WEBVTT - Ep 16: The Walking Red Flag 0:00:06.120 --> 0:00:06.480 Novel. 0:00:10.160 --> 0:00:14.040 This show contains adult material, references to drugs and swearing. 0:00:14.600 --> 0:00:15.720 You have been warned. 0:00:16.800 --> 0:00:19.959 I'll tell you what though. Listen to him right now, on. 0:00:22.600 --> 0:00:25.000 Him if he was fucking on fire, the piston. 0:00:24.800 --> 0:00:27.640 Him just for my enjoyment, not his, and I'd make 0:00:27.680 --> 0:00:30.000 sure that I've had loads of barocasas that real yellow 0:00:30.040 --> 0:00:32.640 piss me. 0:00:32.680 --> 0:00:37.720 I'm a savage. 0:00:39.280 --> 0:00:41.080 Are you bored of modern dating? 0:00:41.320 --> 0:00:43.839 Meeting the same people from the same apps in the 0:00:43.880 --> 0:00:46.599 same bar You've only chosen because it's close to your 0:00:46.640 --> 0:00:49.920 house and you can make your usual quick getaway. It's 0:00:49.960 --> 0:00:52.400 time to change the narrative on how we find love. 0:00:52.520 --> 0:00:55.360 It's time to start looking for love in all the 0:00:55.400 --> 0:01:00.480 wrong places. I'm going on a wild dating adventure, only 0:01:00.480 --> 0:01:02.960 picking people who were the total opposite of my type. 0:01:03.040 --> 0:01:06.400 And after twenty eight of these dates in two months, 0:01:06.720 --> 0:01:10.160 will I find that special someone or well, this experiment 0:01:10.200 --> 0:01:13.440 proved that I should just give up on dating altogether. 0:01:14.480 --> 0:01:18.920 It's time to find out. I'm Grace Campbell and this 0:01:19.280 --> 0:01:20.560 is twenty eight dates. 0:01:20.400 --> 0:01:29.600 Later, Dan, Dan, every single of these podcasts is going 0:01:29.640 --> 0:01:30.480 to be you going. 0:01:30.360 --> 0:01:32.200 Dan, Dan, How was your weekend? 0:01:32.880 --> 0:01:37.120 I had maybe one of the best in the club kiss. 0:01:37.600 --> 0:01:40.080 Oh wow, Yeah, it was actually really hot. 0:01:40.200 --> 0:01:43.040 Wow. So what makes like an inn the club kiss 0:01:43.080 --> 0:01:43.720 like so hot? 0:01:43.840 --> 0:01:46.120 Sometimes I've got a people and it's like I've been 0:01:46.160 --> 0:01:49.120 in a car wash and it's full face saliva disgusting. 0:01:49.680 --> 0:01:52.280 But then sometimes you get someone because you don't expect 0:01:52.360 --> 0:01:54.360 it to be great necessarily because you're learning how to 0:01:54.440 --> 0:01:56.160 kiss that person in the instant. 0:01:56.320 --> 0:01:59.160 Where were you? I was at a gay bar. Shot horror, 0:01:59.200 --> 0:02:00.240 don't tell my dad. 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:01.000 In the club. 0:02:01.320 --> 0:02:02.200 In the gay club. 0:02:02.360 --> 0:02:08.160 Yeah, there was just this man there and the kiss 0:02:08.240 --> 0:02:10.120 kind of happened because we ran out of things to say. 0:02:10.560 --> 0:02:12.040 The absolutly dried up. 0:02:12.600 --> 0:02:14.360 How long had you spoken before? 0:02:15.040 --> 0:02:15.640 Two minutes? 0:02:15.840 --> 0:02:16.320 Perfect? 0:02:17.000 --> 0:02:18.560 Because also, like you just want to get in there, 0:02:18.560 --> 0:02:20.120 to be honest, Also, only wanted was a. 0:02:20.080 --> 0:02:21.960 Kiss, But also who talks in the club. 0:02:22.040 --> 0:02:23.399 That's disgusting, I know. 0:02:23.560 --> 0:02:25.280 And also the thing is that there was quite a 0:02:25.280 --> 0:02:27.560 big heighth difference, so like, firstly, I can't hear what 0:02:27.560 --> 0:02:29.520 you're saying, and then secondly. 