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Speaker 1: His name is Pete? Okay, and how do you know him? Well?

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Speaker 1: I met Pete threw a mutual friend. We were set up. Oh, okay,

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Speaker 1: were you excited about that? I was, actually because my

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Speaker 1: He said that I looked like Chris Jenner, Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: the Dashian of all. Yeah, but there's like four you

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Speaker 1: The woman that reached out to us, her name's Mariel. Oh, Marielle. Okay, good,

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Speaker 1: wrong crowd. We all do morning radio by nine bro.

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Speaker 1: I don't still quite get it. And those are the

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Speaker 1: do I like my mother? Yes? I loved my mother. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I've got old your mom. We're asking you if you

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Speaker 1: what is this like? It's to put it back? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's a fun radio segment we do. All right, So

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Speaker 1: you're not calling me back because I have a calendar. Well,

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Speaker 1: just maybe your lifestyle and my lifestyle are in different places.

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Speaker 1: You know what, wait, what is your lifestyle, Pete? I

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Speaker 1: I mean it sounds like you actually understand about perfectly. Mariel, Like, Wow,

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Speaker 1: Everybody has different interests, Mariel, I mean, like, what are

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Speaker 1: mean he just sounds so childish. Yeah, here's me, Mariel, Like,

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Speaker 1: we're not say opposite, right, you guys are very opposite

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Speaker 1: probably because you're acting like a man baby. I don't

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Speaker 1: talk to you again. Well, one day you owe someone

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Speaker 1: the thing, Mariel to her defense, like, yeah, she may

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Speaker 1: phone radio And that's what I mean. And Mariel mentioned

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Speaker 1: to us Pete that you have a peloton that's an

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Speaker 1: That's why it has to be. I'll ride my peloton

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Speaker 1: in my full Spandex gear if I want. That's fun.

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Speaker 1: There you go Spandex to ride your peloton. You got

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Speaker 1: to have protective gear, the helmet at the glove he

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Speaker 1: do whatever fun. You put training wheels on your peloton too.

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Speaker 1: consider it. And Pete, I think you're going to have

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Speaker 1: going to work out, you owe me for the shrimp.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. And I can guarantee you she has

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Speaker 1: a paper receipt to prove the price. Yeah. Brooke and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning,