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Speaker 1: I called my coworker out for calling me her work husband.

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Speaker 1: She says it was just a joke, maybe it was serious.

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Speaker 1: I thirty four male, work in a small office and

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Speaker 1: is one of my coworkers. We have been working together

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Speaker 1: department and we have to frequently travel across the state

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Speaker 1: as our work involves overseeing government projects. We always travel

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Speaker 1: in a group of two. This is put an ICU

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Speaker 1: and me.

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Speaker 2: Are we doing husband wife activities outside of work?

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm I mean, dude, this is I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Although my travel partner changes based on the project, Mary

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Speaker 1: and I are generally put on similar projects and enjoy

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Speaker 1: each other's company.

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Speaker 3: Humpy uh uh.

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Speaker 1: My wife also likes Mary. Overall, we have a very

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Speaker 1: healthy work relationship and this comes from work.

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Speaker 3: Sister what is he for?

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Speaker 1: Three to four from a bo ru updates subredditch shout

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Speaker 1: out So you like my read?

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Speaker 3: So onto the incident.

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Speaker 1: Yesterday, we had a happy hour in our office and

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Speaker 1: we were all drinking after work hours and chatting. It

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Speaker 1: was a group of around ten people that stayed back.

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Speaker 1: Mary had been blabbering about how we had both been

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Speaker 1: traveling so much in the last year. She was roasting

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Speaker 1: in my hotel room, being sweaty and stinky when I

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 1: Everyone was laughing and she was making it sound how

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Speaker 3: All in good fun. I think that's it seems like

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Speaker 3: that's not an issue yet. But you know who else

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Speaker 3: would probably do all that in good fun?

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Speaker 2: A wife, oh, a wife, wife or something.

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Speaker 1: I told some funny and sweet stories about her and

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Speaker 3: Saying that I can be difficult sometimes.

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Speaker 1: Mary came to me and hugged me tightly and told

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Speaker 1: me that she loves me. I am her work husband.

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Speaker 3: He's super drunk right now, super drunk right now.

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Speaker 1: It was all innocent on the surface. Yeah, she has

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Speaker 1: had a few drinks after hours.

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Speaker 3: That's a good poor drinks.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, maybe not an excuse but context, But she might

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Speaker 1: have had but she might have been a bit drunk

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Speaker 1: and just didn't let go of her tight hug. Also,

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Speaker 1: I hate the phrase, as I do have a wife

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Speaker 3: Boom, we got a faithful king in the building. This

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Speaker 3: isn't severance. Uh uh no, this isn't work life here,

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Speaker 3: home life here. Incorrect. You know how many more families

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Speaker 3: I would be if that was true?

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Speaker 1: Dude's second families. But it's like, you can't fault them, can't.

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Speaker 1: You can't fault them. But context severed is where you

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Speaker 1: It's like a show where they work brain and life.

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Speaker 1: Brain is literally separate.

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Speaker 3: They don't know, they don't know what is happening, literally

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Speaker 3: two different people. Great show. Thanks for Riley.

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Speaker 1: First, I guessing that after a few seconds, I started

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Speaker 1: becoming uncomfortable and also saw a few people staring at us.

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Speaker 1: So to the fuse, So to diffuse the situation, I

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Speaker 1: to annoy her so much.

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Speaker 3: Fact she move right there. I like that, dude, that because.

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Speaker 1: You're like still being like fun and not being like

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Speaker 1: but also that, wow, that was I would only use

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Speaker 1: the work. Why thing is if I am crushing on

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Speaker 1: the girl I'm working with. Yes, it's sort of like, ooh,

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, like.

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Speaker 1: That's my works husband, you know, and I say work husband,

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Speaker 1: but but it's okay.

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Speaker 2: But I definitely have a work like Sophi's my work sister. Yes,

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Speaker 2: there was a piss out of me. So she's awesome

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Speaker 2: work where she's she's the best sometimes this guy sometimes.

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Speaker 2: So this seemed to have upset Mary, and she left

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Speaker 3: Oh it struck a nerve yo, because she's like, no wife.

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Speaker 1: I tried to apologize to her but told but she

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Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, I don't. Yeah, what are you supposed to do?

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Speaker 3: I'm not with her.

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Speaker 1: Also, again, she's a few drinks in after the work

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Speaker 3: Then left and let go the stumbo she let oh this.

