Speaker 1: Second date. Updated dating is a perfect time to try
Speaker 1: new things. Okay, whether that's recreation or amputation. Who how
Speaker 1: about a vacation to another nation with a brief incarceration.
Speaker 1: As long as we're doing something that rhymes with ation
Speaker 1: that I'm up for it. Hey, I do that a lot.
Speaker 2: Don't give me any explanation.
Speaker 1: And it sounds like one of our listeners was up
Speaker 1: for it too. His name is Chad. So let's welcome
Speaker 1: to the show, Chad.
Speaker 2: I wanted to be chat Nation.
Speaker 1: You know, Chad? What's up man? How you doing?
Speaker 3: Hey, how you guys doing.
Speaker 1: My last name is Salutation. Hey, dude, thanks for being
Speaker 1: on with us. Tell us about the girl that you met.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'm at this girl online. Her name is Pamela.
Speaker 3: I'm a huge cat person, and I saw our profile
Speaker 3: picture and like these two cats fuoking each other to
Speaker 3: hairless cats, which is wait.
Speaker 4: Her dating profile is a picture of two hairless cats
Speaker 4: looking at each other.
Speaker 1: Exactly to people that some people have the silhouette, they
Speaker 1: don't put any pictures up. So a couple of cats,
Speaker 1: some bald cats, could be a nice little euphemism that
Speaker 1: she's trying to throw your Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: I'm just going to go with the hot note. I
Speaker 2: don't think that's her cat people's minds.
Speaker 1: That's just me. I messed up ahead, Okay, but you
Speaker 1: liked you liked her sphinx cats.
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, yeah, I've always been, like I said, I'm
Speaker 3: a huge animal lover, but specifically cats.
Speaker 1: So you reached out to her and what happened?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so we started talking hit it off for good.
Speaker 3: Of course, the cats were the first thing that we
Speaker 3: started talking about. And then like she asked me, She's like,
Speaker 3: you want to go out sometime?
Speaker 2: And I was like yeah, So it was nice a
Speaker 2: bold cat lady.
Speaker 1: Even then, exactly what did she ask you to do?
Speaker 3: Well? She asked if I wanted to go with her
Speaker 3: to line dancing.
Speaker 1: It doesn't rhyme with Asian, but that's okay.
Speaker 2: Are you a big dancer? Is that a Is that
Speaker 2: a comfort zone for you?
Speaker 3: It is not a comfort zone And it definitely came
Speaker 3: out of left field for me.
Speaker 4: And live dance can be tricky, like you get going
Speaker 4: the wrong way and suddenly everything's messed up.
Speaker 1: Well, good for you for putting yourself out there trying
Speaker 1: something a little bit different. How did it go?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was good. I mean, you know, on our
Speaker 3: way there, I was I was feeling a little rundown.
Speaker 3: So on the way there, we stopped at a Starbucks.
Speaker 3: I grabbed myself my shaking oat milk espresso, which I'm
Speaker 3: addicted to nowadays.
Speaker 1: I heard alexis hot hot on a good choice the menu.
Speaker 4: Were you guys driving together to the day. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: see that's a good sign too.
Speaker 1: Yeah. A lot of trust there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean everything, everything was great. God, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4: Oh, I was just gonna ask if like the dancing
Speaker 4: part of it made you extra.
Speaker 2: Nervous for sure.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and not only the dancing part once we got there,
Speaker 3: Like I mentioned, I'm a total beginner. And one thing
Speaker 3: I didn't know. You guys might not this, but with
Speaker 3: line dancing, you're constantly switching partners all the time.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I don't know. That's kind of rough for a date
Speaker 1: night if you're always dancing with other people date night.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was very awkward, and uh, you know, I'm
Speaker 3: I'm not really the jealous type, but like she was
Speaker 3: with a lot of dudes, and dudes that knew their
Speaker 3: line dancing network looked like they lived lived on the
Speaker 3: line dancing floor and or the gym all the time.
Speaker 1: Okay, country guys.
Speaker 2: But I don't think you should be intimidated by that.
Speaker 4: Like she obviously is someone who goes to these places,
Speaker 4: like she's not looking for those guys.
Speaker 1: I mean, we don't know. Did you get the feeling
Speaker 1: that there was any one guy that she was particularly
Speaker 1: like ash like locking in on gyrating extra especially hard
Speaker 1: on It's dance. I don't know how line dancing works.
Speaker 2: Catwoman with two hairless cats, I mean, okay, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm just asking.
