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That's Facet dot com. 32 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:26,040 Speaker 4: This add a sponsored by Facet. Facet Wealth in Corporated 33 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 4: is an sec registered investment advisor. This is not an 34 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:29,759 Speaker 4: offer to buy your self securities, nor is it investment, 35 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 4: legal or tax advice. 36 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 5: Hi, this is Joel and Victoria. Thanks for listening to 37 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 5: our podcast and thanks for supporting the ministry. If you 38 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 5: enjoy today's message, why don't you be a blessing and 39 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:42,559 Speaker 5: share it with a friend. We appreciate you and pray 40 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 5: for God's very best in your life. Oh God, bless 41 00:01:56,520 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 5: you always our joy to come into your homes. We 42 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 5: love you and we know God has great things in 43 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 5: store for each one of you. If you're ever in 44 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 5: our area, I hope you'll stop by and be a 45 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 5: part of Lakewood. I say it often, but these are 46 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:13,359 Speaker 5: the finest people in all of Houston ride here at Lakewood, 47 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 5: So come on out whenever you can. 48 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 3: I like to start with something funny. 49 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 5: I heard about this hill billy family that had never 50 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 5: left their small town, never watched television, never listen to 51 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:27,919 Speaker 5: the radio. One day they decided to take a vacation 52 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:31,119 Speaker 5: to New York City. The first day, the father took 53 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 5: his son to see a famous skyscraper. They were so impressed. 54 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 5: They were especially intrigued by the elevator. They didn't know 55 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 5: what it was. They saw this very old woman walk 56 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 5: up and punch the button. 57 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 3: All of a sudden, the walls opened up. 58 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 5: She stepped into this small room, and the walls closed 59 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 5: back up. They sat there contemplating what they had just seen. 60 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 5: About that time, the walls opened back up and out 61 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 5: stepped a beautiful. 62 00:02:57,960 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 3: Twenty four year old woman. 63 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 5: Almost in disbelief, the son said, Dad, what just happened? 64 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 3: The dad said, I don't know, son, but go get 65 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:09,919 Speaker 3: your mother all ride. 66 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 5: Hold up your bible say it like you mean it. 67 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 5: This is my Bible. I am what it says, I am, 68 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 5: I have what it says. I have, I can do 69 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 5: what it says I can do. Today, I will be 70 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 5: taught the word of God. I boldly confess my mind 71 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 5: is alert, my heart is receptive. 72 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 3: I will never be the same. In Jesus' name, God 73 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 3: bless you. 74 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 5: I want to talk to you today about investing in people. 75 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 5: When we hear the word invest we often think of 76 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 5: investing in the stock market, investing in real estate, investing 77 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 5: for retirement. And that's good, but all of those investments 78 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 5: will eventually fade away. The only investments that are going 79 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 5: to last is our investments in other people, and we 80 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 5: are all leaving a legacy see either intentional or unintentional. 81 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 5: When it's unintentional, we just live life and wait to 82 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 5: see what's going to happen. But when it's intentional, we're 83 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 5: constantly looking for ways that we can invest in somebody else. 84 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:19,559 Speaker 5: Lou Holtz, the famous football coach, said, when I die, 85 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 5: my accomplishments will eventually be forgotten, but what I've invested 86 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 5: in my players will continue to live on. The best 87 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:33,720 Speaker 5: legacy is not what we leave for people. It's what 88 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 5: we leave in people. We all have things that we've learned, skills, talents, life, experiences, wisdom. 89 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 5: You have a wealth of knowledge that God has entrusted 90 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 5: you with. You are not supposed to keep that to yourself. 91 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 5: You should be passing that on to somebody else. We 92 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:58,280 Speaker 5: have a responsibility to transfer what we know to. 93 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 3: The next generation. Are you taking time to invest in 94 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:04,799 Speaker 3: your children? Are you mentoring someone? 