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Speaker 1: Time, I felt really guilty afterwards, because I can see

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Speaker 1: Mary's point. I made her sound like a creep by

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Speaker 1: her work husband. However, I was a bit uncomfortable in

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Speaker 1: us that or assume something wrong. Am I the ahole

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Speaker 1: for calling Mary my work sister? I am sitting in

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Speaker 1: embarrassed Mary in front of everyone. We have an update.

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Speaker 1: It's five days later, but we have to talk for

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Speaker 3: Do you think I think? Okay?

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Speaker 1: So generally I'm on the side of like the person

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Speaker 1: also honey beaty, I've said she wants him bad.

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Speaker 1: Think honestly, kudos to op one. I think you think

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Speaker 1: it handled it okay. Honestly I think so because I

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Speaker 1: I could see. I could see basically what it seems

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Speaker 1: what happened, which was when she was like work husband, hug,

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Speaker 3: It wasn't from just the hug, the things before that too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the work husband, I love you, and the hug

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Speaker 3: But I think it's just in such a gray area

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Speaker 1: Think, Ope, you know, in the moment when you're trying

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you definitely felt shut down, I would say.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean when she was teasing him, Oh, you always

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Speaker 3: Yeah, i'd love you. You're my work husband. Yeah, there's do

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Speaker 3: you feel that there's feelings here?

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Speaker 1: I think I think she has feeling Honestly to me,

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Speaker 1: it was the crying afterwards. I think, I think is

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Speaker 1: he's rejecting my like light advances. Yeah you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, because maybe she wants something more. Bethany says

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Speaker 1: she was totally inappropriate for work setting a work relation. Actually, yes, Bethany,

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Speaker 1: thank you. Let's do a poll inappropriate or not inappropriate

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Speaker 1: or not? Because I do think it is too much. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know it's spelled it uh in I I

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Speaker 1: n n oh. Bethanye's comment was, I literally just misspelled

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Speaker 3: Wow. Yeah, Riley's putting that pull up.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm I'm super curious because I think it

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Speaker 3: All together mis spelled it.

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Speaker 1: It's all good, all good. No, I think it's spelled

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Speaker 1: but I I don't know, we'll see. I'm I'm super

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Speaker 1: curious to see the votes.

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Speaker 4: But I feel she has feelings and being with someone

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Speaker 4: for six years, so I feel like our relationship is

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Speaker 4: different because I love my dog.

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Speaker 3: You know, I love this man to death.

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Speaker 2: But they work in government being pared, and two's all

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Speaker 1: Like I could see, I could see being that. Could

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Speaker 1: you scroll up a little bit? Uh, she got put

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Speaker 1: back in her place. That's why she's upset. She was

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Speaker 3: Shut it down. So she got that. Yeah, I think

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Speaker 1: I think that's a really good conspiracy theory on what's happening.

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Speaker 3: Probably what's happening. But guys, let's get into the update.

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Speaker 1: Five days later, I posted this on about calling my

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Speaker 1: A lot of you are asking for an update, but

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Speaker 1: that sub doesn't allow me to post one, so I'm

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Speaker 1: to put an end cap on what I was saying earlier,

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Speaker 1: I think you trying to get out of a situation

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Speaker 1: where you're uncomfortable you're allowed to do.

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Speaker 3: You know, there's there's a lot.

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Speaker 1: to feel comfortable, but I diggress. As I was sitting

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Speaker 1: Initially I was planning to go and to apologize to her,

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Speaker 1: who was offended. Everyone in the office could see that

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Speaker 1: we were acting weird, and I heard some people gossiping

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Speaker 1: and asked, if I want to talk about Mary and me.

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Speaker 3: Oh dude, this is a nosy office. Oh no, dude,

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Speaker 3: this is nosy. Can you blame them? Though it is juicy,

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Speaker 3: the tea is hot.

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Speaker 1: Georgette Cooper says, I've had several male coworkers that I

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Speaker 1: was close with, but we didn't hug each other at all.

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Speaker 3: We would refer to each other as spellmates. Okay, that's funny.

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Speaker 1: See's that I feel like if she was trying to

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Speaker 1: humorous way of going about it, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: she feels humiliated and everyone has been staring at her

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Speaker 3: Because of what I did. What I did? You did?

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Speaker 1: I also stood by ground and told her that I

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Speaker 3: And she's like, well let me find out. Oh uh oh.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that not today. Maybe like what's my favorite color?

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Speaker 2: If you know me, guys.

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Speaker 1: That's maybe the only place I would say, Opie, I

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Speaker 3: Me more intimately than even my wife. Answer my question,

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Speaker 1: I have no idea why she feels that way, and

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Speaker 3: It's like a meeting.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, sorry, I insist on doing a meeting.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Riley, I know that.

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Speaker 1: Our daily sinks are really intimate. You know when I'm

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Speaker 1: She also talked about how we spend hours talking to

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Speaker 2: Dude, Okay, I have friends like this, well like a

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Speaker 3: I just sit there and listen. Yeah, yes, you know.

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Speaker 1: What I mean, because you're showing them just a molecule

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and they're a little bit empathy and they're like,

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Speaker 1: She said that I am the definition of a work husband,

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Speaker 3: Boom, dropping the hammer.

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Speaker 1: I told her I do not want to hear that

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Speaker 3: Yo.

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Speaker 1: Honestly at this point, Newpole, uh, maybe like work breakup?

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Speaker 1: Like do they basically try to sever as many ties

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Speaker 1: She again said that I am misinterpreting her statement and

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Speaker 3: We have another update from two months later.

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Speaker 2: I would probably just go to HR right now and

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Speaker 2: give him a little heads up. Yes, I like a

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Speaker 2: formal complaint. Just hey, by the way, this happened, I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to put in a formal play. Yeah. Like,

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Speaker 1: I don't want her to like punish or anything right now,

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Speaker 1: like this happened, I told you at this date, yes,

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Speaker 1: point playing period. I think that's a great idea. One

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Speaker 2: Any predictions. I say this is my honest prediction. Yes, sir,

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Speaker 2: Mary doesn't do anything else. He put contact between him

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Speaker 2: and they just don't work it together anymore. Like this

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Speaker 2: is the only incident Mary's done. She's hurt, she's figured

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, Mary like it on me, big boy.

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Speaker 1: He makes another move, makes another move, and this time

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Speaker 3: You know, it's a flirt. A flirt? Is it like

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Speaker 1: I like you, let's step it up and looking pretty

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Speaker 1: that to me, But let's read the update. Two months

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Speaker 1: later after my last post, my wife and I were

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Speaker 3: With Mary's behavior.

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Speaker 1: There we go, Although part of me thought I was

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Speaker 3: Dude, oh oh, he's ahead of this, he's doing the playbook.

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Speaker 1: I wrote down everything and told him about the incident

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Speaker 3: I made it.

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Speaker 1: Clear that while I do not want them to take

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Speaker 3: Wow? Look at us, kind of like we are the best?

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Speaker 3: We do this for a living, Like we do it

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Speaker 1: I wanted to emphasize that her behavior made me uncomfortable,

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Speaker 3: Uh oh.

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Speaker 1: My manager had already heard about the incident at the

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Speaker 1: Of course, he told me he would try to shake

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Speaker 3: The issue was that.

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Speaker 5: Only four people in our company, and our company.

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Speaker 1: Generally work on offside audits, and the other two coworkers

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Speaker 3: As a result, I.

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Speaker 1: I'm almost thinking at this point, it's like so bad

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Speaker 1: It's it's sad and unfair to the other group.

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Speaker 3: But I don't know. Maybe not. My manager then.

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Speaker 1: Called Marrying Me to his office and informed us that

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Speaker 1: I see you in the comments. Is there an ice

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Speaker 3: Dude? Everyone just falls in love with Opine. I can't

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Speaker 3: help it because he's such a good husband. Dude, right

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Speaker 3: they I want that? Oh my god?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 1: And they set up a work schedule where she, Carolina,

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Speaker 3: To get too comfortable with her.

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Speaker 1: I always dressed professionally when we went for breakfasts, avoided

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Speaker 3: Things were great until until last week. Ah yeah, why

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Speaker 3: can't we win?

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Speaker 1: No, there's always in until, there's always a bye, there's

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Speaker 1: always a wait, there's all the right things.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, it can't. We can't win. We cannot

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Speaker 1: Last Tuesday, I could feel everyone staring at me when

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Speaker 3: Called to a meeting with my manager in HR.

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Speaker 1: HR asked if I had anything to report regarding Carolina

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Speaker 1: and she may and if she made any advances toward

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Speaker 3: And they told me they couldn't disclose any further detail.

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Speaker 3: Put that ic you in the comments and say what

443
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:50,920
Speaker 3: you think. The ICU is, what do we think is

444
00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:52,200
Speaker 3: happening here? I think God?

445
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:57,920
Speaker 1: Mary Bethany says, Mary isn't done punishing yet. The hammer

446
00:21:57,960 --> 00:22:07,080
Speaker 1: returns if I can't have them, no, dude, But they

447
00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 1: said that Carolina was being investigated by HR for inappropriate conduct.

448
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,640
Speaker 1: I left the meeting and Mary came into my office,

449
00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 1: asking what had happened. She mentioned she was also told

450
00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:22,840
Speaker 1: Carolina would no longer be traveling with us, that we

451
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:26,040
Speaker 1: were asked to travel together again. I told her I

452
00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:29,760
Speaker 1: had no idea what was going on. I messaged Carolina

453
00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:31,520
Speaker 1: to see if she was okay and if she needed

454
00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:31,920
Speaker 1: to talk.

455
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:33,280
Speaker 3: She asked if she.

456
00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:37,000
Speaker 1: Could come to my office and I agreed. Carolina explained

457
00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:41,960
Speaker 1: that someone anonymously anonymously sent messages to her boyfriend posing

458
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:45,560
Speaker 1: as someone from the office over the weekend. The message

459
00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:49,520
Speaker 1: included screenshots of Carolina sending some inappropriate pictures she had

460
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:54,560
Speaker 1: taken in her hotel rooms during our travels and flirtatious messages.

461
00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:58,960
Speaker 5: What is going on here? This person claimed to be

462
00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:02,760
Speaker 5: her boyfriend and Carolina was trying to cheat with him

463
00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:05,359
Speaker 5: at work and he was just trying to warn them.

464
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:09,320
Speaker 5: Her boyfriend went crazy after seeing the pictures, ghosted her

465
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 5: and sent then sent the messages to HR as revenge.

466
00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 5: Carolina was in tears, telling me she had only taken

467
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:19,240
Speaker 5: those pictures for her boyfriend and had no idea how

468
00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:24,400
Speaker 5: they got leaked or how those messages even exis. Guys,

469
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 5: this is this is beyond diabolical. Oh my God, you

470
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:30,320
Speaker 5: see what I'm seeing right?

471
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:36,160
Speaker 3: Yeah? Mary is the devil she literal. This is insane.

472
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 3: Holy cow.

473
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 1: Her boyfriend was furious because he also received the exact

474
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:46,119
Speaker 1: pictures from Carolina and knew they weren't fake. I consold Carolina,

475
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:49,560
Speaker 1: but she's in deep trouble. As our workplace takes such

476
00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:53,360
Speaker 1: things very seriously because we work on government contracts, and

477
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 1: I'm sure everyone suspects I am the anonymous. I was

478
00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 1: told that the matter would be investigated and Mary and

479
00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:02,400
Speaker 1: I would be working together on the project.

480
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:07,440
Speaker 3: Again. Dude, this is crazy. This is some movie level

481
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 3: stuff right here. You're real. My manager said there was

482
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 3: nothing he could do, and also mentioned that they might

483
00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 3: go through my emails and messaged on my company phone

484
00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:19,680
Speaker 3: as part of the investigation into Carolina.

485
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 2: Dude, when you just go ahead and say here it is, oh,

486
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:24,680
Speaker 2: of course, like check it, here goes.

487
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 3: You've got nothing to hide. Here's my question. Let's do

488
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:31,239
Speaker 3: a poll. Do you uh?

489
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,399
Speaker 1: Do you go to HR and be like, I think, Mary,

490
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:36,399
Speaker 1: did you expose Mary or not?

491
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:40,320
Speaker 3: I think if? Okay, here's my thing. This is such

492
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 3: a crazy mind game.

493
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:46,119
Speaker 2: If Mary, because I would say they've been together for

494
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:49,119
Speaker 2: six years. Mary and Opie like working together. I know

495
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:54,679
Speaker 2: your passwords. Do you think that Mary knows OHP's passwords

496
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:58,960
Speaker 2: and she plants some stuff? You think she has that

497
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:02,640
Speaker 2: ability to do well? So possibly, But here's the weird thing.

498
00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:08,640
Speaker 3: That it was. How did she get because she's yes,

499
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 3: she can hack into she hacked.

500
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:14,200
Speaker 2: It to Carolina's phone and I personated as a boyfriend.

501
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 2: It seems yeah, I get okay, So yeah, I guess like,

502
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 2: if you could hack into one, you could hack into both.

503
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 2: And okay, she's probably in government. I have an uncle

504
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 2: lit's in government and I know he does it stuff. Yeah,

505
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 2: you probably can hack into anything.

506
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:28,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

507
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:32,200
Speaker 1: Oh, miss Jabers says Carolina putting naughty picks on her

508
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 1: company phone, which is a no no.

509
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:36,919
Speaker 3: Which is probably true. It probably was the company phone,

510
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:38,640
Speaker 3: which is crazy.

511
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 1: Mary seems very happy about the whole situation and keeps

512
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 1: talking about how she is excited to revisit the restaurants

513
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 1: and bars we used to frequent during offside trips. She also, dude,

514
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:54,439
Speaker 1: this is just the cherry on the evil cake. She

515
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:59,360
Speaker 1: also keeps referring to Carolina as the pervert. Dude, the

516
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:03,440
Speaker 1: whole thing is just crazy my wife, of course, believes

517
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 1: that I would never do anything inappropriate with Carolina and

518
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:09,920
Speaker 1: that I wasn't the anonymous messenger. However, her conspiracy theory

519
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:13,640
Speaker 1: is that Mary, who is also traveling with Carolina, may

520
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 1: have unlocked her phone and access to photos. It feels

521
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 1: far fetched, but the fact is.

522
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:21,240
Speaker 3: I am not thrilled about traveling with Mary. Again.

523
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 1: I don't think we have any other recourse to get

524
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:28,200
Speaker 1: off this project except leaving the job, which isn't possible

525
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:30,400
Speaker 1: at this time. I know many of you work in HR,

526
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:33,199
Speaker 1: and I would really appreciate any advice on what I

527
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:38,199
Speaker 1: can do next. Wow, Okay, this is Oh, this is

528
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 1: a little insane.

529
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:45,879
Speaker 3: Mary did it? I mean, duh, there's there cannot be

530
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 3: a way Mary did it? For sure?

531
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:52,639
Speaker 2: Dude, Yeah, how can you freaking prove it?

532
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 3: Though? How So that's the tricky thing. So everyone's one

533
00:26:57,119 --> 00:27:00,960
Speaker 3: hundred percent voting, which.

534
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:04,920
Speaker 1: I totally understand, like he should go to HR.

535
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 3: The question is how can you prove it?

536
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 1: And if by doing this do you make things worse

537
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:19,399
Speaker 1: all around for all of the innocent people involved, then

538
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:25,159
Speaker 1: because you low key you look guilty by saying like

539
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:28,879
Speaker 1: because everyone suspects it's him, right, so you look guilty,

540
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:29,879
Speaker 1: be like, oh no, no, no, no.

541
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,399
Speaker 3: It was it was it was her. It was Mary.

542
00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:36,200
Speaker 3: She orchestrated the whole thing. Like it looks like he's

543
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:38,480
Speaker 3: just trying to get back at Mary for that whole

544
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 3: you know, I don't know. It's oh bro, what.

545
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 2: People are going? Y Like, I'm looking at Ope's comments

546
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:48,919
Speaker 2: on Reddit. Yeah, and people are downvoting a lot of

547
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:53,400
Speaker 2: its comments. Oh P's comments, they're down like negative four

548
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 2: hundred and thirty two down votes. Yes, I'm going to

549
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:58,440
Speaker 2: keep my guard up during the work trips. Do they

550
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:02,320
Speaker 2: really do downvote this? I'm confused. Yeah, that's a little crazy.

551
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 3: I don't know how downloads work. Yeah, that's yeah.

552
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:11,160
Speaker 1: I'm going to be honest, I don't know at this point,

553
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 1: while Mary deserves it, if OPI should go to HR

554
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:19,159
Speaker 1: because will that just make things worse? You know what

555
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:22,439
Speaker 1: I honestly think Opie should do at this point just

556
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 1: start the job search immediately to try and see if

557
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 1: you can leave. Because imagine he has to go on

558
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 1: workships with this person all the time. I have to

559
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:37,159
Speaker 1: imagine that is way less enjoyable than going to a

560
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 1: new place. And yes, you know it's a new place.

561
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,959
Speaker 1: He probably loved the job before and all this stuff.

562
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 1: You know, he's been there for six years, but like,

563
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:47,720
Speaker 1: at this point in time, are you really better off

564
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 1: staying there or going to a new.

565
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 3: Place where these issues don't exist.

566
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 1: I think that's probably the move and totally totally understandable

567
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,480
Speaker 1: that he's like, he's like, I can't do it this time.

568
00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 1: Maybe he doesn't have the savings or like, you know,

569
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 1: whatever the case might be. I could totally see multiple

570
00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 1: scenarios where it's like he can't just like you know,

571
00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 1: snap his fingers.

572
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:07,080
Speaker 3: Up like that.

573
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I would say, start the process so you

574
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 1: can leave as soon as you reasonably can.

575
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 3: Is this gonna get worse?

576
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 1: I think it's gonna get worse. And I think like

577
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 1: more things could happen, like does.

578
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 3: If Mary does this to Carolina, what is she gonna

579
00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 3: do to you? And what is she gonna do to

580
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 3: your why?

581
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 1: Also, you know, it's something I've never really understood or known.

582
00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 1: Is there like in like big companies and stuff like that,

583
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: the same way how you can get like a you

584
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:35,160
Speaker 1: can have on.

585
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 3: Your record like oh you got a warning or you

586
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 3: were arrested.

587
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 1: Like by by like the actual justice system is there

588
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 1: the same thing for like like work related stuff where

589
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 1: it's like there's like a on your record, Yeah, on

590
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 1: your record, or when you do a background check, you know,

591
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 1: does it show up or does it?

592
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 3: Is it only like okay?

593
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 2: Yes for Mary because she's worked there for six years

594
00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 2: and if she so let's say they catch Mary, yeah,

595
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 2: they fire her.

596
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 3: Yes, it goes down really bad.

597
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 2: How is she going to be able to explain a

598
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 2: six year gap if she doesn't feel comfortable using them

599
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:09,720
Speaker 2: as a reference.

600
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that it's like, yeah, you're you're you're damned

601
00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 1: if you do, damned if you don't, because like either

602
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:18,320
Speaker 1: you took a six year gap, it didn't work at all,

603
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 1: or we call the place where you you know, were

604
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: just trying to get with this guy and did this

605
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 1: insane Yeah, I am honestly, even though one hundred percent

606
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 1: of chatt is saying go to HR, which again idea,

607
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 1: in the ideal world, you absolutely should do. That is

608
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:34,239
Speaker 1: what Mary deserves. And I do believe that Mary did it.

609
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 1: I don't think we have enough. Maybe maybe look for

610
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:40,360
Speaker 1: some clues and trying to see if you can solve

611
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 1: it to bring the case to h R. But I

612
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:46,479
Speaker 1: would probably just look for a job and leave Briley.

613
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 1: What's your final say before we can.

614
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, the petty me would try to prove yeah, that

615
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 2: Caroline is innocent and try to get the other person fired.

616
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 2: If I got bored, if I'm that bored of work,

617
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 2: I would be like, all right, figure this out. But

618
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 2: I would probably do what you're doing, because if you

619
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 2: do give it attention, then it's like you're playing with

620
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 2: Mary's mind games and the wife's probably not on board

621
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 2: with that.

622
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 1: I would get out of there a sab Although what

623
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 1: you just said made me rethink something. Okay, Carolina is innocent.

624
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 1: If one positive byproduct of trying to expose Mary is

625
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 1: it would show that Carolina was indeed innocent, So he could, like,

626
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 1: you know, save an innocent and his friend.

627
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:32,960
Speaker 5: You know, he's like, oh she was great, Like she

628
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 5: was a good friend.

629
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 1: So you know, do you kind of like stay in

630
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:42,560
Speaker 1: risk exposing it, which also saves Carolina, who's probably innocent

631
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 1: if we're if we're correct, if we're assuming we're corrected.