Speaker 3: I mean, there were there was one guy specifically, but
Speaker 3: there's one guy that she seemed to go to that
Speaker 3: I actually kind of started like talking to quite a bit,
Speaker 3: and I was like trying to get a feel like,
Speaker 3: you know, he said he had met her before in
Speaker 3: the past, so I was just trying to get a
Speaker 3: feel like what her vibe was.
Speaker 1: You know, you swooped in on her.
Speaker 3: Man, Well, I hope it's not her man. You know,
Speaker 3: he didn't came out strout said that. He just said
Speaker 3: that they knew each other in the past.
Speaker 1: So did you get the vibe that maybe they were
Speaker 1: like a thing at one point or do you feel
Speaker 1: like they were just friends?
Speaker 3: I was trying to read the situation and it was
Speaker 3: kind of tough. I mean, he seemed to know a
Speaker 3: lot about her, but could be a friend thing too
Speaker 3: as well. Like I mean, he didn't come out straight
Speaker 3: out and said they.
Speaker 4: And if it was an ex, you wouldn't immediately go, oh,
Speaker 4: she's amazing. Yeah you should get to know where, you know,
Speaker 4: like he was like talking her praises and you.
Speaker 1: Would have been friends for years and danced together for you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well put a tiny miniature red flag by that one.
Speaker 1: But tell us about how the rest of the night went.
Speaker 3: Rest of the night went cool. I mean, you know,
Speaker 3: I did as good as I could on the line
Speaker 3: dance and great at it.
Speaker 2: I bet she was impressed by that though, that you
Speaker 2: were trying.
Speaker 3: I hope. So, I mean it seemed like it was
Speaker 3: a great night, and I had a nice hug and
Speaker 3: a like a little mini kind of mini kiss, I
Speaker 3: guess you could say. But since then, nothing nothing, nothing
Speaker 3: like no text, no like, you know, hey, fun night. Now.
Speaker 3: The thing that I'm also tripping out about is on
Speaker 3: top of the ghosting thing, is I signed up for
Speaker 3: this eight week long class for line dancing.
Speaker 2: Oh oh god, so you really need the state to
Speaker 2: work out.
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's like it wasn't cheap either. I think
Speaker 3: it was like two seventy nine. It was like almost
Speaker 3: three hundred bucks.
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness.
Speaker 1: Well, we're fun to better get you another day with
Speaker 1: this one. You're going to be out three hundred bucks.
Speaker 2: That's it. Does she know that?
Speaker 3: No, I haven't told her that yet. I felt that
Speaker 3: felt weird, like I was being desperate, So I haven't
Speaker 3: told her that part yet.
Speaker 1: Okay, well grab your partner, dosey docaus to the second part.
Speaker 2: We got me square dancing.
Speaker 1: At least some people in this room are excited to
Speaker 1: call for you, and we'll come back try and get
Speaker 1: you a second date update right after this second date update,
Speaker 1: how about a date at a country line dance. Huh yeah,
Speaker 1: you're really into it.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I love it.
Speaker 1: I love country I only haven't heard that in a while.
Speaker 1: That actually sounds like it could be kind of fun.
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 1: Maybe we should do like a whole morning show events
Speaker 1: together where we all go country line dancing as a group.
Speaker 4: Why did you say in front of Alexis that is
Speaker 4: so embarrassing to bring her to a dancing event.
Speaker 1: I used to live down the street from a country bar.
Speaker 1: They do line dancing, and I was too scared to
Speaker 1: ever participate. Oh, this is great because I've been really
Speaker 1: trying to hang out with you guys more than sixty
Speaker 1: hours a week we already spend together.
Speaker 2: I knew that.
Speaker 1: Anyway, it's a great idea for a date except for
Speaker 1: the fact that your partner does dance with a lot
Speaker 1: of other people.
Speaker 2: Fine, unless you're like a weirdly jealous person, that's not
Speaker 2: a thing.
Speaker 1: It could cause some jealousy issues. In fact, Brooks sounded
Speaker 1: jealous when you described all the other hunky dancing cowboys there.
Speaker 4: Chad, No, I sounded annoyed that anyone would be jealous
Speaker 4: at something like this, Like that's what you do, It's
Speaker 4: what everybody does.
Speaker 1: Why do you such a big smile on your face?
Speaker 2: Because I like wranglers?
Speaker 1: Okay, Chad, how you feeling.
Speaker 3: I'm hoping to get some explanation for what's going going
Speaker 3: on for sure?
Speaker 1: Right, But you're not jealous in any way?
Speaker 3: Right? I don't know if I go as far to
Speaker 3: say jealous, but definitely a little uneasy. I guess maybe did.
Speaker 4: But after your eight week line dancing course that you
Speaker 4: signed up for. You won't even bat an eye. I mean,
Speaker 4: we've got to get you another day so you can
Speaker 4: show off your moves.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's not waste any more time here. We're gonna
Speaker 1: dial Pamel for you right now and see if we
Speaker 1: can make sure that the money that you spend on
Speaker 1: the dancing classes is actually here. We go, all right,
Speaker 1: all right, Hello, Hey, we're looking for Pamela speaking. Hey Pamela,
Speaker 1: you're How do I say this?
Speaker 2: It's the same way you say it every time.
Speaker 3: Yep.
Speaker 2: Just go with it. Do something, you don't change something
Speaker 2: that's not broken.
Speaker 1: Whenever comes out, comes out.
Speaker 6: Can I help you?
Speaker 1: Jeff you're on the radio right now with Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: What happens?
Speaker 1: It's not what I wanted to come out.
Speaker 2: It sounds like we're in a country station. Hi, Pamela, Hi,
Speaker 2: I'm on the radio.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Sorry, we're a morning show and we do a
Speaker 1: segment here called the second Date Update. Okay, yeah, I
Speaker 1: should probably keep explaining. It's where we help out some
Speaker 1: of our listeners who have been out on a date
Speaker 1: and they're wanting to see that person again but having
Speaker 1: a hard time arranging it. Okay, she says, we're calling
Speaker 1: you because you went out with somebody that listens to
Speaker 1: our show named Chad. Apparently you went dancing together.
Speaker 5: Oh right, yeah, it is right.
Speaker 4: Chad seems like a nice, fun guy, and he said
Speaker 4: that you're the one that asked him out first.
Speaker 2: Even Yeah, yeah, he is a.
Speaker 3: Very nice guy.
Speaker 1: That well, we're trying to help him because he's really
Speaker 1: confused after your date night. He was not sure why
Speaker 1: there hasn't been a second date because he's asked you
Speaker 1: a few times.
Speaker 6: Oh wow, okay.
Speaker 2: That was a big breath.
Speaker 6: No, so it's because thee On the way to the place,
Speaker 6: we stopped at a Starbucks and he got I like,
Speaker 6: like some kind of an oat milk.
Speaker 2: I think it's the shaken oat milk expresso he got.
Speaker 1: I think that's right.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. I so I am.
Speaker 6: Very allergic to oats, oat milk, anything with oats. My
Speaker 6: stomach like sick to my stomach.
Speaker 2: Did he make you drink it?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 5: No, no, no, but he he drank it and then
Speaker 5: he smelled like it, you know what I mean.
Speaker 6: Just smell makes me feel sick, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Wow? With him, did you say something like, hey, I'm
Speaker 1: allergic to oats.
Speaker 4: I bet he wouldn't have ordered that. There's so many
Speaker 4: other alternatives he could have done. If he doesn't do milk,
Speaker 4: you know, he could have done almond.
Speaker 6: Yet, that's my bad. I didn't say anything.
Speaker 5: You know, he acted like it was his regular thing.
Speaker 5: Like he said, he like, he drinks two of them
Speaker 5: a day. He has to have his oat milk.
Speaker 6: Whatever you said, it was shaken singing whatever.
Speaker 2: I mean. I know you don't like oat milk, but
Speaker 2: you should try to shake and espresso. It's really yummy.
Speaker 6: I've never even heard of that.
Speaker 3: That's weird, you know.
Speaker 6: So yes, I just felt uncomfortable with that.
Speaker 2: And then oh, okay, so something else has dawned on you.
Speaker 1: What else happened?
Speaker 6: So a couple of days later, a girlfriend of mine
Speaker 6: that I normally go dancing with, she calls me. She goes,
Speaker 6: guess who was at Cowboy Palace?
Speaker 2: Cowboy?
Speaker 1: I love it? Who the guy you went out with?
Speaker 2: You don't say I didn't see it coming? Yeah, what's
Speaker 2: wrong with that?
Speaker 1: You inspired a new passion for him?
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 5: That just felt a little because I don't I don't
Speaker 5: think he's ever been country western dancing before. He and
Speaker 5: I went, and suddenly now he's going back there, like
Speaker 5: is he looking for me?
Speaker 6: Like what's he? I don't know. It just made me
Speaker 6: feel a little weirded out, and so I felt like,
Speaker 6: no perceived.
Speaker 1: I would it be so bad if he was there,
Speaker 1: like hoping to see you again? Is that? Is that
Speaker 1: a horrible thing?
