WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Wedding No Show

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<v Speaker 1>Ay, your favorite day of the week.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Tuesday on our podcast, which means you get a

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<v Speaker 2>brand new Awkward Tuesday episode. Yes, it's Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 2>and god, we love it when you subscribe.

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<v Speaker 3>Brook gets a dingy and so she could be middle

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<v Speaker 3>of the night and it wakes her up and she's.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, oh, that feels so good.

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<v Speaker 1>It feels so good.

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<v Speaker 2>So thank you for doing Thank you, thank you jose

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<v Speaker 2>for explaining. And let's go to comments from our subscribers.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Chaos said, I am eleven listening for a organ.

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<v Speaker 5>I've been listening since I was about three years old.

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<v Speaker 5>I listen to you guys every time I take a shower.

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<v Speaker 5>I went from music to you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Love you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a part of my family.

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<v Speaker 3>Yea that means uncle. Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>How long are the showers? Are they long enough to

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<v Speaker 1>finish this whole segment? I don't know. The parents' water

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<v Speaker 1>bill is ridiculous. All right, here we go. We got

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<v Speaker 1>a brand new episode starting right now.

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<v Speaker 3>It's almost time for your Awkward Tuesday. It's Brook and

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<v Speaker 3>Jeffrey in the morning, and today we speak to a listener.

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<v Speaker 3>Scott married a.

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<v Speaker 1>Couple of weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 3>It is but she's a little upset that her childhood

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<v Speaker 3>friend was a complete no show. Everyone is in the

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<v Speaker 3>dark about why, except one of her friends, who believes

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<v Speaker 3>she knows the real reason. Really and it is spicy,

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<v Speaker 3>but is it true. We're gonna find out when we

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<v Speaker 3>do your awkward Tuesday phone call right after this.

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<v Speaker 1>It's awkward, It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 3>It's awkward Tuesday phone call. There's a lot of wedding

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<v Speaker 3>etiquette and protocols that you're expected to follow when you're

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<v Speaker 3>invited to attend a fancy gathering. That's right, well, probably

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<v Speaker 3>seven drinks or more minimum minimum minimum. Must wear pants

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<v Speaker 3>unless it says pants optional on the invite.

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<v Speaker 1>Which most do. You're not going to be wearing anything

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<v Speaker 1>after haven't dreams.

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<v Speaker 3>And I know in Brooks case, she requested, do not

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<v Speaker 3>whoot during our first kiss unless the neon sign explicitly.

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<v Speaker 1>Says to which the neon sign said to it was

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<v Speaker 1>the entire time. Yeah, let's go.

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<v Speaker 3>Another potential wedding faux pas that I recently heard about

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<v Speaker 3>is responding yes on your invite but never showing up.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the only funt I had with my mother was

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<v Speaker 2>over her friend that did that.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Listener Danielle to the show today because she recently got

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<v Speaker 3>married and is struggling with the absence of a good

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<v Speaker 3>friend who said they'd come but never did so. Danielle,

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome to the show. Hi guys, Danielle.

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<v Speaker 1>Congratulations. I mean we should start there with you.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean, it's great being married. I'm so happy,

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<v Speaker 6>but almost everything, I just yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>They say the first two weeks of marriage are the hardest.

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<v Speaker 3>So now that you're through this, that's smooth.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Cabo was really hard. Really, our hearts go out

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<v Speaker 3>to you Angel.

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<v Speaker 1>Twice.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so tell us you emailed because apparently somebody was

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<v Speaker 3>supposed to attend your wedding and did not do that.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's get into it. Who is it?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? So this is one of my like closest friends

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<v Speaker 6>of all time. I mean yeah, we've been friends literally

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<v Speaker 6>since elementary school. We were basically next door neighbors, like

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<v Speaker 6>ride the bus together, everything, since elementary through college. We

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<v Speaker 6>went to college together, and like we stayed close this

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<v Speaker 6>whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't even have to go any further. I'm offended already. Yeah, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you mean she know showed so he no showed.