632
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 1: She doesn't Dude, this is really a tough cookie. I

633
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:50,920
Speaker 1: still think you go, we're dealing with a stalker. Yes,

634
00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 1: we're dealing with a stalk. Dealing with a maniac right

635
00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 1: here that knows how to hack that.

636
00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 3: He never think someone.

637
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 1: You could know everything about me online, although I think

638
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:04,600
Speaker 1: maybe it was just a case of literally her phone

639
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 1: was just laying her up.

640
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 3: What do you saying? Everything everything? He's not hack me?

641
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 1: I think, Uh yeah, I'm still going save Caroline, all right, neopole, newpoopole.

642
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:18,240
Speaker 3: Let's go. Let's go. What do we got? Dave Carolina

643
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 3: or get out?

644
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 1: Dave Carolina or get out man. It's a it's a

645
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 1: tough one. Yeah, run up the vote on this one

646
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 1: before we get to the next story.

647
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 3: But yeah, it it.

648
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 1: It sucks, and hopefully along the way it either gets

649
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 1: naturally exposed or you do maybe find some evidence like

650
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:40,920
Speaker 1: in just like not pursuing it. Hopeful the ideal scenario

651
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 1: would be it just gets exposed naturally and you don't

652
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 1: have to like put you know, yourself, your job, anything

653
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 1: else at risk for it. It sucks so much because

654
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 1: like he again, he also looks bad. Also, this is

655
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 1: the only update. This was updated sixteen hours ago, so

656
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 1: we have the latest update.

657
00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:00,719
Speaker 3: There's more, There's not more. This is the latest up there.

658
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 1: Oh this is yeah. Literally as of sixteen hours ago.

659
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 1: The latest that we got everyone is saying, still save Carolina.

660
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 3: Okay. We got one that says get out. Yep, yeah, one.

661
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 3: We got one person saying the easy.

662
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Speaker 2: Thing, okay, easy thing is to get out. The angel

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Speaker 2: thing is to save Carolina.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that is the angel move. But you're putting yourself

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Speaker 1: at risk for a scenario.

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Speaker 3: That to lose your job, to lose your wife. That

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Speaker 3: it's not his fault. It's not your fault. You know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know that he's los his wife, but I

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Speaker 3: think work wise it it.

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Speaker 2: I would say, if you go down this road to

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Speaker 2: try to save Carolina, you could be the wife could

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Speaker 2: see things like, oh are you why are you having

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Speaker 2: interest in Carolina?

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Speaker 3: Why? Why are you putting it on the line for her?

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Speaker 3: That's that's true.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so there's some possible stuff there too. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is this is crazy. Okay, now remorse. But what

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Speaker 1: twenty one twenty four percent are saying get out, But still,

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Speaker 1: you know, vast majority are saying save Rolina. Wingles said

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Speaker 1: he should have maked a written statement in balance. That's

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Speaker 1: actually an interesting idea, kind of like the middle ground

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Speaker 1: between both. Nikky says, if he leaves, he will look

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Speaker 1: guilty all the way around.

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Speaker 3: Oh so that's another good point, bro, You literally can't win.

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Speaker 1: Terrey Campill says, Honestly, if Carolina leaves or has to

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Speaker 1: get fired, that isa saving her from a terrible environment.

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Speaker 3: I mean, fair enough.

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Speaker 1: Hopefully if she can find a job, you know, I

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Speaker 1: mean it might end up being worse. Bethany says, unless

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Speaker 1: he gets evidence about Mary being involved, how can he

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Speaker 1: save Carolina? That's my thing is like, as of this juncture,

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Speaker 1: we have really nothing to prove it other than kind

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Speaker 1: of like laying out the story in a way where

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Speaker 1: I mean like we read the story and that's a

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Speaker 1: conclusion we came to. But I could see R in

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Speaker 1: HRS defense being like, hey, look it sounds bad, but

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Speaker 1: we don't have any conclusive evidence.

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Speaker 3: So we don't want to have evidence.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like we don't want to accidentally punish someone who's

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Speaker 1: the only thing we have evidence of is her text

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Speaker 1: and shit what she did with with the work phone

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Speaker 1: and like all this other stuff.

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Speaker 3: Tricky story, wild story, guys. This is this is this

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Speaker 3: is crazy bananas. This is great