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Speaker 1: Sugarl Roy and the cold and you are tuned in

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Speaker 1: to another episode of.

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Speaker 2: Mind where a drunk mind speaks sober what's up?

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Speaker 1: Girl?

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Speaker 2: Were finally home girl, finally Lord have me? We was

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Speaker 2: gone for so long? Yes, like okay, so I was

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Speaker 2: so happy to sleep in my bed last night. Ass

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Speaker 2: so to give y'all just a little rundown and everything.

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Speaker 2: We went to Nashville on my birthday.

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Speaker 1: On your birthday, you had to work on your birthday.

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Speaker 1: It was fun out y'all because a pop up shop

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Speaker 1: was fun. We had a pop up shop.

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Speaker 2: We had a pop up shop the next day. The

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Speaker 2: pop up shop was fun. We had went out to

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Speaker 2: eat that Friday when we got there. This was an experience,

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Speaker 2: was a very interesting experience.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to bomb.

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Speaker 2: It was very It was one of those dinners where

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Speaker 2: like they bring up this like plate that's very intricate

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Speaker 2: and nice and modern, and.

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Speaker 1: The food like this. Yeah, it's like he's beat.

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Speaker 2: But I'm not gonna lie. We had like twelve of

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Speaker 2: those dishes coming. It's just some interesting stuff that came out.

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Speaker 2: Like we had this one appetizer I guess you could

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Speaker 2: call it where it was like oysters with dipping dots

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Speaker 2: on it. Yeah, and we did so many episodes in LA.

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Speaker 2: I don't remember if we talked about these already.

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Speaker 1: No we haven't. We haven't. Okay, we didn't talk about it. No, okay, cool.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, so it was like, that's interesting because I mean,

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Speaker 2: that's a combination I would never thing to try.

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Speaker 2: Like after having the twelfth like the twelve plates, like

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Speaker 2: we was full. You're really full, even though the things

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Speaker 2: the entrees, didn't have no beans. And the only thing

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Speaker 1: Fucking hot sauce.

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Speaker 2: Like, yeah, I ain't got no hot sauce in this

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Speaker 2: be Remember she brought me some little pipple flakes, but

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Speaker 1: She needed the sauce.

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Speaker 2: I was looking for the beans. He was looking for

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Speaker 2: the hot sauce. That was the only takeaway. I'm about

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Speaker 2: to start being on my beance. She I be saying

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Speaker 2: carrying like the little mini bottles of Tabasco or something.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, sometimes I'll be having a little mini purse.

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Speaker 2: So that Beliciaga bag is literally this. Did you see

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Speaker 2: Jordan had posted he talking about I think Drea Ca

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Speaker 2: has the smallest perse ever, and he put a hookah

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Speaker 1: It's very very small, and that little gun. Why do

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Speaker 3: I like Minnie bag so they be cute to me.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I don't need nothing in there in

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Speaker 1: At least you came home first. Well, I was home

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Speaker 1: for one night.

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Speaker 2: You came, but you came to Atlanta for one night.

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Speaker 2: I literally went straight from Atlanta, I mean not Atlanta,

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Speaker 2: We having big ass, fucking checking bags that we had

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Speaker 2: It was just homage, like I'm so happy to be

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Speaker 1: I hate checking bags. You know that's crazy because people

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Speaker 2: We put all our designer stuff in our carry on

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Speaker 3: I checked, because I ain't about to catch my slipping.

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Speaker 1: I said that you can take all that fashion.

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Speaker 2: Over, but this Louis, We're saying, oh man, we can

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Speaker 1: That'll be like, who's been thresting in this motherfucker me?

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Speaker 1: But yeah, l like that was fun.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but after a while I was definitely ready to go.

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Speaker 2: Oh the time change was fucked up, Like it was crazy.

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Speaker 2: But besides that, I have a quick story. So this

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Speaker 2: So remember when I told you, like we could not

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Speaker 2: find a beauty supply that was like in our area

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Speaker 3: Now you had told me the name of one, but

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so it's called Sora Beauty Supply. If you're

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Speaker 2: It literally has every Laura Sora. Yes, so it's off

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Speaker 2: So anyways, I like this beauty supply because it's given

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Speaker 1: It has like the bad bitch last year. You gonna

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Speaker 2: Cause you know't have Sometimes you go in the beauty

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Speaker 2: like it just what some of them they just don't

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Speaker 1: They still got the doctor pepper lip gloss and shit, bitch,

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Speaker 2: So anyways, I always go to this beauty supply every

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Speaker 1: What happened to your lily last year? You got in

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Speaker 2: Anyways, So I walk into the beauty supply and a

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Speaker 1: She walks around the count She was like, are you LEXI?

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Speaker 2: She was like, oh my god, I listened to the show. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I immediately thought like, oh, and Dre when you get

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Speaker 1: Carrie, that's a good idea. It'll be a Sore Beauty

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Speaker 2: So it was funny because ty Here so here's here today,

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Speaker 2: Oh, I said, I know, he said, I know he

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Speaker 2: know y'all be interested in like how me and Drea's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we working on it for sure, because we've been

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Speaker 2: saying we was gonna blog. No I know, but I'm like,

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Speaker 2: But it's okay for a father to not want I

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Speaker 2: at like you got a different position, because if we

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Speaker 2: said that, if a man tells you he doesn't want

441
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Speaker 2: you to have his baby, you should not have the baby.

442
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Speaker 1: I agree with that, but stop fucking these girls raw.

443
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Speaker 2: If I agreeing somebody raw, you should be like, could

444
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Speaker 2: this be the mother of my children?

445
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Speaker 1: Period? At this age that I'm at now, I'm not

446
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Speaker 1: letting give me that.

447
00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:46,040
Speaker 2: I feel like if I had a baby by this man,

448
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Speaker 2: would I'll be okay with it, I agree, But when

449
00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:52,399
Speaker 2: you get pregnant, you have to carry a child for

450
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Speaker 2: nine months. You have at least three months to decide

451
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Speaker 2: whether or not you want to terminate.

452
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Speaker 1: Is not the way shit going down. That's very true.

453
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Speaker 1: My kids upstairs like, yeah, bitch, you can't send no

454
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Speaker 1: mother us up your home. They happy, Yeah, bitch role

455
00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:11,080
Speaker 1: versus way on your ass.

456
00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:14,879
Speaker 2: Saying it is fags, because why are we trying to

457
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Speaker 2: abolish birth control?

458
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Speaker 1: Now? Motherfucker?

459
00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:20,320
Speaker 2: Now you're giving to my personal life. Yeah, I gotta

460
00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:22,399
Speaker 2: watch seeing this. I mean, even I'm going on and

461
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Speaker 2: even though we both said on the show that we

462
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Speaker 2: don't take birth control, I'm just trying to understand, like

463
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Speaker 2: why are they trying to get rid of birth control?

464
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Speaker 3: Like what is the common goal here?

465
00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:34,960
Speaker 2: I there is, there's something underlying that has nothing to

466
00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:37,080
Speaker 2: population control?

467
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Speaker 1: You think, so, yes, they want more of us. Say,

468
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Speaker 1: I'm kid, you just said the birthway loll it is,

469
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Speaker 1: But y'all don't want me to be careful? What your

470
00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:50,520
Speaker 1: asks for now? Motherfuckers? What's that hap again? They gonna

471
00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:52,840
Speaker 1: be like, all right, let's bring it all back playing.

472
00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:56,879
Speaker 2: I si me food because my head gonna be a fool.

473
00:19:57,160 --> 00:20:00,600
Speaker 2: I already know I'm weak, But yes, I think that

474
00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:03,320
Speaker 2: the pressure to have kids is it needs to be

475
00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:06,479
Speaker 2: just dialed back one to zero. I think we need

476
00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:08,879
Speaker 2: to stop having these conversations with women judging them and

477
00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:11,119
Speaker 2: while they don't have kids. We need to stop police

478
00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:15,080
Speaker 2: see women's bodies. That's already like I feel like if

479
00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:18,080
Speaker 2: a man doesn't have kids, he's looked at like a catch, like,

480
00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:20,560
Speaker 2: oh shit, girl, he ain't got no kids. I just

481
00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:23,399
Speaker 2: his mama, Like it's a good look. But if a

482
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Speaker 2: woman's a certain age she don't have kids, the first

483
00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:28,080
Speaker 2: thought is what's wrong with her? And I'm just over

484
00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:33,040
Speaker 2: that conversation. I think it needs to stop. And I mean, well,

485
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Speaker 2: I feel like it starts though, like I mean, wish

486
00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:37,399
Speaker 2: obviously that's not gonna happen, but it starts with like

487
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Speaker 2: the older generations, cause I feel like I've been getting

488
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Speaker 2: a lot of pressure from my old ass family members

489
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Speaker 2: to have kids.

490
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Speaker 1: Right, I mean my means I don't have a baby.

491
00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:49,359
Speaker 1: That is your family and that be like and you.

492
00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:51,800
Speaker 2: So beautiful, Like I mean, I know you can't get

493
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Speaker 2: a man.

494
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Speaker 3: Why you don't have a baby when you gonna have one?

495
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Speaker 3: You just time thirty one.

496
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Speaker 1: The clock is ticking. That's what they favorite, the biological clock.

497
00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:07,520
Speaker 2: And I mean it is if we want to be

498
00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:09,760
Speaker 2: taking a clok for women, you know, we do have

499
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Speaker 2: a window and like men.

500
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Speaker 1: But at the same time.

501
00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:15,720
Speaker 2: I think people should have children when they're fucking ready,

502
00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:18,359
Speaker 2: and it don't need to be a discussion because at

503
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Speaker 2: the end of the day, it's.

504
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Speaker 1: Just my life. I'm the only person that have to

505
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Speaker 1: live this life.

506
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Speaker 2: So whenever people are ready to have children, that's when

507
00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:28,240
Speaker 2: they gonna have them. Or whenever God see fit for

508
00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:29,919
Speaker 2: you to have a baby, that's when you're gonna have them.

509
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Speaker 2: It just needs to stop being pressure like because then

510
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:35,480
Speaker 2: my thing too is like when people try to pressure

511
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Speaker 2: you into having children, no shade or nothing, but a

512
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Speaker 2: lot of those people be struggling because they had kids

513
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Speaker 2: so early.

514
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Speaker 1: Right, That's that's very, very true too.

515
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Speaker 2: And I don't want to say like and I know

516
00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:50,320
Speaker 2: my son is my world, my son is.

517
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Speaker 1: We know is the real man of this house?

518
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Speaker 2: Jayane just want a color, bro like j.

519
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:02,480
Speaker 1: J just want a color and watch.

520
00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:08,560
Speaker 2: Talking about jon Jane outside on the laune she recorded

521
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Speaker 2: my real kids that tied.

522
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Speaker 1: No dead asshole that's long said, pray for j Bro.

523
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Speaker 2: I am fucking weak, but not for real though, Like

524
00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:35,080
Speaker 2: a lot of people who especially people our age, to

525
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Speaker 2: be like, oh, why they don't have kids or they

526
00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:39,320
Speaker 2: need to have some babies, Like but you was struggling

527
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Speaker 2: because you had a baby at sixteen or seventeen or

528
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Speaker 2: twenty one or whatever, and do you really love p

529
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Speaker 2: I'm sure you love your kid, but you probably wish

530
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Speaker 2: that you were able to live your life a little

531
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Speaker 2: more and focus on yourself and really reach some of

532
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Speaker 2: your personal goals that you have for yourself that you

533
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Speaker 2: wasn't able to. So I mean, I just feel like

534
00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:59,159
Speaker 2: people need to stop being the other people busy, right,

535
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Speaker 2: and like the point because I ain't easy's why you

536
00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:03,639
Speaker 2: had when they's sixteen.

537
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Speaker 1: That ain't my busy, right.

538
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:06,640
Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying, going back to the point

539
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Speaker 2: that you said, a lot of people are struggling.

540
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Speaker 1: A lot of people.

541
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Speaker 2: We're struggling as a single person just taking care of ourselves.

542
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Speaker 2: So I think we just need to put other factors

543
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Speaker 2: in perspective, like maybe some people just can't afford to

544
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Speaker 2: have a child right now. Like honestly too, I can't

545
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Speaker 2: afford to have a child right now financially.

546
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Speaker 1: I couldn't afford it.

547
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Speaker 2: For what I want for my kid and how I

548
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:31,879
Speaker 2: was raised and the standards for me, I can't afford

549
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Speaker 2: a child right now.

550
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Speaker 1: I can't and I'm not doing it.

551
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Speaker 2: So it's debatable, But okay, I mean, like I said,

552
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Speaker 2: for my standards for my.

553
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know that's debatable. I was that debatable, bro,

554
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 1: that may go my home.

555
00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 2: I hate people raising kids with fifty thousand dollars make

556
00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:58,760
Speaker 2: it fifty thousand dollars a year.

557
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Speaker 1: That's very debatable that you head whom making fifty thousand

558
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Speaker 1: dollars a year.

559
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:06,399
Speaker 2: I said, if people are raising their children making fifty

560
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,080
Speaker 2: thousand dollars a year, that's debatable that you can't raise

561
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Speaker 2: your child and they have a good light.

562
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Speaker 1: I know I didn't say that.

563
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 2: I said, for me in my world, how I want

564
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:16,200
Speaker 2: to raise my child?

565
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Speaker 1: What do you want to right now? Like I won't

566
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:22,639
Speaker 1: want like my baby gotta pull up? Sixteen, like gotta

567
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:24,680
Speaker 1: pull up or something? Why pull them in the whip

568
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:28,560
Speaker 1: some sir, sixteen, you got a while, I got a while.

569
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Speaker 2: But even when my child is little, like I can't

570
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Speaker 2: be the Louis Vauton Don and I have the Don Junior.

571
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, No, yup yo, I gotta

572
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Speaker 2: have my.

573
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Speaker 1: Book my baby, Louis do.

574
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Speaker 2: I hate when people put their kids in designer when

575
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Speaker 2: they be like super young. My baby growing so fast.

576
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Speaker 2: I want my baby in a Louis Vuitton pull up,

577
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:54,199
Speaker 2: like for birthdays, like for birthdays and stuff. I get it,

578
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:56,879
Speaker 2: but you know, special occasions I get it, but like

579
00:24:57,000 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 2: every day drip down when they be growing drowned.

580
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Speaker 1: My baby gonna be in his first pictures like this

581
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:08,800
Speaker 1: with a chain on. All right, I'm gonna make it.

582
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:10,040
Speaker 1: She gonna be one of them.

583
00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 2: Gon'ta be one of the moms? That's like house some

584
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:17,200
Speaker 2: Instagram and making captures like he made it. No, my diaper.

585
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Speaker 1: Aain is the only thing. Bro.

586
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Speaker 2: I hate that because I seen somebody on Instagram the

587
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Speaker 2: other day, like a popular person who just had a baby,

588
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:27,920
Speaker 2: and they kid got an Instagram and they be posting

589
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 2: captions for the kids, talk about I'm so lucky, you

590
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 2: so lucky that I'm your son?

591
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Speaker 1: What period? Period? But my cap wi my wild though?

592
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 2: Like, what do people be thinking when they be making

593
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Speaker 2: Instagram so for that? I mean, it's cool to make

594
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Speaker 2: an Instagram for your child, but I feel like posting

595
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Speaker 2: like you.

596
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 1: Them is weird. That's gonna be mean. Because this baby

597
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 1: came tall, he came tight.

598
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Speaker 3: You're gonna be doing it.

599
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Speaker 1: Hell yeah, I just said my caption. You missed it.

600
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Speaker 2: Next topic, what a next topic we wanted to talk about?

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Speaker 1: Because I think this is like a release.

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Speaker 2: This is crazy something that most people I think a

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Speaker 2: we wanted to talk about BMI and weight in the

650
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Speaker 2: black community. My mom was a nurse my whole life,

651
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Speaker 2: so she always used to be on my ass growing

652
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Speaker 2: first of all your shorts and you're a small girl.

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Speaker 2: You need to weigh a certain amount. If you get

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Speaker 2: over this amount, you are over your BMI.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: And I used to be like, I don't give a

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Speaker 3: fuck about no BMI, but.

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Speaker 1: Let me define what BMI is. First, Yeah, body mass index.

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Speaker 2: Body mass index a measure that relates body weight too hot.

661
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Speaker 2: BMI is sometimes used to measure total body fat and

662
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Speaker 2: whether a person is at a healthy way. Excess body

663
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Speaker 2: fat is linked to an increased risk of some diseases

664
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Speaker 2: that include heart disease and some cancers also called body

665
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:12,960
Speaker 2: mask in this index. So it's just a way to like,

666
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,920
Speaker 2: you know, put in a ratio. I would say, you

667
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 2: know your height and your weight. So I got some

668
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Speaker 2: statistics here as well. Okay, so we all know that

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Speaker 2: the United States is technically, I want to say, quote unquote,

670
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Speaker 2: the fattest.

671
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 3: An obese country, very very obese.