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<v Speaker 1>He knows.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a guy. Yeah, what's his name?

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<v Speaker 6>His name's Warren.

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<v Speaker 3>So take us to what happened at your wedding? How

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<v Speaker 3>did that go down?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, So I'm getting to be with my bridesmaids, I'm

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<v Speaker 6>getting ready to go down, and one of our other

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<v Speaker 6>best friends, like one of our mutual good friends, is

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<v Speaker 6>my maid of honor, and she informed me that like

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<v Speaker 6>he wasn't there, and she's like I thought he was coming,

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<v Speaker 6>and I'm like, he is coming. So like I remember

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<v Speaker 6>like looking out because this is one of my best

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<v Speaker 6>friends and I don't see him and he's not there.

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<v Speaker 6>No text, Yeah, just didn't show up.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I would immediately honestly think that something terrible happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, for sure, like car accident, if he had to

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<v Speaker 1>fly the plane got delighted, metal emergency.

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<v Speaker 6>Well yeah, I mean that was my first thought too,

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<v Speaker 6>because I'm like, what other reason would he possibly not

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<v Speaker 6>show up to my wedding? Totally? So I texted him

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<v Speaker 6>while you're in the altar.

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<v Speaker 3>Well no, after all the wedding, second giant.

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<v Speaker 6>Dress, he was after it okay, And I was just like, hey,

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<v Speaker 6>are you okay? And he didn't reply at all, so

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<v Speaker 6>I'm stressed my entire wedding thinking he's dead, and then

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<v Speaker 6>he finally replies the next day and all he said

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<v Speaker 6>is sorry he couldn't make it.

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<v Speaker 3>WHOA, that is weird? Is that a big deal?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, should be. If he texts her the next day

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<v Speaker 3>and it's not a call, it's just like a five

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<v Speaker 3>page this is he's mad. I think he's mad at

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<v Speaker 3>something or he's a man and stuff really short and

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<v Speaker 3>is like, that's all I need to do.

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<v Speaker 1>A friend though, yeah, that's more important.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, do you have any idea why he wasn't there

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<v Speaker 3>or why he took so long to answer?

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<v Speaker 6>My two top running series I guess at the moment

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<v Speaker 6>are one. Maybe he's upset that he wasn't in the wedding,

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<v Speaker 6>which he could feel bad about that, honest, Like my

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<v Speaker 6>husband already had his groom's men.

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<v Speaker 2>But you could have given him another role, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like there's other things at the wedding that could have

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<v Speaker 2>been belved.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he could have been mad about that when he

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<v Speaker 1>found out not the day.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean.

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<v Speaker 6>My other theory and I don't really think this one's true,

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<v Speaker 6>but my other friend she's saying that she thinks it

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<v Speaker 6>could be that he's upset because he has feelings for

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<v Speaker 6>me and I, yeah, I don't think that's true. Why not?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean like he's basically my brother.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well Brook think that's kind of hot, right? Maybe not?

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<v Speaker 3>But he thought that getting friend zone that sort.

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<v Speaker 6>I guess, like, why would you boast me on my

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<v Speaker 6>wedding day?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I will say I see where you're

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<v Speaker 3>coming from, but speaking as a guy, we process things

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit differently, not always the best way, and

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<v Speaker 3>maybe his head just wasn't able to wrap his mind

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<v Speaker 3>around that moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Hasn't he seen a rom com? If that's the case,

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<v Speaker 1>he's supposed.

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<v Speaker 3>To I object. Would you been mad at him if

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<v Speaker 3>he came down and objected and ruined the wedding?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, if that was the case, I wouldn't want him

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<v Speaker 6>to go so.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So maybe he'll be grateful that he didn't come

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<v Speaker 3>if we're able to get in touch with him, because

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<v Speaker 3>I'm assuming that's what you reached out about, is trying

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<v Speaker 3>to figure out why he's not answering.

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<v Speaker 6>I need you guys to talk to him and figure

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<v Speaker 6>out out what's going on, because he's not talking to

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<v Speaker 6>me and I honestly, don't think I can talk to

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<v Speaker 6>him right now or should it, because I'm so emotional

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<v Speaker 6>about this. I don't want to upset him more because

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<v Speaker 6>I'm already really upset. Okay, I'm just gonna make it worse.

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<v Speaker 3>So remember with the awkward Tuesday. We will let you

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<v Speaker 3>make this call, but we'll give you our advice first.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, whether you're emotionally ready or not.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we'll figure out how to how to get your

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<v Speaker 3>childhood friend to finally open up and tell you why

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<v Speaker 3>he couldn't bother to show up to the biggest day

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<v Speaker 3>of your life.

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<v Speaker 1>That he sucks right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's my advice. So here we go. We're going

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<v Speaker 3>to do it with your awkward Tuesday right after this.

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<v Speaker 4>It's awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 3>It's awkward Tuesday phone call. If you're just joining us.

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<v Speaker 3>We've been talking to Danielle, who is two weeks out

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<v Speaker 3>of being newly married.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that part's great, that is congrats.

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<v Speaker 3>To her, but she is still dealing with a little

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<v Speaker 3>micro drama that happened at the wedding because a close

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<v Speaker 3>guy friend, someone that she grew up with, said that

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<v Speaker 3>he would show but never did.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like one of her best friends.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah she did. She texted him at the wedding saying

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<v Speaker 3>where are you? And he didn't respond until the next day. Wow,

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<v Speaker 3>Nolly said, was Oh sorry, I couldn't make it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yikes. I don't even think he said sorry, didn't he?

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<v Speaker 3>I think he said sorry. I can't remember.

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<v Speaker 1>It was rude, that's all.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't give him any credit.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm mad.

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<v Speaker 3>Whatever it was, it wasn't enough and it didn't provide

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<v Speaker 3>any explanation. He's not answering her texts or her calls now,

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<v Speaker 3>and that's why she wants us to dial from our

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<v Speaker 3>number so he'll pick up. And we need to give

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<v Speaker 3>her some advice to get her ready for this. So, Brooke,

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<v Speaker 3>what have you got?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying you're coming in hot?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yes, Ell, i'ment of surprise because your friends are

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<v Speaker 2>theorizing that he didn't show because he has a crush

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<v Speaker 2>on you.

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<v Speaker 1>So what you do he doesn't know this number?

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<v Speaker 2>You say, Hey, listen, I'm upset that you weren't at

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<v Speaker 2>the wedding, and now all of our friends are starting

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<v Speaker 2>a rumor that it's because you have feelings for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, yes, yes, coming angry? What do you

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<v Speaker 3>think about that.

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<v Speaker 6>Danielle, I like it, yes, honestly. Yeah, And I'll tell

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<v Speaker 6>you why.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that if he hears that and he really

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<v Speaker 1>does think of.

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<v Speaker 2>You as just a sister, yeah, he'd be like god no, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and then they'll have to tell you why he didn't

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<v Speaker 2>really show up.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. Yeah, I mean I really don't think that's what

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<v Speaker 6>it is.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So possibly harness your inner anger. Jose what's your

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<v Speaker 3>advice wedding? My advice was actually for you to go opposite.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I think that you need to be a little

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<v Speaker 4>delicate with him, you know, because you may only get.

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<v Speaker 1>One shot at this all right.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't want to regret being too aggressive and ruining

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<v Speaker 3>it if he does have a good excuse.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, yeah, well I only had one shot at my

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<v Speaker 6>wedding day and he wasn't there.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Have a feeling we're going in hot then, can't lie

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<v Speaker 3>about your emotions as usual, anger winds. So here we go.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna dial Warren's number and we're gonna see if

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<v Speaker 3>he answers and hopefully gets some closure on what happened

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<v Speaker 3>why he didn't come to your wedding. Here goes.

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<v Speaker 6>Hello, Hello, oh.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, yeah, you get a new phone number.

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<v Speaker 6>No, okay, so.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 6>Huh? What am I doing? I'm pretty sure I'm trying

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<v Speaker 6>to contact you since you, you know, just ghosted my wedding.

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<v Speaker 4>List or not. I'm I'm really not ready for this.

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<v Speaker 6>Now. What do you mean you're not ready for this?

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<v Speaker 6>You had a year and a half to get ready

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<v Speaker 6>to come to my wedding and you just didn't show

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<v Speaker 6>up the day of. So that's not good enough for me.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, we we're really going to do this right now.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, we are really gonna do this right now. Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>I need to know why, and so I'm just gonna

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<v Speaker 6>be upfront. All of our friends are going around spinning

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<v Speaker 6>the rumor mill, saying that the reason you didn't show

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<v Speaker 6>up is because you're in love with me and that

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<v Speaker 6>you couldn't handle bidding.

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<v Speaker 4>You come one man about it.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, no, oh.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, okay that's what I said too.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, you're my oldest friend and we're family. It's

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<v Speaker 4>got nothing to do with me being attracted to you.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, then why didn't you show up? I?

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<v Speaker 4>Actually I did show up. I was actually there what

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<v Speaker 4>twenty minutes before the ceremony.

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<v Speaker 3>Putever you wire.

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<v Speaker 6>I looked around. You weren't there, you weren't anywhere.

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<v Speaker 4>I really don't want to talk about this.

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<v Speaker 6>You owe it, Tommy Warren. Just tell me the truth.

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<v Speaker 6>What happened? Damn?

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<v Speaker 3>All right?

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<v Speaker 4>Look, when I was pulling up, I was ready to

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<v Speaker 4>go in and have a good time with you guys,

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<v Speaker 4>but I spotted someone that I didn't want to be around,

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<v Speaker 4>so I just had to bail. I panicked when I

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<v Speaker 4>saw this person because I don't want to be around

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<v Speaker 4>this person. Okay, but what do you mean by that?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean again, that sounds like our friends are right?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 6>Was this person? Tom? Was the person that you were

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<v Speaker 6>so upset to see? Was that my husband?

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<v Speaker 5>Did it make me?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, no no. I love Tom. I'm glad that

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<v Speaker 4>you guys are getting married.

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<v Speaker 3>I really am.

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<v Speaker 4>It's got enough to do with Tom.

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<v Speaker 6>He's legit. Okay, Then who the hell could have upset

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<v Speaker 6>you enough to not come to my wedding? All right?

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<v Speaker 4>Let me ask you something. It was your wedding planner

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<v Speaker 4>named Gillian.

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<v Speaker 6>Jillian. Yeah, my planner's name is Jillian.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, That's what I was afraid of a couple

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<v Speaker 4>of years ago, two years ago. Right, I was at

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<v Speaker 4>the airport taking a flight and we met and basically

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<v Speaker 4>he ended up giving me an STD.

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<v Speaker 6>What that's a party favor?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't know what to say.

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<v Speaker 1>We did not mean to out your info like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, Warring.

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<v Speaker 4>Why we wore all these people on the phone.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, these people are a radio show, radio show that

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<v Speaker 3>no one listens to. You, no worries. This is Brook

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<v Speaker 3>and Jeffrey in the morning. This is called an awkward

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<v Speaker 3>Tuesday phone call for obvious reasons.

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<v Speaker 1>And could be used as a PSA for safe relationships.

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<v Speaker 4>A broadcast in my issue, Well, we didn't We didn't

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<v Speaker 4>know what the situation was.

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<v Speaker 3>Danielle had no idea why you didn't show up to

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<v Speaker 3>her wedding.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know you could have stayed first of all.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, that's pretty immature.

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<v Speaker 2>I still think like, it's not like you're going to

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<v Speaker 2>be interacting with a wedding planner.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know what to do. I was freaking out,

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<v Speaker 4>super embarrassed by the whole thing. And then it just

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<v Speaker 4>seemed like when I saw her at the wedding, there's

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<v Speaker 4>no possible way this can end.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, is it something that you and the wedding planner

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<v Speaker 3>had not talked about before this moment.

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<v Speaker 4>No, oh, oh my god, she doesn't know. I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>contact her afterwards.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god. I just I just thought of something.

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<v Speaker 6>My brother hooked up with Jillian after the wedding.

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<v Speaker 7>It could be it could be fine, it could be

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<v Speaker 7>a terrible one if you could use protection. Like, there's

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<v Speaker 7>some people that have this problem. It's about sexual health

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<v Speaker 7>and it should be more talked about in today.

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<v Speaker 3>If you talk about it, everyone should get.

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<v Speaker 6>I need to talk about it with my brother.

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<v Speaker 3>So all that aside, it's good that this conversation is

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<v Speaker 3>happening because now we finally understand what the real issue was,

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<v Speaker 3>and the brother knows that he may need some antibiotics.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and that's okay. My medicine is an amazing thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Is it all right? If I could maybe bow out

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<v Speaker 4>of this conversation. I've had a cocktail er two and

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<v Speaker 4>I really don't feel like talking about it.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's exactly how the airport situation came up in.

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<v Speaker 2>But no wonder, I mean, I think the whole point

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<v Speaker 2>is you forgive him for that good right, Like, can

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<v Speaker 2>you guys move past this in your relationship?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, honestly, I'm still really hurt by it, and

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<v Speaker 6>I like, I just I wish you'd talk to me,

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<v Speaker 6>and I'm really upset that you didn't reply to me

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<v Speaker 6>the last two weeks about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I just didn't know what to say. I had

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<v Speaker 4>no idea what to do. I knew it was going

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<v Speaker 4>to come out eventually, but I didn't want to go

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<v Speaker 4>into that situation and think there was any possibility of

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<v Speaker 4>something happening that would mess up the wedding day for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Guys, did you think that you're going to hook up

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<v Speaker 3>with her there again? Is that what you were worried about? Nop,

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<v Speaker 3>He's like, she cannot resist me after I've had three cocktails.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, Well, Danielle, he did it. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 3>to protect you and not create any more drama at

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<v Speaker 3>the wedding than there needed to be.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, just for the record, I'm sorry. I love you,

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<v Speaker 4>You're my best friend. I wouldn't do anything to hurt you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's sweet.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember you're talking to Danielle, not Jillian here.

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<v Speaker 4>So I got other words for Jillian.

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<v Speaker 3>You do those off the air.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. Well, still not thrilled about how it all went down,

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<v Speaker 6>But I mean We've made it twenty plus years in

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<v Speaker 6>our friendship. I think we'll make it through this too.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel good about this. Drinks on me. Let's all

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<v Speaker 3>head to the airport together and celebrate.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, absolutely, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Should the airport have hookup warning signs posted up around

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<v Speaker 3>the different terminals?

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<v Speaker 1>No, you always know to use protection. It's pretty simple.

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<v Speaker 3>To hook up back.

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<v Speaker 2>When you hook up with a stranger, you don't know

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<v Speaker 2>what you're gonna get life.

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<v Speaker 3>But if you think about a place that has a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of signage, the airport's probably number one on the list.

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<v Speaker 3>So why have I never seen a sign that says

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<v Speaker 3>hook up with a red line through it? Yeah, totally, totally.

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<v Speaker 3>It could help a lot more people than I realized.

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<v Speaker 1>How many people are hooking up at the airport flights.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even know where you would do that logistically,

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<v Speaker 3>lines so crazy long. You can just do it in line.

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<v Speaker 1>Not going to be a sanitary place what it is.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm good for them for pulling it off. Oh No,

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<v Speaker 3>it sucks the consequences, but you know that's there. It

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<v Speaker 3>is anyway. If you want more awkward content, you can

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<v Speaker 3>gets yours stream mustering your next Red Eye, yeah it,

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