1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:09,799 Speaker 1: Forever, Hello about I'm loving it. You know, I learned 2 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: recently that justin Timberlake and Push a Tea came up 3 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: with that little jingle for McDonald's. Wait, really, yes, but 4 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 1: now it makes me like it less. 5 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:24,520 Speaker 2: But hold on bout feels like like they've been doing 6 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:25,440 Speaker 2: it for centuries. 7 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: No, before that, McDonald's was we love to see you smile. 8 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 3: We love to see you smile. I feel ancient, ancient. 9 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:42,519 Speaker 1: H Yeah, and then I don't know what it was 10 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: before that. 11 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:45,200 Speaker 3: No, it doesn't matter. 12 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:47,479 Speaker 2: All we know is that justin Timberlake was a part 13 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 2: of the he came up with, said I love loving it. 14 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:55,880 Speaker 1: I said, well, when did they cross paths? And how 15 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 1: does one write a jingle for McDonald's because I feel 16 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:01,279 Speaker 1: like every time the commercials come off. 17 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, Marie, I'm kind of kind of confused that how 18 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 2: come we haven't made a jingle. We haven't even made 19 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 2: a jingle for our own fucking pod. Okay, don't okay, 20 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:11,760 Speaker 2: I'm coming over stuff regularly. 21 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 3: It's me too. 22 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:16,399 Speaker 1: I'm coming up with vernacular regularly, the same that is 23 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 1: in people's like every day. I mean, yes, that's what 24 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:22,839 Speaker 1: it do exists. We're gonna be in the Websters. 25 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:25,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I came out the womb dehydrated. So 26 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 2: there we go. 27 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 1: M just the dry, ashy baby. 28 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:35,400 Speaker 2: And here I am moisturized as fuck. Did you have 29 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 2: hair when you were born? 30 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 1: Sorry, I feel like since we're talking about it, people 31 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 1: want to see the visual. 32 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 2: Okay, So I was supposed to be born on Valentine's Day, 33 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 2: but I was born a little early, obviously on Groundhog's Day, 34 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 2: because I ate some of my mother's placenta coming and 35 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 2: I got really, really sick. So I was stuck in 36 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 2: the hospital. They had to shave all my hair off. 37 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 2: They had to shave shave the baby with a soft spot. 38 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 3: How do you do that? Wait? 39 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: What kind of clippers do you use? 40 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 4: That? 41 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 2: They cut all my hair off because they had to 42 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 2: do like tests and whatnot, and my mother was crying. 43 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 2: She said I looked like a lizard, my sister. My 44 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 2: sister said I look like Grace Jones, which I mean, 45 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 2: she's iconic. I'm here for that, but at the time, 46 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:23,359 Speaker 2: Grace Jones wasn't seen as like the hottest thing. 47 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 1: I can see Grace Jones, you know, cause playing as 48 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:27,079 Speaker 1: a lizard too. 49 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 3: Though I see it. 50 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: I see the brain Oh man, you ate your mother's placenter. 51 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: How lesbian of you? 52 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 2: Oh man, I mean out the womb gay a fat 53 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 2: gay a fack you know. Born early, That's I say, Marie, 54 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 2: I stay on brand, Okay, I'm about this life early early. Yeah, 55 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 2: I come early, I come early, I show late, I 56 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:56,959 Speaker 2: show up late, come early. 57 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 1: I love that for us. 58 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 3: How's how's my sweet sweet baby Marie. 59 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 1: I'm fine? Thank you for checking out me, Sydney. I 60 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 1: was supposed to be born in October, I think, and 61 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 1: I came in September. I was early too. That's the 62 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: last time I was early too. 63 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:22,079 Speaker 2: You have never showed up on time anywhere. So I'm 64 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:24,079 Speaker 2: really glad for your birth. 65 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 1: Literally September twenty third, two thousand. Last time I was 66 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 1: early because the day I was born. 67 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 3: Put that in a Guinness World Record. 68 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 4: Yeah. 69 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 1: I'm good though. My good siss Sidney messaged me last 70 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 1: night and was like, what's going on? And I was like, 71 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 1: I'm sitting on the couch feeling sad, and she was like, 72 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 1: I'm available. Do you want to talk? And I was 73 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 1: like no, And of course she called me immediately and 74 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 1: she made me feel better. So you know, I woke 75 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 1: up I feel good, or as good as one can 76 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 1: feel on whatever day of the week it is morning, 77 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 1: and I'm not trying to be cute about it. I 78 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 1: legit don't know what day of the week it is, 79 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 1: So shout out to you if you know the date 80 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 1: and if you know what time it is. I love 81 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 1: that for you. You know, you know the date, end 82 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 1: the day of the week. 83 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 3: Whoo. 84 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 2: That sounds like you're real responsible, sounds like you have 85 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:24,039 Speaker 2: a daily planner. Yeah, this sounds like you are, you know, 86 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 2: mentally stable and that's not I so, or or. 87 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 1: Maybe you're you know, one of those people you know, 88 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 1: like a beautiful mind types. If you know the date 89 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 1: and the day like that means you got it written 90 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 1: all over the walls of your house. 91 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 3: Oh so you're mentally unstable but genius. 92 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 1: Genius, but also whatever the other word is that you said. 93 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, tik tiki boom, that's what you said. 94 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: Tiki tiki boom, Yes what you said. You're Britney Spears. 95 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:57,480 Speaker 2: Shout out to mental health Mental Health Awareness Month. I 96 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 2: think that's this month or last month or whatever. I 97 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 2: feel like there's always. 98 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 1: No This month is Pride date. I feel like you 99 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:02,720 Speaker 1: should know that. 100 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 2: Oh, well, honestly, they those things are so close to me, 101 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:11,039 Speaker 2: mental health and pride, that it's just messed into. 102 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 1: I think mental health was last month, or Asian Awareness Month. 103 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 2: But I think there's always, you know what the tea is, 104 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 2: There's always something to be aware of, you know. 105 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:23,239 Speaker 3: M mm hmmm. 106 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 1: When is Awareness Awareness Month? When is that? 107 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:30,159 Speaker 2: I don't know, friend, I don't even know the date. 108 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 2: I don't even know the date. Were you an expert 109 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:34,600 Speaker 2: in anything this week? 110 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:35,040 Speaker 3: Friend? 111 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:38,040 Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, I was an expert on being a 112 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 1: little bit difficult on set, But like it was like 113 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 1: good Trouble, Who is the who is the congressman who 114 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:48,719 Speaker 1: just died? Good Trouble? He like marched with Martin Luther 115 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 1: King the black Eye, he's bald. 116 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:55,159 Speaker 2: Sis John Lewis, I know nothing, I know nothing. 117 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 1: Damn Sitny, you don't know John Lewis. 118 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 2: You better ask Siri. Siri asked Siri, as Alexa, I 119 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 2: ain't got me. 120 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:04,039 Speaker 1: This close to you met a white man? Answer that question? 121 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 2: You know, and that and that is the work that 122 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 2: needed to be done. He's doing the work. He's knowing 123 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:11,040 Speaker 2: the work and doing the work. 124 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, thank you Andrew for being an ally, 125 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:20,239 Speaker 1: uh huh, of course, thank you for that good trouble. 126 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:22,279 Speaker 1: I was legit sitting here like who was it, John, 127 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 1: John Adams, John Snow. 128 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 3: I could not remember her last name, John snow. 129 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 1: Right, but he uh. Anyway, So I was on set 130 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 1: this week and the day before I got there, the 131 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 1: hair person was like, her name is yeah. 132 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 3: You can't say no, you can't say that, you can't. 133 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:45,600 Speaker 1: All I'm gonna say is when I saw her name, 134 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 1: I thought it was a black woman. And then I 135 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 1: got there and I saw it was a white lady, 136 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, the white lady's gonna mess 137 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 1: up my hair. And then the makeup artist was a 138 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 1: black woman, and I was like, I've been burned too 139 00:06:57,880 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 1: many times by makeup artists of all colors, so that 140 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 1: I didn't know what she would or wouldn't be able 141 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 1: to do. 142 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 2: Equal opportunity to fuck that face up girl, Thank you. 143 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 1: I mean I wish this was a solo so that 144 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 1: could have been the title, but just put it on 145 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 1: some dope bags. But anyway, I just I got there 146 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:21,679 Speaker 1: and the makeup artist was the hair person blew me away. 147 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 1: She was prepared, she did what she needed to do. 148 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 1: The makeup artist, not so much. She came out with 149 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 1: like the Fisher Price Crayola brushes. It felt like she 150 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 1: didn't read her syllabus. It just felt like everything she 151 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 1: was doing was wrong. And when I bought out my supplies, 152 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: she tried to tell me that I was wearing the 153 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 1: wrong colors. Like She's like, oh, that's not the right 154 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 1: foundation for you. That's not your shade. And I was like, Sis, 155 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:51,679 Speaker 1: this is what I wear. And she tried to anyway, 156 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 1: all that to say, she did my face and it 157 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 1: was she tried to like, I looked like you as 158 00:07:57,360 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: a baby. It was it was all bad. 159 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 2: She she tried to paint with all the colors of 160 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 2: the wind on your face. 161 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, but except she was using like, you know, the 162 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:09,840 Speaker 1: darkest brown and the lightest brown at the same time. 163 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 1: It was a lot of like ashy pastel pink colors 164 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 1: one set that we both know, like not with these undertones. No. Anyway, 165 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 1: I basically I didn't yell at her, but I told 166 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 1: her I didn't like it in the most stern, most 167 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 1: calm voice that I could, And she tried to throw 168 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 1: a little bit of a fit, and I stood my ground. Sis, 169 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 1: I said, I don't like this and do you need 170 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:36,079 Speaker 1: to change it? 171 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 2: I love that that is, and I want everybody listening. 172 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 2: When you don't like something, it's okay to stand up 173 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 2: for yourself and say no, I don't want that, no, 174 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 2: thank you. 175 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 1: I mean, especially when you're sitting in a chair, Like 176 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 1: how many times have you been to like a hair 177 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 1: appointment and you hated it or you didn't like it, 178 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 1: or you thought it was it didn't look how you 179 00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 1: wanted it to look, And then you leave, you don't 180 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:01,199 Speaker 1: say anything, and you still tip mm hmm. And then 181 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 1: you get home and you're like crying, You're sending pictures 182 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 1: to your mother, who's laughing. The group chat is lying 183 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 1: to you. Maybe your boyfriend is rubbing your back, but 184 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 1: like you say something in the chair, Yeah, in the chair. 185 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:18,840 Speaker 2: You gotta you gotta say something. And uh you know, 186 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 2: I will. I'm gonna cut my expertise short because we 187 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 2: got to get our guests in here. But I also 188 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 2: stood up for myself this week. I was at a 189 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 2: comedy show and uh, you know, I had a great set, 190 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:38,079 Speaker 2: but I saw this beautiful couple at the at the 191 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 2: end of the you know room or whatever, and I 192 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 2: was like, you know, if you guys are looking for 193 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 2: a third I am available and I was joking, but 194 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 2: I was I was kidding, But the girl ended up 195 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:54,960 Speaker 2: was like, you are so funny. I would love to 196 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 2: see your comedy again, so. 197 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 1: Said comedy, which for the first time that I would 198 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 1: love to see your comedy. I thought you was gonna say, 199 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 1: I want to see a kuchie. No, you're so funny, 200 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:09,679 Speaker 1: I would love to see your kuchie. 201 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 3: No, she's coming to the net. 202 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:15,000 Speaker 1: So will she be coming at the net? 203 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 4: No? 204 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 2: I am I'm taking And the only person that's coming 205 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 2: is the person who is dating me. 206 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:22,760 Speaker 3: So there's that sis. 207 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 1: As long as you're making her come, that's really all 208 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 1: that matters. 209 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 3: Speaking of not making someone come, I love. 210 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:32,200 Speaker 2: This guest that we're about to have today. 211 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 1: I it was weird. You think she don't make people come. 212 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 3: No, no, I no, I've never made her come. That's 213 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 3: what that's the intro, Sidney. 214 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 1: It's giving you need to watch the sexual harassment. 215 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 3: No wait, no, I'm saying. 216 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 1: Given you got to watch the sexual harassment. 217 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:49,839 Speaker 5: No, you're saying this also, like you make most of 218 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:51,200 Speaker 5: the most of the guests come. 219 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 1: The guests have you made comes? The people want to know. 220 00:10:58,720 --> 00:10:59,720 Speaker 3: I loving it. 221 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 2: Okay, now, now hold on this guest. World renowned, world 222 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:10,080 Speaker 2: renowned comedian writer. I mean voice has been all over 223 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 2: the place. I mean you could have seen her in Shrill. 224 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 3: You'll see her. 225 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 1: Literally anywhere, because I'll be watching some random things on 226 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 1: TV or Hulu TV or Hulu Hulu or Netflix, and 227 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 1: I'll be like, oh, like it's her or Michelle Buteu. 228 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:29,440 Speaker 1: Those are the yes I see in everything and anything 229 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:30,840 Speaker 1: that I watched, Booked. 230 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 3: Busy Blonde. 231 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 2: Give it up, Yes, give it up for our spiraling 232 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:36,439 Speaker 2: expert Joe Firestone. 233 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 4: Joe Firestone, Joe, thank you so much. Wait, okay, so 234 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 4: you know how I I? Okay, so spiraling? Sure, but 235 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 4: you know I did a panic. I had a big 236 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 4: panic moment during the pandemic and I was like, I 237 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 4: can't do comedy anymore. I have to apply to acupuncture school. 238 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 1: Oh did I tell you this? 239 00:11:57,280 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 3: No? 240 00:11:57,720 --> 00:12:00,319 Speaker 4: Okay, So this was like I'd never had accup. Sure, 241 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:03,559 Speaker 4: and so just like putting that out there. But now 242 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 4: I'm like taking these classes. And there's this one therapy 243 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 4: called Nikon therapy. It's like a Japanese therapy, but it's 244 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 4: like psychotherapy. What you're supposed to do is you're supposed 245 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 4: to be at the end of the day write down 246 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:22,200 Speaker 4: everything that you gave and everything that you received, and 247 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:26,559 Speaker 4: then what trouble you caused people. But the trouble doesn't 248 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 4: have to be bad. But that reminded me of Marie 249 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:32,080 Speaker 4: what you were saying that, like you think about like 250 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 4: sometimes it's not bad that you tell people what's wrong 251 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 4: with what they're doing, but it's just you just keep 252 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 4: note of it. And this therapy when prisoners did it 253 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:42,440 Speaker 4: in Japan, they didn't go back to prison as much. 254 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 1: Ah, they give prisoners in Japan therapy amazing. That's a 255 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 1: cute place to get locked up abroad. Write that down, 256 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:55,960 Speaker 1: So you write down what you gave, what you received, 257 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:57,720 Speaker 1: and trouble that you caused. 258 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, and like it's not like it's not like I 259 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 4: gave like a like a feeling to It's like all 260 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 4: stuff that other people could observe. So you're like, oh, 261 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:11,840 Speaker 4: I gave money to this store and then they gave 262 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 4: me a sandwich for you know, it's like that kind 263 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:15,640 Speaker 4: of thing. 264 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:17,959 Speaker 1: Oh, Joe, can you text this to me? 265 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 2: Because yeah, I mean, Joe, the Snapple facts that you 266 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 2: got going on up top of the pot. 267 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 3: I mean, brave, very brave. 268 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know, I don't know where 269 00:13:27,920 --> 00:13:30,440 Speaker 2: she's going with this, but I was on for the ride, 270 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 2: the journey. 271 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 4: I popped, I popped open the snapple. They changed, they 272 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 4: changed the jar of a snapple. 273 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 3: Okay, I mean the bottom they did. It's plastic. Yeah, 274 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 3: it's a jar. 275 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 1: Now, Joe talked to us about acupuncture school. How many 276 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 1: years you got to go to school for that? 277 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 4: Six It's a huge mistake. It was a huge mistake. So, yeah, 278 00:13:52,720 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 4: have you got have you gotten acu But I just 279 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:55,440 Speaker 4: got it for the first time. 280 00:13:55,720 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 2: No, no, we're not. I'm spending my money on hair 281 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 2: and like clothes from pretty little things. 282 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 3: I'm not getting acupuncture. Not at the moment. Friend. 283 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:09,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, well I found out that in the one time 284 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:11,679 Speaker 4: I went. I found out that it's all because my spleen. 285 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 4: That's a big problem. 286 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 1: Does a spleen do? And where is a spleen? 287 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 3: Not sure? 288 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 4: Not sure? But I do you know it's it's means 289 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 4: that you're anxious, you got stomach problems, and you're always 290 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:25,160 Speaker 4: craving sugar. 291 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 3: That's me, that's me too. 292 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:31,560 Speaker 1: Oh interesting, I mean I think I got like two 293 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 1: out of the three. They always graving sugar. Thing that's 294 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 1: only once a month. 295 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 4: You only crave sugar once a month. 296 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 1: The closer I am to my period, the more I 297 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:45,400 Speaker 1: want desserts. I'm like, I crave sweet things, but like 298 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:48,120 Speaker 1: I'm not eating candy and stuff she doesn't for like 299 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 1: cheesecake and banana pudding and like like treats like things 300 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 1: like that. Interesting. 301 00:14:57,600 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 2: Now, now, Joe, Now, when you were listening to us talk, 302 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 2: did you did you have any anxiety coming into the pod? 303 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 4: No? I didn't. I really felt like I'm just kind 304 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 4: of I don't need to do much, you know. 305 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 1: What I mean. Now, I can interpret that two different ways. Yeah, 306 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 1: you don't need to do much because we're doing all 307 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 1: the heavy lifting. Or you don't need to do much 308 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 1: because we're not doing anything. 309 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:31,480 Speaker 4: No, no, no, okay. It's like a terrarium, you know 310 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 4: what I mean. It's already functioning though it's growing, and 311 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 4: you just put in like a little little stone, you 312 00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 4: know what I mean. The stone's not taking away, but 313 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 4: it's not you know, I just figured this will be 314 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 4: you know what I mean. I feel pretty good about this. 315 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 4: I was pretty I was feeling I was enjoying myself. 316 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 2: Okay, now, now that is uh, that's a compliment coming 317 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 2: from Joe because I don't I'm not saying that I 318 00:15:56,720 --> 00:16:00,640 Speaker 2: don't think you enjoy yourself often. But I also don't 319 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 2: think that you're just like hanging out and having fun 320 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:04,200 Speaker 2: with anybody. 321 00:16:04,680 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 3: You're not all willy nilly with your good time, you know. 322 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm trying. I'm trying, but no, Yeah, that's a 323 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 4: big that's a big problem. You have to be a 324 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 4: fun person, you know what I mean. It's really it helps. 325 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:19,840 Speaker 4: I would say both of both of you are considered 326 00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 4: fun people by and large. 327 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think we are. But you don't have 328 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 1: to be a fun person. Sometimes you like that. And 329 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 1: I've never said this word before, so I don't know 330 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 1: if i'm saying it right. Melancholy. You know, sometimes you've 331 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 1: got that friend that's like, you know, life is terrible 332 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:39,480 Speaker 1: and things are sad, and then the people in the 333 00:16:39,560 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 1: room are like, it's so funny. He's so dark, he's 334 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 1: so melancholy. That's okay, Saturday twice now in my life, 335 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:49,840 Speaker 1: isn't that Wait, isn't that egor. 336 00:16:51,480 --> 00:16:58,240 Speaker 2: From where I'm from, Yeah, you're sorry, you've been rushing 337 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 2: of the person. Yeah, yeah, yeah, he's mean, he's melancholy 338 00:17:02,840 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 2: or no, he's just depressed. 339 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:08,920 Speaker 4: What okay, you could also be considered in some circles melancholy. 340 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 4: He's definitely the melancholy friend. 341 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, and they still hang out with eyre right. 342 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 2: Well, I think he was considered the like, the black friend, 343 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:21,639 Speaker 2: so they had to hang out with him. 344 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:24,800 Speaker 1: Oh. I thought Tigger was the black friend. 345 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 3: Oh. I thought Tigger was the crackhead. 346 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:39,639 Speaker 1: In some circles, also considered the black friend. Tiger was 347 00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 1: like the you know, like you know the kid we 348 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:45,840 Speaker 1: all went to school with that one kid that had 349 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:47,679 Speaker 1: way too much energy and they put him in that 350 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:50,880 Speaker 1: special class and it was only four chairs in that class. 351 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:55,239 Speaker 1: Tigger is that friend they didn't let they didn't let 352 00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:56,160 Speaker 1: him switch classes. 353 00:17:56,520 --> 00:17:58,160 Speaker 3: Now, Joe, where are you in the spectrum? 354 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 2: Are you, you know, uh, the black friend or the 355 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 2: black friend? 356 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:05,399 Speaker 4: Where are you between between the black friend and the 357 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:07,760 Speaker 4: black friend. It's a great question. I actually got it. 358 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:11,000 Speaker 4: I kind of I don't want to even say this, 359 00:18:11,080 --> 00:18:11,280 Speaker 4: I know. 360 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 3: It, No say it. 361 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:14,199 Speaker 4: I think I'm more of a rabbit. 362 00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:18,200 Speaker 3: Oh, I know it's not good. 363 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:22,040 Speaker 4: I'm just you know, paying attention to the carrots, same 364 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 4: kind of getting pissed off where people eat the carrots. 365 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:29,680 Speaker 1: M hm, you know I was gonna say carrots rabbits 366 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 1: have a lot of sex. Are you saying that that 367 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:34,919 Speaker 1: you identify as a very morning friend? 368 00:18:35,960 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 4: I would, actually, I guess i'd revise it to piglet then, Joe, Joe, 369 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:47,880 Speaker 4: do you want to know something though, here's another Snapple fact? 370 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:50,600 Speaker 4: You ready? Yes, you know how they get little piglets 371 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:52,760 Speaker 4: to run around you know when then you race piglets 372 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 4: little oreos? 373 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:58,040 Speaker 1: Wait, they race piglets. 374 00:18:58,280 --> 00:19:01,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean some places where there's not at entertainment. 375 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:07,760 Speaker 3: Joe, you you will. 376 00:19:08,160 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 2: I feel like there's never a dull moment in a 377 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:13,440 Speaker 2: conversation with you, because you're gonna just start saying ship 378 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 2: that like all the information that you have is a 379 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 2: diary of the mouth. You're gonna You're gonna spill it. 380 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:21,960 Speaker 2: You're gonna spill it, and we love that. Now, Now, 381 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 2: how does that tie into. 382 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:25,959 Speaker 3: You spiraling though? Is it? 383 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:30,120 Speaker 2: Is it a thing where you don't want there to be, 384 00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 2: you know, silence, so you start just saying anything or 385 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:41,240 Speaker 2: maybe I'm not asking this, well probably yeah? Can we spire? 386 00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:41,680 Speaker 3: Yeah? 387 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:45,320 Speaker 1: First, for the people who are like spiraling. Thank your 388 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 1: backing from the video game back in the day, and 389 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 1: it's like, no, that was spiral. 390 00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:54,040 Speaker 4: And it's like how you make you know, zucchini into noodles? 391 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:57,680 Speaker 4: What if that was my expertise? No, I I do. 392 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:00,239 Speaker 4: I think that maybe spiraling is when you like have 393 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:03,159 Speaker 4: start to like have some anxiety and then you just 394 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:05,360 Speaker 4: kind of add on to it really fast to make 395 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:09,040 Speaker 4: it worse and worse. Like for example, like if you 396 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:11,880 Speaker 4: send an email to someone and you think it's you 397 00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:15,359 Speaker 4: realize that maybe it's a bad email or somebody's not 398 00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 4: getting back to you, and then you're like, oh, I 399 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:20,080 Speaker 4: know I should text them. And then you text them 400 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 4: and then they're like what uh and they don't respond, 401 00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:25,440 Speaker 4: and then you call them. And so it's like these 402 00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 4: kinds of things that elevate the conversation. Are the situation 403 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 4: not not in your favor? 404 00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 3: You know what I mean? 405 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 1: Oh, Sidney, I feel like you've been doing that, like 406 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 1: not not not really all the way that, but I feel. 407 00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 3: Like, drag me, drag me, bitch, drag me. 408 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:45,960 Speaker 1: This is an open forum and this is a safe space. 409 00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:51,040 Speaker 1: Joe is here, our rabbit. I'm sorry, I piglet and 410 00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 1: we the three of us, me, you and Andrew are 411 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:59,320 Speaker 1: the OREO for Joe. So. I I mean like the 412 00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:01,320 Speaker 1: other day we were in the car together and you 413 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:03,680 Speaker 1: were like, is so and so mad at me? Mad 414 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 1: at me? Should we call them? And I was like no, 415 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:08,280 Speaker 1: And you were like, let's call them now? And I 416 00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:11,359 Speaker 1: was like no, We're on a way to do something, like, 417 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:14,080 Speaker 1: let's enjoy the day and if they are mad, we 418 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 1: can do with that later. And you were like I 419 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 1: could see you literally in my brain, yes, like biting 420 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:20,560 Speaker 1: your nails. 421 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 3: Yeah. 422 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,119 Speaker 1: I was like, girl, I'm not I'm not doing this. 423 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:25,919 Speaker 3: I do I do today? Yeah? No, I do that. 424 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:31,160 Speaker 2: I am in a constant state of like stepping over 425 00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 2: my feelings so much that I'm like I'm stumbling. I'm 426 00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:40,400 Speaker 2: just like falling into the bullshit. And I set myself 427 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 2: up for failure a lot because I'm so worked up 428 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:47,639 Speaker 2: that when I finally talked to whoever, They're like, bitch, 429 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 2: what isn't too much coming at me? 430 00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:54,040 Speaker 3: Why? What is the deal? What's the real issue? 431 00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:56,359 Speaker 1: You're in a constant state of are they mad at me? 432 00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:59,439 Speaker 1: And oh yeah, I can't live there. You live on 433 00:21:59,480 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 1: that block. 434 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:02,440 Speaker 4: It's really important to have somebody that doesn't live there. 435 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 4: That's really important, to have a neighbor that lives a 436 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:07,919 Speaker 4: few a few blocks away, because it is It's like, 437 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:09,840 Speaker 4: the thing is, it's like you think someone's mad at you, 438 00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:12,439 Speaker 4: and then you think everyone's mad at you, and then 439 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:15,399 Speaker 4: you think it's because of something intrinsic to you, and 440 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:17,760 Speaker 4: you think that you can never get over it and 441 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:21,199 Speaker 4: it will be and then it's like what we're at 442 00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 4: six Flags. Calm down, you know, we're at six Flags. 443 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:29,200 Speaker 4: But it's I think the key is comparmentalizing, or having 444 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 4: somebody that I Sometimes it is like about like having 445 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:36,680 Speaker 4: someone uh like shoot it down. But I also think 446 00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:38,159 Speaker 4: comparmentalizing is huge. 447 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:43,840 Speaker 2: Okay, but but I'm all, there's us, Joe, and then 448 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:46,120 Speaker 2: there's Marie. Marie's on the other end of the spectrum 449 00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:50,160 Speaker 2: where she's never thinking what somebody else is thinking about her. 450 00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:53,120 Speaker 1: She's never worth I do think about what people think 451 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:56,320 Speaker 1: of me. I'm one person with feelings. I don't know 452 00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:57,440 Speaker 1: when I can't think of it right now. 453 00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, yeah I might when Marie, but I do. 454 00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 1: I do have moments of ooh, did I say the 455 00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:08,720 Speaker 1: wrong thing at that place? Or was I talking too 456 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 1: much or damn, I really am funny. I should have 457 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 1: let other people shine for a moment, you know what 458 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:13,880 Speaker 1: I mean? 459 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:21,960 Speaker 3: Like, think, Marie, when do you when have you ever 460 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:27,720 Speaker 3: thought that? In the seven eight years of me knowing, 461 00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:29,160 Speaker 3: when have you ever been like. 462 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:32,400 Speaker 1: When I come home, when I come late at night, 463 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:40,400 Speaker 1: slee thing that that's when I that's when I sit 464 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:40,960 Speaker 1: And I'm like. 465 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:47,200 Speaker 2: Okay, so you're but when you spiral, I think you 466 00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 2: you kind of keep it to yourself. 