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:31.440 He was seven one. 0:02:32.280 --> 0:02:33.280 Yeah he was taller than me. 0:02:33.440 --> 0:02:36.800 Yeah he was like he was small, okay, But so 0:02:36.840 --> 0:02:38.280 like when we made out, it was a little bit 0:02:38.360 --> 0:02:41.600 like a giraffe eating grass. That was like the imagery, 0:02:42.520 --> 0:02:44.280 but the kiss was so nice and like we both 0:02:44.320 --> 0:02:45.680 like got of each other and then like pulled away 0:02:45.720 --> 0:02:47.880 and we're like, wow, that was really great. 0:02:48.280 --> 0:02:49.200 Congratinations. 0:02:49.280 --> 0:02:53.480 We've got a boyfriend, her husband. Well, I had sex 0:02:53.520 --> 0:02:55.200 on the weekend, right, and then, now. 0:02:55.160 --> 0:02:57.120 Don't make me out whoa, Oh. 0:02:57.000 --> 0:02:59.119 My god, No, that's not even what the story is about. 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:01.760 I had Oh my god, shut up. First of all, 0:03:01.840 --> 0:03:08.360 I'm talking now, I had sex on the weekend. And 0:03:08.400 --> 0:03:10.120 then it's really weird because it was good sex. It's 0:03:10.160 --> 0:03:11.720 not like I haven't had sex with ages I had. 0:03:11.960 --> 0:03:13.760 I've been having like fine sex, but this was like 0:03:13.880 --> 0:03:14.880 quite exceptional sex. 0:03:14.919 --> 0:03:15.680 What made it better? 0:03:15.919 --> 0:03:16.360 I don't know. 0:03:16.400 --> 0:03:18.720 It was just like really good sex, like like it 0:03:18.800 --> 0:03:20.639 was just like we obviously really fancy each other words, 0:03:21.240 --> 0:03:22.240 and it was just like fun. 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:22.840 Anyways. 0:03:23.000 --> 0:03:26.600 And then yesterday, the day after having had sex, I 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:30.040 have just gotten so much attention from them, Like both 0:03:30.200 --> 0:03:33.440 like two people that I used to day contacted me yesterday, 0:03:34.000 --> 0:03:36.120 like one out of the blue, haven't spiked him for 0:03:36.160 --> 0:03:38.880 five months, just sent me like an insane video of 0:03:38.920 --> 0:03:39.480 him wanking. 0:03:39.520 --> 0:03:40.440 I was like, what the fuck? 0:03:40.840 --> 0:03:41.960 Out of the blue, just out of the. 0:03:41.880 --> 0:03:45.680 Blue, and then no, yeah, oh yeah, it's mad. No, 0:03:45.720 --> 0:03:48.040 it's so weird. It's like sex person, Like, no. 0:03:47.960 --> 0:03:51.920 One ever send me a video of you randomly wanking. 0:03:52.080 --> 0:03:54.840 I really don't want you to send that to me 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:56.240 at dan dot. 0:03:56.280 --> 0:03:58.280 Why don't do it? 0:03:59.400 --> 0:04:01.440 Then I was on the overgrown yesterday I got chaps 0:04:01.480 --> 0:04:03.080 three times, and then today I also got three. 0:04:03.560 --> 0:04:06.440 Yeah, on the overground. Yeah, you're going from one end 0:04:06.480 --> 0:04:06.839 to the other. 0:04:08.120 --> 0:04:10.480 I was only going from West Hampton to Gospel, which 0:04:10.520 --> 0:04:11.120 is full stops. 0:04:11.120 --> 0:04:11.840 How mental is that? 0:04:11.920 --> 0:04:12.200 Okay? 0:04:12.240 --> 0:04:14.400 So for all about international listeners, which I know there 0:04:14.400 --> 0:04:17.720 are many, chirps is basically where you're like chatting someone up, 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:20.440 like you're caught in them, like you floating. 0:04:20.160 --> 0:04:21.000 Them in a bar or something. 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:23.479 It's just like an English slanguage. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:04:23.480 --> 0:04:23.880 so I. 0:04:23.800 --> 0:04:26.000 Don't know what it is. It's like an energy thing. 0:04:27.040 --> 0:04:29.839 And it's also it's also yeah no I do pheromo, 0:04:30.080 --> 0:04:30.640 Yeah I do. 0:04:30.720 --> 0:04:31.719 But people always say. 0:04:31.520 --> 0:04:33.000 That, who said that? 0:04:33.160 --> 0:04:35.800 I once, right, when I once had some really good sex, 0:04:35.880 --> 0:04:40.440 like top notch sex, and then no, it's because so 0:04:40.520 --> 0:04:43.440 much sex I have is like so bang, average have. 0:04:43.400 --> 0:04:45.680 Differentiate, honestly, So this very. 0:04:45.520 --> 0:04:48.240 Top notch sex and then this guy was staring at me, 0:04:48.360 --> 0:04:50.119 and then I was like, okay, like you're just staring 0:04:50.160 --> 0:04:52.080 at me, and he was like, it's just like I 0:04:52.120 --> 0:04:54.279 really wanted to come over and smell you because you 0:04:54.320 --> 0:04:55.599 look like you smell like sex. 0:04:56.640 --> 0:04:59.400 What the fuck kind of people are you hanging out with? 0:05:00.440 --> 0:05:02.479 That's like, that's like a creepy version of the woman. 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:04.280 That's honestly thought it was so. 0:05:04.520 --> 0:05:05.480 And then I had sex with him. 0:05:06.320 --> 0:05:07.760 Yeah, he was really. 0:05:07.560 --> 0:05:09.560 Sorry if someone came over and was like, can I 0:05:09.600 --> 0:05:10.359 hoff your golf? 0:05:11.440 --> 0:05:12.920 He wasn't saying my vagina. 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:15.360 He was saying, you give off like sex vibes, is 0:05:15.360 --> 0:05:16.360 what he was saying. 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:18.560 Wait, can I tell you what I smell like after sex? 0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:19.479 Not good? 0:05:21.040 --> 0:05:24.599 Well, speaking for yourself, I am. 0:05:23.880 --> 0:05:27.040 And all of the gay community, none of us smell good. 0:05:28.000 --> 0:05:28.800 I am. 0:05:29.120 --> 0:05:29.160 No. 0:05:29.240 --> 0:05:31.320 I guess it's like a sexy smell like during sex. 0:05:31.720 --> 0:05:34.279 I'm not talking legitimately about smell. 0:05:34.440 --> 0:05:38.040 You're slightly missing it here, So let's let's slow. 0:05:37.839 --> 0:05:40.400 Down down, Like, can I smell you? 0:05:40.400 --> 0:05:43.160 Because I think he said he said, he didn't say 0:05:43.160 --> 0:05:44.320 I want to smell you. I said, why are you 0:05:44.320 --> 0:05:45.880 look at me? He was like, you look like you 0:05:45.960 --> 0:05:48.680 smell like sex. And what he meant by that you 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:53.440 look like you're a slut basically is what he meant. 0:05:53.839 --> 0:05:55.680 I was really flatter. I mean that is kind of 0:05:55.760 --> 0:05:57.960 and then yeah, he turned to and only was like, 0:05:58.000 --> 0:05:59.440 what do I look like? I smell like he goes 0:05:59.480 --> 0:06:00.920 tean crumbs. 0:06:06.800 --> 0:06:08.920 Which some people is also a smell of set. 0:06:13.040 --> 0:06:15.560 Okay, So this guy, right, I matched with him on Field, 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:19.680 which is the app that essentially puts like your sexual 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:22.680 desires and interests are sort of like on a par 0:06:22.839 --> 0:06:25.159 with like your also your other interests, Like it'll be 0:06:25.240 --> 0:06:34.120 like I'm into fisting and fishing, do you know? And 0:06:34.240 --> 0:06:37.159 on his profile, he looked like a Tory okay, which 0:06:37.200 --> 0:06:39.640 if you're listening in America, is like a Republican, but 0:06:39.680 --> 0:06:45.680 like with a lot of more weird backstory. Basic yeah, 0:06:45.720 --> 0:06:47.240 fox catching, fox. 0:06:47.080 --> 0:06:51.280 Hunting, Yeah if you incests, yeah, incess. 0:06:51.640 --> 0:06:53.960 So I thought maybe we'd clash on that because he 0:06:54.000 --> 0:06:54.600 was going to be a Tory. 0:06:54.640 --> 0:06:55.680 But I wasn't even a toy. 0:06:55.680 --> 0:06:57.919 It was one of those people who doesn't even engage 0:06:57.920 --> 0:07:00.120 in politics, which is worse than being a Tory in 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:02.599 my opinion. And he was just a walking red flag. 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:04.440 So I think we just get straight into it because 0:07:04.480 --> 0:07:06.240 you need to hear about this day. 0:07:06.320 --> 0:07:07.240 Who sounds terrible. 0:07:11.800 --> 0:07:12.800 What do you do for a job? 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:18.320 I am in the Devil's game of recruitment. Really just 0:07:18.360 --> 0:07:22.160 get paid to lie a lot. So I get to 0:07:22.200 --> 0:07:24.160 the office at seven in the morning. I tend to 0:07:24.200 --> 0:07:26.920 finish between five and sort of half six. They're not 0:07:27.000 --> 0:07:28.960 going to train jiu jitsu for two hours and be 0:07:29.000 --> 0:07:31.080 done about half eight and a lot of cook So 0:07:31.120 --> 0:07:33.080 you've got half around the evening to Monday to Friday. 0:07:33.760 --> 0:07:37.200 Where are your offices in the city, right, Okay, So 0:07:37.200 --> 0:07:40.280 it's like a seven minute cycle for my live four minutes. 0:07:40.280 --> 0:07:46.440 So I, yeah, I don't know if I'm ever going 0:07:46.480 --> 0:07:47.760 to be aroused again in my life. 0:07:47.760 --> 0:07:48.800 I have to hear that. Clear. 0:07:49.840 --> 0:07:51.480 Can we bring in his book of records and see 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:54.000 how many times someone said jujitsu in one sentence? 0:07:54.560 --> 0:07:55.840 So I think we've got a new record. 0:07:57.400 --> 0:07:59.840 The other thing that was so jarring about this guy, 0:08:00.080 --> 0:08:02.640 which is j yeah, yeah, yeah. The thing that was 0:08:02.640 --> 0:08:05.320 so jarring about him was how much you referred to 0:08:05.680 --> 0:08:08.880 being doing philosophy. Right, So when we did get into 0:08:08.880 --> 0:08:11.320 an argument, like at points we got into various diferent 0:08:11.480 --> 0:08:14.720 like like beefs. He would always bring him back to 0:08:14.800 --> 0:08:17.720 what I did philosophy at university, like which just doesn't 0:08:17.760 --> 0:08:19.760 make any sense. And also like I don't want to 0:08:19.800 --> 0:08:22.600 be like sound like really vapid, but like if you 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:26.640 need to fall back on philosophy like loads to like 0:08:27.000 --> 0:08:30.440 justify yourself or to like form conversations and fundamentally like 0:08:30.480 --> 0:08:31.240 you're a bad person. 0:08:32.120 --> 0:08:35.040 I mean, just how busy his day is, Like what 0:08:35.160 --> 0:08:36.400 are you running from? 0:08:36.760 --> 0:08:40.480 So he had this like crazy robot schedule and so 0:08:40.640 --> 0:08:42.640 I was just like, well, surely, like you don't even 0:08:42.679 --> 0:08:44.360 have time to date, Like why are you on dating 0:08:44.400 --> 0:08:46.640 apps if you've got half an hour like scheduled to 0:08:46.679 --> 0:08:47.839 eat and even well it's like. 0:08:47.760 --> 0:08:49.559 If you if you want to spend two hours a 0:08:49.640 --> 0:08:51.600 day doing jiu jitsu, when am I coming? 0:08:56.840 --> 0:08:59.800 That's literally why I'm here because I broke up with 0:08:59.880 --> 0:09:01.959 my girlfriends and I used to never see her. And 0:09:02.000 --> 0:09:04.440 I was like all I do is have such a 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:07.160 fixed life, right, Okay, you some weird stuff. So this 0:09:07.200 --> 0:09:09.559 is what's interesting. I was going to buy this field app, which. 0:09:09.400 --> 0:09:12.160 Is right mad and how long have you been on it? 0:09:12.760 --> 0:09:13.520 Four weeks? 0:09:13.679 --> 0:09:15.560 And I've had three people asked to whee on me? 0:09:16.120 --> 0:09:18.000 What does that mean like to actually piss on me. 0:09:18.960 --> 0:09:19.240 Oh, we. 0:09:20.760 --> 0:09:24.640 Wheel me, No, we urinate on top of me. 0:09:25.040 --> 0:09:27.720 Actually on plas like when you're with them or has 0:09:27.720 --> 0:09:29.080 that been on the app? 0:09:29.200 --> 0:09:30.760 So first messages? 0:09:31.240 --> 0:09:31.400 Hi? 0:09:32.320 --> 0:09:33.320 Hi? 0:09:34.960 --> 0:09:35.640 Can I on you? 0:09:35.720 --> 0:09:39.000 Is that your cup of tea? I've been on Field 0:09:39.040 --> 0:09:40.400 and is absolutely mud. 0:09:41.760 --> 0:09:46.560 It's mud Field the app is absolutely mud. 0:09:47.679 --> 0:09:49.800 He's the kind of person who's ruining Field. 0:09:50.320 --> 0:09:56.079 Okay, looking at his profile, it's screaming Tory, but it's 0:09:56.120 --> 0:09:58.040 also screaming like Billabong model. 0:09:58.520 --> 0:09:59.280 Yeah, I get that. 0:09:59.480 --> 0:10:01.719 I do get like you. I'm not sure. I think 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:03.520 like Jack Wills, he's the kind. 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:07.160 Of person that just like hops onto something way after 0:10:07.280 --> 0:10:10.800 its moment and thinks it's really cool. And so he's 0:10:11.040 --> 0:10:14.280 probably like never had a conversation with a gay person 0:10:14.320 --> 0:10:16.680 for longer than like thirty seconds. 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:19.240 But it's like Field is mad, But. 0:10:19.200 --> 0:10:20.880 I was like, I have been on Field for a 0:10:20.880 --> 0:10:22.760 while and honestly, no one has asked to pist on me, 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:24.280 and I feel quite upset. 0:10:36.320 --> 0:10:38.120 Do you find that you mirror guys you date on 0:10:38.160 --> 0:10:39.000 your father at all? 0:10:42.320 --> 0:10:42.560 Yes? 0:10:42.640 --> 0:10:46.640 I know some people have some people I have definitely, 0:10:47.160 --> 0:10:48.600 But do you know who Alison Camber is? 0:10:48.600 --> 0:10:51.640 I've heard the name. I don't get into I've had 0:10:51.760 --> 0:10:54.240 done a philosophy degree. I don't get into politics at 0:10:54.400 --> 0:10:57.320 load level, like just just kids bickering in a room. 0:10:57.679 --> 0:10:59.040 It's not really a low level. 0:10:59.200 --> 0:11:03.240 It's that came across wrong. I apologize. I like the 0:11:03.280 --> 0:11:06.920 idea and philosophy behind the concepts of politics. 0:11:07.440 --> 0:11:09.120 Yeah, well that's because you did a philosophy. 0:11:09.559 --> 0:11:13.160 No, I don't take that from my personal opinion, which 0:11:13.200 --> 0:11:15.440 is probably wrong. I don't know enough about it. There's 0:11:15.520 --> 0:11:18.120 not much influence in me having thoughts and politics goes on. 0:11:18.160 --> 0:11:20.440 I think there's world powers and stuff going on which 0:11:20.480 --> 0:11:25.040 actually changes politics. And we don't live in democracy because. 0:11:24.800 --> 0:11:27.920 It's all just I don't want it's not because actually 0:11:28.000 --> 0:11:30.040 voting does change shit. 0:11:31.040 --> 0:11:33.240 He had a Cambridge analytica. He's in the movie Brexit 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:35.160 Democracies and. 0:11:35.880 --> 0:11:36.640 Look at Brexit. 0:11:36.800 --> 0:11:40.640 If more people had voted Remain, it wouldn't have happened. 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:43.280 It was a very close margin, came to conno the 0:11:43.320 --> 0:11:46.120 whole thing. But if more people voted Romain, it wouldn't 0:11:46.160 --> 0:11:46.480 have happened. 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:48.160 I was traveling in Thailand against Spangled. 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:53.160 He is so daring, My worst kind of person in 0:11:53.200 --> 0:11:56.200 the world because he's contradicting himself in every way. 0:11:56.280 --> 0:11:57.360 He's not saying anything. 0:11:57.400 --> 0:11:58.240 He's saying nothing. 0:11:58.320 --> 0:12:01.719 He's so ill informed, but uses like philosophy but you 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:07.760 haven't mentioned exactly philosophical and not be engaged in real 0:12:07.760 --> 0:12:08.600 world politics. 0:12:08.679 --> 0:12:09.600 It makes no sense. 0:12:09.640 --> 0:12:11.440 Honestly, he's the kind of guy that gets a guitar 0:12:11.480 --> 0:12:14.480 out out of the after party, Like that's what it's giving. 0:12:14.559 --> 0:12:15.840 I don't want to hear wonder wall. 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:20.400 He told me that he doesn't vote and that it's 0:12:20.520 --> 0:12:23.360 worse than a red flag. That's like, seriously, like immediately 0:12:23.360 --> 0:12:25.520 I bought the situation. If somebody tells me that they've 0:12:25.520 --> 0:12:26.559 never voted. 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:29.240 Well yeah, because also, like what kind of upbringing have 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:31.559 you had, Like if you don't feel the need to vote, 0:12:31.559 --> 0:12:33.120 then you haven't been affected by things that happen. 0:12:33.200 --> 0:12:33.880 Well that's what I mean. 0:12:33.920 --> 0:12:35.920 It's like the most like insane privilege to be like 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:36.840 I've never voted. 0:12:36.960 --> 0:12:37.360 I don't know. 0:12:37.440 --> 0:12:39.840 If he engaged in the world a bit more, he 0:12:39.840 --> 0:12:42.360 would have to face the reality, which is that he 0:12:42.440 --> 0:12:43.280 is a bad person. 0:12:43.840 --> 0:12:46.040 Well, yeah, you can't just sit in a conversation and 0:12:46.040 --> 0:12:48.480 say the word philosophy six times. I think that counts 0:12:48.520 --> 0:12:51.120 as are having a high iq. I've had deeper, more 0:12:51.120 --> 0:12:54.119 eloquent chats whilst when came in, Oh yeah, big. 0:12:53.880 --> 0:12:55.679 Time with a lamp post. 0:12:57.559 --> 0:12:58.080 And anyway. 0:12:58.080 --> 0:12:59.719 Then I asked him what his type was, What. 0:12:59.720 --> 0:12:59.880 Was his. 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:04.480 I guess it depends on what your attraction points are, 0:13:05.360 --> 0:13:07.240 because for me, I don't have a type or a 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:10.240 visual attractive point. It's how you think, It's how you 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:11.679 interface with people. 0:13:11.360 --> 0:13:11.880 In the world. 0:13:11.920 --> 0:13:12.920 Do you only get with women? 0:13:13.559 --> 0:13:18.720 Oh yeah, yeah, okay, I have enough. Like like, obviously, 0:13:18.760 --> 0:13:21.360 being a philosophy student, I've not thought about men in 0:13:21.360 --> 0:13:23.920 a sexual way, but like I can understand why people 0:13:23.960 --> 0:13:26.760 find them attractive. Like I've been in a pub with 0:13:26.840 --> 0:13:29.720 sixty blokes naked, singing Adele at the top of our voices, 0:13:29.760 --> 0:13:30.439 windmilling to. 0:13:30.400 --> 0:13:34.120 Adele in public in part of the people that's in 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:36.200 one of the parts. That's nice. I'm sure that was 0:13:36.440 --> 0:13:38.080 really pleasurable with everyone else. 0:13:38.200 --> 0:13:40.320 If you have sixty blokes coming to buy ten points 0:13:40.320 --> 0:13:44.240 each in a pub every week, they're some allowed. 0:13:44.360 --> 0:13:47.600 But that's very much sounding like the sort of like 0:13:47.640 --> 0:13:49.720 Oxford Brooks version of the Bullingdon Club. 0:13:49.880 --> 0:13:52.240 I know quite a lot of the Bully boys. 0:13:52.040 --> 0:13:54.320 So let's not refer to them as the bully boys. 0:13:54.360 --> 0:13:55.040 That's very it. 0:13:56.080 --> 0:13:58.640 I didn't realize that I know him. I lost my 0:13:58.720 --> 0:14:01.840 virginity to sixty men in a pub singing adult. 0:14:05.480 --> 0:14:05.760 Whole. 0:14:06.240 --> 0:14:08.600 No, can we just talk about him saying the bully boys? 0:14:08.640 --> 0:14:09.840 What are the bully Boys? 0:14:09.960 --> 0:14:14.920 Well, the Bullingdon Club is a very elitist group of 0:14:15.000 --> 0:14:17.400 male students at Oxford University, which is like a very 0:14:17.480 --> 0:14:19.000 like it's the best university in the UK. 0:14:19.160 --> 0:14:20.680 I guess it's like a fraternity. 0:14:21.400 --> 0:14:23.760 And the concept of the Bullingdon Club is the most 0:14:23.800 --> 0:14:28.760 privileged men in English society, British society, and they like 0:14:28.920 --> 0:14:32.840 go to say a pub, and what they will do, 0:14:33.120 --> 0:14:36.080 which is like what he was describing, but much worse, 0:14:36.160 --> 0:14:40.040 is they will intentionally fuck up the pub, physically assault 0:14:40.120 --> 0:14:43.040 members of staff because they can, and then throw cash 0:14:43.120 --> 0:14:44.960 at the end at them to be like, fuck you, 0:14:45.240 --> 0:14:47.680 we've just fucked up your whole place, but we're so 0:14:47.800 --> 0:14:49.080 rich that we can just pay for it. 0:14:49.320 --> 0:14:52.120 I mean, honestly, the way he talks, he's the person 0:14:52.240 --> 0:14:54.480 it sounds like he's trying to make you buy shares 0:14:54.520 --> 0:14:55.320 in his startup. 0:14:55.680 --> 0:14:56.280 Do what I mean? 0:14:56.680 --> 0:14:58.560 No, he's worse than that. 0:14:58.640 --> 0:15:01.640 He's like the kind of person who's obsessed with status 0:15:02.160 --> 0:15:05.320 but will pretend he isn't, so he's like escape going 0:15:05.360 --> 0:15:05.800 all of this. 0:15:05.920 --> 0:15:08.880 I'm like, what was his relevance for him saying that 0:15:08.880 --> 0:15:09.760 he's a philosopher in that. 0:15:12.080 --> 0:15:14.320 I'm a philosopher, so I can understand why people want 0:15:14.320 --> 0:15:14.800 to get with men. 0:15:14.960 --> 0:15:17.040 But it's like, baby, like, you're just saying the title 0:15:17.160 --> 0:15:19.400 over and over again with actually reading anything on the page. 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:24.440 You just repeatedly saying the title of the chapter, just philosophy, philosophy. 0:15:24.400 --> 0:15:25.080 Saying anything. 0:15:25.520 --> 0:15:28.160 He struck me as like a pound shop ex member 0:15:28.200 --> 0:15:29.120 of the Bullingdon Club. 0:15:29.560 --> 0:15:32.040 So he wasn't quite it where Like in a way 0:15:32.080 --> 0:15:32.600 I would. 0:15:32.360 --> 0:15:34.480 Have at least rather be on a date with someone 0:15:34.480 --> 0:15:36.920 who actually knew about politics so we could get into 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:39.480 like a raging argument about it. I couldn't even argue 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:42.280 with him because he was so ignorant. I think I 0:15:42.320 --> 0:15:44.560 already hated him at this point, but this was when 0:15:44.600 --> 0:15:49.040 I really solidified my contempt for this man. He had 0:15:49.120 --> 0:15:53.040 mentioned earlier on that he knew members of the royal family. 0:15:53.200 --> 0:15:54.200 We've all watched the Crown. 0:15:58.480 --> 0:16:00.320 Then I like brought it back up. 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:02.520 And was like, so tell me about the time that 0:16:02.560 --> 0:16:04.240 you had a dinner with a royal member. 0:16:05.480 --> 0:16:10.840 A friend of university who very wealthy, got invited to 0:16:10.880 --> 0:16:13.480 a twenty first got to dress up as a terrorist 0:16:13.480 --> 0:16:16.240 in blackface with the goats, which you could you did that? 0:16:17.160 --> 0:16:18.400 A lot of people could that. 0:16:18.680 --> 0:16:19.400 Did you do that? 0:16:20.280 --> 0:16:20.560 Yeah? 0:16:21.480 --> 0:16:25.960 Oh god, yeah, that's not good. 0:16:26.680 --> 0:16:30.400 No. Everywhere I was saying blackface, I'd say more or 0:16:30.480 --> 0:16:32.920 less that it was Middle East and between pastis everyone 0:16:32.960 --> 0:16:33.400 was just dressed. 0:16:33.640 --> 0:16:36.040 Oh my god, this is awful. 0:16:36.160 --> 0:16:36.880 Yeah, it is bad. 0:16:37.280 --> 0:16:40.320 Sorry, obviously, Like this is what this is exactly what 0:16:40.360 --> 0:16:43.800 I mean. Nobody who went to the school that I 0:16:43.840 --> 0:16:47.600 went to, which was like an inner city London state school, 0:16:48.000 --> 0:16:50.200 would ever, even at twelve years old, thing that was 0:16:50.240 --> 0:16:51.360 an appropriate thing to do. 0:16:51.960 --> 0:16:56.760 So how do you deal with confrontation in your relationships? 0:16:57.160 --> 0:17:00.640 I mean, I'm really well, is it in the sense 0:17:00.640 --> 0:17:02.520 of you think you're right and the argument's based on 0:17:02.560 --> 0:17:05.600 your right? For example, with this whole party that I 0:17:05.640 --> 0:17:08.320 went to, you have strong opinions on that, and this 0:17:08.400 --> 0:17:08.880 is what. 0:17:08.760 --> 0:17:10.560 That is because I'm right on that, Like it is 0:17:10.600 --> 0:17:14.359 offensive to dress up as a terrorist as a white person. Yeah, 0:17:14.359 --> 0:17:16.840 I understand that that's just a black and white like 0:17:17.119 --> 0:17:18.520 Prince Harry dressing numbers an answer. 0:17:18.600 --> 0:17:19.920 You can see where the line is there. 0:17:20.320 --> 0:17:23.560 Oh, that's a ridiculous move from him, but exactly so 0:17:23.720 --> 0:17:26.679 for them. And I imagine that depends on much you care, 0:17:26.760 --> 0:17:28.359 depends if you want to be offender as well. Like 0:17:28.640 --> 0:17:31.160