95 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 5: Are you training that coworker, teaching them the skills you've learned. 96 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 5: Are you sharing your wisdom, your experience, your insight with 97 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 5: a neighbor, a friend, a young person so they don't 98 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 5: make them the same mistakes. 99 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:19,279 Speaker 3: That you made. 100 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 5: God expects us to impart to others and friends. You 101 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 5: and I have an opportunity to leave a mark that 102 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 5: cannot be erased. Yes, eventually we're all going to die, 103 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 5: but when you invest in somebody else. 104 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 3: You will continue to live on. 105 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 5: Your life can have influence for generations to come if 106 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 5: you will take time to invest in people. You remember 107 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 5: the story Jesus told about the talents. Two of the 108 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 5: men took their talents and went out and multiplied them. 109 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 5: The master was very pleased, but this third man buried 110 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 5: his talent in the ground. You could say he took 111 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 5: his talent to the grave. He didn't share it with anyone. 112 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:06,719 Speaker 5: He didn't multiply it. He just lived to himself Luke, 113 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:11,600 Speaker 5: nineteen twenty two. The Master calls him an unfaithful servant. 114 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:15,159 Speaker 5: And when we're not taking time to share what we know, 115 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:21,280 Speaker 5: we're not mentoring, training, teaching, developing modeling, then we are 116 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 5: not being faithful with what God has given us. The 117 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 5: next generation should not have to start over. They shouldn't 118 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:33,039 Speaker 5: have to relearn what you've already learned. You should be 119 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 5: pouring everything you know into your children, into a young person, 120 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:41,360 Speaker 5: into that coworker that's under you at the office. Well, 121 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 5: you say, Joel, I'm busy. That takes a lot of time. 122 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 5: I'm trying to reach my own goals. No, when you 123 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:51,600 Speaker 5: help others accomplish their dreams, God will help you accomplish 124 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:56,279 Speaker 5: your dreams. He'll multiply your time, He'll multiply your talents. 125 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 5: He'll make sure that you rise higher. Now I've discovered 126 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:03,559 Speaker 5: and you never stand taller than when you reach down 127 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:08,480 Speaker 5: and help somebody else succeed. When you add value to others, 128 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 5: you are adding value to yourself. Don't go to your 129 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 5: grave with your talent buried. Find somebody to share it with. 130 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 5: After all, none of us got to where we are 131 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 5: by ourselves. From the moment we were born. Somebody was 132 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 5: investing in us. Somebody was sharing their gift. The doctor 133 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 5: that delivered you, the nurse that wrapped you up, the 134 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 5: mother that loved you, the Sunday school teacher that trained you, 135 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:40,680 Speaker 5: the coach that taught you, the neighbor that befriended you, 136 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 5: the boss that gave you a good break. None of 137 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 5: us got to where we are on our own. Somebody 138 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 5: took time to train us. Somebody sacrifice so we could succeed. 139 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 5: Now our job is to reach back and help someone 140 00:07:57,120 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 5: else succeed. I think about all the people that have 141 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 5: invested in me. My grandfather was very disciplining. He had 142 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 5: a very. 143 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 3: Strong work ethic. 144 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 5: He taught me by example the importance of being diligent 145 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 5: and giving every job my very best. My grandmother, she 146 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 5: was so full of joy. I never saw her upset. 147 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 5: She constantly had a song of praise coming. 148 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:26,239 Speaker 3: Up out of her heart. And she is a big 149 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 3: part of who I am today. She's one of. 150 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 5: The main reasons why I smile practically all the time. 151 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 5: I can still remember my basketball coach in seventh grade. 152 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 5: I was the smallest player on the team. One day, 153 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 5: I was in the hallway at school with all of 154 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 5: my friends and he called me over. He's a big, 155 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 5: gruff guy. I never showed much emotion. He looked me 156 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 5: in the eyes and he said, Joel, it's not the 157 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 5: size of the person that matters, it's the size of 158 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 5: their heart. And let me tell you, you have a 159 00:08:56,960 --> 00:09:00,199 Speaker 5: big heart. You're going to do great this year. When 160 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 5: he said that, it was like I turned into Michael Jordan. 161 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:06,719 Speaker 3: That did more for my. 162 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 5: Confidence, more for my self esteem than he could ever imagine. 163 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 3: What was he doing investing in me? 164 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:16,959 Speaker 5: If you could see all the people that have made 165 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:19,839 Speaker 5: me into who I am today, the line would be 166 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 5: one hundred yards long. Parents, grandparents, coaches, Sunday school teachers, aunts. 167 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 3: Uncles, relatives, even my brother Paul. 168 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 5: He has taught me by example, what not to wear, 169 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 5: how not to play sports. 170 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 3: Paul's invested in me. 171 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:41,440 Speaker 5: Growing up, my mother not only loved and cared for 172 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 5: us children, but every day before we left for school, 173 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:48,440 Speaker 5: she would say, Father, thank you that my children have 174 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 5: your favor wherever they go. I learned to expect God's 175 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 5: favor from my mother. You know what I'm doing today 176 00:09:56,080 --> 00:10:00,560 Speaker 5: telling other people to believe for God's favor. Take the 177 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 5: gift that she gave me and bury it. I'm gonna 178 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:06,960 Speaker 5: pass it on to my children, my friends, my colleagues, 179 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 5: my associates. 180 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 3: My father was. 181 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 5: Constantly telling me how great he thought I was and 182 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 5: how I could do anything. He took time to mentor me. 183 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:21,319 Speaker 5: He was busy, but he gave me his attention. As 184 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 5: a little boy, he used to go up to the 185 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 5: hospital to visit people that were sick. He would always 186 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 5: take me with him. He'd have me join hands with 187 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 5: the family when we prayed. As a teenager, I would 188 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 5: come down to the church during the summer and sit 189 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 5: in meetings with him. 190 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:40,239 Speaker 3: At the office. Half the time I didn't. 191 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 5: Know what was going on, but on the way home 192 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 5: he had always explained it, Joe, this is what we 193 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 5: were doing, this is the reason we were doing it. 194 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 3: He didn't have to, he had a lot going on. 195 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 5: But he understood this principle that he had a responsibility 196 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 5: to pass on everything he possibly could. 197 00:10:57,800 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 3: It's kind of funny. 198 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 5: My father knew nothing about mechanics and how things operated. 199 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 3: That wasn't one of his strengths. 200 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:08,080 Speaker 5: And one day our back doorknob the whole unit messed up, 201 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:10,200 Speaker 5: and so we went to the hardware store and bought 202 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 5: a new one. I was about twelve years old and 203 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 5: I was there trying to help him get the new 204 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:15,560 Speaker 5: one on. 205 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 3: And my father worked and worked, and he couldn't get 206 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 3: the old one off. 207 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 5: And he had the hammer and he was beating that doorknob, 208 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 5: and we ended up using kitchen utensils, knives, forks, fatulists. Finally, 209 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 5: after about two hours, Daddy got that new doorknob, that 210 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 5: whole unit on. He was so proud, he said, Joel, 211 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 5: I told you, if you just stick with it, you'll 212 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 5: get it done. He went to slam it and to 213 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 5: shut it to show me how it worked. And when 214 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 5: he did that doorknob hit the wood frame, it chipped, 215 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 5: the trim bounced back open. 216 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:46,959 Speaker 3: He had put the whole thing on totally backwards. 217 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 5: But what I appreciated about my father is he did 218 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 5: his best to teach me everything he knew, and even 219 00:11:55,559 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 5: sometimes things he didn't know. That I'm constantly telling my children, 220 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 5: you're not only getting everything I have, not only everything 221 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 5: I know, but you're getting everything Granddaddy imparted into me, 222 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 5: everything grandmother gave me. They put it in and I'm 223 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:13,560 Speaker 5: going to do my best to pour it into you. 224 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 5: Think about how high our children would go if we 225 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 5: would all live like this. This is the way it's 226 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:24,720 Speaker 5: supposed to be. Every generation should build on the next. 227 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 5: My children shouldn't have the same struggles that I've struggled with. 228 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 5: They're starting at a higher level. There's more wisdom, more depth, 229 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:36,960 Speaker 5: more experience in our family line. They should take what 230 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 5: I know and run with it. The only way this 231 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 5: is going to happen is if we are taking time 232 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 5: to invest. We have to transfer what we know into them. 233 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 5: And really, I believe this is the best inheritance we 234 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:56,440 Speaker 5: can leave them, not leaving something for them, but leaving 235 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:59,719 Speaker 5: something in them. Don't get me wrong, I'm all for 236 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:03,679 Speaker 5: even resources, but that's not all I'm gonna leave. I'm 237 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 5: gonna make sure I teach them everything I know about life, 238 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 5: about ministry, about marriage, business economics, anything I know. I'm 239 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:17,439 Speaker 5: gonna pour it into them. My prayer and my declaration 240 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:20,320 Speaker 5: for all of our children is that they are going 241 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 5: to start where we finish, and God's going to take 242 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 5: them places we've never even dreamed of. Our children are 243 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:31,760 Speaker 5: gonna be mighty in the land, but so often today, 244 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:35,840 Speaker 5: instead of investing in our children and giving them the 245 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 5: attention they need, we give them activities. We're running them 246 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:44,080 Speaker 5: here and there, taking them to this activity, and got 247 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:45,960 Speaker 5: to give them back to this special function and then 248 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 5: to this other activity. 249 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 3: It's like we're running a bus service. 250 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:52,680 Speaker 5: And we sit back and watch them play sports, and 251 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:55,600 Speaker 5: watch them do ballet, watch them in the school play 252 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:56,840 Speaker 5: And that's fine. 253 00:13:56,880 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 3: I've played a lot of sports. 254 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 5: But if we're not careful, we will substitute activity for attention. Understand, 255 00:14:05,679 --> 00:14:10,199 Speaker 5: your children need you more than they need another activity. 256 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:14,000 Speaker 5: Studies tell us by the age of five, our children 257 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 5: have already developed their sense of reasoning. By the age 258 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 5: of twelve, ninety five percent of who they are and 259 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 5: what they believe has already been established. Don't let the 260 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 5: television be a babysitter for your children. Don't allow sports, 261 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 5: ballet and band to take the time from you spending 262 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 5: with them and you imparting into them. Well, you say, Joel, 263 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:42,120 Speaker 5: I really wanted to hear about my dreams today, not 264 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 5: somebody else says no, your dreams are. 265 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 3: Connected to other people. 266 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:50,480 Speaker 5: If you will help someone else rise higher, God will 267 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 5: help you to rise higher. Take time to invest in others, 268 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 5: share what you know, even in simple things. I think 269 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 5: about how Victoria's family they've had a special recipe that's 270 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 5: been in the family line for four or five generations. 271 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:11,360 Speaker 5: It's called Senator Russell's sweet potatoes. They're the best sweet 272 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 5: potatoes in the world. They've got a crust of cinnamon 273 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 5: and sugar and nuts. We don't even like the sweet potatoes, 274 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 5: We just like the crust. But what happened is generations back, 275 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 5: somebody came up with that great recipe. They cut a 276 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:28,800 Speaker 5: fat this is my special dish. I'm just gonna keep 277 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 5: it to myself. No, they were living with this mindset, 278 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 5: I've got to pass down everything good I possibly can. 279 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 5: So one day that mother taught her daughter the recipe, 280 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 5: and that daughter taught her daughter. Eventually it got down 281 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 5: to Georgi, my mother in law. She taught her daughter Victoria. 282 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 5: Now every Thanksgiving, Victoria and our daughter are in the 283 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 5: kitchen making Senator Russell's sweet potatoes. 284 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 3: Let me ask you, are. 285 00:15:55,480 --> 00:16:00,960 Speaker 5: You transferring your wisdom, your experiences, your shortcuts, your recipes 286 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 5: down to the next generation so they can start ahead 287 00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 5: of you. Do you have skills and gifts that you're 288 00:16:07,440 --> 00:16:08,440 Speaker 5: just keeping to yourself. 289 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:11,480 Speaker 3: You're kind of taking that for granted. No pass them down. 290 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 5: Just the other day, I was talking to our son Jonathan, 291 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 5: he's fourteen, about how to prepare a message and how 292 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 5: to study and how to communicate. I thought, I've been 293 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 5: doing this for ten years. I want to make sure 294 00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 5: he at least knows what I know. You may think, well, Joel, 295 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:29,920 Speaker 5: I don't have any special expertise. 296 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 3: I don't know that much. Sure you do. You know 297 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 3: about life. You know what works and what doesn't. 298 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 5: You know the mistakes you've made and what you've learned 299 00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 5: from it. You have experience, you have skills. Many times, 300 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 5: what we take for granted is a big deal to 301 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:49,640 Speaker 5: someone else. Remember this older lady that used to come 302 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 5: to Lakewood. Now she's since going to be with the Lord. 303 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 3: And she wasn't very. 304 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 5: Wealthy, She didn't have a quote expertise. Not many people 305 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 5: would consider her to be very successful, but she was 306 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:03,560 Speaker 5: an expert in one thing. 307 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 3: This lady knew how to pray. She used to come 308 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:10,639 Speaker 3: to the services early, sit in her chair and pray. 309 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:13,399 Speaker 5: I was eight or nine years old, and when she 310 00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:16,160 Speaker 5: would see me walking through the auditorium, she would call 311 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 5: me over and say, Joel. 312 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:19,200 Speaker 3: Come over and let me pray for you. 313 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:21,800 Speaker 5: I'd sit there for three or four minutes, and she 314 00:17:21,840 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 5: would pray God's blessings, God's favor, God's wisdom, God's victory 315 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:28,800 Speaker 5: in my life, that lady not only taught me how 316 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:33,000 Speaker 5: to pray, but she modeled for me the importance of 317 00:17:33,080 --> 00:17:37,560 Speaker 5: reaching out to others and speaking faith into their lives. 318 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 5: She didn't have to call me over. In fact, I 319 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:42,360 Speaker 5: never wanted to go. 320 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:46,000 Speaker 3: It embarrassed me. I wanted to be out playing with 321 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:46,720 Speaker 3: my friends. 322 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:50,720 Speaker 5: I tried to avoid that, but invariably she would seek 323 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 5: me out. Joel, come over, just give me five minutes. 324 00:17:54,119 --> 00:17:56,600 Speaker 5: I'd walk over toward her like I was so excited. 325 00:17:57,440 --> 00:18:00,159 Speaker 5: Down deep, I was thinking why did I come this way? 326 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:00,680 Speaker 3: Not again? 327 00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:07,160 Speaker 5: But all that time, even subconsciously, I was taking it in. 328 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 3: It was being ingrained in me. Reach out to others, 329 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 3: speak faith into their lives. 330 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 5: She never prayed fancy prayers, she never prayed anything super spiritual. 331 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 5: She just said, God, give Joel wisdom, help him to 332 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:26,439 Speaker 5: fulfill his destiny for his life. What's my point? She 333 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 5: had a gift, she had a skill. No, she wasn't 334 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 5: a computer expert. She wasn't a master mechanic, she wasn't 335 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:37,360 Speaker 5: a medical doctor, but she was a prayer warrior. Now 336 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 5: I don't know if that lady had children of her own, 337 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:41,439 Speaker 5: but I know this. 338 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 3: Today, she is living on on the inside of me. 339 00:18:45,520 --> 00:18:48,439 Speaker 5: Every time I get up and speak faith into people, 340 00:18:48,880 --> 00:18:50,359 Speaker 5: a part of her is alive. 341 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:53,439 Speaker 3: She put something in me. She didn't have to. 342 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 5: She could have prayed at home, she could have prayed silently, 343 00:18:57,119 --> 00:19:00,919 Speaker 5: but she took time to invest in others. What do 344 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:04,159 Speaker 5: you have that you could be passing on may be 345 00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:08,440 Speaker 5: a great gift. Maybe you're skilled in the arts and music, 346 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:10,360 Speaker 5: communication and cells. 347 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:12,440 Speaker 3: Pass it on to somebody else. 348 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:15,600 Speaker 5: Maybe your gift is what you'd consider to be something 349 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:19,480 Speaker 5: more simple, like this, lady, You've got a gift of kindness. 350 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 5: You're an excellent mother, You're a skilled cook, You're an 351 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:27,040 Speaker 5: expert when it comes to fixing things. Instill those qualities 352 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:30,800 Speaker 5: in those around you. Take time to share what you know. 353 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:33,880 Speaker 5: It was in the grocery store a while back, and 354 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:37,679 Speaker 5: I noticed how they now have something called seedless fruit. 355 00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:41,680 Speaker 5: You can buy an orange without any seeds. We've eaten 356 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 5: it our home many times. Seedless watermelon. It's not natural 357 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:49,440 Speaker 5: it's been organically altered, and it's nice to eat because 358 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:51,520 Speaker 5: you don't have to worry about the seeds, don't have 359 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:53,200 Speaker 5: to worry about swallowing anything. 360 00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 3: But the fact is, without the seeds, the fruit cannot reproduce. 361 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:01,359 Speaker 5: Once you eat, it's gone. 362 00:20:01,600 --> 00:20:02,680 Speaker 3: The life is over. 363 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:05,520 Speaker 5: You know how a normal orange, if you ate it, 364 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:07,240 Speaker 5: you could take the seeds and plant them. 365 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:07,719 Speaker 3: In the ground. 366 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:11,280 Speaker 5: A certain amount of time, you'd have dozens and dozens 367 00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 5: more oranges. It would continue to live on, continue to perpetuate. 368 00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 5: That's the way God designed it. The problem with many 369 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:24,719 Speaker 5: people today is like this organically altered fruit, is they 370 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:26,800 Speaker 5: are living seedless lives. 371 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 3: Yes they look. 372 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:32,679 Speaker 5: Successful, Yes they're accomplishing their dreams, but they're not sharing 373 00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:34,679 Speaker 5: what they know with anyone else. 374 00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 3: They're just living to themselves. 375 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 5: When their time is over, because they haven't sown any 376 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:44,040 Speaker 5: of these seeds, they won't continue to live on. They 377 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 5: may leave a mark, but it will be quickly forgotten. 378 00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:49,720 Speaker 5: I was reading about a young boy that was growing 379 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:51,760 Speaker 5: up in Ghana, West Africa. 380 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 3: He was extremely poor, and at. 381 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:58,159 Speaker 5: Sixteen years old, he decided to leave home, determined to 382 00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:02,520 Speaker 5: find some way to help better his people. Seven years later, 383 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 5: he returned back to his village. The people were so 384 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:08,120 Speaker 5: excited they saw him coming down the road ran out 385 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:12,200 Speaker 5: to meet him. They were sure that he had brought wealth, riches. 386 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:15,439 Speaker 3: And abundance. They said to him, show us what you brought. 387 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:19,159 Speaker 5: Without saying a word, he reached into his pocket and 388 00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 5: pulled out three tiny seeds. They looked at him confused, 389 00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:26,640 Speaker 5: They said, is this all you've brought us? You've been 390 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:30,440 Speaker 5: gone seven years, this is it. He planted those seeds 391 00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:34,000 Speaker 5: in the ground. Not long after that, Ghana had its 392 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 5: first cocoa plants. 393 00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:38,040 Speaker 3: They multiplied and multiplied. 394 00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:41,440 Speaker 5: Today, many years later, coco is one of the major 395 00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:45,959 Speaker 5: products in Ghana. That young man left a mark that 396 00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 5: cannot be erased. How'd he do it by planting three 397 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:54,440 Speaker 5: simple seeds? Friends, you and I have the same opportunity 398 00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 5: when you live your life planting seeds in others, in 399 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 5: parting what you know, your skills, your wisdom, your love, 400 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 5: your kindness, your encouragement. 401 00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 3: Then as that seed takes root, it'll grow. 402 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:11,719 Speaker 5: That person will touch another person, and that person another, 403 00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:15,680 Speaker 5: on and on. Before long, your life will be influencing 404 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 5: thousands of people, even long after you've gone. What happened 405 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 5: because you took time to invest in others, you will 406 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:28,840 Speaker 5: continue to live on. My grandmother is living on today 407 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,880 Speaker 5: through me. That coach that spoke faith into me, he's 408 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:36,800 Speaker 5: living on through me. Now I'm asking you to not 409 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 5: live a seedless life that orange without seeds. It may 410 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 5: taste good for a moment while it lasts, but once 411 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:50,560 Speaker 5: it's gone, it's over. The pleasure is far too temporary. 412 00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:56,760 Speaker 5: It's the same way in life when we live without mentoring, training, teaching, modeling. 413 00:22:57,280 --> 00:23:01,240 Speaker 5: We may have some success, but it's very short compared 414 00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:04,160 Speaker 5: to what God had in store. When you reach out 415 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 5: and touch others and they touch more people, all that's 416 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:10,679 Speaker 5: accumulated to your account. One day you'll look up and 417 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:14,480 Speaker 5: hear God say you left a mark that cannot be erased. 418 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:19,320 Speaker 5: You sold so many seeds that three generations later, four generations, 419 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 5: five generations, people are still being influenced by your life. 420 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:27,160 Speaker 5: And every one of us should have a project, someone 421 00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:31,359 Speaker 5: that we've taken under our wing. We're encouraging them, we're 422 00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:35,160 Speaker 5: teaching them our skills, we're giving them our advice. Should 423 00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:38,680 Speaker 5: start with our own children, or another young person, a 424 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:41,840 Speaker 5: coworker at the office. They could easily make it to 425 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:45,159 Speaker 5: the next level. They just need a little mentoring, a 426 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:49,399 Speaker 5: little training, take time to invest. I've heard it said 427 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:54,879 Speaker 5: there is no greater occupation than in helping someone else succeed. 428 00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 5: Nineteen thirty two, a baby was born to an unwed mother. 429 00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:03,600 Speaker 5: Six weeks later, he was adopted by this loving couple. 430 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:08,480 Speaker 5: The age of five, this adopted mother suddenly died. For 431 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,800 Speaker 5: the next ten years, the little boy with his father, 432 00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:14,679 Speaker 5: traveled the country searching for work for the father. The 433 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:17,720 Speaker 5: little boy told how, growing up, his favorite thing to 434 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 5: do was go out to eat and watch the other 435 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:25,480 Speaker 5: families sitting together enjoying each other. He became fascinated with 436 00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 5: restaurants and he began to study the menus. 437 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:29,639 Speaker 3: And how everything worked. 438 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:32,959 Speaker 5: At the age of fifteen, the owner of a local 439 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:36,520 Speaker 5: restaurant gave him a job. This man took him under 440 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:39,240 Speaker 5: his wing and he began to teach him everything he 441 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:43,040 Speaker 5: knew about the restaurant business. At eighteen, the young man 442 00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:46,439 Speaker 5: got drafted. After serving our country for four years, he 443 00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:49,880 Speaker 5: came back home and once again that gentleman gave him 444 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,719 Speaker 5: a job. This time he put him in charge of 445 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:57,040 Speaker 5: four of his restaurants. They continued to flourish in nineteen 446 00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:01,200 Speaker 5: sixty nine, that gentleman sold his business, and this young 447 00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:04,960 Speaker 5: man decided to take everything he had learned and start 448 00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:10,320 Speaker 5: his own restaurant. He called it Wendy's Old Fashioned Hamburgers. 449 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 3: Today there are over six. 450 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:16,840 Speaker 5: Thousand Wendy's, and the owner, the late Dave Thomas, is 451 00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 5: still one of the most beloved and endeared people in 452 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:24,639 Speaker 5: all of America. Mister Thomas gave millions and millions to charities. 453 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:30,800 Speaker 5: He started numerous foundations to help adoption agencies, children learn skills, 454 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:35,840 Speaker 5: mentoring programs, on and on. Dave Thomas made a huge 455 00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 5: difference with his life, But it would have never happened 456 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:42,960 Speaker 5: if that loving couple had not adopted him, and if 457 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:46,480 Speaker 5: that restaurant owner had not taken time to mentor him, 458 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 5: to train him, to teach him his skills, to show 459 00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:54,720 Speaker 5: him his shortcuts, to impart into a young man. They 460 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:59,320 Speaker 5: didn't leave something for Dave Thomas. They left something in 461 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:03,680 Speaker 5: Dave Thomas. By investing in this young man, they left 462 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:05,840 Speaker 5: a mark that will not be erased. 463 00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:09,120 Speaker 3: Look around, is. 464 00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:12,600 Speaker 5: There someone in your life that you could easily take 465 00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:16,200 Speaker 5: under your wing. You could mentor them, you could teach 466 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:20,360 Speaker 5: them your skills, you could speak faith into them. There 467 00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:25,160 Speaker 5: is no greater giving than the giving of yourself. It's 468 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:28,760 Speaker 5: great to give money, that's important, But when you give yourself, 469 00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:33,320 Speaker 5: your time, your energy, your advice, that is the ultimate gift. 470 00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:37,720 Speaker 5: Now I've learned this. The greater the giving, the greater 471 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:41,640 Speaker 5: the living. You will never be more fulfilled than when 472 00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:45,480 Speaker 5: you're making a difference in somebody else's life. I have 473 00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:48,480 Speaker 5: a good friend that was raised in a very dysfunctional home. 474 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:52,040 Speaker 5: Her father was never around and her mother had plenty 475 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:55,120 Speaker 5: of problems on her own. At the age of sixteen, 476 00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:58,560 Speaker 5: she was basically raising her younger brother. The mother was 477 00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:02,159 Speaker 5: not responsible, never at home. This young lady was just 478 00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:05,280 Speaker 5: crying out for help on the inside. One day, a 479 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:08,960 Speaker 5: friend at school mentioned that her father owned a small 480 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 5: store and maybe he would give her a job. 481 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:12,480 Speaker 3: She went and applied. 482 00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:15,639 Speaker 5: This man not only gave her a job, but he 483 00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:18,400 Speaker 5: began to watch after her like she was. 484 00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:19,480 Speaker 3: His very own daughter. 485 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 5: He would make sure she would change the oil in 486 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:24,960 Speaker 5: her car at the right time, make sure she was 487 00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:27,840 Speaker 5: doing okay in school, make sure she could balance the 488 00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 5: check book. He didn't realize it, but he was the 489 00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:35,080 Speaker 5: father figure that she had so longed for years. Later, 490 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 5: when the young lady went to get married, the father 491 00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 5: was still not around. You know who she chose to 492 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,199 Speaker 5: give her away at the wedding, The man from the 493 00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 5: small store. 494 00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:46,920 Speaker 3: He took time to make a difference. 495 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 5: He shared what he knew, he didn't take for granted, 496 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 5: simple things like knowing when to change the oil in 497 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:58,159 Speaker 5: a car. And today I'm benefiting because this young lady 498 00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:02,120 Speaker 5: is healthy and whole. Her friendship, her encouragement has made 499 00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 5: my life better. That man invested in her, she invested 500 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:09,320 Speaker 5: in me, and now I'm investing in others. 501 00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 3: He made a mark that cannot be erased. 502 00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:17,440 Speaker 5: My challenge to you today is, don't live a seedless life. 503 00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:22,160 Speaker 5: Take time to share what you know, mentor someone teach 504 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 5: your skills. Invest in others. Friends, we're all leaving a legacy. 505 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:31,680 Speaker 5: Let's make sure it's an intentional legacy. Remember, we didn't 506 00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:34,920 Speaker 5: get to where we are on our own. Somebody invested 507 00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,480 Speaker 5: in us. Now make it a goal to invest in 508 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 5: someone else. You can leave a mark that cannot be erased. 509 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:48,040 Speaker 5: If you will take time to invest in people, mentoring, teaching, training, modeling, 510 00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:51,760 Speaker 5: than those seeds that you saw will be multiplied back 511 00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 5: to you. God will make sure you rise higher. He'll 512 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:58,720 Speaker 5: make sure you accomplish your dreams, you overcome your obstacles. 513 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:01,640 Speaker 5: I believe in the clar you will live that life 514 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:03,680 Speaker 5: of victory that He has in store. 515 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:05,360 Speaker 3: Amen, do you receive it today? 516 00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 5: Well? We never like to close our broadcast without giving 517 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,920 Speaker 5: you an opportunity to make Jesus the lord of your life. 518 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:16,880 Speaker 5: Would you pray with me? 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