467 00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:49,800 Speaker 3: Joe. 468 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 2: I don't know if you do this, but when I'm spiraling, 469 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:55,480 Speaker 2: I'm calling everybody. I'm calling everybody until I get out 470 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:56,200 Speaker 2: of the spiral. 471 00:23:56,640 --> 00:24:02,000 Speaker 4: Mm hmm, yeah, it does. I find that the worst 472 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:05,080 Speaker 4: situation for that because yeah, you can call people and 473 00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:07,760 Speaker 4: sometimes they help, but it usually doesn't help. But the 474 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:10,959 Speaker 4: worst is when you it doesn't even make sense, like 475 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,160 Speaker 4: why you're upset, and you have to spend so much 476 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:16,440 Speaker 4: time explaining why you started spirally in the first place 477 00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:20,200 Speaker 4: that it's like it's just exhausting. That's the worst kiss scenario. 478 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,720 Speaker 3: Do you have an example, like a recent example of 479 00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:23,320 Speaker 3: you spiraling? 480 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 4: You know, I I think I spiraled a lot during 481 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 4: uh during the during our quarantine time but like, for example, 482 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,760 Speaker 4: like if I that was everybody, Yeah, that was everybody. 483 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:37,760 Speaker 4: But like, for example, this is a classic example, is 484 00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:40,960 Speaker 4: that I if I did really bad at a show, 485 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,800 Speaker 4: if I bombed, if I got heckled or something, and 486 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,760 Speaker 4: I couldn't talk back to them, I would be like, 487 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:51,160 Speaker 4: I am the worst. I am the worst comedian I've 488 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:54,200 Speaker 4: out of everyone I know. And then I'd like, there's 489 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 4: no way I can go back on stage. It's actually 490 00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:59,600 Speaker 4: it's something about me that's weak and bad and unfunny. 491 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:02,680 Speaker 4: And then I'll be like I'll call someone and be like. 492 00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 3: Hey, I just really did it. 493 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,399 Speaker 4: I did really bad and I'm bad at this and 494 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:11,600 Speaker 4: they'd be like no, and then and then from there 495 00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:14,520 Speaker 4: I would just kind of like I would like try 496 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:16,439 Speaker 4: to move on, but then like I'd have like tears 497 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 4: strolling like down my face. I'd like, Yo, okay, let's 498 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,199 Speaker 4: just let's go to dinner or something. But it was 499 00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:23,199 Speaker 4: like I couldn't get over it, and it was like, 500 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,920 Speaker 4: really I could tell it. It was like hard on 501 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,120 Speaker 4: my friends too, like it was just like they didn't 502 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:30,439 Speaker 4: want to deal with this because it was like I 503 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:31,800 Speaker 4: got really stubborn about it. 504 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:36,600 Speaker 3: Well do you do it? A lot. Are you always spiraling? 505 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 2: And that somebody has to come and kind of like 506 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:42,680 Speaker 2: clean clean up on all seven and just like mop 507 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 2: up all the mess. 508 00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:48,520 Speaker 4: Well, I found that I've kind of exhausted my resources, 509 00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:53,600 Speaker 4: like the spiraling usually happens at like you're pointing. 510 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:54,480 Speaker 3: To you and myself. 511 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:58,880 Speaker 4: Oh yeah yeah, and it's like I feel like at 512 00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:01,679 Speaker 4: this point what you usually helps me now because I 513 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 4: can't do that in morge people in my life. So 514 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:08,760 Speaker 4: what I'm doing now is I'm just I'm smoking a 515 00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:12,920 Speaker 4: cigarette and then I will and then I feel a 516 00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:13,400 Speaker 4: lot better. 517 00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:16,000 Speaker 3: Cigarettes. 518 00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:17,560 Speaker 4: It's really bad. It's really bad. 519 00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 1: I like, I like how you whispered it into the microphone. 520 00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:22,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought you were gonna be like, so I 521 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:24,320 Speaker 2: just do a bump of coke like you. 522 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:26,320 Speaker 3: I bread nothing. 523 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:28,400 Speaker 1: I thought you were going to say weed. I've been 524 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:33,160 Speaker 1: smoking weed. You said cigarettes, like you know, it does 525 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 1: feel kind of like they're illegal though, like for some 526 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:38,879 Speaker 1: reason it seems like worse. Okay, do you have it 527 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 1: because they don't even yeah, or something nearby. I want 528 00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:44,159 Speaker 1: to see your smoking technique. Are you holding it between 529 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 1: the finger or you holding it so stupid? This is 530 00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:47,959 Speaker 1: in sexy Capri. 531 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:50,480 Speaker 4: This is like, this is really what I'm doing. I'm like, 532 00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:56,639 Speaker 4: it's like it's not even it's not cute. It's like 533 00:26:56,840 --> 00:27:02,919 Speaker 4: it's not cute, it's okay wow. But I find that 534 00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:07,879 Speaker 4: it's like the the more. Yeah, I just kind of 535 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,720 Speaker 4: I don't know, Sidney, if you're stubborn like this as well, 536 00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:13,440 Speaker 4: But I get really stubborn about how bad I am, 537 00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:15,600 Speaker 4: and then it's like this story it cannot be broken. 538 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:19,840 Speaker 4: And that's why the spirally kind of stays low, which. 539 00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:22,840 Speaker 2: Is crazy, Joe, because you have a Comedy Central half hour, 540 00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:29,000 Speaker 2: You're constantly getting booked, you're working, You're like Joe Paris Show, 541 00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:29,960 Speaker 2: You're doing everything. 542 00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:33,640 Speaker 3: You're always you're in a room or you're on screen. 543 00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:37,160 Speaker 1: So like, I've never seen you bomb on stage. 544 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:40,400 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, Joe, Yeah. 545 00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,199 Speaker 4: I know. I guess it's like it's the kind of 546 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:45,160 Speaker 4: thing where like, okay, so one time, this is kind 547 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:49,520 Speaker 4: of a funny, little, you know, a little fun experience. Okay, 548 00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:54,840 Speaker 4: So I did. I did just for laughs a couple 549 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:57,919 Speaker 4: of years ago, and I was pretty sure I bombed 550 00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:00,600 Speaker 4: that set. Like I was like, like, you know, when 551 00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 4: nobody talks to you after a set, Oh yeah, I 552 00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:05,159 Speaker 4: don't know if you've ever experienced. But then you're just like, oh, 553 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:07,399 Speaker 4: this is what it Oh shit, And so then I 554 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:09,159 Speaker 4: was like, I think I bombed. I think I bombed 555 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,920 Speaker 4: just for laughs. And then like a lot of people 556 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:13,960 Speaker 4: had to talk me down and it was like, you know, 557 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:15,480 Speaker 4: you didn't find you didn't find a more about it, 558 00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:19,040 Speaker 4: and then uh, I kind of forgot about it. Eventually. 559 00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:20,800 Speaker 4: I just kind of was like, you can't talk about 560 00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:22,840 Speaker 4: it anymore. Nobody wants to hear about this. And so 561 00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 4: then a year later, I got a call from a 562 00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:27,359 Speaker 4: number I didn't note and I let it go to 563 00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:34,040 Speaker 4: voice bail, and it was another comedian saying, I heard 564 00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:35,359 Speaker 4: you bombed it just for laughs. 565 00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:39,280 Speaker 6: I just want to know if it's gonna be okay, 566 00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:41,720 Speaker 6: And I was like, I did bomb. And then I 567 00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:48,080 Speaker 6: was like I was kind of like validating in that regard. 568 00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 4: I was like, well, I'm not crazy, I'm just bad comedy, okay. 569 00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,280 Speaker 1: Cause she like a voicemail and said that she. 570 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:58,960 Speaker 3: But imagine you minded your motherfucking business. 571 00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 2: You's a year, You're you're done, You're done, You've booked 572 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:08,280 Speaker 2: other things, You're you got new management and everything, you've 573 00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:11,600 Speaker 2: started over. You even have a new name like it 574 00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:15,000 Speaker 2: was Joanna, it was Joanna Firestone, and now it's Joe 575 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,560 Speaker 2: because you had to switch it because you had bombs 576 00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 2: just for laugh And now this bitch is calling you 577 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:25,320 Speaker 2: on a fucking Saturday, like, hey, wondering is your is 578 00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:26,360 Speaker 2: your career okay? 579 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 3: Because I heard you bomb just for last a year 580 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:30,320 Speaker 3: of it is? 581 00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:34,920 Speaker 4: It is just like I completely understand. I completely understand 582 00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:36,720 Speaker 4: why she did it, and I also think that somebody 583 00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:39,600 Speaker 4: was She was probably how to someone being like I bombed, 584 00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:41,440 Speaker 4: I bombed, and someone else was like, you know who 585 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:44,640 Speaker 4: you should call? You know, it probably wasn't her idea. 586 00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:45,920 Speaker 4: She wasn't there. 587 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:49,120 Speaker 2: I know somebody probably mentioned your name, like, well, Joe 588 00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:52,880 Speaker 2: didn't have an amazing set, she decided to call you, 589 00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,520 Speaker 2: been gone, messed up Joe's day. 590 00:29:55,560 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 1: Joe's beautiful Thursday. Imagine it is it is. Imagine you 591 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 1: do the work, you went to therapy, you got the closure, 592 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,200 Speaker 1: you put it behind you, and now this person is 593 00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 1: calling you asking you about this. Did you call her back? 594 00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:11,959 Speaker 1: That people want to know? 595 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:18,480 Speaker 4: I did, Yes, I did, and I left him for voicemail. 596 00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:20,520 Speaker 4: But I did just I was like the kind of 597 00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:23,520 Speaker 4: thing where it was like what there's nothing you can 598 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:25,880 Speaker 4: say to make it the situation feel better because you 599 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 4: weren't there and you're not in their head. But it's 600 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 4: like it is the truth that, like time, the only 601 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:35,760 Speaker 4: solution to spiraling is maybe smoky cigarettes and also time. Yeah, 602 00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:37,560 Speaker 4: it's just kind of being like I'm not going to 603 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:39,520 Speaker 4: care about this in two weeks. 604 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:42,400 Speaker 2: How how but like that's the thing, Like you're not 605 00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:44,680 Speaker 2: going to care in two weeks, but the feeling is 606 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:48,400 Speaker 2: so overwhelming. It's the only thing that you can think about. 607 00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 2: It's the only thing that you can focus on. 608 00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:55,120 Speaker 1: But literally, time is what makes it better because in 609 00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:58,000 Speaker 1: two weeks you're gonna be spiraling about something else. Yeah. 610 00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,400 Speaker 1: I think when when something like that, like a bad 611 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,560 Speaker 1: show or a bomb happens, you go to bed thinking 612 00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,720 Speaker 1: about it. You wake up the next day still thinking 613 00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:08,400 Speaker 1: about it. You're brushing your teeth, like I gotta get 614 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:11,640 Speaker 1: a real job. I'm not a comedian. This is terrible. 615 00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:15,239 Speaker 1: After a couple of days, it's not the thing that 616 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:18,000 Speaker 1: you're thinking about, not the first thing you're thinking about, 617 00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:20,280 Speaker 1: not the last thing you're thinking about. You're thinking about 618 00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:24,160 Speaker 1: other things and maybe like you gotta, you gotta, what's 619 00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:26,560 Speaker 1: what's the thing when you're hungover, you have to drink 620 00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:30,440 Speaker 1: water like hair of the Dog, right, hair of the Dog. 621 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:32,480 Speaker 1: With comedy, you gotta get back on stage and have 622 00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:35,840 Speaker 1: another good set. And I feel like that kind of 623 00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:37,920 Speaker 1: cleanses the mind a little bit. 624 00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:45,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, but Joe, the thing is is that, like you know. 625 00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:48,600 Speaker 1: What, Okay, okay, the dog is spiraling. 626 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:52,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, the dog is spiraling. This is not the time. 627 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:53,880 Speaker 1: Please your dog off. 628 00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:59,160 Speaker 3: Your dog is named Loaf. I'm crying. Joe. 629 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:04,760 Speaker 2: You're like very like niche comedy, like it's your like nuance, 630 00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:10,240 Speaker 2: And I feel like you might think that you had 631 00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:13,440 Speaker 2: a bad set, but people are just like listening to 632 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:18,200 Speaker 2: get on board with like your type of comedy, which 633 00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:18,920 Speaker 2: I love. 634 00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:19,960 Speaker 3: Which I love. 635 00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:23,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, if I feel like if somebody is killing in 636 00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:28,640 Speaker 2: like middle of America, their jokes are probably like, so 637 00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:32,200 Speaker 2: this is mean, this is rude, but like it'll say 638 00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:35,800 Speaker 2: it though, right, it's a little it's gotta be a 639 00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:41,240 Speaker 2: little hacky, just a little you know, like like Kevin Hart, 640 00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:43,680 Speaker 2: I'm saying it on the record, I don't know, he's 641 00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:46,040 Speaker 2: not pushing any buttons. 642 00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:49,600 Speaker 3: In the like he plays it safe. He plays it 643 00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:52,600 Speaker 3: safe all the time. So like I don't know. 644 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:56,280 Speaker 2: I think sometimes you have to not get laughs to 645 00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:59,360 Speaker 2: remind yourself like, oh I'm different, Like it's not that 646 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:03,680 Speaker 2: I'm not funny, it's just that they've never experienced somebody 647 00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:06,960 Speaker 2: like me before. 648 00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 3: You know, you disagree. 649 00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:11,440 Speaker 1: Listen every time, I don't say I'm just trying to 650 00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:13,600 Speaker 1: get laughs. You don't have to understand me. But you 651 00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:16,560 Speaker 1: don't think I'm funny, that's it. And if you don't 652 00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:18,480 Speaker 1: think I'm funny, then I don't think I'm funny. And 653 00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:22,360 Speaker 1: I'm like, well maybe that if I'm not getting laughs, 654 00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 1: then I'm not gonna be happy when I go home. 655 00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 3: And what do you think? 656 00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:27,720 Speaker 2: I mean? 657 00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:30,440 Speaker 5: I think that everyone in the zoom calls funny first 658 00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:34,800 Speaker 5: and foremost. I think that what is your what is 659 00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:36,640 Speaker 5: your question that you're asking Sydney. 660 00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:40,160 Speaker 2: Like, have you been at a show maybe that somebody 661 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:42,560 Speaker 2: wasn't getting a lot of lass, but you were like, no, 662 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:44,360 Speaker 2: I see where they were going. 663 00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:45,560 Speaker 3: I thought they were funny. 664 00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:47,680 Speaker 5: I mean yeah, like you can see, like you see 665 00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:51,400 Speaker 5: people in different crowds like I think that, yeah, it's 666 00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:54,959 Speaker 5: unfortunate when like the crowd is like the person hosting 667 00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:56,760 Speaker 5: is like not a good time, and then it's just 668 00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:59,160 Speaker 5: like they go into like Marie or whatever, and it 669 00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:02,000 Speaker 5: affects Maurice. But I think, like Marie, you're always funny 670 00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:05,480 Speaker 5: because like it's always like it's always something like you're 671 00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:08,920 Speaker 5: always interacting with the crowd. So it's it's never like, Okay, 672 00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:13,480 Speaker 5: I'm watching this person, you know, regurgitate the set after set, right, 673 00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:15,640 Speaker 5: So it's like, Okay, this is a it's a new thing. 674 00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:18,960 Speaker 3: Because so what you're saying about man, Joe, I'm. 675 00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:23,080 Speaker 5: Saying I mean, Mara is the one. Marie is the 676 00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:24,839 Speaker 5: one talking about not having a good night. 677 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:28,080 Speaker 1: Here, right. But also when you see me doing crowd 678 00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:29,960 Speaker 1: work a lot talking to the audience, is because I 679 00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:33,120 Speaker 1: don't have anything prepared. So they see me up there 680 00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:35,600 Speaker 1: talking to people and not doing a set that you've 681 00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:38,720 Speaker 1: seen before, it's because I didn't prepare anything for this show. 682 00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:40,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's still works. 683 00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:41,400 Speaker 1: It's still works. 684 00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:44,640 Speaker 4: It is it is. I do feel like it's the 685 00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:49,120 Speaker 4: kind of thing where it's it takes a lot of 686 00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:51,759 Speaker 4: I think that the like, I really agree with what 687 00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:53,520 Speaker 4: you're saying, Marie, that you just need a good set 688 00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:56,200 Speaker 4: to get back on track. But I think that I 689 00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,480 Speaker 4: think the fear, like the fear is that you won't 690 00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:01,200 Speaker 4: have another good set, you know, and then you're like, 691 00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:04,480 Speaker 4: how many bad sets in a row? I don't know. 692 00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:06,480 Speaker 4: I guess at that point you change things up. You 693 00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:07,600 Speaker 4: have to make a change. 694 00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:11,800 Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean I understand that. But but everyone, 695 00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:14,840 Speaker 1: everybody who is a comedian is going to have a 696 00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:17,560 Speaker 1: night where that where they're off, their jokes are off, 697 00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:21,680 Speaker 1: the crowd is off, something is off. But Joe, everybody 698 00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:25,759 Speaker 1: in this zoom is freaking hilarious. I can't see you 699 00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:29,160 Speaker 1: bombing more than once. I can't even see you bombing once. 700 00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:32,600 Speaker 1: So to say like you would do it multiple nights 701 00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:34,680 Speaker 1: in a row, I don't. I don't first like that. 702 00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:39,520 Speaker 1: My brain is like, huh whah, I don't see that. 703 00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:43,320 Speaker 2: Okay, well what about what about the art? Is someone 704 00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:45,640 Speaker 2: mad at me or if they don't like you? That 705 00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:50,600 Speaker 2: that's the biggest spiral that I have because I constant 706 00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:53,279 Speaker 2: I'm in a constant state of not that I want 707 00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,439 Speaker 2: to be liked, but I don't. I don't like when 708 00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:59,319 Speaker 2: there's confrontation. I want to I want to fix it 709 00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:02,320 Speaker 2: right away. Even if you don't like me anymore, that's fine. 710 00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:05,880 Speaker 2: I just want to not worry about what the fuck 711 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:10,440 Speaker 2: the possibilities of you being upset at me at you 712 00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:10,920 Speaker 2: go through. 713 00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:11,239 Speaker 3: The same thing. 714 00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:14,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, Sidney, I got to tell you something. This is 715 00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:16,239 Speaker 4: really this is dark. But are you ready for this? 716 00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:17,280 Speaker 1: No, I'm ready. 717 00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:21,520 Speaker 4: In high school, I used to think people were so 718 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:23,839 Speaker 4: mad at me all the time, people that I didn't 719 00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:29,239 Speaker 4: even wasn't even friends with. After school, I would go 720 00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:31,759 Speaker 4: through the buzz book, Remember the buzz book where you 721 00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:37,160 Speaker 4: have people's home phone numbers the phone book. Yeah, and 722 00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:41,440 Speaker 4: I would call them on your family's phone, the family's phone, 723 00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:45,759 Speaker 4: and I would the landline and no one would pick up, 724 00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:48,480 Speaker 4: and I would leave message being like I'm so sorry 725 00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:53,080 Speaker 4: for what I did today. Okay, that is truly unhinged. 726 00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:58,880 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, because that is untimes. There's multiple last names 727 00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:02,000 Speaker 1: that are the same. So you were everybody in the 728 00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:06,000 Speaker 1: phone book leaving voicemails on the wrong person's machine. 729 00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 4: Doing they weren't home. They had no idea, but I 730 00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,439 Speaker 4: believe these and like, can you imagine having a son 731 00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:19,160 Speaker 4: or daughter or whoever, and then like checking the answering 732 00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:23,160 Speaker 4: machine and just being like this, like this sad, sad girl, 733 00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:26,759 Speaker 4: being like I'm so sorry to Tommy. I didn't mean 734 00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:29,719 Speaker 4: to hurt him, and it's like what did this woman do? 735 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:31,960 Speaker 1: Like what did you do? And then Tommy's like, I 736 00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:35,080 Speaker 1: don't who is Yeah? 737 00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:37,839 Speaker 4: But that just so you know, Cindy, if you start 738 00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:39,640 Speaker 4: to spiral in that way, just know that you're not 739 00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:45,040 Speaker 4: calling their home phone. Okay. It's just like there is 740 00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:47,360 Speaker 4: a level that people are taking it that you didn't. 741 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:48,399 Speaker 4: You did not take it. 742 00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:51,080 Speaker 2: The problem is is that when you said that, you're like, 743 00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:52,799 Speaker 2: you exhaust are your resources? 744 00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 3: That's what I have done. 745 00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:56,600 Speaker 2: Like, if I think someone's mad at me, I will 746 00:37:56,640 --> 00:38:00,440 Speaker 2: talk to everybody about it and they're like, bitch, I 747 00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:01,800 Speaker 2: don't know what you want me to do. 748 00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:05,280 Speaker 3: Do you just talk to the person like or figure 749 00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:05,560 Speaker 3: it out? 750 00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:08,919 Speaker 2: But I don't want to hear it anymore because it's 751 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:12,960 Speaker 2: ruining my life, it's ruining my energy. I'm in a 752 00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:15,960 Speaker 2: bad mood because well, you know what the problem is 753 00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:18,960 Speaker 2: is that people are not fucking honest. So if maybe 754 00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:23,920 Speaker 2: if people would like, if they're being shady or being weird, 755 00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:26,719 Speaker 2: don't gaslight me and make me think that, oh no, 756 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:27,640 Speaker 2: everything is fine. 757 00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:31,080 Speaker 3: It's not. You're mad at me. You're upset about something. 758 00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:35,920 Speaker 1: You see. This is why I'm honest, No, truly like 759 00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:40,279 Speaker 1: with ever. I'm saying this with like every fiber of 760 00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:42,760 Speaker 1: my being. It's so much easier to just be honest. 761 00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:44,719 Speaker 1: Someone asks you if you're mad, if you're mad, tell 762 00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:47,200 Speaker 1: them you're mad, and then tell them why. If someone 763 00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:49,319 Speaker 1: asks you if you're okay, if you're not okay, tell 764 00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:52,239 Speaker 1: them you're not okay, and then tell them why. It's 765 00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:56,000 Speaker 1: so much easier to be honest because when you're honest 766 00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:57,960 Speaker 1: with people, they're honest with you. And we don't have 767 00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:02,239 Speaker 1: to play these guessing games adults. This is not you know, 768 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:05,880 Speaker 1: sixth grade recess. We're not you know, we're grown ups. 769 00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:07,719 Speaker 4: Yeah. 770 00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:10,960 Speaker 1: Yes, I think that I'm a good friend because I 771 00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:12,160 Speaker 1: check the guests work out. 772 00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:14,720 Speaker 4: Well, that's probably why you two are such good friends. 773 00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:18,720 Speaker 4: And I think that also. The one thing I keep 774 00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:22,359 Speaker 4: thinking about, Sidney is like, how if these people are 775 00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:25,640 Speaker 4: kind of like even in this imaginary world where these 776 00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:28,359 Speaker 4: people are turning on a dime and just being like, 777 00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:32,200 Speaker 4: I'm mad because of like some small slight like those 778 00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:37,200 Speaker 4: people are not pleasant to be friends with. And that's 779 00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:40,120 Speaker 4: the thing I keep reminding myself, where it's like if 780 00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:41,920 Speaker 4: I think someone's mad at me all the time, Like 781 00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:43,439 Speaker 4: what am I getting out of this. 782 00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:49,040 Speaker 2: Friendship Joe, here we go, Here We're gonna this is 783 00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:52,399 Speaker 2: an unpopular opinion. We kind of like that shit if 784 00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:55,680 Speaker 2: it puts fire under our ass, like we're like, it 785 00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:59,000 Speaker 2: helps us spiral and worry because that's all we fucking do. 786 00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:01,800 Speaker 3: Interesting, what do you think? 787 00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:06,120 Speaker 4: I also really hate it when people are mad at me, 788 00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:10,799 Speaker 4: But I I, I don't know, I think that me. 789 00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:14,759 Speaker 4: I actually I think I might have uh cut the 790 00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:16,760 Speaker 4: people out that get mad at me a lot. 791 00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:20,200 Speaker 1: Okay, So you're saying people would be mad at. 792 00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:22,520 Speaker 4: You, there was like a few people that would get 793 00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:26,200 Speaker 4: mad at me a lot, like like expectations that were unrealistic. 794 00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:29,799 Speaker 3: Example, give us some give us some example, like uh. 795 00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:35,680 Speaker 4: Like dropping everything to do whatever they need at any 796 00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:38,200 Speaker 4: given moment, and like that. That is okay if it's 797 00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:41,960 Speaker 4: if it's mutual, or if it's like if it's not 798 00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:44,840 Speaker 4: every day, but I think if it's. 799 00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:48,640 Speaker 1: Like your child, but yeah, dropping everything to do something 800 00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:52,839 Speaker 1: that you need me to do because you're spiraling, this 801 00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:53,400 Speaker 1: is what it is. 802 00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:54,360 Speaker 4: If it's mutual. 803 00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:56,920 Speaker 1: If it's mutual, you need me to drop everything that 804 00:40:56,960 --> 00:41:00,840 Speaker 1: I'm doing because you're spiraling. And and then when I 805 00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:04,600 Speaker 1: don't do it I spiral. Y'all are an abusive relationships? 806 00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:09,840 Speaker 1: You guys. Yeah, Joe, I'm glad you're dumping these friends, 807 00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:12,840 Speaker 1: but like this, y'all gotta be tired. 808 00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:15,480 Speaker 3: Yeah it was, it was. 809 00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:19,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that it was. I think also, yeah, 810 00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:23,120 Speaker 4: I think that there is a secret space of being 811 00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:27,880 Speaker 4: honest but also not not making it about confrontation, you 812 00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:32,400 Speaker 4: know what I mean, where it's like, uh, you know, 813 00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:34,959 Speaker 4: I'm not saying that, you know, introduce the LOL after 814 00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:36,799 Speaker 4: you make a text, you know what I mean? But 815 00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,920 Speaker 4: like something like that where it's like figuring it out 816 00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:43,600 Speaker 4: a way, like to be either funny about it or 817 00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:46,600 Speaker 4: lighthearted about it or something where it's like, yeah, you 818 00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:48,279 Speaker 4: get your point across, but it doesn't have to be 819 00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:51,239 Speaker 4: this whole moment of like what you betrayed me the 820 00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:52,600 Speaker 4: other day, you know, it's like. 821 00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:55,879 Speaker 1: You stabbed me in the back. 822 00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:56,640 Speaker 4: Well, so. 823 00:41:58,160 --> 00:41:59,920 Speaker 1: Is texting the way to see somebody's mad? 824 00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:04,440 Speaker 2: No, you have to call, we have to never texts 825 00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:08,560 Speaker 2: ever emails even worse. 826 00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:14,040 Speaker 1: Well, Joe, who may concerns are you mad at me? Period? 827 00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:20,360 Speaker 2: L do you bet BCC everybody You're like, are you 828 00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:23,799 Speaker 2: mad at me? And send out a mass email of 829 00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:25,520 Speaker 2: people that'd be funny. 830 00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:27,239 Speaker 4: One hundred names per. 831 00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:29,640 Speaker 1: Recipients. 832 00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:34,839 Speaker 2: I think, Joe, I think I've worried more about if 833 00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:38,920 Speaker 2: people are mad at me spiraling in a sense in 834 00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:46,160 Speaker 2: comedy than like outside. I think like normis or you know, pedestrians, civilians, 835 00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:53,160 Speaker 2: whatever we calls pedestrians, they I think are just more 836 00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:55,399 Speaker 2: easy in terms of you can tell if they're mad 837 00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:58,200 Speaker 2: at you. Also, they can't hold their tongue, so they 838 00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:00,839 Speaker 2: just tell you like, hey, yeah, I didn't like that 839 00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:04,040 Speaker 2: you didn't show up to my birthday, Like that was rude, 840 00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:07,279 Speaker 2: you know those people. But in comedy everyone is so 841 00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:10,920 Speaker 2: you know, underhanded and like, well, I'm gonna have to 842 00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:12,680 Speaker 2: work with you, so I can't tell you that I 843 00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:17,879 Speaker 2: fucking hate your guts. So everybody is like bullshitting each 844 00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:20,600 Speaker 2: other and not being honest because they're like, well I 845 00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:22,480 Speaker 2: might I might want to get a gig from them, 846 00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:25,359 Speaker 2: or I want a spot. So it's just it's it's 847 00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:28,080 Speaker 2: more stress in the industry. 848 00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:29,680 Speaker 3: That's why we spiral. 849 00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:33,080 Speaker 5: What I am really, I'm really confused on where you're 850 00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:35,600 Speaker 5: standing on this. If I'm gonna be honest, because you're 851 00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:38,200 Speaker 5: saying that like you're you're saying that it's exhausting and everything, 852 00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:40,200 Speaker 5: but then you also said earlier that you love it. 853 00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:40,560 Speaker 2: She did. 854 00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:42,520 Speaker 3: I'm like what she did. 855 00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:45,920 Speaker 1: But this is what I'm saying. When Sydney starts the spiral, 856 00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:47,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, girl, if that's what you're going to 857 00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:50,799 Speaker 1: do this afternoon, do that. I'm not doing that with you. 858 00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:55,080 Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not wasting the day doing this with you. 859 00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:58,359 Speaker 1: Like grow up. I'm trying my drugs in the sun. 860 00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:00,399 Speaker 1: I don't have time, like. 861 00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:04,719 Speaker 4: Well, I think it I okay, Sorry, sorry to bring 862 00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:09,520 Speaker 4: in another lesson from my acupuncture class. So this is 863 00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:15,160 Speaker 4: other Japanese therapist named hold On. Let me get the 864 00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:18,920 Speaker 4: name right. It's I think it's hold On. It's meant. 865 00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:27,280 Speaker 4: I love that, Maria. 866 00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:29,480 Speaker 3: I love that Joe is naming names. 867 00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:37,000 Speaker 4: Okay, immes on the pod we love Okay. He's a psychologist, 868 00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:39,480 Speaker 4: like around the same time as Freid. Okay. But he 869 00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:44,920 Speaker 4: basically had all this anxiety and this like and he 870 00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:48,160 Speaker 4: had all his body pain and stuff, and then when 871 00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:53,960 Speaker 4: he stopped paying attention to it, it went away. Okay. 872 00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:57,440 Speaker 4: So he like created this whole system where basically you 873 00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:03,200 Speaker 4: like you like when you're really stressed out or when 874 00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:06,120 Speaker 4: you're like really panicking and stuff, you go to this 875 00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:09,480 Speaker 4: out this inpatient system where you like rest for a 876 00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:11,560 Speaker 4: couple of days, and then when you get so bored, 877 00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:14,440 Speaker 4: you start to do light housework, and then when you 878 00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:16,520 Speaker 4: get so bored, you start to do heavy housework, and 879 00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:18,399 Speaker 4: then when you get that bored, you end up going 880 00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:22,359 Speaker 4: to do chores outside, like errands. But it's like this 881 00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:24,359 Speaker 4: thing where it's like if you don't focus on your 882 00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:30,799 Speaker 4: own anxiety and you focus on like physical tasks, he 883 00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:33,759 Speaker 4: says that that is a way to cure anxiety. 884 00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:37,040 Speaker 2: Well, if I did that, then I would be cleaning 885 00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:39,600 Speaker 2: my own apartment and not having a cleaning person. So 886 00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:42,880 Speaker 2: but my anxiety is so bad that I can't fucking 887 00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:43,920 Speaker 2: clean my own place. 888 00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:47,040 Speaker 1: So that I was gonna say, I mean, I live there. 889 00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:49,200 Speaker 1: I live too anxious to do anything. 890 00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:54,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I hear what you're saying, our good sister, Joe. 891 00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:55,279 Speaker 3: But yeah, I don't know. 892 00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:58,040 Speaker 4: No, I'm not saying this will work for Kay, But 893 00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:01,200 Speaker 4: I'm just saying that, like there is some thing there 894 00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:04,200 Speaker 4: where it's like, uh, you know, I'm really trying to 895 00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:07,360 Speaker 4: get as much as I can out of this investment 896 00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:11,799 Speaker 4: in school here, but basically, it's like if you I 897 00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:14,480 Speaker 4: think there is something where it's like sometimes when I 898 00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:16,879 Speaker 4: don't talk about the spiral, it does kind of feel 899 00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:19,440 Speaker 4: like it's festering in me. But then I think when 900 00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:22,080 Speaker 4: I don't bring too much attention to it and I 901 00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:24,200 Speaker 4: really try my best to get over it, it does. 902 00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:28,440 Speaker 4: It does go away quicker. 903 00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:31,680 Speaker 3: It'll always go away. 904 00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:35,880 Speaker 2: But like, yo, that feeling that you have in your throat, 905 00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:40,040 Speaker 2: like not being able to sleep, the like feeling like 906 00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:42,360 Speaker 2: your brain is going in circles. 907 00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:45,520 Speaker 3: It's it is a nightmare. I know that. I said that. 908 00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,319 Speaker 2: Sometimes I like it because you know, sometimes yeah, I 909 00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:50,840 Speaker 2: want a little drama. It's a little boring and everything 910 00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:53,279 Speaker 2: is going right and I need to like make up 911 00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:54,000 Speaker 2: a problem. 912 00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:55,440 Speaker 3: But for the most. 913 00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:58,960 Speaker 2: Part, it just it's not me like it truly just 914 00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:03,080 Speaker 2: like happens and it sucks. 915 00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:09,439 Speaker 3: Marie is looking at me crazy, What's what's the deal? 916 00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:13,000 Speaker 1: You're saying it's not you, it is you. No, it's 917 00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:15,200 Speaker 1: not that's not who that's who you are. 918 00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:17,320 Speaker 3: No, no, no, not entirely, no. 919 00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:21,400 Speaker 1: Not entirely. Le Didney cares. Sidney's a very compassionate person. 920 00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:24,239 Speaker 1: She cares about how what she does affects people. She 921 00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:27,080 Speaker 1: cares about how people feel. You're always going to care 922 00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:28,480 Speaker 1: about how people feel, or I was going to care 923 00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:33,120 Speaker 1: about how what you do affects folks. That being said, 924 00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:39,879 Speaker 1: you're very critical of yourself and if someone doesn't talk 925 00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:43,359 Speaker 1: to you, like I mean, Sidney was talking to us, 926 00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:45,760 Speaker 1: and she was like, I think so and so muted 927 00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:48,920 Speaker 1: me on Sidney, so and so muted me on Instagram 928 00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:51,680 Speaker 1: and I was like, so and she was like, I 929 00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:53,600 Speaker 1: don't I don't know why they would mute me. And 930 00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:54,759 Speaker 1: I was like, well, why do you think that they 931 00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:57,000 Speaker 1: muted you? And she was like, because I'm not seeing 932 00:47:57,040 --> 00:48:02,759 Speaker 1: their stories. And I was like, so, I mean you 933 00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:03,920 Speaker 1: muted them, Sydney. 934 00:48:04,239 --> 00:48:05,879 Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, it was like. 935 00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:10,399 Speaker 5: They're not they're not engaging with your Yeah yeah, yeah, okay, okay, she. 936 00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:12,719 Speaker 1: Was she couldn't see their content or they could. 937 00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:16,479 Speaker 2: They definitely restricted me. They definitely restricted me, which is fine. 938 00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:18,640 Speaker 1: It's fine. I mean, it's fine now, but it wasn't 939 00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:19,439 Speaker 1: fine at the time. 940 00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:20,200 Speaker 3: No, it wasn't. 941 00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,160 Speaker 2: But I I had to let go. I had to 942 00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:25,560 Speaker 2: let go, let god in and let go. And I said, 943 00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:28,200 Speaker 2: you know whatever, Sidney, you need to live love laugh baby, 944 00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:29,560 Speaker 2: that it's. 945 00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:31,560 Speaker 4: That whole compassionate thing. You got to make it about. 946 00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:34,040 Speaker 4: You got to be compassionate towards yourself, which is really 947 00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:37,720 Speaker 4: impossible to do. But it's oh and she left. Okay, 948 00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:44,080 Speaker 4: so yeah, Well anyway, that's kind of the that's kind 949 00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:46,480 Speaker 4: of the gist of what I was going for, Sydney. 950 00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:48,120 Speaker 4: If you're still out there, I just want you to, 951 00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:50,360 Speaker 4: you know, be compassionate towards yourself. 952 00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:54,680 Speaker 1: Sidney, she went to pee or I don't know, brush 953 00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:59,920 Speaker 1: brush her cats or something. Joe, have you ever spiral 954 00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:04,880 Speaker 1: in a relationship or spiraled at a job? I feel 955 00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:06,720 Speaker 1: like maybe people want to hear a little bit about 956 00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:08,800 Speaker 1: something like that going down. 957 00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:18,239 Speaker 4: Let's see spiraled it. I think that, you know, I 958 00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:24,040 Speaker 4: once had this, Oh she's back. I once had I 959 00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:28,680 Speaker 4: was working at a job and they we weren't allowed 960 00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:36,440 Speaker 4: to talk to this the this Well okay, so we 961 00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:40,600 Speaker 4: went in to talk to this celebrity to talk about 962 00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:45,400 Speaker 4: a bit they were doing on the show. And I 963 00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:47,680 Speaker 4: could tell as I was talking to this celebrity that 964 00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:52,960 Speaker 4: she was physically disgusted with me, Like she was just 965 00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:57,600 Speaker 4: like doing this face like it was like like like 966 00:49:57,719 --> 00:50:00,160 Speaker 4: it was hurting her. Yeah, it was like hurting her 967 00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:04,440 Speaker 4: to be around me, and I was like, I was 968 00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:06,920 Speaker 4: like kind of just like going harder because I was like, 969 00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:08,680 Speaker 4: I don't really know what to do here because like 970 00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:11,759 Speaker 4: I have to communicate this information, and like I know 971 00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,759 Speaker 4: she doesn't like this, but I don't. 972 00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:15,400 Speaker 1: I don't know. 973 00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:20,799 Speaker 4: And then afterwards I was like, that went really bad, 974 00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:22,839 Speaker 4: but it was probably not It's probably not me. It's 975 00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:25,359 Speaker 4: probably not me, it's probably something else. It's probably just 976 00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:30,120 Speaker 4: she's confused and or frustrated or something about something else. 977 00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:36,239 Speaker 4: And then afterwards a superior was like, listen, writers are 978 00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:39,400 Speaker 4: no longer allowed to talk to celebrities, and I was like, 979 00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:42,239 Speaker 4: it is me, It is me, Oh my god. And 980 00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:44,480 Speaker 4: I like started to like be like what could I 981 00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:46,640 Speaker 4: have done to make this better situation? What could I 982 00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:50,000 Speaker 4: have done to make her like more comfortable? Did I 983 00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:53,480 Speaker 4: fuck it up for everybody? And now that I have 984 00:50:53,560 --> 00:51:00,319 Speaker 4: some perspective, it's like she this was a bad bit. 985 00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:03,280 Speaker 4: It was a bad bit. It was a bad situation. 986 00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:07,560 Speaker 4: She was late, she's she's really hot, she's really busy. 987 00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:09,800 Speaker 4: I'm not going to be the one to tell her anything, 988 00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:12,520 Speaker 4: even if I if I was also really hot and 989 00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:14,719 Speaker 4: really busy, it's just not going to affect anything. So 990 00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:17,719 Speaker 4: it's like kind of just getting some perspective on it. 991 00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:18,279 Speaker 4: Was a little bit. 992 00:51:19,680 --> 00:51:20,560 Speaker 1: Was it Megan Fox? 993 00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:28,080 Speaker 4: I wish it was it was another person who who's 994 00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:29,680 Speaker 4: dating Ben Affleck. 995 00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:35,440 Speaker 3: Oh, Jennifer? Yeah, look at that. 996 00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:39,120 Speaker 1: Well, I mean listen, certain level celebrities, after you reach 997 00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:41,120 Speaker 1: a certain point, they're not that nice and they're also 998 00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:42,960 Speaker 1: not grounded. They're not real people anymore. 999 00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:45,640 Speaker 4: She's the most beautiful person I've ever seen, but I 1000 00:51:45,640 --> 00:51:48,680 Speaker 4: couldn't say. She doesn't drink, she doesn't go in the sun. 1001 00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:51,359 Speaker 1: Apparently she puts olive oil or something. I know, it's 1002 00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:54,160 Speaker 1: not the j Lo beauty. 1003 00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:57,120 Speaker 4: It's never the product. It's absolutely never the product. 1004 00:51:57,120 --> 00:51:59,839 Speaker 1: It's botox and olive oil apparently something like that. 1005 00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:03,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's not the greatest person of all. But also 1006 00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:07,160 Speaker 2: people are fucking annoying. They don't have any boundaries. And 1007 00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:11,000 Speaker 2: you know, fans are we love fans, but they also 1008 00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:13,319 Speaker 2: do the most and do too much sometimes. 1009 00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:17,439 Speaker 1: And in this situation, is that what you're saying. 1010 00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:22,400 Speaker 3: Not you, not Hugo, I'm saying, how were you standing 1011 00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:22,880 Speaker 3: to j Lo. 1012 00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:26,160 Speaker 4: Her knees? 1013 00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:26,640 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1014 00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:28,920 Speaker 4: I had both hands on both her knees, and I 1015 00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:31,760 Speaker 4: was like, you are going to make so many people laugh. 1016 00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:39,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my god, fans are annoying. 1017 00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:44,439 Speaker 3: No talking. 1018 00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:49,239 Speaker 2: What I'm saying, she is she is the way she 1019 00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:54,319 Speaker 2: is because like, yeah, fans, people are annoying, so like 1020 00:52:54,880 --> 00:52:56,319 Speaker 2: it's a built up of things. 1021 00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:58,440 Speaker 3: It's not. It wasn't just you. It was just like 1022 00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:02,400 Speaker 3: in general, Well whatever, Marie, see this. 1023 00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:07,960 Speaker 1: Is that was funny, Sidney that us end on a 1024 00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:10,600 Speaker 1: high note after all this spiral chat. 1025 00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:14,759 Speaker 4: Either record, just for the record, I did want to 1026 00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:17,200 Speaker 4: talk about soup, but you said no. 1027 00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:21,319 Speaker 2: No, Yeah, we didn't want you to think anything like Joe. 1028 00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:23,480 Speaker 2: We needed you to know that we were definitely like 1029 00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:24,600 Speaker 2: nah on that. 1030 00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:28,200 Speaker 1: Joe said she wanted to be our soup expert. Okay, 1031 00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:31,200 Speaker 1: since look we have literally two minutes left, what would 1032 00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:33,640 Speaker 1: you have told us about soup? Well, what you tell 1033 00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:34,480 Speaker 1: us about soup? 1034 00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:34,839 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1035 00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:38,640 Speaker 4: The picture, Well, I just was gonna say that, you 1036 00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:40,160 Speaker 4: know what, a lot of soups it's kind of the 1037 00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:42,880 Speaker 4: same formula. It's kind of easy to master, and I 1038 00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:45,359 Speaker 4: just think it's a really it's a good skill. Can't 1039 00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:47,040 Speaker 4: do salad, but can't do soup. 1040 00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:52,840 Speaker 2: You can't make salads, that's why Jaylo don't like you 1041 00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:54,239 Speaker 2: because you don't make salad. 1042 00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:59,200 Speaker 3: Salads and Ben's ass and she's a yeah, she's a 1043 00:53:59,280 --> 00:53:59,959 Speaker 3: salad girl. 1044 00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:07,960 Speaker 2: Okay, the only soup she she eats is Ben Affleck's ass. Yeah, 1045 00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:12,279 Speaker 2: you think she's listening to the unofficial expert? What is it? 1046 00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:12,840 Speaker 1: Benifer? 1047 00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:19,239 Speaker 2: You know Joe has such a like extensive network. When 1048 00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:22,839 Speaker 2: when we repost this, you know, it might get to Gin, 1049 00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:26,680 Speaker 2: It might get to Gin, it might the girl that 1050 00:54:26,719 --> 00:54:27,719 Speaker 2: touched my knees. 1051 00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:30,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, since then, we've gotten really close, so it's actually 1052 00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:33,600 Speaker 4: all good. That's why stop spiraling. Yeah, we're pretty close 1053 00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:35,920 Speaker 4: now we're friends. The kiss on the lips pretty good? 1054 00:54:36,160 --> 00:54:36,560 Speaker 3: Oh wow? 1055 00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:41,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, before we before we head out, Joe, do you 1056 00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:46,560 Speaker 2: have any like last words for people who spiral like myself? 1057 00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:52,439 Speaker 2: Last words for spiralers? And maybe you know a good 1058 00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:54,239 Speaker 2: thing about us? 1059 00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:54,680 Speaker 3: You know? 1060 00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:56,280 Speaker 1: Two things? 1061 00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:57,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, two things. 1062 00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:00,399 Speaker 4: Yes, whenever you start a spiral, think about how great 1063 00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:03,640 Speaker 4: time travel would be, because you think right now sucks. 1064 00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:06,600 Speaker 4: Three weeks from now, actually I'm gonna think about something else, 1065 00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:09,120 Speaker 4: and so you think, why don't they event try and travel? 1066 00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:10,480 Speaker 4: Wouldn't it be wonderful? 1067 00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:12,520 Speaker 3: You know what? 1068 00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:14,880 Speaker 1: Joe? I agree with you on that. When I have 1069 00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:17,760 Speaker 1: a bad I'm having a bad time or a bad moment, 1070 00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:20,760 Speaker 1: I think about time travel too, but I do differently. 1071 00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:22,960 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I wish I could just fast forward 1072 00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:26,040 Speaker 1: like two years from now where I was successful and 1073 00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:28,880 Speaker 1: living in a mansion with a pool. 1074 00:55:29,000 --> 00:55:31,400 Speaker 3: And I've been saying that for every two years. 1075 00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:34,040 Speaker 2: Like two years ago, I was like, I wish I 1076 00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:36,560 Speaker 2: could fastward to like this year and this year. 1077 00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:40,040 Speaker 3: I'm like, damn, Okay, So if I keep saying, you know. 1078 00:55:40,040 --> 00:55:44,160 Speaker 2: Two years from now, I'm always like a year behind. 1079 00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:46,160 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. 1080 00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:48,879 Speaker 1: I don't know what the mathematics on this is, but yeah, 1081 00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:52,239 Speaker 1: twenty seventeen. In eighteen, did you say what you could 1082 00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:53,360 Speaker 1: fast forward two years? 1083 00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:53,800 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1084 00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:56,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, So you wanted to get to twenty twenty and 1085 00:55:56,080 --> 00:55:56,799 Speaker 1: then you got there and. 1086 00:55:57,160 --> 00:55:58,120 Speaker 3: Then it was fuck. 1087 00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:06,080 Speaker 7: I imagine being in twenty seventeen or eighteen and being like, yeah, 1088 00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:09,160 Speaker 7: I will fast forward to twenty twenty, and it's like, oh, wow, 1089 00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:12,160 Speaker 7: I really asked for the wrong thing, exactly. I should 1090 00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:15,120 Speaker 7: have been a little bit more specific in my years exactly. 1091 00:56:16,719 --> 00:56:18,600 Speaker 1: Anyway, Joe, this was awesome. 1092 00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:21,480 Speaker 4: Thanks for having me. Sorry, this guy really emotional, but 1093 00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:23,600 Speaker 4: I'm no, I gotta talk to you. 1094 00:56:23,800 --> 00:56:24,560 Speaker 1: Nobody cried. 1095 00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:27,839 Speaker 2: Nobody cried, and I and so I cry. So it's 1096 00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:31,719 Speaker 2: no this was great. I really do enjoy you, Joe. 1097 00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:35,840 Speaker 2: I think you're so funny, and you definitely are different, 1098 00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:40,080 Speaker 2: like in the sense that no comedians always they do 1099 00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:43,040 Speaker 2: too much. They be trying so hard in conversation, and 1100 00:56:43,080 --> 00:56:46,799 Speaker 2: you're just yourself and you always have like a good time. 1101 00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:49,480 Speaker 2: And that's why I can go to the movies with 1102 00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:52,160 Speaker 2: you and now send you emojis via ten. 1103 00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:56,160 Speaker 4: The feelings are mutual. The feelings are mutual. 1104 00:56:59,560 --> 00:57:03,040 Speaker 1: Well, that was a beautiful episode. Let's end, Andrew, do 1105 00:57:03,080 --> 00:57:04,680 Speaker 1: you have a message for j Low before we go? 1106 00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:07,000 Speaker 2: Oh wait, wait, no, no, no, Joe, can you tell everybody 1107 00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:08,759 Speaker 2: where they can catch you and find you? 1108 00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:12,200 Speaker 4: And Andrew will put a pin in it, Andrew, hold 1109 00:57:12,239 --> 00:57:13,880 Speaker 4: on a second, I gotta do some plugs. 1110 00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:14,399 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1111 00:57:15,640 --> 00:57:18,320 Speaker 4: I would say you could follow me on Instagram, but 1112 00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:21,240 Speaker 4: I don't really do that much. You could go to 1113 00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:23,800 Speaker 4: my website. I guess I put shows up there Joe 1114 00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:24,560 Speaker 4: Firestone dot. 1115 00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:28,040 Speaker 3: Com and Joe's doing the knit soon, So. 1116 00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:31,439 Speaker 4: I am okay, Wait you why. 1117 00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:33,200 Speaker 1: Are you saying like you didn't know. Are you not 1118 00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:35,240 Speaker 1: in there? Did we not have a conversation about this? 1119 00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:37,400 Speaker 3: I don't think so, Joe. 1120 00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:39,480 Speaker 1: I feel like I put you in there. Maybe I 1121 00:57:39,520 --> 00:57:40,400 Speaker 1: didn't tink about it. 1122 00:57:40,440 --> 00:57:41,960 Speaker 3: Let me look, it looked like we didn't. 1123 00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:46,440 Speaker 1: Okay, little, all right, soon you want to do it 1124 00:57:46,480 --> 00:57:51,960 Speaker 1: on July eleventh or July eighteenth. 1125 00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:53,040 Speaker 5: This is pretty contact. 1126 00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:56,080 Speaker 1: This is well, This is so the listeners know that 1127 00:57:56,160 --> 00:57:57,640 Speaker 1: they can come see Joe Firestone at the. 1128 00:57:57,640 --> 00:57:59,040 Speaker 4: Nitty July eleventh. 1129 00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:05,120 Speaker 1: Amazing, you're in there, friend, Joe Fireston. Ladies and gentlemen, 1130 00:58:05,120 --> 00:58:07,520 Speaker 1: you can see at the Dining Factory on July eleventh. 1131 00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:10,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, bring bring a dead. 1132 00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:13,760 Speaker 1: Ass, bring that ass now again. Let's end now. Andrew 1133 00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:16,080 Speaker 1: a word for jay Loo or about jay Loo? 1134 00:58:16,640 --> 00:58:20,600 Speaker 5: A word for Jail. I guess I'm excited for her 1135 00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:23,360 Speaker 5: and her new blossoming relationship with an Ax. I think 1136 00:58:23,440 --> 00:58:24,200 Speaker 5: it seems topeaking. 1137 00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:26,920 Speaker 1: Well, all right, that's where and you wanted to leave it. 1138 00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:27,840 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, So. 1139 00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:29,880 Speaker 5: I have nothing to say to j Lo. 1140 00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:31,200 Speaker 3: Okay, okay. 1141 00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:33,200 Speaker 5: Maybe she'll be at the net as well. 1142 00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:35,240 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, on July eighteenth. 1143 00:58:35,520 --> 00:58:40,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, she also will. She also will be performing comedy 1144 00:58:40,040 --> 00:58:40,960 Speaker 2: at she's. 1145 00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:44,919 Speaker 1: Coming with her good friend Joe on the eleventh. All Right, guys, 1146 00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:48,360 Speaker 1: thank you so much. Stop spiraling. None of this actually matters. 1147 00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:52,360 Speaker 1: We're living in a simulation. Live your life and know 1148 00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:55,320 Speaker 1: that time travel will be possible soon, and one day 1149 00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:57,000 Speaker 1: you'll be able to go back to the thing that's 1150 00:58:57,040 --> 00:58:59,720 Speaker 1: bothering you, fix it, and go back to reality where 1151 00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:00,360 Speaker 1: no one cares. 1152 00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:00,760 Speaker 3: Okay. 1153 00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:03,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, And the person that you think is mad at 1154 00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:05,960 Speaker 2: you most likely has herpies, so they're dealing with their 1155 00:59:06,000 --> 00:59:06,960 Speaker 2: own issues, you know. 1156 00:59:07,680 --> 00:59:10,280 Speaker 1: Wow, Sidney a Sydney fact. 1157 00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:13,880 Speaker 3: I'm just saying that they're not mad at you. They're mad. 1158 00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:15,200 Speaker 3: They're mad at something else. 1159 00:59:15,360 --> 00:59:17,320 Speaker 1: It's not their burning crouch. 1160 00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:18,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1161 00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:21,360 Speaker 1: Wow. Word to live by anyway. 1162 00:59:21,480 --> 00:59:26,040 Speaker 2: Amen, Amen, Bye Forever. 1163 00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:31,880 Speaker 1: This has been a Forever Dog production. The Unofficial Expert 1164 00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:36,760 Speaker 1: Is Executive produced by Brett Boham, Joe ccilio and Alex Ramsey. 1165 00:59:37,440 --> 00:59:43,680 Speaker 1: Senior producer Tracy Soren, Produced by Andrew McGuire. Cover art 1166 00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:48,160 Speaker 1: by Sandy Hoenig. To listen to this podcast ad free, 1167 00:59:48,480 --> 00:59:52,720 Speaker 1: sign up for Forever Dog Plus at Foreverdog Podcasts dot 1168 00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:57,880 Speaker 1: com slash plus. 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