672
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Speaker 2: To say it kind of nicely, but we're specifically talking

673
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Speaker 2: about the black community today.

674
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Speaker 1: So I want to read some facts. That's really kind

675
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Speaker 1: of wild. Okay. So the first one says.

676
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Speaker 2: African American women have the highest rates of obesity or

677
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 2: being overweight, compared to other groups in the United States.

678
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 2: About four out of five African American women are overweight

679
00:29:54,800 --> 00:30:00,120
Speaker 2: are obese. But this is obese compared to the be

680
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 2: a mine. Yes, okay, well that makes this because we

681
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 2: be thick as fuck?

682
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Speaker 1: Can do they saying we obese? Bitch? We think fum? Okay?

683
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:17,959
Speaker 2: So let me read the second fact. It says, in

684
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Speaker 2: twenty eighteen, non Hispanic blacks were one point three times

685
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Speaker 2: more likely to be obese as compared to.

686
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Speaker 1: Non Hispanic whites. MM so, we one point three more

687
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:32,960
Speaker 1: times to be thicking than Becky. Shout out to Becky,

688
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:33,600
Speaker 1: because we is.

689
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 2: But they be trying to be thick too. That's why

690
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 2: we they be getting them sculptural shots. We know, oh,

691
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 2: we know all about the sculpture pool.

692
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Speaker 1: M h Okay. So read the third one.

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Speaker 2: In twenty eighteen, African American women, we're fifty percent more

694
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Speaker 2: likely to be obese than non Hispanic white women. M so,

695
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Speaker 2: I will say this though, let me be one hundred

696
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 2: percent honest, because I know we like, oh yeah, we think,

697
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 2: we think, we think, and we like to embrace, you know,

698
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 2: being thicker. But I also want to say the reason

699
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:07,160
Speaker 2: that I don't really like these charts because your size

700
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 2: doesn't necessarily mean how healthy you are.

701
00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 1: Absolutely, so let me say this.

702
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 2: And I don't want to really use her as an

703
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 2: example because I feel like people always stole her out there,

704
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 2: but I just want to use her as an example

705
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 2: because she's the person like I know that is like

706
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 2: body positive Lizzo Lizo gets on stage and.

707
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 1: Performs for hours, shaking her ass dancing, and.

708
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:30,040
Speaker 2: These girls that are literally a third of her weight

709
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 2: couldn't do that or keep up.

710
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 1: With her, you know what I'm saying.

711
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 2: So you just because on the outside you look a

712
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:39,040
Speaker 2: certain way doesn't mean that you aren't active and healthy.

713
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Speaker 1: Like people's bodies work differently.

714
00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 2: But I do agree that even myself, we need to

715
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 2: get into gym more ladies, we do. And it's not

716
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 2: all about trying to sculpture by your lose weight. It's

717
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,479
Speaker 2: for your heart. We need to get our heart healthy,

718
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 2: like your heart is a muscle. If you just get

719
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 2: on the treadmill for twenty because I've started doing that.

720
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Speaker 2: I've gotten on the tradmill since I've gotten back from LA,

721
00:31:58,920 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 2: and I'm not doing a lot.

722
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 1: I just get on the treadmill for twenty minutes. Just

723
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 1: get up and move. Get up and move.

724
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 2: Every day, just for a little bit. I'm not saying

725
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:08,959
Speaker 2: you gotta go out there and run five miles. I

726
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 2: hate the gym. I told y'all while back, I was

727
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 2: trying to get into pilates. I kind of liked it,

728
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 2: but I think I need to start somewhere a little slower.

729
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:18,880
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna try it again.

730
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Speaker 2: But we all need to find how we can start

731
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Speaker 2: moving doing things that we like.

732
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Speaker 1: So I'm just trying out different things. But get up

733
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Speaker 1: and move.

734
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Speaker 2: Twenty thirty minutes today. Just get your heart rate up.

735
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 2: Like I said, your heart is a muscle. Let's work

736
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Speaker 2: it out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree.

738
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Speaker 2: I do feel like everybody needs to start being a

739
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:40,280
Speaker 2: little bit healthier, me included. I was just talking about

740
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Speaker 2: this when we were in LA, Like how I go

741
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 2: on like these Bingi's where I'll work out for like

742
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 2: five months consistently going hard in the gym, and then

743
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 2: I just stopped for like ten minutes.

744
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Speaker 1: But you know why, because we may really go ahead.

745
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Speaker 1: I'm not.

746
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 2: I was just saying, like, but I really need to

747
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 2: focus on being consistent with it because I think what

748
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:01,719
Speaker 2: we do as Black women. I can't speak for all

749
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 2: black women, but I know myself. We try to measure

750
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 2: our health on how we look on the outside. So

751
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 2: I'll start going to the gym, eating healthy and like,

752
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 2: you know, two three months and I'm like, oh baby,

753
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:14,880
Speaker 2: I'm fine on the stop. It's not about how you

754
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 2: look on the outside, It's about the inside.

755
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 1: So I can be on the outside.

756
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 2: Small waist, fat ass, it is sitting pretty, but on

757
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 2: the inside, nigga, you walking up the steps and you

758
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 2: can't breathe. There is no reason that you should.

759
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Speaker 1: Like I said, I'm not gonna give it me.

760
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Speaker 2: When I was leaving LA and I'm pulling them backs,

761
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Speaker 2: I'm like a man was like, excuse me, ma'am, do

762
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 2: you need a wheelchair? I was like, yeah, I'm stopping

763
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 2: at the airport for a little wine.

764
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Speaker 1: I said, on them circases was beating our ags.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, But it shouldn't be like that,

766
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 2: like any normal everyday activity. If you find yourself being

767
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 2: out of breath, move around. You need to get a

768
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 2: about the bed and move around. I mean, but it's

769
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 2: also just about your daily habits too. You know what

770
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 2: you're putting into your body. Like it's cool sometimes to

771
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:11,319
Speaker 2: enjoy yourself and have like a little cheat meal, but

772
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:14,239
Speaker 2: you can't be over indulging every day every day. I

773
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 2: feel like you know a lot of people they love

774
00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:20,799
Speaker 2: to eat like fried foods, processed foods, drink every day,

775
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 2: smoke hookah every day. That's not good for your body,

776
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:26,279
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. A lot of people don't

777
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:29,839
Speaker 2: drink enough water. I haven't been around some people who

778
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 2: I don't ever see them drink water.

779
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep my mouth shits me too. Look everybody

780
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 1: started opening.

781
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 2: Dam But yes, I haven't been around some people who

782
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:49,839
Speaker 2: just don't drink enough water every day.

783
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 1: Like I'm big on drinking water.

784
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 3: If I don't do nothing else, i'm'a rink some good water.

785
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 1: But I wanna talk about this next point too, I'm so.

786
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 2: It says people who are overweight are more likely to

787
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:04,320
Speaker 2: suffer from high blood pressure, high levels of blood fats, diabetes,

788
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:08,480
Speaker 2: and l D L cholesterol, all risk factors for heart

789
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Speaker 2: disease and stroke.

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Speaker 1: High blood pressure.

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00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 2: Is something that actually runs in my family and like

792
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 2: heart problems and things, so me being at this age,

793
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:20,279
Speaker 2: it's like something that I pay attention to, Like, do

794
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:21,880
Speaker 2: you have one of them machines at your house?

795
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 1: You should get one. I know my mom used to

796
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 1: have one, like growing up and I.

797
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:30,400
Speaker 2: Needed to go just because my dad had diabetes. Yeah,

798
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 2: but Donnie had high blood pressure. That's why he had

799
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:34,800
Speaker 2: a stroke.

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00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:38,200
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, don't touch you. I was talking to him

801
00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:40,840
Speaker 1: this mother bunker.

802
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 2: But anyways, Yes, high blood pressure is something that affects

803
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 2: our community a lot. And these are things that we

804
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:50,520
Speaker 2: never talk about, especially we know how we know our

805
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 2: target audience. We know we all bad bitches out here,

806
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 2: but you're really not a bad bitch if you in

807
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:56,160
Speaker 2: the club.

808
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 1: And why you got high blood press?

809
00:35:57,719 --> 00:35:59,760
Speaker 2: If you're not healthy and you're not healthy, you're posting

810
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:03,320
Speaker 2: all these ass picks. The ass is sitting hard, titty

811
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:06,839
Speaker 2: sitting up, and so is your blood pressure. Why why, bitch,

812
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:08,880
Speaker 2: you could pass out at any moment, any moment.

813
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 1: But that's things that we need one more puff for

814
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 1: that hohoku yo.

815
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 2: It's to be on the flow exactly so, like I said,

816
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 2: these are things that we need to pay attention to.

817
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 2: I feel like health concerns are really at the bottom

818
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 2: of our list because, like I said, we feel like

819
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:23,399
Speaker 2: just because we look good on the outside, we don't

820
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 2: have to pay attention to the inside. Diabetes and high

821
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 2: blood pressure affects our community so much.

822
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:31,880
Speaker 1: Bro can high cholesterolit.

823
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:33,319
Speaker 2: Yes, Like I said, I just had a little health

824
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 2: scare these past couple months.

825
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:36,719
Speaker 1: Like I didn't share everything that was going on. I'm

826
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 1: still not.

827
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is I just had a lot

828
00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:41,520
Speaker 2: going on, like you know, everything that was going on,

829
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 2: and I really have to change a lot of shit

830
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:47,400
Speaker 2: because I'm thinking, like, bitch, I'm fine, Like I look good,

831
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 2: I'm healthy, like nothing is wrong with me whole time.

832
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 1: Bitch, my inside is like bitch, go slick.

833
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:58,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I know, I feel like it's very important

834
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:01,400
Speaker 2: too to make sure Like I don't know why, but

835
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 2: like growing up obviously in a black family, like black

836
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:06,400
Speaker 2: people do not like to go to the doctor, and

837
00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 2: I feel like it's really important to get your physical,

838
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 2: your yearly physical every year. And as women too, it's

839
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:15,880
Speaker 2: very important to make sure you get your annual right,

840
00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:18,520
Speaker 2: you know, going to your gynecologies, making sure everything is

841
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 2: right down there. But people don't want to go to

842
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,840
Speaker 2: the doctor. And I think it's it's a fear because

843
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 2: I think sometimes people be knowing something is wrong, they

844
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 2: just be scared.

845
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:30,799
Speaker 1: To go and get the diagnoses.

846
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:32,880
Speaker 2: But it's like, if you keep living the way that

847
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:34,840
Speaker 2: you're living and you're not taking care of yourself and

848
00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:36,719
Speaker 2: taking care of your body, it's only going to get worse.

849
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:38,839
Speaker 2: I would rather go get a diagnosis and know what's

850
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 2: wrong with me so that way I can move accordingly. Right.

851
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,800
Speaker 1: And health insurance we were talking. We had a conversation.

852
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 1: Health insurance is high.

853
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:48,440
Speaker 2: Health insurance is very high, but I don't care what

854
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 2: is going on in my life. I'm going to have

855
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:53,840
Speaker 2: health insurance because, like I said, I had something happened

856
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:55,640
Speaker 2: to me and I had to go and do all

857
00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:57,800
Speaker 2: this stuff and I didn't have to really pay for

858
00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 2: none of it. And when I was looking at those

859
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 2: bills and I'm like, damn, if I didn't have insurance

860
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:03,919
Speaker 2: to cover this, what the.

861
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:04,879
Speaker 1: Fuck would I have done.

862
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 5: Well.

863
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:07,760
Speaker 2: One of my friends almost died a few years ago,

864
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 2: and she was.

865
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 1: In the hospital for like two months, and she.

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Speaker 2: Had to get surgery, and she has really good insurance

867
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 2: from her job, and she's still I think, ahs like

868
00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 2: one hundred and fifty thousand dollars just because she had surgery,

869
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 2: like life, you know, surgery, she could have died. Oh

870
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 2: she was in that coffin one hundred and fifty and

871
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:27,840
Speaker 2: she still had insurance.

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00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:29,840
Speaker 1: They put the toe tag on.

873
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:31,920
Speaker 2: I mean, but she had to get like I can't

874
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 2: remember exactly what she had to get done cause it's

875
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 2: been so long, but like she had to get like

876
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 2: screws put in her all types of stuff. So she

877
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:41,759
Speaker 2: has to actually go to the doctor every six months

878
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 2: or so to like make sure everything gets right. But

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00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 2: I think, like we need to understand our hospital bills

880
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:48,359
Speaker 2: as well. A lot of times we get a bill

881
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 2: and we just be like, oh my god, I'm not

882
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 2: paying us whatever.

883
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:52,399
Speaker 1: But a lot of.

884
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:54,120
Speaker 3: Times they don't seen that she's a collections.

885
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:54,880
Speaker 1: Then you have credit, and.

886
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 2: Then your credit gonna be shot. But you have to

887
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 2: realize hospitals would charge you for everything.

888
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:03,399
Speaker 1: If you use a plastic charge you drink the water,

889
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:05,279
Speaker 1: Oh that's seventy five. I'm an Edison.

890
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 3: Town, miss They charge you for walking in that bitch

891
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 3: breathing the air.

892
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 1: Oh you walk.

893
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:14,800
Speaker 2: Twice that a two flushes two dollars per flush.

894
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 1: They really do charge you for it.

895
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 2: That's so we have to pay attention, like you gotta know,

896
00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:19,560
Speaker 2: like it's expensive.

897
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:20,200
Speaker 1: And a lot of these.

898
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:23,800
Speaker 2: Hospitals are privately owned, so it's not they're not here

899
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 2: to make sure.

900
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 1: They want to keep you sick. Guess who they can

901
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 1: make a product people who don't pay attention to their

902
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:31,719
Speaker 1: health us.

903
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:34,640
Speaker 2: We are literally making these people rich by not paying

904
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:36,040
Speaker 2: attention to what we're doing.

905
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 1: To our five of all America.

906
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 2: It is just crazy as fuck when it comes to

907
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:42,400
Speaker 2: health care in general, because we're like the only country,

908
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 2: I believe, one of the only countries that don't.

909
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:45,839
Speaker 1: Have free health care.

910
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:49,439
Speaker 2: You go to the UK, or you go to any

911
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 2: British territories like Jamaica or I mean, I don't know,

912
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:56,160
Speaker 2: it's a lot of places, but you go to any of.

913
00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:59,919
Speaker 1: These places and healthcare is free. Right.

914
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:04,280
Speaker 2: Like I had watched the BBC documentary on YouTube maybe

915
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:06,400
Speaker 2: like a year ago, and they were asking a lot

916
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 2: of European people like what how much do you think

917
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 2: it costs in America to have a baby, and all

918
00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 2: of them was like free, And when they told them

919
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:14,600
Speaker 2: how much it costs to have a kid over here.

920
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 2: Those people were like, what the fuck? I know, you

921
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 2: fucking line right, But you know what it is because

922
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 2: America is a country that we were built on greed.

923
00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:25,360
Speaker 2: So at the end of the day, you have people

924
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 2: that work a regular nine to five, but they still

925
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,000
Speaker 2: don't want free health care sterans because they're like, Oh,

926
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:32,719
Speaker 2: it's gonna take x amount out of my check. But

927
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:34,799
Speaker 2: it's like, y'all don't want the free mind of knowing,

928
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 2: like if somebody walks into your house or stabs you,

929
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:40,279
Speaker 2: or you walk out your house and getting a bad

930
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 2: car wreck, that you're gonna be taking care. I mean.

931
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:44,160
Speaker 2: And then even when you go to these other countries,

932
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 2: the food itself, like our food here is just so

933
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:49,280
Speaker 2: processed to the point that when you go other places

934
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:52,000
Speaker 2: and the food is way cleaner, you like, oh this shit,

935
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:53,760
Speaker 2: or you're like, oh this shit don't.

936
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 1: Taste right, this shit don't taste good. Then let me

937
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:56,319
Speaker 1: tell you what it is.

938
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:58,239
Speaker 2: Because when I went to Columbia, like, oh, I was

939
00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:00,279
Speaker 2: kind of like need some EA in it.

940
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,839
Speaker 1: She pulled out hot sauce. I got hot sauce on my.

941
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:06,760
Speaker 3: But it's but the food is very fresh.

942
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 1: It's like that.

943
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:09,880
Speaker 2: And when I went to y'all, I went to Lego too,

944
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 2: we were like, oh, we're sick.

945
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 1: No, our body.

946
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 2: You know, when you eat, you're not supposed to shit

947
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 2: a day later. You're supposed to like go to the bathroom,

948
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:22,360
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. Like, So that being said,

949
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 2: like your body, our body is not supposed to hold

950
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 2: this and figure out what to do with it and

951
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:29,000
Speaker 2: get constant pated like we're supposed to go to the bathroom.

952
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 2: So a lot of times y'all go to these other

953
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 2: countries and be like, oh, I'm sick. No, you're eating

954
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:35,759
Speaker 2: something that's fresh food and your body is processing it

955
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 2: like it's supposed to be processed. So it's a lot

956
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 2: of things that these other countries don't have to deal

957
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 2: with that we have to.