Speaker 4: Maybe he had drake oat milk earlier that day and.
Speaker 6: It's like one of my places.
Speaker 3: I'm a total regular there. I know everyone there.
Speaker 6: I know a lot of people there.
Speaker 3: And I went there and nice book.
Speaker 4: You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Up right now?
Speaker 3: Oh, very very one sentence I was heard on their.
Speaker 1: Chad, Pamela, I got to let you know that Chad
Speaker 1: has been on the other line secretly listening to this
Speaker 1: conversation and clearly wants to talk to you. You forget,
Speaker 1: he's not supposed to just talk. I think he couldn't
Speaker 1: hear anymore.
Speaker 5: Yeah, what is happening right now?
Speaker 6: I don't even you called me.
Speaker 5: Suddenly I'm on the radio and I'm talking about my
Speaker 5: personal life and now.
Speaker 3: The guy is there.
Speaker 1: Actually that's a great description, Pamela. You should do our
Speaker 1: promo for second date updates on our station does send
Speaker 1: it back to us. But Chad, sorry, uh go ahead.
Speaker 1: You wanted to say something.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, look, the reason I interrupted is because I
Speaker 3: was there at Cowboy Palace bying dance lessons so I
Speaker 3: could get better for the next time.
Speaker 1: Pamela, there's going to be his secret surprise for you
Speaker 1: that suddenly he can dance.
Speaker 2: Isn't that cute?
Speaker 4: Pamela, Yeah, yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 2: Aren't you flattered by that? That is such a like
Speaker 2: nice thing to do.
Speaker 6: I guess I didn't even know that you even liked
Speaker 6: it that much.
Speaker 1: I just I don't think he did.
Speaker 2: Actually, no, I think he did. You wouldn't do lessons
Speaker 2: if you didn't like it like enough.
Speaker 1: He wants to dance with her?
Speaker 3: Chad, Yeah, I mean I know how much you like it.
Speaker 3: I mean that's a big thing, you know, and and
Speaker 3: we had a great night. So that's something you're going
Speaker 3: to do and we're going to hang out more. I
Speaker 3: want to do it the right way, you know.
Speaker 1: That is really cute.
Speaker 2: That's really cute, Pamela.
Speaker 6: I just want to clear something up.
Speaker 5: So country Western dancing, you do the line dances, you
Speaker 5: do the two stepping I'm going to be dancing with
Speaker 5: other people too.
Speaker 6: I know a lot of people there. We're all friends
Speaker 6: and we dance together. Just so you know.
Speaker 2: That's how it's Okay, does that mean you're interested? But
Speaker 2: she's planning for the future. That's a good sign. That
Speaker 2: sounds like she can't.
Speaker 1: Avoid sounds like she's willing to see you again.
Speaker 3: I will, let's do it. Just no more milk, just okay, Okay,
Speaker 3: I like so I'm fine with that.
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, all right, got another date. And all you
Speaker 1: have to do is sacrifice your favorite thing in the world.
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm so close to romantic.
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning. Look, I'm going to be honest.
Speaker 1: Chad's a listener to our show, and I appreciate that.
Speaker 1: But I lost a lot of respect for him when
Speaker 1: he immediately caved and said he'd give up oat milk
Speaker 1: and his second option wasn't cow's milk, it was almond.
Speaker 2: What kind of man are you am?
Speaker 1: I the only one here leading the charge for cows.
Speaker 1: Everyone wants to take jobs away from the cows.
Speaker 2: I mean, it's just not that great for the environment.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but oat milk is really actually very friendly, very
Speaker 4: friendly milk you could even make it hold pass.
Speaker 1: Yes, anyway, I feel like we're gonna be driving by
Speaker 1: farms and see cows on strikes.
Speaker 2: I got your bag.
Speaker 1: We're gonna have a cow come back, I swear. But thankfully,
Speaker 1: Chad's getting his breath fixed so it doesn't smell like
Speaker 1: oat milk anymore, and he's learning to line dance. Officially
Speaker 1: turned in his man card after one date, so you
Speaker 1: never know. Six months from now, we're gonna hear him
Speaker 1: get the cleaners picking up up is Taylor Swift Sequin
Speaker 1: talboy had drinking his almond shake and which is a
Speaker 1: normal day, it's not even a concert. Good for him,
Speaker 1: good for you.
Speaker 2: Don't get your world.
Speaker 1: Be the next Chad email the show. We'll call that
Speaker 1: person wasn't calling you back. Check out all of our
Speaker 1: second dates up on our podcast wherever he gets yours
Speaker 1: at Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning