2673
01:50:30,880 --> 01:50:33,760
Speaker 4: you how music leaves a deep footprint in your heart

2674
01:50:33,840 --> 01:50:37,320
Speaker 4: and in your brain because of the emotions you felt

2675
01:50:37,320 --> 01:50:39,160
Speaker 4: when you first heard that song that you love I

2676
01:50:39,240 --> 01:50:41,439
Speaker 4: mean bad example Rio by Duran Duran.

2677
01:50:43,160 --> 01:50:43,599
Speaker 7: Example.

2678
01:50:43,920 --> 01:50:44,960
Speaker 3: I know it is for you.

2679
01:50:45,080 --> 01:50:47,120
Speaker 4: It is because for some reason, and you can't even

2680
01:50:47,160 --> 01:50:49,000
Speaker 4: explain why, when you hear that song, it makes you

2681
01:50:49,080 --> 01:50:50,439
Speaker 4: happy and you don't have to explain.

2682
01:50:50,600 --> 01:50:51,800
Speaker 7: No, it just makes me happy.

2683
01:50:52,120 --> 01:50:54,479
Speaker 15: It's like a feeling of freedom song, like you know

2684
01:50:54,560 --> 01:50:56,720
Speaker 15: you can dance around on a beach and have a

2685
01:50:56,800 --> 01:50:57,200
Speaker 15: good time.

2686
01:50:57,280 --> 01:50:58,000
Speaker 7: That's how I feel.

2687
01:50:58,920 --> 01:51:00,800
Speaker 4: So we could do a show where we don't play

2688
01:51:00,840 --> 01:51:03,639
Speaker 4: any music at all, but you know, for several reasons

2689
01:51:03,680 --> 01:51:03,840
Speaker 4: we do.

2690
01:51:04,120 --> 01:51:06,080
Speaker 3: Now I know another reason for your health.

2691
01:51:06,240 --> 01:51:09,920
Speaker 4: Yes, and so we have time to go pee yah right,

2692
01:51:10,000 --> 01:51:12,400
Speaker 4: and then we can do all the off color, off

2693
01:51:12,479 --> 01:51:15,479
Speaker 4: color jokes that HR would have us fired over while

2694
01:51:15,560 --> 01:51:16,200
Speaker 4: the song's playing.

2695
01:51:16,760 --> 01:51:19,559
Speaker 3: We're saving you from that. Music is helping us, uh

2696
01:51:20,120 --> 01:51:21,160
Speaker 3: maintain a career as well.

2697
01:51:21,320 --> 01:51:21,559
Speaker 13: Music.

2698
01:51:21,600 --> 01:51:25,040
Speaker 3: We love music, you music, So there you have it.

2699
01:51:25,479 --> 01:51:28,320
Speaker 4: I was also reading today about birthdays. We've known this,

2700
01:51:28,479 --> 01:51:32,200
Speaker 4: especially during PMIC pandemic. They're saying that blowing out candles

2701
01:51:32,240 --> 01:51:35,640
Speaker 4: on a cake is just the most disgusting thing you

2702
01:51:35,720 --> 01:51:42,160
Speaker 4: can do. It's more disgusting than we thought. Really, the

2703
01:51:42,280 --> 01:51:45,880
Speaker 4: amounts of bacteria flying onto your birthday cake. Not only

2704
01:51:45,960 --> 01:51:50,920
Speaker 4: does the cake get a spray of froggy saliva, but

2705
01:51:51,080 --> 01:51:53,240
Speaker 4: the cakes already iced with a layer of bacteria.

2706
01:51:53,320 --> 01:51:55,080
Speaker 3: And they how do you do it any other way?

2707
01:51:59,920 --> 01:52:02,200
Speaker 13: Or you can also well, you can cut a piece

2708
01:52:02,240 --> 01:52:03,640
Speaker 13: off and put it on a plate and just put

2709
01:52:03,680 --> 01:52:04,680
Speaker 13: a handle on that one.

2710
01:52:08,240 --> 01:52:10,639
Speaker 3: They're not saying. They're saying it's not terribly high risk

2711
01:52:10,680 --> 01:52:14,280
Speaker 3: in most cases, but it does. It will spread diseases

2712
01:52:14,320 --> 01:52:16,839
Speaker 3: if someone in your birthday group has a disease.

2713
01:52:18,200 --> 01:52:20,439
Speaker 15: I even know, if someone's getting ready to come down

2714
01:52:20,520 --> 01:52:22,840
Speaker 15: with something like you could be fine today, tomorrow you

2715
01:52:22,920 --> 01:52:23,840
Speaker 15: could be sick.

2716
01:52:24,360 --> 01:52:26,000
Speaker 3: You know exactly, they already have it.

2717
01:52:26,640 --> 01:52:27,120
Speaker 13: So there you go.

2718
01:52:27,320 --> 01:52:31,200
Speaker 3: Music is keeping us alive longer, and birthday cakes are

2719
01:52:31,280 --> 01:52:32,880
Speaker 3: killing us. I thought I would just give you the.

2720
01:52:35,360 --> 01:52:40,200
Speaker 1: Who chooses to get up at morning Elvister rand in

2721
01:52:40,240 --> 01:52:40,960
Speaker 1: the Morning Show.

2722
01:52:43,640 --> 01:52:45,680
Speaker 3: All right, show's done. We'll come back tomorrow and do

2723
01:52:45,760 --> 01:52:49,160
Speaker 3: it again. Till next time. Say peace out, everybody, put

2724
01:52:49,200 --> 01:52:49,720
Speaker 3: everybody