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Speaker 1: I blame Kim Kardashian for the women we see today,

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Speaker 1: what we glorified on TV when we see these beautiful

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Speaker 1: women with these big old sexy lips and these big

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Speaker 1: old eyelashes and eyebrows and but banging out the window

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Speaker 1: and bang lips banging out the window.

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Speaker 2: And just what is banging out the window?

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Speaker 3: You know, just you know.

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Speaker 1: What, the lips just doing that, you know, just like

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Speaker 1: damn taking over your face.

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Speaker 3: This is the taking over the game. All right.

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Speaker 1: Everybody, Welcome to Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 4: Do you think that men or women are more toxic? Hello,

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Speaker 4: beautiful people, welcome to another episode of the Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 4: I'm your host, Azar Faraday.

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Speaker 3: P two The Truth aka Period Paul P Double P.

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Speaker 4: You know, on our last episode, everyone in the comments

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Speaker 4: was just so appalled by your feet being out and

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Speaker 4: that you were playing with your feet, the fact that

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Speaker 4: Paul is playing with his bear toes all this everyone

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Speaker 4: said it all this camera is blowy. Yeah you had

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Speaker 4: and you was like this yeah, and they were bad that.

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Speaker 4: Some people said, listen, I'm trying to get through the episode.

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Speaker 2: But Paul played with this feet, you blow it was

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Speaker 2: blowing up.

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Speaker 3: I didn't even realize.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mentioned at the beginning, So I said, okay,

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Speaker 2: come on, bare feet, you was comfy. Guys like Judge, Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm florid.

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Speaker 4: Everyone is just a hater. It's okay, he had his

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Speaker 4: feet out, he's living his best life.

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Speaker 2: What's the problem?

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Speaker 3: Life period up kicking.

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Speaker 4: After exactly exactly Okay, So let's get right into it.

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Speaker 2: So Share, you know the singer Share who's eighty years old.

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Speaker 4: She's marrying her boyfriend Ae that's his name, I guess,

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Speaker 4: and they have a forty year age gap, so he's

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Speaker 4: forty years younger.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 4: So this is the thing you were saying, like, man,

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Speaker 4: don't really best with the auto work that I could

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Speaker 4: have buried that for really, Well, he's married.

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Speaker 2: Yeah he he proposed.

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Speaker 3: To her before I had a chance to meet. Dude.

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Speaker 2: He's Tiger's close friend.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, it's close for.

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Speaker 4: No Tiger. No, yeah, yeah he did. He has I

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Speaker 4: think they have a kid or something together either.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, yeah, Like we had a lunch together in Hollywood,

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Speaker 1: uh on some business back in the day. And uh,

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Speaker 1: i'mula say one thing about dude, like, because guys, ain't

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Speaker 1: we ain't.

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Speaker 3: Really dealing with the older women like that gap.

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Speaker 2: Is crazy crazy.

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Speaker 3: I think this is a play.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, everyone looks at.

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Speaker 1: It, but like, just like women do it. So that's

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Speaker 1: city boys. We up, we popping. We finally doing it

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Speaker 1: now because all these women be on it. Like when

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Speaker 1: you see the lady over there with the old man

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Speaker 1: or the dire bed, but he reaches heir and he.

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Speaker 3: Over the here. You know, that's a play for her.

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Speaker 3: That's a play.

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Speaker 1: Now we like, I mean, I'm finally we finally got

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Speaker 1: somebody on our side that can run that play.

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Speaker 3: He probably give you know, yeah, do you think that.

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Speaker 4: He's like having sex with women on the side, like

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Speaker 4: or is that satisfying? Like do you think that a

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Speaker 4: man could just be like, Okay, I'm gonna bag this

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Speaker 4: old lady and we're gonna have sex and that's all

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Speaker 4: I need.

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Speaker 2: I went from Amber Rose.

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Speaker 4: Big booty, big titty stripper looking body to I'm gonna.

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Speaker 1: Be I'm gonna sacrifice the sexual needs for And I.

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Speaker 4: Doubt he wants to get caught up, because he get

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Speaker 4: caught up. That's his whole play and his money in

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Speaker 4: his bread. He live in a different life. He's with Share.

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Speaker 4: Share is a white pop star like she's a whole

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Speaker 4: different level of rich that you are not gonna see

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Speaker 4: that type of lifestyle unless you're around that.

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Speaker 1: I got list, Bro, this is what I'm gonna tell you.

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Speaker 1: Just make sure that you are on the wheel insurance,

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Speaker 1: the life insurance. You gotta get your name on that

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Speaker 1: life insurance. You gotta get you and then once you

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Speaker 1: do that, you know, you know you gotta ride it out.

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Speaker 1: You don't want to, you know, I ain't promoting, don't know,

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Speaker 1: don't mess it up. Don't be trying to see other women,

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Speaker 1: you know, ride it out though you know, write it.

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna it ain't gonna be that much longer.

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Speaker 2: But she's only eighty years old. It's like, yeah, my

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Speaker 2: dad is eighty.

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Speaker 4: That's still like, well, she looked like she kicking for

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Speaker 4: a minute. She's gonna be one of them that's ninety seven.

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Speaker 3: That'll blow that.

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Speaker 2: Would blow him to seventy years.

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Speaker 3: It's blown up.

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Speaker 4: But they see whatever they see.

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Speaker 1: Man, I ain't promoting, like, go do something else. But

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Speaker 1: women do this all the time.

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Speaker 2: Women do this all the time.

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Speaker 4: But I don't like the situation where men are trying

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Speaker 4: to be like women and women are trying to.

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Speaker 3: Be like man.

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Speaker 2: I just don't know that.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to be like a woman, trying to It's

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Speaker 1: like it's ball of us ball.

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Speaker 3: She's probably showing him some things he ain't seen for sure.

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Speaker 2: You know, she's showing us a lifestyle he ain't never seen.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know what she's showing them.

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Speaker 1: But if it's a lifestyle or things or eighty somethings,

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Speaker 1: maybe the sex is crazy.

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Speaker 3: know things.

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Speaker 2: Dog, She's older, so she's not cooked eighty.

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Speaker 1: This is mentally for me, just mentally, like you know,

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Speaker 1: you get to sit there, your drink right there, she's

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Speaker 1: taking off her clothes.

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Speaker 3: To tell hey, probably drink every day.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you doing a little more than drinking. Baby, that's

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Speaker 2: more than drinking.

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Speaker 2: But she might be having a procedures.

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Speaker 4: Honey, they begin vaginal rejuvenations all type of stuff, and

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Speaker 4: she got the money. So listen what that means you

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Speaker 4: could do what vaginal rejuvenation is. Supposedly it's a procedure

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Speaker 4: that women can get when they are either like had

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Speaker 4: a kid or like stretched out I don't know, and

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Speaker 4: like you never did nothing before. Supposedly, I don't know,

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Speaker 4: but people I've heard of it and people are getting it.

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Speaker 2: City boys, so as.

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Speaker 4: This is a viral quote that's been on the net

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Speaker 4: right now, and a guy said, as a man, I'm

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Speaker 4: not working ten hours to come home and look at

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Speaker 4: a flat ass, but this is crazy. I feel like

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Speaker 4: why are men like this who would say this too?

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Speaker 2: Like that is so crazy. This is only a black

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Speaker 2: man to say this. Why would you go on the internet.

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Speaker 4: And say this like and this is why And men

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Speaker 4: always get me out when I say this because they're like,

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Speaker 4: y'all like to blame them for everything. This is why

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Speaker 4: women get BBOs and all of this because they feel like,

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Speaker 4: you're not gonna want to be with the wom with

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Speaker 4: a flat ass.

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Speaker 2: But that's crazy to me.

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Speaker 4: That's WoT me, like, well you don't want to what

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Speaker 4: like that puts women down and makes it feel crazy.

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Speaker 1: No, I mean, as a black man, you culturally come

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Speaker 1: from like our women are just like naturally have big booties.

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Speaker 1: If you go to Africa. You know, my mom, like

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Speaker 1: this is a true story. My mom went to Africa

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Speaker 1: and she came back and you know, it's one of

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Speaker 1: the first things she said. She was like, man, I

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Speaker 1: have big old booties. I was like, damn, moll, what

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Speaker 1: you like she said that, And I was just like damn.

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Speaker 1: I mean, just culturally, as you know, that's in our DNA.

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Speaker 1: So now, since we are cultural representers of America, people

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Speaker 1: want that look. So now we make it to where

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Speaker 1: like if you ain't got that, you not popping for

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Speaker 1: women and people are they get like sensitive and they

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Speaker 1: get insecure women because they feel like that's what American

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Speaker 1: culture for women should be and that you know, think

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Speaker 1: about this when we walk down the street, if somebody

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Speaker 1: so dang, like like I don't know why we like that,

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Speaker 1: but it's just like dah, he just be like you know,

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Speaker 1: it's the double take on that you like. Damn, that's

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Speaker 1: what drawed me in. I don't know what it is

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Speaker 1: about seeing a woman's booty, is just that we turning

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Speaker 1: around to that, like that's getting our attention more than

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Speaker 1: you can have the ugliest face on the planet.

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Speaker 3: But if you got that thing, are gonna be like,

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Speaker 3: what's going on? You know what I'm saying, Like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's what society and what we made like

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Speaker 1: TV and made it like okay, because before it wasn't

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Speaker 1: like that. Think about the Playboy model had the flat cakes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah it was white American beauty.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so now it's like now.

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Speaker 2: Now everyone has it.

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Speaker 3: It was was frowned upon.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it was like, what is that?

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Speaker 4: Like even in movies when you watch all movies are

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Speaker 4: like how do I get rid of this fact?

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Speaker 2: But like they say like that, You're like what And.

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Speaker 2: But now, what is it? Like?

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Speaker 4: Y'all are doing everything Like I can count more things

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Speaker 4: But y'all tan your skin to look darker. Literally, get

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Speaker 4: Literally do your lips, you do your butt. You want

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Speaker 2: Y'all follow the culture. You want to dress, you want

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Speaker 1: Well, this is what TV is now. Like you know,

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Speaker 1: What's like in the TV now and that's what like

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Speaker 4: But Kim don't have those lifts. She ain't never had

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Speaker 1: She's the reason, Like, because I feel like every girl

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Speaker 1: control with it. They like, I want to give me

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Speaker 1: the Kim K. But now they oh, did I look crazy?

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Speaker 1: And started looking crazy? Like she is really the reason

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Speaker 2: And where did her influence come from. I don't know

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Speaker 4: She kicked it with black people, she was around black people,

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Speaker 3: She came like the thing.

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Speaker 1: Is she made it okay because people was like, why

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Speaker 1: are you women fake?

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Speaker 3: Are you get into this?

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Speaker 2: Why she made it okay? I agree with it, and it.

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Speaker 1: Was okay to do it because people really frowned upon

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Speaker 2: Well this is why too.

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Speaker 4: Black women were mad because Kim K did like braids

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Speaker 4: said something or like people were like Kim K started

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Speaker 4: Black people were mad because like women for so long

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Speaker 4: had a job or job interview, it's like, you can't

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Speaker 4: wear your hair like that. You can't do it like

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Speaker 4: And now Kim's doing it and it's cracking, and now

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Speaker 4: But that's what I'm saying. She's stealing the culture from

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't.

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Speaker 2: I would say that.

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Speaker 3: The reason because I think, uh, I agree.

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Speaker 4: I agree, but when you when you acknowledge and honor it.

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Speaker 4: you know that there's historically with the Kardashians, they have

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Speaker 4: have like lawsuits with them, Kylie all of them. Like

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Speaker 4: and you'll you'll steal their whole idea, You'll make it cracking,

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Speaker 4: and you'll claim it as yours and a lot of

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Speaker 4: people do that, and it's like, all I'm saying is

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Speaker 4: it's okay, it's okay to do that.

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Speaker 2: I don't even hate the Kardashians. I like Kim. I

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Speaker 2: think she's fly, I really do.

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Speaker 4: But I think that as long as you can give

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Speaker 4: that yes, this is from this, like this is from black.

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Speaker 1: People didn't want the credit. You still my ship? You

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Speaker 1: make it popular. Do you want to give me credit?

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Speaker 1: I don't get shipped for it, just credit benefiting from it.

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Speaker 4: Well, your name could it could like them just saying

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Speaker 4: like for them, if they mentioned the name drop somebody,

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Speaker 4: it might change their life. You know, they're very influential,

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Speaker 4: like you said, one of the most influential families.

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Speaker 2: In the world. Like, so I agree with you. I think.

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Speaker 1: Tell you girls out here, you're not gonna look like

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Speaker 1: kim K.

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Speaker 3: Stop it. You're doing too much. You're going overboard.

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Speaker 2: Kim K. Don't even look like Kim K.

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Speaker 1: Be more of your natural self, be a natural soul,

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Speaker 1: like because girls lose theyself in the surgery, you becoming

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Speaker 1: to lose yourself, like you lose your personality, you lose

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Speaker 1: looking at some of these before and after, it's like wow,

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: And you know, but as men, as a culture, we

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Speaker 1: if you don't look.

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Speaker 3: Like this, then you're not gonna get You're not gonna

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Speaker 4: I'll never forget that one time I was with my

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Speaker 4: there she was, he was like, if you would have

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Speaker 4: had some, but I would have been proposed to you.

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Speaker 2: And you know that she.

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Speaker 4: Hopped on the plane and gotta be bl swear to God,

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Speaker 4: always say to me, like you don't understand because you

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Speaker 2: I want a nose job. I have certain shit that

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Speaker 3: Did you change about yourself?

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Speaker 4: I told you, I just always think about having a

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Speaker 2: Nose job for real, Like you know what I'm saying. So,

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Speaker 2: I don't want to look like that, like you know

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Speaker 4: But you know, as a woman, you just analyze everything

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Speaker 4: over just analyzed, like I should do this, I should

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Speaker 4: have this, I should have this, like I should have

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Speaker 4: a boob job, I should have a those jobs.

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Speaker 2: I should do this now. And you think that because

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Speaker 4: Like you want to look perfect, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 4: Like you want to be the best version of yourself.

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Speaker 2: And if I do this, maybe I will be like

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Speaker 2: you know, most like you.

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Speaker 1: Say, be the best version of yourself. Right, But that's

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Speaker 1: what is that, you know, I'm not talking about it.

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Speaker 1: I'm not talking about you, but I'm just talking about women.

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Speaker 1: Always say I want to be the best version of myself.

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Speaker 1: But all the women you go out here, what is that?

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Speaker 4: No, I wouldn't say that, but I would say that

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Speaker 4: it's more of a soul thing, inner thing. But you know,

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Speaker 4: also to physicality is important because men are visual people,

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Speaker 4: you know, and when you're out here as a woman,

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Speaker 4: that you can get. Like that's how women think, like

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Speaker 4: if I look this way, I can get this man.

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Speaker 2: I can get this for dude and have this.

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Speaker 4: And change my life because I look like this. So

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Speaker 4: women literally work at these jobs like McDonald's and crazy stuff,

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Speaker 4: save money to get a BBL so they can go

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Speaker 4: I'm still working at McDonald's Like I'm still not still

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Speaker 1: this conversation like who's the prize? Yeah, women are doing

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Speaker 1: all of that, Yeah they are, they have to.

442
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Speaker 2: Be, but men are doing a lot too.

443
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Speaker 4: What you will say all the time, no, no, no,

444
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Speaker 4: let me tell you, I'll be honest with you.

445
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Speaker 2: Today.

446
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Speaker 4: I was just thinking about this because I did like

447
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Speaker 4: all this stuff, like I have my legs wax, my everything, like.

448
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Speaker 2: My eyebres, this my hair, and it.

449
00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:59,720
Speaker 4: Hurts, Like you don't know how painful it is to

450
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Speaker 4: get you your legs and your body wax. Like I'm

451
00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:04,719
Speaker 4: in there, like I'm in so much pain, right And

452
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 4: I'm thinking to myself like.

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Speaker 2: Damn, we do all of this like so much.

454
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Speaker 4: And but you do, like especially if you have a man,

455
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Speaker 4: You're like I have to make sure i'm fresh, I

456
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Speaker 4: have this, I have that, Like you want to do

457
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Speaker 4: that for the person you're with Yeah, Like, I don't

458
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Speaker 4: know that if that means they're the prize, But I

459
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Speaker 4: do think that I believe that men and women are

460
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Speaker 4: both the price. I think both people bring and add

461
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Speaker 4: so much value that they can make each other better

462
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Speaker 4: if it's the right situation in my opinion.

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Speaker 2: So like, yeah, as women, we do a lot, we

464
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Speaker 2: do a lot.

465
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Speaker 4: We do a lot, and it blows me because you

466
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Speaker 4: do have to Loki. If you're like with somebody, like

467
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Speaker 4: a man is gonna be like girl, huh, like get

468
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Speaker 4: this together? Like you look mess like really like in reality,

469
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 4: like just keep it real, Like you're with a woman.

470
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Speaker 4: Her nails is chipped, her hair is busted, she looks real,

471
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:56,280
Speaker 4: she's a real one. But you're still gonna be like, baby,

472
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Speaker 4: let me give you some money so you could go

473
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Speaker 4: get your shit together, so we could go out and

474
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Speaker 4: you can look like something like you have a chips

475
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:06,879
Speaker 4: like that looks crazy like chip, nails busted, broke, like

476
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 4: just looking crazy like hair busted, hair, like just looking

477
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:14,399
Speaker 4: a mess. You're gonna you're not gonna feel not smelling good,

478
00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 4: not like having an outfit.

479
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Speaker 2: That's fresh in a sweat and a Jordan like you're

480
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Speaker 2: this is crazy.

481
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Speaker 4: For sure, you're gonna be like this is crazy, Like

482
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Speaker 4: you could do that if you're chilling and it's your girl,

483
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 4: and y'all are just like chilling and like. But even then,

484
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Speaker 4: like men want a woman who's naturally beautiful without makeup

485
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Speaker 4: and you're chilling with her and you're looking at her

486
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Speaker 4: when she wakes.

487
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Speaker 3: Up, Well, naturally beauty without makeup is like what I like?

488
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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, no, what.

489
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Speaker 1: I'm saying, it's like what that person likes from his girl,

490
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Speaker 1: Like there's no set definition or no set person like

491
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Speaker 1: I might just like you like.

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Speaker 2: That, right, No, for sure, it don't matter, Like.

493
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Speaker 1: Like who's to say that. Somebody else can say you're

494
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Speaker 1: not beautiful. I just think that you're beautiful like that

495
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Speaker 1: other people might not. It's fine. I don't care what

496
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Speaker 1: other people think. I like you like this. And this

497
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Speaker 1: is the problem with with the women, because the man

498
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Speaker 1: will tell you I like you like this, but still

499
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Speaker 1: want to do the other thing. You know what I'm saying,

500
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Speaker 1: It's like, damn, I liked you like this, and if

501
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Speaker 1: but you cared more about what other people thought of

502
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Speaker 1: you than your own man, And that's sometime women do that.

503
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Speaker 1: He can tell you, like, I don't want you to

504
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Speaker 1: get an ass implant. I wants you to get a

505
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Speaker 1: breast implant. I like you like this, and I'm your

506
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Speaker 1: whole man, I'm your husband, I'm your whole everything. And

507
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Speaker 1: he'll go out want to do it anyway that women

508
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Speaker 1: do that.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

510
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Speaker 4: That's you know that I was with someone who thought that,

511
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Speaker 4: like when people he said he's been with women who

512
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Speaker 4: got like implants and stuff implanted in their body.

513
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Speaker 2: He said it mentally.

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Speaker 4: He was like it literally mentally makes women like crazy.

515
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Speaker 4: He's like, I really believe like putting things in your body. Well,

516
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Speaker 4: I've always felt and been against of putting things in

517
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Speaker 4: my body. I don't want foreign objects in my body

518
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Speaker 4: and stuff like. That's why, like you know, like implants

519
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Speaker 4: are like a silicone thing, or like when people get

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Speaker 4: button plants, or like, you know, one of the most

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Speaker 4: dangerous surgeries in the world is a BBL. It's the

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Speaker 4: most dangerous surgery ever and people still do it every day,

523
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Speaker 4: Like and it kills me because it's like you want

524
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Speaker 4: to butt so bad. But again, I don't know, like

525
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Speaker 4: I can't relate to that portion of it, but I

526
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Speaker 4: understand wanting.

527
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Speaker 2: To change yourself?

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Speaker 3: No relate.

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Speaker 2: Shut.

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Speaker 4: do you wish men knew more about? Like what do

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Speaker 4: you wish women knew more about men? Like what things

539
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 4: do women just miss about men?

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00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:07,360
Speaker 2: Always? And it's like, why don't you guys get this?

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Speaker 1: I think sometimes women sometimes have a harder understanding of.

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Speaker 3: Reading the room, now.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, so what we need

544
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Speaker 1: more of for women is do a better job at

545
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Speaker 1: reading the room. Like if he have a long day,

546
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Speaker 1: he come up and you can see it on his face.

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Speaker 1: Don't start irritating them with like just questions, flooding them

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Speaker 1: with shit. I mean, And I think it's vice versa

549
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 1: for the man too with the women. You know, sometimes

550
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Speaker 1: we might be irritating when you didn't have a long day,

551
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Speaker 1: and you won't really want to deal with it. But

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Speaker 1: that's life. But like as far as fantasy and what

553
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Speaker 1: I want more from a woman?

554
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,680
Speaker 4: Like what do you want women to know about men?

555
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 4: Like what are we missing?

556
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 2: Yeah?

557
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 4: Like what are women missing when it comes to men?

558
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 4: Like you wish that all women just understood about a man?

559
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 1: Every man is different, but a man like not just

560
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Speaker 1: basic like assembly line?

561
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 2: Okay, so what it's.

562
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 3: Everything has its own feature?

563
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 2: What is yours? What do you I'm asking you?

564
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Speaker 3: So you asked it for me?

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Speaker 1: All?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like what do you wish women knew to understand

567
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 4: more about me?

568
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 3: That I'm difficult? I know that.

569
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Speaker 1: And understanding that I'm difficult, But at the end of

570
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Speaker 1: the day, I know I mean well and I want

571
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Speaker 1: the best. And like I said, every man, every woman

572
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Speaker 1: is different. I can't go into a relationship. I can't

573
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Speaker 1: go into a situation to be like, all right, this

574
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Speaker 1: is going to a playbook. There's no playbook for a relationship.

575
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 1: There's no playbook for like getting to know that person.

576
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 1: You just have to know your partner and get to

577
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Speaker 1: know your partner and ask questions.

578
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Speaker 3: I think you know when you look at it.

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Speaker 1: At the end of the day, men need to be

580
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Speaker 1: better at communication. More communication for men because women will

581
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 1: over communicate, your ass, Like we have to be better

582
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Speaker 1: at communication. We assume that y'all post to know stuff

583
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Speaker 1: after the first time, because well, you know, we'll give

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Speaker 1: you the playbook. But we got to keep giving y'all

585
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Speaker 1: the playbook because y'all want to keep hearing the playbook

586
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Speaker 1: we do. And there's nothing wrong with That's what I feel, like,

587
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Speaker 1: you know, I have to learn about women, you know,

588
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 1: But what a woman has to learn about a man

589
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Speaker 1: like don't keep annoying him with the same damn things.

590
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Speaker 1: Pick your battles, you know what I'm saying. Women like

591
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Speaker 1: small battles. Dang, you just ain't gonna put the soap back,

592
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 1: like we're.

593
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Speaker 3: About to argue about that. Like women have to do a.

594
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Speaker 1: Better job at picking their battles with men, Like we

595
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 1: can't be having all these little small battles, you know.

596
00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:22,239
Speaker 1: And I think that's one thing women have to do

597
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Speaker 1: a better job at with us, Like you know, when

598
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Speaker 1: it's then when it's something major, I get it, Oh,

599
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Speaker 1: you know this this, or that the bill ain't been

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Speaker 1: paid or you or you know, it's like, you know,

601
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Speaker 1: levels to like arguments, because then a man feels like

602
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Speaker 1: you're nagging, it turns into nagging and that gets annoying

603
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Speaker 1: for a man.

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Speaker 3: So I think women have to do a.

605
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Speaker 1: Better job at figuring out what do I get hot

606
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Speaker 1: at him about instead of you know what, I could

607
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Speaker 1: let that go, We could talk about it, but I can't.

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Speaker 3: All right, this is one thing.

609
00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 1: Talk about stuff with a man, but don't make it

610
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Speaker 1: sound like an argument.

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Speaker 3: Yeah that's what.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I can agree with that.

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Speaker 4: I think for me, I would say I wish that

614
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 4: men would just accept and understand women are emotional creatures.

615
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 4: Like we're emotional. We have different hormone fluctuations. Literally we

616
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 4: are built like our bodies scientifically, hormone like fluctuate every week.

617
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Speaker 4: We have a little phase, we have ovulation, then we're

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Speaker 4: menstruating on our period, like we have one good week

619
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Speaker 4: out the bunth where it's not something going on and

620
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Speaker 4: god forbid you have anything else in your life. So

621
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Speaker 4: when men complain about women and their emotions, it's like,

622
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Speaker 4: do you not want to be with a woman because

623
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Speaker 4: women are more emotional? Men are less like you Guys

624
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:41,440
Speaker 4: have less emotion than us, or at least you don't

625
00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 4: have the fluctuation of feelings like we do. So we

626
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Speaker 4: might need more reassurance, we might need to feel like

627
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Speaker 4: we're loved certain days, or we need those things. And

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Speaker 4: I wish men just understood that because that's just how

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Speaker 4: we are. It just is what it is, and it's

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Speaker 4: not really changing that. So if you really like women,

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Speaker 4: you really like that because you know that that's what

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Speaker 4: it is when it comes to being with a woman, like,

633
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Speaker 4: that's just what we are. We're going to be emotional

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Speaker 4: and if we love you, it's gonna be like we

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Speaker 4: want to hear it.

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Speaker 2: Period. So that's how I feel.

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Speaker 3: To fit, you should get the fans of three six.

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Speaker 2: I'm not doing that.

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Speaker 4: No, people ask for that every day.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm not doing that. I'm not. I don't feel

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Speaker 2: comfortable with that. I don't feel comfortable with that.

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Speaker 3: How can need to go to your page?

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Speaker 2: I don't have my stuff to my pages? Don't show that. No,

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Speaker 2: I don't have that on my.

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Speaker 4: Pase something like if they see me where like maybe

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Speaker 4: like a video where I was like, there might be

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Speaker 4: a video where John now took where I'm like, Janet is.

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Speaker 3: Stoo a video the other day. I saw what you

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Speaker 3: was dancing.

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Speaker 2: Before and after? You see before and after? You can

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Speaker 2: see that? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah you can't.

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Speaker 4: Actually because I've been posting my weight loss before and

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Speaker 4: after so you can see the full body, so people

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00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 4: can see my transformation. So yeah, you can see it

661
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 4: on there. But you know, I'm not giving nobody no

662
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 4: three six quick, no, Paul, like, what is wrong with you?

663
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:34,120
Speaker 4: I'm not promoting that just the Vince Carter. No, I'm

664
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 4: not promoting that's crazy.

665
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 2: So anyway, speaking of.

666
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 4: American women, one point four million American women are now

667
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 4: on only fans.

668
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 3: Million women are only fans.

669
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 4: American women only are on only fans one point four million.

670
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 2: I don't know one point four so we have.

671
00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:01,160
Speaker 1: One point four I mean I don't see nothing wrong

672
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 1: with that. I mean women are coming up.

673
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, women are supposedly with these women are making so

674
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 4: much money on there, like listen, damn.

675
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:13,080
Speaker 2: It's crazy because.

676
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:16,799
Speaker 1: This generation has learned to make money the easy way exactly.

677
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 4: And you know what, I should get more credit as

678
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 4: a woman to have the body that I have and

679
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 4: not be on only fans. I think people should be

680
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 4: really congratulating me for that. No, they should congratulate me

681
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 4: for that, because I could probably be coming up on

682
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:33,480
Speaker 4: a check right now off of own fans, but I

683
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:35,399
Speaker 4: choose to not do that.

684
00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:37,240
Speaker 3: How much you will get I'm getting.

685
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 2: I'm getting paid.

686
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:40,319
Speaker 3: I know. I'm just saying how much you will take

687
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:41,280
Speaker 3: only fans they said.

688
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:43,399
Speaker 2: Tomorrow, I'm not taking it. I'm not taking it because

689
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 2: that's what.

690
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 3: You got to do. No sexual you just got to

691
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 3: be on some just like what do you have to do.

692
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 1: Hanging around just some coconut way alone naked just was

693
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: like like some bikini or something like.

694
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 2: And you're just putting coconut No, no, No.

695
00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 4: The reason I can't do it is because it's just

696
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 4: like a digital foot that lasts forever. Like I really

697
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 4: care about the fact that I'm like a certain type

698
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 4: of woman. I really do. Like that means so much

699
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 4: to me. I cannot sell my soul for that. If

700
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 4: I'm down bad, I always say, you can hit that street.

701
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:16,919
Speaker 2: You can hit that the only bad you know, I'm

702
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 2: down that bad, but I don't. I don't. I don't

703
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:20,040
Speaker 2: put that on a million.

704
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 4: If I'm down bad and I'm on the street, I'm

705
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 4: not doing that.

706
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 2: Leave me alone.

707
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:30,359
Speaker 4: And you know what's crazy is that men always are

708
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:32,640
Speaker 4: like if I was a woman, I would be only

709
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,320
Speaker 4: fans right now, I would.

710
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:36,800
Speaker 2: Be selling by like I'll be selling sex.

711
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:38,799
Speaker 3: And everything like this.

712
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 1: And you have to be you gotta think logically, like

713
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: you gotta think as a woman.

714
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:51,319
Speaker 3: You've dated men and have boyfriends.

715
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 1: Okay, that's like taking you to dinners and did all

716
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:58,080
Speaker 1: these things spend money on you that you've done had

717
00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:01,760
Speaker 1: sexual activities with. You don't have to do no sexual

718
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:05,200
Speaker 1: activities for only fans. Just be sexual and get no.

719
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 4: People are having sex on there, the people who are

720
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 4: making real money unless they're a celebrity, they're having sex.

721
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 3: So they're monetizing porn on it.

722
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:18,719
Speaker 4: Yes, they're having sex. They're having sex women each other,

723
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:21,439
Speaker 4: men all that. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, they're having sex.

724
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 2: I don't follow. But the thing because I know I

725
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 2: see it on the internet. People talk about it.

726
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:28,720
Speaker 4: Like even one of the girls that's like super popular,

727
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:31,399
Speaker 4: she has a whole thing called a bop house, and

728
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 4: like in Miami, it's like all the bops that have

729
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 4: only fans they live in I guess they do content.

730
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 2: I think it's a content.

731
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:42,320
Speaker 3: Kind of like sex.

732
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I see it because I just see things

733
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 4: on the internet and like they talk about it, like

734
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 4: they'll promote, like guess what, guys tonight, we're doing this.

735
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 4: Even the Adam twenty two guy with his wife or whatever,

736
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 4: she has sex with black men on there he watches

737
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 4: or they do three sons, like it's all about having sex.

738
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 2: Like there's some women who make shakes.

739
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 4: They're not making the same unless they're like a celebrity

740
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:05,359
Speaker 4: that people are obsessed with and want to see them.

741
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 4: Like Black China, she probably don't have sex on there.

742
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 4: She just be doing her own thing because people want

743
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 4: to see her. She's already famous. Like so it's different

744
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:14,799
Speaker 4: because you have a huge fan base. But if you're

745
00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 4: a person that's just regular and you just have a

746
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 4: body or something, you're just like a little you.

747
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 2: Not you having sex.

748
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 4: You having sex, Like men can see too many other

749
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 4: things to just watch you and pay. You're not nobody

750
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:29,799
Speaker 4: just to be Yeah, you're having sex on there? And

751
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 4: I'm never doing that like ever, So you can't pay

752
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 4: me to do that.

753
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:36,360
Speaker 2: I'm just telling you that right now. So but like

754
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 2: a ruby rose like she's on there.

755
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:43,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, go ahead, man stranger, just a good looking man

756
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:47,759
Speaker 1: on the streets. Hey, I've been following your podcast and

757
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 1: I really admire you. You're beautiful and everything. Like, uh,

758
00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:55,879
Speaker 1: like you see that movie?

759
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love Pretty Woman, That's one of my favorite.

760
00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 1: But in a different way, I just want to million

761
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 1: just to sleep.

762
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 4: That's crazy because how to cut your no, because you

763
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:13,360
Speaker 4: know how I feel. But have you ever seen the movie?

764
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:16,360
Speaker 4: Have you ever seen the movie where it's the couple

765
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 4: and they go to that house with the fam the

766
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:21,400
Speaker 4: man who's really rich, and he says, I propose a

767
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:22,839
Speaker 4: deal for one night.

768
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:24,800
Speaker 2: I want you and I'll give you like a million dollars.

769
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:27,400
Speaker 4: And she goes back to her husband and the husband's like,

770
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 4: do it, like he's thirst do it. You'll do it

771
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 4: like we need the money or whatever, just one night?

772
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 4: Who cares? I forgot the name. And then she goes

773
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 4: and does it. But then there's.

774
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:38,320
Speaker 2: Always strings attached.

775
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 4: My dad always taught me, listen, there's always gonna be

776
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:43,360
Speaker 4: strings attached. I remember a man bought me like a

777
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:46,840
Speaker 4: red bottom when red bottoms was like so cracking and expensive.

778
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:48,439
Speaker 2: And I was such a young I was young.

779
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:51,479
Speaker 4: I was like seventeen, eighteen years old, and I came

780
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:54,439
Speaker 4: home and I showed my dad and he was just like, what,

781
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 4: like a man who's doing that for you?

782
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:59,120
Speaker 2: I hope you know what that means? Like there are

783
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 2: strings attached.

784
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 4: That he's not just buying those shoes for two twenty

785
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:05,479
Speaker 4: one hundred dollars And this is a long time ago,

786
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 4: Like no, Like so there's always whatever you do, there's

787
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 4: a price to pay, whether it's a financial price or

788
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 4: something else, a piece of your souil, your heart, your spirit,

789
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:17,759
Speaker 4: You're gonna pay something maybe, So like I don't want

790
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:20,200
Speaker 4: to like play them type of games and them lifestyles

791
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,799
Speaker 4: are is really dark, like that pouring the world and

792
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 4: them strippers, Like it's a dark lifestyle. Like I had

793
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 4: a homegrowl in Atlanta who was a stripper, one of

794
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:30,880
Speaker 4: the most popping strippers at on Ex Strip club and

795
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 4: she lived in a hotel like but a crazy one

796
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:34,359
Speaker 4: and like with.

797
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:36,719
Speaker 2: A sun and like it's just it's too much, Like

798
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 2: I don't like that lifestyle.

799
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 4: It's just dark, and then you're what do you think

800
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 4: them strippers are also doing other things, like you're not

801
00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:45,919
Speaker 4: just stripping. Now a man's gonna come in there. Hey,

802
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:48,839
Speaker 4: I'll give you ten thousand for the night to do this.

803
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 4: Then you're doing that, and then who knows what else

804
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 4: is happening And I'm not living like that.

805
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's scary.

806
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:56,959
Speaker 4: What if a woman came up to you right now

807
00:39:57,239 --> 00:39:59,720
Speaker 4: and was like, Hey, Paul Pierce, I love you down,

808
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:01,720
Speaker 4: I'm such a fan of yours.

809
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:03,840
Speaker 2: I'll give you twenty million right now.

810
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:08,600
Speaker 4: I'll give it for one get a cracket, I need everything,

811
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,839
Speaker 4: but I could do anything. How long she get, she

812
00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:14,600
Speaker 4: gets one night and she could do anything she wants

813
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:14,880
Speaker 4: to you.

814
00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:19,280
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, like she gets cracked.

815
00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 1: In the exit hole. No, we ain't doing all that. Non't, don't,

816
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:25,680
Speaker 1: don't anything.

817
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 4: Okay, So no without that, without that, without that, but

818
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:32,000
Speaker 4: anything else?

819
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 3: What do you mean anything else? Though it's gotta be

820
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:37,960
Speaker 3: you know, we're.

821
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:42,880
Speaker 4: Not saying that part no exit hal thing like twenty

822
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 4: mili right now. You come with me, no questions like no,

823
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:49,360
Speaker 4: give me your phone, turn it off because.

824
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:50,839
Speaker 2: I don't want no one to know where we're going.

825
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:55,359
Speaker 4: Get in right now. The car is right here, right there. Yeah,

826
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 4: twenty mil. She's about eighty years old.

827
00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 3: Run run that.

828
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:01,360
Speaker 2: See that's the thing.

829
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 3: About man, Roll something up, run that.

830
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:10,440
Speaker 2: You know what? You know what's crazy? I want to

831
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 2: ask you a question. This is the thing.

832
00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 4: Men are so different. That's why men are always Like

833
00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 4: if I was a woman, I would do this right,

834
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 4: But let.

835
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 2: Me tell you.

836
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 4: What's the scariest thing you have to think about on

837
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:22,880
Speaker 4: a date, like on your first day, Like, what's the

838
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:24,840
Speaker 4: craziest thing, like the scariest thing that would happen?

839
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 3: I think for a man getting set.

840
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 4: Up, okay, getting ribbed killed from a woman, Like getting

841
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 4: set up by a woman. That's a good one. Okay, Yeah,

842
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 4: so women have so many worries more than that on

843
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:41,360
Speaker 4: a first day.

844
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:44,880
Speaker 2: Or meeting up with the man. Yeah you do. You know,

845
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:46,439
Speaker 2: you're right, you're right.

846
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 4: But what Okay, we're getting raped before you're getting killed.

847
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 4: You don't think that that's crazy, Like getting all these

848
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 4: things drugged, raped, killed, Like that's.

849
00:41:58,120 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 2: Worse than just getting ribbed or killed.

850
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:01,399
Speaker 4: I'd rather just get robbed and killed because then I'm

851
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:04,240
Speaker 4: not getting raped to you don't think that that's.

852
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:11,280
Speaker 2: Worse to get raped before you're a man.

853
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 4: You don't know about being raped as a man, like

854
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 4: maybe you do, like men know about that.

855
00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 2: I'm not going to take that away from man. No, no,

856
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 2: but man man.

857
00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:24,400
Speaker 4: As women, we have to fear way more things than

858
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:26,239
Speaker 4: man when it comes to being around man. When it

859
00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:28,759
Speaker 4: comes to like you can't even like go walking at

860
00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:30,880
Speaker 4: a certain time at night, you can't go running like

861
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 4: men have the freedom to do a lot of other

862
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:33,759
Speaker 4: things that women don't have the.

863
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:34,319
Speaker 2: Freedom to do.

864
00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 3: What type of women already talking about?

865
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:39,239
Speaker 2: Does that matter?

866
00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 3: What demographics? Does this happen? This of thing's happened to.

867
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 4: Like I can't go do some of those things. What

868
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 4: like you can't go running and walking at night? Like

869
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 4: I can't hill?

870
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:54,319
Speaker 3: Do you want to go walking and running at night?

871
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:57,360
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm done with this convo with you doing today?

872
00:42:57,719 --> 00:42:58,560
Speaker 3: Be smart?

873
00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 4: My point is is even if it's not night, it

874
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:03,239
Speaker 4: gets dark early. It could be five o'clock and I

875
00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:05,360
Speaker 4: want to go walk to the store really quick. I

876
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:08,120
Speaker 4: want to go do something outside. Like you have to

877
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:10,279
Speaker 4: live in much more fear all the time. I have

878
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:12,479
Speaker 4: to look behind my back. I'm scared because I can't

879
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:13,960
Speaker 4: protect myself against a man one time.

880
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:14,760
Speaker 2: I was in traffic.

881
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:17,040
Speaker 3: You know that, don't do those things.

882
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:19,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, but there are some things. There's some things that

883
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 2: you can't control.

884
00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:22,880
Speaker 4: I was in traffic one day and a man opened

885
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 4: my back door and sat in my car and was

886
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 4: crazy a psycho.

887
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:30,440
Speaker 2: Man. No, I was in my car. Goodbye.

888
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:32,799
Speaker 3: What you talking?

889
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:35,360
Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out what you're talking about. You

890
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:37,239
Speaker 1: said you was in your car and a man jumped

891
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 1: in your back shot. Yes, lock your goddamn doors. Yeah, okay, driving,

892
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:50,240
Speaker 1: what's your damn problem? Think about I do just walked

893
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:54,319
Speaker 1: to the house. Lock your goddamn door at home? What's

894
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:58,319
Speaker 1: your problem? What's wrong with you?

895
00:43:58,440 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 3: Females?

896
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 2: Door? I lock my that's not your cruise. I have

897
00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:12,160
Speaker 2: awareness and a lot of women awareness.

898
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 1: Me too, me too, driving down the street? My doors?

899
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 4: What if it's just an accident that your door wasn't

900
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:20,560
Speaker 4: like like it was just literally a fluke. I had

901
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 4: just hopped into my car and got out and boom.

902
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 4: I just didn't lock my door right.

903
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 3: Away, So you jumped in the car, jump right in.

904
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 2: Goodbye. I'm not I'm not. I'm going to move forward.

905
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 4: I have some so if anyone tries to run up,

906
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 4: I have some don't try me because I'm not just

907
00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 4: loose out here.

908
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 2: I am protected.

909
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 3: I'm protected.

910
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:44,879
Speaker 2: He did, he did.

911
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 4: I was Monica and he was crazy. It was crazy.

912
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:51,759
Speaker 4: I was on Santa Monica. I had just got out.

913
00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 3: Jump in the car.

914
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:54,600
Speaker 2: He jumped in the car.

915
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 4: And literally I was like, oh my god, are you okay?

916
00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:00,759
Speaker 4: And because he was calm, yeah, because I'm not going

917
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 4: to panic under pressure, Like I've been through a lot

918
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:05,920
Speaker 4: of crazy situations, so I know how to be calm.

919
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 4: And I'm like, what was going on? Because he's like

920
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 4: he's like a crackhead. So I'm like, I'm nervous because

921
00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 4: first of all, you smell. I don't want you to

922
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 4: touch me, and I just don't want you to do

923
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:18,359
Speaker 4: anything to me. So I'm just like, are you good?

924
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 2: Do you need me to take you somewhere?

925
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:23,480
Speaker 4: Like I was like, all right, well, I'm gonna pull

926
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 4: over and we're gonna get you somewhere.

927
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:28,240
Speaker 3: And he was like all right, so you was driving.

928
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, So he was in the middle of traffic, jumps

929
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 1: in and then you were just calm.

930
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:38,440
Speaker 3: Like it's everything okay. Yeah, I was.

931
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:42,440
Speaker 1: You're supposed to be like, you're supposed to cause a scene.

932
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 1: You a woman, you gotta cause a scene. You gotta

933
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:49,160
Speaker 1: make people aware that something at right right now when

934
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:51,280
Speaker 1: you in this traffic as a woman.

935
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 3: This is my advice.

936
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:55,920
Speaker 1: If something you uncomfortable with something, you gotta cause a

937
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 1: scene to what now, eyes is looking?

938
00:45:58,480 --> 00:45:59,399
Speaker 3: You got people looking.

939
00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 2: Everyone was already looking. They already do. Everyone was looking.

940
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 4: They saw no they saw him jump in, and I

941
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 4: was looking like the person no.

942
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 1: One can might have thought you was picking them out.

943
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 1: Nobody cared like you got to cause a scene. You

944
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:15,920
Speaker 1: gotta be like, hey.

945
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:16,399
Speaker 3: This guy.

946
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:19,399
Speaker 4: The thing about causing a scene is I didn't want

947
00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 4: him to react to me causing a scene.

948
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 2: He was was sporadic.

949
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 3: You gotta jump that damn car.

950
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:28,799
Speaker 1: I'm teaching you, just as life, jump on the car

951
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 1: because what if he jump behind you, he could like

952
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:31,279
Speaker 1: slash you.

953
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

954
00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:35,359
Speaker 3: I was gone, you gotta jump out.

955
00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:37,399
Speaker 4: What if I caused the scene and then he did

956
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:39,920
Speaker 4: something and it like made him react to jump out

957
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:45,320
Speaker 4: the car and yell immediate, okay, I'll do that next time. That, ladies,

958
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 4: that's what we have to do. What are lies that

959
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 4: all black people tell? Black people always tell like what's

960
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:52,480
Speaker 4: the lie that black people always tell?

961
00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:56,400
Speaker 2: Oh, that's easy, I'm on my way.

962
00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:59,360
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'll be there at fifteen.

963
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:03,719
Speaker 1: I mean the fifteen a all right, So fifteen means

964
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 1: thirty forty five.

965
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 2: If you like it, I love it.

966
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 3: Right, I'll be there. I'm on my way.

967
00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:17,839
Speaker 2: I'm not sleeping. I'm just resting my eyes. Why would

968
00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 2: I lie?

969
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

970
00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:25,160
Speaker 2: Call me if you need anything. I'm praying for you.

971
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:26,919
Speaker 3: I'm gonna call you right back.

972
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 2: I'm you right. My hair was long till my mama

973
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:37,920
Speaker 2: gave me a purp. I'm crying. That's a funny thing. Anyway.

974
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:42,760
Speaker 4: So Young Jeezy was on a podcast with TD Jake's

975
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 4: Bishop TD Jakes, and he was basically saying that he

976
00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:49,120
Speaker 4: feels like, you know, obviously he was married and he

977
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:51,560
Speaker 4: went through a divorce. Okay, he was married and he

978
00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:53,400
Speaker 4: went through divorce, and he feels like the key to

979
00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:59,080
Speaker 4: a healthy marriage is to be friends first. Do you

980
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 4: agree with that? He feels like he didn't do that

981
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:05,040
Speaker 4: with his last marriage. Now he's divorced, and he's like,

982
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 4: I feel like, if the foundation of a good.

983
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 2: Marriage is to have a friendship with that person, I.

984
00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:13,880
Speaker 3: Think so, I think that's a good foundation to have.

985
00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:19,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds, it sounds, you know, but like how

986
00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:21,799
Speaker 1: long we I mean, you know, it's it's difficult because

987
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Yeah, maybe that's because a

988
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:28,040
Speaker 1: lot like truthfully, a lot of relationships are start sexual

989
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:30,040
Speaker 1: and it's built on sex.

990
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:32,000
Speaker 2: And that's not good though.

991
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 1: That's like, I feel like ninety percent of relationships are

992
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:36,359
Speaker 1: built on set.

993
00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:38,800
Speaker 4: But I think that that's the problem. That's what he's saying.

994
00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:41,839
Speaker 4: He's like, I built my relationships like that and they

995
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:44,399
Speaker 4: were falling apart because we didn't get to know each

996
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:45,440
Speaker 4: other and have the foundation.

997
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 1: I just think when you're in relationships, you got to

998
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:51,840
Speaker 1: figure out what works for you. That's what works for you.

999
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 1: You know, that's the worse for you. And whether it's

1000
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:56,920
Speaker 1: built on sex, which it's built on friendship, it's still end,

1001
00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 1: like you don't want it to end, you know, So

1002
00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 1: you know whatever, just mentally and physically you feel like

1003
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 1: it's the right thing that you feel like gonna have

1004
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:08,640
Speaker 1: a great foundation long run, then you gotta do.

1005
00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:10,759
Speaker 4: That, okay, and then one last thing and then we're

1006
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 4: gonna wrap it up. Poorsia Williams who recently came out

1007
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 4: with in a lesbian relationship. She said successful women attract

1008
00:49:16,040 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 4: jealous men who want to tear us down.

1009
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:19,319
Speaker 2: Do you agree with that?

1010
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 4: Say that successful women attract jealous men who want to

1011
00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:27,280
Speaker 4: tear us down, dim our light, and make us feel

1012
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:32,120
Speaker 4: like less than And basically, I mean she's in.

1013
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 3: That, she's in that she's a successful black woman. Yeah,

1014
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:38,359
Speaker 3: and you know.

1015
00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 1: She's probably feeling that, you know what I'm saying. So

1016
00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 1: I really don't know how I feel about that. I

1017
00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:47,800
Speaker 1: feel like it's a shame. I just feel like success,

1018
00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 1: it doesn't even have to be a woman. I think

1019
00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:52,640
Speaker 1: people try to tear you down when you're successful.

1020
00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:55,640
Speaker 2: Anyway, that's true, you know, it has no color.

1021
00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:57,600
Speaker 4: But do you feel like if you're with a woman

1022
00:49:57,640 --> 00:50:00,359
Speaker 4: in a relationship and you're successful a woman, and we'll

1023
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:01,880
Speaker 4: be like trying to tear you down?

1024
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:04,520
Speaker 1: That don't even sound right? Why are you trying to

1025
00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:06,280
Speaker 1: tell me down? If if I were together?

1026
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:09,960
Speaker 4: That's what she's saying when a relationship, men get with

1027
00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:12,319
Speaker 4: women who are successful and they try to dim their

1028
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:13,480
Speaker 4: light and tear them down.

1029
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:14,720
Speaker 3: Oh damn.

1030
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:18,000
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even know how to speak on that, like,

1031
00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:20,800
Speaker 1: because I'll be trying to uplift you. I'll be proud

1032
00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:22,719
Speaker 1: of you, like because you do a lot of a

1033
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:27,280
Speaker 1: lot of successful men don't don't get with successful women. Yeah,

1034
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:30,360
Speaker 1: you know, so like maybe the man is not successful

1035
00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:32,360
Speaker 1: and she is and he's.

1036
00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:34,560
Speaker 2: Trying to loan because you want him.

1037
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 3: And it's messing with his ego.

1038
00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:37,719
Speaker 2: That's what it happens, you know what I'm saying.

1039
00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:40,640
Speaker 1: So he like, you know, instead of trying to uplift

1040
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:42,359
Speaker 1: her and be like be proud of her and try

1041
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:44,440
Speaker 1: to take her to the next level, you got to

1042
00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 1: be like you you on some jealousy shit really, like

1043
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:47,399
Speaker 1: which is weak.

1044
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 2: That's a week emotion.

1045
00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:51,399
Speaker 4: That's a week and it doesn't mean it doesn't mean

1046
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,480
Speaker 4: that the man is not successful. Because I was with

1047
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:56,000
Speaker 4: I'll never forget this. My ex told me years and

1048
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:57,680
Speaker 4: years ago. I was like, I think I want to

1049
00:50:57,680 --> 00:50:59,320
Speaker 4: start a podcast because people always tell me like I

1050
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:01,319
Speaker 4: have a voice and I talk. And he looked me

1051
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:03,600
Speaker 4: dead in the face and was like, you should never

1052
00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:06,319
Speaker 4: have a podcast. Like no, he literally told me, swear

1053
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:08,000
Speaker 4: to god, I'll never get this moment. He was like,

1054
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:12,160
Speaker 4: you honestly, like you know, like you're smart, but like

1055
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:15,160
Speaker 4: sometimes like I don't know how smart you are, and like,

1056
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:17,040
Speaker 4: if someone asked you a question, I wouldn't want you

1057
00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:18,880
Speaker 4: to be embarrassed because you don't know how to respond.

1058
00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:21,280
Speaker 4: Like I just think I don't want you to look stupid,

1059
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 4: like people train for this, You're just not meant for

1060
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:26,280
Speaker 4: that type of thing. And I literally was like damn okay,

1061
00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:28,360
Speaker 4: and I really was like okay, and I didn't do

1062
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:29,480
Speaker 4: it at that time.

1063
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:31,560
Speaker 2: Timing is everything, but people do that.

1064
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 1: I think some men and women that go both ways,

1065
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:36,680
Speaker 1: they don't want you to be bigger than them.

1066
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 4: That's what it is, one hundred percent because if I

1067
00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:42,440
Speaker 4: keep you here, you need me and you're depending on me.

1068
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:44,799
Speaker 2: So if I know you have something and.

1069
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:46,920
Speaker 4: A gift and you start to show that to the world,

1070
00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:48,400
Speaker 4: you can go past me.

1071
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 2: And I don't like that. That's what it is.

1072
00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:54,520
Speaker 4: Well, thank you guys so much for joining us on

1073
00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:56,239
Speaker 4: another episode of The Truth After Dark.

1074
00:51:56,520 --> 00:51:57,239
Speaker 2: We love you guys.

1075
00:51:57,239 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 4: Make sure you guys are subscribed, tap in, share, comment,

1076
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:04,840
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1077
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:07,480
Speaker 4: so please make sure you guys go check us out

1078
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:09,319
Speaker 4: on to B and.

1079
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Speaker 1: Yeah in some of our old episodes because we got

1080
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:14,799
Speaker 1: some classics. You know, don't just keep up with the

1081
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:17,239
Speaker 1: weekly these old episodes, you need to backtrack at them.

1082
00:52:17,520 --> 00:52:19,680
Speaker 3: We got some classes, Yeah, make you tune in to

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Speaker 3: be We'll.

1084
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:23,839
Speaker 1: Be up uploading more episodes, so make sure you tune

1085
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Speaker 1: in YouTube subscribe like we appreciate y'all, love, y'all peace.

1086
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:55,520
Speaker 1: This is the taking over the game, all right, everybody,

1087
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:58,360
Speaker 1: Welcome to Truth after Dark.

1088
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:03,520
Speaker 4: Do you think think that men or women are more toxic?

1089
00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:06,840
Speaker 3: H