958
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:45,759
Speaker 1: And we as a black community.

959
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:48,840
Speaker 2: We were specifically talking about women, but we have to

960
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:51,799
Speaker 2: pay attention. Like I said, y'all don't realize, like these

961
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:56,759
Speaker 2: aren't government hospitals. These are privately owned businesses. My if

962
00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 2: I own a hospital, my business is to keep y'all

963
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 2: fucking sick.

964
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:03,279
Speaker 1: Because the sicker y'all are, the more money I make.

965
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,239
Speaker 2: So we have to pay attention to what's really going

966
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 2: on and what we're putting in our body. And I

967
00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 2: do want to talk about this chart real quick. Okay,

968
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:12,440
Speaker 2: I was gonna say one more thing, like relating to

969
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:14,400
Speaker 2: be a mile before you get into the chart, and

970
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:16,520
Speaker 2: like weight gain. And so I think a lot of

971
00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:18,240
Speaker 2: people need to learn portion control.

972
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:19,799
Speaker 1: Every time I sit down.

973
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:22,320
Speaker 2: Whenever I sit down and eat, I rarely ever finish

974
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 2: all of my food, and like I'm all thigs.

975
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 1: I need to stop that because I'll be like I

976
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:30,839
Speaker 1: finish my plate and I start eating yours. Yes, it's

977
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 1: like you should.

978
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 2: But yeah, so portion control is very important, Like they're

979
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 2: not just because you have all of this food on

980
00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:40,719
Speaker 2: your plate, don't me you's supposed to eat it? Why

981
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 2: you give it to you only need you only need

982
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 2: to eat enough to nourish your body. People be trying

983
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 2: to eat to get food and they be sitting there

984
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:50,360
Speaker 2: gotta unbutton the pants because you're blowdy.

985
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 1: Now that be you'll like this.

986
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:58,520
Speaker 2: And the but and it's because you ate too much.

987
00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 2: So I think portion control is very very important. Like yes,

988
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 2: I would really stress that.

989
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 1: So I want to talk about this height and weight chart.

990
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:08,680
Speaker 2: This is actually like the official height and weight chart

991
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 2: based in America of what you should be weighing based

992
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:15,719
Speaker 2: on your height. So we're just gonna do ours. I'm

993
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:17,319
Speaker 2: gonna put the link in the bio so people can

994
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 2: look up. There is what it's supposed to be. I

995
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:21,000
Speaker 2: don't agree with this chart. Is like I said, bodies

996
00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:25,280
Speaker 2: are different. This is just based off of traditional sense.

997
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:27,839
Speaker 2: Because there's no way I could weigh as much. So

998
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna not be skinning. Might not be skinning, bus

999
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 2: it might be. It's not given that every cause I'm

1000
00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:35,240
Speaker 2: gonna be healthy, but I'm still gonna be thik. Okay,

1001
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:39,440
Speaker 2: so I'm five eight and it says for a normal

1002
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 2: weight for me, it's supposed to be one twenty five

1003
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 2: to one sixty three. I weighed one. I didn't even

1004
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:48,880
Speaker 2: weigh one sixty three in high school. I'm not gonna lie.

1005
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 1: I really I was probably like, no, you know what,

1006
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:52,600
Speaker 1: let me not lie.

1007
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 2: I was probably like between one fifty five and one

1008
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 2: sixty in high school.

1009
00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 1: I was sixteen seventeen though.

1010
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 2: Okay, so to be overweight, I would have to be

1011
00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 2: between one sixty four and one ninety six.

1012
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:07,319
Speaker 1: Okay, that's I'm not gonna lie.

1013
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 2: When I was at my healthiest and I was working

1014
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:12,719
Speaker 2: out all the time, I was like one seventy. Now

1015
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 2: for me to be obese, that's between one ninety seven

1016
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:17,080
Speaker 2: and two fifty six.

1017
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:18,879
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I'm the biggest I've ever been

1018
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 1: right now, y'all know, I don't give a fuck. I

1019
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:23,440
Speaker 1: share everything with y'all. I weigh two o three right now, so.

1020
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 2: I'm technically obese, but I know. But to me, I

1021
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 2: feel like I ain't obese. I'm just overweight. Like I

1022
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 2: feel overweight. But if I get down to my healthy

1023
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 2: weight for me, like my goal weight always for myself

1024
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 2: is between one seventy five and one eighty, Like, that's ideal.

1025
00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 2: I love my body when I'm at that size. But

1026
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 2: even if I get down to that weight, I'm still

1027
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 2: technically overweight. But for my body type, I'm never gonna

1028
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 2: be healthy weight.

1029
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:53,479
Speaker 1: I'm not getting down on one sixty three. Bro, that's

1030
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:56,399
Speaker 1: not happening. Yeah, that's not ideal for me, but that's

1031
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:59,880
Speaker 1: what the chart says. But you semi legend, No, I'm not.

1032
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,720
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be I'm trying to be a fit queen, period.

1033
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 1: But like I said, for me, the numbers matter.

1034
00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:09,879
Speaker 2: So I'm looking at my my blood pressure, I'm looking

1035
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 2: at my my iron levels like I'm looking at everything

1036
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:15,440
Speaker 2: on the inside, Like that number on the scale.

1037
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 1: It does matter to a certain extent for me.

1038
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:19,880
Speaker 2: But I know what my goals are, and I'm my

1039
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:21,879
Speaker 2: own goals, so I know where I can get that

1040
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 2: and I know what I'm doing.

1041
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:25,400
Speaker 1: Okay, So talk about your wors yours real quick. Okay.

1042
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 2: So I don't know if I'm five one or five two,

1043
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 2: but I do. I will just say five to two.

1044
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:34,880
Speaker 2: So I'm supposed to be between one oh four to

1045
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:37,240
Speaker 2: one hundred and thirty five pounds.

1046
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 1: So fo we was born? Well, no, for a long time.

1047
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:43,800
Speaker 2: Actually, It's funny because when I was in my early twenties,

1048
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:45,840
Speaker 2: I used to have problems like gaining weight, so I

1049
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:48,920
Speaker 2: used to like take weight game smoothies and like I

1050
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 2: used to make weight gag smoothies or whatever. So I

1051
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 2: was under one thirty five for a really long time

1052
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:57,400
Speaker 2: up until really til I moved to Atlanta, and so

1053
00:45:58,520 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 2: then it says for me to be overweight, I'm one

1054
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:02,319
Speaker 2: thirty six to one sixty three.

1055
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 3: Now normally I'm in like the one fifties.

1056
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 2: That's why I like for my weight to this is

1057
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:09,240
Speaker 2: also the biggest that I've.

1058
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 1: Ever been in my life. It is bossed us fall

1059
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:15,200
Speaker 1: what after you period?

1060
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:21,439
Speaker 2: So I right now I'm one sixty seven, So I'm

1061
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 2: and so and so obese is one sixty four to

1062
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 2: two thirteen. But I'm actually trying to lose like ten

1063
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:31,120
Speaker 2: pounds right now. So I'm trying to get back, I

1064
00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 2: guess into the overweight category.

1065
00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get into the overweight category.

1066
00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:38,759
Speaker 2: We're both ob well, we're both ob American standards, we

1067
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 2: are both obese.

1068
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:41,759
Speaker 1: So I say all that.

1069
00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:44,120
Speaker 2: To say, yes, we need to pay attention, but you

1070
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:47,479
Speaker 2: can't too much go by these charts because, like I said,

1071
00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:48,000
Speaker 2: I will.

1072
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 1: Never be one sixty three.

1073
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:51,359
Speaker 2: And I'm okay with that because for me, I think

1074
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:53,760
Speaker 2: it's all about balance. Yeah, I still want to enjoy

1075
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 2: my life, but I still need to be healthy.

1076
00:46:56,520 --> 00:47:00,560
Speaker 1: So we said all that to say, get.

1077
00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 3: On, if I was two all three, I would be fed.

1078
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:06,400
Speaker 1: Yeah I'm two three right now, literally, but I'm.

1079
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:08,719
Speaker 2: Just thinking about myself being two all three. Like, but

1080
00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:11,280
Speaker 2: that's the good thing about being tall, Like you carry

1081
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 2: weight differently. Yeah, I carry await differently to the world.

1082
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:15,719
Speaker 2: But when I see myself.

1083
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:16,160
Speaker 1: I just be like, bro.

1084
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:18,640
Speaker 2: And it's crazy because every time I tell somebody like, oh,

1085
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:19,319
Speaker 2: I weigh two all.

1086
00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 1: Three, They're like, where is it at?

1087
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:22,560
Speaker 2: People say that to me too when I sell them

1088
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:24,359
Speaker 2: how much ya, Well, They'll agh to assume my weigh

1089
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:27,120
Speaker 2: like one fifty and I'm like, no, like one for.

1090
00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 1: It's one. It's one hundred and fifty pounds in that

1091
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:33,400
Speaker 1: ass I sent you. And that's why I need to

1092
00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 1: lose weight too.

1093
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 2: Because I was looking at my booty and I was like, dang,

1094
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 2: that's a lot of ass.

1095
00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:40,239
Speaker 1: Where did it come from?

1096
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:41,719
Speaker 2: Bro?

1097
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:43,920
Speaker 3: Remember that nigga told me?

1098
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:46,360
Speaker 1: Remember that nigga I used to fuck with. Remember he

1099
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:46,800
Speaker 1: told me.

1100
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:50,280
Speaker 2: He was like, you got a big, real booty. Whatever

1101
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:54,280
Speaker 2: that means, I'm not gonna lie. I was in Houston

1102
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 2: with my bull and he said when I first met you,

1103
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:57,240
Speaker 2: you maybe you were stress.

1104
00:47:57,680 --> 00:48:00,320
Speaker 1: Was like, cause you was waste. No, that's I know.

1105
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 1: I'm getting digg though, because when my butt grows. Cause

1106
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:05,239
Speaker 1: I was in Yes, I was still with my bab

1107
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:06,799
Speaker 1: he said the same thing. Like he was walking up

1108
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:08,400
Speaker 1: behind me. He was like, damn, you got a lot

1109
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:11,560
Speaker 1: of ass. I said, oh no, but oh yeah.

1110
00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 2: Now, but the thing about me, you know, and you

1111
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:14,960
Speaker 2: know how I am. When I decided I want to

1112
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:15,800
Speaker 2: lose weight.

1113
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 1: I be going so tunnel. I'm the same way, and

1114
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:20,720
Speaker 1: I have to lose.

1115
00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 2: Weight before we have our next live show. Like I'm

1116
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:24,799
Speaker 2: not playing which is gonna be next month. We haven't

1117
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:25,760
Speaker 2: dropped the day yet.

1118
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:27,879
Speaker 1: Not gonna lie next live show. We're gonna be fine.

1119
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:30,080
Speaker 1: We're gonna be fine this. Yeah all right, So now

1120
00:48:30,120 --> 00:48:36,840
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into the B B bow bow about

1121
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 1: Go ahead, Mom, you bring it.

1122
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:45,480
Speaker 2: This because you're the one who prompted me to want

1123
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:48,320
Speaker 2: to talk about See why did I in l a

1124
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 2: and you asked me?

1125
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 1: You was like, did you used to What did you say?

1126
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:53,920
Speaker 3: Did I used to go to sleep in my car

1127
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:56,000
Speaker 3: during lunchbury?

1128
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:57,839
Speaker 1: I was asking if you took a nap? You took

1129
00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 1: it too far. See that's why we're not here on this.

1130
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:05,879
Speaker 1: You're not here. I'm not here at all. We're gonna

1131
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:08,239
Speaker 1: talk about masturbating in public something that I don't know

1132
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:11,600
Speaker 1: because I'm not an unlawful creature. I'm a law about

1133
00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:15,400
Speaker 1: a citizen. If you or your partner are struggling with

1134
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:18,799
Speaker 1: masturbating in public. Please call one hundreds. I'm a free

1135
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 1: because why are you doing Why are you doing that?

1136
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:29,840
Speaker 1: Drake's been like, yeah, I'm I tell you my sandwich.

1137
00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:46,759
Speaker 1: I'm right big, Okay, So let me say this masturbating

1138
00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:47,360
Speaker 1: in public?

1139
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 2: Now I have I told y'all, and I say this

1140
00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 2: a lot. I have a very high sex drive.

1141
00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:55,759
Speaker 1: I'm not shoy to.

1142
00:49:55,760 --> 00:50:00,360
Speaker 2: Say that's why surprised, but but I I am not

1143
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 2: so horny that I just can't wait till I get home.

1144
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:06,120
Speaker 1: But you are very extreme with all of your ones.

1145
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 1: When you're hungry, you need to eat. I'm an extremis.

1146
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:11,400
Speaker 1: When you want something to drink, you need a drink

1147
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 1: right now. When you want to play with that.

1148
00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 2: Monk, it needs to be played with immediately, immediately, immediately.

1149
00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:28,400
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna let you take take this. I mean,

1150
00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:31,719
Speaker 2: it's not like a crazy backstory, but but no, it's not.

1151
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:34,200
Speaker 1: I don't even want the backstory. I want to know why.

1152
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 1: Why you just saying why?

1153
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:39,359
Speaker 3: I feel like to what certain next thing?

1154
00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:42,399
Speaker 2: I am like an extremist and I'm also a person

1155
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 2: where things I have to get what I want right

1156
00:50:44,760 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 2: in the moment, so or it affects my mood, so

1157
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:55,200
Speaker 2: I feel like, you know, it needs to be time.

1158
00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 2: So I would go on lunch break when I had

1159
00:50:57,080 --> 00:50:59,040
Speaker 2: a corporate job, and you know I be seen in

1160
00:50:59,120 --> 00:50:59,399
Speaker 2: the car.

1161
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 3: Why why not rub one out real quick?

1162
00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:09,000
Speaker 2: Used to be HEAVI while we're here, one hand on

1163
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 2: the sand, you're sick, You're But the crazy thing is

1164
00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:19,719
Speaker 2: I wanted to talk about it because I feel like

1165
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:23,160
Speaker 2: it's more common than most people. I agree, you know,

1166
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 2: I would like to admit because I actually had a

1167
00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:33,840
Speaker 2: coworker who worked with me at the time. But no,

1168
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:37,360
Speaker 2: she had like this little lipstick, like this little bullet

1169
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:39,640
Speaker 2: or whatever that looked like a lipstick at her desk,

1170
00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:42,279
Speaker 2: and like she used to use it like whenever she

1171
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:43,240
Speaker 2: would go to the restroom.

1172
00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:45,320
Speaker 3: We had a conversation about it was she was just

1173
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 3: telling me.

1174
00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:49,399
Speaker 1: She was like, young girl.

1175
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:51,200
Speaker 2: She was like, this is like my little vibrator. She

1176
00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:53,400
Speaker 2: was like, and it looked just like lipsticks. Nobody ever

1177
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 2: think lifting when I take it out of my purse.

1178
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:57,719
Speaker 2: She was like, I just go to the restaurant real quick.

1179
00:51:57,760 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 2: And so how to relieve myself?

1180
00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:05,279
Speaker 1: Have you done it recently? No, I don't have a job,

1181
00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:05,680
Speaker 1: no more.

1182
00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 3: I could be home I'm just asking.

1183
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 2: You're right now, D be like, can we stop recording time?

1184
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 1: He bitch, we work for two hours. If I can't

1185
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:19,040
Speaker 1: wait two hours? How EXTREMEE it was?

1186
00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:20,759
Speaker 3: No, it's not that extreme, bitch.

1187
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:22,600
Speaker 2: I used to be at work from like seven to

1188
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 2: like seven in the morning to like five, and then

1189
00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:28,360
Speaker 2: it was but no, but then it would take me

1190
00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:29,719
Speaker 2: an hour and a half to get home. So I

1191
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:31,759
Speaker 2: would have get home for like till six thirty. So

1192
00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:32,920
Speaker 2: that was like twelve hours.

1193
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:33,719
Speaker 1: That's a long time.

1194
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:36,560
Speaker 2: I'm not saying I did it every day. I was like,

1195
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 2: oh every day, let me rub one out real quick.

1196
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:44,719
Speaker 2: Like no, No, it wasn't like that, but I mean occasionally.

1197
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:47,040
Speaker 1: Yeah. So how many times a week do you think

1198
00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:49,439
Speaker 1: you masturbate a week? Yeah?

1199
00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:50,680
Speaker 2: I like.

1200
00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 1: Five time. Okay, see you're like you more than that.

1201
00:52:57,920 --> 00:52:59,680
Speaker 3: I gotta asked this question, and there like you do

1202
00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:00,960
Speaker 3: it more multiple times a day?

1203
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 1: It'd be a rough day. Sometimes I gotta get it started. Okay,

1204
00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:09,760
Speaker 1: let's get it started. They all thought that was about party.

1205
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:12,400
Speaker 1: Well I am, I know what you was talking about.

1206
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:17,800
Speaker 2: I'm like three or four times a week, three or

1207
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 2: four times. But I always say this, like if I

1208
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:21,680
Speaker 2: masturbate too much. I feel like it takes away from my.

1209
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 1: Eye sensitize it. Yeah, it takes away from my sex life.

1210
00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:28,240
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. But honestly, masturbating and public

1211
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:29,680
Speaker 1: has never been a thing for me.

1212
00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:32,160
Speaker 2: I did it, I can honestly say one time, but

1213
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:34,160
Speaker 2: it was because, like I was sending somebody a video

1214
00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:37,000
Speaker 2: while I was at work, and it was like, so.

1215
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:37,880
Speaker 1: You did do it.

1216
00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:40,960
Speaker 2: So you're trying to shine, so you try to shame me,

1217
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:43,600
Speaker 2: and you did it cause.

1218
00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:44,560
Speaker 1: It was for somebody else.

1219
00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 3: It don't matter who it was for.

1220
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 1: Yes, it does, because you did it multiple times, Mitch,

1221
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:52,320
Speaker 1: because I was doing it for me, not for that nigga.

1222
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:54,440
Speaker 1: You are free.

1223
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:57,400
Speaker 2: And at the end of the day, I mean, to

1224
00:53:57,520 --> 00:54:00,160
Speaker 2: a certain extent, people do inappropriate things and put look

1225
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:00,520
Speaker 2: all the time.

1226
00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:02,960
Speaker 1: That's why nobody can shame me. You housed us see

1227
00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:07,080
Speaker 1: pussy peaks at work and have I know. I'm sorry,

1228
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:09,040
Speaker 1: I don't look. I don't work, y'all. I used to

1229
00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:11,320
Speaker 1: be in the European WAFE Center butt naked in the mirror.

1230
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:15,880
Speaker 1: I know you did. I'm like making sure my manager

1231
00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:18,719
Speaker 1: not walking in. He's thinking I'm posing. I'm just looking

1232
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:19,800
Speaker 1: for the ops.

1233
00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 3: Collar shirty your tag.

1234
00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:25,319
Speaker 1: Now, I used to unbutton it a little bit.

1235
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:28,320
Speaker 2: I know. I used to have to cut out my

1236
00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 2: legs and my pants was at around my ankles so

1237
00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:31,640
Speaker 2: he couldn't see it.

1238
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:33,800
Speaker 1: But I would tie my shirt up. He'd be like, damn.

1239
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:37,320
Speaker 3: And while you was there, while you was naked, you

1240
00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:39,279
Speaker 3: wasn't like, oh, let me just know.

1241
00:54:42,160 --> 00:54:42,640
Speaker 1: Why night?

1242
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:46,719
Speaker 2: But why not you already have you already being a

1243
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:52,920
Speaker 2: free cold? You was already being freaky. You was all

1244
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:57,120
Speaker 2: pretty being inappropriate in the workplace. You're taking fucking news

1245
00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:00,160
Speaker 2: while you at work. To tell you, nigga, but you

1246
00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 2: draw the line and rubbing your plustic levels to this ship.

1247
00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:07,920
Speaker 1: Okay, so that's wild. Somebody walks in on you.

1248
00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:10,120
Speaker 2: Would you rather be walked in on just being button

1249
00:55:10,200 --> 00:55:13,200
Speaker 2: naked or walked in on with your legs bread rubbing

1250
00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:14,680
Speaker 2: that coup depending on the people.

1251
00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 1: All right, because ain't no way, boy. You need to

1252
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:26,759
Speaker 1: be in jail. Why And I did go to jail

1253
00:55:27,280 --> 00:55:31,440
Speaker 1: exact walking in the car. Why are you free? Is

1254
00:55:31,520 --> 00:55:32,000
Speaker 1: the question?

1255
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:38,680
Speaker 2: I really American America's system not hashtag free me exactly

1256
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:40,200
Speaker 2: the cold.

1257
00:55:40,560 --> 00:55:42,560
Speaker 1: It's free. It's still free. Jaden period.

1258
00:55:43,360 --> 00:55:45,920
Speaker 2: But what would you know. I mean, maybe I am

1259
00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 2: mad horney because I really did go to jail for

1260
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:49,279
Speaker 2: a fucking anchoir.

1261
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:57,279
Speaker 1: Random baggs. All right, master masterbating in public. It's a

1262
00:55:57,360 --> 00:55:59,640
Speaker 1: no for me, it's a yes for you.

1263
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:02,440
Speaker 3: Be chy'all will still do it if I need to.

1264
00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:07,000
Speaker 1: Alright, calm down, calm down. We still got about thirty minutes.

1265
00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:09,759
Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?

1266
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:12,560
Speaker 3: Is your girl XP and it's your girls raining the call,

1267
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1276
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Speaker 2: So now we're gonna get into this a movie breakdown

1290
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 2: for today, So.

1291
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 1: I want to talk about this. This is so interesting.

1292
00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:28,440
Speaker 2: We actually referenced this in the past episode a little bit,

1293
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:29,760
Speaker 2: but we're actually gonna get into it.

1294
00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:33,560
Speaker 1: So it's a documentary on Netflix called White Hot, The

1295
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:36,920
Speaker 1: Rise and Fall of Abercrombie and Fitch. It's on Netflix.

1296
00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:38,840
Speaker 3: I know it was your sheet cause you used to

1297
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:40,200
Speaker 3: see all the white folks.

1298
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:42,600
Speaker 1: God, but you know what's.

1299
00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:46,040
Speaker 2: Interesting about it is because to actually see the science

1300
00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:47,640
Speaker 2: behind it and what they.

1301
00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:50,360
Speaker 1: Were really doing, it was interesting. Did you did you

1302
00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:51,479
Speaker 1: wear Abercrombie and Fitch.

1303
00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:55,480
Speaker 2: I mean I had like a few pieces, but that

1304
00:57:55,680 --> 00:57:58,560
Speaker 2: wasn't really my gym. You know, you and I went

1305
00:57:58,840 --> 00:58:00,920
Speaker 2: to school with how bunch of like, yeah, we was

1306
00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:03,160
Speaker 2: wearing south Pole and Baby Fed and.

1307
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:07,360
Speaker 1: Rock Aware that's what we was.

1308
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:10,160
Speaker 2: No diad ass that we was wearing freshman and sophomore

1309
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:13,800
Speaker 2: year from high school. So I mean we would wear

1310
00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:20,440
Speaker 2: Abercrombie occasionally, American Eagle occasionally. But yeah, so for Abercrombie

1311
00:58:20,480 --> 00:58:24,160
Speaker 2: and Fitch, it was shopping at CD trends. It was

1312
00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:27,160
Speaker 2: like a rite of passage, like if you didn't have

1313
00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 2: on Abercrombie and Fitch, you were just ill.

1314
00:58:30,760 --> 00:58:31,880
Speaker 1: Like it was disgusting.

1315
00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:34,040
Speaker 2: But the reason I wanted to talk about this because

1316
00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:39,480
Speaker 2: I wanted to talk about being inclusive and exclusive.

1317
00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:40,919
Speaker 3: Which was the point they made.

1318
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:42,919
Speaker 1: Which is the point that they made. And I hate

1319
00:58:42,960 --> 00:58:45,120
Speaker 1: to say this, y'all, Please don't get mad at what

1320
00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:47,200
Speaker 1: I'm about to say. So what was the guy's name?

1321
00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:48,200
Speaker 1: Was this Mike Jeffries.

1322
00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:53,120
Speaker 2: He was the CEO of Abercrombie and Fitch. And what

1323
00:58:53,320 --> 00:58:55,400
Speaker 2: he did is wash right by.

1324
00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:58,240
Speaker 1: The way he was, he was gonna get fled.

1325
00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:01,440
Speaker 2: He was a failed CEO another company, which makes me

1326
00:59:01,640 --> 00:59:03,280
Speaker 2: question why they would even.

1327
00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:05,760
Speaker 1: Choose him for that.

1328
00:59:06,200 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, which makes me question why they would even choose

1329
00:59:08,320 --> 00:59:10,680
Speaker 2: him to try to rebrand these companies because that's what

1330
00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:13,160
Speaker 2: they were trying to do, was rebranding because it's been

1331
00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:16,080
Speaker 2: around since what eighteen thirty two, eighteen ninety two, yeah,

1332
00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:18,360
Speaker 2: eighteen ninety two, and it was a whole different type

1333
00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:20,920
Speaker 2: of company and they wanted to rebrand it because nobody

1334
00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:23,800
Speaker 2: was buying machine no more. And I say all that

1335
00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:25,880
Speaker 2: to say, well, first of all, I'm gonna get into

1336
00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:28,640
Speaker 2: the point about Mike Jeffries in a second, but I

1337
00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 2: want to say the I just I'm gonna be honest

1338
00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 2: right now. People like to feel exclusive. Yeah, you want

1339
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:38,880
Speaker 2: to go to that club because nobody can get in there.

1340
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:42,720
Speaker 2: You want to buy this designer because not everybody can

1341
00:59:42,800 --> 00:59:45,640
Speaker 2: afford it. And one thing that he capitalized on and

1342
00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:48,720
Speaker 2: I'm not saying I agree with him, but I get

1343
00:59:48,800 --> 00:59:53,800
Speaker 2: his marketing strategy because exclusive is like, once you in

1344
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:57,400
Speaker 2: an exclusive thing and people buy into that and they

1345
00:59:57,480 --> 00:59:59,880
Speaker 2: want to get into that, you're gonna sell out because,

1346
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:03,320
Speaker 2: don't get me wrong, inclusive works. Inclusive is I need

1347
01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:05,960
Speaker 2: to be inclusive because according to the chart, bitch, I'm

1348
01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:08,880
Speaker 2: obese right and the end, I'm a black woman. And

1349
01:00:08,920 --> 01:00:10,600
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, I need to be cheering

1350
01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:12,640
Speaker 2: for the inclusive shit. You know what I'm saying, because

1351
01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:15,360
Speaker 2: I need to be included because Abercrombie and Fish did

1352
01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:18,080
Speaker 2: not include me, bitch. But I was still there being like, oh,

1353
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:20,920
Speaker 2: I want to be in on this, I want parts,

1354
01:00:21,360 --> 01:00:26,360
Speaker 2: but I feel like marketing on that exclusive market it

1355
01:00:26,560 --> 01:00:29,000
Speaker 2: works and it works for him, you know what I'm saying.

1356
01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:31,919
Speaker 1: Like until they came out with them Asian shirts, Yeah,

1357
01:00:32,080 --> 01:00:34,000
Speaker 1: it was really bad. Like the things that they used

1358
01:00:34,000 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 1: to do that they used to get away with was white.

1359
01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:41,000
Speaker 3: And then it really highlighted how racist the company was.

1360
01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:43,400
Speaker 2: It was super it was super racist. Like basically they

1361
01:00:43,440 --> 01:00:45,800
Speaker 2: would hire people on what you looked like. If you

1362
01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:48,560
Speaker 2: didn't look like them, you would get hired, but you

1363
01:00:48,600 --> 01:00:51,360
Speaker 2: would be in back in the back doing stock work,

1364
01:00:51,960 --> 01:00:53,640
Speaker 2: didn't get that many hours, or you wouldn't get that

1365
01:00:53,720 --> 01:00:56,560
Speaker 2: many hours, Like he was down to a t on

1366
01:00:56,720 --> 01:00:59,880
Speaker 2: what they wanted you to look like. And you know,

1367
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:02,800
Speaker 2: the company now has changed a lot, like they're very inclusive.

1368
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:05,720
Speaker 2: You know, they have plus sizes now, they have all

1369
01:01:05,800 --> 01:01:09,040
Speaker 2: that stuff. But I'm not gonna lie to y'all. I

1370
01:01:09,120 --> 01:01:12,480
Speaker 2: can honestly say even me, like I like stuff that's exclusive,

1371
01:01:12,960 --> 01:01:14,320
Speaker 2: I don't want to be a part of something that

1372
01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:15,720
Speaker 2: everybody can be a part of.

1373
01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:17,160
Speaker 1: I think most people feel that.

1374
01:01:17,240 --> 01:01:18,960
Speaker 2: Way though, I mean yeah, but at the end of

1375
01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:21,280
Speaker 2: the day, when it comes to clothing brands and stuff

1376
01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:23,280
Speaker 2: like that, these days, it's hard to be a part

1377
01:01:23,320 --> 01:01:27,120
Speaker 2: of some shit that's exclusive because everybody getting money in there,

1378
01:01:27,280 --> 01:01:30,040
Speaker 2: or if they ain't getting money, they scamming, so everybody.

1379
01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:35,360
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, so every like people can afford things

1380
01:01:35,480 --> 01:01:37,880
Speaker 2: these days. It's not like back in the day where oh,

1381
01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:40,920
Speaker 2: if you're wearing Louis Bouton, or oh if you're wearing Chanelle,

1382
01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:44,040
Speaker 2: or you wearing I'm trying to think of what else

1383
01:01:44,160 --> 01:01:48,640
Speaker 2: is popular right now, chrome hearts, gallery departments, Like if

1384
01:01:48,680 --> 01:01:52,080
Speaker 2: you're wearing this stuff, it's not exclusive by war because

1385
01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:53,280
Speaker 2: everybody can't afford it.

1386
01:01:53,400 --> 01:01:56,439
Speaker 1: But that's not true, though, Drella. You're looking at our

1387
01:01:57,240 --> 01:02:01,640
Speaker 1: mollt people. But we're okay, let me not say most,

1388
01:02:02,080 --> 01:02:03,320
Speaker 1: but it's not uncommon.

1389
01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:07,120
Speaker 2: It's not Asny commise, Okay, I'm just being honest, because

1390
01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:10,480
Speaker 2: we're looking at stuff from the people that we're around

1391
01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:11,840
Speaker 2: and the people that we see.

1392
01:02:11,920 --> 01:02:13,640
Speaker 1: The world is a big fucking place.

1393
01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 2: When you look at the statistics of people who can

1394
01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:20,600
Speaker 2: really walk in Gallery Department and spend five hundred dollars

1395
01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:22,880
Speaker 2: on a fucking T shirt. It's not a lot of

1396
01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:25,600
Speaker 2: people that can do that. It's very exclusive. That's why

1397
01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:28,600
Speaker 2: it's popular because if you can spend five hundred dollars

1398
01:02:28,640 --> 01:02:31,400
Speaker 2: on a T shirt, that's why you're getting twenty thirty

1399
01:02:31,440 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 2: thousand to agree because I feel like it's more and

1400
01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:37,800
Speaker 2: so about where people's like what they care about these days,

1401
01:02:37,840 --> 01:02:40,920
Speaker 2: because you got bitches who got five hundred dollars Gallery

1402
01:02:40,960 --> 01:02:44,160
Speaker 2: Department T shirts and they stay in the projects because

1403
01:02:44,200 --> 01:02:45,439
Speaker 2: that's what's important to people.

1404
01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:48,280
Speaker 1: That what I'm saying is not a lot of time.

1405
01:02:48,280 --> 01:02:49,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying like that, but it doesn't.

1406
01:02:50,160 --> 01:02:52,120
Speaker 2: And all I'm saying is it doesn't even matter where

1407
01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:53,959
Speaker 2: they stay because all people are looking at.

1408
01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:55,000
Speaker 1: These days is what you have.

1409
01:02:55,480 --> 01:02:55,560
Speaker 2: Right.

1410
01:02:56,200 --> 01:02:58,360
Speaker 1: I can agree with that, Like people like, as long

1411
01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:02,440
Speaker 1: as you're putting that shit on you, that girl, and

1412
01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:03,880
Speaker 1: that's all people care about.

1413
01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:06,640
Speaker 2: Right. So times have changed, So I get what you're saying,

1414
01:03:06,640 --> 01:03:08,120
Speaker 2: but it is, but it's a lot of people, like

1415
01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:10,600
Speaker 2: I know people who don't really got money like that,

1416
01:03:10,720 --> 01:03:14,080
Speaker 2: but they got fucking Chanelle bags, they got Airmen slides,

1417
01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:17,640
Speaker 2: they got all of that shit, but we just live

1418
01:03:17,680 --> 01:03:18,439
Speaker 2: in a different time.

1419
01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:18,960
Speaker 1: I understand.

1420
01:03:19,040 --> 01:03:20,920
Speaker 2: I like being exclusive, but I don't want to be

1421
01:03:21,040 --> 01:03:23,320
Speaker 2: exclusive to the point to where because he was being

1422
01:03:23,400 --> 01:03:27,439
Speaker 2: exclusive based on your religion, your skin color and things

1423
01:03:27,520 --> 01:03:29,760
Speaker 2: like that, Like to me, that's stupid. To me, I

1424
01:03:29,840 --> 01:03:33,160
Speaker 2: want to be exclusive with women who are like minded

1425
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:35,160
Speaker 2: like me, like, oh, you a smart bitch. You know

1426
01:03:35,200 --> 01:03:37,520
Speaker 2: how to get some money. Oh you know how to

1427
01:03:37,560 --> 01:03:41,200
Speaker 2: hold an intelligent, intelligent conversation, like you know, you know

1428
01:03:41,360 --> 01:03:42,840
Speaker 2: my vision of what you're trying to see, Like I

1429
01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:43,600
Speaker 2: like that, come.

1430
01:03:43,480 --> 01:03:45,880
Speaker 1: Over, you come to death row. I'm like shit like that,

1431
01:03:46,720 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 1: Like that's the exclusive I want to feel like.

1432
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:50,760
Speaker 2: That's why I feel like this community that we built

1433
01:03:50,800 --> 01:03:52,640
Speaker 2: with poor minds because the girls who get it get it.

1434
01:03:52,920 --> 01:03:54,440
Speaker 2: You a bad bitch, but you smart and you on

1435
01:03:54,520 --> 01:03:56,919
Speaker 2: your shit, Like that's what poor minds is about. That's

1436
01:03:57,240 --> 01:04:00,560
Speaker 2: being exclusive with poor minds now, Like and I feel

1437
01:04:00,600 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 2: like we are inclusive.

1438
01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:05,240
Speaker 1: But to me, a bad bitch with money that's business

1439
01:04:05,320 --> 01:04:08,640
Speaker 1: driven doesn't look a certain way. You know what I'm saying.

1440
01:04:08,680 --> 01:04:10,640
Speaker 1: Who ever said that, but no, but that's what they

1441
01:04:10,680 --> 01:04:12,200
Speaker 1: were marketing at. That's what I'm saying.

1442
01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:15,040
Speaker 2: They were being exclusive on how you physically looked. You

1443
01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:18,280
Speaker 2: could be the biggest fucking loser in America. But if

1444
01:04:18,360 --> 01:04:20,920
Speaker 2: you were white and had abs and blue eyes and

1445
01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:24,440
Speaker 2: blonde hair, you were Abercrombie and fits. But to me,

1446
01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:27,800
Speaker 2: for us, it's more about our mentality. Like you, you're

1447
01:04:27,800 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 2: not gonna be part of the poor crew unless you

1448
01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:31,800
Speaker 2: have a certain mentality. Well, I mean, at the end

1449
01:04:31,840 --> 01:04:34,360
Speaker 2: of the day, the CEO of the company that we

1450
01:04:34,440 --> 01:04:36,120
Speaker 2: were talking about was a white man, and he.

1451
01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:38,360
Speaker 1: Was a loser and very unattractive. So that's all.

1452
01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:42,000
Speaker 2: And honestly, when y'all get up or about certain things,

1453
01:04:42,280 --> 01:04:44,280
Speaker 2: you gotta look at who the information is coming from,

1454
01:04:44,280 --> 01:04:46,000
Speaker 2: because if you would have looked at the man, he

1455
01:04:46,160 --> 01:04:48,960
Speaker 2: had problems within himself. That man has chopped and screwed

1456
01:04:49,000 --> 01:04:50,960
Speaker 2: his face up for years and he don't he don't

1457
01:04:50,960 --> 01:04:54,640
Speaker 2: even he looks distorted. Somebody in the somebody on a

1458
01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:58,800
Speaker 2: movie has or the documentary has said that because they

1459
01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:00,720
Speaker 2: had said something in the and some song.

1460
01:05:00,840 --> 01:05:07,160
Speaker 1: I can't remember what band I like girls, but one wish,

1461
01:05:07,520 --> 01:05:09,720
Speaker 1: Oh what band was that? I think? Hold on, let

1462
01:05:09,760 --> 01:05:11,760
Speaker 1: me look it up because I can't remember. But that

1463
01:05:11,920 --> 01:05:13,280
Speaker 1: was a bob when I was in school.

1464
01:05:13,520 --> 01:05:16,640
Speaker 3: I'm sure all right because I had never heard of it.

1465
01:05:16,880 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 2: You never heard it?

1466
01:05:18,480 --> 01:05:21,840
Speaker 1: Hold on, let me look it up. I like girls.

1467
01:05:22,440 --> 01:05:25,600
Speaker 2: But basically they were saying in the documentary that that

1468
01:05:25,760 --> 01:05:27,880
Speaker 2: was the coolest thing that had ever happened to him

1469
01:05:28,400 --> 01:05:31,400
Speaker 2: when the brand had got mentioned in that song, and

1470
01:05:31,520 --> 01:05:34,439
Speaker 2: I believe it. Mm, but th would be the type

1471
01:05:34,480 --> 01:05:36,360
Speaker 2: of people who be like it. I feel like it's

1472
01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:38,800
Speaker 2: the same as like trolls that be in a comed Yeah.

1473
01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:42,160
Speaker 2: I just feel like some of these people they know

1474
01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:45,080
Speaker 2: how to create. Some people just get lucky, though, and

1475
01:05:45,160 --> 01:05:50,320
Speaker 2: they create things that just it was lfo lfo, Okay,

1476
01:05:50,600 --> 01:05:53,200
Speaker 2: Summer Girls. I had never heard of it, man, it

1477
01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:56,720
Speaker 2: was it's a group, first of all, band, it's a group.

1478
01:05:57,080 --> 01:05:58,560
Speaker 1: What's the different a boy band?

1479
01:05:58,640 --> 01:06:02,600
Speaker 2: They don't play instruments, They just dance. I'm like girls

1480
01:06:02,640 --> 01:06:03,880
Speaker 2: who are africam So.

1481
01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:06,560
Speaker 3: Why did they call in Sync and Backstreet Boys a

1482
01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:07,000
Speaker 3: boy ben?

1483
01:06:07,280 --> 01:06:13,360
Speaker 2: Because Justin Timperlay can play of instrument, shouldn't read I'm.

1484
01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:17,240
Speaker 3: Real fuck you And that wasn't even an in Sync song.

1485
01:06:17,360 --> 01:06:18,800
Speaker 3: Wasn't that his song by himself?

1486
01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:24,959
Speaker 1: It feels like something's he end up. Yeah, lady ass,

1487
01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:31,280
Speaker 1: Justin just knew he was in the studio. Girl, I'm wait,

1488
01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:35,560
Speaker 1: I was just look how I ate that. Indeed, he

1489
01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:39,440
Speaker 1: used to leave no crumbs. I am weak, but yes,

1490
01:06:39,560 --> 01:06:42,120
Speaker 1: I feel like Africa being finished. I'm not gonna lie,

1491
01:06:42,200 --> 01:06:42,600
Speaker 1: like I said.

1492
01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:45,360
Speaker 2: His marketing strategy, I get it, but he went about

1493
01:06:45,360 --> 01:06:47,600
Speaker 2: it the wrong way because now I feel like you

1494
01:06:47,640 --> 01:06:50,880
Speaker 2: can be exclusive because you know, there are communities of

1495
01:06:50,920 --> 01:06:52,880
Speaker 2: people who are like minded. It's people who think that

1496
01:06:52,960 --> 01:06:54,760
Speaker 2: me Andre are dumb as fucking we don't know what

1497
01:06:54,800 --> 01:06:56,080
Speaker 2: the fuck we're doing and we're stupid.

1498
01:06:56,400 --> 01:06:58,320
Speaker 1: We're just not your community over here.

1499
01:06:58,480 --> 01:07:01,480
Speaker 3: If you if you're y, yeah yeah we pay, yeah

1500
01:07:01,520 --> 01:07:03,000
Speaker 3: yeah yeah yeah yeah we paid.

1501
01:07:03,240 --> 01:07:04,960
Speaker 1: All right, move on.

1502
01:07:07,120 --> 01:07:09,480
Speaker 3: That song just popped up in my head randomly.

1503
01:07:10,080 --> 01:07:12,920
Speaker 2: But I will say I feel like it's it's okay

1504
01:07:13,080 --> 01:07:16,760
Speaker 2: to be exclusive when it's deeper than skin deep reasons

1505
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:19,560
Speaker 2: like I'm not gonna not be friends with somebody because.

1506
01:07:19,320 --> 01:07:22,320
Speaker 1: Of their religion or their color, their skin or things

1507
01:07:22,440 --> 01:07:25,360
Speaker 1: like that. It was just very, very deep, and it was.

1508
01:07:25,400 --> 01:07:29,640
Speaker 2: Just interesting because you know, growing up, I never felt

1509
01:07:29,680 --> 01:07:32,800
Speaker 2: like the all American girl, because that's what Abracrome and

1510
01:07:32,840 --> 01:07:34,520
Speaker 2: Fish they said, this is what the all American girl

1511
01:07:34,560 --> 01:07:36,320
Speaker 2: looks like and I was like, damn, I'm not that,

1512
01:07:36,520 --> 01:07:38,680
Speaker 2: but bitch, who the fuck to say I'm not? It

1513
01:07:38,840 --> 01:07:42,760
Speaker 2: was crazy just because they got sued and then they

1514
01:07:42,840 --> 01:07:45,160
Speaker 2: settled for forty million dollars, Like, you know, you did

1515
01:07:45,200 --> 01:07:46,880
Speaker 2: ass wrong to settle for that.

1516
01:07:47,040 --> 01:07:48,320
Speaker 1: I was splndy it was.

1517
01:07:48,360 --> 01:07:51,560
Speaker 2: Forty Oh I thought it was fifty. No, girl, are

1518
01:07:51,600 --> 01:07:53,080
Speaker 2: you talking about the first one? I was talking about

1519
01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:53,520
Speaker 2: the first one?

1520
01:07:53,600 --> 01:07:54,520
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay.

1521
01:07:54,520 --> 01:07:56,320
Speaker 2: Well they had to pay like twenty five people or

1522
01:07:56,440 --> 01:07:58,439
Speaker 2: twenty eight people, and then they had to pay seven

1523
01:07:58,480 --> 01:07:59,479
Speaker 2: point five million dollars.

1524
01:07:59,520 --> 01:08:03,280
Speaker 1: Then lawyer or whatever, you know, you dad ask wrong

1525
01:08:03,320 --> 01:08:06,280
Speaker 1: when you said it out, they paid it and they

1526
01:08:06,440 --> 01:08:08,880
Speaker 1: kept going. They kept doing the bullshit.

1527
01:08:09,360 --> 01:08:12,000
Speaker 2: And what was crazy was it was some black people

1528
01:08:12,160 --> 01:08:15,320
Speaker 2: and Asian people and Hispanics that were working for the company.

1529
01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:16,920
Speaker 1: But somebody made a good point.

1530
01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:18,920
Speaker 2: They're like, you know, if you're an a because when

1531
01:08:18,960 --> 01:08:21,479
Speaker 2: the Asian shirts came out, he was like, I'm surprised

1532
01:08:21,520 --> 01:08:23,240
Speaker 2: because they were like there was actually an Asian.

1533
01:08:23,000 --> 01:08:25,240
Speaker 1: But why would you ever think that's a good idea? Though?

1534
01:08:25,600 --> 01:08:27,960
Speaker 1: What But the thing is, that'll be like us, that'll

1535
01:08:28,040 --> 01:08:30,240
Speaker 1: be like a company making some shirts and putting black

1536
01:08:30,320 --> 01:08:30,760
Speaker 1: face on it.

1537
01:08:30,920 --> 01:08:32,679
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is he made a good point

1538
01:08:32,720 --> 01:08:35,680
Speaker 2: because he said, as an Asian person, if you're in

1539
01:08:35,720 --> 01:08:38,960
Speaker 2: a stuffy room with all these white people and they're like, oh,

1540
01:08:39,160 --> 01:08:40,760
Speaker 2: is this okay for us to put on the shirt,

1541
01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:42,519
Speaker 2: You're not gonna be like, you know what, this is

1542
01:08:42,640 --> 01:08:44,960
Speaker 2: uncomfortable And I don't think it's a good idea. You're

1543
01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:48,880
Speaker 2: trying to keep your job. It's not a comfortable space. Especially, No,

1544
01:08:49,439 --> 01:08:51,240
Speaker 2: I mean you can say that if you falk.

1545
01:08:51,600 --> 01:08:53,680
Speaker 1: I mean no, first of all, you talking to the

1546
01:08:53,760 --> 01:08:54,320
Speaker 1: wrong person.

1547
01:08:54,400 --> 01:08:57,240
Speaker 2: I'm to be too, literally used to quit jobs all

1548
01:08:57,280 --> 01:08:59,160
Speaker 2: the time just because it wasn't working right.

1549
01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:01,639
Speaker 3: Well, what I'm saying, I really feel that way.

1550
01:09:01,720 --> 01:09:04,240
Speaker 2: Like absolutely, if I'm in a fucking room and somebody

1551
01:09:04,360 --> 01:09:05,280
Speaker 2: is like, oh, we're gonna make these.

1552
01:09:05,200 --> 01:09:06,800
Speaker 3: Shirts and I'm gonna put black face on it, bitch,

1553
01:09:06,920 --> 01:09:07,679
Speaker 3: now that's wrong.

1554
01:09:08,160 --> 01:09:08,840
Speaker 1: Don't do that shit.

1555
01:09:08,920 --> 01:09:13,240
Speaker 2: You'd I agree with you, you gonna do that because

1556
01:09:13,240 --> 01:09:15,080
Speaker 2: I'm not even trying to be working for a company that.

1557
01:09:15,080 --> 01:09:17,400
Speaker 1: Would do something right. But I'm saying we were. That

1558
01:09:17,600 --> 01:09:18,439
Speaker 1: was in a different time.

1559
01:09:18,600 --> 01:09:19,200
Speaker 2: No, it wasn't.

1560
01:09:19,240 --> 01:09:21,280
Speaker 1: It was a ninety it's a different time.

1561
01:09:21,320 --> 01:09:23,000
Speaker 2: I mean, it was a different time, but at the

1562
01:09:23,120 --> 01:09:25,080
Speaker 2: end of the day, bitch, it's still like, if you

1563
01:09:25,200 --> 01:09:26,400
Speaker 2: don't stand for nothing.

1564
01:09:26,200 --> 01:09:28,320
Speaker 1: You fall for it. And no, I agree with what

1565
01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:28,840
Speaker 1: you're saying.

1566
01:09:28,880 --> 01:09:32,839
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is white people create these environments

1567
01:09:32,880 --> 01:09:35,600
Speaker 2: that are uncomfortable for people. So if this person is

1568
01:09:35,640 --> 01:09:39,400
Speaker 2: getting paid two hundred thousand dollars a year in nineteen ninety.

1569
01:09:39,240 --> 01:09:40,840
Speaker 1: Nine and they're like, oh, is this cool?

1570
01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:44,120
Speaker 2: Is this cool, He's gonna be like, uh yeah, because

1571
01:09:44,120 --> 01:09:45,840
Speaker 2: at the end of day, he's looking out for self

1572
01:09:46,760 --> 01:09:48,679
Speaker 2: and that just is what it is. I'm not saying

1573
01:09:48,720 --> 01:09:50,880
Speaker 2: that it's looking out for self. Should be you looking

1574
01:09:50,920 --> 01:09:53,280
Speaker 2: out for how yo community agree with you.

1575
01:09:53,439 --> 01:09:54,960
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that it's right, But.

1576
01:09:55,040 --> 01:09:57,680
Speaker 2: I understand the point that the guy on the documentary

1577
01:09:57,840 --> 01:10:01,080
Speaker 2: was making. He was like, you know, because he was like,

1578
01:10:01,160 --> 01:10:02,960
Speaker 2: he was saying the same thing. He was like, there's

1579
01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:06,519
Speaker 2: no way that somebody that was of Asian descent was

1580
01:10:06,600 --> 01:10:08,760
Speaker 2: on the board and they were like, actually there was,

1581
01:10:08,840 --> 01:10:10,560
Speaker 2: And he was like what he was like, But I

1582
01:10:10,680 --> 01:10:14,439
Speaker 2: get it because these boardrooms really aren't meant for you

1583
01:10:14,560 --> 01:10:17,320
Speaker 2: to talk. You're there just so they can meet their

1584
01:10:17,439 --> 01:10:20,040
Speaker 2: quota of colored people. You're not there to talk.

1585
01:10:20,320 --> 01:10:22,360
Speaker 1: You're there so when they write down their documents, they

1586
01:10:22,400 --> 01:10:25,000
Speaker 1: can say, oh, we got a nigger on the board.

1587
01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:28,560
Speaker 1: We're right, we're I mean, it's diverse in here, but

1588
01:10:28,600 --> 01:10:29,639
Speaker 1: they don't want you to talk.

1589
01:10:29,800 --> 01:10:31,960
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, facts, So don't ask me my opinion

1590
01:10:31,960 --> 01:10:34,000
Speaker 2: because if you asked me, and I'm gonna be like,

1591
01:10:34,080 --> 01:10:35,120
Speaker 2: hell no, I don't think.

1592
01:10:35,000 --> 01:10:36,360
Speaker 1: We should produce these shirts.

1593
01:10:36,800 --> 01:10:39,200
Speaker 2: And I would not want to work for a company

1594
01:10:39,360 --> 01:10:43,560
Speaker 2: that would degrade my community of people like that. Like,

1595
01:10:43,600 --> 01:10:44,840
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, I'm still a black

1596
01:10:44,920 --> 01:10:46,240
Speaker 2: woman above anything else.

1597
01:10:46,600 --> 01:10:49,040
Speaker 1: It don't matter how much money you offering me.

1598
01:10:49,120 --> 01:10:52,560
Speaker 5: Oh you're supposed to raise the Oh I thought you

1599
01:10:52,600 --> 01:11:07,080
Speaker 5: were trying to pound, not to pound, But.

1600
01:11:07,160 --> 01:11:09,200
Speaker 2: Now I'm just saying for real though, at the end

1601
01:11:09,200 --> 01:11:10,719
Speaker 2: of the day, I'm a black woman first.

1602
01:11:10,880 --> 01:11:13,519
Speaker 1: So it's just certain things. I'm sorry, Like, I don't

1603
01:11:13,560 --> 01:11:15,240
Speaker 1: care how much money it is. I'm not.

1604
01:11:16,880 --> 01:11:19,599
Speaker 2: Going against some shit that I believe it. Like, it's

1605
01:11:19,680 --> 01:11:22,760
Speaker 2: just certain stuff that's not okay. So that Asian person

1606
01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:25,560
Speaker 2: that was in that room, was that wrong? Money controlling you?

1607
01:11:25,800 --> 01:11:27,719
Speaker 1: Right? No, And I agree with what you're saying.

1608
01:11:27,560 --> 01:11:29,680
Speaker 2: Because if you have a lot of experience and you're

1609
01:11:29,720 --> 01:11:32,240
Speaker 2: good at your job, you can go get another job.

1610
01:11:32,439 --> 01:11:35,360
Speaker 2: Especially back in those times, it wouldn't have been hard

1611
01:11:35,400 --> 01:11:37,920
Speaker 2: for that person. I personally feel like to get another job.

1612
01:11:38,640 --> 01:11:39,840
Speaker 3: I mean, you just never know.

1613
01:11:40,080 --> 01:11:42,920
Speaker 1: But like I said, I agree with you. One dollars

1614
01:11:42,960 --> 01:11:45,600
Speaker 1: signs crazy with that money? Or make a bitch? Do

1615
01:11:48,760 --> 01:11:51,679
Speaker 1: you said a word with id? Okay?

1616
01:11:51,720 --> 01:11:53,639
Speaker 2: So now we oh But anyways, like before we get

1617
01:11:53,640 --> 01:11:56,000
Speaker 2: in to the Body White Hot, the Rise and Fall

1618
01:11:56,000 --> 01:11:58,000
Speaker 2: of Abercrom being fished on Netflix is fire.

1619
01:11:58,800 --> 01:12:02,240
Speaker 1: So now we're gonna get into the bop. Hey du

1620
01:12:02,360 --> 01:12:06,360
Speaker 1: bop all the boa uh ba ba bam. Not you

1621
01:12:06,479 --> 01:12:08,879
Speaker 1: locking it up. That's the best thing I ever invented.

1622
01:12:09,000 --> 01:12:10,200
Speaker 1: It is to lock it up.

1623
01:12:10,280 --> 01:12:13,400
Speaker 3: And if anybody else ever try to say that the invinity,

1624
01:12:13,600 --> 01:12:14,240
Speaker 3: you're a liar.

1625
01:12:15,200 --> 01:12:17,720
Speaker 1: Lock it up, beach like it up, like it up.

1626
01:12:18,000 --> 01:12:19,960
Speaker 1: That's what we need. I need to start doing that again.

1627
01:12:20,600 --> 01:12:21,479
Speaker 1: Yeah you knew it?

1628
01:12:21,680 --> 01:12:24,120
Speaker 2: Okay, So my bop other week it's a song by

1629
01:12:24,360 --> 01:12:26,920
Speaker 2: Jack James. I'm guessing that's how you spell his name.

1630
01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:30,200
Speaker 2: He spells me different. He spells it j V C

1631
01:12:30,479 --> 01:12:35,639
Speaker 2: K James. It's a song called Hennessy Tears. The title

1632
01:12:35,760 --> 01:12:40,400
Speaker 2: is self explanatory. This is such a good vibe. Like

1633
01:12:41,640 --> 01:12:45,280
Speaker 2: one thing about me, I love to get drunk and

1634
01:12:45,400 --> 01:12:47,599
Speaker 2: listen to some good music and just being my feelings.

1635
01:12:48,120 --> 01:12:50,120
Speaker 2: So this is like the perfect song for that. He's

1636
01:12:50,160 --> 01:12:53,120
Speaker 2: like our honey moon phase. You took my hand to

1637
01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:54,200
Speaker 2: the ocean.

1638
01:12:54,520 --> 01:12:57,320
Speaker 1: Like what, because that's how I be feeling when a

1639
01:12:57,400 --> 01:12:59,920
Speaker 1: nigga like you first meet a nigga. Y'all now, honeymoon face.

1640
01:13:00,960 --> 01:13:03,960
Speaker 1: I love that. So basically this song is just about like.

1641
01:13:05,760 --> 01:13:08,720
Speaker 2: That good drunk feeling of a girl or a man

1642
01:13:09,160 --> 01:13:13,000
Speaker 2: sweeping you off your feet and you know, just taking

1643
01:13:13,040 --> 01:13:15,679
Speaker 2: a shot, getting drunk and having those Hennessy tears.

1644
01:13:15,760 --> 01:13:17,679
Speaker 1: Baby, Cause one thing about me, I'm a cry.

1645
01:13:18,960 --> 01:13:24,000
Speaker 2: I'm me so unfortunately, which I feel like we're probably

1646
01:13:24,080 --> 01:13:26,920
Speaker 2: surprised people, but I'll be crying like.

1647
01:13:28,520 --> 01:13:32,559
Speaker 1: A I do that you should. I love a good cry.

1648
01:13:32,880 --> 01:13:36,320
Speaker 2: So yeah, Jack James Hennessy tears. He's an amazing artist.

1649
01:13:36,360 --> 01:13:38,599
Speaker 2: I really fuck with him. So yeah, y'all go check

1650
01:13:38,640 --> 01:13:44,559
Speaker 2: that out. Go ahead, girl, What so I got put

1651
01:13:44,600 --> 01:13:48,840
Speaker 2: a week is Churchhill announced by Jack Carlow and Drake.

1652
01:13:49,600 --> 01:13:52,120
Speaker 1: I haven't had like a Drake Bob for a minie.

1653
01:13:52,360 --> 01:13:52,680
Speaker 2: How have you?

1654
01:13:52,960 --> 01:13:54,639
Speaker 1: But you know what's crazy Because I was wondering.

1655
01:13:54,680 --> 01:13:56,920
Speaker 2: I was like, did I ever like we did so

1656
01:13:57,040 --> 01:14:00,439
Speaker 2: many episodes in LA that I'm like, did we talk

1657
01:14:00,439 --> 01:14:01,439
Speaker 2: about features album?

1658
01:14:02,280 --> 01:14:05,519
Speaker 1: I cannot remember me. No, we didn't because it dropped

1659
01:14:05,520 --> 01:14:08,479
Speaker 1: while we were out there. It did, but I don't remember.

1660
01:14:08,520 --> 01:14:11,040
Speaker 2: But remember we had ended up recording one extra day

1661
01:14:11,080 --> 01:14:13,400
Speaker 2: that we weren't supposed to, So I can't remember if

1662
01:14:13,520 --> 01:14:16,000
Speaker 2: on that day we discussed that.

1663
01:14:16,360 --> 01:14:18,200
Speaker 1: We did a little bit. I don't know.

1664
01:14:18,800 --> 01:14:20,880
Speaker 2: Well, so, yeah, so this is my boy for the week.

1665
01:14:21,120 --> 01:14:23,559
Speaker 2: It's like, you know, a little vibe or whatever. It's

1666
01:14:23,680 --> 01:14:26,560
Speaker 2: very reminiscent. It's Jack Harlow song, but it's very reminiscent

1667
01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:28,360
Speaker 2: of like Drake songs when he be going on his

1668
01:14:28,439 --> 01:14:30,599
Speaker 2: little hedges talk about how he did nigga right.

1669
01:14:30,640 --> 01:14:32,000
Speaker 1: But Jack actually referenced that.

1670
01:14:32,360 --> 01:14:34,120
Speaker 2: He said something in the song like how does it

1671
01:14:34,200 --> 01:14:35,960
Speaker 2: feel that everything you touch turn's gold?

1672
01:14:36,080 --> 01:14:36,720
Speaker 1: Or nothing like that.

1673
01:14:37,000 --> 01:14:38,599
Speaker 2: Now, he said a lot of stuff that was kind

1674
01:14:38,640 --> 01:14:41,880
Speaker 2: of like he was paying like Drake. But I feel

1675
01:14:41,920 --> 01:14:43,760
Speaker 2: like Jack Carlow like he loved Drake.

1676
01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:45,400
Speaker 1: He loved Drake down. I mean their friends.

1677
01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:47,479
Speaker 2: No, But what I'm saying is from his style to

1678
01:14:47,600 --> 01:14:50,920
Speaker 2: how he raps. People are wondering why Jack Harlow is

1679
01:14:50,960 --> 01:14:53,200
Speaker 2: so successful and why do y'all love his white man

1680
01:14:53,320 --> 01:14:56,000
Speaker 2: this and that. I really feel like he's molding his

1681
01:14:56,160 --> 01:14:58,240
Speaker 2: career after Drake, And there's nothing wrong with that.

1682
01:14:58,439 --> 01:14:59,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's smart.

1683
01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:02,760
Speaker 2: If you see somebody that's successful, why would you not

1684
01:15:02,880 --> 01:15:03,719
Speaker 2: take their blueprint?

1685
01:15:04,520 --> 01:15:04,760
Speaker 1: Shit?

1686
01:15:04,920 --> 01:15:07,600
Speaker 2: We doing it because I'm we watching everything that the

1687
01:15:07,800 --> 01:15:09,120
Speaker 2: boys are doing, and we try to You know what

1688
01:15:09,120 --> 01:15:09,479
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

1689
01:15:09,520 --> 01:15:10,840
Speaker 1: I thought, Oh, I thought you was about to say

1690
01:15:10,840 --> 01:15:12,040
Speaker 1: something else. I'm about to say, who.

1691
01:15:12,240 --> 01:15:14,679
Speaker 2: No, I'm talking about a five bit, because there's nobody

1692
01:15:14,760 --> 01:15:17,479
Speaker 2: else that we would mold this shit after. But what

1693
01:15:17,600 --> 01:15:20,559
Speaker 2: I but what I'm saying is if you're a smart

1694
01:15:20,600 --> 01:15:23,080
Speaker 2: person and you're coming up after someone, the smart thing

1695
01:15:23,200 --> 01:15:26,240
Speaker 2: is to take their blueprint and do it with your

1696
01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:28,280
Speaker 2: own twists and your own creativeness.

1697
01:15:29,640 --> 01:15:31,080
Speaker 1: It's gonna work every time.

1698
01:15:31,360 --> 01:15:34,800
Speaker 2: It's gonna work every fucking time. So I'm not gonna

1699
01:15:34,800 --> 01:15:36,400
Speaker 2: sit up here and say I'm a huge Listen to

1700
01:15:36,479 --> 01:15:38,240
Speaker 2: the song. I listened to the song I did, and

1701
01:15:38,360 --> 01:15:41,360
Speaker 2: I like the song Drake always. I think Drake is

1702
01:15:41,360 --> 01:15:43,600
Speaker 2: an amazing lyricist, and I think that I think the

1703
01:15:43,640 --> 01:15:46,560
Speaker 2: reason Drake is so successful because he's learned how to

1704
01:15:47,360 --> 01:15:50,679
Speaker 2: give you deep, good lyrics that say something with fucking

1705
01:15:50,760 --> 01:15:53,439
Speaker 2: good hits, because either somebody's gonna give you a fire

1706
01:15:53,600 --> 01:15:56,280
Speaker 2: hit with no depth in the lyrics, or they're gonna

1707
01:15:56,280 --> 01:15:58,400
Speaker 2: give you a song that's deep as fuck, but you

1708
01:15:58,439 --> 01:16:00,360
Speaker 2: can't listen to that shit. But he also just say

1709
01:16:00,400 --> 01:16:02,280
Speaker 2: a lot of shit that's relatable because at the end

1710
01:16:02,320 --> 01:16:05,200
Speaker 2: of the day, even though he's super successful and he's

1711
01:16:05,200 --> 01:16:07,519
Speaker 2: super rich, at this point, I feel like he talks

1712
01:16:07,560 --> 01:16:10,599
Speaker 2: about feelings and emotions a lot, and he talks about

1713
01:16:11,000 --> 01:16:14,320
Speaker 2: emotions and feelings that damn near everybody on this planet

1714
01:16:14,439 --> 01:16:16,680
Speaker 2: has experienced at least once in their life, and I

1715
01:16:16,760 --> 01:16:20,720
Speaker 2: think that that's what makes him so relatable honestly. But

1716
01:16:20,800 --> 01:16:23,000
Speaker 2: I had asked about the future shit because you know

1717
01:16:23,120 --> 01:16:28,760
Speaker 2: the wait for You songs and yeah is about so

1718
01:16:29,520 --> 01:16:31,519
Speaker 2: and I loved it because you can't go wrong with

1719
01:16:31,760 --> 01:16:34,880
Speaker 2: Tim Kim, beautiful voice, beautiful woman.

1720
01:16:34,920 --> 01:16:35,480
Speaker 1: Absolutely.

1721
01:16:35,840 --> 01:16:37,720
Speaker 2: But Yeah, like I said, I'm not a huge Jack

1722
01:16:37,760 --> 01:16:40,000
Speaker 2: Carlow fan, but I actually liked the album. It wasn't

1723
01:16:40,040 --> 01:16:42,920
Speaker 2: bad to me, Like I see the vision, I see

1724
01:16:42,920 --> 01:16:44,439
Speaker 2: where he's going. I mean, he has some hits with

1725
01:16:44,600 --> 01:16:46,640
Speaker 2: like a lot of like heavy hitting people though, like

1726
01:16:46,680 --> 01:16:49,839
Speaker 2: I had a song with for real, he have a song.

1727
01:16:49,800 --> 01:16:52,920
Speaker 3: With Justin Timberlake, which is crazy because he was just

1728
01:16:53,000 --> 01:16:53,799
Speaker 3: talking about Justin.

1729
01:16:55,560 --> 01:16:58,639
Speaker 1: Shout out to JT. Yeah, I would like to see

1730
01:16:58,680 --> 01:17:00,720
Speaker 1: it Justin Timberlake come back, not gonna lie.

1731
01:17:01,560 --> 01:17:02,479
Speaker 3: I wouldn't be mad at it.

1732
01:17:02,520 --> 01:17:06,680
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be a concert. Imagine a tour with him

1733
01:17:06,720 --> 01:17:10,439
Speaker 1: and Ushers and Backstreet Boys. Oh I'm in that whole

1734
01:17:10,920 --> 01:17:12,400
Speaker 1: Backstreets back.

1735
01:17:12,320 --> 01:17:13,800
Speaker 3: But I think we should, but I think we should

1736
01:17:13,800 --> 01:17:14,599
Speaker 3: eliminate Usher.

1737
01:17:14,640 --> 01:17:15,680
Speaker 1: I think it should just be like.

1738
01:17:17,560 --> 01:17:19,400
Speaker 2: Like that should be like a whole different type of

1739
01:17:19,560 --> 01:17:22,519
Speaker 2: RN tour, Like it should be like that's street boy

1740
01:17:23,800 --> 01:17:24,519
Speaker 2: zync and.

1741
01:17:24,600 --> 01:17:29,880
Speaker 1: Then amazing tour.

1742
01:17:31,040 --> 01:17:33,800
Speaker 2: But honestly, I feel like Usher, we said it, Yeah,

1743
01:17:33,920 --> 01:17:35,920
Speaker 2: Usher and Justin Timberlake can go on tour too.

1744
01:17:36,040 --> 01:17:38,080
Speaker 1: Do you know how fire that would be? That would

1745
01:17:38,120 --> 01:17:38,479
Speaker 1: be fire?

1746
01:17:38,560 --> 01:17:41,960
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that would be amazing. That would be

1747
01:17:42,040 --> 01:17:46,120
Speaker 2: really fucking shout out. I love Usher because ever since

1748
01:17:46,120 --> 01:17:48,599
Speaker 2: that the video and like the white and black versions

1749
01:17:48,640 --> 01:17:51,479
Speaker 2: of each other, they are they are well. Actually, like

1750
01:17:51,520 --> 01:17:54,240
Speaker 2: I was saying earlier, the blueprint, justin Timberlake, I really

1751
01:17:54,320 --> 01:17:56,280
Speaker 2: think like he saw the blueprint of Usher, and was like,

1752
01:17:56,280 --> 01:17:59,519
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do this but with my twist because really, yes,

1753
01:18:00,560 --> 01:18:04,639
Speaker 2: justin timber Like, it's Usher. Can we add Chris Brown

1754
01:18:04,720 --> 01:18:04,880
Speaker 2: to that?

1755
01:18:06,640 --> 01:18:09,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I think what Chris? But he took them

1756
01:18:10,080 --> 01:18:12,360
Speaker 1: both together, and he makes the R and B and

1757
01:18:12,600 --> 01:18:14,559
Speaker 1: you know the popping. You know he does both.

1758
01:18:14,640 --> 01:18:19,760
Speaker 2: But honestly, justin Timberlake, it's Usher, like I said, reincarnated

1759
01:18:19,800 --> 01:18:20,439
Speaker 2: to a white man.

1760
01:18:20,600 --> 01:18:23,160
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So I like, I love it.

1761
01:18:23,400 --> 01:18:25,479
Speaker 2: I think it's amazing. And justin Timberlake is a legend.

1762
01:18:25,560 --> 01:18:28,040
Speaker 2: Usher is a fucking legend like that. They tell me

1763
01:18:28,120 --> 01:18:30,280
Speaker 2: nothing about I will fight somebody behind Usher.

1764
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Speaker 1: All right, well what's up y'all?

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01:19:39,960 --> 01:19:41,280
Speaker 2: is pour your heart out. You know, if you have

1790
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Speaker 2: any questions that you would like for us to answer

1791
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1792
01:19:46,280 --> 01:19:47,880
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Speaker 2: R in my nds at gmail dot com. All right,

1796
01:20:00,439 --> 01:20:04,320
Speaker 2: it says question one, Hydra and Lex. I'm one of

1797
01:20:04,360 --> 01:20:06,840
Speaker 2: your younger listeners. I am still in high school, but

1798
01:20:06,920 --> 01:20:09,120
Speaker 2: I love listening to you guys because I feel like

1799
01:20:09,160 --> 01:20:10,840
Speaker 2: I can learn from what you guys are saying and

1800
01:20:10,880 --> 01:20:13,680
Speaker 2: apply it to my life. I'm having some conflict in

1801
01:20:13,760 --> 01:20:15,840
Speaker 2: my life right now because everybody sees me as a

1802
01:20:15,880 --> 01:20:18,080
Speaker 2: funny person and I'm okay with that, but when it

1803
01:20:18,120 --> 01:20:20,000
Speaker 2: comes to being serious, nobody ever.

1804
01:20:19,920 --> 01:20:20,679
Speaker 1: Takes me seriously.

1805
01:20:21,040 --> 01:20:23,840
Speaker 2: For example, my friends are always having boy problems and

1806
01:20:23,880 --> 01:20:25,439
Speaker 2: I'll be trying to give them advice and put my

1807
01:20:25,520 --> 01:20:28,040
Speaker 2: two cents in the situation, but it seems like they

1808
01:20:28,200 --> 01:20:30,720
Speaker 2: never listen to me. I'm usually always right when it

1809
01:20:30,760 --> 01:20:33,479
Speaker 2: comes to the situation. So my question to y'all is

1810
01:20:33,880 --> 01:20:36,000
Speaker 2: how do you make people take you serious while still

1811
01:20:36,120 --> 01:20:39,040
Speaker 2: maintaining to be funny. By the way, I love you guys,

1812
01:20:39,120 --> 01:20:41,040
Speaker 2: and you guys are such an inspiration to me. And

1813
01:20:41,160 --> 01:20:42,960
Speaker 2: keep doing what y'all doing because y'all are helping a

1814
01:20:43,040 --> 01:20:47,960
Speaker 2: lot of people. Honestly, I feel like I've always had

1815
01:20:48,000 --> 01:20:51,800
Speaker 2: this problem in my life all around. Like I'm not

1816
01:20:51,920 --> 01:20:52,320
Speaker 2: gonna lie.

1817
01:20:52,400 --> 01:20:56,840
Speaker 1: I play a lot all day every day. I joke nothing.

1818
01:20:56,840 --> 01:20:58,160
Speaker 1: I don't take shit serious.

1819
01:20:58,680 --> 01:21:01,720
Speaker 2: But I've also had to surround myself around people who

1820
01:21:01,800 --> 01:21:04,840
Speaker 2: know when I'm not fucking playing, like I'm not gonna lie.

1821
01:21:04,880 --> 01:21:07,160
Speaker 2: We had a situation in LA where I was annoyed

1822
01:21:07,240 --> 01:21:09,920
Speaker 2: and upset and everybody was like Alex and Dre had

1823
01:21:09,920 --> 01:21:12,120
Speaker 2: to step and be like, y'all, she gonna be alright,

1824
01:21:12,320 --> 01:21:14,600
Speaker 2: just live allline and give up twenty minutes, you know

1825
01:21:14,640 --> 01:21:15,120
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

1826
01:21:15,160 --> 01:21:18,240
Speaker 1: Like, so I surround my people. I surround myself with

1827
01:21:18,400 --> 01:21:20,920
Speaker 1: people who understand me and get that about me. Like

1828
01:21:21,479 --> 01:21:24,160
Speaker 1: cause if I'm being serious and I'm saying something to

1829
01:21:24,200 --> 01:21:26,920
Speaker 1: you when I mean it, I think you know.

1830
01:21:27,080 --> 01:21:30,400
Speaker 2: But I also I have created boundaries, like I joke

1831
01:21:30,439 --> 01:21:31,720
Speaker 2: and I play all day, but when it comes to

1832
01:21:31,840 --> 01:21:35,519
Speaker 2: my business or certain situations, it's I think it's like

1833
01:21:35,560 --> 01:21:37,920
Speaker 2: a tone in your voice, like you can let them know, like, hey,

1834
01:21:38,280 --> 01:21:40,840
Speaker 2: all right, all jokes aside, this is what I want,

1835
01:21:40,920 --> 01:21:42,560
Speaker 2: this is what I'm expecting, and this is what I

1836
01:21:42,600 --> 01:21:43,240
Speaker 2: think you should do.

1837
01:21:43,640 --> 01:21:44,240
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

1838
01:21:44,280 --> 01:21:47,240
Speaker 2: So I think that just comes with developing yourself, you know,

1839
01:21:47,320 --> 01:21:49,479
Speaker 2: as a person, as a woman, you're still young and

1840
01:21:49,560 --> 01:21:50,479
Speaker 2: figuring things out.

1841
01:21:50,560 --> 01:21:52,479
Speaker 1: But I've had to navigate that space.

1842
01:21:52,640 --> 01:21:54,760
Speaker 2: But I don't want nobody around me who can't take

1843
01:21:54,840 --> 01:21:56,559
Speaker 2: me seriously and it always takes me as a joke.

1844
01:21:56,720 --> 01:21:58,160
Speaker 1: It's a lot of people that probably just take me

1845
01:21:58,200 --> 01:21:59,439
Speaker 1: as a joke, but that's cool.

1846
01:22:00,560 --> 01:22:03,800
Speaker 2: Don't be around me because not everybody wants to joke

1847
01:22:03,880 --> 01:22:04,679
Speaker 2: twenty four to seven.

1848
01:22:04,760 --> 01:22:11,200
Speaker 1: Nobody wants to do that. I mean, I don't ready

1849
01:22:11,200 --> 01:22:14,240
Speaker 1: got anything to say. The niggas, no, I'll be serious.

1850
01:22:16,720 --> 01:22:18,400
Speaker 1: Don't play with me period.

1851
01:22:19,360 --> 01:22:23,479
Speaker 2: But question number two, Hey Loves. I'm a Patreon member,

1852
01:22:23,560 --> 01:22:25,840
Speaker 2: and I first wanted to say that I loved the show.

1853
01:22:26,240 --> 01:22:28,680
Speaker 2: I think you both are hilarious and just amazing, so

1854
01:22:28,760 --> 01:22:31,080
Speaker 2: I'm rooting for y'all. So I have a kind of

1855
01:22:31,200 --> 01:22:34,200
Speaker 2: random question. So I typically wear oversized shirts and mom

1856
01:22:34,320 --> 01:22:37,479
Speaker 2: jeans type of clothing, but recently, as I'm getting further

1857
01:22:37,600 --> 01:22:40,200
Speaker 2: in my twenties, I want to expand my wardrobe and

1858
01:22:40,280 --> 01:22:43,280
Speaker 2: dress a little bit more feminine. I'm one hundred and

1859
01:22:43,320 --> 01:22:46,240
Speaker 2: fifty to one hundred and sixty ish pounds five four

1860
01:22:46,400 --> 01:22:48,639
Speaker 2: with eyhes and ass, and I think it's so hard

1861
01:22:48,720 --> 01:22:52,479
Speaker 2: finding comfortable with sixty clothes. However, I have been having

1862
01:22:52,560 --> 01:22:55,240
Speaker 2: a lot of trouble finding clothes that give me that look.

1863
01:22:55,800 --> 01:22:58,639
Speaker 2: But I think y'all give that energy of comfy and sexy.

1864
01:22:59,080 --> 01:23:01,160
Speaker 2: So I was wondering, when you look for clothes, are

1865
01:23:01,200 --> 01:23:03,840
Speaker 2: there certain things you keep in mind you or do

1866
01:23:04,000 --> 01:23:06,599
Speaker 2: you look for to give that to give you that look?

1867
01:23:06,720 --> 01:23:07,639
Speaker 1: Thank you? And events?

1868
01:23:08,120 --> 01:23:10,760
Speaker 2: Well, let me say, first of all, you're five four,

1869
01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:12,720
Speaker 2: one hundred and fifty one hundred and sixty is You're

1870
01:23:12,760 --> 01:23:13,720
Speaker 2: not obese.

1871
01:23:13,400 --> 01:23:16,439
Speaker 1: Like us, You're just overweighted. Damn No.

1872
01:23:16,560 --> 01:23:19,160
Speaker 2: I was just saying we're ob we is sob But

1873
01:23:19,280 --> 01:23:21,120
Speaker 2: she fine to me five four a hundred and fifty

1874
01:23:21,160 --> 01:23:23,840
Speaker 2: hundred sixty you fine. Yeah, So that's what I'm saying.

1875
01:23:23,920 --> 01:23:26,320
Speaker 2: She's like, she has a nice body. I was being funny,

1876
01:23:26,360 --> 01:23:29,600
Speaker 2: So don't take that person bad joke. But for me,

1877
01:23:29,880 --> 01:23:31,800
Speaker 2: I know when I look for clothes, I look things.

1878
01:23:32,080 --> 01:23:35,040
Speaker 2: I look for things that compliment what I like about

1879
01:23:35,080 --> 01:23:38,280
Speaker 2: my body because to me, when I feel.

1880
01:23:38,080 --> 01:23:40,280
Speaker 1: Good, it exudes in my mood.

1881
01:23:40,520 --> 01:23:43,280
Speaker 2: So I like things that like accentuate, you know, my

1882
01:23:43,400 --> 01:23:46,280
Speaker 2: butts line kind of squeeze in my waist a little bit,

1883
01:23:46,280 --> 01:23:47,720
Speaker 2: because like I said, I've gained a little way. My

1884
01:23:47,760 --> 01:23:49,200
Speaker 2: waist is not as small as it used to be

1885
01:23:50,000 --> 01:23:52,320
Speaker 2: and things that let my butt breathe. I don't want

1886
01:23:52,360 --> 01:23:54,320
Speaker 2: nothing that squeezes in my butt because I like for

1887
01:23:54,400 --> 01:23:56,080
Speaker 2: my butt, so you know, give a pull over that

1888
01:23:56,160 --> 01:23:58,920
Speaker 2: ass to fat. So I think you need to accentuate

1889
01:23:59,000 --> 01:24:00,559
Speaker 2: whatever you like about out your body.

1890
01:24:00,600 --> 01:24:04,120
Speaker 1: And for me, I'm not a heels girl, if I do, Like,

1891
01:24:04,200 --> 01:24:05,920
Speaker 1: I love heels, but that's because I'm short.

1892
01:24:06,080 --> 01:24:08,600
Speaker 2: Like no, I feel like it's like ads height and

1893
01:24:08,680 --> 01:24:10,560
Speaker 2: then when you have height, it makes you kind of

1894
01:24:10,600 --> 01:24:14,639
Speaker 2: look a little more right. But like I'm a sneaker

1895
01:24:14,680 --> 01:24:17,479
Speaker 2: girl and I like a cute flat So with that,

1896
01:24:17,800 --> 01:24:21,120
Speaker 2: like I will find an outfit that I look super

1897
01:24:21,280 --> 01:24:22,479
Speaker 2: sexy but casual.

1898
01:24:22,600 --> 01:24:24,600
Speaker 1: I think that's my style. Like I like to be

1899
01:24:24,760 --> 01:24:25,799
Speaker 1: sexy but casual.

1900
01:24:26,080 --> 01:24:27,720
Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like most of the time, like

1901
01:24:27,800 --> 01:24:30,519
Speaker 2: I'm not really a jeans person. Like I have jeans

1902
01:24:30,760 --> 01:24:32,960
Speaker 2: and I wear them sometimes, but I feel like jeans

1903
01:24:32,960 --> 01:24:35,479
Speaker 2: aren't really flattering if you're trying to be like sexy

1904
01:24:36,320 --> 01:24:37,200
Speaker 2: most of the time.

1905
01:24:37,400 --> 01:24:39,120
Speaker 3: I gotta find like the right but right.

1906
01:24:39,240 --> 01:24:40,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's.

1907
01:24:40,080 --> 01:24:43,160
Speaker 2: Only been like two companies that have had jeans over

1908
01:24:43,200 --> 01:24:45,360
Speaker 2: the years that I feel like are good for like

1909
01:24:45,560 --> 01:24:50,400
Speaker 2: curvy girls, and that's American Apparel and Top Shop.

1910
01:24:50,960 --> 01:24:54,120
Speaker 3: Okay, and neither one of them are in the US anymore.

1911
01:24:54,640 --> 01:24:57,400
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, I think I wore jeans for the first time.

1912
01:24:57,520 --> 01:25:00,320
Speaker 1: We were in Nashville, and everybody was like, claw, do

1913
01:25:00,360 --> 01:25:02,400
Speaker 1: you have fucking gens one? Everybody?

1914
01:25:03,439 --> 01:25:06,639
Speaker 2: I never but they were really comfortable. They were cute,

1915
01:25:06,760 --> 01:25:08,840
Speaker 2: they were like, they made my body look good, and

1916
01:25:08,840 --> 01:25:11,040
Speaker 2: I like them. So I feel like, just to situate

1917
01:25:11,120 --> 01:25:13,040
Speaker 2: whatever you like on your body and whatever makes you

1918
01:25:13,160 --> 01:25:15,840
Speaker 2: feel sexy, because when you feel sexy, that confidence is

1919
01:25:15,880 --> 01:25:17,640
Speaker 2: gonna come out and everybody else is gonna notice it

1920
01:25:17,720 --> 01:25:18,880
Speaker 2: and you're gonna just feel better.

1921
01:25:19,760 --> 01:25:22,160
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's what we do, all right.

1922
01:25:22,560 --> 01:25:26,400
Speaker 2: Question three? You just read the last one, Okay, Hi, y'all.

1923
01:25:26,479 --> 01:25:28,120
Speaker 2: So I need to know if this is weird. I

1924
01:25:28,200 --> 01:25:30,599
Speaker 2: grew up thinking this nigga was my cousin for so long.

1925
01:25:30,920 --> 01:25:35,240
Speaker 2: He used to be at all the family functions, bday parties, barbecues, dinners,

1926
01:25:35,400 --> 01:25:37,720
Speaker 2: just everything. I found out in my teens that he

1927
01:25:37,880 --> 01:25:41,320
Speaker 2: wasn't actually our family, just a friend of the family's son.

1928
01:25:41,720 --> 01:25:44,439
Speaker 2: As we got older, the family stopped getting together as much,

1929
01:25:44,479 --> 01:25:46,759
Speaker 2: and I haven't seen him in the years. He recently

1930
01:25:46,800 --> 01:25:48,800
Speaker 2: hit me up on social media on how you've been

1931
01:25:49,160 --> 01:25:52,639
Speaker 2: on somehow you been type shit, but the conversation turned

1932
01:25:52,720 --> 01:25:56,240
Speaker 2: kind of flirting. We now talk pretty much daily. We

1933
01:25:56,360 --> 01:25:58,559
Speaker 2: live in different states, and he's been talking about moving

1934
01:25:58,600 --> 01:26:01,240
Speaker 2: closer to me. He's waiting on me to tell him

1935
01:26:01,240 --> 01:26:03,639
Speaker 2: when he can come see me, but I've been hesitant.

1936
01:26:03,920 --> 01:26:06,160
Speaker 2: This man is so fine, y'all. He makes you think

1937
01:26:06,520 --> 01:26:10,439
Speaker 2: of the singer Lloyd with the pretty hair. I'm talking gorgeous.

1938
01:26:10,800 --> 01:26:12,639
Speaker 2: On one hand, I want to dick, but I'm worried

1939
01:26:12,680 --> 01:26:14,599
Speaker 2: about whether my family will think it's weird that we're

1940
01:26:14,600 --> 01:26:17,160
Speaker 2: seeing each other if we actually end up dating.

1941
01:26:17,520 --> 01:26:19,439
Speaker 1: I know for a fact we are not related, but

1942
01:26:19,520 --> 01:26:20,720
Speaker 1: I thought we were for so long.

1943
01:26:20,800 --> 01:26:23,400
Speaker 2: So I'm really just conflicted. Should I leave the situation

1944
01:26:23,520 --> 01:26:25,720
Speaker 2: a long or just alone or just say fuck it?

1945
01:26:25,800 --> 01:26:29,599
Speaker 1: We grown love y'all. By the way, girl, that ain't

1946
01:26:29,640 --> 01:26:35,000
Speaker 1: choking sad thing. It ain't choke cousin like at the

1947
01:26:35,120 --> 01:26:35,599
Speaker 1: end of the day.

1948
01:26:35,600 --> 01:26:37,599
Speaker 2: And I think that's the problem with a lot of people,

1949
01:26:37,800 --> 01:26:40,240
Speaker 2: Like once you become an adult, I don't understand why

1950
01:26:40,280 --> 01:26:42,519
Speaker 2: people be. I'm not let me not say I don't

1951
01:26:42,600 --> 01:26:46,519
Speaker 2: understand why, But who give a fuck with your family? Thing?

1952
01:26:46,760 --> 01:26:49,439
Speaker 1: Like, it's your lying. They decided to be friends, y'all

1953
01:26:49,439 --> 01:26:51,240
Speaker 1: ain't had nothing to do with that. Yes, they don't

1954
01:26:51,280 --> 01:26:52,120
Speaker 1: have nothing to do with you.

1955
01:26:52,280 --> 01:26:54,160
Speaker 2: I feel like, if you like him and y'all vibing

1956
01:26:54,160 --> 01:26:56,320
Speaker 2: and y'all got a good connection, why do I talk

1957
01:26:56,400 --> 01:26:56,760
Speaker 2: to him?

1958
01:26:57,280 --> 01:26:59,840
Speaker 1: See where you go? Because especially now that you know that.

1959
01:26:59,840 --> 01:27:01,559
Speaker 2: It's it's not your cousin, because girl, that's the most

1960
01:27:01,600 --> 01:27:03,439
Speaker 2: important for her, then it ain't your cousins.

1961
01:27:03,439 --> 01:27:06,880
Speaker 1: So you sure? She says she's a hundred Okay, what's so?

1962
01:27:07,000 --> 01:27:07,679
Speaker 1: Says you? Sure?

1963
01:27:08,720 --> 01:27:09,000
Speaker 2: Girl?

1964
01:27:11,680 --> 01:27:14,639
Speaker 1: Why I like it? Lloyd was fine bicking to day exactly.

1965
01:27:14,760 --> 01:27:16,479
Speaker 1: So if you look like Lord, I'm going.

1966
01:27:16,720 --> 01:27:21,960
Speaker 2: Period question for me on the south side question of

1967
01:27:22,080 --> 01:27:23,719
Speaker 2: before Heydrea Alex.

1968
01:27:24,200 --> 01:27:25,479
Speaker 1: I'm going to keep it short.

1969
01:27:25,600 --> 01:27:28,720
Speaker 2: My girlfriend and I are both both bisexual women, and

1970
01:27:28,840 --> 01:27:30,280
Speaker 2: she wants to have a baby next year.

1971
01:27:30,400 --> 01:27:32,439
Speaker 3: I really don't know what to do about this situation.

1972
01:27:32,960 --> 01:27:35,000
Speaker 2: I told her I wouldn't mind her having a baby,

1973
01:27:35,120 --> 01:27:37,840
Speaker 2: and there are ways for that to happen. Here's my issue.

1974
01:27:37,960 --> 01:27:39,760
Speaker 2: She wants to actually have sex with a man and

1975
01:27:39,840 --> 01:27:40,680
Speaker 2: let him let in her.

1976
01:27:41,200 --> 01:27:42,080
Speaker 1: I don't agree with that.

1977
01:27:42,520 --> 01:27:44,360
Speaker 2: I love her, but I told her if it was

1978
01:27:44,439 --> 01:27:46,599
Speaker 2: to happen that way, then we probably won't be together.

1979
01:27:47,000 --> 01:27:49,720
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm already compromising with her saying that

1980
01:27:49,800 --> 01:27:51,680
Speaker 2: I wouldn't mind the baby. But she doesn't want to

1981
01:27:51,760 --> 01:27:52,560
Speaker 2: compromise with me.

1982
01:27:52,800 --> 01:27:56,080
Speaker 1: Girl, she wants some dep she want to feel that nut.

1983
01:27:56,920 --> 01:28:00,320
Speaker 1: She want to fuck. No, I'm trying to fuck. What

1984
01:28:00,840 --> 01:28:03,920
Speaker 1: said she want to fuck? She said, I want a

1985
01:28:04,000 --> 01:28:06,920
Speaker 1: man to fuck me and nutting me. Oh she wilin'.

1986
01:28:07,920 --> 01:28:10,519
Speaker 2: She won't because at the day, if you want a baby, like,

1987
01:28:10,600 --> 01:28:12,880
Speaker 2: there's different methods to where you don't have to tease me.

1988
01:28:13,000 --> 01:28:14,840
Speaker 3: Well, that's what she was saying, she told her. But

1989
01:28:14,920 --> 01:28:16,559
Speaker 3: she said she want that nut though.

1990
01:28:18,479 --> 01:28:22,280
Speaker 1: Put it in there. Oh dad, she yeah, she wild

1991
01:28:22,280 --> 01:28:22,960
Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna lie.

1992
01:28:23,280 --> 01:28:26,400
Speaker 2: And since you're already compromising because it seems like you

1993
01:28:26,520 --> 01:28:29,040
Speaker 2: really don't want a kid, but you said you wouldn't

1994
01:28:29,080 --> 01:28:32,479
Speaker 2: mind the compromise. Is her going like getting vitro or

1995
01:28:32,520 --> 01:28:34,760
Speaker 2: something like that, Like that's the compromise, but her wanting

1996
01:28:34,840 --> 01:28:37,240
Speaker 2: to fuck. You need to ask because there's some underlying

1997
01:28:37,280 --> 01:28:39,320
Speaker 2: issues because why do you have to fuck somebody? Because

1998
01:28:39,320 --> 01:28:41,240
Speaker 2: you do not have to fuck somebody to get pregnant

1999
01:28:41,520 --> 01:28:44,960
Speaker 2: and nowadays, so yeah, I would I would raise mynd maybe,

2000
01:28:45,240 --> 01:28:48,960
Speaker 2: but maybe also playing Devil's advocate, it's like she don't

2001
01:28:49,000 --> 01:28:50,560
Speaker 2: want to do the n vitro because you know what

2002
01:28:50,800 --> 01:28:52,879
Speaker 2: vitro and she you have to like take them shots

2003
01:28:53,000 --> 01:28:55,519
Speaker 2: and all that stuff, and they be saying that she heard,

2004
01:28:56,000 --> 01:28:57,559
Speaker 2: so maybe she just like, well, if it ain't nothing

2005
01:28:57,560 --> 01:29:00,240
Speaker 2: wrong with me, I were just rather like do it

2006
01:29:00,320 --> 01:29:01,120
Speaker 2: the natural.

2007
01:29:00,920 --> 01:29:03,959
Speaker 1: Way, okay, because that's painless.

2008
01:29:06,200 --> 01:29:08,400
Speaker 2: I mean I would think that would be some like

2009
01:29:08,520 --> 01:29:09,640
Speaker 2: rules and regulations.

2010
01:29:09,920 --> 01:29:11,360
Speaker 3: So I agree with you.

2011
01:29:11,560 --> 01:29:14,639
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, maybe I can't be standing right there.

2012
01:29:15,040 --> 01:29:16,840
Speaker 3: Maybe he could like nutting a cup and then you

2013
01:29:17,040 --> 01:29:18,639
Speaker 3: use like a turkey.

2014
01:29:19,200 --> 01:29:24,439
Speaker 1: Yeah something. Y'all gotta come up with some other.

2015
01:29:24,320 --> 01:29:26,840
Speaker 2: Plan because I ain't gonna lie that was my bitch. Bitch,

2016
01:29:26,880 --> 01:29:29,560
Speaker 2: you ain't going fuck no, nigga, ain't let him nutting you.

2017
01:29:30,200 --> 01:29:33,360
Speaker 1: You ain't doing it. That ain't with me on nutted me?

2018
01:29:33,439 --> 01:29:41,320
Speaker 1: Will ye? Love mean I agree because we yeah, so

2019
01:29:41,720 --> 01:29:43,599
Speaker 1: uh yeah, figure that out.

2020
01:29:43,640 --> 01:29:45,360
Speaker 2: But yes, if you want your question answering the show,

2021
01:29:45,439 --> 01:29:49,120
Speaker 2: email us ask for Minds at gmail dot com. Thank

2022
01:29:49,200 --> 01:29:50,960
Speaker 2: y'all so much for tuning in, and we're about to

2023
01:29:51,000 --> 01:29:54,720
Speaker 2: get into this track. This is your day sewn on them.

2024
01:29:55,840 --> 01:29:59,080
Speaker 2: Sham sham, hop raised you not?

2025
01:29:59,200 --> 01:30:03,560
Speaker 1: I'm your son? You my son? You want me to

2026
01:30:03,600 --> 01:30:07,000
Speaker 1: do the into Oh shit, hold on? You got it? Yeah?

2027
01:30:07,000 --> 01:30:07,360
Speaker 1: I think so.

2028
01:30:07,840 --> 01:30:09,439
Speaker 2: I was trying to pull it up on my favorite

2029
01:30:09,479 --> 01:30:12,280
Speaker 2: little webs like because you know, maybe having all the

2030
01:30:12,720 --> 01:30:15,439
Speaker 2: best little lyrics like accurate.

2031
01:30:15,640 --> 01:30:24,160
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I'm snapping for you my weekss. I had

2032
01:30:24,200 --> 01:30:25,200
Speaker 1: to get myself together.

2033
01:30:25,320 --> 01:30:30,519
Speaker 2: Here these niggas praying on my downfall. These niggas prayed

2034
01:30:30,560 --> 01:30:32,559
Speaker 2: on my downfall on all.

2035
01:30:32,520 --> 01:30:35,519
Speaker 3: Ten, bitch, I stood talk show these little niggas.

2036
01:30:35,560 --> 01:30:37,559
Speaker 1: How the ball go? Get a thermometer for the pipe?

2037
01:30:37,640 --> 01:30:39,720
Speaker 2: I need this shit cook right, Let's get that water

2038
01:30:39,800 --> 01:30:41,320
Speaker 2: for hair and the grease, fear and height.

2039
01:30:41,439 --> 01:30:41,559
Speaker 1: Yo.

2040
01:30:41,640 --> 01:30:44,160
Speaker 2: You've ever been inside a federal corl room, nigga, You

2041
01:30:44,280 --> 01:30:46,800
Speaker 2: ever went to trial and thought of your life being broken?

2042
01:30:46,840 --> 01:30:48,920
Speaker 2: Did something to my favorite as niggas to plug me

2043
01:30:48,960 --> 01:30:51,000
Speaker 2: dagg like they couldn't hear me? Look at me not

2044
01:30:51,160 --> 01:30:53,640
Speaker 2: dropping German engineering. Y'all want your baby mama fucker you

2045
01:30:53,800 --> 01:30:56,560
Speaker 2: got from nigger herod. You ain't to using ls to

2046
01:30:56,640 --> 01:30:58,200
Speaker 2: hit the row, hit the oh and make the big

2047
01:30:58,240 --> 01:30:58,840
Speaker 2: boy sales.

2048
01:30:59,400 --> 01:31:00,280
Speaker 1: Remember when you had to.

2049
01:31:00,320 --> 01:31:02,280
Speaker 2: Bring these mail with Beckham stills trying not to have

2050
01:31:02,360 --> 01:31:03,880
Speaker 2: to bring these mail fails because I'm me.

2051
01:31:04,080 --> 01:31:05,400
Speaker 3: What you know about related the money?

2052
01:31:05,479 --> 01:31:06,120
Speaker 1: Y'all know nothing.

2053
01:31:06,160 --> 01:31:07,960
Speaker 2: I just to see them walk to the County'll with

2054
01:31:08,120 --> 01:31:11,760
Speaker 2: she is my body coming from pursuing the college any way,

2055
01:31:13,640 --> 01:31:19,320
Speaker 2: hold on killing that shick. I was gonna.

2056
01:31:20,720 --> 01:31:23,200
Speaker 1: I was still kill Roy. Wait, I gotta finish it.

2057
01:31:24,280 --> 01:31:25,840
Speaker 2: Any further questions, you can take it up with the

2058
01:31:25,920 --> 01:31:28,240
Speaker 2: lawyer and my nigga finkle j money break my along

2059
01:31:28,360 --> 01:31:30,320
Speaker 2: project Joe, Well, don't.

2060
01:31:30,120 --> 01:31:33,479
Speaker 1: Wait, never mind, Hey, you killed that ship.

2061
01:31:34,680 --> 01:31:36,160
Speaker 2: How do you think I'm one best stressed when I

2062
01:31:36,240 --> 01:31:38,760
Speaker 2: support hasn't played lawyers coming in and out of court.

2063
01:31:38,840 --> 01:31:42,120
Speaker 2: Ain't ain't the ointed the blessing we made it at Kentucky?

2064
01:31:42,200 --> 01:31:44,720
Speaker 2: After all that happened here, after the pre trials, after

2065
01:31:44,800 --> 01:31:46,920
Speaker 2: the studies, after the impact statements, after the.

2066
01:31:46,920 --> 01:31:50,080
Speaker 1: Castle a j R. Nigga, ain't you a blessing? You

2067
01:31:50,160 --> 01:31:50,720
Speaker 1: won't see the.

2068
01:31:50,760 --> 01:31:53,280
Speaker 2: Next word we made it after listen, after art that happened,

2069
01:31:53,680 --> 01:31:54,360
Speaker 2: after the mission.

2070
01:31:54,640 --> 01:31:56,640
Speaker 3: Take why can't get the word so.

2071
01:31:58,320 --> 01:31:58,519
Speaker 1: Joy?

2072
01:31:58,680 --> 01:31:58,840
Speaker 2: Roe?

2073
01:31:58,880 --> 01:31:59,920
Speaker 1: Bitch? What the moneylog is?

2074
01:32:00,040 --> 01:32:02,280
Speaker 2: See smile bake mind not your bitch. I'll pick her

2075
01:32:02,360 --> 01:32:04,880
Speaker 2: up back down. Buller tracks out, Yes I slapped girl,

2076
01:32:04,960 --> 01:32:07,040
Speaker 2: Yes I slapped dog, Yes I slapped out. Yes time

2077
01:32:07,080 --> 01:32:09,559
Speaker 2: seven fifty nigga if he asked out, yes, the cockcas

2078
01:32:09,680 --> 01:32:12,520
Speaker 2: is on the road with them killers, Bro killing, I'm

2079
01:32:12,520 --> 01:32:13,080
Speaker 2: gonna kill you.

2080
01:32:15,280 --> 01:32:18,560
Speaker 1: That's the only part I know. If you keep it

2081
01:32:18,680 --> 01:32:21,800
Speaker 1: up with snitching, snitch and kill you, that's only I know.

2082
01:32:24,080 --> 01:32:29,479
Speaker 1: Oh my godhead bro, good song because we used to

2083
01:32:29,560 --> 01:32:33,800
Speaker 1: be in the club. Drayon gonna wrap every motherfucking word

2084
01:32:34,640 --> 01:32:36,560
Speaker 1: your bitch, twisty your way for a nigga, plus I

2085
01:32:36,600 --> 01:32:38,840
Speaker 1: do it. Plus I'm doing better than niggas.

2086
01:32:38,560 --> 01:32:39,400
Speaker 2: Your lady.

2087
01:32:42,360 --> 01:32:43,200
Speaker 1: Killers.

2088
01:32:43,200 --> 01:32:50,840
Speaker 2: Blessing a man, Thank y'alling to the nig We'll see

2089
01:32:50,880 --> 01:32:52,240
Speaker 2: y'all next week. By y'all.

2090
01:32:53,840 --> 01:32:55,120
Speaker 1: Now, I'm a Detroit nigga.

2091
01:32:55,360 --> 01:32:57,720
Speaker 2: You are you. You'll know the Detroit nigga for a

2092
01:32:57,800 --> 01:33:02,559
Speaker 2: long time. No croon aboo, tell me you don't.

2093
01:33:02,720 --> 01:33:04,320
Speaker 1: I don't. I'm like

2094
01:33:07,040 --> 01:33:07,080
Speaker 5: H